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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: The Magic of The MiddleIt's so hard to not be focused on the milestones, but Julie had a reality check recently that she wanted to share on this quickie with you. Because as Dr. Laurie Santos discussed in this week's episode the arrival fallacy is exactly that – a fallacy. And the reality is that we're never out of the middle (even if we've hit said milestones), so do we not just embrace the middle, but truly enjoy it. Take the Dating Archetypes quiz now: https://howtobedateable.com/HOW TO BE DATEABLE IS OUT! Order now: https://howtobedateable.com/F...2025-03-0704 min
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find LoveThe Traps Of Modern Dating: Interview Julie Krafchick & Yue XuNavigating modern dating can feel exhausting. It’s easy to get lost in the fast pace of swiping and online dating. But dating doesn’t have to feel like so much work. In Episode 386 of The Charisma Quotient, “The Traps Of Modern Dating: Interview Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu,” Kimmy is joined by Julie and Yue, dynamic co-hosts of the critically acclaimed Dateable podcast and authors of the anticipated book "How to Be Dateable." With nearly a decade of research exploring the intricacies of dating, they have a wealth of expertise when it comes to transforming from confused daters to respected...2025-02-1948 min
First of All#198 - How To Be Dateable with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu (Dateable Podcast)Love is a many splendored thing. Also...is love in the room with us right now when it comes to modern dating? When it comes to finding a special someone who can respond to texts in a timely manner, follow through or even initiate plans ahead of time, have basic manners, practice decent hygiene, maintain healthy boundaries with exes, ask a thoughtful question or two, be nice to your friends, & remember your birthday, amongst many other seemingly basic things... it can all feel, well, friggin impossible these days. In this episode, Minji sits down with returning guests and dating...2025-02-141h 31
The Love U Podcast with Evan Marc KatzHow to Be Date-able with Julie Krafchick and Yue XuIn today’s Love U Podcast, I sit down with Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu, the hosts of the hit Datable podcast and authors of How to Be Dateable, to unpack the modern dating landscape. We discuss why so many singles feel stuck, the common traps that keep people from finding love, and how to shift your mindset to create real connection. From the myth of “love on demand” to the dangers of playing relationship chicken, we explore how dating has become more about strategy than sincerity—and why breaking free from these patterns can transform your love life. If you’r...2025-02-0551 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie AND Yue: Welcome To The WorldIt's been one heck of a week with our book, our baby 'How to Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person & Falling In Love' officially out into the world! We're both reflecting on the week – how we celebrated and all the gratitude we have to all of you that have supported us through this all! Go get 'How to Be Dateable' on howtobedateable.com or wherever books are sold. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podca...2025-01-3113 min
Unconventional Money Moves#88: Julie Krafchick- Dating Sociologist. How to Be Dateable. Find a PartnerJulie Krafchick is the host of Dateable and worked in the Silcon Valley for over 20 years and has seen first hand how technology shapes the relationships we form.
Especially nowadays in the APP Dating scene she has even co-authored a book called How to Be Dateable that was published by the world renowned Publisher Simon & Schuster.
Website: https://www.dateablepodcast.com/
Instagram :https://www.instagram.com/juliekrafchick/
Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and/id1084105171
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6wOu2fgno5BmNLkjRZmYZT?si=iLYfo3CESmidzkmu96jjig
2025-01-2936 min
Last First Date RadioEP 645: Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu - How to Be More DateableJulie Krafchick & Yue Xu are active daters turned dating insiders, and top influential voices of modern dating, relationships, and connection in the digital world. They’re the authors of How To Be Dateable and the co-hosts of the hit podcast Dateable, which has been named one of the top podcasts about modern dating and relationships by the New York Times, The Huffington Post, Oprah Daily, and more.
In this episode of Last First Date Radio:
What is “dating on your own terms”?
What the four dating archetypes represent: Achiever, Dreamer, Energizer, Maverick, and Thinker...2025-01-281h 00
Dating Intentionally143. How Dating Rules Stop You From Finding A Great Match w/ Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu from DateableIn this episode, Julie and Yue from Dateable are back for round 2! We get into their new book, How To Be Dateable, which is out now everywhere and so much more. Listen to learn about what vulnerability is and isn't, how to tell if you've been playing relationship chicken this whole time and tips for being more authentic on dates. We also talk about Julie's big news at the end (other than the book launch of course). Get the book! How To Be Dateable by Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu2025-01-281h 04Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsFinding Love (And Yourself) Again - Julie Interviews YueWhile last year was all about building resilience after that heart-wrenching infidelity, this year was about finding love again. Julie interviews Yue to hear how she's been able to able to design the type of relationship that works for her and her "manfriend" – and most importantly herself. We discuss the biggest shifts she's made in dating / relationships, how she learned to love being in her single era instead of looking at it as a layover to a relationship, and of course the impact she's hoping to make with our book 'How to Be Dateable' which comes out NEXT WEEK! 2025-01-211h 04Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsThe Year of Yes – Yue Interviews JulieFrom getting engaged to quitting her job pursue Dateable full-time, it's been a year of taking that next step – saying yes to the future that's to come. In this episode, Yue interviews Julie about all these life changes – what's been incredible, challenging, and so forth. We discuss not always so linear progression of relationships, the anxieties despite the milestones, and of course the hopes for 2025 with our book 'How to Be Dateable' soon into the world!Take the Dating Archetypes quiz now: https://howtobedateable.com/To listen to Julie's engagement story, listen to the intro in 'S1...2025-01-141h 01
Ask a MatchmakerHow To Be Dateable Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast Matchmaker MariaHappy New Year! On this special episode of Ask a Matchmaker, Matchmaker Maria is joined by the dynamic duo behind the Dateable podcast, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu! They're here to talk about their brand-new book, How to Be Dateable, and officially hitting shelves on January 28th 🎉 In this fun and insightful conversation, Maria dives into the origins of Julie and Yue’s decade-long podcasting journey, their mission to uncover the mysteries of modern dating, and what makes someone truly dateable. The authors share personal stories, defining moments in their friendship, and their thoughtful definition of what it mea...2024-12-3147 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: The Case for Underthinking (In Dating)What if there were benefits of underthinking in dating and relationships? Yup, you heard us right. Julie's sharing a low light from her trip to Italy and how the anxiety and overthinking started to creep in related to her relationship. And also how overthinking has caused issues in the past and why thinking a little less can actually be of greater service to us all. Don't worry, we're never advocating for not thinking dating and relationships through; but more about how we don't get in our own ways. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our w...2024-10-2510 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: A Letter To Your ExWhat's better than coming across letters you wrote to your ex(s) years later? Julie's diving into how this practice has helped her process the past so she can move forward. No, you don't need to send the actual letter (in fact, it's recommended you do not). And yes, this absolutely will give you the closure and clarity you need. And one day, you'll be able to see how far you've come and how none of this was time wasted. If you're looking for a dose of optimism and tactical tips, tune in for this one. Plus she'll share...2024-09-2608 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: Dating Is Rarely As Personal As It Feels - And Here's WhyIt's hard not to take dating personally – especially when someone can't commit or doesn't want to see you again. But what we've learned is that it often has nothing to do with you, despite what we may think. Julie's diving into this topic as it's something that's been a challenge for her while dating – and even into her current relationship. Hopefully this will help you not take things as personally and use dating for what it's meant for: to find the right match. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen...2024-08-2906 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: Finding Closure From Past RelationshipsIt's been a big week! Writing a book brings up a lot – especially when the topic is around dating and relationships! Julie is discussing how she processed her own dating history and patterns, including reconnecting with her ex 4 years later.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Armoi...2024-08-0108 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsThe Science Of Attraction: A Flashback to Our Most Popular EpisodeWhat makes you attracted to one person and not another? We're bringing back our most popular episode ever with Dr. Paul Eastwick about his work at the UC Davis Attraction Lab of how people form and maintain relationships. We discuss how ideal partner preferences play into partner selection, why we often think we know what we want when we don't, and the secret of when attraction can build over time. Plus we'll kick off the episode with a new intro recapping Yue's solo trip + the intimacy workshop she attended, and Julie's bday highs and lows. Plus BIG announcement coming...2024-07-161h 20Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: The #1 Skill In A Relationship (That's Not Communication)We're told that communication is everything in relationships....but what if there's another skill that is arguably more important??? Julie takes you through her experience of what she learned through couples therapy and how it's applied to not only her romantic relationships but also relationships with friends, family and coworkers too.Related Episodes:The Truth About RelationshipsHow To Have A Healthy RelationshipWhat's Your Communication StyleFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w...2024-06-2708 minDating Intentionally78. Dating skills you need to find the relationship you want w/ Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick (@dateablepodcast)Today's episode features the amazing hosts of Dateable Podcast, Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick. They have been sharing their dating advice for 8 years with thousands of daters everywhere. We get into super practical tips for having better conversations on dates, the importance of screening your matches, and the mindset shifts you need to be more curious and less attached to the outcome. We also talk about the common thing that successful daters have: wanting a relationship, not needing one, and knowing what your "north star" is in dating. At the end, we do a rapid-fire round of "Is it...2024-06-1459 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS18E16: Creating a Relationship 2.0 w/ Mark GrovesWe're so excited to have long-awaited guest, Mark Groves in the house! And even more importantly, diving into his story about breaking up – and getting back together– with his now-wife Kylie McBeath and what this experience taught him about relationships. We're discussing how both parties must take responsibility owning their sh*t, what it actually means to build a relationship 2.0, and why liberating yourself from the patterns of your relationship is the only way forward.Even if you're not interested in reconnecting with your ex (um...bye), this episode is a must listen as it'll teach you so mu...2024-06-111h 19Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: My Biggest Fear – Even In A Happy, Healthy RelationshipWe're dropping another quickie as Julie reflects on her biggest fear that was triggered by last week's episode 'Are Long-Term Relationships For Everyone?' Find out why this apprehension still creeps in even in her current relationship and how she could relate to Ryan's ex from her experience in the past. If you've been in a situation where it felt like someone pulled the rug out from under you saying they couldn't be in a relationship anymore, then this episode is for you. Related Episodes:S18E12: Are Long-Term Relationships For Everyone? w/ Ryan Van D...2024-05-2409 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: The #1 Quality To Look For While DatingWe're back for another “Quickie” where we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Julie shares the one quality that's pivotal to look for when you're dating – a foundational trait that you need in a partner in order to have a happy and healthy relationship. Enjoy!Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts...2024-04-2608 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: The Best Is Yet To ComeWe're back for another “Quickie” where every other week, we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Julie is sharing a framework to look at past dates or relationships that didn't work out not as failures – but rather as building blocks that lay the foundation for your great relationship that's still yet to come. Enjoy!Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen t...2024-04-0507 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: The Single ScaleWe're trying something new! Welcome to the first installment of “Quickies” where every other week, we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Julie will dive into the Single Scale: what it is, where you land on it and how it may be impacting finding an actual partner who is the real deal.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, S...2024-03-0807 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS18E1: The Reason You Don't Need To Be Good At DatingWe're back with Season 18 here to answer an existential question we've had after doing this podcast now for 8 years: do you need to be good at dating? When we first started the pod, the answer was an obvious yes....until we dug in further. Join us as we discuss why dating culture isn't helping us get into relationships, how to start dating differently, and ways you can start forming more connections in your dating life TODAY!Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our...2024-02-2842 min
Reimagining LoveThe Highs and Lows of Finding "Your Person": Bringing a Sense of Humor to Dating with Julie Krafchick & Yue XuJulie Krafchick and Yue Xu, hosts of the popular podcast Dateable, join Dr. Alexandra for a fun, yet insightful, conversation about all things dating. Together, they explore our rapidly changing dating culture and tackle three sticky relationship situations.Relevant links:Listen to the episode of Dateable where Dr. Alexandra joined Julie and Yue to discuss pace discrepanciesListen to the Dateable podcastListen to Exit InterviewOrder Dr. Alexandra's new book, Love Every DaySubscribe to Dr. Alexandra’s NewsletterSubmit a Listener Question
2023-11-2151 min
Thirsty: the Podcast83. Are You Using Dating Apps All Wrong?, with Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of DateableABOUT THIS EPISODE:
They're the essential tool we love to hate: dating apps. But, what if the apps aren't the problem... you're just using them wrong. Dating experts Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu are here to talk to us about how we can leverage dating apps to their highest power and (perhaps) find the love of a lifetime. From how to write a profile to how to screen for your best match, they're showing us what we can do to make great connections that may actually go somewhere. They're also covering how better dates may actually result...2023-10-2858 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: This is 40 - Yue interviews JulieIt's a celebration, y'all! We're talking about milestone bdays as Yue interviews Julie about turning the big 4-0 and the celebrations that followed (ummm still feeling that wine country trip). We discuss how love hits differently with each decade, why there's always mixed emotions about getting older, and ways to keep creating the love life you've always wanted in this next chapter.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your...2023-07-2640 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: The Friendship EpisodeToday we're talking about one of the most important relationships of all: friendship! Julie and Yue discuss the importance of friendship, yet why it often gets deprioritized in the hierarchy of relationships. We discuss the ways we approach platonic relationships differently than romantic ones, why even our friendship needed some extra TLC, and how to keep every relationship in your life healthy and thriving. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you...2023-07-1929 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBonus: Are We Dating The Same Person?So you’re dating someone new - would you want to know if someone else had intel about them before you went on a date? Or would you want to find out if anyone had dated (or was currently dating) your long-term partner? Julie and Yue debate the pros and cons of these ‘Are we dating the same person?’ groups and if they are helpful or harmful to your dating life. We discuss the concept of paying it forward to other daters, why it doesn’t always to work to skip to the end, and how to use these groups m...2023-07-1231 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: The Next Chapter Post Breakup - Julie interviews YueWhat happens when you discover your partner of almost 5 years has been unfaithful? In this episode, Julie interviews Yue about her recent breakup. We discuss how she's processing what happened, why she still views this relationship as a "success," and the reasons she's excited about the next chapter while still very much believing in love.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored...2023-07-0547 min
Exit InterviewAre You Ready for Love? Season Finale Over the course of this season of Exit Interview, we’ve learned that most people have absolutely no clue what they’re doing wrong in dating - but with some simple fixes, love may be right around the corner. In this season finale, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable check back in with several of our featured daters to see if they’ve heeded any of their advice. Did Kirstin find someone who wasn’t intimidated by her? Did Caroline get her second chance at love? Has Justin gone out on a date? Tune in today for some key takea...2023-05-1855 minExit InterviewIs Your Lifestyle a Dealbreaker? w/ CarolineWe all have that thing that we are positive is blocking our romantic paths.. For Caroline - she’s convinced that it’s being a single mom. Is that really what’s holding her back from her second chance at love - or is it something totally different? In this next installment of Exit Interview, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable makeover Caroline’s life by doing the scariest thing ever: call up her old flames for feedback. Why did one ex decide Caroline wasn’t worth driving to see? How did one relationship become “accidentally” exclusive? What was the real r...2023-05-1149 minExit InterviewDo You Want Connection or Just Attention? w/ KyleKyle is a sex empowerment coach on the search for a primary partner who can fit in with his polyamorous lifestyle. You may have caught him on Amazon Prime’s The One that Got Away. Why can’t he be as open with his heart as his sexuality? Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable put Kyle in the hot seat this week for the ultimate romance review: calling up his old flames to find out what he’s doing wrong. And some of these women have shocking stories to share. Why did Sam leave their road trip only two da...2023-05-0450 minExit InterviewAre You a Dating Chameleon? w/ DeborahDeborah is a romantic, through and through. But…maybe, she’s so hungry for love that she molds herself to adapt to whomever she’s dating. You may remember Deborah from Christofer’s episode, and now she’s back for her very own Exit Interview. Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are ready to help Deborah understand what’s getting in the way of love. Tune in to hear their conversations with several of Deborah’s past flames - all of whom help shed light on Deborah’s struggles with her own sexuality and identity. Why did Deborah sell her shoes to...2023-04-2749 minExit InterviewWhy Can’t You Get a Date? w/ JustinJustin is the full package - he’s handsome, he’s smart, he’s the life of the party. But now well into his 30s, he’s never had a boyfriend. Not only that, but he’s never been on a date. What is he doing wrong? Well, luckily, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are here to help. Julie and Yue call up Justin’s friends (because he doesn’t have any exes) to help figure out what he’s doing wrong. Is Justin going after the wrong sort of men? Is he keeping himself removed from the Austin queer...2023-04-2051 minExit InterviewAre You Too Intimidating to Date? w/ KristinKristin is so strong and independent that she worries she’s scaring off potential partners. In this instalment of Exit Interview, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are ready to help Kristin understand how she is actually presenting herself on dates. And who would know better - than her exes? Julie and Yue call up several of Kristin’s old flames to answer these burning questions: Are Kristin’s dates really not ready to be in a relationship, or just not in a relationship with her? Do her dates find her exhausting, overwhelming, or out of their league? Maybe...2023-04-1348 minExit InterviewWhere Do You Fall on the Intentionality Spectrum? Midseason check-inSo far, we’ve heard from five daters who are all struggling to find love. To help them, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable have conducted the ultimate romance review: calling up past flames to gather feedback. In this special edition of Exit Interview, Julie and Yue check in on these daters to hear if they’ve taken any advice to heart. Was Chris able to finally find love? Did Anchie finally get over Mindy? What happened when Tia followed up with her old flames? There are some unexpected updates in store - tune in for all the surp...2023-04-0649 minExit InterviewAre You Stuck on The One Who Got Away? w/ AnchieAnchie is ready for a serious partner, and yet he keeps hitting dead ends on his hunt for a longterm relationship. But – maybe – could the key to solving his dating problems be hidden in the past? In this week’s episode, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable unpack Anchie’s dating life by calling up those who know him best - his old flames. Why did his ex feel like he wanted to just kiss “a girl” and not specifically her? Why did Anchie upgrade himself to business class, leaving his date in economy? And, the biggest question - can Julie a...2023-03-3050 minExit InterviewAre You in a Relationship or a Situationship? w/ ChrisSituationships - love them, hate them - they’re all too common this day in age. But Christofer - well, she’s the Queen of Situationships, and the fairest of them all. In this week’s episode of Exit Interview, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable sit down with Chris to figure out if Situationships are actually getting her the love she wants. And who better to ask – but Chris’s old flames? Get ready for a whole lot of heartbreak, as Julie and Yue call up women who actually fell very hard for Chris, only to be cast aside...2023-03-2348 min
Exit InterviewAre you TOO in control of your love life? w/ PylinAs a recovering Type A, Pylin has dating down to a science. She’s on the boyfriend track, full steam ahead. But - do people on board feel interchangeable? Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable conduct the ultimate romance review: calling up Pylin’s exes to get their feedback. Is she scaring people away with her questions? Can she even read the room? Is she treating her dates like her psychology clients? Press play to find out. Follow us: Instragram @ExitInterviewshow Twitter: @ExInterviewShow Episode transcript here —> shorturl.at...2023-03-1648 minExit InterviewCan You Reform A F-Boy? w/ AngelAngel has some strong F-boys tendencies - but still claims he’s looking for love. Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are on the case. To investigate, they call several of Angel’s old flames to gather feedback, uncovering many surprises. Did Angel ghost a date after she didn’t kiss him? Why does he still have his ex’s clothes in his closet? Does he actually know how to treat a woman he likes? Hear all of this and more on this week’s episode. Follow us:Instragram @ExitInterviewshow Twitter: @ExIn...2023-03-0949 minExit InterviewDoes Playing It Cool Ruin Your Dating Life? w/ TiaTia is suffering from a very serious case of Cool Girl Syndrome. Dating experts Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are here to help Tia recover. How? By talking to the people who know her best – her exes. In this first instalment of Exit Interview, Julie and Yue call three of Tia’s exes to gather feedback. Did she sabotage a perfectly good relationship? Why didn’t her old flame know they were actually on a date? Could someone still secretly have feelings for her? Tune in to hear if Tia can heal from her CGS and learn how to...2023-03-0947 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Breaking up with Bad Dating Habits - Julie interviews YueFrom being the "cool girl" to avoiding difficult conversations to blowing up when trying to DTR, we're unpacking more bad dating habits that we both had – that you probably do too. But this week, Julie is interviewing Yue about her dating history and how these behaviors got in her way – even today. We're discussing how dating games ended up being counterproductive, why bad dating behavior is often a self-protection mechanism, and how to continue to grow at any stage of a relationship.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch...2023-01-251h 12Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Breaking up with Bad Dating Habits - Yue interviews JulieFrom staying in situationships to being rigid with timelines, we all have some bad dating behaviors that have gotten in our way. On this week's bonus episode, Yue is interviewing Julie about her past patterns and how they still sneak in even while in a relationship. We dive into it all: from how these behaviors were learned, how they manifest in dating, and how she's still trying to unlearn them today. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard2023-01-181h 03
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Avoiding West Elm Calebs, Tinder Swindlers, and Navigating Modern Dating w/ Sydney Lotuaco of Something to ShareIt's the offseason baby! Join us as we talk about Julie's bday celebration that Yue was in town for plus the big debate we got into re: sleeping with a partner (not in the way you think). We're also reairing the episode we did on Sydney Lotuaco's podcast 'Something to share' all about how to navigate modern dating in today's world. We discuss avoiding dating scenarios like the extremes of West Elm Caleb and the Tinder Swindler, the shifts in dating over the past 6 years, and how to get inspired to continue your dateable jouney to enjoy dating again!2022-07-201h 13
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Yue Interviews JulieFrom getting over an ex to starting a new relationship, we're turning the tables as Yue interview Julie this time around. We're unpacking it all: why dating is so much harder than making friends, knowing when it's time to end a relationship that isn't working, staying friends with an ex (or cutting the cord), starting the podcast, and finding love – on the apps – in the time of Corona. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to...2022-01-261h 04
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Julie Interviews YueWe're doing something fun! Julie's interviewing Yue to hear how's she's navigated her love life from the time she was dating to now being 3 years into a committed relationship. We talk about it all: turning 40, her love/hate relationship with dating coaching, dating as Asian American woman, dealing with the societal pressure to get married, co-habitating between 2 cities, and playing the long game by dating her partner after knowing him for 7 years before.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast...2022-01-1956 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Will We Ever Meet IRL Again? w/ the California GroundbreakersWe thought it would be the roaring 20s but we're chatting about why everyone is experiencing FODA as we reair Julie's episode w/ Vanessa Richardson from California Groundbreakers & Paul Eastwick, professor of UC Davis's attraction lab. We discuss why people are feeling burnout from online dating, how pandemic relationships have different trajectories, and how to get out there and mix and mingle again (safely of course).Learn more about the California Ground Breakers https://www.californiagroundbreakers.org/ and listen to their podcast series 'This Changes Everything on all podcast playersFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out...2021-08-111h 00
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Is it a Dick Pic if it's not your Dick? w/ Kane Holloway & Greg Behrendt of 'Don't Take Bullshit from Fuckers'Hang tight...this is a BIG one. We're talking about everything from dick pics to if size matters and re-playing Julie's interview with comedians Kane Holloway & Greg Behrendt from DTBFF. We discuss tactics that work (or don't work) for taking the elusive pic, why your worst self is never your best self, and how it's never OK to send pics of your bedroom activities to your sister. Listen to 'Don't Take Bullshit from Fuckers' and follow DTBFF, Greg, Kane, and Pat on Instagram @dtbffpodcast, @itsgreggers, @kaneholloway, and @dtbffproducerpat or your other favorite podcast playersFollow us...2021-07-211h 04
Don't Take Bullsh*t From F*ckersEpisode 87 - I Didn't Think It Could Get Worse And Then It Did (w/Julie Krafchick)This week on Don't Take Bullsh*t From F*ckers, Greg Behrendt and Kane Holloway welcome Julie Krafchick from the Date/Able podcast and Julie talks about the time Date/Able had Venmo John from The Bachelorette on the show, everyone compares Venmo friend counts, and a listener wants to know if she should stay away from a flirtatious co-worker. Also, What Does This Meme? Julie gets to choose which version of the theme song she'd like to hear and, fair warning, she chooses the death metal version, Kane reminds Greg that he asked Kane to co-host the podcast, y...2021-07-0639 min
Last First Date RadioEP 454: Yue Xu & Julie Krafchick - An Insider’s Look Into Modern DatingYue Xu & Julie Krafchick are the hosts of Dateable, one of the top rated podcasts about dating, love and sex. As active daters turned dating sociologists, they’ve talked to thousands of real life daters and experts to explore modern dating culture and why people date the way they do. Before the podcast, Yue was a dating coach with clients all over the world. Julie was an app designer and researcher using technology to help people form connections. Together they have been #stayingdateable since 2016.
In this episode of Last First Date Radio:
The biggest struggles in da...2021-05-2554 min
Save the Date – by CMB#12 – Moving from dating apps to meeting IRL | Dateable’s Yue Xu & Julie KrafchickToday’s interview features two dating coaches turned dating sociologists, Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick. Yue and Julie are the hosts of Dateable, one of the top podcasts about dating, love, and sex. Even though we’ve been at it for a little while, we’re all still figuring out how to date during COVID-19. So let’s talk practical tips, from texting to video chats, and dig into why now is actually a pretty great time to be dating. http://coffeemeetsbagel.com2021-03-2450 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS11E4: The Boyfriend ManualNope, this isn't like an instruction manual from IKEA but we're chatting with Vasanth about all the little things that help you become a better partner. We discuss different types of small gestures that have a huge ROI, how to adjust your moves based on your partner's love language, and why women can (and should) also be doing these little things for their partner.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partners for this episode:...2020-09-091h 11
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS11E3: 51 First DatesWhen nothing seems to be going right in your dating life, the only logical step is to go on 51 first dates and document it all through a podcast, right? We're chatting with Kimmy & Liza about how this experiment helped uncover and break their bad dating patterns for good. We discuss why CGS (cool girl syndrome) is the demise of dating, how to break free of fuckboys, and why it's so important to ask what you want for in relationships. Follow Kimmy & Liza @51firstdatespod. Listen to 51 First Dates on all podcast platforms. Follow us @dateablepodcast. C...2020-09-021h 30
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS11E2: Love in the Time of TikTokAnd it goes like...download TikTok, make a video that goes viral, meet a cute girl, fly across the country, and define the relationship on your road trip back home. Is this a movie or love in 2020? We're chatting with Josiah & Natalie about their turbo relationship that started virtually and has resulted in them being together as a full-fledged couple. We discuss how virtual dates can be romantic, why right now is the best time to take a risk when it comes to relationships, and how to open yourself up to possibilities of finding love in unexpected places. 2020-08-261h 12
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS11 E1: Trust in your timingAre you where you thought you'd be at 30? 40? 50? Especially when it comes to finding love, we're diving in with Christina Bradley, the author of 'Which way to Happiness?', to discuss why there's so much pressure to finding 'The One' by a certain age. We discuss why certain milestone years are such triggers, how you can start living on your own timelines, and how to create your own happiness no matter where you are in life.Check out Christina's book 'Which way to Happiness?' (formerly 30): https://amzn.to/3aFuFMV2020-08-191h 19
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: How to Rethink Relationships Post-Quarantine w/ Liza & Kimmy from 51 First DatesFrom traveling (virtually) via Hinge to being #teamchrishell, we're wrapping up the dating app experiment and chatting with Kimmy & Liza on 51 First Dates about the shift in dating mindset that might occur after 2020., We'll discuss taking those socially distanced dates up a notch, the dangers of false intimacy, and how COVID has ruined f*ckboys hopefully forever. Also, 1 more week until we're back with Season 11!!Follow Kimmy & Liza @51firstdatespod. Listen to 51 First Dates on all podcast platforms. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.2020-08-121h 19
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: The Museum of Modern Dating w/ Ken Page of Deeper DatingWould glory holes be in the museum of modern dating? Maybe in COVID-19 times! First, we'll run down the results of Julie's around the world dating app experiment and then we'll chat with Ken Page of Deeper Dating about the landscape of today’s dating world. We'll discuss some of our most moving dating stories, our best advice, and the most essential challenges facing daters todayFollow Ken at @deeperdating and check out deeperdating.com along with Ken's podcast Deeper Dating on Apple Podcasts or your other favorite podcast playersFo...2020-08-051h 28
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Redefining how we Date & Communicate w/Kimmy Seltzer from Charisma QuotientSo if we're all dating virtually, we can be anywhere, right? We'll kick off with a dating app experiment comparing different cities and then we'll chat with Kimmy Seltzer of the Charisma Quotient about some of the common issues that everyone's experiencing in this new dating world. We'll discuss traditional vs. modern gender roles, navigating virtual dating , and what your messages really mean between the lines.Follow Kimmy at @kimmyseltzer and listen to the Charisma Quotient on Apple Podcasts or your other favorite podcast playersFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check...2020-07-291h 03
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Love & Dating in the Time of COVID w/ Minji Chang from FirstofAllSo if you just do doggy style in a mask, you're safe from COVID, right? Umm. Umm. nope. We're talking this week about sex during the pandemic and then with Minji Chang on the FirstofAll Pod about all the nitty-gritty of sex & dating during this time. We discuss our own COVID experiences & perspectives on dating apps, virtual dates, reconnecting with exes, coping with current relationships & projections of the TBD future of dating culture. Follow Minji @minjeezy and @firstofallpod. Listen to First of All Podcast on all podcast platforms. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our w...2020-07-221h 43
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: The best & worst dating advice w/ Kinda DatingLove conquers all. Wait until he texts you first. Don't have sex for 90 days. There’s so much love advice out there, yet so much is so so bad. We teamed with Natasha Chandel from Kinda Dating to give you our rundown on the best and worst dating advice we've heard along the way. So strap in, decide what tips you'll take and which you'll toss.Check out Natasha at @natashachandel and Kinda Dating on all podcast platforms and @kindadatingFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more con...2020-07-151h 25
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: 6 Ways COVID-19 will forever change datingTo say dating has changed in 2020 is the understatement of the year! We'll share our top 6 trends with everything from how singles and couples are navigating this time to why f*ckboys are o-v-e-r. We'll discuss how to make the most of your dating life whether it's on a socially distanced date or if you're rekindling an old flame. So get your masks on, stay 6 feet away, and see how COVID-19 could actually be the best thing for your love life (if you let it be).Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for m...2020-07-0859 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 21: An Open Letter to S****y HusbandsWhat if we told you the silent killer of marriage was something so seemingly small, so avoidable? Join us as we chat with Matthew Fray about how a “good guy” like him ended up being a sh****y husband and how others can avoid these missteps. We discuss why neglecting your partner's thoughts and feelings is the demise of a relationship, how to recognize signs of this behavior even in early dating, and the importance of being aware of this now even if you're nowhere close to marriage.Check out Matt's blog: https://mustbethistalltoride.com...2020-07-011h 25
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 20: I Date Me FirstWhat happens when you break up with your long-term, live-in boyfriend right before COVID-19? You use this time...and you use it wisely. Join us as we chat with Minji about how she used quarantine to learn how to be alone – correction, happy alone. We discuss the importance of taking breaks, doing the necessary self-work, and why self-love is so important to ultimately find the love you want.Check out Minji @minjeezy and listen to her podcast, First of All:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/first-of-all/id1260925014F...2020-06-241h 36
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 19: What's your [personality] type?Whether you're an ISFJ, ENFP, INTP, or whatever it may be, we're here with Frank James to share how your personality type impacts the way you date. We discuss the blind spots that each type has while dating, how we can better understand each other to resolve conflicts/ misunderstandings in relationships, and if any two types are most compatible (or incompatible). Check out Frank'sYoutube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxc0c4cOfFmSUnzX9uY7JwwFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and m...2020-06-171h 02Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find LoveModern Dating Trends: Interview with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu We are in the process of redefining how we date, communicate and fall in love. We're all navigating the challenges and opportunities of modern dating, especially with the advent of online dating platforms. Whether or not you have engaged in the online dating world, there are some very real trends that have a strong impact on the courtship process. EPISODE 145 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Modern Dating Trends: Interview With Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu This week on the show, Kimmy has an incredibly timely conversation with the women of the popular Dateable podcast, Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick. This...2020-06-1044 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 18: The Future of Sex Toys w/ Lora DiCarloOmg. Omg. Ohhhh my god. Join us as we chat with Lora DiCarlo about the mind-blowing orgasm that inspired her to revolutionize the sex toy industry. We discuss how to get to the elusive squirting orgasm, the archaic history of vibrators, and how sex tech is continuing to evolve to help women own our pleasure.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Check out Lora Dicarlo at https://loradicarlo.com/Thank you to our partner for...2020-06-101h 08
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 17: Racism in DatingWith the death of George Floyd and the nation-wide protests for black lives matter this week, it's time we really pay attention to how racism plays into everyday life – including dating. We compiled a few of our past episodes about the struggles of dating as black men and women in modern times. Really listen as we talk with Yelitsa, Sofaya, and Chris about how they navigate racist comments on dating apps, the extra hardships that come with dating as a person of color, and how best to openly discuss sexual racism to help put an end to this behavior.2020-06-031h 10
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 16: Relationship. Are you sure you want one?Of course you want a relationship...but do you..do you? We unpack if we really need relationships with Simone and Brendon, who created their own great relationship, only to un-create it 8-years later. We discuss why relationships are a choice, how to live a full-life whether you're in a relationship or not, and what's really important if you do choose to be with someone.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partner for this episode:2020-05-271h 10
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 15: He said YES!Why are we still waiting for the man to propose in 2020? Join us as we chat with Lauren about how she proposed to her now fiancé and took control of her love life. We discuss decoupling what traditions matter to you, how to continue to break down gender barriers, and the future of weddings with COVID-19Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partner for this episode:BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online t...2020-05-201h 07
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 14: The Art of Virtual SexFrom sex parties to steamy video chats, it's getting hot in here this quarantine! Listen as we chat with Mischa Byruck about the art of phone sex and what goes down at a virtual sex party. We discuss honing in on your sensual voice, why virtual methods can be so erotic, and how to ease into virtual sex.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Check out Mischa Byruck at https://www.evolve.men/Thank you...2020-05-131h 06
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 13: ZumpingYou guessed it: there’s a new quarantine dating term. Listen in as we talk to Julia, who put zumping on the map through her viral tweet after being dumped via zoom. We discuss how zumping is way better than being ghosted, if this trend could continue post-quarantine, and why the term sounds so negative despite being a respectful option right now.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partner for this episode:BetterHelp: Get 10% off...2020-05-0659 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 12: Love is not enough w/ Mark MansonLove is all you need...or is it? This week we talk to best-selling author and blogger Mark Manson about why love is not enough to make relationships work. We discuss the reasons we settle for less than situations, why it's time to ditch the fantasy, and how we can take more ownership over our love lives. Warning: F-bombs are gonna be dropped!Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Follow Mark @markmanson and get his new Audible original 'Love is...2020-04-291h 03
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 11: U up? Let's DFH w/ Jordana AbrahamDespite all that’s been going on, dating app usage continues to soar...and we got to chat with Jordana Abraham, the founder of Betches and the dating app Ship, about the future of online dating. We discuss how dating apps can start to mimic IRL, how DFH is the new DTF, and ideas about the next big dating tech craze.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partners for this episode:Empower: Download this mo...2020-04-2255 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 10: Love is Blind Part 2So is love blind? Find out which one of the ladies Ryan asked on a date and how their date went down amidst COVID-19. We discuss their perspectives of each other once looks are revealed, if their virtual impressions matched reality, and if a connection was formed throughout this experiment.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partners for this episode:Empower: Download this mobile banking app and get $5 at empower.me/dateable with the...2020-04-151h 17
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 9: Love is Blind Part 1We were so obsessed with Love is Blind that we recreated our own rendition! Follow along as we hear the impressions Ryan has of Rachel, Lacy & Taylor and their feelings towards him after communicating through their own version of the pods. We’ll discuss assumptions made sight unseen, how active listening changes everything, and if love can really be blind.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partners for this episode:Empower: Download this mobile ba...2020-04-0854 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 8: Quarantined from Fuckboys w/ Shallon LesterIt’s a pandemic...but luckily we got Shallon Lester to tell it like it is about how to not murder your partner during quarantine and how to use this time to self-isolate from fuckboys. We discuss the difference between fuckboys and clueless men, changing your dating patterns to find someone that treats you right, and using this time to focus on the #1 person in your life – you.Check out Shallon's Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester and her podcast 'Girl on Top': https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/girl-on-top-shallonxo/id1463991214Fol...2020-04-011h 06
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 7: Six Feet Apart: Dating on LockdownFrom video dates to virtual sex parties, we're finding out how daters are staying connected without leaving their home during this Coronavirus pandemic. We discuss how to form deeper connections during this time, ideas to bring video dates to the next level, and the changes COVID-19 is likely to bring to our dating lives even after this passes. Buckle up, because this is one hell of a ride!Thank you to our partners for this episode:Empower: Download this mobile banking app and get $5 at empower.me/dateable with the code DATEABLE2020-03-251h 34
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 6: Coming out as Bisexual in your MarriageFrom Coronavirus to coming out in your marriage – there’s no predicting what can happen! We talk to Chris about discovering his sexuality later in life and what it meant for him and his wife. We discuss adapting to unforeseen situations, navigating change, and staying true to yourself through it all.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partners for this episode:Empower: Download this mobile banking app and get $5 at empower.me/dateable with the...2020-03-1845 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 5: Millennial vs. Gen Z datingWe got a Gen Z in the house! Listen as we talk to Zoe about what it's like to date as someone who’s been using digital technology their entire life. We discuss the traditional tendencies of this generation, the different patterns with dating apps, and the challenges that don’t seem to ever go away.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partners for this episode:Flutter: Download this new dating app that only work...2020-03-111h 04
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 4: Too Old to DateTune in as we talk to Brad about the time pressure of dating as you get older – even for men. We discuss the challenges of dating in your 30’s when everyone else is settling down, how expectations change as you age, and balancing having a life plan vs. seeing how it all plays out. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partners for this episode:Flutter: Download this new dating app that only works on Sunday...2020-03-0457 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 3: PHD in MansplainingJoin us as we talk to Mindy about her one-sided date where it felt like the whole time she was getting mansplained. We discuss how to respond to dates that feel disrespectful, discerning between innocent misunderstandings, and how to be aware if you’re doing this type of behavior yourself.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partners for this episode:Flutter: Download this new dating app that only works on Sundays with matches and me...2020-02-2658 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 2: Is Communication ruining your sex life?Listen as we talk with Tommy Danger Kim about his unexpected divorce – and how it's impacting his dating life 4 years later. We discuss why communicating in relationships is so damn hard, how to assess a life partner, and learning from your past while not letting it dictate your future.Check out Tommy's podcast The Tommy Danger ExperimentFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partners for this episode:SunBasket: Get $35 off your order at...2020-02-191h 06
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 1: Taking Sexy BackJoin us as we talk with Dr. Alexandra Solomon about how to own your sexuality and create the relationship you want. We discuss making sex a less shameful topic, how to navigate desire differences with a partner, and why it’s essential to explore your sexual self– especially on your own.Follow Dr. Alexandra Solomon on Instagram @dr.alexandra.solomon. Check out her book on AmazonFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partners for this...2020-02-121h 07
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Dateable Unplugged LIVE From SFTune in for a sneak peek into our inaugural live show in SF. We flipped the script and had Logan Ury interview us for a change! We discuss why we started Dateable, how this podcast changed the way we date, and what to do when there are controversial guests.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of clothing rentals (up to $125 off) by visiting https://www.armoire.style and using the code DATEABLE* Blueland: Get 15% off...2020-01-2949 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Confessions Of A Bartender LIVE from Mad River in NYCTune in as we chat with Ryan live at his bar, Mad River, in the Upper East Side of New York City. We discuss what bartenders observe on your dates, ideas for cheap dates outside of a bar, and why a good hookup can be just what the bartender ordered.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of clothing rentals (up to $125 off) by visiting https://www.armoire.style and using the code DATEABLE* Blueland: Get 15...2020-01-2234 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Live from The Wing NYC: Love (& Sex) At Any Age w/ CirkelJoin us as we share a live podcast where we talk with a panel of daters across ages in their 20's, 30's and 40+. We discuss what changes (and stays the same) with age, lessons from the past that inform the future, and how to find the best parts about dating at any age.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of clothing rentals (up to $125 off) by visiting https://www.armoire.style and using the code DATEABLE2020-01-1531 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: The State Of Dating In 2020Listen as we talk about the trends we’re seeing in the dating world – and future predictions going into the new year. We discuss the next wave of dating apps, changes from the initial stages of dating through marriage, and how the future is pansexual.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of clothing rentals (up to $125 off) by visiting https://www.armoire.style and using the code DATEABLE* Blueland: Get 15% off Blueland Cleaning supplies at http...2020-01-0142 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 9 Episode 20: Dating With Dignity w/ Marni BattistaJoin us as we chat with Marni Battista about how she regained her own dignity when dating – and why this is essential for anyone dating right now. We discuss addressing your limiting beliefs, how to spot various manimals, and what it actually means to date with dignity.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of clothing rentals (up to $125 off) by visiting https://www.armoire.style and using the code DATEABLE* Blueland: Get 15% off Blueland Cleaning su...2019-12-2540 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 9 Episode 19: The Next Chapter Of DatingTune in as we talk to Andy about the many phases of his dating life – from being new in town/ having fun to wanting more to deciding to move abroad. We discuss the ebbs and flows of dating, taking the best parts of all life stages, and staying positive throughout it all.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of clothing rentals (up to $125 off) by visiting https://www.armoire.style and using the code DATEABLE* Bl...2019-12-1851 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 9 Episode 18: Is Monogamy A Thing Of The Past?Listen as we talk to Cathy about her journey from saving herself for marriage to having multiple partners – at once. We discuss why it’s so difficult to break out of heteronormative traditions, how monogamy doesn’t have to be so binary, and defining your own rules.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of clothing rentals (up to $125 off) by visiting https://www.armoire.style and using the code DATEABLE* Blueland: Get 15% off Blueland Cleaning suppli...2019-12-1151 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 9 Episode 17: Getting (that Libido) UpTune in as we talk to Amit about how he increased his testosterone levels and libido to better his sex life. We discuss how ‘not getting it up’ causes insecurities, why it’s better to remedy the situation naturally, and the results that lead to multiple orgasms.
A big thank you to our sponsor, Blackwood for Men. To get 25% off your order visit blackwoodformen.com/dateable and use the code DATEABLE.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month...2019-12-0449 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 9 Episode 16: Attachment TheoryJoin us as we chat with Lauren Korshak MFT about attachment styles and how they play into our adult dating patterns. We talk about the different styles, how they factor into the ups and downs of dating, and why even the most secure people feel insecure sometimes.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of clothing rentals (up to $125 off) by visiting https://www.armoire.style and using the code DATEABLE* Blueland: Get 15% off Blueland Cleaning...2019-11-271h 01
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 9 Episode 15: Rated XListen as we hear from Lou Cass about being a porn star in the ’80s and how porn has changed over the years. We discuss the highs and lows of being in the industry, filming sex whether you are a pro or amateur, and how porn skews the reality of sex.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of clothing rentals (up to $125 off) by visiting https://www.armoire.style and using the code DATEABLE* Blueland: Ge...2019-11-2054 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 9 Episode 14: The Science Of DatingTune in as we talk to Logan Ury about how behavioral science –the how and why we make decisions – plays into everything in dating from profile photos to breakups. We discuss changing our defaults, learning to avoid our blindspots, and how to make better decisions in dating.
A big thank you to our sponsor, Blackwood for Men. To get 25% off your order visit blackwoodformen.com/dateable and use the code DATEABLE.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Armoire: Get 50% off your first mont...2019-11-131h 23
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 9 Episode 13: Eternal BachelorJoin us as we talk to Michel about his bachelor lifestyle and his existential debate between clubbing every weekend vs. settling down. We discuss the context of where you meet someone, the perception of age, and how our own belief systems impact our relationships.
A big thank you to our sponsor, Blackwood for Men. To get 25% off your order visit blackwoodformen.com/dateable and use the code DATEABLE.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of clothing...2019-11-061h 19
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 9 Episode 11: First Date In 12 YearsTune in as Jeff tells us about his first date in 12 years with our co-host and producer Julie. We discuss being on dating apps at different stages of life, how the past plays into how you approach dating, and why pursuing a friendship first may not be the worst idea.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of clothing rentals (up to $125 off) by visiting https://www.armoire.style and using the code DATEABLE* Blueland: Get 15...2019-10-231h 31
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Everything you need to know about dating on 'The Wise Woman Podcast' with Erin Rachel DoppeltListen as Yue & Julie are interviewed on 'The Wise Woman Podcast' by Erin Rachel Doppelt and we talk about why we started the podcast, the biggest things we've learned along the way, the best advice we've received, and how to enjoy the journey of dating.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of clothing rentals (up to $125 off) by visiting https://www.armoire.style and using the code DATEABLE* Blueland: Get 15% off Blueland Cleaning supplies at...2019-07-1032 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 8 Episode 4: 8-year Friends with BenefitsJulie and Andrew tell us about their 8-year journey from friends with benefits to a fully committed relationship. We discuss the evolutions that happen over time, navigating the ups and downs, and how a change of perception of the “right” person may reveal someone who’s been there all along.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of clothing rentals (up to $125 off) by visiting https://www.armoire.style and using the code DATEABLE* Blueland: Get 15% off Bl...2019-03-1359 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 4 Episode 1: Dating in the DarkJulie and Danny talk about their experience ‘dating in the dark’ at matchmaker OKSasha’s event. We discuss how removing physical attraction from the equation - the antithesis of online dating- gives a new perspective.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of clothing rentals (up to $125 off) by visiting https://www.armoire.style and using the code DATEABLE* Blueland: Get 15% off Blueland Cleaning supplies at https://blueland.com/DATEABLE with the code DATEABLE...2017-02-1533 min