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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsHow Dating Rules Keep You Stuck w/ Talia KorenFrom dating books like 'The Rules' to TikToker's giving dating advice, we're here to say the rules don't freaking work – yet they are so much more engrained in all of us than we may even think. If you're debating when to text next, finding the "right" time to have sex or strategically keeping dates short, then it's likely these dating "rules" are actually keeping you stuck. We're joining Talia Koren on her podcast 'Dating Intentionally' to chat about what vulnerability is and isn't, how to tell if you've been playing relationship chicken this whole time and tips for being mor...2025-07-151h 15Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships#brunchtalk: Dishing About Why The Matchmaking Industry is F%cked and Our Polar Opposite Views on MaterialistsYue almost walked out of the movie Materialists...it may be one of Julie's favorite movies of all times. Whether you've seen it or not, we're having a debate about the messaging and takeaways of the movie as it pertains to modern dating, financial disparities in relationships, height surgery, and the matchmaking industry. We're revealing our true feelings of matchmaking from our own experiences and hope you enjoy this heated debate! And if you saw the movie, let us know what you thought...we'll be putting up some Spotify & Instagram polls. Enjoy!Take the Dating Archetypes quiz...2025-06-2944 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS20E21: What To Know About Marriage (Before You're Even Married) w/ Casey & Meygan CastonWhat happens when you meet the love of your life but then the relationship completely falls apart not long after you get married? You learn what you probably needed to know lonnng before you tied the knot! We're joined with Casey & Meygan from Marriage365 to talk about how their relationship nearly collapsed – and what they did to get it back on track. We're discussing the green/red flags when picking a partner, the modern myths that almost ruined their marriage, and what you need to know about marriage even if you are single AF right now. Plus we give a r...2025-06-241h 04
Multiamory: Rethinking Modern RelationshipsHow to be Dateable with Julie Krafchick & Yue XuToday we're joined by Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu from the podcast Dateable to talk about--you guessed it--how to be dateable. We're going to be talking about traditional dating advice, dating archetypes, different perspectives on dating, and more!Julie and Yue are active daters turned dating insiders, and top influential voices of modern dating, relationships, and connection in the digital world. They’re the authors of How To Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love and the co-hosts of the hit podcast Dateable, which has been named one of the top podcasts ab...2025-06-101h 11
The Happily Never AfterS1E2: Finding Love After Heartbreak, with Yue Xu and Julie KrafchickIn this conversation, Julie and Yue tackle the evolving landscape of modern dating, emphasizing the importance of emotional availability and vulnerability. They share personal stories of heartbreak and the lessons learned from past relationships, highlighting the significance of intentionality in dating. The discussion also touches on the current love crisis, particularly among women, and the need to shift expectations in relationships. Ultimately, Julie and Yue encourage listeners to confront their fears of heartbreak and embrace the growth that comes from difficult experiences.TAKEAWAYSPeople are increasingly looking for emotional availability in relationships.Gen...2025-06-1049 min
Let's Talk Love | A Real Love Ready PodcastJulie Krafchik & Yue Xu - How to Be DateableIn this episode of Let’s Talk Love, Robin is joined by Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu, co-hosts of the Dateable podcast and authors of the new book How to Be Dateable. With humor, honesty, and hard-earned wisdom from their own dating journeys—and those of thousands of others—they explore what it really means to date authentically in today’s world—and why it matters.They unpack the mindsets that hold people back, the shift from performance to presence, and how clarity, curiosity, and self-awareness can transform your dating life. They also share why rejection isn’t failure—it...2025-05-2957 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Yue: The Wine Pairing Test (To Determine The Right Partner For You)We always wonder...how do I know if someone is right for me? Yue's breaking down her recent analogy that gives you a good gut check when dating to see if someone could be a good partner for you. She shares what she's learned over the years – and how she was able to find a partner that compliments her in all the right ways. Bottoms up!Take the Dating Archetypes quiz now: https://howtobedateable.com/HOW TO BE DATEABLE IS OUT! Order now: https://howtobedateable.com/Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out...2025-05-1505 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: The Magic of The MiddleIt's so hard to not be focused on the milestones, but Julie had a reality check recently that she wanted to share on this quickie with you. Because as Dr. Laurie Santos discussed in this week's episode the arrival fallacy is exactly that – a fallacy. And the reality is that we're never out of the middle (even if we've hit said milestones), so do we not just embrace the middle, but truly enjoy it. Take the Dating Archetypes quiz now: https://howtobedateable.com/HOW TO BE DATEABLE IS OUT! Order now: https://howtobedateable.com/F...2025-03-0704 min
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find LoveThe Traps Of Modern Dating: Interview Julie Krafchick & Yue XuNavigating modern dating can feel exhausting. It’s easy to get lost in the fast pace of swiping and online dating. But dating doesn’t have to feel like so much work. In Episode 386 of The Charisma Quotient, “The Traps Of Modern Dating: Interview Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu,” Kimmy is joined by Julie and Yue, dynamic co-hosts of the critically acclaimed Dateable podcast and authors of the anticipated book "How to Be Dateable." With nearly a decade of research exploring the intricacies of dating, they have a wealth of expertise when it comes to transforming from confused daters to respected...2025-02-1948 min
First of All#198 - How To Be Dateable with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu (Dateable Podcast)Love is a many splendored thing. Also...is love in the room with us right now when it comes to modern dating? When it comes to finding a special someone who can respond to texts in a timely manner, follow through or even initiate plans ahead of time, have basic manners, practice decent hygiene, maintain healthy boundaries with exes, ask a thoughtful question or two, be nice to your friends, & remember your birthday, amongst many other seemingly basic things... it can all feel, well, friggin impossible these days. In this episode, Minji sits down with returning guests and dating...2025-02-141h 31
The Love U Podcast with Evan Marc KatzHow to Be Date-able with Julie Krafchick and Yue XuIn today’s Love U Podcast, I sit down with Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu, the hosts of the hit Datable podcast and authors of How to Be Dateable, to unpack the modern dating landscape. We discuss why so many singles feel stuck, the common traps that keep people from finding love, and how to shift your mindset to create real connection. From the myth of “love on demand” to the dangers of playing relationship chicken, we explore how dating has become more about strategy than sincerity—and why breaking free from these patterns can transform your love life. If you’r...2025-02-0551 min
Tell Me Some More with Dr. ShevaE47 How to Be Dateable: Navigating Dating with Yue & Julie from the Dateable PodcastIn this special episode, Dr. Sheva welcomes back Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick, hosts of the Dateable Podcast, to dive into the insights from their brand-new book, How to Be Dateable.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in modern dating, this episode is a must-listen. Yue and Julie break down what it truly means to be "dateable"—and it’s not about playing games or fitting into outdated rules.
We’re unpacking:
✅ How ingrained dating culture shapes your love life (and what to do about it)
✅ The secret to dating with connection and authenticity...2025-01-3151 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie AND Yue: Welcome To The WorldIt's been one heck of a week with our book, our baby 'How to Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person & Falling In Love' officially out into the world! We're both reflecting on the week – how we celebrated and all the gratitude we have to all of you that have supported us through this all! Go get 'How to Be Dateable' on howtobedateable.com or wherever books are sold. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podca...2025-01-3113 min
The Angry Therapist PodcastAre You Dateable with Julie Krafchick & Yue XuToday, John talks with Yue and Julie, hosts of the podcast 'Datable' and authors of the book 'How to Be Datable,’ about the complexities of modern dating, how cultural differences come into play, and the evolution of relationships in the digital age. They also dive into evolving definitions of love, the challenges of healthy relationships, share practical advice for becoming more dateable, and much more. Learn more about Yue and Julie and their new book How to Be Datable HEREListen to their podcast Dateable HERE or anywhere you get your podcasts.2025-01-2956 min
Last First Date RadioEP 645: Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu - How to Be More DateableJulie Krafchick & Yue Xu are active daters turned dating insiders, and top influential voices of modern dating, relationships, and connection in the digital world. They’re the authors of How To Be Dateable and the co-hosts of the hit podcast Dateable, which has been named one of the top podcasts about modern dating and relationships by the New York Times, The Huffington Post, Oprah Daily, and more.
In this episode of Last First Date Radio:
What is “dating on your own terms”?
What the four dating archetypes represent: Achiever, Dreamer, Energizer, Maverick, and Thinker...2025-01-281h 00
My Simplified LifeHow To Be Dateable with Julie Krafchick & Yue XuIn this episode of My Simplified Life, host Michelle Glogovac welcomes Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu, the hosts of the Datable Podcast and authors of the book How to Be Datable. They discuss their journey in the dating world, the challenges of modern dating, and the importance of authenticity and confidence in relationships. The conversation also covers their writing process for the book, success stories from their community, and the evolution of dating perspectives over the years. The episode emphasizes the idea that dating should be enjoyable and that everyone has the potential to be dateable. What...2025-01-2835 min
Dating Intentionally143. How Dating Rules Stop You From Finding A Great Match w/ Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu from DateableIn this episode, Julie and Yue from Dateable are back for round 2! We get into their new book, How To Be Dateable, which is out now everywhere and so much more. Listen to learn about what vulnerability is and isn't, how to tell if you've been playing relationship chicken this whole time and tips for being more authentic on dates. We also talk about Julie's big news at the end (other than the book launch of course). Get the book! How To Be Dateable by Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu2025-01-281h 04
The Date Brazen Podcast228. How to build confidence and agency in your dating life with Julie and Yue of the Dateable PodcastToday on The Date Brazen Podcast, I'm talking to Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu-- dating and relationship experts and co-hosts of Dateable, one of the top podcasts on modern relationships, featured by The New York Times, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily. Tune into this episode to hear- Understanding your dating archetype can help you navigate relationships better. How to use their quiz in the Dateable book helps identify strengths and weaknesses in dating. How to use the "Sunday test" helps assess compatibility with a partner. What to expect with sexual chemistry in early dating-- can i...2025-01-2854 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsFinding Love (And Yourself) Again - Julie Interviews YueWhile last year was all about building resilience after that heart-wrenching infidelity, this year was about finding love again. Julie interviews Yue to hear how she's been able to able to design the type of relationship that works for her and her "manfriend" – and most importantly herself. We discuss the biggest shifts she's made in dating / relationships, how she learned to love being in her single era instead of looking at it as a layover to a relationship, and of course the impact she's hoping to make with our book 'How to Be Dateable' which comes out NEXT WEEK! 2025-01-211h 04Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsThe Year of Yes – Yue Interviews JulieFrom getting engaged to quitting her job pursue Dateable full-time, it's been a year of taking that next step – saying yes to the future that's to come. In this episode, Yue interviews Julie about all these life changes – what's been incredible, challenging, and so forth. We discuss not always so linear progression of relationships, the anxieties despite the milestones, and of course the hopes for 2025 with our book 'How to Be Dateable' soon into the world!Take the Dating Archetypes quiz now: https://howtobedateable.com/To listen to Julie's engagement story, listen to the intro in 'S1...2025-01-141h 01
Ask a MatchmakerHow To Be Dateable Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast Matchmaker MariaHappy New Year! On this special episode of Ask a Matchmaker, Matchmaker Maria is joined by the dynamic duo behind the Dateable podcast, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu! They're here to talk about their brand-new book, How to Be Dateable, and officially hitting shelves on January 28th 🎉 In this fun and insightful conversation, Maria dives into the origins of Julie and Yue’s decade-long podcasting journey, their mission to uncover the mysteries of modern dating, and what makes someone truly dateable. The authors share personal stories, defining moments in their friendship, and their thoughtful definition of what it mea...2024-12-3147 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Yue: Dating Shouldn't Be This HardWe're meant to do life with other people. So then, why is dating so damn hard? Yue's sharing why dating feels so difficult these days – and how we can start to shift our mindset to think about things differently. Because being with another human you love is natural, yet dating is not. And it's about time we change how we approach it altogether. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.2024-11-2111 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: The Case for Underthinking (In Dating)What if there were benefits of underthinking in dating and relationships? Yup, you heard us right. Julie's sharing a low light from her trip to Italy and how the anxiety and overthinking started to creep in related to her relationship. And also how overthinking has caused issues in the past and why thinking a little less can actually be of greater service to us all. Don't worry, we're never advocating for not thinking dating and relationships through; but more about how we don't get in our own ways. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our w...2024-10-2510 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Yue: What You Have In Common Doesn't Really MatterWe tend to be so focused on commonalities when dating...but what if that wasn't actually what mattered in finding a compatible partner? Yue's breaking down why focusing so much on shared interests can lead to a false sense of connection and what's more important to look out for. Also she's sharing her newfound love of quickies – from this type of episode to you know, the real deal. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get...2024-10-1010 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: A Letter To Your ExWhat's better than coming across letters you wrote to your ex(s) years later? Julie's diving into how this practice has helped her process the past so she can move forward. No, you don't need to send the actual letter (in fact, it's recommended you do not). And yes, this absolutely will give you the closure and clarity you need. And one day, you'll be able to see how far you've come and how none of this was time wasted. If you're looking for a dose of optimism and tactical tips, tune in for this one. Plus she'll share...2024-09-2608 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Yue: What I Learned About The First 6 Months of A Relationship + Updates On My 'New" RelationshipYou've heard the theories about the first 6 months of a relationship and how it's a marker if the relationship will last. Yue's breaking down what she's learned about the 6 month period – what typically happens and how she's doing things differently this time around. Also, she's sharing some updates about her 'new' relationship after crossing that 6 month barrier and what's unfolded in that time.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts....2024-09-1310 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: Dating Is Rarely As Personal As It Feels - And Here's WhyIt's hard not to take dating personally – especially when someone can't commit or doesn't want to see you again. But what we've learned is that it often has nothing to do with you, despite what we may think. Julie's diving into this topic as it's something that's been a challenge for her while dating – and even into her current relationship. Hopefully this will help you not take things as personally and use dating for what it's meant for: to find the right match. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen...2024-08-2906 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Yue: Poop Anxiety (In Early Dating)How many of you get anxiety about using the bathroom when you're just starting to date someone new? Anyone? Yue is going there: taking us through her own bathroom anxieties while being utterly perplexed that her friend did not share the same sentiment in the slightest – so much that it lead to an investigation on the topic and this quickie for all of you.TW: Talking about bathroom activities in this one. If this is not for you, check out our many other episodes. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more...2024-08-1611 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: Finding Closure From Past RelationshipsIt's been a big week! Writing a book brings up a lot – especially when the topic is around dating and relationships! Julie is discussing how she processed her own dating history and patterns, including reconnecting with her ex 4 years later.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Bluel...2024-08-0108 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsThe Science Of Attraction: A Flashback to Our Most Popular EpisodeWhat makes you attracted to one person and not another? We're bringing back our most popular episode ever with Dr. Paul Eastwick about his work at the UC Davis Attraction Lab of how people form and maintain relationships. We discuss how ideal partner preferences play into partner selection, why we often think we know what we want when we don't, and the secret of when attraction can build over time. Plus we'll kick off the episode with a new intro recapping Yue's solo trip + the intimacy workshop she attended, and Julie's bday highs and lows. Plus BIG announcement coming...2024-07-161h 20Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Yue: The Quickest Way To Stop Bad Dating BehaviorAre you sick of the ghosting, bread crumbing, flaking, zombie-ing, and the myriad of other bad dating behavior? Yup, us too. Yue is discussing her theory on why it seems to keep getting worse every year, but more importantly how we can all squash this type of behavior and head into a dating utopia. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.WE WROTE A BOOK...2024-07-1110 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: The #1 Skill In A Relationship (That's Not Communication)We're told that communication is everything in relationships....but what if there's another skill that is arguably more important??? Julie takes you through her experience of what she learned through couples therapy and how it's applied to not only her romantic relationships but also relationships with friends, family and coworkers too.Related Episodes:The Truth About RelationshipsHow To Have A Healthy RelationshipWhat's Your Communication StyleFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w...2024-06-2708 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Yue: Sometimes Staying Together May Need Time ApartWe've talked about Dating Sabbaticals but what about Relationship Sabbaticals? Yue is reflecting on the conversation we had with Mark Groves this week about the need to take an intentional pause and how this could serve her relationships – past, present, and future. If you've wondered before if you should stay or go, or when the relationship is worth fighting for, this one is for you!Related Episodes:The Key To Getting Back Together With Your Ex w/ Mark GrovesFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also lis...2024-06-1410 minDating Intentionally78. Dating skills you need to find the relationship you want w/ Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick (@dateablepodcast)Today's episode features the amazing hosts of Dateable Podcast, Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick. They have been sharing their dating advice for 8 years with thousands of daters everywhere. We get into super practical tips for having better conversations on dates, the importance of screening your matches, and the mindset shifts you need to be more curious and less attached to the outcome. We also talk about the common thing that successful daters have: wanting a relationship, not needing one, and knowing what your "north star" is in dating. At the end, we do a rapid-fire round of "Is it...2024-06-1459 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS18E16: Creating a Relationship 2.0 w/ Mark GrovesWe're so excited to have long-awaited guest, Mark Groves in the house! And even more importantly, diving into his story about breaking up – and getting back together– with his now-wife Kylie McBeath and what this experience taught him about relationships. We're discussing how both parties must take responsibility owning their sh*t, what it actually means to build a relationship 2.0, and why liberating yourself from the patterns of your relationship is the only way forward.Even if you're not interested in reconnecting with your ex (um...bye), this episode is a must listen as it'll teach you so mu...2024-06-111h 19Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: My Biggest Fear – Even In A Happy, Healthy RelationshipWe're dropping another quickie as Julie reflects on her biggest fear that was triggered by last week's episode 'Are Long-Term Relationships For Everyone?' Find out why this apprehension still creeps in even in her current relationship and how she could relate to Ryan's ex from her experience in the past. If you've been in a situation where it felt like someone pulled the rug out from under you saying they couldn't be in a relationship anymore, then this episode is for you. Related Episodes:S18E12: Are Long-Term Relationships For Everyone? w/ Ryan Van D...2024-05-2409 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Yue: What I Learned 1-Year Post-BreakupIt's been one-year from that fateful day when Yue learned her partner of 5 years had been unfaithful. Join us for a heartfelt quickie as Yue shares what she's learned in the last year about love, relationships, and persevering through it all – to a happier and more fulfilled place than she ever imagined she'd be. This is an emotional one, but also certainly uplifting for anyone else struggling with heartbreak. Because you're never alone in what you're going through.Related Episodes:The Next Chapter Post Breakup The Other WomanFol...2024-05-1711 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: The #1 Quality To Look For While DatingWe're back for another “Quickie” where we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Julie shares the one quality that's pivotal to look for when you're dating – a foundational trait that you need in a partner in order to have a happy and healthy relationship. Enjoy!Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts...2024-04-2608 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Yue: Reset The Algorithm Of Your Love LifeWe're back for another “Quickie” where every other week, we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Yue is sharing how with all the changes with the eclipse, now is the perfect time to take control and move out all the noise of what has been clouding your path before. Enjoy!Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio...2024-04-1810 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: The Best Is Yet To ComeWe're back for another “Quickie” where every other week, we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Julie is sharing a framework to look at past dates or relationships that didn't work out not as failures – but rather as building blocks that lay the foundation for your great relationship that's still yet to come. Enjoy!Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen t...2024-04-0507 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships#brunchtalk: How Do You Know When To Trust Your Gut?When something feels off...is it just your anxiety talking or is this your gut telling you something is very wrong? Whether you're dating someone new or in a long-term relationship, we're discussing a framework to decipher these feelings, how to determine if you're in a "Yue situation" (as the listener so endearingly refers to it), and ways you can actually talk it out instead of jumping to conclusions.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comJoin our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow...2024-03-2416 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Yue: Stop Waiting For That Text Back (Among Other Things That Are A Waste of Your Time)We're back for another “Quickie” where every other week, we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Yue will discuss a framework she uses to stop spending time on trivial things in dating – whether it's that text back or anything else that ends up being a waste of your time when dating.Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podc...2024-03-2210 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsQuickie w/ Julie: The Single ScaleWe're trying something new! Welcome to the first installment of “Quickies” where every other week, we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Julie will dive into the Single Scale: what it is, where you land on it and how it may be impacting finding an actual partner who is the real deal.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, S...2024-03-0807 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS18E1: The Reason You Don't Need To Be Good At DatingWe're back with Season 18 here to answer an existential question we've had after doing this podcast now for 8 years: do you need to be good at dating? When we first started the pod, the answer was an obvious yes....until we dug in further. Join us as we discuss why dating culture isn't helping us get into relationships, how to start dating differently, and ways you can start forming more connections in your dating life TODAY!Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our...2024-02-2842 min
Reimagining LoveThe Highs and Lows of Finding "Your Person": Bringing a Sense of Humor to Dating with Julie Krafchick & Yue XuJulie Krafchick and Yue Xu, hosts of the popular podcast Dateable, join Dr. Alexandra for a fun, yet insightful, conversation about all things dating. Together, they explore our rapidly changing dating culture and tackle three sticky relationship situations.Relevant links:Listen to the episode of Dateable where Dr. Alexandra joined Julie and Yue to discuss pace discrepanciesListen to the Dateable podcastListen to Exit InterviewOrder Dr. Alexandra's new book, Love Every DaySubscribe to Dr. Alexandra’s NewsletterSubmit a Listener Question
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Thirsty: the Podcast83. Are You Using Dating Apps All Wrong?, with Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of DateableABOUT THIS EPISODE:
They're the essential tool we love to hate: dating apps. But, what if the apps aren't the problem... you're just using them wrong. Dating experts Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu are here to talk to us about how we can leverage dating apps to their highest power and (perhaps) find the love of a lifetime. From how to write a profile to how to screen for your best match, they're showing us what we can do to make great connections that may actually go somewhere. They're also covering how better dates may actually result...2023-10-2858 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS17E2: The Other WomanBuckle up friends, this one is juicy! Today we're joined with Kelly aka "the other woman" in Yue's infidelity story to hear her POV and how she was also severely impacted by these turn of events. We're discussing how to cope after finding out someone has a significant other, ways to regain trust again after feeling misled, and why talking to "the other woman" can help both parties heal if you're open to it.Follow Kelly @kellypantaleoniFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other...2023-09-061h 03Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: This is 40 - Yue interviews JulieIt's a celebration, y'all! We're talking about milestone bdays as Yue interviews Julie about turning the big 4-0 and the celebrations that followed (ummm still feeling that wine country trip). We discuss how love hits differently with each decade, why there's always mixed emotions about getting older, and ways to keep creating the love life you've always wanted in this next chapter.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your...2023-07-2640 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: The Friendship EpisodeToday we're talking about one of the most important relationships of all: friendship! Julie and Yue discuss the importance of friendship, yet why it often gets deprioritized in the hierarchy of relationships. We discuss the ways we approach platonic relationships differently than romantic ones, why even our friendship needed some extra TLC, and how to keep every relationship in your life healthy and thriving. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you...2023-07-1929 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBonus: Are We Dating The Same Person?So you’re dating someone new - would you want to know if someone else had intel about them before you went on a date? Or would you want to find out if anyone had dated (or was currently dating) your long-term partner? Julie and Yue debate the pros and cons of these ‘Are we dating the same person?’ groups and if they are helpful or harmful to your dating life. We discuss the concept of paying it forward to other daters, why it doesn’t always to work to skip to the end, and how to use these groups m...2023-07-1231 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: The Next Chapter Post Breakup - Julie interviews YueWhat happens when you discover your partner of almost 5 years has been unfaithful? In this episode, Julie interviews Yue about her recent breakup. We discuss how she's processing what happened, why she still views this relationship as a "success," and the reasons she's excited about the next chapter while still very much believing in love.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored...2023-07-0547 min
Exit InterviewAre You Ready for Love? Season Finale Over the course of this season of Exit Interview, we’ve learned that most people have absolutely no clue what they’re doing wrong in dating - but with some simple fixes, love may be right around the corner. In this season finale, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable check back in with several of our featured daters to see if they’ve heeded any of their advice. Did Kirstin find someone who wasn’t intimidated by her? Did Caroline get her second chance at love? Has Justin gone out on a date? Tune in today for some key takea...2023-05-1855 minExit InterviewIs Your Lifestyle a Dealbreaker? w/ CarolineWe all have that thing that we are positive is blocking our romantic paths.. For Caroline - she’s convinced that it’s being a single mom. Is that really what’s holding her back from her second chance at love - or is it something totally different? In this next installment of Exit Interview, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable makeover Caroline’s life by doing the scariest thing ever: call up her old flames for feedback. Why did one ex decide Caroline wasn’t worth driving to see? How did one relationship become “accidentally” exclusive? What was the real r...2023-05-1149 minExit InterviewDo You Want Connection or Just Attention? w/ KyleKyle is a sex empowerment coach on the search for a primary partner who can fit in with his polyamorous lifestyle. You may have caught him on Amazon Prime’s The One that Got Away. Why can’t he be as open with his heart as his sexuality? Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable put Kyle in the hot seat this week for the ultimate romance review: calling up his old flames to find out what he’s doing wrong. And some of these women have shocking stories to share. Why did Sam leave their road trip only two da...2023-05-0450 minExit InterviewAre You a Dating Chameleon? w/ DeborahDeborah is a romantic, through and through. But…maybe, she’s so hungry for love that she molds herself to adapt to whomever she’s dating. You may remember Deborah from Christofer’s episode, and now she’s back for her very own Exit Interview. Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are ready to help Deborah understand what’s getting in the way of love. Tune in to hear their conversations with several of Deborah’s past flames - all of whom help shed light on Deborah’s struggles with her own sexuality and identity. Why did Deborah sell her shoes to...2023-04-2749 minExit InterviewWhy Can’t You Get a Date? w/ JustinJustin is the full package - he’s handsome, he’s smart, he’s the life of the party. But now well into his 30s, he’s never had a boyfriend. Not only that, but he’s never been on a date. What is he doing wrong? Well, luckily, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are here to help. Julie and Yue call up Justin’s friends (because he doesn’t have any exes) to help figure out what he’s doing wrong. Is Justin going after the wrong sort of men? Is he keeping himself removed from the Austin queer...2023-04-2051 minExit InterviewAre You Too Intimidating to Date? w/ KristinKristin is so strong and independent that she worries she’s scaring off potential partners. In this instalment of Exit Interview, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are ready to help Kristin understand how she is actually presenting herself on dates. And who would know better - than her exes? Julie and Yue call up several of Kristin’s old flames to answer these burning questions: Are Kristin’s dates really not ready to be in a relationship, or just not in a relationship with her? Do her dates find her exhausting, overwhelming, or out of their league? Maybe...2023-04-1348 minExit InterviewWhere Do You Fall on the Intentionality Spectrum? Midseason check-inSo far, we’ve heard from five daters who are all struggling to find love. To help them, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable have conducted the ultimate romance review: calling up past flames to gather feedback. In this special edition of Exit Interview, Julie and Yue check in on these daters to hear if they’ve taken any advice to heart. Was Chris able to finally find love? Did Anchie finally get over Mindy? What happened when Tia followed up with her old flames? There are some unexpected updates in store - tune in for all the surp...2023-04-0649 minExit InterviewAre You Stuck on The One Who Got Away? w/ AnchieAnchie is ready for a serious partner, and yet he keeps hitting dead ends on his hunt for a longterm relationship. But – maybe – could the key to solving his dating problems be hidden in the past? In this week’s episode, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable unpack Anchie’s dating life by calling up those who know him best - his old flames. Why did his ex feel like he wanted to just kiss “a girl” and not specifically her? Why did Anchie upgrade himself to business class, leaving his date in economy? And, the biggest question - can Julie a...2023-03-3050 minExit InterviewAre You in a Relationship or a Situationship? w/ ChrisSituationships - love them, hate them - they’re all too common this day in age. But Christofer - well, she’s the Queen of Situationships, and the fairest of them all. In this week’s episode of Exit Interview, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable sit down with Chris to figure out if Situationships are actually getting her the love she wants. And who better to ask – but Chris’s old flames? Get ready for a whole lot of heartbreak, as Julie and Yue call up women who actually fell very hard for Chris, only to be cast aside...2023-03-2348 min
Exit InterviewAre you TOO in control of your love life? w/ PylinAs a recovering Type A, Pylin has dating down to a science. She’s on the boyfriend track, full steam ahead. But - do people on board feel interchangeable? Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable conduct the ultimate romance review: calling up Pylin’s exes to get their feedback. Is she scaring people away with her questions? Can she even read the room? Is she treating her dates like her psychology clients? Press play to find out. Follow us: Instragram @ExitInterviewshow Twitter: @ExInterviewShow Episode transcript here —> shorturl.at...2023-03-1648 minExit InterviewCan You Reform A F-Boy? w/ AngelAngel has some strong F-boys tendencies - but still claims he’s looking for love. Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are on the case. To investigate, they call several of Angel’s old flames to gather feedback, uncovering many surprises. Did Angel ghost a date after she didn’t kiss him? Why does he still have his ex’s clothes in his closet? Does he actually know how to treat a woman he likes? Hear all of this and more on this week’s episode. Follow us:Instragram @ExitInterviewshow Twitter: @ExIn...2023-03-0949 minExit InterviewDoes Playing It Cool Ruin Your Dating Life? w/ TiaTia is suffering from a very serious case of Cool Girl Syndrome. Dating experts Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are here to help Tia recover. How? By talking to the people who know her best – her exes. In this first instalment of Exit Interview, Julie and Yue call three of Tia’s exes to gather feedback. Did she sabotage a perfectly good relationship? Why didn’t her old flame know they were actually on a date? Could someone still secretly have feelings for her? Tune in to hear if Tia can heal from her CGS and learn how to...2023-03-0947 minExit InterviewIntroducing: "Exit Interview"Introducing the new podcast Exit Interview.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2023-02-2801 minDateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Breaking up with Bad Dating Habits - Julie interviews YueFrom being the "cool girl" to avoiding difficult conversations to blowing up when trying to DTR, we're unpacking more bad dating habits that we both had – that you probably do too. But this week, Julie is interviewing Yue about her dating history and how these behaviors got in her way – even today. We're discussing how dating games ended up being counterproductive, why bad dating behavior is often a self-protection mechanism, and how to continue to grow at any stage of a relationship.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch...2023-01-251h 12Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Breaking up with Bad Dating Habits - Yue interviews JulieFrom staying in situationships to being rigid with timelines, we all have some bad dating behaviors that have gotten in our way. On this week's bonus episode, Yue is interviewing Julie about her past patterns and how they still sneak in even while in a relationship. We dive into it all: from how these behaviors were learned, how they manifest in dating, and how she's still trying to unlearn them today. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard2023-01-181h 03
Seeing Other PeopleSaving Modern Dating with Dateable's Julie and YueI’m joined by Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu, hosts of Dateable podcast. We’re chatting all about why dating sucks and how we each can make it better. We discuss the biggest mistakes singles are making in their dating lives, the importance of focusing on the positives when dating, how we can turn each date into a learning experience, what we’ve learned from our past, and more. Listen to Dateable and follow along on Instagram! Schedule a 1:1 with me at direct.me/ilanadunnCheck out Adobe Express here #AdobeExpressAmbassadors #Ad Learn...2022-11-151h 02
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Answering your Dating Questions! w/ Katie Sturino of Boob Sweat & MegababeWe're continuing the off season for just a few more weeks! Join us as we talk about Yue's layoff and the parallels of feeling disposable in both work and dating. We're also reairing the episode we did on Katie Sturino's podcast 'Boob Sweat' answering all your dating q's. We discuss dating app burnout, the art of meeting people IRL, and how to get back out there after a long-term relationship.Follow Katie @katiesturnio and check out her podcast 'Boob Sweat', book body talk and beauty line Megababe. Dateable listeners only! Get15% off, use the code BOOBSWEAT15 at...2022-07-271h 04
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Avoiding West Elm Calebs, Tinder Swindlers, and Navigating Modern Dating w/ Sydney Lotuaco of Something to ShareIt's the offseason baby! Join us as we talk about Julie's bday celebration that Yue was in town for plus the big debate we got into re: sleeping with a partner (not in the way you think). We're also reairing the episode we did on Sydney Lotuaco's podcast 'Something to share' all about how to navigate modern dating in today's world. We discuss avoiding dating scenarios like the extremes of West Elm Caleb and the Tinder Swindler, the shifts in dating over the past 6 years, and how to get inspired to continue your dateable jouney to enjoy dating again!2022-07-201h 13
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Yue Interviews JulieFrom getting over an ex to starting a new relationship, we're turning the tables as Yue interview Julie this time around. We're unpacking it all: why dating is so much harder than making friends, knowing when it's time to end a relationship that isn't working, staying friends with an ex (or cutting the cord), starting the podcast, and finding love – on the apps – in the time of Corona. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to...2022-01-261h 04
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Julie Interviews YueWe're doing something fun! Julie's interviewing Yue to hear how's she's navigated her love life from the time she was dating to now being 3 years into a committed relationship. We talk about it all: turning 40, her love/hate relationship with dating coaching, dating as Asian American woman, dealing with the societal pressure to get married, co-habitating between 2 cities, and playing the long game by dating her partner after knowing him for 7 years before.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast...2022-01-1956 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Will We Ever Meet IRL Again? w/ the California GroundbreakersWe thought it would be the roaring 20s but we're chatting about why everyone is experiencing FODA as we reair Julie's episode w/ Vanessa Richardson from California Groundbreakers & Paul Eastwick, professor of UC Davis's attraction lab. We discuss why people are feeling burnout from online dating, how pandemic relationships have different trajectories, and how to get out there and mix and mingle again (safely of course).Learn more about the California Ground Breakers https://www.californiagroundbreakers.org/ and listen to their podcast series 'This Changes Everything on all podcast playersFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out...2021-08-111h 00
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Is it a Dick Pic if it's not your Dick? w/ Kane Holloway & Greg Behrendt of 'Don't Take Bullshit from Fuckers'Hang tight...this is a BIG one. We're talking about everything from dick pics to if size matters and re-playing Julie's interview with comedians Kane Holloway & Greg Behrendt from DTBFF. We discuss tactics that work (or don't work) for taking the elusive pic, why your worst self is never your best self, and how it's never OK to send pics of your bedroom activities to your sister. Listen to 'Don't Take Bullshit from Fuckers' and follow DTBFF, Greg, Kane, and Pat on Instagram @dtbffpodcast, @itsgreggers, @kaneholloway, and @dtbffproducerpat or your other favorite podcast playersFollow us...2021-07-211h 04
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: DTR to Diamond Rings w/Greg Behrendt & Kane Holloway of 'Don't Take Bullshit from Fuckers'Don't take bullshit from fuckers...especially when it comes to commitment and defining the relationship. We're diving into when (and how) to have the big DTR talk and re-playing Yue's interview with comedians Kane Holloway & Greg Behrendt from DTBFF. We discuss girls making the first move, why one may turn away love for selfish reasons, and how an engagement ring turned into an epic fail.Listen to 'Don't Take Bullshit from Fuckers' and follow DTBFF, Greg, Kane, and Pat on Instagram @dtbffpodcast, @itsgreggers, @kaneholloway, and @dtbffproducerpat or your other favorite podcast playersFollow us @dateablepodcast. Ch...2021-07-141h 12
Don't Take Bullsh*t From F*ckersEpisode 87 - I Didn't Think It Could Get Worse And Then It Did (w/Julie Krafchick)This week on Don't Take Bullsh*t From F*ckers, Greg Behrendt and Kane Holloway welcome Julie Krafchick from the Date/Able podcast and Julie talks about the time Date/Able had Venmo John from The Bachelorette on the show, everyone compares Venmo friend counts, and a listener wants to know if she should stay away from a flirtatious co-worker. Also, What Does This Meme? Julie gets to choose which version of the theme song she'd like to hear and, fair warning, she chooses the death metal version, Kane reminds Greg that he asked Kane to co-host the podcast, y...2021-07-0639 min
Last First Date RadioEP 454: Yue Xu & Julie Krafchick - An Insider’s Look Into Modern DatingYue Xu & Julie Krafchick are the hosts of Dateable, one of the top rated podcasts about dating, love and sex. As active daters turned dating sociologists, they’ve talked to thousands of real life daters and experts to explore modern dating culture and why people date the way they do. Before the podcast, Yue was a dating coach with clients all over the world. Julie was an app designer and researcher using technology to help people form connections. Together they have been #stayingdateable since 2016.
In this episode of Last First Date Radio:
The biggest struggles in da...2021-05-2554 min
Save the Date – by CMB#12 – Moving from dating apps to meeting IRL | Dateable’s Yue Xu & Julie KrafchickToday’s interview features two dating coaches turned dating sociologists, Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick. Yue and Julie are the hosts of Dateable, one of the top podcasts about dating, love, and sex. Even though we’ve been at it for a little while, we’re all still figuring out how to date during COVID-19. So let’s talk practical tips, from texting to video chats, and dig into why now is actually a pretty great time to be dating. http://coffeemeetsbagel.com2021-03-2450 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS12E5: Is it the Right Person or the Right Time?You all know that guy that's fiercely independent, has a revolving door of casual flings, and whose family and friends have determined will never settle down. Well, we're talking to Yue's friend Jesse who was just like this...until he wasn't. Join us as we hear from him and his now-wife Cassie about how they went from being in a totally uncommitted relationship to being married. We discuss what happens when that light goes off that you want something more substantial, the risks that you're willing to take for the right person, and how to be as full of...2021-03-101h 08
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: What you know bout loveFrom Kamala & Doug's #relationshipgoals to Yue turning 40, there's so much to unpack as we also dive into the top 6 episodes that changed the way we view love and relationships. We'll discuss having trust in your timing, the balance of knowing yourself vs. relating to others, and how this all relates to relationships during the pandemic.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to our partners for this episode:2021-01-2746 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS11E4: The Boyfriend ManualNope, this isn't like an instruction manual from IKEA but we're chatting with Vasanth about all the little things that help you become a better partner. We discuss different types of small gestures that have a huge ROI, how to adjust your moves based on your partner's love language, and why women can (and should) also be doing these little things for their partner.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.Thank you to our partners for this episode:...2020-09-091h 11
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS11E3: 51 First DatesWhen nothing seems to be going right in your dating life, the only logical step is to go on 51 first dates and document it all through a podcast, right? We're chatting with Kimmy & Liza about how this experiment helped uncover and break their bad dating patterns for good. We discuss why CGS (cool girl syndrome) is the demise of dating, how to break free of fuckboys, and why it's so important to ask what you want for in relationships. Follow Kimmy & Liza @51firstdatespod. Listen to 51 First Dates on all podcast platforms. Follow us @dateablepodcast. C...2020-09-021h 30
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS11E2: Love in the Time of TikTokAnd it goes like...download TikTok, make a video that goes viral, meet a cute girl, fly across the country, and define the relationship on your road trip back home. Is this a movie or love in 2020? We're chatting with Josiah & Natalie about their turbo relationship that started virtually and has resulted in them being together as a full-fledged couple. We discuss how virtual dates can be romantic, why right now is the best time to take a risk when it comes to relationships, and how to open yourself up to possibilities of finding love in unexpected places. 2020-08-261h 12
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsS11 E1: Trust in your timingAre you where you thought you'd be at 30? 40? 50? Especially when it comes to finding love, we're diving in with Christina Bradley, the author of 'Which way to Happiness?', to discuss why there's so much pressure to finding 'The One' by a certain age. We discuss why certain milestone years are such triggers, how you can start living on your own timelines, and how to create your own happiness no matter where you are in life.Check out Christina's book 'Which way to Happiness?' (formerly 30): https://amzn.to/3aFuFMV2020-08-191h 19
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: How to Rethink Relationships Post-Quarantine w/ Liza & Kimmy from 51 First DatesFrom traveling (virtually) via Hinge to being #teamchrishell, we're wrapping up the dating app experiment and chatting with Kimmy & Liza on 51 First Dates about the shift in dating mindset that might occur after 2020., We'll discuss taking those socially distanced dates up a notch, the dangers of false intimacy, and how COVID has ruined f*ckboys hopefully forever. Also, 1 more week until we're back with Season 11!!Follow Kimmy & Liza @51firstdatespod. Listen to 51 First Dates on all podcast platforms. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.2020-08-121h 19
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: The Museum of Modern Dating w/ Ken Page of Deeper DatingWould glory holes be in the museum of modern dating? Maybe in COVID-19 times! First, we'll run down the results of Julie's around the world dating app experiment and then we'll chat with Ken Page of Deeper Dating about the landscape of today’s dating world. We'll discuss some of our most moving dating stories, our best advice, and the most essential challenges facing daters todayFollow Ken at @deeperdating and check out deeperdating.com along with Ken's podcast Deeper Dating on Apple Podcasts or your other favorite podcast playersFo...2020-08-051h 28
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Redefining how we Date & Communicate w/Kimmy Seltzer from Charisma QuotientSo if we're all dating virtually, we can be anywhere, right? We'll kick off with a dating app experiment comparing different cities and then we'll chat with Kimmy Seltzer of the Charisma Quotient about some of the common issues that everyone's experiencing in this new dating world. We'll discuss traditional vs. modern gender roles, navigating virtual dating , and what your messages really mean between the lines.Follow Kimmy at @kimmyseltzer and listen to the Charisma Quotient on Apple Podcasts or your other favorite podcast playersFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check...2020-07-291h 03
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Love & Dating in the Time of COVID w/ Minji Chang from FirstofAllSo if you just do doggy style in a mask, you're safe from COVID, right? Umm. Umm. nope. We're talking this week about sex during the pandemic and then with Minji Chang on the FirstofAll Pod about all the nitty-gritty of sex & dating during this time. We discuss our own COVID experiences & perspectives on dating apps, virtual dates, reconnecting with exes, coping with current relationships & projections of the TBD future of dating culture. Follow Minji @minjeezy and @firstofallpod. Listen to First of All Podcast on all podcast platforms. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our w...2020-07-221h 43
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: The best & worst dating advice w/ Kinda DatingLove conquers all. Wait until he texts you first. Don't have sex for 90 days. There’s so much love advice out there, yet so much is so so bad. We teamed with Natasha Chandel from Kinda Dating to give you our rundown on the best and worst dating advice we've heard along the way. So strap in, decide what tips you'll take and which you'll toss.Check out Natasha at @natashachandel and Kinda Dating on all podcast platforms and @kindadatingFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more con...2020-07-151h 25
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: 6 Ways COVID-19 will forever change datingTo say dating has changed in 2020 is the understatement of the year! We'll share our top 6 trends with everything from how singles and couples are navigating this time to why f*ckboys are o-v-e-r. We'll discuss how to make the most of your dating life whether it's on a socially distanced date or if you're rekindling an old flame. So get your masks on, stay 6 feet away, and see how COVID-19 could actually be the best thing for your love life (if you let it be).Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for m...2020-07-0859 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 10 Episode 21: An Open Letter to S****y HusbandsWhat if we told you the silent killer of marriage was something so seemingly small, so avoidable? Join us as we chat with Matthew Fray about how a “good guy” like him ended up being a sh****y husband and how others can avoid these missteps. We discuss why neglecting your partner's thoughts and feelings is the demise of a relationship, how to recognize signs of this behavior even in early dating, and the importance of being aware of this now even if you're nowhere close to marriage.Check out Matt's blog: https://mustbethistalltoride.com...2020-07-011h 25First of All#115 - Love & Dating In the Time of COVID with Julie & Yue (Dateable Podcast)Well these past three months have been a blast, right guys? Quarantined, isolated, stressed, & socially distanced...it's the perfect time to find love & experience romance! Seriously though, all of us are learning to connect & relate to one another in new ways that could truly redefine all our relationships moving forward. And funnily enough, there could be some interesting pros to the dating & relationship scene as a result of Coronavirus. To discuss the many ways this pandemic has impacted our interactions with potential SO's, temporary distractions, existing long-term partners, & ourselves, Minji sits down with Dateable Podcast co-hosts Julie Krafchick & Yue...2020-06-241h 29Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find LoveModern Dating Trends: Interview with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu We are in the process of redefining how we date, communicate and fall in love. We're all navigating the challenges and opportunities of modern dating, especially with the advent of online dating platforms. Whether or not you have engaged in the online dating world, there are some very real trends that have a strong impact on the courtship process. EPISODE 145 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Modern Dating Trends: Interview With Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu This week on the show, Kimmy has an incredibly timely conversation with the women of the popular Dateable podcast, Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick. This...2020-06-1044 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 9 Episode 11: First Date In 12 YearsTune in as Jeff tells us about his first date in 12 years with our co-host and producer Julie. We discuss being on dating apps at different stages of life, how the past plays into how you approach dating, and why pursuing a friendship first may not be the worst idea.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Blueland: Get 15% off your first order at https://blueland.com/dateable* Mint Mobile: Get 3 months unlimited premium wireless service for $15/ a month: https://mintmobile.com...2019-10-231h 31
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsBONUS: Everything you need to know about dating on 'The Wise Woman Podcast' with Erin Rachel DoppeltListen as Yue & Julie are interviewed on 'The Wise Woman Podcast' by Erin Rachel Doppelt and we talk about why we started the podcast, the biggest things we've learned along the way, the best advice we've received, and how to enjoy the journey of dating.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Blueland: Get 15% off your first order at https://blueland.com/dateable* Mint Mobile: Get 3 months unlimited premium wireless service for $15/ a month: https://mintmobile.com/DATEABLE* Quince: Go to...2019-07-1032 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 8 Episode 4: 8-year Friends with BenefitsJulie and Andrew tell us about their 8-year journey from friends with benefits to a fully committed relationship. We discuss the evolutions that happen over time, navigating the ups and downs, and how a change of perception of the “right” person may reveal someone who’s been there all along.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Blueland: Get 15% off your first order at https://blueland.com/dateable* Mint Mobile: Get 3 months unlimited premium wireless service for $15/ a month: https://mintmobile.com/DATEAB...2019-03-1359 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 4 Episode 1: Dating in the DarkJulie and Danny talk about their experience ‘dating in the dark’ at matchmaker OKSasha’s event. We discuss how removing physical attraction from the equation - the antithesis of online dating- gives a new perspective.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Blueland: Get 15% off your first order at https://blueland.com/dateable* Mint Mobile: Get 3 months unlimited premium wireless service for $15/ a month: https://mintmobile.com/DATEABLE* Quince: Go to https://quince.com/dateable for free shipping and 365 day re...2017-02-1533 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 3 Episode 3: Dating on a WhimYue tells us about her own first date using the app Whim. Eve Peters, the founder and CEO, interviews Yue and Andrew separately to hear their impressions of one another and how they cut through the “date talk” to make a true connection.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Blueland: Get 15% off your first order at https://blueland.com/dateable* Mint Mobile: Get 3 months unlimited premium wireless service for $15/ a month: https://mintmobile.com/DATEABLE* Quince: Go to https://quince.com...2016-09-1347 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 2 Episode 4: Are we asking too much of Tinder?Sam talks about a Tinder date gone wrong after a stand up and group date to his date’s DJ show. We talk about expectations, vetting, and commitment to meet someone via a dating app. Also Yue spills about her Tinder test from the Season 1 finale.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Blueland: Get 15% off your first order at https://blueland.com/dateable* Mint Mobile: Get 3 months unlimited premium wireless service for $15/ a month: https://mintmobile.com/DATEABLE* Quince: Go to...2016-05-1119 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 2 Episode 1: The Blind DateYue goes on a blind date riding a Scoot Quad around the city. Her date, Matt, comes on air and we hear both of their impressions of the date. When have you ever gotten real feedback from a date? Spoiler alert: minds are blown.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Blueland: Get 15% off your first order at https://blueland.com/dateable* Mint Mobile: Get 3 months unlimited premium wireless service for $15/ a month: https://mintmobile.com/DATEABLE* Quince: Go to https...2016-04-2038 min
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationshipsSeason 1 Episode 7: Don't Molly and DateOne of our hosts, Yue, spills about her dating experience that moved a little too fast. We get into conversations about how to handle when people ghost and are non-committal to plans.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Blueland: Get 15% off your first order at https://blueland.com/dateable* Mint Mobile: Get 3 months unlimited premium wireless service for $15/ a month: https://mintmobile.com/DATEABLE* Quince: Go to https://quince.com/dateable for free shipping and 365 day returns. * Washington Red...2016-02-1423 min