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Look at this Mess!I'm Back!Uhhm Hiii! It's been about 3 years since I published an episode! Whoa. Okay, quick catchup before I start getting back into the podcast game :) 2024-12-1010 min
Look at this Mess!A Deep Dive into the Texas Heartbeat ActIn this episode, I revisit the conversation on abortion, specifically in the United States, given the implementation of the Texas Heartbeat Act, otherwise known as the abortion ban in the State of Texas. In this deep dive I am prioritizing a fact-based discussion, and ask that the audience try to suspend feelings of anger and anguish, in an effort to promote a productive dialogue. This is challenging, and I can understand that, but if we are led exclusively by anger and raw emotion, we are not able to effectively address the issue at hand, nor prioritize those impacted by...2021-09-0652 minLook at this Mess!Blogging, Motherhood & Abortion as Self-Care/Love with guest host Taryn SpenceI invited my friend and previous guest, Taryn Spence, to join me on the podcast once again. This time we opted for a non-structured open discussion and let our interests guide us. We begin by catching up with Taryn about her new blog on Medium.com, one of the creative outlets she is pursuing. We also discuss some of the struggles and triumphs of parenting small children, and finish up with an open discussion about Taryn's decision to seek an abortion for the primary reason that it was the best choice for her body and her life, right now...2021-08-3054 minLook at this Mess!Being over-sensational is hurting your causeIn this episode I focus on the recent appearance of content on social media that is over sensationalizing the current residential school burial ground investigations. I discuss where I've seen this content, and the process of my own waves of emotion associated with it. I offer my opinion on how this content affects public opinion on this very emotional issue, and the way it gaslights individuals over social media. If you have thoughts you'd like to share on this topic (or any others) you can reach out in the following ways:@kayelehkay (Instagram)archykait@gmail.comlookatthismesspod.wordpress.com2021-08-1725 minLook at this Mess!Parenting Pep-TalkIn this episode I discuss how our eldest has been experiencing some volatile emotional dysregulation recently, and offer some of the thought I have about why this happens and how I am trying to respond. I admit, I am far from perfect, but I do my best to lean into the gentle and empathetic parenting approaches I have been trying to learn since my kiddos were little. Have a listen, and if you have any input you'd like to share, you can reach me in the following ways:@kayelehkay (Instagram)archykait@gmail.comlookatthismesspod.wordpress.comUntil next...2021-08-0928 minLook at this Mess!Duty to Consult, Indigenous Monitoring in Archaeology, and other projects with guest Jordan Jamieson!In this episode I interviewed my friend Jordan Jamieson who is a Lead Field Liaison Representative (FLR) for the Mississaugas of the Credit First Nation. I asked him to break down for us where the Duty to Consult originated from, what the FLR role is, and why it's important to the practice of CRM Archaeology. We also discussed some projects Jordan has undertaken on his own that will serve to enhance education across community lines, and develop further consultation, support, and exercising Indigenous rights within Archaeology, Culture, and Heritage. If you have any input and/or questions you can...2021-07-2658 minLook at this Mess!Abs really are not all they are cracked up to be. Really.In this episode I discuss my changing body, my feelings on those changes, and for the first time I outline some of the things I did not "love" about my body when it was objectively the fittest it has ever been. If you have thoughts on this, or want to offer a perspective that I have not captured here, you can reach out to me in the following ways:@kayelehkay (Instagram)archykait@gmail.comlookatthismesspod.wordpress.comUntil next time,xox Kait2021-07-2036 minLook at this Mess!Confessions of an ArchaeomomIn this episode I discuss the problems I am facing with my work in real time and how I am navigating a difficult financial and career situation. I explore how the cost of childcare can and does negatively impact specifically mothers entering or re-entering the work force. I also discuss the challenges I am facing in attempting to make lateral moves to a more suitable career track job/industry. If you have a similar story you want to share about, or even some advice, please feel free to reach out to me in one of the the following ways:2021-07-1237 minLook at this Mess!"We cancelled Canada Day; What's next?"In a follow-up to last weeks episode, I reflect on what I've seen go on in the past few days surrounding the Indigenous solidarity movement. There has been a lot of activism taking place, and while I think this is great, I want to offer some cautions, context, and draw some connections between standing up for Indigenous communities and dismantling deep-seated racist, colonial mindsets. If you have any comments, questions, or concerns about this episode, or if you would like additional resources (some listed below) you can reach me in the following ways:@kayelehkay (Instagram)archykait@gmail.comlookatthismess...2021-07-0522 minLook at this Mess!Can/should you celebrate Canada Day in 2021?In this episode I discuss my own journey of disengaging from Canada Day, offer my views on the cancellation of Canada Day (now and in the future), and discuss the importance of early and routine exposure to Indigenous issues for Canadians. I recommend the book, When We Were Alone by David A. Robertson, as a good resource for families to spark some dialogue about Residential Schools, and encourage parents to begin thinking about what their children's formal education looks like in order to be strong advocates for culturally competent curriculums. If you have any comments, questions, or concerns you...2021-06-2744 minLook at this Mess!Should a comprehensive understanding of sexuality include pedophilia?CW: This episode contains a couple of minor but specific details about child sexual abuse.In this episode I do my best to peel back some layers of confusion about this highly controversial topic and disorder. I offer my own insights and reviews of my research as well as reference to a recently published CBC Podcast series I have listed below. I ask and address the question: is our current understanding of this disorder and the ways we treat/handle it actually rooted in protecting children? Please feel free to reach out to me with your thoughts, opinions...2021-06-2151 minLook at this Mess!7 Switches to make to reduce household wasteIn this episode I outline some of the shifts we have made in our home to prevent some common waste cycles. Some of these changes are more "extreme" than others, but perhaps there are one or two will stand out to you as good options for your own home! Have a listen and let me know if you have any thoughts or other suggestions! You can reach me at:@kayelehkay (Instagram) archykait@gmail.comlookatthismesspod.wordpress.comProducts I mentioned in this episode are:https://nakedswab.com &https://www.mealime.com (we have the app downloaded to o...2021-06-1429 minLook at this Mess!Confronting Race and Racism is not Political; it is CriticalCW: This episode does at times centre the experiences and feelings of myself, a white woman; it is geared toward and prescriptive to a white audience. This is not to say that anyone from a racialized and/or marginalized group is not welcome to listen, but I wanted to be clear about the content presented here in order to respect the boundaries some listeners may have in place regarding white folks discussing racism. This episode focuses on some of my experiences in confronting racism, my complicity within racist systems, and my journey in deconstructing my "racelessness". I c...2021-06-0748 minLook at this Mess!Perfectionism in Parenting + Modelling Reparative CommunicationIn this episode, I explore how perfectionism in parenting is making things much harder on us than it need be, and I offer what is hopefully a little helpful pep talk to other parents. I also go into detail about a pretty big (though pointless) fight Nic and I had recently - I explain why it happened, what went down, and how we were able to recover after, including modelling some reparative behaviours for our daughter. If you want to share your own story, or have thoughts on this one, please feel free to reach out to me in...2021-05-3139 minLook at this Mess!"Where can you do Archaeology around here?": Common misconceptions, de-colonizing our practice, and the technical nature of CRM ArchaeologyIn this episode I describe my own background in Archaeology and offer some context for Archaeology in North America, specifically Canada. I explain a little bit about the colonial roots of the profession, and offer some insights into the ways the profession is attempting to move away from exclusively Euro-centric ideologies. I also explain in detail the process of completing Archaeological assessments (in Ontario). I acknowledge that I have missed plenty of things in this episode, and I will do a follow-up in a few weeks! If you have thoughts or questions about the episode or the pod in...2021-05-2447 minLook at this Mess!Name It to Tame It: Confronting Feelings of Envy and JealousyIn this episode I discuss feelings of jealousy and envy as they have arisen over the past year and a bit. Specifically, I reveal feelings of jealousy about other women and moms progressing through their careers, while I feel like I lost a year to the pandemic. In my view, by acknowledging our uncomfortable and "ugly" feelings, we are better able to confront and address them. Listen in as I walk through some of this journey, and let me know your thoughts! You can reach me in the following ways:@kayelehkay (Instagram)archykait@gmail.comlookatthismesspod.wordpress.com...2021-05-1840 minLook at this Mess!The Migration: No longer breaking myself into bite-sized pieces on Social MediaIn this episode, I outline why I chose to begin using different profiles on some social media platforms, like Instagram. After explaining my "why", I deconstruct the concepts I began with and walk through the realization(s) that I was actually just breaking myself up into small "bite-sized" pieces. In doing this, I have alienated and confused myself. Now that I've decided to consciously try to grow my social media presence, it also makes less sense to split my "audience" in this way. Give the episode a listen and feel free to share your thoughts by reaching out in...2021-05-1037 minLook at this Mess!My teenage rebellion backfired and now I don't know how to tend a garden + How an online sexual predator shaped my lifeCW: This episode includes explicit discussion about an experience with an online sexual predator as a young teen.In this episode I walk through my experience growing up in a landscaping family, and how my rejection of that life, along with valuable the lessons, has contributed to my inability to care for plants of any kind (except maybe cacti). I also discuss and dissect how an experience with an online sexual predator impacted how much I was ultimately allowed to work with older men in settings like on landscaping jobs. Please listen to the very end as...2021-05-0333 minLook at this Mess!Growing Out Your Body HairIn this episode I explain why I decided to grow out all of my body hair, some of my feelings on being empowered to make decisions about our own bodies, and how I have navigated finding confidence in my body exactly as it is. I discuss what effects this decision has had on my relationship, and offer a bit of advice on how to approach this issue with your partner if it something you are considering (but maybe fear or uncertainty is stopping you). If you have anything to add, or other questions you would like for me to...2021-04-2632 minLook at this Mess!Feeling the Pinch: Precarious Finances One Year into COVID-19As the COVID-19 pandemic rages on here, we have recently been feeling "the pinch" financially, and it got me thinking about how and why this is happening now. In this episode I dive into our experience of government support, job loss, being caught between having to paying for childcare but unable to work, and lots of other complicating factors that have led us to one of the most financially precarious moments in our lives. Let me know your thoughts on this one, and know that I feel for you if you are also experiencing difficulties due to the pandemic...2021-04-1935 minLook at this Mess!More on NeurodivergenceTwo weeks ago I had a topic of discussion in mind, but...then my brain did its thing and the once hot on my mind topic grew cold. In this episode I run through some of the ways my brain functions a bit differently, and illustrate how this can have some detrimental effects. Maybe you will see yourself in some of the things I describe, and it will help you feel less alone. Maybe explaining things this way will help you see someone in your life differently, and you can empathize with them a little more. Fair warning, it...2021-04-1238 minLook at this Mess!Our Engagement and Wedding Story!I took a poll in my Instagram about the topic for this week and y'all wanted to hear about our wedding! So, here you go! I went through it ALL, at least everything I could think of. What do you think - does our engagement/wedding scream 'unconventional' to you?! Let me know! You can reach me in the following ways:lookatthismesspod (Instagram)lookatthismesspod.wordpress.comarchykait@gmail.comUntil next timexox Kait2021-04-0649 minLook at this Mess!Confronting Institutionalized Sexism + why men need to step upIn this episode, I run through an experience I had with our banking institution in which I believe I was subjected to casual sexism. I discuss what this experience was like for me, and us as a family, and then tie this experience into the broader problem that other women face as well. If you have thoughts on this or a story you would like to share on the podcast, you can reach me in the following ways:lookatthismesspod.wordpress.comlookatthismesspod (Instagram)archykait@gmail.com2021-03-2926 minLook at this Mess!Parenting Battles and tips to stop them in their tracksWe all have times we have engaged in a "battle" with our kids and reflected on it wondering how we got there, how it got so bad etc. In this episode I discuss one particular battle we ended up in with our kids around food, and detailing how I attempted to engage in some damage control and the conversations we had following the encounter. I also offer my feelings on the pattern of rewarding ourselves/our kids with desserts only after eating the "nutritious" stuff first. Give it a listen and let me know your thoughts! You can reach...2021-03-2229 minLook at this Mess!My Time Management Strategies...(or lack thereof)A friend submitted a request a long time ago to explain how I manage my time/schedule and balance all of the competing components of my life. The bottom line is that I am very very imperfect at it. I fail at it a lot, and in this episode I explain that, as well as the repercussions it has/has had on my life. I can manage other people's lives easily, but mine... not so much. It's not all doom and gloom, but there is often a lot to confront where it concerns an inability to manage your own...2021-03-1628 minLook at this Mess!It's Time to "Cancel" Cancel Culture: A Deep Dive into the Harmfulness of Cancel CultureIn this episode, I take a deep dive into how Cancel Culture works (and doesn't), and how I feel about it "running rampant" culturally. The practice seems to be doing more harm than good; in my view, we can and arguably should be using many of these situations to focus on accountability, redress, and holding space for people to grow. I am specifically focusing on the Racism recently exposed within the "Bachelor Nation" and how one ex-contestant is being "Cancelled", which is further fuelling Racist tropes etc. I would love to know your thoughts on this one! You can...2021-03-0849 minLook at this Mess!My shifting mindset re. Breast Implants.My best physical asset unequivocally per-kids was my breasts. They have been on a quite a journey over the past few years, and so has my mindset and attachment to them. In particular, my feelings on breast augmentation/implants has changed a lot. Do you have implants? How do you feel about getting/not getting them? Let me know! You can reach me at:lookatthismesspod (Instagram)lookatthismesspod.wordpress.comarchykait@gmail.com2021-03-0118 minLook at this Mess!Is TikTok my new best friend??My whole life I have been told that my controversial views are not appreciated. Quite literally overnight TikTok has pushed a couple of my videos that deal with diversity and I am discovering a large community of people who are supportive and encouraging to keep going. My primary question here is: Should I be talking about this on the pod?? Let me know! You can reach me at:archykait@gmail.comlookatthismesspod (Instagram)lookatthispod.wordpress.comUntil next time,xox Kait 2021-02-2225 minLook at this Mess!Emotional Intelligence, Covid's impact on daycare, and some other random thoughtsThis episode was recorded and released late, so it is a bit random and deals with multiple topics. I primarily focus on how I deal with my kids being in emotionally distressing situations - applying RIE principles, focusing on emotional intelligence, and allowing my sense of pragmatism to be my guide. I share a few other thoughts that popped in my head as I went. Hope you enjoy! You can reach me in the following ways:lookatthismesspod (Instagram)lookatthismesspod.wordpress.comarchykait@gmail.comUntil next time,xox Kait2021-02-1726 minLook at this Mess!Is it Mental Illness? Maybe it's Feelings.In this episode I discuss my experience as an individual with a history of mental illness, sharing my normal emotional irregularities on social media. We have entered an age on social media where we are encouraged to show up as our authentic selves - including sharing more of our emotional range. We are also at a stage socially where we are opening up about mental health struggles - sometimes I feel that normal, temporary emotional turbulence can be confused with a much more serious mental illness. As always, this is just my own experience and viewpoint; please feel free...2021-02-0837 minLook at this Mess!Assigning value to ourselves and our unique skillsIn this episode I am confronting my lack of confidence in the skills I have built through my education and professional career. Taking leaves from work to have babies and be in school have led to some stagnation in my career. This has impacted my ability to see the value in myself, and confidently put myself out there to secure a good quality job. If you have thoughts or feelings about this or have a story you would like to tell, the best ways to reach me are:archykait@gmail.comlookatthismesspod (Instagram)lookatthismesspod.wordpress.com2021-02-0125 minLook at this Mess!Thoughts on Public EducationAs a follow-up to my last episode - and fuelled a little by and Instagram rant ;) - I discuss my views on education, how I plan to approach formal public education with my children, and my take on starting post-secondary education immediately after public school. If you have a story you'd like to share on the pod, or just have thoughts you'd like to share, you can reach me in the following ways:archykait@gmail.comlookatthismesspod (Instagram)lookatthismesspod.wordpress.comUntil next time!xoxo Kait2021-01-2535 minLook at this Mess!My Story: Living with ADHD and a Learning DisabilityI was diagnosed as a child with ADHD and a severe Learning Disability in Math. In this episode I discuss what the diagnostic process looked like, what it all means, and how I've coped throughout my life as a student with Learning Disabilities. As always, you can find me at:archykait@gmail.comlookatthismesspod (Instagram)lookatthismesspod.wordpress.comUntil next timexox Kait2021-01-1837 minLook at this Mess!MinimalismIn this episode I discuss my approach to minimalism, and the benefits we have noticed from adopting this philosophy. We find our lives are less stressful, our stuff is more manageable, and we definitely spend less money! If you have questions, comments, or anything else you'd like to share, you can contact me in the following ways:lookatthismesspod (Instagram)lookatthismesspod.wordpress.comarchykait@gmail.com2021-01-1125 minLook at this Mess!Year in review: 2020My year in review, and plans for 2021!2021-01-0430 minLook at this Mess!Talking to children about sexualityBuilding a strong foundation for discussing sexuality with our kids is essential. In this episode I outline what I find most important to begin discussing with our children in order to build up this foundation and lead to further conversations, including naming genitals, bodily autonomy, and consent. I highlight two books I have regularly used to facilitate these conversations with my kids; What Makes a Baby by Cory Silverberg and Girl Sex 101 by Allison Moon. If you want to reach me with questions/comments, you can do so in the following ways:lookatthismesspod (Instagram)lookatthismesspod.wordpress.comarchykait@gmail...2020-12-2929 minLook at this Mess!Parenting through emotional turbulenceIn this episode I talk about the parenting philosophy I have been implementing for a few years now - RIE (Resources for Infant Educarers), and some of the ways I implement this philosophy. I walk through my personal visualization for handling my children's heightened emotional states, and I discuss some of the emotional things I am working through with my kids. I referenced Janet Lansbury in this episode, and she has a podcast called Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled, and she is also the author of two books titled Elevating Childcare: A Guide to Respectful Parenting and No Bad...2020-12-2130 minLook at this Mess!GIVEAWAY!I am getting into the holiday spirit over here, and decided to offer a giveaway to help brighten someones day. To enter:Write a review of the pod on Apple Podcasts ORShare content from lookatthismesspod (Instagram)You can share any content from the page!What you will win:A $25 coffee gift card (to an establishment of your choosing, as far as I am able to)A book of your choosing, up to a value of $75! Name the book and I will order it and have it shipped to you!Enter by December 20th, 2020. W...2020-12-0803 minLook at this Mess!Self pleasure & sex after kids!Fair warning: this episode contains a lot of intimate detail about my personal journey with self pleasure, and some details about my sexual relationship with my husband. In this episode I discuss what my journey with masturbation has been like, how using toys changed my life, and some of the ways we keep things hot and fresh as a long term couple with small children! The takeaway for this episode is that we can all benefit from self pleasure and getting to know our bodies. And, if you are late to the game, you are not alone! Please feel...2020-12-0735 minLook at this Mess!What does it mean to be "in shape"? A look at fitness through the Health at Every Size lens.I wanted to further explore the idea of "being in shape", a phrase I had used in my previous episode, because I felt it was ambiguous and fraught with assumptions. In preparation for this episode I read the book Body Respect by Linda Bacon and Lucy Aphramor, which deals with misconceptions around fatness and health. I offer commentary on the books core concepts, and how fitness relates to the field of archaeology. Bottom line: the notion of being in shape does not mean one has to conform to a particular shape or size! Contact me at:l...2020-11-3027 minLook at this Mess!An ode to not climbing the ladder - yetIn this episode I discuss how one becomes an archaeologist in the field (it is simpler than you may imagine), and the basics of different positions within the industry. I also discuss some of the ways I view my career path, particularly as a mother of young children, at this point in time. Ultimately, what I am advocating for in this episode is taking a time to step back and evaluate where you are, where you want to go, and how you may work to get there. If you would like to reach me with questions, input, or to...2020-11-2431 minLook at this Mess!Polyamory and the importance of looking inward with guest Taryn Spence: Part 2In part two of my conversation with Taryn she outlines some of the ups and downs of coming out as poly to her family, gaining some media attention, and how feminism interacts with polyamory generally. If you would like to contact Taryn you can do so through me; alternatively, if would like to contact me for any other reason you can do so in the following ways:lookatthismesspod.wordpress.comlookatthismesspod (Instagram)archykait@gmail.comIf you are living on your own alternative path that you would like to share about, please feel free to contact me to...2020-11-161h 07Look at this Mess!Polyamory and the importance of looking inward with guest Taryn Spence: Part 1In this first guest episode my friend Taryn charts her path through polyamory with her young family, including her first experience falling in love with a woman. The conversation centres around on the self work involved in learning to navigate a poly life, and relationships in general. This episode is part 1 of 2. If you have thoughts to share on this topic, previous episodes, or you would like to request a topic, you can reach me in the following ways:lookatthismesspod.wordpress.comlookatthismesspod (Instagram)archykait@gmail.comIf you would like to contact Taryn directly please reach out...2020-11-101h 26Look at this Mess!Living and Loving the Messy MiddlePursuing a career while having and raising small children (and completing a Master's degree), has presented many challenges (unsurprising), especially in the field of Cultural Resource Management Archaeology. In this episode I walk through my path thus far and discuss some of my frustrations with this particular industry with respect to the structural barriers to primary caregivers. In a follow-up episode I will carry this discussion forward, focusing on prioritization and being a poor capitalist ;) Look for that one in a few weeks! As always, if you'd like to reach me you can do so in the following ways:2020-11-0228 minLook at this Mess!Upon reflection...We all make mistakes! Mistakes are a great growth opportunity. I realized I had used some problematic language in an early episode, so I am adding this bonus episode to address the error and give a brief explanation as to why it is problematic. Let me know if you have thoughts here:lookatthismesspod.wordpress.comlookatthismesspod (Instagram)archykait@gmail.com2020-10-2703 minLook at this Mess!Fitness at home: Strategies to adaptEver since I started making fitness a priority, I have always made use of a gym. But what can we do when we do not have access to a gym space? In my case, this is related to broad business closures across the country this year; but perhaps you are not in a position to afford a gym membership, or are too scared to join a gym. In this episode I run through some of the ways I have adapted my fitness routine to being solely home-based. I offer a few simple ways to get regular daily movement in...2020-10-2625 min
The Pop Cult EX-perienceHocus PocusSend us a textWe invoked the power of three for this episode when K chatted with Jennifer Mulligan and Kait Kenel: 1 screenwriter, 1 archaeologist, & 1 archaeogenetics student studying abroad. It was a chat about Halloween and spooky fiction in general: costumes, local traditions, movies, stories. We talked about what Halloween is for us culturally and personally, about bringing kids up to enjoy the spooky things. Then, given what Kait and K do for a living, there was a dive into recounting some of our own more haunting encounters. We’re all changing things up given the pandemic, bu...2020-10-201h 09Look at this Mess!Dear Tesla: Thanks, but no thanks.In a world where cars dominate, we must continue to seriously evaluate our dependence on them and some of the negative ramifications of that dependency. In this episode I am covering my top 4 reasons why cars are harmful (yes, including the much beloved electric vehicle), followed by a discourse on some of the typical arguments made against supporting other types of transit. Have a listen and if you have something you would like to add to the conversation, you can reach me in the following ways:lookatthismesspod.wordpress.com @lookatthismesspod (Instagram) archykait@gmail.com2020-10-1928 minLook at this Mess!Solo Travel & Dating YourselfIn this episode I review a little local getaway I took, and discuss the reasons why I chose to get away alone, where I ended up staying (and why). I also discuss the concept of "masturdating" and how much I value doing activities alone. Plus, I go into detail about my first date as a second grader (haha) and my views on going to the movies alone. Come along and share any thoughts you have about solo travel and dating yourself!Follow along at:@lookatthismesspod (Instagram)lookatthismesspod.wordpress.comEmail archykait@gmail.com to subscribe to the mailing list!2020-10-1229 minLook at this Mess!School & CoronavirusI wanted to have an episode that discussed the complex situation that many parents are facing at this time - in school or virtual learning? What led us to make our decision? How long will it last? Benefits? I go through a long list of concerns and realities of having a child in school during these crazy times - a reality that I plan to revisit soon-ish as we expect things will change in the not so distant future.Follow along at:@lookatthismesspod (Instagram)lookatthismesspod.wordpress.comEmail archykait@gmail.com to subscribe to the mailing list!2020-10-1221 minLook at this Mess!Is the Future Female, tho?In this episode I explore my journey to better understand the ways that patriarchy keeps us in our boxes, and focus specifically on raising my son as a feminist/anti-patriarchy. I questions how my son (and boys in general) fit into the modern understanding of feminism, and the ways patriarchy uniquely impacts him/them. While there is much work to be done with respect to supporting women and girls, I argue that there is similarly a lot of work ahead of us in getting at the true meaning of gender equality, including recognizing that gender goes beyond the binary.2020-10-1228 minLook at this Mess!IntroductionsThis episode gives an overview of the reasons why I decided to launch a podcast and some of the topics of discussion that will come up throughout the life of the podcast. I will offer a content warning here and let you know that this episode briefly deals with sexuality, masturbation, and sexual anatomy. Follow along at@lookatthismesspod (Instagram)lookatthismesspod.wordpress.comEmail archykait@gmail.com to subscribe to the mailing list!2020-10-1211 minLook at this Mess!TrailerIf you would like to follow along with the pod on other platforms you can:Visit https://lookatthismesspod.wordpress.com/Subscribe to the email list, through the above site or by contacting me (Kait) at archykait@gmail.comFollow @lookatthismesspod on Instagram!2020-10-0803 min