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The Unraveled LifeEpisode 35 - Unraveling Pleasure with Kait ScalisiSex educator and pleasure coach Kait Scalisi joins us on this episode to talk about what pleasure is (turns out, it’s not just about sex), all the different facets of pleasure, and how to have more of it. We talked about pleasure as a revolutionary act and a daily practice. It’s a juicy one! --RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE: * Kait’s website: https://passionbykait.com/IF YOU ENJOY THE UNRAVELED LIFE PODCAST… Please give it a 5-star rating and review! I would really appreciate it because this helps more...2024-03-091h 11
Honeydew Me112. Your Shameless Guide To Role PlayHalloween is fast approaching and this year we are ON THEME. We're revisiting role play and diving even deeper with expert tips, personal stories, LOTS of research, and input from our lovely listeners. We chat about:
What role play is
Judging your fantasies and desires
Benefits of role play
Working through embarrassment, nervousness, or shame
Planning and set up
Talking with your partner
Specific scenarios
Experts Featured:Kait Scalisi, @passionbykaitLala Loves, @lalasbedtimetales Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices2022-10-2654 min
The SpaceComparison is the thief of great sexIt’s normal to compare your sex life to everyone from your mates to strangers. But research shows that comparing your sex life can damage your own libido and distort how you view your relationship. We’re going to teach you how to stop comparing your sex-ploits – using advice from sex coach and educator Kait Scalisi. LINKS Read ‘Is Comparison the Thief of Joy? Sexual Narcissism and Social Comparisons in the Domain of Sexuality.’ Day, L. C., Muise, A., & Impett, E.A. (2017) Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 43(2), 233–244 Read ‘How to Avoid Comparing Your Sex Life to Others’ by Kai...2022-04-2703 min
Your Gay Big Sis with Katie HaanQueer Dating Shows & “Settling”I just finished Are You the One? Season 8 and booooy do I have some thoughts… I answer some of your questions and Kait Scalisi, our resident sexpert, tackles your hard-hitting Q’s. LINKS MENTIONED: https://passionbykait.com/adult-toys-102-other-great-sex-toy-materials/ ✨
https://passionbykait.com/shop-sex-toys/ ✨ https://passionbykait.com/askkait-is-sexual-orientation-fluid/ ✨
https://passionbykait.com/are-all-women-bi/2021-11-0337 minYour Gay Big Sis with Katie HaanAsk a Sexpert! With Kait Scalisi—Ep. 9Today I am joined by the incomparable sex coach and founder of Passion by Kait…KAIT SCALISI! (@passionbykait)✨ We’re talking sex, communication, and tackling your q’s together! Kait’s upcoming workshop: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZAudeuurjktGNSqf_2RJ76RvT1UcJNePS9K ✨ Folks/ material mentioned: 1) The Sex Myth by Rachel Hills 2) Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski 3) Laura Beth Wenger on instagram https://www.instagram.com/p/CUYlPQdM2bR/?utm_medium=copy_link 4) Rosemary Basson’s model of sexual desire 5) GIRL BONER podcast by August McLaughlin2021-10-2051 min
Honeydew MeRole-Play: Take Your Sex Life To The Next LevelAll aboard honeys, we’re headed to imagination station. Kait Scalisi is here and we’re talking ROLE-PLAY. Whether you’re working through intimidation (aka the thought of role-play makes you v nervy) or you’re struggling to find a scenario that feels “authentic” to you, this episode has your back bb. Sponsor: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices2021-09-221h 02
Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesBody Sounds During Sex: Sorry/Not SorrySex is supposed to be noisy, unless silence is part of the fun or something you need for privacy. But what if a particular sound or bodily function makes you feel beyond embarrassed? Or if a partner hasn’t exactly welcomed your sounds? This Girl Boner Radio episode features: An “OMG” sex story from Olivia, a professional dancer and Co-Creative Director for Colors Only erotica books Ways to degasify beans, with August’s mom A throwback clip on sex sounds with Passion by Kait founder, Kait Scalisi, MPH Dr. Megan Fleming’s thoughts for...2021-07-2124 min
On the Business of SexObstaclesJoin Reba as she learns about the unique obstacles that professionals in the business of sex are faced with..On The Business of Sex Podcast:@onthebusinessofsex Website: https://www.onthebusinessofsex.com/Goodreads book list: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/128635372-on-the-business-of-sex-podcast Studio & Producers:Switch and Board- @switchandboard http://switchandboard.com/ Host & Producer:Reba Corrine Thomas- CEO @sex...2021-07-121h 28
Something Even BetterPre-SEB: The big lie: “Only business coaches make money”What’s something I hear from my clients WAY too often? “Only business coaches can make money!”But that’s a big lie! Today you’ll hear from four coaches who have made good money in non-business niches. If you want to expand your mindset and create the belief that EVERY coach can make good money, this episode is for you!Our guest coaches:A former weight loss coach who was making 6 figures before shifting to business coaching. She talks about the identity shift required to become the coach who creates a consistent, sustainabl...2021-06-2832 min
You Sound Like a GirlFrom the vagina dentata to pleasure activismIn this episode, we speak with Valentina Ortiz Pandolfi & Kait Scalisi about the myth of the Vagina Dentata and the connection between the voice and sexuality. Valentina shares a traditional story from the Ponca tribe & sex educator Kait of Passion by Kait weighs in.
Note: You Sound Like a Girl acknowledges that not all women have vaginas & that genitals do not equal gender. This episode will focus on folks with vaginas, but as always, You Sound Like a Girl invites cis & trans women, as well as non-binary & gender non-conforming people who are...2021-05-2059 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesGetting the Sex You Want, with Kait Scalisi, MPHIf you’ve struggled to ask for what you want sexually or aren’t even sure what to aim for, you are far from alone. Kait Scalisi, MPH, founder of Passion by Kait, grew up in a household where no conversation topics were taboo, but conflict was. She now helps others find freedom in pleasure. A few things you’ll learn about in this episode: Positive versus negative messages about sex and conflict Kait absorbed growing up Kait’s advice for figuring out what you actually want in bed Kait’s thoughts on listeners...2021-05-0531 min
How This WorksKait ScalisiThis episode of How This Works addresses adult subject matters and contains adult language.
This week, Skipper chats with Kait Scalisi, a certified sex educator who founded Passion by Kait. They engage in a wide-ranging conversation that explores so many areas — including shame, communication, and how pleasure is really powerful as a healing force.
And there's so much under the surface as well, like how some people carry their disabilities in plain sight, the concept of accessible design, how she started doing this work, how with sex there's no such thing as "normal", a lightweight formula around how to talk ab...2021-04-061h 00
About IBDLeaning Into Pleasure With Passion by KaitDuring times of stress, our personal relationships may suffer. In the pandemic, we are finding ourselves spending a lot of time with those in our households, and for couples, that can start to take a toll. Certified sex educator Kait Scalisi, founder of Passion By Kait, shares her knowledge and experience as a neuroscientist, public health professional, and couples' counselor to help us understand how to better manage our relationships during the pandemic and beyond. Concepts discussed on this episode: Sexy Truth or Dare Pick A Stick How to Be a Good Partner During Quarantine How...2021-02-0842 min
12 - Honouring female sexuality12. MultipleEpisode 12 explores the magical multiple orgasm. Expect to learn about super orgasmic women and edging. This episode also explores the world of yoni and jade eggs. And, as always, find out what happened when H and I had a go. It’s a cracker!
References
'The Super Orgasm'? on All 4: https://www.channel4.com/programmes/the-super-orgasm?cntsrc=social_share_ios_the_super_orgasm
What happens to our bodies during sex? - WebMD https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/features/sexual-response-cycle#1 (https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/features/sexual-response-cycle#1)
Layla Martin on Jade Eggs https://youtu.be/0mg7RTbE-RY (https://youtu.be/0mg7RT...2020-07-0300 min
Doing The MostLiving a Pleasure Positive Life with Kait Scalisi from Passion By KaitOnly two episodes in, and we are getting spicy! My guest today is Kait Scalisi. She has her MPH and is a certified sex educator, pleasure activist, and the founder of Passion By Kait. She harnesses her science education, social justice insight, and radical empathy to empower folks and integrate pleasure into their lives and relationships in ways that are both practical and powerful. Tune in to hear Kait, and I talk about pleasure, happiness, and health.2020-04-1747 min
Doing The MostDoing The Most S4 Ep 02 - Living a Pleasure Positive Life with Kait Scalisi from Passion By KaitShow Notes and Links Available at:https://gsdwithgeorgie.com/2020/04/16/living-a-pleasure-positive-life-with-kait-scalisi-from-passion-by-kait/
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S.W.E.L.L. PlayRoomMastering the Bater - Ep 5.4This month our segment is entitled: “Mastering the Bater!!” Hmmm, though it sounds like it’s for the men, it really doesn’t have to be.
We’ll explore
• What & how do we masturbate?
• Benefits of masturbating
• Kinky play with masturbating
• Toys that help –Guests: Passion by Kait (Scalisi) & Sonia M Benson
• Relationship impact
Guests: Passion by Kait (Scalisi) & Sonia M Benson
We’ll chat!!2019-08-0354 min
Wise Woman Podcast25: The Power of Pleasure Kait ScalisiKait Scalisi, MPH, is a sex educator and advocate for the revolutionary power of pleasure—inside the bedroom and out. Through her public workshops, private counselling, and online platform Passion By Kait, she harnesses her science education, social justice insight, and radical empathy to empower folx to get more in tune with their bodies, discover what brings them pleasure, and integrate it into their lives and relationships in ways that are both practical and powerful. Learn more and find #freedominpleasure at PassionbyKait.com, Instagram and Twitter @PassionbyKait, and Facebook www.facebook.com/PassionbyKait.2019-07-0139 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesEmbarrassing Sex ProblemsSex sounds, bloating, faking orgasms and more! Most everyone feels embarrassed during sex at some point. Thankfully, it doesn't have to be a buzzkill. August is joined by Kait Scalisi, MPH of Passion by Kait to explore listeners’ embarrassing sex problems and ways to move past shame and into pleasure. Then August Dr. Megan Fleming weigh in for a listener who’s been faking orgasms, in part because she hasn’t yet learned how to orgasm with someone with a small penis. Check out “Girl Boner” and “Girl Boner Journal” at augustmclaughlin.com/books! Shop for fun sex to...2019-05-2359 minS.W.E.L.L. PlayRoomP.E. - Ep 2.4 We’ll explore
•What exactly is pre-mature ejaculation and who are the sufferers?
•What is PFT – Pelvic Floor Therapy and its benefits?
•What does having P.E. mean to one’s health?
•What’re some toys that can circumvent P.E.?
•Find out how to rid or curb your lover of P.E?
Special Guests: Kait Scalisi - Passion by Kait & Sonia M. Benson - Bedroom Kandi
Health, #bedroomkandi, #c-ring, #eggs, #ejaculation, #kait-scalisi, #kegel, #marcia-chambers, #men, #passionbykait, #pe, #prematureejaculation, #sex, #soniambenson, #speak2mc, #speakermc, #swellforwomen, #toys, #women2019-05-1140 min
About IBDI Just Said YesLiving with Crohn’s disease or ulcerative colitis may have a significant affect on intimate relationships. The reasons for this are as individual as we are but can include pain, fatigue, medication side effects, and problems with body image. Kait Scalisi, an NYC-based sex educator who founded Passion by Kait, has devoted her professional life to helping women and couples learn to reconnect with themselves and their partner in order to enhance intimacy and reconnect with pleasure. Kait lives with Crohn’s disease and ankylosing spondylitis, and therefore has a deep understanding of how chronic conditions can affect intimate relationships (both...2019-05-0735 min
Find Your Feminine FireFreedom in Pleasure with Kait Scalisi, MPHListen in to this episode as we dive into what freedom in pleasure means, passionate monogamy and the true key to keeping the spark alive in monogamous relationships, why our conversations about self-love need to be expanded in both directions & what that looks like, sex toys and more! Kait Scalisi, MPH is a sex educator and the founder of Passion by Kait, an award-winning resource for women and couples who crave a sex life that’s as intimate, exciting, and fulfilling as the rest of their relationship. Kait’s affirming writing, workshops, and one-on-one counseling help...2018-07-1734 min
Chronic Sex PodcastPassion by Kait with Kait ScalisiToday, I'm talking with my chronically fabulous twin, Kait Scalisi! You can find her at PassionbyKait.com, facebook.com/PassionbyKait, twitter.com/passionbykait, and instagram.com/passionbykait. Make sure to stop by passionbykait.com/speaking-events to snag a ticket to the amazing workshop mentioned in the episode happening on February 1st in NYC.
All music in the episode was from Poddington Bear. You can support the show at patreon.com/chronicsex or visit chronicsex.org/support to learn how else you can help (including podcast transcriptions!).2018-01-2400 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesBetter Sex + Emotional TriggersHungry for hotter sex? The secret may have little to do with actual sex. Kait Scalisi, MPH of PassionbyKait.com joins August to explore contextual keys to better sex, coping with emotional triggers, potential perks of anal play, sexy gifts and more! Dr. Megan Fleming replies to a listener whose partner’s BDSM style reminds her of her abusive ex, triggering embodied trauma. For occasional Girl Boner® extras, sign up for email updates at augustmclaughlin.com. 2017-11-301h 00Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesFeeling Sexy + Keeping Sparks AliveDesire, guybrators, fantasies! August shares highlights from her NYC chat with sex therapist Dr. Megan Fleming and sex educator Kait Scalisi, MPH. Learn practical and surprising ways to feel sexier, simple ways to cultivate emotional intimacy with your partner on a daily basis, the most important reason to reignite your Girl Boner and what some sex-perts fantasize about. You'll also hear about the PULSE III Duo, a vibrator for penis masturbation and couple play! For episode extras, including a discount code for the toy, visit augustmclaughlin.com.2017-06-0841 min
Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesPassionate MonogamySpicy pleasure should carry on! Learn simple ways to keep a monogamous relationship hot, plus thoughts on "normal" sex frequency and circumcision, as August chats with sex educator Kait Scalisi, MPH. Dr. Megan Fleming answers a listener's Q on sexless marriage.2016-08-1152 min
Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesHealing From Abuse and Stopping "Slut" Shaming August McLaughlin interviews actress Sophie Ullett on healing from sexual abuse and slut-shaming—why it happens and how we can stop it. Sex educator Kait Scalisi, MPH answers a question from a listener who loves sexting, but whose boyfriend is feels it's risky. You'll also hear a teaser from UnSlut: A Documentary Film, directed by Emily Linden. #GirlBoner #UnSlut2015-08-1343 min
Sex Gets Real with Dawn SerraSex Gets Real 16: Kait Scalisi on sex and illnessKait Scalisi of Passion by Kait joins Dawn and Dylan to talk about sex when you or a loved one are dealing with chronic illness, such as cancer or diabetes. Plus, self-care to feel sexy, wet pussies and the importance of lube, and passionate monogamy. You know we love hearing from you, so here's how to reach us. Call or text: 747-444-1840 (standard messaging rates apply) Email: info@sexgetsreal.com Contact form: Sex Gets Real website (anonymous submissions accepted)2014-07-2052 min