Kandace Lecocq & Callie Troyer

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Adoption Hacks78. Q&A with Kandace and CallieKandace and Callie answer listener questions in this season 4 FINALE! We talk attachment, 2nd adoptions, how covid is impacting the adoption world, talking with siblings about adoption details and much more! Thank you to all of our listeners this season, we so appreciate the support and community! Find Us: instagram.com/adoptionhacks facebook.com/adoptionhacks --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/adoptionhacks/support 2021-08-1641 min

Adoption Hacks77. Post Adoption Guilt and Anxiety with Cara PeperThis is such an important topic! Todays guest is Cara Peper. It was so wonderful to get to chat with Cara, she’s an adoptive mom of 2 little ones. as you’ll hear she’s so honest and vulnerable about her story. Something that I know I didn’t anticipate after placement was post placement guilt and anxiety. We’ve talked this show before about post placement depression but this is a little different. And we’re going to get into what it is, and if its something you are experiencing I hope this helps you know you are not alone.&n...2021-06-2940 min

Adoption Hacks76. Gift of Adoption Grant with Sharon KomlofskeOn todays show we are talking with Sharon from Gift of Adoption. Gift of Adoption (GOA) is a national charity that provides grants to complete the adoptions of vulnerable children – giving them permanent families and the chance to thrive. Founded in 1996, GOA is celebrating 25 years, $11.5 million in adoption funding and 3,900 children home for good (as of June 2021). If you are new to this adoption world there are usually so many questions surrounding fundraising and adoption grants, so we wanted to talk with an organization to hear how it works, what are they looking for, and ho...2021-06-2331 min

Adoption Hacks75. Both Hands with JT OlsenToday on the show, Kandace interviews JT Olsen, founder and executive director of Both Hands. Both Hands helps families fundraise for their adoption by coordinating a service project fixing up a widow's home. Their mission is to fulfill James 1:27 by serving widows, orphans and adoptive families simultaneously. If you are fundraising fr an adoption, this is a must listen! Hear the heart behind this organization and get inspired to do your own project. And even if you are not currently fundraising, this episode is wrth the listen to hear JT's own story of loss and how...2021-06-1034 min

Adoption Hacks74. Navigating the Unexpected with Kasi PruittKasi Pruitt is with us today and WOW it is so incredible to hear her adoption journey and her perspective. She is a mom of 5, soon to be 6 kids. In this episode we talk about navigating unknowns. What do we do when life looks different from what we imagined? Maybe that is medical needs or simply starting an adoption in the middle of a pandemic. Most adoptions at some point hit things we just did not expect. Kasi talks us through what that was like for her family and walks us through some things she has learned along the...2021-05-0550 min

Adoption Hacks73. Adoption Profile Book Advice with Kindred + Co.On this episode we have some very practical and helpful advice about profile books from the amazing Kindred + Co. Team! Profile books are used by domestic infant adoptive parents and it can be overwhelming to know how to create one of these books and what you should and shouldn’t include. So Hannah Eloge and Jessie Mattos are here to walk us through it all! Kindred + Co. creates modern, custom adoption profile books for prospective adoptive parents. Kindred + Co. was the first profile book provider to have a birth mom on their team that educates clients on la...2021-04-0728 min

Adoption Hacks72. Now I Am Known with Peter MutabaziAs a child Peter Mutabazi ran away from an abusive home and was helped by the kindness of strangers. As an adult he found himself in a position of being able to help foster children, so he began taking children into his home years ago to give back what was so freely given to him. It's his mission to give back as much as he can to the vulnerable among us. That's what drives Now I Am Known: to bring a message of hope to the hopeless, the same message Peter needed so badly to hear as a...2021-03-3040 min

Adoption Hacks71. Ethics in Adoption with Whitney RunyonThis week we get to talk with Whitney Runyon from The Archibald Project! Whitney and her husband are adoptive parents who are passionate about empowering others to care for orphaned and vulnerable children. In this episode we get to hear Whitney’s personal adoption story and what the Archibald Project is and how it began. Then we dive into a deep discussion of ethics in adoption. What can we do as prospective and current adoptive parents to ensure that we are promoting ethical adoptions? What are some of the typical ethical downfalls in this process and how ca...2021-03-2336 min

Adoption Hacks70. Adoption Books with Lanaya GrahamLanaya Graham is with us this week! And of course we are talking about BOOKS! You may know Lanaya from her instagram account @adoption.books where she shares her honest, detailed book reviews- not just recommendations. She speaks out about how the complexities of adoption really need to be reflected in Children’s books, and that adoptees need appropriate representation in literature. Her reviews include children’s literature, biographies, and adoptive parenting books. Resources Mentioned in Episode: Adoptee Reading: http://adopteereading.com/ Frankie and Friends Talk Adoption by Pam Kroskie Motherbridge of Love by Xinran Growing Grace by Erin Mason Star o...2021-03-1654 min

Adoption Hacks69. Play Heals with Michelle BattenMichelle Batten is with us this week to talk about the Power of Play! Michelle is a TBRI® Educator, SSP Practitioner, and ACPI Parenting Coach. Michelle is a a trauma responsive parenting coach who helps exhausted adoptive and foster parents explore needs behind difficult behavior, find hope again, and bring healing to their family. In this episode we discuss the the healing power of play time with our children. What happens in our child's brain while we play and some practical games and tools to build in connection times to our daily lives. 2021-03-0929 min

Adoption Hacks68. Loving Well with Ligia CushmanWe talk about EVERYTHING in this episode! Whatever stage of adoption you are in, this episode has something for you. Ligia shares her personal story of loss and how it led to adoption. We also discuss what it's like to adopt as a person of color and finding community. Ligia shares where things stand with racial justice and the adoption community and what the future of trainings could look like. And she talks about personal stories of her adoption journey and how we can love our children well. Check out Ligia's website and book here: 2021-03-0223 min

Adoption Hacks11. Attachment Help with Kandace and Callie - Part 2Check out Part 1 from yesterday! Co-hosts Kandace and Callie have recorded the podcast they wish they had in the early days of adoption! The goals of attachment are to create a connection, build trust and let the child know they are safe, understood and their needs are being met. We go through many different ways to ease in connection and attachment through Eye Contact, Physical Touch, Closeness, Language, Food, Smells and Sleep.We want this episode to give you hope that attachment is a journey with ebbs and flows and provide you with very...2020-12-0200 min

Adoption Hacks10. Attachment Help with Kandace and Callie - Part 1Co-hosts Kandace and Callie have recorded the podcast they wish they had in the early days of adoption! The goals of attachment are to create a connection, build trust and let the child know they are safe, understood and their needs are being met. We go through many different ways to ease in connection and attachment through Eye Contact, Physical Touch, Closeness, Language, Food, Smells and Sleep.We want this episode to give you hope that attachment is a journey with ebbs and flows and provide you with very very practical ways that we found helpful. 2020-12-0100 min

Adoption Hacks9. Advocating for Both Family Preservation and Adoption with Allie Haaz of Bethel ChinaAllie Haaz from Bethel China is with us today! Bethel China cares for children across China who are blind or have significant visual impairment. They provide preschool services and adoption advocacy for children who have been orphaned and therapy for families with visually impaired children so these families can receive education and support. Bethel is a great example of how we can advocate for family preservation and adoption at the same time. In this episode we discuss how Bethel is doing that and how we as adoptive families can do that as well. Facebook: https...2020-11-1700 min

Adoption Hacks8. The Connected Parent with Lisa QuallsMom of 12 through birth and adoption, Lisa Qualls, and late child-development expert Dr. Karyn Purvis provide practical advice and powerful tools to encourage secure attachment for adoptive and foster families in The Connected Parent: Real-Life Strategies for Building Trust and Attachment. The final written work of bestselling author Dr. Purvis, The Connected Parent includes insights from her decades of renowned clinical research devoted help children coming from hard places. Qualls, co-host of The Adoption Connection Podcast, demonstrates how readers can successfully implement these strategies taught by Dr. Purvis in their homes, just as she did in hers. After 22 years of...2020-11-1000 min

Adoption Hacks7. Foster Care: Birth Family Relationships with Bennett and Brittany ReynoldsIn this episode Callie interviews Foster/Adoptive Parents - Bennett and Brittany. They share their heart for foster children and their beautiful family story. We discuss how their view of parenthood has shifted, overcoming fears and navigating and valuing birth family relationships. This episode is Sponsored by The Mustard Seed Marketplace: The Mustard Seed Marketplace believes your purchases make a powerful impact! Whether it's providing jobs for overcomers of sex-trafficking, or supporting small businesses - they want you to be able to shop the causes that you care for most! They’re passionate about bringing yo...2020-11-0500 min

Adoption Hacks6. Transracial AdoptionTorie Dimartile is a doctoral student in Sociocultural Anthropology at Indiana University studying the impact of systemic racism on domestic transracial adoption and an advocate for racial justice in the Christian church. She herself is a transracial adoptee on a lifelong journey towards a healthy racial identity. In this episode we talk about the history of transracial adoptions and systematic racism in the US adoption industry. We also discuss how adoptive parents can prepare for their transracial adoptions and things to look for in agencies. Find Torie Here: https://wreckageandwonder.com ...2020-10-2700 min

Adoption Hacks5. Honey Clothing Company with Elizabeth McGlatheryIn this episode Callie interviews Elizabeth McGlathery about her company Honey Clothing Company. Elizabeth and her husband adopted a child from South Korea and during that time realized the need for single mother support in the country. Honey creates retro, stylish clothing and accessories and gives a portion of their proceeds to support Korean single mothers. In this episode you'll hear Elizabeth's adoption story, how Honey was created and advise for those wanting to start a small business that gives back. Listeners can get 20% off your next order from Honey by using the code ADOPTIONHACKS...2020-10-2000 min

Adoption Hacks4. Parenting Challenging Behaviors with Sonia MartinOn the show this week we have - Sonia Martin, LICSW, PIP, TBRI® PRACTITIONER from Lifeline Children Services. Sonia serves as Lifeline's Director in the Central Alabama area. She engages the central Alabama church community in implementing Families Count, birth mother support and services, and speaking to parents, professionals, Judges, DHR attorneys, & GAL’s at various conferences in the southeast on topics such as parenting kids from hard places and how to measure bonding and attachment in deciding best placement for children in foster care. Sonia is the mother of 7 teenage boys, 3 of which were adopted internationally and...2020-10-1300 min

Adoption Hacks3. Through Adopted Eyes with Elena HallIn this episode, Callie interviews Elena S. Hall, a Russian adoptee with a passion for adoption advocacy. Elena’s goal is to aid those in the adoption triad to promote healing and growth within the adoption community and empower readers to share their own stories. Elena is the author of 2 books which we discuss in this episode: Through Adopted Eyes which explores the world of adoption from the viewpoint of adoptees. Elena shares her own story and thoughts on the subject of adoption in addition to interviews from other adoptees of different ages, heritages, and perspectives. And Th...2020-10-0600 min

Adoption Hacks2. Fostering Success with Steven BenedictSteven Benedict is a Professional Track Athlete & Olympic Qualifier, Keynote Speaker, the founder of the Fostering Success Project, and Published Health Personality. In this episode Steven tells his story of growing up in the foster system, how that led to his running career and how he is now using his platform to come alongside foster children. His ongoing determination to his sport and companies runs parallel with his dedication to sharing a story that will inspire and highlight an oftentimes hidden reality. There are hundreds of thousands of adults and children like him who need to know that our experiences ar...2020-09-2947 min

Adoption Hacks1. TBRI in the Home with Brian TroyerWelcome to Season 4 of Adoption Hacks! This season the show will be hosted by both Kandace Lecocq and Callie Troyer! We will be taking turns interviewing guests and coming together to discuss topics. This season 4 debut episode features Callie's husband Brian who is a licensed marriage and family therapist and TBRI practitioner and an adoptive dad. He is with us today to discuss practical ways to incorporate TBRI in your home. Trust Based Relational Intervention is an incredible tool especially for parenting children from hard places. But sometimes it can be hard to see how the...2020-09-2241 min

Adoption HacksSeason 4 TrailerEXCITING NEWS! Callie Troyer is joining Kandace Lecocq as Co-Host for Season 4! We are coming together to highlight voices in our community and meet you where you are in your adoptive/foster journey! Season 4 Debuts September 22nd! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/adoptionhacks/support 2020-09-0100 min

Adoption HacksQ&A with Anthony LecocqKandace and her husband Anthony answer listener questions this week! We discuss what we wish we would've known before adopting, can you begin the adoption journey still having a lot of questions or fears? How to talk with friends or family who are unsupportive, what cocooning was like for us, a message for adoptive dads and more! That's a wrap on season 3! Thank you for your support/listens/messages/reviews! You make this podcast so fun to create! Follow Us on IG/FB @AdoptionHacks Email Us: Adoptionhacksinfo@gmail.com Music: DrummerBoy by Misterwives --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ad...2020-07-3027 min

Adoption HacksRacial Injustice in AdoptionSharday Dufresne is on the show this week to discuss racial issues inside of adoption. We discuss the history or racial injustices in adoption and agency practices, Saviorism, white privilege and adoptive parent privilege. We urge you to lean in and sit with these difficult topics... these conversations are crucial to our community. Sharday is a transracial adoptee who is inviting that voice within to rise up storyteller. She continues to champion and advocate for those in this triad community in hopes of gathering around the table to hear others stories rise up. She, her husband and two little gents l...2020-07-2348 min

Adoption HacksAdoptive Parents Role in the Adoptive Community w/ Ashley Mitchell (BigToughGirl)Ashley Mitchell, owner of Big Tough Girl and Founder + Executive Director of Lifetime Healing Foundation, set out to seek increased care, understanding, and resources for birth mothers. For over a decade, Ashley has been one of the most consistent and sought after birth mother voices in the nation. Entering in to the adoptive community can be overwhelming to new adoptive parents so on this episode Ashley and Kandace discuss how AP's can find your footing and role in these conversations. Ashley shares how she has seen this community grow through tension and difficult conversations. We discuss Adoptive Parent Privilege and wh...2020-07-1649 min

Adoption HacksNavigating UnknownsCallie Troyer is on the show this week to talk to us about navigating unknowns and possible developmental delays when reviewing a referral and bringing a child home. She shares her adoption story and the importance of surrounding yourself with adoption minded health professionals especially during the attachment season. Callie is an incredibly thoughtful and conscientious adoptive parent and advocate and it is refreshing to hear her perspective on many adoptive issues. You'll want to listen to this one! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/adoptionhacks/support 2020-07-0853 min

Adoption HacksPost Adoption DepressionAdoptive Mom Breaunna Stone is on the show this week to walk us through her experience with Post Adoption Depression. While it is becoming more common to hear about or have trainings regarding Post Adoption Depression, there is a huge need for more education and support. Breaunna had never heard of Post Adoption Depression before she adopted her baby, but a lapse in mental health led her to research and counseling to understand more about it. Breaunna tells her experience and offers incredibly practical exercises and tips. Listen to this episode if you are about to adopt, think you...2020-06-3049 min

Adoption HacksDebt Free Adoption + Burundi AdoptionWhen Alison Storm and her husband decided to adopt, remaining debt free was incredible important to them. But how can a family remain debt free with the overwhelming fees of adoption?! Alison is on the show this week to share many of her creative ideas for fundraising and funding an adoption. She also walks us through their Burundi Adoption, what that was like, how they managed being in a pilot program and the unpredictable wait, and what being home together is like now. Check out Alison's Podcast: "My Pleasure: The Unofficial Chick-Fil-A Podcast" Find...2020-06-2343 min

Adoption HacksTrauma ParentingAs adopted and Foster parents we need to be constantly educating ourselves about trauma. Not just in the training or pre-adoption stage. Once we are parenting a child who has had trauma, we are constantly trauma parenting so we need ongoing training and education. Steve Luther is the Executive Director and Founder of Grace Wellness Center, a Licensed Professional Counselor, a Therapeutic Parent Coach, a Certified Splankna Trauma Therapist and Trainer AND a foster and adoptive dad. He lives this through and through! In this episode he is going to walk us through the helpful...2020-06-0250 min

Adoption HacksAdoption In the News: Myka StaufferHeartbreaking and upsetting. Kandace discusses the complex issue of the Stauffers adoption dissolution. There are clear devastating decisions the family made that they need to be held accountable for. But it seems they were also undereducated, underprepared and unsupported. How can we in the adoption community keep this from happening to families? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/adoptionhacks/support 2020-05-2915 min

Adoption HacksThailand AdoptionInternational Adoption Spotlight: Thailand! This weeks guest, Lindsey Thompson and her husband adopted their son from Thailand a couple years ago, and now they are adopting siblings, also from Thailand. So with 3 children from Thai adoption, Lindsey has incredible amount of information and stories to share about the process. Adoption Hacks Host, Kandace and her husband have recently shifted their 2nd adoption from India to Thailand. During that process Lindsey was an incredible resource when finding more out about Thailand adoption. So of course Lindsey needed to come on the show and share with...2020-05-0535 min

Adoption HacksWhen You Run Out of Compassion as a ParentAll parents run out of empathy and compassion at some points... especially parents with kids who come from trauma backgrounds... and especially during a global pandemic! Melissa Corkum breaks down why and how parents run out of compassion and experience blocked care and how this relates to our kids blocked trust. She also shares encouraging words about why we should not feel guilt when we have hit moments where we want to give up. She gives us practical ways to care for ourselves and parent compassionately again and supportive advice for families during a time of unpredictability...2020-04-2132 min

Adoption HacksThe Adoptive Mom - Alex FittinHost of The Adoptive Mom Podcast Alex Fittin is with us today! Alex shares her own personal journey of adoption and how it led her to resourcing and supporting others through her podcast. Typically Alex is interviewing guests for The Adoptive Mom but today she gets to share her story! We dive into topics like older child adoption, RAD and family dynamics. And we also look talk about the importance of counseling and finding support. Podcast: The Adoptive Mom Instagram: TheAdoptiveMom Facebook: The Adoptive Mom Podcast 2020-02-1342 min

Adoption HacksEmbo Tshimanga: A Journey Through Foster CareEmbo Tshimanga grew up in and out of foster care, going in at age 7 and leaving upon graduation at 17. Her life was riddled with inconsistencies and she lived in fear of what would happen next. She attended over 25 schools and lived in over 25 homes including homeless shelters, group homes and in cars. But thankfully the circle of people around her told her the truth of who she was and not just the truth her circumstances told her. That she is worth everything, not worthless. That she has a place in this world, not disposable. That she...2019-12-1934 min

Adoption HacksCASA: Court Appointed Special AdvocateCASA supports and promotes court appointed volunteer advocacy so every child who has experienced abuse or neglect can be safe, have a permanent home and the opportunity to thrive in a safe and loving home. If you are curious what CASA is, how it works, how it impacts foster kids and how to get involved - this is a great episode to listen to! Get all the info here! Find More from Arthur here: Web www.arthurcwoods.com Social Media: @ArthurCWoods www.trustingthegodofthegospel.com/shop www.facebook.com...2019-12-0522 min

Adoption HacksGrace Over Guilt with Adrian CollinsBirth Mom, Bio Mom and Adoptive Mom Adrian Collins shares her story along with insights and wisdom about making difficult decisions and finding inner peace along the way. **GIVEAWAY** Rate and Review Adoption Hacks on ITunes for a chance to win an adoption trial keychain! Email Us: AdoptionHacksInfo@gmail.com Instagram Us: @AdoptionHacks Music: DrummerBoy by MisterWives Solo by Oh Wonder --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/adoptionhacks/support 2019-11-1342 min

Adoption HacksSensory Processing Disorder - Part 2Christa Jordan is back on the pod to talk about Sensory Processing Disorder, her education, work as a social worker and mom of a child with SPD she is the perfect person to hear from about this topic. In this 2 part episode, you'll learn about what exactly SPD is, what the signs are in children of all ages, the difference between the types and why this seems to be more common in adoptive/foster children. *NEW CONTEST* Rate and Review Adoption Hacks on iTunes for a chance to win an adoption triad keychain! Books Mentioned:2019-11-0825 min

Adoption HacksSensory Processing Disorder - Part 1Christa Jordan is back on the pod to talk about Sensory Processing Disorder, her education, work as a social worker and mom of a child with SPD she is the perfect person to hear from about this topic. In this 2 part episode, you'll learn about what exactly SPD is, what the signs are in children of all ages, the difference between the types and why this seems to be more common in adoptive/foster children. Find Christa @SpoonfulOfJordan *NEW CONTEST* Rate and Review Adoption Hacks on iTunes for a chance to win an...2019-11-0726 min

Adoption HacksHeritage JourneyKelly Strong was adopted as an infant from China. In this episode she shares her decision to visit China and what that was like emotionally and mentally. She discusses what her expectations were for the trip and what surprised her along the way. She helps adoptees know how to discuss birth families and birth country visits with adoptive parents and how to process those emotions after your journey. Music: DrummerBoy by MisterWives Email: adoptionhacksinfo@gmail.com Facebook/Instagram: @AdoptionHacks --- Support this podcast: https://anchor...2019-10-3123 min

Adoption HacksAdoption AirfareAdoption Airfare provides discounted flights and travel assistance to anyone who is traveling for adoption, missions, a heritage journey or orphan care. They are quick to assist their clients, which is especially helpful with last minute or flexible travel needs. Adoption Airfare is a staple in this community and has been serving families for years. Kandace interviews Adoption Airfare owner Tabitha Lovell to hear her heart for this company and how they are helping families. If need have adoption travel needs, be sure to check this out! Music: DrummerBoy by MisterWives Email...2019-10-1021 min

Adoption HacksChina Adoption - Part 2Brittany Wermager joins us again this season to walk us her through China Adoption. This is the most comprehensive account of Chinese adoption you can find. Brittany has so many details regarding timelines and travel as she shares what her personal experience was like. We discuss how much information you receive about your child, how medical updates work and what questions to ask. This is a 2 part episode, check out yesterdays episode for part 1! Facebook/Instagram: AdoptionHacks Email: AdoptionHacksInfo@gmail.com Music: Drummer Boy...2019-09-2725 min

Adoption HacksChina Adoption - Part 1Brittany Wermager joins us again this season to walk us her through China Adoption. This is the most comprehensive account of Chinese adoption you can find. Brittany has so many details regarding timelines and travel as she shares what her personal experience was like. We discuss how much information you receive about your child, how medical updates work and what questions to ask. This is a 2 part episode, join us tomorrow for the 2nd half! Instagram: AdoptionHacks Email: AdoptionHacksInfo@gmail.com Music: Drummer Boy...2019-09-2627 min

Adoption HacksAdopting After Biological ChildrenAfter 3 biological children, Angel Bellante adopted 2 children from China. We discuss talking to children in your home about adoption, whether or not to include them in the decision and how to handle transition. Angel shares how adoption has developed empathy, compassion and adaptability in their whole family. Email Us: Adoptionhacksinfo@gmail.com Facebook/Instagram: @AdoptionHacks Music: DrummerBoy by MisterWives --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/adoptionhacks/support 2019-09-1918 min

Adoption HacksFoster Care: The Life Changing Yes - Part 2"My Yes is So Little Compared to How It Could Affect A Child's Entire Life" This is part 2 of Ashlee Peters Foster Care journey. In this episode we dive into, discussing heavy topics like foster care and birth parents with your children and leading the way in foster care/adoption in your community. Ashlee also shares extensively about when you are on the fence about foster care, dealing with the fear and negative emotions and the power of saying yes even amidst the negative emotions. Email Us: Adoptionhackinfo@gmail.com 2019-09-1320 min

Adoption HacksFoster Care: The Life Changing Yes - Part 1The All Consuming Nature of Foster Care and Why Ashlee Peters Says the Yes is 100% Worth It. Foster Mom Ashlee Peters, shares her foster care journey in Southern California. We discuss being on the same page as your spouse, extensive visitations and birth parent empathy. Ashlee describes foster care as being all consuming and yet 100% worth everything you give. Part 2 Coming Tomorrow! This Episode is Sponsored by Fawn and Foster Fawn and Foster is an Organic Baby Essentials Company Who Gives 50% of Profits to Foster Care Organizations! fawnandfoster.com 2019-09-1230 min

Adoption HacksBefore You AdoptChrista Jordan has a degree in social work, a love for adoption/foster care and is an adoptive mom. While sharing with others about adoption, she realized there was a huge need for potential adoptive/foster families: a place where families could see all types of adoption laid out in front of them. So Christa created a workbook called "Before You Adopt". This workbook prompts readers to discover what avenue of adoption is right for them and creates conversations between families. It addresses expectations, the specifics of each type of adoption, and how to find the right agency for...2019-09-0536 min

Adoption HacksUkraine AdoptionShanna Littleton has adopted 5 children from the Ukraine! In this episode she shares a little about each of those experiences, her daughters story of being held hostage by Russian Separatists and advise for families considering Ukrainian adoption! Get more of the Littletons Story here: LifewiththeLittletons.org FB: Life With the Littletons Music: DrummerBoy by MisterWives Email: adoptionhacksinfo@gmail.com IG/FB: AdoptionHacks --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/adoptionhacks/support 2019-03-2641 min

Adoption HacksAdopting After Grief: Part 2Brittany Wermager is back with us this episode to tell us what is was like for her family as they started an adoption process after grieving the loss of their son Isaac. We talk about knowing when you are ready, dealing with pushback from others and working through readiness with your adoption agency. Brittany also beautifully shares about keeping Isaac in their lives and memories without constantly facing the pain and if she was able to relate more deeply to her son adopted from China through the trauma. Grief is apart of every adoption story in one way or...2019-03-1430 min

Adoption HacksAdopting After Grief: Part 1Kandace interviews Brittany Wermager about going through the adoption process after experiencing grief in your life. In part 1 of this 2 part episode, Brittany shares very openly her story of losing her precious son Isaac at birth. Brittany puts words to feelings of grief that many have experienced and gives the practical ways she processed her grief and PTSD. If you have experienced a loss, miscarriage or infertility and are considering adoption, this will be an empowering episode and help you determine if you are ready. Music: DrummerBoy by MisterWives FB/IG @adoptionhacks 2019-03-1328 min

Adoption HacksHard to Place - Foster Care Short FilmHard to Place Director and Co-Producer MD Neely shares about an upcoming project that will help bring awareness about the foster system and resources to potential foster parents. MD's team has created many moving short films for social justice including issues like trafficking, violence, water crises that have had powerful impacts and now they are taking on foster care. Hear the story behind this film and what sort of resources they will be offering alongside it in this episode. Additional Social Justice Short Films from Christ in Youth Here: www.amazon.com/v/wrkr 2019-03-0525 min

Adoption HacksMilitary Adoption + Sharing Your JourneyMelina Datugan shares her story on this episode. Melina is a Youtube Vlogger, Military Wife and Bio/Adoptive Mom. She gives information and advice to military families interested in adoption and shares what her adoption experience was like as a military family and an older biological child. Melina and her family have a successful youtube channel where they capture parts of their military family lifestyle, adoption journey and daily life. Mel does an incredible job of being positive about adoption but also opening up about difficult and vulnerable parts. in the 2nd half of this episode...2019-02-2637 min

Adoption HacksEmbryo Adoption: Ethics and PracticesQuiver Full Adoptions Co-Founders Elizabeth Bordeaux and Casey Brown talk us through all things Embryo Adoption! Quiver Full Adoptions is a leader in the adoption community a powerful voice for ethical adoptions. They have had an Embryo program for over a year and they explain exactly how it works and what the process is like for both donors and donees. We discuss finances, laws, timelines, open/closed adoptions and much more. If you're curious at all about Embryo Adoption, this episode is for you! Get more information about Embryo Adoption or Quiver Full Adoption's other programs at...2019-02-1926 min

Adoption HacksGhana Adoption: Part 2James and Kaylee Wilson are back with us for part 2 of their incredible adoption story. In this episode, they share how they were able to leave Ghana after 590 days, what the transition has been like and what is going on with their coffee company Level Ground Xpresso. If you're enjoying the show, we'd love if you would give us a review on share the podcast with a friend! https://levelgroundsxpresso.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZC4fOqTXGDA Music: DrummerBoy by MisterWives FB/IG @AdoptionHacks --- ...2019-01-3018 min

Adoption HacksGhana Adoption: Part 1590 Days: that's how long James and Kaylee Wilson were in Ghana trying to bring home their daughter. They started an adopted process wanting to adopt an HIV+ child. They landed in Ghana preparing to stay for 6 weeks and ended up being in country for a year and a half. Hear their incredible story of becoming a family in this 2 part episode. Music: Drummer Boy by Misterwives FB/IG @AdoptionHacks --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/adoptionhacks/support 2019-01-2925 min

Adoption HacksSingle Parent Foster Care & AdoptionBethany Moore has fostered 3 children as a single mom, in this episode you'll hear her amazing journey to adoption. We discuss the opposition that faces single adoptive parents and how to balance legitimate concern and advice from loved ones with the steadfastness needed when going into foster care. Bethany shares the most difficult part of being a single foster/adoptive parent and how and where to find the support you need. Music: Drummer Boy by MisterWives FB/IG @ AdoptionHacks --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/adoptionhacks/support 2019-01-2226 min

Adoption HacksBuilding a Strong and Healthy MarriageAdoption Professional, Adoptive Mom and Marriage Coach Maria Gocke joins us to talk about ways to create and sustain a strong and healthy marriage in adoptive/foster families. We discuss the HUGE topic of 1 spouse not being ready or desiring to adopt and how to prepare your marriage before adoption. We also look at some things that adoptive/foster parents specifically can struggle with in marriage, and tools and resource to guide us through that. This episode is sponsored by: Kindred + Co. www.kindredand.co A Brave Adoption Community Music: 2019-01-0826 min

Adoption HacksResources for Foster FamiliesLeah Mcmullin and her husband have fostered 14 children over 4 years. So they definitely deeply understand the support that foster families need. In this episode we break down 3 main areas of support and resources: how friends and family can support, local and national organizations created to assist foster families and books both for children and parents. Plus we hear a little bit of the Mcmullin’s story which is so beautiful. If you're new to foster care or considering it, this episode will be especially helpful! Leah McMullin Blog Mcmullinfostercarejourney.wordpress.com Together We Rise ht...2018-12-1836 min

Adoption HacksDomestic Infant AdoptionAdoptive mom Lacey Day shares her adoptive story. We dive into intense topics like agency ethics, disrupted adoptions, the good and bad of online adoption communities, birth family relationships and the journey to remain hopeful when the wait is long and doors close. This Weeks Sponsors: The Promise Summit: An adoption conference hosted by Quiver Full Adoptions www.thepromisesummit.com Fawn and Foster: Organic Baby Items. 50% of all profits are donated to foster children organizations. www.fawnandfoster.com FB/IG @AdoptionHacks ...2018-12-1131 min

Adoption HacksBen Higgins: Generous CoffeeThe Bachelor's Ben Higgins shares about his new company Generous Coffee which is providing jobs and education around the world. As adoptive parents and advocates if we are truly advocating for orphans we need to first look for ways we can support vulnerable families and children. How can we keep families together by fighting poverty? How can we help children in countries that are not open to international adoption? Generous Coffee is creatively finding ways to do just that. Each Generous product is designed specifically to create and multiply good in the world...2018-12-0413 min

Adoption HacksInstant Family's Maraide Green"It was a therapy session for me. The worst parts of my life were turned into the best part of my life - being able to make this movie." Maraide Green was in the foster system and then adopted at age 13. Through her experiences she was able to assist with the movie "Instant Family" by working on the script and on set as a foster care consultant and production assistant. Hear how she got involved in the movie, what being on set was like and what she hopes this movie accomplishes. ...2018-11-2713 min

Adoption HacksEmbracing The Unexpected"Two things went through our heads immediately, what did we just do? And this is our baby and we will do whatever we need to do". When Pastor Terry Parkman was adopting his daughter from China he realized that the story that had been told about her was incorrect. In this episode he talks about parenting through that and discovering your child's true story. He has great advice for all adoptive parents and especially those who need to hear, "you have what it takes, just be faithful to the next step". This episode is sponsored by BONFIRE, Bonfire is the e...2018-11-2020 min

Adoption HacksInternational Adoption Stats: Top Countries Part 2In this season 2 kick off episode, we are sharing the Top 17 Countries that US Families adopted from last year. We are breaking down timeline, ages, requirements and travel for all 17 in this 2 part episode. In this episode we discuss countries 10-17. If you are interested in international adoption but overwhelmed with trying to find information, this episode is perfect for you! All the major numbers you need to know have been researched and consolidated in this episode! This episode is sponsored by BONFIRE, Bonfire is the easiest way to design, sell and order premium custom shirts. And...2018-11-0711 min

Adoption HacksInternational Adoption Stats: Top Countries Part 1In this season 2 kick off episode, we are sharing the Top 17 Countries that US Families adopted from last year. We are breaking down timeline, ages, requirements and travel for all 17 in this 2 part episode. In this episode we discuss countries 1-9. If you are interested in international adoption but overwhelmed with trying to find information, this episode is perfect for you! All the major numbers you need to know have been researched and consolidated in this episode! This episode is sponsored by BONFIRE, Bonfire is the easiest way to design, sell and order premium custom shirts. And...2018-11-0623 min

Adoption HacksSouth Africa Adoption"Don't let special needs scare you, start the process and you will be equipped for your child, even if you don't know if at the beginning of the process, you'll end up with everything you need" Amanda Kick joins Kandace to share her story of adopting her son from South Africa. She walks us through the timeline and gives us a glimpse of meeting her son for the 1st time and their 6 week stay in South Africa. Amanda shares how they widened their initial acceptance of special needs when they saw their son who has cerebral palsy and is...2018-06-0737 min

Adoption HacksDeaf AdoptionKandace interviews Merissa Yusko about Deaf Adoption. Merissa shares many insights and stories from her families journey of adopting 4 year old James from the Philippines. We discuss the adjustment period with their older biological children and the early stages of communication. We dive into school, friend and social issues along. Merissa also shares challenges with adopting a deaf child, and offers her support and advice. Merissa's humble and honest take on things is refreshing. You'll learn a lot in this episode! Email Us: Adoptionhacksinfo@gmail.com FB/IG: @AdoptionHacks --- Support this podcast: https...2018-04-0332 min

Adoption HacksRethinking Fundraising: 6 TipsKandace interviews Bethany Hofmann about fundraising best practices. Bethany coaches listeners to change the way they fundraise for adoption. Before applying for grants and loans, she suggests going to those closest to you for financial help with adoption costs. We discuss budgeting, discovering who your tribe is, preparing your story and your heart. This episode will change the way you approach fundraising! Email Us: adoptionhacksinfo@gmail.com FB/IG: @AdoptionHacks --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/adoptionhacks/support 2018-03-2721 min

Adoption HacksYoung Adult Orphan CareKandace interviews Gianna Bellante (Iris Madagascar) about how and why it's important for young adults to be a part of orphan care. Caring for orphans is not just for adults who are able to adopt. If you are passionate about orphan care, you can do something now. Gianna shares her personal story about how she ended up in Madagascar. Her story is inspiring and full of wisdom! Get your free audiobook through Adoption Hacks: audibletrial.com/adoptionhacks Email Us: adoptionhacksinfo@gmail.com FB/IG: @AdoptionHacks --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm...2018-03-2017 min

Adoption HacksTBRI OverviewLicensed Clinical Social Worker and TBRI Practitioner, Kwajera Jackson breaks down what TBRI is and why its so important when parenting children from hard places. She shares her expertise about how TBRI heals families, what a typical session looks like and the many benefits TBRI has on traumatized brains. Contact Kwajera through: buildingfamiliesforchildren.org The Connected Child http://amzn.to/2oHSEED Audible Free Audiobookaudibletrial.com/adoptionhacks Email Us: adoptionhacksinfo@gmail.com FB/IG: @AdoptionHacks --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/adoptionhacks/support 2018-03-0623 min

Adoption HacksChurch Adoption/Foster Care Ministry with Eric PorterBackyard Orphans trains Church leaders to develop a foster care, adoption, and support ministry. Founder and President of Backyard Orphans, Eric Porter discusses why the church should be leading the way in orphan care, what their role should be and partnering with the government. Email Us: adoptionhacksinfo@gmail.com FB/IG: @AdoptionHacks --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/adoptionhacks/support 2018-02-2634 min

Adoption HacksOlder Child Adoption and Attachment: Part 2MaryCarol Skaggs continues discussing older child attachment in this 2 part episode. We discuss teaching your children how and when to tell their story, advocating for them in their schools and incorporating therapy including neurofeedback. Here are the links discussed in todays episode: W.I.S.E. Up! http://amzn.to/2EQ1wRJConnected Childhttp://amzn.to/2BEIADF Neurofeedback https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HxHR7InSQ1c&t=134s Parenting Coach Christine Moers https://www.youtube.com/user/christinemoers Email Us: adoptionhacksinfo@gmail.com FB...2018-02-2021 min

Adoption HacksOlder Child Adoption and Attachment: Part 1In this 2 part episode, MaryCarol Skaggs shares her personal story of adopting 4 older children from Colombia. She shares practical ways to build trust, work through language barriers, parenting teens with trauma and many more insights. Stay tuned for part 2! Email Us: adoptionhacksinfo@gmail.com FB/IG: @adoptionhacks --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/adoptionhacks/support 2018-02-1921 min

Adoption HacksSafe Families: Part 2Tammy Folkerts, Safe Families Maryland Outreach Coordinator, shares how Safe Families works, why it is so crucially needed and how you can get involved. Safe Families for Children is a movement fueled by compassion to keep children safe and families intact. Through Host Families, Family Friends and Family coaches, we temporarily host children and provide a network of support to families in crisis while they get back on their feet. "We open our hearts, open our arms, and open our homes "https://safe-families.orghttps://buildingfamiliesforchildren.org Email Us: adoptionhacksinfo@gmail.com FB/IG...2018-02-1320 min

Adoption HacksSafe Families: Part 1Tammy Folkerts, Safe Families Maryland Outreach Coordinator, shares how Safe Families works, why it is so crucially needed and how you can get involved. Safe Families for Children is a movement fueled by compassion to keep children safe and families intact. Through Host Families, Family Friends and Family coaches, we temporarily host children and provide a network of support to families in crisis while they get back on their feet. "We open our hearts, open our arms, and open our homes "https://safe-families.orghttps://buildingfamiliesforchildren.org Email Us: adoptionhacksinfo@gmail.com FB/IG...2018-02-1219 min

Adoption HacksInternational Focus: Korea Adoption (Our Story)Kandace tells her personal adoption story. She walks through every aspect of her Korean adoption - the orphan need in Korea, timeline, referral, going to court and an inside look at bonding in the first couple weeks. If you're interested in adoption this episode has realistic and helpful tips and experiences! Dropbox Documentary http://amzn.to/2Fylugv Parenting Your Internationally Adopted Child http://amzn.to/2GxhfTX Adopted for Life http://amzn.to/2DRxKsj Connected Child http://amzn.to/2GBiTDO Toddler Tula Carrier http://amzn.to/2GC2Q8K 2018-02-0429 min

Adoption HacksFoster Care is Hard - Do it AnywayMelanie Lane shares foster parenting encouragement from a Christian perspective. Kandace and Melanie dive into the issues of: getting attached, fostering while in ministry, counseling and support, and most of all taking every thing day by day .www.loslanes.com Email Us: AdoptionHacksinfo@gmail.com Facebook/IG @AdoptionHacks --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/adoptionhacks/support 2018-02-0331 min

Adoption HacksChoosing An AgencyKandace interviews Maria Gocke about how to choose an adoption agency. She offers practical tips about what questions to ask and what to be looking for. If you are starting an adoption you need this episode! www.coanet.org www.adoptioncouncil.org Email Us: AdoptionHacksInfo@gmail.com Facebook/Instagram: @AdoptionHacks --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/adoptionhacks/support 2018-02-0229 min

Adoption HacksTrailerWelcome to Adoption Hacks! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/adoptionhacks/support 2018-02-0100 min