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The Good Divorce Show™S3E9 | Divorce by Default vs. Divorce by Design ft. Karen CovyIn this episode of The Good Divorce Show™, Karen McNenny speaks with Karen Covy, a lawyer turned divorce coach, about the complexities of divorce and the importance of navigating it with clarity and support. They discuss the flaws in the family court system, the significance of coaching before legal action, and how to design a divorce that minimizes conflict and promotes respect. Covy shares her journey into divorce law, the realities of divorce court, and the value of organization and preparation in the divorce process. The conversation emphasizes the need for collaboration between coaches and lawyers to provide the be...2025-05-0844 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreWhy Saving More Isn’t Enough: The Truth About Retirement PlanningIf you could potentially save over a million dollars in taxes when you retire by making a few changes in your retirement planning strategy now, would you do it? Karen Stawicki and Samantha Irish, a dynamic mother-daughter financial planning team with over 50 years of combined experience, are betting you would … if you knew how! Samantha and Karen are on a mission to revolutionize retirement planning. They’ve identified a critical flaw in conventional retirement planning: the assumption that simply saving enough money and getting good returns will guarantee a comfortable retirement. While that strategy makes sense...2025-03-0544 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreLeaving While There’s Still Love? How to Have a Good DivorceConventional wisdom says that you shouldn’t leave your marriage until it has completely broken down. But what if that’s not true? What if leaving while you and your spouse still care about each other is the key to having a good divorce?When her marriage was floundering, Karen McNenny found herself paralyzed by fear. She didn’t want to give up on her marriage if it could be saved. But she didn’t want to wait until she and her ex hated each other before she left.That’s when she discovered a life-chang...2025-02-2637 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreThe Best of "Off The Fence" 2024What if the most difficult conversations in life could not only give you answers but they could shine a light on a clear path forward? This special episode brings together the best insights from our guests in 2024. You’ll hear about how to tackle complex relationship challenges like divorcing a narcissist, navigating sexless marriages, and implementing creative solutions like bird nesting for families in transition. This is a curated mix of powerful interviews that address not just the legal and logistical aspects of these struggles but also the emotional and psychological hurdles that keep people stuck.T...2025-01-011h 02
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreDana Cox's Bold Leap: Life After a 33-Year MarriageWhat drives someone to redefine their life after decades of marriage? How can you live through some of life’s biggest challenges – like the loss of a child, the loss of a job and the loss of a marriage, and not only survive but thrive afterwards?In this podcast episode Dana Cox shares her transformative journey of personal growth and resilience after deciding to end her 33-year marriage. She openly shares how she strategically navigated the divorce process, not just to protect herself financially but also to preserve an amicable relationship with her ex-husband, which was crucial for...2024-11-2030 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MorePhyllis Leavitt: How to Handle Conflict Without Creating More PainHow amazing would your marriage, your family, and your community be if you had the tools to transform conflict into connection? In this podcast episode, psychotherapist and author Phyllis Leavitt dives deeply into the complex topic of conflict resolution and decision-making within personal relationships, families, and communities. She breaks down the dynamics of both healthy and unhealthy family relationships and talks about strategies you can use to improve your own ability to resolve conflicts in a healthier way.Beyond healing our individual relationships, Phyllis also reflects on America’s current cultural divide, noting the way we...2024-11-1345 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreRaiford Palmer: The Biggest Divorce Mistakes Successful People MakeWhen divorce attorney and bestselling author Raiford Palmer sits down for a conversation, he doesn’t hold back. In this candid and thought-provoking episode, Raif draws from nearly three decades of legal experience to share not only his legal insights in divorce, but also his own journey through divorce. That journey reshaped his legal practice, helping him empathize with clients on a deeper level.Throughout this conversation, Raif stresses the critical role knowledge and understanding the emotional and financial rollercoaster of divorce plays in navigating divorce effectively. He also shares insider insights on the way div...2024-11-061h 01
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreA Police Officer's Simple Safety Tips That Could Save Your LifeWhat would you do if your personal safety was at risk? Do you even know what you would do?This podcast episode takes a deep dive into practical safety strategies with Catherine Trimboli, a seasoned law enforcement professional turned personal protection advocate. Catherine shares how she empowers high-level women to feel secure through situational awareness, safety planning, and discrete security services. With her background as a law enforcement captain with 30 years of experience Catherine is particularly well-poised to share practical advice and real-world tips on everything from avoiding dangerous encounters to safeguarding yourself when traveling, a...2024-10-3040 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreWhen is the Right Time to Divorce?Is there ever a right time to divorce? Is there such a thing as waiting too long to get a divorce? How do you know if NOW is the right time to go?In this special episode, we dive into the thorny question of when to divorce by exploring the story of Sue, who faces the heart-wrenching decision of whether to leave her husband, Brad, due to his escalating drinking problem. Grappling with financial constraints and familial duties, Sue's story is one of emotional turmoil and the heavy burden of pondering life-altering choices.I...2024-10-2326 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreMaci Chance: How to Turn Heartbreak Into a New LifeHow do you decide whether to keep the house in your divorce?With your home typically being one of the biggest assets you have, it’s not a simple question. It also has tremendous implications for your future, both from a financial, as well as from an emotional standpoint.In this podcast episode, real estate expert Maci Chance shares her own journey through divorce and how it led her to specialize in helping women navigate the often-complicated decisions surrounding whether to keep their home in a divorce … or not.Maci’s practical advice and re...2024-10-1632 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreWhen Love Isn't Enough: Options for Navigating a Sexless MarriageLove and intimacy can be complicated, especially when sexual challenges arise in a marriage. In this podcast episode Janelle Orion, an Ivy League-educated life coach, opens up about her unique path from a deeply committed relationship to a sexless marriage to a "divorce in love." In this candid conversation, Janelle shares how she married for the first time at age 45 and faced unexpected challenges when her husband no longer wanted to have sex with her. Through therapy, Tantra, and personal growth, Janelle embarked on a quest to better understand, not only what was happening in her marriage, b...2024-10-0940 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & More8 Ways to Create A Better Future With Divorce Financial PlanningWhat if there was a simple way that you could save time and money in your divorce while also securing your post-divorce financial future too? By creating a divorce financial plan you can do exactly that.Amy Colton, a wealth advisor, mediator, and the founder of Your Divorce Made Simple LLC, shares her unique approach to divorce financial planning that helps divorcing couples streamline the divorce process without compromising their financial future. Amy guides her clients to make sound financial decisions by creating and using a comprehensive “divorce financial plan.”Amy has combined her extensive fina...2024-10-0240 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreHow to Decide Whether to Divorce Using Discernment TherapyWhat do you do when you’re leaning towards getting a divorce and your spouse wants to work on your marriage? That’s the question we dive into today in this discussion with Dr. Ginny Wright, a seasoned clinical psychologist who is certified in discernment therapy (a/k/a discernment counseling.)Dr. Wright works with couples who are on the brink of divorce to cut through the fog of indecision and come to a decision about their marriage with clarity and confidence. She uses a process developed by Bill Doherty called discernment counseling or discernment therapy. It is a...2024-09-2544 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreParenting Marriages Unpacked with Susan GadouaWhat happens when a marriage is no longer working, but the couple wants to stay together for the kids? Is there a way that they can continue to co-parent together, pursue romantic relationships outside of their marriage, but also avoid getting a divorce until their kids are grown?According to therapist and author Susan Pease Gadoua the answer is “Yes.”Through her work with couples, Susan developed the revolutionary concept of a "parenting marriage" - a compassionate alternative that allows parents to prioritize their children's well-being while redefining their relationship. This innovative type of relationship enab...2024-09-1837 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreHow to Divorce-Proof Your Business with John RodriguezImagine discovering that your life's work could vanish overnight. John Rodriguez, co-founder of Hill Country Business Strategies, reveals just how fragile many small businesses are, especially when their owners go through a divorce. With his unique background as both an entrepreneur and advisor, John provides invaluable insights into what happens to businesses in a divorce.In this podcast episode, we talk about implementing buy-sell agreements, valuing a business, and creating long-term exit strategies. For couples who co-own a business together, John offers valuable advice on how to handle a divorce without tanking the business. If...2024-09-1138 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreKaris Nafte: The Truth About Pet Custody in DivorceIn today’s podcast conversation, Karis Nafte, a certified dog behavior consultant and family mediator, delves into the sensitive issue of pet custody during a breakup or divorce. With over 25 years of experience and her deep understanding of dog behavior, Karis has a unique perspective on what’s really best for your dog when you divorce.Karis explores the challenges of shared custody for pets, the differences in how various dog breeds might handle such arrangements, and the heartbreaking reality that sometimes, the best decision for the dog may require one person to let go. Wheth...2024-09-0448 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreA Child's Perspective: Misty Hardison On Divorce's Hidden ImpactEver wondered how to truly support your children through the emotional whirlwind of divorce? Family law attorney and children’s book author, Misty Hardison from the Rosen Law Firm in North Carolina, knows. As a family law attorney, Misty has seen how children often struggle to express their feelings and concerns during their parents’ divorce, particularly when they feel caught in the middle between their parents.Misty’s experiences prompted her to write “Jake's Fridays" a children's book which aims to facilitate discussions between parents and children about the changes that come with divorce. The book addr...2024-08-2829 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreCary Jacobson: How to Save Money with a Flat Fee DivorceWhat if getting divorced didn't have to be a painful, expensive, and drawn-out battle? According to Cary Jacobson, founder and CEO of Jacobson Family Law, it doesn’t have to be.Cary's firm takes a radically different approach to divorce than most divorce lawyers. They only handle non-litigated cases, focusing on mediation and Collaborative Divorce to keep the drama and costs down. They also offer flat-fee packages instead of billing by the hour - giving their clients peace of mind and control over their divorce costs.Cary reveals how establishing clear expectations and utilizing advanced te...2024-08-2141 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreBreaking Free from Fear: The Path to Self-Worth with Junie MoonEver wonder how societal norms and deep-seated beliefs shape your relationships and self-worth? In this episode, Junie Moon, CEO of Midlife Love Out Loud, shares her transformational journey from a life consumed by fear and low self-esteem to one of self-love and empowerment. Junie reveals the life-changing impact that Shadow Work had for her and how she now uses Shadow Work as a tool to help others change their lives as well.We also dive deeply into the complexities of relationship dynamics, focusing on the crucial role that boundaries and effective communication have in creating r...2024-08-1433 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreJennifer Urezzio: Unlock Your Soul’s Power and Achieve SuccessImagine unlocking the power of your soul to revolutionize your business and relationships. That's exactly what Jennifer Urezzio, an intuitive business strategist and creator of Soul Language, helps people do. With nearly 20 years of experience in personal development and spiritual growth, Jennifer enables individuals to bypass years of talk therapy and address deep-seated issues quickly by tapping into their core soul energies. Her innovative approach has earned her the reputation of being "liquid nitrogen for the soul" and has skyrocketed her podcast “Asked and Answered by the Soul" into the top 3% of podcasts worldwide.Jennifer's wor...2024-08-0733 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreCandace Dellacona: Protecting Wealth Without Worry in the Sandwich GenerationHow do you protect your family's wealth and legacy while juggling the responsibilities of the "sandwich generation"? In this episode, high-powered estate planning attorney Candace Dellacona shares her extensive expertise in estate planning, asset protection, elder law, and special needs advocacy to help answer some of the most pressing questions about managing the emotional and financial pressures that come with being “stuck in the middle.”Candace explains how proper estate planning can be used to safeguard your assets and protect your wealth. From advanced directives to trusts, we discuss the various instruments clients can use to ensure fina...2024-07-3135 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreLove Without Limits: Andrea Enright Explores Polyamory And Personal GrowthCurious about polyamory? In this podcast episode, Andrea Enright, a brand messaging expert and transition coach, takes us on her journey from a traditional Midwest upbringing to a life of entrepreneurial success and unique relationship dynamics. Andrea's transformative experiences began when she and her husband joined the Peace Corps at age 30, which set the stage for her later personal and professional evolution. Andrea opens up about her polyamorous marriage, detailing how she and her husband maintain outside romantic partners while fostering a committed relationship. In this candid conversation, we dive deeply into the emotional and pr...2024-07-2440 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreHarnessing Empathy for Better Decision-Making with Dr. Stephanie GrunewaldCan empathy be your superpower in making better decisions? According to Dr. Stephanie Grunewald, the answer is definitely, “Yes!”In this podcast episode Dr. Stephanie shares her personal journey from traditional therapist to mastermind and retreat leader and founder of Ancorio. Inspired by her own transformative experiences during a challenging period in her life, Dr. Stephanie discusses the importance of balancing logic and intuition for effective decision-making. The episode delves into practical strategies for decision-making and self-care. Dr. Stephanie’s approach integrates scientific understanding with intuition, helping you tap into your inner wisdom to navigate complex...2024-07-1734 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreDivorcing Your Clutter: Gayle Gruenberg's Unique Guide To Letting GoEver felt overwhelmed by clutter and chaos? Or maybe your spouse loves to be surrounded by “stuff” and you don’t - and it’s causing big problems in your marriage.Gayle Gruenberg is a Certified Professional Organizer who helps people create systems to simplify their lives. In this fascinating interview, Gayle shares insights from her 21-year career transforming spaces and minds through organization.From tackling hoarding issues to facilitating difficult decisions during divorce, Gayle's approach goes far beyond just tidying up. She delves into the psychology behind clutter, using empathy and tactile techniques to help cli...2024-07-1032 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreStruggling with Step-Parenting? Maria Natapov's Advice Might Surprise YouWhat do you do when getting married means you’ll instantly become BOTH a spouse and a step-parent? How do you blend families smoothly, and eliminate the struggle that can blow a newly blended family apart?In this podcast episode, experienced step-parenting coach Maria Natapov shares invaluable insights into the world of blended families. As a step-parent, step-sibling, and child of divorced immigrant parents herself, Maria offers practical advice on understanding and integrating complex family dynamics. She explains how step-parents can get the right support, and emphasizes the transformative power of finding your voice within the family uni...2024-07-0340 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreProtect Your Assets And Safeguard Your Wealth With Lindsey Paige MarkusThe two things everyone will face one day are death and taxes. Estate planning attorney Lindsey Paige Markus helps her clients plan for what will happen at their death and protect as much of their wealth from unnecessary taxes as possible. As a trusted advisor and bestselling author, Lindsey demystifies the world of trusts, asset protection, and tax planning, revealing how proper estate planning can safeguard your legacy and provide for your loved ones.In this episode, Lindsey explains how estate planning goes far beyond just having a will. She discusses the power of trusts to protect a...2024-06-2639 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MorePhilip LaGiglia: The New Mortgage That Makes Home Buying EasyWith today’s interest rates and the low inventory of available housing, buying a new home isn’t nearly as “do-able” today as it was a few years ago. Homes are being sold before they’re technically even on the market. Bidding wars are common.Couples now find themselves facing hard decisions about how they’ll both be able to find housing post-divorce. This is particularly a problem when a couple wants to live in a certain school district for their kids, or when they are trying to buy a home for one of them that’s close to the h...2024-06-1935 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreThe Resilience Recipe: Wangari Kamau's Secrets For Bouncing BackWangari Kamau, the founder of Soma Global Consulting, is no stranger to life's challenges. From standing up against unequal pay to enduring a complicated international divorce after a nearly 30-year marriage, she has weathered many storms. Yet through it all, she found the resilience to not just survive, but thrive.Her journey led her to develop powerful methods for nurturing mind, body and spirit during life's toughest transitions. Wangari now guides others, especially women over 50, to craft personalized self-care "templates" incorporating techniques like mindfulness, meditation, gentle movement and connecting with supportive communities. She also leads highly sought-after...2024-06-1237 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreEmbracing Your Inner Compass: The Power of Intuitive Decision-Making with Fran GallaherHave you ever experienced a moment when your gut feeling guided you to make a decision that logic couldn't explain? Sit tight as I, Karen Covey, joined by Fran Gallaher, an intuitive leadership coach, explore the misunderstood yet fascinating world of intuition in decision-making. We unravel the intricate relationship between intuition, emotions, and logic, and why honoring your inner voice can be a powerful compass in navigating life's myriad choices.From the mysterious instincts of animals to the silent whispers of our own hearts, this episode is brimming with stories that celebrate the wisdom of our subconscious...2024-06-0548 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreKaty Mickelson: Can Pre and Post Nups Make Stronger Marriages?Pre-Nups and Post-Nups are generally regarded as being manipulative and unromantic. But what if you could use prenups and postnups to make your marriage stronger?In this podcast episode, family law attorney Katy Mickelson pulls back the curtain on prenuptial and postnuptial agreements. She explains what they can and cannot cover, what they require, and how to create agreements that work. [HINT: This is NOT the place to go DIY!] She also dives deeply into who needs these agreements, and when entering into them not only makes sense but can actually help you save your marriage.2024-05-2939 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreHow to Use EFT to Unlock Your Subconscious Blocks with Theresa Lear LevineHave you ever felt locked in a cycle of stress that you just can't seem to break free from? In this episode, Theresa Lear Levine shares a technique that could be your key to emotional liberation. As an EFT master practitioner and hypnotherapist, Theresa brings to light the transformative potential of Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) - a method that combines ancient Chinese acupressure and modern psychology to tap into our body's energy meridians. Research has shown that EFT has a profound effect on anxiety and physical ailments. It can also help individuals navigate life's transitions wi...2024-05-2246 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreHow to Find the Right Divorce Attorney: Ian Steinberg The Anti-SharkThink divorce lawyers intentionally stir the pot and create conflict to line their own pockets? Ian Steinberg is different.As a top New York family law attorney Ian is on a mission to help people through one of life's most challenging transitions. Unlike some other divorce lawyers, Ian advocates for a team approach where divorce lawyers, divorce coaches, financial advisors and others collaborate to help clients achieve their goals as efficiently as possible.He offers pragmatic advice on how clients can be effective team members themselves by maintaining organization, defining priorities, and working with their...2024-05-1539 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MorePractical Wisdom For Navigating Change With Jenny StevensHow do you stay standing when life throws its toughest punches? Divorce coach and therapist Jenny Stevens has been through it all ... and mostly all at once! In this powerful episode, Jenny recounts how she survived divorce, cancer, the death of her mother, and then the death of her ex-husband, all within a few years. Jenny's life experiences sparked a profound realization - we cannot control what life brings, but we can control how we respond. With candor and practicality, Jenny outlines the habits and mindset shifts that empowered her to navigate this pe...2024-05-0844 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreChelsea Gajewski: How To Keep Anxiety From Derailing DivorceAnxiety, depression, and other mental health challenges often strain a marriage to the breaking point. Yet divorcing someone who struggles with mental health issues is fraught with its own challenges.Family law attorney Chelsea Gajewski works at the intersection of family law and mental health. In this podcast episode, Chelsea explains how different divorce processes can make a difference in a divorce case in which mental health issues are involved. She candidly discusses the role professionals like parenting coordinators and guardians ad litem can have in helping families address mental health concerns in divorce.2024-05-0137 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreHarnessing Intuition for Better Decision-Making with Veronica DrakeHave you ever felt a gentle whisper in your soul, urging you to take a leap of faith that doesn’t seem logical in the moment? Veronica Drake, an intuitive coach, helps midlife female entrepreneurs reconnect with their inner voice so that they can make better decisions and find creative solutions to their business and personal problems. In this podcast episode, Veronica shares the story of her own leap of faith from a stable corporate gig to a path less traveled, guided by the whispers of intuition. Veronica unveils the intricate dance between intellect and intuition, shedding lig...2024-04-2444 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreDr. Mort Orman Reveals How to Never Be Angry AgainAre anger issues hijacking your relationships? If you find that you (or your spouse!) constantly get angry over the smallest things, chances are that anger is an unwanted partner in your marriage. While most therapists talk about helping you “manage” your anger, Dr. Mort Orman has developed a system that helps you eliminate your anger completely: No “management” required. In this podcast episode Dr. Orman explains how our brain’s unconscious filters distort our perception of reality. That distorted perception often leads to feelings of anger, guilt, and other negative emotions.By dissecting real-life s...2024-04-1751 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreDivorcing with Dollars and Sense: Getting Financial Clarity with My Divorce SolutionUnderstanding and navigating the financial end of divorce is one of the biggest challenges many divorcing people face. That’s especially true for those who DIDN’T handle the family finances during their marriage. Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan know firsthand the financial chaos divorce can cause. That’s why they created “My Divorce Solution,” a program designed to help people going through a divorce by providing them with a comprehensive analysis of their income, expenses, assets, and debts. My Divorce Solution creates a customized financial portrait of each client’s financial situation. That financial portrait lays out different...2024-04-1043 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreLocked in Battle with Your Ex? Karen Knab's Secrets to Winning at ConflictKaren Knab is not your average executive coach - she's a master at transforming conflict into constructive dialogue. Whether navigating the choppy waters of family drama or the boardroom's fierce currents, Karen's expertise helps you take back control and resolve your arguments with your ex, your kids, or your boss, more amicably.Karen has cracked the code on managing the emotions that sabotage clear communication. Through her riveting stories and step-by-step strategies, you'll discover how to hit the pause button when you’re mired in a heated discussion so you can steer the conversation toward common ground.2024-04-0341 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreAndrea Vacca on How to Use Collaborative Divorce to Reduce DramaDivorce doesn't have to be a battleground. Attorney Andrea Vacca has cracked the code on keeping families out of court and preserving their well-being throughout the divorce process. As a trailblazer in Collaborative Divorce and other alternative dispute resolution processes, Andrea’s approach is redefining what's possible when a marriage ends.The traditional divorce litigation path is adversarial by nature, pitting spouses against each other in a zero-sum game. But Andrea has pioneered a paradigm shift - one where she and her team are committed to keeping their clients out of court.This po...2024-03-2748 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreA Father's Love: Erik Feig on Navigating Divorce in Neurodiverse FamiliesErik Feig is an attorney, a mediator, and the father of three neurodivergent children. Navigating through the COVID-19 pandemic with his own complex family inspired him to leave the practice of law and create a mediation practice focused on helping other families with neurodiverse children navigate conflict more effectively.In this podcast episode, Erik explains – both from personal experience as well as professional expertise - the tremendous amount of extra coordination and energy that families with neurodivergent kids require. It’s not unusual for parents in such families to experience conflict in how to best manage the extra...2024-03-2034 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreA Conversation on Divorce, Mediation, and Growth with Lesa KoskiLesa Koski - a lawyer turned mediator - has a passion for helping couples divorce differently and suffer less. In her work as a mediator, Lesa has identified 7 common dilemmas divorcing women face. Those dilemmas range from finances to housing and from parenting to loneliness. To deal with all of these dilemmas, Lesa encourages her clients to educate themselves about their options and about how the divorce process works. She explains how mediation can be superior to litigation, and how it can be the first step in empowering someone to live a happier, healthier, and more empowered li...2024-03-1332 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreAmy Lin on Charting a New Path Through Divorce with AnewAmy Lin was married for 20 months. Her divorce took 3 years. Most of that time was spent wrangling through the arcane, time-consuming, and inefficient "discovery process" in the legal system. After her divorce was over, Amy decided to create a software platform to make the financial discovery process more efficient and affordable so that no one had to suffer through what she suffered through in her divorce. That's why she created Anew.Anew simplifies and streamlines financial discovery in divorce cases. It provides couples with an overview of their net worth and contains income/expense reports, b...2024-03-0636 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreMichael Cohen on Creating Better Outcomes Through Divorce MediationWhen divorce looms, people usually focus on the assets and finances first. But to divorce mediator Michael Cohen, the kids should always come first.Michael's own contentious divorce fueled his metamorphosis from corporate executive to passionate divorce mediator. As a mediator, Michael helps parents create co-parenting agreements centered on their kids' emotional health. In this podcast episode, we dig deeply into the way that the adversarial process fundamentally clashes with preserving family bonds. Litigation pits spouses against each other with dueling attorneys battling over assets. Mediation offers a paradigm shift - bringing both p...2024-02-2840 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreFrom Heartbreak to Triumph: Navigating Legal Abuse in Divorce with Lisa JohnsonIn this episode, Lisa Johnson, co-founder of Been There Got Out, shares her story of going through a high-conflict divorce with an emotionally abusive husband who lived a secret double life. Lisa's divorce ultimately cost her over $80,000 in legal fees to resolve - and that was just the beginning of her legal journey.Lisa then spent 10 years fighting to enforce her divorce judgment after she was divorced. Because she couldn't afford a lawyer, Lisa learned how to navigate the legal system herself, while her ex fought her every step of the way. She coined the term "legal...2024-02-2147 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreFinding Lasting Love with Bela Gandhi's Smart Dating StrategiesBela Gandhi, Chicago’s most prominent dating and relationship expert, joins the Off the Fence Podcast to share her tips and tools for creating a lasting and fulfilling relationship. In this podcast episode, Bela peels back the curtain on her transition from the corporate world into the arena of love and relationships. She also reveals some of the secrets she imparts to her clients in the Smart Dating Academy … which has a zero-divorce rate among clients who marry the love they found while working with Bela and her team.Bela describes the process her team uses to help...2024-02-1431 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreNavigating Love and Entrepreneurship with Franchise Expert Meg SchmitzNavigating the intertwined paths of love and entrepreneurship can be as complex as a Brazilian Tango. But Meg Schmitz is an expert who shares the secrets to building BOTH a flourishing relationship AND a successful business.In this podcast episode, Meg opens up about her own complex journey, which began when her then-husband purchased a franchise (without her consent) in an industry he knew nothing about. Six months later when his business was failing, Meg jumped in, took over, and turned the business around.Unfortunately, she wasn't able to turn the marriage around and she...2024-02-0742 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreKaren McMahon: How To Set Boundaries And Navigate High Conflict DivorceKaren McMahon understands the challenges of high-conflict divorce. After surviving her own divorce from an emotionally abusive ex-husband, Karen turned to coaching others on how to deal with the complex emotions and dynamics of high-conflict divorce and co-parenting more effectively.In this podcast episode, Karen describes how she helps her clients build confidence, establish boundaries, and remain focused on their own healing and emotional growth. She also explains how, with proper support, a parent can use the pain of a high-conflict divorce to fuel positive growth for themselves and their family. Karen's insight will help a...2024-01-3139 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreAlexis (Skigen) Rago on Business, Divorce, and Raising Great KidsWhen Alexis Skigen Rago was laid off from her corporate marketing job she knew that – as much as she loved her children - she wouldn’t be happy as a stay-at-home mom. Yet, returning to the corporate world – with its rigid culture and grueling time demands – was equally unappealing. So Alexis took the bold step of starting her own marketing strategy consulting firm. During her career transition, Alexis also realized that her marriage had become a poor model for her children. She talks honestly about how she considered the traditional wisdom of “staying married for the kids,” and how that c...2024-01-2445 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreHow to Divorce a Narcissist with Tracy MaloneLiving with a narcissist is hard. Divorcing a narcissist is even harder. Tracy Malone, the powerhouse behind NarcissistAbuseSupport.com, knows firsthand how ugly divorcing a narcissist can be. In this podcast episode Tracy opens up about her personal journey of divorcing a narcissist, including the manipulative behavior, gaslighting, and abusive litigation tactics that went with it.Her experiences prompted her to become a divorce coach who specializes in helping the victims of narcissistic abuse all over the world.In this episode Tracy explains what a narcissist is, and how to know whether you're divorcing one. She...2024-01-1742 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreDivorce Inside Out: Kathleen Brigham's Unique Bird-Nesting LifeWhen Kathleen Brigham and her husband divorced, they did something most parents never do – they “bird nested.” What’s more, not only did they bird nest during their divorce, but they continued to rotate in and out of their family home for years after their divorce, all while their children stayed put.In this podcast episode, Kathleen Brigham walks us through her personal bird nesting journey, providing a profound insight into the practicalities and nuances of this co-parenting strategy. We talk about where parents stay when they're not with their kids, how to structure bird nesting for success...2024-01-1035 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreThe Best of "Off the Fence" in 2023Have you ever felt stuck in indecision and trapped in a life you no longer want to live? Have you hesitated to get a divorce because you KNOW how ugly your toxic spouse will make it?Are you worried about getting a divorce and starting all over again "at your age"? ( ... i.e. when you're over 50!)Have you suffered from trauma in your marriage and wonder if you'll ever be able to trust again?Have you wondered whether you'll ever find love again after your divorce, or what getting a divorce w...2024-01-0352 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreWhat's Your Soul Salary? Finding Your Joy with Jessica KaskovFor 15 years Jessica Kaskov worked as an engineer in a manufacturing company. When the company announced layoffs, Jessica did some deep soul searching. She realized that, while she was good at engineering, her real passion came from working with people. Even though Jessica ultimately survived that round of layoffs, she began searching for work that would do more than just pay the bills. It would provide her with joy.Jessica’s quest ultimately led her to discover the idea of a “Soul Salary.” Your soul salary is the value your soul receives when your time and en...2023-12-2739 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreHow to Handle Porn Addiction with Kevin White & Polly FlemingWith over 40 million Americans regularly visiting porn sites, pornography is the "dirty little secret" that's hiding under the hood of more divorces than most people realize.In this podcast episode, guests Kevin White and Polly Fleming (who are not married to each other!) share their deeply personal experiences with porn addiction and the crippling effects it had on their marriages. Born from trauma, pornography addiction ultimately destroys true intimacy and makes maintaining a marriage or other deep relationship extremely difficult. It's mired in guilt and shame, as well as societal judgment. Yet, paradoxically...2023-12-2044 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreCreating the Amicable Divorce Network with Tracy Moore-GrantIf given a choice, most people would prefer to divorce amicably, affordably and efficiently. Yet the divorce system isn't structured to make any of those things happen.As a divorce lawyer who litigated divorces for decades, Tracy Moore Grant got tired of seeing people get dragged through time-consuming and expensive divorces simply because that's the way divorces "have always been done." She also got tired of overpriced lawyers creating conflict, rather than resolving it.That's why she created the Amicable Divorce Network. It's the world's first and only organization that vets divorce professionals using 3 criteria:2023-12-1338 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreHow to Create a Child-Centered Divorce with Rosalind SedaccaEver wished for a comprehensive guide to navigating divorce with your child's best interests at heart? Rosalind Sedacca, divorce and co-parenting coach, as well as the founder of the Child-Centered Divorce Network, helps her clients view divorce from their children's eyes. Drawing from her own life experiences as well as her expertise in working with divorcing parents for over 15 years, Rosalind reveals the secret to creating a nurturing environment for children both during and after a divorce.In this episode, Rosalind explains why it's crucial to shield children from adult information, as well as why p...2023-12-0637 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreHow to Choose the Right Divorce Process for You with Jason SposeepJason Sposeep has helped his clients get divorced in every way there is to do it. As an experienced litigator, mediator, negotiator, and Collaborative Divorce professional he has guided his clients through almost every divorce process during the course of his career..In this episode, Jason explains what each different divorce process is, how it works, and (most importantly) the factors to consider when choosing one divorce process over another. [HINT: Not every divorce process will work well for every divorcing client.] He also dives deeply into which divorce process will (or won't) work for...2023-11-2935 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreNature Inspired Breakthroughs: Alison Smith's Unique Way to Get UnstuckEver felt stuck in your life, unable to move forward or find a way out of a seemingly dead-end situation? Alison Smith has developed a unique coaching technique that she uses to help her clients break through the "stuckness" of difficult situations so they can finally move forward with their lives. As a speaker, trainer, breakthrough coach, author, and podcaster, Alison has pioneered an unconventional coaching approach that uses nature to help her clients rewrite their self-limiting narratives and open themselves up to unexpected paths forward.Alison imparts valuable insights on how language and mindset sh...2023-11-2238 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreMandy Walker: Divorce Mediation Isn't as Clear or as Easy as You ThinkWhat happens when you bring together financial expertise and personal experience with divorce? You get Mandy Walker, our guest for this episode of Off the Fence. After going through her own difficult divorce Mandy switched careers from finance to divorce mediation. She now helps divorcing couples who want to end their divorce amicably through mediation do exactly that.In this episode, Mandy explores the different types of mediation, the different types of mediators, and the way mediation really works. [HINT: It may not work the way you think it does!] Mandy discusses the various ways...2023-11-1546 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreBigger, Better, Braver: How to Create Better Relationships With Nancy PickardDo you feel like you and your spouse have been having the same fight - and engaging in the same destructive behavior - for years (maybe decades!) and you can't seem to change? Nancy Pickard, a certified integrative coach, is a master at helping couples see the patterns they have subconsciously created in their marriages that are getting in the way of them building a true connection.Nancy gives her clients tools to help them break free of their outdated and destructive relationship patterns so that they can create a better, healthier relationship moving forward.N...2023-11-0844 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreDave Moravec: Finding Love & Maintaining Relationships with Your Adult Children After DivorceDave Moravec had been married for 33 years when he decided to divorce. His children were adults at that time, but they each had very distinct opinions about - and reactions to - his divorce from their mother.Dave describes how he came to his decision through therapy, separation, and intense introspection. He also explains the challenges he faced in navigating a divorce with adult children - two of whom lived at a distance and one who lived in the family home. Dave described how he navigated "being the bad guy who broke up the family."...2023-11-0142 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreNo B.S. Coaching: Jeanell Greene's Approach to Personal Growth and AuthenticityWhat if you had everything you ever wanted in life and found out it wasn't enough?Jeanell Greene was a high-achieving corporate sales rep with a 6 figure income and a 20-year career. Yet in her heart, she knew she was being called to do more.Ultimately, she decided to confront her darkest fears, leave her corporate career, and open herself up to pursuing a more fulfilling career - even though at that time, she didn't know what that career would be. Jeanell explains how she was able to get clear about what she t...2023-10-2538 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreBeverly Price: When Divorce Helps You Face the Truth and Own Your Own StuffBeverly Price is one of those rare humans who has navigated not one, not two, but multiple divorces in her life. Through that process and all of the pain it caused her and those she loved, she recognized that the key to having the relationship she dreamed of lay within her.After her last divorce, Beverly embarked on a journey of radical self-awareness. She came "face-to-face" with herself and committed to becoming the person she truly wanted to be. With a lot of hard work and a commitment to change, she transformed herself and her life and is...2023-10-1836 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreGasping for Air: Dana Diaz on How to Break Free from Narcissistic AbuseFor decades Dana Diaz lived in the grips of an abusive relationship. Like many others in similar situations, Dana stayed for two reasons. First, she worried about what would happen to her son if she left. Second, she stayed because she didn’t feel like she deserved better. But when she found herself in a doctor's office because she only weighed 90 pounds and her organs were shutting down, Dana knew something had to change.In this podcast episode, we dive deeply into the world of fear, violence, and abuse. With unflinching honesty, Dana sha...2023-10-1146 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreHow to Master Your Time, Energy, and Resources with Mark BradfordMark Bradford wears many hats. He's an author, pilot, speaker, coach, and web developer. Above all, he's a master of life's game of time, energy, and resources. In a revelation born out of the dark depths of his divorce, Mark discovered that life isn't just about clocking hours. It's about mastering the complex interplay of emotional energy, mental stamina, and physical resources. Join us as we unpack Mark's Alchemy for Life system, which is designed to help you start managing your time and energy so that you can navigate the game of life more effectively.2023-10-0442 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreDiscover How to Organize Your Financial Life with Nancy DoyleAre your finances a cluttered mess? You're not alone! Nancy Doyle, an experienced financial professional and author, shares her knowledge and expertise to help you organize and understand your finances so you can regain control of your financial life.Nancy talks about how to get your financial house in order, create an "ICE" file, and take inventory of all your financial documents. She also discusses the simple things you can do to empower yourself when it comes to your finances so that you're ready for whatever life might throw your way.Nancy also breaks down th...2023-09-2738 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreBethany Dotson on How to Heal from Trauma and Create Positive RelationshipsImagine discovering how you could heal the trauma from your past and create a healthier, happier relationship with yourself and others. That's what we explore in this podcast episode with trauma-informed yoga therapist and relationship coach, Bethany Dotson. Bethany brings over a decade of experience helping midlife career women recover from anxiety, PTSD, and more. She helps her clients rebuild their self-worth after they've been in toxic relationships or gone through a high-conflict divorce. Drawing from her own experiences in toxic relationships as well as her extensive training, Bethany offers insight into how individuals can...2023-09-2042 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreChildren's Whispers in Divorce: A Heartfelt Dialogue with Despina MavridouCan you imagine going through a divorce and having to feel your parents' anger and watch their tears, but NOT be able to tell anyone how YOU really felt or what YOU really wanted?That's exactly what Despina Mavridou experienced as a child going through her parents' divorce. She was constantly caught in the crossfire of her parents' fights. "Tell your father this." "Don't tell your mother that." "Your father is bad." "Your mother is wrong."Despina heard it all. What's most surprising, though, is that Despina's parents ha...2023-09-1434 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreCan Your Marriage Recover From an Affair? Tips From Dr. Juan SantosAre you and your spouse struggling to keep your marriage together after one of you cheated? Do you wonder if it’s even possible for a marriage to survive an affair?If so, you’re not alone. Dr. Juan Santos has spent a decade helping couples process their emotions and harness the skills they need to repair their marriage after one of them has had an affair. In this podcast episode, Dr. Santos shares valuable insights and actionable tips on how couples can heal the hurt that threatens to destroy their relationship. We also d...2023-09-0640 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreJennifer Ramirez: Tips to Help Any Woman Overcome Abuse and Empower ThemselvesDomestic violence doesn't happen the way most people assume it does. Relationships don't start out being abusive. They start out with one person showering the other with love and affection. It's not until later - sometimes years later - that the relationship takes an abusive turn.What's more, domestic violence doesn't only happen among the poor and uneducated. Women from all walks of life, all races, creeds, socioeconomic and educational levels fall prey to domestic violence.Because of the sexual, physical, and financial abuse she suffered during her lifetime Jennifer Ramirez started &Rise, a non-profit or...2023-08-3043 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreUsing Mindset to Make More Effective Real Estate Decisions with Leslie GlazierBuying and selling real estate can be nerve-wracking - especially when you're facing a life cycle event like retirement, divorce, or having a child. What's more, even when we think we know what we want, we often discover (after months of going down the wrong path) that what we really want is totally different than what we thought we wanted. Leslie Glazier has been using her background in psychology and her passion for real estate, to help buyers and sellers navigate the often tumultuous waters of buying and selling property for over 20 years. In this p...2023-08-2332 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreLinda Kooper on How to Deal with Divorce, Death, and Career ChangeAfter her kids were born, Linda Kooper left her career as a corporate software developer to focus on raising her kids. But as her kids got older she realized two things.1. Her kids didn't need her as much so it was time for her to get back into the workforce; and2. She wanted a divorce.Her journey through two simultaneous major life transitions wasn't an easy one. Her divorce became contentious and expensive. Then, during the middle of it, her mother died.In this podcast episode, Linda offers a candid account of h...2023-08-1634 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreSurviving Abuse and Creating Strong, Healthy Relationships with Kari PetruchHow do you leave an abusive marriage when you have no job, no credit score, and no safety net? That's exactly what Kari Petruch did. After living with a spouse who was verbally, emotionally, and financially abusive for 28 years, Kari Petruch had enough. For years as her kids were growing up she quietly saved some cash. Once her youngest turned 18, she moved out of the house and filed for divorce.She used the money she had saved to get through her divorce and create a new life for herself and her kids....2023-08-0942 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreTerry Gaspard: Rules for a Successful Remarriage and the Sleeper Effect of DivorceStatistics show that second marriages fail even more often than first marriages do. Yet some second marriages thrive, in spite of the odds. If you're already divorced, and you want to remarry, how can you make your second marriage work? World-renowned therapist and coach Terry Gaspard knows divorce inside and out. A child of divorced parents, Terry herself is divorced (... and now happily remarried!). She has spent her career working with individuals and couples to create stronger, more lasting relationships, and to ease the pain divorce has on children when a marriage ends.I...2023-08-0240 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreHow to Transition from Corporate Employee to Franchise Owner with Dawn HershikHave you ever gone to your corporate job and thought, "There's got to be more than this?" If so, you're not alone.When Dawn Hershik was downsized after a 30-year corporate career, she opted for an unusual fresh start by going into business with her husband, Elliott. Together, they launched a Supporting Strategies franchise, which has grown to a company with over 30 employees in just eight years.Dawn shares how difficult it was to decide to leave her corporate career behind. She also shares her experiences of creating a business from the ground up...2023-07-2629 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreEmbracing Change and Seizing Opportunity: A Conversation with Susan GuthrieWhat if you had the power to navigate change, recognize and seize opportunities, and find unexpected joy in the midst of chaos? Susan Guthrie, a nationally recognized family law attorney, mediator, and mediation trainer has done all of that and more. Susan went from being a litigator and a partner in a leading Connecticut law firm, to launching her own practice, to embracing mediation over litigation, to eventually becoming a mediation trainer. Along the way she learned to embrace change, see opportunities that others don't see, and adopt an abundance mindset that brings her joy.I...2023-07-1942 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreDiscovering Hidden Assets in Divorce with Forensic Accountant Tracy CoenenEver wondered if your spouse might be hiding assets in your divorce? For over 25 years, forensic accountant and Fraud Coach Tracy Coenan has been working in corporate America and high net-worth divorces to help her clients discover financial misbehavior. In this episode, she identifies the most common red flags anyone can use to spot potential financial fraud. She also breaks down the steps you can take to discover whether your spouse is hiding money, or has been using marital assets to fund an extra-marital affair. Tracy has also created the Fraud Coach Assessment...2023-07-1241 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreHow a CPA Can Help You Manage Unforeseen Tax Consequences of Divorce With Sylwia NazarCPA Sylwia Nazar is a perfect example of the American Dream in action. She came to the United States from Poland when she was 19 years old. Since then, she has risen to partnership in a major accounting firm and is committed to helping other women climb the ladder of success as well.In this episode of Off the Fence, Sylwia demystifies the complex world of divorce and taxes. She explains the essential role a CPA plays in advising clients about the often-overlooked tax consequences of a divorce asset allocation. She also describes how a CPA works with th...2023-07-0533 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreTalent Optimization, Seasons of Life, and the HR Implications of Divorce with Traci AustinHow can small businesses cope when their employees are distracted by divorce? In this episode, certified HR professional Traci Austin shares her insights about how understanding the unique needs of each employee contributes to business success. Traci explores how the seasons of life (marriage, divorce, the birth of a child, or dealing with an aging parent) can affect an employee's performance. She also explains that by providing grace and empathy to employees during these difficult moments an employer can foster trust and gratitude that will ultimately lead to a more successful and fulfilled workforce. 2023-06-2843 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreHow to Strengthen Parent-Child Connections and Raise Well-Adjusted Kids with Rita MorrisDo you ever feel like connecting with your kids is an uphill battle? Today's episode features an enlightening conversation with Rita Morris, a parent coach and psychotherapist, who sheds light on how we can strengthen our relationships with our children by meeting them where they're at and teaching them decision-making skills from a young age. Rita discusses how to navigate differing parenting styles. She also talks about how working with a parenting coach can provide unique support for families facing challenges in communication and conflict resolution, especially with teenagers.In this episode, Rita explains how...2023-06-2133 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreAndrew Hatherley: Rising from the Ashes of Gray Divorce to Create an Amazing LifeAre you prepared to navigate the complexities of Gray Divorce and uncover the potential for personal growth that comes with it? Join this conversation with Andrew Hatherley, founder and CEO of Wiser Divorce Solutions, Transcend Retirement, and host of the Gray Divorce podcast. Andrew dives deeply into the concept of post-traumatic growth and how it can help those going through a divorce develop resilience and strength in spite of the challenges they face. Andrew shares how committing to a healthier lifestyle, opening a new business, and even writing a novel, helped him bounce back from hi...2023-06-1442 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreHow a Certified Divorce Real Estate Agent Can Help You Get More for Your HouseWhen Kathryn Hoffman had to sell her home in her divorce in late 2009 she quickly discovered that her realtor didn’t have the divorce expertise required to answer her questions or help her make the best decisions. Fast forward to today and as a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert Kathryn now helps her divorcing clients get the information and support they need to sell their homes for the best price possible. Kathryn likes to say that in a divorce, she represents the house, not one particular spouse. She helps her clients deal with court orders regarding the hou...2023-06-0737 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreBecoming Financially Literate and Planning For Your FutureTaking control of your finances doesn't have to be complicated or difficult. But if you want to be financially secure, it's necessary. That's true no matter who you are or what the state of your finances may be. It's especially true when you're navigating a challenging lifecycle event, like divorce or the death of a spouse.Cris Kalivas has been guiding her clients at every stage of life to make better financial decisions for decades. With her down-to-earth attitude and step-by-step approach, Cris makes personal finance understandable and manageable.If you've ever wanted to get...2023-05-3138 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreHow to Design Your Relationship So It LastsShow NotesRelationship success starts with choosing the right person to be your spouse or partner, and then making sure that you and your spouse/partner are on the same page about the issues that matter. That includes talking about your values, how you feel about children, and your visions and ideas about money.Theresa Kulat is a lawyer, mediator, Collaborative Divorce Professional, and energy worker who helps her clients create intentional relationships with those they love. Whether a couple is just contemplating marriage, or is trying to reconfigure a marriage or relationship that...2023-05-2443 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreHow To Be Successful Dating After 50About MariaAs a Dating and Love Coach, Maria Spears empowers her clients to confidently navigate the dating world and find the love of their life, without wasting time or settling for being single. They create the best relationship of their lives and an extraordinary life with a partner who loves and cherishes them. Where to Connect with MariaYou can find Maria on Facebook at Maria Spears, Dating & Love Coach and LinkedIn at Maria Spears. You can also connect with Maria at Maria@maria-spears.com and find resources for f...2023-05-1732 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreBreaking Through Resistance and Choosing YourselfShow NotesWhen Wendy Sterling suspected that her husband was cheating, she tried to talk herself out of confronting that reality. As a lifelong people-pleaser, Wendy was inclined to deny what she already suspected in her heart to be true. When she finally listened to her intuition she confirmed her worst fears, but also started on a journey that led her through divorce to an amazing new life, with a new business and a new relationship.Wendy now coaches other women through their own divorces, helping them to discover who they are now, a...2023-05-1043 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreHow Parenting Co-Ordination Works in High Conflict DivorceEpisode DescriptionHigh-conflict parents often fight over their kids throughout their divorce, and for years afterward. They become "frequent flyers" in the court system, embroiling their kids in ongoing legal battles that drain both parents' resources and cause enormous anxiety for their children. Parenting coordinators are specially-trained divorce professionals who work with parents to resolve their conflicts quickly, efficiently, and OUTSIDE of the court system. Yet, because parenting coordination is so new in the world of family law, people often misunderstand what parenting coordination is, and who it can help.In thi...2023-05-0348 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreWhat It's Like to Litigate Your Divorce for 8 1/2 YearsIf you've ever thought you might want to litigate your divorce, this podcast episode is one you MUST listen to.Divorcing a man from a powerful family meant that Paulette Gloria Rigo was embroiled in litigation for 8 1/2 years. She had to deal with all the typical litigation games, including going all the way up to the state Supreme Court.Paulette's experience has given her a unique perspective and a drive to help others avoid the divorce pitfalls that she fell into in her divorce. Now she works as a divorce coach, helping others navigate through...2023-04-2641 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreIs Having Your Day in Court Worth It?Your spouse wronged you and it’s time for you to get what’s yours. But are you really prepared to take your spouse to court and have a full-blown trial? Or would you benefit more by forgetting about your day in court and just settling amicably? Tiffany Hughes, the seasoned attorney who has been called a Shark in Stilettos, explains why going to trial might not be your best option, even if all of the ‘facts’ point in your favor.She explains the complexities of the trial process and why the cost of going to trial is...2023-04-1942 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreDivorce Mortgage Planning - Deciding to Keep Your Marital House Based on Fact Not EmotionDeciding whether to keep the house is one of the biggest, and often thorniest, issues in divorce. After having worked in the mortgage industry for decades, and having navigated her own divorce, Tami Wollensack understands the potential pitfalls involved in making that decision better than most people.As a Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP®) Tami helps you understand how to decide whether to keep your house or sell it based on the facts of your situation. Tami explains how refinancing works and helps you understand whether you can qualify for a new loan on your own post-divorce. Tam...2023-04-1232 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreLeighann Lovely – Deciding to Be Open About Mental Health IssuesLeighann Lovely is an independent HR Consultant who got tired of keeping her bi-polar disorder under wraps. In this episode Leighann talks about her diagnosis and the reasons behind her decision to start openly talking about her mental health issues, even though she knew that by doing so it would cost her business and could affect her career.Leighann talks about the way that she makes decisions and the way she keeps herself from letting the "parade of horribles" from stopping her from making real progress in her life. Leighann's story is full of courage...2023-04-0538 min