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The Good Divorce Show™S3E14 | Blended: The Bonus Parent Experience w/ Jeremiah WallaceIn this episode, Karen McNenny speaks with Jeremiah Wallace, a seasoned stepfather and host of the podcast 'Navigating the Blended Family Experience.' They discuss the complexities of blended families, the emotional challenges faced by step-parents, and the importance of communication and patience in creating a harmonious family environment. Jeremiah shares his personal journey, insights on parenting, and advice for biological fathers on how to embrace new relationships while prioritizing their children. The conversation emphasizes the value of understanding, curiosity, and the long-term commitment required in blended family dynamics.Jeremiah WallaceJeremiah...2025-07-1747 min
The Good Divorce Show™S3E13 | Raising Kids Together, Apart: Cheryl & Rosario's Story of Growth and GraceIn this episode of The Good Divorce Show℠, Karen McNenny engages in a heartfelt conversation with Cheryl Pankhurst and Rosario Greco about their experiences navigating divorce and co-parenting. They discuss the challenges and triumphs of maintaining a positive relationship for the sake of their children, the impact of divorce on family dynamics, and the importance of communication and support systems. The conversation highlights the significance of a kid-centered perspective and the lessons learned over the years, ultimately providing hope and inspiration for families going through similar journeys.Connect with Cheryl PankhurstCherylPankhurst.comPodcast: Teen Minds Re...2025-07-031h 02
The Good Divorce Show™S3E12 | Beyond Every Other Weekend: Reclaiming the Role of Dad ft. Patrick DuganzIn this conversation, Karen McNenny and Patrick Duganz explore the critical role of fathers in the context of divorce and parenting. They discuss the challenges fathers face, the importance of father engagement for child development, and how the court system often reinforces traditional gender roles. Patrick shares insights from his experience as a Father Engagement Specialist, emphasizing the need for support and resources for dads. The discussion also touches on the grieving process associated with divorce and the importance of redefining relationships for successful co-parenting. Patrick also shares his personal journey through...2025-06-1959 min
Beyond Divorce: Embracing ChangeWhat is a Good Divorce? A Conversation with Karen McNennyIn this episode, Michael Flores sits down with Karen McNenny, The Good Divorce Coach and host of The Good Divorce podcast, to unpack what it really means to have a “good divorce.”
Karen shares how the way you start your divorce often sets the tone for how it ends—and why being intentional from the beginning matters. They explore the idea of an “elegant exit,” how and when to talk to your children about divorce, and the critical importance of finding the right kind of support to guide you through the process.
Whether you're in the early stages of separation or deep in...2025-06-1740 min
The Teen Anxiety Maze- Parenting Teens, Help for Anxiety, Anxious Teens, Anxiety ReliefE248 How to Have a Good Divorce That Supports Your KidsSend us a text Divorce doesn’t have to damage your kids. In this episode, certified divorce coach and therapist Karen McNenny shares how divorced parents can reduce anxiety in children by improving communication, building co-parenting strategies, and creating stability across two homes. Whether you're going through a divorce or supporting families who are, you’ll learn practical tips to protect your child’s mental health and emotional well-being.🔹 What causes anxiety in kids during divorce🔹 How to avoid putting children in the middle🔹 Simple co-parenting hacks that reduce stress🔹 Why consistency between homes matte...2025-06-1043 min
The Good Divorce Show™S3E11 | Father's Day Special: The Father's Role in Divorce ft. Michael Flores, MA, LPC-SIn this episode of The Good Divorce Show™, host Karen McNenny speaks with Michael Flores, a licensed professional counselor and founder of Brighter Possibilities Family Counseling. They discuss the complexities of divorce, focusing on the emotional journeys of families, particularly the unique experiences of fathers, the importance of attachment theory, and the detrimental effects of parental alienation. Michael shares insights on how to navigate co-parenting, the significance of forgiveness, and the need for love and grace in the healing process. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding family dynamics and the role of effective communication in fostering healthier relationships po...2025-06-0549 min
WebTalkRadio.netGood Divorce with Karen McNennyDivorce coach, Karen McNenny, shares her 25 years of experience with Bryce Hamilton, LSCSW, as they talk all things divorce. Together they discuss how to shift perspective of divorcing with children from a separation to a family renovation. How to make commitments to do no more harm in the relationship, how and when to tell children and other people in your network and make a divorce as painless as possible.
They talk about what to expect in the divorce process, how to determine if and when it’s time to divorce, and figure out next steps. From how to...2025-05-2753 min
Accidental Experts with Bryce HamiltonGood Divorce with Karen McNenny
Divorce coach, Karen McNenny, shares her 25 years of experience with Bryce Hamilton, LSCSW, as they talk all things divorce. Together they discuss how to shift perspective of divorcing with children from a separation to a family renovation. How to make commitments to do no more harm in the relationship, how and when to tell children and other people in your network and make a divorce as painless as possible.Subscribe with your favorite podcast playerApple PodcastsAndroidRSS
They talk about what to expect in the divorce process, how to determine if and when it’s tim...2025-05-2753 min
Accidental Experts with Bryce HamiltonGood Divorce with Karen McNennyDivorce coach, Karen McNenny, shares her 25 years of experience with Bryce Hamilton, LSCSW, as they talk all things divorce.... The post Good Divorce with Karen McNenny appeared first on WebTalkRadio.net.2025-05-2753 min
Let's Dig into ThatS3E7 | A DIVORGASMIC Conversation with The Good Divorce Coach, Karen McNennyJordan and J.T. could not shake the idea that the alleged "end" of a relationship could be DIVORGASMIC, so they invited the Coach who coined the word to learn more. From the adjustment of being re-singled to giving yourself permission to seek joy, how can we better love and support each other in times of transition?Karen McNenny, The Good Divorce Coach™, is changing the way families navigate divorce. We can agree that divorcing families are starved for better outcomes with less debt, destruction, and despair. Karen's signature Good Divorce Experience™ guides couples through the legal proc...2025-05-2456 min
The Good Divorce Show™S3E10 | How Do We Navigate the Teen Years Across Two Homes? ft. Jennifer DelliquadriIn this episode of The Good Divorce Show, Karen McNenny and Jennifer Delliquadri discuss the complexities of navigating parenting during and after divorce, particularly focusing on adolescents. They explore the challenges of co-parenting across two homes, the impact of divorce on children's emotional well-being, and the importance of effective communication between parents. Jennifer shares insights on supporting neurodivergent children and emphasizes the need for personal transformation in parents to better support their kids. The conversation highlights the resilience of children and the significance of adapting parenting styles to meet their needs.About Jennifer Delliquadri2025-05-2234 min
The Good Divorce Show™S3E9 | Divorce by Default vs. Divorce by Design ft. Karen CovyIn this episode of The Good Divorce Show™, Karen McNenny speaks with Karen Covy, a lawyer turned divorce coach, about the complexities of divorce and the importance of navigating it with clarity and support. They discuss the flaws in the family court system, the significance of coaching before legal action, and how to design a divorce that minimizes conflict and promotes respect. Covy shares her journey into divorce law, the realities of divorce court, and the value of organization and preparation in the divorce process. The conversation emphasizes the need for collaboration between coaches and lawyers to provide the be...2025-05-0844 min
Subtle Shifts with Jennifer Delliquadri167. How to Have a Good Divorce with Karen McNennyCan there really be such a thing as a "good divorce"? In this episode, I sit down with Karen McNenny, a divorce consultant and founder of The Good Divorce Experience, to explore how separation can be handled with dignity and care.Karen’s story is both inspiring and relatable—she’s gone from actress and dancer to therapist, mediator, and divorce coach, all while navigating her own divorce as a mom of young kids. She shares how divorce, when approached thoughtfully, can be a transformative tool for building a healthier co-parenting relationship.In our conversation, we div...2025-04-3047 min
Parenting Teens: Advice Redefined for Today's Complex World#85 "The Good Divorce Experience: Redefining Co-Parenting for the Gap Years Teens 16 +" with Karen McNenny#ParentingTeens #GoodDivorce #CoParenting #TeenAdvice #FamilyDynamics #DivorceSupport #ParentingPodcast #Teenagers #FamilyTransition #DivorceCoach
Show Notes:
Introduction: Cheryl introduces the topic of divorce and its impact on families, especially those with teens and young adults.
Guest Introduction: Meet Karen McNenney, a seasoned mediator and divorce coach, who shares her expertise and personal journey.
The Good Divorce: Karen discusses the concept of a "good divorce" and how it can transform family dynamics.
Communicating with Teens: Tips on how to have the initial conversation about divorce with your children.
Co-Parenting Strategies: Insights on maintaining a unified front and supporting your co-parenting partner.
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Talking About KidsHow to have a child-centered divorce with Karen McNennySend us a textJust under a year ago on Talking About Kids, the attorney Charles Jamieson recommend mediation, not litigation, to protect kids’ well-being during a divorce. My guest today, Karen McNenny, is a mediator and more. Karen is a Certified Divorce Coach, CoParenting Specialist, Crucial Conversations trainer, and Gracious Space facilitator. As you will hear, Karen is passionate about shifting the focus from “getting a divorce” to “being divorced,” because, she contends, it is everything that happens after the paperwork that really impacts kids. More information about Karen and divorce coaches is at talkingaboutkids.com.2025-04-2841 min
The Good Divorce Show™S3E8 | Let's Ask the Nanny! ft. Brynn Ungerleider, Nanny & Adult Child of DivorceIn this episode of The Good Divorce Show™, host Karen McNenny speaks with Brynn Ungerleider, CEO of Premier Nanny Network, about the vital role of nannies in supporting families, especially those navigating divorce. Brynn shares her personal experiences as a child of divorce and as a divorced parent, emphasizing the importance of communication, respect, and routine in co-parenting. The conversation highlights practical strategies for managing shared parenting responsibilities and the emotional well-being of children during transitions. Brynn also discusses the misconceptions surrounding nannies and their value in enhancing family dynamics and providing support to parents....2025-04-2445 min
The Good Divorce Show™S3E7 | They're NACHO KIDS: A Blended Family Experience with Lori & David SimsIn this episode of the Good Divorce Show™, Karen McNenny speaks with Lori and David Sims, creators of the Nacho Kids Method, which aims to help blended families thrive. They share their personal journey through the challenges of blending families, the importance of understanding roles, and the evolution of relationships among stepchildren and stepparents. The conversation highlights the significance of communication, setting boundaries, and the gradual process of building healthy family dynamics. In this conversation, Lori and David Sims discuss their journey in creating the Nacho Kids Academy, a resource for blended families. They explore themes such as guilty pa...2025-04-1050 min
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver305: The Good Divorce Coach ~ Karen McNennyWelcome to another enlightening episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast! In today's episode, hosts Lori and David welcome the insightful Karen McNenny, also known as the Good Divorce Coach. Karen joins us to challenge the traditional narrative of divorce as a conflict-ridden process. She introduces the concept of a 'good divorce,' presenting it as a tool, rather than a weapon, to transform family dynamics positively. Karen shares her personal journey and the genesis of her coaching business, emphasizing the importance of reshaping the divorce experience to focus on protecting future relationships, especially for those who co-parent. Tune in...2025-04-041h 08
The Good Divorce Show™S3E6 | What Does YOUR Money Story Look Like During and After Divorce? ft. Jennifer LeeIn this episode of The Good Divorce Show™, Karen McNenny speaks with Jennifer Lee, founder of Modern Wealth, about financial empowerment during and after divorce. They discuss the importance of understanding one's money story, facing financial realities, and the role of financial advisors in navigating the divorce process. Jennifer emphasizes the significance of assessing financial needs, the power of compound interest, and the necessity of temporary spousal support. The conversation also touches on the concept of divorce fatigue and the importance of creating a family love letter to communicate values and intentions regarding finances.About Jennifer Lee, AW...2025-04-0339 min
The Good Divorce Show™S3E5 | Adult Child of Divorce: A Cautionary Tale with Missy MiculkaIn this episode of The Good Divorce Show™, host Karen McNenny engages with Missy Miculka, an adult child of divorce, to discuss the long-lasting impacts of divorce on children. They explore the importance of communication, emotional support, and the need for parents to prioritize their children's well-being during and after the divorce process. Missy shares her personal experiences and offers cautionary advice for parents navigating new relationships and co-parenting dynamics. The conversation emphasizes the significance of creating a positive environment for children and the potential for healing and growth in the aftermath of divorce.Ab...2025-03-1356 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode #204: Embracing Divorce as a Catalyst for Growth with Karen McNennyIn this episode, Rhonda Noordyk welcomes Karen, known as the "Good Divorce Coach," to discuss how divorce can be a transformative process rather than a destructive one. Together, they explore essential strategies for navigating divorce with emotional regulation, communication, and self-care. Key Takeaways: Divorce as a Transformation Tool: How shifting your mindset can turn divorce into an opportunity for personal growth. Parenting Through Divorce: Effective communication strategies, maintaining a unified front, and preparing children for the transition. Navigating Life as a Single Person: The importance of self-care, rediscovering personal joy, and embracing the "Devorgasmic stage." Co-Parenting...2025-02-2829 min
The Good Divorce Show™S3E4 | From Heartbreak to Harmony: Navigating Divorce and Working Alongside My Ex (A Personal Story)In this episode of The Good Divorce Show™, Karen McNenny interviews Ellen Carey, a nurse and energy healer, who shares her personal journey through divorce and the lessons learned along the way. They discuss the complexities of decision-making during the divorce process, the challenges of co-parenting young adults, the importance of self-care and grief, and the financial realities that come with divorce.
Ellen also reflects on her unique experience of working alongside her ex-husband in a small law firm, the evolution of their relationship post-divorce, and how they navigated family events like weddings and the arrival of a...2025-02-2756 min
The High Conflict Co-Parenting PodcastEpisode 305: Creating Better Outcomes: The Power of Initial Conditions with Karen McNennyIn this episode, Brook welcomes Karen McEnany, The Good Divorce Coach, to discuss how setting the right foundation in divorce can significantly impact long-term outcomes. Divorce inherently carries conflict, but the way we navigate the early stages—our initial conditions—can determine whether the process will be calm, moderately contentious, or high-conflict. Brook and Karen explore how parents can approach divorce not as a battle, but as a transformation—one that prioritizes family over finances, mitigates unnecessary pain, and fosters healthier co-parenting relationships. They discuss the importance of intention, emotional regulation, and recognizing the difference between what truly...2025-02-2747 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreLeaving While There’s Still Love? How to Have a Good DivorceConventional wisdom says that you shouldn’t leave your marriage until it has completely broken down. But what if that’s not true? What if leaving while you and your spouse still care about each other is the key to having a good divorce?When her marriage was floundering, Karen McNenny found herself paralyzed by fear. She didn’t want to give up on her marriage if it could be saved. But she didn’t want to wait until she and her ex hated each other before she left.That’s when she discovered a life-chang...2025-02-2637 min
The Good Divorce Show™S3E3 | Navigating High Conflict Divorce: Insights from Brook Olsen, Certified Parenting Educator and Divorce MediatorIn this episode of The Good Divorce Show™, Karen McNenny speaks with Brook Olsen, a Certified Parenting Educator and Divorce Mediator, about navigating high conflict divorces. They discuss the importance of understanding attachment styles, the impact of trauma on parenting, and the dynamics of introducing new relationships post-divorce. Brook shares insights from his personal journey and professional experience, emphasizing the need for emotional regulation and the distinction between co-parenting and parallel parenting strategies.
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The Good Divorce Show™S3E2 | The Parallels of Death and Divorce: Healing Amidst the Chaos with End-of-Life Doula Abigail McGurtyIn this episode of The Good Divorce Show™, Karen McNenny speaks with Abigail McGurty, a trained Sacred Passage Doula and Conscious Dying Coach, about the parallels between end-of-life care and divorce. They explore the significance of grief, the concept of a 'good death' and 'good divorce', and the importance of rituals in processing loss. The conversation delves into the non-linear nature of grief, the impact of ambiguous loss, and the necessity of support during transitions. Abigail shares insights on making meaning after loss and the importance of planning for end-of-life issues, emphasizing that both death and divorce are human ex...2025-01-3055 min
Divorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawDivorce-Gasmic: Transforming Divorce into a Constructive Journey with Karen McNenny | Episode 226In this episode, renowned divorce mediator and therapist Karen McNenny joins Ryan and introduces her innovative approach to divorce, which she calls “divorce-gasmic.” Karen emphasizes transforming divorce from a destructive event into a constructive process, encouraging us to rethink how we view the end of a marriage.We explore:The societal fears that keep couples trapped in unhappy relationshipsPositive co-parenting practices that celebrate children’s milestones post-separationThe roles of divorce professionals, such as lawyers and consultants, in guiding clients through emotional challenges while focusing on legal clarityThe complexities of dating during divorce and managing differ...2025-01-1743 min
The Good Divorce Show™S3E1 | Season 3 Kickoff - Welcome Back!In this episode of The Good Divorce Show™, Karen McNenny introduces the THIRD season, emphasizing the importance of redefining divorce as a positive transition rather than a failure. She discusses the various aspects of navigating divorce, including communication, support systems, and the potential for reinvention. The episode highlights the importance of community support and the need for a shift in societal perceptions of divorce.
TAKEAWAYS
This is a safe space to explore possibilities
Divorce can improve primary relationships, especially for parents
Choosing a good divorce oath means not being enemies
The pain of di...2025-01-1612 min
Women Winning Divorce: A Lawyer’s Guidance On Navigating An Unhappy Marriage & Protecting Your Financial Assets With Heather B. Quick, Esq.#148 How Karen McNenny Reinvented Herself After Divorce & Built a Healthy Co-Parenting DynamicHave you ever considered that divorce could be the beginning of something better, not the end?If you’re facing the emotional and logistical complexities of divorce, this episode provides a fresh and empowering perspective from Karen McNenny—a certified mediator, therapist, and co-parenting specialist. Karen redefines divorce as an opportunity for personal growth, rebuilding trust, and achieving co-parenting success.Learn how to reframe divorce as a renovation of your life and relationships rather than a failure.Discover practical strategies for rebuilding trust and co-parenting with grace and flexibility.Gain insights from a mediator and therapist who...2024-12-3048 min
Single Parent Success Stories200: Is Co-Parenting After Divorce Really Possible? Karen McNenny’s Surprising Take!Karen McNenny, divorce mediator, coach, and TEDx speaker, joins Irina Shehovsov to share insights on navigating divorce with compassion and resilience. Karen discusses co-parenting strategies, self-care for single parents, and her unique perspective on why divorce can bring both grief and relief. Whether you’re a single parent or exploring a ‘good divorce,’ this episode offers practical advice to empower your journey.
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The Good Divorce Show™Encore: S1E42 - Co-Parenting Resources from Co-Parenting Expert Christina McGheeIn this episode of The Good Divorce Show™, Karen McNenny is joined by co-parenting expert and pioneer in the Good Divorce Movement, Christina McGhee. Through her personal experience as a child of divorce, as well as becoming a bonus-mom to step-children, Christina sheds light on best practices for co-parents. Wondering how best to prepare and navigate the holidays? What happens to the presents? How do you care for yourself? Christina and Karen will guide you through the blind spots of the holiday season. Also hear about transition rituals, how to navigate the very real grief of a new-normal and ho...2024-12-0254 min
The Good Divorce Show™The Art of Co-Parenting After Divorce ft. Tess Connolly | S2E20
In this conversation, Karen McNenny and Tess Connolly discuss the complexities of navigating divorce, particularly in relation to parenting tweens and teens. They explore the emotional challenges of divorce, the importance of planning and communication, and the evolving dynamics of co-parenting. Tess shares her personal journey through divorce, emphasizing the significance of self-care for parents and the developmental needs of young adults. The discussion highlights the need for intentionality in communication with children and the importance of maintaining a cooperative relationship with co-parents for the well-being of the children.
About Tess
Tess (Therese) Cnnolly LCSW, parent...2024-11-2548 min
The Good Divorce Show™Shadow Work, Intimacy, Vulnerability, and the Impact of Shame on Relationships ft. Junie Moon | S2E19In this episode of The Good Divorce Show™, Karen McNenny speaks with Junie Moon, a global love mentor and bestselling author, about the transformative journey of self-discovery and empowerment following divorce. They discuss the importance of shadow work, intimacy, vulnerability, and the impact of shame on relationships. Junie shares her personal experiences and insights on finding next-level love, building emotional literacy, and the significance of authenticity in dating. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-love and the courage to embrace change, ultimately guiding listeners towards healthier relationships and a deeper understanding of themselves.
About Ju...2024-11-1856 min
The Good Divorce Show™Positive Impact of Blended Families ft. Celia Kibler | S2E18
In this episode of The Good Divorce Show™, Karen McNenny speaks with Celia Kibler about her journey through divorce and the positive impact of blended families. They discuss the importance of maintaining a respectful co-parenting relationship, empowering children, and creating a supportive environment for kids in a divorce situation. Celia shares her experiences of navigating the complexities of co-parenting across states, managing family dynamics, and fostering connections among siblings. The conversation emphasizes the significance of rituals, flexibility, and communication in parenting, especially during the challenging teenage and young adult years.
About Celia Kibler
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The Good Divorce Show™Empowering Women Through Divorce ft. Heather B. Quick, Family Attorney | S2E17Joining The Good Divorce Coach™, Karen McNenny, on this week's episode is Heather Quick, founder and CEO of Florida Women's Law Group. They discuss Heather's journey into family law, the importance of empowering women during divorce, and the various challenges they face, including financial infidelity and substance abuse. Heather emphasizes the need for women to understand their financial rights and the importance of building a support team during the divorce process. The conversation also touches on the impact of divorce on children and the necessary precautions to ensure their safety.
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I Now Pronounce You Divorced!From Conflict to Compassion: Karen McNenny’s Guide to a Good Divorce
In this episode of I Now Pronounce You Divorced, we sit down with Karen McNenny, host of The Good Divorce podcast, to explore how divorce can be approached with compassion, understanding, and intention. Karen shares her philosophy that a "good divorce" is possible and starts with the right mindset.
We dive into the emotional challenges of divorce, the importance of intentional language, and how effective communication plays a key role, especially when children are involved. Karen also discusses how business skills can support smoother transitions and provides valuable insights for families going through this life...2024-10-2936 min
The Good Divorce Show™Encore S1E3 - How do you raise a child together across two homes?The Good Divorce Coach™, Karen McNenny, speaks with Kelly and Kyle, who share their unique journey of co-parenting without a formal marriage or divorce. They discuss their initial relationship, the decision to have a child, and the challenges they faced during pregnancy and early parenting. The conversation highlights their mutual respect and support for each other as they navigate the complexities of raising their daughter, Charlotte, in separate households. They also touch on the introduction of new partners and how that has shaped their family dynamics, emphasizing the importance of love and communication in co-parenting.
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The Good Divorce Show™Encore: S1E8 - Can divorce actually IMPROVE the relationship between parents?Two creatives, Erin and Mitch, approached their divorce with compassion, grace and intention. Even their mediator wondered if they should actually get divorced. Listen as they remember announcing their divorce to a group of friends at Mitch’s birthday party and how their two children overruled the standing dog-policy of the family. After years of marriage, and now 8 years post-divorce, they find themselves consistently turning to each other for parenting support and guidance. Most notable, Mitch and Erin have maintained a fluid and supportive approach to their parenting schedule. This interview is filled with heart and wisdom.2024-10-2150 min
Mom Inspired Show with Amber SandbergStrategies to co-parent well and put your kids first: Karen McNenny : 409Do you wish you could co-parent well but just have never seen it done well?
In today's episode of the Mom Inspired Show, I am talking relationship/divorce coach Karen McNenny about her personal experience with co-parenting and how she has managed to put the kids first for the past 13 years. If you are in the process of seperation or divorce or already divorced and feel alone and just wish it could look different, Karen is going to give you some hope today. Hear what we have to say about this topic and more on the podcast!
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The Good Divorce Show™Encore: S1E39 - Child of Divorce Perspective: My Daughter Sits Down to Tell Me About Her Experience Growing Up in Two HomesWhat does a Good Divorce look like from a child's perspective? Karen gets the straight answers from her own daughter, 18-year-old Sophia, who reflects on 12 years of living across two homes, on watching her parents move on, and on how her experience shaped her ideas about family, relationships, and love.
takeaways
Divorce can be navigated with less conflict and more understanding
Children can thrive after divorce with the right support
Preparation and communication are key when discussing divorce with children
Creating a supportive environment helps children process divorce
Transition systems can ease the burden of moving...2024-10-1453 min
The Good Divorce Show™Tax Strategies for a Good Divorce ft. Hubert Johnson, J.D. | S2E16
In this episode of The Good Divorce Show™, Karen McNenny speaks with tax expert Hubert Johnson about the often-overlooked topic of taxes in the context of divorce. They discuss personal experiences with divorce, the importance of understanding tax implications, and the various filing options available. Hubert shares insights on innocent spouse protection, child tax credits, business ownership, and the complexities of bankruptcy during divorce. The conversation emphasizes the need for informed decision-making and the value of consulting with tax professionals to navigate these challenges effectively.
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The Good Divorce Show™Tea Time: Timing Your Divorce Talk with your Children Matters | S2E15In this episode of Tea Time with Coach Karen, the focus is on the critical aspect of timing when discussing divorce with children. Karen McNenny emphasizes the importance of being prepared and thoughtful about when to have these conversations, considering various factors such as the child's age, significant events, and emotional readiness. She provides practical advice on how to approach these discussions to minimize emotional distress and foster understanding within the family.
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The Good Divorce Show™Strategies for Raising Neurodivergent (& ADHD) Children in Divorced Families ft. Merriam Saunders | S2E14In this conversation, Karen McNenny interviews Merriam Saunders, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Child Custody Recommending Counselor. They discuss the importance of maintaining a positive co-parenting relationship after divorce, especially when there are neurodivergent children involved. They emphasize the need for parents to continue making joint decisions and supporting their children's relationships with both parents. They also touch on the role of attachment theory in divorce and the challenges of gatekeeping parents.
They highlight the challenges faced by neurodivergent children in two-home arrangements and provide strategies for supporting them.
Merriam shares her experience...2024-09-0950 min
The Good Divorce Show™Tea Time w/ Coach Karen: 3 Tips for Divorce & Separation w/ College-Age Kids | S2E13In this episode, Karen McNenny discusses the challenges and dynamics of having college-age kids in the context of divorce and separation. She reflects on her own experience as a parent of divorce sending her child off to college and the grief of saying goodbye. Karen emphasizes the importance of maintaining a sense of home base for children, even as they become more independent. She advises parents to have conversations and create a plan for how to navigate the summer breaks and holidays when children come back home. Karen also highlights the long-term impact of decisions made during the college...2024-08-2613 min
The Good Divorce Show™Family Before Finances: Affordable Divorce Options ft. Jen Schimbeno, CDFA® | S2E12In this conversation, Karen McNenny interviews Jen Schimbeno, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®), about the importance of financial planning in divorce. They discuss the collaborative divorce process and the role of a CDFA® in helping families navigate the financial aspects of divorce. They also highlight the need for logical decision-making and the potential pitfalls of getting caught up in emotional conflicts.
The conversation emphasizes the importance of finding a third way and working towards a settlement that meets the interests and goals of both parties. Karen and Jen discuss the differences between being a neutral CDFA® in...2024-08-1953 min
The Good Divorce Show™Tea Time w/ Coach Karen: Language Matters in Divorce | S2E11In this episode, Karen McNenny discusses the importance of language when talking about divorce and separation. She emphasizes the need to shift our thinking and use more positive and empowering language to describe these situations.
Karen suggests using terms like 'family that lives across two homes' instead of 'broken family' and 'renovating' instead of 'broken'. She also encourages referring to former spouses as 'first husband' or 'former partner' instead of 'ex'. Additionally, Karen recommends using the names of the houses or streets to identify the different homes instead of 'mom's house' and 'dad's house'.
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The Good Divorce Show™Navigating Divorce: Communication and Problem Solving for a Healthier Future ft. Beatty Cohan | S2E10In this conversation, Karen McNenny interviews Beatty Cohan, a nationally recognized Psychotherapist, Sex Therapist, and Author, about her personal experience with divorce and her expertise in relationships. Beatty shares her own journey of divorce in the 80s and how she and her ex-husband were able to co-parent their daughter successfully. She emphasizes the importance of emotional and psychological well-being before entering into a new relationship and the need for effective communication and problem-solving skills. Beatty also discusses the impact of family of origin on relationships and the importance of acknowledging, addressing, and resolving issues in order to create healthy...2024-08-0548 min
The Good Divorce Show™Taking Control of Your Divorce: The Power of Mediation ft. Keila M. Gilbert, Esq. | S2E9
Keila Gilbert, Esq., founder of Alpha Center for Divorce Mediation, shares her personal journey through divorce and how it led her to create a mediation service. She emphasizes the importance of minimizing harm to children during divorce and discusses the issue of parental alienation. Keila highlights the holistic approach of her mediation program, which includes legal, financial, and therapeutic support. She also explains the benefits of mediation over litigation and offers advice for navigating the divorce process.
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The Good Divorce Show™Untying the Financial Knot: Assets, Taxes, and Retirement Accounts ft. Mercedes Barker | S2E8In this conversation, Karen McNenny interviews Mercedes Barker, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, about the financial aspects of divorce. Mercedes shares her expertise as an investment advisor and discusses various types of accounts and their tax implications. She explains the importance of categorizing assets as after-tax or pre-tax and how this affects the division of assets in a divorce settlement. Mercedes also emphasizes the need for careful financial planning after divorce, taking into consideration factors such as age, risk tolerance, and long-term goals.
About Mercedes Barker
Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®)
Civil and Family: Divorce, C...2024-07-2239 min
The Good Divorce Show™Your Ex-Spouse is NOT Your Enemy ft. The exEXPERTS | S2E7Good Divorce Coach™ Karen McNenny interviews Jessica and T.H., the founders of exEXPERTS and hosts of the Divorce Etc... podcast. Jessica and T.H. discuss their own experiences with divorce, provide valuable insights and resources for navigating the process, emphasize the importance of creating a parenting plan that suits your family's unique needs, and share the significance of maintaining open communication with your co-parent.
Highlights:
The need for support and guidance during divorce
Trust your instincts and make choices that align with your values and goals
Do not bury the divorce experience in...2024-07-1553 min
The Good Divorce Show™Customize Your Divorce & Know What YOU Want ft. Elizabeth A. Douglas, Esq. | S2E6Elizabeth Douglas, founder of the Douglas Family Law Group, discusses the importance of a customized approach to divorce and finding the right legal partner. She emphasizes the need for clients to know their goals and objectives and to communicate them to their attorney.
Elizabeth Douglas also highlights the importance of giving oneself grace during divorce and envisioning a positive future. She addresses the biases and challenges faced by same-sex couples in the legal system and emphasizes the importance of advocating for both parents in custody cases.
About Elizabeth A. Douglas, Esq.
2024-07-0842 min
The Good Divorce Show™Navigating the Complexities of Real Estate in Divorce ft. Mercedes Barker | S2E5In this conversation, Karen McNenny and Mercedes Barker discuss the complexities of real estate in divorce. Mercedes, a certified divorce financial analyst and real estate broker, highlights the importance of considering all aspects of property division, including emotional attachments and hidden assets. They also discuss the challenges of dividing the family home, the impact of interest rates on refinancing, and the potential use of reverse mortgages. The conversation emphasizes the need for couples to work together and seek professional guidance to make informed decisions about their real estate assets.
About Mercedes Barker
Certified...2024-07-0145 min
The Good Divorce Show™Key Elements of a Good Divorce ft. Karen McMahon | S2E4Karen McMahon, a high conflict divorce strategist and certified divorce coach, shares her personal journey through a high conflict divorce and how it led her to help others navigate their own divorces. She emphasizes the importance of self-compassion, reclaiming your mental space, and focusing on personal growth during the divorce process. McMahon also discusses the key elements of a good divorce, including prioritizing the well-being of children, effective communication, and healing and moving forward without bitterness. She offers advice on choosing the right attorney and shares a success story of a client who was able to avoid litigation through...2024-06-2439 min
The Good Divorce Show™Do We Have to Go to Court? ft. Charles D. Jamieson | S2E3In this conversation, Charles Jamieson, a Certified Marital and Family Law Attorney, shares valuable insights and advice for individuals going through a divorce. He emphasizes that most divorce cases settle outside of court and encourages clients to prioritize their goals and be realistic about their expectations. He also discusses the importance of transparency with your attorney, creating a divorce mission statement, and considering a controlled separation as an alternative to divorce. Additionally, he provides guidance for same-sex couples and the unique legal considerations they may face.
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Charles D. Jamieson, Board Certified in Marital and Family...2024-06-1745 min
The Good Divorce Show™Tips for Managing Finances Post-Divorce ft. Olivia Summerhill | S2E2Olivia Summerhill, a niche specialist in high net-worth divorces, shares her personal experience of growing up in a wealthy family and witnessing her parents' destructive divorce. She emphasizes the importance of handling finances and emotions correctly during divorce to protect children and achieve financial independence.
Olivia discusses the unique challenges faced by high-net-worth individuals in divorce, including the fear of financial insecurity and the need for financial literacy. She advises women to understand their financial situation, work with professionals who align with their values, and normalize conversations about money and divorce.
Olivia also provides practical...2024-06-1034 min
The Good Divorce Show™Season 2 Intro: A Good Divorce is Possible | S2E1Welcome to SEASON TWO of the Good Divorce Show™!
Your Good Divorce Coach™, Karen McNenny, is focused on providing support and guidance for individuals going through divorce or struggling with their former spouse.
The podcast aims to promote a less destructive and more balanced approach to divorce, ensuring the well-being of both parents and children. This season's topics include real estate, finances, co-parenting, healthy communication, and so much more!
Just as with Season One, Season Two will feature interviews with professionals in the world of good divorce along with stories from individuals who have...2024-06-0311 min
Intentional Divorce InsightsHow to Have a GOOD Divorce - TogetherIn this episode of Intentional Divorce Insights, host Leah Hadley welcomes Karen McNenny, a certified divorce coach and mediator with over 25 years of professional experience. Karen discusses the complexities of co-parenting as divorced parents with teenagers, addressing issues such as curfew, homework, grades, driver's licenses, and financial responsibilities for their children. She emphasizes the need for unified and respectful co-parenting, especially as children potentially enter college, find partners, and start their own families.
Key Points Discussed:
- Divorce as a family matter before a legal one: For an intentional divorce, Karen suggests communicating about real...2024-03-2631 min
Divorce for Wealthy WomenThe Art of Positive Divorce: Navigating Emotional TerrainIn today's episode, we delve into the often-overlooked aspects of divorce with Karen McNenny, an expert in relationships and human behavior who brings over two decades of experience as a divorce coach. Karen sheds light on the path to a positive and constructive divorce, urging a shift in mindset towards rebuilding relationships rather than tearing them apart.
Key Takeaways:
Embracing a Positive Mindset: Karen emphasizes the importance of adopting a positive mindset when approaching divorce. Rather than focusing on animosity, she encourages couples to rebuild relationships, especially when children, common friends, and business p...2023-12-1922 minThe Good Divorce Show™Co-Parenting Expert Christina McGheeThis week Karen is joined by co-parenting expert and pioneer in the Good Divorce Movement, Christina McGhee.2023-11-0656 minThe Good Divorce Show™Coffee Talk - Listener QuestionsHave you ever felt Divorce Envy? How about the post-divorce honeymoon period Karen refers to as Divorgasmic? Do your young adult children know what life looks like for them when they come home from college? What should you do with your wedding ring? Is there an expectation or obligation that you will send your former spouse a birthday card? How long should you wait before you start dating again? Karen will be answering these questions and more from listeners just like you. Tune in to gather valuable insights on how to move forward and reinvent yourself post-divorce.2023-10-3053 minThe Good Divorce Show™Encore "The Road to Splitsville" w/ Dr. Ronald Raymond, Jeffrey StephensDivorce is an unfortunate reality for a staggering number of people every year. Here with common sense suggestions are attorney Jeffrey Stephens and psychologist Dr. Ronald Raymond.2023-10-2351 minThe Good Divorce Show™My Teen Daughter's Divorce ExperienceWhat does a Good Divorce look like from a child's perspective? Karen gets the straight answers from her own daughter, 18-year-old Sophia, who reflects on 12 years of living across two homes, on watching her parents move on, and on how her experience shaped her ideas about family, relationships, and love.2023-10-1656 minThe Good Divorce Show™Encore: How To Have a Kid-Centered DivorceIt's unavoidably hard on kids when their parents split. But divorce doesn't have to be a source of trauma.2023-10-0955 minThe Good Divorce Show™Encore: What is the Good Divorce Experience?In this episode I am going to break down what a Divorce Coach can do for you. In particular, the Good Divorce Journey I lead couples through is unique in the divorce community.2023-10-0253 minThe Good Divorce Show™Encore Coffee Talk: How Divorce Coaching Works (& What to Expect!)In this episode I am going to break down what a Divorce Coach can do for you. In particular, the Good Divorce Journey I lead couples through is unique in the divorce community.2023-09-2553 minThe Good Divorce Show™Coffee Talk: 6 Tips For Sharing 1 Family Across 2 HomesYour marriage is complete. Now it's time to figure out how to distribute your kids' lives across two homes.2023-09-1851 minThe Good Divorce Show™It Doesn't Have to Be a BattleYou wouldn't remodel your home without having any say in it.2023-09-1152 minThe Good Divorce Show™Don't Make These Money Mistakes!If you're thinking about or getting divorced, you need to learn how to keep your net worth from getting net worse! Join Karen as she talks with Stacy Francis, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, about the most common money mistakes people make when ending their marriage. In this episode you'll learn: What CFDAs do that other financial experts don't What to look for when seeking a divorce financial analyst What happens if your ex (or you!) tries to hide assets, and how to find out if they are The 4 things to think about when divvying up an asset with your...2023-08-2859 minThe Good Divorce Show™It's Time to Have "The Money Talk"What's harder to talk about than divorce? How about ...2023-08-211h 00The Good Divorce Show™Cover Your Assets!Some of the most important financial decisions you ever make are often made when you're most vulnerable, like in the process of divorce.2023-08-141h 00The Good Divorce Show™The Mom's Guide to a Good DivorceIf only there were some kind of handbook for navigating the unique challenges of divorce when you have children! Well, there is! Spend an hour with Karen and Sarah Armstrong—mother, VP of Global Marketing Operations at Google, and author of The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce: What to Think Through When Children are Involved—as they discuss the keys to creating a good divorce for your kids. Included in this week's episode:
• The benefits of therapy for both parent and child --
• How, when, and where to tell your kids about the divorce --
• How to explain to your kids...2023-08-071h 05The Good Divorce Show™Have You Considered "The Big C"?Are you contemplating the Big D(ivorce)? Then you might want to consider what lawyers call the Big C: Collaborative divorce.2023-07-3153 minThe Good Divorce Show™Navigating Religion, Sacrifice, & the Death of a Co-ParentAs a young and naive bride Shelby Humphreys had no way of knowing the marital journey she had chosen would be fraught with so many twists and turns.2023-07-2459 minThe Good Divorce Show™How To Have a Kid-Centered DivorceIt's unavoidably hard on kids when their parents split. But divorce doesn't have to be a source of trauma.2023-07-1755 minThe Good Divorce Show™How to Go From Heartbreak to HappinessWhen Sara Davison was blindsided by a sudden, devastating breakup, she found that there was no blueprint for her recovery. So, she invented one, and today she's the UK's premier divorce coach.2023-07-1054 minThe Good Divorce Show™How to Start Your Second Life!When you're going through a divorce, it can feel like your life is ending.2023-07-0350 minThe Good Divorce Show™Have a Happy Divorce!Divorces can be happy! Don't believe it? Meet Stacy and Thomas Jenkins, a happily divorced couple that runs The Happy Divorce Project, an endeavor to change how we do, and think about, divorce, so you can complete your marriage in a place of peace rather than conflict. Listen in as the Jenkinses tell Karen about:
--• Where couples most often get it wrong in the divorce process
--• How to confront the fear of being alone, so you can delight in your newfound singlehood
--• How to become your own best lover
--• The three categories of divorce, and how to tell...2023-06-2653 minThe Good Divorce Show™How You Know When It's OverOne of the newest, and most obscure, aspects of the divorce process is discernment counseling, the process of determining whether your marriage can continue or if it's reached its end. Karen talks to Dr.2023-06-1954 minThe Good Divorce Show™I Had to Leave FOR the ChildrenOne of the biggest myths about divorce is that it can only do harm to the kids of parents who decide to split.2023-06-1251 minThe Good Divorce Show™It's Impossible to Have a Human Relationship!Relationships are hard; you get that. But why do we MAKE them so hard?! Karen meets with Dr. Sean Fitzpatrick of the Jung Center to map out the pitfalls of romantic relationships that we all fall into and how we can help ourselves out of them.2023-06-0552 minThe Good Divorce Show™Encore What if your lawyer is less like a shark & more like Mr. Rogers?Hailed as "too normal* to be a lawyer" or ... "you're like a lawyer, but nice?" Meri Althauser is not your typical divorce lawyer.2023-05-2953 minThe Good Divorce Show™Coffee Talk: How Divorce Coaching Works (& What to Expect!)In this episode I am going to break down what a Divorce Coach can do for you. In particular, the Good Divorce Journey I lead couples through is unique in the divorce community.2023-05-2253 minThe Good Divorce Show™Encore: Can a bad divorce have a happy ending? Let's ask Coach Jill!Jill Barnett Kaufman has a long history with divorce. Once coming out the other side of her own divorce she began to make a career out of helping others move through divorce without making the same expensive mistakes she did.2023-05-1552 minThe Good Divorce Show™Get a Handle on Your Finances: Before, During, & After DivorceThis is going to be a valuable conversation, literally. Penny Kidd is not an investor or advisor, she’s a Financial Coach.2023-05-0851 minThe Good Divorce Show™Coffee Talk: Advice for people watching the divorce go downThis episode was inspired by a recent episode of one of my favorite PodCasts - HIDDEN BRAIN. The research being shared was about kindness and how we generally underestimate the impact an act of kindness can have on others.2023-05-0155 minThe Good Divorce Show™Are you sure you want to do this? ft. Susan Myres, Divorce LawyerWith over 40 years of practicing family law in the Houston area, we graciously welcome Susan Myres to share her expertise and a look inside the world of divorce from an attorney’s point of view.2023-04-2455 minThe Good Divorce Show™Encore: How do you raise a child together across two homes?Kyle and Kelly have a long history that goes back to preschool in Illinois. Fate brought them back together in the Rocky Mountain West where they met again 25 years later. Shortly thereafter they discovered they were pregnant.2023-04-1753 minThe Good Divorce Show™Coffee Talk: Breaking up is hard to do!We need to have the hard conversation about having hard conversations. Most of us feel unskilled when faced with disagreement and conflict. Ending any relationship can be a complex mix of grief and relief.2023-04-1054 minThe Good Divorce Show™Can a bad divorce have a happy ending? Let's ask Coach Jill!Jill Barnett Kaufman has a long history with divorce. Once coming out the other side of her own divorce she began to make a career out of helping others move through divorce without making the same expensive mistakes she did.2023-04-0352 minThe Good Divorce Show™Who would want their "X" to move back in decades after divorcing?This is no ordinary divorce story. In fact, it has the makings of an entertaining romantic comedy.2023-03-2753 minThe Good Divorce Show™"The Road to Splitsville" w/ Dr. Ronald Raymond, Jeffrey StephensDivorce is an unfortunate reality for a staggering number of people every year. Here with common sense suggestions are attorney Jeffrey Stephens and psychologist Dr. Ronald Raymond.2023-03-2051 minThe Good Divorce Show™What does it look like when your "X" becomes your new neighbor?Matt and Aimee McQuilken were the entrepreneurial business darlings of their community. After 18 years of marriage they were met with the difficult task of unraveling not only their family home, but also business ventures and real estate investments.2023-03-1352 minThe Good Divorce Show™Can divorce actually improve the relationship between parents?Two creatives, Erin and Mitch, approached their divorce with compassion, grace and intention. Even their mediator wondered if they should actually get divorced.2023-03-0653 minThe Good Divorce Show™Coffee Talk with Coach KarenHello listeners! Join me as I riff, rant, and reflect on a few things that can help you in your quest for a Good Divorce. I will also be responding to questions from YOU.2023-02-2753 minThe Good Divorce Show™What if your lawyer is less like a shark & more like Mr. Rogers?Hailed as "too normal* to be a lawyer" or ... "you're like a lawyer, but nice?" Meri Althauser is not your typical divorce lawyer.2023-02-2053 minThe Good Divorce Show™How does a same-sex couple divorce if the marriage isn't legal?Listen to the unique journey of one same sex couple as they navigate the “invisible divorce”. What happens when couples in the LGBTQ community live a married life and then divorce without the guardrails of the law.2023-02-1353 minThe Good Divorce Show™What happens when the child & step-parent bond turns out awesome?Navigating the new dynamics of a blended family can be a rocky road for any family. This week listen to master storyteller and author, Elke Govertsen as she shares her experience as a child of divorce.2023-02-0652 minThe Good Divorce Show™How do you raise a child together across two homes?Kyle and Kelly have a long history that goes back to preschool in Illinois. Fate brought them back together in the Rocky Mountain West where they met again 25 years later. Shortly thereafter they discovered they were pregnant.2023-01-3053 minThe Good Divorce Show™What happens when the marriage ends and the band breaks up?They shared a business, a recording studio, and a fan base. Virtually every aspect of their personal and professional lives were intertwined.2023-01-231h 01The Good Divorce Show™Why would anyone want to talk about divorce, on purpose?This week Karen shares the background to a groundbreaking show. Karen is a relationship and human behavior expert. Her super power is understanding and navigating the dynamics between people (be it personal or professional).2023-01-1652 min