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Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S8E25 Meet the Founder of RAINN: Scott Berkowitz (Uploaded for Spotify)'There are people who want to create change, and there are people who don't want to create change.' This week, we are joined by the incredible Scott Berkowitz for an engaging and timely conversation on sexual violence advocacy. Listen in as Scott and Katie discuss the formative moments of over 30 years of activism, current resources available to survivors, and visions for hope. Scott Berkowitz is the founder and president of RAINN, the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization. Under his leadership, RAINN has become a transformative national force; the organization has supported more than 5 million s...

2026-02-121h 00

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S8E25 Meet the Founder of RAINN: Scott Berkowitz'There are people who want to create change, and there are people who don't want to create change.' This week, we are joined by the incredible Scott Berkowitz for an engaging and timely conversation on sexual violence advocacy. Listen in as Scott and Katie discuss the formative moments of over 30 years of activism, current resources available to survivors, and visions for hope. Scott Berkowitz is the founder and president of RAINN, the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization. Under his leadership, RAINN has become a transformative national force; the organization has supported more than 5 million s...

2026-02-121h 00

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories Re:wind to Re:process Track S6E2 White House Sidewalk Sit-inSpeak truth to power with the incredible Jon Vaugh and Josh Rubin in this 2024 episode of Dear Katie. This week we share the powerful voices of Jon Vaughn and Josh Rubin. Jon Vaughn made waves around the world as one of the few to publicly speak out against the abuse of University of Michigan doctor Robert Anderson in 2020, leading over 1000 survivors in a lawsuit against the university that settled in 2022. Today, he is a testament to the power of speaking out and advocating for what is right against all odds. Host: Katie Koestner Ed...

2025-08-211h 15

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories Re:wind to Re:process Track S2E6 Centered Safety (Special Guest: Aishah Shahidah Simmons)Listen and learn from our fantastic special guest in this classic interview on the Dear Katie Podcast. In this week's episode, Claire and Katie sit down with Aishah Shahidah Simmons to discuss her survivorship, and the trauma and healing that would develop her artistic voice. Aishah’s lived experiences as a survivor of childhood and adult sexual violence, a Black feminist lesbian, and a long-term Buddhist practitioner inform the creation of her work. Aishah Shahidah Simmons (she/her) is the creator of the 2006 groundbreaking Ford Foundation-funded film, NO! The Rape Documentary, and the editor of the 2020 Lam...

2025-06-2640 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories Re:wind to Re:process Track S1E10 Expert Episode: Gordon Braxton, Author of Empowering Black Boys to Challenge Rape CultureSit back and enjoy fantastic insights from our phenomenal guest Gordon Braxton. Gordon Braxton joins Katie and Claire to discuss how his work as an activist and educator has shaped his upcoming book, which focuses on violence prevention and specifically addresses black boys. Braxton talks about challenging stereotypes, changing narratives, and the hope he sees in the next generation. Braxton is a graduate of the University of Virginia and the Harvard Graduate School of Education. He was a peer educator in an all-male anti-violence group at the University of Virginia and won the Black Fraternal Co...

2025-03-2030 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories Re:wind to Re:process Track S1E15 Laura Davis, Author of The Courage to HealFind new insights with this classic episode of the Dear Katie Podcast, featuring Laura Davis. Laura Davis has helped survivors world over with her book The Courage To Heal, co-authored by Laura Bass. She has now written a memoir of her fraught relationship with her mother. The Shining Light of Two Stars is a riveting story of the love and anger that drew them together and pulled them apart in the decades since Laura told her mother that her grandfather sexually abused her. In this episode of Dear Katie: Survivor Stories, Laura discusses the dangers and the b...

2025-01-1645 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories Re:wind to Re:Process Track S1E6 Jennifer Hirsch and Shamus Khan, Authors of Sexual CitizensThis week, listen to one of our favorite classic episodes to reabsorb new insights from Jennifer Hirsch and Samus Khan, authors of Sexual Citizens. On our first expert episode, Katie and Claire sit down with Jennifer Hirsch and Shamus Khan to discuss their book Sexual Citizens: Sex, Power, and Assault on Campus. Published in January 2020, Sexual Citizens analyzes why sexual assault is so prevalent on college campuses, and how space and power dynamics influence who has control. Jennifer Hirsch is a professor of Socio-medical Sciences at the Mailman School of Public Health at Columbia University. S...

2024-11-2145 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories Re:wind to Re:process Track S1E11 Anthony Edwards, Author and SurvivorThis week, listen to one of our favorite classic episodes to reabsorb new insights from Anthony Edwards. Actor Anthony Edwards joins Katie and Claire to discuss the sexual abuse he experienced starting at the age of 12 by a trusted adult mentor, and how that experience informs his acting, his career, and his personal life. Edwards is a four-time Emmy-nominated actor and winner of the Golden Globe Award in 1998 for his work on the network television series ER. He most recently performed as Mr. Franklin in the Broadway revival of Children of a Lesser God and as Mars Har...

2024-10-2439 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S6E14 Talking to Bushes in NYC'The beauty of the liberation is ... knowing the self, having compassion, and developing a rapport with the self.' Battling through a cosmic storm, Edy Nathan and Katie discuss deep intuition, becoming your own negotiator, and partnering with grief. A psychotherapist and grief counselor, Edy shares strategies for thriving with and beyond loss and trauma. Find out more about her work here: https://edynathan.com/ Host: Katie Koestner Editor: Evan Mader Producers: Emily Wang and Catrina Aglubat

2024-09-2638 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S5E18 Decolonizing and Questioning for HealingThis week, we get to know Dr. Shena Young, a psychologist healer and mental health futurist in LA. We listen as she talks about her life role to hold space for Black individuals healing from trauma, and she puts into perspective how important it is to understand the mind, body, and spirit. For more information on Shena and her work, visit www.embodiedtruthhealing.com Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Benter Oluoch Producer: Emily Wang

2024-05-0231 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S5E17 Victim Centered JusticeIn this week’s episode, Guy D’Andrea, attorney at LBK, dives into his advocacy and how he navigates sexual assault cases in institutional settings. Sharing his expertise, he sheds light on how the legal system operates and the connections he can make with his clients. Host: Katie Koestner Editor: Evan Mader Producer: Emily Wang

2024-04-2540 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S5E16 Law and Order CanadaBen Perrin, a law professor at the University of British Columbia, shares his work breaking the cycles of trauma and abuse. He gives insight into his personal experiences working with his wife, who is a victim of childhood abuse, and how this development has shaped his life and relationship. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Evan Mader Producer: Emily Wang

2024-04-1847 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S5E15 17 Years, a Baby, and a Guy in NicaraguaVictimized by her college study buddy, Melissa spends 17 years in Nicaragua mentally paralyzed and avoiding memories of her assault. Finally brave enough to return to the United States, Melissa opened her mind to healing, and today, shares how she uses her experiences to inspire others. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Benter Oluoch Producer: Emily Wang

2024-04-1142 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S5E14 Deck of Cards for Healing MantrasIn today's episode, Zahabiyah Yamasaki, founder of “Transcending Sexual Trauma Through Yoga”, gives us a glimpse of her work with trauma survivors. Due to her college stranger rape at the University of California - Irvine, Zahabiyah has dedicated herself to helping others who have also experienced trauma explore their mind body connection, feeling safe in their body, and healing. In her work, she emphasizes the importance of community through survivorship, where resilience and tenderness shine through. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Evan Mader Producer: Emily Wang

2024-04-0447 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S5E13 Class Clown on Death RowMeeting by chance on a plane, Katie interviews Brandy Jeffries, a stand-up comedian and actor who also works in a security prison on death row. Brandy talks about the importance of the delivery of her jokes and her calculated approach to death row prisoners, which, despite being very different job descriptions, have very similar race and gender judgments. Ultimately, through Katie’s experience with sexual assault, and Brandy’s experience with working with rapists in prison, they inspire their audience to be bold, courageous, and find their own community. Hosts: Katie Koestner and Claire Kaplan Edit...

2024-03-281h 12

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S5E12 Scrumptious Bunches of Fresh FlowersAfter losing her brother, her first perpetrator, Juliette tells the story of her family violence and five-man assault while studying abroad in Spain. Spending nine months in the hospital left her in physical trauma, shock, and with body image issues. Through her healing work, she becomes engaged in mind-body connections and uses her expertise to establish boundaries and communication with others. Within her journey to recovery, Juliette devotes her life to advocating for survivors, teaching them how to be selfish, take care of themselves, and strengthen their minds. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: E...

2024-03-2139 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S5E11 Kicking CatsThis week, we discuss the connection between animal abuse and domestic violence with Phil Arkow, President & Secretary of the National Link Coalition. An internationally acclaimed lecturer, author, and educator, he is a consultant for the American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals and chairs the Latham Foundation’s Animal Abuse and Family Violence Prevention Project. He trains internationally on interdisciplinary topics for animal shelters, child protection agencies, domestic violence programs, adult protective services, law enforcement, prosecutors, judges, and veterinarians. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Benter Oluoch Producers: Emily Wang and...

2024-03-1438 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S5E10 Long Legal Walks with Luna the Therapy DogThis week, we sit down with Darcilyn Hall to discuss the ins and outs of sexual assault litigation. She addresses the role of trauma-informed legal practices and the need for sensitivity when working with survivors, including her own practice's amenities such as Luna the therapy dog. Hosts: Katie Koestner and Emily Wang Editor: Benter Oluoch Producers: Emily Wang and Luiza Leite

2024-03-071h 07

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S5E9 200 Mile Run"I remember the feeling of being undressed before being undressed." A recovering people pleaser, Maeve ignores the red flags and her gut when she meets her Tinder date. She tries to be kind, fighting feelings of guilt as she lets him into her room. As he continues to push her boundaries, she calls for her roommate, but her roommate gets back too late. At first in shock, Maeve shares her journey from self-harm, through self-respect and healing. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Evan Mader Producers: Emily Wang and Luiza Le...

2024-02-2941 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S5E8 Angel in the Legal Heavens for VictimsA lawyer focusing on institutional accountability for child sexual assault, Hansen Dirani shares his soul-shaking passion and energy with us to advocate for survivors of violence. His beliefs, while unconventional, reveal a deep care and unwavering strength in the face of a culture of complicity and silence. If you or a person you know needs an advocate, please make use of our free legal hotline, 567-SHATTER (567-742-8837), or visit our website here: https://takebackthenight.org/legal-assistance/. Hosts: Katie Koestner and Emily Wang Editor: Evan Mader Producers: Emily Wang and Luiza L...

2024-02-221h 18

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S5B1 Learning, Art, and HealingIn this bonus segment, we introduce two new cohosts taking on our interviews! Emily Wang is the Senior Producer for the Dear Katie Podcast and is currently a graduate student in cell biology. She has an academic interest in sexual violence prevention and started the Dear Katie Podcast alongside Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner. Luiza Leite is the Associate Producer for the Dear Katie Podcast and is currently biological sciences and art history. She has been working with the Dear Katie Podcast for a year and is interested in art and healing. Editor: Eva...

2024-02-2210 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S5E7 Hot Matcha LatteWalking away from his anger and jealousy, Isabella breaks it off with her college boyfriend. However, his abuse and manipulation follow her, and he assaults her in her home. Following a journey of healing and justice, she shares her story with us today. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Benter Oluoch Producers: Emily Wang and Luiza Leite

2024-02-1536 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S5E6 Total Body BadassNew college student Kiley does her best to deal with the Covid outbreak on campus, spending time with her boyfriend and his roommates. In love for the first time, she finds herself in uncomfortable situations with this group, until one of his roommates attacks her. She walks away, in shock, living in silence until months later. Kiley shares her journey from breaking her silence and dealing with the backlash to self-care and helping survivors today. Hosts: Katie Koestner and Claire Kaplan Editor: Benter Oluoch Producers: Emily Wang and Luiza Leite

2024-02-0833 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S5E5 Mermaids Walking on Their ToesAuthor and ally Michael Emberger shares his voice and knowledge, advocating for men to take charge and act as true supporters for survivors of sexual assault. His book, Believed, focuses on the suffering of mermaid and college student Kelsea, who stands on a tail and two fins to fight the most painful trial of her life. Despite her trauma and a crisis of faith, she speaks the truth of what her rapist did, but will she be believed? Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Evan Mader Producers: Emily Wang and Luiza Leite

2024-02-0132 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S5E4 Jane Doe is a MonsterIn today's episode, filmmaker and actress Emma Fitzpatrick discusses the the importance of telling stories that give a voice to the voiceless. As a writer, she has contributed to the success of multiple social media campaigns highlighting women’s issues and gender equality including #SHEPLAYSWEWIN which garnered media attention for its positive portrayal and message to young women in athletics. She most recently wrote and produced the feature film “Take Back the Night,” a monster movie that plays out as an allegory for the horrors of victim blaming in rape culture. The film was released in March of 2022 and has be...

2024-01-2528 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S5E3 Re-Membering for HealingDeb Grassman and Jo Jones share their vision of a world free of sexual violence and a path to healing from 'soul injury'. Often, trauma separates us from ourselves, and the process of healing reconnects us with the self, 're-membering'. Deborah Grassman is a Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner and author of two books, Peace at Last and The Hero Within. . She discovered a phenomenon that has become identified as “Soul Injury” – a wound that separates you from your own sense of self. Deborah then founded a non-profit organization called Opus Peace to bring the Soul Injury message to others...

2024-01-1949 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S5E2 Blue Gingham with Purple RibbonsSandy shares a harrowing personal tale of the end of 17-year relationship; their ex displays a violent temper, lashing out at everyone in her path. They find themselves living in fear, seeking justice and searching for community, transforming their story into one of hope and friendship. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Benter Oluoch Producers: Emily Wang and Luiza Leite

2024-01-1123 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S5E1 Rain DropletsGraduating high school with her first child, Schenika misses the first signs of her partner's abuse. After years of living subject to his violence, she is finally pushed to free her family from his terror when her children begin sleeping with knives under their pillows. In a daring exodus, Schenika plans meticulously and finally paves the way to her family's freedom, breaking away from her abuser. Years of hardship and silence later, she finds herself sharing her story and speaking her truth to help other survivors. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Evan Mader...

2024-01-0455 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E25 Hot for Bachata and Cha Chastephani candelaria (she/her/ella) is a musician/activist and trauma-informed, decolonization-focused educator from San Juan Bautista, California (Amah Mutsun tribal land). They hold a Masters degree in Education from Mills College in Oakland, CA (Ohlone tribal land), and has more than 10 years experience in education spaces, from gender-based workshop development and implementation, to social justice-centered curriculum development and classroom teaching, to community engagement via her musical platform. Her work is centered around indigenous-informed healing for folks who identify as BIPOC, queer, women, and/or survivors of sexual and domestic violence. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner

2023-12-2842 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E24 6 Figure Sales and All the Curves"God, please save me, I don't want to die." Abused and in denial, Angeline is subject to constant terror from her husband; after being sent to the emergency room, she finally finds the courage to put her foot down and file for divorce. Throughout a year-long journey of healing and self-advocacy, she frees herself from domestic violence, carving a new path for herself into independence and strength. Today, Angeline Constantinou is an empowerment partner who works with others in the transition from victims to victors, sharing her story through her podcast and business. Find her work at...

2023-12-2152 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E23 Eyes on the I’s'You give them an inch, and all of a sudden it becomes a mile. And it happens in the blink of an eye.' Sam is a young sophomore in college, excited for a movie double date with her friend. She goes to his room with him, where he takes advantage of her and assaults her. Unsupported by her friends, she navigates her experiences with a so-called 'nice guy' alone. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Evan Mader Producers: Emily Wang and Luiza Leite

2023-12-1454 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E22 Ocean Wave TherapyLike any 14-year-old, Ashley is excited when a guy takes an interest in her at a school dance. Her high-school meet-cute quickly becomes a nightmare as her boyfriend controls and stalks her. Unknowingly, this young relationship would set the foundation for her future abusers, until she finds empowerment through education and self-awareness. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Tyler Thomas Producers: Emily Wang and Luiza Leite

2023-12-0738 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E21 94 Languages“It starts with rolling a stone and getting it tumbling and then building this avalanche. That’s my call to action.” Blake shares the destructive force of his first sexual experiences; betrayed by the prince of his dreams, he finds himself questioned and doubted by those he reaches out to for help. He is ignored and silenced, drowning in incredible pain, when a chance TV moment sparks his will to survive and speak his truth. If you are a journalist or an agent of change interested in contacting Blake to answer his call to action, reach o...

2023-11-3035 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E20 Pentagang of KidsHer family served as the perfect hunting ground for a predator. Until the age of 11, Jeannie is stalked by a man who has inserted himself into every aspect of her home life. Filled with shame about her sexual history, she seeks validation in sexual attention. Living today with the vivid and raw moments still etched into her mind, Jeannie teams up with her children to share resources and help strengthen her community. On her own journey of healing, she voices her passion for supporting others by naming stigmas and sharing her story. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Ko...

2023-11-2348 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E19 Salsa and Spas"I was aware what sex was and I was also aware that what was happening was wrong." At 7 years old, Kerri learns to shut up. She takes on the job of taking care of her baby brother, suffering in silence when she is abused by her older brother. Through an incredible journey of healing and resilience, Kerri speaks with us today about how to develop a toolbox to set boundaries and let go of others' messes. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Tyler Thomas Producers: Emily Wang and Luiza Leite

2023-11-1650 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E18 Strawberry VaginasAt 17, Georgia is drawn to the independent allure of an older man. Brutalized in her new relationship, she finds herself subject to horrific sexual experiences that leave her intimidated and fearful. She bottles up her feelings, letting them sit on the back burner until she can no longer ignore them, finding herself sitting in her garage and attempting to end her own life. To pull herself out of the darkness, she throws away everything that doesn't work for her. Georgia Reash is a visual artist and author who uses her work to heal and prevent sexual trauma. I...

2023-11-0950 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E17 Funko Pop Star WarsBasking in kindness from a teacher, Aaron finds a mentor in this new friend. Grateful for his support, Aaron regularly meets with him and he becomes a father figure; but one day, this teacher rapes him. Filled with shame, Aaron lies about his experience to his mom. Today, as a parent, educator, and veteran, he speaks up about his experiences with grooming and the culture of silence around sexual violence between men. Check out Aaron's amazing work at 18winters.com Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Evan Mader Producers: Emily W...

2023-11-0232 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E16 Contortionist Sitting on Head'I had no context for what was appropriate behavior. At the time, it was so confusing I didn't know what was happening.' A former circus performer, Aly shares her experiences with discrimination and sexual harassment working on a cruise ship. Facing constant targeting over the course of a year, she eventually left the ship after being diagnosed with PTSD. Today, Aly shares her journey with us, bringing to light the difficulties of working in a field where abuse and silence are normalized. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Benter Oluoch

2023-10-2642 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E15 Phantom’s Opera RememberedChloe was in the house of the man she was seeing when his landlord came down the stairs completely naked. Their intentions were clear. “Not gonna happen,” she said, but she could tell it was all planned. The two men cornered and raped her. Like many other survivors, she repressed the memories of the abuse until they became too loud to ignore. One day, the word RAPE flashed in her head and she decided to get help. Today, she shares her experiences living with PTSD and how trauma affected her sexuality and relationships. Now, her journey is abou...

2023-10-1928 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E14 Acting Up and OutNeglected and abused by her parents, child Emma finds solace in the housekeeper. Her mother is violent towards her, and her father sexually abuses her; knowing that husbands and wives have sex with each other, young Emma assumes that when her parents divorce she is next in line. Her misunderstanding of sexuality and external pressure to be normal pushes her to navigate the world without boundaries and she comes into her adulthood through chaos and instability. Emma Goldman-Sherman, an accomplished playwright and holistic health coach, shares her experiences with autism and healing with us today. Hosts: Claire K...

2023-10-1229 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E13 Popping Taylor, Rapping NFLike any other seven-year-old, Simi teases her bus conductor and annoys him, playfully pointing out that he is unmarried. He hits her in front of other students and teachers, and she apologizes. But his resentment grows, and he later follows her into the bathroom and rapes her. Simi cleans herself up as best as she can, goes home, and goes to bed, coping with her pain in silence. Worried about her family's honor, she stays quiet, until she finds strength and support in her new friends and community. Hosts: Katie Koestner and Claire Kaplan Editor: B...

2023-10-0537 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E12 Goalkeeper on All FieldsMeeting by chance on a flight, Katie is joined by Brad Friedel, who played all over the world for the US national soccer team as a goalkeeper. Now, he works in media and consulting for professional teams and represents players. Because of his career, Brad offers an interesting perspective on the issues facing women in sports. In this episode, he discusses the differences he witnessed for women and other minorities as players, referees, and commentators in contrast to what he lived and saw as a man. Host: Katie Koestner Editor: Benter Oluoch Producers...

2023-09-2849 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E11 Triple Strength OlympianAt 11, Margaret begins to understand and come to terms with new feelings from her childhood; during a class on child abuse, she realizes that she was molested. In a painful journey of vulnerability, she shares her experience with her parents and best friend but doesn't feel perfect enough to share her story with the world. An Olympic swimmer who sought solace in the water, Margaret eventually realizes that everyone has a right to tell their story, good or bad. Today, Margaret Hoelzer speaks out to advocate for survivors and shares her healing journey. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and K...

2023-09-2154 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E10 Sloping Scales of Justice“No one ever regrets fighting the good fight, whether it is for yourself or for your children.” In this episode, Amanda Lee (Bubbles & Bubbly in a Bottle) discusses her experience with justice. To bring an expert perspective into the conversation, we invite Michael Lesher, a lawyer and writer, to discuss the American justice system. Michael has authored publications focused on the experiences of protective parents going through divorces where the other parent is the child’s abuser. The family court might be looking out for the child's best interests, but in cases like this, conventional practices can be dan...

2023-09-1436 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E9 Soul Singing and PsychotherapyAs a boy, Greg was groomed by an older friend, who showed him pornography for the first time and pushed him to engage in sexual acts. He struggled to accept that this abuse happened to him as a man and couldn’t share his experience for a decade. As a young adult, Marcel suffered intense physical and sexual abuse after being held at gunpoint by an invader. His faith allowed him to survive the traumatizing experience that left him hospitalized. Greg and Marcel are bound by survivorship; today, they both are advocates for male victims of...

2023-09-0752 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E8 All My Favorite Men are DeadStruggling to find community in her first year of college, Kate finds support in her sister's ex-boyfriend, who had been friends with her since her high school years. He takes her to a concert, an experience she had been yearning for, only to pull her away to the school jacuzzis. After an uncomfortable pushing of boundaries, she asks to be taken home, only for him to take her to his house. Kate tries to re-establish her own space multiple times, only for her supposed friend to continue to push his way in. The night is a blur - and...

2023-08-3130 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E7 Tennis String Strength (Part 2)Drinking himself to sleep every night as a young teen, we rejoin Isaac at the beginning of his journey toward healing. In the second part of his powerful interview, he shares more about the psychological toll of sexual violence and the progressive decline in his mental health. Turning toward recovery in the hospital, Isaac talks about coping mechanisms, looking for help, and learning the language of survivorship. With the guidance of an advocate, he was able to find himself beyond trauma, transform suffering to power and positivity, and become a speaker for sexual assault awareness. Host...

2023-08-2427 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E6 Tennis String Strength (Part 1)“I could not tell another living person about what happened to me.” Invited to a house party by his older boyfriend, 14-year-old Isaac is used to sneaking out to enjoy the college scene. His sense of youthful invincibility is quickly sabotaged by a man who targets him when he is alone. Overpowered by the scent of Old Spice and smothered by a pillow, his experiences become entangled with feelings of shame and self-blame that clamor through his mind. After two years of silence and repression, he was able to acknowledge his pain and seek help from a sexu...

2023-08-1742 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E5 Kintsugi and Self-PortraitsSmitten with her new boyfriend, young Brooke plans to skip school to meet her beau in the city. A good student, she changes her mind to focus on her upcoming quiz, much her sweetheart's annoyance. When she does see him, he berates her for her choices; she begins to search for a way out, but he corners her in the bedroom. Paralyzed with fear, she is smothered by him as he forces himself on her. Further silenced by his excuses, Brooke finds herself manipulated into an abusive relationship with him - one she later frees herself from. 20 years later...

2023-08-1040 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E4 Speedy ShutterLauren's job as a photographer for the university sports teams leads her to meet a football player she comes to think of as her best friend. She welcomes him into her home, and though he called her his “sister”, he takes advantage of her trust and assaults her on her favorite green sheets. When Lauren reports the assault to Title IX, the university fails shield her from the hostility of her abuser and his friends; furthermore, his guilty verdict yields minimal consequences. Today, she shares the pain she faced trying to acheive justice, and the strength she has found alon...

2023-08-0330 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E3 6:15am Peloton CardioJumping in the car with some friends, Jennifer finds herself the target of a new acquaintance. To cope with the shame and pain, she turns to alcohol and drugs, becoming an addict before she starts 7th grade. After 10 years of active addiction, she ends up in rehab where she was able to start her journey to sobriety and healing. Now, Jennifer Storm is 25 years sober, a published author, and has been working as a victim advocate for 20 years. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Nick Bratchell Producers: Emily Wang and Luiza Liete

2023-07-2936 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E2 Alethea Sings UnveiledInsidious and powerful, the La Luz del Mundo Megachurch's indoctrination permeates Alethea's community for generations. The good girl of her church choir, she finds herself the target of the second apostle's grooming at the age of 11, with her family coaching her to search for salvation in church leadership. Immersed in the disturbing culture where young girls urge to serve their leader unconditionally, Alethea Coronado, fourth generation survivor of a religious cult, would only realize that she was violated after an apostle was arrested for sexual crimes against children. Today, she shares her voice alongside Jennifer Tiexeira, the HBO producer...

2023-07-2038 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S4E1 Bubbles and Bubbly in a Bottle“It's never going to happen again. I am going to get help.” The most dangerous words an abuser can say. After the first time her ex-partner got physical, Amanda stayed with him, trapped until he forced her hand and put the kids in danger. Surviving through the mayhem of verbal and physical abuse at the hands of someone she was supposed to trust, she tells her story of resilience, looking to comfort and bring hope to others in the same situation. Today, Amanda Lee, author, single mom of two, and survivor of domestic violence, joins Katie and Clai...

2023-07-1348 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E25 40 Minute Nap with Cherry StarburstA soldier, author, and poet, Jacob Patchen writes deeply emotional stories exploring abuse, family, and mental health. Using his experiences as a combat veteran and youth counselor, he weilds the pen as a tool for inspiring hope and bravery. Jacob's works include Words That Matter, Of Love and War, and At Daddy's Hands: Courage Knows No Age. Find out more about Jake and his inciting fiction and provocative poetry here: https://jacobpaulpatchen.com/ Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Ethan Silva Producer: Emily Wang

2023-06-301h 04

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E24 Shades of MaltaTracy stumbles frantically into her daughter’s bathroom at TCU finding her slumped in the shower, wearing a t-shirt, and unresponsive. Minutes later, the authorities arrive, her daughter is pronounced dead, and Tracy’s life is changed forever. After investigation, it is determined that her daughter was raped and strangled by a man with not one, but two, prior sexual assault allegations filed against him. It is this injustice, coupled with grief, that transforms Tracy into “a mom on a mission.” Since the traumatic incident, Tracy Matheson has worked tirelessly to understand and change, the legal investigation processes around sexual a...

2023-06-1549 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E23 Electro Pop in Hollywood“I can’t play the game anymore” – After suffering abuse from both her first boyfriend and her first music producer in her final years of high school, Rachele Royale speaks out about what it means to recognize and heal from generational abuse, as well as the seemingly inexorable experience of sexual violence and womanhood. An independent singer, actress and dancer, she paints a vision of cooperation and revolution for the future generations of the music industry. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Craig Stanton Producer: Emily Wang

2023-06-0134 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E22 Deeper than Melanin'I don't want to be strong anymore - but what are the options? I have to be strong because I'm forced to be.' When the opportunity to promote and discuss her book Melanin knocks on the Marie’s door, so do the hands of a man who can’t understand the word 'no'. Her host creates an environment of discomfort - until she steps up and pushes pack. Marie shares the inner conflict of being a strong black woman: the exhaustion and frustration, as well as the ultimate acceptance and embracing of her strength and vulnerability.

2023-05-1840 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E21 NYC Pizza SnobThe bad boys are interesting, adventurous, and far more exciting the a run-of-the-mill accountant - or so Kristin thought. He quickly becomes controlling, preventing her from going out and trying to force her to stop her medication. Kristin's mental health becomes a vulnerability, a target for her abuser to leverage; however, as she heals, she finds a support system that empowers her to return to school and in turn, supporting fellow survivors. Today, she shares her knowledge and experience with trauma, as well as her own journey from victimhood to survivorship. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner

2023-05-0436 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E20 Tribes and Villages EverywhereThis week, we host Nicole Matthews, Executive Director of the Minnesota Indian Women’s Sexual Assault Coalition and proud descendant of the White Earth Band of Ojibwe. She describes the ripples of violence that colonization have sent through communities across the United States, naming the intersectional nature of violence against native women. To truly understand and enact change, we must acknowledge the ways our histories and cultures affect our experiences of and approach to violence, and shine a spotlight on neglected victims and survivors of violence. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Craig Stanton

2023-04-2135 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E19 Yoga Before BedtimeOn the first day of class, Laura sits in the back of the room, distracted by the summer heat, when her ex-boyfriend saunters in. Still friends, they hang out until the last day of class, when he invites her to celebrate with a cup of wine. Within 2 sips, she falls back and the hem of her pink skirt is seared into her mind as the last memory of the night, still present now 35 years later. Today, Laura shares her story of survivorship, her conflict with her mother, and ultimately, forgiveness. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner

2023-04-0637 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E18 Lacrosse Center Moving ForwardAt thirteen, Ray meets a new boy in her class, bumbling into her first awkward tween relationship. Her inexperience quickly becomes a vulnerability, and her new beau takes advantage of her naïveté to manipulate her into sexual activity. Blindsided by these new experiences, Ray's encounters with her young abuser become the subject of scrutiny as her school questions her story. Today, she shares her turbulent journey into adolescence, testifying to the resilience and strength of survivors as she fights the narrative of the lying victim and finds healing. Hosts: Katie Koestner and Claire Kaplan Edi...

2023-03-2336 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E17 Zuni Cafe Brine Chicken (Special Guest: Kelly Sundberg)A frog thrown in boiling water will jump out. But a frog put in a pot of water and heated to boiling will die. Author Kelly Sundberg describes her relationship with her husband, and how an initially innocent relationship slowly morphs into a storm of fear and violence. At first, her strength masks her suffering, but in the end, it saves her. Today, Kelly shares her story of abuse, survival, and liberation. To find out more about Kelly and her work, go to: https://kellysundberg.com/ Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editors: C...

2023-03-0936 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E16 Red Balloon in BellyTrauma often causes a disconnect between the body and mind; to protect ourselves from the horrors of the present, we inhibit our ability to feel. However, this can prevent us from developing the emotional resilience to find our way out of our place of pain. A survivor of suicide, Matthew Green has created a path to healing from this inner discord. In this episode, he discusses his work with 5th Place, guiding students to a place of emotional safety and stability. To find out more about 5th Place, visit https://5th.place/ Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie...

2023-02-2325 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E15 One Legged Green (Special Guest: Ken Green)Sleeping in the hallway at 12, Ken remembers mysteriously waking without pajamas, finding a family friend touching him. Threatened by the perpetrator to keep his silence, he suffers years of violence, finding golf as a refuge while isolated in a foreign country. Now, as a professional golfer, he shares his journey climbing his way out from pain, triumphing over the mental health challenges throughout his life to find his way to healing and success. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Craig Stanton Producer: Emily Wang

2023-02-0943 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E14 7 Layer Chocolate CakeFrom homeless to hero, Michael Unbroken is the author of the best-selling book Think Unbroken and is a coach, mentor, and educator for adult survivors of child abuse. He spends his time helping other survivors get out of "The Vortex" to become the HERO of their story! Michael hosts The Think Unbroken podcast and is on a mission to end generational trauma in his lifetime through education and information. Find more about Michael at https://www.thinkunbroken.com/ Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Craig Stanton Producer: Emily Wang

2023-01-2642 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E13 Rebellious CherubNew to the college dating scene, Sarah is excited to experience all of hookup culture and lose her virginity. They find themselves in a casual relationship with a frat boy who pushes their boundaries over and over again. Sarah runs those moments through her mind, doubting whether it was her fault, and quickly finds herself experiencing the darker sides of fraternity brotherhood and a sexually charged party scene. Pushing beyond the abuse, they become an advocate for the survivors in their community, triumphing over trauma and finding solace in the sisterhood of survivorship. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and K...

2023-01-1242 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E12 Ba Ba Beth SheepBarely old enough to form memories, Beth lies in fear in her bed, night after night. Her seemingly perfect family hides a dark core, burying her in psychological and sexual trauma. She emerges from her childhood a survivor, poet, and advocate, writing a path to strength and healing. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Craig Stanton Producer: Emily Wang

2022-12-2934 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E11 Running in NeonThis week, our episode features Anita Kemi DaSilva-Ibru, a Nigerian physician who is dedicated to improving the lives of women and girls through medical practice, social activism and public advocacy against gender-based violence. Professionally, Dr. DaSilva-Ibru is a consultant specialist in obstetrics and gynaecology, as well as a public health physician, with over 20 years’ experience in private practice. She is also the founder of the Women at Risk International Foundation (WARIF), a non-profit organization that addresses the prevalence of gender-based violence, rape and the trafficking of young girls and women across Nigeria. For more information on...

2022-12-1546 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E10 Superspeeding Flash (Special Guest: Shawn Schutt from Touchy Subjects)Wielding his degree in public health as a preventative weapon, Shawn shares how he navigates empathizing with intersectionally disadvantaged communities. Shawn delves into one of his processes of prevention: working with those who perpetuate hateful rhetoric. He explains the power of tracing hate back to its root, and learning what brought perpetrators to their beliefs, to better understand, and better assist the restoration of violent or hateful individuals contributing to rape culture. To hear more from Shawn Schutt, tune into the Touchy Subjects Podcast here: https://www.touchysubjectspodcast.com/ Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner

2022-12-0134 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E9 Venomous Irish JigFrom farmer’s country to rich New England town, 13-year-old Rae Beth was the new kid at her middle school. As an outcast, she found friendship in a classmate who did not share the privileges of their peers. At her new best friend’s birthday party, Rae Beth is sexually assaulted for the first time by her friend’s father, the beginning of a series of repeated, chilling instances. After six years of silence, she is now a year away from a master’s degree in social work, and a career in advocacy for sexual assault prevention. Hosts: Cl...

2022-11-1742 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E8 80% Cacao with LavenderWhile learning to heal others in medical school, young Larisa found herself targeted by a teacher, someone she was supposed to admire and trust. Her experiences led her to turn away from traditional medicine and toward holistic healing, with her understanding of sexual trauma propelling her to create The Evolving Story of Women, an advocacy group dedicated to ending sexual violence. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Craig Stanton Producer: Emily Wang

2022-11-0346 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E7 5ft Sensei Towering Over Eiffel (Expert Episode: Patti Giggans)This week, we sit down with Patti Giggans, legendary activist and Executive Director of Peace Over Violence, a non profit dedicated to ending interpersonal violence. She shares stories of one on one intervention, and how speaking with even a single individual can change minds and initiate global change. For more information on Peace Over Violence and the amazing work led by Patti and other groundbreaking activists, got to www.peaceoverviolence.org Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Craig Stanton Producer: Emily Wang

2022-10-2042 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E6 Maraschino Cherry ManhattanInspirational and empowering, Stephanie Olson speaks to leaders around the globe to share lessons on resilience; however, her journey to the present comes with lived experiences of domestic and sexual violence. From victim to powerful survivor and advocate, Stephanie shares her triumph over trauma and how to heal into success. To find out more about Stephanie Olson and her work, visit stephanieolson.com Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Craig Stanton Producer: Emily Wang

2022-10-0645 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E5 Rounded Sandstone Lake RockWhen 70’s high school lovebirds decide to go the distance in college, Shannon finds a manipulative side of her then-boyfriend. Post-breakup, in hopes of reconciliation, she visits his dorm, only to be propositioned with sex. When she says no multiple times, Shannon discovers the word doesn’t hold as much weight as she had once believed. After growing up as an Evangelical Christian, she must learn to navigate a world where impurity is sinister. Fast forward to 2022, Shannon has found hope in her husband and the resources accessible to victims today. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie...

2022-09-2238 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E4 Wah-Wah Trumpet UnmutedWhen a young Rachel falls for a fellow trumpeter at a concert, their meet-cute takes a violent and coercive turn. After he assaults her in her childhood bedroom, with nowhere to escape, Rachel develops a fear of being trapped; she scans each new room she enters for a second door. Once she discloses to her mother, Rachel finds a beacon of hope and comfort, bringing her out of the darkness and leading her toward healing. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Criag Stanton Producer: Emily Wang

2022-09-0833 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E3 Architect Brandishing Samurai SwordBorn and raised in Caracas, Venezuela, Martha Lluch has dedicated her life to creativity. Throughout the course of the years, it has become evident to her that the creative process, translates directly into how she navigates life altogether. She is currently exploring new ways to share the benefits of creativity and the design approach with others through art, yoga and her ongoing workshop: The Art of Cultivating Joy. Aside from being passionate about creativity, she is a big advocate for mental health and healing trauma - the core of the Little Raging Warrior Project. Find more about...

2022-08-2533 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E2 Sweaty Skin ExhaustionA favorite shirt becomes a memory of violence. A playful tickle triggers memories of shame and trauma. A shower leads to lies to family and friends. The scent of cologne incites terror and anxiety. An experience of trauma is shoved down and personally denied even as others come for succor and solace. Unconscious awareness leads to bizarre behaviors. Carly shares her spiral into despair and the long climb back to health. Hosts: Sandra Miles and Katie Koestner Editor: Craig Stanton Producer: Emily Wang

2022-08-1149 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S3E1 Pen and PressAfter hearing Angela's story and writing an article for the Tulane Hullabaloo, Lily shared her own story in this interview with Sandra and Katie. Her journalism focuses on sexual violence on college campuses, an experience she knows all too well. In a shift from observer to subject, she shares the trauma she experienced to bring to light the ways we are all impacted by sexual violence, and how we can work together to stop it. *Announcement: for season 3, our upload schedule has shifted to once every two weeks to accomodate more work on Take Back th...

2022-07-2944 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S2E20 Kaleidoscope in BlackBetrayed by her best friend and shunned by the people who should have supported her the most, Karoline shares her gut-wrenching experience with violence as a young teen. Join us as we discuss her journey from abuse and isolation to self-love and acceptance. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Craig Stanton Producer: Emily Wang

2022-07-2150 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S2E19 Gel, Ink, and RollerballJoseph Carrabis has been everything from a long-haul trucker to a Chief Research Scientist and holds patents covering mathematics, anthropology, neuroscience, and linguistics. Now, he spends his time writing fiction based on his childhood experiences with trauma, violence, and abuse. Told in the guise of military science fiction, his novel The Augmented Man is the story of Nick Trailer, sexually and physically abused in childhood, discovering his humanity and finding love as an adult. The pen has become his instrument for advocacy, connection, and ultimately, healing. Hosts: Katie Koestner and Claire Kaplan Editor: Craig Stanton

2022-07-1449 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S2E18 Red Velvet CakeLeah Michelle Forney survived teenage sexual assault, abuse, and violation. Growing from a belief she wasn't worthy of sharing her story, she's become an established author, team leader at crisis response centers, and marriage and family therapist. She took her rapist to court where her victimization continued by the judge, the defense counsel, and the police. These experiences and others led her to create Leahmforney.com and become an advocate and speaker to help others survive their experiences. Hosts: Katie Koestner and Sandra Miles Editor: Craig Stanton Producer: Emily Wang

2022-07-0743 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S2E16 Unbinding Both HipsLauren Duke rose from an life early trauma and family violence in north coastal California through self-shame, high-risk behavior, childhood rape, no self-worth, and self-blame to healing her wounds by self-discovery, awareness, and acceptance. Her story goes from full survival mode to teaching others to heal from their individual trauma. Her advice to others starts with "Reveal the grit. Tell your story. Get the dirt out." She shares her journey and encourages others to share their journey in this episode of Dear Katie. Hosts: Katie Koestner and Sandra Miles Editor: Craig Stanton Producer...

2022-06-2339 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S2E15 Baked Alaska MeringueBrenda Tracy survived childhood sexual abuse, domestic violence, and a gang rape by four college football players to become a mother, a registered nurse, an activist and advocate for survivors, and is known for her activism in sexual violence in sports. Now she gets men involved in sexual violence prevention on campus, does policy work, legislative work, and is the founder of the non-profit Set the Expectation Foundation and Campaign. Her ask is simple: Will you be part of the ninety percent or the ten? Hosts: Katie Koestner and Sandra Miles Editor: Craig Stanton

2022-06-1645 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S2E14 Sisterhood Synergy (Special Guests Salamishah and Scheherazade Tillet)Sisters can either be torn apart or drawn together due to sexual violence. Rutgers professor and Pulitzer Prize winner Salamishah Tillet and her sister, artist and curator Scheherazade Tillet, drew together after Salamishah shared her rape story. Together they co-founded "A Long Walk Home" to help Black women and girls share their own stories of shame, dysmorphia, injustice, recognizing trigger issues, survival, managing memories, finding community, and locating resources for recovering. Hosts: Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner Editor: Craig Stanton Producer: Emily Wang

2022-06-0950 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S2E13 Sunny Side Up (Special Guest: Angela Shelton)The road from incest survivor to internationally recognized media personality took childhood sexual assault victim Angela Shelton from the North Carolina hill country to making movies, music, and speaking frankly and openly with Claire Kaplan and Katie Koestner. In this episode, Angela talks about surviving abuse, experiencing survivor guilt, the confusion of being chosen, life as an excel spreadsheet, advocacy, and the power of healing. Hosts: Katie Koestner and Claire Kaplan Editor: Craig Stanton Producer: Emily Wang

2022-06-0257 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S2E12 Guerilla Off the Merry-Go-Round"Disclosure is a process and everyone comes to their story in a different way." Writer and Activist Donna Kaz shares how she found her way to radical feminism after she was raped by a professor in college and later a victim of intimate partner violence. Kaz talks about being a Guerrilla Girl in New York City, as well as how she came to write an award-winning memoir. Follow Her on twitter @donnakaz. Co-hosts: Katie Koestner and Claire Kaplan Guest: Donna Kaz Editor: Craig Stanton Producers: Emily Wang and Kelsey Styles

2022-05-2635 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S2E11 Chrysalis Growing Monarch WingsEthan is an Assistant Professor of Criminal Justice at Stockton University in Galloway, NJ. His research focuses primarily on interpersonal violence. His new book, Rape by the Numbers, explores scientists’ approaches to studying rape over more than forty years in the United States and Canada. Outside of academia, Ethan is an advocate and award-winning speaker on interpersonal violence and LGBTQ+ communities. He has more than 10 years’ experience supporting survivors of all genders and sexualities. Ethan currently lives in Philadelphia with his partner, their 8-month-old baby, and a mischievous cat named after one of his favorite video game villains. Co...

2022-05-1936 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S2E10 Got That Swing (Special Guest Antuan Raimone)The first time Antuan Raimone spoke out as a survivor, he had 90 seconds. But those 90 seconds were all he needed to secure funding for the sexual assault organization he was working with for the following year. In this interview, he details how he dealt with his trauma, how the theater helps him find his strength, and how he learned to acknowledge and live with fear. PAVE Ambassador Antuan Magic Raimone is an Author/TEDxSpeaker/Activist/Actor with over 20 years of experience in Musical Theatre who is currently a Universal Swing for "Hamilton" on Broadway and across the U...

2022-05-1236 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S2E9 Nimble NeedlesAva found herself isolated as a teenager away at boarding school, after the guy all the girls fought for picked her. His attention rapidly changed as Ava describes him pushing her boundaries of consent. Listen to this story that details how toxic people will make us betray our own safe spaces. Hosts: Katie Koestner and Kavita Ajmere Editor: Jac Boothe & Craig Stanton Producers: Emily Wang and Kelsey Styles

2022-05-0541 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S2E8 Warrior II Arms"Because you have to see those people every day, I don't think I was ready to step into that truth." This week's guest reveals why she felt more comfortable telling strangers online what happened to her before telling her own family and friends. Hosts: Katie Koestner and Kavita Ajmere Editor: Craig Stanton Producers: Emily Wang and Kelsey Styles

2022-04-2837 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S2E7 Alto in G MajorShe didn't even like boys that much, but then his mom was shoving sheet music in her hand and suggesting a couple's duet at the Christmas service. This story may have the most recent timeline of all we've heard - it was the pandemic that got this survivor out of an abusive relationship. The wounds are fresh and the scars still heal. Hosts: Katie Koestner and Claire Kaplan Editors: Jac Boothe and Craig Stanton Producers: Kelsey Styles and Emily Wang

2022-04-2134 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S2E6 Centered Safety (Special Guest: Aishah Shahidah Simmons)In this week's episode, Claire and Katie sit down with Aishah Shahidah Simmons to discuss her survivorship, and the trauma and healing that would develop her artistic voice. Aishah’s lived experiences as a survivor of childhood and adult sexual violence, a Black feminist lesbian, and a long-term Buddhist practitioner inform the creation of her work. Aishah Shahidah Simmons (she/her) is the creator of the 2006 groundbreaking Ford Foundation-funded film, NO! The Rape Documentary, and the editor of the 2020 Lambda Literary Award-winning anthology, love WITH accountability: Digging Up the Roots of Child Sexual Abuse. Presently, she is a S...

2022-04-1440 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories Dear Katie: Page 2 - Alison Jones Lockwood from End Violence Against Women InternationalDear Katie: Page 2 brings you bonus interviews and resources from advocates and experts. This interview with Allison Jones-Lockwood discusses her career working with survivors beginning in the U.S. Navy. She has since worked for rape crisis centers in California, Kansas, and Missouri. She currently works to develop training materials for End Violence Against Women International, a nonprofit that inspires and educates those who respond to gender-based violence, equipping them with the knowledge and tools they need to support victims and hold perpetrators accountable. Guest: Allison Jones-Lockwood Cohosts: Katie Koestner and Claire Kaplan Ed...

2022-04-0121 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S2E0 Season 2 Co-Host RoundtableWelcome to Season 2 of the Dear Katie: Survivor Stories Podcast! We are pleased to welcome an additional two hosts to future episodes of Dear Katie: Survivor Stories. Claire, Sandra, and Kavita will take turns sharing space with Katie and our guests. Dr. Claire Kaplan is an associate producer on the Dear Katie podcast, and has been the co-host through all of season one. She began her activist work more than thirty years ago in California, and recently retired as Director of the Gender Violence and Social Change Program at UVA’s Maxine Platzer Lynn Women’s Center.

2022-03-0318 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S1E19 Penalty Kick from 12 YardsTaylor was a freshman college athlete who was assaulted after a party. Her story is shockingly common - and she explains that she felt like she grew up in a liberal area, and thought she was prepared for college. This episode, Katie, Claire, and Taylor talk about the lack of education teenagers receive before living on their own, and how that can impact their early sexual encounters. Hosts: Katie Koestner and Claire Kaplan Guest Coordinator: Emily Wang Editor: Jake McFadden Voice Actor: Danielle Thacker

2022-02-1740 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S1E15 Expert Episode: Laura Davis, Author of The Courage to HealLaura Davis has helped survivors world over with her book The Courage To Heal, co-authored by Laura Bass. She has now written a memoir of her fraught relationship with her mother. The Shining Light of Two Stars is a riveting story of the love and anger that drew them together and pulled them apart in the decades since Laura told her mother that her grandfather sexually abused her. In this episode of Dear Katie: Survivor Stories, Laura discusses the dangers and the benefits of reconciling with a toxic family member, and what survivors can learn from her experience.

2022-01-2045 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S1E11 Special Guest: Anthony Edwards, Actor and SurvivorActor Anthony Edwards joins Katie and Claire to discuss the sexual abuse he experienced starting at the age of 12 by a trusted adult mentor, and how that experience informs his acting, his career, and his personal life. Edwards is a four-time Emmy-nominated actor and winner of the Golden Globe Award in 1998 for his work on the network television series ER. He most recently performed as Mr. Franklin in the Broadway revival of Children of a Lesser God and as Mars Harper in Netflix's Designated Survivor. He has executive produced a number of award-winning television films and documentaries. Edwards is al...

2021-12-2339 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S1E10 Expert Episode: Gordon Braxton, Author of Empowering Black Boys to Challenge Rape CultureGordon Braxton joins Katie and Claire to discuss how his work as an activist and educator has shaped his upcoming book, which focuses on violence prevention and specifically addresses black boys. Braxton talks about challenging stereotypes, changing narratives, and the hope he sees in the next generation. Braxton is a graduate of the University of Virginia and the Harvard Graduate School of Education. He was a peer educator in an all-male anti-violence group at the University of Virginia and won the Black Fraternal Council's Man of the Year Award. After graduating from UVA, he traveled alongside Katie K...

2021-12-1630 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S1E8 Bernadoodle in MaplesCourtney is a meticulous counter. She counts napkins as she presses them at work. She left a little dot in her journal each day she was assaulted by an abusive boyfriend in her teens - adding up to a total of 27 times. This episode, Katie and Claire speak with a survivor whose partner so crushed her spirit that she lost herself, and how she finally untangled herself from his lies. Hosts: Katie Koestner and Claire Kaplan Producers: Kelsey Styles and Emily Wang Editor: Tony Zaret Guest Coordinator: Emily Wang Letter Voice Over: Dustin...

2021-12-0244 min

Dear Katie: Survivor Stories S1E6 Expert Episode: Jennifer Hirsch and Shamus Khan, Authors of Sexual CitizensOn our first expert episode, Katie and Claire sit down with Jennifer Hirsch and Shamus Khan to discuss their book Sexual Citizens: Sex, Power, and Assault on Campus. Published in January 2020, Sexual Citizens analyzes why sexual assault is so prevalent on college campuses, and how space and power dynamics influence who has control. Jennifer Hirsch is a professor of Socio-medical Sciences at the Mailman School of Public Health at Columbia University. Shamus Khan is a professor of Sociology and American Studies at Princeton University. You can learn more about their individual accolades, as well as their book S...

2021-11-1845 min