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The Good Love PodcastEpisode 26: Kink Journeys at DomConLA with Lady ShebaIn this episode (recorded live at DomCon LA) I interview Lady Sheba, a powerful Black kink educator and leather community photographer. Sheba shares her journey from curious submissive to confidence-wielding Dominant, exploring how kink helped her reclaim her femininity after trauma. Together we discuss the challenges Black women face in kink spaces, the importance of representation, mentorship, and community accountability, and Sheba’s inspiring photography project for the Carter-Johnson Leather Library & Collection, documenting influential figures in the Leather and BDSM worlds. We also gush about our visit to the iconic Tom of Finland House and the importance of preserving ki...2025-07-251h 13
The Good Love PodcastEpisode 25: Edgeplay Discovery with CarnivoreIn this powerful episode, I talk with Berlin-based kink artist and educator, Sven Brandy aka "Carnivore". Sven shares his journey from nude photography to immersive kink art, emphasizing consent, authenticity, and cultural differences in kink between Europe and the US. They discuss "play shooting," the art of integrating photography with interactive kink, and dive deep into Edgeplay, safety, preparation, and ritual. Sven also shares his teaching philosophy, upcoming projects, and insights into building supportive kink communities. Whether you're curious about kink artistry or advanced edge play, this episode offers grounded, inspiring wisdom from decades of lived experience....2025-07-111h 14
Becoming Better with Na'amahSpells on Ourselves – Episode 3 – Katrina RainsongWelcome to Spells on Ourselves! As you know, words have incredible power—shaping our realities profoundly. In this new series, we’ll delve into the transformative influence of language, uncovering its impact on our subconscious and reality. Come along as we discover the magic of positive self-talk and the phrases that ignite change. Remember to subscribe, share, […]2025-03-2756 min
The Good Love PodcastEpisode 24 - Kink Journeys with Smokey the Babe and Vana XKat is joined by two guests, Smokey the Babe and Vana X . They dive deep into the evolution of embracing one’s true self within the kink community, share their personal journeys, and discuss the importance of informed and enthusiastic consent. From nostalgic stories of discovering kink to navigating the complexities of relationship dynamics, this conversation is full of playful insights and candid reflections. So, get comfortable, open your mind, and enjoy this thought-provoking session with Kat, Smokey and Vana!Listen to the full hour episode on PatreonOur Guests:Smokey the Babe IG...2025-03-1433 min
The Good Love PodcastEpisode 23 - Solo Exploration: Discovering Your Own PleasureIn this episode of the Good Love Project Podcast, Katrina and Charlie dive into the importance of solo exploration and how it can deepen self-awareness, boost confidence, and enhance both personal and partnered pleasure. They debunk common myths—like the idea that solo pleasure is just a "substitute" or a sign of dissatisfaction—and talk about shifting the mindset to embrace self-connection without guilt. You'll hear tips for unlearning shame-based habits, creating a pleasure-positive space, and exploring at your own pace. Plus, discover Katrina’s 30 Days of Solo Tantra playlist on YouTube for guided practices to support your journey.2025-03-0233 min
The Good Love PodcastEp 22 Navigating Personal Boundaries and Desires with Pleasure MappingWelcome to another insightful episode of The Good Love Podcast, where we delve into the realms of personal growth, relationships, and confidence. In today's episode, "Pleasure Mapping," your hosts, Katrina Boots Rainsong and the ever-insightful Charlie Sharp, explore the concept of understanding desires and boundaries through the creation of a "Pleasure Map." This episode serves as a personal guide to discovering what brings you joy and comfort, both physically and emotionally, while establishing clear boundaries to ensure safe and enriching experiences. As always, we bring to the table powerful discussions and practical exercises designed to inspire confidence and joy...2025-02-1426 min
The Good Love PodcastGLPod Ep 21 Unlearning Shame - Busting Myths & Embracing AuthenticityIn this episode, Kat and Charlie tackle the complex and often silenced topic of sexual shame. Listen in as they deconstruct societal myths around non-normative sexual preferences, explore the damaging impact of cultural and religious expectations, and emphasize the importance of embracing your authentic self.
With personal insights, candid discussions, and a touch of humor, they'll challenge the notion that there's a "right" way to have sex and shine a light on how misinformation fuels feelings of unworthiness. From addressing body image issues to sharing actionable tips for overcoming shame, today's conversation is all about fostering self-acceptance...2025-01-2428 min
The Good Love PodcastGLPod Ep 20 Bonus Episode: Intro to Kink class TeaserCurious about kink? This bonus episode offers an exclusive excerpt from Katrina's popular "Intro to Kink" class, where you'll get a glimpse into the essentials of consent, communication, and creativity in BDSM. It’s a tantalizing taste of the full recorded class, available to Patreon subscribers in the "Let's Go Steady" tier. If you're ready to explore your desires in a shame-free, supportive space, this sneak peek is just the beginning of what you'll unlock when you join our community of Good Lovers on Patreon.
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The Good Love PodcastGLPod Ep 19 Why Sexual Confidence MattersHappy New Year, It's Season Three! We're trying something new this year; themed seasons to boost your learning and inspiration!
Sexual confidence is about more than just feeling good in the bedroom—it’s a foundation for authentic self-expression and deeper connections in all areas of life. In this episode, we explore what sexual confidence looks like, why it’s essential, and how it can transform your relationships and self-esteem. Join Kat and Charlie for an empowering discussion filled with personal stories, expert insights, and practical tips to help you embrace your desires with ease and joy. Whethe...2025-01-0335 min
The Good Love PodcastEpisode 18: Silly, Sleepy Reddit ReadsIn today's episode (which is a past recording), Katrina and Charlie are feeling a little under the weather after getting their COVID boosters in preparation for the highly anticipated Sex Geek Summer Camp. But don't worry, they're not letting a little vaccine fatigue stop them from bringing you some juicy content!
Get ready for a laid-back episode as our hosts lounge around with their microphones, offering their thoughts and advice on a variety of Reddit posts. From discussing the complexities of sexual communication and the importance of vocalization during intimacy to challenging societal stereotypes about masculine and...2024-08-1636 min
The Good Love PodcastEp 17: The Complex World of Cuckqueaning with Amy The Poly RealtorIn today's episode, we're excited to welcome a very special guest, Amy the Poly Realtor, who's not only a kinkster and current president of Arizona Power Exchange but also a proud, self-identified Cuckquean!
Amy opens up about her unique relationship dynamics and discusses the nuanced differences between cuckqueaning and other forms of non-monogamy based kinks such as Cuckold and Hot-Wifing, shedding light on topics of humiliation, degradation, and the joy in her particular lifestyle. We also touch on the importance of boundaries, honesty, and the emotional considerations essential in non-monogamous relationships.
Furthermore, Amy shares insights...2024-06-131h 19Becoming Better with Na'amahBecoming Better with Na’amah – Spells on Ourselves: Episode 15 – Katrina RainsongWelcome to Becoming Better with Na’amah, the podcast that guides you on the journey to self-improvement and stronger relationships. I’m Na’amah, your host and a life coach specializing in partnerships and dating. Join me as we explore how to know yourself better, improve communication skills, and navigate relationships with effective language. Remember to subscribe, share, […]2024-05-2956 min
The Good Love PodcastEp 16 - Who's Watching What? The Pornhub Year-End Review!This week, I bring my girlfriend on to talk about the (infamous?) PornHub year-in-review report! We pore over the intricacies of global and US search terms, laughing our way through state-specific curiosities—from car sex in sunny Arizona to body swap fantasies in the hustle of New York—while exploring the shifts in our online desires. Charlie tries not to tell on herself with her interests and I go on a mini-rant about my love/hate feels for "gangbang" content.
We're lifting the veil on what terms lead the charts in adult content and dissecting what this might tell us a...2024-02-291h 11
The Good Love PodcastEp 15 - Reflecting on Kink, Identity, and Influence with Vana XIt's Season Two of The Good Love Podcast, where we dive deep into the world of intimacy, relationships, and everything in between!
For this 15th episode, I have a special treat for you. Joining me in the studio is the ever-insightful Vana X, here to explore the multifaceted world of kink and BDSM. We share our laughter over a foiled attempt to shoot a movie review YouTube episode, leading us to an impromptu sneak peak critiquing the controversial "50 Shades of Grey."
We'll also unravel the complex and often misunderstood world of primal play, discussing how...2024-02-081h 02
The Good Love PodcastEp 14 Riding the Edge of Pleasure and Power - Let's Talk About Orgasm Control!In today's episode, I'm exploring the practice of Orgasm Control. From the intense power exchange of submissive handing over their orgasms to their Dominant, to the thrilling play of edging and denial, there's so much to discover. I'll delve into the various forms of orgasm control, including mental and physical chastity, the art of asking permission before climaxing, and the mind-blowing experience of "forced" orgasms. Get ready for this orgasmic adventure!
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The Good Love PodcastEp 13 Pleasure in Restraint: Exploring the Depths and Rewards of Chastity FetishIn today's episode titled "Pleasure in Restraint: Exploring the Depths and Rewards of Chastity Fetish", we delve into the intriguing world of chastity kink. We explore the concept of chastity, its origins, and the reasons why some people find pleasure in the erotic denial of sexual activity. We uncover the intimate connections and power dynamics that can come into play within the realm of chastity kink. Whether it's about trust, submission, or enhancing pleasure, there is much to discover. We'll also address the misconceptions surrounding chastity, debunking the notion that it is strictly for cisgender men. We discuss the...2023-10-2521 min
The Good Love PodcastEp 12 - BDSM on Film: Belle De JourMy spicy model friend, Kinky Kupcake, joined me to watch Luis Buñuel's French erotic-drama classic Belle de Jour (1967), starring Catherine Deneuve as Severine, a kink-curious young woman who takes on a double life to explore her fantasies of submission and degradation.
Get a taste of my new series "Bad B*tch BDSM Reviews" where I bring on guests to react and review kinky cinema classics. Conversational topics include: Lust vs Love, Shame, and the power of erotic fantasy!
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https://twitter.com/KinkyKupcakee2023-10-1422 min
The Good Love PodcastEp 11 - Domestic Discipline and the Joys of Spanking with Miss ChrisLast week, I got to chat with one of my favorite kink educators, Professional Disciplinarian and self-described "Dominurtrix", Miss Chris! We talk about the variety of Domestic Dynamics one can explore and disspell some of the many misconceptions around her favorite actvity... Spanking!
Whether you're a full-on Spanko, or just a bit curious, you're going to love this fun and down to earth conversations with the incomparable and imaginative Miss Chris!
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https://www.missschris.com/
Twitter @Dominurtrix
And she makes toys!
2023-10-0659 min
The Good Love PodcastEp 10 - Understanding Consent and Embracing Vulnerability: Insights from The Good EggsIn today's episode, we have some incredible guests joining us: Emma, and Cody from The Good Eggs organization. Get ready for a thought-provoking conversation as we dive into topics like vulnerability, consent, and harm reduction.
We start off by discussing Southwest Flow Fest 2023 and its unique focus on learning and skill-sharing. Our guests share their favorite moments from the festival, highlighting the power of vulnerability and the importance of creating safe spaces for growth and exploration. From there, we explore the concept of vulnerability in various contexts, including its connection to physical, emotional, and...2023-09-2838 min
The Good Love PodcastEp 9 - What is Medibation?Can solo pleasure be a meditation practice? What can we learn from observing ourselves in a state of sensation or pleasure? Does semen retention REALLY have benefit? This week we're talking about Masturbation and Meditation aka Medibation!
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The Good Love PodcastEp 8 - Dispelling Misconceptions: "Tight" VaginasOur society is obsessed with the idea of "tight" vaginas and full of misconceptions that there are many ways to "ruin" them. This week, I'm talking about some of the most common, and incredibly pervasive, misinformation around the dreaded "loose pussy".
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The Good Love PodcastEp 7 - Altered States: DomSpace and SubSpaceWhat does it mean to "fly" in scene? How does BDSM affect our states of consciousness? This week, we're talking about the altered headspaces we can get into through kink, namely, Domspace and Subspace and I share my own first experience.
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The Good Love PodcastEp 6 - Decadence in the Southwest Pt 2: Surviving a Leather ConferencePart two discussing my experience at the inaugural event, Southwest Decadence! We talk about what you should know and how to survive your first con. Digressions include: Charlie's review of Kat's new Kitten Play toy.
Conferences and Events Mentioned:
https://www.southwestdecadence.com/
My Guest: Charlie Sharp
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The Good Love PodcastEp 5 - Decadence in the Southwest Part 1I get interviewed by my girlfriend about my experience at one of the newest Leather/Kink conferences in the U.S., Southwest Decadence! I also answer questions about what happens at a kink convention, what draws people to them, and the differences between Leather and Kink. Digressions include: talking about the food and introducing my new product for kitten players! The charity referenced in the episode is The National Indigenous Women's Resource Center. Please consider donating: https://www.niwrc.org/
Conferences and Events Mentioned:
https://www.southwestdecadence.com/
https://www...2023-08-0423 min
The Good Love PodcastEp 4 - Ask A Good Lover: Answering Listener QuestionsWill a vibrator ruin me for the "real thing"? How many partners is "too many"? How long should I spend on foreplay? This week I'm sharing clips from my video series "Ask A Good Lover", where I answer real questions from listeners just like you!
Got Questions about sex, pleasure, or relationships? Ask a Good Lover! Send your queries to goodloveproject@gmail.com
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The Good Love PodcastEp 3 - What is Dominance?Curious about Dominance and submission? What does it mean to be Dominant? What traits do you look for in a Dom? We're exploring the left side of the slash in D/s relationship dynamics!
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The Good Love PodcastEp 2 - 10 Tips for Coming Out KinkyHow do you tell you partner you want to try something new? What if they're freaked out? What if they have questions? In this episode, we'll go over 10 tips for introducing spicy, new elements into an established relationship.
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The Good Love PodcastEp 1 - Sex As A Mindful PracticeHow do you keep the spark going in a long-term relationship? How can you make your first experiences with new partners better? In this first episode of the Good Love Podcast, we'll talk about how to get out of your head... and out of your own way to deeper intimacy and increased pleasure through Mindfulness.
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The Tasty Talks Spiritual PodcastLive from Hump Day Burlesque in Phoenix, Arizona! Queerlesque edition 🏳️🌈 #TastyTidbit on self-love.I’m live at Hump Day Burlesque in Phoenix, Arizona!! I chat with three of the performers about embracing your authentic self. I also share my story about discovering my bisexuality. This episode is all love through laughs, openness, and wisdom. Hump Day Burlesque is every first & third Wednesday at The Lost Leaf in Phoenix. Follow the show on Facebook and Instagram. Thank you to my guests Nyx Mons Venus, Jacqueline Hide, and Katrina Rainsong. Nyx is performing 10/22 at Brunchlesque at Club Red in Mesa, AZ. Jacqueline will be at the Pittsburgh & Carolinas Renaissance Fairs this fall. Katrina is performing 9/13 at...2019-09-0624 min