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Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 4, Episode 245: Stepping Into The Adoption WorldBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 4, Episode 245: Stepping Into The Adoption WorldIn today's episode, we learn about what it was like to step into the adoption world from this Podcast's Co-Host, Ron Reigns. Ron discusses what surprised him about adoption, what he has learned since working in the adoption world, and what his take-away is after having worked in and around the adoption world.Listen. Learn. Love.
2025-08-0414 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 4, Episode 242: Reflecting on My ReunificationBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 4, Episode 242: Reflecting on My ReunificationIn today's episode, Kelly discusses her adoption reunification story with the hopes of educating others on the ins and outs of adoption reunification. She gives insight on adoption reunifications and what others may encounter along an adoption reunification journey.Listen. Learn. Love.
2025-06-3031 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters S4, Ep225; Birthfather Involvement in the Adoption ProcessBirth Mother Matters In Adoption Podcast Season 4, Episode 225; Birthfather Involvement in the Adoption Process
Learn about Birth Fathers and their involvement in the adoption process. Understand the adoption process and procedures about notifying a birth father about an adoption plan.
Learn everything about adoption! Listen now.
2025-01-2220 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Adoption S4, Ep224; We're BackBirth Mother Matters Adoption S4, Ep224; We're Back
Adoption Podcast Episode resuming our Adoption Podcast discussing related information and news about Domestic, International, and Foster Care Adoption.
2025-01-1715 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Adoption S3, Ep223; "Not Alone" Domestic Violence AwarenessBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Episode 223; "Not Alone" Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Both men and eomen can be victims of domestic violence.
The U.S. Office on Violence Against Women defines domestic violence as "a pattern of abusive behavior in any relationship that is used by one partner to gain or maintain power and control over another intimate partner. Domestic violence can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic, psychological, or technological actions or threats of actions or other patterns of coercive behavior that influence another person within an intimate partner relationship. This includes any behaviors that intimidate, manipulate, humiliate, isolate, fr...
2023-11-0146 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Ep 222; Birth Mother Common ConcernsBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Ep 222; Birth Mother Common Concerns
Facing an unplanned pregnancy can elicit a myriad of emotions. Adoption is a beautiful choice but you may have some concerns about the process. Listen and learn all about these concerns and how we can help.
Remember that its normal to have concerns about any decision you are making, especially if you are new to the idea of something. An adoption agency, like Building Arizona Families understands that you have concerns and we are here to help you address and remedy your conerns.
Listen. Learn. Love.
2023-09-0523 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Ep 221; Adoption News and UpdatesBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Ep 221; Adoption News and Updates
News Matters-
On June 15, 2023, the Supreme Court upheld the circuit court's conclusion that Congress' power to legislate Indian affairs is well-established and broad; therefore, the ICWA “is consistent with Congress' power under Article I of the Constitution.”
Update Matters-
Learn about the latest adoption trends and what has changed.
2023-08-0413 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S3, Ep 220; Growing Up AdoptedBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Episode 220; Growing Up Adopted
Listen to Co-Host Kelly Rourke-Scarry as she discusses what it was like to grow up as an adoptee in the 1970s and 1980s. Learn about the differences between then and now, how these changes are for the better and why it was so important for the changes to occur. Learn more about adoption from the "Adoptee Angle" of the Adoption Triad. Spread Adoption Awareness.
Listen. Learn. Love. Adoption.
2023-02-2618 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S3, Ep 219; Substance Use During PregnancyBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Episode 3-219 Substance Use During Pregnancy
Some pregnant women use drugs during their pregnancy. Drug exposure prenatally in adoption situations may cause concern and anxiety for hopeful adoptive parents. Learning more will help us understand and be able to make well-informed decisions.
Every year, at least once on this podcast we like to look at the current research and dicuss any changes we have seen over the past year. We are not a medical facility, nor are we medical professionals, so this podcast is to discuss the available research and what we have seen as pro...
2023-02-0227 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S3, Ep 218; A Difficult First StepBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Episode 218; A Difficult First Step
Building Arizona Families and AZ Pregnancy Help is an Adoption Agency in Arizona. We are an adoption center where we help build families. When pregnat women contact us and want to make an adoption plan, we understand that the first meeting can be a very emotional step. Since we are a private adoption agency, we go the extra mile to make our new clients feel as supported as possible.
Our adoption office is located in Phoenix, Arizona. We are located off of a major highway and we take pride that...
2023-01-2716 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S3, Ep 217; Facts About AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Episode 217; Facts About Adoption
Join us as we explore facts about adoption you may not know! Learn more about adoption.
2022-12-2015 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S3, Ep 215; Adult Adoptions with Logan ScarryBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Ep 215; Adult Adoptions with Logan Scarry
In honor of National Adoption Month, today we will hear from our Co-Host, Kelly Rourke-Scarry as she and her adopted son, Logan Scarry discuss adult adoption. Kelly adopted Logan at 19 years old, this year. Logan discusses what it means to be adopted as an adult and why being adopted was important to him. Kelly also discusses the importance of adult adoption and why its done.
Note: the state laws surrounding adult adoption differ from state to state.
Listen. Learn. Love.
2022-11-3024 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Ep 216; 7 Adoption IssuesBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Ep 216; 7 Adoption Issues
In 1982 there was an article “Seven Core Issues inAdoption” by Sharon Kaplan Roszia and Deborah Silverstein in which 7 issues were brought to light.
Listen and learn about 7 potenital issues that may arise in an adoption situtation. These 7 issues are not exclusive to adoption but can also be present in adoption. Learn how to watch for possible signs and how to address them. Adoption is a beautiful choice.
Listen. Learn. Love.
2022-11-3034 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Adoption S3, Ep 214; National Awareness Month 2022Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Episode 214; National Adoption Awareness Month 2022
National Adoption Month is an initiative of the Children's Bureau. The National Adoption Awareness Month brings awareness to those lives who have been impacted by adoption and who assist in the facilitation of the adoption process. Throughout the month of November, the goal is to spread awareness and encourage society to learn about adoption. Throughout National Adoption Month, we celebrate all members of the adoption triad, including the families who have grown through adoption, additionally, we recognize the journey of the many children who are waiting for their forever fa...
2022-11-1611 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Adoption S3, Ep 213; Benefits & Challenges of Open AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Episode 213: The Benefits & Challenges of Open Adoption
Listen & Learn about the benefits and challenges of open adoption. Open adoption can be defined within parameters of open lines or line of communication. Learn about how the past has shaped the current state of adoptions and why open adoption can be such a blessing.
2022-11-1623 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S3, Ep 212; Adoption Does Not Make You PregnantBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S3, Ep 212; Adoption Does Not Make You Pregnant
There is a myth that if you want to become pregnant begin the adoption process.
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2022-10-0418 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S3, Ep 211; When Your Heart Tells You Its TimeBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S3, Ep 211; When Your Heart Tells You Its Time
Learn about when the time is right to begin the adoption reunification process, what it looks like and how to begin. Listen and Learn all about adoption reunification.
2022-09-2418 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Adoption S3, Ep210; The Wait is Over, We're Back W/ UpdatesBirth Mother Matters Adoption Season 3, Ep210; The Wait is Over, We're Back With Updates
We are back and excited to get back to all things "adoption."
Join us as we discuss the lates happenings in the adoption world- so many new things to talk about! We will be dicussing topics such as the latest happenings in adoption, Safe Haven, abortion and so much more!!!
Listen. Learn. Love.
2022-09-0921 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Ep209: Roe v. Wade OverturnedBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Ep209: Roe v. Wade Overturned
The U.S. Supreme Court on 6/24/2022 overturned its landmark decision Roe v. Wade that had previously secured the federal right to obtain an abortion. The Supreme Court overturns Roe v. Wade and leaves the practice of abortion in the states' hands. "The Constitution does not confer a right to abortion; Roe and Casey are overruled; and the authority to regulate abortion is returned to the people and their elected representatives,” read the majority opinion.
The U.S. Supreme Court ruled 6/24/2022, in Dobbs v. Jackson Women’s Health Organization, that the Consti...
2022-06-2522 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matter Adoption S3, Ep208: The Supreme Court LeakBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Episode 3-208 The Supreme Court Leak
The leak of a draft U.S. Supreme Court decision that would strike down Roe v. Wade signals the Court is poised to reverse the landmark 1973 case that guaranteed the constitutional right to abortion. Learn how this landmark case may affect adoptions.
Listen. Learn. Love.
2022-05-2722 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matter Adoption S3, Ep207: First Conversation With a Birth MotherBirth Mother Matter Adoption Podcast S3, Ep207: First Conversation With a Birth Mother
Learn about the first phone call with a birth mother. Learn about what to talk about and how to prepare.
Adoption Matters.
Live. Learn. Love.
2022-03-0314 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matter Adoption Podcast S3, Ep206:Combatting the Adoption NaysayersBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Season 3, Episode 206: Combatting the Adoption Naysayers
Learn about the importance of adoption awareness and how important it is to have knowledge and education to promote truth. All members of society and your social ciricle may share the same beliefs you have about adoption. Its not important for everyone to agree with your belief system or perspective, however it is important that those around you are educated in adoption and understand facts and truth. Adoption awareness is one of the most important ways you can promote the importance, normalization of and the prevalance of adoption.
2022-01-2116 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Adoption Podcast S3, Ep205: A Very Special FamilyBirth Mother Matters Adoption Podcast S3, Ep205: A Very Special Family
Jen, Joe, Tina and Samson join us for this episode of Birth Mother Matters in Adoption to discuss their open adoption. Listen to how they have developed a an open adoption relationship with one another that transcends the "normal" open adoption- listen to why they chose this relationship, how they achieved it and how they plan on continuing to maintain it. We can all learn from families who explore the boundaries of open adoption and succeed!
Listen. Learn. Love.
2022-01-0727 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Adoption Podcast S3, Ep204:Abortion Law Updates In the U.S.Birth Mother Matters Adoption Podcast S3, Ep204: Abortion Law Updates In the U.S.
2021 has been a year full of change, especially in the Abortion World. Across the United States, many individual states have amended their laws and many are in the process of continuing to amend them. The wait for the Supreme Court ruling on what could lead to overturning Roe V. Wade hangs in the balance. This podcast will get you up tp speed on what happened to many abortion laws during 2021.
2022-01-0317 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Adoption Podcast S3, Ep203: Abortion Laws Around the WorldBirth Mother Matters Adoption Podcast S3, Ep203: Abortion Laws Around the World
2021 has been a year of many changes in the abortion world. Today we explore the differences in abortion laws across the world and and how they may or may not impact the laws here in the United States. Listen to the vast differences between country, how some countries' abortion laws may surprise you and the numerous changes made this past year. Abortion and adoption are two different choices for unplanned pregnancies and educations brings awareness and awareness brings change.
2021-12-2617 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters In Adoption Podcast S3, Ep202: A Christmas MessageBirth Mother Matters In Adoption Podcast S3, Ep202: A Christmas Message
From our families to yours, Merry Christmas.
2021-12-2600 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters In Adoption Podcast S3, Ep201: Being Thankful in All ThingsBirth Mother Matters In Adoption Podcast S3, Ep201: Being Thankful in All Things
Reunification in adoption doesn't always work out the way we think. Finding ways to be thankful. Learn about adoption reunifcation when it doesn't work out the way we think it will.
2021-11-2823 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep200: November is National Adoption MonthBirth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep200: November is National Adoption Month
November is National Adoption Month! Learn how you can suport all members of the adoption triad. Also, learn how and why the holidays may be difficult for and how you can help! Keep on learning about all things adoption!
2021-11-2208 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep 199: People's Fascination With AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep 199: People's Fascination With Adoption
Learn about the reasons society is fascinated with adoption, what the most commonly asked questions are and why it is an issue.
2021-11-1318 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep 198: 20 Reasons Why Women Choose AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Season 2, Episode 198: 20 Reasons Why Women Choose Adoption
There are a multitude of reasons that birth mothers choose adoption. Here are twenty of the reasons...
Too young- teen momNot ready to be a parentIn financial distressDesire for baby to have the best life possibleStruggling with addictionPregnancy is a result of rape or incestNo support – single parent maybe, no family?Life is presently unstable: unemployed/homelessWanting different things out of life: College, Demanding Job etc…Family is not in agreement with you parenting a babyBroken up with the birth fatherCPS/DCS- state involvement with other childrenDon't believe...
2021-10-2916 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast S2, Episode 197: The Adoption InfluenceBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast S2, Episode 197: The Adoption Influence
What influences society's view of adoption and how does that influence adoptive families?
Adoption isn’t taboo, and we need to celebrate it, just like you would the news of a pregnancy. Share in the joy! Maybe plan a “Sip & See” after the adoption is finalized?
Remember when somone is sharing their exciting news of choosing to adopt:
Be mindful of thestories you tell…Hold off on a summerization of "Lifetime-type" movies.Its not the time to tell the stories of adoption disruptions of others. (Additionally, you may not have the whol...
2021-10-2220 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:196: Spreading the Love of AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:196: Spreading the Love of Adoption
Spreading the Love of Adoption, raising adoption awareness- what you can do to make an impact on elevating the understanding, acceptance and choice of adoption.
Giving adoption a voice.
Listen. Learn. Love.
2021-10-1315 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:195: Following Up on TopicsBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast 2:195: Following Up on Topics
Follow-up on previous topics previously discussed: online adoptive profiles, Fund raising, abortion news, separation anxiety, holiday giving.
Listen. Learn. Love.
2021-10-0912 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:194 Separation & Anxiety For AdopteesBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast 2:194 Separation & Anxiety For Adoptees
Sparation Anxiety can be a common issue among adoptees. Adoptees may experience separation & anxiety during their lifetime. Adoptees may find comfort in knowing that they are not alone, goodbyes can be very difficult. Loved ones can gather an understanding adoptee separation anxiety and ways to support them.
Listen. Learn. Love.
Giving adoption a voice.
2021-09-2223 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2; Episode 193: Against Medical AdviceBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2; Episode 193: Against Medical Advice
Sometimes in an adoption situation, Birth Mothers do not stay for the medically advised duration after they deliver their baby. Listen and learn why this happens. Adoptive families need to learn and prepare for what may/may not happen when its time for Labor and Delivery!
Listen. Learn. Love.
2021-09-1711 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Ep 2-192: Birth Mothers Show Their StrengthBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Ep 2-192: Birth Mothers Show Their Strength
Listen to Birth Mothers as their share their adoption stories. Listen as they talk about what their experience was really like. Listen. Learn. Love.
2021-09-1121 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Ep 2-191: Everything Is Bigger in Texas, Even their HeartsBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Ep 2-110: Everything Is Bigger in Texas, Even their Hearts
Gather the latest abortion news on what is happening in Texas. Texas is leading the country in the implementation of their new abortion laws. Listen now.
2021-09-0619 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionEp 2-190: Gaining a New Perspective on Adoption and AbortionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Episode 2-190 Gaining a New Perspective on Adoption and Abortion (With Kelly's Brother Michael)
Listen to the perspective of a biological sibling view's on abortion; listen to how the perspective can change when education and experience come into play.
Listen. Learn. Love.
2021-08-2729 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters 2;189: Adoption from a Biological Sibling's PerspectiveBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Episode Season 2-189 Adoption from a Biological Sibling's Perspective
Michael, Co-Host Kelly Rourke-Scarry's biological brother joins our podcast today to discuss adoption, his perspective and what it looks and feels like from a sibling perspective. Michael is the youngest biological brother of Kelly Rourke-Scarry additionally discusses his view of adoption and adoption reunification.
Join us as we dive into an aspect of adoption rarely discussed and an area of little research.
Listen. Learn. Love.
2021-08-2019 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Season 2;188:Coming in From the OutsideBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Season 2;188: Coming in From the Outside
Our guest on today's podcast is Building Arizona Families' Receptionist: Maura. She began working for Building Arizona Families and the Donna K. Evans Foundation two years ago. In the past two years, Maura has learned a lot about adoption, after coming to us with no real connection or tie to adoption. Maura has been able to be not only a friendly face, a warm smile to birth mothers coming into the office, but a caring and supportive listener. Listen to what a "newcomer" has learned and her perspective on a...
2021-08-1416 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Season 2;187: Adoption MisconceptionsBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Season 2;187: Adoption Misconceptions
Listen & Learn about common misconceptions regarding making an adoption plan, birth fathers and living expenses. Learn about the factors, reasoning and legal implications of adoption misconceptions. Be part of the solution in educating society about adoption misconceptions.
Listen. Learn. Love.
2021-08-1131 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Season 2;186: ICPC with Lisa SimpsonBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Season 2;186: ICPC with Lisa Simpson
The Interstate Compact on the Placement of Children (ICPC) explained by our guest, Attorney Lisa Simpson. Learn all about what happens in the adoption process when adopting out of state. Learn about why ICPC exisits, how it protects children and families and what you need to understand. When learnign all about adoption, this is a vitial component to adoption.
Listen. Learn. Love.
2021-08-0722 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters 2-185: Lexi- She Chose Adoption To Break the CycleBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast, Season 2, Episode 185: Lexi- She Chose Adoption To Break the Cycle
Lexi is a young lady who chose adoption for her newborn son to provide him with the life she wanted him to have and break the generation life cycles. Listen to our courageous guest discuss her adoption experience and explain why adoption was such an important choice for her to make. Adoption was a way to make sure her son had the opportunites, experiences and resources she wanted him to have. Placing her son was in no way easy, but right for her and him...
2021-07-2822 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirthMotherMatters 2-184:Coming From Guatemala;David's Adoption Journey, Part 2Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Ep 2-184: Coming From Guatemala;David's Adoption Journey, Part 2 of 2
We are so excited to bring you Part 2 of 2, David was adopted from the Country of Guatemala. Listen to his adoption story and his perspective on adoption. David, our guest talks about his life; growing up adopted. His insight and his story bring a strong feeling of belonging, appreciation and love.
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2021-07-2418 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirthMotherMattersAdopt Ep 2-183: Coming From Guatemala;David's Adoption JourneyBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Ep 2-183: Coming From Guatemala;David's Adoption Journey
Today on our podcast, our guest was adopted from the Country of Guatemala. Listen to his adoption story and his perspective on adoption. David, our guest talks about his life; growing up adopted. His insight and his story bring a strong feeling of belonging, appreciation and love.
Listen. Learn. Love.
2021-07-2116 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Adopt. Ep 2-182: The McConnell's; An Amazing Adoption StoryBirth Mother Matters Adopt. Ep 2-182: The McConnell's; An Amazing Adoption Story
Listen with us to the heartwarming and ever so inspriring story of the McConnells' adoption that we stumblked across on the web. Learn why we think stories like this matter so much and how they can impact the way we view adoption, our own viewpoionts and more!
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2021-07-1617 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Ep 2-181: Adoption Profiles in Social MediaBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2, Episode 181: Adoption Profiles in Social Media
An adoption family profile is a book that the adoptive family creates for the birth parents so that they can get to see who you are, what you are all about and what kind of a family that you are. A traditional family profile book may include:
a letter to the birth mother/father photos and details about your:
family
immediate familyextended familyhomelikes/dislikeshobbiespetsand more
When creating an online adoptive family profile, it is much less information and usually a very condensed version. Learn about the pros and cons and u...
2021-07-1017 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Ep 2-180: Updates on Birthmother ScamsBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Ep 2-180: Updates on Birthmother Scams
Domestic, newborn adoptions are very popular amongst adoption choices. One of the main concerns when beginning an adoption journey, as an adoptive family- is the possibility of being scammed by a birth mother. Scamming is the "black eye" of adoption.
Learn about the latest birth mother scams throughout the adoption community. Listen to the pattern of adoption scams. Love the knowledge- educate the adoption community and the public.
Adoption matters- stay in the know.
2021-07-0725 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirthMother Matters in Adoption Ep 2-179- Will Someone Want to Adopt My Baby IfBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2, Episode 179- Will Someone Want to Adopt My Baby If...
When adoptive families come into our program, they fill out a preference sheet, very similar to a preference sheet that you, as a birth mother will fill out. In the adoptive families’ preference sheet they will select if they will accept substance exposure and which substances, along with a range of questions. The reason for a preference sheet is so we make sure an adoptive family is placed with a baby that they can handle should any issues arise
If you are pregnant, regardless of the...
2021-06-3016 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Episode 2-178 Adoptive Families' ExpectationsBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Episode 2-178 Adoptive Families' Expectations
Where to start- when you are an adoptive family setting expectations for your adoption journey is important. Learn what realistic expectations are when beginning an adoption journey. Learn where to gather information and which resources will help guide you to the most imperative knowledge. Listen. Learn. Love.
2021-06-2617 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirthmother Matters Adoption S.2 Ep.177: What is a TPR W/ Attorney Lisa SimpsonBirthmother Matters Adoption in Season 2 Episode #177: What is a TPR w/ Attorney Lisa Simpson
Attorney Lisa Simpson Joins our podcast for this episode, explaining TPR is the abbreviation of “termination of parental rights.” This is one of the steps in the adoption process and This termination occurs when a parent has chosen to place their baby for adoption. Learn more about this adpoption process from a very seasoned adoption attorney! Listen. Learn. Love.
2021-06-2329 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Adoption Season 2 Ep.176: Summer's HereBirth Mother Matters Adoption Season 2 Ep.176: Summer's Here
Its sumemrtime here in Arizona and that means the temperature is very hot. Pregnant women that are homeless are at a higher risk of danger due to the heat than many other indivudals. Additionally, learn how Father's Day, Mother's Day and the Back to School Season may impact a family that is beginning the adoption process or considering adoption.
2021-06-1910 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Adoption Season 2 Ep.175: A Look At The Home Study ProcessBirth Mother Matters Adoption Season 2 Ep.175: A Look At The Home Study Process
Angie Penrose joins us on todays podcast to discuss the latest updates and time frames on Adoption Home Studies in Arizona. Listen to Angie as she gives the nuts and bolts of Arizona Adoption Home Studies and the impact of Covid-19 on the process and learn what you can do when beginning your adoption journey.
Listen. Learn. Love.
2021-06-1223 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2 Ep.174: Family ChoicesBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2 Ep.174: Family Choices
Adoptive families will encounter the adoption step pf developing their adoption family preferences. Adoptive families need to look at what the best match for their family will be. Additionally, adoptive families need to understand what factors; internal and external may factor into their decsion. Adoption family preferences are a huge factor in the path their adoption journey will take. Listen to how surrounding factors may influence the adoption journey and ways to open adoption preferences.
2021-06-0914 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2 Ep.173: An Introduction to BAF ClassBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2 Ep.173: An Introduction to BAF Class
Listen to Becky Merryman discuss the new online class offered for families intersted in learning more about Building Arizona Families's Newborn Adoption Program. This is a free class offered monthly for families wanting to expand their family through newborn adoption,
2021-06-0509 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBMMIA S2 Ep.172: Drugs; Getting Birth Mothers Through The Waiting RoomBirth Mother Matters In Adoption Podcast Season 2 Episode#172: Drugs; Getting Birth Mothers Through The Waiting Room
Listen and learn about substance abuse and why its a problem for birth mothers. This drug epidemic has impacted adoptions throughout the United States. Listen to one perspective how empathy, understanding and services can positively impact the substance abuse rate. Acknowleding and understanding the substance abuse crisis is the first step in finding a solution. We, as a society need to get individuals struggeling with drug abuse through "the waiting room."
2021-05-3019 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2 Ep.171: What Ron Has Learned So FarBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2 Ep.171: What Ron Has Learned So Far
Take a look back at what one cohost has learned after 171 episodes about adoption. Revisit important topics, changed viewpoints and increased awareness. Its all about adoption matters.
2021-05-2618 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2 Ep.170: Be Prepared for Your IntakeBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2 Ep.170: Be Prepared for Your Intake
Learn what happens during the adoption intake process for women who are pregnant and making the beauticul choice of adoption. Listen to one of Building Arizona Familes' adoption intake workers as she describes the intake process so adoptive families and women considering adoption can understand and learn what to expect.
2021-05-1912 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2 Ep.169: The Value of Open AdoptionsBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2 Ep.169: The Value of Open Adoptions
Listen and learn about the value of open adoptions for all members of the adoption triad. Listen to why an open adoption can positively impact every memebr of the adoption triad, how it can also positively impact the understanding of society's understanding of adoption.
2021-05-1514 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2 Ep.168: Growing Up AdoptedBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2 Episode #168: Growing Up Adopted
Learn how to set the groundwork for an open adoption relatipnship for all sides of the adoption triad. Learn about the step you can take as any triad member to improve the changes of having the open relation ship you desire. Adoption education is the key to success.
2021-05-1220 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S2 Ep.167:A National Birth Mother's Day MessageBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S2 Ep.167:A National Birth Mother's Day Message
National Birth Mother’s Day occurs on the Saturday before Mother’s Day (second Sunday of May) and this year it is May 8, 2021. It’s a day to honor all birth mothers who chose to place their babies for adoption.
National Birth Mother’s Day was first founded and celebrated in Seattle, Washington, in 1990, by Mary Jean Wolch-Marsh and a group of other women who placed their baby for adoption.
To all of the birth mothers out there, we honor you!
Happy National Birth Mother's Day!
2021-05-0806 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S2 Ep.166: The Attendance of Prenatal VisitsBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2 Episode #166: The Attendance of Prenatal Visits
Gain an education about birth mothers and their reluctance to attend prenatal visits. Understand why it is important for adoptive families for birth mothers to attend these medical appointments. Learn how a poor attendance record of prenatal visits impacts a adoptive family, but gather an understanding as to why it can be difficult for a birth mother to attend.
Listen, Learn, Love.
2021-05-0412 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2Ep.165:All Children Are Valued & WantedBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2 Episode #165: All Children Are Valued & Wanted
On April 27th 2021, Govenor Doug Ducey signed a contentious bill making it a crime to perform abortions based on genetic conditions, despite OB-GYNs and attorneys warning it was "medically unsound" and unconstitutional.
Medical providers who terminate pregnancies based solely on conditions like Down syndrome or cystic fibrosis could face prison time under Senate Bill 1457, unless the abortion involves a condition that is considered "lethal." The measure also confers civil rights on fetuses at any stage of development, with an exception for embryos created via in vitro fertilization.
Listen to how this...
2021-05-0116 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2,Ep.164: Back in the Saddle AgainBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2, Episode 164: Back in the Saddle Again
Jumping back into Case Management can teach valuable lessons in adoption, create opportunities for improvement and keep management fresh and current in the world of birth mothers. Going back to "front line" adoption work can only improve an already existing amazing adoption program, and in addition to staying in the "know" enable the opportunity for a closer relatiosnhip with the agency's clients.
2021-04-2819 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S2,Ep.163: You Got ServedBirth Mother Matters Adoption Season 2,Episode #163: You Got Served; A Conversation With A Process Server
Listen to Dana, a Process Server with 30 years experience. In Arizona, when a potential birth father is named by a birth mother is named, that birth father is provided with notice of the adoption. In some situations, a process server is used to provide notice. Listen to one aspect of the adoption process.
Listen. Learn. Love.
2021-04-2115 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Adoption S2,Ep.162: Mother's Day & Birth Mother's DayBirth Mother Matters Adoption Season 2, Episode 162: Mother's Day & Birth Mother's Day
Saturday, May 8th 2021 - National Birth Mother's Day (always celebrated the Saturday before Mother's Day.)Sunday, May 9th 2021 - Mother's Day
Birth Mother's Day is always celebrated the day before Mother's Day. These days are important to celebrate, especially for those in the adoption community or part of the adoption triad. Learn more about why they are important, why you need to celebrate them and some ideas of how to make them extra special. Get a head start on planning on make 2021, the best celebration ever.
2021-04-1714 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Adoption S2,Ep.161: Adoption Case ManagersBirth Mother Matters Adoption Season 2,Episode#161: Adoption Case Managers
Learn about adoption case managers, what is important in their skill set, what is required and why. Learn more about the reasons behind the type of case manager adoption agency's need. Find out more about what type of social worker/case manager is needed by adoption agencies, what types of personalities are the best fit, and why. This podcast is the opinion of one agency director, other agencies may have different opinions.
2021-04-1418 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Adoption S2,Ep.160: The Legal Aspect of AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Adoption Season 2,Episode 160: The Legal Aspect of Adoption
Listen and learn all about the legal aspect of adoption. Attorney Lisa Simpson is our guest on today's podcast. Listen to an attorney with decades of adoption law experience.
Listen. Learn. Love.
2021-04-1017 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Adoption S2,Ep.159: For Birth Mothers OnlyBirth Mother Matters Adoption Season 2, Episode 159: For Birth Mothers Only
Anyone can and everyone should listen to this episode; learn, grown and understand why adoption is a beautiful choice.
Choosing adoption means choosing an option with support, aftercare and access to financial resources. Adoption is a beautiful choice and one that is increasingly becoming a more popular choice. in order for others to believe in and support you in your adoption choice, you need to believe in it first. You are the champion of your cause. Owning your adoption choice comes with the belief and knowledge that you have made the ri...
2021-04-0719 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Adoption S2,Ep.158: Fentanyl in the Adoption WorldBirth Mother Matters Adoption Season 2,Episode 158: Fentanyl in the Adoption World
According to the CDC Website- "Pharmaceutical fentanyl is a synthetic opioid, approved for treating severe pain, typically advanced cancer pain. It is 50 to 100 times more potent than morphine. It is prescribed in the form of transdermal patches or lozenges and can be diverted for misuse and abuse in the United States.
However, most recent cases of fentanyl-related harm, overdose, and death in the U.S. are linked to illegally made fentanyl. It is sold through illegal drug markets for its heroin-like effect. It is often mixed with heroin and/or...
2021-04-0327 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Adoption S2,Ep.157: A Day of TearsBirth Mother Matters Adoption S2,Ep.157: A Day of Tears
In Alamaba, a resolution was passed that calls for private citizens in Alabama to lower their flags on January 22nd. Day of Tears will be a day of national mourning. A goal is to encourage people across the country to fly their flags at half-staff on January 22nd.
Day of Tears is a 501(c)(3) committed to the lives of the preborn. The organization's goal is to have flags lowered across the nation on January 22, in remembrance, honor, and mourning for the over 61 million lives that have been lost to abortion.
Alabama h...
2021-03-3113 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Adoption S2,Ep.156: Planned Parenthood & COVID Relief FundsBirth Mother Matters Adoption S2,Ep.156: Planned Parenthood & COVID Relief Funds
Twenty-five US Senators are requesting an investigation into the possibility that Planned Parenthood ‘illegally’ took $83 million in coronavirus stimulus. Stay informed and educated on what happens in our country surrounding adoption. Understand how abortion funding can have a negative effect on the number of adoptions that occur.
This is not a polical podcast, and the purpose is to inform those intersted in all aspects of adoption.
2021-03-2716 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters Adoption S2,Ep.155: Where Have All The Birth Mothers Gone?Birth Mother Matters In Adoption Season 2,Episode.155: Where Have All The Birth Mothers Gone?
Are there less pregnant women choosing to place their babies for adoption? What has changed for women considering adoption? What are some contributing factors in the reasons women choose adoption when pregnant? What might the future hold for adoptions?
Listen and get a perspective and opinion on the fluctuations on numbers of pregnant women choosing adoption. Gain insight, understand their thought process and be educated.
2021-03-2424 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S2, Ep.154: Adoption Match Phone CallsBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Season 2, Episode 154: Adoption Match Phone Calls
When choosing an adoptive family, sometimes it takes more than looking through adoption profiles. A telephone call with the adoption agency between the birth mother and the adoptive family can produce tremendous results.
Pictures and words can only go so far, sometimes we need more to make a decison, espcially one that involves the choice of an adoptive family. A little phone call can go a long way.
2021-03-2016 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S2 #153: The Power of DonationsBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2, Episode #153: The Power of Donations
Building Arizona Families, AZ Pregnancy Help, and The Donna K. Evans Foundation need your donations. Listen to this podcast and understand why your donations are needed, what is done with them and what they accomplish. Listen to what a difference you can make through the power of donating.
No gift is too big or too small. If you would like to donate with a gift or money, 100% of your generous donation benefits the birth mothers and their futures.
We thank you for your consideration of these strong, selfless women – whose...
2021-03-1315 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S2 #152: Adjustment of ExpectationsBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2, Episode #152: Adjustment of Expectations
When embarking on an adoption journey, it is important to begin with accurate and current information about the adoption process. It is also important to be flexible in thinking, expect changes and have the ability to adjust your expectations.
Some Expectations that some Adoptive Families may have:
Birth Mothers will attend every OBGYN appointmentsBirth Mothers will want constant communicationBirth Mothers will be forthright and candid about every aspect of their lviesBirth Mothers will disclose any and all drug useAn adoption agency can control a birth mother An adoption agency has a cry...
2021-03-1026 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S2 #151: Updates on COVID-19 & AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Season 2 Episode #151: Updates on COVID-19 & Adoption
Today's podcast focuses on COVID-19 updates in Arizona and their impact on adoption.
Listen. Learn. Love.
Adoption Matters!
2021-03-0614 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S2 #150: International Adoption- Scott's StoryBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2 Episode #150: International Adoption- Scott's Story
Last week, we had Angie as a guest on our podcast discusing her experience with her international adoption. Today we have Scott, her husband and we hear from a father's perspective. Scott discusses his thoughts, feelings and memories of his adoption journey. Scott and Angie adopted an older sibling group of three children from Russia.
Listen. Learn. Love.
2021-03-0330 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S2 #149: Birth Mother's Journey- Tina's StoryBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2, Episode 149: A Birth Mother's Journey- Tina's Story
Tina, an amazing birth mother chose adoption for her babies. She has open adoption with both adoptive families of her babies and feels very positive about her adoption choices. TIna discusses the reasons she choose adoption and why she felt then and feels now that she made the very best choice for her children. Listen. Learn. Love.
2021-02-2715 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S2 #148: International Adoption- Angie's StoryBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Season 2 Episode148: International Adoption- Angie's Story
Angie and her husband adopted three children from Russia. The children were a sibling group of three; ages 7,9 and 10 when they were adopted. Listen to her story.
Learn about one mother's story about how she adopted her three children from Russia. Understanding older child adoption, alongside sibling adoption, and with chidlren who spek another language. This podcast teaches us so much about interntaional adoptions.
Don't miss it!
2021-02-2431 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S2 Ep. 147: Birth Mothers and a Birth FatherBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S2 Ep. 147: Birth Mothers and a Birth Father
AZ Pregnancy Help is dedicated to assisting birth mothers in their adoption journey through Building Arizona Families Adoption Agency. Adoption matters!
2021-02-2022 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S2, Ep. 146 Abortion Updates & Adoption ImpactBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S2, Ep. 146 Abortion Updates & Adoption Impact
So many states are introducing new bills regarding abortion. These bills are geared to restrict abortion and save lives. Listen and learn about what is happening around you, the less abortions had, the more possibilities for adoptions to occur!
2021-02-1717 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption, S2, Ep145: Adoption VS DCSBirth Mother Matters in Adoption, S2, Ep145: Adoption VS DCS
Listen to a former Department of Child Safety worker to understand what happens when a birth mother has an adoption plan and DCS (Department of Child Safety), formally known as CPS (Child Protective Services) arrives at the hospital and tells the birth mother that the state is going to take custody if the birth mother does not complete her adoption plan and place her baby for adoption. This is her opinion, her viewpoint and gives her stance.
Disclaimer: The views, information, or opinions expressed during this podcast are solely those of...
2021-02-0917 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption, S2, Ep144: What I Wish I Had Known...Birth Mother Matters in Adoption, S2, Ep. 144 : What I Wish I Had Known...
Take a look back with us as we walk down the road of 16 years of working in the adoption community. Listen to the lessons we have been taught and how we have grown as adoption social workers. Learn more about understanding birth parents and adoptive families.
2021-02-0624 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBMMIA Podcast S2, Ep. 143: Reunification From the Adoptive Family's PerspectiveBirth Mother Matters in Adoption (BMMIA) Podcast S2, Ep. 143: Reunification From the Adoptive Family's Perspective
Our co-host, Kelly's Rourke-Scarry's adoptive parents open up about their thoughts, feelings and experiences when she reunited with her birth mother.
Listen to one family's experience with adoption reunification. Learn about how their adult daughter reunfied with her birth mother and biolgical brothers. Learn more about what adult adoption reunfication is really like and one family's journey.
Birth Mother Matters in Adoption, giving adoption a voice.
2021-02-0320 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S2 Ep 142: Reunification, My StoryBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Season 2 Episode 142: Reunification, My Story
I was born in 1973 and placed for adoption prviately. My adoption was a closed adoption. I looked to find my birth mother and was sucessfully reunited in 2007. Listen as I talk about what that was like, how it felt and what I have learned. Adoption reunifications can be as different as snowflakes and adoptees or birth parents may have different reasons for wanting to reunify, but there is still one commonality: connection.
Connection, whether it be for learning more about your family medical history, to "find yourself", to learn about...
2021-01-3028 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters S2 Ep. 141: Factors That Can Prevent Someone From AdoptingBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Season 2 Ep.141: Factors That Can Prevent Someone From Adopting
Not every person who wants to be an adoptive parent will be qualified or eligible to adopt. The way eligibility is determined is through the adoption home study process. Every state has their own individual requirements to be eligible to adopt.
In this podcast we are going to focus on the specificities of Arizona Adoption Home Studies In the state of Arizona, adoption home studies are governed by the Arizona Revised Statutes. The State of Arizona requires that your home study social worker spend at least 4...
2021-01-2718 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Season 2; Ep. 140: Sharing FatherhoodBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Season 2; Ep. 140: Sharing Fatherhood
“It is not flesh and blood but the heart which makes us fathers and sons.”– Johann Friedrich von Schiller
Birth fathers may be an important part of the adoption; whether they are directly or indirectly involved is their choice. Birth fathers have their own feelings, thoughts and emotions regarding the adoption of their baby. There are both similarities and differences in sharing fatherhood between the birth father and the adoptive father.
The open adoption relationship between the birth father and adoptive father may be influenced by external and internal factors.
"Dad and I h...
2021-01-2328 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Season 2 Ep. 139: Sharing MotherhoodBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Season 2 Ep. 139: Sharing Motherhood
Sharing motherhood between two women is something that can be extremely hard to conceptualize or accept. When a woman chooses to make an adoption plan, she selflessly chooses to share her role as a mother with an adoptive mother. This choice is an incredible one.
Sharing motherhood is an incredibly complicated concept; internal and external factors can influence a birth mother and an adoptive mother’s view or stance on their ability to share motherhood. This podcast discusses both the internal and external factors that come into play and how a posit...
2021-01-2027 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption S 2, Ep. 138: The Positive Impact of AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast 138: Why Choosing Adoption for an Unplanned Pregnancy May Be Benefit A Birth Mother’s Other Biological Children
Choosing adoption for an unplanned pregnancy is one thing when you do not have other children to consider, but another when you do. Choosing adoption in these cases may benefit your other children in ways you may not even realize. If you are pregnant and currently struggling to provide the necessary items for your children on a daily basis, bringing another child into your life could push you further behind finaicially and make it more difficult for you...
2021-01-1315 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2: 137: Biological Grandparents RoleBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2: 137: Biological Grandparents Role in the Adoption Process
What roles can Birth Grandparents play in an adoption plan?
The “birth grandparents” are direct lineage to the adopted child, their medical history and social history matter to both the adoptee, the Aps and the birth parents. They are more than just an extension of the BPs they can contribute the following:
Be a source of support for the Birth Parentss, especially when discussing the adoption plan with family and friendsBe a voice of reason when or if the Birth Parents struggle with their adoption choiceSupport the Birth...
2021-01-0624 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Ep.136: Adoption Matters; 2020 A Year in ReviewBirth Mother Matters in Adoption, Season 2, Episode 136: Adoption Matters; 2020 A Year in Review
Take a walk back with us as we review 2020 in the adoption world.
Looking back at 2020, we discuss all the factors that played into successful and unsuccesfful adoption outcomes. We look at the status of the Paul Peterson case. We look at where the abortion laws stand today.
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Happy New Year!!!!!!
2020-12-3020 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2, Ep. 135: The CHRISTMAS EPISODEBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2, Ep. 135: The CHRISTMAS EPISODE
Remember to:
Give yourself and your family grace regarding phone calls/skypes and facetime since COVID-19 has prevented so many families get together.Avoiding holiday parties and get togethers is the best idea for a newborn for many reasons- and COVID-19 adds another layer!Relish in the small things.Make little special memory holiday crafts (ornaments in honor of this year.)Newborns do not have memories of the holidays and can only see them through pictures- so take a lot!Having a newborn is a great excuse to do only t...
2020-12-2318 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2, 105:Effects of Adoption ReunificationBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2, Episdoe 105 : Effects of Adoption Reunification on Children of an Adult Adoptee
Listen to the eldest daughter of Kelly Rourke-Scarry, Michelle discuss the impact of her mother reunifying with her biological graandmother (Kelly Rourke-Scarry's biological mother, Donna K. Evans.) Learn about the positive impact reunification can have on more family members other than just the adoptee. Listen to Michelle talk about the woman who made the bravest choice of adoption; what Donna K. Evans was really like, her experience with her and what she learned from her. Learn about the impact of Michelle's relationship with her...
2020-09-0215 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters In Adoption Season 2 #102 Living With Your Parent's ChoicesBirth Mother Matters In Adoption Season 2 #102 Living With Your Parent's Choices
Join us today as we talk with John Simpson, Ron Reigns' (Simpson's) adult son discuss his thoughts and feelings about learning that his parents made an abortion choice prior to his conception. Ron Reigns has discussed his regret over the abortion choice he nad his ex-wife made prior to John and now our listeners can hear the thoughts and feelings John has about their choice. John is raw and candid as he shares his perspective on how thier abortion choice impacted his life. John follows in his father's footsteps as...
2020-08-2219 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Episode 80: Two Lives, One Choice, Part 1 of 3Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Episode 80: Two Lives, One Choice, Part 1 of 3
LIsten to Ron Reigns as he talks about his own experience with abortion and how it has impacted his life and his loved ones. Listen to what it is like to reveal a regretted previous abortion choice to your spouse. Listen to the heartbreaking discussion of how to discuss it with his adult son. Ron shows bravery, heroism and cander in his openess to discuss what he considers a huge regret.
From an adoption standpoint, most subscribe to two out of the three options: adoption or parenting. The adop...
2020-05-2718 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption Ep.59: Adoption & Abortion in the News Part 2Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Ep.59: Adoption & Abortion in the News Part 2
A parent may lose the right to object to the adoption of a child by failing, without justifiable cause, to make child-support payments “as required by law or judicial decree,” the Ohio Supreme Court ruled Feb. 26.
Southwest Airlines made a beautiful tribute to a couple who adopted a new baby and was traveling home from Colorado to California. They invited the all the paaengers to particpate by writting notes to the new adoptive couple on southwest napkins.
2020-03-1423 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption 20: Adoption Reunification Part 1 of 2Birth Mother Matters in Adoption 20: Adoption Reunification Part 1 of 2
Adoption Reunificaiton as An Adult Adoptee, the story, the understanding. From beginning to end, an inside look into what it is really like. Listen and learn from Kelly Rourke-Scarry as she shares her own story of reunification and correlates it to the Ruth A. Moran's 4 Stages of Emotion in Post Adoption Reunification.
Ruth A. Moran Identifiies 4 Stages of Emotion: An Adult Adoptee's Post Reunion Perspective
1. Paralysis: Adoptees may be overwhelmed by the amount of information they have received or its content. An adoptee may withdraw during this time and need their emoti...
2019-10-3030 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption 13: Grief & Loss in Adoption Adoptive FamiliesBirth Mother Matters in Adoption 13: Grief & Loss in Adoption Part 2 of 3: Adoptive Families
Adoptive parents may experience grief and loss to some degree both before, during and after the adoption process. Understand that with adoption comes change; people deal with change in different ways; some easily acclimate to change, while others take time and may experience grief. Adding a a new family member can take time, effort, acceptance and sometimes outside assistance may be helpful. Change can be difficult and everyone deals with it differently.
Resources for adoptive parents are more readily available now than 50 years ago. Learn about resources that are av...
2019-10-0524 min
Birth Mother Matters in AdoptionBirth Mother Matters in Adoption; Introduction to the PodcastBuilding Arizona Families Adoption Agency Co-Founder Kelly Rourke-Scarry and Radio Personality Ron Reigns, developed a podcast to provide education, support, interviews and news regarding adoption. This podcast is geared for anyone interested in adoption, considering adoption, in the adopted process, and for women who are pregnant and considering adoption.
Adoption is a triad of three entities: Birth Mother, Adoptive Parents and the Adoptee. This Podcast focuses on all aspects of adoption; placing emphasis on the birth mother, while at the same time encorporating and interweaving both the adoptee and the adoptive parents. Looking at adoption through a magnifying glass, enabling listeners t...
2019-08-2217 min