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You’re Not That SpecialEp.120 | Welcome back!In this episode we discuss observation of liturgical calendars, our need for seasons, and re-cap Kim’s Lenten lessons. So good to be back with a new, tiny guest in tow! Listen in.2024-05-0617 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.116 | Homeschooling! Part 5/Answering Your QuestionsHave you ever felt like the things you’re teaching your children are falling on unappreciative ears? Kim and Em dive into the reality of sharing rich and beautiful academia and planting seeds as an arduous, trusting work. We don’t know what is sticking and what is not. A child, being made in the image of God, is a unique and independent vessel, ultimately under our jurisdiction, but not under our control. We’re also answering a few questions that came in from listeners: -What is something that surprised you about homeschooling? -How to fight the “I’m not doing enou...2023-10-3025 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.115 | Homeschooling! Part 4/Why Limits are HealthyIn her season, Emily feels responsible to do what she sees needs done. In her season, Kim is learning to let go of what she knows and sees, even when saying something might help. For both of us, we’re learning the opportunity in surrender through the daily practices of homeschooling, teaching, and getting enough protein. Does taking care of yourself sometimes feel “selfish?” Then this conversation is for you.2023-10-1618 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.105 | First Time Mom Tips, Etc.Today we’re answering two questions that came in: 1. First time mom tips 2. How to get through long, hard days with littles. Em can empathize, Kim can remember. Listen in.2023-05-1527 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.100 | Marriage Part 1The first in our marriage series, Kim shares difficulties in marriage now as an almost empty nester, while Emily shares from her perspective with littles at home. Kim shares from 36 years experience, Em from 10, but most of the answers to the questions of “how to have a good marriage” seem pretty much the same, with a few slight variations. The best things in life are also the hardest won. Perhaps the tenants of a strong, loving marriage are “simple,” just not easy. Listen in.2023-04-1021 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.99 | Lenten Breakthrough: Being Okay with 20% DaysWhile it’s good in theory, “dependency” is a hard-won lesson. We are proud and prone to shame, but God offers a kind and gracious route to being conformed to His image. Emily shares a personal Lenten breakthrough and Kim warns against Christian scrupulosity. Ultimately, we want deeper healing and intimacy with Jesus. Listen in.2023-04-0319 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.94 | An Unexpected Christmas & Hope for the New YearWhether you’ve put every last bit of tinsel away, or you’re celebrating all the way to Candlemas, there can be a bit of let-down once family gatherings and community parties start to quiet. The separation and quiet of winter comes right on the heels of what is (for most of us) the busiest season of the year. How do we take the lessons of Christmas into our hopeful new year’s stance? Listen in.2023-01-1617 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.93 | Peace in the Holidays: Curating Christmas JoyWhether this Christmas has been all that you prayed for, or much less than, we are afforded unspeakable joy and amazing peace through Christ, our Lord. How do we curate joy in the midst of our less-than-perfect lives? Listen in. Scythian Christmas Album: https://www.scythianmusic.com/product/856134 2022-12-2615 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.92 | Peace in the Holidays: Week before ChristmasIf we believe in God, what do we know about His character? Looking into the meta narrative of scripture, what can we learn in this last week of advent anticipation? We serve a God who created and sustains our world. In the midst of busyness and family, join us as God calls our hearts back to love, back to Jesus. Listen in.2022-12-1917 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.91 | Peace in the Holidays: Advent & JoyThroughout advent we have different themes we’re meant to focus on as we light our candles, say prayers, and endeavor to turn our hearts back over and over to baby Jesus. The third week of advent is joy and we’re diving into what exactly that is. How does joy sustain us in the horrible and just hard? We want to stay rooted and joy can help us to do so.2022-12-1220 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.90 | Peace in the Holidays: Business Compulsion and Staying PeacefulIn this season of advent we are finding purposeful ways to fight “business compulsion,” prepare physically and spiritually for winter, and prepare ultimately for the second coming of our Savior!2022-12-0524 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.89 | Peace in the Holidays: AdventWe are welcoming this anticipatory season with ideas for how to tap the breaks, reflections on past advent observations, and a discussion on the importance of advent before our Christmas.2022-11-2827 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.88 | Peace in the Holidays: ThanksgivingTo kick off our new series, “Peace in the Holidays,” we invite you to reflect on your favorite Thanksgiving memories, trouble-shoot potential peace-stealing, or stress-inducing areas, and practice a stubborn rebellion to keep the peace of Christ in your homes and your holidays. Christy Beasley- https://www.christybeasleycreative.com/2022-11-2129 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.87 | Unmade PlansWe’re discussing what we’ve learned in the crazy blur between summer and the beginning of the school year. With our well-laid plans there is so much more at work. Listen in as we discuss the epic adventure that is the Christian life.2022-10-2544 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.86 | Staying FriendsFrom conflict to simply keeping the spark in your friendship, we’re talking about the ins and outs of “staying” friends.2022-07-1130 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.85 | Being a FriendOnce we’ve done the hard work of finding a friend how do we be a good friend? From conflict to distance to lack or change in mutual interests, there’s a lot to unpack here. Listen in.2022-07-0252 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.84 | Finding FriendsFinding friends and having friends is easier said than done. How can we make friends when we’re already vulnerable? How do we reach out when we’re feeling timid? How do we deal with past friendship wounds? What do we do if the other person doesn’t reciprocate? Listen in.2022-06-0847 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.83 | Adding a Baby, or “Having Any Children”Today we’re speaking specifically on the challenge of adding a new baby to the family dynamic and how that changes both the family and the mother. However, we’re also (always) talking about the general raising of children and it’s difficulties, specifically as it pertains to being a mother who is ever-aware of her own flaws.2022-05-2346 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.82 | Taking Care of Everyone (including yourself) Part 2We’re continuing the conversation about balancing taking care of all your people…yourself included.2022-05-1638 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.81 |Taking Care of Everyone (including yourself)How do we balance taking care of those entrusted to our love and care while also taking care of ourselves? We’re sharing our very different perspectives and differentiated between our ideals and what care we truly need. Listen in.2022-05-0925 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.80 | Mother/Daughter Relationships Part 2Welcome to part two of the conversation! Conflict is inevitable, but a fight is not. We’re discussing our relationship and how we’ve weathered conflict over the years. An Imperfect Woman by, Kim Hyland- Imperfect Woman: Letting Go of the Need to Have It All Together https://www.amazon.com/dp/0801075165/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_022A6DZG2SQS04VJH2DQ 2022-05-0226 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.79 | Mother/Daughter Relationships Part 1Conflict is inevitable, but a fight is not. We’re discussing our relationship and how we’ve weathered conflict over the years. An Imperfect Woman by, Kim Hyland- Imperfect Woman: Letting Go of the Need to Have It All Together https://www.amazon.com/dp/0801075165/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_022A6DZG2SQS04VJH2DQ 2022-04-2531 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.78 | “Mehh” DaysIf we’re “alright” is that alright? We want beauty, comfort, productivity, in our days, who doesn’t? However, not every day brings all of this and some days we don’t get any of it. What should we think about days that are just alright and what place do they have in the Christian sojourn? Listen in.2022-04-1834 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.77 | Passion WeekHow does observing Holy Week contextualize and help us understand the daily intersection of Easter into our everyday lives? Outside of one exceptional day-the Easter Sunday celebration-what does this mean for us in our day to day, and especially in our mundane? Links: Changing the Conversation- https://worldviewacademy.square.site/product/changing-the-conversation/116 2022-04-1131 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.76 | InspirationWhere we’re finding inspiration can often be a calling card for grace or encouragement we didn’t know we needed. Join us as we speak on gardens, a recent gardening favorite (Garden Maker by, Christie Purifoy- https://www.amazon.com/Garden-Maker-Growing-Beauty-Flowers/dp/0736982140 ), and what has been generally inspiring us during the slow, rainy wake of spring here in the Virginia countryside. Links: Chosen Candles-https://www.chosencandle.com/2022-04-0635 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.75 | Disturbed…What To Do in a Season of FrustrationToday we’re sharing about a particularly frustrating or aggravating season and what exactly our “disturbance” may have in store for us. Trading well-meaning plans for the kind lessons of a loving Father. Emily shares about this pregnancy and how her lack is ultimately showing her a better, fuller way to live.2022-03-2837 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.74 | LentHow can a season of penitence and fasting answer a deep longing in us? To “give up and take up” means the Lenten season is about more than just what is lacking. Listen in.2022-03-0727 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.73 | Digging for Wonder & JoyWhen we have a string of hard days, or a season of hard we have to learn (before we can embrace it) to find the wonder and joy in our everyday lives. We want to become a people of advent, where our hearts and minds are believing and rehearsing the truth of our coming savior. The beautiful repetition of birth and death illustrated in springtime growth points us to our very own domestic lives. During this tumultuous sojourn we take comfort in a Savior who is growing good things both in us and for us. What a hope! Three Books...2022-02-2836 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.72 | Winter Survival TipsAs winter is roughly 20 years of the average lifespan we’re diving into winter for all it has to offer. Enjoying this season for what it is and not forcing our agenda onto a season has incredible benefits, not just for our bodies, but also for our spiritual lives. Heavenly Gluten Free Galette: https://www.kingarthurbaking.com/recipes/gluten-free-almond-galette-recipe 2022-01-1728 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.71 | Muffins & MushroomsHow setting goals from a place of humility and contentment may be the game changer we need to succeed in a deeper way this year.2022-01-1029 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.70 | A Christmas PerspectiveTWELVE days of Christmas? Sounds nice, but who can handle that much celebration? Maybe we’re missing something. Listen in to this brief explanation of the practical role of humility in our celebration of Christ’s incarnation.2022-01-0310 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.69 | Christmas: CelebrationIt’s the Christmas season! (Season, not day, just in case you missed it.) Good news for those who mourn just one singular day of Christmas and good news for those who are exhausted after one jam-packed family-filled day. We talk about the “after Christmas lull” that typically comes after day 1, the reflective choices that make this season double-y sweet as we practice thanksgiving, and the inevitable reflection on a full year of blessings and hard. How do we sit with this season longer and enjoy the celebration at our own pace? Listen in.2021-12-2724 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.68 | Cultivating Advent: AnticipationAs we await the first day of Christmas we are reflecting on how we’ve pushed things off our full plates in order to make room for a practice of advent. Conversely, we’re talking about the unavoidable fullness of a mother with child and what we can glean from the true events surrounding this time. In particular we focus on a young woman with child who, though her circumstances were less than idyllic, held fast to the peace of Christ 2021-12-2032 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.67 | Cultivating Advent: PracticeHere we share about the beautiful and true things to be gleaned from advent and how we can go about the gleaning part of it all. Aside from early mornings and slow coffee (praise the Lord for those moments), how can we cultivate a spirit of advent in our day to day this month of December? Free Live Zoom Teaching from Nick Leibish on the Advent of Jesus TONIGHT 12/13/21 at 7pm EST: https://www.scriptureandtradition.com/2021-12-1334 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.66 | Cultivating Advent: InvitationAmidst the bustle of Christmas preparations and family gatherings how will we cultivate a spirit of advent? More than simply having it all (i.e. the clean house, the fun memories, the beautiful parties, and our daily advent devotions), we’re endeavoring to embrace the humility and posture apropos to the season. Advent means “waiting.” We invite you to wait with us! Advent Playlists: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1mdsKdSxeRUXs1vlllpBdY?si=JRy9w_OTSTKFIIhTEP12mA https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3AiO8GJ6Cf8lNyQ0rXz6kX?si=EZfFDTgJRvqti0qWJdQeXQ https://open.spotify.com/album/0q3YflR2DQiPytrpHx7lAA?si=K7fQJ9...2021-12-0631 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.65 | Thanksgiving-It is Right & JustPracticing thanksgiving as a life-changing commandment. Thanksgiving week is upon us…our hearts and minds (may be) completely full of family, work to be done, and the subsequent highs and lows that can bring. Join us as we explore the practical application of daily thanksgiving and how it benefits us to obey our Heavenly Father in this commandment of living.2021-11-2245 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.64 | Family & the Holidays: The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly!How a spirit of advent can inform our approach to family and the holidays. What if we took to the very roots of these holidays we’re celebrating and let the love of Christ inform how we go about actually living them?2021-11-1551 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.63 | Utilizing Grace in the ChaosIn the midst of the all together wonderful and often break-neck pace of the holidays we are gearing up to practice accepting grace and even looking for it on purpose. The excitement and anticipation of the pre-holiday season can reach a fever pitch for those typically in the role of organizing and orchestrating the affairs. “Hello, it’s us!” While we know there is work and blessing in the abundance, we also need practical tips for how to manage and how to let go of what we can’t. Words from Kim- https://www.instagram.com/p/CV0SlsvrNr-/?utm_medium=c 2021-11-0838 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.62 | On Womanhood Part 3“A society without mothers would be an inhumane society.” Today we finish our series on womanhood, discussing the power and maternity of all women (both biological mothers and none). From the over-sentimentalized, to completely denied, we look at the extreme responses from our culture and offer a truth we all need to understand. Because of mothers our society endures, and not just in the physical and reproductive sense. We have all needed motherhood and in our greatest strength that is what all women have to offer. Listen in.2021-11-0230 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.61 | On Womanhood Part 2On femininity-what it is and what it isn’t. Today’s conversation is inspired by words from Emily Stimpson Chapman. Her words- https://www.instagram.com/p/CVNwa17rUl6/?utm_medium=copy_link 2021-10-2537 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.60 | On Womanhood Part 1From extreme October schedules, to holiday prep, to emptying oneself, we’re talking about the maternity of all women and how to use it for others. Yes, maternity is something mothers have, but it is also a gift of all women; this gift can be weaponized and used to our purposes, or given away as an emptying of self for those we love most. Listen in. Ultimate Makeover by, Carrie Gress- https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Makeover-Transforming-Power-Motherhood/dp/1942611722/ref=nodl_2021-10-1836 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.59 | God, What Are We Doing Today?What if, on our ordinary, planned, task-filled days we asked the Lord to guide the day with the trust of a child?2021-10-1128 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.58 | From Bad to WorseFollowing up on our conversation from the week prior (where we discussed difficult circumstances and the grace to accept our weakness in tandem with God’s kindness), we find that when things get worse there is still grace, maybe even more. Join us for a conversation about redemption of even the simplest inconveniences. We keep finding grace, more and more, as long as we’re looking. Links: Taylor Leonhardt- https://www.taylorleonhardt.com/2021-10-0427 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.57 | Welcome Back!Welcome back to the conversation and the transition into fall! This conversation happened just on the cusp of the fall season, as we shared God’s grace and kindness in the midst of our (surprising to us) imminent weakness. Fr. Mike Schmitz- https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=cU8stlV0DLg Sarah Clarkson- https://sarahclarkson.com/thisbeautifultruth Chance or the Dance- https://www.amazon.com/Chance-Dance-Critique-Modern-Secularism/dp/0898702291/ref=nodl_2021-09-2842 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.56 | What We're LearningFor the ones making end-of-summer lists and looking forward to fall. With just weeks left of summer and lots more to prep. For the external processors. For the avid writers. Sharing a literal page from Emily’s book. In this discussion we’re sharing what we’re learning right here in the thick of it.2021-08-0940 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.55 | Weathering the Summer StormsIn the midst of much activity we can often encounter activity-induced stress. The classic summer storm comes after a hot, sunny day full of fun. Join us for a conversation about what to do when summer storms hit.2021-07-2639 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.54 | YNTS Turns 1!Join us for *drum roll please* Season 2 of the You're Not That Special podcast! We can hardly believe we've had a year of conversations, laughing and crying through dishes, flowers, conflict in friendship, and all the everyday wonder of our "not-so-special" lives. Today we're talking about working with what you've got, starting from our lack, and trusting God to lead us gently. We are also sharing about our favorite band, Scythian! When discussing the topic of "working with what you've got" these guys certainly fit the bill. Growing their audience exponentially in 2020 when many b...2021-07-1340 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.53 | SeasonsWhether you’re tackling a to-do list that hinges on warm weather, or all eyes on vacation, we are each of us on some level affected by our season. While we’ve moved away from an agricultural mindset that depends on and works with the seasons, what practices might we need to rekindle to regain that sense of rhythm and place?2021-07-0535 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.52 | VacationWhether you’re packing your bags, still planning your getaway, or staying put, we think there’s something valuable in the art of vacation for all of us.2021-06-2830 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.51 | TransitionsWhether you’re a young mother, empty nester, single, or newly married we can all count on this same thing: change. With change comes opportunity, but also worry, fear, and doubt. Join us for a conversation near and dear to our current lives. Book- https://www.amazon.com/dp/0800722914/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_imm_QYXJS37XQWNT6345DFGH Poem- “No felt evil or defect becomes divine until it is inevitable; and only when resistence to it is exhausted and hope has fled, does surrender cease to be premature. The hardness of our task lies here; that we have to stri...2021-06-2130 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.50| Humility Pt.IIJoin us: How humility can help you live your dream life. Clarifying our days. Pride comes in many shapes. How smallness is vast.2021-06-0738 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.49 | HumilityInspired by J. Augustine Wetta’s book “Humility Rules,” we’re embarking on a new series to unpack a lifestyle of humility and the treasure of embracing this particularly counter cultural virtue. Book-https://www.amazon.com/Humility-Rules-Benedicts-Twelve-Step-Self-Esteem/dp/162164149X/ref=nodl_ Tim Keller-https://www.amazon.com/dp/1906173419/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_imm_8YTF0JFTCK1GG359V4H0_nodl “In most discussions, each man has some point to maintain and his object is to justify his own thesis and disprove his neighbors. He may have originally adopted his thesis because of some sign of truth in it, but his mode of su...2021-06-0133 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.48 | Home Sweet Home: RecapOur homes are precious, the very tangible examples of our forever homes in eternity. Among the daily practical tasks that must take place, the home is hinting forward to the end of our earthly race and the new beginning of life itself. Join us for our final discussion in the home series!2021-05-2523 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.47 | Home Series: Outdoor SpacesWhether it’s a well-loved garden, a front stoop, or even a back windowsill, the outdoor scenes of our lives yield much for beauty, truth, and edification. Join us for a conversation about the magical and ever changing space that is the outdoors.2021-05-1729 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.46 | Home Series: BedroomWhat do most of us long for in a bedroom? A place for rest, ideally a clean, beautiful space. As much as we try and desire the bedroom to be restful, we all know too well how the bedroom often becomes the laundry room. Why is that? The bedroom is also a place we maybe wish to sleep, but don’t always get it. We’re talking all about this sacred space-the functions and the functions of our hearts when we need Christ for rest and sanctuary.2021-05-1036 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.45 | Home Series: Living RoomTaken quite literally-this is the room for living! We’re sharing our couch testimonies (how just the right couch came into each of our lives), how God cares about where we live, and what a living room might look like in different seasons.2021-05-0328 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.44 | Home Series: KitchenFirst room in the home series! Because we are discussing the home-it’s importance both practically and the deeper spiritual implications, it seemed only appropriate to start with the heart of the home. Welcome to the kitchen. Links: https://instagram.com/everyday_mamas?igshid=rckzezotv11n 2021-04-2631 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp. 43 | Home Series: WelcomeIt’s the place we eat, drink, and sleep, but it’s also the place we celebrate, apologize, and make room. These potentially restorative places have suffered the neglect and idealism of generations. Let’s put home in her proper place and learn what the Lord would like to teach us about Himself as we lean into these sacred spaces. Links: https://www.amazon.com/Restoration-House-Creating-Space-Connection/dp/031009206X/ref=nodl_ https://theologyofhome.com/ https://www.amazon.com/Homebody-Guide-Creating-Spaces-Never/dp/006280197X/ref=nodl_ https://instagram.com/everyday_mamas?igshid=huys4arw2xi6 2021-04-2036 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.42 | This Comfortable HabitIt sure is Comfortable. Complaining may not seem like a life sucker, but it truly is. The opposite is also true-thanksgiving literally restores us to the full and faithful life God desires for us, and if that wasn’t incentive enough, it brings us into deeper connection with Himself. We’ve got a lot of experience in this area...the complaining part we mean. Buckle up, we’re ready for a change!2021-04-1239 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.41 | Real Life and All the StuffWe’re talking about real life: the kids, the family, the tired days, and how we get through it all.2021-04-0536 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.40 | Opportunities in WeaknessOur weakness provides us many an impediment, but what if this is also fertile ground for the Lord to do something unexpected? Join us for an episode about the regenerative work of our God and our happy part in it.2021-03-2928 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.39 | Chosen BoundariesIn the past year we were hit with almost unavoidable boundaries living life at a slower pace. Now, we explore how to create and keep new boundaries of our own, why they are necessary, and the freedom found in these places.2021-03-2233 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.38 | Social Media: The good, the bad, and the uglyWe've all had great experiences and not so great experiences with social media. Over the last few years Instagram has grown into a place to connect, learn new info, be encouraged, and more. Just like a car, social media is potentially very useful, but also potentially dangerous. Join us for a conversation about the good, the bad, and the ugly of social media, and how we're wrestling with this topic ourselves. 2021-03-1533 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.37 | Part 2, Blessing in BoundariesJoin us for part 2 of our discussion about the beauty and freedom of rhythms, restraint, and the order of the seasons.2021-03-1218 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.36 | Blessing in BoundariesJoin us for Part 1 of our discussion about the beauty and freedom of rhythms, restraint, and the order of the seasons. 2021-03-0925 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.35 | Lent & GainJoin us for a special episode featuring guest host, Ethan Dean! As the lenten season unrolls Emy and Ethan share the ways God has made His kindness evident and uses even our smallest sacrifices to show us His plans for fullness and provision.2021-02-2432 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.34 | WinterWhether you love getting cozy indoors or you’d rather be barefoot outside, winter can be a long season for all of us. Join us for a conversation about weathering winter well.2021-02-0828 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.33 | ServingToday we're inspired by the quote from St. John Chrysostom, "The bee is more honored than other animals, not because she labors, but because she labors for others." This is a conversation about serving.2021-02-0238 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.32 | Trusting God During Hard TimesOne month into the new year, it’s likely that not everything has gone to plan and that we’ve already encountered some hard things. Our trust is not in circumstances, nor our hope in predictability. When life yields uncertainty we’re resolved, as St. Padre Pio encourages to, “Pray, hope, and don’t worry.” Deuteronomy 23:5 “The Lord your God loves you.”2021-01-2538 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.31 | InspireThe first month of the first year is well upon us, so we're discussing today what inspires us. Everything from home decor, to a single day, we're finding inspiration in the best places it can be found, right in the middle of our every day, "not so special," wonder-filled lives. Listen in.2021-01-1839 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.30 |Marriage HacksContinuing our conversation on marriage, we’ll chat about the little hacks that make marriage strong and the bad habits that make it harder than necessary. We often talk about “troubling our own trouble,” which is the last thing we want to do, especially with our chosen partners for this life. Listen in!2021-01-1122 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.29 | On MarriageIn an age of cancel culture and self serving, we're going there. We've heard it said that marriage is the closest thing to heaven or hell on earth. We've also asked listeners to write in and tell us what they'd like to hear conversation on and this is by far our most requested topic! It's not easy, but it's the discussion we need. Join us for a discussion on marriage!2021-01-0430 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.28 | Imperfect ResolutionsAs we head out of the year 2020 and into 2021 many of us are tired, weary. In the same breath, it would be wonderful to walk into the new year with resolve for something we can actually achieve. Enter: "imperfect resolutions." Kim shares a devotional from her book "An Imperfect Woman" and offers us hope for the year to come. Kim Hyland's 5 Days of Imperfect Resolutions- https://bit.ly/3nSA1dL 2020-12-2827 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.27 | The Main ThingTinsel, turkeys, and toys oh my! How do we keep the main thing the main thing in the busiest season of the year? Listen in.2020-12-2122 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.26 | Best TraditionsToday we’re discussing best traditions. From the ones we grew up with, to the ones we are creating now, traditions ground and anchor us in the beautiful celebrations of every season! Links|| Jody’s Instagram https://instagram.com/jody_lee_collins?igshid=1vn6rkfw9ll4q Jody’s Book https://www.amazon.com/Living-Season-Well-Reclaiming-Christmas-dp-0578403625/dp/0578403625/ref=dp_ob_title_bk_nodl 2020-12-1532 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.25 | GiftsHow do we give gifts when we’re afraid there’s not enough in the first place? How do we go from a scarcity mindset to a “wealth management” mindset? Listen in.2020-12-0828 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.24 | Welcome AdventThe holidays can be so full and expectations can be so high! Join us for a conversation about the life and true peace to be found in the advent season. Helpful Resources: O Come, Emmanuel- https://www.amazon.com/dp/1645850765/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_api_fabc_zyuVFb6CWX8FS. Shadow and Light: A Journey into Advent- https://www.amazon.com/dp/0736980601/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_api_fabc_XyuVFb4Z1GSA8. The Greatest Gift: Unwrapping the Full Love Story of Christmas- https://www.amazon.com/dp/1414387083/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_api_fabc_czuVFbTX9229M?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 Come...2020-11-3023 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.23 | Happy ThanksgivingPerspective is almost everything. As we venture into the holidays let us all choose a healthy, right perspective and glean from the grace and beauty of God in our celebrations! Chosen Candle- https://www.chosencandle.com Everyday Mama- https://everydaymamas.com 2020-11-2426 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.22 | Holiday ResetAfter all this year has held, not to mention the normal pace and potential strain of the holidays, it just might be time for a full reset. Listen in.2020-11-1628 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.21 | When You Need a NapWe might be at a deficit, we might even really need a nap, but we also might not get the nourishment we’re looking for right away. There’s hope for us. Listen in.2020-11-0917 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.20 | LossThis week the Dean family lost their puppy, Penny. God inhabits the love we express to one another, and informs how we love even (especially) in a world of loss and hurt. Listen in.2020-11-0227 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.19 | Such Are the Times“Bad times, hard times, this is a what people keep saying; but let us live we’ll, and times shall be good. We are the times: Such as we are, such are the times.” ~ St. Augustine of Hippo Join us for an episode especially for “the times.”2020-10-2637 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.18 | Too MuchWhether we feel "too much" or "not enough" we all know the feeling of not being quite right. Such is the human condition: imperfect. Join us for a conversation about dealing with our shortcomings and the God who offers freedom from self. 2020-10-1925 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.17 | Not EnoughWhether you’re used to feeling “not enough” or are more accustomed to feeling “too much,” I’m sure we can all relate to a feeling of inadequacy in one form or another. Join us for an episode about feeling less than or more than your people, your circumstances, or your season of life can handle. We’ll share where we land and what we believe is at the heart of it all. Part 1 of a 2 part conversation!2020-10-1217 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.16 | ComparisonWe've all done it. Comparison takes no prisoners, and we're all left lacking. Join us for a discussion on the simplest ways we tend to compare, the freedom of forgetting oneself, and the true desire at the heart of our comparison games. Links|| The Freedom of Self Forgetfulness by, Tim Keller https://www.amazon.com/Freedom-Self-Forgetfulness-Path-Christian/dp/1906173419 Dream Big by, Bob Goff https://www.amazon.com/Dream-Big-Youre-Going-About/dp/1400219493/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1UKY8AF1249B1&dchild=1&keywords=dream+big+bob+goff&qid=1601875473&s=books&sprefix=d...2020-10-0522 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.15 | FallBouquets of freshly sharpened pencils, crisp autumn air, and cozy sweaters are just a few of the things we're thanking God for this fall season! With any change or transition there's always fresh perspective on God's consistency and kindness to us. Join us as we share what we're up to this fall, how we're letting go of summer, and how God gently leads us with nature notes of His loving kindness. || God, You Make Me Feel Special by Katie Phillips https://www.amazon.com/God-You-Make-Feel-Special/dp/1734048662/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=3537D...2020-09-2816 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.14 | DreamsWhether big or small, we all have dreams for our lives. Join us as we discuss the shift of our dreams from stage to stage, the myth of "settling" (specifically in marriage and motherhood), dreaming "in and out of season," and the difference between a dream or ambition!2020-09-2125 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.13 | Life HacksIn these unprecedented times... We want to share some life hacks that have worked well for us in our differing seasons. From easy home practices with young children, to cleaning up house, to engaging your spouse in conflict. Listen in!2020-09-1425 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.12 | MentorsWhat is a mentor? Mentorships come in all shapes and sizes and often provide the insight we need to weather important seasons of our lives. But, how does one become/find a mentor? Join us for a discussion about all of the above!2020-09-0923 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.11 | Learning at HomeWhether you’re homeschooling by choice or by necessity, there are many hurdles to make in this area! Both personally and practically, homeschooling can be a draining and fearful endeavor, or it can be fulfilling and expectant. The joys of learning at home are simply that-of making your home a place you learn. Join us for this listener-suggested episode on Homeschooling!2020-08-3135 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.10 | Family FriendshipsFamily! The best of times, the worst of times. While family relationships can be some of the most difficult to maintain, they also hold opportunity and understanding that can’t be found many place else. Join us for a discussion about why family relationships can be some of the hardest and most rewarding friendships we have. Links: Boundaries- https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-When-Take-Control-Your/dp/0310247454/ref=nodl_2020-08-2428 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.9 | Conflict in FriendshipThe beginnings of a friendship are often easy conversation and lots of admiration, but what about that first disagreement with a friend? Conflict is inevitable in long lasting, strong relationships. Join us as we talk about navigating conflict, leaning in, and when to walk away. Links: When to Walk Away-https://www.christianbook.com/when-to-walk-away/gary-thomas/9780310346760/pd/346762?en=bing-pla&event=SHOP&kw=family-0-20%7C346762&p=1179517&dv=m&msclkid=a5d35dfe11e412cb172502c48a853ac1&utm_source=bing&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=Shopping%20Main&utm_term=4580565442052542&utm_content=s-family 2020-08-1740 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.8 | BONUS Nice to Meet You!In this episode we take a moment to introduce ourselves and tell you a little bit about life in our shoes. Nice to meet you!2020-08-1316 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.7 | Being a friendBeing a friend can be easy and rewarding, but it can also be trying. When being a certain kind of friend becomes our only way offering friendship, what do we do? Perhaps our desire to be a particularly helpful, generous, or other kind of friend exposes a selfish or insecure motive. Join us as we discuss being the best friend we can be in any given season!2020-08-1020 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.6 | FriendshipJoin us for a conversation on friendship! Specifically, on being a friend. Friendships can be tricky, especially when it requires of us to give the type of friendship we hope to receive.2020-08-0319 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.5 | World Day Against Human TraffickingHuman trafficking is one of the greatest atrocities of our day. As this dark evil increasingly comes to light, we want to offer you a means of practical engagement and advocacy. Please listen. Links: Five Fifteen-http://www.five-fifteen.org 2020-07-3019 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.4 | Formal CelebrationsChristmas, birthdays, all manner of occasions for celebration grace us year after year. Some of us love to pull out all the bells and whistles, and some of us get overwhelmed at the prospect. No matter where you land on the party planning side of things celebration is an important and declarative moment in our wonder-filled, ordinary lives. Join us for a conversation about formal celebrations! || Links: Bread & Wine by, Shauna Niequist- https://www.amazon.com/dp/0310345316/ref=nodl_?tag=duckduckgo-d-20&linkCode=osi&th=1&psc=1 2020-07-2720 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.3 | BONUS Celebration in HardshipCelebrating the sunny days is easy, but what about the gray days? How do we celebrate the seasons that hold more uncertainty and sadness than happiness and levity? Join us for a discussion about the inevitable hard days and the rebellious freedom of celebrating in their midst.2020-07-2213 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.2 | Everyday CelebrationBirthdays, holidays, anniversaries! Celebration is an important and special part of life. In this episode, we talk about how to make the wonder and joy of celebration a part of our everyday! || Links: “Chance or the Dance” by, Thomas Howard- https://www.amazon.com/Chance-Dance-Critique-Modern-Secularism/dp/0898702291 || Mother Theresa quote- https://bustedhalo.com/jolt/wash-plate-not-dirty-told-wash-love-person-will-use-next-st-teresa-calcutta 2020-07-2017 min

You’re Not That SpecialEp.1 | You’re Not that SpecialWelcome to our first episode of You’re Not that Special! Join us as we discuss “why you’re not that special,” the freeing and clarifying role of love in our lives as opposed to affirmation, and the vision we have for our time together!2020-07-1219 min