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Kindra Morse
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Her Purpose - Hosted by Kindra Morse
An Unplanned Shift from Banking to Business: Melody's Story of Finding Purpose
When Life Hands You the Unexpected: Melody’s Story of Purpose”What do you do when life hands you something you didn’t want?In this episode of Her Purpose, Kindra Morse interviews Melody Balmes, a woman who transitioned from a 25-year banking career to running a successful powder coating business. Melody shares her journey of overcoming personal and professional challenges, including the emotional turmoil of losing her job and dealing with family tragedies. She emphasizes the importance of building strong customer relationships, learning from mistakes, and fostering a family-oriented work environment. Melody also di...
2025-02-25
56 min
The Brian and Kindra Show
Mastering the Art of Budgeting: Tips & Tricks for Financial Success
Join Brian and Kindra as they tackle the often uncomfortable topic of personal finance and budgeting. In this episode, they discuss the stigma around talking about money, the importance of budgeting, and share practical tips on managing finances. Learn strategies for tracking expenses, setting financial goals, avoiding lifestyle inflation, and the value of accountability. Whether you're trying to get out of debt or save for a big trip, this episode offers valuable insights to help you take control of your financial future.
2024-09-13
28 min
The Brian and Kindra Show
Navigating Short Sales: A Comprehensive Guide with Brian and Kindra
Join Brian and Kindra as they delve into short sales, discussing options for homeowners facing financial hardship. Learn the importance of lender communication, necessary paperwork, and the step-by-step process from offers to closing. This episode is packed with valuable insights and real-life examples to help you navigate the world of short sales effectively!
2024-09-06
28 min
The Brian and Kindra Show
Navigating Buyer Broker Agreements and Common Home Buying Mistakes
Join Brian and Kindra on this episode as they dive into the intricacies of buyer broker agreements, effective August 17th, and the nuances of pre-approvals. They discuss the importance of signing these agreements, different types based on client-agent relationships, and share insights into the home buying process. Additionally, they highlight common mistakes homebuyers make, such as not getting pre-approved, overlooking additional costs, and holding out for the perfect home. Tune in for practical advice and tips to ensure a smooth home-buying journey.
2024-08-30
28 min
The Brian and Kindra Show
Drawbacks of Buying/Selling Without an Agent
Join Brian and Kindra on their show as they delve into the vital role of real estate agents in today's market, providing valuable insights and practical tips. They share details about recent changes affecting realtors associated with the National Association of Realtors, discuss the importance of local market expertise, the pitfalls of selling or buying without an agent, and the benefits of using a buyer's broker agreement. They also cover how to avoid common mistakes in legally binding contracts and emphasize the security and time-saving that come from working with a professional. With anecdotes and real-life examples, this episode...
2024-08-23
28 min
The Brian and Kindra Show
Navigating the Real Estate Maze: Tips, Insights, and Our New Buyer Strategy Guide!
Join Brian and Kindra in this episode as they delve into valuable tips and practical ideas on relationship-driven real estate. With the launch of their new Buyer Strategy Guide, they discuss the essential steps to take care of buyers, including budgeting, house features, and the importance of a buying agent. They introduce the dedicated team members in their office and highlight how their expertise can make the home buying process smoother and more informed. Tune in for a comprehensive look at the home-buying journey and why having the right agent matters.
2024-08-16
28 min
The Brian and Kindra Show
Understanding Buyer Brokerage Agreements: Part 2
Hey, it's the Brian and Kindra show! Today, we're diving into the new Oklahoma Real Estate Commission Buyer Broker Service Agreement and what it means for you. We'll break down the changes affecting both buyers and sellers, highlight why it's crucial to sign agreements before viewing properties, and discuss the potential hiccups you might face. From buyer representation to compensation, and everything in between, we've got you covered. We'll share our insights and tips to help you navigate these new waters smoothly. Whether you're looking to buy, sell, or just stay informed, this episode has all the info you...
2024-08-09
28 min
The Brian and Kindra Show
Understanding Buyer Brokerage Agreements: Part 1
In this episode of the Brian and Kindra Show, we humorously discuss hair product mishaps and vacation stories before diving into real estate changes due to the recent NAR settlement. We cover the implications of buyer brokerage agreements and the unique nuances of Oklahoma's real estate regulations. Packed with funny anecdotes, this episode offers a blend of entertainment and valuable real estate insights.
2024-08-02
28 min
The Brian and Kindra Show
Market Updates & Hidden Costs of Homeownership
Join Brian and Kindra as they discuss the current state of the real estate market, revealing the latest listing trends and home prices in Woodward and other areas. The duo also shares personal vacation experiences, emphasizing the importance of taking breaks from work. The episode transitions into a thorough discussion about the often overlooked costs of homeownership, covering essential home maintenance, budgeting tips, and the significance of having emergency funds. They also provide practical advice on how to prepare for unexpected expenses and the benefits of home insurance. If you're a homeowner or planning to buy a house, this...
2024-07-26
28 min
The Brian and Kindra Show
Understanding the NAR Settlement and Its Impact on Real Estate Agents
In this episode of the Brian and Kindra Show, Brian and Kindra discuss their experiences at the Woodward Elks Rodeo, share some fun interactions, and provide insights on the bustling event. They then delve into the key topic of the NAR settlement affecting realtors nationwide. Brian explains the background of the lawsuit, the implications for real estate commissions, and how it will change the future of buying and selling homes. They emphasize the importance of understanding the new rules and offer advice for buyers on navigating these changes. The episode wraps up with a discussion on using local agents...
2024-06-14
28 min
The Brian and Kindra Show
Sunshine, Ribs, and Real Estate: A Day in the Life with Brian and Kendra
Hey there! 🌞 Ready for a rollercoaster of a chat with Brian and Kindra? This episode is all about embracing our ADHD vibes and diving into whatever catches our fancy. From basking in yesterday's gorgeous sunshine to savoring some mouth-watering ribs, we've got stories that'll make you feel right at home. Ever wondered if it's better to buy or rent? Or how to really get to know a neighborhood before you move in? We've got you covered. Plus, we share some insider tips on spotting a market crash and discuss the pros and cons of buying older homes. Spo...
2024-05-31
28 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Getting Real on Custody Issues with Kindra Riber
Kindra Riber, your co-host of this podcast, was interviewed by the ladies on Obsessed. This podcast focuses on the real struggle of parents who are alienated from their children during divorce. This has been a Mediacasters Production.
2024-04-21
34 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
From Law Enforcement to Family Court: A Journey of Resilience and Advocacy with Tom Flynn
Tom, a law enforcement officer for 27 years, shares his harrowing journey through a brutal divorce filled with false accusations of domestic violence. He unveils a shocking statistic: nearly 1 in 3 law enforcement officers facing divorce encounter such accusations, highlighting the depth of manipulation during family disputes.His narrative delves into the hidden vulnerabilities within law enforcement, revealing the adverse impact of domestic violence allegations on officers' careers and finances. Tom reflects on his transition from enforcer to falsely accused, shedding light on the immediate repercussions officers face in such situations....
2024-04-06
1h 03
The Brian and Kindra Show
Exploring the World of Termites with Jake Persall
Join hosts Brian and Kindra in their engaging and informative discussions on a variety of topics. In this episode, they welcome Jake Persall from JCP Services to delve into the intriguing world of termites. It's not just a repeat; this time, it's The Brian and Jake Show! In their lively conversation, they reminisce about a previous termite adventure on Cheyenne Street, sharing insights that will make you wish you could see what they saw. From termite science to the celebration of National Termite Week, the hosts explore it all. Termites, much like ants, are part of our...
2024-03-14
28 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Be Your Own Lawyer During Your Custody Case with Leslie Alexi
In this episode of the podcast, we delve into the complex world of family law with Leslie Alexi, a seasoned family law attorney. With over 250 family law trials under her belt, Leslie has extensive experience in navigating the intricacies of post-dissolution custody battles and parental alienation cases.Leslie sheds light on the challenges faced by individuals in family court, where exorbitant attorney fees often lead many to represent themselves, known as going pro se. She emphasizes how legal battles can extend throughout a child's upbringing, draining financial resources and leaving parents financially vulnerable.
2024-03-11
16 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
It's Not About Us: Co-Parenting with Darlene Taylor
In this insightful podcast, Darlene Taylor shares her journey of co-parenting and the lessons she learned along the way, which she also discusses in her book titled "It's Not About Us: A Co-Parenting Survival Guide to Taking the High Road." Darlene emphasizes that successful co-parenting requires a shift in perspective, where decisions are no longer about the individual but about what's best for the children. She highlights the importance of communication, trust, and collaboration between co-parents, even in the face of past hurt and grief from divorce.She stresses t...
2024-02-15
52 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Gaslighting and Emotional Abuse of Children with Professor Ben Hine
In this insightful podcast with Professor Ben Hine, an expert in parental alienation and affected personally by parental alienation, shares his personal and professional journey that led to specialization in this challenging field. The discussion covers severe cases initiated by false abuse allegations, leading to legal actions and prolonged child separation, influencing a negative narrative about the alienated parent. Legal implications of using physical discipline are explored, emphasizing the potential chain of events in court. The podcast delves into various theories behind parental alienation and their prevalence. It addresses the impact on children, advocating against blaming them, and discusses...
2024-01-22
38 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
False Allegations of Abuse and Parental Alienation: Navigating the Complexities of Family Dynamics with Professor Ben Hine
Professor Ben Hine, an expert in parental alienation and affected personally by parental alienation, shares his personal and professional journey that led to specialization in this challenging field. The discussion covers severe cases initiated by false abuse allegations, leading to legal actions and prolonged child separation, influencing a negative narrative about the alienated parent. Legal implications of using physical discipline are explored, emphasizing the potential chain of events in court. The podcast delves into various theories behind parental alienation and their prevalence. It addresses the impact on children, advocating against blaming them, and discusses strategies for approaching reunification. Extreme...
2024-01-13
50 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Military Veteran, Alienated Mom, Domestic Violence Survivor and Marketing Expert, Rocki, Shares How She has Overcome All
In this compelling podcast episode, the host interviews a marketing expert with over a decade of experience who shares a remarkable journey of overcoming adversity. The guest, a military veteran, retired in 2018 and transitioned into entrepreneurship to pursue her passion for marketing. She expresses a deep commitment to helping teen girls build a supportive community, inspired by her own traumatic experience at 17.Rocki discusses the challenges of being a single mom and a full-time entrepreneur, highlighting the demanding nature of military service. When asked about balancing these roles, she initially admits not knowing how...
2024-01-07
35 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Surviving the Holidays with Mick and Kindra
Holidays without our children after divorce is hard. But not impossible. Mick and Kindra share some insights on how you can take care of yourself, create new traditions and be the best parent you can be. Divorce is hard. And the aftermath of healing is a space of strength. Hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, want to make sure you are not alone during divorce, parental alienation, and custody battles. They bring real people and real stories to you so you can be equipped to heal yourself, your children...
2023-12-21
26 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Protecting Yourself and Your Assets during a Divorce with Lisa Zeiderman
Divorce is hard. And the aftermath of healing is a space of strength. Hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, want to make sure you are not alone during divorce, parental alienation, and custody battles. They bring real people and real stories to you so you can be equipped to heal yourself, your children and recover from the aftermath of family trauma and drama.Did you know that divorce lawyers have a similar nature of work as that of family lawyers? During divorce proceedings, close communication and clear communication is...
2023-12-12
39 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
A Man's Resilience - Dave Collier - Suicide and Parental Alienation
Dave Collier is a best-selling author, international speaker, and youth advocate.I have been fortunate to speak in North America and internationally. My topics have included Intimate Partner Violence, Narcissistic Abuse and Parental Alienation. Having worked with vulnerable youth for many years, ending generational abuse is also a passionate topic of mine.I am an international best-selling author with an account of Intimate Partner Violence. There is currently another piece waiting for publishing and a full length story in the works.After m...
2023-11-23
37 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
He Said She Said: What's upcoming and announcements
Divorce is hard. And the aftermath of healing is a space of strength. Hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, want to make sure you are not alone during divorce, parental alienation, and custody battles. They bring real people and real stories to you so you can be equipped to heal yourself, your children and recover from the aftermath of family trauma and drama.If you find yourself entangled in a high-conflict divorce or experiencing the heart-wrenching alienation from your children, we encourage you to share your story with us...
2023-11-14
06 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Megan Hunter from High Conflict Institute Gives Us Tools to Navigate Communication with a Co-Parent
In this episode, Megan Hunter, CEO & CO-Founder of High Conflict Institute, provides some helpful tools and strategies we can use when communicating with a co-partner. BIFF - Brief, Informative, Friendly and FirmEAR - Empathy, Attention, RespectNo response is a response. We don't have to answer right away if we choose to answer.Provide options and proposals vs. "all or nothing"WEB methodSSN - Shut up, Smile, NodHosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber...
2023-10-31
59 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Kindra Riber and Mick Smith LIVE!
Kindra and Mick have met for the first time since they started hosting this podcast a year ago to discuss the top 4 episodes, what they have in common and plans for the future. Join them in this short episode to hear what the trends have been over the past year with legislative change for custody, trends in court and how parental alienation starts. Allow us to introduce your hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, who are fervently fighting to put an end to the excruciating pain caused by divorce, parental alienation, custody battles, and...
2023-10-21
14 min
The Brian and Kindra Show
Navigating New Construction: What Buyers Need to Know
Join Brian and Kindra as they dive into the world of new construction homes. They discuss essential questions to ask when buying new construction, from termite treatments to homeowner association rules. Learn how to make informed decisions and ensure your new home meets your expectations. Don't miss out on valuable insights and practical tips for a smooth home-buying experience in this episode of The Brian and Kindra Show!
2023-10-19
28 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Custodial Interference is a Criminal Offense with Claudia Ovalles
Claudia Ovalles is a retired veteran, alienated Mom and fighting for change legally. Did you know that custodial interference is a criminal offense and can be prosecuted? You as the targeted parent have every right to call the police when your court order has been denied by the other parent. Claudia defines what this means in this mind-blowing episode. Claudia is active with Heroes for Children's Rights and the National Parents Organization. She is able to discuss legislative efforts and advocacy and is at the forefront of...
2023-10-18
1h 01
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Children of Divorce with Therapist, Cathy Himlin
Parental children of divorce is a real thing. Alienation can happen, whether it's planned or not. It’s not as simple as one parent trying to turn a child against the other. It involves a variety of factors that can exist in any given family, including the children’s reactions to their situation. Sadly, parents who struggle with children rejecting them often do so in private.However, when parents learn to express empathy through validating their children’s feelings, it can start to reconnect them emotionally and create safety to repair the relationship....
2023-10-04
41 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Grieving Divorce with Heidi Dunstan
Heidi Dunstan is a grief expert and talks with Mick and Kindra in this episode on how to handle someone going through grief, what to say to them when they are grieving that can be helpful rather than hurt and how to set your own boundaries while grieving.The episode precedes her bLU Talk at Harvard University. Heidi has also spoken at various summits, podcasts, and networking sessions. You can contact Heidi at: heidi@heididunstan.caWebsitewww.heididunstan.caLinkedInhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/he...
2023-09-21
29 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Dr. Amy J.L. Baker Speaks about the Lasting Impact on Children from Parental Alienation
Dr. Baker is a nationally recognized expert in parental alienation, and parent-child relationships, especially children of divorce, and emotional abuse of children. She has a Ph.D. in developmental psychology from Teachers College of Columbia University. She is the author or co-author of 10 books and over 120 academic articles on topics related to children's well-being. Amy offers many services including telephone coaching for targeted parents, telephone clinical case consultations, and in-person and virtual trainings for legal and mental health professionals. Dr. Baker can be reached at: Dr. AmyJLBaker@gmail.com and...
2023-09-14
27 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Experiencing Grief after Divorce with Heidi Dunstan
Heidi Dunstan is a grief expert and talks with Mick and Kindra in this episode about experiencing grief during a divorce, creating a space for grief, and what grief can entail. Plus so much more that we experience everyday, all around us. Heidi shares tips and ways to support yourself and others while grieving with simple, practical ways to grieve with grace. The episode precedes her bLU Talk at Harvard University. Heidi has also spoken at various summits, podcasts, and networking sessions. You can contact Heidi at: heidi...
2023-09-06
29 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Parent-Child Relationships with Dr. Amy J.L. Baker
Parent-child relationships are so important and especially after divorce. In this episode, we discuss the 17 primary strategies of parental alienation, 5-factor Baker model, the research behind it, how the court system addresses parental alienation and why its not listed in the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual).Dr. Baker is a nationally recognized expert in parental alienation, and parent-child relationships, especially children of divorce, and emotional abuse of children. She has a Ph.D. in developmental psychology from Teachers College of Columbia University. She is the author or co-author of 10 books and over 120 academic articles...
2023-08-31
34 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Parental Alienation Unmasked: David Shubert's Journey
Esteemed author and advocate David Shubert delves into the heart-wrenching details of Parental Alienation, getting readers to understand, cope and move forward from this painful issue. After experiencing it personally, David has spent years researching and interviewing other parents and finding solutions for families. In this interview with Mick and Kindra, David explains what parental alienation really is, the motivators, the warning signs, who can alienate, how it's connected to mental illness and more. Shubert sheds light on the intricate dynamics involved in Parental Alienation, where one person attempts to emotionally manipulate and distance...
2023-08-22
39 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Changing the Court System with Kortnee Graves Alarcon
In today's episode, we have the pleasure of exploring the inspiring journey and insights of Kortnee Graves Alarcon. Kortnee is an accomplished individual with a wealth of knowledge and experience in the legal industry as related to divorce and custody. Kortnee's expertise and passion have led her to make a significant impact in her endeavors. As we delve into her story, we will uncover the key challenges, advice, and triumphs that have shaped her family and legal knowledge.Kortnee Graves Alarcon is a renowned legal advocate and mom who has made a name for herself...
2023-08-21
30 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
How Parental Alienation Effects Children with Susan Shofer
Susan Shofer, a certified divorce coach, due to popular demand returns for an unprecedented third episode and engages in a compelling conversation with Mick and Kindra about the profound impact of parental alienation on children and the crucial steps to support them during their adult years after reunification. In this episode she references the 17 ways an alienator can alienate identified by Amy J. Baker and her encounter with Dr. Steven Miller on how to deal with an alienator.Susan Shofer, a distinguished TedEx speaker, expert in parental alienation, divorce coach, and accomplished author, possesses...
2023-08-21
48 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Overcoming Stepmom Struggles with Coach, Alicia Krasko
Allow us to introduce your hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, who are fervently fighting to put an end to the excruciating pain caused by divorce, parental alienation, custody battles, and the disintegration of families. Their mission is to equip you with the necessary tools to heal and recover from the aftermath of family trauma and drama.In this episode, meet Alicia Krasko, an experienced and empathetic speaker who has emerged as a guiding light for stepmoms facing challenges and seeking to build a fulfilling role within their families.Alicia's journey began...
2023-08-14
49 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
The Truth About Divorce and Everything in Between Founder of Cordell and Cordell, Joe Cordell
Joe Cordell, a renowned attorney based in Missouri, is the Co-Founder of a prominent company specializing in domestic relations. With a nationwide presence spanning 42 states and a team of 300 highly skilled attorneys, Joe primarily focuses on representing male clients, comprising approximately 96% of his clientele. He has established online platforms like dadsdivorce.com, mensdivorce.com, and mensrights.com, providing invaluable resources to individuals navigating divorce and men's rights issues. These platforms offer diverse content, including a YouTube channel featuring "Tips to Be a Better Co-Parent" and a comprehensive guide on "Back to School Co-Parenting."Insights from Joe Cordell s...
2023-07-05
40 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
How To Divorce in Hollywood Alec Baldwin vs. Kim Bassinger
In this engaging episode, hosts Kindra Riber and Mick Smith delve into the captivating high conflict custody case of celebrities Alec Baldwin and Kim Basinger. Even within the glitz and glamour of Hollywood, divorce and parental alienation cast their dark shadows.Are celebrities spared from the complexities of divorce, custody battles, and parental alienation? Not even the Hollywood elite can escape the emotional turmoil associated with the custody industry. Ireland Baldwin, the eldest daughter of renowned actor Alec Baldwin and Kim Basinger, gained notoriety when her father left a voicemail at the tender age of 11, referring to...
2023-07-04
26 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
The Truth About Parental Alienation with Investigative Reporter, Julie Lokun, from The Mediacasters interviews Mick and Kindra
What is parental alienation? Today we dive deep and the tables are turned when Kindra and Mick are interviewed by investigative reporter, Julie Lokun. Learn their stories of parental alienation and what they are doing to make a difference. This episode, we switch roles and Julie Lokun interviews Mick and Kindra to explore their stories of parental alienation in more depth and their knowledge on the subject. I am absolutely thrilled to tell you about Kindra Riber, an exceptional legislative advocate who tirelessly fights for the rights of children and parental access...
2023-07-04
39 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Discussing Parental Alienation with Mike Todrzak, a Father Who Struggles Daily to reach his child
Mike Todrzak is a songwriter and has dealt with the tragedy of losing his daughter to parental alienation. His gripping, emotional story will touch your heart and how he has turned his tragedy over to God's healing grace. Mike wants other people who are going through this tragedy to know they are not alone. This is evil and we can do something about it. We need to stand up and say this is wrong. Let's do better for our children."The focus is how to heal from trauma and ho...
2023-06-11
1h 04
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Friendships Through Divorce with Elizabeth Duncan-Hawker
Introduction: Elizabeth Duncan-Hawker is an experienced MBA with a passion for helping families navigate the complexities of divorce and friendship. Her work as an author and executive has given her a deep understanding of the emotional challenges that arise in these situations, and she is dedicated to finding solutions that work for all parties involved. She is the best selling author of Collecting True Friends. https://www.amazon.com/stores/Elizabeth-Duncan-Hawker/author/B09GJXHPJV?ref=ap_rdr&store_ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=trueLearn more about your hosts Mick Smith an...
2023-05-14
51 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Healing After Divorce with Krista Hernandez, Wellness Coach
In this episode, Kindra and Mick interview Krista Hernandez and the focus is healing your body after a divorce.Krista is a health and wellness coach who has struggled with chronic illness and autoimmune disease for many years. She discusses her journey to finding a natural and holistic approach to managing her health, which has included changes to her diet, lifestyle, and mindset.Krista's story is one of resilience and perseverance, as she has navigated the challenges of chronic illness while also pursuing her passion for helping others achieve their health goals. Through her coaching...
2023-04-26
43 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
A Parent Who Turned His Mess Into His Message - David Shubert from Colorado
In this podcast, we explore the story of David Shubert, a parental alienation activist who fights for family, mother's, father's, and children's rights. Shubert shares his personal experience of being a left-behind and alienated parent who spent over 14 years fighting to bring his children back home from Australia to the USA. Frustrated with the family court system, he decided to take matters into his own hands by sharing his story and experiences on social media to create awareness about parental alienation. As a result, his writings have been read and shared by people worldwide who have gone through similar...
2023-03-24
52 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
He Said/She Said: Highlights from speaking with lawyers, Rick and Marcie
Kindra and Mick share their thoughts on what Marcie and Rick shared with us about navigating divorce and working with attorneys. Learn more about your hosts Mick Smith and Kindra Riber. They are waging the war on ending the pain of divorce, parental alienation, custody battles and the break-up of families. Their purpose is to give you the tools on how to heal in the aftermath of family trauma and drama. To get a copy of our ebook, Survive Your Divorce, providing tips on working through a divorce, handling...
2023-02-27
32 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Navigating the Legal Process: Part 2
Mick and Kindra speak with Marcie Patton-Coffman, a Senior Litigation Partner in Ohio and Rick Julius, a Senior Litigation Partner in Pennsylvania. We ask the tough questions. 1) What is the firm's process of engaging an attorney?2) How are protection orders used in custody situations?3) Can an attorney intervene when the absconding parent takes a child or children?4) How are Court Orders enforced when the uncooperative violates them? In this podcast episode, we'll be discussing custody and parental alienation with two a...
2023-02-21
38 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Navigating the legal process of divorce with Attorney Marcie Patton-Coffman (Ohio) and Attorney Rick Julius (Pennsylvania)
Mick and Kindra speak with Marcie Patton-Coffman, a Senior Litigation Partner in Ohio and Rick Julius, a Senior Litigation Partner in Pennsylvania. We ask the tough questions. 1) What is the firm's process of engaging an attorney?2) How are protection orders used in custody situations?3) Can an attorney intervene when the absconding parent takes a child or children?4) How are Court Orders enforced when the uncooperative violates them? In this podcast episode, we'll be discussing custody and parental alienation with two a...
2023-02-17
24 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Susan Shofer: How You know it is Parental Alienation- Part 2
Susan Shofer, a certified divorce coach, talks with Mick and Kindra on how children view parental alienation and how best to support them in their adult years after reunification. Susan is a TedEx speaker, parental alienation specialist, divorce coach, author and more. You can find Susan on Twitter, Instagram and Clubhouse using her name @susanshoferLearn more about your hosts Mick Smith and Kindra Riber. They are waging the war on ending the pain of divorce, parental alienation, custody battles and the break-up of families. Their...
2023-01-25
29 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
He Said/She Said: Reflecting on the highlights from guest, Charlie McCready
Three main topics are covered after interviewing Charlie in the two episodes:1. Helping children through Parental Alienation (PA);2. Reducing damage done through trauma;3. Restoring personal mental health. The parent manipulates the child to avoid the other parent. The PA syndrome is similar to the Five Stages of Grief by Kubler-Ross: https://www.psycom.net/stages-of-grief.PA is a similar process; but unlike grief, the child is still alive but alienated. We apply our individual situations and how...
2023-01-24
20 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Susan Shofer: How You know it is Parental Alienation- Part 1
Susan Shofer, a certified divorce coach, talks with Mick and Kindra on how children view parental alienation and how best to support them in their adult years after reunification. Susan is a TedEx speaker, parental alienation specialist, divorce coach, author and more. You can find Susan on Twitter, Instagram and Clubhouse using her name @susanshoferLearn more about your hosts Mick Smith and Kindra Riber. They are waging the war on ending the pain of divorce, parental alienation, custody battles and the break-up...
2023-01-21
25 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Helping Your Children and Yourself Cope with the Aftermath of Alienation With Charlie McCready - Part 2
Charlie McCready, a life coach from London, talks with Mick and Kindra a second time regarding how to help yourself if you are a targeted parent of alienation and how to best serve your children after they have gone through that trauma.The alienated parent is caught in a loop by our unconscious guilt and anxiety. We need to develop conscious thinking to believe positively and lovingly about ourselves. We need permission to get off that negative treadmill. We need to be conscious about the triggers that are negative since the alienator k...
2023-01-13
27 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Helping Your Children and Yourself Cope with the Aftermath of Alienation with Charlie McCready - Part 1
Charlie experienced PA in 2013; his former wife limited contact with his two children.His 9 step program is holistic addressing three points: children, self, and inside the alienator's head.The child is a tool to attack the other parent.We need skills to understand the alienation.We need to focus on the mindset of the child.The alienating parent is monitoring all contact and communication. The parent manipulates the child to avoid the other parent. The PA syndrome is similar to the Five Stages of Grief by...
2023-01-10
35 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Mediation in Court with Theresa Agostinelli
Theresa Agostinelli is an Author, Media, Biz Coach, Corporate Trainer, and JMT Author of The GRID System: The GRID System: Creating More of What's Good in Your Lifehttps://www.amazon.com/GRID-System-Creating-More-Whats/dp/1990801005Theresa pointed out the difference as a preferred provider due to her experience and expertise in the Court system during divorce and custody situations. She shared that Parental Alienation Syndrome is more recognized today than in the past. It is not a clinically accepted situation but therapists and counselors are equipped to deal wi...
2022-12-29
55 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Introducing Our Next Guest Professor Teresa Agostinelli
Hear what our next guest, Theresa Agostinelli, will be speaking about. Besides a professor at Immaculata University, she is an author, speaker, licensed psychotherapist, and coach. Learn more about your hosts Mick Smith and Kindra Riber. They are waging the war on ending the pain of divorce, parental alienation, custody battles and the break-up of families. Their purpose is to give you the tools on how to heal in the aftermath of family trauma and drama. Learn more about Mick Smith: Get Mick's Book: Burning America: Amazon.com: Burning America...
2022-12-26
02 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
He Said/She Said: Joe
Joe Cordell, Co-Founder of his company with his wife, is an attorney in Missouri who represents the largest domestic relations firm in the U.S., with a presence in 42 states, 300 attorneys, and who represents about 96% male clients. Joe maintains dadsdivorce.com, mensdivorce.com, and mensrights.com. There are helpful resources such as a YouTube channel, Tips to Be a Better Co-Parent, and a Back to School Co-Parenting guide.Some ideas that emerged from the episode include the following.In the 19th Century men were favored in awarding custody because they earned money and had the...
2022-12-24
13 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Preview of our next episode with Joe Cordell, Founder of Cordell and Cordell Attorney Firm: Fighting for Men's Rights in a Divorce
Fighting for fathers’ rights is what motivated Mr. Cordell to become a divorce lawyer for men.“I was galvanized by guys who were my clients and trying to get primary custody of their children. Even though they were the better parent, they still couldn’t get across the finish line in the courts,” Mr. Cordell said. “The more frustrated I became, the more incentivized I was to help them.”Since co-founding the firm with his wife, Yvonne, Mr. Cordell and his team of more than 200 divorce lawyers have helped thousands of men going through divorce....
2022-12-19
03 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
He Said/She Said: Parallel Parenting vs. Co-Parenting, What divorce eliminates for the kids
Join Mick and Kindra as we discuss our conversation with Hope Firsel, life coach and trauma survivor. Hope is a Life Coach who survived infertility, cancer, and divorce. She hired a surrogate mother and is co-parenting after her 18 year marriage ended. Therapy helps us to understand ourselves and therapy can help others. Co-parenting is a business relationship with finances, coordinated calendar, and tasks. In the midst of chaos, parallel homes work with shared values. Respect each other and let parenting work. Keep hostile discussions away from chil...
2022-12-17
08 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
A Perspective from a Life Coach helping Women through Life's Unexpected with Hope Firsel
Hope Firsel is a Life Coach who survived infertility, cancer, and divorce. She hired a surrogate mother and is co-parenting after her 18 year marriage ended. There are various forms of trauma that negatively impact core pieces of our humanity.Therapy helps us to understand ourselves and therapy can help others. Co-parenting is a business relationship with finances, coordinated calendar, and tasks. In the midst of chaos, parallel homes work with shared values. Respect each other and let parenting work.
2022-12-13
31 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
He Said/She Said: Healing through the Holidays After Divorce
Join Kindra and Mick as they share tips and tools to help you cope through the holidays. Learn more about your hosts Mick Smith and Kindra Riber. They are waging the war on ending the pain of divorce, parental alienation, custody battles and the break-up of families. Their purpose is to give you the tools on how to heal in the aftermath of family trauma and drama. Learn more about Mick Smith: Get Mick's Book: Burning America: Amazon.com: Burning America: In the Best Interest of The Children?: 9781956353259: Smith, G...
2022-12-09
22 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
He Said/She Said: Waking Up to Real Love After Divorce
Children of divorce can learn love, compassion, responsibility, accountability, forgiveness, boundaries, kindness, and consideration for others.Counseling is not an automatic panacea but keep at it and persist. There may be lapses.One person can not fix a marriage; it takes two. If you reach a point of no hope then that is the breaking point.Physical and expressive outlets are positive. During tango for example, partners need to lean on each other. Marriage is analogous to tango dance. Actions speak louder than words.
2022-12-06
21 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Learning to Love Yourself After Divorce with Dawn Rishard
Join Kindra and Mick as they talk with Dawn Rishard on how to love yourself after divorce and be worthy of love again. How do you normalize relationship struggles? How do you redefine your life without your partner in it? How do you manage through the grief? Dawn answers all that and more!Dawn has 2 decades as a Licensed Professional Counselor, Marriage and Family Systems. She empowers people to release the past, open their hearts, and receive the love they desire. She helps unlock Self Love, Clarity, and Connection despite the challenges. She is...
2022-12-01
38 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
He Said/She Said : Divorce is a Worldwide Epidemic for both Women and Men
Share in a few minutes with Mick and Kindra as they reflect on how Leanne is not only helping women and men in a divorce, but she counsels them worldwide from Dubai, India, Pakistan, Australia and the Americas. In addition, we talk about how you can start to heal yourself after a divorce. Most men but not exclusively so, are harmed by divorce.Divorce and custody is an international and growing problem. There are cultural differences based on a nation's legal system and what part of the world people are from...
2022-11-28
13 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Healing, Reflecting and Moving On From Divorce with Leanne Kanzler
Join Kindra and Mick as they dig deep into a conversation with Leanne Kanzler as they talk divorce disasters and how to heal.Psychologist, Coach, TEDx Speaker, #1 Best Selling AuthorLife has not always been as clear as it is now. In fact at the time my marriage of 17 years fell apart I really didn’t know what was in store for me. Today, 10 years since those days of anxiety, depression and fighting, my ex and I are both in a much better place.Now, I regularly work with others who have been in...
2022-11-22
26 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
He Said/She Said : Divorce Questions Answered
Kindra Riber and Mick Smith talk divorce, custody and family trauma today on The Aftermath Podcast.Answered audience questions:Although divorced, people can change and improve their behavior.As defined, Parental Alienation Syndrome ( PAS) entails an intentional process directed against the other parent. The medical community has been against defining PAS as a syndrome.Some experts though are advocating PAS in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM).Since the custody process is broken the alienated parent should document, with others, and use tangible evidence for change.The...
2022-11-19
17 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Upacking the Truth and Answering Your Questions about Divorce and Parental Alienation With Dr. Finneran
Divorce, parental alienation, and family conflict are something you cannot do alone. Kindra and Mick join expert Dr. Finneran as she answers questions about parental alienation and divorce. Today-make the commitment to stop the journey of family trauma and relationship issues alone. Kindra Riber and Mick Smith welcome Dr. Finneran back to the studio and talk more about the mental toll divorce and trauma take on us.With a Ph.D. in Conflict Resolution/Dispute Analysis from Nova Southeastern University, Dr. Finneran is licensed to practice in Florida. Her re...
2022-11-16
22 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
He Said/ She Said : How Our Childhood Is Changed By Divorce
Childhood can be marred by divorce as JC's was; so what can be done?1. An interesting quote was revealed: "messed up but now blessed up."2. JC advises an integrated life, even if you have a good career, prioritize your family.3. If needed, seek a mental health professional.4. A professional can assist in discovering a key time, what JC described as a "snap" moment which was the basis of his trauma during his parent's divorce.5. Look for a ladder out of difficulties realizing it is not your fault.6...
2022-11-11
12 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
The Divorce Game Changer: Managing Your Mindset with Dr. JC Doornick (aka Dragon)
In this episode, we talk about conquering our mindset when facing a divorce or custody battle. Kindra and Mick dive deep into the power of changing our minds and controlling our negative thoughts when the stress of divorce or trauma is looming with Dr. JC Doornick.Dr. JC Doornick “Dragon” comes from a fascinating life and family history full of pioneers in the entertainment industry and professional athletes. Later in life becoming a servant to the people as a Doctor of Chiropractic and Cofounder of a worldwide Humanitarian relief organization serving the third world with...
2022-11-06
31 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
He Said/ She Said: How Parents Are Screwing Up Their Children During Divorce with G. Mick Smith and Kindra Riber
Divorce is difficult. Custody battles are painful- and parental alienation is a systematic form of abuse. Listen to Kindra and Mick unpack the 10 biggest lessons they learned from their guest Michele Fineran. 10 Takeaways:1. The definition of Parental Alienation Syndrome has changed and is recognized now.2. Many children return to the alienated parent as they get older.3. There are age-appropriate differences in healing children from custody and alienation: youngest children fear a loss of parent's love, grade-age kids blame failure on themselves, and teenagers are often...
2022-11-03
07 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
He Said/She Said: 5 Ways to Deal with Toxic Relationships and The Red Flags You Need to Know
Kindra Riber and Mick Smith are talking about everything that they learned with Dr. Marni from Episode #5. What are the red flags you need to look for when you are entering or are in a poisonous relationship?The Aftermath Experts have compiled the 5 main takeaways from Dr. Marni Foderaro:1. Take the high road and parent only as you are able.2. Write or creatively express your frustration, anger, or bewilderment.3. The system and process are corrupt.4. You are not alone.5...
2022-10-23
05 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
The Issues with Narcissists, Domestic Violence and True Love with Dr. Marni Foderaro
In today's episode, we are talking with Dr. Marni Foderaro and we talk about narcissists, and our journeys to seek true love. Are you ignoring red flags in your relationship? Dr. Marni is an expert on domestic abuse and parental alienation- and is bringing her powerful story to The Aftermath. Dr. Marni Hill Foderaro is an award-winning educator and celebrated author. She earned her doctorate in education and completed postdoctoral studies at Harvard after a very successful and rewarding 35-year career as a high school special education teacher, with 12 years as a university adjunct pr...
2022-10-21
27 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
He Said/She Said: The One About Getting Involved in Parental Alienation Legislation
From The Aftermath, Kindra and Mick present their He Said/She Said reaction to Elizabeth McNeese from the National Parents Organization. If you missed the whole episode:https://www.podpage.com/the-aftermath-the-epidemic-of-divorce-custody-and-healing-1/uniting-parents-in-turmoil-with-elizabeth-mcneese-of-the-national-parents-organization/During this episode, we learn about current legislation, expertise, and research about custody and parental alienation, and hopeful information for parents caught in the crossfire. Kindra and Mick welcome an expert from the National Parents Association. If you are struggling, know you are not alone.Elizabeth McNeese from the N...
2022-10-14
06 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
Uniting Parents in Turmoil with Elizabeth McNeese of The National Parents Organization
During this episode, we learn about current legislation, expertise, and research about custody and parental alienation, and hopeful information for parents caught in the crossfire. Kindra and Mick welcome an expert from the National Parents Association. If you are struggling, know you are not alone. Elizabeth McNeese from the National Parents Organization shares her leadership in this stimulating discussion. MISSIONTo improve the lives of children & strengthen society by protecting every child's right to the love & care of both parents after separation or divorce....
2022-10-12
25 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
The Destructive Power of Gaslighting with Debbie Griffiths
In today's episode we are going to discuss the destructive power of gaslighting- and how it can tear apart families. Our special guest is Debbie Griffiths who relates her tale of gaslighting, trauma for her and her family, and her healing process, along with details of her forthcoming novel which you will want to buy. It is out soon! What is Gaslighting?Gaslighting is the psychological manipulation of a person usually over an extended period of time that causes the victim to question the validity of their own thoughts, perception of reality, or memories and typi...
2022-10-05
30 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
The Destructive Power of Gaslighting With Debbie Griffiths
In today's episode we are going to discuss the destructive power of gaslighting- and how it can tear apart families. Our special guest is Debbie Griffiths who relates her tale of gaslighting, trauma for her and her family, and her healing process, along with details of her forthcoming novel which you will want to buy. It is out soon! What is Gaslighting?Gaslighting is the psychological manipulation of a person usually over an extended period of time that causes the victim to question the validity of their own thoughts, perception of reality, or memories and typi...
2022-10-05
00 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
The Aftermath of Divorce, Family Trauma, Custody Battles and Healing
Welcome to The Aftermath. A podcast about divorce, custody battles, family trauma, and the healing thereafter. Today you will meet two warriors in the fight against the injustice of broken families. You will meet Dr. G. Mick Smith, the author of BURNING AMERICA- a powerful book about a fight to correct the injustices of child custody. You will meet Kindra Riber, a legislative advocate changing the landscape of parental alienation. Riber is leading legislative reform on equalizing custody laws. Together you will get the tools you need to fight...
2022-09-25
02 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing
The Problems With Divorce and Custody Battles
In this episode, we are going to talk about WHY we need to talk about divorce, custody issues, and family trauma. We need to lock arms, especially if you are struggling through a divorce or high-conflict custody battle. The Aftermath hosts, Kindra Riber and Mick Smith talk about their challenging situations. They are making their pain their purpose. Mick Smith, the author of Burning America, was heartbroken and confused when his wife started playing a custody game with him. His story, is one of the challenges, fighting the courts and proving that his child...
2022-09-24
20 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
The Adventures of Starting Over Again (Again)
I’ve titled this podcast "The Adventures of Starting Over Again (Again)" because it’s not the first time I’ve had to hit the “restart button” in life and almost head right back to the drawing board. They say you should fail soon and often, so that you can figure out how to get things right. I’m not so sure about all of that, but I do know that nothing will get solved by wallowing in the sadder moments of my life. And there surely are some. I don’t deny them, nor do I...
2014-05-28
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
How Social Media Made Me Suicidal
“How Social Media Made Me Suicidal”Only you know what prompted you to click the link to this blog post or play the audio file of this podcast, but if what I know about viral marketing proves to be correct, then it's likely because it prodded one of your six basic emotions of happiness, sadness, anger, fear, disgust, or surprise. You can listen to the podcast in its entirety for an explanation of the title, but if you're interested in the bott...
2014-03-21
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
The Adventures of Going Home for Christmas…
In my return to this blog and podcast series, I get personal and talk about my need to "break out of my comfort zone" and ask for help in getting home for the holidays. There's a link to make a donation via PayPal to the right (i.e. The Tip Jar) . You can talk with me directly and donate via credit card (Visa, MasterCard, Discover, or American Express) at 619-354-6372 (yes, that's 619-3-KINDRA). Additionally, you can send donations via PayPal to Within...
2013-12-16
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
Thank You Toni Preckwinkle!
I've been in a bit of a "funk" lately, and my blogging and podcasting schedule has suffered. I just couldn't bring myself to "get back into the groove" of things, after having a few personal and professional setbacks over the past few months. Then, I saw this tweet from Cook County Board President Toni Preckwinkle: And this, inspired this podcast, which helped me get out what I had to say about my time this summer in the City of Chicago. By the way, if...
2013-02-10
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
An "Anti-Union" Chicago Public School Graduate's Take on the Chicago Teachers Union Strike
After receiving several calls/texts about how inconveniencing the Chicago Teachers Union Strike (#CTUstrike on Twitter) was for downtown Chicago travelers, I decided to put together the little podcast giving my take on the situation. As you can see from the picture I've included here, I actually went "old school" and wrote out my thoughts on notebook paper with a pen! LOL. I found the nostalgia heartwarming! Plus, look at those margins! ROFL.My handwritten thoughts on the #CTUstrike! LOL.Please feel free to leave comments below or...
2012-09-11
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
The Adventures of Being Nickel and Dimed
This week's podcast is "The Adventures of Being Nickel and Dimed", which is mostly me ranting about my terrible experience with Greyhound Bus Lines and juxtaposing that to the book "Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in america" by Barbara Ehrenreich, and my feelings about being poor in america! Nickel and DimedPlease feel free to leave comments below or give me your feedback directly, either by email “podcasts @ exclusivemultiplicity.com”, or by finding me on Facebook, Twitter (@KindraCotton), or Li...
2012-04-26
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
The Adventures I've Had with Whitney Houston
In the wake of the release of Whitney Houston's autopsy report, I wanted to share some happy memories that I've had as a Whitney Houston Fan in this podcast I've titled "The Adventures I've Had with Whitney Houston (One Fan's Happy Memories)". In it, I talk about the good memories that I'll always retain as they relate to Whitney Elizabeth Houston, and I hope you'll leave comments below or give me your positive feedback directly, either by email “podcasts @ exclusivemultiplicity.com”, or by finding me on Facebook, Tw...
2012-04-05
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
The Adventures of Rainbows
The other day I was having a “blah” day, where things just weren’t quite working out as they should, and I became really pensive and started my end-of-the-year ruminating early. I started having those “doubts” that I think every entrepreneur has, wondering if I was making the right choice of continuing to move forward, even in the face of what sometimes seems to be insurmountable adversity. I feel fairly confident in knowing and believing I’m on the right path, but the hardest part of my day is trying to keep getting back up every time I fall down.
2011-11-29
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
The Adventures of Being Thankful in 2011
In this podcast, I talk about how on Tuesday, I was having a rather “blah” day. I had just experienced two setbacks which meant that I wouldn’t be making my sales quota for the month, and as always, I had taken two steps forward, only to experience taking another three steps back. I didn’t revel in my sadness for long, but it sent me out into the rather dreary and rainy day, in a bit of a ho-hum mood. I often get reflective in times of sadness, especially when it’s two days before Tha...
2011-11-24
00 min
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The Adventures of Fall
In this week's podcast, I talk about "The Adventures of Fall" and how reflective this time of the season makes me.Please feel free to leave comments below or give me your feedback directly, either by email “podcasts @ exclusivemultiplicity.com”, or by finding me on Facebook, Twitter (@KindraCotton), or LinkedIn. You can also contact me via Skype at my name Kindra.Cotton, and you can now call me on my Google Voice line at: (201) 870-0234. If y...
2011-10-11
00 min
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The Adventures of Success
A few weeks ago, President Obama delivered a Jobs Plan Speech in which he said his plan for america’s success included “A commitment to stay at it. To be persistent. To keep trying every new idea that works. And listen to every good proposal, no matter which party comes up with it”. Though I have a considerable dose of skepticism as to whether this will actually work to get something accomplished in Congress, in my own life, I can say that it’s the exact formula that I’m applying to yield my own success.
2011-10-04
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
The Adventures of Blindness
This week's podcast is called "The Adventures of Blindness" and I discuss my recent experience where I woke up last week temporarily blind in one eye. Horrifying ordeal! Everything's fine now, but still a jarring experience. In all, it made me shake my head at the state of healthcare in america. Please feel free to leave comments below or give me your feedback directly, either by email “podcasts @ exclusivemultiplicity.com”, or by finding me on Facebook, Twitter (@KindraCotton), or LinkedIn. ...
2011-10-02
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
What I'm Reading: Outliers - The Story of Success by Malcolm Gladwell
This episode of "What I'm Reading" is on Malcolm Gladwell's book "Outliers: The Story of Success". Someone suggested that I read this book years ago when I was having an exceedingly difficult time trying to find a job, even before the whole “Recession” thing was on everyone’s lips. For years, I had no idea what the book was about nor why it was suggested that I read it. It was just mentioned in passing that I should check it out, so one day, on one of my many trips...
2011-09-21
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
The Adventures of Merging
I've recently merged my old personal blogs from my website KindraCotton.com, and made this blog, ExclusiveMultiplicity.com, my primary personal blog and I talk about that in my return episode to podcasting this fall.Please feel free to leave comments below or give me your feedback directly, either by email “podcasts @ exclusivemultiplicity.com”, or by finding me on Facebook, Twitter (@KindraCotton), or LinkedIn. You can also contact me via Skype at my name Kindra.Cotton, and you can now call...
2011-09-20
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
The Adventures of Revision
More often than not, I spend my time revising and tweaking plans that were put into place a while ago. This week's podcast is no different and is entitled "The Adventures of Revision", and I talk about some upcoming changes I'm making to the way I do business. Wish me luck!Please feel free to leave comments below or give me your feedback directly, either by email “podcasts @ exclusivemultiplicity.com”, or by finding me on Facebook, Twitter (@KindraCotton), or LinkedIn. You...
2011-09-20
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
The Adventures of Independence
Celebrating Independence Day in my own way is the topic of today's podcast, entitled "The Adventures of Independence". In it, I tell the story of my "independence" from the dreaded dead-end job and cycle of unemployment and underemployment that kept me chasing my tail for nearly a decade. Rather inspirational, if I do say so myself! LOL.Please feel free to leave comments below or give me your feedback directly, either by email “podcasts @ exclusivemultiplicity.com”, or by finding me on Facebook, Twitter (@KindraCotton...
2011-09-20
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
The Adventures of Resting
Today's podcast is entitled "The Adventures of Resting" and I talk about an experience I recently had that helped me see that I need to take more time out and "smell the roses". Please feel free to leave comments below or give me your feedback directly, either by email “podcasts @ exclusivemultiplicity.com”, or by finding me on Facebook, Twitter (@KindraCotton), or LinkedIn. You can also contact me via Skype at my name Kindra.Cotton, and you can now call me on m...
2011-09-20
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
The Adventures of the Unknown
Today's podcast talks about "The Adventures of the Unknown". As an Entrepreneur, there are many "unknown unknowns" that I find cause great stress over the regular "9-to-5", even in cases where that "9-to-5" requires you to work outside of those hours. Entrepreneurship is definitely not for the faint of heart! LOL.Please feel free to leave comments below or give me your feedback directly, either by email “podcasts @ exclusivemultiplicity.com”, or by finding me on Facebook, Twitter (@KindraCotton), or LinkedIn. ...
2011-06-21
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
The Adventures of Catching Up
If you're familiar with this blog, then you'll know that it's unusual for me to go such a prolonged time without posting a blog or podcast update. I've let the past 8 weeks get away from me, and for that, I apologize. Please consider this most recent podcast my "mea culpa", along with a reassurance that I'll work to do much better in the future.Please feel free to leave comments below or give me your feedback directly, either by email “podcasts @ exclusivemultiplicity.com”, or by finding me on Face...
2011-06-14
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
The Adventures of Inspiration: SmallBizLady’s 11 Bible Verses Small Business Owners Need in 2011
This week’s podcast episode is entitled “The Adventures of Inspiration: SmallBizLady’s 11 Bible Verses Small Business Owners Need in 2011”.One of my favorite blogs is that of Melinda Emerson (Twitter’s SmallBizLady and host of #SmallBizChat, Wednesdays at 8PM ET on Twitter). It’s located at succeedasyourownboss.com, and each day of the week it provides an informative blog post for small business owners and solo-entrepreneurs with the goal of ending small business failures.Last we...
2011-04-13
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
The Adventures of Not Worrying
This week's podcast is entitled "The Adventures of Not Worrying".I started this week with some bad news. Literally, the rug was pulled right from under me, and all that I have been working for over these past many months was in jeopardy of coming to a grinding halt. I was in jeopardy of literally becoming penniless within a matter of days, as opposed to a few weeks, which was my reality until this past Sunday morning, and I was in despair. I allowed myself to be run ragged with...
2011-04-13
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
What I'm Reading: How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
Here’s a brief overview of What I’m Reading: Currently, I’m reading “How to Win Friends and Influence People” by Dale Carnegie. I remember having to read this, along with Stephen Covey’s “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People” in undergrad and I honestly don’t remember a thing from either book. My memory recalls fervently reading each of these texts before an exam, and then quickly forgetting anything I’d learn. So this time, as I read “How to Win Friends…”, it’s almost as if I never...
2011-03-31
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
The Adventures of Good Days
Today's podcast is entitled "The Adventures of Good Days" in reference to a conversation I was having with someone where they said "Everyone's entitled to a bad day".That got me to thinking: While everyone is ENTITLED to a bad day, that doesn’t mean everyone has one. A long time ago, I determined that I wouldn’t ever have a “bad day”. Sure, some days are tougher to get through than others, but I wouldn’t call them “bad”. Maybe it’s because I get overly reflectiv...
2011-03-30
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
The Adventures of Celebration
Today's podcast is entitled "The Adventures of Celebration" in honor of my personal week-long celebration of my birthday this weekend. One day, my goal is for Aretha Franklin, Elton John, and I to celebrate OUR BIRTHDAY together and sing "Happy Birthday" in unison (it could happen).Please feel free to leave comments below or give me your feedback directly, either by email “podcasts @ exclusivemultiplicity.com”, or by finding me on Facebook, Twitter (@KindraCotton), or LinkedIn. You...
2011-03-22
00 min
Exclusive Multiplicity: Highlighting the Adventures of a Serial Entrepreneur
The Adventures of Selling Out
This week's podcast episode is entitled "The Adventures of Selling Out".A few weeks ago, I got an offer to “sell my company”, but the offer wasn’t for money, nor was it even to buy an equity stake in a firm that I could help grow as a capable business professional. It was more so someone who saw (what they thought) was an opportunity to use my current state of “misfortune” for the sake of their own profitability.Now, to be clear, I certainly believe that I have a skill set...
2011-03-22
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