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K and K Real TalkDream State: Emotional Foolishness | K & K Podcast Ep. 109A VISION means the mind’s eyes are wide open; and a DREAM means the mind is asleep. Join us as we deconstruct, “PowerNomics: The National Plan to Empower Black America” by Dr. Claud Anderson. In this episode, we are discussing pages 31-47–put your critical thinking hat on! “Every culture no matter how big or small has a black race of people—hidden, beaten and abused.”- KivaMentioned Material: Dumbing us Down - John Taylor GattoWe are Kiva and Kahawia. This episode featur...
2025-06-1050 minK and K Real TalkBlack Wealth & Habitual Displacement | K & K Podcast Ep. 108Kiva posed an excellent question about economic hygiene that we encourage you to reflect on. Join us as we deconstruct, “PowerNomics: The National Plan to Empower Black America” by Dr. Claud Anderson. This episode wraps up our discussion about Chapter 1, entitled “Racism, Monopolies and Inappropriate Behavior.” We are Kiva and Kahawia. This episode features music from Lewy Lotus. Visit AfroSoFly.comBecome a Patron! https://www.patreon.com/afrosofly
2025-05-1658 minK and K Real TalkEmotionally Driven, Financially Set Back | K & K Podcast Ep. 107Many of us are at war on an emotional level, which is damaging to collective economic growth. Join us as we deconstruct, “PowerNomics: The National Plan to Empower Black America” by Dr. Claud Anderson. This episode covers our notes from pages 1-16 of Chapter 1, entitled “Racism, Monopolies and Inappropriate Behavior.”We are Kiva and Kahawia. This episode features music from Tommi Truthz. Visit AfroSoFly.comBecome a Patron! https://www.patreon.com/afrosofly
2025-04-2735 minK and K Real TalkRuffle the Feathers | K & K Podcast Ep. 106If you understand the concept of “scared money,” apply it to ‘change’. When addressing problems in the community, hold space for it all—respectfully. Discomfort presents opportunities to grow. Are you a true agent of change? Join us as we deconstruct the final chapter of “Brainwashed: Challenging the Myth of Black Inferiority” by Tom Burrell. We are Kiva and Kahawia. This episode features music from Libby Baeeloo. Visit AfroSoFly.comBecome a Patron! https://www.patreon.com/afrosofly
2025-03-1558 minK and K Real TalkA Taste for Turmoil | K & K Podcast Ep. 105In a time where everybody is claiming to be “intentional,” what are you choosing to focus your energy on? Join us as we deconstruct Chapter 11 of “Brainwashed: Challenging the Myth of Black Inferiority” by Tom Burrell. We are Kiva and Kahawia. This episode features music from Libby Baeeloo.This episode mentions Dr. Joy DeGruy’s Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome https://www.joydegruy.com/post-traumatic-slave-syndromeVisit AfroSoFly.comBecome a Patron! https://www.patreon.com/afrosofly
2025-01-231h 01K and K Real TalkStuck in Trickery | K & K Podcast Ep. 104Skin Folk ain’t always Kin Folk. We choose to connect and collaborate with Soul Folk. Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “Brainwashed: Challenging the Myth of Black Inferiority” by Tom Burrell. We are Kiva and Kahawia. This episode features music from Libby Baeeloo and Lewy Lotus. Visit AfroSoFly.comBecome a Patron! https://www.patreon.com/afrosofly
2024-10-2857 minK and K Real TalkPride is Expensive | K & K Podcast Ep. 102The ‘bare minimum’ is subjective. If you don’t raise the bar, what example are you setting for your children? Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “Brainwashed: Challenging the Myth of Black Inferiority” by Tom Burrell
We are Kiva and Kahawia. This episode features music from Lewy Lotus.
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2024-07-2249 minK and K Real TalkMoney, Power, No Respect | K & K Podcast Ep. 101Are you intentional about keeping your dollar within your community or nah? Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “Brainwashed: Challenging the Myth of Black Inferiority” by Tom Burrell
We are Kiva and Kahawia. This episode features music from Libby Baeeloo and Lewy Lotus.
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2024-07-051h 34K and K Real TalkWalk That Talk | K & K Podcast Ep. 100Are your choices in alignment with your messages? Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “Brainwashed: Challenging the Myth of Black Inferiority” by Tom Burrell
We are Kiva and Kahawia. This episode features music from Tommi Truthz and Libby Baeeloo.
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2024-06-241h 05K and K Real TalkProgrammed to Self-Destruct | K & K Podcast Ep. 99Too many of us get caught up in “symbolism over substance.” It’s killing us, quietly. Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “Brainwashed: Challenging the Myth of Black Inferiority” by Tom Burrell.
We are Kiva and Kahawia. This episode features music from Tommi Truthz.
In Loving Memory of Demika Moore from Jamaica Queens, New York. Where is the call for justice when we are murdered by our own folks?!
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2024-05-311h 20K and K Real TalkBoundaries: How Many of Us Have Them? | K & K Podcast Ep. 98Were you raised with your autonomy protected and honored? Did your first lesson on boundaries come in adulthood? Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “Brainwashed: Challenging the Myth of Black Inferiority” by Tom Burrell
We are Kiva and Kahawia. This episode features music from Tommi Truthz, Lewy Lotus and Libby Baeeloo.
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2024-05-141h 15K and K Real TalkLow Vibrations, High Expectations | K & K Podcast Ep. 97When your frequency is low, your expectations aren’t high enough. Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “Brainwashed: Challenging the Myth of Black Inferiority” by Tom Burrell.
We are Kiva and Kahawia. This episode features music from Tommi Truthz and Libby Baeeloo.
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2024-04-101h 17K and K Real TalkMood: Do Not Disturb | K & K Podcast Ep. 96When you upgrade your thoughts, you upgrade your choices. Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “Brainwashed: Challenging the Myth of Black Inferiority” by Tom Burrell. We are Kiva and Kahawia. This episode features music from Tommi Truthz, Libby Baeeloo and Lewy Lotus.
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2024-03-261h 02K and K Real TalkSophisticated Confusion | K & K Podcast Ep. 95We know the 5 Ws. It’s time to redirect our focus to the H—HOW? How do we change? How do we evolve? Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “Brainwashed: Challenging the Myth of Black Inferiority” by Tom Burrell. We are Kiva and Kahawia. This episode features music from Lewy Lotus.
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2024-02-231h 08K and K Real TalkLive By Code | K & K Podcast Ep. 94How ya’ll living?! Let’s get into Chapter 1 of “Brainwashed: Challenging the Myth of Black Inferiority” by Tom Burrell
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2024-02-0159 minK and K Real TalkTimeless Truth | K & K Podcast Ep. 93Brothers and Sisters, we have entered a so-called new year with a new book! It’s interesting how relevant an unfavorable truth from the past can still be today. Join us as we begin to deconstruct, “Brainwashed: Challenging the Myth of Black Inferiority” by Tom Burrell. We are Kiva and Kahawia. This episode features music from Libby Baeeloo. Visit AfroSoFly.com
2024-01-131h 22K and K Real TalkWe Don’t Know Shit | K & K Podcast Ep. 92When knowledge is infinite, what do we really know? Join us as we deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are at the final component of this textbook/workbook. Support Mr. Neely Fuller by purchasing the book at ProduceJustice.com We are Kiva and Kahawia. Visit AfroSoFly.com
2023-12-281h 36K and K Real TalkTheory Sounds Good, But Umm… | K & K Podcast Ep. 91What is we gon’ do?! Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are Kiva and Kahawia. This episode features music from Libby Baeeloo. Visit AfroSoFly.com
2023-12-2138 minK and K Real TalkWar Math | K & K Podcast Ep. 90Boy math, girl math—have you ever tried to calculate the number of non-white people that died at the hands of White Supremacists? Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are Kiva and Kahawia. This episode features music from Tommi Truthz and Libby Baeeloo.
2023-11-271h 10K and K Real TalkPublic Shame, Private Adoration | K & K Podcast Ep. 89Everyone loves you until it’s time to. Child please! Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are Kiva and Kahawia. This episode features music from Libby Baeeloo and Tommi Truthz.
2023-11-131h 19K and K Real TalkWater the Right Seeds | K & K Podcast Ep. 88Some seeds need to be watered. Some seeds need to be dug up and trashed. Discern accordingly. Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are Kiva and Kahawia. This episode features music from Tommi Truthz, Libby Baeeloo and Lewy Lotus.
2023-11-011h 22K and K Real TalkIt Ain’t All Love | K & K Podcast Ep. 87Are you qualified to practice love? Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are Kiva and Kahawia. This episode features music by Lewy Lotus and Libby Baeeloo.
2023-10-181h 28K and K Real TalkAin’t No in Between | K & K Podcast Ep. 86A code that we share is: You either IN or OUT! Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are Kiva and Kahawia. This episode features music from Tommi Truthz, Libby Baeeloo and Lewy Lotus.
2023-09-281h 15K and K Real TalkDon’t Miss the Message, Love | K & K Podcast Ep. 85It’s easy to get caught up in a moment and miss the message. Pero, slow down! Join the conversation as we deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are Kiva and Kahawia.
2023-09-081h 13K and K Real TalkUpgrade Your Worth | K & K Podcast Ep. 84Some of us got brand new phones and piss-poor self-esteem. Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are Kiva and Kahawia.
2023-08-251h 10K and K Real TalkDisrespect Be Live & Direct | K & K Podcast Ep. 83Yerrrr!! Join us on today’s episode of “Kahawia Done Lost Her Brain Computer” as we deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are Kiva and Kahawia.
2023-08-0945 minK and K Real TalkCall it What You Want | K & K Podcast Ep. 82We are back! Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are Kiva & Kahawia.
2023-07-261h 26K and K Real TalkTime & Place | K & K Podcast Ep. 81Everything in life has its appropriate time and place. Use code wisely. Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are Kiva and Kahawia. Music brought to you by Lewy Lotus.
2023-07-021h 12K and K Real TalkI Know Nothing | K & K Podcast Ep. 80What is a ‘good morning’ when you wake up a victim of white supremacy-racism? Think about it as we deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are Kiva & Kahawia.
2023-06-151h 15K and K Real TalkAdvocate for Self, Unapologetically | K & K Podcast Ep. 79Do you trust yourself to lead your heart and mind? Join us for our deconstruction of “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are Kiva & Kahawia.
2023-05-3154 minK and K Real TalkThe Journey is Real | K & K Podcast Ep. 78Have you checked in to identify where you are on your healing journey? Please do so, if you haven’t, because shit is real! Thank you for tuning in for another breakdown of “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. In this episode, we are reviewing the first 20 pages of Area 6: Politics (People Relations). We are Kiva and Kahawia.
2023-05-031h 25K and K Real TalkGet to the Root of Your Pain | K & K Podcast Ep. 77We are back Bruthaz and Sistahz!! We thank you for continuing to join us as we deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. In this episode, we are focusing on the area of Law. We are Kiva and Kahawia.
2023-04-191h 01K and K Real TalkForward it Back | K & K Podcast Ep. 76When moving in spirit, you gotta go with the flow. Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are Kiva and Kahawia.
2023-04-021h 05K and K Real TalkFuck You Thought? | K & K Podcast Ep. 75Brothers & Sisters, don’t be out here contributing to society having it twisted. There is more to Labor than just working a job. Join us for our deconstruction of “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are Kiva and Kahawia.
2023-03-0552 minK and K Real TalkBallin’ on a Fictitious Budget | K & K Podcast Ep. 74The state of being broke goes beyond dollars and cents, ya dig? Tune in as we deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are in the area of Entertainment. We are Kiva and Kahawia.
2023-02-2251 minK and K Real TalkIgnorance is Not a Virtue | K & K Podcast Ep. 73Brothers and Sisters, WE ARE BACK! Please bear with us through these technical difficulties with sound quality. We are still doing the work and we hope you are too! Join us as we continue to deconstruct,
“The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. This episode focuses on the area of Education. We are Kiva & Kahawia—still learning.
2023-02-101h 21K and K Real TalkShape Up or Roll Out | K & K Podcast Ep. 72Brothers & Sisters, we are back and we apologize for the delay in our service to you! In this episode, we are deconstructing, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr.
We are concluding the area of economics and giving you the tools you need to get ya life—as we get ours! Peace & Progress, we are Kiva & Kahawia.
2023-01-061h 23K and K Real TalkRespect the Divide | K & K Podcast Ep. 72We do not need to be integrated to have peace. Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are Kiva & Kahawia
2022-11-271h 17K and K Real TalkToxic Disposal | K & K Podcast Ep. 71What is intention without constructive action? Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are Kiva and Kahawia.
2022-11-111h 08K and K Real TalkSocial Warfare | K & K Podcast Ep. 70Social change is more important than social media. Tune in as we deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are Kiva and Kahawia.
2022-10-311h 23K and K Real TalkWalk in Your Purpose | K & K Podcast Ep. 69Black Man, Woman and Child, you are worthy to be preserved. Join us as we deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. This is an independent study so get into it! We are Kiva and Kahawia.
2022-10-101h 23K and K Real TalkHow You Living? | K & K Podcast Ep. 68What codes have you implemented to produce peace and justice in your life? Join us for another episode of deconstructing, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We our passionate about our ish. We are Kiva and Kahawia.
2022-09-301h 20K and K Real TalkNo Fence Straddlers Allowed | K & K Podcast Ep. 67Make note of those around you who play both sides of the fence. We don’t play that over here! Join us as we continue our deconstruction of “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are Kiva and Kahawia.
2022-09-031h 24K and K Real TalkFoolish by Design | K & K Podcast Ep. 66Yeeerrrrrr! We are Kiva and Kahawia. We represent many of the same ideologies—in different ways. As we deconstruct “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr., you will bear witness that we do not always agree. Still, we lead in peace. Check out this amazing video that our good brother from Hip Hop Cartoons put together: https://youtu.be/SznP-P6vGxo
2022-08-171h 22K and K Real TalkShame-Free Zone | K & K Podcast Ep. 65Are you prepared to build a plan to be more constructive? Grab your copy of “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. Get into this work with Kiva and Kahawia!
2022-08-051h 28K and K Real TalkNo Ma’am! | K & K Podcast Ep. 64Let’s talk about code and how folks are moving in these worn down streets! From “I, Claudius” to the real lives of Kiva and Kahawia. There are moves to be made no matter who you are. Let’s get into it!
2022-07-221h 24K and K Real TalkVibrate Higher | K & K Podcast Ep. 63There are forces in the Universe that are designed to move against you. As you navigate through life, separate what IS from what ISN’T and push through on a higher frequency. When it comes to information, including what we share, take what you need and leave the rest. With peace, Kiva & Kahawia.
2022-07-091h 00K and K Real TalkMind Your Neck | K & K Podcast Ep. 62Join us as we dive further into deconstructing film with “I, Claudius.” Keep in mind that our purpose is to view the films as suggested by Neely Fuller Jr. in preparation for the next textbook/workbook that we’ll soon be reading. We love you! We are Kiva and Kahawia.
2022-07-021h 06K and K Real TalkSlavery Repeats Itself | K & K Podcast Ep. 60If you didn’t know, Shark Island is a place where Europeans murdered so many Africans that the word ‘genocide’ was created. Tune in as we continue our breakdown of the information shared in BBCTV’s Racism: A History. We must remember our bloodline and what has been done to us. We are Kiva & Kahawia.
2022-05-301h 06K and K Real TalkThe Caucacity of European Trickery | K & K Podcast Ep. 58Yerrrrrrr! We are back and eager to introduce our new segment: the deconstruction of film—starting with BBCTV’s “Racism: A History.” It is a documentary series that focuses on examining the scientific idea of racism, in the words of the oppressor. Tune in to hear what WE have to say about it. We are Kiva and Kahawia.
2022-04-291h 44K and K Real TalkEscaping the Struggle | K & K Podcast Ep. 57In this episode, we conclude our deconstruction of “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child” by Dr. Amos N. Wilson. We drop hella gems per usual so get your notebooks ready! Stay tuned for our next phase as we begin to breakdown films that relate to our mission of rebuilding and uplifting our nation. We love you brothers and sisters. We are Kiva and Kahawia.
2022-04-041h 29K and K Real TalkRealize Real Lies | K & K Podcast Ep. 49Yerrrrr!!! In this episode, we are deconstructing the first half of Chapter 6 from “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child” by Dr. Amos N. Wilson. This chapter is entitled, “Intellectual Development as Revealed by Standardized Tests—‘Intelligence’ Testing: Hidden Agenda.” Join is as we separate what’s real from what’s written and continue doing this work! We are Kiva & Kahawia.
2021-12-211h 16K and K Real TalkDe-Normalize Insane Behavior | K & K Podcast Ep. 47In this episode, we deconstruct the first half of Chapter 5 in “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child” by Dr. Amos N. Wilson. Chapter 5 is entitled, “The Role of Play in Development. Games, Toys, Media: Schizoid, Frustrated and Restricted Play.” We continue to open up and share the lessons we’ve learned as it pertains to the text along with tools needed to heal and be better for our village. Let’s get into this work (and play)!
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K and K Real TalkBroken Seeds Need Love Too | K & K Podcast Ep. 46Shout out to all of our brothers and sisters who are out here making the best of the hands that have been dealt! Major props to those who’ve managed to reshuffle the deck and pick new cards. Stay with us as we conclude our breakdown of Chapter 4 in Dr. Amos N. Wilson’s, “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child.” We see you. We love you. We appreciate you!
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K and K Real TalkBaby Steps | K & K Podcast Ep. 45Yeeerrrrr!! In this episode, we are back with our deconstruction of Chapter 3 in “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child” by Dr. Amos N. Wilson. Chapter 3 is entitled “The Preschool Years: The Effects of Race Awareness,” and as always, we dive deep into those ‘hard to talk about’ topics. Stand with us as we take our steps towards reconstructing or babies and their minds.
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K and K Real TalkSchizoid Negroid | K & K Podcast Ep. 44Hey ya’ll, we are back with great news! We are also equally excited to finish where we left off and continue this work. In this episode, we complete our deconstruction of Chapter 2 in Dr. Amos N. Wilson’s “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child.” By now, you should have the book. Let’s get into it!
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K and K Real TalkWisdom from Sister Shahrazad Ali | K & K Podcast Ep. 43In this episode, we had the honor and pleasure of speaking with Sister Shahrazad Ali in regards to the work that we’ve done to deconstruct two of her books for 30+ episodes. Tune in as Sister Ali shares her wisdom and knowledge on how she lives her truth out loud. The gems dropped in the show are plentiful—take heed!
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K and K Real TalkUntil We Return | K & K Podcast IntermissionYerrrrrrr! At this time, we would like to formally announce that we will be taking a break from recording. Tune in to find out why and stay tuned for our special episode—coming soon! Later ya’ll!
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K and K Real TalkEuropeans Are Not the Standard | K & K Podcast Ep. 42In this episode, we continue our deconstruction of Dr. Amos N. Wilson’s book, “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child.” The first half of Chapter 2, entitled, ‘The First Two Years: Care, Development, Intelligence, the Restricted Nature of the Black World,’ is loaded with scientific evidence to support the fact of Europeans not being the standard when it comes to our own. In 2021, these conclusions are still valid.
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K and K Real TalkThe Presence of the Past | Ep. 41In this episode, we conclude our deconstruction of Chapter 1 of Dr. Amos N. Wilson’s book, “The Developmental Psychology of The Black Child,” entitled, ‘The Prenatal Period’. This chapter covers topics such as Maternal Health, Nutrition and Birth. Raise your hand if you know that your past helps to shape your future. Let’s figure out how to make the best of the hands we’ve been dealt.
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K and K Real TalkTime is Nigh | K & K Podcast Ep. 40Hey Ya’ll! We are excited to begin the deconstruction of our THIRD book! We are now reading, “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child,” by Dr. Amos N. Wilson. We are reading from the second edition. Let’s continue on our journey to clean up and heal our Black Family!
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K and K Real TalkMake It Make Sense | K & K Podcast Ep. 39We have reached the final episode for our deconstruction of “The Blackwoman’s Guide to Understanding The Blackman,” by Shahrazad Ali! As we continue our reviews, we are joined by Brotha Love and he shares his perspective on what it means to understand the Black man. This conversation is not for the faint hearted—just so you know!
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K and K Real TalkNavigating with a Broken Compass | K & K Podcast Ep. 38Brothers and Sisters, join us for our reviews of our previous episodes! On this show, we’ve introduced the male perspective from our good brother, Jeremy—host of the Life Unplugged Podcast. We are truly out here trying to navigate through this life as a collective and the struggle is real!
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K and K Real TalkI Can’t Hold My Tongue | K & K Podcast Ep. 37In this episode, we complete our deconstruction of the final chapter in “The Blackwoman’s Guide to Understanding The Blackman” by Shahrazad Ali. If you’re comfortable being lied to, you won’t be ready for this show. However, we’re still going to speak the truth. If your version of the truth is different from ours, we welcome you to share with us. May we continue to listen, learn and grow!
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K and K Real TalkIs This Your King? | K & K Podcast Ep. 36In this episode, we hit the nail on the head as we discuss the final chapter of Shahrazad Ali’s book, “The Blackwoman’s Guide to Understanding The Blackman.” Chapter 12 is entitled ‘Leadership’ and as we know, this an area in which we struggle as a people. By now, you all should have the book. Follow along and get into this word!
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K and K Real TalkDownright Pitiful | K & K Podcast Ep. 35In this episode, we conclude our deconstruction of Chapter 11 in Shahrazad Ali’s book, “The Blackwoman’s Guide to Understanding The Blackman.” The overall condition of our teenage boys is downright pitiful! We are on a slow climb towards change and we need to get us together. Black Man, we need you!
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K and K Real TalkPG: More than a Rating | K & K Podcast Ep. 34We are getting closer to the end of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman," and in this episode, we deconstruct the first half of Chapter 11, 'Teenage Years.' Parental Guidance is advised and necessary--not just to listen to this episode, but in general. Our children need guidance, especially from our Black men. We have to get into this work as a collective!
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K and K Real TalkSex, Lies, & Homo Tapes | K & K Podcast Ep. 33In this episode, we complete our deconstruction of Chapter 10 in Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman," entitled 'Sexuality & Relationships.' We uncover some uncomfortable topics including: sexual perversion, trauma-filled relationships and more! As we've stated previously, change happens when discomfort is present. Let's get into it!
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K and K Real TalkClusters of Confusion | K & K Podcast Ep. 32In this episode, we dive right into Chapter 10 of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman," entitled 'Sexuality & Relationships.' Have you ever been confused by the patterns and "commitments" of our Black men? Sis, you are not alone! Tune in as we explore some of the reasons for the confusion.
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K and K Real TalkBe-Li(e)ving the Narrative | K & K Podcast Ep. 31As you know, what you believe ultimately translates to how you BE LIVING. In this episode, we continue to deconstruct Chapter 9, Religion, of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman." We talked about Jesus as a slaveship and now we discuss Jesus as a man. We also explore the narratives that we've been brainwashed to believe. Let us scrub our minds, detox our thoughts, and get into this word! We are Kiva & Kahawia. Barak Atha!
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K and K Real TalkEff Outta Here | K & K Podcast Ep. 30For this episode, we decided to split Chapter 9 of Shahrazad Ali's, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman," into two parts because there is much to discuss when it comes to 'Religion.' We discuss the hypocrisy of being restrained and kept down, especially pertaining to Jesus--the first slave ship to America. Bring your research to this conversation and let's talk about it! We are Kiva & Kahawia. Barak Atha!
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K and K Real TalkJail Birds Fly Low | K & K Podcast Ep. 29In this episode, we continue our deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's book, The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman," with chapter 8 entitled "The Law 9-1-1." Too many of our Black fathers and sons fall victim to the system. Many of whom are seemingly proud of this new slave mentality. Brotha, where are you flying to?
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K and K Real TalkHe Play Too Much | K & K Podcast Ep. 28In this episode, we deconstruct chapter 7 of Shahrazad Ali's, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding the Blackman." This chapter is entitled, "Recreation," and we all know how Black men love to thrive in the game world. Whether it's sports, corner gambling or the likes, our Black men play too much! Let's get into it!
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K and K Real TalkNo Comparison | K & K Podcast Ep. 27In this episode, we continue our deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman." As we discussed chapter 6, entitled "Employment," we must share that with all due respect to Sister Ali, we disagreed with the tone of chapter. There is no comparison between the economic struggles of the Black Man and the Asian man. Tune in to find out what we mean & read along if you have the book! Peace & Blessings Always, Kiva & Kahawia.
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K and K Real TalkCaught Up in BS | K & K Podcast Ep. 26In this episode, we continue our deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman" with chapter 5, entitled "Education." In this chapter, we learn that our Black men are systematically taught to disown themselves and the Black family. Sister Ali makes it clear that not only is he to relearn new information but that he should also teach his offspring. Our Black men are responsible for teaching our sons. It is his natural right as a man. We are Kiva & Kahawia and we are here to support our Black men.
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K and K Real TalkLies & Miscommunication | K & K Podcast Ep. 25In this episode, we are deconstructing chapter 4 of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman." This chapter is entitled, "Communication" and we gain a deeper understanding of the lying lips on some of our brothers. Keep in mind that we are doing this work to bring about change within ourselves and our nation. In doing so, we are going to call it like it is.
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K and K Real TalkScattered Brain | K & K Podcast Ep. 24In this episode, we discuss chapter 3 of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman," entitled, "Appearance." The phrase "representation matters" is about more than just seeing Black people in prestigious roles. It also includes what you wear and how you carry yourself in society. Tune in to find out how the Black man's appearance is closely related to his identity--and get the book!
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K and K Real TalkBarely Surviving AmeriKKKa | K & K Podcast Ep. 23In this episode, we deconstruct Chapter 2 of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman." This chapter is entitled, "Identity." Dear Black Man, do you know who you are? Are you ready to strip yourself from AmeriKKKa's faulty version of you? Let's get into this work because we need you, Black Man. Check out this lecture from Dr. John Henrik Clarke, "You Have No Friends" https://youtu.be/EnJtYDNIui8
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K and K Real TalkProtecting His Ego | K & K Podcast Ep. 22Hey Ya'll! In this episode, we have moved on to Book 2 and we are deconstructing, "The Blackwoman's Guide To Understanding The Blackman," by Shahrazad Ali. We encourage our listeners to support our Sister and get the book to read along as we continue our journey of building our nation. We are Kiva and Kahawia.
2020-12-261h 14K and K Real TalkCleanse Your Core | K & K Podcast Ep. 21In this episode, we conclude our episode reviews for episodes 12-18. We also discuss the importance of checking our core values and being better women in sisterhood. Now, we are moving on the "green book!!" In the meantime, do us a favor and type 'Charlene's Priceless Podcast' into the search bar on Anchor & Spotify. Our good sis has a story to tell and we need ya'll to listen. Love Always, Kiva & Kahawia.
2020-12-2259 minK and K Real TalkA Strawberry Special | K & K Podcast Ep. 20As you know, we have concluded our deconstruction of the book, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman," by Shahrazad Ali. In this episode, we are honored to have our good sister, Strawberry, join us for our review of episodes 6-11. Strawberry has blessed our show with her honest feedback and you don't wanna miss it!
2020-12-101h 37K and K Real TalkLevel Up & Grow | K & K Podcast Ep. 19We have reached the end of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman!" In this episode, we discuss chapter 18, "The Conclusion," along with some of what it will take for us to level up and recognize our true selves. Everyday is a good day to put in the necessary work for growth! As we prepare for our episode reviews, please email any questions or comments you have to kandkrealtalk@gmail.com.
2020-12-0458 minK and K Real TalkPussy Pacifier | K & K Podcast Ep. 18We are getting closer to the end of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding The Blackwoman!" In this episode we discuss Chapter 17, entitled "Arguments." Ladies, ya'll know that most of the arguments that we start has one main purpose, above all of the other fifty'leven reasons we find. Also, be sure to listen out for the code to get 30% off Kahawia's books at Afrosofly.com!
2020-11-301h 51K and K Real TalkPolygamy or Nah? | K & K Podcast Ep. 17In this episode, we continue our deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding The Blackwoman." We are getting close to the end of the book and this is our discussion of Chapter 16, "The Other Woman." Many of us aren't ready to face some of the truths in Sister Ali's words and we find that what's good for the goose AIN'T good for the gander. Take a listen to find out why!
2020-11-182h 08K and K Real TalkShallow & Untrained | K & K Podcast Ep. 16In this episode, we continue deconstructing "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding The Blackwoman," by Shahrazad Ali with Chapter 15--Sex. We share details of our lives that shed light to how shallow we can be as "untrained" Black/Negro/Hebrew women. As we strive to be better, we must be comfortable with the discomfort required for change. This episode also features new music from Lewy Lotus--look him up on all platforms. Let's get into it!
2020-11-081h 50K and K Real TalkNeck Rolls & Finger Snaps | K & K Podcast Ep. 15In this episode, we further our deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding The Blackwoman," with chapter 14. If you haven't guessed by now, this chapter is entitled, "Attitude"--which many of us are guilty of having. This chapter breaks down every component of having an attitude and reminds us to get it together ladies! We are Kiva & Kahawia--and we are in this with you! Check it out, along with beautiful music from Libby Baeloo and Lewy Lotus!
2020-10-311h 52K and K Real TalkHypocrisy & Denial | K & K Podcast Ep. 14It's been two weeks and WE ARE BACK! Join us for our further deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding The Blackwoman." In this episode, we are discussing chapter 12, "Religion" and chapter 13, "Education and Career." We are not speaking our truth in the effort to belittle anyone else but rather to increase the quality of our own lives and that of our Black nation. Let's get into this word!
2020-10-261h 23K and K Real TalkBe the Change You Want to See | K & K Podcast Ep. 13In the episode, we continue our deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding The Blackwoman," with chapter 11, "How She Dresses." This chapter speaks about choices and priorities when it comes to our outer appearances. We touch on other related topics and the bottom line is, we have to be the change we want to see. Tune in with your copy of Sister Ali's book and figure out the changes you need to make to assist in building a better nation.
2020-10-081h 20K and K Real TalkProtect Our Babies | K & K Podcast Ep. 12In this episode, we continue our deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's, "The Blackmans Guide to Understanding The Blackwoman," with chapter 10, "Raising Children." It is another heavy chapter that points out our failures as a nation with raising our Black children. Many of these failures are brought on by external influences; however, we have to recognize our faults so that we can implement change. Our babies are counting on us!
2020-09-281h 38K and K Real TalkClean Up, Woman! | K & K Podcast Ep. 11In this episode, we deconstruct Chapter 9 of "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman," by Shahrazad Ali. This chapter is entitled, "Housekeeping." Ladies, the condition of your home is a direct reflection of your current mental state. The time is nigh for us to get our affairs in order! This is not a drill. Get your cleaning products together, bluetooth this episode to your speakers, and get to work! With love always, Kiva & Kahawia.
2020-09-211h 12K and K Real TalkGimme the Loot or Get the Boot | K & K Podcast Ep. 10In this episode, we revisit our discussion from Episode 2, "W.I.T. (Whores in Training)," to clear up a few things. We continue our deconstruction of the book, "The Blackmans Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman," by Shahrazad Ali. This chapter is entitled, "Money," and honey, ain't nothing funny! Pun intended. Lol!
2020-09-161h 16K and K Real TalkSecrets, Lies & Chaos | K & K Podcast Ep. 9In this episode, we discuss chapter 7 of "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman," by Shahrazad Ali. This chapter is entitled, "Family Relationships," and our responsibility to prioritize our Black men first, as head of our nation. We shed light on some secrets, lies, and chaos in our lives. We are also blessed with beautiful music from Libby Baeloo & Lewy Lotus. Check us out!
2020-09-131h 14K and K Real TalkDisrespect Galore | K & K Podcast Ep. 8In this episode, we discuss chapter 6 of "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman," by Shahrazad Ali. This chapter is entitled, "Communications." While we all scream for communication, the fact is that many of us--as Black women--do NOT know how to properly communicate with our Black men. Ladies, change must come in order for us to help rebuild our nation. Speaking of change, we paid homage to Her Thirsty Soul Podcast. Any woman in the dating world needs to subscribe to her show for a real perspective on how to navigate, effectively. Let's put this work in!
2020-09-071h 15K and K Real TalkHalf Head | K & K Podcast Ep. 7In this episode, we discuss chapter 5 of "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman," by Shahrazad Ali. This chapter is entitled, "Social Integration (Dating and Marrying the Whiteman," and it is explained that there are some traitors among us--in so many words. We revisit Tyler Perry's, Acrimony, as Kahawia further explains her original standpoint on Taraji's character, Melinda. (Listen to Kahawia on the One Take No Chaser Podcast to see where it all began). Kahawia GOES IN to acknowledge her trauma and pain. Grab your tea, wine, fruit juice or water and get into it!
2020-09-021h 11K and K Real TalkCheck Yaself, Don't Wreck Yaself | K & K Podcast Ep. 6In this episode we wrap up our discussion of Chapter 4 in "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman," by Shahrazad Ali. We talk about unlearning our bad behaviors and redefining our intentions to be better rather than continuing down our destructive paths. Shout out to One Take of the "One Take No Chaser Podcast," as we revisited Acrimony. Kiva has introduced Kahawia to a new perspective since being featured on his show. Get into this conversation and bring an open mind! We are Kiva & Kahawia.
2020-08-301h 31K and K Real TalkAre You Who You Say You Are? | K & K Podcast Ep. 5In this episode, we discuss chapter 4 of "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman," by Shahrazad Ali. This chapter is entitled, "The Wedding - The Beginning," and it is quite the show! Per usual we dive right into the text and uncover some of our dysfunctions as it relates to being a Black woman in (dis)agreement with our Black Men. We often want to be brides, but do we also strive to be good women and wives to our Black men? Turn to chapter 4 and tune in! If you have more to add, reach out to Kahawia on IG...
2020-08-261h 14K and K Real TalkDysfunctional Peace | K & K Podcast Ep. 4In this episode, we continue our discussion of Chapter 3 from "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman" by Shahrazad Ali. We dive deeper into understanding our roles as Black women and removing ourselves from the negativity we project onto our Black men--as it pertains to 'Adulthood and Marriage.' Trust, it ain't no walk in the park! Be sure to look out for our, "Get You Some Business" list by yours truly, Kiva & Kahawia. 🤎
2020-08-201h 16K and K Real Talk99 Problems & Then Some | K & K Podcast Ep. 3In this episode, we reintroduce ourselves as Kiva and Kahawia. Find out the reason for our name change. We also discuss the first half of chapter 3 in The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman by Shahrazad Ali as she highlights the problems we have within ourselves. Make sure you have your notebooks and tea ready for this one!
2020-08-141h 13K and K Real TalkW.I.T. (Whores in Training) | K & K Podcast Ep. 2In this episode, we get into Chapter 2 of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman." Chapter 2 is entitled, "Teenage Years." It's a chapter of very few pages with LOTS of information to unpack. Grab your note taking device and a warm beverage to take to a comfy spot. It's time for a real, hard discussion! Also, visit kahawia.com/kahawia-speaks to check out our lists for movies, books and songs that cater to uplifting our community.
2020-08-041h 20K and K Real TalkMiseducation of the Black Female Child | K & K Podcast Ep. 1In this episode, we introduce "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman" by Shahrazad Ali. We discuss our reason for choosing this book and the significance it has on the Black woman of today (as when the book was first published in 1989). Here's our take on the Preface and Chapter 1, 'Her Childhood.'
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