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Responder ResilienceS5 E19 6 Steps To STRONG Responder Relationships with Guest Kristal DeSantis, LMFTOur guest Kristal DeSantis is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the author of "STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man." Her approach blends psychology, attachment theory, and practical strategies to help people build thriving relationships.We’ll explore the unique challenges first responders and military personnel encounter in their relationships. We'll cover strategies for building emotional resilience, managing intimacy under pressure, recognizing signs of relationship struggles, and effectively resolving conflicts. Join us to improve your relationship skills and well-being at home and on the job.This ep...2025-05-0842 min
The Truth By MoryWhy Most Men Struggle in Relationships—And How to Fix ItWhat does it really mean to be a man in today’s world? In this powerful episode of The Truth by Mory, I sit down with Kristal Desantis, licensed marriage and family therapist and advocate for men’s mental health, to unpack the evolving definition of masculinity and why it matters more than ever in our relationships.We explore questions like: • Why do so many men feel the pressure to provide and protect, but not express emotion? • Can masculinity be redefined without losing its essence? • How can we raise emotionally aware boys in a...2025-05-0440 min
What If You CouldKristal DeSantis: STRONG Relationships, Modern Masculinity & Men’s Mental HealthMeet Kristal DeSantis, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, sex therapist, and the author of STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man. Based in Austin, Texas, Kristal is a leading voice in the fields of relationship wellness, trauma-informed therapy, and men’s mental health advocacy.As the creator of the STRONG Model of Relational Therapy, Kristal blends attachment-based methods with trauma-informed practices to help couples—especially first responder couples and men navigating modern relationships—create meaningful, lasting connections.Her clinical experience and personal journey, rooted in a multi-racial, bicultural upbringing, have shaped her deep understanding of the evolvi...2025-04-3043 min
UnwrittenWhat Men Fear Most (And Why It’s Their Superpower) - Kristal Desantis - #103Why Vulnerability Makes Men StrongerKristal Desantis, a licensed therapist and creator of The STRONG model of Relational Therapy, breaks down the modern masculinity dilemma. In this episode, we explore how outdated societal scripts discourage male vulnerability and how embracing it can lead to stronger relationships, deeper connections, and true confidence. Kristal shares the six pillars of a healthy relationship and why calculated risks in love are crucial for long-term fulfillment.📖 Get her book: STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man → https://www.strong.love/Chapt...2025-03-2538 min
Better Health Bookshelf: Discover New Health and Wellness Books to Help You Look, Feel, and Live YoungerSTRONG: A Guide for the Modern Man and Healthy Relationships | Kristal DeSantisAre modern relationships harder than ever for men, or are men just missing the right tools to succeed?On this week’s Better Health Bookshelf, I’m featuring the book STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man. My guest author, Kristal DeSantis, is a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in attachment, sex, and trauma. She has spent years working with first responders, veterans, and high-achieving men who struggle to navigate the evolving landscape of modern relationships.If you’re a man who wants to be a better partner—but feels...2025-03-1932 min
RelationshipHeadquarters with Bob Grant20. Why Modern Men Struggle in Love – And How to Fix It With Kristal DeSantisIn this episode, we dive deep into the changing landscape of modern relationships with Kristal DeSantis, author of Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man. Kristal shares insights from her work as a therapist, discussing the struggles men face in relationships, the evolving roles of masculinity, and the essential skills needed to build a healthy partnership. We explore why many men feel lost in today’s dating world, how women can advocate for their needs without micromanaging, and the core elements that make relationships thrive. Whether you're a man trying to be a better partner or a wo...2025-03-1137 min
The Communicate & Connect Podcast for Military RelationshipsHow to make your relationship STRONG with Kristal DesantisWelcome to Episode 060 of The Communicate & Connect Podcast! I'm your host, Dr. Elizabeth Polinsky, and today we have an enlightening conversation with the incredible Kristal Desantis, a licensed marriage and family therapist based in Austin, Texas. In this episode, we delve into the often-overlooked dynamics of men in relationships and the societal expectations that shape their roles and behaviors. Kristal shares her insights on the shifting roles of men, particularly the challenge of being valued for performance over personhood. We'll unpack the powerful metaphor of "lipstick on a pig" to illustrate the ways we sometimes mask relationship i...2025-03-0339 min
The Functional Health Today PodcastModern Relationships and Masculinity: What You Need to Know with Kristal DeSantis
🧠 Rethinking Manhood in Modern Relationships
In a world where masculinity faces constant evolution, Kristal DeSantis provides eye-opening insights into what it means to be a man in today's dating scene. Are traditional roles obsolete, or just in need of a revamp? Discover the three pillars of masculinity—protector, provider, and procreator—that have shaped male identity for generations, and understand how these roles are undergoing a significant transformation.
💡 The Shift in Male Responsibilities
The podcast emphasizes how men today are redefining what it means to protect their families. Gone are the days when physical str...2025-02-1848 min
Driven 2 Thrive: Purpose, Growth, and Lasting Impact For MenEleven Steps to Elevate Your Marriage Through Meaningful ConversationSend us a textValentine's Day is approaching, and what your wife truly desires isn't flowers or chocolates – it's your undivided attention and deep, uninterrupted communication. But here's the challenge: many men struggle with this crucial aspect of marriage. If you've ever felt lost when it comes to truly connecting with your spouse, you're not alone.In this eye-opening episode, I break down the art of deep communication into 11 actionable steps, drawing from nearly 24 years of marriage experience and insights from relationship experts.The Communication Cheat Code You've Been Missing...2025-02-1122 min
Spicy SpectrumSpicy Special: Redefining Manhood: A Conversation with Kristal DesantisHow are you enjoying the episodes? Send a message!Kristal Desantis, a marriage and family therapist and author of "STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man," discusses the evolution of male roles and the challenges men face in modern society. Her approach integrates attachment-based trauma-informed therapy to help men navigate issues like loneliness, societal expectations, and the impact of the digital age on intimacy. DeSantis emphasizes the changing expectations of men, shifting from traditional roles...2025-02-0928 min
Therapy is Dope with Alicia and LauraS2E15: Strong Men with Kristal DeSantisIn this episode, we sit down with Kristal DeSantis, author of STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man. Kristal, a licensed therapist and relationship expert, shares insights on building healthy relationships through emotional safety, communication, and personal growth. We discuss the unique challenges men face in relationships, common struggles couples encounter, and alternative ways of thinking and understanding men and relationships. Whether you're in a relationship or seeking one, this conversation will leave you with valuable tools to consider. 🎧 Tune in for an eye-opening discussion on love, resilience, and what it takes to build a STRONG partnership.2025-02-0542 min
Dead AmericaNavigating Modern Relationships Insights from Kristal DeSantis on Dead AmericaNavigating Modern RelationshipsIn this episode of Dead America, host Ed Watters engages in a compelling conversation with Kristal DeSantis, a licensed marriage and family therapist and author of 'Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man.' The discussion centers around the challenges modern men face in relationships and how to overcome them through effective communication. Kristal DeSantis elaborates on the importance of safety, trust, respect, openness, nurturing, and generosity in maintaining healthy relationships. She also addresses the traditional wife (TradWife) movement, its implications in modern society, and the significance of emotional intelligence in relationship dynamics. Tune in to gain valuable...2025-02-0538 min
Parents Navigating the Teen Years107: Building Strong Relationships: Healthy Families, Healthy TeensKristal DeSantis is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, a Clinically Certified Trauma Professional, and a State of Texas approved Premarital Education Provider. She is the creator of The STRONG model of Relational Therapy. Her expertise helps parents, teachers, and coaches navigate the challenges of teaching teens healthy relationship skills. The importance of parents modeling healthy relationship skills. The pillars of healthy relationships are. Safety in a relationship includes self awareness, stability, self-regulation, and self-expression. Trust: sometimes trust means making repairs in the relationship. Respect: make sure you’re communicating your boundaries. Openness: the importance of being open an...2025-01-2721 min
9 to 5 WellnessHow Relationship Wellness Drives Organizational SuccessWe are taking a deep dive into the transformative power of relationship wellness with our special guest, Kristal DeSantis—a licensed marriage and family therapist renowned for her expertise in relational health and trauma work. You can learn how maintaining and improving relationships within organizations can drive success and productivity. Kristal introduces us to her STRONG model of relational therapy, breaking down the core elements like emotional safety and personal vs. performance-based relationships. There are many practical strategies for fostering relational safety and long-term organizational success. Tune in to learn how a happy, balanced life can...2025-01-1938 min
UnwrittenWhy Male Vulnerability is the Key to Modern Masculinity - Kristal Desantis - part 1 - #103Kristal Desantis is a Texas Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, a Clinically Certified Trauma Professional, Certified Sex Therapy Informed Professional, and a State of Texas approved Premarital Education Provider. She is the creator of The STRONG model of Relational Therapy. Get Her Book STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Manhere: https://www.strong.love/In Part 1 of this Podcast we discuss the following...- Relationships and The Modern Man Masculinity Dilemma- Why understanding different communication styles can help couples build stronger relationships. - The...2025-01-1741 min
The Narcissism DecoderNavigating Narcissistic Relationships: Why Self-Regulation is Essential-Recorded Interview - 2In this episode of The Narcissism Decoder, I’m joined once again by therapist and author Kristal DeSantis, who returns to share another vital strategy for staying safe in relationships with narcissistic partners. This time, we focus on the importance of self-regulation and how it serves as a cornerstone for maintaining healthy relationships.We explore the differences between healthy and unhealthy conflict, emphasizing the value of self-expression and accountability in navigating emotional dysregulation. Healthy conflict allows both partners to share their perspectives constructively, while unhealthy conflict often devolves into name-calling and emotional escalation. Our conversation als...2024-12-2625 min
The Unstuck Movement with Rob Z WentzModern Masculinity: STRONG Relationships w Kristal DeSantisWhat does it take to redefine masculinity in modern relationships? In this episode with Kristal DeSantis, we explore how her groundbreaking STRONG model of relational therapy empowers men to embrace vulnerability, foster emotional resilience, and create deeper connections with their partners.
Kristal DeSantis is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Austin, Texas, known for her expertise in relationships, trauma work, and sex therapy. Her recent book, "STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man," offers practical guidance for navigating contemporary relationships.
Find out more about Kristal DeSantis by visiting www.strong.love2024-12-2043 min
I Am Refocused RadioKristal DeSantis - STRONG: A Way forward for Men and CouplesKristal DeSantis is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Austin, Texas, known for her expertise in relationships, trauma work, and sex therapy. With a focus on supporting first responder couples and addressing men's issues, Kristal offers a unique therapeutic approach rooted in understanding male psychology and the challenges faced by men in contemporary society.Her development of The STRONG model of Relational Therapy, which blends trauma-informed and attachment-based methods, has earned her a reputation as a leading authority in the domain. Her recent book, "STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man," offers p...2024-12-0921 min
Intuitive CEO#16 Navigating Masculine Energy in Dating & Relationships with Kristal DeSantisIn this deeply insightful episode of the Intuitive CEO Podcast, Sabrina sits down with Kristal DeSantis, author, public speaker, and licensed marriage and family therapist, to unpack the evolving dynamics of modern relationships. From the misconceptions about masculinity and femininity to decoding what it means to build a connection-based partnership, this conversation dives into the psychology behind dating, marriage, and self-awareness. Whether you’re navigating the trenches of dating or striving for a deeper connection in your current relationship, Kristal’s wisdom offers a modern roadmap to love that’s rooted in authenticity, safety, and empowerment. Tune in for action...2024-12-0845 min
Soul-Shaking LoveBuilding STRONG Relationships: Cultivating Emotional Safety and Lasting ConnectionI talk a lot about building secure attachment to keep your love strong but how do we actually do that? I decided to interview Kristal DeSantis, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, because she wanted to simplify the complex dynamics of making love last so she created a paradigm called STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man, which is also appropriate for all genders. In our interview, Kristal shares her expertise on fostering emotional safety, enhancing self-love, and building strong, resilient relationships. Kristal describes the STRONG model of relational therapy, a framework designed to help people...2024-12-0551 min
The Mindful LivingBuilding Stronger Connections: Relationships, Trauma, and Men’s Mental Health with Kristal DeSantisEpisode Summary:
In this insightful episode, host Sana sits down with Kristal DeSantis, a licensed marriage and family therapist, to explore the foundations of healthy relationships. Kristal shares the inspiration behind her "STRONG" model for building meaningful connections and dives into critical topics such as men's mental health, the impact of trauma, and attachment styles on relationships. They discuss self-awareness, stress management, and the need for trauma-informed approaches to foster resilience and intimacy. A thought-provoking conversation that sheds light on the importance of emotional safety, connection, and growth in modern relationships.
About the Guest:
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Better Husband002|How To Be a S.T.R.O.N.G. Husband With Kristal DeSantis🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.-In this episode, I am joined by Kristal DeSantis, a licensed marriage and family therapist, and we discuss themes from her book 'Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man.' Key topics include evolving paradigms of masculinity, the foundational elements of a STRONG relationship (Safety, Trust, R...2024-11-1247 min
Earrings Off!Strong: A Way Forward for Men and Couples - Revolutionizing the Future of RelationshipsSend us a textKristal DeSantis is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who is passionate about men's mental health. In this week’s episode Kristal offers insight on how to have a healthy relationship. Recognizing the unique challenges faced by men in today's society, Kristal authored a book titled "STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man". The book is a testament to her commitment to empowering men to cultivate meaningful connections and navigate the ever-changing landscape of relationships with confidence and resilience. Kristal can be found at https://www.str...2024-11-1021 min
Truehope CastEP166: The Evolution of Masculinity and the Modern RelationshipKristal DeSantis is a licensed marriage and family therapist based in Austin, Texas, and she is known for her expertise in relationships, trauma work, and sex therapy.
With a focus on supporting first-responder couples and addressing men's issues, Kristal offers a unique therapeutic approach rooted in understanding male psychology and the challenges faced by men in contemporary society.
Her development of The STRONG model of Relational Therapy, which blends trauma-informed and attachment-based methods, has earned her a reputation as a leading authority in the domain. Her recent book, "STRONG: A Relationship Field G...2024-11-0748 min
The Jorge Pelayo PodcastEp 18 - Kristal DeSantis - STRONG - Empowering men to succeed in their relationshipsKristal DeSantis is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Austin, Texas, known for her expertise in relationships, trauma work, and sex therapy.With a focus on supporting first responder couples and addressing men's issues, Kristal offers a unique therapeutic approach rooted in understanding male psychology and the challenges faced by men in contemporary society.Her development of The STRONG model of Relational Therapy, which blends trauma-informed and attachment-based methods, has earned her a reputation as a leading authority in the domain. Her recent book, "STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man,"...2024-11-041h 05
Walk In victoryStrengthen Your Family with Marriage TherapyIn our latest Walk In Victory Podcast, "Strengthen Your Family with Marriage Therapy," we explore the transformative power of marriage therapy with Kristal Desantis, a licensed marriage and family therapist and author. They delve into the complexities of relationships, exploring the importance of overcoming personal challenges, and the lack of proper guidance in building strong relationships.Kristal Desantis highlights her book, 'Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man', and discusses the significance of the six pillars of a healthy relationship: Safety, Trust, Respect, Openness, Nurturing, and Generosity. Join us as we delve into practical strategies, real-life suc...2024-10-2246 min
Respected & Connected: Create a More Intimate, Collaborative Relationship147. Helping Men Understand Changing Needs & Expectations in Modern Relationships with Kristal DeSantisMen…do you know what your partner needs to feel safe & provided for in today’s relationships? Because it has changed. Kristal DeSantis is a marriage and family therapist who specializes in men’s issues. She’s the author of the book Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man. And she’s on the podcast today to talk about some of the ideas and concepts she’s learned from working with men and helping them navigate intimate relationships. Topics discussed: How expectations for intimate relationship have changed What do women mean wh...2024-10-2236 min
Connected Life with AnthonyEP 20 - Men Dating and in Relationships with Kristal DesantisSend Connected Life a Question:In this episode we talk with Kristal Desantis about her book and her relationship coaching with a focus on the men in relationships:Recognizing the unique challenges faced by men in today's society, I penned "STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man". This book is a testament to my commitment to empowering men to cultivate meaningful connections and navigate the ever-changing landscape of relationships with confidence and resilience." 2024-10-1742 min
How To Be Happier For EntrepreneursModern Masculinity and Relationships: Navigating Dating and IntimacySEND US A TEXT MESSAGE Unlock the secrets to strong relationships and learn how modern men can adapt to evolving roles and create true partnerships. Tune in for insights on emotional safety, self-awareness, and overcoming challenges like work and technology. About Kristal DeSantis Kristal DeSantis, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Austin, Texas, is recognized for her specialized work in relationships, trauma, and sex therapy. As the creator of The STRONG Model of Relational Therapy, a unique approach that integrates trauma-informed care with attachment-based strategies, she has established herself as a...2024-10-0331 min
Dads Making a Difference PodcastSTRONG: The 6 Pillars of a Healthy Relationship with Kristal DeSantisIn this episode of the Dads Making a Difference podcast, Cam talks with Kristal DeSantis, Texas Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, a Clinically Certified Trauma Professional, Certified Sex Therapy Informed Professional, and a State of Texas approved Premarital Education Provider. She shares the foundational principles behind building strong and fulfilling relationships. Drawing insights from her book, Stronger Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man, Kristal introduces the concept of "STRONG" as an acronym representing 6 key pillars essential for relationship health.Kristal emphasizes the importance of expressing emotions constructively and reveals how emotions serve as critical data for u...2024-10-0235 min
Digital Dating with Anonymous AndrewCreating Safety and Security in Relationships w/Kristal DeSantisS3-Ep#7 Buy Me a Cup of Coffee (please & follow the show)SummaryIn this podcast episode, Anonymous Andrew interviews Kristal DeSantis, a marriage and family therapist and author of the book 'Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man.' They discuss topics such as dating, self-confidence, and navigating the complexities of modern relationships. Kristal emphasizes the importance of safety and creating a sense of security in relationships. They also explore the impact of past traumas on self-confidence and offer advice for building resilience and authenticity in dating. The conversation explores the challenges...2024-09-251h 07
Real Men Feel with Andy GrantThe Evolution of Masculinity and the Modern RelationshipUnderstanding and Strengthening Modern Relationships with Kristal DeSantis In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant discusses with Kristal DeSantis, a licensed marriage and family therapist, her expertise in trauma work and relationships. Kristal shares her journey from avoiding marriage to becoming a leading authority in relational therapy. She insightfully states, 'I wanted my practice to reflect two things: tactical skills and a strength-forward approach.’ They delve into Kristal's STRONG model of relational therapy, which includes six pillars aimed at fostering healthy relationships. The conversation also covers the evolution of...2024-09-2045 min
The Derelict PodcastThe Importance of Intentional Challenges for Men, EP 28In this episode, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni and marriage and family therapist Kristal DeSantis delve into the unique challenges men face in seeking help and support. They discuss the importance of community, intentional challenges, and the societal expectations that often prevent men from reaching out for assistance. Kristal shares insights from her book, “Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man,” exploring the scarcity of resources for men in relationships and mental health. Josh and Kristal emphasize the need for men to step up to challenges, highlighting the balance between risk, safety, and growth in relationships. They discuss the six aspe...2024-09-1958 min
The Minds Unleashed Show#15 Kristal Desantis - Masculinity and Emotionally Available MenKristal is a licensed psychotherapist specializing in marriage, family, relationships and men’s issues.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Disclaimer01:34 Crystal's Key Pillars for a Successful Relationship: Safety09:11 The Importance of Self-Awareness and Seeking Therapy19:14 Balancing Emotional Availability and Traditional Masculine Roles26:43 Recognizing Red Flags and Green Flags in Relationships29:19 Dating for Companionship vs. Seeking a Life Partner31:03 The Importance of Discussing Unsexy Topics32:23 Religion and its Role in Relationships35:02 Open Communication about Desires and Expectations36:38 Increasing Em...2024-09-1754 min
The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver BoehmKristal Desantis — Should men be more vulnerable?I’ve been waiting YEARS to interview Kristal Desantis as she is a therapist for men. And she’s a woman so her view and understanding of men is unique.
In this episode we explore a number of challenges men have, primarily in relationships, but then take a plunge on the question of whether vulnerability is actually healthy in men’s relationships.
This is a great conversation I know you’ll enjoy.
Enjoy.
Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty.
Cheers,
Traver
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Healthy Mind, Healthy LifeStrength in Connection: Navigating Mental Health and Relationships - with Kristal DesantisIn this episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Avik dives into the intersection of mental health and relationships with guest Kristal Desantis, a licensed marriage and family therapist and author of "Strong: A Relationship Guide for the Modern Man." Kristal Desantis shares her insights on the unique challenges men face in relationships today, especially in a world where emotional connection has become a priority. She discusses her STRONG model of relational therapy, which blends trauma-informed and attachment-based approaches to help men build resilience and foster healthy, meaningful relationships. Drawing from her extensive experience working with first responders and...2024-08-2618 minHealthy Mind, Healthy LifeStrength in Connection: Navigating Mental Health and Relationships - with Kristal DesantisIn this episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Avik dives into the intersection of mental health and relationships with guest Kristal Desantis, a licensed marriage and family therapist and author of "Strong: A Relationship Guide for the Modern Man." Kristal Desantis shares her insights on the unique challenges men face in relationships today, especially in a world where emotional connection has become a priority. She discusses her STRONG model of relational therapy, which blends trauma-informed and attachment-based approaches to help men build resilience and foster healthy, meaningful relationships. Drawing from her extensive experience working with first responders and...2024-08-2618 min
GentleMan Style Podcast-God, Family, Finance, SelfMarriage on the Rocks? THIS Might Be the SolutionWatch This Interview Live: Click Here Marriage on the Rocks? This Might Be the Solution #marriagetherapy #relationshipadvice #podcast In this episode of the Gentleman Style Podcast, hosts Marcus Norman and Karmea Wells welcome Dr. Kristal Desantis, a renowned marriage and family therapist. SUBSCRIBE to / @gentlemanstylepodcast and hit the bell to catch new episodes weekly! Ready to SAVE your marriage? Explore how Dr. Desantis helps couples navigate the complexities of marriage, providing practical tips for improving communication, and rebuilding trust and romance. Learn the hacks to a strong, lasting relationship and how t...2024-08-2652 min
Superchargers3 Rockin' Life Practices #26As part of the conversations on the Superchargers podcast guests offer daily practices from their expertise and personal journey's. Here are 3 awesome ideas as suggested by Health Coach - Angela Beyer, Ultra Marathoner - Marty Cornish & Relationship Therapist - Kristal DeSantis. Daniel Thomashttps://www.danthomas.net/https://www.instagram.com/mrdanthomas/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2024-08-2307 minSuperchargersHealthy Modern Relationships with Marriage Therapist - Kristal DeSantisKristal DeSantis is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Austin, Texas. Her development of The STRONG model of Relational Therapy, which blends trauma-informed and attachment-based methods, has earned her a reputation as a leading authority in the domain. Her recent book, 'STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man,' offers practical guidance for navigating contemporary relationships.Youtubehttps://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLXeOYqpkyFWYd_XFTqmPRuvHY-b7lxSht&si=FhMsVp4hE74qKAKwKristal DeSantishttps://www.strong.love/https://www.instagram.com/atxtherapist/...2024-08-2237 min
Relatively NormalRelatively Normal - S6 - Ep152 - Strong. Love. with Kristal DeSantis, LMFT, CCTPKristal DeSantis is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Austin, Texas, known for her expertise in relationships, trauma work, and sex therapy.
With a focus on supporting first responder couples and addressing men's issues, Kristal offers a unique therapeutic approach rooted in understanding male psychology and the challenges faced by men in contemporary society.
Her development of The STRONG model of Relational Therapy, which blends trauma-informed and attachment-based methods, has earned her a reputation as a leading authority in the domain. Her recent book, "STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man," offers practical guidance for...2024-08-1753 min
Bro Nouveau PodcastKristal DeSantis, M.A., LMFT112: Kristal DeSantis is a Texas Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, a Clinically Certified Trauma Professional, Certified Sex Therapy Informed Professional, EMDR trained clinician, and a State of Texas approved Premarital Education Provider. She is the creator of The STRONG model of Relational Therapy and corresponding book, S.T.R.O.N.G.: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man Please note some of the audio for this episode was not saved properly; the episode starts mid-conversation.Timestamps: 2:00 - Defining trauma; EMDR therapy11:00 - Ignoring emotions i...2024-08-1429 min
The Vulnerable ManThe Vulnerable Man Ep094 - Kristal DeSantisKristal is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, a Certified Trauma Professional, a wife, a men’s ally, and the author of the book, “STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man.” There’s a lot that we talk about in this conversation. From how connection inspired her to become more vulnerable, to working smarter and not harder, sexuality, culture, intimacy and pleasure, her tips for women who want to be open to men being more vulnerable, and the power of hope. Website: https://www.strong.love LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/krist...2024-08-0538 min
Faith and Family Trailblazer PodcastBreathe New Life into Old Love with Kristal DeSantis
Welcome to the Faith & Family Trailblazers Podcast! In this episode, we’ll explore practical and inspiring ways to breathe new life into your relationship.
Kristal DeSantis is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Austin, Texas, known for her expertise in relationships, trauma work, and sex therapy.
With a focus on supporting first responder couples and addressing men's issues, Kristal offers a unique therapeutic approach rooted in understanding male psychology and the challenges faced by men in contemporary society.
Her deve...2024-07-3120 min
Getting Reflective - a podcast about unlearningWhat does it mean to be a man in 2024? Lindsay interviews Kristal DeSantisKristal DeSantis (she/her) is a licensed marriage and family therapist in Austin, Texas. She also wrote the book, Strong - A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man, based on her experience working with men both individually and in their romantic relationships. In this episode, Kristal and I explore the rigid gender binary, and how we can more holistically expand the definition of what it means to be a man in 2024.
You can follow Kristal @atxtherapist and you can find her book on Audible!
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LOA Today - Your Daily Dose Of HappyKristal Desantis – Unlocking the Secrets to Lasting Love in the Modern ManIn a world where the landscape of relationships has undergone a seismic shift, Kristal DeSantis, a relationship expert and marriage and family therapist, is on a mission to empower men with the tools they need to navigate the complexities of modern love. In a captivating conversation on the LOA Today podcast, Kristal shared her personal journey and the invaluable insights she has gained, offering a roadmap for men seeking to build meaningful, lasting connections.
Crystal’s own experiences growing up in a household marked by conflict and her subsequent decision to avoid relationships altogether until her younger si...2024-07-231h 07Driven 2 Thrive: Purpose, Growth, and Lasting Impact For MenFrom Safety to Generosity: Keys to Lasting Connections with Marriage Therapist Kristal DeSantisSend us a textBuckle up for a seismic shift in your understanding of modern relationships. Licensed marriage and family therapist Kristal DeSantis doesn't mince words as she pulls back the curtain on the intricate landscape of contemporary connections. With unflinching candor and disarming authenticity, she dismantles the deeply ingrained myths that have left countless individuals stranded in a wasteland of unfulfilling unions.Through captivating personal anecdotes and cutting-edge research, DeSantis illuminates the pivotal skills required to navigate the treacherous terrain of dating, commitment, and sustaining a thriving partnership. At the core of this game-changing dialogue lies her...2024-07-051h 21
TreatableRelationship Therapy For Men: The STRONG Model with Kristal DeSantisIn this episode of Treatable, hosted by Clint Mally, licensed marriage and family therapist Kristal DeSantis discusses how men can build healthier relationships using her Strong model of relational therapy. This model addresses aspects such as safety, trust, respect, openness, nurturing, and generosity. Kristal explains the importance of each element and provides practical steps for men to foster loving and thriving relationships. The discussion also touches on toxic masculinity and the need for men to adopt new relational strategies for better mental health and relational fulfillment. The episode additionally includes information about Kristal's book, 'Strong, a Relationship Field Guide...2024-07-0436 min
Wealthy AF PodcastStrategies for Long-Term Relationship Happiness (w/ Kristal DeSantis)Send us a textUnlock the secrets to a thriving relationship with our special guest, Kristal DeSantis, a marriage and family therapist with a rich multicultural background. Growing up in an Asian multiracial, bicultural family, Kristal brings a unique perspective on what it takes for relationships to flourish. She shares her personal journey and professional insights, shedding light on misconceptions about long-term relationships and offering strategies to maintain happiness and connection over the years.Discover the STRONG framework, a powerful tool for building and sustaining vibrant relationships. We break down this acronym into essential survival...2024-06-2840 min
Lets Have This ConversationMen's Mental Health and Healthy Modern Relationships with: Kristal DeSantis
Communication in relationships allows you to express your
experiences and needs, fostering connection. First responders, such as
firefighters, are at a higher risk of developing behavioral health conditions,
including depression and PTSD. They also have a higher rate of divorce compared
to the general population.
Kristal DeSantis, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
based in Austin, Texas, specializes in relationships, trauma work, and sex
therapy. She focuses on supporting first responder couples and addressing men's
issues, offering a unique therapeutic approach grounded in understanding male
psychology. Kristal has developed The STRONG mo...2024-06-2438 min
The Love Can't Wait PodcastLove Can't Wait: Episode #261 - The Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man w/Kristal DeSantisKristal DeSantis is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Austin, Texas, known for her expertise in relationships, trauma work, and sex therapy. With a focus on supporting first responder couples and addressing men's issues, Kristal offers a unique therapeutic approach rooted in understanding male psychology and the challenges faced by men in contemporary society. Her development of The STRONG model of Relational Therapy, which blends trauma-informed and attachment-based methods, has earned her a reputation as a leading authority in the domain. Her recent book, "STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man," offers practical...2024-06-1233 min
Couples Therapy In Seven WordsThe STRONG Model of Relational Therapy for Men: An Interview with Kristal DeSantisThe video of this episode is at https://brucechalmer.com/kristal-desantis/.
I (Bruce) have often observed that men these days seem to be at a loss in knowing how to be men. The old default assumptions about how we’re supposed to show up in relationships, especially with women, seem not to work anymore. Our guest for this episode, Kristal DeSantis, is a therapist who specializes in helping men figure out how to navigate relationships. And she’s developed a model, called the STRONG model of Relational Therapy. We talk about her work, and her recent book, STRO...2024-06-0755 min
Talk Sex with Annette (Locker Room Talk & Shots)How High Value Masculine Men Can Have Success Dating Modern WomenSend us a textMy guest, family and relationship therapist Kristal DeSantis is the author of STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man. She walks my listeners through how self-defined masculine men can gain the skills that modern women are looking for in a partner, find a healthy partner, and create a relationship that is healthy, fulfilling and can stand the test of time.In this episode you will learn:What the definition of a High-Value Man isWhat the 6 pillars of a High-Value Man and a healthy relationship areA new perspective on...2024-05-0159 min
Dad's Mental Health#91 | Is The 4B Movement KILLING Traditional Masculinity? - Parenting, Marriage & Mental Health Support For DadsAre you curious about the 4B Movement and its impact on societal norms? Join us as we explore why saying "no" might be the key to empowerment.In this podcast episode, I'm lucky enough to be joined by a marriage and family therapist, Kristal DeSantis. To buy Kristal's superb book visit this link.Among other things, we'll be talking about the three B movement and how it's reshaping perspectives on gender roles.In this episode, you will:1) Gain insights into the 4B Movement and its goals of...2024-04-2409 min
The Voice of Reason with Andy HooserKristal DeSantis: Masculinity in the Modern AgeGuest Kristal DeSantis, author "Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man", joins to discuss the role of men in today's age. Discussion of attacking masculinity, depression and anxiety of men, and how to become the new age man.
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The Mental Health Today ShowMasculinity and Men’s Mental Health: Kristal DeSantisKristal DeSantis is a Texas Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, a Clinically Certified Trauma Professional, a Certified Sex Therapy Informed Professional, EMDR trained clinician, and a State of Texas approved Premarital Education Provider. She is the creator of The STRONG model of Relational Therapy.Her specialties include Couples Therapy (including sexual desire discrepancy/out-of-control sexual behaviors/recovery from infidelity), EMDR for trauma and PTSD recovery, PREPARE/Enrich Premarital Counseling, Conflict and Communication skill-building for high-conflict couples, Emotional regulation and healing from attachment trauma. Her passion populations are high-performing/self-identified hyper-masculine men and those who love t...2024-03-2536 minDad's Mental Health#67 | MODERN Man's Role in Relationships EXPOSED! - Parenting, Marriage & Mental Health Support For DadsShould men still be the main bread winners in modern marriages?What do women really want and expect from you?Do you feel that being a man is a minefield of not knowing the right thing to do at the right time?In this episode, marriage and family therapist Kristal Desantis talks about the 3 Ps of masculinity and what it means for the success of your relationship.Discover how our brains, to conserve energy, default to familiar relationship patterns. Crystal explains how this default mode can lead to contempt, eroding respect...2024-03-0921 minDad's Mental Health#66 | Marriage EXPERT Reveals the Silent Killer of Relationships! - Parenting, Marriage & Mental Health Support For DadsHave you ever felt like you and your partner are stuck in a conversation rut, sitting at a restaurant with nothing to say? In this episode, marriage and family therapist Kristal Desantis unveils the key to breaking free from relationship monotony.Discover how our brains default to familiar relationship patterns to conserve energy. Crystal explains how this default mode can lead to contempt, erode respect, and hinder personal growth within the partnership. Learn why breaking this pattern is crucial for a thriving, respectful relationship.Uncover the concept of the Alexander point and its impact...2024-03-0709 minDad's Mental Health#65 | Is Respect More Important Than Sex In A Healthy Marriage? - Parenting, Marriage & Mental Health Support For DadsAre you struggling to balance respect and desire in your relationship? In this episode, author and marriage and family therapist Krishna DeSantis dives deep into the nuanced dynamics of respect and desire between partners. Many of us crave both respect and attraction from our significant other, but finding the right balance can be challenging.Tune in to discover how understanding different forms of respect can transform your relationship, learn practical ways to show genuine admiration, and explore how mutual respect can foster a stronger connection.Ready to elevate your relationship? 2024-03-0406 minDad's Mental Health#63 | The #1 Mistake Killing Your Sex Life and How to FIX It Fast - Parenting, Marriage & Mental Health Support For DadsIs your relationship missing that essential spark of physical connection? In this episode, marriage and family therapist Krishna DeSantis shares valuable insights into enhancing intimacy and improving your sex life. Many couples face challenges with physical touch and desire, often feeling disconnected and misunderstood.Discover how understanding the dynamics of physical touch can transform your relationship, learn strategies to overcome common intimacy barriers, and explore ways to reignite desire in your partnership.Tune in now to uncover practical tips for deepening your connection and revitalizing your intimate life.In...2024-02-2914 min
Sanity and SocietyMen's Mental Health Tips and Tools with Kristal DeSantisLicensed marriage and family therapist Kristal DeSantis joins us to provide practical tips and tools for men to avoid dating disasters and relationship ruin. Kristal is the author of "STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man" and has spent her career counseling couples through their misunderstandings and difficulties. She also specializes in helping men to succeed in romantic relationships and develop sustainable self esteem. Kristal helps men uncover and leverage the best elements of masculinity to establish full lives and successful, supportive relationships. Come for the exploration of men's current dating...2024-02-121h 10
Dating Games - The Modern Relationships PodcastMeeting the family on the first date with Kristal DeSantis 😳This round we’re joined by the brilliant marriage and family therapist Kristal DeSantis to talk all about bad habits, vulnerability and making relationships last.
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Turn Me OnStrength for the Modern ManKristal DeSantis is a Texas Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, a Clinically Certified Trauma Professional, a Certified Sex Therapy Informed Professional, and a State of Texas approved Premarital Education Provider. She is the creator of The STRONG model of Relational Therapy. Jeremie and Bryde chat with Kristal about the work of modern masculinity that she breaks down in her book "Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man". Bryde and Jeremie chat with Krista about her experience growing up in Japan and learning to date in college in the US, the 3 Ps of masculinity that are inhabited by men...2024-01-2453 minTurn Me OnStrength for the Modern ManKristal DeSantis is a Texas Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, a Clinically Certified Trauma Professional, a Certified Sex Therapy Informed Professional, and a State of Texas approved Premarital Education Provider. She is the creator of The STRONG model of Relational Therapy. Jeremie and Bryde chat with Kristal about the work of modern masculinity that she breaks down in her book "Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man". Bryde and Jeremie chat with Krista about her experience growing up in Japan and learning to date in college in the US, the 3 Ps of masculinity that are inhabited by men...2024-01-2453 min
Shit Talking ShrinksThe Integrated Man Using the STRONG AcronymWelcome to "Shit Talking Shrinks," I'm your host Paulie Siegel, a Licensed therapist, Certified Addiction Counselor and master-level trained mindfulness practitioner with a passion for psychology, humor, and insightful journeys through the realm of mental wellness. Join me as we explore the depths of the human mind, unraveling complexities while keeping it lighthearted.Today, I welcome Kristal DeSantis to the podcast. Kristal is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the brilliant mind behind The STRONG model of Relational Therapy. As a Certified Trauma Professional and State of Texas approved Premarital Education Provider, Kristal's expertise adds a...2023-12-2635 min
Shameless Leadership815: Kristal DeSantis: Raising Boys Within a Model of Healthy MasculinityKristal DeSantis is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional with specializations in sex therapy, couples, and men's mental health issues. She is the creator of the STRONG Relationship Therapy Model of trauma-informed attachment-based couples therapy. She is joining us in the SMA today to talk about boys' mental health, the importance of healthy masculinity, and the impact of seeing healthy relationships on children's mental, emotional, and relational well-being.This was an incredibly powerful and critical conversation about teen boys and mental health. Please listen and share with the moms of boys in yo...2023-10-1847 min
Empowered Connection PodcastSTRONG: A Relationship Guide for the Modern Man (& Us All) with Kristal DeSantisThemes: Partnership, Relationships, Contemporary Man, Healthy Masculinity, Men's Mental Health, Sex, Yin & Yang, Conscious Living, Communication, Conflict, Self EmpowermentKristal DeSantis is a Texas Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, a Clinically Certified Trauma Professional, Certified Sex Therapy Informed Professional and a State of Texas approved Premarital Education Provider. She is the creator of The STRONG model of Relational Therapy and is the clinical director of Austin STRONG: Relationship Building Center, a group therapy practice in Austin, TX.Her specialties include: Couples’ Therapy (including sexual desire discrepancy/ out of control sexual behaviors/recovery from in...2023-10-1155 min
Psychology Is Podcast53: Kristal DeSantis | A Relationship Guide for MenAre you wanting to love your girlfriend or wife better? Would learning your attachment style help? Find out in this episode with Kristal DeSantis, auther of STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man.
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