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Young Black Married ChristianHow to Parent Without Losing Your Cool02:41 – The Challenge of Parenting Without a Playbook03:39 – Guiding Scripture: 1 Corinthians 13:4–704:38 – How the Love Test Became Their Family’s Only Rule05:37 – Teaching Kids to Filter Behavior Through Love07:05 – Integrating Faith and Parenting with Simplicity08:05 – The Love Test as a Filter for Parenting Books and Advice09:03 – Discipleship Through Daily Love and Behavior10:59 – Teaching Love from the Inside Out (Not Just Compliance)12:25 – Parenting With Virtue Over Rules13:23 – Reflection: Are You Parenting From a Framework or Just Rules?13:51 – Action Step: Propose “Love as the One Rule” to Your Spouse14:46 – Extending Love Beyond Parenting: Leadership and Integrity15...2025-04-2632 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow to Talk About Money Without Shutting Down or Blowing Up01:49 – What Jesus and Proverbs Teach Us About Money02:47 – The S.A.F.E. Framework for Budgeting03:48 – How to Steward Your Money to Honor God05:42 – How to Get on the Same Page with Your Spouse10:35 – How to Focus on One Budgeting Goal14:48 – How to Bring Enthusiasm to Your Budget Meetings16:42 – Final Recap: Stewardship, Agreement, Focus, Enthusiasm17:11 – Action Step: What’s Your Small Step Today?🤔 Submit Your Question:🎤 Leave a voice question via SpeakPipe📚Get All Our Resources:🎁 Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle Bundle – Lifetime Access, One Flat Price2025-04-1518 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow to Reflect God's Forgiveness in RelationshipsLaShaude and Dorianna James explore how the gospel strengthens marriages by fostering heaven on earth, emphasizing forgiveness and rejecting perfection. They advocate for modeling relationships after Jesus' love, promoting forgiveness and deeper spiritual connections. 04:16 - Understanding the Gospel's Impact: Experiencing Heaven on Earth06:35 - The Power of Gospel Understanding: Creating Paradise in Marriage08:57 - Reflecting God's Love: How Forgiveness Transforms Relationships11:37 - Role of Forgiveness: Overcoming Resentment in Marriage14:49 - Gospel's Solution: Addressing Selfishness, Fear, and Laziness18:00 - The Gospel as a Role Model: Influencing Marital Dynamics21:41 - Conclusion & Engagement: Resources for...2023-12-2122 minYoung Black Married ChristianBreaking the Chains of Laziness: Igniting Action in Your Marriage🤔 Submit Your Question: https://www.speakpipe.com/JamesFamilyFree Training: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/familyPersonalized Coaching For Your Relationship from the James Family: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/coachingIn this episode, you'll discover tips to reignite passion and overcome obstacles, unraveling the secrets behind nurturing an enduring connection. Timestamps:08:38 - Surpass Apathy, Nurture Love09:31 - Realize Your Marriage Dream Board10:31 - Break Free from Ignorance's Grip11:57 - Craft a Vision for Remarkable Relationships13:18 - Discover True Relationship Wealth14:17 - Seek Wisdom in Marriage Models2023-12-1427 minYoung Black Married ChristianFrom Fig Leaves to Fully Known: Overcoming Barriers to Intimacy in Marriage🤔 Submit Your Question: https://www.speakpipe.com/JamesFamilyFree Training: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/familyPersonalized Coaching For Your Relationship from the James Family: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/coachingThis episode delves into the profound essence of intimacy, guiding listeners through the transformative power of vulnerability in relationships. It offers insights on shedding masks and embracing authenticity, fostering stronger connections. The discussions touch on the importance of genuine community, encouraging listeners to create safe spaces for emotional expression and growth. It navigates the complexities of intimacy, spanning beyond physicality to encompass emotional, financial, and spi...2023-12-0727 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow To Improve Your Communication and Intimacy Without Feeling Lost For Words : Revisited🤔 Submit Your Question: https://www.speakpipe.com/JamesFamilyFree Training: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/familyPersonalized Coaching For Your Relationship from the James Family: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/coaching[02:17] Some Scripture[02:58] Don't Be A Fool[03:55] Report vs Rapport[04:20] Destination vs Journey[05:19] What Happened To Them & In Them[08:27] The Train VS The Rollercoaster[10:00] Questions For Reflection & Action Steps For Application[11:00] Our Best Conversations Have This[12:20] Intimacy In Conversations[13:05] I'm Too Tired To Talk At Night[13:55] Be A Man (or Wom...2023-12-0521 minYoung Black Married ChristianOvercoming Selfishness: A Guide to Spiritual Unity in MarriageDiscover the beauty of marriage through the lens of faith! In this episode, we'll explore how shared beliefs and prioritizing each other are strengthened by faith. Uncover invaluable tips on building a resilient, loving bond, navigating challenges, and experiencing the profound impact of including God in your marriage.05:09 - How to Understand the Impact of Selfishness on Oneness07:58 - How to Prioritize Your Spouse's Spiritual Growth10:20 - How to Trust God's Work in Your Spouse's Life12:04 - How to Develop Spiritual Rhythms Together16:22 - Conclusion: How to Focus on Overcoming Selfishness & Personal Growth2023-11-3029 min
The Rim Church1 Corinthians: Fully DevotedWhat's distracting you from full devotion to God? How do we have undistracted devotion to God despite different issues? 1 Corinthians 5, 6 & 7 teaches us the why and how to live in light of the Gospel by surrendering what keeps us from being fully devoted to God.
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1 Corinthians 5, 6 & 72023-07-1748 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow To Hold My Cheating Spouse AccountableWhat does forgiveness, grace, & ACCOUNTABILITY look like when your spouse cheats?🤔 Submit Your Question: https://www.speakpipe.com/JamesFamily14 DAY Free Online Training: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/family2022-10-0727 minYoung Black Married ChristianSingleness, Celibacy and Sexual Purity (FOR MARRIEDS TOO)In this episode you'll learn:How EVERYONE needs boundaries with people of the opposite sex.The goal is not celibacy or just not cheating. The real goal is...How community keeps your relationships safe....and so much more!🤔 Submit Your Question: https://www.speakpipe.com/JamesFamilyOne-on-One Coaching: https://calendly.com/ybmc/coach14 DAY Free Online Training: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/family2022-09-2434 minYoung Black Married ChristianPT2 Become a MASTER of Intimacy, Communication and Prayer With This Simple Tool [B.L.E.S.S. Framework]🤔 Submit Your Question: https://www.speakpipe.com/JamesFamilyFree Training: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/familyBecome a MASTER of Intimacy, Communication, and Prayer With This Simple Tool2022-05-2328 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow God Uses One Spouse To Save The Most Toxic Marriages & RelationshipsHow God can use one spouse to save the most toxic failing marriages in the world!You're trying to...invite your spouse into marriage counseling and they will not go invite your spouse to read the books that you're reading and they won't do it better your marriage and your relationship but you are in a relationship with the spouses completely unwilling to take steps forwardBUT it feels like...you're just beating your head against the wallyou're destined to fail because you feel like it takes two to tango...2022-05-2312 minYoung Black Married ChristianBonus Teaching On How To Prevent Cheating (From 2020)This is an episode that we recorded for the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle back in 2020, but it's still 🔥. Enjoy!2022-05-2340 minYoung Black Married ChristianI Cheated On My Spouse🎁Here's All Our Teachings on Overcoming Cheatinghttps://www.themarriagesecrets.com/cheating🎁Here's everything we have...https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/familyIn this episode, you will learn …1. Physically cheating on your wife or husband is not an isolated event.2. I loved my wife even though I cheated? What? How???3. God used this terrible event to lead me to Him.4. It gets better. It gets better than ever.Never Forget... The people who want the best in their marriage... Invest in their marriage.🤔 Submit Your Question: https://www...2022-05-1923 minYoung Black Married ChristianBecome a MASTER of Intimacy, Communication and Prayer With This Simple Tool🤔 Submit Your Question: https://www.speakpipe.com/JamesFamilyFree Training: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/familyBecome a MASTER of Intimacy, Communication, and Prayer With This Simple Tool[01:45] Shut Up And Listen![04:05] Learn The O2 Prayer[05:00] How To Ask Good Follow-up Questions[09:30] What is Discipleship?[12:25] Do You Know Your Spouse's Obstacles and Opportunities?[13:30] Getting To Know Your Host2022-05-1821 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow To Improve Your Communication and Intimacy Without Feeling Lost For Words🤔 Submit Your Question: https://www.speakpipe.com/JamesFamilyFree Training: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/family[02:17] Some Scripture[02:58] Don't Be A Fool[03:55] Report vs Rapport[04:20] Destination vs Journey[05:19] What Happened To Them & In Them[08:27] The Train VS The Rollercoaster[10:00] Questions For Reflection & Action Steps For Application[11:00] Our Best Conversations Have This[12:20] Intimacy In Conversations[13:05] I'm Too Tired To Talk At Night[13:55] Be A Man (or Woman) Of The Second Shift[14:55] Do You Give Your Best To Everyone But Your Spouse?[18:30] Dorianna Makes It Wierd2022-05-0321 minYoung Black Married Christian3 Free Gifts That Will Make You Money and Save You Time🎙Entrepreneurship and Professional Development: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/podcast2🤔 Submit Your Question: https://www.speakpipe.com/JamesFamily💪🏾 14 Day Training: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/family2022-04-1807 minYoung Black Married ChristianUsing Your Family Calendar To Win and WorshipFree Training: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/mbaSubmit Your Marriage Question, One-on-One Coaching, Workshops: https://forms.gle/dyw1sr2WSh5eidw79[04:12] S.A.F.E. Budgets and Family Calendar2022-03-2921 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow God Uses Community To Bless Your MarriageFree Training: https://www.themarriagesecrets.comSubmit Your Marriage Question, One-on-One Coaching, Workshops: https://forms.gle/dyw1sr2WSh5eidw79[02:00] What is "Christian community"?[04:55] The Power Of Accountability[06:00] Scripture On Christian Community[08:20] I Want God In My Marriage[09:20] God Works Through His People[11:05] The Gifts Of God In Our Marriage[19:15] You Need Intimacy In Your Small Group2022-03-2028 minYoung Black Married ChristianSZN 3 We're BACK With 🔥FIREFree Training: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/fightfairSubmit Your Marriage Question: https://forms.gle/dyw1sr2WSh5eidw79What you'll learn:[04:24] The Time Out Rule[06:40] Using The Time Out Rule Correctly[09:40] Intention Beats Accuracy [13:57] God is Still There When You're Not "Productive" [17:30] My Worth Is Set By God[19:12] Humans' First Day At Work[21:42] We Fight Against Our Limits[24:53] You're Trying to Control Your Spouse[27:42] A Podcast/Book Is Not Your Savior2022-03-1831 minYoung Black Married ChristianImprove Your Sex Life With 3 EASY Steps EPS 55Free Bonus Material Here: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts/74279-how-to-improve-your-sex-life-with-3-easy-steps-eps-55You want:✔ to make more time for intimacy✔ increase the motivation for you and your spouse ✔send and receive CLEAR signals with your spouse But it feels like: -you're disconnected from your spouse-you can't seem to be in the mood at the same timeIn this episode, you'll quickly learn how to make room for play and foreplay.2021-09-0913 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow To Overcome Cheating, Lying, Porn Addiction Etc🤔Want all our free material on this subject?https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/cheating🤔Want 1-1 coaching?https://calendly.com/ybmc/coach2021-07-2702 minYoung Black Married ChristianA Better Budget For Your Time and Money EPS 54Get the MBA training Course here!https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/yourmarriagemba[1:55] : You have an MBA by design or by default.[2:40] You're not going to win on accident. Don't let your family default to average. Let's get our Family MBA on paper and our purpose. [3:40] Your budget needs to be SAFE.2021-07-2516 minYoung Black Married ChristianImprove Your Marriage (Source Vs ReSource) Mini EpisodeJoin the Phenomenal Family: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/family2021-07-2210 minYoung Black Married ChristianThriving Through Marriage Transitions Part 2 (w/ Sean and & Lanette Reed) l Episode 53🎁Join the Inner Circle Here: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/family🎁🎁Get Your Coaching Here: https://forms.gle/2eADZ2CeQ2e87bqv5 🎁Follow Our Guest Here: https://www.seanandlanette.com/🎁Follow Them & Then Claim Your Free Gift! 🎁2021-06-1626 minYoung Black Married ChristianThriving Through Marriage Transitions Part 1 (w/ Sean and & Lanette Reed) l Episode 52In this episode, you will learn how to …✅ Process the change you are experiencing✅Assess your past to recognize your present✅Understand your spouse’s response to change✅Grow closer to your spouse through conflict✅Create a plan of action you agree on together✅Anticipate a healthy future for a lasting legacy🚨The Forgiven Podcast🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/forgivenpodcast🎁SUBSCRIBE AND GET A FREE GIFT🎁Follow Our Guest Here: https://www.seanandlanette.com/🎁Follow Them & Then Claim Your Free Gift! 🎁🚨Inner Circle Bonuses🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com...2021-06-0724 minYoung Black Married Christian$1300 GIVEAWAY🚨Bonus #1 The Forgiven Podcast🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/forgivenpodcast🎁SUBSCRIBE AND GET A FREE GIFT🎁🚨Bonus #2 $200 Off Marriage Coaching🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/coaching?coupon=200OFF🚨Bonus #3 Free Training Courses🚨Your Marriage M.B.A. (Mission, Budget, Agenda)https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/yourmarriagemba?coupon=FREECOURSESpiritually Balanced Family https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/family-worship?coupon=FREECOURSEPhenomenal Fighting Skills https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/fighting-fair-in-your-marriage?coupon=FREECOURSE2021-05-2809 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow To Use the G.A.P. Technique To Get Closer To Your Spouse EPS 51🚨The Forgiven Podcast🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/forgivenpodcast🎁SUBSCRIBE AND GET A FREE GIFT🎁🚨Bonus Teaching🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts/62599-bonuses-for-episode-51-using-the-g-a-p-technique-with-your-spouse🚨Bonus Teaching🚨In this episode, you will learn …How To Use The G.A.P. Technique to get closer to your spouse.Never Forget... The people who want the best in their marriage... Invest in their marriage.2021-05-1417 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow To Start Impossible Conversations With Your Spouse EPS 50🚨The Forgiven Podcast🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/forgivenpodcast🎁SUBSCRIBE AND GET A FREE GIFT🎁🚨Bonus Teaching🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts/62389-bonus-teaching-for-episode-50In this episode, you will learn …✅[01:20] How To Have Hard Conversations With Your Spouse✅ [02:45] Jesus used Teachings, Stories, and Questions✅ [04:45] Atomesphese, Story Question Method of Asking Perfect Questions ✅ [05:21] Don't Argue Via Text Messages✅ [07:55] Don't ask LOADED Questions✅ [09:20] Narrative Transportation AKA Storytelling✅ [12:53] Intimacy is INTO-ME-SEE✅ [18:15] Communication Tips From an FBI Negotiators Never Forget... The people who want the best in their marriage... 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Don't fight drunk!?!✅ [24:20] Is Your Spouse A Stay At Home Parent? ✅ [30:20] Why Does Everything Cause An Argument2021-04-2243 minYoung Black Married ChristianSecret Ways To Increase Your Daily Family Worship EPS 48🚨Get Our $127 Offer For Free 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/familyIn this episode, you will learn …✅How to Increase Bible Reading With Your Spouse✅How To Triple The Amount Of Prayer Time With Your Family✅How To Encourage Your Family To Sing Out To GodNever Forget.... The people who want the best in their marriage... Invest in their marriage.2021-04-0533 minYoung Black Married ChristianYour Family Mission, Budget and Agenda (MBA) in less than 15 minutes EPS 47🚨Get The Free Bonus Content For This Episode Free 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/yourmarriagembaIn this episode, you will learn how to invest 15 minutes and get your family MBA on paper and on purpose? 💰How to make a family mission statement using just 3 short questions.How to make a functional budget using just 2 questions.How to make a family agenda using just 2 questions.Your marriage will immediately become more productive and better equipped to WIN.2021-03-2831 minYoung Black Married ChristianWhy Your Spouse May HATE Your Apology EPS 46.5🚨Get Our $127 Offer For Free 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/familyIn this episode, you will learn …✅How to Apologize Faster✅When You Apologize You Need To Talk About How Your Actions Affected Your Spouse! How did it make them feel?✅The best apology is changed behavior.✅ In some cases, the apology needs to be as public as the offense.✅ How To Turn Thorns Into Roses!Never Forget.... The people who want the best in their marriage... Invest in their marriage.2021-03-2418 minYoung Black Married ChristianTreating Your Argument Hangover FT. The Freemans EPS 46In this episode, you will learn …✅[04:00] Why Communication is not one-size-fits-all!✅[12:30] Expectations have to be expressed and managed! When life goes changes your circumstances you must reset expectations✅[21:30] How ALL conflict can be turned into a good exchange.✅[25:30] The 5 Rs to Repair a Conflict✅[31:15] How To Time Travel and Change Your Spouse Memories About Arguments.✅[33:30] How To Risk Rejection To Reconnect With My SpouseMeet Our Guests:https://www.instagram.com/meet_thefreemans/https://theargumenthangover.com/🚨Get Our $127 Offer Free 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/family2021-03-1942 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow To Have The Perfect Family Budget EPS 45🚨Get The Free Bonus Video For This Episode 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts/53132-our-new-baby-house-and-mba-eps-45-bonus-contentWant to learn how to have the perfect family budget? 💰In this episode, you will learn …(04:42) How To Analyze Your Family's Stewardship Of God's Resources🔬(15:48) How To Fight For Agreement Over Your Family Budget 🤝(27:03): Keep Trying Different Methods Until One Sticks 🎯2021-02-2337 minYoung Black Married ChristianThe Quarantine, The Silent Treatment and Your Marriage EPS 44🚨Get The Free Bonus Video For This Episode 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts/49787-marriage-based-on-progression-vs-perfection-eps-44-bonusIn this episode, we explore how quarantine has affected your marriage!In this episode, you will learn …1. This Pandemic is a magnifier 🔍 of where you're really at in your marriage and life. It exposed where we really were.2. Sin is a 🦠 virus and cancer and seed that grows if not taken care of. The silent treatment is like pouring gas on the fire or letting a weed grow in your garden.3. There's an opportunity...2021-01-2237 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow To Help Your Spouse Be A Better Christian EPS 43🚨Get The Free Bonus Video For This Episode 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts/38741-don-t-should-all-over-your-spouse-episode-43-bonus-trainingIn this episode, you will learn …1. We must help our spouse move from Unbelief To Belief in every area of their life.2. Don't give your spouse so many compliments and criticism/corrections. They need to be reminded of the covenant relationship they have with God in Christ more than they need your words.3. Use the 4 G's to help them know their identity in Christ.God is great – so we don’t have to be in control2020-10-1938 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow to Make Disciples Like Jesus Without Losing Your Family EPS 42🚨Get The Free Bonus Video For This Episode 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts/38543-did-you-know-that-you-are-making-disciples-alreadyIn this episode, you will learn …1. Disciples Make Disciples (It's not our pastor's job... it's on us)2. It's NOT family or mission... It's Family On Mission3. Integration > Addition. We don't add disciple-making into our schedule we integrate it into our lives.Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.themarriagesecrets.com/family2020-10-1036 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow to Balance A Busy Schedule And Get Your Quality Time Back EPS. 41🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/postsWant to learn how to get on the same page as your spouse?In this episode, you'll learn ...1. Find Out What's Really Important To Your Family. Stop assuming you understand the priorities of your spouse.2. Write down what's important. Develop an ideal week on paper and on purpose.3. Give grace. The secret to an ideal week and a mission statement is giving yourself the grace to aim for it week after week. Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle...2020-07-1340 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow Godly Families Fight For Social Justice l Eps. 40🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/postsIn this episode, you will learn …1. Jesus cares about Justice.2. Cast Your Votes. Using your voice to promote black people (and policies that support black people) into positions where they can make decisions for our community.3. Advocate For The Arts. Intentionally consuming and supporting films, books, shows, and news outlets that portray black people in a fair and accurate way.4. Reach Out With Relationships. Introducing people who don't look like you to your community and spiritual family.5. Engage In The Economy...2020-07-1131 min
The Rim ChurchChurch In The Wild: Unity in DiversityThis week, our church continues an ongoing conversation about the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5) by addressing what peace looks like as it is displayed among the body of Christ. Listen to Pastor Drew discuss unity and diversity in the church with special guests, LaShaude and Dorianna James!2020-05-2629 minYoung Black Married ChristianWhy We Cheat And What To Do After l EPS 39🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/postsIn this episode, you will learn …1. Cheating comes from our hearts. It's not the other spouse's fault. 2. Faithfulness is a learned behavior. You need safeguards to help you stay pure.3. It is not the end. This could be the start of your new honest open real relationship.Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family2020-05-2535 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow To Partner With Your Spouse Without Policing Them l EPS 38🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/postsWant to learn how to partner with your spouse? 💰In this episode, you will learn …3 Big Ideas:1. Policing Your Spouse Only Trains Them To Hide2. Change the Dynamic of How Truth Is Confessed3. Pray and Trust God With the Unconfessed Secret Parts Of Your RelationshipColossians 3:16 - Let the Word of Christ dwell in you richly in all WISDOM; teaching and admonishing one another...Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family2020-05-1834 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow To Reclaim Intimacy and Reconnect After Cheating l EPS 37🤔 Submit Your Question: https://www.speakpipe.com/JamesFamilyFree Training: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/family3 Big Ideas:✅The best apology is changed behavior. Changed behavior comes from God. You can change.✅We forgive even though we still remember. Forgiving someone does not mean you no longer feel the pain of their offense.✅Extend the same forgiveness that you've been given. God in Christ forgave us by absorbing in himself the destructive and painful consequences of our sin against him.Ephesians 4:32 And be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving one another...2020-05-0925 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow To Cultivate Intimacy and Improve your Sex Life l Eps 36🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/postsExcuse the audio quality of this interview, but we HAD to share this interview with you. There are TOO many gems in here for us to keep hidden.There are still BIG value bombs dropped in this episode with @4KNWNJoin the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family2020-05-0348 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow To Craft The Perfect Apology (Inner Circle January Episode UNLOCKED) l Eps 35🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/postsThis episode is from our inner circle family. We don't do this often but we UNLOCKED it for you. Join the Inner Circle: www.themarriagesecrets.com/familyGet Our Coaching: www.themarriagesecrets.com/coaching2020-05-0332 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow To Hear and Obey God's Voice l EPS 34In this episode, you will learn …✅ We need obedience-driven discipleship, not curriculum-driven discipleship. We all know more scripture than we apply.✅ We should ask and answer, "What is God saying to you?". This is a question we should all be asking each other. Observe. Reflect. Discuss. ✅ We need to ask and answer, "What are you going to do about it?". This is a question we should all be asking each other. Plan. Have Accountability. Act. 🚨Click Here To Gain Access To Resources Related To This Episode 🚨www.marriage.podia.com/hearandobey[02:00] P...2020-04-1226 minYoung Black Married ChristianSecuring The (Real Estate 101) Bag FT. Chris Winstead l Eps 33🚨Click Here To Gain Access To Resources Related To This Episode 🚨www.marriage.podia.com/realestate 4 Big Ideas:✅ Starting the Conversation with a realtor is FREE! You don’t pay the realtor that helps you buy a home. The seller of the home normally pays for all the realtors involved. ✅ You can use the equity built in your first home as the down payments for your next (bigger and better) home or start a business, college fund, etc.✅ On average you only have to stay in a home for 5 years in order to have enough...2020-03-0426 minYoung Black Married ChristianThe 3 Main Ingredients For Love l Eps 32🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts✅ This episode is all about increasing the passion, intimacy, and commitment in your marriage. You don't want to miss the laughs and lessons shared in this shareworthy episode. Join the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family2020-02-1939 minYoung Black Married Christian8 Mistakes You Don't Want To Make For Newlyweds l Eps 31🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts[03:30] #1 You don't know how to limit frustrations in your marriage.[08:30] #2 You don't have a shared family budget for your time or your money.[12:00] #3 You don't have a core mission or vision for your family.[16:00] Revised James Family Mission Statement[18:00] #4 You don't have agreed-upon rules for when you fight.[22:00] #5 You believe that once you get married you'll live "happily ever after".[23:30] #6 You believe that your marriage will solve personal problems that only God can fix.[26:30] #7 You stonewall when arguing. [30:00] #8 You cr...2020-01-2335 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow To Set Boundaries With People Outside Your Marriage l Eps. 30🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/postsIn this episode, you will learn …✅ Pleasure without boundaries quickly turns dark. This episode will teach you why and how to set healthy boundaries with people outside your marriage.✅Don't fulfill legitimate needs in illegitimate ways.✅Any friendships without boundaries quickly turns dark.✅Don't put yourself in tough situations to have to make tough decisions.✅Sometimes the best way to say no is to not give yourself the opportunity to say yes.✅Don't use the "brother/ sister in Christ" vocabulary to allow...2020-01-0628 minYoung Black Married Christian9 Ways The Gospel Transforms Our Marriage l Eps 29🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts1. Because of the gospel, Christians have become new creations (2 Corinthians 5:17). 2. Because of the gospel, we are forgiven (Ephesians 1:7). 3. Because of the gospel, we can forgive, just as Christ forgave us (Ephesians 4:32). 4. Because of the gospel, we are accepted by God.5. Because of the gospel, sin's ruling power over us is broken (Romans 6:6, 14). 6. Because of the gospel, we have access to God through Christ (Hebrews 4:14-16). 7. Because of the gospel, we have hope (Romans 5:1-4). 8. Because of the gospel, Christ...2019-12-1637 minYoung Black Married ChristianBiggest Problem In Marriage Ft. Speaker Felice Mattheui l Episode 28🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts2019-12-0232 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow Submission Should Look In Marriage Ft. Married Cultured Known Podcast l Episode 27🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts✅ Visit our guest at https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/married-cultured-known/linktr.ee/4knwnmusic2019-11-0848 minYoung Black Married Christian7 Common Mistakes In First Year Of Marriage l Episode 26🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/postsJoin the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family✅ Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.✅ Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.✅ Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.2019-10-0124 minYoung Black Married ChristianDebt Free Degree Ft. Anthony ONeal l Episode 25🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts[05:00] Some questions about Anthony's Unique Story/ Past Debt Free Degree Specific Questions-Tell me about your new book, Debt-Free Degree.[14:00] You say that you can go to school debt-free. How can you do it?[18:30] It’s never too early to plan. What should parents do each year to start planning for life after high school?[22:00] So you have a junior or senior in high school and no money saved for college. What do you say to that parent? [24:30] What’s some adv...2019-09-1635 minYoung Black Married Christian7 Tips To Deal With In-Laws l Eps. 24🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/postsDo you want to learn 7 Tips To Deal With In-Laws?[1:30] - Shoutout to MotivatedByBridget, QueensANCSPECIAL SHOUTOUT To Our First Founding Student Abigail S.[04:15] Work With Your Spouse[05:45] Set Boundaries and Limits. This is where you can use your family's core values.[11:00] Enforce the Boundaries and Limits[16:15] Important ACTION STEP[18:00] Communicate Directly[23:00] Know Yourself and Be Yourself[24:20] Honor the Relationship between your spouse and your in-laws[25:50] Don't Fumble the Inheritance[29:15] Quick Recap and Action...2019-09-0635 minYoung Black Married Christian4 Ways To Resolve Budget Fights l Episode 22🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/postsThis episode is all about improving your communication around budgeting! Enjoy! Want to learn how to have the perfect family budget? 💰 Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family✅Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.✅Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.✅Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.2019-08-3028 minYoung Black Married Christian6 Things Submission Is Not l Episode 21🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts6 Things That Submission is Not[04:15] Submission doesn't mean always agreeing with your husband[06:45] Don't pay the submit date on your wife![7:10] Submission does not mean leaving your brain at the altar.Exodus 4:25 Proverbs 31:16[11:15] Submission does not mean you do not try to influence your husband.[15:15] Submission is not putting the will of the husband before the will of Christ.[18:00] John Crist - Check Your Heart ft. DJ Mykael V, nobigdyl. & 1K Phewhttps://www.youtube.com/watch...2019-08-0927 minYoung Black Married Christian39 Unique Ways to Say I Love You Pt. 1 l Episode 19🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/postsWant to learn 39 Ways To Use The 5 Love Languages To Tell Your Spouse "I Love You!"?✅ [01:20] 8 Tips For Words of Affirmation ✅ [11:50] A Special Game We Play✅ [13:00] 7 Tips For Quality Time✅ [18:50] 9 Receiving GiftsTake At Least 1 Action Step from this episode and APPLY it. (James 1:22-25) Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.themarriagesecrets.com/family2019-06-2951 minYoung Black Married ChristianDarkflix- Overcoming Pornography l Episode 18This is a valuable conversation about our personal experience with pornography and how God has delivered us from its grasp. This episode is for anyone overcoming this habit or someone who is striving with people overcoming this habit. This is our most powerful and transparent episode to date.[02:00] What was the allure?[05:00] What was the effect of watching Darkflix?[09:45] When did you make that decision to stop?[12:00] How did God save us from Darkflix?[21:00] What if my spouse watches Darkflix?[23:00] How to deal with the shame?[28:00] What would you say to someone...2019-06-2438 minYoung Black Married Christian3 Core Values That Saved Our Marriage l Episode 17We describe 3 core values that saved our marriage from a HEATED argument. You'll want to hear them all and how we applied them! [01:30] Want your question answered? Leave a VM Here: (361) 857-7302[02:00] What qualities should I look for in a spouse? From Proverbs 31-Does this person follow through on his word?-Does this person make you stronger?-Is this person hard-working?-Is this person generous and hospitable?-Is this person wise?-Does this person trust Jesus[05:00] What happened?!?![07:30] Core Value: Don’t make permanent decisions based on temporary feelings....2019-06-1824 minYoung Black Married Christian5 Love Languages l Episode 16In this episode, we explore the 5 love languages.[01:30] How to keep your God as your source instead of your spouse?[09:30] Why should we study the 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman?There are other booksThe 5 love languages for kids, teenagers, singles & military edition.https://www.5lovelanguages.com/resources/books/[11:15] What are the 5 emotional Love Languages? l. Words of affirmation – using words to build up the other person. “2. Gifts – a gift says, “He was thinking about me. Look what he got for me.”3. Acts of Service – Doing something for your spouse that you know the...2019-06-1231 minYoung Black Married Christian5 Tips to Survive The Honeymoon Phase l Episode 15[02:00] Voicemails from Yall! Want to leave us a voicemail? (361) 857-7302 We may feature you on our next episode![04:00] New Content. What is the honeymoon phase? [08:30] What are 5 tips to survive the Honeymoon Phase? How should we go through the honeymoon phase?1. Be aware of your mental state.2. Surround yourself with Christian fellowship that can hold you accountable.3. Base your boundaries and commitments on God's word. 4. Redefine love to mean sacrifice.5. Constant isn’t common. See constant consistency as concrete and steadfastness. It’s sexy!Take At Least 1 Action Step from this...2019-05-1631 minYoung Black Married ChristianSecuring The Bag l Episode 14This episode is all about securing the bag.A budget doesn't limit your freedom. A budget gives you freedom. It's permission to spend. It allows you to give generously, spend wisely and save for the future I enjoy being on the same page as Lashaude. Being able to agree on goals with him and as a team see our goal accomplished. "Baby Step 1" and the others were fun for me to accomplish. It made me feel like we were a couple moving forward and getting stuff done.-It'll take about 3 months to...2019-04-1029 minYoung Black Married ChristianKeys To Communication Ft. FELICE MATHIEU l Episode 13This episode is all about communication.Follow Felice's Ministry Here: https://thoughtsquestioned.com/Take At Least 1 Action Step from this episode and APPLY it. (James 1:22-25) Help us by leaving a review on Itunes Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.2019-03-1247 minYoung Black Married ChristianCreating Family Mission and Vision StatementsThis 20-minute podcast episode lays out the James Family mission and vision statements that will empower you to form mission and vision statements for your family! This episode will equip you with the words and verbs needed to structure your family's core values.Download an unreleased episode here: https://marriage.podia.com/visionTake At Least 1 Action Step from this episode and APPLY it. (James 1:22-25) Help us by leaving a review on Itunes ********************************Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that...2019-03-0802 minYoung Black Married ChristianHow To Fight Fair Mini-EpisodeTake At Least 1 Action Step from this episode and APPLY it. (James 1:22-25) Help us by leaving a review on Itunes ********************************Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.2019-01-1802 minYoung Black Married ChristianVows That Shape Your Marriage Part 1 l Episode 11We analyze the vows that I made to my wife. We reflect on the purpose and plan we expressed on our wedding day. Also, my wife grades me on my performance so far.Take At Least 1 Action Step from this episode and APPLY it. (James 1:22-25) Help us by leaving a review on Itunes ********************************Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.2018-12-2820 minYoung Black Married Christian3 Ways To Overcome Poison From Our Past l Episode 10Take At Least 1 Action Step from this episode and APPLY it. (James 1:22-25) Help us by leaving a review on Itunes ********************************Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.******************************[02:20] What’s the topic for today? How the past is poisoning the present.2018-12-1637 min