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Chess, Not CheckersCreating a Life You Love! Even When It Looks Different Than You Planned with Lana ManikowskiWhat do you do when life doesn’t go the way you thought it would?In this powerful episode of Chess, Not Checkers, I sit down with Lana Manikowski, a certified life coach, podcast host, and author who turned the pain of infertility into purpose.Lana opens up about navigating life after infertility — but this conversation is bigger than that. We explore identity, success, self-worth, and how to create a life you love even when it looks nothing like what you pictured.Whether you’ve faced unexpected loss, struggled to find your place, or simpl...2025-06-1233 min
Relationship Reset: Reignite, Reconnect, RebuildWhen Life Hits Hard: How Couples Rebuild Connection Through Challenges with Lana ManikowskiSend us a text In this heartfelt episode, Katie sits down with Lana Manikowski to explore a universal truth: life will throw challenges your way — and those challenges can test your relationship. Lana shares her deeply personal journey through infertility, how it impacted her marriage, and what she and her husband did to reconnect and rebuild their bond.Katie and Lana also reflect on the parallels between infertility grief and other types of loss — including Katie’s own experience of losing her mother — and offer practical tools for couples navigating grief, life changes...2025-06-1137 min
IVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastFather’s Day When He’s Childless TooIf you're a woman who went through fertility treatments like IVF or IUI and now find yourself childless after infertility, this episode will speak directly to your heart. This week, we talk about a quiet kind of grief. The grief carried by the man who never got to become a dad. Whether it's your husband, partner, brother, or someone else close to you, Father’s Day can feel invisible for the men who once dreamed of fatherhood but never got to live it. And if you’ve been focused on your own pain after infe...2025-06-1012 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastChildless and Grieving with Jody DayIf you are childless after infertility and wondering how to move forward without the future you dreamed of, this powerful conversation with Jody Day will meet you right where you are. In this episode, we explore what it truly means to grieve childlessness and how embracing that grief can lead to deep healing, creativity, and purpose. Jody shares her personal story, her insights from years of working in the childless-not-by-choice space, and how grief can evolve from something you endure into something you grow through. Inside this episode: Why grief is not an...2025-05-2058 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastFeeling Connection After InfertilityIf Mother’s Day felt hard for you, you’re not alone and this week’s episode of The “So Now What?” Podcast is especially for you. You’ve probably spent years feeling like a party of one, moving through infertility and now life without children, not sure where to go to find connection or how to create it. Maybe you’ve told yourself you should be strong enough to figure this out alone. Maybe you’ve been hiding, thinking you’re the only one whose treatments didn’t end in motherhood. In this powerful episode, you’ll hear...2025-05-1315 min
Infertile AF: Infertility and Modern Family Building"So Now What?" author Lana Manikowski on IUIs, IVF, and thriving as a Childless Not by Choice AdvocateToday, Ali is talking to Lana Manikowski, a fellow Chicagoan, a certified life coach and the author of "So Now What?" -- a roadmap to help you create a life you love without the children you always dreamed about. Lana tells Ali about her years-long infertility journey, starting with an "unexplained infertility" diagnosis and 7 IUIs. Lana explains moving on to IVF, traveling to get treatment in Colorado, doing several rounds of IVF, and how she and her husband decided to stop treatment and embrace their lives without children. "So many women are left to navigate this alone," she says. "Here I...2025-05-0948 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastTo the Childless Woman on Mother’s DayIf you're feeling overlooked, invisible, or emotionally raw as Mother's Day approaches, this episode was made for you. In this heartfelt and healing conversation, Lana speaks directly to you — the woman who did everything she could to become a mom, but still doesn’t have the child she dreamed of. Whether this is your first Mother's Day since stopping fertility treatments or your fifteenth, this episode holds space for your grief, your story, and your desire to be seen in a world that rarely acknowledges women who are childless not by choice. Lana shares why Moth...2025-05-0613 min
Finding Space with Dee KellyEpisode 4 - Lana ManikowskiIn this episode, I chat with Lana Manikowski, a certified life coach, infertility advocate, and author of So Now What?.Lana shares her personal journey and how she found purpose beyond motherhood. We discuss the emotional challenges of infertility, the importance of acknowledging grief, and the need for open conversations around pregnancy loss. Whether you're navigating your own fertility journey or supporting someone who is, I hope this episode offers comfort and insight.Resources:Lana's Book – So Now What?Amazon UKBlackwell's2025-05-0559 min
The Keri Croft ShowLana Manikowski on Redefining Purpose After Infertility & Creating a Life You Love Without KidsSend us a textWhat happens when the fertility journey ends and there’s no baby?Lana Manikowski lived that.Seven years of treatments, zero viable embryos — and a whole lot of silence from the people who were supposed to help her through it. In this episode, we talk about: → Grieving what could’ve been → Redefining purpose when motherhood isn’t part of the story → Baby showers, holidays, and all the awkward sh*t no one prepares you for → Finding joy — even with a little grief in your back pocketLana...2025-05-0245 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastLife After Infertility: From Rejection to Redefinition If you've ever felt like life passed you by — that everyone else got the invitation to motherhood while you were left standing in the quiet — this episode is for you. In Episode 166 of The “So Now What?” Podcast, I’m bringing you into a deeply personal story I recently shared with a room full of college students. It wasn’t about infertility — at least not directly — but it brought up a feeling you probably know all too well: what it’s like to have a plan for your life… only to watch it fall apart. I share what happene...2025-04-3016 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastInfertile But Not InvisibleIf you’ve gone through IVF or fertility treatments and didn’t end up with the child you always dreamed of, this episode is for you. During National Infertility Awareness Week 2025, it’s easy to feel like the spotlight is only on the stories that end in a baby. But what if yours didn’t? What if you're childless after infertility, and you’ve spent years wondering where your voice fits in? This week, we’re finally talking about the part no one wants to say out loud: The silence that follows when fertility treatments don’t work...2025-04-2315 min
Happy Childless MindsetLana Manikowski - So Now What?In this episode Lana and I talked about her new book: So What Now?, about The Other's Day Brunch, and about lots of other things.Lana Manikowski is an author, certified life coach, keynote speaker, and infertility advocate dedicated to helping women thrive after infertility. She is the founder of The Other’s Day Brunch and host of The ‘So Now What?’ Podcast, creating spaces where childless women feel seen, understood, and empowered.After a seven-year journey through fertility treatments—including several rounds of IUI and IVF—that ended without a child, and donor egg and adoption weren’t he...2025-04-2046 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastInfertility Isn’t a Finish LineIf you’ve been through fertility treatments like IVF or IUI and ended your journey without the baby you dreamed of, you might be waiting for the day you finally feel “healed.” But what if healing isn’t something you ever fully complete? What if infertility isn’t a finish line—but a beginning? In this episode of The “So Now What?” Podcast, you’ll discover that you don’t have to be completely healed to start feeling proud of who you are becoming. You’ll explore how to notice your growth, even on the hard days, and how small steps fo...2025-04-1714 min
Two Humans Talking With Tiffany SimmsThriving After Years of Infertility w/ Lana ManikowskiWhat if success didn’t have to come at the cost of your health, relationships, or happiness? In this episode of Two Humans Talking, Tiffany Simms sits down with Lana Manikowski—from Thrive After Infertility—to unpack the real, unfiltered truth about thriving in this modern, fast paced world.No fluff, no clichés—just honest conversations about what it really takes to create a thriving life without burnout. Whether you’re looking to improve your well-being, strengthen connections, or elevate your career, this episode will leave you with insights you can actually use.🔔 Hit the...2025-04-1534 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastFrom Infertility to Impact: Why This Chapter MattersHave you ever looked around and thought, “So now what?” after years of trying fertility treatments that didn’t work? You’re not alone. This week’s episode is for you. In this deeply personal and empowering episode, you’ll hear Lana reflect on the powerful launch of her new book, So Now What?, which became a #1 New Release in the Fertility and Infertility categories on Amazon. That milestone wasn’t just about sales. It was about finally being heard after years of feeling silenced by a childless outcome. Whether you’ve gone through IVF, IUI...2025-04-1013 min
Purpose Beyond Motherhood - Finding Your God-Given Purpose Beyond Infertility And Motherhood“So Now What?”: Finding Purpose Beyond Infertility with Lana ManikowskiHey friends! We’re so excited to share this conversation with the incredible Lana Manikowski. Lana opens up about her deeply personal journey through infertility.During the pandemic, feeling lost and disconnected, Lana made a powerful decision to reclaim her purpose. That decision led her to launch the So Now What Podcast, become a certified life coach, and create the Others Day Brunch—a beautiful gathering dedicated to supporting women walking through infertility.Lana’s also the author of So Now What?, where she shares her journey of finding fulfillment beyond motherhood and offers guidance to oth...2025-04-0731 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastInfertile & Childless: The Myths We Believe🎙 Listen now to The 'So Now What?' Podcast with Lana Manikowski, Episode 161 So now what? Did these three words race through your mind time and time again during fertility treatments? You poured everything—your energy, your time, your heart—into trying to have a child. But when that dream didn’t come true, you were left wondering: What now? If you've ever felt like motherhood was the missing piece, the thing that would finally make you whole, you are not alone. And today, we’re challenging that belief. In this episode, we’ll explore:2025-03-1912 min
Friends With FertilityThriving After Infertility: A Conversation with Lana ManikowskiIn this deeply moving episode of Friends with Fertility, we sit down with Lana Manikowski—author, certified life coach, keynote speaker, and infertility advocate—who is dedicated to helping women navigate life after infertility with purpose and fulfillment.
After seven years of fertility treatments, including multiple rounds of IUI and IVF, Lana faced the heartbreaking reality that motherhood wasn’t in her path. When she couldn’t find the support she needed, she built it herself. Now, through her coaching program Thrive After Infertility, her podcast So Now What?, and her upcoming book of the same name...2025-03-1935 min
By Chance Avenue - Sacred Conversations Around Being Childless, by Chance48. So Now What? Childless After IVF with Lana ManikowskiIn this episode, I chat with Lana Manikowski, a certified life coach, author, and advocate for women navigating life after infertility. After undergoing seven years of fertility treatments and ultimately choosing to embrace a childless life, Lana now helps others find healing, purpose, and fulfillment beyond motherhood. Her upcoming book, "So, Now What?", launching on April 2nd, offers guidance and hope to those seeking a path forward after infertility.What you'll learn:Lana’s personal journey through seven years of fertility treatments and the emotional impact of infertilityThe process of accepting and embracing a fulfilling life wi...2025-03-1843 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastThrive Without Children – Because You CANIf your fertility journey didn’t lead to motherhood, it’s easy to feel like everything else is just second best. After years of IVF, IUI, and trying everything to have a baby, you never imagined navigating a life without children. And now, instead of embracing the opportunities in front of you, you might feel stuck, wondering if true joy, fulfillment, and connection are even possible for you. But here’s the truth: You CAN create a life that feels meaningful, fulfilling, and deeply connected because you CAN. In this episode of The So Now What...2025-02-2611 min
Soulful IVFLeaving IVF Without a Child: “So Now What?” with Lana Manikowski [Ep. 87]Choosing to end fertility treatments is a personal decision, and not always an easy one.My friend and guest, Lana Manikowski shares her journey moving forward post “unsuccessful” fertility treatments. Living and thriving, finding purpose, joy, and rewriting the narrative of how she is choosing to create her life - We cover this and so much more. What she saw lacking in the fertility space when IVF didn’t work out for her, she decided to create. Resources, support and a community after her long fertility journey ended without a child.2025-02-1756 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastInfertility and Self-Blame: It’s Time to Let Go Infertility and Self-Blame: It’s Time to Let Go of Guilt After IVF and Fertility Treatments Failed Have you ever found yourself questioning every decision you made on your fertility journey? Wondering if you should have started trying sooner, chosen a different doctor, lost more weight, or pursued another round of IVF? If self-blame has become a constant companion after infertility and failed fertility treatments, you are not alone. So many women who are childless after infertility carry a heavy burden of guilt, believing that somehow, they could have done something differently to change the outcome. 2025-02-1213 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastFeeling Left Out of the Mom ClubDo you feel like you don’t belong because you’re not part of the "parent club"? Maybe you’ve noticed friendships shift as kids come into the picture, or you’ve caught yourself feeling excluded from conversations or outings. That sting of being left out is real, and it often taps into a much deeper wound—the grief of the dream of motherhood that didn’t come true. In this week’s episode of The 'So Now What?' Podcast, we’re unpacking this tender topic: Why parenthood seems to create a natural “club”...2025-01-2815 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastTime Doesn't Heal the Ache of ChildlessnessEpisode Summary: Many people believe that time will naturally heal the pain of being childless after infertility, but what if that isn’t true? In this episode of The 'So Now What?' Podcast, Lana dives into a powerful story shared by a woman in her 60s, who has spent decades hoping time would ease the ache of childlessness—only to find herself still struggling with the same feelings of disconnection and loss. Through this heartfelt and thought-provoking conversation, Lana unpacks why the belief that "time heals all wounds" can keep you feeling stuck and disconnected from...2025-01-2113 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastThe Infertility Blame Game: Letting Go and ThrivingIn this week’s episode of The So Now What? Podcast, we’re diving into a deeply relatable topic: the habit of self-blame when things don’t go as planned—especially when it comes to your fertility journey. If you’ve ever poured your heart and soul into IVF treatments, followed every protocol, and still didn’t achieve the outcome you dreamed of, this episode is for you. Drawing parallels from a recent personal experience, I share how easy it is to feel like you’ve fallen short despite doing everything right. You’ll learn why blaming yourself only de...2025-01-1413 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastInfertility and Creating a Fulfilling FutureWelcome to The So Now What? Podcast with Lana Manikowski. In this episode, we kick off the new year by exploring a life-changing question: How long are you willing to wait to believe that something is possible for you? If you’ve left fertility treatments without the child you dreamed of—or if you’re feeling stuck in the aftermath of your infertility journey—this episode is for you. You'll hear: Why dreaming again can feel impossible after infertility and how to shift that mindset. How to stop anchoring your future to the pain and disap...2025-01-0912 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastDear Santa: A Letter After IVF FailedMerry Christmas to Those Who Celebrate This week's episode of The "So Now What?" Podcast is here to guide you through the complexities of the holiday season, especially if you're navigating the challenges of being childless after infertility treatments. Christmas can be a beautiful season of nostalgia and tradition, but it can also bring unexpected emotions - grief, longing, and loneliness - if your journey to motherhood didn’t turn out as planned. 🎄 What You'll Learn in This Episode: How to acknowledge and honor your experiences this year. A unique and empow...2024-12-2410 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastInfertile and Childless Around the HolidaysThe holidays can feel especially heavy when you're childless after infertility and IVF. In this episode, I'm sharing heartfelt insights and practical strategies to help you navigate this season with grace, even when it feels like everything revolves around kids. Whether you're grieving the loss of a dream of motherhood after fertility treatments failed you, feeling out of place at family gatherings, or looking for new ways to make the season meaningful, this episode is for you. Join me as I offer support, validation, and actionable tips to help you honor your emotions, set boundaries...2024-12-1713 min
Power and Purpose Podcast#75 Redefining life with infertility with Lana ManikowskiWelcome to the Power & Purpose Podcast! Follow the podcast on Youtube or Apple Podcast or Spotify.
ABOUT THE SPEAKER:
Lana Manikowski: Certified Life Coach, Keynote Speaker, Infertility Activist, Founder of “The Other's Day Brunch”
When a 7-year fertility treatment journey ended without a child - and donor egg & adoption weren’t for her - Lana yearned for a community that could understand the loneliness, self-judgment, and grief around navigating a childless future. When she couldn’t find one, she created it by launching The “So Now What?” Podcast and The Other’s Day B...2024-11-2645 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastAging When You Are ChildlessIn today’s episode of The 'So Now What?' Podcast, we’re tackling a deeply personal fear that many women who are childless after infertility and IVF struggle with: the fear of growing old alone. When the dream of motherhood doesn’t become a reality, it’s natural to worry about who will be there to care for us as we age. We often think that without children, we’re missing a safety net for the future. But what if that isn’t the whole story? Lana Manikowski, certified life coach and advocate for women who are childles...2024-11-1211 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastSupport After IVF: What Childless Women Really WantWelcome to Episode 147 of The “So Now What?” Podcast with Lana Manikowski. In this special episode, Lana dives deep into the often-overlooked journey that follows fertility treatments for women who leave without a child. Whether you’re a fertility doctor, clinic staff, mental health provider, or a woman navigating life after infertility, this episode highlights the unmet needs and real stories from women who feel unseen after treatment ends. Highlights: Free Masterclass on Handling the Holidays Join Lana’s free MasterClass on November 20 at 6 p.m. CST to learn how to manage holiday gatherings...2024-10-3014 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastCreating Self-Worth When ChildlessWelcome to this week's episode of The “So Now What?” Podcast. In this episode, you’ll dive into something that may resonate deeply with you, especially if you're a woman who is childless after infertility treatments. Lana opens up about those painful moments when you're surrounded by reminders of what you longed for but never came to pass. If you've ever felt that pang in your heart when someone else has what you so desperately desired, this episode will speak to you. What You’ll Hear in This Episode: - Why you might...2024-10-1610 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastComparison: A Childless Life vs. Those with KidsAfter going through infertility treatments, including IVF, many women find themselves facing life without the child they hoped for. This journey of being childless not by choice is filled with grief, heartache, and often, a deep sense of comparison. You may be asking yourself questions like, “Why can’t my life look like hers?” or “What am I supposed to do now without the milestones of motherhood to guide me?” In this episode, I want to remind you that while it’s natural to compare yourself to others, it’s not where your fulfillment lies. You can begin to break...2024-10-0113 min
The WOMBen Collective™EP #5 Redefining Purpose & Finding Joy After Infertility with Certified Life Coach Lana ManikowskiIn this episode, we welcome Lana Manikowski, a certified life coach and infertility activist. She offers a unique perspective on redefining purpose and finding joy following the grief of infertility. Lana shares her seven-year journey through unexplained infertility and her transformation into a supportive figure for women facing similar challenges.She discusses her unique events, the Others Day Brunch, and her podcast "So Now What?" Lana also delves into her coaching framework that helps women redefine joy and purpose in their lives, and offers advice on handling insensitive comments, reframing the narrative of self-acceptance. Whether you're navigating childlessness or...2024-09-2341 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastReconnecting with Your Body After InfertilityWelcome to another episode of The "So Now What?" Podcast! This week, we’re diving into the important topic of body image after infertility—a struggle many women face when their journey to motherhood didn’t go as planned. If you’ve been feeling disconnected or resentful toward your body after years of fertility treatments, this episode is for you. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why body image struggles are common for women who are childless after infertility. How to begin the process of healing your relationship with your body by focusing on what yo...2024-09-1712 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastEmbracing Friendships When You're the Only Childless OneIn this episode, Lana dives into the complex emotions that can arise when you’re the only one in your group of friends who is childless after infertility. If you've ever felt like an outsider among your BFFs as they talk about their kids, this episode is for you. Lana explores how to maintain meaningful connections, even when your life looks different from those around you. She shares personal stories and practical advice on how to embrace your unique journey, reclaim your relevance in your friendships, and feel empowered in your childless future. What You’ll Learn:...2024-09-0313 min
What I Wish I Knew beyond Pregnancy LossEp 58: Redefining Life After Infertility with Lana ManikowskiIn this heartfelt episode, we dive deep into the journey of finding purpose and fulfilment beyond motherhood.
Our guest, Lana Manikowski, shares her personal story of navigating the unexpected path of a childless future after years of fertility treatments.
From the loneliness and self-judgment to the empowering decision to create a thriving community, Lana opens up about how she transformed her pain into a mission to help others.
We explore the importance of intuition, releasing societal expectations, and finding joy in the life you never planned. Lana also discusses her Thrive After Infertility...2024-08-2553 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastOvercoming Infertility Anxiety: Embracing Relaxation and Self-Worth on VacationWelcome and Personal Update Vacation Preparation: Lana discusses the anxiety she felt as she prepared for her first vacation since leaving her corporate job, and how this trip is a significant change from her previous work-focused vacations. Upcoming Free Coaching Class Free Webinar Announcement: Lana is hosting a free coaching class on September 10th at 6 PM CT. This session is designed to help those who struggle with responding to the question, "Do you have children?" Registration Details: You can sign up here: Sign Up for the Free Webinar. For those unable...2024-08-2015 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastInfertility Should Be an Olympic SportHey there, lovely listeners! Did you know I have a YouTube channel? Yes, I do! You can watch the video version of this podcast, including some fun outtakes, on my YouTube channel at Lana Manikowski on YouTube. This week, I want to share something that hit me deeply: the parallels between the journey of Olympic athletes and women who undergo fertility treatments. Watching a recent track and field event, I couldn't help but notice how much their experiences resemble ours. Let's dive into it. The Journey of Preparation Both Olympic athletes and women...2024-08-0616 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastDiscovering Your Purpose After InfertilityDiscovering Your Purpose After Infertility Welcome back to another episode! I'm thrilled you're joining me on this journey through life, where sometimes navigating can be challenging. Today, I want to open your mind to a new perspective on purpose. Navigating Conversations About Childlessness: I've just launched a valuable resource for those struggling with discussing childlessness. If you've faced unwanted opinions or advice, visit Instagram (@Lana.Manikowski) or email me at HI@LanaManikowski.com to access this resource. Rethinking Purpose: Let's dive into the concept of purpose. We're often told it's this elusive, singular...2024-07-1613 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastEmbracing Independence After InfertilityWelcome back to another episode of The "So Now What?" Podcast. I'm Lana Manikowski, and I'm thrilled you're joining me today. As we dive into the heart of summer here in the US, with July 4th Independence Day celebrations just around the corner, it feels fitting to talk about a different kind of independence—personal independence, especially for those of us navigating life after infertility. Reclaiming Independence Post-Infertility After enduring years of fertility treatments, the constant start and stop, and the endless cycle of uncertainty, finding independence can feel daunting. This week, I want to ex...2024-07-0315 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastFeeling Like a Failure After IVF FailsFeeling Like a Failure After IVF Fails Introduction: Welcome back to another heartfelt episode of Thrive After Infertility. I'm Lana, and this week, we are rolling up our sleeves and diving deep into what it means to feel like a failure, especially after the challenging journey of IVF and fertility treatments. This episode is for all the incredible women out there who have struggled with these feelings and are ready to redefine their stories. Key Points Covered: Understanding the Fear of Failure: The fear of failure often starts at a young...2024-06-2612 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastThe Three Letter Word That Will Change Your Life After InfertilityHello, lovely listeners! I'm so glad you're joining me today. If you haven't already, I invite you to subscribe to my YouTube channel, Lana.Manikowski. Look for my profile picture with a yellow shirt—if you see me in a red shirt, that's an old channel I no longer update. Subscribe to stay connected and catch some funny outtakes that don't make it to the podcast. Why Your Reviews Matter Before we dive into today's topic, I want to thank everyone who rated and reviewed the podcast last week. Your $5 Starbucks gift card is on it...2024-06-1214 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastExpectations for a Life Without ChildrenIntroduction: Hello, beautiful souls! It's Lana Manikowski and I'm thrilled to share some major life updates and inspiring insights with you today. This episode is dedicated to all the incredible women who are not sure what to expect of your life childless after infertility and IVF. It's a journey filled with unexpected turns, but together, we can find joy and purpose beyond what we initially envisioned. Big Announcement: I have some exciting news to share—I recently resigned from my corporate job to fully dedicate myself to my coaching practice and advocacy work. Th...2024-05-2209 min
Over It And On With ItCC: Infertility and Celebrating "Others Day" with Lana ManikowskiSome women are childfree by choice while others are childless due to circumstances, not choice. Lana Manikowski: Certified Life Coach, Keynote Speaker, Infertility Activist and Founder of “The Other's Day Brunch” is on a mission to show that infertile women can create the life of their dreams, even when it didn’t turn out as planned. When a 7-year fertility journey ended without a child - and donor egg & adoption wasn’t for her - Lana yearned for a community who could understand the loneliness, self judgment and grief around navigating a childless future. When she couldn’t find one...2024-05-1059 min
The F.E.E.L. Podcast - Finding Empowerment Embracing LayersFinding Her Value through the Infertility Journey with Lana ManikowskiAfter 7 years of fertility treatments and a lifetime dreaming of motherhood, Lana Manikowski was presented with the realization that she would not be a mom. The years that followed were full of loneliness, self judgment and confusion about living a childless life. Lana yearned to connect to a community of infertile women to grow past this together. When she couldn’t find one, she created one by courageously telling her story and creating connections weekly on The “So Now What?” Podcast.
Lana is a Certified Life Coach, Infertility Activist, founder of The Other's Day Brunch and the creator of...2024-04-231h 17IVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastNavigating Friendships After InfertilityNavigating Friendships After Infertility - Episode 117 Welcome back, beautiful souls! Today's episode takes us to the stunning Pacific coast of California, where our host shares her recent experiences coaching remotely and working from beautiful locations. A dream come true! Now, let's dive into a topic close to many hearts: navigating friendships after infertility. Episode Highlights: Last Week's Recap: Intimate Relationships and Infertility Episode 116 delved into the impact of infertility on intimate relationships with partners. If you missed it, be sure to catch up! This Week's Focus: Friendships and Childlessness2024-02-2016 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastEmbracing Change in Relationships After InfertilityWelcome to a new month, and if you're here, you're already taking a step towards creating a life that aligns with your true self. In this episode, we delve into the excitement and challenges of February. If you started the year with ambitious goals, now is the perfect time to evaluate whether they resonate with your authentic desires. Reflection and Redefinition: Discover the joy in evaluating and dropping goals that don't align with your passion. Episode reference: Explore choosing goals that feel easy and fun, avoiding the burden of heavy expectations. ...2024-02-0713 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastMaking Your Goals Easy in 2024Hey, beautiful souls! Welcome back to another empowering episode. I'm Lana Mankowski, and this is the space where we delve into the intricate journey of being childless after infertility. Last week, we explored setting attainable goals, understanding their significance, and breaking them down into manageable steps. Today, we're continuing that journey with Part Two, sharing insights on creating accessibility for you, my incredible community. Creating Achievable Goals: Whether your goal is fitness, nutrition, or mindfulness, it starts with small, doable steps. The key is to give yourself wins, building a foundation fo...2024-01-0912 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastMaking Your Goals Easy in 2024On today's podcast episode is a heartfelt discussion on setting resolutions, especially after navigating the complexities of infertility. It's a topic close to my heart, and I want to share my perspective on how we can approach the new year with authenticity and self-compassion. But before we dive in, let me update you on my journey. I recently wrapped up a successful year in my corporate sales job and eagerly await the news on my President's Club nomination. Winning this award holds immense significance for me, representing not just professional success but a personal triumph after facing...2024-01-0414 min
The Holiday Survival PodcastHoliday Survival Tip #11: Unlock the Joyous Possibilities with Lana ManikowskiIn this episode of the Holiday Survival Podcast, Erin interviews Lana Manikowski, a certified life coach and advocate for childless women, as she shares her profound journey of navigating infertility and the societal pressures surrounding motherhood. Lana dives into her own experiences, detailing the emotional rollercoaster of fertility treatments, societal misconceptions, and the resilience required to redefine joy and traditions during the holiday season. Lana sheds light on the overlooked struggles of childless women, offering guidance and inspiring possibilities beyond the conventional norms of parenthood.Key Learnings:Understanding Infertility JourneyLana's p...2023-12-1831 min
The Healthy HealerTHH051—Lana Manikowski: Guiding the Childless to Find Love and Beauty in LifeWelcome to "The Healthy Healer" podcast. I'm your host, Dr. Fred Moss. Through sustained conversations, we delve deep into the journeys of healers who've found their purpose after personal transformation. Many enter the healing profession with aspirations only to grapple with reality—endless training, unexpected responsibilities, and even disillusionment. But there are those who rise above, harnessing personal healing and rediscovering their passion. Our podcast features these inspiring souls who've returned to the healing profession, stronger and more aligned than ever. Join us for riveting conversations that shed light on the true essence of healing and the incredible individuals wh...2023-12-1235 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastMaking Memories When You're Childless After InfertilityNavigating Thanksgiving with Gratitude: A Guide for Women Childless After Infertility Introduction: Hey there, it's Lana Manikowski, and welcome to another episode of The “So Now What?” Podcast. Whether you're tuning in on your way to Thanksgiving festivities or catching this afterward, I've got some tools that are universally helpful, especially for women navigating Thanksgiving without children after infertility. Acknowledging Your Feelings: First and foremost, let's acknowledge that your feelings are valid. There's no right or wrong way to feel during this time. If you're like many of the incredible women I wo...2023-11-2311 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastChoosing Your Self-Image: Redefining Worth After InfertilityIn today's episode, we dive into the intriguing realm of self-perception and self-worth. Lana Manikowski shares her personal journey and powerful insights into reshaping your opinion of yourself. Join us as we explore how you can start to define what makes you amazing, regardless of your fertility journey. Episode Highlights: Lana opens the episode by acknowledging the universal human tendency to care about what others think of us and how we often base our self-worth on them. The central theme of the episode is introduced: What's your opinion of yourself? Lana challenges her...2023-11-0216 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastThrive Week for Women with InfertilityKey Points: Introduction to Thrive Week: Lana introduces "Thrive Week," her innovative program designed to empower women on their fertility journeys to discover fulfillment and purpose. The Impact of Infertility: Lana opens up about her own challenging seven-year fertility journey that did not lead to biological parenthood. She delves into the emotional toll of infertility, touching on feelings of loss and the scarcity of resources available for those who do not become parents through fertility treatments. Advocating for Childless Individuals: Lana's advocacy is centered on...2023-09-2918 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastWe Weren't Prepared for THIS After IVFI put a post on Instagram talking about some things that I was so not expectant of when my fertility journey ended and I didn't end up becoming a mom. I felt like I was really uninformed because I didn't end up becoming a mom and want to talk about today is what are some of the things that we weren't expecting would come after our fertility journey ended and we didn't become a mom? I feel like that's not talked about enough I feel like we go to the clinics I feel like we go through...2023-08-2913 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastFeeling OK for Stopping Fertility TreatmentsAbout six or so months ago, one of my girlfriends that I met in first grade, and we don't keep in touch. Like regularly, but when we do keep in touch, it's like time hasn't passed and she reached out about six months ago to see if I wanted to do a mud run and being the person who comes on this podcast every week and gives you ways that you can become more involved and meet new people and do new things. I do the same thing. I say yes to things I haven't done before...2023-08-0114 min
Only One In The RoomLana Manikowski Is The Only One Who Always Thought She’d Be A MomImagine desperately trying to become a mom, and spending one hundred and fifty thousand dollars on fertility treatments.Life coach and podcast host, Lana Manikowski, always thought she’d be a mom, and was willing to do whatever it took to make her dream a reality.So what would you do if you were finally diagnosed with “unexplained infertility?” Would you resign yourself to a life of loneliness, self-judgment and confusion? Or would you ask yourself, “So now what?” And rediscover life after failed IVF?More From Lana Manikowski:Visit: lanamanikowski.comLi...2023-07-1153 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastFeeling Independent After Fertility Treatment FailThis podcast is gonna be coming out on July 4th and in the United States that is Independence Day. And what I really wanna talk about is feeling independent or free through your fertility journey and maybe the years that have followed since. So, in full disclosure, I recorded a different episode yesterday. I had my hair and makeup done. I looked glorious. And then when I went to go edit the podcast, I realized that I had my microphone. On mute. So if you're watching me on YouTube, this is me, fresh outta bed, no makeup...2023-07-0414 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastFeeling in AlignmentI wanted to tell you about a resource that I have available that is free for you. Anyone who is looking to love their life again and feel as though they wake up every day feeling connected to who they are and feeling more connected to this new reality of maybe being childless, not by choice or navigating the feelings that come along with realizing that motherhood just might not be in the cards for you. I created The Guide to Loving Your Life Again. It's about a three page free workbook. That helped me a lot, a...2023-06-2211 min
Not Cha Momma PodGlowing with Lana ManikowskiLana Manikowski is someone the NCMP feels honored to call friend. She joined us to discuss her journey to fulfillment after infertility. Lana, a self described Type A human, thought she could work hard to make her goals happen. Including parenthood. When it was clear it wasn't part of her story, she set that determination into finding a fulfilling life post IVF. Years later, she's turned her passion into a coaching business that allows her to help other women find that same fulfillment through 1:1 and group coaching. She even received national recognition for her Other's Day Brunch. WOW! Talk...2023-06-0834 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastFeeling Invisible After Failed Fertility TreatmentsI hope you're having a beautiful week. Things are just plugging away. There's so much good stuff I wanna tell you about this week, I think I'll start with how exorbitantly appreciative I feel of everybody who has reached out about The Other's Day about how they resonated with the message. People that maybe didn't hear about it before and were just hearing about it for the first time. People who maybe heard about it and weren't able to attend, people who attended in person or at an ambassador event, and I wanna let you know that I am c...2023-05-2414 min
Infertility Crossroads33. Living Child Free After Infertility with Lana ManikowskiLana is a driven and focused woman who didn't have a plan for how she was going to have a family until she met her husband. But their journey towards parenthood wasn't as smooth as they hoped. After 7 long years of trying different things and taking breaks to navigate their next steps, Lana found herself with only one genetically abnormal embryo that they couldn't transfer.
But Lana's story doesn't end there. She's sharing her experience of navigating the tough decision of choosing to live child free after infertility.
It's not an easy decision to make...2023-05-0138 min
The Fertility Conversations PodcastThe Power of Coaching with Lana ManikowskiWelcome to another episode of Fertility Conversations
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Today, we are joined by Lana Manikowski https://www.instagram.com/lana.manikowski/
Lana joins us from the United States to share her fertility journey which included 7 IUI cycles and 4 IVF Cycles. Lana is now Childless Not by Choice.
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She is an Infertility Advocate and Life Coach and the host of the "So Now What" Podcast available on all podcast apps.
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Lana is keen to raise awareness about the possibility of thriving after infertility and living a fulfilling li...2023-04-0830 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastEpisode 80 How Are you Coming Along?We just finished a really fun time in my sales organization - I had a great quarter at work and I feel really proud of where I am. I had my final interview for the job that I've been interviewing for, so I will keep you posted when I find out if I get the job, but either way….it felt really good to want something and really desire for movement in my life and take more of an inventory of what I've accomplished and, um, that's what I wanna talk about today. Let’s talk...2023-04-0408 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastHandling Baby Shower InvitesHey, beautiful one. I have this YouTube channel up and bumpin, so if you haven't checked it out yet, go to YouTube and search for Lana.Mankowski. On YouTube and if you would just give it a follow, I would so appreciate it. That way more women like us can find each other and create bonds and create a community that I know I so needed when my fertility journey ended and I didn't become a mom. Hopefully you get something every week out of this podcast, so you following the channel will help other women like u...2023-02-2112 min
We're Not KiddingSurviving the Holidays with Lana ManikowskiIn this special holiday episode, Lana Manikowski shares tips for navigating those dreaded questions over the holidays.
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Lana Manikowski is a fertility survivor, dog mom, and life coach for women looking to create meaningful lives without motherhood. In this episode, she shares how she came to love her life without kids and how she helps clients do the same.
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Podcast: The So Now What Podcast
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2022-12-1844 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastWhat Do You Desire Most? You are listening to the So now what podcast with Lana Mankowski, episode number 65. So now what These three words raced through my mind time and time again during my journey through fertility treatments. I tried desperately to have a child, but never was able. I yearned for a community to join that could understand my struggles. I couldn't find one, so I created one with the So now what podcast? I love that you found us. Hello, beautiful one. It is so crazy to think that we are just a few weeks nearing the end of th...2022-12-1410 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastChildless Around the HolidaysAre you starting to get these holiday blues that just seem to be inevitable this time of year? Cause if you are, you are in the right place. I am going to be doing a deep dive into the holidays, and I'm going to start off this week by talking about the holidays more on the podcast, but I'm also going to be hosting a free call this coming Saturday November 19th at 11:00 AM Central and the reason I decided to put this call together is because I know so many of us in the infertility community, we see th...2022-11-1515 min
Friends With FertilityBeautiful Childless Life After Failed IVFs with Lana ManikowskiIn this week’s episode of the Pretty Little Tribe Podcast, we are joined by Lana Manikowski. After 7 years of fertility treatments and a lifetime of dreaming of motherhood, Lana Manikowski was presented with the realization that she would not be a mom. The years that followed were full of loneliness, self-judgment and confusion about living a childless life. Lana yearned to connect to a community of infertile women to grow past this together. When she couldn’t find one, she created one with Stitch Coaching and The “So Now What?” Podcast. Lana is a...2022-07-0834 min
Infertility And Me: Stories of Infertility Survivors, IVF, & TTCI feared being Childless after infertility w/ Lana ManikowskiHas IAM podcast helped you? If so, please leave a 5 star Rating & Review on Apple iTunes or Spotify—just one sentence helps tremendously!Does the thought of walking away childless frighten you? Do you avoid the discussion of being childless with your spouse? Our guest, Lana Manikowski, shares her story about how she spent a lifetime dreaming of motherhood. After seven years of various fertility treatments, Lana realized that she could not have children. The following years were full of loneliness, self-judgment, and confusion about living a childless life. Lana yearned to connect to a com...2022-07-0532 min
Happy and ChildlessLana Manikowski : Changing Beliefs to Create a Life Full of Love and HappinessLana Manikowski is a fertility survivor, dog mum and guide to women looking to create meaningful lives without motherhood. Lana is living proof that you can indeed be "Happy and Childless" and she is sharing tips and techniques which she used to help others. This is centred around practising self awareness and deliberate thinking.In this episode we chat about the things which helped us both and also we address how to better handle the daily triggers which we are faced with.Lana is a true inspiration and her energy is infectious2022-06-0757 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastMoments with My Mentor - An Interview with Corinne CrabtreeAfter multiple IUI and IVF cycles, my weight gain was prominent. Throughout my 7 year journey of medicated cycles, I packed on an extra 25lbs. When my fertility journey ended and I remained childless, my weight gain stuck around. Food became a comfort to me and I used it as a way to ease my sadness and fill time in my day when I was feeling lonely. When I looked in the mirror and saw a body that was broken and figured “why bother”. I gave up my fight for me, but knew I didn’t want to be fat for the res...2022-05-2438 min
Awakening Worth in Childless Women63: How Your Beliefs May Be Keeping You From Loving Your Childless Life with Lana ManikowskiAre you struggling to love your life again as you step onto the childless path? Do you think it's possible that it could be your own beliefs that are getting in the way? My guest on this episode put me in the hotseat and demonstrated how my own beliefs were making me feel triggered and annoyed by my own family.Lana Manikowski is a life coach, specializing in helping childless women rediscover their meaning and build a future they truly love. She endured a 7 year journey through infertility, at the end of which she was presented with the...2022-05-0557 minIVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" PodcastThoughts on Handling a Childless Mother's DayHello beautiful people with Mother's Day going on May 1 In the UK, and on May 8 here in the United States, there are a ton of emotions coming up for those of us in the infertility community. And I know for me that there is this jolt, I feel when I'm walking through a grocery store or through Target or, you know, driving down the street and seeing ads that pop up on billboards. And I feel this jolt in my body when I walked down the aisle, for example, in Target and I am getting close to the greeting...2022-05-0312 min
The PathA Guide To Discovering The True Meaning Of Life with Infertility Survivor - Lana Manikowski of Stitch Coaching & Host of The “So Now What?” PodcastSend us a textFor many couples looking to start a family, the CDC states about 6% of married women aged 15 to 49 years are unable to get pregnant after one year of trying and 14% have difficulty getting pregnant or carrying a pregnancy to term. In today’s episode, Lana Manikowski Founder of Stitch Coaching and Host of The “So Now What?” Podcast and I discussed her journey of infertility and what she discovered that caused her to build a coaching practice. Lana's practice is missioned to not only help infertility survivors, but anyone who is looking to “Disc...2022-03-241h 07