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SOFT x SAVAGEEp. 179: This One Belief Almost Killed My Business… and My RelationshipI built a brand off being the woman who could do it all.But behind the scenes? I was unraveling.This episode unpacks the silent belief that high-achieving women carry: “If I don’t hold it all together, everything will fall apart.”The belief that made me feel like I had to be the glue, the power source, the planner, the softness, the strategy—and never slip.And how letting go of that belief saved my business, my relationship, and my nervous system.2025-07-2827 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 178: Authenticity Series #9— Be Her Now: How to Build a Brand That Breathes YouIf you’ve been waiting to “arrive” before showing up fully—this episode is your wake-up call.In the final episode of the Authenticity Series, we’re talking about what it really means to become the woman your brand is built for. Not six months from now. Not after the next launch. Now.This episode dives into the real reason your brand might feel disjointed, why content feels like effort instead of embodiment, and how to stop creating from who you think you need to be—and start leading from who you already are.Inside thi...2025-07-2518 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 177: Authenticity Series #8— How Discipline Builds Authority: The Secret to Consistent, Magnetic AuthenticityYou want to be seen as an authentic, powerful leader?Then consistency has to become your spiritual practice.In Episode 8 of the Authenticity Series, we’re unpacking the real reason your content might feel ungrounded, inconsistent, or like it isn’t building real traction—even when it’s good. Spoiler: it’s not your voice… it’s your follow-through.Inside this episode:Why authenticity without consistency creates chaos instead of credibilityHow discipline becomes your deepest form of self-trust—and audience trustWhat your b...2025-07-2318 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 176: Authenticity Series #7— Stop Trying to Be Someone New: Double Down on What Already WorksHigh-achieving women, this one’s for you.You’ve built success by being yourself—by showing up real, raw, and aligned.But now that you're reaching for the next level, you’re feeling the pressure to become someone new in order to belong in “higher” rooms.This episode is your reminder:You don’t need to reinvent yourself.You need to double down on the 20% of your authentic expression that created 80% of your results.In Episode 7 of the Authenticity Series, we’re...2025-07-2113 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 175: Authenticity Series #6— The #1 Thing Holding Back Your Income in 2025 (And How to Fix It Fast)You don’t need a brand overhaul, a rebrand, or a 17-step content plan to make more money.You need alignment, embodiment, and a message that actually moves.In Episode 6 of the Authenticity Series, we’re breaking down the real reason your content hasn’t translated to cash—and what shifts will unlock your most profitable, ease-filled season yet.Inside this episode:Why now is the moment to activate your next income level (not wait until Q4 panic hits)The #1 content shift that builds trust an...2025-07-1820 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 174: Authenticity Series #5— The Energetic Shift That Makes Your Content Land With Power + EaseIf you’ve ever wondered why some content lands effortlessly—while yours feels like it’s trying too hard or falling flat—this is the energetic reframe you didn’t know you needed.In Episode 5 of the Authenticity Series, we’re diving into the subtle but powerful difference between creating content to be seen… and creating content to expand others.You’ll learn:The exact energetic shift that transforms your content from “trying” to transmittingHow to create from overflow instead of performanceWhy sharing from who...2025-07-1617 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 172: Authenticity Series #3 — The Most Common Authenticity MistakesThink you’re being “authentic” online—but it’s not landing, converting, or building real trust?In this episode of the Authenticity Series, we’re calling out the most common mistakes creators make when trying to be real—including the ones that look like vulnerability but actually repel your audience.Inside this episode:Why oversharing can damage your brand more than staying silentThe subtle ways we manipulate with emotion (and call it “being real”)How performative authenticity blocks true authority and connectionThe energetic difference between storytelling vs. story spilling2025-07-1117 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 171: Authenticity Series #2 — 3 Ways to Show Up Authentically Without Losing AuthorityCan you be real without losing your edge?In this second episode of the Authenticity Series, we’re diving into three powerful ways to show up online with rawness and respect—so your content builds trust, connection, and converts.You’ll learn:The difference between empowered authenticity vs. emotional dumpingHow to lead without overexplaining, oversharing, or losing your credibilityWhy your presence—not your perfection—is what builds your brandIf you’ve ever wondered how to share your truth without “doing too much,” this episode is your...2025-07-0917 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 170: Authenticity Series #1: How to Build an Authentic Brand That Converts in 2025What does it really mean to be authentic online—and why is it the most important strategy for building trust and making sales in 2025?In this kickoff episode of the Authenticity Challenge, I’m breaking down the shift happening in the online space and why your audience is no longer responding to polished, performative content. You'll learn:Why authenticity is your biggest conversion tool this yearHow to build a personal brand that feels real and respectedThe difference between sharing for validation vs...2025-07-0720 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 169: Busy But Not Productive? Body Talk, Womb Wisdom, and Real Feminine Power w/ Sheina RaskinYou can manifest all day and build a stunning brand... but if your body doesn’t feel safe holding more? It’ll block the expansion.In this raw and powerful episode, I sit down with somatic business coach, embodiment expert, and 7-figure mama Sheina Raskin (@sheinaraskin), founder of the Body Talk movement. She scaled her business while pregnant — not by hustling harder, but by deeply trusting her body.If you’re a high-achieving woman, coach, creative entrepreneur, or online business owner feeling stuck at an income plateau or craving more eas...2025-06-3039 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 168: The Secret to Scaling Without Burning Out or Starting OverThis episode is for the woman who’s been doing the work, showing up, and still feels like the momentum dried up—and knows deep down it’s because she’s no longer available for building from a version of herself that no longer fits.If you’ve been wondering why the content hits different, the sales slowed down, or the offers feel off—it’s not because the business is broken. It’s because you’ve changed. And now, everything else has to shift to match her.You’ll hear about:Th...2025-06-2327 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 167: Reigniting Your Spark When Business Feels OffYou were her. You are her.But somewhere along the way—between the pivot, the pressure, and the pause—you started to question it.In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the messy middle:That uncomfortable season when your confidence takes a hit, your brand feels like a stranger, and showing up online feels like a chore. This one’s for the women who’ve already been powerful, already seen success—but secretly wonder if they’ve lost their edge.We talk about...2025-06-1628 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 166: Stop Trying to Be Who You Were: The Identity Shift That Prepares You for MoreThis episode is for the woman who’s already done the work. She’s healed, built, and manifested what she once prayed for. But now, she’s standing in the in-between—no longer who she was, not yet fully stepped into who she’s becoming.In this conversation, I open up about the identity shift I’ve been walking through—specifically in motherhood—but this isn’t just about becoming a mom. It’s about becoming the version of yourself that can actually hold the life, love, and legacy you’ve been asking for.If you...2025-06-0921 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 165: How to Stay Soft While Leading Like a Savage: Feminine Balance for Type-A High-Achieving WomenEver felt like you’re sprinting full-speed towards your goals, building your empire, but losing touch with the feminine softness that makes you magnetic? In this episode, I dive deep into how to balance your feminine energy and ambition as a high-achieving woman.You’ll discover:How to regulate your nervous system so you don’t just survive your savage season—you thrive in it.My daily practices for staying feminine and soft while running a business and leading powerfully.Why integrating softness isn’t about slowing down—it’s about a...2025-06-0225 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp 164: Stop Feeling Icky About Sales: How to Build Systems That Feel Like YouMost high-achieving women don’t struggle with sales because they lack strategy.They struggle because their sales systems don’t match their power—or their lifestyle.In this episode, Laura unpacks how to build sales systems that don’t just support your business—they feel like a natural extension of you. Systems that amplify your feminine energy, your leadership, and your next-level vision—so you’re not just selling, you’re leading with conviction.If you’re a multi-6-figure coach, course creator, or visionary woman scaling to 7 figures while balancing motherho...2025-05-2619 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 163: The Part of You That’s Resisting Is the Part That’s About to DieIn this soul-shaking, permission-giving episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) breaks down the truth about resistance—the kind that doesn’t scream “fear,” but quietly holds powerful women back from their next level.Broadcasting from the deep end of identity shifts and sacred recalibration, Laura peels back the layers on what resistance actually means when you’re scaling a legacy—not just chasing success. If you’ve ever felt stuck, swirling, or like you’re one decision away from breaking through (but keep hesitating)… this one’s going to hit different.Because the part of you that’s resisting?It’s...2025-05-1926 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp 162: This Is What Saved My Business When I Ended Up in the Hospital at 26 Weeks Pregnant on BedrestIn this deeply vulnerable and activating episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) shares a behind-the-scenes look into what it truly means to be in your "Soft x Savage" era—especially when life throws curveballs.Broadcasting straight from a hospital room while navigating a high-risk pregnancy, Laura gives us full access to the raw, unfiltered truth about building a sustainable business that holds you—no matter what. This isn’t just a training, it’s a reminder that savage isn't about hustle. It's about support, systems, safety, and surrender.You’ll hear about:2025-05-1223 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 161: The Brutal Truth About Why You’re Stuck (And 4 Ways to Get Your Savage Momentum Back)Most online coaches don’t lose momentum because they’re lazy.They lose it because they abandon the habits that built their first wins.In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamatrin) exposes the real reasons feminine leaders get stuck—and how to rebuild unstoppable momentum that fuels your 6-figure brand, your marketing, and your leadership.If you're scaling your coaching business, growing your authority online, or building a brand that leads with power and purpose, this episode gives you the mindset and structure shifts you need to mov...2025-04-2834 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 160: 0 to Married (and Pregnant) in Under a Year: The Unfiltered Tea You Didn’t Know You Needed With My Hubby Eduardo Gomez Del CasalWhat happens when you trust your healing, lead with your heart, and stop following timelines that were never meant for you?In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) sits down with her husband, Eduardo Gomez Del Casal (@edygomezdelcasal), to spill everything — the real, behind-the-scenes story of how they went from strangers to married, pregnant, and scaling multi-6 figure businesses together, all in under a year.They’re pulling back the curtain on:→ How deep healing prepared them for a relationship of this caliber→ The truth about building a power...2025-04-2158 minSOFT x SAVAGE3 Things You Can Do Today to Manifest Your Dream Life (Without Waiting on Perfect Conditions)Manifestation isn’t magic—it’s movement.If you’re a feminine entrepreneur or online coach scaling to a 6-figure business, this episode breaks down exactly how to align your actions with the identity of the woman who already has what you want.In this conversation, Laura shares the three high-impact shifts she made to manifest a life filled with aligned clients, consistent cash months, and deep personal peace—while building a brand that scales with her, not against her.These are the same moves she...2025-04-1427 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 158: The Pre-Motherhood Structure That Made Me A Multi-6 Figure CEOMost women wait until life forces them to slow down.Laura built a business that could support her before she ever needed the support.In this episode, she pulls back the curtain on the exact structure she implemented before pregnancy—the systems, offers, and identity shifts that allowed her to scale to multi-6 figures without scaling her time.This episode is for the woman who’s already created success, but knows it’s time to scale smarter—not harder.Tune in...2025-04-0719 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 157: 3 Years Ago I Hit Record... Now I Make Money In My Sleep (Here’s What It Took)From a single microphone to a thriving empire— Laura's (@itslaurapatriciamartin) journey over the past three years is nothing short of transformative. In this milestone episode, she takes you behind the scenes, sharing the raw, unfiltered truth about building a six-figure brand while navigating motherhood and the ever-evolving landscape of online coaching.Tune in to discover:The pivotal moments that shaped her entrepreneurial pathStrategies for balancing business growth with personal lifeInsights into scaling an online coaching business beyond six figuresWhether you're an aspiring coach, a seasoned entrepreneur, or someone se...2025-03-3141 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 156: You’re Doing Everything Right… So Why Aren’t You at $100K Yet?You’ve built the brand.You’ve launched the offers.You’ve done the inner work and invested in the strategy…So why does six figures still feel just out of reach?In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) breaks down the real reason high-level online coaches and service providers stay stuck at the edge of $100K—even when they’re “doing everything right.”She dives into the branding blind spots, marketing mistakes, and energetic misalignments that are slowing your momentum and keeping your content from converting...2025-03-2427 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 154: God as Your Guide in Business & Building a Million-Dollar Movement with Bridget James LingIn this powerhouse episode of SOFTxSAVAGE, Laura sits down with Bridget James Ling, the founder of Freedom Queen, to dive deep into what it really takes to scale a business, build a community that sells your programs for you, and create a movement so magnetic that people become obsessed with your work.They explore:✨ How God as your guide changes the way you run your business, make decisions, and lead with conviction.✨ The secret to scaling without burnout—why so many entrepreneurs stay stuck and how to break...2025-03-1031 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 152: #UNPLUGGED: I'm PREGNANT!! And Stef is now the COO of Deep River Jewelry... Spilling the Tea on the BTSImagine navigating the transformative journey of pregnancy while reinventing your professional identity—what if surrender could be the ultimate power move?In this dynamic episode of Soft x Savage ft #UNPLUGGED with Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) and Stef (@stefanieelsperman), we dive deep into:Identity Shifts: Explore how my pregnancy journey reshaped my sense of self and redefined motherhood.Bold Business Moves: Discover Stef’s inspiring transition as she merges into her man’s business as COO, challenging traditional roles and crafting a new brand narrative.The Art of Surrender: Learn how embracing vulner...2025-02-241h 01SOFT x SAVAGEEp. 149: Creating a Luxury Brand Before You "Have It All"MAGNETIC MESSAGING MASTERMIND IS OPEN! DM FOR THE INVITEIf you’re waiting for the perfect circumstances—more money, the right location, the designer wardrobe—to start showing up as that woman, this episode is your wake-up call. Luxury isn’t a price tag—it’s an energy. It’s how you carry yourself, how you see yourself, and ultimately, how the world sees you.In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) is pulling back the curtain on how she built a high-value brand while starting from less than zero. She’s sharing the ex...2025-02-0339 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 147: Creating an Online Brand That's In A League Of It's Own in 2025In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) gives you an exclusive sneak peek into her latest masterclass, LIBERATED, where she breaks down the creative process behind building a luxury brand that doesn’t just blend in—it commands attention in 2025.
She dives deep into how to create a brand experience that feels premium, magnetic, and impossible to ignore, using strategies that merge intentionality with creative flair. Whether you’re a coach, entrepreneur, or thought leader, this is your guide to standing out in a crowded market and positioning yourself as a category of one.
2025-01-2026 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 145: #UNPLUGGED: We’re Back and Doing Our Year in Review: Magic, Lessons & Bold Intentions for 2025 with Stef ElspermanIn this Unplugged episode, Laura and Stef sit down for a heart-to-heart on the rollercoaster ride that was 2024. Think of it as your backstage pass to the real, raw moments behind the scenes—the wins that made us pop champagne, the lessons that humbled us, and the messy, beautiful in-betweens that shaped this year into one for the books.We’re talking:✨ The surprising highs and unexpected pivots that redefined our vision.✨ What worked, what didn’t, and the tea on the projects we’re leaving behind.2025-01-0645 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 144: Reigniting Your Spark: How to Break Out of a Rut and Step Into Your PowerAPPLY FOR MULTI-6 FIGURE MASTERMIND— Starts in Jan!
Feeling stuck in a rut? You’re not alone—but staying there isn’t an option. In this episode, Laura dives into what it means to lose your spark and how to reignite it with intention. Whether you’re battling burnout, feeling uninspired, or questioning your next move, this episode will help you reconnect with your vision, shake up your routine, and realign your energy. Laura shares her personal strategies for breaking free from monotony, rediscovering joy, and stepping back into your power.
This...2024-12-3036 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 143: Branding Trends to Leave Behind in 2024: Mistakes You Can’t AffordAPPLY FOR MULTI-6 FIGURE MASTERMIND— Starts in Jan!
In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) gets real about the branding trends and mistakes holding you back from stepping into your next-level identity in 2025. From outdated perfectionism and copycat strategies to the harmful effects of surface-level messaging, Laura shares what needs to go—and what to replace it with. Learn how to refine your brand, captivate your audience, and confidently take your business into the new year.
We chat:
Why perfectionism is hurting your brand more than helping.
The dangers of mimicking others instead of own...2024-12-2343 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 142: Why You’re Blocking Your Wealth (and How to Fix It) with Hayley LloydIn this episode, Laura (@Itslaurapatriciamartin) sits down with 7 Figure Business + Authority Mentor Hayley Lloyd (@hayleyjunelloyd) to explore the powerful dynamics of inner authority versus outer authority and how they impact your ability to attract success.
Together, they dive into the hidden manifestation blocks that keep high-achieving women stuck, revealing why so many unintentionally repel the wealth and opportunities they desire.
Tune in to learn how to reclaim your personal power, align with your highest potential, and unlock the financial abundance you’ve been chasing—all by mastering your inner auth...2024-12-1650 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 141: How to Overcome Impostor Syndrome When You're in Rooms with People More Successful Than YouIn this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives into overcoming impostor syndrome when you find yourself in rooms with people more successful than you. She shares powerful mindset shifts that help you ditch the pressure to prove yourself, lean into curiosity, and own your unique value.
You’ll learn how to reframe self-doubt as a sign of growth, use confidence-boosting techniques, and show up with magnetic energy that commands respect.
Laura’s real-life stories and actionable insights will leave you feeling empowered to step into your next-level self and claim your plac...2024-12-0930 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 140: The Identity Shift To Being “That Girl” in 2025This episode isn’t about generic resolutions or fluff—Laura’s (@itslaurapatriciamartin) breaking down the real mindset shift that separates women who dabble from those who dominate.If you’re tired of spinning your wheels and ready to step into the version of yourself that commands the room, scales with ease, and lives fully aligned, this is your episode. Laura shares the unapologetic truth about what it takes to leave your old identity behind and claim your next-level power as we head into 2025.Ready to take it up a notch? C...2024-12-0244 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 139: Attracting Buyers Who Don’t Need a Discount: Premium Strategies for Black Friday and BeyondIn this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives into how to attract premium buyers during the Black Friday frenzy—without slashing your prices or compromising your brand’s value.
You’ll learn the key mindset and messaging shifts that set your business apart, allowing you to connect with high-ticket clients who prioritize quality over discounts.
From creating magnetic offers to positioning yourself as the go-to expert, this episode will show you how to elevate your brand and make sales that feel aligned, even in a season focused on bargains. Ready to refine...2024-11-2532 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 138: From 10th Grade Drop Out to 7 Figures: The Power of Choice Points with Ryann HaloIn this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) and Ryann Halo (@Ryann_Halo) dive into the power of pivotal “choice points” in shaping our journeys. Ryann shares how, with only a 10th-grade education, she faced a critical decision: let her circumstances define her or rise above them to create something impactful.
Together, Laura and Ryann explore how choosing to overcome adversity and channel resilience into service can lay the foundation for success in both love and business. This conversation is a powerful reminder that our toughest moments can become the catalyst for building something extraordinary when approached with...2024-11-1840 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 137: Grief, Growth, and Grace: What I’ve Learned Since Losing My Mother to AddictionIn this powerful episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) opens up about the journey she’s walked in the ten years since losing her mother to addiction, sharing ten life-changing lessons that explore healing, forgiveness, and self-compassion. She reflects on how this loss has transformed her perspective on trauma and fueled her mission to empower high-achieving women to embrace their whole selves, even through pain.Each lesson reveals growth and strength, reminding listeners that even the deepest losses can shape us into resilient leaders. Tune in for a raw, inspiring conversation on moving from heartbreak to healing, em...2024-11-1142 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 135: How to Show Up When You’re Going Through A Hard TimeIn this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives into how to show up even when you're having a tough time, emphasizing the importance of leaning on support systems when your brain isn't giving you an accurate picture. She highlights the power of setting non-negotiables, doing just what's necessary, and nothing more.
Laura also reminds listeners to compartmentalize and focus on their "why" during challenging times, practicing patience and grace since your prefrontal cortex may not be fully engaged. Lastly, she touches on the value of funnels in maintaining momentum and automating processes, even when personal energy...2024-10-2837 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 134: Unplugged: Life Updates // Navigating Identity Shifts, Leaving the Coaching Bubble, Stef's Engagement, & I'm Moving to CT?!In this Unplugged episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) and Stef (@stefanieelsperman) dive into some big life updates, including navigating major identity shifts as they both step outside of the traditional coaching bubble and into new phases of life.
They reflect on how leaving the familiar world of coaching has reshaped their sense of self and purpose, with Stef sharing exciting details about her engagement and how this has impacted her personal journey.
Meanwhile, Laura is toying with the idea of moving to a smaller town… and they explore how these transitions ha...2024-10-2138 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 133: How to Become a Showstopper in Business And Build a Scalable Brand That Thrives Offline With Kara FillionIn this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) sits down with Kara (@karafillion , the powerhouse behind the global Showstoppers movement, to explore the mindset and strategies behind building a profitable, scalable brand that allows women to live life on their terms. Kara shares her journey to generating over $1 million in revenue while traveling to 28 countries and empowering thousands of women to create iconic businesses.
Together, they dive into how to balance scaling a brand with living fully offline, embracing freedom through systems, and unlocking the inner showstopper that every woman holds within. This conversation is packed with...2024-10-1439 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 132: The Secrets Behind Crushing Business and Love in the Same YearIn this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) shares powerful secrets that have transformed both her business and personal life in the past year. From mastering clear messaging, automation, and organic marketing to scaling a multi six-figure brand, she reveals key business strategies that helped her stand out and thrive.
On the personal side, Laura opens up about how balancing masculine drive with feminine energy, setting boundaries, and trusting divine timing led her to finding love while building her empire. Whether you're looking to scale your business or attract a fulfilling relationship, these game-changing insights will help...2024-10-0738 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 131: The #1 Branding Mistake Keeping You Small (And How to Fix It)In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives into the #1 branding mistake that’s keeping you small—trying to appeal to everyone, which leads to confusing and diluted messaging. She shares her personal journey of overcoming this mistake and how shifting to clear, consistent positioning transformed her brand and business.
You’ll also hear a real-life case study of a client who broke free from this trap and scaled her business by narrowing her focus. Laura wraps up with actionable tips on how to fix this mistake, attract the right clients, and start scaling. Plus, she introd...2024-09-3042 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 130: Rebuilding Your Marriage and Inspiring His Leadership With Julie TranIn this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) sits down with Julie Tran (@leadwithjulietran) to dive deep into the art of inspiring him to rise into his masculinity and become the leader your marriage needs. Julie shares her personal journey of choosing to stay in her marriage instead of opting for divorce, revealing how she found power in repairing the relationship and rebuilding it from the ground up.Together, they discuss the profound impact a woman can have when she steps into her feminine strength, fostering the change that reignites passion, restores trust, and transforms the very...2024-09-2347 min
Healing With The Holy SpiritCreating Rock-Solid Female Friendships as a Powerful Woman with Laura Patricia MartinIn this engaging episode, I dive into a heartfelt conversation with Laura Patricia Martin about the importance of authentic female friendships. We explore how to pursue and deepen connections with other women, the significance of open-heartedness and vulnerability, and how to overcome the fear of rejection.
Laura shares practical insights on balancing different roles in relationships and the necessity of creating intentional female friendships that support our growth and happiness. Tune in for a relatable and inspiring discussion on building a supportive community of women around you.
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2024-09-1959 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 129: Unlocking Authenticity: The Key to Attracting High-Ticket Clients AND LoveIn this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives deep into how showing up authentically online can transform not only your business but also your relationships. You’ll learn the power of vulnerability, the importance of aligning your brand with your true self, and three practical steps to start embracing authenticity today.
By dropping the masks and sharing your real story, you’ll naturally attract the high-value clients and love you desire—without sacrificing who you are. Tune in as Laura reveals how authenticity is your secret weapon for success in every area of life.
2024-09-1655 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 128: Separation Season: Stop Hiding and Chase Your DreamsIIn this episode of Unleash Your Potential: Stop Hiding and Chase Your Dreams, host Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives deep into why so many high-achievers hold back from their true desires, often staying hidden from their full potential. Laura unpacks the common fears that keep us stuck, the costs of playing small, and how bold, imperfect action can unlock life-changing opportunities.
Through personal stories and actionable steps, she delivers a powerful call to action, inspiring listeners to stop hiding and finally pursue the dreams they’ve been holding back.
Make sure you su...2024-09-0936 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 127: The Feminine-Masculine Balance in High-Value Relationships: How to Maintain Success in Business While Thriving in LoveIn this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives deep into the delicate dance between feminine and masculine energies, exploring how high-achieving women can successfully balance these forces to thrive in both business and love.
She breaks down the significance of each energy, how imbalances can affect both professional success and romantic fulfillment, and provides actionable strategies for maintaining harmony in your relationships and career.
Whether you’re looking to strengthen your connection with your partner or bring more creativity and intuition into your business, this episode offers essential insights and practical ti...2024-09-0241 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 126: #Unplugged: Releasing Control, Ego Deaths, and Surrendering to the Unknown in Business & Relationships With Stef ElspermanIn this episode of #UNPLUGGED, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) and Stef (@stefanieelsperman) dive deep into the challenges of releasing control in love and leadership, particularly for high-performing women. They explore the fear of love slipping away and how this manifests in relationships, business, and personal growth.With candid insights, they discuss the importance of surrender, vulnerability, and holding space for both themselves and their partners. Laura opens up about the ego death she faces while supporting her boyfriend's brand, sharing the struggles of balancing her independence with her role in his business. Stef contributes her own...2024-08-261h 12SOFT x SAVAGEEp. 125: How Support Your Nervous System During A Transition SeasonIn this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives into the essential strategies for supporting your nervous system during life's inevitable transition seasons. Whether you're navigating a career change, a relationship shift, or a personal transformation, we’ll explore practical tools rooted in somatic therapy and neuroscience to help you stay grounded and resilient.Learn how to recognize and respond to the stress signals your body sends, cultivate self-compassion, and create a nurturing environment that empowers you to thrive even amidst uncertainty.Tune in to equip yourself with the knowledge and practices to...2024-08-1943 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 124: The KEY to Your Money Expansion With Lauren PlanteIn this captivating episode, Laura(@itslaurapatriciamartin) sits down with Money Empowerment Queen Lauren Plante (@lauplante) to unlock the secrets to expanding your wealth and achieving financial freedom.Together, they dive into practical strategies and mindset shifts that high-achieving women can implement to elevate their financial game. With a blend of insightful advice, personal anecdotes, and actionable tips, Laura and Lauren reveal how to break through financial barriers, attract abundance, and step into a more prosperous and empowered version of yourself.Tune in to discover the key to your money...2024-08-1257 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 123: Part Three: The Mistakes You’re Making With Your Personal BrandIn this eye-opening episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) delves into the six common mistakes that many high-achieving women make when building their personal brands.
From inconsistent messaging and neglecting authentic storytelling to underestimating the power of visual identity, these pitfalls can hinder your brand's effectiveness and impact. Laura gives you the roadmap to navigate these challenges, ensuring your personal brand resonates deeply, commands attention, and attracts high-value opportunities.
Tune in to transform your personal brand and step into your most powerful self.
Make sure you subscribe...2024-08-051h 13SOFT x SAVAGEEp. 122: Part Two: Using the BOLD METHOD to Elevate Your Personal BrandLaura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives into the transformative power of the BOLD METHOD to elevate your personal brand.
Building on the insights from Part 1, she shares actionable strategies to help you identify and showcase your unique strengths, refine your brand's voice, and enhance your online presence.
Whether you're an entrepreneur, coach, or creative professional, Laura's expertise will guide you in cultivating a magnetic persona that resonates with your audience and commands attention.
This episode is packed with valuable tips to help you stand out and make...2024-07-291h 11SOFT x SAVAGEEp. 121: Part One: Uncover The Energetic Shift Needed to Position Yourself as an Industry LeaderIn this episode, Laura (@laurapatriciamartin) unpacks the transformative power of aligning your personal energy with your professional aspirations, highlighting how embodying confidence, clarity, and authenticity can magnetize high-caliber opportunities and networks.
Laura shares actionable insights on recalibrating your mindset and presence to resonate deeply with your target audience, ultimately positioning yourself as a compelling, influential leader in your industry.
Tune in to discover how these energetic shifts can revolutionize not just your brand, but your entire professional trajectory.
Make sure you subscribe for new...2024-07-221h 02SOFT x SAVAGEEp. 120: #UNPLUGGED: When To Rest Vs. 'Power Through' As An Entrepreneur With StefLaura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) and Stef (@stefanieelsperman) delve into the psychological triggers behind self-sabotage and offer actionable strategies to overcome these barriers.
Through captivating stories and expert insights, Laura and Stef guide high-achieving women on a journey to transform their mindsets, boost their confidence, and align their actions with their ambitious goals.
Tune in to discover how to break free from self-defeating patterns and step into your full potential as a powerful, unstoppable entrepreneur.
Make sure you subscribe for new episodes every Monday!
2024-07-1548 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 119: Be The CEO of Your Body With Emily BostinIn this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) sits down with Emily Bostin (@endocrinenutritionist), an esteemed endocrine specialist, to explore the transformative concept of becoming the CEO of your body.
Emily delves into the critical importance of understanding and optimizing our endocrine health to function at peak capacity, both personally and professionally.
From strategic nutrition and hormonal balance to the science of stress management, Emily provides actionable insights and practical tips to help you take charge of your well-being.
Discover how mastering your physical and mental health...2024-07-0848 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 118: High-Performance Habits for a Summer Glow UpIn this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives into the essential habits that can 10x your summer, transforming it from a season of self-destruction to one of speeding up… without you even needing to really do much else other than be more intentional with how you’re using your time.
Laura shares practical tips and strategies to harness the summer energy, ensuring you glow up both personally and professionally.
Whether you're looking to elevate your business, enhance your productivity, or simply stay motivated, this episode will provide you with the blueprint to m...2024-07-0137 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 117: THROUGH THE MALE LENS: What Men Really Look For When Committing with Michael PerezIn this riveting episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) sits down with Michael Perez (@Michaelperez) to uncover the often-misunderstood intricacies of male commitment. Delving into what men truly seek when they decide to commit.
Michael and Laura explore the psychological, emotional, and practical aspects that influence a high-value man's decision to take the plunge. From the importance of emotional safety and shared values to the role of physical attraction and life goals, this conversation is packed with insights that will transform your understanding of male commitment.
Tune in to discover how to...2024-06-241h 01SOFT x SAVAGEEp. 116: The 2 Things I Did This Year That Completely Shifted My Dating Life & My Bank AccountIn this captivating episode of Healing to Happy, Laura (@ItsLauraPatriciaMartin) shares the two transformative actions that revolutionized her dating life and skyrocketed her bank account.
With her signature blend of Soft x Savage, she dives deep into the strategies that not only magnetized a high-value man but also significantly increased her financial success.
Through personal anecdotes and actionable insights, Laura guides high-achieving women to replicate these powerful shifts in their own lives, demonstrating how embracing these changes can lead to profound personal and professional growth.
2024-06-1739 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 115: #Unplugged: What No One Tells You About Being A High-Performing Woman Dating a Purpose-Driven Man With Stef ElspermanIn this invigorating episode of "UNPLUGGED," Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) and Stef (@stefanieelsperman) dive deep into the world of high-achieving women who are navigating the dating scene with men in leadership roles. They peel back the curtain on the rarely discussed complexities and unique challenges these women face. From balancing power dynamics and maintaining authenticity to navigating the expectations and pressures of dating someone at the top of their game, Laura and Stef offer their seasoned insights and practical advice.
Tune in as they reveal the unspoken truths and empower listeners to find love that complements—no...2024-06-1057 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 114: The Key To Your Next Level of Success Lies in Building Your Personal Brand. Here’s Where To StartIn this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) unpacks why personal branding is the secret sauce to success in both your dating life and marketing. The world is smart nowadays.. and they search you online before they commit. Learn how crafting a powerful personal brand can magnetize high-value partners and elevate your professional presence. We'll delve into actionable insights and real-life examples, revealing how authenticity, confidence, and strategic self-presentation can transform your relationships and career.
Tune in to uncover the secrets to becoming a compelling presence that naturally attracts and retains the high-caliber connections and opportunities you...2024-06-0342 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp: 113: THE MALE LENS: The Male Perspective on Becoming More Feminine to Attract a Masculine Partner with Zane FoyIn this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) sits down with Zane Foy (@zanefoyofficial) to dive deep into the dynamics of trust in relationships. They explore how trusting men affects the relationship, how men perceive it, and ways to rebuild broken trust.
Zane shares insights on becoming more vulnerable, choosing the right partner, and creating a safe space for your partner to open up. They also discuss the cadence of early-stage dating, providing actionable tips for fostering genuine connections from the start.
Make sure you subscribe for new episodes every Monday!
2024-05-2755 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 112: The SOFT x SAVAGE: The Key To Attracting Leaders Into Your LifeIn this empowering episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives into the internal conflict many women face after distancing themselves from hustle culture.
You've found a semblance of peace in your softer side, yet you can't shake the envy and frustration when you see other women thriving in their careers and relationships. They seem to have it all—the spark, purpose, and extraordinary partnerships. You're left wondering if you could be doing more, yet you fear that reigniting your driven, "savage" side might compromise your newfound serenity. But what if the real solution isn't about choosing one ov...2024-05-2040 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 111: UNPLUGGED: LIES About Friendships As A CEO And The Truth You Need To Hear With Laura & StefIn this UNPLUGGED episode, join Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) and Stef (@stefanieelsperman) as they revisit the unforgettable moments from their recent mastermind girls' weekend. They explore deep themes of sisterhood and the transformative power of play. Laura and Stef reveal how breaking free from societal labels—whether as an authority, CEO, partner, or any other role—unlocks something truly wild that impacts every other area of your life.. the area you’re looking to really crack the code on.
They're sharing their secrets on how embracing a completely unhinged approach can lead to more fun, increased wealth...2024-05-131h 10SOFT x SAVAGEEp. 110: Rewiring Romance: The Power of NLP in Your Love Life with Brenda AmielIn this transformative episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) and Brenda Amiel (@brenda.amiel) delve into the power of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and how it can revolutionize your dating life. We begin by unpacking what NLP is and its incredible benefits in nurturing healthier relationships. With a focus on the subconscious mind, we explore how unnoticed patterns might be sabotaging your romantic connections and how NLP, coupled with hypnosis, can offer a breakthrough.
We also tackle the common scenario of prioritizing business over personal life, discussing what true sacrifice means when striving to have it all. Furthermore...2024-05-0645 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 109: Why “If He Wanted To He Would” Is Sh*tty Dating AdviceIn this episode, Laura (@Itslaurapatriciamartin) challenges the popular dating adage by delving into the role of vulnerability in forging genuine connections. She argues that the often-quoted phrase overlooks the nuances of modern dating culture, which tends to favor avoidance over depth.
Laura offers a fresh perspective with practical strategies for showing your true self, thereby inviting more meaningful efforts from potential partners. Through real-life examples from her coaching practice, she illustrates how breaking down emotional barriers can transform casual dates into potential life partnerships.
Tune in to learn how...2024-04-2950 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 108: Accessing Your Akashic Records To Turn Up The Heat In Your Dating Life With Mari LeighIn this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) and Mari Leigh (@marileighb) discuss the powerful role of spiritual healing techniques in overcoming personal trauma and enhancing self-awareness. Mari, a devoted coach and healer, empowers individuals to break free from cycles of trauma and embrace transformative healing.
Leveraging a unique blend of techniques, including Akashic Records access, quantum energy work, subconscious reprogramming, and somatic therapy, she guides clients toward connecting with their higher selves and actualizing their desired life changes. Whether it's overcoming the scars of bullying, enhancing intuitive abilities, or navigating the complexities of religious trauma, Mari's...2024-04-2247 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 107: Is That 10 Point Checklist Of Your “Dream Man” Keeping You From Actually Attracting Him?In a thought-provoking episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) challenges the conventional wisdom of the 10-point "Dream Man" checklist that many women use to navigate the dating world. She posits that this checklist might be more of a barrier than a bridge to finding genuine love and connection.
Laura expertly blends insights from neuroscience, psychology, and somatic attachment therapy to demonstrate how these lists can limit openness to unexpected yet deeply compatible partners.
By encouraging listeners to shift their focus from seeking perfection to fostering personal growth and recognizing core values, Laura...2024-04-1550 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 106: The Power Of Female Friendships with Theadora VosseAre you looking to uplevel your friendships this season? We got you! In this insightful episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) and Theadora Vosse explore how to make and keep strong friendships among women. They talk about how important it is to understand and respect each other and how much effort it takes to keep friendships going.
The episode shares lessons on why working together is better than competing and discusses the challenges of helping friends grow with you. It also talks about the importance of supporting women who are different from you, looking at friendships from...2024-04-0851 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 105: 5 Ways You’re Repelling Masculine MenIn this engaging episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) delves into common mistakes that high-performing women make that are pushing men away instead of magnetizing them in.
She goes beyond the typical “be more feminine” and gets into the nitty-gritty of what high-value men really what and how to start bringing into your life today.
This episode is perfect for listeners looking to refine their approach to dating, ensuring they're not just attracting, but magnetizing the right kind of partner.
It's a transformative listen for anyone ready to n...2024-04-0152 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 104: #UNPLUGGED: Being Too Much Is Your Super Power With Stefanie ElspermanIn the empowering episode titled "Being Too Much is Your Super Power," Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) and Stefanie Elsperman (@stefanieelsperman) dive deep into the narrative that society often labels ambitious and strong-willed women as "too much."
This dynamic conversation challenges the conventional wisdom, advocating that what is deemed excessive—be it passion, emotion, ambition, or assertiveness—is, in fact, a woman's greatest asset.
They argue that the #prehousewifeera method & #prepszn are not about dimming your light but rather shining it more brightly to magnetize those who appreciate the full spectrum of your...2024-03-2548 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 103: The Missing Link in Your Dating Life: What Every High-Value Woman Needs to KnowIn this eye-opening episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives deep into the crucial insights and strategies that transform your approach to dating and relationships. If you've ever found yourself wondering why, despite all your personal growth and success, attracting high-value men seems like a puzzle you can't solve, this is the episode for you.
Laura explores the often-overlooked factors that make the difference between a good date and a life-changing connection. From aligning your vibrational energy to practical steps for putting yourself in the path of potential partners who meet your standards, she covers the holistic...2024-03-1844 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 102: Male Perspective: Navigating Purpose, Faith, and Dating With Colton DalyLaura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) sits down with Colton Daly (@coltonmdaly), a Professional Life Coach known for guiding leaders to embrace their greatness and realize their full potential.
Together, they delve into the intricacies of male perspectives and relationship dynamics, exploring themes such as choosing purpose over love, understanding what men truly desire, and the importance of both genders doing the work necessary for growth. They discuss the critical role women play in supporting men, especially in overcoming deep-seated issues like the father wound, and strategies for women to be supportive partners to high-value men.
2024-03-111h 01SOFT x SAVAGEEp. 101: How To Show Up Consistently To Avoid Burn OutIn this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives into the art of balancing ambition with self-care. With her signature blend of personal experience, neuroscience, and somatic practices, Laura shares transformative insights on how to sustain your drive without sacrificing your well-being.
Discover practical strategies for setting meaningful boundaries, recognizing your limits, and nurturing your energy.
This episode is a call to action for anyone looking to thrive in their personal and professional lives, offering the tools to maintain consistency in showing up for what matters most, while ensuring you stay vibrant...2024-03-0443 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 100: Celebrating 100 Episodes with Stef Interviewing Laura on Her Journey Through Heartbreak, Depression, 19k Debt to the Rich LifeIn this milestone 100th episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) has her best friend, Stef Elsperman (@stefanieelsperman), crack her open and share things she’s never shared publically since growing this brand over 100 episodes.
From grappling with the depths of heartbreak and depression to facing the daunting challenge of $19,000 in debt, we explore the pivotal moments and mindset shifts that led to a WEALTHY life, not just financially but from the inside out.
This celebration is more than a reflection; it's an invitation to witness the raw, unfiltered essence of overcoming adversity an...2024-02-2654 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 99: Build Your Personal Brand Like Your Dating Profile To Attract High-Value Leads (And Men)Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) unveils the secrets to crafting an authentic personal brand that resonates with both your dream clients and romantic interests.
This episode is a treasure trove of insights, blending Laura's deep understanding of human behavior with actionable steps to stand out authentically.
Listeners will learn to communicate their unique values, align their personal and professional lives with their core values, and attract connections that truly reflect their aspirations.
Dive into this episode for a holistic approach to building a life and brand (because...2024-02-1950 minSOFT x SAVAGEEP. 98: Reclaiming Your Sense of Self After Sexual Violence With Alreen Haeggquisn this empowering podcast episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) and Alreen Haeggquis (@alreen), Best Selling Author of “Fired Up: Fueling Triumph from Trauma”, delve into the transformative journey of reclaiming one’s sense of self after sexual violence.
Alreen is a lawyer, survivor of childhood sexual abuse, and fierce advocate for those brave enough to stand up to their abusers in court.
Over the last two decades, Alreen has fought for victims of abuse, harassment, discrimination, retaliation, and fraud in high-profile lawsuits.
Alreen courageously shares her person...2024-02-1242 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 97: Sexual Confidence: How to Build It & How to Show ItIn this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) delves into the sensitive yet crucial topic of reclaiming your voice in the bedroom after experiencing sexual trauma or shame.
She breaks down the complexities of healing and rediscovering one's sexual identity, offering insights on building resilience and fostering a positive self-image.
Join us to explore practical strategies, hear personal stories, and get expert advice to empower you in cultivating a healthy and confident approach to intimacy.
Whether you're on a journey of self-discovery or seeking to support someone...2024-02-0548 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 96: #UNPLUGGED: Prepare For What You’re Praying For With Stef ElspermanThey’re baaaaaack with the monthly #unplugged & unhinged episode! Join hosts Laura (@itslaurapatricamartin) and Stef (@stefanieelsperman) as they delve into their New Year's Eve revelations that have completely transformed their love lives and their businesses through the lens of the #softgirlera… but savage.
The two dive into what it really takes to call in the life you want and how to begin preparing NOW for what you’re praying for.
Tune in for a delightful conversation that combines friendship, spirituality, and the art of cultivating a life that reflects the au...2024-01-291h 23SOFT x SAVAGEEp. 95: Why You Aren’t Getting Results When You’ve Been “Doing The Work”In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) is diving deep into the reasons why you might be feeling stuck despite putting in the work. If you've been hustling on personal growth but not seeing the love life results you desire, or you’ve been posting consistently online and not getting the clients you know would be blessed to work with you… it's time to unravel the mystery.
We're fast-tracking to your desires, addressing the roadblocks that might be keeping you from the fulfilling connections you crave. Get ready for some eye-opening insights and actionable tips to alig...2024-01-2243 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 93: Dating When You Have Past TraumaIn this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) delves into the complexities of navigating relationships while carrying emotional wounds. Exploring the challenges of vulnerability and connection, she uncovers how past traumas shape present experiences in dating.
Join Laura as she discusses the struggle between longing for fulfillment and the fear of enduring further heartache, offering insights on how to approach relationships with empathy, self-care, and a deeper understanding of the lasting impact of trauma on our romantic lives.
Make sure you subscribe for new episodes every Monday!
...2024-01-0846 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 91: My 2023 Biggest Dating Mistakes & What They Taught MeIn this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin), candidly reflects on her dating & #prehousewifeera journey in 2023.
She shares personal experiences and the valuable lessons learned from her biggest dating mistakes. From missteps in communication to misconceptions about compatibility, Laura explores the highs and lows of modern dating so you can learn and not make them yourself ;)
Listeners can expect insightful takeaways and practical advice as she opens up about the challenges and growth that come with the pursuit of meaningful connections in today's dating landscape.
Make sure...2023-12-2539 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 90: #Unplugged & Unhinged: Laura & Stef Tell ALL For This 2023 RecapIn this special episode, join Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) and Stef(@stefanieelsperman) as they sit down to reflect on the transformative moments and impactful trends that defined the past year.
Through laughter, shared experiences, and contemplative moments, Stef and Laura offer a candid and nostalgic journey, encapsulating the essence of the year while exploring the intersection of our individual narratives and the unfolding dynamics of the world around them.
Whether it's personal growth, relationships, or lessons learned in business, this episode paints a vivid picture of the intricate tapestry that was 2023...2023-12-181h 18SOFT x SAVAGEEp. 89: How To Heal Your Fear Of Being Seen So You Can Unblock In Men, Money, & MarketingGet ready to uncover the game-changing insights with Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) as she fearlessly tackles the impact of the fear of being seen has on your love life, prosperity, and joy in the #prehousewifeera.
This episode unearths how this fear disrupts connections with men, abundance, and happiness, while unveiling actionable strategies to clear this hurdle.
Laura's personal anecdotes and practical steps will ignite your journey toward embracing visibility, setting you on a course to break free from fear's grip and unleash the life you've been longing for. Buckle up for...2023-12-1154 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 69: 4 Pillars of Self-Love With Meaghan MoranIn this empowering episode, I have a heart-to-heart conversation with the incredible Meaghan Moran (@meaghan.moran). Together, we delve into the profound impact of our relationship with our bodies on our connections with others. We unveil the transformative power of taming our inner critic, leading to greater self-kindness and love.
Join us on a journey of self-discovery as we explore the path to finding our authentic selves, shedding societal expectations, and embracing our uniqueness. Through the liberating practice of emotional acceptance and body liberation, we unlock the doors to a profound sense of purpose...2023-07-2455 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 68: The Key to Calling in a Masculine Partner & Unlocking the #PreHousewifeEraIn this eye-opening episode, I (@itslauraapatriciamartin) explore the concept of the #PreHouseWifeEra and its profound impact on attracting a masculine partner and cultivating a healthy relationship.
Through inspiring personal stories and insightful research, we uncover the importance of mindset shifts, re-establishing a relationship with yourself based on TRUE acceptance, and navigating feminine & masculine polarity in fostering thriving dynamics.
Join me as I challenge current societal norms and provide practical guidance for embracing the Pre-Housewife Era, unlocking the key to calling in a masculine partner, and fostering a truly fulfilling relationship in the...2023-07-1745 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 67 #UNPLUGGED: Healing Hearts, Unexpected Moments, and the Power of Play With Stef ElspermanThis week I’m sitting down for our monthly segment on the #UNPLUGGED with my dear friend Stef (@stefanieelsperman) to get raw and real on life lately.
We delve into the significance of unexpected moments in life, exploring how opening our hearts to them can lead to remarkable growth and healing. Moreover, we emphasize the incredible power of play as a healing modality, revealing how incorporating joy and spontaneity into our lives can bring about profound transformations.
Ready to take it a step further and join our Signature Program: Al...2023-07-101h 11SOFT x SAVAGEEp. 65: Amplifying Your True Self in Relationships and Business With Human Design Expert Morgan WhiteleyIn this week's episode, we delve into the world of Human Design and its impact on personal growth, relationships, and business. Our guest expert, Morgan (@morgan.whiteley), provides a comprehensive explanation of Human Design, including its components like centers, gates, channels, and types. We explore the signs of being out of alignment with our design and how Human Design can serve as an amplifier rather than an excuse. Morgan breaks down the different Human Design types, debunks the idea of "fixing" oneself, and emphasizes the power of using , Human Design to expand our true selves. Lastly, we discuss the...2023-06-2653 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 64: Unveiling the Mystery: 3 Reasons Why He's Pulling Away and How to Respond
In this episode, I delve into the common concern of why someone may start pulling away in a relationship. I explore three possible reasons behind this behavior: fear of commitment, personal issues and challenges, and loss of interest or compatibility. By understanding these underlying causes, we gain insight into our partner's mindset.
I then provide practical do's and don'ts for responding effectively. Initiating honest communication, avoiding panic and assumptions, focusing on self-care, refraining from manipulation or ultimatums, and seeking support from trusted confidants are key aspects of navigating this challenging situation.2023-06-1946 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 63: UNPLUGGED: Embracing the Shadows of Success With Stef ElspermanThis week I’m sitting down for our monthly segment on the #UNPLUGGED with my dear friend Stef (@stefanieelsperman) as we explore the darker side of the entrepreneurial mind. We discuss the challenges faced by high achievers and how embracing the dark side is essential for success. Tune in for valuable insights and relatable stories that challenge conventional narratives, and discover a roadmap for finding harmony between light and dark in the pursuit of achievement.
Ready to take it a step further and join our Signature Program: Alchemy of Love? You ca...2023-06-121h 18SOFT x SAVAGEEp. 62: Unbroken: Alchemizing the Journey of Breaking Up, Letting Go, and Moving OnIn this episode of "Unbroken: Embracing the Journey of Breaking Up, Letting Go, and Moving On," I (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dive into the complex and transformative process of navigating relationship endings. We explored the art of breaking up, emphasizing the importance of open communication and respect.
We then delved into the challenging phase of letting go, discussing the significance of self-reflection, healing, and self-care. Moving on was our next focus, where we uncovered the power of personal growth, resilience, and the opportunities that arise from embracing a new life. We also acknowledged the common challenges and...2023-06-0546 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 61: Raising Your Standard: Healing the Father Wound for Authentic Relationships with Nastassia CornettIn this profound episode of "Raising Your Standard" with Nastassia Cornett (@theartofintuition), we delve deep into the realm of healing the father wound as a gateway to finding love. Join us as we explore the intricate dynamics of this emotional wound and its impact on our ability to form meaningful connections with others, especially romantic partnerships. Through heartfelt stories, expert insights, and practical guidance, we uncover the transformative power of healing this crucial aspect of our relationships with men. Discover how embracing our own worth, releasing past hurts, and cultivating a healthy balance of feminine and masculine energies can...2023-05-291h 05SOFT x SAVAGEEp. 60: Navigating Modern Dating Challenges: Ghosting, Communication, and VulnerabilityThis week we delve into the frustrations and realities of dating culture. Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) explores the rise of ghosting and its impact on emotional well-being, highlighting that around 78% of people have either been ghosted or ghosted someone themselves. The episode also addresses choice paralysis caused by the overwhelming number of options on dating platforms and how unrealistic expectations, often fueled by media and social platforms, can lead to disappointment. The lack of clarity and intentionality in modern dating relationships is discussed, along with the breakdowns in communication and the fear of vulnerability that hinder the development of meaningful connections...2023-05-2253 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 59: The Raw Truth of Going From Burnout To Thriving with LindseyIn this week's episode, I'm talking with Lindsey (@thrivewithlindsey), who shares her transformative journey from burnout to thriving. Lindsey courageously discusses the importance of sitting in discomfort as a catalyst for change and growth. She emphasizes how nutrition became her main focus during her recovery, highlighting its significant impact on overall well-being. Lindsey also shares her personal experience of taking a slow pathway back to joy, acknowledging that healing from burnout is a gradual process that requires patience and self-compassion. Throughout the episode, listeners are encouraged to follow Lindsey's journey on Instagram, where she continues to inspire and support...2023-05-1552 min
Connecting the DotsEp. 7 Healing Your Way to Happy with Laura Patricia MartinAre you ready to reflect on the way that you show up in relationships? Get ready because on today’s episode, we chat with Laura Patricia Martin, a Trauma and Relationship Specialist and the Founder of Healing to Happy. We talk to her about all kinds of relationships, the attachment styles, healing trauma, boundaries, communication, and so much more. This conversation is so raw and real, as Laura shares her past experiences and how that led her to help other women heal themselves.Laura Patricia Martin has a mission to change the way we date, communicate, and connect wi...2023-02-131h 25
SOFT x SAVAGEEp. 45: How To Create Safety When All You've Experienced Are Toxic RelationshipsThis is a clip from a segment we do every week over on Instagram (@healingtohappy) called "what would Laura do?" where I answer your questions. This week I answered: “if we’ve only experienced toxic relationships, is there a way to create initial safety to be open to experiencing healthy relationships? It feels like a far leap that almost feels unattainable, which I know isn’t true but is there a way to close the gap?”
Let me know what came up for you over on Instagram (@itslaurapatriciamartin or @healingtohappy) and make sure to share this with a friend...2023-02-0631 min
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Despite what you think - no, the dating apps don't suck and not all men are horrible. Say what?! In this week’s episode join me as I chat with my friend, Laura Patricia Martin @healingtohappy on all things relationships, 'big T' trauma, feminine and masculine energy, dating as a CEO and so much more!!
Now let me introduce you to the lovely, Laura Patricia Martin...
Laura Patricia Martin, is a trauma and relationship specialist and founder of Healing to Happy. This global movement is...2023-01-1040 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 39: When Trying To Heal PTSD In A New RelationshipThis episode is from a live stream Laura did back in 2021 about having a PTSD attack and walking herself through it to release it from her system so it doesn't happen again. She shares an inside story alongside the science and the tool so you can start using these insights today.
We'd love to hear your takeaways over on Instagram @itslaurapatriciamartin and @healingtohappy
If you're looking for high-level support for 2023, Laura has opened ICONIC. This is her 6-month 1:1 immersion that is for the woman that is looking to become Ic...2022-12-1241 minSOFT x SAVAGEEp. 35: WWLD: Vulnerability in Dating When You Can Easily Do It In FriendshipsWe're starting something fun: WWLD (aka what would Laura do), where you submit your questions and I come on and answer them for you. You can submit your questions over on IG @healingtohappy. This week we're tuning in to answer “I feel like I’m so good at being vulnerable with friends… I’ve worked deeply on that. In my work, I spill my heart… but when it comes to dating all my walls are up. I'm skeptical. And then my potential partners are matching my blocks. What do I do to become more comfortable in my vulnerability with dating?”2022-11-1429 min
Get Your Life Together, Girl95: How Endings Create an Open Door to Self-love with Laura Patricia MartinThe road to self-love often comes with both endings and new beginnings. Yet, the ends tend to undo us and make us doubt our worth, abilities, and self-esteem, especially when talking about our most intimate relationships. In continuing our search for building self-love, I sat down with my friend, Laura Patricia Martin, the host of the Happy and Healing Podcast, as she and I moved through what it takes to have full ownership of ourselves, self-love, steady relationships, and then we leaned into the important of self-inquiry. This conversation is filled with tools to help...2022-09-1352 min
SOFT x SAVAGEEp. 6. Sitting in grief after a breakup & what’s on the other side w/ Julia Panchkowry, The Banana WarriorI had the pleasure to sit down with my dear friend, Julia Panchkowry (aka the Banana Warrior). We spoke about the grief after breakups, the power of surrender, the joys of community, and what comes from this period of time.
This conversation is GOLD to the soul and I am excited to bring it you all.
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You can find more on ou...2022-04-151h 11SOFT x SAVAGEEP. 2: Why you keep going back and/or attactracting the same people that stress you the F outThis week, I pulled from an IG live (if we're not bff's there come hangout! @itslaurapatriciamartin) where I discussed why we keep going back, why the journal prompts/mindset hacks don't work and what you can start doing to start finding your balance again.
I remember to my core what breakups used to feel like... I'd find myself devastated after spending weeks/months doing positive affirmations, journaling, therapy. I got lost doing all the things to fix my mindset but I still felt.. heavy, devastated, and crappy.
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