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Divorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeMistakes to Avoid in MediationOn this week's episode of the Divorce Detox podcast, we tackle common mistakes to avoid in divorce mediation.Give us a listen to hear common pitfalls in mediation from failing to select the right type of mediator for your case, neglecting to exchange full financial information, and failing to seek out legal advice before signing your agreement on the dotted line. Don't miss out on this episode to avoid potentially costly and irreversible mistakes in your mediation!Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and 2025-07-2026 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeBeyond Child Support- Child Expenses Not Covered by SupportWe are back with a brand new episode of the Divorce Detox podcast after a short summer break! This week, our hosts dive into the topic of paying for children's expenses that are not typically covered by child support.Pop in your earbuds to hear about categories of expenses that courts are inclined to make orders for shared payment of, tips for costs to include in your negotiated agreement, and other expenses that you may want to budget for paying on your own if you have an uncooperative or unreliable ex.2025-07-0627 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeWhen a Narcissistic Abuse Coach Gets Duped by a NarcissistOn this week's episode of the Divorce Detox podcast, Jolee interviews Lisa about what's been going on behind the microphone in her love life.Even with all of Lisa's knowledge, training, and personal experience, she was engulfed in an on-again/off-again relationship with a man who exhibited narcissistic traits. He was charming, manipulative, and strategic and he made Lisa doubt herself and feel crazy.The truth is- everyone is vulnerable to these types of relationships, no matter their education, socioeconomic status, or background. You have nothing to feel guilty...2025-06-0832 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeRealistic Expectations and Family CourtOn this week's episode of the Divorce Detox podcast, our co-hosts share the benefits of having realistic expectations when you use the court system to make decisions about your divorce and the things and people in your life that matter most to you. Adjusting your mindset will help you to avoid disappointment, make more empowered decisions, and potentially consider alternative dispute resolution methods. This episode could be the "aha moment" you need to get unstuck!Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center.2025-06-0129 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeCoercive Control and Fractured Attachment with ChildrenOn this week's episode of the Divorce Detox podcast, our co-hosts tackle a heavy but crucial subject- fractured attachments with children due to coercive control of the abusive parent. If you are the safe/protective parent dealing with alienating behaviors of your ex, you don't want to miss this episode.Listen in to hear our hosts' tips for reinforcing your safe, loving relationships with your children. You are not alone and we're rooting for you! Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center.2025-05-1828 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeSurvivor Story: EkhoThis week on the Divorce Detox podcast, we are honored to have Jessica Smith from the I am Ekho blog and podcast as our guest!Ekho shares her personal journey of coercive control and narcissistic abuse, her divorce from her abuser, and the smear campaign that followed which ended up dividing a community and Ekho being kicked out of her church. Ekho has made her pain by purpose by sharing her story of survival with women in similar circumstances, inspiring and encouraging them to break free.Divorce Detox is spon...2025-05-1134 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeSecuring Your Post-Divorce Future with InsuranceThis week on the Divorce Detox podcast, we chat with Tampa-based Financial Advisor and CDFA Katlyn Orton. We discuss practical considerations for divorce planning (like getting your spouse's bills paid out of their own accounts!), utilizing life insurance and disability insurance to secure support payments, and other options if a party is uninsurable. Tune in to hear more about these often-forgotten topics that could be vital to your financial future!Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center.2025-05-0427 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeBridge to Navigating Finances with Confidence Throughout DivorceThis week on the Divorce Detox podcast, our hosts are fangirling over having the honor of chatting with one of the OG female-focused CDFAs, Rhonda Noordyk. Rhonda is the Financial Divorce Advocate. She is a CDFA, Amazon Best Seller, speaker, and host of the Disrupting Divorce podcast.Pop in your airpods to listen to Rhonda explain her signature BRIDGE Method to financial empowerment throughout the divorce process, a discussion on the nuances of female breadwinners in family court, and financial trends that our hosts and Rhonda see in their daily practices of working with...2025-04-1324 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeMaintaining Agency in the Divorce Process with planHer CollaborativeAfter a brief spring break, we're back with a brand new episode of the Divorce Detox podcast! This week, we chat with Meghan O'Malley, Founder of planHer Collaborative. The mission of planHer Collaborative is to empower women through divorce by providing free education content and connecting women with vetted divorce experts and professionals.Listen in to hear about tips for regulating your nervous system throughout the divorce process, the importance of educating yourself about the various divorce resolution models, and how the most peaceful and empowering divorces often occur outside of court....2025-04-0631 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeForensic Accountants & Private InvestigatorsOn this week's episode of the Divorce Detox podcast, our co-hosts discuss some of the circumstances that may be appropriate to hire a forensic accountant or PI for your divorce case. From overseas accounts and complicated compensation structures to infidelity and substance use, tune in to hear their insights and experience in the dirty divorce trenches!Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center.2025-03-0217 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeCommon Divorce Mistakes to AvoidOn this week's episode of the Divorce Detox podcast, our co-hosts discuss some common divorce mistakes they see in their practices. From trying to DIY one of the most significant financial transactions in your life to allowing the divorce process to consume your identity, hear about downfalls that you should avoid to protect your finances, family, and personal wellbeing and set you up for future success!
Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center.2025-02-2324 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeLisa & Jolee's New OfferingsThis week, our co-hosts of the Divorce Detox podcast share information about the new offerings at their respective businesses!Lisa is introducing a newConcierge Group Coaching Cohort. This intimate coaching cohort (4-5 women, handpicked by Lisa) offers expert guidance, deep healing, and a supportive community—at a more accessible price than private coaching.Jolee's firm, Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center, is rolling out newFlat Fee Drafting Services. Self-represented parties can now choose from a variety of targeted legal document drafting services at a set price.Both of these new prog...2025-02-0920 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeMake Your Mess Your Message with BrainspottingThis week on the Divorce Detox podcast, we interview Lisa's personal brainspotting coach, Caroline Bell. Caroline hails from across the pond in the UK and is the owner of Cre8 Healthy Choices.
Caroline bravely shares her incredible survivor story of domestic violence and sexual assault which led to her living in a homeless shelter with her children, and how she experienced immense healing through the modality of brainspotting. She now brings this valuable resource to others which she describes as years of therapy condensed into an hour session.
Divorce Detox is sponsored...2025-02-0231 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeYour Divorce Doesn't Have to be as Traumatic as Your MarriageWe have another phenomenal guest on the Divorce Detox podcast this week! Victoria Kirilloff is a CDFA, Family Financial Mediator, Certified Divorce Specialist, and Founder of Divorce Analytics.
Listen in as we discuss the importance of making data-driven financial decisions in your divorce, strategies on how to best negotiate with a narcissist, and so much more.
Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center.2025-01-2638 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeSaving Money by Using Strategic Divorce ProfessionalsIn this week's episode of the Divorce Detox podcast, our co-hosts chat about how strategically using various divorce professionals can streamline your divorce process and save you money! From CDFAs to CDLPs, Divorce Coaches, and more, we break down how to use experts to save on attorney's fees and to keep your lawyer working in their own zone of genius. A win-win for everyone!
Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center.2025-01-1223 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeA New Vision for Divorce with Deanna CoyleWe're starting out 2025 with an amazing guest! Deanna Coyle is the Co-Founder & Divorce Concierge Director of Vesta Divorce. Vesta has built a better way for people to navigate the divorce process by providing consolidated access to expert guidance, professional counseling, and a community of support. Our co-host, Jolee, is a Vesta expert and mediator with the Vesta Lexington/Winchester Hub.
Tune in how to learn how Deanna's personal experience with divorce led her to create Vesta which is now available in 12 states. We discuss how assembling a team of professional experts to holistically support...2025-01-0525 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeFamily Court Sucks! Let's B*tch About ItOn this episode, our co-hosts enjoy the purging benefits of a good, ol' fashioned vent session. Lisa and Jolee expose the failings of the family court system and share stories from their professional experiences. Warning- if you don't like curse words, you probably want to skip this one!
Even though we highlight the realities of how family court can get it very wrong, we're never all doom and gloom on Divorce Detox. We all discuss the importance of pushing back from within the system and celebrate the compassionate divorce professionals who relentlessly seek positive...2024-12-1533 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeEmpathetic Listening in a Safe SpaceIn this week's episode of the Divorce Detox podcast, we interview Erin Snow of Seacoast Listening Lounge. Erin's innovative business model offers a safe, confidential space for women to talk about anything—wins, challenges, secrets, or thoughts you don’t want to share with friends, family, or co-workers.
Tune in to learn about the benefits of empathetic listening without judgment or feedback, misconceptions about domestic violence, and how empathetic listening services can support you through your divorce process and beyond.
Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center.2024-11-1726 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeFrom Trauma to Joy- Healing through Art and MusicOn this week's episode, our co-hosts interview Lisa Markovitz, a multi-talented musical artist, activist, and founder of the Pa’Arriba Foundation which established Ecuador’s first ever digital platform with nationwide information on support resources available for victims of violence.
We discuss Lisa's newest project, From Caterpillar to Butterfly: Shepherding Women from Trauma to Joy. In this artistic and empowering online self-study course, music and art will be your faithful and mischievous companions as you use self-expression as a tool to reconnect to what really sparks your mojo after living through an unhealthy relationship.
D...2024-11-1020 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeFinding Your Soulmate PartnerThis week on the Divorce Detox podcast, we have a fabulous discussion with Spiritual Dating Coach, Jen Youngquist. Jen empowers her clients to create their dream life and attract their soulmate partner.
Listen in as we chat about why many women jump from one toxic/unhealthy relationship to another (hint: childhood baggage!), the Father Wound, and how to reprogram negative thoughts patterns. Even if you're not in the dating pool, this conversation is still for you!
Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center.2024-10-2737 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeSynergistic StepparentingIn this week's episode of the Divorce Detox podcast, we interview Stepparenting Coach & Blended Family Strategist, Maria Natapov, of Synergistic Stepparenting. Through her work with clients, Maria helps stepparentstransform family chaos into meaningful and harmonious co-parenting.
Tune in to learn about the challenges that blended families face with confusion over a lack of identified roles, how this can affect family court proceedings, and strategies for bio parents, stepparents, and stepchildren to navigate and the beautiful possibilities that blended families can offer.
Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center.2024-10-0636 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeDivorce TrendsThis week we have an informative discussion with family law attorney Lisa Zeiderman about recent divorce trends. We delve into prenuptial/postnuptial agreements, financial abuse, coercive control, custody cases including children with special needs, and much more.
Attorney Zeiderman is Managing Partner at Miller Zeiderman LLP, based in New York. A matrimonial attorney, CFL and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, she regularly handles complex financial and custody divorce matters, as well as pre- and post-nuptial agreements for high-net-worth individuals.
Check out the non-profit organization Savvy Ladies, which
providing free financial education to all...2024-09-2929 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeBecoming a Calm Mom with Sarah MedeirosThis week, we dive into calming the chaos of parenthood with trauma-informed parenting practitioner, Sarah Medeiros. Inspired by her own story beginning as a teenage mother, Sarah guides her clients on their journey to becoming a Calm Mom as the owner of Parenting with Purpose.
Listen in as we discuss the importance of community, giving yourself grace, cultivating an awareness of your parenting style, and having check-ins with your children to ease your own parenting experience.
Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center.
2024-09-1529 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeBack to School Co-Parenting TipsIt's back-to-school season! This week, our hosts discuss tips on how to streamline co-parenting dynamics during this busy time of year. From buying clothes to coordinating homework assignments, tune in to find proactive solutions to these hot-button issues.
Read Jolee's Divorce Squad article that inspired this episode HERE.
Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center.2024-09-0823 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeAm I Going to Be OK? Financial Education for Divorce EmpowermentThis week on the Divorce Detox podcast, our hosts interview Diane Pappas of Solutions for Divorce and Chris Chen of Insight Financial Strategists. Diane and Chris are the creators of the Divorce Course for Women to educate women contemplating divorce about finances to empower them to make informed decisions throughout the divorce process.
Use promo code JV5NN to save $200 off the course!
Divorce Detox is sponsored by: Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center and Lisa Happ Coaching.2024-08-1830 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeCan Your Husband Find Out Who You Voted For?**PLEASE SHARE THIS EPISODE!**
This week, our hosts welcome back Olivia Howell, CEO of Fresh Starts Registry to have a timely and crucial conversation about voting information for the upcoming election. Can you vote across party lines in the presidential election? Can your husband find out who you voted for? Learn all this and more and GET OUT THE VOTE!
Divorce Detox is sponsored by: Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center and Lisa Happ Coaching.2024-08-1126 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeHow to Cope with a Loss in CourtIn this week's episode, our hosts talk about how to cope with a loss in court, which is a fairly common occurrence when you have a case in family court.
Tune in to hear tips that Lisa shares with her Divorce Coaching clients when orders don't go their way. Jolee also shares how she approaches disappointments in court and highlights some outcomes from her own cases.
Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center.2024-08-0425 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeOne Year Anniversary: No One is Coming to Save YouJoin us for our ONE YEAR anniversary episode of the Divorce Detox podcast!
This week, our hosts get brutally honest with our listeners: No one is coming to save you-- so how can you save yourself?
During the difficulties of divorce, it can be so tempting to want your attorney, a new fling, your children, or other people to scoop in and rescue us out of our despair. Listen in for tips on how you can focus inward to take control of your own life and move forward with...2024-07-1426 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeSilver Linings of DivorceIn this week's episode of the Divorce Detox podcast, Jolee & Lisa chat about a taboo subject... there are many benefits to divorce!
Are you sick and tired of hearing about all the stress and negative aspects of divorce? Then this episode is for YOU! There are advantages and perks to leaving a toxic relationship and we dish all about them in this week's episode. It's time to flip the script!
Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center.2024-06-2316 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeSelling the Marital Home with a Certified Divorce Real Estate SpecialistIn this week's Divorce Detox podcast episode, Jolee & Lisa chat with Realtor and Certified Divorce Real Estate Specialist (CDRE) Victoria Mead. A CDRE is a real estate agent who’s received specialized training and certification in managing real estate transactions during a divorce.
Tune in to learn about the legal and emotional intricacies that come with dividing property between divorcing parties, details about the current rental market, and tips for selling during the divorce process.
Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center.2024-06-1632 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeHealth & Wellness for Divorce NourishmentOn the Divorce Detox podcast, this week our hosts interviewed Kristen Reed of Nursing Your Way to Wellness. Kristen is a National Board Certified Holistic Registered Nurse and Certified Health and Wellness Coach. She helps overstressed, ambitious women find lasting health with her signature 4-M framework.
In this episode, Kristen shares how her divorce over a decade ago led her to starting over as a travel nurse, meeting her second husband, having a beautiful daughter, and embarking full-time with her coaching practice.
Kristen's incremental healthy habits support women going...2024-06-0932 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeSurvivor Stories: EleniWe are so humbled to feature another installment of Survivor Stories. This week, we had the privilege of speaking with Eleni who left an arranged marriage after 13 years and 3 children. Eleni didn't let any legal defeats or setbacks back her down from being able to move her three daughters from Greece to the Azores, Portugal to live with her after her divorce.
Eleni's story is inspiring, empowering, and her outlook on life is infectious. Enjoy!
Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center.2024-06-0250 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeMediating with a Narcissist: Comparing Notes in Different StatesIn this week's episode of the Divorce Detox podcast, our hosts have a fabulous conversation with Attorney Julia Perkins. Julia is the Chair of the Family Law Team at Varnum Law in Michigan. She has been practicing family law for 27 years and is also a certified mediator.
Listen in as Jolee and Julia compare notes about the difference and similarities about mediation between their various jurisdictions. Lisa also shares how she preps her clients to attend mediation with a narcissistic partner. It is an informative episode highlighting the existence of heart-centered divorce professionals ready...2024-05-2632 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeDivorce Coach and Attorney CollaborationIn this week's episode of the Divorce Detox podcast, Jolee & Lisa provide insight on what it's like to work with a divorce coach and divorce attorney together. Who does what? What are the benefits of utilizing both types of professionals? How do they collaborate?
Tune in to listen to stories about cases that our hosts have collaborated on together. *Spoiler Alert* lots of support, healing, empowerment, and transformational magic!
Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center.2024-05-1926 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeGet in the Driver's Seat of Your Own LifeIn this episode, our hosts are joined by Action Coach Amy Goober. Amy's Drive Your Life program offers a 5-step process to get women back into the driver's seat of their own lives. She also offers retreats and a Get Connected Community where empowerment, support, and inspiration come together to form a vibrant community of women.
Tune in to hear an enlivening discussion about what holds women back from taking control of their own lives, why women are starving for authentic friendships in a world where we are more "connected" than ever before, and the importance of c...2024-05-1236 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeParental AlienationOur hosts sit down this week to talk about a difficult subject in family court-- Parental Alienation. This is a very nuanced and muddy topic as false claims of parental alienation are often falsely lodged against a protective parent who is trying to shield children from abusive behavior of the other parent.
Listen in to hear insights about alienating behaviors, how to utilize third-parties neutrals and documentation to defend against false claims, and how to engage with an alienated child.
Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center.2024-04-2124 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeExtreme Budgeting and Money MindfulnessIn this episode, our hosts chat with bookkeeper and budgeting coach Juliann Murray Scott of Juliann Murray Bookkeeping Services. After being laid off from her employment, Juliann found herself as a single mom of 4 and learned how to stretch her financial resources to support her family. Now she is graciously sharing her wealth of expertise with other women facing an unfamiliar and changing financial landscape.
Listen in to hear her tips about money mindfulness, the importance of having a "when-the-shit-hits-the-fan" fund, and much more!
Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and Foundations...2024-04-1427 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeCreating Confidence & Self-Care through MedSpa ServicesThis week we have an informative and fun conversation with Michelle Doran, Owner of RN Esthetics. Founded in 2012, RN Esthetics is an award-winning Medical Aesthetic practice with 3 beautiful locations on the North Shore, MA.
Michelle answers FAQs about botox, fillers, lasers, hydrafacials, B-12 shots, and much more. When we feel beautiful on the outside, we have more confidence emanating from the inside, and there's no better time for some extra self-care than going through the major life transition of a divorce. It's time to treat yourself!
Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and Foundati...2024-04-0727 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeEstate Planning with Law MomIn this episode, we have a fantastic interview with Sam Allen, the Founding Attorney of Law Mom. As an estate planning attorney, Sam helps families and business owners protect their loved ones, maintain control over their property and preserve their legacy.
Tune in to learn about what documents you may want to create or update during a divorce, what should be postponed until after the divorce is finalized, the difference between wills and trusts, and lots more!
Divorce Detox is sponsored by Lisa Happ Coaching and Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center.2024-03-2440 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeCreating a Full, Joyful LifeWe are thrilled to welcome Relationship Coach Susan Trotter to the pod! Susan has her doctorate in Clinical Psychology and was a therapist for over 20 years. She now works exclusively as a Relationship Coach with a focus on dating, relationships, divorce, self-confidence, mindset and communication. She is passionate about empowering people going through divorce to navigate the process with more confidence and peace of mind.
Listen in to hear her tips about how to model confidence for young children, creating a full, joyful life that isn't dependent upon a romantic partner, dating after divorce, a...2024-03-1740 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeSurvivor Stories: "Ashley"We are extremely honored to feature another installment of Survivor Stories. This week, we have a raw and vulnerable conversation with "Ashley" who was married to a covert narcissist for over 20 years. She walks us through her divorce and experience with her two children being weaponized against her through her healing and recovery to the incredibly empowered and joyful woman that she is today. Don't miss it!
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses sexual assault and suicide. If you are feeling alone and having thoughts of suicide—whether or not you are in crisis—or know...2024-03-1037 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeGetting Your Groove BackSpring is in the air, and this week, our hosts talk about how to get your groove back if you are coming out of a toxic relationship, starting your divorce journey, or just getting out to the other side. This is a fun episode chock-full of ideas to invite more joy into your life, reconnecting and discovering what makes you feel good, and finding the glimmers in our everyday lives!
We hope that you feel the inspired to take time to focus on YOU-- because we are all worthy of love, happiness, and joy...2024-03-0327 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeCelebrating Bold Decisions and Fresh StartsWelcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
This week, you can't help but be inspired by the infectious, positive energy of Olivia Howell, CEO of Fresh Starts Registry. Fresh Starts is the first registry and online platform for everything a person needs to begin their life again after a major life...2024-02-2532 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeEvery Beginning Starts with an EndingWelcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In this episode, we are joined by the lovely Madjeen Thorpe, owner of Transitions Well Done. Madjeen assists professional women of color to navigate significant career and life transitions. We discuss resiliency, the difference between external changes vs. internal transitions, and how all new...2024-02-1133 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeVillage of Supports for Working MomsWelcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
You don't want to miss this juicy episode! We are joined by Certified Life Coach Christine Anastasia who helps burned out moms go from hamster wheel to happy with grace. She helps working mothers in the messy middle of raising young kids, maintaining a...2024-02-0440 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeSurvivor Stories: "Stephanie"Welcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In this episode, we were incredibly lucky to speak with "Stephanie," one of Lisa's clients who is currently divorcing her narcissistic husband. Stephanie talks about being sucked into the cycle of abuse with her ex, how she finally found the strength to break free...2024-01-2820 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeOverview of the Contested Divorce ProcessWelcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
This week, our hosts provide a comprehensive overview of the contested divorce process. They discuss the various phases from filing the initial divorce paperwork, to the discovery process, various court hearings, negotiations, and more. Empower yourself with information about the road ahead!
Divorce Detox...2024-01-2125 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeOut-of-Court OptionsWelcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
On the pod this week, we had an informative discussion with mediator and collaborative divorce attorney, Jennifer Hawthorne Kelsey, Partner of Skylark Law & Mediation. Jennifer provides comprehensive information about the mediation and collaborative divorce processes, the benefits of these methods, and why they should...2024-01-1446 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeHuman Design with Jenn GreinerWelcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
This week, we had the absolute pleasure of interviewing Jenn Greiner from Divine Vitality. Jenn is a Human Design Coach & Boundaries Queen who leads individuals to decondition and break patterns in order to stand in their power for improved communication and relationships. Learn what...2024-01-0729 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeInterviewing Divorce AttorneysWelcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In this week's episode, we talk about interviewing potential divorce attorneys. How many people should you consult with? What questions should you ask them? What qualities should you be looking for in a potential lawyer for your divorce? Find out the answers to all...2023-12-3124 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeWomen Supporting Women with Jane Does WellWelcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
This week, we had the incredible honor and privilege of speaking with Co-Founder and Executive Director Christina Pavlina of Jane Does Well. They are the only non-profit organization in Massachusetts providing divorce care, support, educational programs and a critical support system to single women...2023-12-1736 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeGAL Investigations in Family CourtWelcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In this week's episode, we tackle the subject of Guardian ad Litem (GAL) investigations in family court. Learn all the tips and tricks you need to set yourself up for success if a GAL is appointed in your divorce case.
Divorce Detox is sponsored...2023-12-1027 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeBrainspotting: Another Resource for Your Divorce ToolboxWelcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In this week's episode, we discuss Brainspotting, which can be an effective process for a wide variety of emotional and somatic conditions. It can be particularly helpful with trauma-based situations (hello divorce!), helping to identify and heal underlying trauma that contributes to anxiety, depression...2023-12-0321 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeNavigating the HolidaysWelcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In this week's episode, we share how to survive and enjoy the holiday season after a divorce or separation. Topics include how courts typically craft holiday parenting schedules, how to tackle gift-giving with your co-parent, and finding the silver linings and creating new traditions...2023-11-1923 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeCo-Parent Apps Communications TipsWelcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In this episode, we share our tried and true tips for effectively communicating with your ex to set yourself up for success if you are in current litigation or if you end up back in court in the future. Talking with your co-parent isn't...2023-11-0520 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeLessons in Co-ParentingWelcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
This week, we had a fantastic conversation with co-parenting coach Teresa Harlow. Teresa is the author of Combative to Collaborative: The Co-parenting Code. We discuss how Teresa's own coparenting journey and experience as a step-parent influenced her philosophy of the 3 Cs of Collaborative Co-parenting: Ci...2023-10-2937 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeFinding Your Divorce SquadWelcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In this week's episode, we chat with Suzanne Thelen, the Founder of Divorce Squad, which is a free platform that offers women in Massachusetts the opportunity to discreetly connect with the divorce support they need all in one location. Suzanne also shares details about her own divorce and co-parenting...2023-10-1534 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeMental Health in Divorce Court
Welcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In this episode, we celebrate World Mental Health Day on October 10, 2023. This year's theme is: "Mental Health is a Universal Human Right." Our hosts discuss the importance of mental health support during a divorce for all family members and how the family court generally approaches mental health struggles.
Divorce...2023-10-0827 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeEmotionally Preparing for CourtWelcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In this episode, we spill all the details about emotionally preparing for and getting through a contested court hearing. There's lots of golden nuggets in this one, so grab a pen and paper to take notes!
Divorce Detox is sponsored by: Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center and Lisa Happ Coaching.2023-10-0125 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeStretching Your Legal RetainerWelcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In this episode, our hosts have a lively and light-hearted discussion filled with practical tips and anecdotes about how to make your retainer last with your divorce attorney. It's all about the Benjamins, baby!
Divorce Detox is sponsored by: Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center and Lisa Happ Coaching.2023-09-2425 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeCan I Keep the House? with CDLP Chuck BorgioliWelcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In this episode, we chat with Chuck Borgioli from Guaranteed Rate. Chuck is a mortgage loan officer and Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP) with Guaranteed Rate who helps divorcing homeowners make more informed decisions about home equity solutions. Chuck breaks down the basics of everything related to the marital...2023-09-1728 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeUsing a CDFA in Your Divorce with Viki JohnsonWelcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In this episode, we interviewed Victoria ("Viki") Johnson who is a Certified Financial Planner and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) with Ameriprise. Viki chatted with us about the benefits of using a CDFA in conjunction with your attorney during a divorce. She can be reached at victoria.a.johnson...2023-09-1020 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeThe Gift of Conscious Uncoupling with Alyse Mader
Welcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In this episode, we interviewed Alyse Mader of Eden's Way. Alyse is a birth and postpartum doula and healer-- working with clients using hypnotherapy, somatic therapy, and sound healing. Alyse and her former husband used conscious uncoupling during their separation with incredible results for their family and young daughter...2023-09-0337 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeDeliberate Dating with Kerri VercelliniWelcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In this episode, we interviewed Kerri Vercellini of Awaken Holistic Counseling Services. Kerri is a licensed mental health counselor and holistic coach. She shares her story of how she attracted her perfect-fit-partner online with us and explains her Deliberate Dating framework that she uses to help others.
Divorce Detox...2023-08-2050 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeCo-Parenting Support with Jillian AndreWelcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In this episode, we chat with the incredibly inspiring Jillian Andre. Jillian graciously shares her own journey with us about navigating divorce while being a new mother to a 7-month-old infant. She now gives back as a support group facilitator for the non-profit group...2023-08-1333 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeWhat is Narcissism?
Welcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In this week's episode, our co-hosts have an open dialogue about narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and tips for presenting your case in family court if you have a narcissistic ex.
Divorce Detox is sponsored by: Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center and Lisa Happ Coaching.2023-08-0634 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeHealing Through Hypnotherapy with Julie CostaWelcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In this episode, we welcome our first guest, Julie Costa of Julie Costa Coaching & Hypnotherapy! Julie busts some common myths about hypnosis, explains how hypnosis works, and shares benefits that can be truly healing for those leaving toxic relationships and going through divorce.
2023-07-3019 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeHow to Prepare for Divorce
Welcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In our fourth episode, Lisa interviews Jolee about steps to take if you are considering filing for divorce. Topics include preparing your finances, choosing an attorney, considerations if you have children, making housing plans, self-care, and more!
Divorce Detox is sponsored by: Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center and Lisa Happ Coaching.
2023-07-2324 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeShould I Stay or Should I Go?
Welcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In our third episode, Jolee interviews Lisa about the process of deciding whether to stay and commit on working to improve your relationship or if it's time to call it quits. She walks us through a journaling exercise that she uses with her own coaching clients to explore this...2023-07-1626 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeChallenges Women Face in Family Court
Welcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In our second episode, Lisa interviews Jolee about some common struggles of today's family court system that particularly impact women. *Note* family court outcomes vary from state to state, county to county, judge to judge, and case to case. The discussion in this episode pertains to common overall trends...2023-07-0925 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeWhat is a Divorce Coach?
Welcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
In our first episode, Jolee interviews Lisa to find out exactly what divorce coaching is, who should consider hiring a divorce coach and when, the benefits of divorce coaching, how the coaching process works, and cost details.
Divorce Detox is sponsored by: Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center and Lisa Happ C...2023-07-0221 minDivorce Detox with Lisa and JoleeMeet Our Hosts!Welcome to Divorce Detox with Lisa & Jolee! Divorce Detox is a weekly podcast featuring raw, unfiltered conversations with Certified Divorce Coach Lisa Happ and Divorce/Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi. Learn how to cope, heal, and thrive while navigating the inherently flawed family court system and separating from your ex.
On our inaugural episode, you'll get to meet our badass hosts, find out about their professional backgrounds, and learn about what brought them to their work together today.
Divorce Detox is sponsored by: Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center and Lisa Happ Coaching.
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