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Coparenting Beyond Conflict: Strategies for High-Conflict Divorce and CustodyHow to Represent Yourself in Divorce Court – with Been There Got OutIn this conversation, we explore the complexities of navigating the family court system, particularly focusing on self-representation in high conflict divorce cases. Chris Barry and Lisa Johnson share their insights on the emotional challenges, strategic communication, and the importance of building a supportive team. They discuss common pitfalls faced by self-represented litigants and emphasize the need for proper documentation and understanding courtroom decorum. The role of technology and innovative tools in legal battles is also examined, alongside the transformative journey from trauma to empowerment. Finally, Chris and Lisa outline their upcoming resources and courses aimed at helping individuals navigate...
2025-07-1043 min
Love, Laughs, and LessonsYou Were Targeted Because You’re Amazing: Been There Got Out on Divorce, Legal Abuse & SurvivalThis isn’t your typical divorce story.In this eye-opening conversation, high-conflict divorce strategists Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry explain what happens when divorce becomes a weapon — and the family court system becomes the battlefield.Their clients are often accomplished, emotionally intelligent, and deeply empathetic — and that’s exactly why they were targeted. Legal abuse isn’t random. It’s calculated. And it often continues long after the relationship ends, through false accusations, dragged-out custody battles, and endless court filings.Lisa and Chris have lived it. And now, through Been There Got Out, they help othe...
2025-05-2949 min
Single Mom SocietyHow to Outsmart Your High Conflict Ex with Lisa Johnson🚨 STUCK IN LEGAL LIMBO WITH YOUR EX? 🚨 If your ex treats the courtroom like his personal playground, this episode is for you! 🎤🔥 This week on The Single Mom Society, we’re diving deep into legal abuse with expert Lisa Johnson—a high-conflict divorce strategist who knows exactly how to handle a coercive ex who just won’t quit. Lisa and her partner, Chris Barry, don’t just help their clients survive—they teach them how to outsmart their ex, shut down the nonsense, and take their peace back. 🛑💥 So if you’re tired of the legal merry-go...
2025-02-261h 10
The High Conflict Co-Parenting PodcastEpisode 302 Conflict Detox Reducing Emotional Reactivity with Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry from Been There Got OutIn this episode Brook and his guests Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry from the podcast Been There Got Out discuss the notion of High Conflict Detox. This is where a person/parent is stuck deeply in the habitual cycle of conflict and the nervous system maintains a high level of chronic activation. In order to break the cycle one must endure the discomfort of disengagement, develop a self awareness of the cycle in order to break free of the strong impulse to engage in and continue the conflict. This conflict pattern is very much physiological and can be mastered...
2024-12-3008 min
The High Conflict Co-Parenting PodcastConflict Detox_ Reducing Emotional Reactivity with Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry from Been There Got OutIn this episode Brook and his guests Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry from the podcast Been There Got Out discuss the notion of High Conflict Detox. This is where a person/parent is stuck deeply in the habitual cycle of conflict and the nervous system maintains a high level of chronic activation. In order to break the cycle one must endure the discomfort of disengagement, develop a self awareness of the cycle in order to break free of the strong impulse to engage in and continue the conflict. This conflict pattern is very much physiological and can be mastered...
2024-12-1156 min
Journey Beyond Divorce PodcastSurviving Divorce Legal Abuse: Red Flags and Self-Protection Strategies with Lisa Johnson & Chris BarryHigh Conflict divorce is challenging enough, but when it escalates to legal abuse, the emotional and financial toll can be overwhelming. In this episode, we unpack what legal abuse looks like in the context of high-conflict divorce, where one party may use the legal system to exhaust, intimidate, and financially drain the other. Whether it's endless filings, false accusations, or unreasonable demands, legal abuse can turn a difficult process into a battle of attrition. But understanding the warning signs can be your first line of defense against this form of manipulation. We dive into the red flags...
2024-12-0955 min
The High Conflict Co-Parenting PodcastLegal Abuse and Going it Pro Se With Chris Barry and Lisa Johnson from Been There Got OutIn this episode Brook has special guest Lisa Johnson from Been There Got Out to discuss how High Conflict Personalities can drive legal abuse in the family court system and how to organize yourself to be able to go it with out an attorney. Lisa brings some good information to a scary subject. You can contact Lisa through their website beentheregotout.com or follow them on instagram, Youtube and Facebook. Join "The Disengagement Zone" Membership! Gain access to: •daily value-packed emails •exclusive podcast episodes •free masterclasses •personalize...
2024-08-0958 min
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver261: Interview With Lisa Johnson ~ Author of "Been There Got Out"In this episode, Lori and David Sims, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk to Lisa Johnson. Lisa is co-author, along with her partner Chris Barry, of “Been There Got Out.” Like Lori and David, Lisa and Chris use their first-hand experience to help others. In this episode, we discuss the following: Toxic relationships High conflict divorce Legal abuse Coercive control Jennifer’s Law Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: “I am a family law attorney. I kept hearing about this Nacho parenting from clients...
2024-05-311h 03
Schein On’Been There Got Out’ Authors Lisa Johnson & Chris BarryEvan welcomes Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry, co-founders of 'Been There Got Out,' and acclaimed authors of the must-read book on navigating toxic relationships and high-conflict divorces. Their conversation delves deep into the indicators of toxic relationships, emphasizing the often-hidden nature of emotional and financial abuse. Lisa shares her personal story of living in an abusive relationship for two decades, highlighting the difficulty in recognizing and admitting to being in such a situation. Both Lisa and Chris discuss the concept of coercive control, explaining its detrimental impact on relationship dynamics and emphasizing the importance of conflict in healthy...
2024-04-161h 02
Negotiate Your Best LifeCo Parenting with a Toxic Ex with Been There Got Out's Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry on Rebecca Zung's Negotiate Your Best Life #482BIOS Lisa Johnson is the co-founder of Been There Got Out, a high-conflict divorce strategist and certified domestic violence advocate who has successfully represented herself through scores of court appearances. Her case, published in the Connecticut Law Journal, is being used as legal precedent. Her live testimony helped pass Jennifers’ Law in Connecticut, the third state in America to expand its legal definition of domestic violence to include “coercive control.” She and her partner, Chris, the male half of Been There Got Out, advise people in high-conflict relationships, divorce, custody battles, and co-parenting hell so they have the chance of the bes...
2024-02-0558 min
Negotiate Your Best Life Podcast with Rebecca ZungCo Parenting with a Toxic Ex with Been There Got Out's Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry on Rebecca Zung's Negotiate Your Best Life #482BIOSLisa Johnson is the co-founder of Been There Got Out, a high-conflict divorce strategist and certified domestic violence advocate who has successfully represented herself through scores of court appearances. Her case, published in the Connecticut Law Journal, is being used as legal precedent. Her live testimony helped pass Jennifers’ Law in Connecticut, the third state in America to expand its legal definition of domestic violence to include “coercive control.” She and her partner, Chris, the male half of Been There Got Out, advise people in high-conflict relationships, divorce, custody battles, and co-parenting hell so they ha...
2024-02-0559 min
The NovelizersJosh Johnson, Jon Wurster, Lisa Gilroy - ID4 Ch. 13 & 14Ch. 13: "My Marriage Was Also Named Abort." Novelized by Jeb Lund, narrated by Josh Johnson.
Ch. 14: "The Rogue, the Coif, and the Partial Can of Diet Soda in an Empty Blended Scotch Bottle." Novelized by Chris Messick, narrated by Jon Wurster.
Interview: Lisa Gilroy.
Josh Johnson is a stand-up comedian and former writer and performer for The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon. He has released two comedy specials on Comedy Central and Peacock, and his other credits include CONAN, @Midnight, and Kevin Hart's Hart of the City.
Jeb Lund is a fo...
2023-12-1853 min
Strong SongsBelle & Sebastian's Very Good Chord ProgressionKirk takes a tour through the cycling, modulating chord sequence in Belle & Sebastian's buoyant 2017 song "The Girl Doesn't Get It."Variation 1: | C | Dm7 | Bb | Gm FVariation 2: | C | D | Bm | Esus EVariation 3: | A | Bm | A/C# | Esus EFEATURED/DISCUSSED:"The Girl Doesn't Get It" by Belle & Sebastian from How To Solve Our Human Problems, Vol. 1, 2017"I Will Always Love You" by Dolly Parton performed by Whitney Houston on The Bodyguard soundtrack, 1992----LINKS-----💰 SUPPORT STRONG SONGS! Patreon | Paypal 🏠 HOMEPAGEstrongsongspodcast.com 👚...
2023-10-2021 min
Legally Uncensored with Attorney Demetria L. GravesBeen There, Got Out and Thrived with Lisa Johnson and Chris BarryWelcome back to a brand new season of "Legally Uncensored" with your host, Demetria Graves, Esq. In this season, we're delving deep into the uncharted territories of divorce, narcissism, and celebrating the triumphs of the underdog.For our first episode, we've brought in some heavy-hitters to shed light on these challenging subjects. Joining us today are Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry, the dynamic founders of "Been There Got Out." Their organization offers hope, guidance, and a supportive community to individuals who are grappling with toxic relationships, providing the strength needed to reclaim their sanity.In...
2023-09-1447 min
Pro Politics with Zac McCraryRich Schlackman, Democratic Direct Mail PioneerSend us a textRich Schlackman is best known as a pioneer of all things direct mail - and he continues to hit the mail box and also spearheads important efforts as a GC and has expanded his reach to digital messaging. In this conversation, Rich talks his early activist roots at the '68 Democratic Convention and with names like Jane Fonda and Tom Hayden...why he gravitated to political direct mail in the mid 70s...how he took the "California Style" of mail national in the 80s and 90s...diving deep into his best practices and...
2023-09-1255 min
Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)What is Legal Abuse in Divorce? | S3, Ep. 35For anyone who's dealing with a high-conflict legal battle, it's important to know that the term "legal abuse" is a real thing. There is a time when all the back and forths, and briefs and motions can become part of a pattern that lawyers and judges recognize as legal abuse. The intention is to try and wear you down, both emotionally and financially, and it is not ok. It is extremely important not to give in just to "get it over with" because you could be making choices that will hurt you later. This episode breaks down when the...
2023-08-2830 min
The DRV Law Show with Attorney Dennis VetranoLisa Johnson & Chris Barry; Been There Got OutLisa Johnson is a certified domestic violence advocate and Chris Barry is a certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach. Together they own Been There, Got Out, an organization that helps individuals who are dealing with a toxic or domestically violent relationship.
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2023-07-1738 minThe DRV Law Show with Attorney Dennis VetranoLisa Johnson & Chris Barry; Been There Got OutLisa Johnson is a certified domestic violence advocate and Chris Barry is a certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach. Together they own Been There, Got Out, an organization that helps individuals who are dealing with a toxic or domestically violent relationship.
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2023-07-1738 min
The Girl With The Purple Hair Talks BusinessBeen there...Got out! How you can empower yourself or a friend/loved one with the gift of support!Today's episode opens the conversation about high-conflict relationships, divorce, custody battles & co-parenting. Listen into this powerful conversation with Lisa & Chris. This may not be you, but we guarantee you know someone in this situation. You can help them by providing them with the valuable resources found on Lisa Johnson is the co-founder of Been There Got Out, a high conflict divorce coach and certified domestic violence advocate who has successfully represented herself through scores of court appearances. Her case, published in the Connecticut Law Journal, is being used as legal precedent. Her live testimony helped pass Jennifers’ Law in Connecticut, th...
2023-06-2630 min
Peter G ShowBeen There Got Out, On The Peter G Show. March 15th, 2023.Toxic Relationships, High Conflict Divorce, And How To Stay Sane Under Insane Circumstances. Join Me As I Talk To Authors Lisa Johnson And Chris Barry About Their New Book Been There Got Out. Now That’s A Show. Life With Peter G, The Peter G Show Every Wednesday Night. 6:00pm Pacific, 8:00pm Central, and 9:00pm Eastern. We're Talking About Things You Need To Hear. Check It Out. And don't forget to listen on the go with The Peter G Show On Podcast Everywhere. See You Every Wednesday Night Live On The Official Facebook Peter G Show Page, Linkedin Live, An...
2023-03-161h 13
Divorce MattersNavigating an Abusive Court System with an Abusive SpouseJoin legal experts Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry in this episode as they discuss the abusive nature of family court systems. With firsthand experience dealing with clients across the world, they share their perspectives on the corruption and cronyism within the industry that leads to extreme cases of high-conflict divorce. Tune in to learn about the challenges faced by good parents and the problems with the current court system that prioritizes money over the well-being of children. So let's jump right in now, though. Lisa, you were in Connecticut. Is that correct? Is that the c...
2023-02-1856 min
No Visible BruisesHow To Stay Sane Under Insane CircumstancesToday I am speaking with Chris Barry and Lisa Johnson, the co-founders of Been There Got Out. Lisa is a high-conflict divorce coach and a certified domestic violence advocate who has successfully represented herself in numerous court cases. Chris, who developed the Been There Got Out podcast and manages the website and technology, is a certified high-conflict divorce coach specializing in writing high-conflict parenting plans. Both Chris and Lisa have personal experience with costly divorces, totalling over $400,000, which inspired them to coach individuals facing high-conflict relationships, divorce, custody battles, and co-parenting challenges. Their goal is to help these individuals...
2023-02-0733 min
Un día como hoy en la músicaEfemérides del 15 de octubreEl nacimiento de:
- El guitarrista y compositor Mickey Baker, fue componente de Mickey & Sylvia
- Barry McGuire, cantante y compositor, cuyo éxito más importante será Eve of destruction
- Marv Johnson, cantante de R&B
- El cantante, compositor y pianista, Richard Carpenter, hermano de Karen, con quien formará uno de los dúos de mayor éxito en la música, The Carpenters
- El cantante y compositor, Chris de Burgh
- El cantante y compositor Tito Jackson, componente de The Jackson 5
El #1 en las li...
2022-10-1524 min
TrashwatchTHE DARK CRYSTALEPISODE 99 – THE DARK CRYSTAL “It was the Mystics of times, it was the Skeksis of times.” And just like that, it’s Season 4! This week, Ashley loves Skeksis trash-talking; Chris guesses the plot to Avatar: The Way of Water; and Brian laughs at spontaneous combustion. BTW: The airline lost our afterlife luggage! Starring: Jim Henson, Kathryn Mullen, Frank Oz, Dave Goelz, Steve Whitmire, Louise Gold, Brian Meehl, Bob Payne, Mike Quinn, Tim Rose, Stephen Garlick, Lisa Maxwell, Billie Whitelaw, Percy Edwards, Barry Dennen, Michael Kilg...
2022-10-061h 34
Last Word On Sports Media PodcastBarry Tompkins Conversation, NFL Kickoff, College Football, US Open, MLB | Announcer Schedules PodcastThis week on Episode 14 of the Announcer Schedules Podcast, Mike Gill and Phil de Montmollin welcome Hall of Famer Barry Tompkins of Showtime to talk about his illustrious career that includes some of the biggest moments in boxing history, a part in Rocky IV and big-time college basketball, amongst a plethora of other assignments. Highlights from the conversation with the four-time Emmy winner include his origin story, an amazing account of the Arguello-Pryor fight in 1982, and what it was like behind-the-scenes for the production of Rocky IV. Throughout the show, a podcast-record 105 different announcers from past...
2022-09-081h 21The DRV Law Show with Attorney Dennis VetranoDealing with Toxic Relationships; Lisa Johnson & Chris Barry - Episode 30Dennis speaks with Lisa Johnson & Chris Barry of Been There, Got Out, an organization that helps individuals who are dealing with a toxic or domestically violent relationship. Lisa is a certified domestic violence advocate and Chris is a certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach.
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2022-02-0257 minThe DRV Law Show with Attorney Dennis VetranoDealing with Toxic Relationships; Lisa Johnson & Chris Barry - Episode 30Dennis speaks with Lisa Johnson & Chris Barry of Been There, Got Out, an organization that helps individuals who are dealing with a toxic or domestically violent relationship. Lisa is a certified domestic violence advocate and Chris is a certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach.
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2022-02-0257 min
Books Shows Tunes & Mad ActsChristmas Music: The Good, the Bad and the UglyChristmas music seems to be unstoppable with new songs and albums coming out every year, so Bill and Jennifer have a lot to talk about from traditional, classic tunes, whether they're overplayed and fall out of fashion; to innovative covers; to novelty and funny songs, new and old; to caroling and kids' TV shows; to artists who unexpectedly turn in an awesome song; and those we'd rather forget, especially if they included their kids on the recording. Whether Christmas is a happy or sad time for you, we've got recommendations. With co-host Bill Aho.Thoughts? Comments? Potshots...
2021-12-241h 00
Out of Crazytown: Your Guide to Divorcing a NarcissistPart 3: Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry founders of Been There Got OutPart 3 of my interview with Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry, the founders of Been There Got Out where they help those that have endured narcissistic abuse. BeenThereGotOut.com
2021-08-2628 minOut of Crazytown: Your Guide to Divorcing a NarcissistPart 2: Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry founders of Been There Got OutPart 2 of my interview with Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry, the founders of Been There Got Out where they help those that have endured narcissistic abuse. BeenThereGotOut.com
2021-08-0434 minOut of Crazytown: Your Guide to Divorcing a NarcissistBeen There Got Out Founders: Chris Barry and Lisa Johnson. PART ONEBeen There Got Out (BTGO) Founders Chris Barry and Lisa Johnson join me to share their stories of enduring toxic marriages and abusive divorces. They walk us through their trials and tribulations and how they found love when they found each other. This is part one of a three part series looking at their entire journey and how they are using their knowledge and experience to help others going through similar situations. beentheregotout.com
2021-07-1531 min
deepredradioBombshellTheron, Kidman und Robbie in einem Drama rund um die Me-Too-Debatte. Julia und Lisa nahmen es unter die Lupe.
Heimkino: 04.04.2020 (EuroVideo Medien GmbH)
Bombshell
Genre: Drama, Biographie
Land: USA 2019
Laufzeit: ca. 110 min.
FSK: 12
Regie: Jay Roach
Drehbuch: Charles Randolph
Kamera: Barry Ackroyd, , Chris W. Johnson
Musik: Theodore Shapiro
Produzenten: Charlize Theron, Jay Roach, Margaret Riley, Charles Randolph, A.J. Dix, Aaron L. Gilbert, Robert Graf, Michelle Graham, Beth Kono, …
Mit Charlize Theron, Nicole Kidman, Margot Robbie, John Lithgow, Allison Janney, Malcolm McDowell, Kate McKinnon, Connie Britton, Liv He...
2020-12-0516 min
The Triple Option PodcastConf Champ Preview / Why Doesn't Anyone Want To Coach Tennessee?Chad and Steve opine in a Friday Happy Hour edition.
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Okay here we go summary of headphones turnabout dialogue I hello my Dan Mullen is back with the gators and other coaching changes is exactly what you talk about first off but before that even we want to tell you that this podcast is brought to you by fan Teddy legal for all your business legal needs in etc. etc. so Steve with Diane okay you want to talk about we just talk about how to set it demoing new Florida higher this was for one second...
2017-12-0240 min
Supergirl RadioSupergirl Radio Season 2 - Episode 13: Mr. & Mrs. MxyzptlkIn this week’s episode of Supergirl Radio, Morgan Glennon and Rebecca Johnson discuss the Supergirl season two episode titled "Mr. & Mrs. Mxyzptlk"! Join in on the fun as the gang at Supergirl Radio covers The CW’s Supergirl! If you'd like to buy a ticket to SuperFan Con, use the promo code sgradio10 for 10% off! Official Description by The CW for Supergirl 2.13: "When Mr. Mxyzptlk, a magical imp, shows up on Earth and declares his love for Kara, she tries to let him down easy, thinking him harmless. However, he decides it's a challenge and starts t...
2017-02-221h 44
TUS DISCOS FAVORITOSTUS DISCOS FAVORITOS (148) - Janet Jackson, 'Rhythm Nation 1814' (A&M, 1989) (15 05 2016)Janet Jackson's Rhythm Nation 1814 es el cuarto álbum de estudio de la cantante estadounidense Janet Jackson, lanzado el 19 de septiembre de 1989 por A&M Records. A pesar de la demanda de los ejecutivos de la compañía de material similar a su anterior álbum, Control (1986), ella insistió en la creación de un álbum conceptual frente a la injusticia social. En colaboración con sus productores Jimmy Jam y Terry Lewis, Janet coescribió 6 de las canciones del álbum. El resto de los temas fueron compuestos por Jam y Lewis, excepto "Black Cat", que es una composición integral de Jackson. Ella tambié...
2016-05-161h 04