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Flirtations! with Benjamin, the Flirt Coach92. Empowered Intimacy: Sexual Confidence, Expression and Freedom with Lola JeanComing up on this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Lola Jean, a multifaceted sex educator, fetish wrestler, and world record holder to the show for a conversation about sexual confidence, empowerment, and freedom!
We'll explore whether sexual confidence is an innate gift or a skill that can be developed (hint: if you don’t feel like or aren’t sure you got it, Lola Jean is so here for you).
We'll also hear about common obstacles that can keep us from feeling sexually confident and Lola Jean shares strategies for empowering our sexual selves (one of th...2025-04-1857 min
Girls Gone Deep090: How to Have Good Strap On Sex, Pubic Hair Do’s and Don’ts, Primal Play and What is Possessive Touch? feat. Lola Jean and Lolo and BThis week, Elle and Vee bring back Lolo and B from Episode 081: Long Distance ENM and Creating Sexy Spaces, and Lola Jean from Episode 074: Fetish Wrestling, Choking and Squirting Misconceptions to play WHOREible Life, a card game all about breaking down barriers and getting naughty AND deep!Have You Ever: Been fucked with a strap on dildo? Favorite dildos, and what makes strap on sex good. (3:05)Have You Ever: Paid for sex? What is the appeal behind role playing as an escort? (15:18)Would you Rather: Use...2024-09-2650 min
The Labia LoungeSquirting, The Down-low with Lola JeanThis week on The Labia Lounge I chat with the world record holder for volume squiring, Lola Jean. Lola is also a fetish wrestler, pro domme and sex educator, with an incredible ability to squirt on cue and fill up literal jugs of the stuff!We discuss the myths and misconceptions about squirting, the pros and cons to being a squirter, helpful tips and techniques for teaching yourself how to squirt, and loads more about this highly fetishized bodily function. Lola shares some hilarious and unbelievable stories about how she came to set the world record for...2024-08-121h 17Girls Gone Deep074: Sex Educator and Pro Domme Lola Jean on Fetish Wrestling, Choking Methods and Squirting Misconceptions (aka Why Squirting Sucks)In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Lola Jean (@lolajeandotcom) about her work as a sex educator. She's known for holding the World Record for Highest Volume Squirted, but this conversation steers away from that (after first touching on why squirting can be annoying) and dives into her work as a fetish wrestler (aka "play fighting" using jiu jitsu moves). No frills sex education: what does that mean? Working the social media algorithm as a sex educator. All the courses Lola Jean has on her website from choking to masturbation to play fighting, and more. (1:18)2024-06-0649 min
In Bed With Alexa: Have Better SexCirque du Squirt: Squirting 101, Domination, and Sexual Liberation (ft. Lola Jean)In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Lola Jean, holder of the volume squirt world record, as we explore the fascinating world of squirting and beyond.
In this episode, we leave no squirt unturned. Lola Jean shares her expertise on who can do it, how it happens, and how to react when someone else experiences it. We also delve into the two types of squirting, shedding light on this often misunderstood phenomenon.
But that's not all – we also dive into the realm of BDSM and kink, discussing how to vet a good dom(me), empowering individuals to...2024-02-231h 02
RedCheeks#26 Lola Jean - Squirting, Breath-Play, BDSM and No-Frill Sex-EdDive into an unfiltered and entertaining conversation with Lola Jean - the sex educator, fetish wrestler, and record world holder of volume squirting, who also happens to be the head mistress of 7 Days Of Domination. I stumbled upon Lola's sex-ed video about pegging on afterglow. The film was fun, engaging and without frills. At this moment I knew I had to snag her for a podcast chat. In this episode, we dive into it all, no agenda, just real talk. Lola shares details on navigating desires, respecting boundaries, and how to navigate through consensual breath-play. Th...2024-01-011h 42
How C*m36 Betsy And Remy Go To A Sex Show! - Cirque Du Squirt (Betsy Carroll + Lola Jean)Goddess/ sex educator Lola Jean and comedian/ Remy's bestie Betsy Carroll are BACK (both returning guests from earlier seasons, but together for the first time) and they are talking about Cirque Du Squirt-- a "sex freak show/ carnival" that Lola curates and stars in to celebrate her title of the 'World Record Holder of Volume Squirting.' Remy and Betsy attended the sex show and talk about their hesitations about going (spoiler: Betsy had none, Remy had a lot), the various games they played and acts they witnessed, how Lola got her title as top squirter in the world...2023-11-041h 43
Private Parts Unknown: Sex & Love Around the WorldWet & Wild Squirting Extravaganza with Two-Time Squirting World Record Holder Lola Jean & Samia Burton of Sexual EssentialsFor the 126th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes you to a summer squirt fest with sex educators extraordinaire Lola Jean — the two-time world record holder for volume squirting — and Samia Burton of Sexual Essentials.First, Lola Jean explains her different sexual revolutions, how she discovered she could squirt, how she became a two-time world-record-setting squirter, and the two types of squirters. Then, Samia Burton shares a thrilling primer on squirting and the disappointment some people feel when they discover it doesn't necessarily come with an orgasm.Study with Samia...2023-08-2333 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam FraserQuicky #38 Sexual Pressure (with Lola Jean)Quicky 38 is an excerpt from Season 3, Episode 10: #40 Squirting, Pegging and Sexual Pressure (with Lola Jean)
On episode 40 of the #mensexpleasure podcast I chat with Lola Jean. Lola is a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Domme and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting (solo.) providing the No Frills Sex Education we both need and deserve. Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. Lola offers a variety of classes and talks to help people have better sex with themselves and each other like Pegging...2023-08-1508 min
Private Parts Unknown: Sex & Love Around the WorldSquirting World Record Holder Lola Jean with Tips on Squirting, Pegging & Exploring KinkFor the 100th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Lola Jean, sex educator, headmistress of 7 Days of Domination (for aspiring pro doms/dommes), and world record holder for volume squirting!We discuss Lola's sexual revolutions, her experience working at a dungeon, going independent as a dominatrix and fetish wrestler, tips for exploring kink, how she discovered she could squirt, how she became a two-time world-record-setting squirter, the two different types of squirters, squirting advice, pegging pointers, how 7 Days of Domination started, and tips for those thinking about domming professionally.For more Lola...2022-10-2539 min
Curious FoxThreesomes For All with Lola Jean (Interview)Threesomes are a great way to explore sexuality and dip your toe into opening up your relationship. But how much of it do you plan and how much of it do you leave to chance? No one ever seems to talk about the uncomfortable parts of setting up a threesome, what makes a threesome good or bad, and what happens afterward? What should you discuss with your partner *before* you get in the sheets with another? More importantly, where is any of this information for that elusive third party?In this episode, Effy and Jacqueline hang out...2022-04-271h 06
Above The MeanDomming 101: Confidence Re-Defined with Lola JeanThis is the first episode in my two part series about woman entrepreneurs who are empowering people to be more confident in themselves through sex education. Join me as I chat and laugh it up with Lola Jean, a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Pro Domme, Writer and World Record Holder for Volume (solo) squirting. Lola does an amazing and refreshing job of educating individuals about sex as well as pushing them past what they think they’re capable of.We talk about everything from the world of Dominatrix to kinks, romanticizing the slut narrative and so...2022-03-291h 05
Sex, Drugs, and JesusEpisode #35: Wrestling Fetishes, Squirting, Piss Play, and BDSM with Lola Jean, Sex Educator and SpeakerSend us a text INTRODUCTION:Lola Jean is a Sex Educator, Wrestler, Pro Domme, and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting (solo), providing the No Frills Sex Education we all need and deserve. Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality, and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. Lola offers events, classes, and talks to help people have better sex with themselves and each other like Pegging, Squirting, and Libido Awakening. There is so much we are not exploring due to fear. Fear of how s...2022-01-281h 14
Curious FoxPegging and Butt Stuff with Lola Jean (Interview)No matter your gender, orientation, or relationship construct, everyone has a butt. Booty play can be a subversive and fun addition to your sexfolio. Effy and Jacqueline chat with sex educator and pro-domme Lola Jean to get into the whats, hows, and whys of pegging. From tops and bottoms, to toys and hygiene, they go through the ins and outs (pun intended) of backdoor play. Here are the links promised: Effy’s fave harness: Spareparts Joque HarnessLola’s toy suggestion: Perfect Fit The Bumper Thrust Buffer, BlackPerfect Fit The Bu...2021-12-031h 07
Strictly Anonymous Confessions426 - Lola Jean on Sex, Kink and Being the World Record Holder for SquirtingLola Jean calls in to talk about sex, kink and being the world record holder for squirting. How did she learn to squirt? How much can she squirt? And, how did she turn her talent for squirting into a world record?Tune in to find out plus hear all about how she overcame a lot of obstacles when she was younger and how they propelled her to become Lola Jean, the two sexual revolutions she had and what she learned from them, the adult events she hosts and what goes down at them, the kinks she's been into and w...2021-11-241h 17
What the FolkEpisode 32: Gratitude In Action with Lola Jean DarlingThe fabulous Lola Jean Darling returns for this episode! We go on a journey through the NOLA mutual aid response post-Hurricane Ida, discuss why adaptability is better than planning, consider how to turn anxiety into art — and even find time to casually side-eye René Descartes. Extra laughs and extra realness abound in this one. Afterward, Joy and Sarah dive into their shared fed-up-ness with the vaccine discourse and their shared loathing of comic sans font, while wrestling with various issues of human nuance. If you stay till the end, you will be rewarded with some questionable Canadian accents too!
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Conversations With Coco + FriendsA Conversation With Lola Jean On, Sexual Mythbusters, Squirting and All Things SEX!Well Cowe's we are bringing you the third out of four episodes in partnership with KY-Canada for Sexual Health Awareness Month and today, we have Sex-Educator and volume squirting world record holder, Lola Jean on to discuss Sexual Mythbusters. We talk about squirting, anal, yoni balls, threesomes and so much more. Make sure to follow Lola Jean on Instagram to stay in the know about all things S-E-X. If you're interested in the jealousy resource she mentions in the podcast, you can check it out HERE.Lola-Jean mentioned trying Lubes that are Ph Balanced, and lucky...2021-09-221h 00
The Authentic Man Podcast with David ChambersEP92: Conversation With a Dominatrix - Squirting, Desires Negotiation, BDSM & Dom Misconceptions Featuring Lola JeanWhat is it like being a professional dominatrix? Do different dominatrices have different ways of working? Why do we have disconnected sex? Who is responsible for your partners' orgasm? All of these and sooo much more answered in this podcast episode. I am joined by Lola Jean, a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, pro Domme, and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting. We talked about so much on this episode BDSM, Spanking, pegging, impulse contro...2021-08-181h 20
Football Make Believe : Fantasy FootballAWAY GAMEThis week Lola Jean and Leif are out of the studio and on the road. Lola Jean goes in on The Ravens restricting media filming Lamar Jackson and Leif continues to rail against the Greenbay front office. Lola Jean brings her A game and Leif basically falls asleep in this one.2021-06-2256 min
Modern Anarchy9. Squirting, Wrestling, and Cannibalism! OH MY! with Lola JeanOn today's episode, we are getting kinky with Lola Jean (She/Her), sex educator, pro domme, wrestler, and writer. Together we talk about her squirting world record, the psychology behind kink and fetishes, and how to discover your own and join the kink community.
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Girls on PornSquirting with Lola JeanYou might wet the bed with this one! The girls welcome Lola Jean - a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Domme, and World Record holder for volume squirting!! Lola and the girls discuss the ratio of orgasms to squirting, slow motion titties and how to find your way to the fine art of female ejaculation. Let's get into that sweet, that nasty, that gushy stuff!Coming Out of Space: https://pinklabel.tv/on-demand/film/coming-out-of-space/?list=trueBe sure to rate Girls on Porn 5-stars on Apple Podcast! Leave your favorite search term OR your por...2021-03-2449 min
Talk, NakedS4 E9: Laura chats with sex educator, instructor, coach and professional dominatrix, Lola Jean.In this episode of Talk, Naked, Lola Jean wears many hats. She's a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Domme and get this, the World Record Holder for Volume Squirting. As Laura is about to show you, Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality and kink that'll push people past what they think they're capable of.2021-03-0919 min
Talk, NakedS4 E9: Laura chats with sex educator, instructor, coach and professional dominatrix, Lola Jean.In this episode of Talk, Naked, Lola Jean wears many hats. She's a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Domme and get this, the World Record Holder for Volume Squirting. As Laura is about to show you, Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality and kink that'll push people past what they think they're capable of. 2021-03-0919 min
Sluts and Scholars164 Awakening Your Libido with Lola JeanI hope you love this episode as much as I do featuring the fantastic Lola Jean- sex educator, instructor, coach, and Pro Domme. We talk about building confidence, awakening desire and libido, squirting, wrestling fetishes, and what to do if you like things that your partner does not. Discount and Ads: - Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands - Sakara is offering our listeners 20% off their first order when they go to Sakara.com/SANDS Lola Jean: https://lolajean.com/ FOLLOW US T...2021-02-2550 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#40 Squirting, Pegging and Sexual Pressure (with Lola Jean)On episode 40 of the #mensexpleasure podcast I chat with Lola Jean. Lola is a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Domme and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting (solo.) providing the No Frills Sex Education we both need and deserve. Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. Lola offers a variety of classes and talks to help people have better sex with themselves and each other like Pegging, Squirting, and Libido Awakening. A variety of paid and free options of classes and talks, plus a...2021-01-211h 06
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love The Objectification of Black Men with King NoireBlack men in particular are one of the most objectified groups in porn. Black men are a porn genre, which begs the question of why race is a genre….BBC is more than just a porn SEO tag, it is a colloquialism, signaling on dating apps and even a proclaimed sexual lifestyle. Though we may think we are idolizing the black male body, where does this notion come from, how is it perpetuated and how do those on the receiving end experience it? King Noir is no stranger to speaking out politically and sexually. Experiencing this objectification first hand in...2020-10-071h 07
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Sex Education? (with Cameron Glover)An Educator for Sex Educators? A more and more common question these days as more sexuality professionals emerge is: “How can I do that too?” The road to becoming a sexuality professional is murky. Even murkier is how to make that career or side-hustle a viable one. Enter Cameron Glover, whose goal is to make your sex ed business as successful as it can be with the Sex Ed Business Academy. Certifications, training programs, mentorship...there isn’t one go-to path for all individuals. What makes a Sex Educator good at their job? What makes them “official” and who are we wai...2020-09-301h 07
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love A World Of F**K (with Erotica Writer and Sex Toy Inventor Tabitha Rayne)This week we continue our venture into the world of literotica with someone who can not only call themselves an erotica writer but a sex toy inventor as well. Tabitha Rayne is a decorated writer who draws more on fiction than reality. Penning her dirty words as a way to finesse typing and molding her own rideable toy as a means to get off while her fingers flowed, Tabitha quite literally continues to fall into success. Tabitha brings the fun back into saying, writing and reading certain words. We grill Tabitha on where the bridge between written and spoken...2020-09-231h 24
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love A Dirty Word (with Erotic Author Peekaboo Collins) For all of the visual stimuli we are bombarded with and lack of sexual communication it’s no wonder we are ill equipped to whisper sweet nothings into our persons ear. Enter: Peekaboo Collins. Whether it’s poetry or short stories, Peekaboo weaves a web of syllables and phrases of the lead up, and the in-betweens of every scintillating moment. We learn that not all erotica has to depict fantasy, and how we can rewrite our own stories in the best possible light….if we want. From the bathroom blowjob that never happened to a built up childhood crush that u...2020-09-161h 08
Share the Load#2.2 Lola Jean on All Kinds of AccountabilityLola Jean and I talk about confidence, consent, and accountability.You can find Lola Jean on IG @lolajeandotcom and via her website. You can hear her podcast Is Our Love ___? on all podcast platforms including PornHub.Please consider becoming a member to keep this show going on Patreon. Other ways to support the show are to write a review on Apple Podcasts, share on social media, and to share with friends.Produced and edited by Stella Hartmann. Logo by Candice Ploy Goodman. Beginning and ending music by me, and mid-episode music by Tyler...2020-09-0900 min
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Normative (with Porn Performer & Activist Lync Johnson)What is a norm and how do you know if you’re willingly or unwillingly abiding by it? By now we know our formative years at least have some influence in our worldview. Does that mean norms are good? Bad? or do they not even matter at all? Porn performer and activist Lync Johnson (@lyncjohnson3x) takes us through his formative years and how his lack of societal influence helped him form norms of his own. From a unique first time experience to rejecting labels, Lync’s journey down memory lane has us all questioning our societal influences and how...2020-09-091h 35
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Consensual? (with Intimacy Coordinator Mia Schachter)By now we all know what consent means…..or do we? How much do you really know and what can an intimacy coordinator teach you about your current understanding? Alot, it turns out. If you thought consent = permission, this week is for you. Intimacy coordinator Mia Schachter (@miaschachter) graces our presence to boost our understanding of consent and what most people get wrong within their understanding. We can all use a better understanding of consent and how boundaries relate to it both sexually and non-sexually. Mia lets us in on the burgeoning Intimacy Coordinator role, how she came about it...2020-09-021h 26
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Represented in Film? (with Nia Ashley)What role does film and media play in our love and in our lives? Does culture reflect film or vice versa? This week we are joined by the charismatic Nia Ashley who takes us on her film journey and the media that impacted her life. We reflect on what happened to the era of UPN series and why TV has taken one step forward and three steps back. Nia helps us navigate if we can still love art and artists that we now see through problematic glasses. Nia represents a burgeoning generation eager to create the narratives they so...2020-08-261h 18
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Sex Down South (with Marla Stewart)This week we're joined by southern sexuality superhuman Marla Stewart, whose impressive body of work speaks for itself. Co-founder of the Sex Down South conference, Marla is already making history and a forging new educated era in sex and sexuality. Plus... she loves an uncomfortable conversation as much as we do. From strip club culture to pop culture we discuss how history and geographical location influences cultural upbringing. Oh, and we take a highly academic lens to the impact and significance of WAP. Follow Marla at: @1marlastewart Coaching, Workshops & Education: velvetlipssexed.com And sign up...2020-08-191h 11
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Conventional (with Hannah Witton)Based on the number of pro dommes we've had on this podcast the past few weeks, we need a little reminder that good, old fashioned, fuck yes, traditional sex is still fucking fantastic and fun for all! We are joined this week by Sex Educator and Youtuber Hannah Witton who's advocating for the conventional. Marriage, kids, monogamy. What does it mean to be sexually progressive when you tic so many privileged boxes? How do you handle secret fantasies or masturbating to an ex in a committed relationship? Find out how Hannah sometimes treats her relationship like a job performance...2020-08-121h 21
Doing It! with Hannah WittonHow to Squirt and Pegging 101 with Lola JeanIn this episode, Hannah is joined by Lola Jean, who is a sex educator, fetish wrestler, and holder of the world record for volume squirting. Lola discusses her squirting record, busts some of the common myths about squirting, and gives us tips on how to squirt if you want. She and Hannah talk about sex work and what a fetish wrestler is, as well as giving a quick beginner’s guide to pegging.✨MORE ABOUT LOLA JEAN✨Lola Jean is a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Domme and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting (solo.) providing the No...2020-08-1238 min
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Dead? (with Audrey Fatale)Oh I’m sorry... did you think we were an good-vibes-all-the-time podcast? Stephens inner goth gets to let loose as we welcome this week's fascinating guest Audrey Fatale. We learn all about the death industry and how Audrey navigated her way through it. Find out what secondary trauma response is, what one learns working at a morgue and in traumatic bereavement, and how she’s brought alllllll of that into BDSM. From necrophiles to the funeral business, whether you avoid the topic of death, run right towards it, or you happen to eroticize it - we cover the gamu...2020-08-051h 23
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Patient? (with Mistress Eva Oh)Is Our Love Particular? Does our love even know what it wants? Whether you’re ideal pairing is in pay-for-play, a long term partner, or your career we could all take a few notes from Mistress Eva Oh (@youwillplease_me) in patience and consistency. Enter this week’s episode bursting with logic. Mistress Eva Oh has a particular list of her small life's pleasures and knows exactly how to go about getting them... or punish shortcomings. We could all learn a thing or two from Eva Oh when it comes to being patient and getting satisfaction. You can...2020-07-291h 15
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love A Male Dom? (with Master Peter)Why are femme Dominatrizes more prevalent and heralded than masc Doms? Is there a stigma against masc Doms, particularly cis-male Doms? We discuss why that is and what you can do about it on our latest episode with Master Peter. From swing dancing to switch hitting, Master Peter got into the business sideways and now he is firing from all cylinders. From his time as dungeon monitor, personal relationships, and his clients both couples and singles alike, you’re going to want to learn what puts Master Peter as the creme de la creme and why he is so of...2020-07-221h 23
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love A Dungeon? (with Mistress Adreena)What is a dungeon and are they all created similarly? We speak with all around sex worker Adreena Angela on how she doesn’t follow all the rules from curating her studio space, how she interacts with clients, and the controversial stance on if Dommes take their tits out. Dungeons and sex work isn’t as scary as you would think and Adreena pulls back the veil to let you know some of the best -- and worst messages and experiences she has in her decorated career. PLUS Adreena, Lola and Stephen answer a listener q from a couple inte...2020-07-151h 30
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love The Fetishization of Latinx Womxn? (with Rebecca Carvalho)Have you ever had a stereotype projected onto you? Have you ever felt guilty about embodying or identifying with a stereotype of your ethnicity or otherwise? These conversations may not be easy but they’re absolutely necessary. This week we welcome Rebecca Carvalho to discuss her relationship with her ethnicity as it relates to her sexuality and how this comes into play throughout her dating life and interaction with porn. Latinx people covers a WIDE range of persons. Rebecca uses her personal journey as well as learning about her roots and past, including reconciling with a shame of embodying so...2020-05-281h 23
Welcome To My VaginaIs Our Love Podcast with The Reluctant Sexpert and Lola JeanWe did not have wine before we recorded this intro. JK we had all the wine. But be sure to donate to us at glow.fm/welcometomyvagina so we can keep buying wine and bringing you this content that you so desperately need. On today’s episode, we spoke with Lola Jean and the Reluctant Sexpert all about kinks and fetishes and consent. Make sure to stick around until the end to hear us thoroughly offended about a listicle that we read.
05:00: Check out our interview on Is Our Love…? Podcast here!
05:30: In case you did n...2020-05-261h 02
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love the New 'Talk'? (with Jet Setting Jasmine)Do you remember getting the talk? Who gave it to you? How would you give “the talk?” Easier said than done. This week’s guest Jet Setting Jasmine is not only walking the walk but talking THE 'talk'. Jasmine is a mother of three and can add therapist, pornographer and domme to her extensive resume. Jasmine schools us on the sex positive parenting playbook that doesn’t exist, answering questions like: When do you start introducing topics of sex to your children and how you go about doing it? Do you have to be comfortable with your own sexuality to be ab...2020-05-201h 24
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Non Monogamous? (w Ruby Rare)Does it seem like everyone is talking about open relationships and polyamory lately? Is non-monogamy actually better? Who is it for? Does non-monogamy mean you have more sex? And why does it have so many syllables? Ruby Rare joins us this week to spell out the shades of non-monogamy from A-Z. Whether you’re already considering non-monogamy or you want some applicable learnings for your future relationships, this episode has relatable bits of wisdom for everyone - monogamous or not. PLUS, Stephen, Lola and Ruby give some advice to a pleasure seeking individual struggling to achieve orgasm with a pa...2020-05-131h 21
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love A Pelvic Floor (w/ Dr. Rachel Gelman)Did you know you have a pelvic floor? Yes, all of you. Do you know what is does? Spoiler Alert: EVERYTHING. Rachel Gelman a San Francisco based Pelvic Floor Therapist joins us this week to tell us everything from the 411 on kegals to why a good bowel movement can make your week. Whether you had no idea that the hammock in your pelvis was responsible for your orgasms AND your urination or you’ve been trying to kegel your way to the heavy weights - there’s always something new to learn. Trust us: you’re going to wan...2020-05-061h 28
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love A Coming of Age (with Liv Revamped)Rebelling against your Pagan family by joining a church... this isn’t your average darling come porn performer coming of age tale. From the industry trying to pigeon hole a multi-racial gal as “latina,” to diversifying her porn profile Liv Revamped drops some wisdom for any aspiring porn performers about how she’s stayed fresh with over a decade of performing sex on camera. We learn pros vs. cons, working indie vs. contract, and discuss porns' rampant streaming evolution PLUS Stephen, Lola and Liv give virginal advice for first time sex! Follow Liv at livrevamped.com and @bish.izb...2020-04-291h 23
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love A New Era Of Porn? (w Inka Winter of ForPlay Films)Everyone and their step-sibling seems to be making their own bootleg smut these days. Is there room for a new era of porn graduated form the yesteryears of gonzo? Is there a difference between porn and erotica? And above all - how does one transition from growing up in a sex cult to creating responsible porn? Frustrated by a lack of quality heterosexual porn that spoke to her, one-woman-show Inka Winter set out to make her own with For Play Films. We find out about the process that goes into each scene and how Inka selects her...2020-04-221h 03
BeastsThe Usain Bolt of Squirting w/ Lola JeanThis week THE Lola Jean joins us to talk about sports, squirting and being the MVP. Caitlin grills Lola and Leif challenges Lola to a fight.2020-04-2100 min
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Stoya (Pt.2)"I have caffeine, nicotine… and the conversation’s all over the place just like I like it.” - Stoya This week is the conclusion of our 2 part conversation with Stoya. We dive right in. If you haven’t listened to pt.1 … well, you’re doing it wrong. We talk balancing love, a career in adult film, and how the modern world forced her to become an expert in costuming & disaster-preparedness. We discuss Stoya's tween years spent researching sexuality, bdsm, & evolutionary biology at her local library. Plus Stephen and Stoya get a bit of closure rehashing their relati...2020-04-151h 07
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Stoya (Pt. 1)Stoya. A person who needs no introduction but we’re going to attempt it anyway. An internationally celebrated author, activist, actress & advocate for sex worker’s rights. An introverted cat lover, a next level book nerd, and a fearless caller of bullshit. An endless seeker of the authentic & creator of sexually explicit media in all forms. Stoya’s famously photogenic asshole could be identified in a line-up by millions of porn viewers… and that’s made her life simultaneously fascinating and fucking traumatizing. Stephen and Stoya met and fell in love in their 20s. That relat...2020-04-081h 02
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love A Private Public Figure (with Fetish Fellow)In a world that isn’t wildly accepting of sexuality, kink, or anything that falls out of heteronormativity can be a scary thing to reveal to folx. Will they accept you? Shame you? Fire you? And if it goes long enough does keeping the secret become the bigger deal? Fetish Fellow is as public a private person can be. As an adored and go-to photo shoot submissive, Fetish Fellow has been in his share of masked displays. The modern day superhero removes his mask to join us to talk about his time in front of the camera as an in...2020-04-011h 24
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love A Threesome?This week we ironically tackle threesomes as a twosome. Threesomes are often one of the first boxes on people’s sexual bucket lists, but are they all they’re cracked up to be? Stephen and Lola weigh the pro’s and con’s on adding a third, and trade some of their best (and worst) threesome tales. What makes a good threesome? What does a 'unicorn' mean? And what you need to know before you decide to have a threesome. Consider this your no-holds-bared, non-romanticized straight shooting guide to threesomes. ------~ Follow us on social media ~------- Th...2020-03-251h 40
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Financially Stable? (with Lindsay Goldwert)This week we take a break from our social distancing to talk about something other than coronavirus. To bring up spirits we decided it would be a great time to discuss personal finances! Totally kidding... we just recorded this episode pre-virus outbreak. In all seriousness, finances are a tricky topic regardless of global pandemic, and what a better time to reassess our relationship with sex, love and money than now. Lindsay Goldwert, author of Bow Down: Lessons from Dominatrixes on How to Get Everything You Want joins us to talk about cash, workplace power dynamics, and if pro dommes...2020-03-181h 27
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love A Genital Rainbow? (w/ Jessy Caron and Rebekah Frank)This week, Is Our Love welcomes the gals of the “Welcome To My Vagina” podcast into *our* podcast vagina which is probably... anal? From hashtag#wellness-ing everything, to the reasons why we faked or continue to fake orgasms, Jessy & Rebekah trade genital war stories. We are overcoming our genital shame in this rainbow bright choose-your-own-genital-experience buffet. Listen to Jessy & Rebekah on Welcome To My Vagina (on all pod platforms) and find their other writing, videos, etc on welcometomyvagina.com Questions? Advice? Rainbows? Email us at isourlovepod@gmail.com ------~ Follow us on so...2020-03-111h 11
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Bleeding (w/ Valarie Merced ...aka the blood queen)This week we live in the taboo, the messy, and the sometimes woo woo. That’s right: We’re on the rag, riding the crimson wave….we’re BLEEDING love. Valarie Merced (aka The Blood Queen) schools us on why it’s important for her to bleed on her lovers. From seeing her mother’s menstruation to the safeties and physiological response during menstruation, this episode is for people with vulvas AND those who enjoy them. Hell, how often do we get to talk about period and period sex? Strap on your Thinx and your Diva cups, it’s gonna get red...2020-03-041h 14
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Positive? (with HIV Advocate Philipp Spiegel)This week on Is Our Love we explore the positive side of being positive. Advocate Philipp Speigel shares his personal stories from reliving his HIV diagnosis, depression, and processing to ultimately becoming a speaker and advocate through owning his positive status. Where it was once thought of as a death sentence, treatment and management for HIV has come leaps and bounds. Do you know what undetectable means? How educated are you on HIV transmission? How often are you getting tested snd how often should you? Take it from Lola and probably Schoolhouse Rock: knowledge is power and getting tested...2020-02-261h 06
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Forever Vol.2 (w Lorrae Bradbury: founder of Slutty Girl Probs)Between breakups, makeups and all that unfolds in between we’ve all had our uglier moments. Lorrae of Slutty Girl Probs fame walks us through the best of times and the worst of times and how learning from those moments has helped her grow and learn more about herself and the types of relationships she needs. Lorrae and Stephen bond over seeing themselves as the problem child in the aftermath of a breakup, while Lola questions why most people tend to always make a villain out of their ex. PLUS Lorrae discusses how understanding her mental health takes part in...2020-02-191h 18
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love High? with Sophie St. Thomas Move over stoner comedies and Bob Marley posters, cannabis has a new sheriff in town…. Sophie St Thomas! This week on Is Our Love we have the most responsible conversation about drugs with the famed author of Finding Your Higher Self and upcoming books Sex Witch and The Little Book of CBD for Self Care. Sophie takes us through her journey from her decision to become sober to her battle with PTSD, flashbacks and her journey to healing through Cannabis and other substances. PLUS we get into some witchy shit and Stephen adds 50 black candles to his amazon shopping ca...2020-02-121h 21
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Defined? (with Kinky Queer Architect: Vanilla Honey)We’re back from a *brief* hiatus to bring you the first episode of 2020. We’re getting all kinds of heady dissecting the phrasing, attire and spaces we frequent and what makes then “queer” “kinky” “sexy” etc…. How do we react to each of these individually and how do they influence or affect our behavior. Kinky queer architect Vanilla Honey shares her kink journey from her first experience with latex to her fantasy of designing the minimalist dungeon of your dreams. We question what is normal and why are we so concerned with it? Do you have questions or feeli...2020-02-051h 24
The Bed Post PodcastLola JeanThis episode, Erin interviews model, brat, Oasis Aquaflirt, and content creator Lola. Listen along as these lovely ladies chat about queer kinky orgies, operating a Sybian, and flexing their labia strength.
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Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love A Resolution?On our last episode of 2019, we take a look back on our favorite episodes of the year and also discuss our take on “Resolutions.” What’s the deal with benchmarks and why do we put so much weight into the changing of the years? Find out what Stephen and Lola are looking forward to in 2020 and what they’re leaving behind in 2019. Most of all, thank you for listening and we look forward to bringing you even more in 2020. If you have any episode requests or are seeking advice of your own this coming year, reach out to us at isour...2019-12-1845 min
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Fertile? (Egg Freezing with Morganna Nickoff)This week’s Is Our Love ___? hits us right in the babymaker. Cartoonist and budding comedian Morganna Nickoff (@morganna.jokes) joins us to question our fertility and our own opinions on why is it that we do or do not want offspring. What does it say about you if you do want kids and when should you start worrying about that biological clock a’ticking? Fresh from freezing her own eggs mere weeks before recording this episode, Morganna spills all the tea on what the entire process was like from the hormonal shots down to how much pocket change is r...2019-12-111h 20
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love A Violent Hug? (Wrestling Fetish with Ursa Fierce)Sometimes love feels like a struggle, but sometimes… maybe we want it too? Wrestling fetish is the biggest craze you’ve never heard about and it’s a lot more common than you think. Before we throw down, we sit with professional fetish wrestler Ursa Fierce to talk about the primal-ness, competitive, and smothering nature of this sport. From pro-style antics to the Butt-Fights you won't want to miss. Ursa explains how wrestling gave her a new perspective on her body and what the sport, the fetish, and the community has taught her. Oh yeah, and then she wipes the fu...2019-12-041h 07
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love a Cumversation? (with Remy Kassimir)This week’s guest knows a thing or two about talking sex stuff in public. Remy Kassimir is the comedian cum role model who still worries if people think she’s cool. Remy joins us to talk about the funny thing that happens when you share your sex life on a global scale. From her first orgasm to managing social responsibility while cracking jokes to going way too hypothetical on how to manage a breakup on a podcast. PLUS, why Hitler would have benefitted from air pulsation technology. You can find links to How Cum and see Remy...2019-11-201h 15
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Bound By Rules? (with NYC Power Dynamics Practitioner: Lady Euphoria)This week we are joined by Pro Domme and sometimes sociologist Lady Euphoria to pick apart why it is that we are so drawn to rules and why the lack of rules makes us so uncomfortable. We are a culture taught to thrive on efficiency and not thoroughness. This conversation uses BDSM as a framework, but make no mistake: this is a human conversation that EVERYONE needs to hear. We find ourselves questioning What are our rules and where do they come from? Does this come from a fear of rejection or fear of failure? If this makes you...2019-11-131h 20Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love A Toy? (Sex Toys w Nadia Deen Founder of AM.appointment)Sometimes our love feels like a game, but just how much are we toying with it? What are the roles of toys in our sex life and how should we be using them? Are we using toys too much? Too little? ARE WE EVEN USING THEM CORRECTLY!? Nadia Deen of AM.appointment teaches us how to chill the fuck out and stop pressuring ourselves (and our partners) to achieve the sexual equivalent of keeping-up-with-the-Jones’. Whether you vibrate, buzz, or just plain suck, come share your toys, your questions and curiosities with us on this weeks ep. You ca...2019-11-061h 31
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertPass The Porn Takeover: Sex MagickWhat witch, wizard or sorcerer would you want to fuck? It’s Halloween and we’re still not sure if we want to channel our sexual energy for good or for evil. This week we’re not question what our love is or isn’t. Instead, we’re taking you on a journey through space and time to our Pass the Porn event. Nope, no recordings of the porn sounds here, you’ll need to head to our next event for that! What happens when we get a Witch, a Wizard, a Shamanatrix and a Porn Performer on a panel? Tune...2019-10-301h 11
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Vaginal Pain? (w Emily Sauer, Founder Of OhNut)This week we're hitting where it hurts…...in the vagina? Sometimes our love involves vaginas, but what happens when that love is...painful? Whose responsibility is it? Do we push through it? Avoid it at all costs? Denial? This week we talk about the often experienced but lesser validated ambiguity that is vaginal pain. Emily from OhNut joins us to share how she stumbled upon her calling and how a pink frosted donut changed her life. Find out why doctors are saying “Fuck Yes” to a solution created by a patient. For info and to purchase an OhNut...2019-10-231h 29
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love A Cold Sore? (Herpes Etc. W Sexologist Emily Depasse) What a week to have our first guest on to talk STI’s and we’re kicking things off with the black sheep of the STI fam: Herpes. We get honest with our personal HSV stories: both contracting, spreading, and having in all it’s various formats. This weeks guest explains why people are so socially wired to freak out about Herpes and how discerning between HSV 1 and HSV 2 can add weight to that stigma. Busting myths and forging research, sexologist Emily Depasse is changing the way we talk about and frame a herpes diagnosis. Come one, come all, and gi...2019-10-161h 15
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Masochistic (with Pro Sub Indygo Ann)Our BDSM trilogy continues on Is Our Love?! After a few weeks of Dommes, we head to the other side of the spectrum and dive deep into sub space with this week’s guest: Indygo Ann. Indygo is a PRO SUB. Yeah, we’re capitalizing it, ‘cause they’re the unsung heroes of dungeons far and wide. But just because she’s a sub, does she actually enjoy her sessions with clients the same as with a partner? How does one keep themselves safe as a masochist? Whether you’re a Daddy or a Dad, a Mister or a Master, how...2019-10-091h 17
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Full Of Shit? (w Mistress Shayla)If our love is full of shit, how much confidence does it take to throatfuck that shit in someone’s mouth? Wait….what? You never asked… we answered, and the answer is this weeks’ guest: Mistress Shayla. A charismatic Texas sadist with a heart of gold. Shayla is seasoned in many areas of FemDom but where her heart shines brightest is when someone is covered in her sweet, sweet excrement. How does one get into pooping on people and why? What do her submissives get out of it and what does she enjoy most. Shayla answers the timeless question: after yo...2019-10-021h 30
This Podcast is a RitualHow to Be Sexually Dominant (w/ Lola Jean)Sex educator and pro domme Lola Jean wrestles our ritual into submission and shoves our faces into some beautifully wise word about power and empowerment.
Tune into Lola's frequencies at: https://lolajean.com/
Become a ritual participant at: www.patreon.com/thispodcastisaritual2019-09-3039 min
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Kinky? (w/ Mistress Nikita Reign)If being kinky is a spectrum from a simple roleplay all the way to chastity and eternal servitude, where does a new Pro Domme (Dominatrix) fall into it? Kicking off a string of BDSM focused guests is someone on the newer side of Pro Domming, but who is no stranger to smut. Mistress Nikita Reign is a true performance artist. From peep shows to titty bars to her latest medium: Domination. We talk to Nikita about the difference between Pro Domming in Australia versus the U.S., the role of community within sex work, and why strippers should thinking...2019-09-251h 15
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Body Conscious? (Sex After An Eating Disorder w/ Devon Day Moretti)With all of the positive strides modern media is making with showcasing different types of bodies and faces, it can feel like body positivity is a simple compliment away, right? It’s not always as easy as telling yourself “I Love You” specifically if that negativity is rooted in insecurity and esteeming through others. *cough* Stephen *cough* This weeks guest Devon Moretti is a body image coach, but she didn’t get there overnight. Devon tells us the steps she took to getting to more accepting place with her body and where she still needs work. Because recovery is a proces...2019-09-181h 30
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Intimate (with Sex Therapist Cyndi Darnell)In our continued pursuit of all conversations sex & kink, this weeks' guest Cyndi Darnell, a leading sex therapist and educator, brings us back to our human core: INTIMACY. We have an in depth convo about fostering intimacy within our various types of relationships. Cyndi also illuminates how her clientele has changed over time, and addresses some of the most common issues that bring clients into her office (we're looking at you sexual dysfunction stress!). PLUS Lola and Stephen cover some butt stuff with a listener email. With so many great nuggets from this weeks episode perhaps the most poignant...2019-09-111h 24
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love HYPNOTIZED? (Erotic Hypnosis with Wizard: Devin Person)This week on Is Our Love we talk to a *fucking* Wizard. Find out how one becomes a fucking wizard and what a real life wizard even does. Devin Person dispels the mystique behind erotic hypnosis and what happens when a hypnosis goes dark. So much of pleasure based sex ed focuses on physical touch, but how can one manipulate the mind as a part of the mind-body experience? Whether you subscribe or not, hypnotism has many interesting parallels to BDSM and sex. PLUS, Stephen and Lola get hypnotized and have (you guessed it)*very* different reactions. ...2019-09-041h 36
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love a One Night Stand?No conversation about sex is complete without talking about the one night stand. So commonplace its earned its own abbreviation: ONS. One-night standspert MOMO (@momosinmieda) joins Stephen and Lola as we break down what constitutes a one night stand. Are one night stands inherently bad & what can be done to improve them? With vivid stories from one night stands past, present, and maybe even the future, Momo and Lola bond over shared ghosts and Stephen gets to the bottom of why cis-dudes are so susceptible to becoming ghosts. PLUS: We tackle fantasy habits in our listener questions. ...2019-08-281h 38
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love the Fetishization of Asian Women?This week we boldly go where two white podcasters dare not tread... for good reason. Inspired by a listener question regarding the fetishization of her race within her dating pursuits, Stephen and Lola try their best not to “white savior” by bringing in roommates and friends Yuko and Rachel. Both Yuko and Rachel grew up in wildly different parts of the US and have had wildly different experiences as asian women. Get ready to tighten your butthole as we discuss wildly uncomfortable, yet necessary conversations from the stereotypical roles of Asian women in porn, to the difference between having a ‘t...2019-08-2153 min
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love A Summer FlingIt's summer and we've been on vacation! Lola and Stephen reconvene after a little break and recount what happened with their summer flings and things. While Lola fucked (and educated) her way through Europe, the Reluctant Sexpert spent his days sex nerding at Sex Camp. There's some romance, revelations... at least a few good stories. Whether you realize you’re more of a Dad than a Daddy or that you need to keep your European submissive in check, capture the fleeting flag of that summer fling and get ready to head back to introspection school. If you ha...2019-08-141h 07
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Codependent w/ Rachel KhintsIf codependency is a spectrum, where is a healthy place to sit? How can you tell if your relationship is in equilibrium or codependent AF? Are you in-love or enmeshed? This week we sit down with Rachel Khints, who specializes in treating codependency with a focus on group therapy. We learn the correlation between codependency treatment and Al-anon as well as where codependent tendencies typically come from. Starting with esteeming ourselves. Rachel walks us through the five compartments of codependency and the process of slowly chipping away in order to move mountains. PLUS opening up relationships in...2019-08-071h 33
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love A Multi-Orgasmic Man (Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms with Dominus Eros)No greater sex goal has plagued man more than the non-ejaculatory orgasm. Ok... well maybe not, but unless you’ve been living under a 'fuck' rock, chances are you’ve heard of The Multi-Orgasmic Man. Sometimes thought only to only be achieved by tantric yogi’s meditating in mountains (and livestreaming to youtube), Dominus Eros is here to clear the air. Whether you're a full on guru seeking that sweet 8 hour Sting-esque fucksesh, or a skeptical realist hoping to practically up your game, Dominus breaks down his two paths to achieving internal orgasms so you can find your o...2019-07-311h 26
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love A Safer Space? (Gamifying Your Orgy w Robin Scott)Exploring sex and love is all fine and dandy but where are we doing all this uber progressive sexploration? Safe(r) spaces are crucial to creating sex positive communities (and sex positive humans)... and Robin Scott is creating some of the most fun, progressive events around. This week, Robin shares how a Roman fertility fest of slapping goat flesh on nubile virgins inspired the gamified orgy that became Eutopia Rising. Even if getting filthy with sticky buns at "THE GREAT BROOKLYN BOINK OFF" isn't your scene, we know you're going to take some of Robin's sexual gameducation back to...2019-07-241h 11
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Forever Vol. 1We're finally tackling our first LOVE spectacular! Is there a reason we're inherently attracted to the “wrong” people? How do you date for love vs. date for sport? This week, Stephen takes the wheel as the resident hopeless romantic as we're joined by Bobby, who knows a thing or three about love. Two men discuss falling in and out of love, while resident relationship virgin Lola Jean searches for answers. ------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert This week...2019-07-171h 19
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs our Love Bisexual?Is bisexuality a 50/50 split or is it a bit more complicated than that. Join us for all the confusion from the bicurious to the biphobic, we discuss all sides of the Kinsey scale and question if straight is built out of fear, ignorance or a definite identity. Julia Koerwer, MSW, joins us to drop knowledge on bisexuality as a demisexual dating an aromantic. Confused, yet? Experiment and question your identity on this weeks’ episode where we talk about everything from Harry Potter erotica to exploring surprising experiences with the same gender later in one’s sexual life. If y...2019-07-101h 15
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love CockDependent? (Body Acceptance With Jojo Bear)When it comes to body acceptance, bodies with penises tend to focus on just that: PENISES. And as our guest--and current person we’re fangirling over--Jojo Bear puts it: while a part of the body but it tends to be the part of the body we focus on the most. How does one’s relationship with their penis relate to one’s relationship with their body? How does one begin to tackle what they view as “issues.” Jojo Bear introduces us to Soft Cock Massage and PreJac and questions why much of our sex revolves around a hard cock. If y...2019-07-031h 27
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love A Gaping HoleLola Jean and Stephen make the best of getting stood up by their guest and take things in an unexpected direction: Anal. Well, maybe not so unexpected. From fucking butts, to having their butts fucked, Is Our Love explores first time anal and how that compares to the anal they’re currently having. Whether you’re an anal connoisseur or haven’t spelunked into the great unknown, there’s something for everyone in this episode. If you have a sex or relationship question for us or have a topic you want to hear covered on the show? Email us...2019-06-2651 min
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love (master)BATIN' (with the Bate' Coach!)Where do we learn to masturbate? How do we know if what we’re doing is enough and how would we get better at it? Masturbation coaching is a thing and we sat down with none other than The Bate Coach to discuss his methods of changing men’s relationship with how they view masturbation and getting off in general. Whether you scream to slayer in your car or you like to lift heavy things, everyone’s got a different thing. The Bate Coach provides a glimpse into gay spaces and makes us ponder if straight spaces could handle it. PL...2019-06-191h 07
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love DICKS! with Zachary ZanePeen. Cock. Dick. A penis by another other name....well, you get the idea: we’re talking about dicks this week. Zachary Zane joins us to give his unique perspective on hooking up with gay men and straight women and how they differ when it comes to dicks. What makes a pretty penis? And we take a stab at the age old question: does size matter? From early ED to meat market sauna debauchery, Zackary spares no detail in our quest to uncover the universal truths to the peen. PLUS We dig into a fan email about mismatching romantic fe...2019-06-121h 10
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertDoes Our Love start with Cunnilinugs? (w/ Alison Moon)What’s with the illustrious “v” word? Learn the difference between a Vagina and a Vulva and why knowing that will make you a better lover (and, likely... person.) This week Allison Moon (Author of Girl Sex 101 & Bad Dyke) helps us with R&D on all things vulva. Join our own Vulvapalooza as we discuss the ups and downs of having a vulva and why we need to continuously learn our partners bodies--even in long term relationships. ------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com...2019-06-051h 11
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love a First Kiss?Your eyes connect... you lean in with that 'look'... but are you getting butterflies or just slammin' faces? What makes a good kiss and can you up your game? Is a kiss connection chemical, or a skill? This week we're joined by real life couple and kissing comrades Kat and Gerard who have both kissed their fair share of men and women for play and for work. Professional kissing. Kat and Gerard discuss the difference between acting kissing and kissing for funsies. PLUS we all slam faces and makeout... FOR SCIENCE. It’s as every bit awkward an...2019-05-291h 20
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love A Real Connection? : Flirtgame w/ Olive PersimmonWhat makes one a good flirt--or for that matter--a bad one? Are we flirting right now? How does one flirt in the post #metoo era? Professional word-sayer Olive Persimmon (author of 'Unintentionally Celibate' and 'The Coitus Chronicles') joins us this week to discuss her jump from a 5 year celibacy streak to being coached by a pick-up artist. From grown men climbing bunk beds to throwing napkins for attention, Olive takes us through the mating habits of flirting and being flirted with. PLUS, Stephen introduces us to “The Blurt,” and we answer our first listener emails. Do *you* need s...2019-05-221h 33
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Digital? : App Flirting In The Modern AgeIt's official: We live in the future & date via robots. In the age of fuckbois and ghosts, Stephen and Lola explore how dating apps have changed both the dating landscape as well as hookup culture. How do we use dating apps and are they a tool for good or evil? Which apps are better for dating versus hooking up? What are the rules of app etiquette? This week the sexperts struggle with love in the time of technology. PLUS Stephen and Lola go full on 'Freaky Friday' with their Bumble flirt game. Ya'know... for sex science. ------~ Fo...2019-05-151h 08
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love Restrictive? : BoundariesBoundaries get a bad rap, but what if we told you they’re actually a GREAT thing? Stephen and Lola Jean explore the role of boundaries as it relates to relationships, friendships, sex work and kink. What lessons can be learned from those required to exercise (and realize) their boundaries often? This week, married couple Kayla and Sean help us explore if our love is doomed. It’s the classic story of fetish wrestler meets poster-child poly-boy. Married for a year and together for three, Sean and Kayla are learning on the job using their ability to accept and thri...2019-05-081h 24
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertIs Our Love New? :First Times No sexpert can exist without a first time. Stephen and Lola are no different. This week re-lose all our virginities as we welcome our first guest: Janet (Who has lost more virginities than she can count.) From hoovering a pile of cocaine with her freshman year roommate, to lesbian orgies and cam work. This episode is every bit as hilarious and awkwardly romantic as *your* first time. Could you use sex & relationship advice? Email us at: isourlovepod@gmail.com ! ------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lo...2019-05-011h 37
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant SexpertThe very first episode: Is Our Love F**ked?Everyone and their grandmother seems to be giving sex advice these days. So who can you actually trust? Sex Educator/Olympian Squirter Lola Jean (@lolajeandotcom) and Reluctant Sexpert/resident straight dude, Stephen Penta (@thereluctantsexpert) tow both sides of the line, Stephen representing the hopeless romantic to fulfill greater sexual desires and Lola Jean representing the sex forward, alpha female unable to grasp love. Do *you* need sex & relationship advice? Email us at: isourlovepod@gmail.com ! ------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajean.com Classes & Instruction: l...2019-04-1854 min
The spread podcastTHE SPREAD | EP 51 | LOLA JEAN THE SQUIRTING QUEENFirst off I am extremely happy to announce that I am now working with DWTV to produce content for their station. If you don’t know, they are the German international news channel and are now focusing on African content. So my segment of the spread will be shown on a show hosted by my super friend Edith Kimani and the show is called 77% specifically focused on the 77% members of the youth in Africa. Creating content for the youth, by the youth.
Secondly, you should know by now that The Spread Fest is happening on the 25th of May in Na...2019-04-1854 min
Come CuriousSquirt Lessons and Setting Records with Lola JeanOn the show this week we have the brilliant Lola Jean. Lola is a Sex Educator, Instructor & Coach, Pro Domme, Wrestler, and Writer! Wow. Lola teaches classes all over the world on a variety of topics including squirting, oral, and pegging. This is an episode you do not want to miss!F**ks Given' with Come Curious presents an honest and candid exploration of their guests’ sexual histories, from the first f**k to the best f**k andeven the bad, average and comical ones in between. Each episode is an uncensored look at what’s gone on b...2019-03-1449 min
Tinder TalesLola Jean "Sad Blank Slate" Episode 110Oh Hey Tinder Tales is on Patreon Now! Consider Donating at https://www.patreon.com/TinderTalesPod
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Welcome to Tinder Tales! This is my podcast about the best and worst of Online Dating. This episode I interview sex educator Lola Jean as we talk about her inability to be in a relationship, her love hate relationship with online dating and how to deal with rejection/getting ghosted.
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How Cum05 Sexual Healing, Literally (David Goldberg, Dominus Eros & Lola Jean)O.M.G. This episode is so chock full of goodness. David Goldberg (LGBT/Comedy/Things to Do Editor @ Timeout NY) co-hosts and introduces Remy to his favorite sexual healers, Lola Jean & Dominus Eros (3FStudios) and we learn about all of the sexual healing classes they offer, including but not limited to: BDSM, Wrestling, Tantric Massage, Masturbation Classes, Tantric Massage, Couples Classes etc. We also chat about life as a gay person, life as a pan sexual, and what it means to be polyamorous/ polysexual. THIS EPISODE IS JUICY. Get excited. Follow @Howcumpodcast & wr...2018-02-251h 34