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Raising Fatherless Kids178. When Dad Steps Out, God Steps InIn this episode of Raising Fatherless Kids, Lori shares a powerful promise from the Word of God specifically for children growing up without an earthly father. Drawing from Proverbs 23:10–11, Lori reminds moms that God has not forgotten their children—He personally defends the field of the fatherless.With warmth and wisdom, Lori explains the significance of ancient boundary stones and fields and what they represent today: identity, protection, provision, and purpose. This timeless truth offers encouragement as families begin a new school year—God will fight for your children, and no plan of the enemy can prevail agains...
2025-08-2020 minRaising Fatherless Kids177. Speaking Life Over Your Children: Identity Beyond BehaviorAs the school year begins, it is the perfect time to pause and reflect on the words we speak over our children—and ourselves. In this episode, Lori shares a powerful parenting tip that helped shape the way she encouraged and corrected her children as a young mom raising eight kids.You will be challenged to reframe phrases like “good girl” or “bad boy” and instead use language that separates identity from behavior. Lori also explores how deeply rooted identity is—in Christ, not in performance—and how this truth brings freedom, hope, and healing.Whether you ar...
2025-08-1312 minRaising Fatherless Kids175. Do Hard ThingsIn this heartfelt episode, Lori encourages single and widowed moms navigating the heat of summer—and the heat of life—to do hard things. Through personal stories, from childbirth to cutting the grass after her husband's death, Lori shares how God used difficult moments to shape her, strengthen her, and reveal His presence in the midst of pain. Whether you are embracing a new reality after loss or facing daily challenges of single parenting, this episode reminds you that you are not alone—and there is purpose in the hard things.Key Takeaways:Your perspective shapes...
2025-07-3017 minRaising Fatherless Kids173. A Mom’s Guide to Teaching Kids that God Is Good (Even When Life Is Not)In this heartfelt episode, Lori gently guides mothers through one of the hardest truths to navigate as parents: how to teach their children that God is good, even when life feels anything but. Drawing from personal experience and Scripture, Lori shares practical wisdom for walking with your children through seasons of suffering, loss, and deep questions about God's character.Key Takeaways:Helping children with their crisis of faith at a young age. Gentle advice for when children express anger at God or doubt His loveCreative ways to reinforce trust in G...
2025-07-1624 minRaising Fatherless Kids171. Single Moms and the ADHD Dilemma: Truth, Sleep, and Self-Control with Dr. Leonard Sax (Part Two)In this thought-provoking second part of the conversation with Dr. Leonard Sax, Lori Apon dives deeper into important challenges facing single and widowed moms raising children without fathers: overdiagnosis, unnecessary medication, and the critical role of sleep and structure.Dr. Sax, a renowned family physician, psychologist, and author of The Collapse of Parenting, Boys Adrift, and Girls on the Edge, sheds light on cultural trends in the United States that lead to children—especially boys—being quickly labeled and medicated for behavior that may actually stem from poor sleep or lack of structure.Lori and Dr...
2025-07-0218 minRaising Fatherless Kids170. Intentional Mothering: Parenting Insights with Dr. Leonard Sax (Part One)In this powerful first part of a multi-episode series, Lori Apon sits down with renowned author and family physician Dr. Leonard Sax to discuss the essential role of parental authority, intentionality, and connection in the lives of children, especially for single and widowed mothers. Drawing from his book The Collapse of Parenting, Dr. Sax challenges cultural trends and encourages moms to reclaim their God-given leadership in the home.Key Topics Discussed:Why children need parental attachment over peer attachmentThe medicalization of misbehavior and the overuse of psychiatric labels...
2025-06-2525 minRaising Fatherless Kids169. “Where’s Daddy?” - Helping Moms Answer Hard QuestionsWhen a child loses their father, the question “Where’s Daddy?” can come at any time—and for a grieving mom, answering it can feel emotional and more challenging than the simple question asked. In this episode of Raising Fatherless Kids, we talk about how to navigate this tender moment with grace, wisdom, and biblical truth.If you are a mom navigating deep grief while helping your child understand the loss of their father, this conversation offers biblical guidance and emotional support to remind you that you are not alone. God is near. He is a Father to the f...
2025-06-1825 minRaising Fatherless Kids168. Helping Mom Navigate a Fatherless Father’s DayFather’s Day can be a tender time for single mothers and children navigating life without an earthly dad. What once may have been a day of joy and tradition is now often filled with quiet moments, bittersweet memories, and unspoken grief. This episode offers a fresh perspective on how to approach the day with intentionality and hope.Listeners will be encouraged to create new traditions that reflect the unique journey of their family. One suggestion is to shift the focus of Father’s Day to a personal Remembrance Day—honoring the day when God stepped in as Fat...
2025-06-1113 minRaising Fatherless Kids167. Boy or Man of the House? A Single Mom’s DilemmaWhat happens when a young boy hears, “You’re the man of the house now”? This well-intentioned phrase can become a heavy mantle, especially in homes where Dad is no longer present, whether by death, divorce, or abandonment.In today’s heartfelt and insightful episode, Lori Apon sits down with her son, Brandon, and son-in-law Ben for a powerful and honest conversation that every single mom raising sons needs to hear. Drawing from their personal stories, they unpack the meaning behind the phrase “man of the house” and offer wisdom for moms navigating this delicate dynamic.You will h...
2025-06-0452 minRaising Fatherless Kids166. Overcoming Self-Pity with Surrender - A Pep Talk for the Downcast SoulThis episode explores the hidden danger of self-pity and how it can hinder healing after loss. Listeners are reminded that while sorrow is natural, staying stuck in self-focus can lead to spiritual defeat. Drawing insight from Psalm 43 and 2 Samuel 12, the message highlights the importance of choosing surrender over bitterness and worship over despair. With encouragement rooted in Scripture, the episode points to God as the Good Shepherd who restores the cast-down soul and calls His children to trust Him.Key Takeaways:Self-pity is a hidden enemy that keeps us from healing and leads t...
2025-05-2822 minRaising Fatherless Kids165. Pursue PerseverancePerseverance is not just a virtue—it is a lifeline for anyone walking through prolonged seasons of hardship, especially single or widowed mothers raising children without the presence of an earthly father. Life often presents unexpected trials, and the weight of daily responsibilities can feel overwhelming. In this episode of Raising Fatherless Kids, we explore what it means to persevere when the journey is long and hope feels distant. Through biblical truths, personal insight, and five practical strategies, this episode will equip you to press on with purpose, anchored in the faithfulness of God who sees, sustains, and...
2025-05-2117 minRaising Fatherless Kids164. Graduation Without Dad: Helping Your Fatherless Child Cross the StageIn this deeply moving episode of Raising Fatherless Kids, Lori Apon opens her heart to single moms navigating the emotional terrain of graduation season. As school years wrap up and caps and gowns are prepared, Lori reminds moms that milestones like high school graduation often stir unexpected grief for fatherless children—grief that may have been buried or long thought resolved.Lori reflects on her own family’s journey, sharing her youngest son Micah’s touching letter to the father he never knew—honest words that give voice to what so many fatherless graduates may be silently carrying...
2025-05-1420 minRaising Fatherless Kids163. Honoring Single Moms on Mother’s DayIn this special Mother’s Day episode of Raising Fatherless Kids, host Lori Apon offers heartfelt encouragement and biblical hope to single moms carrying the weight of motherhood alone. Through real-life stories, biblical reflections, and powerful prayers, Lori honors the quiet strength and sacrificial love of mothers raising children without an earthly father's daily presence.Whether you are a new mom, a grandmother, an adoptive or foster mother, or navigating motherhood after loss, this message reminds you that God sees you, supports you, and is with you every step of the journey. With reflections on biblical mothers—from...
2025-05-0726 minRaising Fatherless Kids162. Holding on to Hope: Lori Apon’s Testimony of God’s FaithfulnessIn Part 2 of Compelled, Lori Apon shares how God faithfully upheld His promise to be “a Father to the fatherless and a Ddefender of widows” (Psalm 68:5) after her husband, Bobby, tragically took his life. Left to raise eight young children alone, Lori clung to God’s word, trusting that He would provide—and He did.Through years of uncertainty and hardship, God’s provision came in miraculous ways: anonymous gifts, unexpected opportunities, and even full college scholarships for all eight of her children. Despite the overwhelming challenges, Lori watched her children grow into faithful followers of Christ, defying st...
2025-04-3055 minRaising Fatherless Kids161. From Fairytale to Reality: Lori Apon’s Journey of Faith and Forgiveness (Part 1)In this gripping episode of Compelled that originally aired on the Compelled podcast, Lori Apon shares her powerful testimony of love, faith, and perseverance. Lori met her future husband, Bobby Apon, at a NewSong concert after a providential introduction through a friend. Their whirlwind romance led to marriage, but their journey was far from a fairytale. Lori quickly learned that both she and Bobby were entering marriage with hidden struggles—Bobby battled an addiction to lust and pornography, while Lori was caught in the grip of an eating disorder rooted in a need for control.Despite their lo...
2025-04-2352 minRaising Fatherless Kids160. Mary, the Widow at the Cross: God’s Provision for WidowsAs Easter approaches, we pause to reflect on one of the most powerful and tender moments in Scripture—Mary at the foot of the cross. In this heartfelt episode, Lori Apon invites you to see Good Friday through the eyes of a woman who held the Son of God as a baby and watched Him suffer as Savior.Through Mary’s journey—from the angel’s announcement to Jesus’ final moments—Lori draws out hope and encouragement for every single mom. Mary, a widow and mother, models what it looks like to ponder and treasure God's plan, even when we...
2025-04-1621 minRaising Fatherless Kids158. Raising Daughters in Faith: The Power of a Mother’s InfluenceIn this special episode, we share one of the breakout sessions from our recent Daughters of the King event. As mothers, we experience both the joy and challenge of shaping our daughters' lives. Our personal faith deeply impacts the way we raise them, and whether we realize it or not, we are their primary role models.Through personal stories and biblical examples, Lori explores what it means to model godliness for our girls—even in the struggles, grief, and uncertainties of life. This conversation reminds us that even on the hard days, God sees us, equips us, an...
2025-04-0222 minRaising Fatherless Kids155. Money and the Single MomManaging finances as a single mom can feel overwhelming, but God is our provider. Money is a tool, a treasure, and a test. We must handle it with wisdom.God sees your needs and will provide for you and your children (Psalm 37:25). Stay faithful, seek His wisdom, and steward what He has given you well.In this episode of Raising Fatherless Kids, Lori Apon shares personal stories, biblical wisdom, and practical advice for financial stewardship. From budgeting and saving to teaching children about money, learn how to trust God with your finances and make wise...
2025-03-1223 minRaising Fatherless Kids154. Growth in GriefGrief is like a workout—it is painful, exhausting, and requires endurance. But just like time in the gym builds strength, grief can lead to growth when we embrace the process.As we navigate grief, let us trust that growth is happening, even when we cannot see it. Spring is coming, and with it, hope and renewal.In this episode, Lori Apon shares key lessons from her gym experience that parallel the journey of grief. Through personal stories and biblical encouragement, she reminds us that while suffering is hard, it is not wasted. God is pr...
2025-03-0518 minRaising Fatherless Kids152. Raising Sons to Know God’s Will: Wisdom for Single MomsIn this episode, Lori encourages single moms raising sons without an earthly father. Reflecting on biblical examples like Solomon, who recognized the importance of a mother’s teaching, and the story of James and John—the sons of Thunder—Lori emphasizes the importance of guiding our sons toward God’s will. She highlights the significance of a mother’s instruction in a child’s life, much like a treasured piece of jewelry.Through scriptural insights from Proverbs, Deuteronomy, and the Gospels, Lori offers practical encouragement for single moms to teach their sons to seek, know, and obey God’s will...
2025-02-1920 minRaising Fatherless Kids151. Finding Joy on Valentine’s DayValentine’s Day can be a tender time, especially for widows and single moms. In this episode, Lori encourages listeners to keep a heavenly perspective to combat the enemy’s lies of being unloved. She shares the history of Valentine’s Day, creative ways to celebrate with children, and practical ways to find joy by giving love to others.Lori also readsThe Father’s Love Letter, a beautiful reminder of God’s love and faithfulness. She closes with a heartfelt prayer for widows and single moms, asking God to lift their spirits and fill their hearts with His love.
2025-02-1213 minRaising Fatherless Kids150. Triumph over TriggersValentine’s Day can be a painful reminder of loss, rejection, and unmet expectations, often bringing unexpected emotional triggers. In this episode, Lori shares biblical encouragement and practical strategies for navigating triggers with hope. She explores how our senses can stir deep emotions and memories.
Through personal experiences and biblical stories, including Hagar and Leah, Lori reminds listeners that God sees them, values them, and brings beauty from brokenness. Learn how to anticipate, validate, and redirect your focus when triggers arise, replacing painful memories with moments of joy and gratitude.
✨ Key Takeaways:
Understanding Trig...
2025-02-0519 minRaising Fatherless Kids149. Finding Rest When StressedIn this heartfelt episode of Raising Fatherless Kids, Lori Apon addresses the universal struggle of stress and its profound impact on single mothers. Drawing on personal experiences, biblical wisdom, and practical tips, she shares how to navigate stress with grace and intentionality.
Key Takeaways:
Understanding Stress: Learn how stress affects your body and emotions and why it can be a red flag signaling the need for change.
Biblical Encouragement: The widow with debt from 2 Kings 4:1-7 is a powerful reminder of God’s provision and the faith required to trust Him in hard sea...
2025-01-2936 minRaising Fatherless Kids148. From Loss to Light: How God Redeems the Fatherless Journey with Tara DicksonIn this heartfelt episode, Lori Apon welcomes back Tara Dickson to share her powerful story as a fatherless child and a widow raising fatherless children. Tara shares how God’s grace sustained her through the most challenging times, offering encouragement to single moms navigating similar journeys. From her father leaving at a young age to losing her husband of 25 years, Tara reveals how God became her father and champion.
Key Takeaways:
Tara’s Story of Hope
Practical Tips for Single Moms
Encouragement for Moms and Kids
Featured Resource:
Ta...
2025-01-2239 minRaising Fatherless Kids147. Guiding Fatherless Children: Hope for Ages 6-12In this episode of the Raising Fatherless Kids Podcast, host Lori Apon shares heartfelt encouragement, biblical insights, and practical tools to navigate this season of loss and growth, recognizing the unique emotional, spiritual, and developmental needs of elementary-aged children.
Scriptural Encouragement: Exploring verses like Psalm 68:5 and Hosea 14:3 that reveal God’s heart for the fatherless.
Faith-Filled Guidance: Helping children see God as a perfect Father who meets their deepest needs.
Practical Support
Finding Male Role Models for my Fatherless Girl Podcast Episode 22
Conversations Your Must Have with Your Fatherless Ch...
2025-01-1526 minRaising Fatherless Kids146. Breaking Free from Anxiety and Depression with Biblical Truth with Pastor Josh WeidmannIn this episode of Raising Fatherless Kids, Lori Apon welcomes Pastor Josh Weidmann to discuss the challenging and prevalent topic of depression. Drawing from his personal experiences and biblical insights, Pastor Josh offers practical tools and hope for navigating depression, reminding listeners of God's unfailing love and strength.
Key Takeaways:
The Link Between Anxiety and Depression: Pastor Josh explains how these struggles often go hand in hand, describing depression as "the evil cousin of anxiety."
Hidden Depression: Depression can manifest in ways that are unseen, even to those closest to us. Pastor Josh...
2025-01-0834 minRaising Fatherless Kids145. Single Moms and God’s PromisesHost: Lori Apon
Episode Summary:In this special New Year’s episode, Lori Apon reflects on the transition into 2025 with encouragement and hope for single moms navigating fatherless parenting. She discusses the importance of releasing past regrets, treasuring God’s faithfulness, and living expectantly for the blessings and surprises God has in store. Drawing inspiration from Mary, the mother of Jesus, Lori encourages listeners to practice gratitude, reflection, and surrender as they move forward into the new year.
This episode also introduces subtle changes to the podcast and includes practical ideas for family reflection, gratitude prac...
2025-01-0127 minRaising Fatherless Kids144. REPLAY 91 Jesus, Our Prince of PeaceWe are all desperately longing for peace. You may be in a season of suffering but able to proclaim that you are experiencing a peace that surpasses understanding, or you may be crying out for peace amidst the turmoil. No matter where you find yourself today, you have access to Jesus, the Prince of Peace.
The prophet Isaiah gives four titles for Jesus, “For to us a child is born, to us a son is given; and the government shall be upon His shoulder, and His name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Pe...
2024-12-2514 minRaising Fatherless Kids143. REPLAY 89 He will be called Mighty GodEach advent season calls us to ponder the promise of Isaiah 9:6, “For a child will be born to us. A son will be given, and the government will rest on his shoulders, and He will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of peace.”
Scripture uses many names to describe the members of the Trinity, but these names were given in anticipation of Jesus Christ, our Messiah, the King of all kings, and Savior. You may be able to recite these familiar titles from memory, but have you taken time this season to treasure their mean...
2024-12-1818 minRaising Fatherless Kids139. From Grief to Grace: Halli Gravely's Story of Forgiveness and HealingChildren’s Grief Awareness Day is a time to turn our hearts to children impacted by the pain of grief and loss in their childhood. Lori Apon speaks with Halli Gravely, a student at Liberty University, who shares her journey of grief, God's faithfulness, and finding healing after losing her father.
This episode offers hope to moms raising fatherless daughters and anyone dealing with loss.
Episode Highlights:
Halli's Loss and Discovery: Halli lost her father at age 7. At 12, she learned the cause of his death, which brought a new layer of grief.
A...
2024-11-2036 minRaising Fatherless Kids138. Rethinking Santa - Why Our Family Celebrates DifferentlyChristmas can be a wonderful time, providing opportunities for single and widowed moms to evaluate their family traditions. In this episode, how to balance the secular and sacred aspects of Christmas is discussed.
Lori shares her personal convictions and experiences, encouraging listeners to thoughtfully consider how they might shape their own holiday traditions in light of faith and family values.
Key Points Covered:
Who is Santa Claus?
Choosing a Christ-Centered Focus
Alternative Ways to Celebrate
Navigating Your Personal Traditions
Upcoming Event: Christmas Hope
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2024-11-1316 minRaising Fatherless Kids137. Unpacking 1 Timothy 5: Widows in Need vs. Widows Called to LeadOn November 10, many will celebrate “Pure Religion Sunday.” This day is dedicated to living out the biblical call found in James 1:27 to visit the fatherless and widows in their distress and to keep oneself unstained from the world. Lori reminds us that “pure religion” invites everyone to participate in the practical expression of God’s love.
In this episode, Lori dives into 1 Timothy Chapter 5, a passage she encountered shortly after becoming a widow at 38. Initially, Lori misunderstood parts of the scripture, seeing them as a checklist she needed to meet to receive care. However, she discovered that these were...
2024-11-0617 minRaising Fatherless Kids135. The Spiritual Influence of a Mother with Daniel ClubbIn this enlightening session from our recent Mom and Man event, Daniel Clubb from Advance Camp delivers a powerful message about the spiritual influence of mothers. He reflects on the character of Timothy, a young man shaped by the faith and love of his mother and grandmother, as highlighted in Paul’s letters to Timothy in the Bible.
Key Takeaways:
Five ways moms can influence their sons
Instill a tender heart and lead by example
Pass on faith and pray regularly
Build self-confidence
Teach selfless love
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2024-10-2321 minRaising Fatherless Kids134. Understanding Emotional Changes in Fatherless Young Men with Evan AponAs a single or widow mom, your understanding of the emotional changes your son will experience is crucial. Recognizing these shifts is the first step in guiding him through his development. Encouraging open communication, recognizing his individuality, and teaching biblical leadership principles can significantly impact his growth and resilience.
In this episode, the emotional landscape of fatherless young men is discussed, along with practical tips on how moms can help:
Understanding emotional differences
The role of emotions
Building respect
The importance of trust
Leadership development
Handling failure
Other resources:
Building Strong Men: Respect...
2024-10-1631 minRaising Fatherless Kids131. Single Mom Considerations for the Fall and on HalloweenWhen we think of fall, many things come to mind: the colorful leaves, the cooler temperatures, fire pits, comfort foods, hay rides, the pumpkin patch and apple farms, and Halloween. For single and widow moms, the change of seasons brings new challenges and opportunities for growth. We can find beauty and restoration in letting go while watching God make all things new.
In the episode, Lori discusses:
Practical ideas for making memories with your children this fall
Considerations about Halloween, including what the Bible says about witchcraft and talking to our deceased loved o...
2024-09-2437 minRaising Fatherless Kids130. Combatting the Shame of SuicideCoping with the loss of a loved one to suicide is incredibly difficult. Many feel pressured to keep this cause of death a secret, finding it hard and even shameful to discuss.
When a parent dies by suicide, children face not only the pain of losing a loved one but also the deep feelings of abandonment and the sorrow that comes from knowing their parent chose to leave. Processing grief from suicide can be especially challenging for children, so it's crucial to help them—and yourself—navigate these complex emotions with care and understanding.
In the e...
2024-09-1823 minRaising Fatherless Kids129. Helping Children Grieving Loss by SuicideGrieving the death of a parent will take time. When this loss comes by suicide, there are extra layers of grief to be worked through.
God has a beautiful plan for your life and for your family, even when you have experienced loss by suicide. When you put your trust in God, He is able to restore your soul.
In this episode, Lori discusses
Complicated grief
The sovereignty of God in suicide
The importance of truthful conversations with your child
Feedback from her adult children on what th...
2024-09-1130 minRaising Fatherless Kids126. Prepared Not ScaredWhen we think about the Proverbs 31 woman, for most of us, a list of standards we will never achieve in our own strength comes to mind. This “excellent” woman who sews, takes a ship to gather food, rises early, and stays up late describes someone we cannot relate to. We wonder, what is her secret to the smile on her face in anticipation of the future?
Although Proverbs 31 outlines admirable qualities, when considering the Proverbs 31 woman as the Bride of Christ, the church, we understand the beauty of the body of Christ in spiritually dark days.
In...
2024-08-2131 minRaising Fatherless Kids124 Guiding Children in GriefOur children don’t come with an instruction manual. Navigating the different seasons of their development requires wisdom. We can gain that wisdom by gleaning from the Word of God and trusting the Holy Spirit to guide us.
When a child loses a parent, guiding them in their grief and suffering adds a new layer of care in such uncharted territory. In this episode, Lori discusses 5 things a single mom might want to avoid, along with 5 helpful things to implement as she shepherds her child through the valley of loss.
Other resources:
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2024-08-0719 minRaising Fatherless Kids120. 25 Years of Grace: Lessons from a Single Mom's Walk with GodRaising children happens in seasons, each one bringing joy and challenges. A common question of single moms is, “Will my fatherless children be okay?” This concern is valid, with statistics showing that the absence of an earthly father has a negative impact. However, when children look to God, who promises to be a Father to the fatherless (Psalm 68:5), there is hope!
In this final episode of Lori’s reflections on 25 years of experiencing God as Father to her children, she shares:
The importance of enlisting help
How to show gratitude
The beginn...
2024-07-1020 minRaising Fatherless Kids119. Practical Guidance when Raising Fatherless Teens Reflections Season 2-3Raising fatherless children is often an unexpected task for moms. Single parenting comes with challenges as well as celebrations. In this journey, we find solace in the fact that God is faithful to His promise to Father the fatherless.
In this episode, Lori continues reflecting on this season with a focus on the teenage years. She talks about how to build an important family foundation, blessing trips, the shaping of the story of suffering in our lives, and providential provision.
Other Resources:
The Value of a Mentor for Fatherless Sons Episode 49 with Evan...
2024-07-0323 minRaising Fatherless Kids118 Reflections on Raising Little Kids without a Father25 years have passed since I started the journey of raising fatherless kids. Remembering is important to God, and He instructs us in His word to take time to reflect on His goodness.
Lori has divided these reflections into five episodes, highlighting God’s faithfulness in each one.
In this episode reflecting on the first five years of raising small children without a dad, Lori covers the following aspects:
The necessity of a Support system
The importance of perspective and God’s word
Practical ways God brought blessings in a dark...
2024-06-2623 minRaising Fatherless Kids109 Living Sensibly as a Single MomTitus 2:4-5 says young women are to be “sensible, pure, makers of a home [where God is honored], good-natured so that the word of God will not be dishonored” (AMPC). These guardrails are essential for life, especially for single moms!
Moms raising kids in a home without an earthly father must be cautious and sensible in their decision-making, parenting, and lifestyle choices.
In this episode, Lori talks about:
Defining sensibility and its significance in daily life.
Exploring the advantages of embracing sensibility.
Navigating the challenges of fluctuating hormones and their...
2024-04-2415 minRaising Fatherless Kids108 Ask Dad: Cell Phones and TeensIn this episode, we delve into the complex terrain of raising children as a single mother. While every parent faces challenges, single mothers often encounter unique hurdles that demand thoughtful consideration and creative solutions. One of the most challenging aspects of raising children without an earthly father is establishing and enforcing guardrails.
Our first “Ask Dad” for help episode provides wisdom for a single mom's question about how to handle a cell phone violation by her 14-year-old son.
Our “Help Team” offers insight on the following:
Smart-phone alternatives
How to handle a phone...
2024-04-1730 minRaising Fatherless Kids107. Parenting, Discipline, and the Single MomParents are given approximately 18 years to train and shepherd each of their children in the way that they should go, and this includes disciplining them when they get off track. Scripture teaches that discipline is God’s idea as a way of affirming His love for us.
One of the most daunting tasks for a single mom is executing discipline while solo parenting. As the only disciplinarian, she doesn't have the luxury of deferring discipline by saying, "Wait until your dad gets home," relying on him to handle the tough tasks while she consoles afterward. Many also won...
2024-04-1034 minRaising Fatherless Kids106. The Calling of GodIn this episode, explore the profound truth that every believer is purposefully crafted and called by God, endowed with unique gifts, and bestowed with the grace necessary to fulfill their divine purpose.
Throughout scripture, God issues a “call” to men and women alike. Paul tells us that he was called to be an apostle, set apart for the gospel. The prophet Jeremiah tells us that God called him from his mother's womb. Every Christian is entrusted with a special calling, as Ephesians 2:10 reminds us, “For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prep...
2024-04-0320 minRaising Fatherless Kids104. Parenting Grieving TeensDuring the teenage season, a child transitions into adulthood and must take steps toward “putting away childish things.” The end goal is to move towards independence and out of the home, living a life on their own.
When there is no dad in the home, or dad-loss is experienced during these years, it can be even more challenging. Solo moms need wisdom and support in navigating what can be turbulent times. The good news is that even though single moms are physically alone, God is there. He cares about your teen and is able to carry mom and...
2024-03-2029 minRaising Fatherless Kids103. Milestones that Unlock Grief in TeensIt is common for kids to appear unaffected by the death or loss of their earthly dad. Toddlers and adolescents will tearfully miss Daddy one moment and then act as if nothing has happened the next, while teens respond in a variety of ways, from anger to isolation. Both responses can cause mom deep concern. Mom will often carry this pain for her child until they grow into their grief and process it on their own.
Significant milestones in life are often the first opportunity for dormant grief to appear. Understanding the potential for triggers and an...
2024-03-1321 minRaising Fatherless Kids101. Rites of Passage when Becoming a Man with Chris TuttleWhen a boy moves into manhood, he will go through a series of milestones referred to as a “Rite of Passage.” Reaching a certain age brings with it a new level of responsibility and opportunity to prove himself trustworthy. It is helpful for single moms raising boys to be aware of these and the important role each one plays in the life of her son.
The following are discussed in this episode:
Eight Rites of Passage a boy will experience as he grows into manhood
Practical ideas on how to celebrate each rite of p...
2024-02-2829 minRaising Fatherless Kids98. Preserving the Story of DadWhen children lose a dad, especially at a young age, it is crucial that we preserve the story of him for them to have when they want to know who their daddy was and the impact he had on others.
In this episode, Lori discusses the following:
Practical ideas on how to preserve the story of daddy including Daddy Books and Daddy Boxes
When and how to share the hard parts of the story, if needed
The importance of the story of the Gospel and declaring the work of God to...
2024-02-0722 minRaising Fatherless Kids96. Encouragement for the Young Single MomAs the new year begins, I'm going to put my mentor hat on and speak candidly and compassionately on some things for young single moms. Even though your family unit has changed, you are a family. Make the most of your time together. Be intentional about how you will do life together, including work, school, home management, extracurricular activities, and vacations. This is your children's childhood, and your time is worth the investment.
In this episode Lori offers
16 words of encouragement on the pillars to include in your storm-tossed life.
Priorities for the si...
2024-01-2438 minRaising Fatherless Kids93. REPLAY 05 What to Expect Raising Fatherless KidsYou’ve never raised fatherless kids before, so to start, let me tell you something I’m sure you have heard before — you’re not going to wrap this up in a box with a pretty bow. You’re on a journey and every mama's experience will be different.
Today, we’re talking about the processing of grief and carrying grief for our children. In the early days, months, and years, a mom will grieve for her children no matter their age. She has a perspective and a view that is much different from kids. She can see and understa...
2024-01-0322 minRaising Fatherless Kids91. Prince of PeaceWe are all desperately longing for peace. You may be in a season of suffering but able to proclaim that you are experiencing a peace that surpasses understanding, or you may be crying out for peace amidst the turmoil. No matter where you find yourself today, you have access to Jesus, the Prince of Peace.
The prophet Isaiah gives four titles for Jesus, “For to us a child is born, to us a son is given; and the government shall be upon His shoulder, and His name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peac...
2023-12-2014 minRaising Fatherless Kids90. Everlasting FatherThere is no way to understand how the baby born in a manger has been here since eternity, and yet Jesus has been the Everlasting Father. We are also told in Ephesians 1:5 and 11 that before the foundation of the world God predestined those who would be His children. This is truly a mystery.
In this episode, Lori will answer an important question and talk about:
Jesus Christ, the second Adam, our spiritual Father
Does Psalm 68:5 mean that all fatherless children are automatically spiritual children of God?
Promises for the fatherless
2023-12-1324 minRaising Fatherless Kids89 Mighty GodEach advent season calls us to ponder the promise of Isaiah 9:6, “For a child will be born to us. A son will be given, and the government will rest on his shoulders, and He will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of peace.”
Scripture uses many names to describe the members of the Trinity, but these names were given in anticipation of Jesus Christ our Messiah, the King of all kings, and Savior. You may be able to recite these familiar titles from memory, but have you taken time this season to treasure their mean...
2023-12-0618 minRaising Fatherless Kids86. Losing a Dad at an Early Age with Evan AponWhen a kid loses a dad as an infant or small child, fatherlessness is all they know. A child will grow not only physically but emotionally and spiritually as well. And as they mature, their perspective and understanding of the loss experienced will also grow.
God offers grace to children growing up without a dad. Processing loss by suicide adds layers to the grief process but is no match for God’s mercy, compassion, and healing.
You will be encouraged to hear Evan talk about:
Grief in the m...
2023-11-1541 minRaising Fatherless Kids85. Help for the Holidays with Lisa Appelo, Tara Dickson, and Clarissa MollIn the early years of grieving loss, we wonder if the holidays will ever be good again. Moms, let me encourage you, it won’t always be this way. You will make it through the valley and the holidays will be filled with joy again. In the meantime, God is with you!
You won’t want to miss Lisa Appelo, Tara Dickson, and Clarissa Moll talking about:
How to make it through the first set of holidays
Navigating traditions
Anticipating Christmas and managing expectations
How God embr...
2023-11-081h 06Raising Fatherless Kids84. Fatherless by Divorce but not Deserted by God with Erin DavisIn God’s ideal design, human fathers are supposed to be a shadow of our Heavenly Father, showing their kids what it means to be seen, heard, disciplined, loved, and taken care of. For all those reasons and more, it’s devastating when a child learns that their parents are getting divorced. Life as they knew it changes, leaving them to navigate a path that could lead to further destruction as they process the loss, and in some cases, lose out on a deep connection with dad. But, there is hope in the promise that they are never deserted by G...
2023-11-0135 minRaising Fatherless Kids82. Reversing the Fatherless Curse with Guest Christian Norman Pt.2The poor choices of a dad do not determine the destiny of his children. With God as Father, their story can be one of blessing and hope. God declares Himself to be a Father to the fatherless (Psalm 68:5), therefore, we must anticipate His “fathering” and encourage fatherless children to look for the ways that He cares for them as a Father.
In this episode, Christian Norman talks about
Practical ways God cared for him as a Father
Breaking the fatherless curse over the next generation
Challenge for fatherless boys...
2023-10-1823 minRaising Fatherless Kids78. The Disengaged Dad with Chad WallenThe absence of an earthly dad is caused by a variety of reasons: death, divorce, desertion, and even when a dad is disengaged from his children. He may be in the home but not involved in the lives of his kids, causing them to feel that they are fatherless.
In this episode, Chad Wallen discusses the following:
The pain of a disengaged dad and finding healing through giving grace
Directing the distorted views of an earthly dad to God the Father
Insights on raising children with a disinterested dad
...
2023-09-2032 minRaising Fatherless Kids77. Forgiving the Unforgettable Loss by Suicide with Guest Mo Isom AikenIf you are struggling in any way with suicide ideation or know someone who is, please call the hotline number 988.
The suicide death of a parent leaves behind children on a lifetime journey of processing that loss. Rejection, betrayal, deep grief, and unanswered questions have the potential to cause torment for years. Mo Isom Aiken shares her story of the death of her dad by suicide and the process of healing and forgiveness she experienced.
In this episode, Mo talks about the following:
Wrestling with the death of...
2023-09-1329 minRaising Fatherless Kids76. When the Realities of Suicide Go Beyond Mental Health with Guest Mo Isom AikenIf you are struggling in any way with suicide ideation or know someone who is, please call the hotline number 988.
Loss by suicide leaves behind loved ones who feel rejected, abandoned, and deep grief over a loss that did not have to happen. Mo Isom Aiken shares her story of the death of her dad by suicide, shifting the trajectory of her life while also being used by God for His glory. Through prayer and deliverance, Mo was launched into a powerful season of victory.
In this episode, Mo ca...
2023-09-0634 minRaising Fatherless Kids75. The Spiritual Battle of SuicideSuicide Awareness Week is September 10-16, 2023. If you are struggling with thoughts of suicide or know of someone who is, please call 988.
Grieving loss by suicide is long, complicated, and has a lot of layers. Moms will carry the grief for their children in the early years and then watch them wrestle through the pain as they grow into an understanding of the choice that was made by their dad. According to Ephesians 6:12, the battle is spiritual, and at the root of suicide is Satan the one who seeks to kill, steal, and destroy...
2023-08-3030 minRaising Fatherless Kids68. Handling LonelinessThe number one question I get asked is about how to handle loneliness. Even in a room filled with a lot of people, many will say they still feel lonely. And single moms with children in their homes also experience the pain of feeling alone.
In Hebrews 13:5, God promises to never leave or forsake us. The danger comes when the normal and uncomfortable emotion of loneliness turns into bitterness.
In this episode, Lori shares ideas on how to handle loneliness:
Consider loneliness as a gift from the...
2023-07-1215 minRaising Fatherless Kids66 When Grief Acts Like a ToddlerThere are many reasons a toddler throws a tantrum, one of which is a visible sign of inward frustration, often associated with losing control or moving into independence.
Grief often acts like a toddler. For the widow, she is frustrated with new responsibilities and tasks that she doesn't want to learn. Her community of support often decreases, leaving her feeling more alone than ever before. As she is forced into a season she doesn’t feel ready for, living life without her husband brings a variety of emotions to the surface, including anger.
2023-06-2810 minRaising Fatherless Kids65. Launching Fatherless Boys into Manhood Part TwoMoms are there to provide a nurturing dynamic for their little boys - give them a bath, comb their hair, and put a band-aid on their boo-boos. But when these boys grow up without a dad in the home, the role often shifts, requiring her to stand strong as the winds blow during the transition to manhood. At this time, it is important for a mom to lean into the Lord, her convictions, and help from godly mentors.
Many have never walked this road before so grace upon grace is needed for both the...
2023-06-2131 minRaising Fatherless Kids64. Launching Fatherless Boys into Manhood Part OneRaising a boy without a man in their life is especially challenging during their high school years as they prepare to launch from the nest. Even with a dad in the home, this season is often filled with an assortment of opportunities for growth, lessons to be learned, and the release of our sons to be the men God called them to be.
Since dad is not around, the single mom is required to step up to the plate in a new way playing “hardball” when previously her major role was to nurture. Dad is no...
2023-06-1429 minRaising Fatherless Kids57. Praying for our Fatherless ChildrenThe first Thursday in May is designated by the United States Congress as a day when all US citizens are asked to turn to God in prayer. Every year the president is required by law to sign a proclamation encouraging all Americans to pray on that day.
This focus on prayer for our country is crucial and prompted today’s podcast on the subject of prayer. When death intersects our lives, it is unwanted, often unexpected, and interrupts everything. When this happens, it is important that we do not let grief separate us from ta...
2023-04-2645 minRaising Fatherless Kids56. Accepting Fatherlessness by God’s Grace with Isaac AponThe process of growth from a fatherless little boy into manhood includes growth spurts, maturity, emotions, and time. Mentors, a biblical perspective, and the grace of God also impact the depth of healing.
Isaac Apon lost his dad by suicide at the age of five. He understands the pain and found peace when He placed his trust in God and looked to Him as Father.
In this episode, Isaac Apon discusses the following:
Hope for those experiencing childhood father loss
Bullying
Mentors as God’s vessel for fathering - lear...
2023-04-1938 minRaising Fatherless Kids54. How to Plan a Blessing Party for your ChildThis is such a special episode because it's the first birthday of the Help! I’m Raising Fatherless Kids podcast! Moms, thank you for taking the time to listen when you have so much demanding your attention.
One of the most important celebrations that I had with my children was the “Blessing Party” at the beginning of their teenage season. This is a time to guide your child in putting away childish things and transitioning them to adulthood.
In this episode, Lori discusses the following:
What is a “Bless...
2023-04-0515 minRaising Fatherless Kids53. Celebrating Easter with KidsAs a mom, one of the greatest responsibilities and joys is telling her children the story of Jesus and the good news of the Gospel.
In today’s episode, Lori talks about Easter including:
The history and the familiar symbols and traditions of Easter
Practical ideas for celebrating the true meaning of Easter with children
The hope of Easter and how to invite Jesus Christ into your life
Other resources:
Advent: Count Down to the Coming of Christ
Resurrection Eggs...
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Raising Fatherless Kids52. The Investment of a Mentor with Eric Helms and Brandon AponGod will often use mentors as a vessel for His fathering. One of the most important investments a single mom can make in the life of her children, especially her sons, is providing a mentor. A man who will come alongside to help navigate the path of a boy from childhood to manhood, from teaching simple skills of a handshake to pursuing a wife, and everything in between.
Single moms will need to release a lot of their preconceived ideas of what family looks like and consider that it will take a village to h...
2023-03-2243 minRaising Fatherless Kids49. Mentoring Part 2: The value of a mentor for fatherless sons with Dave Inabnit and Evan AponMentoring plays a valuable role in the life of a fatherless young man. A young man needs to be challenged in ways beyond what a mom can offer. When a boy does not have an earthly dad, he needs a mentor who will make a practical, emotional, and spiritual investment in his life.
Although this important relationship will look different for everyone, the benefits are often the same - God uses men as His vessel for fathering. Affirmation, guidance, and prayer join together with hands-on teaching of skills men need to learn in life. Mentors help boys...
2023-03-0140 minRaising Fatherless Kids42. Disciplines that Shape YouWhen we think about what God uses to shape us, people, books, and practices play an important role. The apostle Paul encouraged Timothy to “discipline yourself for the purpose of godliness” (2 Peter 3:18). It’s that time of year when discipline becomes a priority in our lives. What comes to mind when you think of the word discipline? Physical exercise, training children, or personal habits that help you grow spiritually?
Psalm 84:7 says we will go from strength to strength. So let's start where you are. Maybe this is your first day in the spiritual gym and you can only d...
2023-01-1123 minRaising Fatherless Kids41. Best of 2022Last year was very exciting for Perspective Ministries!
One of last year’s highlights of the ministry and for me personally was launching this podcast, offering help for moms who are raising kids without an earthly dad because of death, divorce, or desertion.
Check out these favorite and most listened-to episodes!
Let’s Talk About Grief
7 Your Newborn Grief
8 Newborns and Grief with Brittany Brooker and Julie Thomason
For Fatherless Girls
15 Accepted not Abandoned with Tami Glasco
16 Who will Walk me Down the Aisle Part 1
17 Who will Walk me Down the...
2023-01-0406 minRaising Fatherless Kids40. Treasuring the Year at a GlanceThe end of the year brings us to a point of reflection. Scripture records two occasions when Mary, the mother of Jesus, treasured and reflected. Both times of treasuring came after she had experienced something that was beyond her understanding and her imagination.
Setting aside intentional time to reflect on the past year is an important habit.
In this episode, Lori discusses the following:
The importance of reflection
Practical ways to include children in remembering
Questions to consider when looking back at the year
Mom, you are not alone!
Join our...
2022-12-2816 minRaising Fatherless Kids39. The Lamb of God a sign for youWe all have a story, and God weaves together our stories with lots of pieces, just like a puzzle. He does the same in Scripture concealing Jesus in the Old Testament and revealing Him in the New Testament at just the right time and place.
When we stop to recall the Christmas story, many characters come to mind – Mary and Joseph, shepherds, angels, wise men, animals, and of course, baby Jesus. Other famous components join together to highlight the beauty and majesty of this great narrative: a star, a manger, and the sign.
“This will be a...
2022-12-2132 minRaising Fatherless Kids38. Advent: Count Down to the Coming of Christ Part TwoHolidays are celebrated in the Bible but not in the traditional ways of Easter and Christmas we are now familiar with. Leviticus outlines seven feasts (holy convocations) that God instructed His people to remember. Although Christians are not required to observe these feasts, there is much to glean from these insightful times.
Advent not only counts down to the arrival of Jesus Christ as a baby in the manger but also the anticipation of His return - the Second Coming.
In this episode, Lori discusses the holidays that God ordained and Jesus observed including:
...
2022-12-1431 minRaising Fatherless Kids37. Advent: Countdown to the Coming of Christ Part OneWe all experience countdown seasons in our lives. A child counts the days until their birthday, an expectant mom counts down to the birth of her baby, and a bride numbers the days to her wedding day. Advent is just that! Counting down to the birth of Jesus Christ as well as counting down to His return.
In this episode, Lori discusses ideas that help guide the Advent seasons, including:
Celebrating Advent with children,
ornaments that tell the story of Jesus,
and other helpful Advent resources.
Resources:
Big Picture Bible
The...
2022-12-0728 minRaising Fatherless Kids35. Remembering God’s Faithfulness with your ChildrenWhen Thanksgiving rolled around a few months after my husband died, I was in a fog, full of emotions, and I didn't feel thankful. I knew I should be able to find something to be thankful for, but during those early days, the holidays were not the most wonderful time of the year. And neither were the other grief-filled days, weeks, and months. Life was hard and I was sad.
But, I found that practicing thankfulness and trusting God's heart would be our lifeline for the holiday season and for the rest of our lives.
...
2022-11-2328 minRaising Fatherless Kids34. Thanksgiving and Dining at the King’s Table The Story of Mephibosheth from 2 Samuel 9 with Evan AponThanksgiving is a time to be thankful, and yet when suffering, it is easy to ask the question, “why me?” When fatherlessness plays a role in this pain, it is encouraging to look to God’s Word for hope. Nestled in the Old Testament is the true story of a young, fatherless man who was granted the unmerited, honor of an invitation to dine regularly at the king’s table.
Not only is this a rich story, but it’s also a picture of God's invitation to each of us. He wants us to experience Jesus, the bread of l...
2022-11-1624 minRaising Fatherless Kids30. Home for the Holidays Part OneJust because the holidays are hard and heavy doesn’t mean they can’t be happy.
This episode is the kick-off to a mini-series on how to handle the holidays as a solo mom.
Seasoned moms will join us in this series to talk about how the Lord led them over the years.
In this episode Lori discusses:
The holidays leading up to Christmas (Halloween and Thanksgiving)
Practical tips and potential traditions
Powerful considerations for making Christ the main focus including Advent, Christmas Eve, and Christmas
Mom, you are not alone!
2022-10-1940 minRaising Fatherless Kids28. How to Help Children Who Have Experienced TraumaToday's discussion was prompted by a question from a mom. How do we help our children who have experienced trauma?
Trauma, defined as a “deeply distressing or disturbing experience,” prompts questions that have been asked from the beginning of time.
Why does God allow suffering? If God is good, why do bad things happen? And these are really good questions. But often with no satisfactory answers this side of heaven. We will not always understand God's ways. We want to avoid pain at all costs. Even Jesus, God in the flesh, asked for another way when...
2022-10-0536 minRaising Fatherless Kids26. Preventing BurnoutSeven helpful tips that worked in my life as I was navigating parenting alone.
In this episode Lori gives insight from her own days as a single mother with steps to consider to prevent burnout:
Take one day at a time.
Be comfortable with routine
Do the next thing
Receive or request help.
Get some rest
Insert solitude into an already really lonely season.
Keep the big picture in mind.
Mom, you are not alone!
Join our private Facebook group for more encouragement and community: http://www.bit.ly/WidowMom
For...
2022-09-2122 minRaising Fatherless Kids25. Honest Answers for Hard Questions on SuicideSuicide brings to the table tormenting questions that add extra layers of grief. If you have lost a loved one or your children have lost a dad to suicide, today’s episode will discuss some of the topics you may be wrestling with:
The seduction of suicide
Is suicide the unpardonable sin?
Is suicide God’s will?
The Sovereignty of God in suicide
Telling your children about the suicide death of a parent
If you would like to receive the Solace for Suicide booklet, please email info@perspectiveministries.org and put “Solace” in the subject line.
Listen...
2022-09-1447 minRaising Fatherless Kids21. Defender of the WidowDeath often comes like a thief in the night, and along with that, fear enters in. It’s easy for death to make us feel robbed, invaded, and exposed.
New locks are installed on our homes, we update our passwords on our computers, and we install alarm systems because we want to make sure we are protected from further loss. We're often left afraid and want to know that we are protected.
The good news for any woman who's been left alone is that Almighty God protects us. He is our Defender.
Today, Lo...
2022-08-1719 minRaising Fatherless Kids19. Tips for Setting Up Fatherless Children for Success in SchoolThere are many factors to consider when making the decision of where your children will go to school. There’s so much more than education happening at school. Belief systems are formed, identity is challenged, temptations knock, and choices are made that impact the direction of life.
Moms need to understand that the foundation of their children’s lives is being built day by day, moment-by-moment with every word spoken and action modeled.
On today’s episode, Lori uses the acrostic for S.C.H.O.O.L. to discuss tips for setting fatherless children up for...
2022-08-0342 minRaising Fatherless Kids18. Who Will Walk Me Down the Aisle? Part 3/3Singleness is not for everyone and most girls pray that this is not the call of God for their lives. But waiting is often part of the story, at least that was a huge part of Christieanna’s story. A lot took place during that time of waiting as God prepared her for marriage.
Fatherless girls often wonder, who will walk me down the aisle? This question may trigger an array of emotions or just curiosity about what that special day will look like without a dad.
Christieanna concludes the mini-series with Lori and her fo...
2022-07-2755 minRaising Fatherless Kids17. Who Will Walk Me Down the Aisle? Part 2/3Little girls dream of meeting their “Prince Charming” and anticipate their own fairytale wedding day. This special season in the life of a fatherless girl comes with an array of emotions including the big question, who will walk me down the aisle?
Kayla Apon Whittinghill and Amy Apon Carroll join the mini-series with Lori Apon and her four fatherless daughters, sharing their stories of anticipating their wedding day, meeting their husbands, and who walked them down the aisle. Each one testified that God was there, even though daddy was not.
In this episode each bride shar...
2022-07-2057 minRaising Fatherless Kids16. Who Will Walk Me Down the Aisle? Part One.Everyone enjoys a good love story! And every fatherless girl anticipates her wedding day with a big question tucked inside her heart, “Who will walk me down the aisle?”
Abi Fasciano kicks off a mini-series with Lori Apon’s four fatherless daughters sharing their stories of anticipating their wedding day, meeting their husbands, and who walked them down the aisle. Each one testified God was there, even though daddy was not.
Diane Tuttle joins the conversation by sharing her involvement when she responded to God’s invitation to plan their weddings.
In this episode...
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Raising Fatherless Kids13. Navigating Summer with ChildrenSummer is approximately 42 days, and when you count it in days, it just doesn’t feel that long. It can quickly escalate stress levels, making it more of a sanctifying season instead of relaxing. But, your preparation and perspective for summer can make a big difference.
On today’s episode, Lori shares some practical tips to help mom survive and thrive through the summer months. In the podcasts she discusses,
How to kick off the summer with a brainstorming session
Benefits of Vacation Bible School and summer camps
Recommendations for non-negotiables that make for a healthy summ...
2022-06-2230 minRaising Fatherless Kids10. Our New Father's DayWith Father's Day right around the corner, we are starting another mini-series centered around this day. For single moms and kids who do not have a dad, it’s the elephant in the room during this season. There are cards in the store for dad and talk among friends about what they are going to do for Father's Day.
In this episode, Lori shares practical suggestions on how to handle this day including:
Re-naming the day of death as your new Father’s Day (the day that God became father to your children)
Re-locating the traditional Fath...
2022-06-0119 minRaising Fatherless Kids09. Fatherless Newborns with Guest Micah Apon(Mini-series on Newborns and Grief, Part 3/3)
From the time he was a baby, Micah Apon navigated life without an earthly father. As the youngest of Lori’s eight children, Micah only knew his daddy through pictures and stories from his siblings and his mom. In this episode, Lori and Micah have a discussion about his experience growing up fatherless, and Micah shares practical tips for moms of fatherless kids.
Micah talks about:
Grieving the loss of a daddy he never knew
Building relationships with godly “dads”
Growing into grief
Navigating milestones without a dad
Learni...
2022-05-2538 minRaising Fatherless Kids07. Your Newborn Grief(Mini-series on Newborns and Grief, Part 1/3)
Are you raising a newborn baby without a dad in their life? Are you in the early stages of your own personal grief? Then you will find hope and comfort in this episode.
Having walked out her own grief, Lori has a unique understanding of how the first several months of the healing process is similar to pregnancy, birth, and the newborn stage. Like a first-time mom, you might not have a clue what to do with this grief.
Lori is here to help by talking about:
Th...
2022-05-1144 minRaising Fatherless Kids06. Why So Many Kids - Trusting God with Family SizeLori shares her adventure of trusting God with their family size and He took them up on that blessing them with eight children in ten years. And then they were fatherless. People thought they were crazy and started rumors that they were having children “for religious purposes!” Lori agrees. Children are a gift from the Lord.
Have you ever been criticized for a decision you made that you knew God was calling you to make? Learning to trust God’s leading instead of man’s is something every parent must learn, especially for the inevitable valleys ahead!
It...
2022-05-0426 minRaising Fatherless Kids05. What to Expect Raising Fatherless KidsYou’ve never raised fatherless kids before, so to start, let me tell you something I’m sure you have heard before — you’re not going to wrap this up in a box with a pretty bow. You’re on a journey and every mama's experience will be different.
Today, we’re talking about the processing of grief and carrying grief for our children. In the early days, months, and years, a mom will grieve for her children no matter their age. She has a perspective and a view that is much different from kids. She can see and unde...
2022-04-2722 minRaising Fatherless Kids04. Psalm 68:5: My AnchorJust when you thought it couldn’t get any worse, the story intensifies. In less than 24 hours my world turned completely upside down leaving me to process betrayal, rejection, suicide, widowhood, and 8 fatherless children. With help from God’s Word, the hardest moment of my life was also one of the holiest.
If you’re thinking about suicide, are worried about a friend or loved one, or would like emotional support, the Suicide Lifeline network is available 24/7 across the United States, please call 1-800-273-8255
Resources from today’s podcast:
Pillars of Grace
2022-04-2020 minRaising Fatherless Kids03. My Greatest Fear Becomes RealityMy Greatest Fear becomes Reality SHOW NOTES
From today’s podcast:
Psalm 139:6
Ecclesiastes 3:11
Understanding the Grief Fog
The False god of Anorexia
Eating Disorders: What to look for and How to Help
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2022-04-1321 minRaising Fatherless Kids02. My Fairytale RomanceFrom today’s podcast:
Job 22:21-23
Psalm 139:5-6
Psalm 139:11-12
Psalm 139:16-17
Ecclesiastes 3:11
Habakkuk 2:3
Hebrews 10:35-38
Bobby and Lori Apon wedding https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iBlEPZXpHNM
Her Story: Lori Apon
My False god of Anorexia
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Website https://perspectiveministries.org/
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2022-04-0622 minRaising Fatherless Kids01. Help! I'm Raising Fatherless Kids Inaugural EpisodeFrom today’s podcast:
Pillars of Grace story behind Perspective Ministries
Bobby Apon Funeral
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Website https://perspectiveministries.org/
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