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The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver337: I'm Not Buying The Stepkid Christmas PresentsHolidays in a blended family don't have to be stressful! In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David dive into real-life stories and practical tips on how to navigate gift-giving, family traditions, and finances during the holiday season as a blended family. Listeners will learn how to handle common issues like kids comparing presents, managing in-law expectations with step-grandkids, and avoiding "gift competition" between households. Lori and David reveal their own strategies for dividing up gift responsibilities, setting realistic gift budgets, and creating flexible holiday traditions that don't revolve around a specific d...
2025-11-1430 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver336: I'm Not Leaving My Stepkid Nothing In My WillIn this candid and often humorous episode, Lori and David pull back the curtain on their personal lives, sharing the challenges and surprises that come with caring for aging parents, navigating wills and inheritance in blended families, and keeping family drama at bay during important occasions. Listeners will hear firsthand stories about planning for final arrangements. Complete with amusing tales of funeral shopping and "drive-thru" ideas. Plus, what it truly feels like to manage adult responsibilities amid the ticking clock of family health issues. Lori and David also discuss crucial estate-planning differences for stepfamilies versus nuclear families...
2025-11-0729 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver332: It's Not Always IntentionalStepfamilies: Why do we feel so differently about stepkids versus our own? In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, hosts Lori and David get real about the honest, sometimes awkward truths of parenting in blended families. Tune in for relatable stories and candid conversations about how Lori and David each navigated the differences in parenting their biological kids and stepkids: from fixing breakfast, handling car insurance stress, and reacting to cereal bowls left on the counter. You'll hear them wrestle with those moments when their feelings and priorities aren't the same for "yours" and "m...
2025-10-1037 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver330: Is It My Problem Or My Responsibility?In Episode NKP330 of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David Sims dive deep into some common misconceptions about the Nacho Kids philosophy. They clarify the true mantra: "Nacho Kids, Nacho Responsibility," highlighting the crucial difference between a problem and a responsibility in stepfamily dynamics. The hosts reflect on their personal experiences and how step-parents often unintentionally take on roles that lead to resentment down the road. Lori and David discuss the importance of boundaries, recognizing each partner's unique parenting style, and not personalizing issues that arise in blended family life. They address the natural shifts in...
2025-09-2622 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver329: Mindful Marriage With Ron and Nan DealIn this heartfelt and candid episode, Lori and David sit down with Ron and Nan Deal to discuss their new book, "The Mindful Marriage." The conversation dives deep into the real-life struggles and breakthroughs the Deals have faced in their marriage, including coping styles, emotional reactivity, and the journey toward self-growth. Ron and Nan share vulnerable stories from their own relationship, highlighting how self-reflection, humility, and self-control have transformed not only their marriage but their approach to life's stressors - from parenting to grief after the loss of their son. Listeners will relate to the honest talk...
2025-09-191h 07The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver328: Don't Have Conversations When You Are...Feeling tired, hangry, or just out of sorts? This week on the Nacho Kids Podcast, hosts Lori and David dive into how emotions like hunger, anger, loneliness, and exhaustion can derail crucial conversations in blended families - and what to do about it. In this candid and witty episode, Lori and David unpack the HALT method (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired), sharing personal stories and practical tips for recognizing when you're not in the right headspace for tough talks with your partner or stepkids. You'll learn why it's so important to hit pause on those "serious" discussions when...
2025-09-1215 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver326: Guilty Parent SyndromeStruggling to understand why your partner "guilty parents", or noticing it in yourself? This episode dives deep into what "Guilty Parent Syndrome" (GPS) is, why it's so common in blended families, and how partners can navigate it with empathy and confidence. In Episode #326 of the Nacho Kids Podcast, hosts Lori and David get real about guilty parent syndrome: when guilt affects how parents discipline or interact with their kids, often leading to inconsistent boundaries, indulgence, or fear of "losing" time or connection. Lori and David share their personal experiences of "parenting through guilt," offer practical...
2025-08-2933 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver322: Don't Get Divorced Over Dirty DishesIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, hosts Lori and David dive into the everyday challenges stepparents face, using real-life examples from their blended family. From disputes over GPS navigation and vacuum cleaner filters to the ongoing "dishes dilemma," the couple offers a candid, humorous look into the emotional triggers that can arise in blended households. Lori emphasizes how the Nacho Method not only reduces stress within the stepfamily dynamic but also helps handle life's daily annoyances more calmly. Whether it's tackling chores, navigating relationships with stepkids, or learning to nacho stressful moments, this episode delivers actionable tips...
2025-08-0136 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver318: Therapists Don't Know EverythingIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David dive into the topic of therapists and their understanding of/lack of understanding of Nacho Parenting. After a member of their Facebook group shares a story about being "fired" by a therapist for following the Nacho Kids method, Lori and David break down the misconceptions therapists may have about stepfamilies and the Nacho approach. They share real-life comments, discuss the importance of finding a therapist who truly understands blended family dynamics, and clarify that nachoing isn't just about disengagement or ignoring issues—it's about mental health, self-care, and im...
2025-07-0427 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver316: Coping With Codependent Behavior From Your Partner's ExAre you struggling with codependent behaviors between your partner and their ex, especially when it affects your blended family? In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, hosts Lori and David tackle a listener's question about how to handle situations where her partner's ex relies on him for trivial tasks related to the kids. Discover practical tips on communicating concerns with your partner using the proven "FBI statement" method, which focuses on sharing feelings, naming behaviors, and clarifying the impact on your relationship. Lori and David also explore the difference between insecurity and legitimate boundaries, offering actionable solutions for...
2025-06-2008 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver312: Sacrifices In StepfamiliesWelcome back to the Nacho Kids Podcast! In today's episode, Lori and David dive deep into the realities of sacrifice within stepfamilies. Lori shares a heartfelt personal story about giving up a long-awaited lunch with a friend to help her stepson, Ethan, navigate buying a car, a perfect example of the countless everyday choices stepfamilies make for each other. Together, Lori and David discuss how sacrifice isn't just about doing things for your own kids, but often includes stepkids and even partners. They challenge the misconception that "nachoing" means not caring or refusing to help, and explain h...
2025-05-2310 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver310: Disrespect in StepfamiliesWelcome back to another episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast! In today's show, Lori and David dive into a challenge faced by many blended families: What happens when one partner feels that their stepchild is being disrespectful, and the biological parent doesn't step in? Kicking things off with a listener's heartfelt question, Lori and David unpack the complexities of stepkids shouting or insulting their stepparent and stepsibling, as well as the tension that arises when boundaries and respect are on the line. Throughout the episode, they discuss practical strategies for handling disrespect without overstepping boundaries, the importance...
2025-05-0915 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver306: Easter In StepfamiliesWelcome to this episode of the NK Podcast, where hosts Lori and David dive into the intricacies of celebrating Easter within stepfamilies. The holiday season can be a delightful time, but it also brings unique challenges when navigating custody schedules and traditions in blended families. In this episode, Lori and David share personal anecdotes and practical advice on how to manage these situations, offering creative solutions for celebrating Easter, even if it's not on the traditional date. They'll also discuss the importance of setting and respecting court-ordered holiday arrangements and the concept of life not always being 'fair' – a va...
2025-04-1122 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver304: Nacho Parenting: It's Not About Ignoring Step KidsIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, hosts Lori and David dive into the often misunderstood concept of "nacho parenting." They start by addressing a common question: Does nachoing mean ignoring your stepkids? Lori shares her own journey of using nacho parenting to navigate difficult dynamics with her stepchildren, emphasizing that it's more about choosing not to engage rather than ignoring. Lori and David explain how this approach helped improve their family interactions. With anecdotes and guidance, Lori and David provide a deeper understanding of how nacho parenting can lead to healthier and happier blended families. Join them...
2025-03-2815 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver302: Mother's Day Doesn't Have To Suck For StepmomsWelcome back to the Nacho Kids podcast! In this episode, titled "Mother's Day Doesn't Have To Suck For Stepmoms/Stepfamilies," hosts David and Lori dive into the complex dynamics of navigating Mother's Day as a stepparent. With Mother's Day just around the corner, they tackle the often-sensitive issue of unmet expectations and the potential for hurt feelings. Lori and David offer practical advice for stepparents on setting boundaries and communicating desires with their partners, the importance of self-care, and how to embrace Stepmother's Day. The hosts also explore the pitfalls of comparison and emphasize the significance of creating one's...
2025-03-1416 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver300: 300 Podcasts Later: Our Blended Family JourneyIn this milestone episode of the NK Podcast, we're celebrating our 300th episode! Join hosts Lori and David as they reflect on five and a half years of podcasting, sharing their journey and the valuable lessons they've learned along the way. From the challenges and joys of blending families to the unexpected twists and turns of stepfamily life, Lori and David dive deep into their personal experiences. They share heartwarming stories of growth and transformation, emphasizing the importance of resilience and adaptability in the face of change. Tune in to hear how the Nacho Kids method has helped them...
2025-02-2829 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver298: Three Things Not To Say To A StepparentWelcome back to the Nacho Kids Podcast! In today's episode, Lori and David dive into a critical conversation about the challenges and misconceptions faced by stepparents. They explore three common phrases that should never be uttered to a stepparent. First, the hosts debunk the idea that stepparents knew what they were getting into when joining a blended family, emphasizing the unexpected trials involved. Next, they tackle the unrealistic expectation that stepparents should love their stepchildren like their own, highlighting the unique dynamics and relationships within a family. Finally, Lori and David clarify the misconception that stepparents are "parents too,"...
2025-02-1415 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver296: 3 Things To NOT Do As A StepparentJoin hosts Lori and David as they share three very important tips for the stepparent! Listen as they dive into essential strategies for creating a harmonious stepfamily environment. Lori and David discuss the common pitfalls stepparents might be falling into without even realizing it. They explore three crucial behaviors to avoid if you're looking to reduce stress and build stronger relationships within your blended family. From understanding the implications of negative comments about the stepkids to recognizing the importance of not taking things personally and knowing when to step back from disciplining your stepchildren, this episode is packed with...
2025-01-3116 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver293: Trust-Based Relationship Intervention (TBRI)Welcome back to NK Podcast Shared! In today's episode, Lori dives into the intricate world of step-parenting and maintaining a harmonious blended family. Join her as she chats with Jessica, a Licensed Professional Counselor Associate from North Texas, who shares her journey of being a full-time stepmom to a 10-year-old while navigating the complexities of a custody battle and fostering a positive co-parenting dynamic. Jessica emphasizes the power of not taking things personally to reduce stress and negativity and the benefits of using Trust-Based Relationship Intervention (TBRI) to build trust and stability within her family. As she...
2025-01-1059 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver292: Nacho Parenting In The New YearWelcome to another episode of NK Podcast Shared! In today's engaging discussion, hosts Lori and David navigate the complexities of family life, from the challenges of gift-giving and planning unforgettable vacations to embodying integrity for their children. They dive into humorous yet heartfelt reflections on their kids' awareness (or lack thereof) around finances while considering gifting experiences over physical items. Lori and David also share personal anecdotes about their grandson, Giddy, and emphasize promoting honesty and respect for parents' wishes. Tune in as they tackle the tricky dynamics of holiday preparation, setting family goals, and balancing work-life...
2025-01-0330 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver288: Blended Holidays With Claudette Chenevert and Lori SimsWelcome to another insightful episode of NK Podcast, where we dive into navigating the complex dynamics of stepfamilies during the holiday season. In this episode, Lori sits down with Claudette Chenover, a seasoned stepmom coach, to discuss the common challenges and emotional hurdles that come with gift-giving and family traditions in blended families. Claudette shares personal anecdotes, including a poignant moment when her sister's exclusionary gift-giving upset her stepdaughters. They talk about the importance of fairness, managing expectations, and how thoughtful, handmade gifts often create lasting memories. You'll hear practical tips on budgeting, balancing family dynamics, and embracing experiences...
2024-12-061h 10The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver282: Financial Planning For Blended Families ~ Mikel Van CleveWelcome to Episode 282 of NK Podcast! In this insightful episode, hosts David and Lori are joined by returning guest Mikel Van Cleve, a certified financial planner with a focus on blended family dynamics. Mikel was previously on episode 273 where he discussed his blended family experience. Today, we delve deep into the intricacies of estate planning, financial transparency, and the unique challenges faced by blended families. Mikel shares his expert advice on finding qualified estate attorneys and financial planners who truly understand the complexities involved. We'll explore topics such as the importance of having clear estate do...
2024-10-251h 05The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver275: Stepfamily ExpectationsWelcome back to another exciting episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast! This is Episode 275, and we have a jam-packed show for you today. I'm your host, David, and as always, I'm joined by the wonderful Lori. We have some thrilling updates and announcements and an insightful conversation about expectations in blended families. We'll kick things off with our upcoming events, starting with a meet and greet in Denver, Colorado. If you're in the area, don't miss this chance to connect with us! Plus, we have a podcast review contest running until the end of September, where you...
2024-09-0621 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver274: The Holidays Are ComingWelcome back to the Nacho Kids Podcast! In this enlightening episode, hosts David and Lori dive deep into the complexities of blended family dynamics just in time for the holiday season. Tune in as they share insights on upcoming events like the 5th Annual Step Family Summit with Claudette Chenevert and the release of exciting challenges such as the Nacho Guided "Change Your Stinking Thinking" Challenge, and a special opportunity for our podcast listeners. Lori and David discuss navigating family gatherings, the intricacies of gift-giving, and managing expectations within stepfamilies. They share practical tips on handling holiday s...
2024-08-3025 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver272: Balancing Nacho as a Christian StepdadWelcome to NK Podcast! In today's episode, we dive deep into the intricate world of blended families with our special guest, Matthew Steiner. As a Christian stepdad who has navigated the complexities of step-parenting and the "Nacho" method, Matthew shares his journey of balancing faith, family dynamics, and the emotional challenges that come with being a stepparent. Matthew opens up about his personal experiences, including the frustrations of not being able to control decisions and timelines related to his stepchildren, and the eventual harmony achieved through improved co-parenting and understanding roles. Join us for an...
2024-08-161h 03The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver271: Things Changed When She Had Her Own KidWelcome to another episode of the NK Podcast! Today we're diving into a compelling and deeply personal conversation with an anonymous stepmom, who shares her experience navigating the complex dynamics of blended family life. In this episode, anonymous stepmom discusses her struggle with being overprotective, and the challenges posed by her partner's high-conflict ex. We'll explore how she juggles being a step-parent, dealing with traumatic events, and maintaining her mental health through counseling. Join host Lori as she unpacks the nuances of setting boundaries, dealing with disrespect, and finding balance in a stepfamily after this stepmom's decision to step...
2024-08-0947 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver269: Billie Tarascio ~ Modern LawIn this episode, Lori and David talk to family law attorney Billie Tarascio of Modern Law. Billie supports the Nacho method and discusses some family court issues. In this episode, we discuss the following: Nacho Kids Family court challenges Self-representation Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: "My son and his new wife are a blended family. I joined the Academy in hopes of learning things to help them navigate their blend. It was absolutely amazing the amount of content in the Academy! I decided to gift my son a...
2024-07-2655 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver268: Perception Is Not RealityIn this episode, Lori and David talk to two of David's kids about them moving back home after the military, Yoo Hoo gate, and how they viewed things as stepkids. In this episode, we discuss the following: Rebounding stepkids Yoo Hoo gate Perception Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: "I have never been so happy in our blend! This Nacho stuff is awesome! If you are debating on joining the Academy, don't debate any longer, do it today. You will not regret it! It's life-changing!" ~ A.N.
2024-07-201h 18The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver266: Lori & David Answer Nacho QuestionsIn this episode, Lori and David answer questions submitted by followers. These questions are based solely on the question without having any details of the person's dynamics. In this episode, we discuss the following: How do you get a Disneyland parent to stop guilt parenting? How to get your grown up stepkid to allow you to see the grandchildren more? How do you nacho stuff that directly affects you?! Does it get better after they all turn 18? Is blending always this hard? Nacho Kids Academy S...
2024-07-0534 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver261: Interview With Lisa Johnson ~ Author of "Been There Got Out"In this episode, Lori and David Sims, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk to Lisa Johnson. Lisa is co-author, along with her partner Chris Barry, of "Been There Got Out." Like Lori and David, Lisa and Chris use their first-hand experience to help others. In this episode, we discuss the following: Toxic relationships High conflict divorce Legal abuse Coercive control Jennifer's Law Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: "I am a family law attorney. I kept hearing about this Nacho parenting from clients...
2024-05-311h 03The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver259: Stepkid GraduationsIn this episode, Lori and David Sims, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk about struggles blended families often face when it comes to Graduation ceremonies. Unfortunately, most kids are given a limited number of tickets and it can often cause issues within the family, even a nuclear family! But you add the blend… and whew! Hang on! In this episode, we discuss the following: Graduation Tickets One upping your ex Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: "I joined the Nacho Kids Academy just out of sheer curiosity. I am...
2024-05-1725 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver258: Mother's Day Struggles For StepmomsIn this episode, Lori and David Sims, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk about some of the struggles stepmoms have with Mother's Day. Mother's Day is hard for a lot of people. Whether it be stepmoms, those who could never have children or have lost children, bio moms, or those who don't have good relationships with their bio moms. In this episode, we discuss the following: Stepmom expectations Mother's Day recognition for stepmoms Stepmom's Day but no Stepdad's Day Hallmark Holiday Mental Health Wellness N...
2024-05-1034 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver257: Interview With Veronica Grace Andrews ~ Healing Stepmom BurnoutIn this episode, Lori Sims, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talks to stepmom Veronica Andrews. Veronica is the author of "Heal Stepmom Burnout". She has been blending for 15 years, has two stepkids, and is child-free by choice. In this episode, we discuss the following: Changes in custody time Losing yourself Finding the balance Stepmom burnout Wanting what is best for the kids Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: "My stepkid is 20 years old. Does nothing but lay on the couch playing on their p...
2024-05-031h 09The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver256: Stepfamily VacationsIn this episode, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk about stepfamily vacations. If you have ever been on a blended family vacation, you know how stressful they can be! Lori & David talk about challenges and tips to help have a good blended family vacation. In this episode, we discuss the following: Preparing for stepfamily vacations Expectations Separate vacations with kids Separate vacations adults only Length matters Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: "I love Lori and David! You can tell...
2024-04-2632 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver254: Lori & David Answer Nacho QuestionsIn this episode, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, answer some Nacho questions. You have questions, we have answers! Please note, these are top level answers to questions and in the Nacho Kids Academy Lori and David delve deeper into the questions you may have and provide guidance to help you Nacho properly. In this episode, we discuss the following: Triggers Nasty Stepkids Summertime stepkids Stepparent responsibilities Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: "This Nacho stuff is gold! I wish we would h...
2024-04-1230 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver249: Things I Would Have Done DifferentlyIn this episode, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk about things she would have done differently in regards to how she reacted when the stepkids angered her. This episode was inspired by one of Lori's stepkids asking her this question recently. In this episode, we discuss the following: Feeling your bio child is bullied by the stepkids Wanting to beat up your stepkid Yoohoo gate Vacations Accuracy of memories Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: "I hated my life. I a...
2024-03-0833 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver248: Stepmom Assaulted By Bio MomIn this episode, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talks to stepmom Chyna. Chyna has been blending for two years, she has two stepkids and two bio kids. Her partner adopted her bio kids that she brought into the relationship. The hardest part of blending for her is dealing with bio mom. Her best advice is to let it come naturally. In this episode, we discuss the following: Being assaulted by bio mom Differences in stepkid relationships Calling your stepkid your own Court order not allowing stepkid to c...
2024-03-011h 31The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver247: Fears In The Blend FamilyIn this episode, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk about different fears in a blended family experience. Not only do stepparents experience fears, so do the bio parents, and the kids. In this episode, we discuss the following: Fears of a bio parent in a blended family Fears of a stepparent in a blended family Fears of a bio kid in a blended family Fears of a stepkid in a blended family Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: "I started the Nacho A...
2024-02-2332 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver246: Interview With One Of The OG Nacho KidsIn this episode, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk with one of David's sons, and Lori's stepsons, Ethan. Ethan was a guest on episode 83 a little over three years ago. Listen as they talk about how things have changed in the past few years. In this episode, we discuss the following: Step grandparents Relationships between stepmom and stepkids Different types of love When the stepkid boomerangs Relationships between bio and stepkid Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: "I felt so...
2024-02-161h 07The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver244: What We Say, What We Mean, And What We HearIn this episode, Lori and David Sims, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk about communication. Specifically what you say versus what you mean and what you hear versus what was said. Communication is vital to every relationship, and it's important to make sure you are clear in what you are saying and that you aren't misunderstanding what is being said. In this episode, we discuss the following: What you say What you don't say What they say What we hear Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: ...
2024-02-0243 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver243: Wills And Estate Planning In The BlendIn this episode, Lori and David Sims, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk about wills and estate planning in the blend. Should a stepparent be expected to leave their stepkids something in their will? Should a stepparent be expected to leave their stepkids the same thing they leave their bio kids? What is fair? In this episode, we discuss the following: Expectations of stepparents to put stepkids in their wills. How bio kids would feel if stepkids were put in bio parents will. Does it need to be equal between st...
2024-01-2648 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver241: Part 2 Lori And David Share More Nacho RulesIn this episode, Lori and David Sims, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, share some Nacho rules with listeners. In this episode, we discuss the following: You can't expect your significant other to parent like you think they should. You can't control what happens at the "other parent's house". You can't discipline them like your own. You can't expect the stepkids to treat you with respect if your significant other doesn't make them. You can't feel guilty for not loving them like your own. Nacho...
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The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver240: Lori & David Talk About Some Nacho RulesIn this episode, Lori and David Sims, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, share some Nacho rules with listeners. In this episode, we discuss the following: You can't say anything negative to or about the stepkid. You can't expect more from the stepkid than their own bio parents do. You can't care more about the stepkids than the bio parents do. You can't parent them like your own. You can't expect them to treat you as their parent, because you're not. Nacho Kids Academy Nacho...
2024-01-0530 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver233: Talking Expectations With Alison O'Mahony ~ Be StepwiseIn this episode, Lori Sims, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talks with Alison O'Mahony of Be Step Wise about expectations. We have expectations every day from almost everyone we encounter. Why do we have these expectations? What expectations should we have in the blend? Are these expectations realistic? In this episode, we discuss the following: Feeling different towards kids Can't love people on demand Expectations = Disappointment Nacho Kids Academy Nacho Parenting Success Story: "My life will forever be better because of Lori an...
2023-11-171h 06The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver230: Lori Sims & Tracy Dalgleish Talk Boundaries And ExpectationsIn this episode, Lori Sims, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, interviews Dr. Tracy Dalgleish. In this episode, we discuss the following: Boundaries Negative relationship cycles Expectations vs reality Wise mind vs reactive mind 4 C's - Curiosity, Compassion, Connection, and Collaboration Nacho Kids Academy Nacho Parenting Success Story: "The Nacho Kids Academy changed my life! " ~ E.P.
2023-10-271h 16The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver218: Interview With Monica Chaney ~ The Worthy StepmomIn this episode, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, interviews Monica Chaney of The Worthy Stepmom. Monica is childfree by choice, has been blending for eleven years, and has three stepkids. Recently Monica gained a stepmother herself when her dad, who is 81 years young, got remarried! In this episode, we discuss the following: Being a childfree stepmom Becoming a stepkid as an adult Different kinds of love Being second wife Taking things personally Nacho Kids Academy Nacho Parenting Success Story: "Th...
2023-08-041h 25The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver217: What Is It Costing You To Not Listen ~ Christine MilesIn this episode, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, interviews Christine Miles, author of "What Is It Costing You To Not Listen?". One of the biggest struggles couples have, in nuclear and blended families, is communication. Listening plays an integral part of communicating, and unfortunately not many have been taught how to listen. . In this episode, we discuss the following: Enemies of listening Compass questions Flashlight tool Knowing where you are in the story Nacho Kids Academy Nacho Parenting Success Story: ...
2023-07-2852 minThe Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver215: David Shubert ~ Author of "Parental Alienation Is Abuse"In this episode of Nacho Kids, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, interviews David Shubert. David has experienced parental alienation and decided to write a book titled "Parental Alienation Is Abuse" to share his story with others. It is heartbreaking to hear what he, as an alienated parent, has gone through. In this episode, we discuss the following: Wife took his kids out of the country and didn't come back The family court system/contempt The White House said they would help Drinking to dull the pain
2023-07-141h 31The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver212: Stepmom Who Is A Christian CounselorIn this episode of Nacho Kids, Lori, co-founder of Nacho, interviews a stepmom who is a Christian counselor. She has two adult stepkids and two bio kids. She met the stepkids when they were 20 & 22 years old. Her relationship with the stepkids changed after the bio mom passed away. In this episode, we discuss: Not forcing relationships Adult stepkids When a bio parent passes away Walking away from toxicity Being blocked/unfriended on Facebook Nacho Kids Academy Nacho Parenting Success Story: "I debated joining th...
2023-06-231h 20The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver211: Stepmom Who Tried To Take Her Own Life** DISCLAIMER ** This episode contains mention of suicide and abortion. On this episode of Nacho Kids, Lori interviews a guest who shares their experience with the challenges of blended families. From managing schedules and family dynamics, to personal struggles with mental health, the guest provides valuable insights and advice for navigating difficult situations. Tune in to hear how they've learned to let go of control in certain areas and prioritize their own well-being while still being a supportive member of their blended family. In this episode, we discuss: Mental health in the blend
2023-06-161h 29The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver203: Adult Stepkids With Lori Sims & Claudette ChenevertIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori, co-founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, chats with Claudette Chenevert - The Stepmom Coach! Claudette and Lori both have bio kids and adult stepkids. Stepparents often think things will magically get better when the stepkid turns 18. This may be the case if the stepparent's partner, the bio parent, is paying child support. Other than that, at 18, there is no magic wand, the stepkids don't disappear into adult land, and if the bio parent has guilty parent syndrome, that won't change either. In this episode, we discuss: W...
2023-04-211h 09The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver201: Lori Chats With Cecile & Frank Of Ella's Blended FamilyIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori, co-founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, chats with Cecile and Frank of Ella's Blended Family. The have been blending for nine years and each brought two kids into the marriage. Cecile and her kids moved into Frank and his kids' house. Best advice from Frank: "Don't take it personally." In this episode, we discuss: Moving into "THEIR" house Bedroom assignments and kids Can you really treat the kids equally? When the stepkids are indifferent towards you Trying to...
2023-04-071h 07The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver200: Lori & David Celebrate Their 200th Podcast Episode And Talk NachoIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, co-founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, celebrate their 200th podcast episode! They talk about the Nacho Method and address some misconceptions about the method. In this episode, we discuss: Nacho misconceptions Nacho truths Being a team while Nachoing Things won't always be this way Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting Success Story: "Before I learned to Nacho, I hated my blended life. Nothing we did prepared us for how hard it would be to blend. I...
2023-03-311h 09
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver140: Interview With Martin & Maria Erlandsson Of The Swedish Podcast Bonus Pappa Plus MamaIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, co-founders of Nacho Kids, interview Martin & Maria Erlandsson of the Swedish Podcast Bonus Pappa Plus Mama! They have been blending for six years. Maria has four bio kids and Martin has no bio kids. In this episode, we discuss: Being a stepparent with no kids of your own Wanting the stepparent to be a parent Relationships with the exes Not using the word "step" in your blend For more information about the event in Fort Worth, Texas, April 29-30, 2022 with Laura Petherbridge, go to N...
2022-02-041h 27
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver139: Parental Alienation As A Bio Mom & StepmomIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, co-founders of Nacho Kids, interview stepmom Linda. Linda has been blending for three years, has three stepkids and two bio kids. Unfortunately, Linda is experiencing parental alienation as a bio mom and a stepmom. In this episode, we discuss: Rejection from the stepkids Harassment for stepkids and bio moms Complete alienation from bio kids Significant other in denial For more information about the event in Fort Worth, Texas with Laura Petherbridge, go to NachoKids.com/fortworth2022.
2022-01-281h 20
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver123: Stepdad Who Feels Taken Advantage OfIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, co-founders of Nacho Kids, interview John Burwell. John is a stepdad in his blend of four years. He has two adult bio sons and two stepdaughters, ages 21 and 12. John takes care of his blend financially but is expected to step back from any parenting of his youngest stepdaughter. John is dealing with feeling used, taken advantage of, and not part of the family. In this episode, we discuss: Stepdads struggle too Financially providing for your stepkid only to be told not to parent the stepkid L...
2021-10-081h 12The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver121: Interview With Ron DealIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, interview Ron Deal. Ron has a new book out discussing preparing to blend. Nacho Kids, along with Ron, cannot express enough the importance of preparing to blend prior to blending. In this episode, we discuss: Preparing To Blend Lack of counselors and therapists that understand the blend "Coupleness" versus "Famliness" Today isn't representative of every day in the future Lack of blended family support in churches
2021-09-241h 22
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver119: Tracy Poizner Of The Essential Stepmom & Lori Sims Talk NachoIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori, co-founder of Nacho Kids, and Tracy Poizner of the Essential Stepmom sit down for a chat. They entertain us with a little blended family skit about what is not Nachoing. Together, they are proof the blend doesn't have to suck. In this episode, we discuss: Seeing things differently Communication is key in the blended family Examples of NOT Nachoing Blending is not the same for the childless stepmom Stepkid vs Bio kid cup on the counter
2021-09-1056 min
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver106: Widowed Couple Has 9 Kids In Their BlendIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, co-founders of Nacho Kids, interview stepmom Kari. Kari and her husband both lost their spouses from previous marriages. Kari has five bio kids and her husband, Andy, has 4 bio kids! Yep, NINE kids total between them!! In this episode, we discuss: Being a widow and remarrying Having mom eyes without the voice Nachoing homework & chores Never having a "break" Moving into an existing home
2021-06-111h 27
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver104: Discussing Parental Paralysis With Tracy Poizner ~ Essential StepmomIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, interview Tracy Poizner of the Essential Stepmom. Tracy is a mom and a stepmom. She helps parents and children improve their physical, mental, and emotional well-being. As a parenting strategist, she teaches divorced dads how to raise children to become prosperous adults despite high conflict custody or limited visitation. In this episode, we discuss: Parenting Paralysis Discipline Modeling the values you want your kids and stepkids to have Guilty Parent Syndrome
2021-05-281h 11
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver100: Another Nacho Kid's ViewpointIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, interview David's oldest son, Avery. David always felt Avery was impacted the most, out of all his kids, by his divorce from their mom. When Avery was a teenager, Lori had the fear a lot of stepparents have about their stepkids. The fear of the stepkids never moving out! Avery proved Lori's fears to be wrong when he joined the Air Force! Avery is now married to a lovely young lady and is doing awesome! He is an outstanding young man that David and...
2021-04-301h 29
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver097: Interview With Elise Buie ~ Family Law AttorneyIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, interview Elise Buie ~ Family Law Attorney in Washington state. She is a mom to four and a stepmom to two. Elise says her kids are very different than her husband's kids because her husband's kids were raised by military parents and are very disciplined, and let's just say her's aren't as disciplined. In this episode, we discuss: Family court system issues Differences between how bio kids and stepkids were raised Food fights Post-divorce issues How to co-parent like CEOs
2021-04-091h 15
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver093: Stepmom Required To Meet Bio MomIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, interview stepmom Kaila. Kaila and her significant other have been blending for about a year. She has a stepson that is 7 years old and a stepdaughter that is 3 years old. Part of the custody agreement between Kaila's significant other and the bio mom was that bio mom would meet Kaila before she met the kids and Kaila had to wait four months before meeting the kids. In this episode, we discuss: Not knowing anything about stepfamilies Realizing you are not their m...
2021-03-121h 28
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver092: Blended Couple Who Is Rockin' The BlendIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, interview blended couple Crystal & Mike. Crystal has no children of her own, and Mike has two kids - a son who is 15 years old and a daughter who is 13 years old. They have been blending for 3 years and have the kids fifty percent of the time. Crystal's hardest part of blending was feeling like she didn't belong in the pre-made family. In this episode, we discuss: Being a stepkid Living close to the bio mom Disney Dad Coming into a ready-made f...
2021-03-051h 25
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver086: Interview With Joel Hawbaker ~ 10CBF Blended Family PodcastIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, continue their "Month Of Men" with an interview with Joel Hawbaker of the 10 CBF Blended Families Podcast. Joel is the bio dad of two beautiful teenage girls who he adores. Joel isn't a stepdad, but he is a stepkid and gives us a great view on being a stepkid of military parents. He lived with his mom full time and went to his dad's every other weekend. Until Joel could drive, his dad still came by and took him and his siblings to school...
2021-01-221h 18
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver083: Interview With A Nacho KidIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, interview one of David's triplets, Ethan. Ethan talks about how things were before and after Lori started Nachoing. They reminisce about the bad and good times. Lori is very proud of Ethan and the young man he has become, and no, she didn't think he would turn out so awesome! Ethan shares some tips for stepkids and stepparents too. In this episode, we discuss: Stepkid's view before and after Nachoing The good, the bad, and the really ugly Blending between the k...
2021-01-011h 12
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver076: Full-time Childless Stepmom To Three Teenage StepdaughtersIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, interview stepmom Kayla! Kayla, a childless stepmom, has been blending for 14 months and has three teenage stepdaughters! Being a high-school teacher, Kayla thought "she knew what she was getting into"! Considering she was around teenagers all day, she'd have no issues being a stepmom to three teenage girls fairly easily. Let's just say, she was proven wrong. Being a full-time stepmom has been a bit of a challenge. Kayla recently decided to get help with her blend and join the Nacho Kids Academy! She's...
2020-11-131h 26
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver073: Stepmom Struggling To Set BoundariesIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, interview stepmom Diane. Diane is a people pleaser and struggles with setting boundaries. Like this stepmom, oftentimes people feel as if they are being a bad person, rude, mean, or disrespectful, and then they feel guilty for setting boundaries. However, Diane was forced to set boundaries with her oldest of four stepdaughters due to the stepdaughter's behavior. It's still not easy and Diane struggles with guilt for setting the boundaries. In this episode, we discuss: Dealing with the bio mom because y...
2020-10-231h 10
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver072: Interview with Craig & Gina Morgan ~ Blended Together ForeverIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, interview Craig and Gina Morgan. Craig and Gina are the founders of Blended Together Forever ~ Making The Family Whole Again. They have been blending for 24 years! Craig entered the blend with one son and one daughter, while Gina came into the blend with four boys, and they have one son together. Their blend was not easy, but they made it! They are sharing their story with other blended families in hopes to help their blends stay blended together forever! In this episode, we discuss:
2020-10-161h 16
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver071: Stepmom Who Had Given UpIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, interview stepmom Noel. Noel has been blending for three years. She has three bio children and four stepchildren. Noel, like many stepmoms, came in and stepped into the "Mom" role. Also like many stepmoms, she was struggling hard in the blend and had a mental breakdown. She had given up hope. She signed up for the Nacho Kids Academy as a last-ditch effort to save their marriage and you won't believe what happened! In this episode, we discuss: Unrealistic expectations Struggling t...
2020-10-091h 32
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver070: Interview With Dorcy Pruter ~ Founder of Conscious Co-parenting InstituteIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, interview Dorcy Pruter, founder of Conscious Co-parenting Institute. Dorcy experienced parental alienation firsthand with her own father being alienated from her and by seeing her husband being alienated by his kids. Her personal experience and training have allowed her to help others who are suffering from parental alienation. Through reunification coaching and co-parenting education, Dorcy provides strategies and solutions for parents and children to reconnect, or stay connected, during and after a high-conflict divorce. The primary focus of Dorcy's work at the Conscious Co-Parenting I...
2020-10-021h 27The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver062: Stepmom With Brady Bunch DreamsIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, interview stepmom Michelle. Michelle and her husband have been blending for five years. Michelle has three biological daughters and her husband has three biological sons and one biological daughter. Her bio kids and her stepkids attend the same school, which adds some unique challenges. Michelle and her husband were on the verge of divorce and met with a counselor. The counselor's lack of blended family knowledge resulted in them not getting the help they needed. They went through several counselors before Michelle joined the...
2020-09-251h 18
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver067: Interview With Karalee Katsambanis - Author of "Stepparenting With Purpose"In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, interview Karalee Katsambanis - author of "Stepparenting With Purpose: Everything you wanted to know but were too afraid to ask". Karalee has been blending 15 years, has two stepkids, and three "ours" kids. She is Australian so you know Lori had a fit over Karalee's accent! In this episode, we discuss: Never meeting the bio mum Being the first "stepmum" amongst your friends Not all counselors understand stepparenting Mother's Day Focusing more on the stepkids instead of your own kids
2020-09-111h 37
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver066: Stepson Was Sexually Inappropriate With Bio Son*** DISCLAIMER *** Trigger Warning - Inappropriate Sexual Behavior In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, interview an anonymous stepmom from Florida. This stepmom has been blending for five years, has one stepson and two bio sons. About six weeks after they were married, something unthinkable happened. Her stepson was sexually inappropriate with her bio son. Of course, this is something no one is ever prepared to have to deal with, nor do they expect to have to deal with, but she agreed to share her story with us i...
2020-09-041h 41
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver062: Stepmom With Brady Bunch DreamsIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, interview stepmom Michelle. Michelle and her husband have been blending for five years. Michelle has three biological daughters and her husband has three biological sons and one biological daughter. Her bio kids and her stepkids attend the same school, which adds some unique challenges. Michelle and her husband were on the verge of divorce and met with a counselor. The counselor’s lack of blended family knowledge resulted in them not getting the help they needed. They went through several counselors before Michelle joined th...
2020-08-0700 min
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver061: Interview With Kristen Skiles ~ StepmommingIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, interview Kristen Skiles with Stepmomming. Kristen has been blending for three years, has a 10-year old stepdaughter, and was a stepchild herself. Although she was a stepchild herself, Kristen still faced many blended family challenges. Kristen and the bio mom had a unique relationship in the beginning and were considered best friends! After some struggles and boundaries being set, Kristen and the bio mom's relationship changed, but they still remain friends. In this episode, we discuss: Being friends with the...
2020-07-311h 27
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver055: Stepmom Who Has Five Stepkids With Three Bio Moms & Four Bio KidsIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, co-founders of Nacho Kids, interview stepmom Paige. Paige has been blending for two and a half years and has four bio kids and five stepkids! Not only does she have a bunch of kids in the blend, but there are also three bio moms! Like many stepmoms, Paige went overboard with parenting her younger stepkids. Thankfully she found Nachoing to help her! In this episode, we discuss: Taking things personally Stepmom expectations Her husband's thoughts on her Nachoing Flipping out on the stepkids Fe...
2020-06-191h 36
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver048: Stepmom And Bio Dad Moved 12 Hours Away From His KidsIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, co-founders of Nacho Kids, interview stepmom Katie. Katie is a childless stepmom who has been blending 10 years. She has three stepkids and one grand stepkid. Katie is a stepkid herself and has a good relationship with her stepdad. Katie and her husband recently moved 12 hours away from her husband's kids. In this episode, we discuss: Being a childless stepmom Finding your own way to connect with the stepkids Moving into the house your significant other and their ex shared Nachoing the mother-in-law Christmas
2020-05-011h 46
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver046: Childless Stepmom With An Autistic StepsonIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, co-founders of Nacho Kids, interview Rochelle, a childless stepmom with one stepson who is autistic. In her blend, she has dealt with a high conflict bio mom and a custody change of stepson. Nachoing helped Rochelle to have a relationship with her stepson. Rochelle is also a button pusher like David and they bonded over that, much to Lori's dismay. Lori thinks highly of Rochelle, regardless of her button-pushing. In this episode, we discuss: Hich conflict bio mom Parental Alienation Changs in custody Hav...
2020-04-171h 55
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver045: Stepmom Who Regrets Helping Her Husband Get Custody Of His KidsIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, co-founders of Nacho Kids, interview Maria, a two-time stepmom. Maria's first blend lasted two years and she had three stepkids, and brought three bio kids into the blend. Her second blend is going on eight years, and she now has four stepkids. Having learned a lot in her first blend, Maria was much more cautious going into the second blend! Although she was cautious going into the second blend, she helped her husband get custody of his kids, which she does regret. Maria is a certified divorce coach...
2020-04-101h 41
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver042: A Stepdaughter Molested By Her Stepbrother**Disclaimer: This episode may not be suitable for children, or some adults, as molestation is the main topic discussed.** In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, co-founders of Nacho Kids, interview a stepdaughter from Illinois. "Stepdaughter" became a stepkid at 18 months old. She had two older stepbrothers. One of which molested her from the age of eight years old until around the age of 14 years old. She never told her dad about the molestation, but recently confided in her mom. As you can imagine, the stepdaughter's childhood was taken from her...
2020-03-201h 43
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver040: A Stepmom Who Attempted Suicide**Disclaimer: This episode may not be suitable for children, and could be a trigger for some adults, as suicide is the main topic of discussion and rape is also mentioned.** In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, co-founders of Nacho Kids, interview founder of "The Starving Stepmom" - LauraBeth Ferguson. She is also co-author of "Daily Bread for The Starving Stepmom" with Melanie Anthony. LauraBeth was a single mom for eight years. She was raised in a blended family and she thought her experience as a stepchild would be beneficial when she married...
2020-03-062h 04
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver039: Interview With Stepmom Princess LaurenIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, co-founders of Nacho Kids, interview stepmom Princess Lauren. Lauren has been blending for 8 years. She has two stepkids and one "ours" kid. Things were great with the blend in the beginning, but when stepmom became pregnant things changed. Lauren admits her over-involvement as a stepmom caused issues in their blend and that's why she started Nachoing. In this episode, we discuss: Being an overly involved stepmom Stepkid challenges from an "ours" kid coming into the picture Guilty Parent Syndrome Parental alienation Forcing stepkids to...
2020-02-281h 38
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver035: The Globe-Trotting StepmomIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, co-founders of Nacho Kids, interview stepmom Ariyana. Ariyana has been blending for five years. She came into the blend as a childless stepmom to two stepdaughters but had a child of her own not too long ago. Ariyana is also a stepchild herself and thought her experience in a stepfamily growing up would help her with her blend. She realized she was wrong. Ariyana is a member of the Nacho Kids Academy and has made great strides in bettering her blend. We are very proud of her and...
2020-01-312h 02
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver033: Stepmom vs A Free-Spirited Bio MomIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, co-founders of Nacho Kids, interview stepmom Heather. Heather has been blending for seven years and is a childless stepmom to a 13-year-old stepdaughter and 15-year-old stepson. Heather has been able to build a decent relationship with her stepkids and actually handles communication with the bio mom. In this episode, we discuss: The Stepmom handling communication with the bio mom Nachoing in certain areas Waiting to be introduced to the stepkids In-law struggles Rate & Review Our Podcast Please rate and review our podcast...
2020-01-171h 17
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver026: A British Nacho MomIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, co-founders of Nacho Kids, interview stepmom Rhianna. Rhianna has been blending for four years. Rhianna has one seven-year-old stepdaughter and no bio kids. Her stepdaughter has Autism, OCD, ODD, and hypermobility. Rhianna is a mental health nurse and her husband has a background of working with adults with learning disabilities. In this episode, we discuss: Autism Lowering expectations Stepmom doing too much Nick Vujicic Calming boxes Rate & Review Our Podcast Please rate and review our podcast on iTunes and Stitcher. Th...
2019-11-291h 32
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver024: Stepmom Who Records ArgumentsIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, co-founders of Nacho Kids, interviews a childless stepmom. She has two stepkids with her boyfriend that is 14 years older than her. They record their blended arguments to be able to look back and see how they handled similar issues in the past. In this episode, we discuss: Being a childless stepmom Dealing with a high-conflict bio mom Recording your arguments Boundaries Guilty parent syndrome Rate & Review Our Podcast Please rate and review our podcast on iTunes and Stitcher. This helps others find...
2019-11-151h 17
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver022: A Two-Time Stepmom**Disclaimer: Parts of this podcast episode are adult in nature and not appropriate for children.** In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, co-founders of Nacho Kids, interview a stepmom that parents six children with six other adults in three other households! Stepmom Heather is in her third marriage and second blend! She has three bio kids from her first marriage, one bio kid and two stepkids from her second marriage, and two stepkids from her third marriage. Her second marriage didn't work out because her husband at the time couldn't deal with her...
2019-11-011h 45
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver021: Interview With Celia Kibler ~ Pumped Up ParentingIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, interview stepmom Celia Kibler! Celia is the founder of Pumped up Parenting and Funfit Family Fitness. She has been blending for 25 years! She has two biological children from her first husband and gained three stepkids when she remarried. In this episode, we discuss: Stepkids being treated as guests Family pictures in the blend Not taking things personally Criticizing the other bio parent to the kids Differences between the two homes Rate & Review Our Podcast Please rate and review ou...
2019-10-251h 52
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver016: Interview With Ron Deal ~ Smart Stepfamilies & Family Life BlendedIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David Sims, founders of Nacho Kids, interview Ron Deal! Ron Deal, an expert in stepfamily relationships, serves as President of Smart Stepfamilies™ and Director of Family Life Blended®, a division of Family Life®. He is the author of "The Smart Stepfamily", "The Smart Stepmom" (co-authored with Laura Petherbridge), "The Smart Stepdad", and "The Smart Stepfamily Marriage". His latest book "The Smart Stepfamily: Guide To Financial Planning", co-authored with Greg Pettys and David Edwards, was just released! Ron also just started a podcast earlier this year! Rate & Review Our...
2019-09-201h 26
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver015: Interview With Melissa Brown ~ Blended Family PodcastIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David Sims, founders of Nacho Kids, interview Melissa Brown founder of the "Blended Family Podcast". Melissa started her podcast four years ago! She has two bio kids and two stepkids. Melissa is another stepmom that has made it over ten years in the blend! In this episode, we discuss: When will the stepkids move out Guilty parent syndrome Letting go Changing your focus Gratitude Rate & Review Our Podcast Please rate and review our podcast on iTunes and Stitcher. This hel...
2019-09-131h 00
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver010: A Stepkids View Of Nachoing!In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David Sims, the founders of Nacho Kids interview one of David's kids, Lori's stepkid, Branson! Branson is the oldest of the triplets and was the most vocal in his dislike for Lori and the blend. He was also the "ring leader" for the "Burn Lori at the Stake", as Lori calls it. If you want to see what Nachoing does to the stepkids, watch this! In this episode, we discuss: Stepkid's thoughts before marriage, after marriage, and before and after Nachoing Stepkid's view of s...
2019-08-0936 min
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver009: Interview with Kristie Carpenter of "The Blended Family Mom"In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David Sims, the founders of Nacho Kids interview Kristie Carpenter. Kristie's first husband passed away. She has two bio children and married Dan, who also has two bio children. One of her stepkids is autistic and the other was an adult when they started blending. At the suggestion of her counselor, Kristie started journaling when she was upset. This turned into her using her journaling to write her first devotional "The Blended Family Mom". She later wrote her second devotional "Blended Family Moments". In this ep...
2019-08-021h 15
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver008: Interview With Tracy Poizner ~ The Essential StepmomIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David Sims, the founders of Nacho Kids, interview Tracy Poizner of The Essential Stepmom. Tracy has over 20 years of experience in natural healing and 10 years dealing with behavioral problems with kids. She is a stepmom to three and a bio mom to one. In this episode, we discuss: Parental Alienation Facebook groups Stepparent burnout Journaling Please rate and review this podcast on iTunes or wherever you listen. We appreciate it more than you know. Check out all the notes for this show at h...
2019-07-261h 25
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver006: Interview With Laura Petherbridge - The Smart StepmomIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David Sims, interview Laura Petherbridge!! Laura is very well known in the stepfamily group! Laura has been a stepmom for 30+ years and has two stepsons!! She serves couples and single adults with topics on spiritual growth, relationships, stepfamilies, co-parenting, single parenting, divorce prevention, and divorce recovery. She is an international speaker and author of four books including, When "I Do" Becomes "I Don't"—Practical Steps for Healing During Separation and Divorce, and The Smart Stepmom, co-authored with stepfamily expert Ron Deal and endorsed by Gary Chapman (Five Love Languages), 101 Ti...
2019-07-121h 12
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver005: Stepmom With 6 Stepkids And 3 Bio KidsIn this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David Sims, interview stepmom Jeanne. Jeanne has been a stepmom for 4 years and has 6 stepkids, 3 bio kids, and no "ours" kids. In this episode, we discuss: Parental custody of the stepkids changing A deceased bio parent Stepkid and bio kid competition w/ stepparent An absent bio parent The bio parent being a tactful parent Please rate and review our podcast on iTunes, Google Play, and Stitcher. This helps others find the podcast and lets us know what our listeners want to hear.
2019-07-0552 min
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver004: A Stepmom Who Knew What She Was Getting IntoLori and David speak with stepmom Susan! Susan has been blending for 2-½ years, has one bio child, and four stepkids. In this episode, we discuss: A LOT! Really! You'll see. Dealing with two bio moms. Being a stepchild. You won't believe this part! Grey Rock Method Narcissists Knowing what you are getting into! (She said it, not me.) Please rate and review this podcast on iTunes, Google Play, and Stitcher. This helps others find the podcast and lets us know what our listeners want to hear. Podcast show notes are available h...
2019-06-2950 min
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver003: A Stepmom That Experienced Stepkid Custody ChangesLori and David interview stepmom Emily! Emily has been blending for over 10 years! She has one stepkid and no biological children. There's a unique twist to her story!! In this episode, we discuss: Beating the blending odds! Stepkid's custody schedule changes. (She definitely did not know what she was getting into!) Having a high conflict bio parent. When there isn't a need to nacho. Please rate and review this podcast on iTunes, Google Play, and Stitcher. This helps others find the podcast and lets us know what our listeners want to hear. ...
2019-06-2952 min
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver002: A Childless Stepmom Of 10 YearsLori and David interview stepmom Rebeccah! In this episode, we discuss: Being a childless stepmom by choice What over a decade in the blend is like Guilty Parent Syndrome Please rate and review this podcast on iTunes, Google Play, and Stitcher. This helps others find the podcast and lets us know what our listeners want to hear. Podcast show notes are available here: https://nachokids.com/002
2019-06-281h 05
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver001: Nachoing, Nacho Kids, And The AcademyLori and David Sims, the founders of Nacho Kids share a little bit of their story and the story of Nacho Kids. In this episode, we discuss: A little backstory of Lori & David The "birth" of Nacho Kids Lori going Nacho Supreme The history of the growth of Nacho Kids Please rate and review this podcast on iTunes, Google Play, and Stitcher. This helps others find the podcast and lets us know what our listeners want to hear. Podcast show notes are available here: https://nachokids.com/001 Nacho Kids' purpose is to d...
2019-06-2850 min