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u-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastYoly Returns: Because Season 1 Lives Rent-FreeSend us a textJust in time for The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 premiere, we sit down with the one and only YOLY from Season One—and trust us, she’s not holding back. From the emotional whirlwind of reality TV to what life has looked like after the cameras stopped rolling, this is the conversation fans have been waiting for. Whether you were Team Mal, Team Xander, or just Team Chaos… you’re going to want to hear Yoly’s side.P.S. It’s worth relistening to our Xander interview in Season 12025-06-2649 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastWhat If There’s No Hell? Faith, Freak-Outs, and the Fun Side of DeconstructionSend us a textIn this episode, Heidi and Loydeen team up once more with Ann Russo, a psychotherapist and religious trauma expert, to tackle a Christianity quiz and see how their beliefs have shifted over the years. From strict church teachings to cosmic curiosity, they laugh, cringe, and even panic a little when Loydeen has an existential crisis mid-quiz—turns out, finding out there might be no hell can really mess with your head! If you’ve ever wondered how couples navigate the tricky world of faith (or just want to hear someone lose their mind over...2025-05-291h 46u-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastA sit down with religious trauma Psychotherapist Ann RussoSend us a textThis week on U-Haulers, we sit down with Anne Russo—licensed psychotherapist, founder of AMR Therapy, and an expert in religious trauma. Anne shares her wildly unique upbringing with a gay dad, his partner, and her mom in what would now be called a lavender marriage—while later pursuing a master’s in religious studies and studying alongside actual nuns. We dive deep into how queerness, spirituality, and purity culture collide, and what healing looks like when your body and identity were once framed as sinful. This episode is a balm for anyone unpack...2025-05-1553 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastUnholy Baggage: Sex, Shame & Purity CultureSend us a textTrigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of religious trauma, sexual shame, and the long-term effects of being raised in purity culture.Heidi’s usually calm and collected—unless you bring up weaponized religion and judgment. Then it’s game over! So if you ever wanted to hear Heidi get angry…this is the episode to listen to.In this raw and revealing episode, Heidi and Loydeen open up about the deep scars left behind by religious trauma—especially when it comes to sex, self-worth, and intimacy. From purity rin...2025-04-241h 08u-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastI SAW MY EXSend us a textAfter the most AWKWARD conversation EVER, I finally saw my Ex and Heidi rejoins the conversation to talk about how it impacted us! 2025-03-2044 minu-haulers | A Lesbian Podcast2.10 Honestly Scared To Share This Raw Car TalkSend us a textWe almost archived this car conversation, but it is our most RAW, Unfiltered, Vulnerable conversations yet in one of our last talks before I go see my Ex. 2025-02-2745 minu-haulers | A Lesbian Podcast2.9 I’m going to see my Ex…Come to Therapy with Me!Send us a textU-haulers dives deep into the messy, heartfelt, and often chaotic world of queer relationships. In this episode, Psychologist Carina DeWaard joins us to unpack the emotional rollercoaster of Loydeen revisiting her ex with Heidi’s blessing. Is closure really a thing, or are they opening Pandora’s box? We explore the risks, the psychology, and the U-Haul tendencies that make past breakups anything but simple. 2025-02-1343 minu-haulers | A Lesbian Podcast2.8 Breaking the Cycle: The One Tool That Changed EverythingSend us a textPodcast Episode Synopsis: Breaking the Cycle: The One Tool That Changed EverythingIn this quick episode, I explain what happened when I sat down with a psychologist who helped me uncover the hidden patterns that kept me attracting people with a fear of commitment. We dive deep into the psychology behind this cycle, why it happens, how it feeds on itself, and most importantly, the one powerful tool that finally broke the pattern for me.Through this conversation, I share my own ‘aha’ mome...2025-02-0510 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastThe one thing Loydeen did to stop the cycle of attracting “Fear of Commitment” (part 3 of 3)Send us a textAfter a talk with a psychologist and studying fear of abandonment and how it attracts fear of commitment Loydeen took this advice…and Heidi is really glad she did!! 2025-01-3010 minu-haulers | A Lesbian Podcast2.7 What a therapist said! What my ex said! - The Ex contSend us a textWhat I learned from a therapist!! And what my Ex said that blew me away! Loydeen learns about herself and what that led her to attract in her past (part 2 of 3) 2025-01-1720 minu-haulers | A Lesbian Podcast2.6 HOW do I reconcile ALL of this??! 🤔 The Ex cont.Send us a textLoydeen goes solo to share her processing after her talks with Heidi and her ex. (Part 1 of 3) 2025-01-1545 minu-haulers | A Lesbian Podcast2.5 THE Ex: Heidi joins the convo Part 2Send us a textThe second half of Heidi and Loydeen’s conversation about the options Heidi would like Loydeen to consider in helping her to feel chosen in the relationship, and Loydeen’s decision. 2025-01-1012 minu-haulers | A Lesbian Podcast2.4 THE Ex: Heidi joins the conversationSend us a textHeidi joins in to give her side and explains what options she presented Loydeen with to move forward in their relationship in regards to the ex returning. 2025-01-0818 minu-haulers | A Lesbian Podcast2.3 Warning: Full breakdown over my Ex…THE Ex part 2Send us a textTHE Ex, the one that got away, the one I thought I was going to marry comes back & Heidi & I have to have a serious talk about what this means for us. Part 2 2024-12-1912 minu-haulers | A Lesbian Podcast2.2 THE ExSend us a textWhen “THE EX”…the one that got away, the one you planned on marrying comes back…part 1 #ex #theonethatgotaway #exgirlfriend #theex #lesbiancouple #uhaulers 2024-12-1121 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastSeason 2 Episode 1: ElectionSend us a textA new season! Loydeen and Heidi discuss the 2024 election results and their hopes/fears for the future. Is biting your tongue and swallowing the pain the only way to have peace? 2024-11-141h 10u-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastEp. 20 T Swift, Gabby & Other Fun StuffSend us a text Loydeen and Heidi talk Taylor Swift concert, Gabby Windey, a drag queen that has topped the Christian Music charts and the Golden Bachelor... I mean, what's left to talk about, really? 2023-08-1025 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastEp.19 Our #Queer Love crushes! & who is the reality TV junkie (& who gets roped in?!) #realitytvshowSend us a textWho would be your trial marriage choice in The Ultimatum: Queer Love, what we love about the entire cast & why we think this show stood out from other reality TV shows (including other Queer ones.) #queerpodcast #queeryoutuber #ultimatum #netflix #uhaulers #xander #yoli #mal #mildred #aussie #lexi #rae #sam #tiff #aussieandsam 2023-07-2624 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastEp. 18 Spilling The Tea with Xander!Send us a textIn one of her first podcasts, Xander SPILLS THE TEA from her home in Hawaii after The Ultimatum Queer Love Reunion. Don't. Miss. It. We got the dirt!!#queerpodcast #Xander #queerlove #Ultimatum #reality tv #netflix #kineticcasting #uhaulers #queercouple #queerchannel 2023-07-121h 08u-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastEp. 17 Not Going To PrisonSend us a textWho would have thought shopping for a wedding dress could be so dangerous!! 2022-11-0414 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastEp. 16 "Homosexual" wasn't in the Bible until 1946!Send us a textJoin us for our special guest Rocky Roggio, the producer/director of "1946 The Movie"We were so excited for this interview after learning about this ground breaking film. Rocky recounts the story of a young seminary student who challenged the translation of two Greek words into the word "Homosexual." Even though the translation committee actually responded and admitted that this was a mistake in their translation, by the time they fixed it, the damage had already been done.This film is in post-production and still needs money! Please su...2022-09-0133 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastEp. 15 She said YES!Send us a textBehind the scenes of Heidi's hot air balloon proposal. 2022-07-0142 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastEp. 14 To wind or not to wind the hose, that is the question...#differencesSend us a textAfter two years together, our differences are becoming extremely noticeable. Oh, the fun when opposites attract! #lesbiancouple #lesbianpodcast 2022-05-3135 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastEp. 13 No really, we owe it all to lockdown!Send us a textThe missing details of our lockdown story and why we suddenly became the u-haulers! 2022-05-0523 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastEp. 12 WHAT- I’ve been in love with u my whole life?!?Send us a textLoydeen planned a surprise for Heidi but ended up shocking them both!Take a trip down memory lane with us... 2022-03-3118 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastEp. 11 What happened to us at church Search for Church pt 2Send us a textWe can't make this sh*t up, but we found the light at the end of the tunnel ;) 2022-03-1733 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastEpisode 10: Relationship StrengtheningSend us a text Now that you made it through Valentine's Day, here are some questions that will go much further than chocolate and gifts to strengthen your relationship.... Keep her your Valentine all year long... 2022-03-0330 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastEp. 9 💍 #ENGAGED 💍Send us a textAll the behind the scenes of the special night!! #engaged 2022-02-1550 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastEpisode 8: Search For ChurchSend us a text Listener requested topic and here it is! Our search for a church and how we navigate that as an LGBTQ family. Also, Loydeen's ongoing pain and struggle over her heart wrenching decision to walk away from her former beloved church home. 2021-11-1031 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastEp. 7 "Pray the Gay Away"Send us a textHave you ever thought someone you know that is gay should just "Pray the Gay Away" or been told that yourself? Have you rejected or pushed away a loved one or had someone you loved deeply refuse to have a relationship with you because you are being your authentic, happy, gay self? We discuss why we still think "coming out" is an important part of the journey for you & your loved ones (as long as it is safe to do so) & how we want to be a safe place you can turn to...2021-10-2132 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastEpisode 6: Pandemic 2.0Send us a textOut of lockdown, back into lockdown. It's a lot for a brand new relationship...and for anyone. How we both survived and made huge career changes because of it!! 2021-10-0629 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastEpisode 5: Compatibility and Love LanguagesSend us a text Love Languages & how Compatibility changed EVERYTHING for us. Why do people not talk about the need for compatibility more??? P.S. We may or may not be eating dinner while we record this. #guilty 2021-09-2318 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastEpisode 4: Loydeen's Coming Out StorySend us a textAnd....now Loydeen's coming out story. We wouldn't leave you hanging.Loydeen's journey from innocent young Christian to a hot Carmen look-alike helping her realize she likes women! 2021-09-2325 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastEpisode 3: Heidi's Coming Out StorySend us a textWhat's a lesbian podcast without the details of a "coming out" story...Heidi shares the moment she met her first girlfriend and the fall-out that came after. 2021-09-2318 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastEpisode 2: And here it is... that "One Fun Night"...Send us a text "One fun night" IN DETAIL...Heidi's BIG announcement, cock-blocking and RUNNING out of the room, oh my! 2021-09-2327 minu-haulers | A Lesbian PodcastEpisode 1: When "one fun night" changes your whole life.Send us a text Intro: when we thought it was only going to be One. Fun. Night. Then... Lockdown #loveinquarantine 2021-09-2302 min