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Sex & Sensuality for the ChurchyThe Most Common Questions About KinkWatch Sex and Sensuality for the Churchy's season finale to learn about LuzCelenia and Stefane's beginner kink journey including some of the most commonly asked questions for those interested in starting their kink journey.Support the showSign up for the host, LuzCelenia's mailing list HERECLICK HERE to join our PRIVATE FB Community, Sex and Sensuality for the ChurchyWatch on YouTubeAs always,BE AS RADIANT AS THE SUN!2023-05-2435 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyWhat Do You Know About Kink?Welcome Back to Sex and Sensuality for the Churchy podcast where LuzCelenia and Stefane talk all things sex and sensuality for the currently churched, the formerly churched, and the over-churched. This week we're revisiting kink and covering some of the most commonly asked questions about kink. Listen to the 3-part Kink episode from season 2 here:Kinky Church Girl Part 1 Kinky Church Girl Part 2Kinky Church Girl Part 3If you're new here make sure to follow/subscribe and leave a review so more people can enjoy sex-positive, informative and entertaining content for the...2023-05-1720 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyIs Masturbation Really a Sin? Part 2Host, LuzCelenia, and Stef continue the conversation on masturbation discussing the benefits of the practice and debunking some of the myths about it as well. Stay till the end for a sensual mindful moment and preview of a self-pleasure guided meditation. Full meditation will be available this week on our YouTube channel. "Feel It Now " used with permission by Independent Music Licensing Collective (IMLC)"Neon Jesus" used with permission Support the showSign up for the host, LuzCelenia's mailing list HERECLICK HERE to join our PRIVATE FB Community, Sex and Se...2023-05-1031 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyIs Masturbation Really a Sin?Join us in this episode as we dive deep into the taboo topic of masturbation and explore the long-standing myth that it is a sin. Our experts separate fact from fiction and provide evidence-based insights on the physical, emotional, and mental benefits of solo sex. Let's break the stigma and embrace our sexuality without guilt or shame. Tune in now and discover the truth about masturbation!Support the showSign up for the host, LuzCelenia's mailing list HERECLICK HERE to join our PRIVATE FB Community, Sex and Sensuality for the ChurchyWatch...2023-05-0321 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyFreaknik, Churchnik & Mama's BoysWelcome to "Sex and Sensuality for the Churchy," the podcast where we explore topics related to sex, love, and relationships in the context of faith and spirituality. In this episode, we will be discussing some recent headlines that have caught our attention.First up, we'll be delving into the controversial documentary, "Freaknik: The Wildest Party Never Told" This documentary takes a deep dive into the history of Freaknik, an annual spring break party for HBCU students that was held in Atlanta during the 80s and 90s. We'll be discussing the impact of this party on...2023-04-2628 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyCarnal Conundrum: The Weak Flesh DebateJoin us in this thought-provoking episode as we delve into the intriguing topic of Matthew 26:41 and its interpretation regarding sexual temptation. Does the phrase "the flesh is weak" refer to abstaining from sex, or does it have a deeper meaning? We explore our viewpoints to shed light on this controversial topic. Does celibacy or abstinence truly teach sexual discipline? Tune in to join the conversation and gain insights into this biblical conundrum.If you got something from this episode or even disagree please like and share and see if others agree with your take on the episode...2023-04-1938 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyBetter to Marry than to Burn Part 2Continuing the conversation from last week, we continue to delve into the often-misunderstood phrase from the New Testament, "It's better to marry than to burn." Our host LuzCelenia shares a personal story about a church leader who used this phrase to justify his decision to get married, but what started as an explanation proved to foreshadow a pattern of grooming and sexual harassment towards LuzCelenia and other college kids in the parachurch college organization. In this conversation, we delve into how these scriptural tropes only aid in oversexualizing each other and how the phrase has been used to harm...2023-04-1239 min
Sex & Sensuality for the ChurchyBetter to Marry than to BurnIn this episode of Sex and Sensuality for the Churchy, we delve into the often-misunderstood phrase from the New Testament, "It's better to marry than to burn." While this verse has been used to promote abstinence and chastity, it's also been taken out of context, leading to harmful and damaging attitudes toward sex and marriage. Our host LuzCelenia shares a personal story about a church leader who used this phrase to justify his decision to get married, but what started as an explanation led to a pattern of grooming and sexual harassment towards LuzCelenia and other college kids in...2023-04-0526 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyMoney, Power, RespectPower dynamics are present in every relationship, and romantic relationships are no exception. In fact, power struggles can often arise in intimate relationships, as each partner tries to negotiate their needs and desires. But what exactly is power in a relationship, and how does it affect the individuals involved?In this episode, we explore the role of power in romantic relationships. We discuss the different types of power that can exist between partners, including emotional, financial, and physical power. We also examine how power can shift over time, as individuals gain or lose control in different aspects...2023-03-2236 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyUnrealistic ExpectationsWelcome to episode 11 of Sex and Sensuality for the Churchy, where we’ll be discussing unrealistic expectations in relationships and the dangers they can bring.Many people enter into relationships with certain expectations, whether it be about love, trust, communication, or even material possessions. While it’s natural to have expectations in any relationship, the problem arises when these expectations become unrealistic.Unrealistic expectations can come in many forms, such as expecting your partner to meet all your emotional needs or expecting them to always know what you’re thinking. These types of expectations can put a...2023-03-1531 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyDo You Believe in Soul Ties?In this episode, we dive into the controversial topic of soul ties - the idea that when we have sexual or emotional intimacy with someone, we create a spiritual connection that can be impossible to break. Some people believe that soul ties can have negative effects on our lives, while others consider them to be a myth.We explore the origins of the concept of soul ties, how it has been interpreted and applied, and the impact it has had on us and our relationships.Ultimately, this episode aims to provide a balanced and informative...2023-03-0839 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyWhy We HealIn this podcast episode, we explore the topic of emotional healing in romantic relationships and why it is important for our well-being. We delve into the various reasons why people may need to heal emotionally, including trauma, past experiences, and difficult relationships and the impact that our emotional immaturity has on us including romanticizing seeing our Christian brothers in worship, believing that women are inherently more attached than men and that men are inherently less detached than women.In this podcast episode, we explore the topic of emotional healing in romantic relationships and why it is important for our...2023-03-0124 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyHoly Sex vs Unholy Sex Part 2Part 2 of What makes sex holy or sacred? Is it marriage? Is it sacrilegious to consider yourself favored by God when engaging in sexual activity? How do you make or keep the sanctity of sex? Let's talk about it.Support the showSign up for the host, LuzCelenia's mailing list HERECLICK HERE to join our PRIVATE FB Community, Sex and Sensuality for the ChurchyWatch on YouTubeAs always,BE AS RADIANT AS THE SUN!2023-02-2200 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyUnholy Sex vs Holy SexWhat makes sex holy or sacred? Is it marriage? Is it sacrilegious to consider yourself favored by God when engaging in sexual activity? Join hosts, LuzCelenia and Stef for part 1 of this conversation and stay tuned for part 2 next week!Support the showSign up for the host, LuzCelenia's mailing list HERECLICK HERE to join our PRIVATE FB Community, Sex and Sensuality for the ChurchyWatch on YouTubeAs always,BE AS RADIANT AS THE SUN!2023-02-1525 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyFollow Your GutIn this episode, we'll explore how to tap into your intuition and trust the guidance it provides. We'll look at how our host, LuzCelenia used her intuition, sensual practice, and practical experience to execute her 40th birthday party. Head over to our Youtube channel to catch a clip of LuzCelenia singing at her party.Support the showSign up for the host, LuzCelenia's mailing list HERECLICK HERE to join our PRIVATE FB Community, Sex and Sensuality for the ChurchyWatch on YouTubeAs always,BE AS RADIANT AS...2023-02-0853 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchySex EducationWhen and how did you learn about sex? Stef and LuzCelenia share their stories of sex education.Support the showSign up for the host, LuzCelenia's mailing list HERECLICK HERE to join our PRIVATE FB Community, Sex and Sensuality for the ChurchyWatch on YouTubeAs always,BE AS RADIANT AS THE SUN!2023-02-0154 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyMartyrdom is NOT a Love LanguageAre you familiar with the scripture Mathew 16:24, "Then said Jesus unto his disciples, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me"? How was that taught when you heard it? Too often we are told we have to sacrifice for the church, our partners, our children, our parents, our jobs, etc., and this scripture is used to justify giving of ourselves even to the point of extreme pain and call it love. Is that what the scripture means? Why are you martyring yourself?Cr...2023-01-2539 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyTakers vs Givers in RelationshipsStef and LuzCelenia discuss a Twitter thread by @reynasnoriega and dig deeper into why people choose certain relationships but refuse to do the things that would make their partner happy and feel loved. Does it matter if your partner can't give it to you? Where's the line? Are we asking for too much or not enough?Support the showSign up for the host, LuzCelenia's mailing list HERECLICK HERE to join our PRIVATE FB Community, Sex and Sensuality for the ChurchyWatch on YouTubeAs always,BE AS...2023-01-181h 06Sex & Sensuality for the ChurchyIs the church misogynistic?LuzCelenia along with the new co-host, Stef, continue the conversation from last week's episode about misogyny in the church and how misogyny has impacted our lives. Theme music: Ashland - Neon (used with permission)Support the showSign up for the host, LuzCelenia's mailing list HERECLICK HERE to join our PRIVATE FB Community, Sex and Sensuality for the ChurchyWatch on YouTubeAs always,BE AS RADIANT AS THE SUN!2023-01-1153 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyNew Year, New Beginnings, New EndingsPodcast is bizack!!! New episode is LIVE on YouTube, Apple, Spotify and me website… Link in Bio!!LuzCelenia is leaving her church of 18 years and shares with you why.The Sex and Sensuality podcast team is growing and the bane is changing (a little bit) again…Give a warm welcome to our new co-host, Stef… and with that the name will be changed to Sex and Sensuality for the Churchy😝 Support the showSign up for the host, LuzCelenia's mailing list HERECLICK HERE to join our PRIVATE FB Community...2023-01-0449 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyStop Blaming Da'Naih for Derrick Jackson's BehaviorWe are still blaming women for their abuse and I don't like that!I get that Da'Naiah is not a sympathetic victim, but let me hip you to something...victims aren't perfect and do not/should not have to perform to get your sympathy or empathy.Today's episode we go into why the Da'Naiah's of the world need to be shown more grace and how LuzCelenia was personally incensed when a female preacher at her church spewed the same harmful rhetoric that keeps women like Da'Naiah in bondage by telling Black women they are solely...2022-12-1434 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyWhy Are Christian Couples Not Having Sex???The average married couple in the United States has sex once a week and Christian couples are having even less than that. In this week's episode, LuzCelenia talks about why Black Christian couples are likely to have less sex, what the benefits are of having more sex, and tips on how to increase the frequency and satisfaction of your sex life.Click the link below to join LuzCelenia's private group for her session Unleash Your Radiance where she is going to share what she calls "the holy trinity of healing" and more on her personal j...2022-11-3041 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyDealing with Relationship Grief During the HolidaysLuzCelenia gets personal in this episode discussing how she grieved the relationship she thought would be her last one and turned pain into gold. Join LuzCelenia on Wednesday, December 14th in her private Facebook group (link below to join) for Unleash Your Radiance where she shares more about her journey and what she calls "the holy trinity of healing" that has helped her to heal and overcome from religious trauma, domestic violence, being overweight and insecure to become a confident woman who is living the life she always dreamed of full of joy, love, and pleasure.S...2022-11-2338 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyYou're Not a Broken Toy: Why we HEALThe narrative that we're broken is old and tired and a lot of the advice given to and from men and women about relationships on the internet and on these red pill podcasts is really just toxic and counterproductive to the goal of experiencing real, healthy love growing up. Our foundation wasn't laid properly. Our parents and their parents did the best they could, but the impact has been severe. The great news is you can lay a new foundation and as important as healing is it doesn't mean you have to become obsessed with it because you're not s...2022-11-0948 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyKinky Church Girls Part 3Delayed but not denied...we had some tech issues but we close out Kinktober with our special guest, Dee Rae. She was so gracious to record again to get this much needed conversation about her journey as a church girl into kink and polyamory. She also shares helpful tips for beginners and some high-level information about the spectrum that is kink. We even talk about our long and very colorful history together and how our paths have crossed on our respective kink journeys.To fill out the kink checklist we mentioned in the website you can download...2022-11-021h 02Sex & Sensuality for the ChurchyKinky Church Girls Part 2We are continuing our conversation on kink with the Erogenous Coach, Dr. LaVonne Shaw who is a licensed minister and certified Dominatrix. We talk about how the Erogenous Coach came about from a place of necessity because of how many women were not equipped to give or experience pleasure with their partners or spouses and why she decided to become a dominatrix. LuzCelenia also gives you an update on her life and how gym life has become an important part of it. Follow @fittemplebaltimore on Instagram if you're looking for a new trainer. He also ha...2022-10-2750 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyKinky Church Girl Part 1Back after an unplanned 2-week break and we are diving right into kink since it's National Kink MonthChapter 1: LuzCelenia shares about why there was a 2 week break and how her sensual practice helped her to clarify and empower herself to be able to realign and inevitably find peace to move forward.Chapter 2: A brief introduction to kink. What is kink, why do people participate in it and does it have to be sexual? Plus, a brief tease into next week's guest Dee Rae who is a Black polyamorous pansexual polymath as she tells her j...2022-10-1925 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyMy Neck, My BackIs sex just for procreation? Was it created simply to be fruitful and to multiply or can we also experience pleasure not as a byproduct but as its focus too? One way to gauge pleasure in sex is experiencing orgasms and unfortunately, heterosexual women statistically are having fewer orgasms than anyone else with heterosexual men having the most.This week's church announcements tackles the difference between church girl p*ssy and witchy p*ssy.We end the episode with an ode to black girls who take their pleasure in their own hands by...2022-09-2943 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchySex and Sensuality for Church Girls trailerThe podcast has a new name and renewed mission. You can go to the link below to subscribe to the podcastSUBSCRIBE HERESee you on Instagram for the live aftershow at 9 pm EST at www.instagram.com/_luzcelenia_As always, BE AS RADIANT AS THE SUN!Credits:Sunday Spirit by music by audionautix.comSupport the showSign up for the host, LuzCelenia's mailing list HERECLICK HERE to join our PRIVATE FB Community, Sex and Sensuality for the ChurchyWatch on YouTube2022-09-2102 minSex & Sensuality for the ChurchyFeeling MyselfEver heard that masturbation is a sin or that it invites evil spirits into your life? Let's talk about it along with some of my thoughts (I promise no spoilers) of The Woman King. To close out the episode stay for some useful affirmations that can help you remove shame around self-pleasure and masturbation.Stay tuned to the end of the episode for a special offer just for my listeners and you can go to the link below to subscribe to the podcastSUBSCRIBE HERESee you on Instagram for the live aftershow...2022-09-2132 min