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Moms Take TenParenting Practicals--Gospel-Informed Parenting with Jess Brandon pt. 2The gospel matters. We know that. We believe in it and we want our kids to also. But sometimes we struggle to know how to parent from those beliefs. How does the gospel help us navigate our children's whining, or our toddler's tantrums, or our teenager's angst? Jess Brandon, a Connected Families certified parent coach, shares how the gospel has come to inform her parenting and walks us through how to apply it to our own. This episode is part two of our conversation where we look at redemption and new creation. Last month, we looked at aspects of...2025-03-2410 minMoms Take TenParenting Practicals--Gospel-Informed Parenting with Jess Brandon pt. 1The gospel matters. We know that. We believe in it and we want our kids to also. But sometimes we struggle to know how to parent from those beliefs. How does the gospel help us navigate our children's whining, or our toddler's tantrums, or our teenager's angst? Jess Brandon, a Connected Families certified parent coach, shares how the gospel has come to inform her parenting and walks us through how to apply it to our own. This episode will look at aspects of creation and the fall, and next month we will look at redemption and new creation. She...2025-02-2411 minMoms Take TenLove Day--Christ's Love for UsThe love that we are called to as moms is not easy. I was reminded of this as I spent most of the past month sick and yet still had three kiddos to care for. The temptation to whine and complain and get frustrated was real! In the middle of it, the Lord drew me to the example he set before us of his servant love. And he showed me that not only am I called to that towards my kids, but that is how he treats me. As we are pouring of ourselves onto our children, Christ is...2025-02-1011 minMoms Take TenParenting in Scripture--Kindness Takes PatienceMany of us have heard that God's kindness leads us to repentance, but have you read the whole verse before? The first part speaks of God's kindness, and also his tolerance and patience. Kindness can lead to repentance, but God knows that sometimes that takes time. The same is true with our children. If we are kind only so we can see immediate results, we will quickly become frustrated and lose our kindess altogether. God calls us to be kind always, meaning we must be patient as well. Verses referenced: Romans 1&2, with focus on...2024-01-1510 min
Moms Take TenFoster Care and Adoption with Jamie CliftonFellow foster and adoptive mama, Jamie Clifton, joins me today. Listen in as she shares her journey to adoption, what she is learning about parenting, and about being willing to let her village help. Interested in parent coaching or to learn more about me, head to https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and Insta @lyssastoyko Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Help other mamas find encouragement through Moms Take Ten by rating and reviewing this show. Thanks! 2024-01-0810 min
Moms Take TenMoms in the Bible--Rebekah part 2An ordinary day, an unexpected visitor, a decision to be made. Both Rebekah and Mary experienced those things, hundreds of years apart. Their choices teach all of us how to respond when God calls us. Interested in parent coaching or to learn more about me, head to https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and Insta @lyssastoyko Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Help other mamas find encouragement through Moms Take Ten by rating and reviewing this show. Thanks! Image from John Heseltine / P...2023-12-1809 minMoms Take TenParenting in Scripture--The Opposite of AnxietyThe Scriptures have been teaching us the antedote to anxiety for hundreds of years--trust in the Lord. Verses referenced: Isaiah 26:3-4 1 Peter 5:6-7 Philippians 4:4-9 Genesis 18:14 and Luke 1:37 Isaiah 41:10 and Matthew 28:20 1 Peter 1:3 Interested in parent coaching or to learn more about me, head to https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and Insta @lyssastoyko Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Help other mamas find encouragement through Moms Take Ten by rating and reviewing this show. Thanks!2023-12-1110 min
Moms Take TenFoster Care and Adoption with Brandy LeyvaListen in as Brandy Levya shares her experience as a transracial adoptee in a predominately white area. From avoiding adoption conversations to now sharing about her journey with others, Brandy points to the work of God in her life and heart. She offers a valuable perspective to those seeking to support children in the foster and adoption worlds. We are so honored to have Brandy join us for this episode! Learn more about Brandy at leycolettering.com. Learn more about Replanted at replantedministry.org. Interested in parent coaching or to learn more about m...2023-12-0409 minMoms Take TenA Different Take on Gratitude with Katie WetsellOur conversation with Katie Wetsell takes us into the research on gratitude. Going beyond gratitude journals, Katie shares how gratitude is meant to be shared. As parents, when we model gratitude to our children and express ours to them, we invite them to experience the benefits and enjoyment that a grateful heart brings. Katie Wetsell is a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach. You can find her at parentwithhope.org and on instagram @parentwithhopecoach Interested in parent coaching or to learn more about me, head to https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello?2023-11-2710 min
Moms Take TenMoms in the Bible--Sarah part 2Sarah's life seems characterized by doubt and control. But that is not how the Lord describes her. Through her life we are encouraged that our own mistakes do not define. Our identity comes from the Lord. We are who HE says we are. Interested in parent coaching or to learn more about me, head to https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and Insta @lyssastoyko Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Help other mamas find encouragement through Moms Take Ten by rating and reviewing this...2023-11-2008 minMoms Take TenParenting in Scripture--Taste and SeeDo you ever find yourself acting a little crazy, a bit irrational, not in your right mind? David did. Rather than trusting the Lord, he became a madman to escape danger. Sometimes we too let our circumstances dictate our behavior. The psalm that David wrote after this escapade was a reminder to him, and to all of us, that God is in fact trustworthy and good. Interested in parent coaching or to learn more about me, head to https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and Insta @lyssastoyko2023-11-1309 min
Moms Take TenFoster Care and Adoption with Jess LeachI am so excited to begin a new season of foster and adoption conversations with this interview of my friend Jess Leach. From how the Lord drew her into foster care to how he sustained her in it, Jess's testimony draws us into God's word and and the life of Jesus in a way that applies to all of us no matter where we are at. This is such a great conversation! Interested in parent coaching or to learn more about me, head to https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow...2023-11-0610 minMoms Take TenMore Than A Diagnosis with Nidia MarreroMy friend Nidia joins me today to share about her sweet boy, Isaiah. Testing during pregnancy revealed that Isaiah had down sydrome. Nidia shares her love for her child, the beauty in how he was made, and the faith she has in the God who made him. Follow their story on Instagram @casadeisaiah Interested in parent coaching or to learn more about me, head to https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and Insta @lyssastoyko Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Help other...2023-10-3010 minMoms Take TenDelighting In Our Children with Emily ThomasDelighting in my kids is something I have been lacking in lately. Maybe you can relate. Sometimes it feels as though all the delight is gone and I have to fight to get it back. Emily Thomas, of Struggle Well School, joins me in this episode to discuss how we can intentionally choose to delight in our children. This conversation was prompted by this reel that Emily posted on Instagram. You can learn more about Emily on Instagram @strugglewellschool or on her website, https://strugglewellschool.com/ Interested in parent coaching or to learn...2023-10-2310 min
Moms Take TenMoms in the Bible--Hagar part 2Hagar was a mom who experienced despair. She had a moment where she came to the end of herself and felt she could no longer care for her child. God knew otherwise. Be encouraged by this part of Hagar's story, and the words of the psalmist in Psalm 56, that the Lord hears us and helps us be the moms he has called us to be. Her story is in Genesis 16 and 21. Interested in parent coaching or to learn more about me, head to https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? F...2023-10-1608 minMoms Take TenParenting in Scripture--Rejoicing in RepetitionHave you ever found yourself frustrated having to repeat yourself to your children? I know I have. Today's passage is for you. Philippians 3:1 offers a perspective shift that will help you move from frustration to rejoicing in those moments. 2023-10-0910 min
Moms Take TenFoster Care and Adoption--Saying "No," A StoryA fellow foster mama said to me recently, “Who knew that saying no to placements would be one of the harder and most emotional things we have to do as foster parents.” She said this as I shared with her some of the decisions I had faced over the summer. Hard and emotional is absolutely right. This episode is the story of this summer and where we are now. Interested in parent coaching or to learn more about me, head to https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and...2023-10-0209 minMoms Take TenThe ABCs of Affirmation with Jess BrandonHow can we praise our children well? Is saying "Good job!" enough or is there more we can do to encourage them? Jess Brandon, Connected Families Certified Parent Coach, joins me today for a conversation on a tool called "The ABCs of Affirmation." This tool gives guidance on how to praise our children in the good moments and the hard. Resources: Jess Brandon's website Connected Families article on the ABCs of Affirmation Connected Families podcast on the ABCs of Affirmation Interested in parent coaching or to learn more about me, head to https://www.lyssastoyko...2023-09-2510 min
Moms Take TenMoms in the Bible--Eve part 2Heading into another year of our Moms in the Bible series, we are going back to the beginning with Eve. In the previous episode of Eve, we looked at the lure the serpent used to trick her into eating of the tree. This episode focuses on her creation. Why was woman created? What is our purpose? Have a listen to learn more! Interested in parent coaching or to learn more about me, head to https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and Insta @lyssastoyko Email me at...2023-09-1808 minMoms Take TenParenting in Scripture--Spiritual Blessings and God's PowerAfter some announcements, this episode dives into a new emphasis on Moms Take Ten, looking at verses throughout scripture that can guide or encourage us in our parenting. Today, we study Ephesians 1, and the incredible promise of spiritual blessings to those who believe in Jesus. Interested in parent coaching or to learn more about me, head to https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Follow me on Facebook and Insta @lyssastoyko Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Help other mamas find encouragement through Moms Take Ten by rating and reviewing this show. Thanks!2023-09-1110 min
Moms Take TenThe Connected Families Framework--You Are ResponsibleIn this final episode of our miniseries on the Connected Families framework, we discuss correction. The message is: Child, you are responsible for your actions. Correction is something that all parents have questions about and struggle with knowing what to do. The goal of this episode is to give a biblical perspective for how to engage our children, drawing on the previous three messages, and ways to give consequences that focus on building wisdom and restoring relationship. Resources: Discipline that Connects course--the moderated version opens in September! Parent Coaching with Lyssa--also opening in September! C...2023-08-2111 min
Moms Take TenThe Connected Families Framework--You are Called and CapableWe've spent the first two weeks of this miniseries looking inside ourselves and our children to better understand and respond to situations. These next two sessions will look at practical ways to coach and correct our children. Our children are called by God and capable of so much. We get to come alongside them and coach them in the giftings that he has given them. What a privilege! Resources: Article by Connected Families on gifts gone awry Podcast by Connected Families on gifts gone awry Flourishing Homes and Families visual schedule Parent Coaching by Lyssa ...2023-08-1410 min
Moms Take TenThe Connected Families Framework--You Are Loved No Matter WhatContinuing to work through the Connected Families framework, we come to the second message: "Child, you are loved no matter what." How can we as parents intentionally convey to our children the unconditional love of God, and of us, even in their misbehavior? To learn more: Read Connected Families' blog post "15 Reasons for Love-No-Matter-What." Listen to Connected Families' podcast episode "Communicating Love in the Midst of Misbehavior." Follow me on instagram @lyssastoyko where I share my own experiences with parenting through the framework. Learn more about me a...2023-08-0710 min
Moms Take TenThe Connected Families Framework--You are Safe With MeYou have heard me mention the organization Connected Families a number of times on Moms Take Ten, so I thought it was time for a proper introduction to their framework. Each episode of this miniseries will focus on one of Connected Families core messages. Today, we look at the foundational message of "Child, you are safe with me." You can learn more about Connected Families by heading to their website or instagram account, or by following my instagram account. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say h...2023-07-3110 min
Moms Take TenGod In Our Daily Interactions--Serving Those Around UsThe final episode to our miniseries, God In Our Daily Interactions, we are discussing teaching our children and involving our children in serving others. Resources Referenced: God's Big Story podcast Devoted: Great Men and Their Godly Moms by Tim Challies 2023-07-2409 min
Moms Take TenGod In Our Daily Interactions--Seeing God Around UsToday we are discussing how to help our children see God where they are at. We want to help grow their awareness of him and delight at seeing him. Resources Referenced: Moms Take Ten Episode--The Gospel in Parenting with Lynne Jackson2023-07-1706 min
Moms Take TenGod In Our Daily Interactions--Talking About The BibleCreating spaces throughout our day to talk about God and his word to our children. Resources Referenced: Family Worship by Donald Whitney The Jesus Storybook Bible by Sally Lloyd Jones Tales that Tell the Truth by The Good Book Company Will, God's Mighty Warrior by Sheila Walsh The Courageous Series by Voice of the Martyrs The Secret of the Hidden Scrolls by Mike Thomas Instagram accounts: @goodbookmom and @fillyourhousewithbooks The Trailblazers Series Heroes of the Faith Series ...2023-07-1010 min
Moms Take TenGod In Our Daily Interactions--Playing the BibleA new miniseries--God In Our Daily Interactions. This episode talks about how to help our children learn the Bible through play. Resources Referenced: Playfully Faithful Parenting Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and Insta @lyssastoyko Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Help other mamas find encouragement through Moms Take Ten by rating and reviewing this show. Thanks!2023-07-0306 min
Moms Take TenFor Fathers, part 5--The Father Gap with Jim RowanThis is the final episode of the For Fathers series. As I prepared, interviewed, edit and posted the episodes in this series, I was aware of the difficult reality that not every home or every child has a godly father . Some homes have no father at all. Others have a father present who, rather than upholding godly values, actively seeks to tear down the good that is or could be present. To speak to that father gap and to the moms living in those homes is a daunting goal. This episode speaks to those mamas who are p...2023-06-2620 min
Moms Take TenFor Fathers, part 4--Michael LoosaI hope you all had a wonderful Fathers Day! This episode continues our series, For Fathers, with a conversation with my brother, Michael Loosa. He brings such a good word about fathers in light of our Heavenly Father and the freedom that comes from acknowledging your shortcomings in order to embrace his assistance. Michael also encourages fathers in their relationships with their wives and how to step into that well. Verses referenced: Isaiah 43:6-7 I will say to the north, Give up, and to the south, Do not withhold; brin...2023-06-1914 min
Moms Take TenFor Fathers, part 3--Jon TaylorMy brother-in-law joins me in this episode to share how he views his role as father, and the ways that he seeks to guide and love his children. He talks about speaking into their character more than performance, showing his love through the way he spends his time, being aware of his internal struggles as he disciplines, and inviting our children into all spheres of our lives. Book referenced: Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters by Meg Meeker Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me...2023-06-1211 minMoms Take TenFor Fathers, part 2--George Stoyko and Jonathan StoykoPart 2 of our For Fathers series features my husband Jonathan and his dad George as they discuss why spending time with their kids is so important. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and Insta @lyssastoyko Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Help other mamas find encouragement through Moms Take Ten by rating and reviewing this show. Thanks!2023-06-0510 min
Moms Take TenFor Fathers, part 1--My DadKicking off a five-week series about and for fathers! This episode talks about the how this series came about and shares about my own father. Through this series, I hope we as moms will be encouraged to support our husbands in their parenting. I also hope that fathers will listen in and be strengthened in your role. If you'd like to learn more about my dad or purchase a copy of the children's book about him, visit https://lyssastoyko.com/the-book/ Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say...2023-05-2909 minMoms Take TenThe Gospel in Parenting with Lynne JacksonLynne Jackson, co-founder of Connected Families, joins me for an encouraging and practical conversation on the gospel in our parenting. When I was a young mom, I struggled to see how the gospel could speak to my parenting in any real practical sense. I was so wrong! Over the years, I have come to see how beautiful and transformative the gospel is for our salvation and also our daily lives. Connected Families has been instrumental in bringing the scriptures to life in my parenting. I hope you will find this episode to be a great help as you strive t...2023-05-2214 min
Moms Take TenMoms in the Bible--The Syrophoenician WomanThis month’s episode on Moms in the Bible focuses on the Syrophoenician woman. Her story is found in Matthew 15 and Mark 7. I love this story! She models for us faith, persistence, humility and confidence. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and Insta @lyssastoyko Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Help other mamas find encouragement through Moms Take Ten by rating and reviewing this show. Thanks! Image from John Heseltine / Pam Masco / FreeBibleimages.org.2023-05-1808 minMoms Take TenReflecting God's Homemaking HeartInspired by an episode from The Daily Grace Podcast, this Mother's Day episode will discuss how our work as homemakers (women who invest in our homes) reflects God's own heart. We will look at places in Scripture where God is making a home for his people. We will discuss the beautiful truth that God himself is our home. We will find encouragement in the reminder that he sees our work and he joins us in it. Happy Mother's Day! Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow...2023-05-0807 min
Moms Take TenFoster Care and Adoption with Ashley McMahanAshley McMahan joined Moms Take Ten today to bring a different perspective to our podcast--that of the daughter of a foster family. Listen in as she shares how her family became involved in foster care and how that has been a blessing in her life. Ashley and her family started the organization Ruth Project, located in the greater Elgin area of Illinois, that provides tangible and spiritual support for foster and adoptive families. Be sure to check out their website! Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? 2023-05-0109 minMoms Take TenMoms in the Bible--HerodiasAll of the other moms that we have studied so far had redeeming qualities about them. Not Herodias. Her story is different from all the others in that she did not acknowledge or believe in God and her life showed it. Hers is a cautionary tale that we would be wise to heed. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and Insta @lyssastoyko Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Help other mamas find encouragement through Moms Take Ten by rating...2023-04-2409 minMoms Take TenDrawing the Dysregulated Child CloseIt is so hard when our child is dysregulated or misbehaving. One of my kiddo seems to live in a near constant state of dysregulation. In this episode, I share how the framework from Connected Families, through the gracious work of the Spirit, has been helping me reorient my thinking about my responses to him. I hope that this episode will encourage you in your efforts to respond with grace to your own children. Verses referenced: James 1:2-3 Romans 8:38-39 Colossians 3:12-13 Books referenced: Walking with God in the Season of Motherhood by Melissa...2023-04-1712 minMoms Take TenFoster Care and Adoption--In Her ShoesThe grief that I have been experiencing from the sudden end of a placement has moved me to compassion for the bio families. Will you join me in this space for a moment? Put yourself in the shoes of a mama who has just lost her children to the foster system, or a mama who is willingly yet sorrowfully placing her child through adoption. Let that move you to compassion and love for this member of the triad that so often is judged and condemned, or worse, forgotten. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/2023-04-1010 minMoms Take TenMoms in the Bible--Mary, part 2A look at the crucifixion and resurrection through the eyes of Mary, Jesus' mother. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and Insta @lyssastoyko Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Help other mamas find encouragement through Moms Take Ten by rating and reviewing this show. Thanks! Image from John Heseltine / Pam Masco / FreeBibleimages.org.2023-04-0309 minMoms Take TenKneeling with Jesus in the GardenMotherhood is hard and can bring us to our knees asking God for a different way, an easier. Jesus was familiar with this request as he pleaded with God in the Garden of Gethsemane. Both our struggle and Jesus' find their roots in a different garden, the Garden of Eden. References: "The Pain in Childbearing" by Tim Challies, https://www.challies.com/articles/pain-in-childbearing/ Treasuring Christ When Your Hands Are Full by Gloria Furman Every Moment Holy by Douglas Kaine McKelvey Learn more about me at https://www.ly...2023-03-2710 minMoms Take TenHemmed in by GodA word of encouragement for moms from Psalm 139. God has hemmed us into the present and into his presence. Let us find our rest, our strength and our daily grace right where he has us. Verses mentioned: Psalm 139:1-6 Psalm 118:24 Matthew 6:25-34 James 4:13-15 Matthew 6:11 Hebrews 4: 15-16 Isaiah 41:10 Isaiah 43:1-2 Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and Insta @lyssastoyko Email me a...2023-03-2011 minMoms Take TenBeauty in the Ordinary with Kimberly TaylorMy sister, Kimberly Taylor, takes the mic today to share encouragement for our ordinary, mundane, routine moments of motherhood. As she says, "Be encouraged, Mama. Your work is purposeful. Whatever work you have in front of you today, look beyond the physical and temporal and see into eternity- that this simple, menial task “might sit upstream the changing of a heart” and “the changing of a heart might sit upstream the changing of the world.” The prayer that she reads is "A Liturgy for Changing Diapers" from Every Moment Holy by Douglas Kaine McKelvey. Learn more abo...2023-03-1309 minMoms Take TenFoster Care and Adoption--The Struggle Against ComplacencyIt is our one-year anniversary!!! Thank you for listening to Moms Take Ten and for supporting this podcast. If this podcast has been a blessing to you, will you take a minute to rate and review it? That will help more mamas find encouragement through this podcast. Thank you! I am taking a break from our usual foster and adoption interviews to share something that I have been thinking about. Every time a placement ends, Jonathan and I wrestle with the decision to host again or not. It is a struggle between complacency and contentment, and that...2023-03-0610 minMoms Take TenSensitive and Intense Kids with Lydia RexI have a sensitive and intense kiddo. One who has pushed me to learning and growing in ways I didn't realize I would as a parent. As I have looked for support to help me parent him well, I found Connected Families. Lydia Rex, my parent coach from Connected Families and one of the teachers of the new course, Sensitive and Intense Kids, joins me today to discuss the challenges and the hope of raising our kids. If you are interested in joining me for this course, you can head here to register! Use the code 15SK...2023-02-2710 minMoms Take TenMoms in the Bible--The Shunammite WomanThe Shunammite Woman's story is found in 2 Kings 4 and 8. Her story teaches us the value of hospitality. The word can make us cringe or feel guilty as we look at our messy house, busy schedules, or rambunctious children. Hospitality doesn't have to be a big, elaborate, pinterest worthy event. Listen in to learn more about what hospitality, biblical hospitality, is like, and how we are all called to be hospitable to those around us. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and Insta...2023-02-2009 minMoms Take TenValentine's Day Special with Jonathan StoykoI had so much fun making this episode because I was joined by my husband, Jonathan Stoyko. Coming from a posture of honoring our marriage and our spouse, Jonathan and I discuss ways that we invest in our marriage. Of all the friendships that we can and should be pouring into, this one is the most important. Take sometime this week to have a listen and then to invest in your marriage as well. Happy Valentine's Day! You are loved :-) Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say...2023-02-1311 minMoms Take TenWe Need Each OtherI hear from so many mamas, especially those in the foster and adoption world, that they need other mamas to come alongside them for friendship, support and encouragement. The forming and cultivating of those friendships takes work, and oftentimes we mamas let other things get in the way. The reality is, we need each other. So let's talk about ways we can prioritize our friendships to grow our village. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and Insta @lyssastoyko Email me at...2023-02-0609 minMoms Take TenFoster Care and Adoption with Laura HernandezLaura Hernandez is a bio and adoptive mama of ten kiddos. Three of her children joined her family through the foster care system and all three have fetal alcohol spectrum disorders (FASD). Laura shares some of her journey through adoption and diagnoses, and the daily commitment she makes to love and care for her kiddos. Laura has a heart to come alongside mamas who are also facing FASD diagnoses, as well as to help mamas create and implement systems to make daily life more manageable. You can connect with her a mamasystems.net or on instagram @mamasystems. ...2023-01-3009 minMoms Take TenMoms in the Bible--BathshebaBathsheba's story is a difficult one for me. It is full of pain and injustice. Out of the suffering, God blessed Bathsheba with a son that would love and serve the Lord, respected his mother, and who was part of the lineage of Christ. While not our ultimate source of joy or hope, God often uses our children to encourage us. They are our life's work, after all. Bathsheba's story is found in 2 Samuel 11-12 and 1 Kings 1-2. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? F...2023-01-2310 minMoms Take TenFlipping the SwitchDo you ever feel like a switch gets flipped in your body that turns something off? That’s how I have felt the past few months. I want to share with you where I am at and some truths from God's word that I find encouraging. If I sound a little funny in this episode, it is because I just had gum surgery. I tried to plan ahead but it just didn't happen! Oh well. This is life :-) Verses referenced: John 15:4-5 John 14:6 Matthew 11:28-30 P...2023-01-1607 minMoms Take TenFoster Care and Adoption with Kim JohnsonA stirring as a child that grew into a desire as a college student and became a reality as an adult. Join Kim Johnson and I as she shares her story of adopting and what she has been learning through that experience.2023-01-0910 minMoms Take TenMoms in the Bible--MaryWith Christmas in less than a week, it is only fitting that this month's Moms in the Bible episode focuses on Mary, the mother of Jesus. Her life was changed in an instant, yet she handled it with such grace. Beginning with humble acceptance, the Lord brought her to a place of rejoicing at what he had invited her into. Allow her story to move you to a place of rejoicing at what God has invited you into as well. Watch the Instagram live on Elizabeth here. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko...2022-12-1909 min
Moms Take TenConnecting Through Cooking with Chef KibbyIn this episode, Chef Kibby, of Cooking is Connecting, shares how inviting children into our kitchens can help meet the hunger they have for connection. It is not easy to allow our children to help us cook. I can attest to that! Chef Kibby highlights the mental shift we can make as parents that prioritizes the connection with our children. Want to learn more about Chef Kibby? Find him on Instagram @chefkibby or on his website cookingisconnecting.com. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello?...2022-12-1210 minMoms Take TenFoster Care and Adoption with Amy GoodmanJoining me for today's episode on foster care and adoption is Amy Goodman, the wife of Heritage Church's Pastor Skylar. She is a bio mom and an adoptive mom through domestic infant adoption. Her journey was one of learning to trust in God's faithfulness and to be faithful herself to do the just the next right thing. As her and her husband were faithful to do the next thing, they began to see how God had been weaving a tapestry throughout their whole lives that prepared them for their adoptive daugher. I hope you enjoy our conversation! ...2022-12-0510 min
Moms Take TenConnecting Through Play with Joy WendlingWe often think of play as a child's thing. Parents who don't particularly enjoy building with legos, playing with dolls, or putting on costumes can find the idea of play to be tedious. Joy Wendling, host of the podcast Playfully Faithful Parenting, challenges that definition of play. Listen in as she discusses what play really is, the different ways we are wired to play, and how we can make our house a more playful place. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and...2022-11-2810 minMoms Take TenMoms in the Bible--HannahHannah's story is a familiar story to us, especially for those of us who have wrestled with fertlity. Yet, while her story is similar to previous moms that we have studied there is one key difference--her relationship with God. Hannah learned to bring the Lord her anguish and despair and lean in to his sovereignty. Her story invites all of us to do the same. Her story can be found in 1 Samuel 1-2. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and...2022-11-2110 min
Moms Take TenConnecting Through Music with Tricia LittleMusic is a fun, powerful way to connect with our children! Tricia Little, a music therapist, talks with us about the ways music builds connection with our children as well as how we can utilize music throughout our day. Whether you enjoy singing or not, there are tips in here for you! Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and Insta @lyssastoyko Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Help other mamas find encouragement through Moms Take Ten by rating and...2022-11-1411 min
Moms Take TenNew Miniseries! Connecting with Our KidsI am so excited for this new miniseries that starts on Monday. It is a 3-part series focused on connecting with our children. We will talk about connecting through music, through play and through cooking. Our children crave connection with us, and it is connection that helps them grow, develop, learn, and hear us when we teach and correct. This series is full of practical ways that we can connect with our children in the everyday moments of life.2022-11-0900 minMoms Take TenFoster Care and Adoption with AnnaMaria MatteyHosting with Safe Families for Children was prompted by her own experience with struggle and single parenting. In this episode, AnnaMaria shares a little of her personal experience and what she has learned in her time volunteering with and now working for Safe Families. Interested in learning more about Safe Families? Visit https://safe-families.org/ You can also listen to episode 28, Foster Care and Adoption with Meghan Price to hear her experience with the organization. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on F...2022-11-0709 minMoms Take TenLiving in the "And"I had the privilege of attending the Replanted Conference for the first time a couple of weeks ago. The theme of the conference was “And”. It seemed confusing at first and then became so powerful as the speakers unpacked its significance. Our lives are filled with, lived in, the “and”. Some of those we like. Sometimes though, our “ands” feel oppositional, as though they should not go together, yet in our lives they do. Grief AND joy. Hurt AND healing. Regret AND hope. We struggle to acknowledge both in our lives. It can be confusing. It can cause tension...2022-10-3110 minMoms Take TenJourneying Through Grief with Kiah EnriquezThe episodes this month have touched on various forms of loss, and with loss comes grief. Kiah Enriquez, a licensed clinical social worker, joins us in today's episode to dialogue about loss and grief---what grief is, what prompts grief, and what we can do when we find ourselves experiencing it. Some Grief Resources from Kiah: Grief Share is a Christian/Biblical-based grief support offered through many churches nationwide: https://www.griefshare.org/ Pregnancy and Postpartum loss support groups: https://www.postpartum.net/get-help/loss-grief-in-pregnancy-postpartum/ Resolve has infertility support groups as well: https://resolve.org/get-help/find-a-support-group/ Lightw...2022-10-2410 minMoms Take TenMoms in the Bible--Naomi and RuthOne of only two books in the Bible dedicated entirely to the story of a woman, the book of Ruth is short and powerful. It is a beauty from ashes story, beginning with such sorrow and ending with much joy. At the heart of it is a relationship between a daughter-in-law and her mother-in-law. In their relationship, we see the power of God at work in our pain. He does not leave us to bear it alone but journeys with us in the heartache. He gives us space to grieve, to question, to cry, and he heals our hearts...2022-10-1709 minMoms Take TenBonus Episode: About Occupational Therapy with Laura GonzalezI wanted to follow up our episode on Monday, I Am Not Ashamed Of My Child, with a conversation about Occupational Therapy. As I explored that option for my son, I came to discover that there is a lot of confusion about what occupational therapy is and who it is for. Joining me for this episode is my friend Laura Gonzalez who is an occupational therapist. She brings her expertise to this conversation and helps us better understand what OT is and who is might be for. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ 2022-10-1212 minMoms Take TenI Am Not Ashamed Of My ChildOur son's first year of school was a little rough. Just three weeks into it, and already we were getting talked to by his teachers about his behavior. While appreciative of their insight, my insecurities flared up and caused trouble in our home. God graciously intervened and taught me how to stop feeling ashamed of my child and to start advocating for him. Looking for the beauty that God has placed in our children helps us fight off the worry and fear when they are struggling. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ ...2022-10-1010 minMoms Take TenFoster Care and Adoption with Natalie StageGrab a tissue for this foster care and adoption episode. Natalie Stage, a good friend of mine, so graciously joined me to share her hard but beautiful story of adoption. Both of us were in tears multiple times as we re-walked her journey and remembered God's goodness even in the hard. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and Insta @lyssastoyko Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Help other mamas find encouragement through Moms Take Ten by rating and reviewing t...2022-10-0311 minMoms Take TenGetting Out of the Crazy CycleHas there ever been a time when your child was struggling and you made things worse with your impatience? I have definitely had many of those times. It is like we drag them into this crazy cycle that leaves us both exhausted and exasperated. By God's grace, we can get out of that cycle! Verses Referenced: Psalm 103:13 As a father shows compassion to his children, so the Lord shows compassion to those who fear him. 1 Thessalonians 2:7 But we were gentle among you, like a nursing mother taking care of her own children. Ephe...2022-09-2610 minMoms Take TenMoms in the Bible--Samson's MotherThe mother of one of the most famous men in the Bible. Found in Judges 13-15, Mother's story calls us to have faith, simple faith, in the Lord. Listen in to this episode of Moms in the Bible to learn how we can grow in simple faith. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and Insta @lyssastoyko Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Help other mamas find encouragement through Moms Take Ten by rating and reviewing this show. Thanks! 2022-09-1911 minMoms Take TenIntentional Parenting with Kim TaylorIs your parenting thoughtful and purposeful, or is it reactive or passive? I can definitely find myself in the reactive cycle but I desire to be an intentional parent. In this conversation with my sister, Kim Taylor, we will talk about what it means to be an intentional parent and ways we can grow in intentionality. To learn more about Connected Families visit https://connectedfamilies.org/ Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and Insta @lyssastoyko Email me a...2022-09-1210 minMoms Take TenBonus Episode: Reflections from a Car AccidentI witnessed a car accident last week and that experience has stuck with me. There are a couple thoughts from it that I want to share with you. Thanks for listening! Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Follow me on Facebook and Insta @lyssastoyko Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Help other mamas find encouragement through Moms Take Ten by rating and reviewing this show. Thanks!2022-09-0714 minMoms Take TenFoster Care and Adoption with Meghan PriceMeghan Price joins me today for a conversation about hosting through Safe Families for Children. That organization provides an alternative to foster care that supports families through short-term placements. Listen in as Meghan shares about the continued relationship that her family has been able to build with one of the children that she hosted years ago, and the ways God has grown her family through that experience. Interested in learning more about Safe Families? Visit their website at https://safe-families.org/ Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say...2022-09-0510 minMoms Take TenThe Benefits of Structure with Rachael LinkSchool is upon us once again! Whether you are sending your kiddos to public or private school or embarking upon another year of homeschooling, this is a time of transition for many families. Or maybe some other event has caused your family routines to be thrown off a bit. We all go through times when we need to recalibrate and figure out what we want our days to look like. Joining me for this episode is Rachael Link, a mom of four and a homeschool mom, and a dear friend. She has some great suggestions for how...2022-08-2910 min
Moms Take TenSummer with Encanto--All of YouThis episode wraps up our Summer with Encanto series. What does it mean that you are "more than just your gift"? That "the miracle is you, not some gift, just you"? Our identity is more than our looks, our likes, our personality and our skills. Our identity is rooted in the work and person of Jesus Christ. Let's take some time together to look more closely at what that means. Verses Referenced: Mama, you bear God’s image: So, God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him...2022-08-2213 minMoms Take TenMoms in the Bible--JochebedMy favorite of the all the mothers in this series, Jochebed's story is short but powerful. It is full of faith, strength, courage, and hope. Her life and actions set in motion the rescue of God’s people from Egypt and the creation of the nation of Israel. I wish more was included in the Bible about this amazing mother or that I could have tucked into a corner of her home to watch and listen and learn from this woman of faith. My prayer is that you will be inspired by her too. Learn more about me...2022-08-1509 minMoms Take TenSummer with Encanto--What Else Can I Do?The question “What else can I do?” takes our children on a journey of discovery, of failure and success, of experimentation, of creativity and imagination, of mind work and heart work. What a wonderful question to teach our children! Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Follow me on instagram @lyssastoyko Help other mamas find encouragement through Moms Take Ten by rating and reviewing this show. Thanks!2022-08-0810 min
Moms Take TenFoster Care and Adoption with Bethany StutzmanJoining me today is fellow foster and adoptive mama Bethany Stutzman as she shares how the Lord has grown her family in beautiful ways. Find encouragement that God cares about you and your family, and he is working. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Follow me on instagram @lyssastoyko Help other mamas find encouragement through Moms Take Ten by rating and reviewing this show. Thanks!2022-08-0110 minMoms Take TenSummer with Encanto--We Don't Talk About BrunoIs your family like the Family Madrigal, where certain topics are simply off limits? Or are you actively working to create a culture of openness and dialogue that gives your children space to process and formulate a biblical worldview? Today we chat about ways that we can create that culture of saftey in our homes and how to engage our children in the tough conversations. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Follow me on instagram @lyssastoyko Help...2022-07-2510 minMoms Take TenMoms in the Bible--Leah and RachelJoin me as we look at probably my least favorite of all the Moms in the Bible stories....Leah and Rachel. It is so full of jealousy and discord that it makes me feel a little sick to my stomach. God wants so much more and better for us than what Leah and Rachel settled for!!! David speaks to that in Psalm 16, so lets study that to grab hold of what God is offering to us today. The story of Leah and Rachel can be found in Genesis 29:1-35:20. Verses mentioned: Proverbs 14:30--A...2022-07-1809 minMoms Take TenSummer with Encanto--Surface PressureLike Luisa in Disney's Encanto, we can struggle under the pressures and expectations of our lives. We join with her in asking, "But wait, if I could shake the crushing weight of expectations, would that free some room up for joy or relaxation or simple pleasure?" And the Lord says a resounding, "YES!" Verses mentioned: Philippians 4:13 "I can do all things through him who strengthens me." 2 Corinthians 12:9 "But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will boast all the...2022-07-1109 minMoms Take TenFoster Care and Adoption with Meredith StilesMeredith joins me today as we hear a little of how her family became the Stiles 7 and ways that friends and family can support foster and adoptive families in their journeys. We can all do something to love and care for these kiddos and their families. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Help other mamas find encouragement through Moms Take Ten by rating and reviewing this show. Thanks!2022-07-0410 minMoms Take TenSummer with Encanto--Waiting on a MiracleIt is hard to wait for a miracle, for God to answer our prayers! Our hearts and minds are often a sea of chaos and confusion, yet God calls us to be still before him. The song "Waiting on a Miracle" from Disney's Encanto speaks of this struggle, but God's word speaks peace to our struggle. Pour it out to God, he is listening. Verses mentioned: Psalm 46:10 "Be still and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in all the earth!" 2 Peter 3:8-9 "But d...2022-06-2710 minMoms Take TenMoms in the Bible--RebekahIn this month's edition of Moms in the Bible, we are going to meet Rebekah, Sarah's daughter-in-law. My favorite part of Rebekah's story is found in the middle of a rather disappointing decision by her husband Isaac. In that brief section of the Bible, we see a couple who is in love and is taking advantage of a moment alone together. Rebekah and Isaac's relationship encourages all of us to look for ways to fan the flames of intimacy in our own marriages. Have fun with it! Rebekah's story can be found in Genesis 24:1-67; 25:19-28:9 2022-06-2010 minMoms Take TenSummer with Encanto--Family MadrigalWelcome to our first episode of our summer Encanto series! The Family Madrigal is a fun song where Mirabel introduces us to the members of her family as she avoids talking about herself. Sound familiar? As mamas, we are often guilty of the same thing. Sometimes we lose ourselves in our families and sometimes we hide behind our families. In both cases, both our families and ourselves miss out. Song clip of Family Madrigal from Disney's Encanto Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com2022-06-1310 minMoms Take TenSummer with Encanto series coming soon!There is a fun series coming this summer based on the songs of Disney's Encanto! I hope you will join me!2022-06-0800 minMoms Take TenFoster Care and Adoption with Alicia RushtonJoining me today is a dear friend and fellow foster mama, Alicia Rushton. Listen in as she shares what she has learned on her foster journey. Verse Referenced: It is enough for the disciple to be like his teacher, and the servant like his master. Matthew 10:25a Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Help other mamas find encouragement through Moms Take Ten by rating and reviewing this show. Thanks!2022-06-0609 minMoms Take TenMom's Wellbeing with Marija LamasJoining us today for a conversation on our emotional and mental wellbeing is Marija Lamas. Motherhood is hard and our emotional and mental wellbeing is important. Too often we forget to tune in and think about how we are doing. We will discuss areas of struggle for moms and avenues for help. Our time is short but we want to at least begin the conversation! Marija is a friend of mine, former colleague, licensed clinical social worker, and owner and therapist of Selah Professional Counselors. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ 2022-05-3010 minMoms Take TenPause and BreatheWe all need moments throughout our day where we pause and breathe, turning our eyes to Christ and off the craziness around us. Here's a new way I've been reminding myself to take those moments. What helps you? Verses referenced: Pause and seek strength-- 1 Chronicles 16:11 "Seek the Lord and his strength; seek his presence continually!" Philippians 4:13 "I can do all things through him who strengthens me." Pause and give your burdens to Christ-- Psalm 55:22 "Cast your burden on the Lord, and he will sustain you, he will ne...2022-05-2309 minMoms Take TenMoms in the Bible--SarahThe stories of Hagar and Sarah are greatly intertwined. Last month, we heard Hagar's side of things. This month, we look at Sarah. Her life was filled with wandering and waiting. Waiting can be so hard! The kind of waiting that God calls us to is active and trustfilled. How are you handling your wait? Read Sarah's story in Genesis 16:1-6;17; 18:1-15; 20; 21:1-21 Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Help other mamas find encouragement through Moms Take...2022-05-1610 minMoms Take TenThat's her story, this is mine.My journey to motherhood was different than I anticipated, and difficult. Maybe you can relate? Along the way, I had to learn to say, "That's her story, this is mine." I had to learn to choose to allow God to write my story however he wanted, without hurting myself through comparison with other moms' journeys. God is so faithful. I'm honored to share what he has done in my life with you. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Help...2022-05-0909 minMoms Take TenPraising God for MotherhoodMother's Day is coming on Sunday. Whether you are excited for the day or hurting from it, I want to invite us to pause and praise God for who he is in all of this. May your hearts be refreshed by this episode. Happy Mother's Day Mama. Read with permission by the Daily Grace Co: Chapter 2, Doxology from Hymns for a Mother's Heart by Jana White. Visit the Daily Grace Co website to see the book. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Email me at...2022-05-0207 minMoms Take TenPerseverance in Motherhood with Brittany LoosaJoining us today is my sister-in-law Brittany Loosa for a conversation on perseverance in motherhood. Drawing on her experience as a teacher in a difficult urban school and as mama of three kiddos, Brittany shares how God has been teaching her to persevere when life gets hard. Verse referenced: 2 Peter 3:9 "The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance." Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to...2022-04-2510 minMoms Take TenMoms in the Bible--HagarIn this month's edition of Moms in the Bible, we meet Hagar. An Egyptian slave in the household of Abraham and Sarah, Hagar's life was not her own. And it did not go how she expected it to go. Through all the ups and downs, Hagar met God and realized that he is the God who Sees. Not just for her, but for you as well. God sees you Mama. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Artwork by John...2022-04-1809 minMoms Take TenPreparing Our Families For EasterHoly Week started yesterday and we have an opportunity to lift high the name of Christ in our homes this week. Here are several ways you can engage your family in preparation for Good Friday and Easter. Scavenger Hunt from Focus on the Family: a rock (the tomb) two sticks (the cross) something black (sin) something red (blood) something white (clean heart) something green (growing in Christ) Books Mentioned: The Jesus Storybook Bible by Sally Lloyd-Jones The Donkey Who Carried A King by R...2022-04-1110 minMoms Take TenFoster Care and AttachmentHave you ever heard someone say, "I could never do foster care because I would get too attached?" Maybe you have said it yourself. Join Lyssa as she chats about the need for attachment in foster care (and parenting in general) and also the challenge with that. Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com2022-04-0410 minMoms Take TenShowing God to Our ChildrenEvaluating our parental authority in a desire to more fully reflect God to our children. References: Parenting: 14 Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family by Paul David Tripp Five Ways God's Anger Is Not Like Ours by Colin Smith, https://unlockingthebible.org/2020/08/five-ways-gods-anger-not-like-ours/ Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com2022-03-2810 minMoms Take TenMoms in the Bible-EveThe start of our monthly series, Moms in the Bible, beginning just as the Bible does with Eve. Her quest for wisdom took her down a hard and painful path. Where does your quest take you? Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com Artwork by John Heseltine / Pam Masco / FreeBibleimages.org.2022-03-2109 minMoms Take TenLetting Our Kids HelpLearning to be intentional in including our children in the daily tasks of the house. This feels so hard sometimes! Much easier to do things myself but I want to raise helpful kids. How about you? Book mentioned: Hunt, Gather, Parent by Michaeleen Doucleff Learn more about me at https://www.lyssastoyko.com/ Want to say hello? Email me at momstaketen@gmail.com2022-03-1410 minMoms Take TenI am a mess, God is not.Our first episode! While we are often a mess in our parenting (and in life), God is good and gracious. He called us to this role and He is with us in it. Bible Verses: Ephesians 2: 4-10 Titus 2:4-5, 11-13 quote from John James And now, to sum up all, consider– A mother's charge—an immortal creature. A mother's duty—to train him up for God, heaven and eternity. A mother's dignity—to educate the family of the Almighty Creator of the universe. A mot...2022-03-0709 minMoms Take TenComing Soon!Moms Take Ten is coming soon! A place for Christian moms to refuel and refocus in the midst of your busy day. Learn more about our topics and host here. See you soon! Want to say hello? Email Lyssa at momstaketen@gmail.com2022-02-2802 min