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You Like ItOrpheus Black: The Mythopoetic Path of an Afrobuddhist DomCan you train dominance or is it who you are? Today Eamon and Madeline sit down with Orpheus Black, Eamon’s teacher and one of the most respected voices in conscious BDSM, to explore dominance, archetypes, power.This conversation dives into energetic dominance, BDSM as an embodied art form, and how archetypes like Daddy, King, and Magician can shape, (or distort) erotic power dynamics. Orpheus shares his journey from Baptist rebel to Buddhist kink educator, explains why most men get stuck in “daddy” mode, and outlines the difference between topping, dominance, and true mastery. They explore responsibility, mentors...2025-06-271h 15
You Like ItDaniel D’Ottavio & Inka Nevala: The Artists Behind New York’s Exclusive Erotic PlaygroundIn this episode of You Like It, Eamon and Madeline slip behind the velvet curtain of New York’s erotic underground with Daniel D’Ottavio and Inka Nevala of SNCTM. Lovers, collaborators, and curators of kink, this couple blurs the line between fine art and sensual play.Together they explore the role of aesthetic in erotic space, how to show up to play parties with grace and integrity, and what it takes to create magnetic performance art. The conversation moves through artistic ritual, the origins of SNCTM's theatricality, and how the couple navigates intimacy, power, and pleasure in t...2025-06-061h 02
You Like ItKimi Inch: Don’t Be an Impressive DomYou don’t need to impress to dominate. You need to attune, surrender, and show up human. In this raw, funny, and soulful conversation, kink educator Kimi Inch joins Eamon and Madeline in bed (literally) to unravel the heart of ethical domination.Together, they explore the evolution from performative Dom to embodied erotic leader, how to work with fantasy as soul medicine, and why surrender is a skill for Doms too. Kimi shares her framework of “power with, not power over,” how to avoid harm in professional kink work, and why even the most badass Doms need afterc...2025-05-2355 min
You Like ItMisha Bonaventura: What To Do When Kink Goes WrongIn sex-positive communities, how do we hold each other with care when things go wrong? In this vital episode, Eamon and Madeline dive deep with educator and consent specialist Misha Bonaventura to unpack the risks, responsibilities, and real talk behind conscious kink.In this episode, Eamon and Madeline talk with Misha about how to navigate harm in sex-positive spaces with clarity, care, and community. They cover how to respond when you’ve caused harm, and why most trauma comes from how we react, not what happens. They dive into consent as an art form, ki...2025-05-091h 07
You Like ItDossie Easton: Why We Play Dark StoriesWhy are we drawn to dark role play, and how can these games provide lasting healing? Today on the show, Eamon and Madeline sit down with legendary author and therapist Dossie Easton, whose work has broadly shaped kink, ethical non-monogamy, and Western sexuality.The conversation begins with the roots of kink culture, exploring Dossie’s formative experiences with psychedelics and her journey into early Bay Area BDSM communities. Dossie shares some of her most important personal fantasies, and they discuss how engaging in intense role-play scenarios—especially those involving darker themes—became sources of profound healing and person...2025-04-181h 12
You Like ItColette Pervette: The Power of Soft DominanceToday Eamon and Madeline welcome a true legend in the world of kink: the illustrious Domina and educatrix, Colette Pervette. Known for her signature blend of softness and strength, Colette embodies the kind of dominance that disrupts expectations—sensual, grounded, and spiritually attuned. On the show, Eamon, Madeline, and Colette explore kink archetypes, the artistry of dominance, and the transformative power of shadow work. Colette opens up about her pedagogical journey—from training professional mistresses around the world to launching her groundbreaking new offering, The Shadow Series. The conversation also dives into the delicate dance of power and int...2025-03-281h 04
You Like ItMistress Seren: Voice Notes from the DungeonIn today’s special episode, Mistress Madeline takes the reins to interview her dear friend and fellow Domina, Mistress Seren, while co-host Eamon steps back to listen in like a true fly on the dungeon wall. Settle in as these two powerful Dommes share intimate stories, candid reflections, and plenty of laughs from their journey together in kink.Madeline and Seren dive deep into their intertwined history, from Madeline’s unforgettable first scene, to bonding through the six-month BDSM intensive that forever shaped their practice. They explore the power of voice notes, Seren’s infamous worm scene, and ho...2025-03-141h 19
You Like ItLauren Harkness: Tantra & F*ckboys & Sex Cults, oh my!Today on the show, Tantric educator and kink connoisseur Lauren Harkness stops by to demystify everything from group clitoral stroking and Kundalini awakenings to the pitfalls of “Tantra f*ckboys” and sex cults. This episode explores the intersection of kink and Tantra, asking whether everyone has the capacity to switch between Dom and sub roles. The conversation covers Lauren’s journey from novice seeker to seasoned teacher in multiple traditions, highlighting the impact of clitoral stroking in group settings and why communal practice can accelerate healing. Lauren unpacks the essence of Neotantra, from subtle Kundalini work to the undenia...2025-02-281h 06
You Like ItOm Rupani: You Can’t Trust a Nice GuyAre you a Nice Guy or Bad Boy? Today’s guest, legendary Dom Om Rupani says they are both distortions of the masculine. Buckle up for some edgy gender politics as Madeline and Eamon get a masterclass in polarity, containment and what it really takes to become an integrated man and a good Dom.In today’s conversation they discuss D/s archetypes and the importance of training and containment in power exchange. It gets spicy with a conversation on why women can’t train their men (unless they’re professionals), and whether egalitarianism really works in relation...2025-02-141h 25
You Like ItDick Schwartz: IFS Meets BDSMInternal Family Systems (IFS) has never spoken on BDSM… until today. On this episode of You Like It, Dick Schwartz, founder and head honcho of the popular psychotherapy technique weighs in on kink while Madeline and Eamon get a little free therapy of their own.
On the show, Madeline, Eamon, and Dick discuss the foundational principles of IFS, explore why sexual parts are often exiled, and examine how legacy burdens and ancestral trauma can influence relationships and personal growth. They also explore the liberation found in role play and address the dark elephant in the room, whether hea...2025-01-311h 22
You Like ItNicolle Hodges: The Sexual Freedom PhilosopherIf you’re craving a crash course on the philosophy of kink won’t find a better guide than the Sexual Freedom Philosopher herself, Nicolle Hodges.
This episode of You Like It dives deep into the mythological implications of kink, the subtleties of power dynamics, and the vital role of trust in BDSM. Hodges sheds light on common misconceptions, reveals gaps in BDSM literature, and discusses how kink can serve as a powerful avenue for healing and self-discovery. The conversation also covers cultural shifts sparked by phenomena like Fifty Shades of Grey, the significance of c...2025-01-301h 07
You Like ItMadeline and Eamon: Why We Like ItWelcome to the very first episode of You Like It, the provocative new podcast exploring kink, erotic intelligence, and the transformative power of desire. Join hosts Madeline Pryor and Eamon Armstrong as they share why they like kink, why they launched this show, and how it can guide you toward deeper intimacy and erotic fulfillment.
On this episode, Madeline and Eamon discuss the origin of the name “You Like It,” the Erotic Blueprint framework, Kink archetypes, Daddy dynamics, the art of erotic tension, and the power of containment.
Madeline is a sex educator and NYC-based domin...2025-01-3052 min