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Becoming Secure with Magsmindset#47 From Near-Death to Unstoppable: Jay's Incredible JourneyIn this deeply moving episode of Becoming Secure with Magsmindset, I sit down with Jay Setchell, a man whose resilience and determination are nothing short of extraordinary. Jay shares his story of surviving multiple near-death experiences, including severe farm accidents, a catastrophic car crash, and a life-threatening swimming pool incident, all resulting in 73 surgeries and a diagnosis of being partially disabled. Despite the immense physical and emotional challenges, Jay's indomitable will to live and help others has never wavered. Discover the mindset that transforms scars into strength and despair into purpose. Brace yourself for an inspiring journey that proves...
2026-02-071h 07Becoming Secure with Magsmindset#46 Beat Yesterday: The System That Changes LivesIn this episode, I speak with Stanley Bronstein who shares his transformative life story. From the tragic loss of his mother at a young age, leading to a lifelong battle with weight, to his empowering journey of achieving excellence in health and wellness.Stanley, a lawyer turned life coach, delves into the profound impact of attachment theory, his transformative realization at 50, and his inspiring message of constant improvement. Now, at 66, he has walked over 72,000 miles and advocates for a plant-based lifestyle, demonstrating that it's never too late for positive change and personal growth....
2026-01-3157 min
Becoming Secure with Magsmindset#45 A Year of Becoming SecureThis episode marks one full year of Becoming Secure with Magsmindset. I wanted to pause and reflect on the podcast, on the moves between two continents, on the lessons, the letting go, and the becoming. I share some of my favorite moments from this year, what attachment theory has taught me about love and safety, and how releasing control has made room for abundance. This is a conversation about presence, gratitude, resilience, and honoring the season you’re in — while still dreaming forward. As I close out Season 1 and look toward 2026, this episode is my thank-you, my reflection, and my remi...
2026-01-2618 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#44 Embracing Vertical Development with Ryan GottfredsonJoin us as we dive deep into a transformative conversation with Ryan Gottfredson, a leadership professor at Cal State Fullerton and an expert in vertical development. Ryan shares his journey of self-discovery, healing, and the pivotal moments that led him to understand his own attachment style and the impact of trauma on leadership. Through personal anecdotes and insightful analogies, Ryan discusses how emotional healing and mindset shifts can elevate one's leadership capabilities and improve relationships. Perfect for anyone interested in personal growth, attachment theory, and transformational leadership.Find Ryan's website here: https://ryangottfredson.com/
2026-01-1757 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#43 Become a Storyteller Expert with Danny BrassellDanny Brassell is a storyteller expert, speaker coach, and the author of 21 books. A former journalist and longtime teacher, Danny has taught everyone from preschoolers to rocket scientists — and now helps entrepreneurs and leaders communicate with clarity, confidence, and purpose. After rebuilding his life following a major financial setback, Danny’s work centers on one powerful belief: knowledge isn’t power — applied knowledge is. Learn more about Danny: https://wellcraftedstoryworkshop.com/workshop Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2026-01-1049 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#42 What Children Learn From How We Love with Nikki AllenIn this episode of Becoming Secure with Magsmindset, I’m joined by Nikki Allen: singer, songwriter, and author of Loved You, Hated You. Nikki’s story instantly intrigued me: what began as a song became a screenplay, and eventually transformed into a novel rooted in emotional truth.We talk about what it’s really like to lose yourself inside a relationship, how subtle abuse can look when there are no bruises, and parental influence. Nikki ends with a powerful reminder: your life is a journey like a quilt — messy on the back, beautiful when you look...
2026-01-0350 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#41 Abuse, Drugs, and Recovery with Jorid Arnoy⚠️ Content warning: This episode includes sexual abuse, drug abuse, suicidal thoughts, and suicide. Please take care of yourself while listening.Today’s episode is a raw, honest conversation with someone I love deeply—because I truly believe this kind of truth can save lives. I sit down with Jorid, someone I’ve known since she was seven. We talk about growing up in an unstable home, carrying trauma in silence, the devastation of not being believed, and how pain can spiral into rebellion and substance abuse. We also talk about guilt, shame, faith, and the moments that bring you...
2025-12-291h 09Becoming Secure with Magsmindset#40 Awkward, Honest, Necessary: Talking Racism with Darrin TaylorIn this episode, I sit down with my friend Darrin for one of the most honest and vulnerable conversations I’ve ever had about race, privilege, and what it actually feels like to live inside two very different realities. This all started because I recently spent a weekend with a childhood friend from an Indigenous Norwegian community and realized how little I actually knew about her history. I felt ashamed that I’d never asked. And I noticed the same thing with Darrin: I love him, I care about him, but I’d never really asked about what it’s like to...
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Becoming Secure with Magsmindset#39 Become Unshamable with Emma LyonsToday’s episode is a deep dive into shame, narcissistic family dynamics, and the subconscious patterns that keep so many of us stuck. My guest Emma Lyons — creator of Trauma Matrix — uncovers how shame becomes the silent engine behind trauma, manipulation, self-attack, and generational pain. She teaches BREAK, which is an acronym for breaking the cycle and how to do it. 🔗 Substack: https://traumamatrix.substack.com 🎁 Free Guide — 5 Signs It’s Time to Break Up with Your Inner Narcissist: https://tinyurl.com/NotTodayNarc 📱 Instagram: @trauma.matrix 📱 TikTok: @trauma.matrix Hosted on Acast. S...
2025-12-0450 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#38 The Female CycleThis episode sounds like it’s for women, but make no mistake: it’s for men. If you’ve ever wanted the cheat-code to understanding women, supporting them better, deepening emotional intimacy, and becoming a more emotionally intelligent partner… this is it. I break down the female cycle in the simplest, most practical way possible — backed by biology and real research, so you can finally understand what’s actually happening in her body during all four phases: menstruation, follicular, ovulation, and luteal. Women aren’t “moody” or “irrational.” They’re cyclical, hormonal, rhythmic, and knowing how those rhythms shape her energy, sex drive, emoti...
2025-11-2417 min
Knit Together with Kim & Jonna minisodes🧶Knit Together with Kim & Jonna Minisode 1b: Fall Fiber Festival FavoritesRelease Date: November 12, 2021Welcome to Minisode 1b! Kim and Jonna take you through their favorite fiber acquisitions from the Wool & Folk Festival and the NY State Sheep and Wool Festival (Rhinebeck). We discuss new yarn purchases, pattern inspirations like the Weekender and Amina Sweater, and the wonderful vendors we met during the festival season!Key SegmentsWhat We’re Wearing: Featuring a favorite sweater and cardigan.Festival Recap: Acquisitions from Wool & Folk and Rhinebeck.Pattern Crushes: New de...
2025-11-1830 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#37 Bridge the Gap - Pause with Neena PerezThis episode dives into the reality of surviving trauma and learning to rebuild your identity from scratch. Neena Pérez openly shares her story of abuse, near-death experiences, teen motherhood, and years of survival mode—and how faith, self-awareness, and emotional regulation became the foundation for her healing. We talk about attachment theory, breaking toxic cycles, the role of faith in transformation, self-worth, and how to move from victimhood to victory. If you’re seeking clarity, courage, or a reminder of who God designed you to be, this conversation will touch you deeply.Find out more about...
2025-11-1657 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#36 I just wanna do Hoodrat sh*t with my friendsIn this episode, Matthew Shield and I discuss life, faith, and manifestation. Learn how Matthew was falsely diagnosed with a heart condition that would have changed how I approached life forever. Fortunately, Matthew's intuition was stronger than his parents' and doctors' convictions. Follow Matthews TikTok here!! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-11-071h 16Becoming Secure with Magsmindset#35 Struggles of the Job Hunt with Jim MartinIn this episode, I am grateful to have you observe a conversation with my mentor as I navigate through the struggle of the job hunt. I am constantly reminded that I have to pick up and utilize the tools of building and rebuilding my confidence, based on what I am going through in life. The job hunt is one of those times that knocks me down and I need a reminder of the mission I am on. Today Jim really helps me do so, and I am positive he will provide value for you as well, especially if you...
2025-11-011h 04Becoming Secure with Magsmindset#34 Boundaries in IntimacyI have been meaning to find the words to explain boundaries in a way that's understandable and easy to practice. I shouldn't say easy, but comprehensible. When you know yourself and what you are trying to accomplish, you realize what is and is not in alignment with that. Boundaries aren't "don't treat me like that", it's for you to act in accordance with how people treat you. Welcome to another episode of Becoming Secure with Magsmindset! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-10-1320 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#33 You're Making this way too HardIn this episode, I talk with Angelo, author of You’re Making This Way Too Hard: Find YOUR Easy Way to Enjoy Life, about finding peace, purpose, and joy after life’s hardest moments. After losing his wife to ALS and navigating decades of business and personal challenges, Angelo shares what he’s learned about overcoming self-doubt, worry, and pressure, and how to start living life on your own terms.Angelo's website! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-10-0440 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#32 Raising Supaman: Fatherhood with Nathaniel TurnerIn this episode, I talk with Nathaniel A. Turner, author of Raising Supaman, about raising children with intention, breaking cycles of generational trauma, and healing father wounds. Nathaniel shares his inspiring story as a dad and offers wisdom for parents and anyone who wants to live with greater purpose. Before we wrap up today’s episode, be sure to check out Nathaniel A. Turner’s free resource at https://www.nathanielaturner.com/product-page/the-life-template-starter-kit— it’s where you can download his powerful tool, ‘The Life Template Starter Kit.’ Whether you’re a parent trying to raise an exceptional...
2025-09-2749 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#31 Freedom of SpeechIn this episode, I reflect on the death of Charlie Kirk and what it reveals about freedom of speech, emotional regulation, and the danger of silencing voices. Instead of blaming sides, I invite you to consider how healing our own wounds and learning to listen with humility is the only way we can move toward unity. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-09-1810 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#30 Attachment, Parental Figures, and SexIn Part 2 of my conversation with David Pasqualone, we delve deeper, exploring how faith, attachment, and generational trauma are woven together in our lives. This episode is about healing the wounds we carry, finding freedom in God, and creating a legacy of strength and purpose.Find Davids contact info following this link: https://davidpasqualone.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-09-0627 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#29 Faith Journey with David PasqualoneAbandoned at birth, misdiagnosed by doctors, and nearly killed by a tumor the size of an orange, David Pasqualone’s story is one of survival, faith, and resilience. In Part 1, he shares the trials that shaped him and the powerful lessons God has taught him along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-08-3034 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#28 Gender, Teens, and Trans Women in Sport with Bobbi BarringtonAfter 26 years in the wrong marriage, 40 years in the wrong career, and 59 years in the wrong body, Bobbi Barrington shares her raw, inspiring journey of transformation, proving it’s never too late to rewrite your life and live in complete freedom.Find and Contact Bobbi:http://www.bobbibarrington.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/bobbibarrington/https://www.instagram.com/bobbibarrington/http://link.bobbibarrington.com/LiveYourTruth Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-08-2325 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#27 Becoming a Woman with Bobbi BarringtonAfter 26 years in the wrong marriage, 40 years in the wrong career, and 59 years in the wrong body, Bobbi Barrington shares her raw, inspiring journey of transformation, proving it’s never too late to rewrite your life and live in complete freedom.Find and Contact Bobbi:http://www.bobbibarrington.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/bobbibarrington/https://www.instagram.com/bobbibarrington/http://link.bobbibarrington.com/LiveYourTruth Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-08-1632 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#26 Turning Grief into Impact with Martin SalamaIn this episode, Martin Salama, author of From Worrier to Warrior, shares how the loss of his younger brother shaped his life and led him to a mission of healing through community and purpose. A powerful reminder that even in the depths of grief, we can find strength, connection, and meaning. Enjoy the episode!Check out Martin's website here: https://thewarriorslifecode.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-08-0927 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#25 Life UpdateGuys we are flying solo today and Im just checking in with yall. Im here to give you my latest life update! A lot of changes ahead... and please!! I want to hear from you. Email me @ magsmindset@gmail.com , I cant wait to hear from you! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-07-2511 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#24 Where Our Loyalties Clash, We Choose to SpeakWillie Handler is a Toronto-based writer and the son of Holocaust survivors. He is active in the Holocaust second-generation community and volunteers at the Toronto Holocaust Museum, where he helps educate visitors and students. His upcoming memoir, Out From the Shadows (November 9, 2024), shares his family’s Holocaust history and his personal experience growing up in the shadow of that trauma.Check out Willie's Website and his books! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-07-2021 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#23 Growing up with Holocaust SurvivorsWillie Handler is a Toronto-based writer and the son of Holocaust survivors. He is active in the Holocaust second-generation community and volunteers at the Toronto Holocaust Museum, where he helps educate visitors and students. His upcoming memoir, Out From the Shadows (November 9, 2024), shares his family’s Holocaust history and his personal experience growing up in the shadow of that trauma.Check out Willie's Website and his books! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-07-1225 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#22 Taking Accountability with Kurt BushIn today's episode I am guested by author and podcast host Kurt Bush. We tap into the power of taking accountability and how not doing so can bleed into every relationship dynamic you find yourself in. Find Kurt's Podcast following this link!Here is the link to Kurt's book. It's called "Live Fully. Lead Authentically. The Surprising Link Between Self-Awareness and Your Impact". Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-07-0533 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#21 The Personality Types TestThis episode is about personality types and how you can leverage knowing your own personality type to your advantage!Eric is a professional who has written the book "The Power of Personality" and today he is sharing some of that wisdom with us.Personality Type Test: https://youtopiaproject.com/youtopia-16-assessment-2/The Power of Personality: Book Eric's Website: https://www.projectyoutopia.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-06-2829 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#20 Personality Types with Eric GeeThis episode is about personality types and how you can leverage knowing your own personality type to your advantage! Eric is a professional who has written the book "The Power of Personality" and today he is sharing some of that wisdom with us.Personality Type Test: https://youtopiaproject.com/youtopia-16-assessment-2/The Power of Personality: Book Eric's Website: https://www.projectyoutopia.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-06-2125 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#19 How the 4th marriage is a successful onePodcast host of the Life is Crazy Podcast Brandon Held is talking about how the fourth marriage is going to be a successful one and fatherhood in the second part of our chat together. Find his podcast here: https://linktr.ee/brandonheld Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-06-1421 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#18 Toxic Childhood, The Provider & 90 Day Fiancé with Brandon HeldFrom childhood trauma to military service, four marriages, and fatherhood—today’s guest shares a raw, powerful story of resilience and how he’s turning pain into purpose to help others heal. Brandon Held has his own podcast "Life is Crazy", go check it out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-06-0733 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#17 Think Steps not SwingsThis episode explores the concept of "thinking steps, not swings"—inspired by a sermon from Pastor Steven—as a powerful mindset for achieving goals and emotional resilience, emphasizing that lasting change and healing come from small, intentional actions rather than extreme, unsustainable shifts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-05-3115 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#16 Ripple Effects of Loving YourselfThis episode is about how cultivating deep self-love and self-awareness creates a powerful ripple effect in your life—leading to less judgment, greater authenticity, and the courage to grow into the person you truly want to be. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-05-2416 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#15 Dating With Integrity After PainA reflection on healing after heartbreak, taking accountability, and learning to date with self-worth, integrity, and clarity about what you truly want. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-05-1712 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#14 Men, I dont understand youThis episode is a heartfelt and vulnerable reflection on my desire to understand modern men and bridge the gap between the genders in order to build meaningful, committed love—despite the confusion, pain, and disconnect I have experienced along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-05-0306 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#13 Fulfillment, Responsibility & Gender RolesThis episode explores self-fulfillment, responsibility, and modern gender dynamics, highlighting how men and women can step into their highest selves through personal growth, accountability, and intentional relationships. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-04-2927 min
Becoming Secure with Magsmindset#12 Dating with an Attachment with MichaelThis is the third and last part of my conversation with my friend and neighbor Michael. In this episode we talk about dating and what we learn from our relationships. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-04-1923 min
Becoming Secure with Magsmindset#11 Identifying Generational Trauma with MichaelIn this episode, Michael and I dive into the Attachment Style quiz. If you want to take the quiz yourself, follow link. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-04-1230 min
Becoming Secure with Magsmindset#10 Becoming Disorganized Attached with MichaelIn this Episode I am chatting with my friend and neighbor Michael Zanini about attachment theory and generational trauma. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-04-0523 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#9 Shame 🔔This episode is about releasing shame, taking accountability for past actions, and choosing to move forward with honesty, self-respect, and personal growth instead of staying stuck in a victim mindset. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-03-2916 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#8 Part 2 - Bad BreakupsThis episode is about the journey of healing from anxious attachment, learning self-respect, embracing emotional growth, and taking accountability for one's relationship choices to manifest healthier, more fulfilling connections. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-03-2224 min
Becoming Secure with Magsmindset#8 Part 1 - Bad BreakupsThis episode explores the grieving process of a breakup through the lens of an anxiously attached individual, highlighting the emotional turmoil, attachment dynamics, and the importance of healing and self-respect to ultimately move forward. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-03-1521 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#7 Power of VulnerabilityHealing is a humbling journey of self-empathy and strength, and in this episode, I share a raw conversation with my best friend Arina, revealing the insecurities and battles I continue to face. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-03-0734 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#6 SexThis episode is an honest and deeply personal reflection on my relationship with sex, how it was shaped by early exposure and societal norms, and the impact it has had on my self-worth, relationships, and healing journey. Through my story, I hope to challenge the normalization of casual sex, highlight the importance of boundaries, and shed light on the deeper emotional and psychological effects that many may not even realize they carry. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-02-2835 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#5 - 477 Best Friends ForeverFrom Norway to 477: Finding Freedom, Friendship, and Growth in the American Dream. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-02-2216 min
Becoming Secure with Magsmindset#4 Breaking the CycleThis episode dives into the messy, raw, and powerful journey of leveling up emotionally, breaking free from toxic relationship patterns, and unapologetically owning the vision of a secure, loving, and committed partnership that aligns with non-negotiable dreams of marriage and family, all while trusting the process and God’s timing. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-02-1518 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#3 Get Comfortable with DiscomfortThis episode reveals the journey of overcoming deep-rooted insecurities, self-doubt, and the fear of isolation. It emphasizes the power of sitting with discomfort, embracing growth, and becoming your own source of strength and confidence. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-02-0819 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#2 A Daughter Needs her FatherThis episode explores how personal insecurities can stem from childhood experiences and the influence of caregivers, highlighting the journey of self-discovery and growth through understanding parental dynamics, attachment theory, and personal accountability. It emphasizes the power of using emotions like jealousy as a guide for self-improvement, the importance of discipline and consistency, and the transformative potential of addressing and overcoming self-imposed limitations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-02-0116 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#1 Diving Into My StoryThis episode introduces a personal journey of understanding attachment styles and how they influence relationships. It emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, accountability, and healing from past trauma without placing blame on caregivers or others, ultimately empowering individuals to grow and create healthier connections. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-01-2517 minBecoming Secure with Magsmindset#0 Welcome to Becoming Secure with MagsmindsetIntroduction Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-01-2401 min
pTro-prestenVerdifulle menneskemøter: Mama MaggieNå i uka etter pinse setter pTro-presten fokus på misjon. I serien «Verdifulle menneskemøter» forteller Vidar Mæland Bakke om egyptiske Maggie Gobran, kjent som «Mama Maggie» og hennes arbeid med Stefanusbarna på Søppelfjellet i Kairo. Til daglig er Vidar prest i Bymenigheten - Sandnes. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2021-05-2608 min