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The Grace Marriage PodcastHow Grace, Truth, and Time Transform Your Marriage and FamilyIn this episode, Brad and Kent get brutally honest about a tension every parent wrestles with: How do you balance grace and truth?Kent shares a powerful framework on why Jesus didn’t stand in the same place with everyone. He stood wherever the person in front of Him needed Him most. And as parents, that’s exactly what we’re called to do.Brad opens up about his own journey with grace, including how regular confession, forgiveness, and delight radically reshaped his relationship with his daughter.👉 Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave a rev...
2025-12-0223 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastWhy Your Blended Family Feels So Tough 😮💨Blended families often step into marriage thinking the hardest part is behind them...then reality hits. In this powerful conversation, Brad sits down with Ron Deal, one of the leading voices in stepfamily ministry, to unpack why blended family life feels so complex and why those challenges are actually normal.Ron explains why a blended marriage begins in the middle of a story, not the beginning, and how layers of loss, shifting traditions, co-parenting dynamics, and differing expectations create a level of complexity most couples never see coming. He also shares practical steps couples can take to...
2025-11-2526 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastEvery Thought Captive: How New Thinking Creates a Healthier MarriageIn this episode, Brad sits down with pastor and author Kyle Idleman to talk about the unseen thought patterns that quietly shape our marriages. Kyle shares the heart behind his new book Every Thought Captive and why so much of the transformation we hope for in marriage never sticks, because we try to change our behavior without ever changing our thinking.He unpacks how strongholds form, why simply trying to “stop thinking something” rarely works, how to replace lies with biblical truth, and why the gospel itself begins with admitting weakness and asking for help. Kyle also expl...
2025-11-1833 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastMarriage Mistake That’s Secretly Hurting Your Kids (And How to Fix It)Most parents say their kids are their top priority. But what if putting your children first is actually damaging your marriage?In this episode, Brad talks with Kent Evans (Founder of Manhood Journey) about why a strong marriage is the foundation of great parenting, how our culture has become child-centered, and why the gospel calls husbands and wives to love one another first.👉 Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave a review to help more couples discover the hope of a grace-filled marriage.• Manhood Journey – https://manhoodjourney.org/🔑 KEY IDEAS:•...
2025-11-1125 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastWhy Most Marriages Stay Stuck (and the Freedom You’re Missing) - feat. Dr. Chris ThurmanWe’re getting a lot of things wrong in marriage—and it’s not because we don’t care. It’s because we often fight the wrong battles.In this episode, Brad Rhoads talks with Dr. Chris Thurman, author of Real Marriage Made Simple: Proven Principles for Thriving in Marriage. Together they unpack why so many couples end up frustrated, distant, and emotionally drained (and some simple biblical principles that can change that).From learning to "stay in your own backyard" to becoming a true giver instead of a taker, Dr. Thurman shares decades of wisdom fro...
2025-11-0425 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastAlmost Every Couple Makes THIS Mistake About Sex and CommunicationWhy do women say they feel unseen and unheard while men quietly wonder why sex feels distant and disconnected? In this episode, Brad Rhoads sits down with researchers and authors Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn to unpack the two most common complaints in marriage: “We don’t communicate” and “We’re not intimate enough.”They reveal surprising research about how women are constantly asking, “Do you still love me?,” and how men are silently wondering, “Do you still want me?” You’ll hear real stories, from skipped conversations after important meetings to choosing connection over a $2,500 roofing mistake, plus the science behin...
2025-10-2830 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastThe Secret Skill That Can SAVE YOUR MARRIAGEWhat if the one skill that could transform your marriage, your friendships, and even your politics isn’t communication—it’s curiosity?In this episode, Brad Rhoads sits down with author Drew Worsham, whose new book The Magic of Curiosity explores how asking better questions can heal division and deepen connection. Together, they unpack how curiosity builds bridges in a polarized world and restores understanding between spouses who feel miles apart.From real-life stories about beauty vs. budget, parenting styles, and a $2,500 roof decision, this conversation shows how curiosity fuels wisdom and wisdom fuels grace. Whethe...
2025-10-2128 min
Digging Deeper Podcast - Perimeter ChurchThe Grace Marriage: How the Gospel Transforms Your MarriageBrad and Marilyn Rhoads join Jeff Norris and Laura Story Elvington to share how God’s grace transformed their marriage—from early struggles to renewed joy and intentionality. They talk about parenting, the shift to empty nesting, and how extending grace in everyday moments can bring healing and hope to your marriage and family.
Learn more about Brad and Marilyn’s ministry, The Grace Marriage, at gracemarriage.com.
2025-10-1734 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastBan the D Word: Building a No-Quit Marriage CultureWhat if the biggest danger to your marriage isn’t conflict...but distraction?In this powerful conversation, Brad Rhoads sits down with longtime ministry leader Rick Howerton to uncover the real reasons so many marriages drift apart and how both couples and churches can reverse the trend.Rick draws from 50 years in ministry to share why marriage doesn’t come naturally, how busyness and misplaced priorities destroy connection, and why the word divorce should never leave your lips. They also tackle a hard truth: the modern church often builds entire ministries around children and youth while negl...
2025-10-1426 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastYour Spouse's Hidden Fear (That You Don’t Even See)What if your spouse carries hidden fears you’ve never even noticed (and have been bumping into them without realizing it)? In this powerful conversation, Brad Rhoads sits down with bestselling authors and researchers Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn (For Women Only, For Men Only) to uncover surprising truths about the inner lives of men and women.You’ll hear how their journey from law and Wall Street into marriage research began, why generalizations about men and women still matter, and how simple shifts in how you phrase a question can radically change connection and intimacy. This episode offe...
2025-10-0729 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastTry THIS MAGIC INGREDIENT in Your Marriage TodayWhat if the health of your marriage came down to one overlooked skill?In this conversation, Brad Rhoads sits down with Drew Worsham, author of The Magic of Curiosity, to unpack how intentional curiosity can transform your relationship. They discuss why busyness kills intimacy, how to move past surface-level conversations, and the power of simply asking better questions.Whether your marriage feels fragile or strong, this episode will challenge you to see your spouse with fresh eyes. Stay tuned until the end for practical ways to create space for deeper connection.👉 Don’t forge...
2025-09-3026 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastWhen You Don’t Feel "In Love" with Your SpouseWhat do you do when the feelings fade—or when ministry, stress, or seasons of hardship threaten to pull your marriage apart?In this episode of the Grace Marriage Podcast, Brad Rhoads sits down with Rick Howerton, longtime pastor, consultant, and marriage champion, for a very honest conversation. Rick shares lessons from 48 years of marriage (even times when the seasons when love felt absent). From learning to offer grace instead of judgment, to refusing to use the “D-word,” to balancing marriage with ministry, Rick’s story will encourage and challenge you to stay in the fight for your rel...
2025-09-2328 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastTherapist’s Advice for Fear, Stress, and ApathyWhat do you do when fear dominates your mind, stress piles up, and apathy creeps in?In this powerful conversation, Brad Rhoads opens up about a difficult season marked by health scares, family stress, and anxiety, and invites therapist and pastor Nathan Thompson to walk him through it in real time. Together they explore how fear compounds on itself, why judging your emotions makes things worse, and how grace (not performance) becomes the lifeline in the middle of it all.If you’ve ever felt stuck in worry or weighed down by apathy, this honest ep...
2025-09-1626 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastThe Hidden Trap Behind Perfectionism in MarriageIs perfectionism secretly sabotaging your relationship?In this episode, Brad Rhoads sits down with therapist and pastor Nathan Thompson from Southeast Christian Church to uncover how performance-driven living spills into marriage, fueling criticism, defensiveness, and stress. Together, they explore why grace is the antidote and what it really means to live in Jesus’ easy yoke. You’ll walk away with fresh hope, practical tools, and a new vision for grace-filled love.👉 Subscribe, share this episode with a friend, leave a review, and visit gracemarriage.com to grow deeper in your own marriage.🔑 KE...
2025-09-1024 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastThe Secret to a Thriving Marriage: Invest Time, Build Memories, and Grow TogetherWhat if just six seconds a day could change your marriage?In this episode of the Grace Marriage Podcast, Brad Rhoads sits down with John McGee of Watermark Church, a national leader in marriage ministry and founder of re|engage. Together, they share practical wisdom on building healthy rhythms, convincing churches to prioritize marriage ministry, and why intentional time (not just an elaborate date night) is the real game changer.From the power of a six-second kiss, to weekly connection blocks, to finding couples worth emulating, Brad and John unpack both big and small ways...
2025-09-0225 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastThis ONE SHIFT Will Transform Your MarriageWhat happens when you stop keeping score in marriage?In this episode of the Grace Marriage Podcast, Brad and Marilyn Rhoads share how their own marriage was transformed when they discovered the power of shifting from performance...to grace. They explain the difference between law-based and grace-based relationships, how grace changes the atmosphere of a home, and why forgiveness creates steadiness instead of roller-coaster ups and downs.With honesty and practical wisdom, Brad and Marilyn unpack how to extend grace when your spouse hurts you, how to deal with ongoing issues without enabling, and why...
2025-08-2627 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastAre KIDS Hurting Your Marriage?? 👀Kids are a blessing—but they can also pull marriages apart if couples aren’t intentional.In this episode of the Grace Marriage Podcast, Brad is joined by Rob Pierce, Caleb Potter, and Trey Pippen to talk about how children, with their sports schedules, constant demands, and daily chaos, can quietly take center stage in a marriage. The group shares practical ways to avoid child-centered marriages, from weekly coffee traditions and consistent date nights to learning how to say “no” to overpacked youth sports schedules.Whether you’re raising toddlers, teens, or somewhere in between, you’ll fin...
2025-08-2030 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastHow to Fix a BORING MarriageIs your marriage stuck in the “same old, same old”? If dinner, dishes, and diapers have crowded out laughter, spontaneity, and adventure, you're gonna want to hear this one!Brad Rhoads sits down with Rob Pierce, Caleb Potter, and Trey Pippen for a raw (and often hilarious) conversation about why so many marriages drift into boredom, and how you can break the cycle. From kitchen fires to hurricanes at Disney (with a newborn), these four husbands share real stories and strategies that keep things fun, fresh, and meaningful.Whether you’re feeling stuck or just want t...
2025-08-1423 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastWhat Four Husbands Learned About Marriage (the Hard Way)What happens when four husbands get real about the mess, the missteps, and the moments that changed their marriages?In this all-guys edition of the Grace Marriage Podcast, Brad Rhoads is joined by longtime friends Rob Pierce, Caleb Potter, and Trey Pippen. Together, they unpack what they’ve learned (often the hard way) about communication breakdowns, mismatched parenting styles, emotional connection, and even whether watching Netflix without the other counts as cheating.Expect laughs, honest confessions, and wisdom forged in the fire of everyday married life.👉 Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review...
2025-08-0529 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastThe Silent Threat to Every Marriage (And How to Fight It)Most couples don’t break up—they just slowly drift apart.In this episode, Brad Rhoads sits down with marriage leader John McGee (creator of re|engage and longtime voice in the marriage space) to talk about a subtle but universal reality: even loving couples can end up distant. No blow-up. No betrayal. Just years of emotional drift.John unpacks why that happens, what it looks like, and how to course-correct before the damage sets in. If your marriage feels “fine” but not connected—or if you’ve been living like roommates—this conversation is the wake-up ca...
2025-07-2926 min
Karl and CrewDebunking Perfect Parenthood and Understanding a Grace-based MarriageToday, on Karl and Crew, we continued our weekly theme of “Family Relationships” with discussions about our identity in Christ, partnering with God in parenthood, and how discipleship doesn’t stop because you got married. We then opened the phone lines to hear miracle stories from our listeners as we asked them, “What’s the answered prayer or miracle that your whole family still rejoices about?” Then Jill Savage joined us to discuss how to overcome the perfectionist mindset when parenting and inviting God to lead you in raising your kids. Jill is an author, blogger, and international speaker. She is also...
2025-07-231h 06Moody Podcast NetworkKarl and Crew - Debunking Perfect Parenthood and Understanding a Grace-based MarriageToday, on Karl and Crew, we continued our weekly theme of “Family Relationships” with discussions about our identity in Christ, partnering with God in parenthood, and how discipleship doesn’t stop because you got married. We then opened the phone lines to hear miracle stories from our listeners as we asked them, “What’s the answered prayer or miracle that your whole family still rejoices about?” Then Jill Savage joined us to discuss how to overcome the perfectionist mindset when parenting and inviting God to lead you in raising your kids. Jill is an author, blogger, and international speaker. She is also...
2025-07-231h 06Karl and CrewDebunking Perfect Parenthood and Understanding a Grace-based MarriageToday, on Karl and Crew, we continued our weekly theme of “Family Relationships” with discussions about our identity in Christ, partnering with God in parenthood, and how discipleship doesn’t stop because you got married. We then opened the phone lines to hear miracle stories from our listeners as we asked them, “What’s the answered prayer or miracle that your whole family still rejoices about?” Then Jill Savage joined us to discuss how to overcome the perfectionist mindset when parenting and inviting God to lead you in raising your kids. Jill is an author, blogger, and international speaker. She is also...
2025-07-231h 06Karl and CrewDebunking Perfect Parenthood and Understanding a Grace-based MarriageToday, on Karl and Crew, we continued our weekly theme of “Family Relationships” with discussions about our identity in Christ, partnering with God in parenthood, and how discipleship doesn’t stop because you got married. We then opened the phone lines to hear miracle stories from our listeners as we asked them, “What’s the answered prayer or miracle that your whole family still rejoices about?” Then Jill Savage joined us to discuss how to overcome the perfectionist mindset when parenting and inviting God to lead you in raising your kids. Jill is an author, blogger, and international speaker. She is also...
2025-07-231h 06Karl and CrewDebunking Perfect Parenthood and Understanding a Grace-based MarriageToday, on Karl and Crew, we continued our weekly theme of “Family Relationships” with discussions about our identity in Christ, partnering with God in parenthood, and how discipleship doesn’t stop because you got married. We then opened the phone lines to hear miracle stories from our listeners as we asked them, “What’s the answered prayer or miracle that your whole family still rejoices about?” Then Jill Savage joined us to discuss how to overcome the perfectionist mindset when parenting and inviting God to lead you in raising your kids. Jill is an author, blogger, and international speaker. She is also...
2025-07-231h 06Karl and CrewDebunking Perfect Parenthood and Understanding a Grace-based MarriageToday, on Karl and Crew, we continued our weekly theme of “Family Relationships” with discussions about our identity in Christ, partnering with God in parenthood, and how discipleship doesn’t stop because you got married. We then opened the phone lines to hear miracle stories from our listeners as we asked them, “What’s the answered prayer or miracle that your whole family still rejoices about?” Then Jill Savage joined us to discuss how to overcome the perfectionist mindset when parenting and inviting God to lead you in raising your kids. Jill is an author, blogger, and international speaker. She is also...
2025-07-231h 06Karl and CrewDebunking Perfect Parenthood and Understanding a Grace-based MarriageToday, on Karl and Crew, we continued our weekly theme of “Family Relationships” with discussions about our identity in Christ, partnering with God in parenthood, and how discipleship doesn’t stop because you got married. We then opened the phone lines to hear miracle stories from our listeners as we asked them, “What’s the answered prayer or miracle that your whole family still rejoices about?” Then Jill Savage joined us to discuss how to overcome the perfectionist mindset when parenting and inviting God to lead you in raising your kids. Jill is an author, blogger, and international speaker. She is also...
2025-07-231h 06Karl and CrewDebunking Perfect Parenthood and Understanding a Grace-based MarriageToday, on Karl and Crew, we continued our weekly theme of “Family Relationships” with discussions about our identity in Christ, partnering with God in parenthood, and how discipleship doesn’t stop because you got married. We then opened the phone lines to hear miracle stories from our listeners as we asked them, “What’s the answered prayer or miracle that your whole family still rejoices about?” Then Jill Savage joined us to discuss how to overcome the perfectionist mindset when parenting and inviting God to lead you in raising your kids. Jill is an author, blogger, and international speaker. She is also...
2025-07-231h 06Moody Podcast NetworkKarl and Crew - Debunking Perfect Parenthood and Understanding a Grace-based MarriageToday, on Karl and Crew, we continued our weekly theme of “Family Relationships” with discussions about our identity in Christ, partnering with God in parenthood, and how discipleship doesn’t stop because you got married. We then opened the phone lines to hear miracle stories from our listeners as we asked them, “What’s the answered prayer or miracle that your whole family still rejoices about?” Then Jill Savage joined us to discuss how to overcome the perfectionist mindset when parenting and inviting God to lead you in raising your kids. Jill is an author, blogger, and international speaker. She is also...
2025-07-231h 06Karl and CrewDebunking Perfect Parenthood and Understanding a Grace-based MarriageToday, on Karl and Crew, we continued our weekly theme of “Family Relationships” with discussions about our identity in Christ, partnering with God in parenthood, and how discipleship doesn’t stop because you got married. We then opened the phone lines to hear miracle stories from our listeners as we asked them, “What’s the answered prayer or miracle that your whole family still rejoices about?” Then Jill Savage joined us to discuss how to overcome the perfectionist mindset when parenting and inviting God to lead you in raising your kids. Jill is an author, blogger, and international speaker. She is also...
2025-07-231h 06The Grace Marriage PodcastMarriage Restored: From Two Cars to One – A Story of GraceMelissa was DONE. Separated, exhausted, and ready to walk away from her marriage for good, she agreed to marriage counseling, not to save her marriage, but to check a box and feel justified leaving.But what happened in that room changed everything.In this powerful, emotional episode of the Grace Marriage Podcast, Melissa Hagan shares her raw and redemptive story—from total disconnection to genuine restoration. Joined by hosts Brad Rhoads and Rick Dayton, she walks through the years of slow separation, the moment of unexpected vulnerability from her husband, and the supernatural shift that br...
2025-07-2227 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastWhat Happens When You Let a Therapist into Your Marriage Mess?What happens when you invite a therapist into the middle of your life's mess—live, on-mic?In this candid and emotional episode, Brad and Marilyn sit down with friend and therapist Lauren Early to unpack a rough few weeks filled with health scares, parenting stress, and emotional distance. Together, they model what it looks like to repair relational damage in real time—offering apologies, naming needs, and practicing grace through the chaos.You’ll hear about:• How stress impacts connection• The power of apology and vulnerability• Real strategies for repairing trust• Why making emo...
2025-07-1525 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastWhy Most Marriage Problems Will Never Go Away feat. Gary ThomasWhat if most of the frustrations in your marriage were never going to go away—and that was completely normal?In this episode, Brad sits down with best-selling author Gary Thomas (Sacred Marriage) to unpack a truth few couples hear but every couple needs: around two-thirds of marital issues are ongoing—and that doesn’t mean your marriage is broken. It means you’re normal.They dive deep into why lasting frustrations don’t have to lead to constant disappointment—and how grace, spiritual growth, and the pursuit of holiness can turn a hard marriage into a sacre...
2025-07-0827 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastHow Often Should We Be Having Sex? feat. Dr. Juli SlatteryIs there a “right” number of times couples should be having sex—and what if your sex life looks different than you expected?In this honest and thoughtful conversation, Brad and Marilyn sit down with renowned author and speaker Dr. Juli Slattery (Authentic Intimacy) to tackle some of the most asked (and misunderstood) questions around sex and marriage. From frequency to frustration, porn to pressure, and “needs” to discipleship, this episode reframes sex as something far deeper than a duty.Dr. Slattery brings wisdom, clarity, and grace to topics most couples struggle to talk about, and offers...
2025-07-0123 minThe Grace Marriage Podcast🙏 How Praying the Bible Can Transform Your MarriageTired of saying the same old prayer every night? In this episode, Brad sits down with Dr. Don Whitney—professor, author of Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life and Praying the Bible—to unpack how a simple shift in your prayer life can radically deepen your connection to God, your spouse, and yourself.You’ll learn how praying Scripture brings clarity, freshness, and depth to your marriage—and why discipline isn’t just about doing more, but about becoming more like Jesus. With wisdom, honesty, and even a bit of humor (yes, we’re talking about socks and trash ca...
2025-06-2430 minThe Grace Marriage Podcast🔑 Mentorship: Is Your Marriage Missing THIS Key Ingredient??What if your breakthrough wasn’t in doing more—but in learning from someone who’s already been there? In this episode, Brad shares his personal journey of transformation through mentorship—how wise counsel reshaped his marriage, his mindset, and even his ministry.You’ll hear raw stories of being called out, being loved anyway, and being changed by people who walked a little further down the road. Whether you’re desperate for direction or simply feeling stuck, this conversation will challenge your view of growth, humility, and the quiet power of having (and becoming) a mentor.Lik...
2025-06-1725 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastWhat EVERY Couple Gets Wrong About Sex, Money, and Fun (And How to Fix It)Being funny, spending money, and having sex—three topics that can either bring couples together or tear them apart. In this episode, Brad continues the conversation with Dave and Ashley Willis, diving into the vital (and often neglected) areas of fun, finances, and physical intimacy in marriage.You’ll hear why laughter might be the most spiritual thing you do this week, how to stop fighting about money (even if you’re total opposites), and what most couples misunderstand about intimacy. This episode is practical, hopeful, and packed with wisdom for anyone who wants to build a marria...
2025-06-1019 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastWhy Your Marriage Feels Off—and How to Fix ItWhat if the key to a thriving marriage wasn’t “working harder”… but rediscovering friendship? In this episode, Brad sits down with Dave and Ashley Willis—national voices in marriage ministry—to talk about how they turned an ordinary marriage into a calling that’s impacted millions. You’ll hear the real story of how youth ministry sparked their mission, how grace changes everything in marriage, and why pruning your calendar might be the most spiritual thing you can do.Whether your marriage feels stuck in survival mode or you just want to keep it strong, this conversation is...
2025-06-0330 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastTrust and Safety in Marriage | How Emotional Safety Transforms ConnectionMany couples say communication is their biggest issue—but more often, it’s a symptom of something deeper: broken trust, unmet expectations, or simply a lack of emotional safety. In this episode, Brad and Marilyn sit down with therapist Lauren Early to unpack the core issues couples face and how to rebuild connection, even in the toughest seasons.They discuss why love as a choice—not just a feeling—is critical for long-term intimacy, how small acts of intentionality restore trust, and how spiritual and emotional health directly impact your marriage. Whether you’re thriving or just hanging on...
2025-05-2721 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastIs CURIOSITY The Secret to a Thriving Marriage?? 🤔What if one of the most powerful tools for growing your marriage isn’t more date nights or better communication—but curiosity? In this episode, Brad sits down with pastor, performer, and author Drew Worsham to talk about the surprising role curiosity plays in connection, communication, and long-term relational health. From asking better questions to taking small risks, Drew shares the mindset shift that can revive your marriage, deepen your faith, and unlock personal growth in every area of life. Whether you’ve been married 3 years or 30, this conversation will challenge you to stop coasting and start wondering again.
2025-05-2024 minThe Grace Marriage Podcast❤️🩹 Rebuilding After Betrayal: How Grace and Intentionality Saved Their MarriageJeremy and Wendy Coward join the Grace Marriage Podcast to share their raw, powerful story of how God redeemed their marriage after years of distance, betrayal, and brokenness. From infidelity and addiction to deep repentance and grace-fueled healing, this episode is for every couple wondering if true transformation is possible. Hear how God turned their marriage around, how they’re helping others through Grace Marriage, and why their mission now is to walk alongside churches and families who feel like they’ve hit rock bottom. If you’ve ever thought, “I can’t,” this episode will show you why, through God’...
2025-05-1325 min
Focus on the Family Strengthening Marriage PodcastWhen You Have Nothing Left to GiveIs there hope for your marriage when you feel depleted? Brad and Marilyn Rhoads open up with Jim Daly about how they learned to be hopeful again. Then, John and the Smalley's share about where you can go if you're struggling in your relationship. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Grace Marriage for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored Allowing Grace to Transform Your Marriage Contact our Counseling Department ...
2025-05-1312 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastHow Sex Impacts Every Part of Your Marriage (and Why We Need to Talk About It)Sex is one of the most powerful, beautiful, and complicated parts of marriage — and yet it’s one of the least talked about, especially in Christian circles. In this episode of the Grace Marriage Podcast, Brad and Marilyn Rhoads tackle the topic head-on: how sex and communication are intertwined, why healthy intimacy matters for emotional connection, how to navigate seasons where intimacy is hard, and how to break the silence with your spouse (and your kids) in a way that honors God. Whether you’re thriving or struggling, this is a conversation every couple needs to hear.🔑 KEY IDEAS...
2025-05-0621 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastWhy Not? Dreaming Big and Thinking Creatively as a CoupleWhat if, instead of asking “Why?”, you started asking “Why not?” In this episode, Brad and Marilyn share the bold, life-changing story of how they paused life for six months to travel the country as a family — right as they launched Grace Marriage. From hilarious misadventures to life-altering lessons, they unpack how pursuing big, visionary goals (even when they seem crazy) can deepen your marriage and family bonds. Plus, they offer biblical wisdom for dreaming bigger together, pushing past fear, and trusting God with the impossible.🔑 KEY IDEAS:• How setting bold goals can strengthen your marriage• Why coupl...
2025-04-2924 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastWhen Two Stories Become One: Navigating Family of Origin in MarriageWe all bring something into our marriage—including the way we were raised. In this episode, Brad and Marilyn break down how family of origin influences everything from finances to parenting to how we fight (or avoid conflict altogether). Whether you grew up in a hands-off or hands-on home, your background is likely shaping your expectations in ways you may not even realize. Hear honest stories of the Rhoads navigating mismatched traditions, parental influence, and personality differences—all with grace. This one’s real, funny, and crucial for anyone building a new family of their own.Family of Ori...
2025-04-2223 minFocus on the Family Strengthening Marriage PodcastIf Your Child Faces a Health ScareIf your child faces a health scare, that can be a real test for a marriage. John asks Erin about how her and Greg have navigated through health challenges with their youngest daughter. Plus, Jim Daly talks with Brad and Marilyn Rhoads on how they learned to show each other grace during an especially difficult time. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Grace Marriage for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment List...
2025-04-1711 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastMoney Fights in Marriage? Here’s the REAL Reason You Can’t AgreeTalking about money can bring tension, guilt, or even full-blown fights in a marriage—but it doesn’t have to. In this episode, Brad and Marilyn open up about their own real-life (and hilarious) money clashes, from grocery store blowups to budgeting breakdowns. Whether you’re the saver or the spender, this conversation unpacks how couples can better understand each other, work toward unity, and use money as a tool—not a wedge. Tune in to laugh, relate, and take practical steps toward more grace in your finances and your marriage.🔑 KEY IDEAS:• How to talk about money w...
2025-04-1524 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastAffair-Proofing Your Marriage: What Every Couple Needs to Know Before It’s Too LateIn this episode of the Grace Marriage Podcast, hosts Brad and Marilyn join Rick to tackle one of the most difficult conversations in marriage: infidelity. With studies suggesting that 20–40% of marriages experience some form of unfaithfulness—emotional, physical, or even just flirtatious—the team digs into what causes drift, how to recognize early warning signs, and most importantly, how to safeguard your relationship before things spiral.Through biblical wisdom, honest reflection, and practical advice, they offer hope for couples navigating marital tension, and real strategies for building a marriage that’s both resilient and rooted in grace.
2025-04-0824 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastThe SECRET Ingredient to Improve Your BORING Marriage 🤔Can laughter and spontaneity really strengthen your marriage? In this episode of the Grace Marriage Podcast, Brad and Marilyn Rhodes share hilarious stories (including hang gliding and hot yoga!) and practical wisdom about how fun isn’t optional—it’s essential.They explain why couples stop having fun, how to break out of routines, and how to plan meaningful (and sometimes silly) experiences that bond you closer together. Whether your relationship feels stale or you’re just looking to mix things up, this conversation will help you rediscover joy in your marriage.🔑 KEY IDEAS:- How to br...
2025-04-0123 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastThe Silent Marriage Killer: How Anxiety Is Pulling You ApartWhat do you do when anxiety, depression, or emotional burnout hits your marriage? In this deeply personal episode, Brad and Marilyn open up about one of the hardest seasons of their lives—when emotional overwhelm, grief, and burnout took a toll on their relationship. They share what helped, what didn’t, and why seeking professional help earlier could have made all the difference. If you or your spouse are in a heavy season, this conversation will remind you that you’re not alone—and that grace, community, and honesty can carry you through.🔑 KEY IDEAS:- How to supp...
2025-03-2523 min
Grace Church Members PodcastEP 46: Does God Have More in Mind for Marriage? with Brad Rhoads and Jeremy MeyerIn this episode, Scott and Whitney are in the studio with Brad Rhoads and Jeremy Meyer to talk about a biblical vision for God-centered marriage and how we serve our married members as a church. Brad is a former attorney who, along with his wife Marilyn, co-founded Grace Marriage ministry. Jeremy is our Pastor of Marriage and Premarital here at Grace Church.If you have questions or want access to additional resources, be sure to check out the podcast page at https://grace.sc/resources/podcasts/memberspodcast/
2025-03-2442 min
LoveTalk Podcast NetworkFocus on Marriage Podcast - An Intentional Reliance on GodHow are you and your spouse being intentional in your marriage? It's a daily decision, so John, Greg and Erin bring up why intentionality can bless your relationship. Also, Brad and Marilyn Rhoads talk with Jim Daly about trusting your marriage to God, and why you need healthy patterns to keep your communication strong. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Grace Marriage for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Listen Anytime
2025-03-2011 minFocus on the Family Strengthening Marriage PodcastAn Intentional Reliance on GodHow are you and your spouse being intentional in your marriage? It's a daily decision, so John, Greg and Erin bring up why intentionality can bless your relationship. Also, Brad and Marilyn Rhoads talk with Jim Daly about trusting your marriage to God, and why you need healthy patterns to keep your communication strong. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Grace Marriage for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Listen Anytime
2025-03-2011 minThe Grace Marriage Podcast😡 FRUSTRATED in Your Marriage? You Might Need THIS Gratitude ResetEver feel your spouse can’t do anything right—even down to the way they drink coffee? You’re not alone.In this episode, Brad and Marilyn Rhoads join host Rick Dayton to explore how intentional gratitude can shift your entire marriage dynamic. They break down a simple but powerful “eye exam” practice, share how perspective shapes connection, and talk honestly about how frustration creeps in even for long-time couples. Plus, Marilyn shares the moment gratitude rewired her heart after a silent standoff over a house.This isn’t about blind optimism—it’s about rewiring how you...
2025-03-1821 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastFrom Harlem Hoops to Heaven’s Hope: Drugs, Basketball and Jesus! (Part 2)After years of secrecy, addiction, and betrayal, Bill and Carolyn Rieser were ready to call it quits. But when all hope was gone, God stepped in. In this powerful follow-up to our last episode, Bill shares the miraculous moment of grace that saved his marriage—and his life. If you’ve ever felt like your marriage (or your life) is too far gone, this story is proof that redemption is real. Brad and Rick join Bill in unpacking how God not only restored what was broken but used it to fuel a mission to help others do the same....
2025-03-1123 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastFrom Harlem Hoops to Heaven’s Hope: Drugs, Basketball and Jesus! (Part 1)Bill Rieser had it all....then he lost everything. In this episode, hear from Bill as he shares his incredible journey from a troubled childhood in East Harlem to a life transformed by the grace of God. Growing up without a father, Bill struggled with pain, addiction, and broken relationships. Despite his talent as a basketball player, his life took a downward spiral until a series of events led him to encounter the true love of Jesus Christ. This episode sets the stage for his powerful redemption story, which will continue in the next episode.Like what...
2025-03-0430 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastWhen Kids TAKE OVER Your MarriageChildren are a gift from God, but can they actually hurt your marriage? Many couples unknowingly make their kids the center of their world, which can lead to exhaustion, disconnection, and marital drift. In this episode, Brad and Marilyn Rhoads discuss why a marriage-centric home is healthier than a child-centric home, how to balance parenting and marriage, and why prioritizing your spouse benefits your kids in the long run.Discover:- Why 2/3 of marriages experience a drop in satisfaction when kids enter the picture- How travel sports and over-parenting can hurt your marriage
2025-02-2521 min
The D6 Family Ministry Podcast#458 | Prioritizing Marriage While In Ministry – Brad RhoadsBrad Rhodes, co-founder of Grace Marriage and author of Grace Marriage: How the Gospel andIntentionality Transform Your Relationship, has been married to his wife Marilyn since 1996. Together, they help churches and ministry leaders with the challenges pastors face in balancing their ministry commitments with a flourishing marriage. In this episode, Brad emphasizes the critical importance of prioritizing marriage. He also touches on the pressures pastors face from their congregations, which can contribute to a workaholic mentality. He concludes by encouraging pastors how it’s never too late to prioritize your marriage!To learn more, view a free sample, and or...
2025-02-2422 minFocus on the Family Strengthening Marriage PodcastShowing Unconditional Grace to Your SpouseHow can you be nice to your spouse when they aren't being so kind to you? John asks Greg for a biblical definition of what showing grace to your mate actually is. Then, Jim Daily talks to Brad and Marilyn Rhoads about why Christians need to model God's unconditional grace in how we treat our spouse. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Grace Marriage for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored Listen Anytime
2025-02-2012 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastWhy You Should NEVER Stop Dating Your Spouse...NO ExceptionsWant a stronger, more connected marriage? Date your spouse—every single week. In this episode of the Grace Marriage Podcast, Brad and Marilyn Rhodes join Rick Dayton to break down why dating isn’t just for the early years of marriage—it’s the key to long-term connection, joy, and resilience. Whether you’ve been married for one year or 25, weekly date nights should be a non-negotiable.Discover:- The #1 best thing you can do for your marriage outside of your faith.- Why dates don’t have to be expensive...
2025-02-1821 minFocus on the Family Strengthening Marriage PodcastA Grace-Based MarriageOne of the best gifts you can give your spouse is grace, even when he or she doesn't deserve it. Brad and Marilyn Rhoads talk to Jim Daly about recognizing our own need for God's grace. Also, John asks the Smalley's how showing one another grace has made a difference in their relationship. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Grace Marriage for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored Listen Anytime Lovi...
2025-02-1813 min
Living by Faith with Trillia NewbellBringing Love and Grace to Your MarriageDating can bring out the best in a person and sometimes we view our partner with rose-colored glasses. But when couples marry it's a union of two imperfect people and sometimes we begin to notice the other person's imperfections. Trillia Newbell talks with Brad and Marilyn Rhoads about their book, The Grace Marriage: How the Gospel and Intentionality Transform Your Relationship and how showing your partner some grace can allow you both to walk in the freedom and fullness of joy on Living by Faith. Living by Faith with Trillia Newbell is a listener supported progr...
2025-02-1547 minThe Grace Marriage Podcast👊 Fight Fair: How to Disagree Without DESTROYING Your MarriageDisagreements in marriage are inevitable—but they don’t have to be destructive. In this episode of the Grace Marriage Podcast, Brad and Marilyn Rhoads alongside Rick Dayton break down the rules of engagement for handling conflict in a way that strengthens your relationship rather than tearing it down. Learn how to communicate effectively, listen well, and fight fair so that disagreements lead to growth instead of resentment.Art of Healthy Disagreement Framework: https://tinyurl.com/3wyh9j65Discover:- Why avoiding conflict can hurt your marriage more than faci...
2025-02-1124 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastWhy Men Miss the Signs of a Struggling Marriage 🤦♂️ (and How to Fix It)Many men think their marriage is fine—until it’s not. In this episode of the Grace Marriage Podcast, Brad and Rick dive into the common mistakes men make, from ignoring their wife’s requests to underestimating her emotional needs. Discover how small cracks in communication and responsiveness can lead to major marital struggles—and what you can do to fix it before it’s too late.Discover:- Why men often feel their marriage is fine while their wife feels disconnected.- The danger of non-responsiveness and how small neglects build resentment.- The...
2025-02-0424 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastHow Grace Transformed Our Marriage - And Our Church! | Jamus & Annie's Story Part 2In this episode, Brad and Marilyn Rhoads, along with Rick Dayton, continue their inspiring conversation with Jamus and Annie Edwards. Jamus, a pastor, and Annie, his wife, share how Grace Marriage has profoundly impacted their marriage, their church, and their community. They offer practical wisdom on investing in marriage intentionally and fostering authentic discipleship within the church.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Personal Transformation Through Grace Marriage:How Grace Marriage helped Annie focus on gratitude for God's work in Jamus's life rather than dwelling on frustrations.Jamus's realization of how the...
2025-01-2823 minFocus on the Family Strengthening Marriage PodcastIs Jesus Enough for Your Marriage?In the Christian community, we tend to say things like, "Jesus is enough." But what does that phrase mean practically, and how it can impact your marriage? John asks Erin that question, and you'll hear Jim Daly speak with Brad and Marilyn Rhoads about how their relationship got better as they learned to put God first. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Grace Marriage for your donation of any amount! Find More Marriage Resources List...
2025-01-2308 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastHigh Heels & Pizza Fights | Jamus & Annie's Story Part 1What happens when the “happily ever after” turns into the “first year of misery”? In this episode of the Grace Marriage Podcast, Brad and Marilyn Rhoads sit down with Jamus and Annie Edwards who share their raw and redemptive journey from nearly calling it quits to building a marriage grounded in grace.Whether your marriage feels like it’s on the brink or you simply want to grow deeper together, this episode is packed with vulnerability, hope, and practical wisdom for couples at any stage.Discover:- The dangers of unrealistic expectations and performance-based relationsh...
2025-01-2123 minFocus on the Family Strengthening Marriage PodcastThe Toxicity of a Performance-Based MarriageWhen you've blown it in your marriage, one of the best gifts your spouse can give you is grace. Jim Daly talks with Brad and Marilyn Rhoads about how having a grace-mindset has transformed their marriage. Then, John asks Greg about how putting your hope in God's grace can be a motivator to serve your spouse. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Grace Marriage for your donation of any amount! Find More Marriage Resources List...
2025-01-2112 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastGrace Changes Everything! Building Your Marriage on a Firm FoundationIn this episode of the Grace Marriage Podcast, hosts Brad and Marilyn Rhodes explore the concept of grace in relationships, emphasizing its importance in building strong, healthy marriages. They discuss the transition from performance-based to grace-based relationships, the significance of intentionality, and how to navigate difficult situations while maintaining grace and accountability. The conversation highlights the transformative power of understanding and extending grace, both in marriage and in one's relationship with God.🎙️ Subscribe for weekly conversations to inspire and equip your marriage with grace and intentionality.
2025-01-1424 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastFaith, Media, & Mile-High Moments with Rick // The Grace Marriage PodcastIn this episode of the Grace Marriage Podcast, we meet Host Rick Dayton and hear about he and Founder Brad Rhoads coincidental (or maybe not) meeting and how the idea for the podcast first began to form. Hear more about Brad's heart for marriages and why Rick wanted to be a part of the show!Key TakeawaysBrad and Rick's meeting was serendipitous and meaningful.Broadcasting has been a lifelong passion for Rick.Family law reveals the struggles many couples face.Grace Marriage aims to change the narrative around marriage.Intentional living can prevent...
2025-01-0725 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastGreat Love Story. Ugly Beginning. // The Grace Marriage PodcastIn this episode of the Grace Marriage Podcast, hosts Brad and Marilyn Rhodes share their personal journey of love, struggle, and redemption in marriage. They discuss the initial attraction that brought them together, the challenges they faced in their first year of marriage, and the pivotal moment that led them to find hope and healing through their faith in Christ. The episode concludes with the founding of Grace Marriage, a ministry aimed at helping couples strengthen their relationships.Key TakeawaysMarriage requires intentional effort and growth.Attraction can be both physical and emotional.Communication...
2025-01-0121 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastShow Me Where To Dig! // The Grace Marriage PodcastIn this episode of the Grace Marriage Podcast, hosts Brad and Marilyn Rhodes share their journey of transformation in marriage, emphasizing the importance of intentionality, teamwork, and the shift from a self-centered to a couple-centered mindset. They discuss the challenges many couples face, the reality behind seemingly perfect marriages, and the birth of their marriage ministry aimed at helping couples thrive together.Key TakeawaysMarriage requires intentional effort and work.The shift from 'me' to 'we' is essential for a healthy marriage.Self-sacrifice and compromise are key components of a successful relationship.Daily battles...
2025-01-0124 minFocus on the Family Strengthening Marriage PodcastGrace Over Your MistakesWhen you're a newlywed, it's common to make mistakes, as you're learning how to be married. Brad and Marilyn Rhoads share with Jim Daly about bad decisions they made as a young couple, and what they learned from that time. Then, Greg Smalley talks with John and Erin about why we need God's grace when we mess up. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Grace Marriage for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment
2024-12-2414 minThe Grace Marriage PodcastTrailer // The Grace Marriage PodcastThe Grace Marriage Podcast is a weekly conversation designed to encourage and equip couples to cultivate a marriage built on grace and intentionality, and that thrives through life’s ups and downs. Hosted by Brad and Marilyn Rhoads, along with Rick Dayton, the podcast offers practical wisdom and inspiring stories to help couples build a marriage that reflects God's love and grace.
2024-12-2001 min
Solid Steps Radio#460 Grace - Based Marriage With Pastor Brad Rhoads And Nathan Thompson - Episode 2 11/22/24Week 2!!!
“Our first year of marriage was good for Brad , but not for Marilyn.“ -Brad Rhoads, co-founder of Grace Marriage. If you ignore your houseplant what will happen? If you don’t feed and care for the family pet, what will happen? What about your marriage? Your spouse?
On this weeks show, Kurt and Chad welcome Pastor Brad Rhoads and licensed counselor Nathan Thompson to discuss Brad’s ministry to churches (Grace Marriage https://gracemarriage.com ) to talk about grace in marriage on week 2 of a 2 show series on marriage.
The majority of energy and focus on marriage ministries is either o...
2024-11-2548 minSolid Steps Radio#459 Grace - Based Marriage With Pastor Brad Rhoads And Nathan Thompson Episode 1 11:15:24If you ignore your houseplant what will happen?
If you don’t feed and care for the family pet, what will happen?
What about your marriage? Your spouse?
On this weeks show, Kurt and Chad welcome Pastor Brad Rhoads and licensed counselor Nathan Thompson to discuss Brad’s ministry to churches - Grace Marriage https://gracemarriage.com to talk about grace in marriage on the 1st of a 2 show series on marriage.
The majority of energy and focus on marriage ministries is either on pre-marital (before you get married) or crisis marriage (when things are headed in the wrong direction). Ther...
2024-11-1748 min
FamilyLife Today®Is Your Church Equipped to Provide Help for Marriages? Brad & Marilyn RhoadsIs your church equipped to provide help for marriages? Many churches aren't. Learn why Brad and Marilyn Rhoads decided to form a marriage ministry as they discuss this important topic with Dave and Ann Wilson. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Brad & Marilyn Rhoads and catch more of their thoughts at their website gracemarriage.com, and on social media on Insta, Facebook, X, and YouTube. Grab their book, The Grace Marriage: How the Gospel and Intentionality Transform Your Relationship, in our shop! Don't miss out on our biggest sale of the season! Weekend to Remember registrations...
2024-09-0627 minFamilyLife Today®Understanding and Practicing Grace in Marriage: Brad & Marilyn RhoadsWhen life gets busy or crisis hits, how do we understand grace and practice it in marriage? Brad and Marilyn Rhoads join Dave and Ann Wilson to discuss ideas for you to prioritize marriage as you go through life's challenges together! Show Notes and Resources Connect with Brad & Marilyn Rhoads and catch more of their thoughts at their website gracemarriage.com, and on social media on Insta, Facebook, X, and YouTube. Grab their book, The Grace Marriage: How the Gospel and Intentionality Transform Your Relationship, in our shop! Don't miss out on our biggest sale of...
2024-09-0526 min
The Smile ProjectSpecial Guest - Marilyn Rhoads - Part 2Welcome back to our conversation with Marilyn Rhoads as we learn more about Grace Marriage and what Marilyn and her husband are up to!
2024-09-0428 minFamilyLife Today®The Grace Marriage: Brad & Marilyn RhoadsAmazing grace saved each of us—can it save marriages, too? Authors and ministry leaders Brad and Marilyn Rhoads share how embracing grace in marriage led to transformation in their marriage and a pathway for it to transform yours, too! See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy
2024-09-0427 min