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Just So We're ClearBirds of a feather cringe togetherFor the first time in forever Hanli and Marissa take a break from their BFF LDR and record this whole episode without breaking eye contact... and things got deep.
We reflect on a few important life things, like... Have we taken self-hood too far? Is social media only feeding our need for external validation? Who is your safe space? Is there such thing as gossiping for good? Are we suffering from cringe blindness? So many thoughts, so many feelings. You need to tune in. 2024-07-2239 minJust So We're ClearAre we growing up or growing apart?Do you guys ever just save up for a good cry? We're running through some of the weird reasons we've gotten emotional lately. Hanli starts to feel like a local in Mexico but shares what she's found hard about connecting with people and building community away from home. Marissa reflects on how growing up can sometimes feel like growing apart, as we all enter different chapters of our lives.2024-07-0145 minJust So We're ClearRudeness is so 2020First of all, an announcement. Hanli is kinda sorta leaving Singapore... and we need to talk about it. We share the full deets, and take a moment to reflect on what it means to make that jump.
Plus, lets talk about energy vampires. Chances are you know one, maybe you're close friends with one; they might even be a family member. You love them, but wow is it tiring dealing with them sometimes. We share our own little ways of keeping healthy boundaries, while still giving them the support they need.
As our last episode...2023-12-1350 minJust So We're ClearHere comes the bride!Guys. Big news. Like MAJOR. Actually... let us just voice note you. This episode we're serving up our major life updates, and dropping a huge announcement (ahem, hint in the title). We share the full story of kween Hanli's royal engagement; romance, funny mishaps and all. Plus, Marissa pops off about a recent medical diagnosis that's forcing us to question the relationship between bodyweight and health. 2023-10-161h 08Just So We're ClearGet rich, then what?Happy September my darlings! Marissa and Hanli are asking the big questions this week. We're deciphering what 'wealth' means to us and how its changed as we've (dare we say) matured. How can you tell when you've 'made it'? When should we buy ourselves that cheeky little upgrade? When do we treat ourselves to that expensive bottle of wine? And, we're unpacking our definitions of 'home' as we reflect on some of the bigger transitions taking place in our lives. As always, share your thoughts – what does 'wealth' and 'home' mean to you?2023-09-0437 minJust So We're ClearWe come in peace 👽Is it just us, or has 2023 just been a year of unbridled chaos? We're back after our hiatus of playing dodgeball with everything the universe has decided to throw at us. We're out of breath, a little tired but otherwise standing tall. This week, we're starting with a little check in of where we're at, before we give you the lowdown of what's been going on these past few months. From coming to terms with death, UFOs being 100% real and adjusting to our relationship weight. 2023-08-0144 minJust So We're ClearHello darkness my old friend...Hello babies. This week, we want to give a special shoutout to Write Now – a mobile platform that lets you connect with professional counsellors for super affordable rates. So if you were ever looking for a sign to get some mental health support, this is it. Use our promo codes to try it out: for 50% OFF for 2 months on any plans for 50% OFF on add-on live sessionsOn this episode, Marissa tears up thinking about how our parents are getting older while Hanli is waging war on the internet tr...2023-06-0738 minJust So We're ClearIs unconditional love lowkey bad for you?Sorry for the silence y'all but we've been working on some things behind the scenes that we're really excited to share super soon. Not only that, we've been in a long distance friendship for the past month while Marissa was off on another corporate gallivant in America... but we're back and oh, how we've missed you all. This week, we get a little woo woo and explore what it really means when we say 'protect your energy' and how to tell when you've done it right. We also call out 'unconditional love' as being a pretty dangerous co...2023-05-1736 minJust So We're ClearChoose your fighterWe're all about figuring out the best ways to avoid the drama... but let's be honest. Sometimes, you just gotta stand up and fight. This week, we're reflecting on the ways we deal with conflict with our loved ones, and whether our fighting habits actually serve us. Because as much as our love languages have helped us figure out a lot, knowing how we deal with conflict together is equally as important. We may not have all the answers, but here's what we've figured out so far. 2023-04-2442 minJust So We're ClearClarity, who is she?On this week's vibe check, Marissa and Hanli over-share (as per usual) – from the perils of Plan B to embracing our inner brat and our inner aunties... so prepare yourselves for our unsolicited advice. We also get deep into trying to work out what it really means to gain a sense of 'clarity' in your life, whether it's in your love life, your personal finances or even just who you want to be when you grow up. 2023-04-1040 minJust So We're ClearMove bitch, get out your own wayFirst of all, happy belated birthday to us. We're three! Second of all, welcome to season five. Can you believe it? We can't. In honour of our GROWTH, we take a hot minute to reflect on what we've learned about ourselves lately... from three-day hangovers to battles with perfectionism. It's finally dawned on Marissa that great things can happen when you get out of your own way, while Hanli talks about whether closure is a little overrated. 2023-03-2747 minJust So We're ClearMaking fear our new BFFHappy new year babies! Oh how we've missed you. We're wrapping up this season by reflecting on everything life threw at us over the past year – from heartbreaks and new love, to stepping out of our comfort zones and learning how to befriend our fears. We figure out the difference between being vulnerable versus being 'open book', why we might need to make new friends, and what it's going to take to actually love our bodies. Most importantly, dear listeners... we want to take a moment to share how much you mean to us. We're almost 3 years old...2023-01-0458 minJust So We're ClearChaos everywhere, all at onceThis week, we're throwing back to the sheer chaos of Marissa's 31st birthday celebrations before getting deep into this years ~*reflections*~. From embracing new kinds of chaos, to learning the difference between the kind of love we think we need versus what we actually deserve. We made some mad breakthroughs this episode... but not before we go down a dirty little Urban Dictionary rabbit hole. Because at the end of the day, let's be real. We'll never truly grow up. 2022-11-3044 minJust So We're ClearDo you trust yourself?Hello babies. This week, we want to give you some big sister advice when it comes to building self trust and learning how to bring the full version of yourself to the table. We deconstruct different dating patterns, talk about how to write a forgiveness letter, and introduce you to some of our many personalities (there are a lot of them). 2022-11-1741 minJust So We're ClearAttract. Don't seek.It's been a minute guys but we've finally caught up on life admin... but most importantly, we're back on these airwaves with so much to catch you guys up on. Hanli and Marissa have revived a little of their faith in men and spill the tea on their cheeky little holiday flings. We talk about how the kinds of hook ups we look for have changed as we've gotten older, why you should always keep your toys charged, and how we can change the world one orgasm at a time. 2022-10-3146 minJust So We're ClearThe awaited villain eraFirst up – big announcement. Hanli plans to host women's circles in Singapore, where women are invited to connect, share and build community. It's going to be magic. DM us to take part.This week, we're on a bit of a see-saw. Marissa and Hanli can feel a special energy in the air as the world continues to open up. Hanli is on the verge of entering her villain era and ain't nothing gonna slow her down... except for her new potato allergy. (No, really.) Marissa, on the other hand, is catching herself in a dip and giving her...2022-09-1243 minJust So We're ClearNamastay away from meThis week, we needed to slow down and just give ourselves a little TLC. Marissa deals with the worst of her inner self-critic and what happens when you let that negative voice get too loud. Hanli is processing the next chapter of her heartbreak and the losses you don't anticipate. We also talk about a recent article titled "The Rise of Lonely Single Men" and how our expectations of our partners are changing the way we date – from how we seek out emotional support and whether it's our job to push the men in our lives to do "the wo...2022-08-3047 minJust So We're Clear30 and tryingWe're coming in hot. This episode, we spill all about Hanli's 30th butterfly disco party in Bali – from a raw-yet-grounding cacao ceremony, to a sound therapy session that unlocked something within Marissa. Hanli reveals what she's been working through over the past month (brace yourselves for heartache). We also get knee deep in the work we're still doing for ourselves, from practicing the act of "receiving", softening into our feminine energy, and stepping out of our comfort zones in a really big way.2022-08-1548 minJust So We're ClearIs this what growing up feels like?Hanli just turned 30 and it's a pretty big deal. We reflect on how sometimes even a birthday feels like everything is getting shaken up. Some call it Saturn's Return. Some call it just part of growing up. Either way, a lot of reflections are bubbling to the surface, so naturally we wanna talk about it. We talk about whether we believe in 'the one', why self-honesty is harder than it sounds, and entering your villain era.2022-08-0340 minJust So We're ClearDid we just have a 'healed girl summer'?Surprise! It's us! Sorry for the radio silence, we really didn't mean to ghost you. We were each on a little world tour of our own, bouncing between weddings, catching covid and powering through business trips... and we might have gotten a little carried away. But if there's anything we learned, it's that we MISSED you guys. In this catch-up episode, we share a few little highlights from our adventures abroad, getting back in your groove after having your confidence knocked, and the big difference between self-confidence, self-worth and self-esteem. 2022-07-1445 minJust So We're ClearBe the bigger person? No thanks.We know, we know. We were MIA again but listen. We were out collecting life experiences to share and guys, we got a lot. This week, we wanna talk about when it's okay to be the bigger bitch. When we can let ourselves be petty. When we see the high road and think, 'nah, too uphill for me'. We've ALL been there... so let's talk about it. We cover why sometimes we need to lean into our anger, what our 'rage rituals' look like, and how we say sorry. 2022-05-1840 minJust So We're ClearI survived an eating disorder.**Trigger warning: eating disorders.** For the first time, Marissa tells the story of her eating disorder, from its troubling beginnings 11 years ago to the present day. In this timeline of events, Marissa shares the moment she realised she was in crisis, hitting rock bottom (multiple times), what was truly going through her mind, the challenge of getting help, and the rollercoaster that has been her recovery. We'll be blunt; this episode gets very heavy... but we hope you give it a listen.2022-04-111h 02Just So We're ClearTis the season to take your power backMarissa and Hanli reunite after a couple weeks apart with plenty of stories to tell. Marissa's taking her power back by buying an overpriced egg t-shirt. Hanli explains what it means to truly become her own boss. We both reflect on what we might miss about the pandemic, what odd heirlooms we want to pass down to our future spawn and what the opposite of generational trauma is. And guys, did we mention you can finally watch our full videos on Hanli's YouTube channel? For real this time. Watch here.2022-03-2837 minJust So We're ClearDo you really wanna be 'that girl'?Happy birthday to us! We're two years old... and we'd like to think we're just a lil bit wiser. On the theme of International Women's Day, we're figuring out what being 'that girl' means to us. You know the type. Health. Career. Social life. Finances. The whole package. The girl who has it all. But is aspiring to be her actually THAT healthy or is it even low-key toxic? We're also talking about the parts of modern womanhood that NO ONE prepared us for... and how we're coming to define being a woman on our own terms. Watch the...2022-03-1353 minJust So We're ClearMe then and now: the self-comparison trapIs anyone else's energy just completely tapped lately? The world feels like it's burning and let's be real – it feels like we can't do much other than sit and watch. This episode, Hanli and Marissa chat about how in the wake of an international crisis, we're a lot more connected to one another than we think. Plus we're talking about the 'comparison trap' between who you are now and who you used to be, and which version of yourself you actually prefer. Watch the full episode.2022-03-0140 minJust So We're ClearIf dating is a sport, why am I so unfit? feat. Caitlin TrewHappy V-Day! On this week's exclusive episode, Marissa and her very own sister, Caitlin Trew, talk all things online dating – from Hinge and Bumble to the notorious Tinder. They cover how to build a dating profile with the perfect ratio of thirst trap:wife material, and the weird, wonderful and downright awkward encounters they've had, both online and offline. Buckle up guys, this one’s a ride.2022-02-1358 minJust So We're ClearYou're my favourite notification feat. Emile SteenveldEmile Steenveld is an emotional intelligence coach and motivational speaker. He also happens to be Hanli’s #1 boo-thang. In this special one-on-one episode, Hanli and Emile break down the highs and lows of the two years they've been together. Long distancing during a global pandemic, temptation, trust, jealousy and everything else that comes with matters of the heart. It's raw, it's real, it's romantic. Watch the full episode.2022-02-0654 minJust So We're ClearFamily, grief and leaving space for the unknownHappy new year guys! We know, we know. It's been a long time but thank you for being patient with us. So much has happened and we just needed a moment to live it, process it, reflect on it... you know the drill. This episode, we're going straight in. Marissa shares her struggles with grief over the recent loss of her grandmother and losing the battle to that toxic little voice inside of her head. We also cover triggering family dynamics, changing relationships with your parents, and how we're entering 2022 with a bit of a quieter bang. 2022-01-1143 minJust So We're ClearOvernight pads, relationship advice, and leaning into chaosWe've realised that this podcast is basically our audio journal, so get ready for another diary entry. Marissa reflects on turning the big 3-0 and the mantras she's created for the next decade. Hanli addresses the indignity of overnight pads and invents a way to make it a more... 'enriching' experience. And, we put our 'JSWC big sister' pants on for one of our beloved fans looking for a little relationship advice. We've said it before and we'll say it again, guys. We LOVE when you write in to share your experiences with us... so, send in y...2021-11-2344 minJust So We're ClearAlways wear a pinch of 'look at me now'Did you miss us? We missed you and boy do we have so much stuff to catch up on. Marissa talks about how a concussion ironically knocked some sense into her. Hanli shares how travelling with her parents turned her into her teenage self. Plus, we cover body appreciation (and shaming), finding the audacity to wear that daring outfit we know you have hanging in your closet... and one of life's biggest questions – should you ever get back with your ex? As always, send in your thoughts, stories and experiences. We'd love to hear it. 2021-11-0841 minJust So We're ClearDon't tell me how to dress feat. Cindy Sirinya BishopWe know we missed last week's episode but trust us when we say we're about to make it up to you BIG time. This week, Hanli has an exclusive interview with her Supermodel Me (@supermodelme) costar, the one and only, Cindy Sirinya Bishop (@cindysirinya). Beyond the show, Cindy is also a model, actress, and all round stellar human being. In this conversation, we get to know the queen behind the screen by discussing how she takes care of her mental wellbeing, her battles with perfectionism, and the social causes she cares about. She is the founder of Don't Tell M...2021-10-2557 minJust So We're ClearWhat's your most 'toxic' trait?In this post-nap Sunday chat, Marissa and Hanli let their minds roam free – from pondering the origin of their surnames to trying to work out what everyone's most 'toxic' trait is. Hanli also explores her German roots before embarking on a trip to the fatherland. Marissa processes her thoughts and feelings about a recent incident (listen to: Dear Diary, Last Week Sucked for context), and how it's affected the way she views her relationships and setting boundaries. 2021-10-1147 minJust So We're ClearGiving voice to the unheard feat. Ling Anne Hsieh, Project Green RibbonThis episode, we speak to the deeply inspiring mind behind Project Green Ribbon (@projectgreenribbonsg), Ling Anne Hsieh. Project Green Ribbon is a Singaporean non-profit organisation that focuses on mental health and eradicating mental health stigma – . In this conversation, Ling shares her life story and how that drove her to build the mental health resources she wishes were available during her own struggles. She explains how she plans to empower and educate individuals on the importance of building mental resilience, and to give a voice to the unheard.Please support Project Green Ribbon by donating what you can.2021-10-041h 05Just So We're ClearDear diary, last week sucked.Sorry this episode is late guys, but we'll be honest. Last week straight up sucked, so we took an extra minute over the weekend to just deal. Why did it suck? Well we're glad you asked. Consider this episode a little audio journal into the inner workings of each our lives. Hanli opens up about her anxieties of dealing with the rocky side of LDRs, like what happens when you have a fight. Marissa shares an awful experience of feeling bullied in her own home and how that brought other deeper issues to the surface. We know, we know. It...2021-09-2850 minJust So We're ClearEver wanted to just run away and start a new life in Mexico? Feat. Prashant AshokaYou know the story... life gets heavy, you yearn for a change, so you pick up your whole life, move across the world and start all over again. At least that's what we tell ourselves we'll do... but let's be real, most of us never end up actually going through with it. Well, this guy did. This week, we speak to Prashant Ashoka (@prashant.ashoka) – a Singaporean photographer and writer who built a new life in Mexico, by building a stunning house in the middle of the San Miguel desert – Casa Etérea (@casa_eterea). Prash...2021-09-2040 minJust So We're ClearWhy are you wasting your money on...On this week's solo episode, Hanli and Marissa talk about those weird little money saving habits our parents instilled in us... you know the ones. "There's food at home." "Don't buy it, make it yourself." "Take the bus!" We go through which of their frugal methods worked, and which ones backfired. What we splurge on now we've earned a little cashish of our own. Figuring out our personal relationships with money... like, when will we feel like we have 'enough'? 2021-09-1333 minJust So We're ClearOwning your own voice feat. Joshua SimonYou might recognise this episode's guest from the sound of his beautiful voice on the radio, through his incredible music or as one of the hosts of Singapore's LGBTQ+ podcast, The SG Boys (@thesgboys) – he is the one and only Joshua Simon (@joshuasimonxl). This conversation gets deep as we explore our deepest darkest childhood fears and what we think they mean to us as adults, trying to uncover the sources of our shame, and how therapy is like addressing an invisible elephant in the room. Joshua also shares how he found ownership and authenticity in his voice through podcasting, an...2021-09-061h 18Just So We're ClearHave you met my alter ego?We're back baby – season four! Did you miss us? It's been a hot minute since we've spoken last and we're just gonna dive straight in. We've got a hot new look, fresh music and this episode, we're introducing you to our alter egos and the many sides of us that only certain people get to see. Marissa's drunken self toes the line between cheeky and arrogant, while Hanli's relationship self is all gushy and soft. We also cover preserving our emotional energy, setting important boundaries, and trying to find that beautiful balance between your 'masculine' and 'feminine'. 2021-08-3043 minJust So We're ClearSeason Finale: Twerking, Onions and Adam DriverCan you believe it guys? The end of SEASON 3 of this cute little podcast. We'll be back in a couple of months with SO much more up our sleeves that we can't wait to share. But until then, we're signing off with this little solo episode where we get up to our usual nonsense. We're talking LDR reunions (Hanli's man is finally in town), cutting onions and emotional breakdowns, learning how to twerk, and how we just CANNOT wait to pop bottles in the klerb when the world finally reopens. Plus a shout-out to you dear listeners... we wouldn't...2021-06-0838 minJust So We're ClearWhat on earth is my body saying? feat. Maya Kale, Moom HealthLets be real ... How many of us buy different vitamins and supplements off iHerb that we eventually forget to take? Put your hand up if you can't even remember what each pill is for. Do we even really know what that long list of ingredients are actually doing to our body? This week, we speak to Maya Kale (@mayzkale), co-founder of Moom Health (@moomhealth), about how we can make wellness as simple as possible, by focusing on the bare essentials. We break down what it really means to listen to your body, how to figure out what on earth...2021-06-0145 minJust So We're ClearHow to heal after heartbreak feat. Nixalina WatsonFull disclosure: we each drank a biiiiig glass of wine while we recorded this one. We're talking heartbreak. The emotional agony. The physical pain. The brutal recovery process. Let our stories be your survival guide, because we KNOW how much it hurts. Along with our special guest, Nixalina Watson of Sex & The Singapore City, we're spilling the deets about the biggest heartbreaks we've each had and what it's taught us about love, loss and finding the strength to carry on. We cover:The initial agony – accept it's gonna hurtHow to start the healing processWhat NOT to do...2021-05-251h 00Just So We're ClearWhat's the difference between being lonely and being alone?This weird and wonderful episode, we talk about ALL sorts of things on our mind. Hanli calls out her trolls on the internet. We ponder our accents... do we have to SOUND Singaporean to BE Singaporean? And, Marissa points out the difference between being alone and feeling lonely, by sharing what she's been going through and what she's learned along the way. In light of all the new social distancing rules, we're sending another little reminder to look out for your mental health – mute those notifications, get some fresh air, check in with your friends. And if you...2021-05-1743 minJust So We're ClearCan sound really save us? feat. Christina Michele Rios, ceremonialistGong baths, crystal bowls, sound meditation. Maybe you've heard of it, maybe you've tried it... but what exactly is it and how does it work? This week, Hanli interviews Christina Michele Rios (@christinamrios), an intuitive ceremonialist that's helping bring these ancient rituals back into our modern world. Born with intuitive gifts, Christina left the comfort of her corporate job to pursue a more spiritual endeavour – facilitating ceremonies to guide people closer to their most authentic self. Christina shares her story and runs through the basics of these mystical practices and how they can help us in modern life.2021-05-0357 minJust So We're ClearNever forget the bigger picture.Solo episode story time! This week, Hanli and Marissa discuss soulmates (turns out we have more than one), twin flames and guardian angels... and what it means when you meet one in real life. Hanli shares a heartwarming tale about meeting the spirit of her puppy Zelda. Marissa talks about recognising how life moves forward regardless of what we do, so we shouldn't get bogged down by over-thinking every decision we make... And to quote a wise friend, we're only in the "pre-drinks of life", so we may as well just enjoy the ride. 2021-04-2632 minJust So We're ClearTaking Little Green Steps feat. Steph Dickson, Green Is The New BlackIn celebration of Earth Day, we're chatting to Steph Dickson – founder of Green Is The New Black (@greenisthenewblackcom) and the Live Wide Awake (@livewideawake) podcast – about the planet we know and love, and what we can do to make sure we're doing our bit to protect it.We cover:What is intersectional environmentalism?How do we cope with eco-anxiety?I'm just one person, how much impact could I really have?What little green steps can we take to be more planet-friendly?How can we put pressure on governments and corporations to take climate action seriously?2021-04-1942 minJust So We're ClearWhere is my mind? feat. Niall BreslinGuys. Do yourself a favour. brew yourself some tea and get cosy before you tune into this one. In this very special episode, Marissa interviews Niall Breslin (@bressie) – the host of not one but two brilliant podcasts, Where's My Mind ? and Wake Up/Wind Down – and they delve deep into the good, the bad and the ugly of mindfulness, meditation and mental health. In this hour long chat, they talk about the difficult stuff... from revealing truths about their personal mental health struggles to how meditation can offer a bit of calm in this hectic world.They cover...2021-04-131h 12Just So We're ClearWhat's in my underwear? feat. Xi Liu, Ferne HealthThis episode, we chat to Xi Liu, CEO and founder of Ferne Health – a healthcare provider that offers at-home STD tests and women's health screening kits – about all the weird, wonderful and sometimes gross things our bodies do... and how being embarrassed to talk about it can put us at risk. We chat about:Why it's difficult to discuss women's health Understanding how our different lady bits workThe ins and outs of dischargeWhy you need to get checked regularly The link between our mental health and sexual wellbeingHow sexual health stigma can affect our relatio...2021-04-0651 minJust So We're ClearWho else has a crying bitch face?Ugh sometimes you just need a good cry, know what we mean? This episode, Hanli and Marissa trade stories on all the times emotions won the day and the only thing they could do was take a moment to let it all out with a good sob sesh... in the shower, on the bed, in the gym, walking down the street. We've all been there. Plus, a shout-out to owning your resting bitch face, and an important rant about the men that still feel like they have a right to tell women to smile. It's 2021... this is still a...2021-03-2934 minJust So We're ClearWhat has climaxing got to do with confidence? A guide to owning your pleasure. Feat. Jingjin Liu, ZazazuThere’s a reason why Samantha is the most confident and powerful woman in the Sex & The City gang. She knows exactly what she likes and she’s ain’t shy about going after it, in the bedroom and the boardroom… But what has our sexual pleasure got to do with our confidence? This week, we’re talking to Jingjin Liu – a serial entrepreneur and founder of Zazazu (@zazazu_vip; @zazazuclub), a discreet e-commerce ecosystem that wants to help women enhance their sexual journey – about how owning our pleasure can help us unleash our inner potential. She shares her advice on how...2021-03-2247 minJust So We're ClearCan I still love you, if I don't respect you?Forget "kill, kiss, marry". Today, we're playing a game "like, love, respect". Marissa and Hanli explore those three words and try to work out what comes first in any relationship – whether it's friends, partners or family. Can you like someone you don't respect? Can you love someone you don't like? Do you need all three? It's tricky. We also chat about that Oprah interview and share our take on the royal drama. 2021-03-1641 minJust So We're ClearWhat does being 'feminine' even mean? feat. Khushi K, Women UnboundedHappy birthday to us! But more importantly... Happy International Women's day! On our one year anniversary, we're talking to Khushi K from Women Unbounded (@women.unbounded) - a brilliant organisation advocating for intersectional feminism - about what "femininity" means to us and how it's shaped our identities as young women in the 21st century.2021-03-0842 minJust So We're Clear#freeBritney, Free the Nipple and Free FurnitureIt's catch up time! This episode, Marissa and Hanli share all the weird and wonderful thoughts that have been on their minds lately. Like, what do dogs dream about? Why does a morning poop make such a great start to the day? We also explore the #freeBritney campaign, child stars and the true cost of fame. Furniture shopping in your 20s. Hot gym guy's skincare routine. Rock hard nips. Plus a cheeky little shoutout to those of you who have DM'd us... Hi!2021-03-0136 minJust So We're ClearGen-Z, why y'all hating? Feat. Maddy & MinaAh kids these days. This episode, Hanli and Marissa address a certain Vice article about how Gen-Z'ers are roasting millennials for their skinny jeans and side-parts. They also invite Maddy and Mina – two token Gen-Z'ers – to ask them what it's like to have your prime youth years taken by a global pandemic, and call out some of the other weird generational differences we've noticed, from posting emotional breakdowns on Tiktok(??) to niche memes, and more. 2021-02-2239 minJust So We're ClearHow to Manifest Your Man... and other unhelpful advice by H and MTexty banter. Thirst trapping. Power plays. Intense eye contact. This episode, we're giving you our top tips of how to manifest the perfect man. 0% credibility. 100% winging it. Very mixed success. For real though, we share some of our dating tricks and trade stories about a couple of the more awkward dating fails we've endured in our lives – from a declaration of undying love in McDonalds, to being laughed at when asking out a crush. Cringe factor level: 1000. Whether you're single or boo'd up this V-day season, we're sending you our love the best way we know how... with lols.2021-02-1534 minJust So We're ClearVinesh Nagrani: Behind the veneerYou might know this week's guest from a little Netflix reality show called Singapore Social. Or maybe you know him better as Vinny Sharp. This episode, we're picking the brains of the one and only Vinesh Nagrani (@vinesh_nagrani). We're going behind the 'Vin-eer' and digging deep into his personal life off-screen, his experiences of 2020, and what he's doing to put himself back on top, both physically and mentally after – let's face it – a very rough year. We go deep into the mind-body connection, confronting personal demons, finding new inspiration to create, and... lower back pain? We'll let the man...2021-02-1047 minJust So We're ClearThe energy we're bringing into 2021REUNITED and it feels SO good. We're finally recording in the same space and we're kicking off this new season – SEASON THREE Y'ALL – by catching up about everything we've been up to since we wrapped up season two. New Year's. What cocktails we'd be. Enduring stay home notice. Lessons learned from the past year. Goals for the one ahead. And more. 2021-02-0136 minJust So We're ClearSeason Finale: Marissa & Hanli UnpluggedWhat a year, hey? In the true spirit of 2020, this solo episode is completely candid... so expect plenty of weird twists and turns, from our thoughts on period sex and relationship contracts to the social pressures of New Year's Eve and more. It's Marissa and Hanli unplugged. But before we go, a massive thank you to every single one of you who have tuned in to listen to our little baby podcast. We can't wait to show you what we have up our sleeves for season three. Happy holidays!2020-12-3031 minJust So We're ClearThe rise of Sahursart feat. Sahur SaleimThis week, we’re chatting to makeup guru and all-round beautiful human, Sahur Saleim (@sahursart) on the realities of what it took to build her career in the beauty media space (spoiler: loads of sleepless nights), dealing with trolls, and striking the delicate balance between pursuing your dreams and not burning out. She also opens up about the pressures of being one of the few people repping brown beauty in Singapore and why brands need to try harder to make the beauty industry more inclusive. PLUS she shares a few little secret hints about her upcoming makeup line!2020-12-2145 minJust So We're ClearWould we be friends if we met now?We're back with another solo episode and we're discussing a different kind of breakup – friendships. From cutting out toxic friends that are straight up bad for you, to your childhood homie that you just don't connect with anymore, we ponder what it really means to 'break up' with a friend. How we do figure out which friendships are worth holding onto, and which are okay to let go? What's the difference between drifting apart and outright saying "we can't be friends anymore"? Losing a friend sucks no matter what the circumstances, but figuring out what we value most in ou...2020-12-1424 minJust So We're ClearLet's be breast friends. Feat. Charlene Koh & Margaret ChooiWe’ve seen the pink ribbons. We know what mammograms are. We’ve checked our boobs every now and again. But when it comes to ‘the big C’, we never really think about the risks that much. We think, “we’re young… we don’t have to worry about that yet.” But guys, of course we do. This week, we’re focusing on breast cancer awareness. In this episode, we speak to a breast cancer survivor – Charlene Koh – about her story. How old was she when she was first diagnosed? What ran through her mind? How did her experience impact how she lives her...2020-12-0748 minJust So We're ClearBest self? Sounds fake, but okay...This solo episode, Marissa and Hanli chat about the immense pressure we're all under to 'be our best selves' and focus on self-improvement all the... damn... time. Marissa gives her take on why the self-help industry's message of relentlessly pursuing self-improvement can sometimes be toxic, and how we need to remember that life isn't all about always working to be the best or the greatest. Not every experience has to be a life lesson. Not everything needs to be a technique or a method or a mantra. It gets a bit emotional too, as Marissa shares how her own...2020-12-0142 minJust So We're ClearNever have I ever... Been to a 'play party' Feat. Vonny Lang[MATURE CONTENT WARNING] So last week's topic was personal finance and this week, we're diving into the world of play parties (or 'sex parties'). Get you a girl that can do both, know what we're saying? And if you thought Hanli's conscious party experience was wild, BUCKLE UP because this is another league entirely. We interview Vonny Lang (@vonnylang) – an international play party organiser – about how she found herself in this world, and what exactly goes ON at these parties. Is it a sexual free for all? Are the people attractive? Can you just watch? There are SNACKS?? She brea...2020-11-2344 minJust So We're ClearInvesting 101 feat. Amanda Ong, StashAwayPersonal finance = proper adulting. We're meant to earn money, pay off our bills, build our savings and invest, all at the same time... it's a LOT. But rest easy, dear listeners... we're gonna break it down step by step, starting with an intro to investing. We hit up Amanda Ong from StashAway – a digital wealth manager – to teach us the bare basics on how to invest our wealth for our future. Amanda explains why it's so important to set up different investment plans (because turns out letting our savings just sit in our bank account doesn't help us long-term), how...2020-11-1650 minJust So We're ClearWhat the hell is a "conscious party"?It's been a hot minute since our last solo catch up, so here's a cheeky little update on what we've been up to. Marissa's working hard to get her life back in order after this dramatic year, and it's storytime with Hanli, as she reveals the weird af experience she had at her first "conscious party", involving ecstatic dance, intense eye contact, cuddle puddles, 9pm snuggles with strangers... and no alcohol. Yea, we see you raising your eyebrows. We did too. Marissa really struggled to contain herself. Guys, we honestly don't know how to explain how strange this episode...2020-11-0255 minJust So We're ClearWe all masturbate, right? feat. Dr Martha LeeIn this episode, we're talking all about the M word – masturbation. We’re covering how we remember our first climax, the toys we’ve owned and loved, what we’ve learned about our bodies in the process, and how we’ve come to embrace self-lovin’ as an important (and very normal!) part of our lives. And you just KNOW we’re gonna address the taboos and needless shame attached to an act that gives us so many physical and mental benefits. Plus we’re bringing back the one and only Dr Martha Lee of Eros Coaching – a certified sexologist and founder of Sug...2020-10-261h 03Just So We're ClearI got money! Now what? Feat. Anna Haotanto, The New SavvyWe've been thinking about our finances lately and admitted to ourselves that we're total rookies. So we've invited Anna Haotanto, the former CEO of The New Savvy – a financial education platform for women – to school us on all things dollars and cents in the most easy-to-understand way possible. We play a game of Money Mythbusters. Is rent a waste of money? Is our avocado toast stopping us from being able to afford a house? Do only rich people invest? And we ask all the basic questions that go along with it, like what on earth is a 'ris...2020-10-1946 minJust So We're ClearAm I Singaporean enough? Feat. Sharvesh Leatchmanan, Minority VoicesMarissa chats to Sharvesh Leatchmanan, the co-founder of Minority Voices (@minorityvoices) – a platform that shares personal stories of racism and prejudice against minorities in Singapore. They chat about why it's so important to understand how race can affect everyone differently – from the beauty standards we're all subjected to, to the sense of 'otherness' it can make someone feel in their own home – and why all of us need to care. And of course, we work out how we can all be better allies, by using whatever privilege we do have to offer a voice for the unheard, demons...2020-10-1249 minJust So We're ClearLet's talk therapy. Feat. Natalia RachelHappy Mental Health Awareness Week everyone! In honour of this extremely important time, this episode is a little different. Hanli sits down for an open and honest conversation with her therapist, Natalia Rachel from Soma Clinic, to give you an inside look at what really goes on in a therapy session. You're gonna get all the deets, like what is 'somatic touch therapy'? Did Hanli have a mini exorcism on the table? What even is 'the table'? What is a 'mind-body split'? And why are we so out of touch with, well, touch? Our bodies are smarter than we...2020-10-0534 minJust So We're ClearGood vibes only? GTFO.Full disclaimer: we're hormonal this week and salty af. Our period personalities are out in full force. We're not chill. We don't feel relaxed. And we most certainly do not have it together. Hanli's burnt herself with a hot water bottle. Marissa's been crying in the gym. We a mess. ALL that being said... we're still out here getting shit done. For our first solo episode of the season, we're going into how toxic positivity can mess with us (LET US BE GRUMPY) and when it's right to take your 'good vibes only' attitude somewhere else. Plus w...2020-09-2833 minJust So We're ClearShe's a killer queen. Feat. Andrea RazaliYou never know the shoes others are walking in... but we figured we'd ask anyway. This episode, we're talking to a true queen, Andrea Razali – Singapore's most prominent transgender activist, entrepreneur and model – about her personal journey as an openly transgender woman. She talks us through her experiences as a young child through to her transition at 23 years old, before sharing some of the many personal and societal challenges she has faced, from finding self-love and belonging, to becoming a spokesperson for the trans community in Singapore. And did we mention she's Miss International Queen Singapore?Want to h...2020-09-2145 minJust So We're ClearWhat does it mean when a guy...? Feat. Alan M WongOur 'resident dude' and close personal friend, Alan Wong, is back on the pod to drop more of his man wisdom after we asked you guys what questions you've always wanted to get the male perspective on... and boy, y'all really didn't hold back. We asked Alan deep, important questions, like what makes it so hard for men to stand against sexism? And do men really have lower EQ than women? Then things got SPICY... we asked, is 'tightness' a thing? How do men really feel about sex toys in the bedroom? Where did your boner go... was it...2020-09-1455 minJust So We're ClearHow do we be "the good"? Feat. Nadya HutagalungGuys. We're changing our tune this episode to talk about something slightly different with someone very important... the one and only Nadya Hutagalung. Now, you might know of Nadya from her super successful career as a model and presenter (hosting the MTV Show and Asia's Next Top Model), but her work is SO much bigger than that. Nadya's devoted her life to making the world a better place, both as a UN Environment Goodwill Ambassador and through her latest project, We The Good, which puts a spotlight on mental health, migrant workers and individuals and families at...2020-09-0749 minJust So We're ClearSo, you're like... really into feet. Feat. Dr. Martha Lee, Eros CoachingIt's official! We're back! Season TWO you guys... And we're diving straight in on a topic we KNOW you're curious about too. Sexual. Fetishes. Come on. You didn't think we'd start light, did you? After a cheeky catch up about what we've been up to since our last episode, we're kicking off this season with a wild story about Instagram DMs, and Hanli's feet. We've gotta be honest, we were total noobs when it came to this topic, so we did what any sane person would. We went down a kinky internet rabbit hole – we asked Google and our fr...2020-08-3155 minJust So We're ClearTRAILER: SEASON 2Did you ever think we'd have the audacity to launch a SECOND season of Just So We're Clear? Of course we did. And we levelled UP. Have you SEEN our hot new look? Seriously. Take a peek at our Instagram (@justsoweclear). And we've got so much in store for you guys this season. New guests, new topics, and plenty more premium banter from your hosts, Marissa Trew and Hanli Hoefer. So buckle up baby and tune in! New episode drops on Monday.2020-08-2605 minJust So We're ClearSeason Finale: We're coming out of our shells.It's our season finale y'all and best believe we'll be back. First, we're gonna take a little break so we can rest up, glow up, and serve you a killer season two... But before we get to that, let us be vulnerable with you for a minute. We want to take a moment to reflect on the people we were when we first started #JSWC by sharing some intimate truths about our personal lives. Things that we honestly didn't think we were ready to admit to you guys yet. But hey, in the interest of open conversations, we're coming...2020-07-1229 minJust So We're ClearI got it from my mama feat. Jana YarMeet Jana Yar. The walking definition of the 'cool mum' – professional photographer, mother of three beautiful kids, and covered head-to-toe in insane tattoos. We chat to Jana about her childhood of skipping school to attend film festivals and hang out with grownups, leaving her life in Slovakia to live in Asia, and how she accidentally-on-purpose ended up as one of Singapore's coolest photographers. With her tattoo-artist husband, she's raising the ultimate modern family and keeping her creative spirit alive through pretty much everything she does... and we.. are.. here.. for.. it! Snaps to @vans.sg for continuing to...2020-07-0147 minJust So We're ClearFinding patterns in chaos feat. Lisa Von TangMeet Lisa. The creative genius behind her eponymous brand, Lisa Von Tang, who's dressed major names like Adriana Lima, Henry Golding and Mick Jagger(!), with her bold yet luxurious clothing. Though Lisa admits the journey to success is never quite as smooth as the silk of her blazers. She shared the realities of keeping her business alive during a pandemic and the dangers of creative burnout (especially when you're in survival mode). We also go DEEP into how to tap into your unconscious creativity, listening to your gut, and how to unapologetically be yourself.Again, major shoutout...2020-06-2444 minJust So We're ClearDon’t cry when you see me on fire. feat. RRILEYMeet RRILEY. You might know her from The Sam Willows, but this goddess has since launched her solo career, serving us killer power anthems like Burn, Love Me Like A… and mmm bye (EP coming out in July, get excited)! But RRILEY is SO much more than her music. We chatted to her about finding your voice, embracing what sets you apart, and how self-doubt will never not be a thing, so just keep going! And guys, girl’s got jokes. We had to pause recording so many times because we just couldn’t stop laughing. All the best bits a...2020-06-1745 minJust So We're ClearDo you mind? It's private. Feat. Nicole Lim Meet Nicole Lim,the host and producer of Something Private – a podcast focused on all those hush-hush conversations we have about our bodies, in a world where we're still private about our privates. We're serving BIG snaps to Nicole for tearing up the sealed sections of those teen magazines and using her podcast to have loud, proud, unfiltered conversations about sexual health, no matter how weird, wonderful (or gross)! Are those bits on your bits normal? Why are we still too embarrassed to talk about it? We all deal with it, so why we blushin?!2020-06-1036 minJust So We're ClearThis is the world we're living in.A lot is happening in the world right now and we need to talk about it. Black Lives Matter. Does it affect us? Why should we care? How we can show solidarity all the way from over here in Singapore? It all starts with education, awareness, and open conversations. But before we get to the real stuff, let us ease you in with a little pep talk on being your own hype-man, and why you still get points if you come out of this pandemic exactly the same as you were before. Plus, a sneaky peek into what we've...2020-06-0338 minJust So We're ClearStop being funny. Feat. J. JaikishanIf you've seen 'Khloe', you'll know this week's guest, J. Jaikishan, as Joshua Paul – a self-loathing writer who isn't afraid to go to the darkest depths to expose the ugly truth (available on Mewatch and Viu). Despite the bitter character he plays, Kishan is way more likely to make you laugh than cry behind the scenes. In this episode, Hanli and Kishan dig into the acting methods they used to embrace their roles as twisted individuals. And, Kishan exposes why Hanli was annoying af to work with on set, but not before she accuses him of murder...ing his ho...2020-06-0137 minJust So We're ClearWhat’s eating Anna? Feat. Naomi YeoHanli catches up with actress, radio DJ and presenter Naomi Yeo, who also happens to play Anna in Singapore’s latest binge-worthy drama ‘Khloe’. Like two old friends gushing over good times, we touch on what Naomi’s been up to over the last two months, memories from being on the set of ‘Khloe’, and that shiny new rock on her ring finger… YES HE PUT A RING ON IT! (Nice one Mr Ben Kheng.) Khloe is available to watch on MeWatch and Viu.2020-05-3136 minJust So We're ClearShe’s a real fake: the story behind Khloe. Feat. Juo StudiosHanli hosts Jerry, Jason and Jed, the creators behind her latest lead role as Khloe in ‘Khloe’. This in-depth episode goes into the thoughts, events and characters that inspired Singapore’s latest binge-worthy series. From freak acts of nature, fiery female leads and fires (yes, there was literally a fire) to celebrity influencer culture, creative processes and sociopaths. We’re going behind the scenes and breaking down the story behind Khloe. Khloe is now available on Mewatch and Viu. 2020-05-291h 00Just So We're ClearSo where can we go from here? Feat. Caoilfhionn MaguireWe don't know about you guys but we cannot WAIT to dust off our passports and book our next holiday as soon as this is all over... because there's a big beautiful world out there and we're dying to see it. But once lockdowns end, what will travelling even be like? How much will change? Where can we even go? Is air travel gonna be an absolute nightmare? How can we do it more sustainably? Will travel influencers survive? We chatted to Caoilfhionn Maguire, an Edinburgh-based travel content creator, about what the future of travel could look like, and...2020-05-2540 minJust So We're ClearAstrology 101 feat. Sarah Thomas, She Sees The StarsSo... what's Mercury up to? And why does it constantly feel like something is in retrograde? We're talking to Bali-based astrologer, Sarah Thomas, better known as She Sees The Stars, about what on Earth is going on with the planets and stars right now, and what her take is on this pandemic. And for those of you who have NO idea what those last couple of sentences meant, don't worry. Consider this episode "Astrology 101". We go after all the major misconceptions around this ancient practice, discover why it's a lot more complicated than it looks, and how to decide...2020-05-2054 minJust So We're ClearWould you rather? Feat. Shaun TupazThere's two weeks left of this circuit breaker (we hope!) but we haven't flexed our social skills in months. Re-entering the world post-lockdown is bound to end up in all kinds of awkward... so we tested ice-breaker questions on our favourite Singapore comedian, 'fatness influencer' and podcaster, Shaun Tupaz. We played a weird game of 'Would You Rather?', figured out how to send the perfect dick pic (googly eyes and a cape are never bad ideas), covered what it takes to keep the hustle alive and why each of us is one of a kind... plus, which X-Men c...2020-05-1744 minJust So We're ClearWhat happens when the music stops? feat. Zaran Vachha, co-founder, Collective MindsListen up! If you're an artist, musician, poet... creative of ANY kind, you need to tune into this one. We were so fascinated by what our guest had to say this week that we were literally speechless. Seriously. Just listen. You'll hardly hear us. Zaran Vachha, the co-founder of Collective Minds – the company behind bringing major acts to Singapore and Hong Kong, like Anderson Paak, AlunaGeorge, Masego... Craig DAVID y'all – shared some pretty woke words about why it's our duty to protect the arts at all costs, especially now it's most in danger of disappearing. He covers why going to a...2020-05-1339 minJust So We're ClearEvery little thing is gonna be alrightWe're channelling a little bit of Bob Marley with that title but we wanna be real with you guys... stuff's been tough! There are three weeks left of lockdown and we're feeling it. Marissa opens up about living with anxiety and Hanli reaaally misses human touch. But as always, our humour is getting us through and we want to share it with you because as we all know, a little lol can go a long way. Tune in to find out what we find attractive in a partner, the beauty of being alone, and the bonds that are built...2020-05-1034 minJust So We're ClearLove lockdown feat. Yumika HoskinThere's a lot to unpack in this episode. Ghosts, aliens, and is anyone else getting freaky dreams?! All that aside, we're talking to the beautiful Yumika Hoskin – a PRO at managing a long-distance relationship in lockdown with a guy who lives on the other side of the world. Why is knowing your love language so important? How do they keep it fresh and sexy? What are bluetooth vibrators and how are they all sold out already? Is your webcam video HD-enough for that? And lets not forget all the single folks out there... are Zoom dates a real thing? Do...2020-05-0650 minJust So We're ClearBut where are you really from? Feat. Sarah BenjaminIt's the question people have asked us our entire lives. And to be honest, we still haven't figured out the answer. Sarah Benjamin, Singapore's favourite chef and food presenter shares her personal experiences growing up mixed-race, and the unique struggle of figuring out where she fit in. Enter existential crisis here: where does my accent come from? Why do I feel foreign at home? Am I Asian enough? European enough? What am I? And my God, why don't westerners share food?! 2020-05-0344 minJust So We're ClearCan't we just go back to the early 2000's?This one's for the 90's kids! We're marching down memory lane in this solo episode and revisiting some pre-teen icons from back in our golden days. We're talking Hilary Duff (THRIVING), Avril Lavigne (illuminati clone?), Amanda Bynes (is she actually pregnant?), Lindsay Lohan (remember her music career?). Then... there are the heartthrobs. Teddy Geiger, Aaron Carter, Robert Pattinson to name but a few. We cover it all. Where are they now? Who's still cute? And (for some), how did it go so wrong?2020-04-2950 minJust So We're ClearThere's summit about her. Feat. Sofia JinThis episode's a doozy. Our guest this week is Sofia Jin, an outdoor adventurer extraordinaire who's summited some of the world's highest mountain peaks. And guys... she's only 22. We chat to her about embracing adventure as an attitude, conquering your fears, the gender stereotypes we're STILL battling in 2020, and how Asian mothers somehow always know what to say to keep your ego in check. 2020-04-2652 minJust So We're ClearMaybe it's her, maybe it's quarantineYou asked, we answered. It's another solo episode where we tell you everything you wanted to know about us! We broke down what helped us become the confident kweens we are, because we didn't just wake up like this. Plus we talk bullying (people still do that?), first dates (should the dude pay?), and poetic stalkers (but was he hot?). 2020-04-2239 minJust So We're ClearDear diary, can I tell you a secret? Feat. Jamie Lee, The Kind FriendSo we're still stuck inside and our minds are wandering to all sorts of places... some weird and wonderful, and some just straight up weird. And sometimes, you need to tell a friend. The Kind Friend. This week, we're chatting to Jamie Lee, co-founder of The Kind Friend, a mental health company that wants to help people live more mindfully through journalling. 2020-04-1939 minJust So We're ClearSelf love in the time of corona feat. Ming BridgesLockdown, circuit breaker... whatever you want to call it, we're all at home, stuck with our own thoughts and it friggin' sucks. For some of us, it can even be a little scary. This week, we spoke to mental health warrior and Rentadella CEO, Ming Bridges, about how to practice a little self-love and what we need to remind ourselves of, at a time like this.2020-04-0442 minJust So We're ClearYou put it in where?! Feat. Jade Amar, The Hedonist StoreLet's talk about sex baybeeee! But it doesn't always take two to tango. This week, we're taking on the taboos around sex toys with The Hedonist Store co-founder Jade Amar, who breaks down what every woman needs in her arsenal (ahem) and which tools can really get you buzzing. Self pleasure. Self love. Sex positivity. We cover it all. Trust us, this is an episode we know you'll finish. 2020-03-2949 minJust So We're ClearWhat keeps you up at night?Guys. This week's been stressful. And we could all do with some comic relief... even if it's at our own expense. It's just the two of us this week and we're spilling the deets on some of our most embarrassing stories. The awkward moments that haunt us to this day. Tuxedo vests. Gym pick-up lines. Pervy frogs. And oh God, there's so much more. We lay it all bare just to make you smile, dear listener, because that's just how much we care.2020-03-2228 minJust So We're ClearWhat's it like to win the genetic lottery? Feat. Fiona FussiFiona Fussi is an international supermodel who shot into stardom at just 15 years old. She shares her experiences as a model, the realities of the industry and what it’s like to build a career off your looks. Plus hear her 'late night thoughts' that don't make it on Instagram.2020-03-1555 minJust So We're ClearWhat's so great about being a woman? Feat. Alan WongHanli and Marissa talk womanhood... with a man. Host, actor, sweetheart and funny guy, Alan M Wong breaks down what he believes are the best parts about being a woman.2020-03-0547 minJust So We're ClearWho do you think you are? (Pilot)Hanli Hoefer and Marissa Trew – your new favourite hosts – introduce themselves and tell you exactly why Just So We're Clear is the podcast you never asked for, but you definitely need. They explain why perfectionism shouldn't stand in the way of quality content... so no more excuses, lets begin!2020-03-0506 min