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How I See It2 Years! (LIVE cast recording)This episode is a re-post of our Facebook LIVE 2-year celebration. Mark, Justin, and the How I See It community celebrate two years of the show. We get to engage with YOU, our audience through comments, discuss naming Justin's new truck with suggestions like Duke, Bergford, and Honey Do, and share dad jokes. We reflect on favorite topics, and the impact of our conversations. The episode is informal, filled with laughter, and appreciates the community that's been built. Plans for a season break and future episodes are mentioned, along with gratitude for our listeners' support and engagement.
...2024-03-051h 55How I See It2 Years! (LIVE cast recording)This episode is a re-post of our Facebook LIVE 2-year celebration. Mark, Justin, and the How I See It community celebrate two years of the show. We get to engage with YOU, our audience through comments, discuss naming Justin's new truck with suggestions like Duke, Bergford, and Honey Do, and share dad jokes. We reflect on favorite topics, and the impact of our conversations. The episode is informal, filled with laughter, and appreciates the community that's been built. Plans for a season break and future episodes are mentioned, along with gratitude for our listeners' support and engagement.
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How I See ItMarijuanaDiving headfirst into one of today's most nuanced dilemmas, Mark and Justin engage in an illuminating discussion on the intricacies of marijuana - unpacking its escalating legality, speculated medicinal virtues, perils of recreational abuse, and the measured wisdom required by Christians to tread these murky waters.
ANNOUNCEMENT! We'll be doing a Facebook/Instagram LIVE on February 28th (that's tomorrow!) at 7pm and we'd love to have you join us! Bring a good dad joke to share!
https://fb.me/e/4n31tpCVk2024-02-271h 10How I See ItMarijuanaDiving headfirst into one of today's most nuanced dilemmas, Mark and Justin engage in an illuminating discussion on the intricacies of marijuana - unpacking its escalating legality, speculated medicinal virtues, perils of recreational abuse, and the measured wisdom required by Christians to tread these murky waters.
ANNOUNCEMENT! We'll be doing a Facebook/Instagram LIVE on February 28th (that's tomorrow!) at 7pm and we'd love to have you join us! Bring a good dad joke to share!
https://fb.me/e/4n31tpCVk2024-02-271h 10
How I See ItThe Dark Night Of The SoulToday we explore the challenging journey through "the dark night of the soul," where personal struggles of doubt, despair, discouragement, depression, and other "D" words test our faith and resilience. Mark and Justin reflect on their own experiences, sharing insights on overcoming these dark times and distance from God, offering hope and a path to spiritual growth. Tune in for an inspiring discussion on finding light in the darkness and transforming adversity into an opportunity for profound personal discovery.2024-02-131h 03How I See ItThe Dark Night Of The SoulToday we explore the challenging journey through "the dark night of the soul," where personal struggles of doubt, despair, discouragement, depression, and other "D" words test our faith and resilience. Mark and Justin reflect on their own experiences, sharing insights on overcoming these dark times and distance from God, offering hope and a path to spiritual growth. Tune in for an inspiring discussion on finding light in the darkness and transforming adversity into an opportunity for profound personal discovery.2024-02-131h 03
How I See It100?!Join Justin and Mark for a celebration of diversity on the 100th episode of How I See It! They discuss humanity's ironic desire to stand out while fitting in, compare people to the endless variations of music, and emphasize living in harmony with your unique purpose. Tune in to reflect on how we are each wonderfully made, despite our surface differences.2024-01-301h 02How I See It100?!Join Justin and Mark for a celebration of diversity on the 100th episode of How I See It! They discuss humanity's ironic desire to stand out while fitting in, compare people to the endless variations of music, and emphasize living in harmony with your unique purpose. Tune in to reflect on how we are each wonderfully made, despite our surface differences.2024-01-301h 02
How I See It7 Primal QuestionsMark and Justin discuss the "7 Primal Questions" framework in this latest podcast episode. Hear which of the 7 questions they identify with most. They share how assessments can increase self-awareness and relate the questions to other frameworks like the Enneagram. Take the quiz yourself before listening to gain the most insights!
Find links to the quiz and other resources on this episode show page: https://howiseeit.click/episodes/7-primal-questions/2024-01-241h 17How I See It7 Primal QuestionsMark and Justin discuss the "7 Primal Questions" framework in this latest podcast episode. Hear which of the 7 questions they identify with most. They share how assessments can increase self-awareness and relate the questions to other frameworks like the Enneagram. Take the quiz yourself before listening to gain the most insights!
Find links to the quiz and other resources on this episode show page: https://howiseeit.click/episodes/7-primal-questions/2024-01-241h 17
How I See ItHigher Ed vs the TradesShould you pursue college or trades? Hosts Mark and Justin discuss the pros and cons of each path. They explore factors like cost, job prospects, character development and finding fulfillment. An intriguing conversation about the pressures today's youth face when mapping out their future career journey.2024-01-0956 minHow I See ItHigher Ed vs the TradesShould you pursue college or trades? Hosts Mark and Justin discuss the pros and cons of each path. They explore factors like cost, job prospects, character development and finding fulfillment. An intriguing conversation about the pressures today's youth face when mapping out their future career journey.2024-01-0956 min
How I See ItNew Year's ResolutionsHappy New Year from How I See It!!
Join Mark and Justin for wisdom and advice as they reflect on 2023 and look ahead to goals and vision for 2024. Hear about their insightful experiences in ministry, music, and public speaking, as well as the importance of family time. Discover how they aim to grow in self-awareness, balance work, and family, and seek God's guidance in the new year - and invite you to do the same!2024-01-021h 06How I See ItNew Year's ResolutionsHappy New Year from How I See It!!
Join Mark and Justin for wisdom and advice as they reflect on 2023 and look ahead to goals and vision for 2024. Hear about their insightful experiences in ministry, music, and public speaking, as well as the importance of family time. Discover how they aim to grow in self-awareness, balance work, and family, and seek God's guidance in the new year - and invite you to do the same!2024-01-021h 06
How I See ItGenerational IntelligenceIn today's discussion, Mark and Justin debate whether technology makes us more intelligent or just more distracted. They explore how pride and information overload impact wisdom across generations, wanting to build a firm foundation for their kids beyond just technology.2023-12-261h 02How I See ItGenerational IntelligenceIn today's discussion, Mark and Justin debate whether technology makes us more intelligent or just more distracted. They explore how pride and information overload impact wisdom across generations, wanting to build a firm foundation for their kids beyond just technology.2023-12-261h 02
How I See ItPremarital CounselingTune in as Mark and Justin discuss the value of premarital counseling for setting realistic expectations in marriage. They explore pitfalls like unhealthy over-prioritization while dating, handling conflict constructively, and learning to understand each other's perspectives. Though not always easy, keeping God first and your spouse next allows marriage to enrich your life immensely.2023-12-191h 04How I See ItPremarital CounselingTune in as Mark and Justin discuss the value of premarital counseling for setting realistic expectations in marriage. They explore pitfalls like unhealthy over-prioritization while dating, handling conflict constructively, and learning to understand each other's perspectives. Though not always easy, keeping God first and your spouse next allows marriage to enrich your life immensely.2023-12-191h 04
How I See ItHoliday TraditionsTraditions shift as life changes—how do we handle this gracefully while cherishing meaningful rituals? Mark and Justin are back discussing the holiday season—adapting holiday plans over time, resolving family conflicts, and parenting with the long view to maintain warm connection.2023-12-1256 minHow I See ItHoliday TraditionsTraditions shift as life changes—how do we handle this gracefully while cherishing meaningful rituals? Mark and Justin are back discussing the holiday season—adapting holiday plans over time, resolving family conflicts, and parenting with the long view to maintain warm connection.2023-12-1256 min
How I See ItSelf Esteem/ConfidenceWhat's the difference between self-confidence and self-esteem? Justin and Mark explore. We discuss how self-esteem involves self-acceptance and intrinsic self-worth, while self-confidence relates to belief in abilities. Self-esteem provides a steady foundation for self-confidence. How to build both? Focus first on self-esteem through serving others, taking eyes off yourself to gain perspective. Developing confidence? Start with esteem.
2023-11-281h 11How I See ItSelf Esteem/ConfidenceWhat's the difference between self-confidence and self-esteem? Justin and Mark explore. We discuss how self-esteem involves self-acceptance and intrinsic self-worth, while self-confidence relates to belief in abilities. Self-esteem provides a steady foundation for self-confidence. How to build both? Focus first on self-esteem through serving others, taking eyes off yourself to gain perspective. Developing confidence? Start with esteem.
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How I See ItForgivenessOn the latest How I See It episode, Mark and Justin have an insightful discussion about the process of forgiveness. They share why pride is the enemy of forgiveness, how being humble and recognizing our own need for grace helps us forgive others. They also talk about how practicing forgiveness is key for a strong marriage, and reflect on Jesus' example of forgiving even though he was perfect.2023-11-2158 minHow I See ItForgivenessOn the latest How I See It episode, Mark and Justin have an insightful discussion about the process of forgiveness. They share why pride is the enemy of forgiveness, how being humble and recognizing our own need for grace helps us forgive others. They also talk about how practicing forgiveness is key for a strong marriage, and reflect on Jesus' example of forgiving even though he was perfect.2023-11-2158 min
How I See ItFamily at HolidaysFamily, change, and holiday traditions. Join Mark and Justin in a discussion recorded following the 2022 holiday season, appropriate as we enter the 2023 holidays, as they discuss the opportunities and challenges of spending time with family over the holidays. Navigating old roles versus who you are today, resetting boundaries, and embracing new traditions with compassion.2023-11-1457 minHow I See ItFamily at HolidaysFamily, change, and holiday traditions. Join Mark and Justin in a discussion recorded following the 2022 holiday season, appropriate as we enter the 2023 holidays, as they discuss the opportunities and challenges of spending time with family over the holidays. Navigating old roles versus who you are today, resetting boundaries, and embracing new traditions with compassion.2023-11-1457 min
How I See ItConspiracy TheoriesWhat's the appeal of conspiracy theories? Are they harmless entertainment or dangerous rabbit holes? Join Justin and Mark as they dive into the topic of conspiracies, discussing famous ones like JFK and 9/11, talk about finding truth between polarized viewpoints, and warn how easy it is to get sucked down rabbit holes.2023-10-3149 minHow I See ItConspiracy TheoriesWhat's the appeal of conspiracy theories? Are they harmless entertainment or dangerous rabbit holes? Join Justin and Mark as they dive into the topic of conspiracies, discussing famous ones like JFK and 9/11, talk about finding truth between polarized viewpoints, and warn how easy it is to get sucked down rabbit holes.2023-10-3149 min
How I See ItSparrow's RestJoin us today as Mark shares a little about a shared vision for Sparrow's Rest - a homestead retreat center focused on strengthening marriages. Hear how he and his wife Chris are turning this dream into a reality by renovating a farmhouse, adding acreage, and prayerfully evolving the vision over time. Discover how their partnership and God's provision are making this unique ministry progress toward reality.2023-09-2654 minHow I See ItSparrow's RestJoin us today as Mark shares a little about a shared vision for Sparrow's Rest - a homestead retreat center focused on strengthening marriages. Hear how he and his wife Chris are turning this dream into a reality by renovating a farmhouse, adding acreage, and prayerfully evolving the vision over time. Discover how their partnership and God's provision are making this unique ministry progress toward reality.2023-09-2654 min
How I See ItBiasesIn this week's episode, Justin and Mark explore cognitive biases - the shortcuts our brains take that shape our thinking. While covering a handful of types and categories of biases listed on Wikipedia, they note that they are not necessarily good or bad — but it's important to recognize the role they play so we can improve our decisions and have more balanced perspectives. We encourage you to explore cognitive biases further as it can provide insight into how you think.2023-09-1258 minHow I See ItBiasesIn this week's episode, Justin and Mark explore cognitive biases - the shortcuts our brains take that shape our thinking. While covering a handful of types and categories of biases listed on Wikipedia, they note that they are not necessarily good or bad — but it's important to recognize the role they play so we can improve our decisions and have more balanced perspectives. We encourage you to explore cognitive biases further as it can provide insight into how you think.2023-09-1258 min
How I See ItExcellenceThanks for hanging in there with us last week and listening to our "Encore" presentation of the "White Blank Page" episode.
This week, we're back in the studio, and we got a brand-new episode for you. On this latest episode of How I See It, we wrestle with the ideal of "excellence" and how to pursue it in a healthy, sustainable way. We discuss how the relentless chase after excellence can become draining and debilitating. Mark argues true excellence is less about perfection and more about living wisely and maturely day by day. Tune in to hear...2023-09-0556 minHow I See ItExcellenceThanks for hanging in there with us last week and listening to our "Encore" presentation of the "White Blank Page" episode.
This week, we're back in the studio, and we got a brand-new episode for you. On this latest episode of How I See It, we wrestle with the ideal of "excellence" and how to pursue it in a healthy, sustainable way. We discuss how the relentless chase after excellence can become draining and debilitating. Mark argues true excellence is less about perfection and more about living wisely and maturely day by day. Tune in to hear...2023-09-0556 min
How I See ItWhite Blank Page (ENCORE!)Mark and Justin are taking a break from recording new episodes this week, so we're bringing you an encore presentation of one of our most meaningful conversations from the archives - "White Blank Page."
In this episode, Mark and Justin dive into overcoming perfectionism and approval addiction. They talk honestly about surrendering unhelpful thoughts, learning from failures, and realigning priorities based on identity in Christ rather than external validation.
Tune in to re-listen to the insightful discussion between Mark and Justin in this classic episode as we highlight the archives while the hosts take a...2023-08-2942 minHow I See ItWhite Blank Page (ENCORE!)Mark and Justin are taking a break from recording new episodes this week, so we're bringing you an encore presentation of one of our most meaningful conversations from the archives - "White Blank Page."
In this episode, Mark and Justin dive into overcoming perfectionism and approval addiction. They talk honestly about surrendering unhelpful thoughts, learning from failures, and realigning priorities based on identity in Christ rather than external validation.
Tune in to re-listen to the insightful discussion between Mark and Justin in this classic episode as we highlight the archives while the hosts take a...2023-08-2942 min
How I See ItBeards & TattoosMark and Justin discuss how beards and tattoos have become meaningful parts of their identities. They share stories behind Justin's 11 tattoos and Mark's 5-year beard journey. Though cautioning against over-identifying with external appearances, they reflect on how tattoos and beards can represent faith, relationships, interests, and uniqueness.
Share your beard, tattoo, or other appearance story with us at us@howiseeit.click, or on our contact page: https://howiseeit.click/contact/2023-08-221h 06How I See ItBeards & TattoosMark and Justin discuss how beards and tattoos have become meaningful parts of their identities. They share stories behind Justin's 11 tattoos and Mark's 5-year beard journey. Though cautioning against over-identifying with external appearances, they reflect on how tattoos and beards can represent faith, relationships, interests, and uniqueness.
Share your beard, tattoo, or other appearance story with us at us@howiseeit.click, or on our contact page: https://howiseeit.click/contact/2023-08-221h 06
How I See ItDecisionsBig decisions got you tossing and turning all night? In this episode, we (Justin and Mark) have an earnest discussion about how to approach important life decisions, specifically as people of faith.
Responding to Mark’s probing, Justin explains some of his big-decision-making process. And we talk about the value of coming to agreement with a spouse before making big decisions to prevent future resentment.
The conversation covers many practical practices you’ll have to listen in to discover!2023-08-081h 02How I See ItDecisionsBig decisions got you tossing and turning all night? In this episode, we (Justin and Mark) have an earnest discussion about how to approach important life decisions, specifically as people of faith.
Responding to Mark’s probing, Justin explains some of his big-decision-making process. And we talk about the value of coming to agreement with a spouse before making big decisions to prevent future resentment.
The conversation covers many practical practices you’ll have to listen in to discover!2023-08-081h 02
How I See ItKneeling During National Anthem [ChatGPT-provided topic!]In today’s episode, we decided to pull an episode out of a hat… An AI ChatGPT hat. We used ChatGPT to generate some random topics using our previous episode titles as the source/inspiration, then put those topics in a randomizer. The topic for today… "Should athletes be allowed to kneel during the national anthem?"
Proceeding with this topic, we discuss how this is a polarizing issue, with Mark's first reaction being about "freedom" while Justin's is about "racism.” We unpack the complexities around concepts like patriotism, the right to protest, the meaning of team unity, and more...2023-08-0151 minHow I See ItKneeling During National Anthem [ChatGPT-provided topic!]In today’s episode, we decided to pull an episode out of a hat… An AI ChatGPT hat. We used ChatGPT to generate some random topics using our previous episode titles as the source/inspiration, then put those topics in a randomizer. The topic for today… "Should athletes be allowed to kneel during the national anthem?"
Proceeding with this topic, we discuss how this is a polarizing issue, with Mark's first reaction being about "freedom" while Justin's is about "racism.” We unpack the complexities around concepts like patriotism, the right to protest, the meaning of team unity, and more...2023-08-0151 min
How I See ItQuietJoin Mark and Justin today as the duo explores the value of quietness. Mark begins by describing a serene encounter with a fox on an early morning run, which prompts reflections on introversion, extroversion, and the evolving relationship with solitude. They delve into the peaceful and contemplative aspects of being quiet while acknowledging its challenges, especially for those facing mental health issues. Justin candidly shares his journey from needing approval to finding solace in solitude. Listeners are invited to embrace moments of quietness and introspection, making this episode a thoughtful exploration of the beauty and impact of "quiet" in...2023-07-2544 minHow I See ItQuietJoin Mark and Justin today as the duo explores the value of quietness. Mark begins by describing a serene encounter with a fox on an early morning run, which prompts reflections on introversion, extroversion, and the evolving relationship with solitude. They delve into the peaceful and contemplative aspects of being quiet while acknowledging its challenges, especially for those facing mental health issues. Justin candidly shares his journey from needing approval to finding solace in solitude. Listeners are invited to embrace moments of quietness and introspection, making this episode a thoughtful exploration of the beauty and impact of "quiet" in...2023-07-2544 min
How I See ItSpiritualism/BalanceToday, we discuss the concept of spiritual balance and the duality of good and evil. Mark reflects on a recent sermon about the authority of Jesus and the limitations of seeking balance from a cosmic perspective. They emphasize the importance of faith and trust in our higher power, even when answers are not fully comprehensible. We explore some theological concepts and challenges of understanding good and evil and highlight the significance of seeking the kingdom of heaven vs trying to create heaven on earth.2023-07-1132 minHow I See ItSpiritualism/BalanceToday, we discuss the concept of spiritual balance and the duality of good and evil. Mark reflects on a recent sermon about the authority of Jesus and the limitations of seeking balance from a cosmic perspective. They emphasize the importance of faith and trust in our higher power, even when answers are not fully comprehensible. We explore some theological concepts and challenges of understanding good and evil and highlight the significance of seeking the kingdom of heaven vs trying to create heaven on earth.2023-07-1132 min
How I See ItApology StylesIn this podcast episode, Mark and Justin discuss the five apology languages, which are similar to the five love languages. They talk about how important it is to understand your own apology language and the apology language of the people you care about. They also discuss how pride and guilt can sometimes get in the way of apologizing effectively, and offer some tips for overcoming these obstacles. We hope this episode provides helpful information about our natural apology styles and how to use new tools to improve your communication with others.
You can check out the Gary...2023-07-0447 minHow I See ItApology StylesIn this podcast episode, Mark and Justin discuss the five apology languages, which are similar to the five love languages. They talk about how important it is to understand your own apology language and the apology language of the people you care about. They also discuss how pride and guilt can sometimes get in the way of apologizing effectively, and offer some tips for overcoming these obstacles. We hope this episode provides helpful information about our natural apology styles and how to use new tools to improve your communication with others.
You can check out the Gary...2023-07-0447 min
How I See ItBrains (Discussions on Elon Musk's Neuralink, etc) – with guest Lizzie Pratt, Part 2Today is the continuation of the conversation we started last week about brains, with our guest and Mark’s daughter — Lizzie Pratt. Together, we explore brain science, focusing on the advancements by Elon Musk’s Neuralink in connecting the brain to computers. We recruited Lizzie, a biopsychology student, as our “expert” on the subject, and she shared insights into the interplay between biology and psychology and the significance of the brain in understanding behavior. We touch on neuroplasticity, brain injuries, and the potential implications of brain-machine interfaces, especially considering the theological and ethical concerns.
If you haven't yet, be su...2023-06-0643 minHow I See ItBrains (Discussions on Elon Musk's Neuralink, etc) – with guest Lizzie Pratt, Part 2Today is the continuation of the conversation we started last week about brains, with our guest and Mark’s daughter — Lizzie Pratt. Together, we explore brain science, focusing on the advancements by Elon Musk’s Neuralink in connecting the brain to computers. We recruited Lizzie, a biopsychology student, as our “expert” on the subject, and she shared insights into the interplay between biology and psychology and the significance of the brain in understanding behavior. We touch on neuroplasticity, brain injuries, and the potential implications of brain-machine interfaces, especially considering the theological and ethical concerns.
If you haven't yet, be su...2023-06-0643 min
How I See ItBrains (Discussions on Elon Musk's Neuralink, etc) – with guest Lizzie Pratt, Part 1“If the human brain were so simple that we could understand it, we would be so simple that we couldn’t.” — physicist Emerson M. Pugh
Today, we introduce Mark’s daughter, and our guest, Lizzie Pratt. Together, we explore brain science, focusing on the advancements by Elon Musk’s Neuralink in connecting the brain to computers. We recruited Lizzie, a biopsychology student, as our “expert” on the subject, and she shared insights into the interplay between biology and psychology and the significance of the brain in understanding behavior. We touch on neuroplasticity, brain injuries, and the potential implications of...2023-05-3041 minHow I See ItBrains (Discussions on Elon Musk's Neuralink, etc) – with guest Lizzie Pratt, Part 1“If the human brain were so simple that we could understand it, we would be so simple that we couldn’t.” — physicist Emerson M. Pugh
Today, we introduce Mark’s daughter, and our guest, Lizzie Pratt. Together, we explore brain science, focusing on the advancements by Elon Musk’s Neuralink in connecting the brain to computers. We recruited Lizzie, a biopsychology student, as our “expert” on the subject, and she shared insights into the interplay between biology and psychology and the significance of the brain in understanding behavior. We touch on neuroplasticity, brain injuries, and the potential implications of...2023-05-3041 min
How I See ItMarriage CounselingToday, we dive into the polarizing topic of marriage counseling. Some people swear by it, some simply view it as a waste of time and money, while others see it as a shameful admission of failure. Mark shares a bit of background into how and why he (and his wife Chris) became so passionate about the topic of marriage, marriage counseling, and marriage ministry, and Mark and Justin each share their perspectives on how it's such a valuable tool for couples. They also discuss the stigmas and stereotypes associated with seeking therapy for relationship issues. Tune in to hear...2023-04-111h 01How I See ItMarriage CounselingToday, we dive into the polarizing topic of marriage counseling. Some people swear by it, some simply view it as a waste of time and money, while others see it as a shameful admission of failure. Mark shares a bit of background into how and why he (and his wife Chris) became so passionate about the topic of marriage, marriage counseling, and marriage ministry, and Mark and Justin each share their perspectives on how it's such a valuable tool for couples. They also discuss the stigmas and stereotypes associated with seeking therapy for relationship issues. Tune in to hear...2023-04-111h 01
How I See ItThe StickIn this episode, co-hosts Mark and Justin explore the idea that our strengths and weaknesses are often intertwined. They delve into the concept of "The Stick" - the notion that the weakness that accompanies our strengths is like a stick, meant to keep us humble and grounded. In typical “How I See It” style, we examine how our strengths can bring perspective to our weaknesses and how we can learn to embrace both in order to grow and succeed, ultimately learning to keep the stick balanced. Tune in to this thought-provoking episode to gain a new perspective on your own stre...2023-03-2141 minHow I See ItThe StickIn this episode, co-hosts Mark and Justin explore the idea that our strengths and weaknesses are often intertwined. They delve into the concept of "The Stick" - the notion that the weakness that accompanies our strengths is like a stick, meant to keep us humble and grounded. In typical “How I See It” style, we examine how our strengths can bring perspective to our weaknesses and how we can learn to embrace both in order to grow and succeed, ultimately learning to keep the stick balanced. Tune in to this thought-provoking episode to gain a new perspective on your own stre...2023-03-2141 min
How I See ItVulnerabilityInspired by this Brené Brown, The Power of Vulnerability video, Mark and Justin discuss the many facets and unintuitively powerful nature of vulnerability. This word is often associated with weakness and abuse and therefore avoided at all costs. We would rather live in private shame than openly admit our struggles, but often this vulnerability is the key to unlocking incredible strength and change. Join us as we try to tip the balance in favor of this important virtue.2023-02-1457 minHow I See ItVulnerabilityInspired by this Brené Brown, The Power of Vulnerability video, Mark and Justin discuss the many facets and unintuitively powerful nature of vulnerability. This word is often associated with weakness and abuse and therefore avoided at all costs. We would rather live in private shame than openly admit our struggles, but often this vulnerability is the key to unlocking incredible strength and change. Join us as we try to tip the balance in favor of this important virtue.2023-02-1457 min
How I See ItWin the MorningJoin co-hosts Mark and Justin as we learn the ropes of our new recording setup (not without our usual mishaps), and discuss the value of winning the morning, and as a result, the day.
Dive in with us as we explore the benefits of rising early and establishing a daily routine. Discover how setting aside time for meditation, productivity, and priority-setting can positively impact your life and help you define and achieve success. We outline some practical tips and tricks for maximizing your mornings and kickstarting your day on the right foot. We hope this episode of "...2023-02-0747 minHow I See ItWin the MorningJoin co-hosts Mark and Justin as we learn the ropes of our new recording setup (not without our usual mishaps), and discuss the value of winning the morning, and as a result, the day.
Dive in with us as we explore the benefits of rising early and establishing a daily routine. Discover how setting aside time for meditation, productivity, and priority-setting can positively impact your life and help you define and achieve success. We outline some practical tips and tricks for maximizing your mornings and kickstarting your day on the right foot. We hope this episode of "...2023-02-0747 min
How I See ItGun Control, Part 2Join us for part 2 of this episode of 'How I See It,' where Justin & Mark go toe-to-toe, delving into the controversial topic of gun control. From the Second Amendment to background checks, the hosts explore the different perspectives on this polarizing issue. From pro-gun advocates to those calling for stricter regulations, the co-hosts will examine the arguments from both sides, and share their own views on the matter. Tune in for these thought-provoking and nuanced discussions on the topic of gun control. If you haven't yet, be sure to listen to part 1 first!2023-01-2448 minHow I See ItGun Control, Part 2Join us for part 2 of this episode of 'How I See It,' where Justin & Mark go toe-to-toe, delving into the controversial topic of gun control. From the Second Amendment to background checks, the hosts explore the different perspectives on this polarizing issue. From pro-gun advocates to those calling for stricter regulations, the co-hosts will examine the arguments from both sides, and share their own views on the matter. Tune in for these thought-provoking and nuanced discussions on the topic of gun control. If you haven't yet, be sure to listen to part 1 first!2023-01-2448 min
How I See ItGun Control, Part 1In this 2-part episode of 'How I See It,' Justin & Mark go toe-to-toe, delving into the controversial topic of gun control. From the Second Amendment to background checks, the hosts explore the different perspectives on this polarizing issue. From pro-gun advocates to those calling for stricter regulations, the co-hosts will examine the arguments from both sides, and share their own views on the matter. Tune in for these thought-provoking and nuanced discussions on the topic of gun control.2023-01-171h 00How I See ItGun Control, Part 1In this 2-part episode of 'How I See It,' Justin & Mark go toe-to-toe, delving into the controversial topic of gun control. From the Second Amendment to background checks, the hosts explore the different perspectives on this polarizing issue. From pro-gun advocates to those calling for stricter regulations, the co-hosts will examine the arguments from both sides, and share their own views on the matter. Tune in for these thought-provoking and nuanced discussions on the topic of gun control.2023-01-171h 00
How I See ItMoneyOn this episode of "How I See It," we tackle the polarizing subject of money. We'll be discussing the role money plays in our lives, how we think about it, and how it can affect our relationships, decision-making, spiritual health, etc. Mark and Justin will share some of their own personal experiences with money and offer insights they've earned and learned. Whether you're struggling to make ends meet or trying to save for the future, this episode will give you something to think about.2022-12-2759 minHow I See ItMoneyOn this episode of "How I See It," we tackle the polarizing subject of money. We'll be discussing the role money plays in our lives, how we think about it, and how it can affect our relationships, decision-making, spiritual health, etc. Mark and Justin will share some of their own personal experiences with money and offer insights they've earned and learned. Whether you're struggling to make ends meet or trying to save for the future, this episode will give you something to think about.2022-12-2759 min
How I See ItThe KingdomIn this episode of "How I See It," co-hosts Mark and Justin discuss the concept of the Kingdom of God and how it differs from the personal kingdoms we create for ourselves. They explore the idea that God's Kingdom is a realm of God-centered service and purpose, and contrast it with the often selfish and self-centered pursuits that drive our personal kingdoms. They also discuss the implications of aligning our lives with the Kingdom of God and the benefits of doing so. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation about the nature of God's Kingdom and how it relates to...2022-12-1357 minHow I See ItThe KingdomIn this episode of "How I See It," co-hosts Mark and Justin discuss the concept of the Kingdom of God and how it differs from the personal kingdoms we create for ourselves. They explore the idea that God's Kingdom is a realm of God-centered service and purpose, and contrast it with the often selfish and self-centered pursuits that drive our personal kingdoms. They also discuss the implications of aligning our lives with the Kingdom of God and the benefits of doing so. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation about the nature of God's Kingdom and how it relates to...2022-12-1357 min
How I See ItDepressionToday, the show gets a little more personal as Mark and Justin discuss the subject of Depression. Mark and Justin are no strangers to this subject. Justin's familiarity is tied to his intermittent battle with it, while Mark encounters its effects near-daily through his therapy practice.
Those who fight their mental health issues also have to fight the stigma associated with them. The most important thing we can do culturally to fight this stigma is to talk openly about the subject. To help others know, "you are not alone!"
We hope you find this episode...2022-11-221h 00How I See ItDepressionToday, the show gets a little more personal as Mark and Justin discuss the subject of Depression. Mark and Justin are no strangers to this subject. Justin's familiarity is tied to his intermittent battle with it, while Mark encounters its effects near-daily through his therapy practice.
Those who fight their mental health issues also have to fight the stigma associated with them. The most important thing we can do culturally to fight this stigma is to talk openly about the subject. To help others know, "you are not alone!"
We hope you find this episode...2022-11-221h 00
How I See ItPoliticsMark brings a surprise topic to the How I See It studio this morning: Politics!
This topic can elicit deep feelings of anxiety, anger, fear, fight/flight, and it's certainly at the top of the charts when it comes to polarization. We have an opportunity (some would say responsibility) to engage this important topic and to encourage honest enlightened conversations that go beyond the surface-level talking points. We take a broad look at a few of these points and highlight many obstacles which make these conversations so difficult. Some questions we discuss:
- How can...2022-11-151h 06How I See ItPoliticsMark brings a surprise topic to the How I See It studio this morning: Politics!
This topic can elicit deep feelings of anxiety, anger, fear, fight/flight, and it's certainly at the top of the charts when it comes to polarization. We have an opportunity (some would say responsibility) to engage this important topic and to encourage honest enlightened conversations that go beyond the surface-level talking points. We take a broad look at a few of these points and highlight many obstacles which make these conversations so difficult. Some questions we discuss:
- How can...2022-11-151h 06
How I See ItSocial MediaSocial Media: Is it truly social? Or an addictive wasteland? How "real" are these online relationships? In today's episode, Justin and Mark highlight their disparate experiences with social media and outline the merits and struggles of a world increasingly online, where relationships born through social media are becoming a societal norm.
Related, this podcast grows through you sharing it in your world, online and off. Please consider sharing the podcast or an episode with a friend today!2022-10-1858 minHow I See ItSocial MediaSocial Media: Is it truly social? Or an addictive wasteland? How "real" are these online relationships? In today's episode, Justin and Mark highlight their disparate experiences with social media and outline the merits and struggles of a world increasingly online, where relationships born through social media are becoming a societal norm.
Related, this podcast grows through you sharing it in your world, online and off. Please consider sharing the podcast or an episode with a friend today!2022-10-1858 min
How I See ItEarly Education: Part 2Welcome back for Part 2! Last week, we got started in our conversation with Chris Pratt, Mark's wife and Kellie Perry. In this two-part episode, we're discussing a topic these women are so passionate about, Early Education. We chat about the value of reading in the home, what aspects of education can be polarizing, and with all the educational offerings and opportunities, how do you choose the best option for your kids and your family, and In this 2nd part, we share how each of our educations shaped us.2022-08-2344 minHow I See ItEarly Education: Part 2Welcome back for Part 2! Last week, we got started in our conversation with Chris Pratt, Mark's wife and Kellie Perry. In this two-part episode, we're discussing a topic these women are so passionate about, Early Education. We chat about the value of reading in the home, what aspects of education can be polarizing, and with all the educational offerings and opportunities, how do you choose the best option for your kids and your family, and In this 2nd part, we share how each of our educations shaped us.2022-08-2344 min
How I See ItEarly Education: Part 1This episode was another treat for us as we got to have Chris Pratt, Mark's wife back on the show, along with Kellie Perry, Justin's sister-in-law who has, in her words, become podcast famous for cameo mentions in previous episodes (the Wives episode). In this two-part episode, we'll discuss a topic these women are so passionate about, Early Education. We chat about the value of reading in the home, what aspects of education can be polarizing, and with all the educational offerings and opportunities, how do you choose the best option for your kids and your family?
...2022-08-1646 minHow I See ItEarly Education: Part 1This episode was another treat for us as we got to have Chris Pratt, Mark's wife back on the show, along with Kellie Perry, Justin's sister-in-law who has, in her words, become podcast famous for cameo mentions in previous episodes (the Wives episode). In this two-part episode, we'll discuss a topic these women are so passionate about, Early Education. We chat about the value of reading in the home, what aspects of education can be polarizing, and with all the educational offerings and opportunities, how do you choose the best option for your kids and your family?
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How I See ItCreation/EvolutionCreation vs Evolution: this ongoing debate, now spanning 3 centuries, is certainly a heavyweight contender for "Most Polarizing Topic". Mark and Justin explore this topic of our origin, acknowledging even the polarized beliefs among those considering themselves "Creationists", and discussing the immense possibilities for a God who can create a universe.2022-08-0951 minHow I See ItCreation/EvolutionCreation vs Evolution: this ongoing debate, now spanning 3 centuries, is certainly a heavyweight contender for "Most Polarizing Topic". Mark and Justin explore this topic of our origin, acknowledging even the polarized beliefs among those considering themselves "Creationists", and discussing the immense possibilities for a God who can create a universe.2022-08-0951 min
How I See ItPlanting ThingsToday, Mark and Justin talk (some may say nerd out) about the value of planting and growing things. They discuss the valuable lessons emphasized through the natural processes that occur in the life-cycle of a plant — things like seasons, dormancy, blooms, and fruit. The metaphors for life seem to never stop, and in the end, we encourage you, the listener, to consider planting something of your own so you can enjoy the same lessons, therapeutic benefits, and even fruit that comes from cultivating a living plant.2022-08-0257 minHow I See ItPlanting ThingsToday, Mark and Justin talk (some may say nerd out) about the value of planting and growing things. They discuss the valuable lessons emphasized through the natural processes that occur in the life-cycle of a plant — things like seasons, dormancy, blooms, and fruit. The metaphors for life seem to never stop, and in the end, we encourage you, the listener, to consider planting something of your own so you can enjoy the same lessons, therapeutic benefits, and even fruit that comes from cultivating a living plant.2022-08-0257 min
How I See ItSovereignty/Free WillWhat's more polarizing than a good 'ole Calvinism/Arminianism standoff?! Today, Mark and Justin take on this vast subject that pits the seemingly opposing views of God's sovereignty versus man's free will. Is there room for both? Can we have our cake and eat it too? Maybe we don't answer all the questions, but we certainly share a bit more about how we see it.2022-07-121h 01How I See ItSovereignty/Free WillWhat's more polarizing than a good 'ole Calvinism/Arminianism standoff?! Today, Mark and Justin take on this vast subject that pits the seemingly opposing views of God's sovereignty versus man's free will. Is there room for both? Can we have our cake and eat it too? Maybe we don't answer all the questions, but we certainly share a bit more about how we see it.2022-07-121h 01
How I See ItJudge Jason DisbrowListen in as Mark and Justin cross-examine our newest guest, Senior Resident Superior Court Judge Jason Disbrow. Join us as we get a fascinating "How I See It" look behind the Judge's bench, hearing some of the nuances of making judgments, how the system works, and how "The Law" can be polarizing, depending on which side of it you may find yourself on.
And stay tuned as we continue next week in part 2, where we'll get a special glimpse into the heart of this particular Judge.2022-06-2842 minHow I See ItJudge Jason DisbrowListen in as Mark and Justin cross-examine our newest guest, Senior Resident Superior Court Judge Jason Disbrow. Join us as we get a fascinating "How I See It" look behind the Judge's bench, hearing some of the nuances of making judgments, how the system works, and how "The Law" can be polarizing, depending on which side of it you may find yourself on.
And stay tuned as we continue next week in part 2, where we'll get a special glimpse into the heart of this particular Judge.2022-06-2842 min
How I See ItRestRest and productivity are seemingly at odds to one another. Yet it’s impossible to remain truly productive without factoring rest in to the equation (or can we simply live on a steady diet of caffeine??). Is there value in rest without productivity being the goal? Join us and find out (how we see it). Better yet, drop us a comment on social media and let us know how YOU see it!
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How I See ItUser-friendlyWhat makes someone “user-friendly”? What does that have to do with software? We’re not sure either, but we tie them together anyway. Listen in as we discuss how attachment styles and love languages affect how we see it.2022-05-241h 00
How I See ItWhite Blank Page"The best-laid plans of mice and men often go awry." What do you do when you start to sense your week getting away from you? In this episode, we discuss a tool Mark uses to reset and recenter when the week becomes overwhelming or we fail to meet our expectations set out. He calls it the blank page exercise.2022-05-1741 minHow I See ItWhite Blank Page"The best-laid plans of mice and men often go awry." What do you do when you start to sense your week getting away from you? In this episode, we discuss a tool Mark uses to reset and recenter when the week becomes overwhelming or we fail to meet our expectations set out. He calls it the blank page exercise.2022-05-1741 min
How I See ItHumor/LevityListen to Mark sarcastically explain the value of sarcasm in humor. No, he would NEEEEver do that. No really, he wouldn’t. Seriously, he’s not a sarcastic guy. But we do chat about humor & levity. When does it go too far? When could we benefit from a little more humor? Where do we get our dad/bad jokes? Find out in today’s episode!2022-03-2246 minHow I See ItHumor/LevityListen to Mark sarcastically explain the value of sarcasm in humor. No, he would NEEEEver do that. No really, he wouldn’t. Seriously, he’s not a sarcastic guy. But we do chat about humor & levity. When does it go too far? When could we benefit from a little more humor? Where do we get our dad/bad jokes? Find out in today’s episode!2022-03-2246 min
How I See ItHoly SpiritToday, Mark asks Justin, “What’s your take on the Holy Spirit?” – This is a genuine “How I See It” conversation about a very personal topic for both of us—our beliefs on the Holy Spirit’s role in our lives.2022-03-1543 minHow I See ItHoly SpiritToday, Mark asks Justin, “What’s your take on the Holy Spirit?” – This is a genuine “How I See It” conversation about a very personal topic for both of us—our beliefs on the Holy Spirit’s role in our lives.2022-03-1543 min
How I See ItChanging our mindsIn this episode, Justin and Mark discuss the value of changing our minds. Should we be open-minded? Will our brains fall out? Who should change their minds—boomers or millennials? Today we’ll work on solving all these mysteries in “How I See It” style.2022-03-0853 minHow I See ItChanging our mindsIn this episode, Justin and Mark discuss the value of changing our minds. Should we be open-minded? Will our brains fall out? Who should change their minds—boomers or millennials? Today we’ll work on solving all these mysteries in “How I See It” style.2022-03-0853 min
How I See ItIntegrityMark and Justin on “Markisms'' and today’s topic: Integrity. They share their perspectives on it, its value in their lives, the process to learn that value, and tips for developing it (hint, you can't purchase it by the 5 gallon bucket at the General Store...).2022-03-0149 minHow I See ItIntegrityMark and Justin on “Markisms'' and today’s topic: Integrity. They share their perspectives on it, its value in their lives, the process to learn that value, and tips for developing it (hint, you can't purchase it by the 5 gallon bucket at the General Store...).2022-03-0149 min
How I See ItIntro to “How I See It”A (sometimes awkward!) introduction to this podcast, and to Mark and Justin, your hosts. We meander through a few of the potential themes, and future guests. We explain our desire is to mine the nuggets of truth that exist on both sides (and often in the middle) of difficult polarizing topics, all while gaining new perspective. We look forward to the journey and the process with you!
This is ”How We See It”!2022-02-2443 minHow I See ItIntro to “How I See It”A (sometimes awkward!) introduction to this podcast, and to Mark and Justin, your hosts. We meander through a few of the potential themes, and future guests. We explain our desire is to mine the nuggets of truth that exist on both sides (and often in the middle) of difficult polarizing topics, all while gaining new perspective. We look forward to the journey and the process with you!
This is ”How We See It”!2022-02-2443 min