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The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast1. Our First Chat About Getting Everything You Both Want in MarriageIn this episode Mark and Matilde discuss their intense marriage breakdown or breakthrough conversation that led to this podcast coming to life.TakeawaysVulnerability is the key to crossing the bridge of intimacy.Intense conversations and deep inner work are transformative. Devotional dependency and surrender are essential for a fulfilling marriage.Reclaiming libido for life and radical hope are key to a successful and joyful married life.Chapters00:00 The Bridge of Intimacy10:26 Metaphor of the Bridge17:24 Intense Conversations and Vulnerability24:14 Deep Inner Work and Self-Mastery29:44 Letting Go of Resentment37:12 Deserving...
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The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastHow To Silence Your Inner Critic in 2026 and Create The Best Year of your Entire Married Life
SummaryIn this episode, Mark Usher discusses how to silence your inner critic and create a transformative year in your marriage for 2026. He emphasizes the importance of identifying cognitive distortions that hinder personal growth and relationship fulfilment. Mark introduces the concept of a 'North Star' vision, encouraging listeners to manifest their deepest desires and set meaningful goals for their marriage. He highlights the need for commitment, courage, and ongoing conversations with your partner to achieve a fulfilling and joyful married life.The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
2025-12-3146 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThe #1 Masculine Practice That Instantly Brings Calm, Clarity and a Sense of Control No Matter How Out of Control Things Seem
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll understand how to master your emotions in seconds, no matter what pressure you’re experiencing. 2. You’ll have a practice used by Olympians, military commanders, CEOs and other peak performing men, ready at hand for the most challenging leadership position on the planet. Being a husband.3. You’ll be able to direct every conversation to the runway of connection and trust by using this.Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coachin...
2025-12-0329 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThe 3-Step Uncommon and Seemingly Insane Presence Practice That Can Help You Snap Out of Hopelessness in Marriage and Plant Seeds of Connection and Hope for a Better Future
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. This mental strategy will build your warrior powers of masculine unstoppability. 2. You’ll know how to turn a low vibrational hopelessness into high vibrational hope that steers your marriage in the right direction. 3. You’ll set an optimistic foundation of connection for landing whatever truth you want to communicate to your Queen. Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the bran...
2025-12-0134 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast6 Super-Fast Ways To Instantly Snap Out of Grumpy Husband Mode and Put on your Superman Cape Instead!
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll have a list of simple list of low to high energy mood boosters to help you feel way better in married life situations.2. You’ll master the message your body is transmitting thus radically uplevel the quality of the response you evoke from your wife and kids.3. You’ll stop investing your life energy into becoming a grumpy old git before your time and actually start enjoying life.Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of...
2025-11-2834 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastHow To Set a Simple 3-Step Holiday Season Family Plan That Eliminates Stress While Creating Flowing Ease Your Wife Will Love You For
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You and your wife will get to the end of the holidays feeling fulfilled and connected.2. You will be the masculine leader who set up a powerful action plan that makes everyone happy. 3. You’ll drastically reduce unnecessary holiday conflict due to habitual unowned overwhelm. Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Commun...
2025-11-2628 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThe Most Important Holiday Season Masculine Mindset to Absolutely Nail Heroic Husband Status This Year
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll discover a Navy SEAL mindset to obliterate regular husband small-minded holiday season complaining 2. Your Queen will be able to surrender into your all in leadership. 3. You’ll grow in pride over the holiday season with how powerful you show upWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Communit...
2025-11-2420 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastHow To Slay Your Destructive Dragons of Self Doubt That So Desperately Want To Convince You Divorce is a Good Option
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsDo the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:Home - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark...
2025-11-1940 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastMarriage Transformation Special Series with Ida and Jake BrafordIn this special episode, you'll enjoy a deep and revealing conversation on the rapid and radical marriage transformation of Ida and Jake Braford. Some of the many elements of their transformational journey discussed are:
Ida sharing her experiences of struggling with Jake's defensive behaviour
Jake explaining his decision to seek coaching after recognizing his harmful patterns.
Jake's learning path to better receive feedback and improve his emotional attunement
Leading intentional conversations together helping address the impact of patriarchal systems in their relationship.
Exploring the transformative power of emotional awareness and ex...
2025-11-141h 23The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastHow To End Your Marriage Killing Habit of Being Stuck In your Head And Snap Into Full Trust Building Presence In Seconds When It Counts The Most
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll know the most powerful moment of your day to become present for full impact2. You’ll be able to eliminate tons of unnecessary conflict creating moments by this one practice.3. You’ll simply enjoy the time you spend with your family more!Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
2025-11-1226 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast4 Simple Steps To Break The Good Boy Bad Boy Pattern That Disappoints and Depresses Your Wife While Destroying Her Trust in your Leadership
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. Become awareness of the one most destructive pattern husbands show up in marriage with.2. Know how to recognise the danger signs that lead up to an inevitable rupture.3. Discover the one way your wife can help you in breaking this pattern.Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Plat...
2025-11-1039 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast1 Quote from Bob Marley That Describes The Heart Essence of Conscious Masculine-Feminine Relating in Ways Rational Minded Husbands Can Understand
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll experience an intense re-energisation of your motivation in marriage. 2. You’ll find this wisdom will help you break the Good Boy: Bad Boy pattern that kills marriage trust and connection. 3. You’ll reframe your wife’s emotional intensity in a way that allows you get turned on by it. Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW He...
2025-11-0726 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastMy Simple 3-Part Romantic Email Formula That Inspired My Wife To Say It Was The Best Email She Ever Got!
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll have a winning formula to create a super high impact romantic email your wife will love. 2. You’ll eliminate the risk of rejection and guesswork knowing you are using a tried and tested formula.3. You’ll have a simple 3-part formula you can use 100s of times in future to create magical spontaneous connection with not a ton of effort at all!!!Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic...
2025-11-0517 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastOne Simple Practice To Receive All The Recognition You Want and Deserve To Receive From Your Wife
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll know why specific recognition is infinitely more important for husband vs general recognition. 2. You’ll know a simple weekly practice to receive all the recognition you could ever want from your wife.3. You’ll have a counter-balancing grounding force to help you embrace your Queen’s fieriest feedback.Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic H...
2025-11-0328 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastWinning Against The 3 Dark Unspoken Forces That Drive and Deepen Marital Conflict – Part 3 Respect and Recognition
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll know how to spot and self-regulate one of the most triggering wounds husbands have.2. You’ll discover the definition of respect and more accurately know if respect is present in your marriage 3. You’ll get a timely reminder of Inspire Don’t Require being the strongest masculine leadership approach in evoking respect in marriageWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming...
2025-10-3122 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastWinning Against The 3 Dark Unspoken Forces That Drive and Deepen Marital Conflict Special Series – Part 2 Closeness and Connection
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll be able to recognise when conflict is more to do with Closeness and Connection and little or nothing to do with what’s being said 2. You’ll learn distinct differences between masculine and feminine relating on closeness and connection that are key to building trust and attraction3. You’ll be armed with three simple questions to home in with laser precision to the core of the issue.Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your re...
2025-10-2926 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastWinning Against The 3 Dark Unspoken Forces That Drive and Deepen Marital Conflict Special Series – Part 1 Power & Priorities
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll understand why conflicts will always exist until you understand what you’re really fighting about. 2. You’ll be armed with three simple questions to recognise if Power & Priorities are the real issue. 3. You’ll the single universal subconscious reason what we’re really fighting to revealWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Trainin...
2025-10-2424 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast5 Ways To Unlock The Mystical Ancient Greek Power of Kairos Time To Help You Transform Your Marriage Quicker No matter How Little Time You Feel You Have
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll know simple ways of breaking free from SSDD scheduled time and entering into spontaneous play with your Queen leaving both of you giggling like teenagers again. 2. You’ll understand how getting locked in chronos time is one of the most poisonous things for killing your marriage aliveness. 3. You’ll be able to create a relaxed and happy feeling at home by being able to conscious master the balance between using the two types of universal time.Want the Quickest...
2025-10-171h 06The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThe 4 Unsexy, Boring Yet Excitingly Transformative Leadership Ideas Struggling Husbands Refuse to Use and Thus Remain Stuck in their Marriage Rut
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll learn a practical time trick that ultra-high performing men use and will have you quit complaining about not having time ever again. 2. You’ll learn what is possibly the simplest and most ignored peak performance hack that 99% of husbands never use and struggle as a result.3. You know how boring leaders do boringly repetitive actions that bring excitingly brilliant results…that when you tap into will transform your marriage results.Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage...
2025-10-1057 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThe 4 Mental Patterns Husbands Use in Marriage to Energise Themselves…. But Only One Leads To Happily Ever After
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll recognise the signs your thinking has shifted to one of the three connection eroding mental patterns. 2. You’ll have clear access to the ultimate mental pattern that will create connection, trust and attraction on repeat for years to come. 3. This new awareness will empower you to go from conflict to clarity in seconds no matter how intense the storm of married life becomes.Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coachi...
2025-10-031h 00The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastHow To Avoid The 4 Major Potholes Where Husbands Blindly Destroy The Progress They’ve Made in Marriage
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1.You’ll know how to recognise these potholes and avoid destroying the progress you’ve created 2.You’ll learn the one mindset trick that golfing legend Jack Niclaus used that set him apart from all other competitors that you can use to enter legendary husband status 3.You make a massive step in overcoming your only enemy in marriage: your righteous high. Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsD...
2025-09-2659 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThis Is Probably the #1 Most Effective Marriage Transforming Strategy You’ll Ever Hear About
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll learn the one major strategic difference between great masculine leaders in any arena and the pretenders who never reach their leadership potential.2. You understand why if you want to ever feel freedom and fulfilment in marriage you simply CAN’T ignore this strategy.3. You’ll learn how to access arguably the most powerful marriage transforming tool I’ve ever created for FREEWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic H...
2025-09-1949 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast10 Simple Ideas To Create Rapid and Radical Progress in your Marriage No Matter How Bad Things Seem Today
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll have a super simple yet comprehensive playbook to start winning in marriage today.2. You’ll learn the highest leverage ideas all my private clients use to create massive transformation in a week.3. You’ll feel a rocket boost of hope knowing that you have the power to change your marriage for the better.Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcomi...
2025-09-1254 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThe 5 Oppressive Married Life Pains Husbands Are Silently Suffering And Need Relief From That Wives Rarely Understand
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll feel validated and less alone that your inner world emotional pains are pretty much universal amongst husbands.2.You’ll be able to put words to the background lack of fulfilment you experience and find a powerful solution for it.3.You’ll understand you are never locked in Same-Shit-Different-Day permanently and that you have the omni-present power to change your situation for the better.Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching...
2025-09-051h 01The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastHow To Use 2 Simple FBI Hostage-negotiator Strategic Empathy Techniques to Bring Your Wife from Irrational Rupture Hell to Grounded Rational Repair You Can Understand and Connect With
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll understand the distinction between masculine and feminine integrity practices helping you take nothing personal ever again. 2. You’ll know how to embrace any emotional intensity your Queen throws your way and exactly what to say to help ground her. 3. You’ll know a strategic trick to use everything your wife says, no matter how hurtful, as a support to bringing you both back into rapid connection and repairWill you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Poin...
2025-08-2949 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast1 Question To Help Unlock Your Wife’s Kindest and Most Encouraging Feedback and Help You Create Meaningful Progress She’ll Love and Appreciate You For.
The three specific benefits you'll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1.You'll know the highest leveraged question a husband can ask his wife in marriage. 2.You'll know the best timing to ask this question to get the maximum brownie points from asking it. 3.You'll know the exact follow up that is required to maximise the trust you build by asking the question. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the...
2025-08-2235 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThe #1 Most Sexually Attractive Thing A Husband Can Say That’s Guaranteed To Relight The Marital Sexual Flame Today and For Years to ComeIn this episode you'll discover the #1 Most Sexually Attractive Thing A Husband Can Say That’s Guaranteed To Relight The Marital Sexual Flame Today and For Years to Come The 3 Benefits you will gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1- You’ll learn the one thing all female authors of romantic novels make sure their male protagonist says and thinks about sexually relating with his partner. 2 - You’ll know the one approach to long-term sexual relating in marriage that’s essential to become the 1% of couples who have red hot sex no mat...
2025-08-0837 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast"Marriage Transformation Heroes Special Series" with Alan and KarolineIn this special episode, you will get to witness the precise strategies and mindset that Alan has used in his marriage transformation journey with his beautiful wife Karoline. The benefits you will experience by listening to the end of this episode are: - Learn Alan’s detailed inner process going from shutdown and conflict to repair and reconnection - You will understand from Karoline’s amazing articulation a wife’s feminine emotional challenge in dealing with a well-intentioned but emotionally ineffective husband. - You will learn simple and small consistent changes that help husbands evoke deep t...
2025-08-071h 31The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastHow To Stop Being A Weak Feminine Pleasing Mr Nice Guy and Set Safe and Strong Boundaries Your Wife Respects
In this episode, you'll discover How To Stop Being a Weak Feminine Pleasing Mr Nice Guy And Set Safe Yet Strong Boundaries Your Wife RespectsThe 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. Understand the two ways husbands avoid setting boundaries that erode trust, connection and attraction. 2. Learn how to set boundaries with your wife that allow mutual connection and understanding to flourish. 3. You’ll understand that anger is a healthy and essential emotion to express, and how to express it safely.Will you do The Heroi...
2025-08-0144 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast5 Easy Steps To Embodying A Trustworthy Secure Attachment Style No Matter What Dysfunctional Attachment Style Has Eroded Trust Until NowIn this episode, you'll discover the one practice you need to know to start embodying a secure attachment style, no matter what dysfunctional attachment style you have had until now. The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: - You’ll know exactly what response to take at the first signs of conflict….husbands that struggle don’t know this simple practice. - You’ll have a precise checklist to use helping you remain calm and grounded in any emotional upset. - You’ll have a repeatable process designed to in...
2025-07-1849 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThe 3 Levels of Masculine Maturity Wives Meet in their Husbands When Trying to Land Their Feminine Feedback…2 They Hate, 1 They LOVE!!!Embracing your wife’s feedback is possibly the single highest leverage way to winning at the game of marriage as a husband. Almost nothing surpasses the feeling of trust and connection within a wife when her husband appreciates and honours her feedback as the gift it is. Yet there’s also almost nothing that triggers a man’s subconscious wounding more than trying to receive his wife’s feedback! Thus very few men have any idea how to receive feminine feedback skilfully. This episode will teach you how to receive your wife’s feedback...
2025-07-031h 04The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThe #1 Hack British Olympic Gold Rowing Legends Can Teach Us About How To Be Ultra Decisive Husbands All Day Every DayIn the run up to the summer Olympics In Sydney 2000, the British rowing team had failed to win gold for over 88 YEARS! Like most husbands, they had a long history of their good intentions never being good enough. Determined to finally change the story, they based their entire training preparations on one simple clarifying question. This one simple tool allowed them to decide what was going to lead them to Gold….and more importantly, what was not.The type of decision-making clarity is absent in every struggling husband on the planet. T...
2025-06-2737 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastMarriage Transformation Heroes Special Series with Tara and Duane KennedyWe welcome in Tara and Duane Kennedy to tell their heart-warming story of marriage transformation. From the depths of pain and hopelessness that things could ever improve, Tara and Duane let us know the insights and strategies driving their stunning turnaround.Tara gifts us many profound insights into the challenges a wife experiences when relating with a well-intentioned but emotionally unsafe husband.Duane explains how he used the Heroic Husbands mantra "Inspire Don't Require" to create a safe space where his Queen feels seen, heard and safe as the new norm.If...
2025-06-261h 13The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast10 Ways Stoicism Will Help You Kill Victimhood and Master Your Mind and MarriageThe quality of your marriage matches the quality of your thoughts. Learning to upgrade the quality of your thoughts is your path to the most epic marriage you ever believed possible. Stoic philosophy might be the most powerful vehicle to take you there. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss...
2025-06-2056 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThe 3 Attachment Needs to Instantly Ease Tension in Marital and Parenting Conflicts With Zero Need to Say Anything CleverMost of us husbands have a trigger happy impulse to try and fix conflicts at home with rational solutions.....that rarely work!!!!In this episode you will meet the three human attachment needs and how to use them at home that will change how you look at conflict forever.In conflict, effective communicators are not trying to change the mental state of others. Instead, their focus is on changing their emotional state via meeting their attachment needs.When this happens, emotional reactivity is gone and full intelligence comes back online...aka: end...
2025-06-1322 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast10 Ideas To Break Up Mundane Marital Boredom By Unleashing Your Freedom-Loving WILD ManUnspoken boredom and helplessness while feeling stuck in the Same-Sh1t-Different-Day reality of married life is killing marriages around the world. The answer: One badass husband unleashing his WILD man energy to shake the marriage to it’s foundations and rebuild a marriage of excitement, fun and inspiration. This episode is for you if you’re ready to live the infinite game of married life!!!!! Your Queen has been patiently waiting for you to wake this up inside of you…. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point...
2025-06-0659 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastWhy Not Giving A Sh!t About Your Wife’s Happiness Actually Inspires Her To Love and Trust You More Than Ever BeforeWe’ve been conditioned in this profoundly sick society to deny ourselves our own needs as men and over-prioritise meeting the needs of the women in our lives. This pattern started in childhood as we related with our mothers. As it seemed to work in childhood with our mothers, we subconsciously bring the exact same pattern into marriage….to devastating and very often marriage-ending effects. This episode offers you a radically new option. What if stopping giving such a sh!t about your wife’s happiness was the key secret to becoming the type of hus...
2025-05-3056 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThese 3 Simple Yet RARELY SPOKEN Words Form The Single Most Impactful Phrase a Husband Can Speak To His Wife…(it’s NOT What You Are Thinking)There are three words in the English language that hold enormous power to help you transform your marriage with your wife. Coincidently they are also universally the least spoken words by husbands in marriage. The more disconnected your marriage situation, the more powerful these words are. They are not the words, “I love you”. These three words are infinitely more impactful. When spoken sincerely by a husband to his wife, everything starts changing for the better in marriage. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Asse...
2025-05-1635 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastEnd Suffocating Self-Doubt In Marriage By Activating These 6 Dormant Superpowers Every Husband Has But Rarely UsesEver experience self-doubt in marriage? Being a husband and father is the most challenging leadership position on the planet….Of course you experience self-doubt! Fact: Every husband on the planet experiences self-doubt at times. However, most husbands lock their self-doubt away and try to just get on with life pretending it’s not there. This doesn’t work. Ever. The rare few who learn how to transcend self-doubt and create a married life built on infinite freedom and fulfilment (Yes, this IS possible for you too!) have all reactivated these 6 natural superpowers….that you...
2025-05-0856 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastHow To Confidently Inspire Your Wife To Stop Flirting With Other MenNearly every husband has been there. Seeing your wife feeling radically alive, eyes lit up, loving life, laughing and letting loose…but in the presence of another man. All her behaviours fall into the category we call flirting. But what is the most powerful way to intervene in this awkward, disconnecting situation? This episode gifts you the code to obliterating the competition in any social event you attend, leaving your wife’s eyes and energy being locked in on you, her conscious King. Get ready to set the ultimate energetic boundary, Heroic Husb...
2025-05-0258 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast4 Simple 1-5min Daily Habits to Evoke Your Wife’s Primal Love and Trust ResponsesMost husbands listening in will try new suggested strategies of conscious relating when with their Queens. This is brilliant and has a massive power in it. Yet, sometimes the new attempts don’t have nearly the positive effect you’d love! Enter the untapped world of high-leverage daily training habits for priming your nervous system. This episode gifts you 4 simple daily habits (1-10mins max) to give you the most juicy and powerful message to transmit through your body geared towards evoking the most spectacularly positive response in your Queen. Interested? Of course...
2025-04-1847 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastA Dalai Lama Mind Hack To Magically Generate Rapid Clarity and Calm in any Marital ConflictMost husbands will admit that, albeit they love their wife, they find marriage the ultimate challenge to their sense of inner peace. The often joked “Can’t live with her, can’t live without her”, points to this seemingly universal crux in married life for men. Yet, one simple mind hack allows husbands go from massive psychological resistance to re-entering flow with their wives in no time at all. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWan...
2025-03-2137 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThe Secret To Stop Your Wife from Always Arguing Against Your Rational Perspective
The eternal conundrum for husbands: You listen to her speaking about an upsetting issue, you find a problem-solving fix you know will end her suffering…….and she never wants to listen to what you’ve got to say!!!! And she even has the audacity to claim you weren’t listening!!! This episode will let you know the secret in how to prepare your Queen for receiving your beautiful gift of masculine, black and white rationality. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised...
2025-03-1443 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast4 Steps How to Skilfully Eliminate Your Wife’s Unfair Criticism of You Forever MoreEvery husband on the planet has a part of him that yearns for freedom from the constraints of his wife’s criticism. Right? If she’d just wake up and see the amazing amount of cool shit you do and the ocean of loving good intentions you have, she’d go easier on you….or so that sneaky part of our mind tells us. But the complaints, criticism and river of unfair feedback keeps on flowing towards you. The good news is that there is a precise system of practice that will end this river of...
2025-03-071h 37The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast8 Steps To Rebuilding Your Queen’s Trust After The Devastation of your InfidelityA husband’s infidelity can be a devastating blow for his Queen. Years of distrust, suspicion and rage mixed with grief can follow, leading many men to give up trying to save their marriage. This hopelessness is not needed. These 8 powerful steps will support you making your infidelity become the stage for the greatest inner and outer transformation you ever dreamed possible. Let’s begin….. Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to Heroic Husbands Movement: Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Get your F...
2025-02-2752 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThis One Simple Game Might Be The Most Powerful Marriage Transformation Tool EverAs men we practice low tolerance of our own BS grumpy moods with our customers, boss, neighbours, friends etc. They get our highest standard communication. Then we go home and practice super high tolerance of our BS grumpy moods with our Queen and children. Our nearest and dearest get our lowest standard of communication. Low tolerance = high standards. High tolerance = low standards. The rules of this super simple game sets the scene for only your highest standards of communication and emotional state to come to the table. It's a super fun and...
2025-02-201h 01The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast4 Attachment Theory Insights On How To Set Up Your Nervous System for Infinite Expansion in Marriage and LifeAttachment theory rocks. It pin points exactly where we have pulled up the nervous system handbrake preventing love from ever flowing in our lives. Only when you know where the handbrake is pulled up, can you then have the power to put it back down and start allowing the juice of love flow between yourself and your Queen again. Ready to put the damn heart handbrake down, once and forever? Let’s begin….. Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to Heroic Husbands Movement: Find out more about applying to join Heroic...
2025-02-131h 10The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThe Art Of Shifting From Your Rational Minded Head Farts to Latin Lover Heart Art Your Queen Will Melt ForMost husbands unwittingly Head Fart. Head Farting is insisting on thinking, talking and taking action in the same way you always have and expecting your married life to suddenly transform. It doesn't. Marriage Transformation Heroes create Heart Art. Heart Art is accessing an inexhaustible force within capable of creating loving connection no matter what the perceived obstacle in your world. If you want your marriage to transform, you better get clear on how to shift to creating Heart Art!!!! Let’s begin….. Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake t...
2025-02-061h 13The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastGo From Daily Unspoken Deadening Desperation To Jump-Out-Of-Bed Clarity with this 1 Family Leadership DefinitionMost husbands face a daily family grind trying to rally the troops, wife and kids, in a futile attempt to get a cohesive and harmonious unit working together. Good intentions fail. Often. Peeing against a gale force wind comes to mind in most cases, hence our daily evening need to sedate our minds with whatever substance or activity is at hand. Defining what family leadership is, is the foundation stone of clarity our brains need to step out of this daily torment onto a path of easeful and predictable progress. Let’s begi...
2025-01-301h 07The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastHow Building The 1 Simple Skill of Receptivity Will Transform Your MarriageResearch shows that newlywed couples who divorce six years later, respond to their partners bids for attention only 33% of the time. Successful couples respond 87% of the time. Responding to your Queen’s attempts to get your attention might be the single greatest skillset to develop today. This skill is called receptivity. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your re...
2025-01-2338 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThe Simple Mindset Shift To Go From Fear & Fury to Calm & Compassion During Her Worst Outbursts at YouUncontrollable marital arguments over time destroy the trust that bind marriages together.It's especially hard when your Queen is firing vitriolic words your way that you feel are unfair and inaccurate, but nothing you say makes her stop.This mindset shift will help you instantaneously become her Mountain in the Storm, helping her nervous system return to a place of calm safety and grounded rationality.To connect with the Heroic Husbands Movement: Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to B...
2025-01-0952 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThe 1 Sneaky Reason Why Your Current Best Efforts Aren't Yet Working In MarriageMany husbands, despite their best current efforts, aren’t getting anything near the return they’d love to see and feel from their wives. There is one major blind spot that will sabotage all of your best efforts and render your Queen incapable of truly seeing how hard you’re trying. This episode is essential listening for any husband who wants to get the return on investment he believes his efforts deserve. Let’s begin…..Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min...
2024-12-1237 min
Daughters of Narcissistic MothersGoing deeper on the topic of Narcissistic Mothers-in-law & Mother/Son Relationship Dynamics with Mark UsherIn this Special Episode with Mark Usher - Relationship Coach for husbands and host of "Be the husband she brags about" Podcast - we go deeper into the topic of narcissistic mothers-in-law, exploring the dynamics of mother/son relationship.
The purpose of this episode is to offer clarity and a safe healing space for both husbands and wives involved in this complex triangle, made even more intense when narcissistic traits in the mother-in-law are involved.
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2024-08-081h 21The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastHow To Overcome Your Sexual Shame and Get What You Want in the BedroomSexual shame in men is the most underestimated negative influence that kills intimacy in marriage long-term. Here Mark coaches Duane through his issue with sexual shame and getting what he wants in deep intimacy with his Queen. A short episode packed with immensely powerful insights and strategies to set your sexual dance on fire! Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of y...
2024-06-0519 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThe 4 Deadly Sins In Marriage…and How To Avoid ThemThese 4 relationship sins haunt the background of all struggling marriages. No shame needed. The ancient root of the word “sin” simply means “to miss the mark”. This episode helps you see where you are missing the mark and how to re-aim so you hit the marriage bullseye! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic Husban...
2024-04-1745 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast"The Hero's Journey Beyond Absent Fathers And Sexual Abuse" with Andrew BriggsAndrew Briggs came on to speak about his expertise in health and fitness. What then happened was one of the most inspiring conversations Mark has experienced since beginning the podcast. Andrew tells his captivating story of heroically overcoming the childhood experiences of not having his father present, having his face savagely mauled by a neighbours dog and experiencing repeated sexual abuse. This is a masterclass in embodying masculine resilience as you smile in the face of hell on your way to becoming the King you were born to be. If you ever n...
2024-03-141h 21The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast8 Questions From Ancient Mystical Mavericks To Make You UnstoppableWhat if you had immediate access to your own super power by listening to wisdom from some of the world’s greatest ever mystical mavericks? Would you click play? OF COURSE YOU WOULD!!! So click play and let’s begin…. To connect with Mark: Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcom...
2024-03-0635 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast"How To Help Your Son Become a Man - PART 2" with Don RossAfter a sensational first guest appearance, the men within Heroic Husbands men’s circles demanded Mark would get Don back on for a Part 2! So here we are. Don goes deep into how to create a season of initiation for your son, systematically preparing him for entering manhood with confidence. If you want to know how to set your son up to know he has what it takes to be, do or have whatever he wants in life, this is a bloody good place to start! Let’s begin…..Will you do The He...
2024-02-1554 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastMy Most Powerful Daily Habit For Creating Uncommonly Deep ConnectionThis episode highlights the most potent daily connection habit a conscious King can bring to his relationship. Mark eats some humble pie as he discusses the negative marital impact of unwittingly dropping this one habit for during a recent period of outward life expansion. This episode is to remind you guys, and Mark himself, of the unmissable impact of this ridiculously simple connection habit. Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easies...
2024-01-2528 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastMarriage Transformation Hero Special Series with Dean HoagWe welcome in Dean Hoag, one of the many Marriage Transforming Heroes within Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles. Just two months doing this work, Dean tells his story going from habitually unconscious and hurtful ways of relating to rapidly being more able to make his Queen feel seen, heard and progressively safer in deep intimate relationship with him. If you’re looking for an exemplar of how to own your shit and turn the ship of your marriage around for the better, this episode is for you. Let’s begin…. To connect with Mar...
2024-01-181h 22Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers5 Keys To Get Your Partner Understand You With Mark UsherDo you find it hard to communicate with your husband/partner about the challenges you are experiencing because of maternal narcissism?Do you feel like you are the only "broken one" in the relationship? The only one with trauma to deal with?Does your husband/partner dismiss your pain or tries to fix you??In this episode, our special guest Mark Usher, Relationship Coach for husbands, host of "Be the husband she brags about" Podcast and my husband, offers us 5 keys to improve communication and bring a new level of understanding within your relationship. In...
2023-12-141h 38The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast"Decoding The Fantasy Of What Women Want" with Matilde CrociniJoin Mark and his Queen on a unique journey to decoding what women most want in their life partners by recognising the secret signs that lie in all successful romantic fantasy books written for female audiences. The male characters in the love relationships in these books embody with total clarity how the ideal masculine partner shows up in intimate relating. This provocatively challenging episode is only appropriate for husbands with the spiritual balls to get humble, and prepare the ground of their being to raise their inner world and relationship standards like never before. ...
2023-12-081h 51The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast"Conflict Resolution Made Simple For Rational Minded Men" with James "Fish" GillWe welcome in the uniquely brilliant genius of Fish Gill and his beautifully simple recipe for creating connection out of any relational conflict. The greatest pain of every husband is feeling hopeless in transmitting their ocean of love for their beautiful Queen through their language and bodies in ways that she can feel and receive it. Fish illuminates a simple pathway and repeatable process to end conflict and plant incessant seeds of connection and love that actually land supporting both hearts to thrive. This ended up personally being one of Mark’s most emotional interviews ye...
2023-11-231h 39The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastWhy Every Husband Needs To Experience A Mid-Life CrisisThe male mid-life crisis caricature is a man who drop kicks his wife and family life, buys a sports car, begins living in his local CrossFit gym trying to hang out with cool people and finds the nearest twenty-year-old girl with father issues who wants to f!ck while feeling safely held. In this episode Mark argues the case that society would be infinitely better off if every husband experiences a mid-life awakening. No need for crisis, but total need for a widespread transformational awakening of husbands authentic masculine souls to create married lives that honour...
2023-11-081h 29The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast3 Secrets To Unfu!king Your MarriageUsing inspiration from John Gottman, the badass revolutionary of marriage therapy research, Mark digs deep into three essential pillars to unfu!king whatever struggles you are experiencing in your marriage. The sharing went profound and deep into challenging you to reach deeper into your power than ever before as a husband and man. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic Husbands
2023-10-181h 11The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast"Soul-Centered Leadership In Marriage And Career" with David PeraltaWe welcome in David Peralta to tell his inspiring story of saving his severely struggling marriage by reconnecting with his soul-centered purpose in life. This is a true heart warrior’s perspective of what it takes to battle through destructive inner demons by learning to face and embrace them head on.An inspiring story of what is possible for us as husbands and fathers if we have the courage to find the solution to all our external world problems by looking within. Let’s begin…. To connect with David: Website: The Soul Cen...
2023-10-121h 18The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast3 Steps To Stopping Resentment Kill Your MarriageResentment is the ultimate corrosive acid in love, which if ignored, relentlessly gnaws away at the foundations of your marriage. This episode will help you recognise signs of resentment and most importantly, provide a systematic conversational platform to reveal and heal this deadly enemy of loving connection. Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t...
2023-10-1157 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast"Stop Parenting And Start Leading" with Thomas PfannerWe welcome in the inspiring Thomas Pfanner and his heroic story of learning leadership in parenting under extreme circumstances. Having to seek legal aid to just hold his son in his arms two weeks after his birth to learning to deal with years of persistent resistance and kickback to his leadership as a father, Thomas would face an uphill battle to overcome all the odds and successfully be a great father. It’s a story every family man needs to hear. Let’s begin…. To connect with Thomas: Website: Dads Who Lead
2023-10-051h 14The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast3 Ways To Stop Screwing Up Communication In MarriageWhat kills marriages is poor communication. 99.99% of poor communication involves three classic steps that create nothing but disconnection and mistrust. Conscious communication involves doing these three steps in exactly the opposite order! This episode gives you the complete Heroic Husbands conscious communication approach that husbands inside Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles are using to totally transform their marriages. If you are serious about transforming your marriage, this is one episode you cannot miss! Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Person...
2023-10-041h 22The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThis One Mindset Change Guarantees You Will Win In MarriageA positive mentality is essential to creating success in any arena. In the Octagon of marriage, mentality is crucial. Most husbands mentality in marriage unwittingly sets them up for inevitable and severe loss of love and connection. In this episode Mark reveals the single most effective mentality with which to approach your marriage…..but only if you truly want to become the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship!!! Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW
2023-09-2831 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThe One Essential Move To Win Her Heart Back ForeverIgnore what’s presented in this episode and your marriage is doomed to long-term struggle or ultimate failure. Integrate this episode’s wisdom and she’s guaranteed to open her heart forever more with you. Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and...
2023-09-271h 10The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast"How Your Phone Is Wrecking Your Relationships" with Joey OdomGet ready to enjoy a truly passionate conversation with the legendary Joey Odom from Aro on today’s episode. Joey tells his heart-breaking stories of missed family memories because of getting stuck scrolling through meaningless stuff on his social media feed. Sound familiar? This is a much-needed no-BS conversation between family men on what is truly at stake if we don’t wake up to the damage of uncontrolled phone usage on our family and marital dynamics. Joey gifts us the #1 highest leverage and simple to implement strategy to transform your marriage starting from today. It’s simp...
2023-09-211h 13The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast10 Hacks To Unlock Your Sexual Peak Performance TonightPart of a 2-part special series, this episode introduces you to ten epic techniques and strategies to get you out of your head and deeply into your animal body ready for wild sex with your Queen. Most men struggle to switch their heads off during sex resulting in women being the first to lose interest in sex in long-term relationships most of the time. Stuck in your head, the sex for her is dead! Armed with these super-simple ideas you are set up for the best sex yet to happen the next time you and your Qu...
2023-09-201h 02The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast1 Bedtime Secret To Never Go Soft Or Explode Too Soon!Tons of men around the planet often have the sexual experience of either being frustratingly too soft or prematurely ejaculating too soon. Unnecessary sexual shame with our inner critic beating the shit out of ourselves ensues, with us forming a love/hate relationship with having sex with our Queens. This episode shares one simple breathwork awareness and practice that will support you mastering your sexual performance when it counts the most. Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min...
2023-09-1431 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast8 Reasons You Should Never Do Marriage TherapyMark reveals his eight personal reasons why marriage therapy is the last thing he would ever advise a man or couple to start doing in the hopes to save their marriage. Blunt, no-BS straight talking on what could be one of the most important potential decisions of your adult life.Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Up...
2023-09-131h 05The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast"Loving Your Queen Who's Been Sexually Abused" with Matilde CrociniThe #MeToo movement awakened global awareness of the extraordinary number of women who have experienced sexual abuse.Yet very little is spoken of the immense struggle this widespread wounding creates in the private lives of married couples around the planet. Husbands doing their best to love but feeling like their best is never enough, while their Queens often never feel seen, heard or safe in the relationship living with the secret cross of shame and alienation. In this special episode, Mark and his Queen Matilde, pull back the curtains on their journey of healing al...
2023-09-081h 41The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastMasculine Archetypes: The 4 Secret Superpowers of Heroic HusbandsFour untapped super powers lay dormant within you. Lying dormant, marriage will always be an unending struggle.Reactivated, these four super powers will have you rise to becoming the marriage transforming hero of your relationship.These are your 4 Masculine Archetypes: King, Warrior, Magician, Lover.Do you have the spiritual curiosity to activate them and reveal your greatest expressed power as the Heroic Husband you were born to be?(I know your Queen would be passionately curious to see what this man would look and feel like!!!!)Let's begin..... Will you do...
2023-09-061h 16The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastConscious Parenting From Six Years in San Quentin Prison with Wayne BoatwrightEnjoy this riveting conversation with Wayne Boatwright detailing his profound journey of rehabilitation and healing before, during and after his six-year sentence in the notoriously brutal San Quentin prison. From the depths of his hellish situation, Wayne tells his heroic tale of finding extraordinary ways to show up and father his children despite the obvious obstacle of being stuck in prison. This is epic healing medicine for the masculine soul. Let’s begin…. To connect with Wayne: About Me — Wayne A. Boatwright. To create in any form takes courage, I… | by Wayne Boatwright...
2023-09-011h 38The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastMarriage Hell To Masculine Heaven Through Mind MasteryThe outer hell of a failing marriage invites us men to attain our freedom looking elsewhere. Some men will look outwardly gazing at all the potential freedom they could enjoy if they just got to fu!k away from their wives; some acting on this impulse, others leaving it in the unspoken fantasy realms. Others look inside into the true source of all their suffering: their mind. Great masculine spiritual practice in marriage involves looking inside to rediscover your greatest freedom and then sharing this embodied freedom as devotional love with your Queen. Mark d...
2023-08-3154 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastMy Purpose-Driven Career Change in Full Family Life with Michael HegartyIn this episode we welcome in Michael Hegarty. After a successful 20-year banking career, Michael went from career and income ending uncertainty, to find his purpose building his bespoke leadership coaching business around his unique gift to ‘see the greatness in others.’ The challenge of pursuing this massive career change was met whilst leading his family including four kids of school-going age. Enjoy a beautifully open and vulnerable conversation where Michael invites us into his masculine spiritual journey to embodying radical liberated authenticity, while using his family life as an inspiration not a limitation. To co...
2023-08-241h 27The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThe One Thing That Saved My Marriage Last WeekendIn this episode Mark shares on how a super intense conversation with his Queen would have classically ended in a marriage-ending style face-off if not for the practice of one key strategy: segment intending. This episode let’s you in on how to use this marriage transforming strategy to rejuvenate even the most subdued connection into an inferno of felt love and connection together. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Ma...
2023-08-2351 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastBecoming A Confident and Trusted Husband with Four ArrowsWe welcome back in the amazing Four Arrows, guest speaker at the United Nations General Assembly 2023, to gift us sacred elder wisdom on how to show up more confidently as a man in marriage and life. Deep wisdom on harnessing the power of your mind to reach levels of performance and courage you never thought were accessible for you before. His ending story detailing his experience undergoing an appendicectomy surgery without medicinal anaesthesia is worth the entry ticket alone! Let’s begin….. To connect with Four Arrows: Four Arrows Wild Horse Hypnotist - YouTube...
2023-08-171h 15The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast3 Steps To Deep Intimacy Any Dude Can NailOne of the greatest struggles in marriage for nearly every husband on the planet is trying to figure out how to create deep intimacy. This is especially true when, the further into marriage you go, the more disconnection and stagnation there is in most marriage experiences. So how is the well-intentioned regular guy in marriage meant to suddenly figure this challenge of creating deep intimacy in the moment? Here’s how, of course! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW
2023-08-1647 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThe 7 Deadly Sins of Narcissistic Mother-In-LawsSpecial return guest, Matilde Crocini (my beautiful Queen!), rocks the socks off us all in her in-depth surgical analysis of narcissistic mother-in-laws. Unchecked, narcissistic mother-in-laws can create havoc and destruction in your marriage.Enjoy Mark and Matilde's ring-side-seat experiences of overcoming the destructive narcissistic traits and behaviours demonstrated in Matilde's mother.Get ready to enter an uncensored revelatory ride of awakening awareness on this essential topic!!! To connect with Matilde:Women Reclaiming Their Fullness – Women reclaiming Their FullnessDaughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcastWill you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Sel...
2023-08-101h 34The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastToday My Queen Ripped Through My Mediocrity Justifying BS!Raw, real and delivered fresh from the octagon of my marriage today! Enjoy! Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice mes...
2023-08-0934 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastWhy Every Husband Listening Should Get Remarried Soon!It's a fun title that speaks to one of the most transformative healing perspectives any husband can bring into his marriage transformation journey. This little known trick establishes a way of communicating that can burn up years of resentment in a surprisingly playful way leaving you the path of least resistance to creating the marriage of your dreams.Let's begin....Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming...
2023-08-0338 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastHow To Upgrade Your Commitment and Enter Hero Husband StatusMost husbands subconsciously think that exchanging marriage vows was the biggest commitment, yet that moment in the nervous system of our Queens doesn't count for sh1t compared with moment to moment embodied commitment.Deriving deep inspiration from a mountaineer's perspective on the miraculous powers of commitment, welcome to a direct challenge to up-level your commitment levels to a standard your Queen is irrefutably inspired by.Let's begin......Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the...
2023-08-0240 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastBe Like A Monk Who Loves To F!ckThe cultural shaming of desire has created one of the most destructive unspoken forces poisoning marriages in the modern era. Our primal body loves the radically alive feeling that desire in it’s broadest sense affords us, including but not limited to it’s expression in sexual intimacy. Yet, the culturally conditioned collective mindset of humanity has been indoctrinated into believing desire is somehow wrong. It's time to open our minds up to a spiritually centred perspective on desire that allows us show up as the love liberating beings we were born to be. Let’...
2023-07-271h 04The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastMarriage Is a Lonely Dogfight Without Brotherly Love and SupportA sad tragedy of modern living is that 99% of husbands are feeling lonely in marriage and life. We men are missing the spiritual nourishment of genuine deep connection with other men and often our marriages are unwittingly taking a destructive hit because of this. The subconscious boy energy patterns of neediness see our wives as the only source of love. This breeds the common catchphrase, “can’t live with her, can’t live without her”. Almost all men suffer feelings of resentment and rejection when their wives don’t meet their attachment needs in the moment.
2023-07-2642 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastMasculine Words Of Safety For Marriage First Aid MomentsThe great feminine emotional wound is fearing abandonment in love. Unwittingly most husbands trigger this wound in deeply emotional moments with their wives by trying to suggest a fix or solution to the problem. The counter-intuitive trick to fixing a shitty feeling emotional moment your wife is experiencing is by meeting her there fully in that moment. In this episode I share a list of high leverage words to say that will be medicine for your Queen’s soul to relax into knowing her Conscious King is on duty. Let’s begin…. Wi...
2023-07-2039 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThe 4-Word Deep Connection Phrase Wives Love HearingThis episode comes off the back of an intimate relationship wisdom bomb dropped by Duey Freeman during my recent conversation with him. In these four simple words, you will have access to a high-leverage means to meet your Queen’s core feminine desire for union in love and sooth the core feminine emotional wound of abandonment. I’ve played with this four-word phrase with my Queen for weeks to extraordinary effect, having her chuckle in delight in light moments to softening into tears from feeling seen in tough moments. If you want a marriage experie...
2023-07-1937 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast"Living an Alcohol-Free Peak Performance Lifestyle" with Shea FairbanksIn this episode we welcome back in Shea Fairbanks. Emerging from a childhood of immensely traumatising events, for years Shea would use alcohol to help numb the pain. Out of the ashes he would rise up to break free not only from alcoholism, but to create a life of epic freedom and uncommonly high levels of radical health and vitality. Shea is an Alcohol Free Performance Coach and passionate advocate for a sober lifestyle. With a background in human performance and a large focus on performance breathwork, Shea is guiding clients to radically elevate t...
2023-07-131h 22The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastUnscrewing My Arrogant Ass Parenting StyleI ate humble pie recently when parenting expert Dan Peterson came on the show. Entering the interview with Dan, I felt I had the parenting game in the bag. Dan’s reflections ripped this hood of arrogance off my eyes leaving me staring at major blind spots I had been unable to see. In today’s episode I share personal experiences in breaking up my arrogant ass parenting style immediately after I interviewed Dan. Dan’s three steps to consciously parent challenging kids has changed the game for me since speaking with him just three weeks ago.
2023-07-1245 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastLiving A Life of Radical Masculine Freedom with Alex McAfeeFew men have lived with such radical masculine inner and outer freedom of expression than Alex McAfee. Enjoy this rip-roaring ride through his inner and outer world adventures as he details his process of navigating life’s chapters while remaining true to his authentic self. It's the type of radical challenge we need set down to us as husbands to make sure we empty our fullest spiritual music into the arena of life while we are still here. Are you ready to pay the price to own your fullest, unapologetic freedom as a man? Hell YES! Of course you...
2023-07-061h 21The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThe Single Paradigm Shift Needed to Save Your MarriageHow you look is how you see. Marriage transformation can only happen when you bring into direct question how your mind looks on at your marriage. From one habitual perspective, it creates a loop of only seeing one possible reality, thus recreating the same reality. This is only an issue if you don’t like the reality that’s showing up for you in marriage. Most guys don’t like their married life reality so we all need to take a deeper look at our perspective. The simple-to-grasp paradigm shift presented within this episode changes...
2023-07-0553 minThe He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastThe Revelatory Truth About Depression in MarriageThe experience of depression in marriage makes it a brutally painful and connection eroding experience for the couples involved. Yet, like every aspect of modern life, the experience we live out is determined by the social story we've been conditioned to believe. What if the story we've been told about our human experience of profound unrelenting sadness is the source of our cycle of disempowerment and hopelessness?And what if there's a fresh perspective that can support us liberating our hearts from this blackness and the hearts of those around us? There is such...
2023-06-281h 02The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastEmbodying Bravery In Love and Life with James BraveloveIn this beautiful conversation you get to meet the brilliant James Bravelove. James details the profound inner journey he had in re-establishing his bond of love with his wife after a brief period of separation. He speaks to the heart of the “boy energy” every single man brings to his marriage, and his initiatory journey to releasing this persona to step into Kingship in love and life. Be ready for an action-packed, fun-filled rollercoaster conversation between James and Mark! Let’s begin…… To connect with James: Alpha Rising | Menswork, Breathwork and Wellness (alpha-rising.com) James...
2023-06-151h 13The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastNavigating Your Queen's Dreaded Time of the Month!This episode we welcome back my beautiful Queen, Matilde, and her full flame fiery wisdom. This ended up becoming an extraordinary deep dive into empowering us Heroic Husbands to consciously lead our Queens during their sacred moon cycle, especially in their bleeding phase. Armed with a list of conscious and high-leverage strategies and perspectives, you will rapidly become the husband she brags about! Let's begin.....Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path...
2023-04-271h 36The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastMy Queen's View on How I Screwed Up and Unscrewed My MarriageThis is exciting!!! In a brand new expansion of our podcast, we invite my beautiful Queen and Goddess Matilde in to be our sacred guest today! Matilde will intermittently guest and give us her high flame ideas and perspectives from a divine feminine point of view on diverse relationship topics. In today’s episode, we speak about the process of saving our marriage from a serious cliff edge risk of losing everything a few years back. The focus will be speaking to what my role as husband was in co-creating the progressive disconnection between us from Matilde’s view p...
2023-03-021h 29The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastYour Fearless Freedom Lies Beyond the Embrace of DeathThe masculine essence is the search for ultimate embodied freedom. No constraints, no limitations, no BS. Yet, until a man has the courage to embrace the reality of death, no such freedom will ever enter his lived experience. Embracing death reveals an urgency to engage with warrior intensity and courage in your life leaving no regret behind you as you move forward.You are invited into a deeply intimate episode where Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher reveals deep insights and reflections from his own personal journey in sharing space with a loved one as they return...
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