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Messie MindsE82. Very demure, very mindfulAs we wrap up an incredible season and year, join us for a cozy girls' chat about our upcoming concerts, events, and travels for the rest of 2024. From exciting destinations to unforgettable experiences, we're sharing all the details. Plus, we dive into the latest TikTok trend, "Very Demure, very mindful" and why it's taking the internet by storm! ✈️🎶✨
Our upcoming concerts - Neyo, The Weeknd - the Weeknd's rebranding theory and the whole entire rescheduling/cancelling saga
Mary's Japan Trip - the confusing and incredibly overwhelming experience of booking tickets for activities like Universal Studios, whether D...2024-08-2749 minMessie MindsE81. Buying property is a journey (Ft Kevin Ni)From growing up on a farm in small-town Portarlington to becoming a successful buyer's advocate in Melbourne, Kevin Ni has an incredible story to share. 🌾✨
In this episode, Kevin opens up about his humble beginnings, the challenges he faced, and how he built his own business advocating for people looking to buy and invest in property.
We dwelve into:
His humble beginnings, inspirations and how he landed in real estate; 🏡
Perseverance - Learning to enjoy the journey and not the destination of anything in life;
The ebs and flows of property investments; why there's no good...2024-08-201h 11Messie MindsE80. Advocating for yourself (Ft Russel Perdio)Ever felt like you’re not being heard at work? This week, we dive deep into practical strategies for advocating for yourself in the workplace. From negotiating raises to setting boundaries, we cover it all. And we're excited to have our part-time cohost Russel Perdio join the conversation! 🎧✨
Advocating for a promotion/payrise
Strategies on how to advocate for yourself
Setting boundaries and learning to say NO
Looking for value adds for your team
We also share our own personal examples of the above and Russ also shares about the one time he squared up to L...2024-08-131h 23Messie MindsE79. I'm JUST a GIRL ₊˚⊹♡⋆.°Girlhood refers to the period in a female's life from childhood to adolescence, encompassing the experiences, activities, and cultural influences that shape her identity during these formative years. It's a time marked by exploration, self-discovery, and significant social and emotional development. After watching our friend blossom and live out her BEST life, we were inspired!
So this week we reflect on our nostalgic journey of girlhood! 🌼✨
All but not limited to:
First Makeup Discoveries 💄: Remember the thrill of experimenting with makeup for the first time? We explore Ulzzang trends and our first be...2024-08-0649 minMessie MindsE78. The Australian stamina is unmatched 🤠 (Ft Chris Zou)We're thrilled to have the amazing Chris Zou join us this week! Chris is a research scientist with a PhD in industrial and organisational psychology. With over a decade of experience in consulting, data analysis, teaching, and mentorship, he's a powerhouse of knowledge. 👨🏻🎓🧑🏻🔬
But you might know him better as the Canadian tourist who got a taste of Aussie party stamina during World Pride and Mardi Gras! 🌈🐨
In this episode, Chris shares his unique perspectives on Australia and its quirks, from our wild animals and festivities to our laid-back lifestyle. 🇦🇺 Whether you're an Aussie local or curious about how others see us...2024-07-301h 17Messie MindsE77. WE SIGNED THE DEAL ✍🏼This week, we get to chatting about something that has been in the works for a while. In early 2024, Mary decided that she was going to kick lots of goals, one of them being buying an investment property. 🏡✨
Mary used the 90-day rule theory and applied it to all her 2024 goals, helping her really focus on her property investment journey. So Mary finally signed the deal!!
🎧 Tune in to hear about:
How the 90 day rule helps optimizes your goals and helps with keeping you accountable
💳 Clearing out your smaller debts and credit cards.
🧑💼 Talking to a financial advi...2024-07-231h 20Messie MindsE76. The Life of a Content Creator (Ft Jenny J Zhou)This week, we chat with Melbourne content creator Jenny J Zhou about her incredible decade-long journey on social media. 🌟 From her early days in Shanghai to her humble beginnings on YouTube, Jenny shares her inspiring story and the evolution of her career.
We deep dive into:
✨ Her life as a student in Shanghai
📸 The start of her content creation journey on YouTube
🤝 Navigating parasocial relationships
🎤 Her exciting stint on breakfast radio
👀 Meeting Kendall Jenner
💼 Collaborating with big-name brands
💡 Where she finds inspiration for her content
🕒 How she manages her time
💸 Negotiating for salary and maintaining her brand
...2024-07-1656 minMessie MindsE75. What do you want? It's not THAT simple!The real truth behind the famous scene from The Notebook? No, but forreal though....
Ever feel exhausted from making decisions all day? 🤯 Dive into our latest episode where we unpack decision fatigue, the mental load we carry, and how traditional gender roles play into it all. 🤔
🎙️ Highlights:
The three categories of mental load:
Emotional Burden: Emotional labor and empathy required to manage relationships and familial responsibilities ❤️
Logistical Planning: Detailed planning and organization needed to orchestrate daily routines, tasks, and schedules 📅
Cognitive Management: Mental capacity required to make decisions, solve problems, and multitask 🧠
U...2024-07-0950 minMessie MindsE74. One way ticket to Japan pls 🇯🇵 ✈️ (Ft Saki Pan)This week, we're thrilled to have the amazing Saki Pan join us to chat about her incredible journey moving from Australia to Japan! 🇦🇺➡️🇯🇵
Tune in as we dive into:
✨ Culture shocks that come with such a big move
✨ The reality vs. the romanticized view of working in Japan
✨ Disrespectful tourists and how that affects everyone else in the community
✨ Discovering the true beauty of Japan beyond what you see on social media
✨ Essential do’s and don’ts for anyone visiting or moving to Japan
✨ The power of personal growth and doing things solo
You won't want to miss Saki's insigh...2024-07-021h 16Messie MindsE73. SHE'S ENGAGED??!!! 😱😱Yes, you read that right.
But wait what? who? when? where? Tune in to find out how it all played out. 😱
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Mary's Viet Music Spotify Playlist - almost 10 hours of incredible listening experience!
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Hosts: Jessie Chau & Mary Nguyen
Music: Comfort Zone by SunnyBunnyBeatz2024-06-2550 minMessie MindsE72. Tell Me More!Ever wonder what goes on behind the scenes at Messie Minds? 🤔 In our latest episode, we're switching things up as we dive deep into getting to know each other on a whole new level!
We've swapped out the usual banter for some thought-provoking questions from the captivating card game "Tell Me More." 💬 From childhood dreams to life's biggest regrets, we're baring it all as we explore topics that rarely surface in our day-to-day conversations.
Tune in to this special episode and join us on a journey of self-discovery, vulnerability, and genuine connection. You won't want to mis...2024-06-1846 min
Messie MindsE71. The Third Space 🏘️This week on Messie Minds, we're diving deep into the concept of "The Third Space" - that magical realm where you're neither home nor work, but somewhere you can relax, recharge, and inspire your best self. 🌟
Whether it's a cozy café corner, a serene park bench, or a vibrant community center, these spaces play a crucial role in our mental and emotional well-being.
Join us as we explore the importance of these sanctuaries in our busy lives and discuss how to create your own personal oasis. Tune in and transform the way you think about the spaces between your responsibilities.
LINK...2024-06-1140 minMessie MindsE70. Dating post separation, learning to put yourself first 🌀 (Ft Michelle)In this heartfelt episode, we sit down with Michelle to explore the highs and lows of dating in your late 20s after a marriage separation. 💔➡️❤️
Michelle opens up about her journey to rediscovering herself, learning the importance of self-love, and how to navigate the dating scene with newfound confidence. 🌟✨
Tune in as we discuss:
🔹 Embracing singlehood
🔹 Building a solid foundation of self-worth
🔹 Building on your friendships and female relations
🔹 Finding joy and excitement in dating for the first time
Whether you're freshly single or looking for inspiration to love yourself more, Michelle's story will resona...2024-06-041h 02Messie MindsE69. The Law of Polarity - Feminine vs Masculine EnergyThe universe operates on a balance of contrasting energies, and understanding whether you resonate more with masculine or feminine energy can transform your connections.
It's not about gender, but about the dominant energy that influences your interactions, communication, and attraction. Knowing your predominant energy can lead to more harmonious relationships, as it helps you navigate the dance of give-and-take with a deeper awareness.
Tune in with us to discover how embracing the law of polarity can bring a new level of understanding and intimacy into your life ~ oOo la la!
...2024-05-2844 minMessie MindsE68. Modern parenting and work-life balance (Ft Russel Perdio)We're thrilled to welcome back Russel Perdio as our return guest host on the podcast!
Join us for a captivating discussion on modern parenting and the perpetual juggle of work-life balance. Russel brings valuable insights and perspectives to the table, making this episode a must-listen for all parents out there.
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Mary's Viet Music Spotify Playlist - almost 10 hours of incredible listening experience!
Be a book worm with Mary📚🐛
Catch up with us on instagram @messieminds.podcast
Send us a voice message on Spotify :)
Finds our other links here: https://linktr.ee/messieminds
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Hosts: Jessie Chau & Mary Nguyen
Music: 2024-05-211h 07Messie MindsE67. True self love 💛 & Sunny Side Up 🌻 (Ft Diana Nguyen)*internal girl fan screams*
🎤✨ We had an absolute blast chatting with the incredibly talented and insightful Melbourne comedian and actress, Diana Nguyen! 💫
From hilarious anecdotes about modern-day dating to navigating life as a product of an all-girls school, Diana shared some real gems about embracing your identity. We delved into eldest daughter syndrome, the power of freezing your eggs to buy yourself time (cos yikes the clock strikes!!), and the journey towards self-love and authenticity. 💖
Let's all take a page from Diana's book and stop betraying ourselves, join us as we discover the journey of...2024-05-1456 min
Messie MindsE66. First time dad, surgery & home duties (Ft Robert Pham)Navigating the journey of first-time fatherhood is a rollercoaster of emotions, now throw in the mix of surgery recovery and managing home duties as your partner returns to work, and you've got yourself an epic saga of love, resilience, and multitasking.
In our latest episode, we catch up with Robert Pham and dive into the heartwarming yet challenging world of a new dad who's juggling the delicate balance of healing from his surgery, diaper changes, and ensuring the home front remains intact.
Whether you're a parent, a partner, or just someone who...2024-05-0755 min
Messie MindsE65. AITA? Families, weddings & babiesAh, the joy of families coming together - whether it's for weddings, baby showers, or the sheer excitement of welcoming a new grandchild into the fold. It's a time of love, laughter, and, let's be honest, a sprinkle of drama. 😅
From the endless wedding planning debates (team DJ or band?) to the meticulous crafting of the perfect baby shower theme, these moments are as heartwarming as they are hectic. And let's not forget the anticipation (and sometimes expectation) of grandparents eager to spoil their newest family member. 🍼💍
But amidst the planning frenzy and the flurry of opinio...2024-04-3038 min
Messie MindsE64. Sibling Rivalry & their roles (Ft Stella)The dynamic between the eldest and youngest siblings within a family often illustrates a fascinating study in contrasts and complementary roles.
The eldest sibling, traditionally viewed as the trailblazer, frequently shoulders more responsibility from an early age, embodying the role of caretaker, leader, and sometimes, a third parent to their younger siblings. This position often instills in them qualities of maturity, reliability, and a strong sense of duty.
On the flip side, the youngest sibling, often dubbed as the "baby" of the family, tends to enjoy a comparatively lenient upbringing, benefiting from...2024-04-231h 13
Messie MindsE63. Drunk Elephant Kids 🐘Drunk Elephant Kids - what on earth is that? In an era where the internet shapes perceptions and trends, it's crucial to navigate the sea of information with a critical eye, especially when it comes to caring for our skin.
We explore the importance of establishing healthy skin care routines early on, debunk myths circulating online, and urge you to empower kids and teens to make informed decisions about their skin health but also the importance of not taking everything for face value without further research.
Tune in to our new episode...2024-04-1645 minMessie MindsE62. What are you running for? (Ft Karen OSAAT)Welcome back to season 5!!
Lace up those sneakers and hit the pavement with our latest episode on the joys of running and the vibrant community of running clubs, more specifically OSAAT - One Step at a Time! 🏃♂️🏃♀️
Whether you're a seasoned marathoner or just getting started on your fitness journey, join us as we chat to co-founder Karen about how she got started and the camaraderie, motivation, and endless miles of pavement pounding behind OSAAT.
Let's lace up together and chase those endorphins!
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Mary's Viet Music Spotify Playlist - almost 10 hours of incredible listening experience!
Be a book worm with Mary📚🐛
Catch up with us on instagram @messieminds.podcast
Send us a voice message on Spotify :)
Finds our other links h2024-04-0950 min
Messie MindsE61. What happened to us?!Happy New Year!
Somewhere along the last episode and now, we were wrapped into the vortex of life and December got the better of us. We managed to live to tell the tale.. so that's what we're doing today. Come join us as we chat about what happened and our updates for 2024.
We missed you ◡̈
xx
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Mary's Viet Music Spotify Playlist - almost 10 hours of incredible listening experience!
Be a book worm with Mary📚🐛
Catch up with us on instagram @messieminds.podcast
Send us a voice message on Spotify :)
Finds our other links here: https://linkt2024-01-1647 min
Messie MindsE60. Humbling Moments 😬Nothing pushes our buttons more than being told that we're wrong.. lol Butttt as life would have it, it always has a unique way of teaching us invaluable lessons that ground us and shape our perspectives. This week on Messie Minds, we share personal anecdotes, discussing the beauty found in humility, the lessons learned from unexpected turns, and how they shape us for the better.
Tune in now for an enlightening conversation! 🌟
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Mary's Viet Music Spotify Playlist - almost 10 hours of incredible listening experience!
Be a book worm with Mary📚🐛
Catch up with us on instagram @messiem...2023-11-2153 min
Messie MindsE59. Finally getting into the driver's seat 🏎 (Ft Xhanti Wong)Hi, hello dear friends ◡̈
This episode dives deep into the courageous journey of quitting your job and taking the leap into the unknown to discover your true self and what brings you genuine happiness.
Xhanti shares her relatable tale of navigating life in her twenties, proving that it's okay to press pause, recalibrate, and make choices that align with your authentic self. Her story is a beacon of inspiration for anyone feeling stuck or questioning their path. 🤔✨
It's not just about existing; it's about actively steering your own ship...2023-11-141h 22
Messie MindsE58. MMFF - Banker vs Broker 🏦 (Ft. Russel Perdio)💰🧐 Financial knowledge is the key to unlocking a world of opportunities. But the struggles of not knowing can be a wild rollercoaster ride! 🎢💸
Want to level up your money game? Join us on our new podcast episode, "Bankers vs Brokers," where we break down with fellow finance bro Russel Perdio, the nitty-gritty of personal finance, demystify jargon, and reveal savvy tips.
Get ready to laugh, learn, and take charge of your financial future! 💡 Don't miss out – tune in now and make money matters fun!
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Messie MindsE57. The Maths ain't Math'πHAPPY NOVEMBER - can you believe it?! The year is almost over. Here's a look into what's on this week's episode.
"Girl math" is not a recognized or legitimate concept in mathematics or any academic field. Neither is boy math nor corporate math. But heck, it sure does make a great way to justify impulsive spending behaviours or poke fun at nonsensical decisions or logics of men, the corporate world and our Asian parents.
In this episode, we delve into the sometimes perplexing, always loving, and occasionally nonsensical logic behind the way...2023-10-311h 16
Messie MindsE56. Struggling with our identities 🎭In today's world, self-discovery is a challenging journey, accentuated by the weight of societal values and the eldest daughter syndrome. 😅 The "eldest daughter" often bears the burden of family expectations, which can lead to an identity crisis. 🙆♀️
Balancing personal aspirations with cultural norms can be a struggle. To truly discover oneself, individuals must break free from these constraints, unravel external influences, and redefine their path, even if it means challenging deeply ingrained beliefs. To be honest, it's probably easier said than done, like most things. 😬
On this week's episode, the girls deep dive into how life has been l...2023-10-241h 13
Messie MindsE55. AU 🇦🇺 vs UK 🇬🇧 slang (Ft Bunch of Bananas)Hello, this is part two of last week's episode. So if you haven't already, make sure you go back and listen to part one!
In this rather unhinged episode of Messie Minds, we embark on a entertaining journey with guest hosts Eric Huynh and Kevin Lam, the dynamic duo behind the popular "Bunch of Bananas" podcast from the UK. Together with Jessie and Mary, they delve deep into the rich tapestry of cultural differences between the United Kingdom and Australia while shedding light on the Asian diaspora experience.
The two part conversation kicks off with a lighthearted exploration of the...2023-10-1751 min
Messie MindsE54. Fave Viet Dish = Penguins 🐧?? (Ft Bunch of Bananas)In this rather unhinged episode of Messie Minds, we embark on a entertaining journey with guest hosts Eric Huynh and Kevin Lam, the dynamic duo behind the popular "Bunch of Bananas" podcast from the UK. Together with Jessie and Mary, they delve deep into the rich tapestry of cultural differences between the United Kingdom and Australia while shedding light on the Asian diaspora experience.
The two part conversation kicks off with a lighthearted exploration of the quirks and peculiarities that distinguish these two English-speaking nations. Eric and Kevin share anecdotes and witty observations about everything from language...2023-10-101h 03
Bunch Of BananasEP.8 - Bridging Borders: Asian Brits meet Asian AussiesJoin us with Jessie Chau and Mary Nguyen, AKA Messie Minds Podcast. Explore personal anecdotes, cultural insights between the UK and Australia, and the challenges of content creation in today's digital age. Plus, don't miss out on the light-hearted bloopers and playful banter that'll surely bring a smile to your face! Dive into the discussion, and don't forget to follow us on our socials for more engaging content.
Host: Kevin Lam
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Co-host: Eric Huynh
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Messie MindsANNOUNCEMENT - We're on break!Hey lovely people!
We wanted to drop you a quick line and let you know that we're taking a chill two-week break to recharge our podcasting batteries and come back swinging with even more episodes for you!
During this mini hiatus, you won't find any new episodes dropping. But don't worry, we're not just lounging around. We're cooking up some seriously cool content behind the scenes.
Our Podcast Show is making a triumphant return on October 11, 2023! 📅
Circle that date on your calendar because it's gonna be lit! We've got some amazing gue...2023-09-2600 min
Messie MindsE53. Life Milestones - A male perspective (Ft. Patrick Ong)Join us for an eye-opening episode as co-hosts Mary and Jessie sit down with their classmate, Patrick Ong, to explore the exhilarating journey of navigating adulthood in your twenties.
In this candid and enlightening conversation, Patrick shares his life vision and intentions, offering valuable insights from a male perspective on the rocky waters of early adulthood. From career aspirations to personal growth, he delves deep into the challenges and triumphs he's encountered on his path so far.
Discover how Patrick's unique experiences shape his approach to life and career goals, and gain a fresh perspective...2023-09-191h 17
Messie MindsE52. MMFF - How to Survive Inflation 📈 (Ft. Russel Perdio)If you’re not a numbers person, finance can be a really daunting subject. Financial literacy is not something that your every person is blessed with. However, fear not! It’s never to late to start learning about to manage your finances.
Whilst on Messie Minds, the girls quite often share their tricks on how they manage to snag a bargain or save where possible, they don’t quite fully understand how to take it to the next level. This week, the girls invited Russel Perdio back to join them on the show for a new subseries called “Messie Minds - Financ...2023-09-1257 min
Messie MindsE51. Let's talk about s*x baby 👉👌Another week on our thought-provoking podcast! In this episode, we're boldly venturing into the world of public sex, PDA, and the intricate connection between sexual pleasure, shame, guilt, and the stifling of open discussions about intimacy.
Growing up Asian Australian, it's probably safe to say we're not the only ones who feel a bit awkies talking about sex and intimacy. We hope to unravel this connection slowly but to start things off on a lighthearted note, we hone in on our thoughts and feelings on other people's sexual experiences and questions.
Tune in to this...2023-09-0550 min
Messie MindsE50. Hashbrowns, birds & a complex cultural representation (Ft Shirley Le)Come join us this week as we explore the kaleidoscope of human experiences through literature, art and conversations. Shirley Le joins cohosts Jessie and Mary on a journey of untangling societal and cultural threads and uncovering the beauty of shared stories. Shirley shares her reflection on how clean eating and culture played a part in learning to accept and love herself.
Get ready to for a peep into the daily musings of a published author and what challenges Shirley had to face getting there. This episode promises a blend of inspiration and authenticity.
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Messie MindsE49. Regretti SpaghettiRegret can shape our lives in unexpected ways. Dive into the intricacies of human emotions.
Inspired by Japanese author Toshikazu Kawaguchi's books, join Mary and Jessie on this week's episode as they explore the themes of love, regret, and the complexities of time.
Listen now to gain a fresh perspective on the impact of regret and how reflection can guide you towards a brighter future, especially heading into your next decade. #EmbraceYourFeelings
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Messie MindsE48. Capturing yourself in a different light 📷 (Ft. Natalia Naa)Natalia Naa is changing lives with her photography by helping women love their bodies and build confidence in her art form.
In our latest podcast episode, we interview Natalia Naa about how her creativity and self-love journey inspire her work and empower her clients. She chats to the girls about how important it is to make sure that you are existing in physical prints to celebrate yourself as an artwork.
Listen now to hear her inspiring story and how you too can embrace your unique beauty.
Have you ever worked...2023-08-151h 03
Messie MindsE47. Jessie ticks off a bucket list item ✅Have you ever experienced complete madness and solitude? Jessie certainly has. Throughout the month of May, she embarked on an incredible journey, ticking off a bucket list item by travelling to Hong Kong on her own.
On the latest podcast, Jessie shares all of her life lessons, giving insight into what it was like to travel solo and embrace the unknown. Both Mary and Jessie are transitioning into new beginnings, and Jessie's story is an inspiration to those who may be hesitant to step out of their comfort zone.
Tune in to hear about Jessie's...2023-08-0853 min
Messie MindsE46. Setbacks launch you forward 🚀 (Ft Russel Perdio)Meet Russel Perdio - a young man under 30 who has overcome immense obstacles and setbacks to humbly and successfully reach success. Russel is a business development manager in finance, a father of two young children and a loving husband. He did not have the traditional educational path or career track, but this has never held him back. With grit and determination, Russel achieved his goals and became an inspiration to many.
This episode of the podcast follows the life of Russel, where he will talk about his unconventional career path and what life-lessons he learnt. So tune in and learn...2023-08-011h 25
Messie MindsE45. Growth begins with discomfortYour late twenties: A time for growth, discomfort, and realignment.
This stage in life may seem daunting, but it's the perfect time to develop into the person you want to be. From love and relationships to career paths, the possibilities are endless. Join us as we explore the power of discomfort and realignment in our own lives and we wrap up the season.
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Mary's Viet Music Spotify Playlist - almost 10 hours of incredible listening experience!
Be a book worm with Mary📚🐛
Catch up with us on instagram @messiemin...2023-05-0243 min
Messie MindsE44. What would a man do? Career tips & tricks (Ft Brenda Van)Most people end up in jobs they're not that excited about whilst others might require a little more than that. As if your early adulthood isn't difficult enough as it is already, but having to face the fact that what you studied at university isn't exactly what you envisioned or that you can't actually land a fulltime job. So what now?
This week, we invited Brenda back to chat to us about how to navigate the turbulent seas that is your career. We get an idea of what recruiters and employers look for in a high value...2023-04-2552 min
Messie MindsE43. Stillborn, yet still born. 🦋 (Ft Michelle)This episode is dedicated to Michelle's beloved daughter Alaska, who would have been 3 years old at the time of this recording. There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world and we will always remember her.
Please note that we do talk about death, suicide and depression in this episode, which we know can be distressing. So if you need resources or support go to beyondblue.org or for 24 hour free counselling in Australia, the number for Lifeline is 13 11 14, please look after yourself.
Michelle is a budd...2023-04-181h 19
Messie MindsE42. Dating Apps Suck (Ft Brenda Van)Brenda Van is no stranger to the internet. She's the type of girl who takes on any opportunity that arises with two hands and turns it into something she can monetize. Despite working a corporate 9-5 job in marketing, running several side businesses to help others in the corporate world, Brenda still manages to find time to create content and host the most sought after singles mixer and dating events.
We had the pleasure of sitting down with her a couple of weeks before she relocated to Sydney and tapped into her genius creative...2023-04-0451 min
Messie MindsE41. Am I just another personal best to you? 🤨 (Ft Nam)Have you ever felt confused about your identity especially when people ask you for your nationality, then you answer with Australian and they respond with "No, like where did you come from?" Because we definitely struggle with that identity crisis, especially when returning home to the motherland and they turn around and call you a "Việt kiều". So, what are we really?
We thought that this week we would invite a friend of Jessie's onto the show to share his origin story and how he's now settled in Australia, working as a teacher and a fitn...2023-03-281h 32
Messie MindsE40. How far would you go to never be poor again?Hello guys and girls!
It's been one of those weeks again, long time no chat kinda vibes y'know? So we thought why not sit down and catch up and update on our lives so far for the first quarter of 2023. Grab a cup of coffee, tea, a glass of wine if you will and strap yourselves in for girl chat.
But also, we're going to unpack the gruesome murder of Hong Kong socialite Abby Choi. #truecrimefansunite If you're new here, Jessie and Mary are big big fanatics of true crime and if you are too, t...2023-03-211h 01
Messie MindsE39. Am I the asshole? (Ft Kelly)In light of Jessie's absence this week, I invited my bestie Kelly to come and join me on the podcast and boy, was it the best idea ever or what? I thought it would be fun for us to discuss a range of different topics from forums and group pages such as the infamous Melbourne Gal Pals. So on this week's episode, we dive into "Am I the asshole?" situations and discuss.
Your twenties is one of the peaks in your journey of finding yourself and along side that, you're also trying to find the right people t...2023-03-141h 04
Messie MindsE38. Asking someone "When are you having kids?" is never ok. (Ft Allie)Graduating university, starting your career, getting married, buying a house and starting a family. This seems to be the ‘conventional‘ rite of passage set in stone for women.
These social values are still being upheld by the older generation and their feelings of righteousness to pry into quite personal aspects of a person’s life, often leaving a lot of people feeling like they have no choice but to smile, nod and give a pleasant answer.
A good friend and fellow Messie Minder Allie Lieu, joins us to talk about her personal fertility journey and her stru...2023-03-0754 min
Messie MindsE37. The real person behind Fooligan Kevs (Ft JDP)You've probably landed here because 1) you thought Fooligan Kevs was a real person or 2) because you're interested in the real comic genius behind the character. Well, either way you've come to find out who and why he exists.
This week on the show, Jessie and Mary sit down with Jaemie Dela Pena to discuss who she is outside of her many personas and how she came to find Fooligan Kevs. JDP is an extraordinarily talented artist and contrary to her "cousin" Kev, she is incredibly insightful and intelligent, with a great awareness for social movements. JDP unpacks...2023-02-2836 min
Messie MindsE36. Rapping, respekk & girls (Ft Fooligan Kevs)This week's episode is a special one because we had the opportunity to collaborate with such an honorary guest. Not only did we successfully slide into his DMs, he also made the flight down to Melbourne to be with us.
This week the Messie Minds girls sit down to unpack with Sydney's viral sensation Fooligan Kevs to discuss his music career and new music release "AZN E$hays".
The girls also probe into his childhood life, disapproving parents, rumours about how he was caught dining and dashing and lastly who Jaemie is and why people ar...2023-02-2159 min
Messie MindsE35. Collages are out, chaotic spontaneity is inThis week, the girls sit down and unpack their 6 weeks apart from each other and the realisations that they have come to upon venturing out into the world.
Has Mary & Jessie's mindset for 2023 changed? What is in and out for 2023? Did Mary really not follow her partner back on social media for over 3 years?! Find out on this week's episode.
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Messie MindsE34. Breaking the Bamboo Wall (Ft Robert Pham)This week we sit down with Robert Pham, a Melbournian bred actor who's appeared on shows such as Neighbours, ABC's short TV series Hungry Ghosts and Waves.
Growing up Asian Australian, meant that Robert had to endure the pressures and expectations that many of us have with our Asian parents. Robert decided to go against the grain and follow his heart pursuing a humble career in acting.
Ten years into his career, he reflects on his journey with Messie Minds and offers insight into the Australian industry. An extraordinary discussion about chasing your dreams and bo...2023-02-0757 min
Messie MindsE33. Why New Year Resos Fail 👎It would not be a Messie Minds episode, if the first episode of the New Year did not start with new year resolutions and goals! Welcome back and happy New Year guys and girls! On this episode, Mary and Jessie catch up on their holiday break from recording and what they've been up to this Summer in Australia.
The girls also chat about why resolutions don't hold up for a lot of people and how to counter the struggles of being consistent with goal setting. Get a pen and a notepad if you haven't already, because this...2023-01-3148 min
Messie MindsE32. And that's a wrap on 2022!Can you believe we're nearing the end of 2022? There's exactly 9 weeks left and honestly when you're working full-time and trying to schedule in a social life and many side hobbies, that's really just 10 business days on the Messie Minds calendar.
This year felt like it was equally as long as it was fast and yet so many things have happened that seemed like a lifetime ago. This week on the very last episode for the season (we know! sad times 🥺 but we will be back before you know it), the Messie Minds girls relive all the unforgettable mome...2022-11-0147 min
Messie MindsE31. The Bridge Between Life & Death 👻A passing figure at the corner of your eye, an eerie feeling you can’t seem to shake off or perhaps a scary encounter you convince yourself is a coincidence. We’ve all been there before, trying to reason ourselves away.
In light of spooky season, the girls unpack all their scary recommendations, thoughts on whether Australia should embrace the Halloween holiday and their experiences with paranormal activities. So buckle up with your pumpkin spice latte and maybe keep the lights on for this one……
Do you believe in spirits or ghosts? Or is the only ghost...2022-10-251h 01
Messie MindsE30. Change is inevitable, growth is optional (Ft Chau)Over the last couple of years, there’s been a lot of change that has happened on a global scale which was stressful and/or scary to deal with it. It’s that feeling of finally getting used to something and then all of a sudden, things or situations can change again.
This week, Jessie and Mary invite their very experienced and nomadic friend Chau onto the podcast to chat about how she has built resilience and positivity when moving homes and entering into new social environments where you don’t know anybody or anything.
Chau of...2022-10-1859 min
Messie MindsE29. Jet Setter, Go GetterAround here, we mainly catch flights not feels.
With all the restrictions being lifted across the globe, catching flights is starting to revert to normalcy and for some of us, travelling on a plane and overseas has been a foreign experience for the last couple of years. It's almost like we've forgotten how to pack a bag, but fear not! This week, the Messie Minds girls get on the mics and share their type A, serial organiser skills and tips for an orderly and planned fun-filled trip of a lifetime.
So guys and girls, get y...2022-10-1155 min
Messie MindsE28. Generation Why? (Ft. Stella Chau)They say only time can tell, and time has been a factor for many changes in social values and behaviours. Gen Y aka “Millennials” can also be known as “Generation Experience”, are members of a cohort between the years of 1980 and 1995.
So what “experiences” have millenials collected that are distinct from the generation that succeed them? This week on the podcast, Jessie’s younger sister Stella joins the podcast to discuss with the girls what her gen Z experience has been like.
The girls analyse their “generational experiences” and what a difference of four years in age can create fo...2022-10-041h 07
Messie MindsE27. A skeptic and a perfectionistA skeptic and a perfectionist walk into a bar...the perfectionist said "it's set too low" and the skeptic replies with "there's no way of knowing for sure because your standards could either be lower or higher for someone else" and they both sit there confused and anxious.
Welcome back to another week with Messie Minds! This week we put to the test another type of personality test to see if it can really explain our true psyches. Enneagrams have a way of looking deeper into the way we as individuals perceive the world.
Have you...2022-09-2049 min
Messie MindsE26. I think a cult tried to recruit me?This week, Mary's main character moment not only scarred her for life but inspired us to take on one of the biggest issues with young adults navigating the world. Why is it so hard to make new friends as adults?
The girls talk about their worries when it comes to initiating and maintaining friendships that are new and why they don't particularly last like the ones you form when you're a child. Should Mary give her "new friend" Naomi a chance to explain herself or should she run for the hills screaming "CULT ALERT"?
Tune i...2022-09-1348 min
Messie MindsE25. I want sole custody on the pup 🐶Have you ever wanted a pet dog but your parents have said no? Perhaps you wanted to know what things you should know before you adopted a fur child.
Well, this week Jessie and Mary share their experiences on what it has been like to be fur children parents. Whether you're in a relationship or if you're single, getting a pet is a big responsibility that will require many years of your life.
What happens if you and your human partner break up? Who gets custody of your shared fur child? Tune in this week to...2022-09-061h 11
Messie MindsE24. Me: Let's try something new. Also me: :SHave you ever sat there and listened to the two voices in your head having a conversation with one another? One side of you is saying "Let's go and try something new, maybe you'll find something enjoyable and fun to do" whilst the other is saying "you're not going to be good at it anyway, people are going to judge you for it"? Cos, same.
This week, Mary and Jessie unpack the week that has been and talk about their experiences post trying a new activities for the first time and the anxiety that comes with it or...2022-08-3049 min
Messie MindsE23. Doing My Job Is Called "Quiet Quitting" Now?Once in a while, we all tell ourselves little white lies to gas it up a bit but there's some of us who take it a notch too far and create a warped reality. This week, a hot new bombshell enters the villa, meet "Blowfish", the sea loving cousin of the classic "Catfish".
We discuss the new term "Blowfishing" and where we have encountered them before. Mary gets riled up about the negative connotations that follow the term "Quiet Quitting" and how her new chosen lifestyle is being seen as laziness. Our mental health is important but...2022-08-2344 min
Messie MindsE22. What would you tell your 15 year old self?We always say that we never regret the things that happened in our past lives but what if you could go back and change it all?
What advice would you give your teenage self in the face of adversity?
This week, we reflect on their experiences post "Laurinda" and how the themes in the storyline mirror those in our own lives. Join us as we travel down the rabbit hole of our own experiences with racism, bullying, growing up in an Asian household and the simple joys of adolescence.
We are grateful to Diana N...2022-08-1646 min
Messie MindsE21. Little Miss Self-inducing Anxiety 😣Hello friends 👋, long time no see!
We're back after a long break from recording and routines, a couple of weeks of surviving the icy Melbourne winters and the waves (& continuing) of colds, flus and covid! There was just too much going on in the last couple of weeks, so Mary and Jessie sit down this week to seriously unpack the mess.
Kim Kardashian & Pete Davidson's breakup is totally a Kris Jenner PR stunt to cover up the fact that Khloe decided to have another baby with serial cheater Tristan Thompson. 😖
Are we just too old or is Ins...2022-08-091h 11
Messie MindsBONUS - Into the Upside Down 🔦🚲We are back from our seasons break with a special surprise episode discussing the pop culture sensation that people wont shut up about, STRANGER THINGS. We are people.
Diverging from our usual topic, we are dedicating the episode to our current favourite show; talking about our favourite moments, which parts made us cry, who we are shipping and discussing the conspiracy theories floating around on the interwebs.
Be warned, this is a spoiler filled episode so proceed only if you've finished season 4. Buckle up mouth breathers, this isn't a ride for the faint hearted.
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Messie MindsWelcome to our Messie Minds! ✧*:･ﾟJoin us, as we come together every Wednesday to unpack and declutter our thoughts. Unlike Mean Girls, you can totally "sit with us" and honestly, we wear black everyday.
We divulge our friendships, relationships, careers, social values and all things in between. There’s nothing off the table at this point.
Let us keep you company as you work from home or take that mundane train ride into the office!
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...2022-07-1201 minMessie MindsE20. When you get caught...👀Just when you think you're in the clear and it's safe to come out into public, you're suddenly betrayed by your own mind and consciousness. That's it, everyone knows you did it. You dirrrrrty, diiiirty gal. 👀
On this week's episode, Mary shares her main character humiliation about getting caught in public with *beep*. Jessie's anxiety soars through the roof and the girls can't go anywhere without holding Google's hand.
Can you relate to any of our awkward moments?
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Send us a voice message on Sp...2022-06-2148 minMessie MindsE19. Breaking the Melbourne Bubble (Ft Michelle)When all things are said and done, you begin to realise that a lot of people in your life will slowly start to branch out onto numerous different pathways in their lives. A global disaster such as the pandemic didn't stop our sweet and beautiful friend Michelle from stepping outside of the bubble and start her adventure 700km away from Melbourne (yes, we know.. it doesn't sound that far).
In the middle of 2021, Michelle picked up a phone call that would change her life in an instant. Six weeks later, with several bags of luggage in tow, s...2022-06-141h 12Messie MindsE18. Fake it till you make itIn your twenties, you may encounter difficulties looking for a job post graduation or even just a casual job to get you through uni or college. There's a range of factors that can amount to the reason why you haven't been able to land that role yet.
This week on the podcast, the girls chat about ways they go about managing their expectations and anxieties leading up to the job interview and how to power through it like a professional. Whether you're new to the industry or a veteran, some of us always need pointers and friendly r...2022-06-071h 19Messie MindsE17. Relationship Traffic Lights🚦(Ft Kelly)Sometimes there's toxic behaviours that shouldn't be tolerated and other times there's speed bumps in the road that you're still trying to slowly get over.
Well, whatever it is that you're in for your girls are back this week to discuss with their friend Kelly about red, yellow and green signs or flags that could arise in relationships.
Buckle your seat belts, because we're in for a bumpy ride.
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Finds our lin...2022-05-3152 minMessie MindsE16. Welcome to the Villain Era 😈"Mirror Mirror, on the wall, who is the fairest one of all?" It’s me girl. It’s me. Thank Yew ✨
After years of spending our time in the "boss girl" or "that girl" era, tirelessly trying to wake up at 5am to make a green juice and go jogging with Lucy from Yoga class and logging on at 8:45AM to answer all your work emails before 12:00PM... My friends, we have finally entered the villain era and it's time to take back what was once ours, the ✨unfiltered self preservation energy✨.
The inner introvert inside of...2022-05-2449 minMessie MindsE15. Unpopular Opinion: Flowers ain't sh*t on V-day (Ft Kevin Truong & Emily)Hello fellow friends!
On this week's episode, our favourite person Kevin returns but this time, he brought along his beautiful girlfriend Emily. As per the last episode we had with him, Jessie and Mary both learnt (to their shock) that Kev had only recently discovered what love languages was and it was only fitting to have this discussion with Emily in the room.
Join the girls this week to hear Emily reveal how Kev came to learn about love languages and how as a couple, the art of love languages has helped them progress their...2022-05-171h 02Messie MindsE14. pov it's 2005 & ur making ur first hotmail accLet's rewind, *insert tape rewind sound effect here* back to 2005 when being on the internet meant that your home landline wouldn't ring and every time your mum picked up the phone and dialled someone, you'd be kicked off.
Imagine this, it's 3:30pm and you couldn't wait to get home, to log onto MSN to chat with your friends and send them emojis and customise your name with different colours and fonts. As the years went on, you were on Myspace, Bebo and eventually Facebook and as you became more mature, the things you did on the internet b...2022-05-1049 minMessie MindsE13. Love you bro but no homo (Ft Duy Nguyen)Sharing your deepest, darkest secrets is one thing, but sharing the feelings in your darkest hour is a whole other thing. Especially if you're expected to just pull it together because "MANS DON'T CRY".
Sometimes it's easier to just keep the walls up because you don't want to be vulnerable incase of judgement. This week we catch up with Duy Nguyen from Sunset Confessions Podcast and discuss the ✨toxic masculinity✨ that comes with being a guy.
Listen to Duy's podcast here.
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Send us a voic...2022-04-261h 02Messie MindsE12. Entrance Fee is $150 to my weddingWE LOVE LOVE but just FYI there’s going to be an entrance fee of $150 to my wedding if you wanna come….
This week we discuss all things weddings and all the politics that are involved especially in relation to our Asian wedding customs and traditions. Despite being actual twinsies as proven in our previous episodes, we both have a very different take on what we want for our big days...
Another sensitive question is how much do you give when you’re attending someone else’s wedding? Join this discussion with us now by streaming th...2022-04-191h 17Messie MindsE11. I'm going to cancel herHello friends!
"I don't think this is working out..." is something we've heard before, or not... maybe some people prefer to not have the difficult conversations and ghost you instead. However, on Messie Minds we are all about recognising and having these conversations.
On this week's podcast, we navigate through all the relationships in our twenties. Between your love life, your friendships, family and work, you mainly have one relationship that needs to be maintained and that's with yourself. Then you can really extend out and have great relationships with the people in your life. 2022-04-121h 07Messie MindsE10. That's some big d*ck energy dude... (Ft Kevin Truong)Hello beautiful people!
This week, we're joined with one of our good friends for the very first time on this show Mr Kevin Truong. Kevin has been a long time friend for both Jessie and Mary and this week, we've invited him on to give us some male perspective on things that we find sexy.
We go into depth with why certain aspects will be sexy according to different people and discover that people interpret the same scenario very differently. Kevin shares his experiences with his dating life and what maturity does to your dating c...2022-04-0555 minMessie MindsE9. Would you still love me if I was a worm?Hello fellow Messie Minds :)
Do you ever have the urge to do something that you can't explain? Does it feel like you're the only one who ever does it? Well good news, you're not the only one. This week we discuss all things about our feminine urges and why we do it? We also briefly discuss some other urges for our male and non binary counterparts. What urges do you have that can't be explained?
Please follow and give us a rate on whatever platform you're tuning in on and share the love with your f...2022-03-2946 minMessie MindsE8. Saturn Returns (Quarter Life Crisis)Hello beautiful people!
This week on Messie Minds, we get real intimate about life changes and struggles in our 20s. We reveal a life stage often referred to as your quarter life crisis but in the astrological world, it's known as a 'Saturn Return'. Mary candidly shares her experiences about the changes that have occurred in her life and how to navigate those tough times with the tools that she learnt during her journey.
Join us for a much needed conversation about adulthood!
Please follow and give us a rate on whatever platform yo...2022-03-2248 minMessie MindsE7. Is it Worth it? (Smart Spending)Hello beautiful people!
Just like many of you, we are also in the very humble beginnings of our adulthood and finances and money are just one of those topics that never was understood. "Seek and you shall find" in this world, so we sought out ways that we could be savvy with our $$$. So without further ado, join us today for a riveting outlook on how we make our hard earned dollar truly last a long time.
Please follow and give us a rate on whatever platform you're tuning in on and share the love w...2022-03-151h 01Messie MindsE6. Are we actually twins?Hello beautiful people! It's so nice to see you here again. This week on Messie Minds, we talk about our personality types after completing the test and how accurate we think the summary about each of our traits are.
Do you think that these tests help you become more self aware or do you think that it's just all make believe? Share with us what your type is!
Please follow and give us a rate on whatever platform you're tuning in on and share the love with your friends so we can grow our community.2022-03-081h 00Messie MindsE5. First Dates & First ImpressionsHello beautiful people! On this episode, we spill the teeeeea. Here's to our favourite first dates, the things you do that made us go 'eugh', the art of chivalry and how we ended up where we are in our dating careers.
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Hosts: Jessie Chau & Mary Nguyen2022-03-011h 03Messie MindsE4. Retail RevelationsHello beautiful people! Thanks for tuning in with us, on this week's episode, where we delved into our experiences working in retail. We reveal celebrities we have met, colleagues turned friends, the infamous 'Karen' customers and ultimately, the takeaways that helped us develop into the people we are today.
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Send us a voice message on...2022-02-221h 13Messie MindsE3. Growing Up Asian in AustraliaOn this episode, we share the highlights of our childhood upbringing and all the quirks in between. Some things have become part of our innate habits and others, not so much. Do you share the same sentiments?
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Hosts: Jessie Chau & Mary Nguyen
Music: Comfort Zone by SunnyBunnyBeatz
Podcast Cover: @dtpdraw2022-02-151h 08Messie MindsBONUS - 20 QuestionsHAPPY VALENTINES DAY!
Lucky you, we have some bonus content for you to enjoy. The classic 20 questions game just like we're on a cute first date.
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Hosts: Jessie Chau & Mary Nguyen
Music: Comfort Zone by SunnyBunnyBeatz2022-02-1342 minMessie MindsE2. When Life Gives You Energy VampiresOk guys, grab the garlic because we’re dealing with vampires today.
What is an energy vampire you ask?
An energy vampire refers to a toxic person who leaves you feeling depleted and emotionally exhausted. They may be your co-worker, a friend or even a family member . Being around them may make you feel anxious, agitated, uneasy, and even doubtful of your own capabilities.
Please follow and give us a rate on whatever platform you're tuning in on and share the love with your friends so we can grow our community.
Catch up...2022-02-0854 minMessie MindsE1. Who are we?Off to a good start already, welcome to the pilot episode of Messie Minds!
We share a little bit about ourselves, our fairy tale friendship that started off as villains and the intentions we have set for this new year.
If you've enjoyed our show, please follow and give us a rate on whatever platform you're tuning in on. Let your friends know so we can produce more content and share the knowledge and love.
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