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Have We Got A Match For YouThe Key To Good Communication with guest Jim Van AllenOriginally aired on Jason's You Winning Life PodcastDr. Jim Van Allan is an accomplished speaker and trainer for schools and organizations across the country. He is also a Professor of Communication Studies with Keiser University. Dr. Van Allan is the host of the hit podcast 'Communicate To Motivate' which focuses on different areas of communication applied to real life situations. His goal is to turn personal experiences into powerful learning moments with engaging stories, research, and takeaways.https://www.instagram.com/jimvanallan/https://jimvanallan.comWant to connect more or work...2022-04-1138 minHave We Got A Match For YouBuilding & Sustaining A Dedicated Committed Relationship with Dr. Scott StanleyOriginally aired on Jason's You Winning Life Podcast, this episode is a must listen to anyone trying to build a healthy relationship.Premarital cohabitation has consistently been found to be associated with increased risk for divorce and marital distress in the United States. Two explanations for this "cohabitation effect" are discussed: selection and experience. We present an empirically based view of how the experience of cohabitation may increase risk for rela-tionship distress or divorce for some people beyond what is accounted for by selection. Specifically, using a commit-ment framework, we suggest that some couples who otherwise would...2022-04-0656 minHave We Got A Match For YouEmotional Infidelity-Part 1We are back!! Yes, it's been a while but we can happily blame Chava for getting married since our last episode!Chava and Jason open up the conversation about understanding "Emotional Infidelity" through each stage of relationships from dating to marriage.Of course, we talk about co-dependence, healthy boundaries and what's needed to navigate the dating/relationship world.We discuss:Can you just be friends with someone of the opposite sex and creating boundaries with the opposite sex while dating and once you are in a relationshipWhere we spend our time and energy l...2021-12-0537 minHave We Got A Match For YouEp. 8- Solving the Jewish Divorce (Get) Issue with guest Keshet Starr, CEO of ORAKeshet Starr is the CEO of @oraagunot, a Nonprofit Organization that focuses on eliminate abuse from the Jewish divorce process.We discuss the Jewish Marital (Halachic) Pre and Post-nup agreements as well as navigating the process of divorce.ORA works within the parameters of Jewish law and civil law to advocate for the timely and unconditional issuance of a get. ORA believes that the protracted refusal to issue or receive a get is a form of domestic abuse which must never be tolerated. ORA seeks to foster a Jewish community in which a get is n...2021-07-2955 minHave We Got A Match For YouEp.7-Dating During A PandemicAlthough recorded during the middle of the pandemic, many of this episodes insights still apply!Check out this episode and don't forget to subscribe so you don't miss out on future releases!Want to connect more with is?Follow us on IG!@havewegotamatchforyou@chavashaulov@youwinninglifeAnd check out our websites:www.chavashulov.comwww.thefamilyroomsfl.com2021-07-1640 minHave We Got A Match For YouEp.6- Why Do I Keep Attracting The Same Thing? Part 3Part Three of figuring out how to have more successful relationships!Jason and Chava continue breaking down the science of romantic attraction.According to the Imago Theory by Harville Hendrix, we attract partners that have both the positive and negative character traits of our family of origin. In other words, we may be biologically pre-disposed to who we unconsciously are attracted to.Want to learn how to start understanding these patterns and changing your dating habits to healthier ones?Check out this episode and don't forget to subscribe so you don't miss out...2021-07-0926 minHave We Got A Match For YouEp. 5- Why Do I Keep Attracting The Same Thing? Part 2Jason and Chava continue breaking down the science of romantic attraction.According to the Imago Theory by Harville Hendrix, we attract partners that have both the positive and negative character traits of our family of origin. In other words, we may be biologically pre-disposed to who we unconsciously are attracted to.Want to learn how to start understanding these patterns and changing your dating habits to healthier ones?Check out this episode and don't forget to subscribe so you don't miss out on future releases!Want to connect more with is?Follow...2021-06-0627 minHave We Got A Match For YouEp. 4: Why Am I Attracted To Who I Am Attracted to? Part 1In this episode, Jason and Chava start breaking down the science of romantic attraction.According to the Imago Theory by Harville Hendrix, we attract partners that have both the positive and negative character traits of our family of origin. In other words, we may be biologically pre-disposed to who we unconsciously are attracted to.Want to learn how to start understanding these patterns and changing your dating habits to healthier ones?Check out this episode and don't forget to subscribe so you don't miss out on future releases!Want to connect more with...2021-05-1932 minHave We Got A Match For YouEp.4- Why Do I Keep Attracting The Same Thing? Part 1Let's talk the real Laws Of Attraction and why we keep getting the same thing.We unpackaged neurology, society expectations and the therapy needed to get the healthier romantic relationship and life possible.Download and subscribe as this is part 1 of a 4 part conversation.In this episode:Imago Therapy and unpacking our unfinished businessLove relationships vs arranged marriageUnderstanding that our rational brain gets overpowered by the two other parts of our brainWhy we "think" we are making proactive choices when we are imprinted with unfinished businessW...2021-05-1327 minHave We Got A Match For YouEp.4- Why Do I Keep Attracting The Same Thing? Part 12021-05-1334 minHave We Got A Match For YouEp. 3-Understanding the 5 Love LanguagesWant to learn the easiest way to connect with someone else?Learn both yours and their love language!Most of my relationships clients ( Jason) come in for communication issues.Go figure, that really isn't the basis of their challenge. It's knowing what they want and need to feel loved, connected, desired, supported and more.Each person has their own style of connecting.Check out this episode and visit https://www.5lovelanguages.com to figure out yours!Want to connect more with is?Follow us on IG!@havewegotamatchforyou@chavashaulov2021-04-2119 minHave We Got A Match For YouEp. 2-Navigating Codependency and Healthy RelationshipsOn this weeks episode, Chava & Jason discuss healthy relationship patterns and focuses on codependent dynamics.Codependency refers to a pattern of prioritizing needs of relationship partners or family members over personal needs and desires. It goes beyond:wanting to help a struggling loved onefeeling comforted by their presencenot wanting them to leaveoccasionally making sacrifices to help someone you loveWe know it’s normal to want to help your partner, especially if they’re having a tough time but knowing where you end and they start is key to health boundaries.Want...2021-04-1427 minHave We Got A Match For YouEp. 1- Being Okay Being SingleWelcome to the Have We Got A Match For You Podcast.Combining our years of professional experiences, we are excited to being your tour guides through the journey of relationships.We can't wait to hear your thoughts, questions and feedback so please reach out to us on Instagram @havewegotamatchforyou2021-04-0722 min