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Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): "Bad Texter" or Just Not That Into You?
Few things can match the heady exhilaration of dating someone and building momentum through regular texting and a sense of closeness. But what about when the texting on their end is . . . kind of slow and intermittent . . . where there are big gaps in your text exchanges that leave you feeling unsure as to where, exactly, you stand with that person? Feeling this way might even lead you to start analyzing their relationship with their phone the next time you’re with them, looking for clues as to whether their sporadic phone usage is consistent in their li...
2025-06-27
14 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): "Bad Texter" or Just Not That Into You?
Few things can match the heady exhilaration of dating someone and building momentum through regular texting and a sense of closeness. But what about when the texting on their end is . . . kind of slow and intermittent . . . where there are big gaps in your text exchanges that leave you feeling unsure as to where, exactly, you stand with that person? Feeling this way might even lead you to start analyzing their relationship with their phone the next time you’re with them, looking for clues as to whether their sporadic phone usage is consistent in their li...
2025-06-27
14 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
302: “I’m nearly 40 and feel rushed to find love…help!”
Do you feel like time is running out to find love? Whether you’re worried about starting a family, comparing yourself to friends who are coupled up, or just feeling urgent pressure to “catch up” in your dating life, this episode is for you. Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey explore how to handle dating confidently when the stakes feel high, and how to avoid letting fear and anxiety sabotage your decisions. If you’ve ever felt behind—unsure whether to stay hopeful or make a bold change—this episode will give you the tools to find love and ease the pre...
2025-06-25
1h 02
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
302: “I’m nearly 40 and feel rushed to find love…help!”
Do you feel like time is running out to find love? Whether you’re worried about starting a family, comparing yourself to friends who are coupled up, or just feeling urgent pressure to “catch up” in your dating life, this episode is for you. Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey explore how to handle dating confidently when the stakes feel high, and how to avoid letting fear and anxiety sabotage your decisions. If you’ve ever felt behind—unsure whether to stay hopeful or make a bold change—this episode will give you the tools to find love and ease the pre...
2025-06-25
1h 02
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): #1 Mindset to Conquer Rejection
What could possibly be more painful than rejection? Turns out, there's one feeling that IS. In this week's Rewind episode, I reveal what it is and share the one mindset that will get you over your fear of rejection once and for all so you can finally put yourself "out there" without worrying about getting hurt again... --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Retreat at . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Get The Momentum Texts → http://www.MomentumTexts.com ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at...
2025-06-20
12 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): #1 Mindset to Conquer Rejection
What could possibly be more painful than rejection? Turns out, there's one feeling that IS. In this week's Rewind episode, I reveal what it is and share the one mindset that will get you over your fear of rejection once and for all so you can finally put yourself "out there" without worrying about getting hurt again... --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Retreat at . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Get The Momentum Texts → http://www.MomentumTexts.com ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at...
2025-06-20
12 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Rewind: Will YOUR Relationship Fail? 3 Questions to Find Out
This week’s video will help you cut through all of the anxiety, uncertainty, and stress. I go deep on three very specific questions you can ask yourself to determine whether staying or leaving is the right decision for you. I also break down a new model that will help you identify what to watch out for and the dangerous cocktail of certain traits we must avoid in someone . . . these are the traits that can make a relationship so toxic that over time, it will erode our confidence and identity to the point that leaving th...
2025-06-13
15 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Rewind: Will YOUR Relationship Fail? 3 Questions to Find Out
This week’s video will help you cut through all of the anxiety, uncertainty, and stress. I go deep on three very specific questions you can ask yourself to determine whether staying or leaving is the right decision for you. I also break down a new model that will help you identify what to watch out for and the dangerous cocktail of certain traits we must avoid in someone . . . these are the traits that can make a relationship so toxic that over time, it will erode our confidence and identity to the point that leaving th...
2025-06-13
15 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): 5 Pieces of Texting Advice That Lead to Commitment
When you’re texting with someone you like, do you struggle to know what to say next? Or maybe it feels like you’re in a texting rut, and keep having the same conversations . . . Today’s episode is a mini toolkit for these exact situations, with 5 high-value texting suggestions that restart attraction, lead to a date, or just bring you more emotional connection. Use these practical messages to inspire better communication in any dating situation! --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Retreat at . . . → http://www.MHRetreat...
2025-06-06
09 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): 5 Pieces of Texting Advice That Lead to Commitment
When you’re texting with someone you like, do you struggle to know what to say next? Or maybe it feels like you’re in a texting rut, and keep having the same conversations . . . Today’s episode is a mini toolkit for these exact situations, with 5 high-value texting suggestions that restart attraction, lead to a date, or just bring you more emotional connection. Use these practical messages to inspire better communication in any dating situation! --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Retreat at . . . → http://www.MHRetreat...
2025-06-06
09 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): How to Cut Out a Toxic Person
Why do we stay in relationships that erode our confidence, self-worth, and happiness? In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of trauma bonds and how empathy—one of our greatest strengths—can become our biggest weakness in toxic relationships. We’ll explore why we get stuck in these cycles, the danger of hoping someone will change, and how to reclaim your power by prioritizing your own well-being. If you’ve ever felt trapped in a relationship that’s draining your energy and warping your reality, this conversation is for you. Tune in for practical insights, empowering advice, and a remi...
2025-05-30
20 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): How to Cut Out a Toxic Person
Why do we stay in relationships that erode our confidence, self-worth, and happiness? In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of trauma bonds and how empathy—one of our greatest strengths—can become our biggest weakness in toxic relationships. We’ll explore why we get stuck in these cycles, the danger of hoping someone will change, and how to reclaim your power by prioritizing your own well-being. If you’ve ever felt trapped in a relationship that’s draining your energy and warping your reality, this conversation is for you. Tune in for practical insights, empowering advice, and a remi...
2025-05-30
20 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): 3 Signs They're Not Serious About You
Can you relate to this . . . You’ve been dating someone for months and see them once or twice a week. You’ve gotten into a pretty good rhythm, but at the same time, things aren’t really moving forward either. You’re wondering: “Do they like me? I feel like they do, and yet, I don’t know whether this is going anywhere . . .” In this week’s brand-new video, I give you 3 specific things to look for when you want to know if someone’s serious (or headed in that direction). --- ►► Transform Yo...
2025-05-23
10 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): 3 Signs They're Not Serious About You
Can you relate to this . . . You’ve been dating someone for months and see them once or twice a week. You’ve gotten into a pretty good rhythm, but at the same time, things aren’t really moving forward either. You’re wondering: “Do they like me? I feel like they do, and yet, I don’t know whether this is going anywhere . . .” In this week’s brand-new video, I give you 3 specific things to look for when you want to know if someone’s serious (or headed in that direction). --- ►► Transform Yo...
2025-05-23
10 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): They Said They Wanted You, Then Pulled Away? HERE’S WHY…
In today’s Rewind episode, I talk about what might be the most insidious form of ghosting. If someone ghosts you after a couple of tepid dates (which doesn’t feel good, don’t get me wrong) you can usually assume they just weren’t feeling the chemistry . . . But what does it mean when someone pulls away after saying they want to be exclusive, or after texting constantly and telling you they want to see you all the time? In this episode, I give you three reasons why someone might do this, what you shou...
2025-05-16
15 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): They Said They Wanted You, Then Pulled Away? HERE’S WHY…
In today’s Rewind episode, I talk about what might be the most insidious form of ghosting. If someone ghosts you after a couple of tepid dates (which doesn’t feel good, don’t get me wrong) you can usually assume they just weren’t feeling the chemistry . . . But what does it mean when someone pulls away after saying they want to be exclusive, or after texting constantly and telling you they want to see you all the time? In this episode, I give you three reasons why someone might do this, what you shou...
2025-05-16
15 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): If They're Sending Mixed Signals, Send THIS Text
Does absence really make the heart grow fonder . . . especially when the person you’re into seems to forget you exist when you’re not in the same room? When you’re together, life couldn’t be better. You have off-the-charts chemistry, they’re totally focused on you, and your connection feels genuine. The catch? When you’re apart, you feel invisible as communication slows to a crawl and often drops off completely. As a result of these mixed signals, you’re essentially living in two completely different realities, and you’d do anything to g...
2025-05-09
12 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): If They're Sending Mixed Signals, Send THIS Text
Does absence really make the heart grow fonder . . . especially when the person you’re into seems to forget you exist when you’re not in the same room? When you’re together, life couldn’t be better. You have off-the-charts chemistry, they’re totally focused on you, and your connection feels genuine. The catch? When you’re apart, you feel invisible as communication slows to a crawl and often drops off completely. As a result of these mixed signals, you’re essentially living in two completely different realities, and you’d do anything to g...
2025-05-09
12 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): How to STOP Thinking About Your Ex
Have you ever found yourself stuck thinking about an ex who’s no longer in your life? It’s a painful trap, but one that so many of us fall into when we tie our worth to someone else’s story instead of our own. In this episode, we uncover the mindset shift that frees you from this cycle and helps you reclaim your confidence. By focusing on the one thing you truly own—yourself—you can start building a life that feels fulfilling, no matter what’s happening around you. If you’re ready to let go of w...
2025-05-02
16 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): How to STOP Thinking About Your Ex
Have you ever found yourself stuck thinking about an ex who’s no longer in your life? It’s a painful trap, but one that so many of us fall into when we tie our worth to someone else’s story instead of our own. In this episode, we uncover the mindset shift that frees you from this cycle and helps you reclaim your confidence. By focusing on the one thing you truly own—yourself—you can start building a life that feels fulfilling, no matter what’s happening around you. If you’re ready to let go of w...
2025-05-02
16 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
292: The Red Flags You SHOULD Be Paying Attention To
Are you walking away too fast—or staying when you shouldn’t? In this episode, Matthew Hussey shares an honest look at how we misread red flags in dating in an interview with Lisa Bilyeu (@LisaBilyeu). You’ll learn how to spot real red flags vs. amber lights, when to pause instead of panic, and how the right relationship can help you heal. 🎯 Topics include: The difference between a red flag and an “amber light” 🚦 How fear and past hurt can make us overreact or shut down 😬 The danger of going into datin...
2025-04-17
27 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
292: The Red Flags You SHOULD Be Paying Attention To
Are you walking away too fast—or staying when you shouldn’t? In this episode, Matthew Hussey shares an honest look at how we misread red flags in dating in an interview with Lisa Bilyeu (@LisaBilyeu). You’ll learn how to spot real red flags vs. amber lights, when to pause instead of panic, and how the right relationship can help you heal. 🎯 Topics include: The difference between a red flag and an “amber light” 🚦 How fear and past hurt can make us overreact or shut down 😬 The danger of going into datin...
2025-04-17
27 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
286: Get Too Obsessed When You Like Someone? Do THIS | Ft. Yung Pueblo
In this episode, Matthew sits down once again with Yung Pueblo, the #1 New York Times bestselling author of "How To Love Better", to explore deeper insights into love, relationships, and emotional growth. Topics Covered: How to cultivate emotional peace and avoid sabotaging relationships The challenge of maintaining non-attachment while desiring love Navigating dating anxiety and fear of loss How to balance personal happiness and the search for a relationship The role of mindfulness in long-term partnerships How friendships, mentors, and community can support personal growth Understanding intuition when choosing a partner The difference between attraction and true compatibility How to...
2025-03-05
45 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
286: Get Too Obsessed When You Like Someone? Do THIS | Ft. Yung Pueblo
In this episode, Matthew sits down once again with Yung Pueblo, the #1 New York Times bestselling author of "How To Love Better", to explore deeper insights into love, relationships, and emotional growth. Topics Covered: How to cultivate emotional peace and avoid sabotaging relationships The challenge of maintaining non-attachment while desiring love Navigating dating anxiety and fear of loss How to balance personal happiness and the search for a relationship The role of mindfulness in long-term partnerships How friendships, mentors, and community can support personal growth Understanding intuition when choosing a partner The difference between attraction and true compatibility How to...
2025-03-05
45 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
282: The Dangerous Lie That’s Holding Back Your Love Life
In this episode, Matthew Hussey explores why we often delay moving forward, waiting for the "perfect" time to start fresh. What if that perfect time never comes? Drawing from a powerful conversation at a recent Love Life Club event, Matthew unpacks how we unintentionally put our lives on hold, whether in love, career, or personal growth. Matthew also talks about limiting beliefs and reshaping your mindset so you can stop waiting and start living—even in the messy, imperfect middle of life! Topics include: The illusion of a "fresh start" and why life never truly pauses A Love Life...
2025-02-06
26 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
282: The Dangerous Lie That’s Holding Back Your Love Life
In this episode, Matthew Hussey explores why we often delay moving forward, waiting for the "perfect" time to start fresh. What if that perfect time never comes? Drawing from a powerful conversation at a recent Love Life Club event, Matthew unpacks how we unintentionally put our lives on hold, whether in love, career, or personal growth. Matthew also talks about limiting beliefs and reshaping your mindset so you can stop waiting and start living—even in the messy, imperfect middle of life! Topics include: The illusion of a "fresh start" and why life never truly pauses A Love Life...
2025-02-06
26 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): Why It’s So Hard to Leave a Narcissistic Relationship
Leaving a narcissistic relationship is one of the most important things we can do for ourselves. Yet it can be so incredibly hard to leave. We might convince ourselves we can’t live without them, or think we’re being too hard on them, or keep trying to stay in touch . . . In today’s episode, I explain why this happens and provide you with a tool that can help you get peace and clarity to finally move on from a narcissist for good. --- ►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Price...
2025-02-03
20 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): Why It’s So Hard to Leave a Narcissistic Relationship
Leaving a narcissistic relationship is one of the most important things we can do for ourselves. Yet it can be so incredibly hard to leave. We might convince ourselves we can’t live without them, or think we’re being too hard on them, or keep trying to stay in touch . . . In today’s episode, I explain why this happens and provide you with a tool that can help you get peace and clarity to finally move on from a narcissist for good. --- ►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Price...
2025-02-03
20 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
281: 5 Small Habits to Change Your Love Life TODAY
In this episode, Matthew and Audrey dive into: Setting Up for Success in 2025: Practical strategies for making real, lasting changes in your life. Routines for a Better Love Life: Small but powerful habits to help you meet new people and feel more confident. Avoiding Burnout: Lessons from 2024 on why overcommitting can drain your happiness. The Power of Social Interactions: Why making an extra effort to engage with people can transform your opportunities. Navigating Toxic Friendships: A listener question about dealing with a partner’s problematic friend—when to ignore and when to speak up.
2025-01-29
1h 13
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
281: 5 Small Habits to Change Your Love Life TODAY
In this episode, Matthew and Audrey dive into: Setting Up for Success in 2025: Practical strategies for making real, lasting changes in your life. Routines for a Better Love Life: Small but powerful habits to help you meet new people and feel more confident. Avoiding Burnout: Lessons from 2024 on why overcommitting can drain your happiness. The Power of Social Interactions: Why making an extra effort to engage with people can transform your opportunities. Navigating Toxic Friendships: A listener question about dealing with a partner’s problematic friend—when to ignore and when to speak up.
2025-01-29
1h 13
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): 5 Behaviors That Push People Away (Without You Realizing)
Why do people “fade out” in dating with no explanation? The good news is: It often has nothing to do with us. Yet there are also things we may be doing that push someone away without us even realizing it. In today’s episode, I share 5 behaviors that may make someone pull away . . . and ways you can leave people better than you found them (and wanting more!) Whether you want to learn how to become a better listener, not come across as too intense when you really like someone, or just be a better date, don’t miss it...
2025-01-27
28 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): 5 Behaviors That Push People Away (Without You Realizing)
Why do people “fade out” in dating with no explanation? The good news is: It often has nothing to do with us. Yet there are also things we may be doing that push someone away without us even realizing it. In today’s episode, I share 5 behaviors that may make someone pull away . . . and ways you can leave people better than you found them (and wanting more!) Whether you want to learn how to become a better listener, not come across as too intense when you really like someone, or just be a better date, don’t miss it...
2025-01-27
28 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
280: "Why ‘New Year, New Me’ Is a Lie – The Truth About Change"
In this episode, Matthew dives deep into why the "New Year, New Me" mindset often sets us up for failure and how true change is possible with practical steps to break through our old habits and wiring. Topics include: Why Resolutions Fail: How old patterns and beliefs hold us back, no matter how ambitious our goals are. Why creating new goals without addressing underlying habits leads to frustration. The role of action and getting new reference points to rewire our beliefs. Breaking generational patterns of beliefs, behaviors, and trauma. Deciding to "be the pioneer" who changes the trajectory...
2025-01-22
42 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
280: "Why ‘New Year, New Me’ Is a Lie – The Truth About Change"
In this episode, Matthew dives deep into why the "New Year, New Me" mindset often sets us up for failure and how true change is possible with practical steps to break through our old habits and wiring. Topics include: Why Resolutions Fail: How old patterns and beliefs hold us back, no matter how ambitious our goals are. Why creating new goals without addressing underlying habits leads to frustration. The role of action and getting new reference points to rewire our beliefs. Breaking generational patterns of beliefs, behaviors, and trauma. Deciding to "be the pioneer" who changes the trajectory...
2025-01-22
42 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): Feeling Behind? 4 Powerful Mindsets to Get Out of a Rut
“I thought by this point in my life I definitely would have . . .” can be a dangerous phrase. Whether we’re “feeling behind” because we’ve never gotten married, had kids, or owned a house, or just wish we were further along in our career, it can be demoralizing. It’s the same feeling when you go through a breakup and feel like you just “wasted” all that time with someone. But this thinking is a trap. If you’ve caught yourself feeling “I’m so behind compared to everyone else,” use the four powerful mindset reframes I share in today’s episode to get ou...
2025-01-20
23 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): Feeling Behind? 4 Powerful Mindsets to Get Out of a Rut
“I thought by this point in my life I definitely would have . . .” can be a dangerous phrase. Whether we’re “feeling behind” because we’ve never gotten married, had kids, or owned a house, or just wish we were further along in our career, it can be demoralizing. It’s the same feeling when you go through a breakup and feel like you just “wasted” all that time with someone. But this thinking is a trap. If you’ve caught yourself feeling “I’m so behind compared to everyone else,” use the four powerful mindset reframes I share in today’s episode to get ou...
2025-01-20
23 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
279: Do THIS If You Want To Reach Your Relationship Goals In 2025
In this episode, Matthew and Audrey explore the problem of waiting to find love until the "perfect time", and how this thinking can hold us back from living fully and achieving our goals. Whether you're contemplating a life-changing decision, trying to date amidst personal challenges, or simply struggling to move forward, this episode will give you the tools and mindset shifts to take action today. Topics Covered: The pressure of starting fresh in January and why it can be counterproductive. The challenge of single motherhood and facing fears about dating with children. The concept of "Nel Mezzo" (in...
2025-01-15
44 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
279: Do THIS If You Want To Reach Your Relationship Goals In 2025
In this episode, Matthew and Audrey explore the problem of waiting to find love until the "perfect time", and how this thinking can hold us back from living fully and achieving our goals. Whether you're contemplating a life-changing decision, trying to date amidst personal challenges, or simply struggling to move forward, this episode will give you the tools and mindset shifts to take action today. Topics Covered: The pressure of starting fresh in January and why it can be counterproductive. The challenge of single motherhood and facing fears about dating with children. The concept of "Nel Mezzo" (in...
2025-01-15
44 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): Avoid This Dangerous Habit When You Date Someone New...
After a really good date or two, have you ever found yourself scrolling through the other person’s social media pages . . . to a slightly unhealthy degree? Maybe you’ve even tried to find their exes’ profiles to see how you compare with them? (It’s OK, we’ve all been there.) This is often bad for our mental health. And it doesn’t help when we’re trying to build an organic relationship while secretly stalking every part of someone’s life. In today’s new episode, I share practical strategies you can use when you feel the urge to k...
2025-01-13
21 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): Avoid This Dangerous Habit When You Date Someone New...
After a really good date or two, have you ever found yourself scrolling through the other person’s social media pages . . . to a slightly unhealthy degree? Maybe you’ve even tried to find their exes’ profiles to see how you compare with them? (It’s OK, we’ve all been there.) This is often bad for our mental health. And it doesn’t help when we’re trying to build an organic relationship while secretly stalking every part of someone’s life. In today’s new episode, I share practical strategies you can use when you feel the urge to k...
2025-01-13
21 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): How to Find Love & Level Up Your Confidence With These 7 Simple Steps
Wondering how to make 2025 your best year yet? In this brand-new episode, I share 7 subtle habits you can implement without needing to turn your life upside down. These small shifts have the power to: • Boost your chances of finding love. • Make you a better conversationalist. • Get you out of your comfort zone (in a good way). • Increase your love for life. Whether you want to be a little less shy or just want to level up in your social life, this is a must-listen. And it shouldn’t feel like work! It should get you excited a...
2025-01-06
24 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): Heal Your Broken Heart. Starting Now.
When your heart gets broken, it can be as painful as any physical trauma. You can't eat. The world seems dark. Your every thought is tinged with a feeling of loss and hopelessness. But there are STILL choices. And the ones you make now will decide whether you stay feeling broken and defeated, or whether you heal and come back feeling stronger, more confident, and ready to love again. Here's how to get on the right path back to YOU . . . --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magic...
2024-08-31
19 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
259: How to Get Over Narcissists, Cheating, and Heartbreak...the RIGHT Way
When you've been betrayed or hurt by someone, you can often ask yourself, "How did I miss the red flags?". And in this reaction you may end up blaming yourself. Especially if you feel like there's a recurring pattern in the people you've chosen to date so far. So what is the role of our own responsibility when we date people who hurt us? And how do we practice self-forgiveness and compassion for ourselves so we don't get caught in a trap of endlessly beating ourselves up for someone else's bad behavior? In this episode...
2024-08-28
38 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): Why They Commit to the NEXT Person
“I’m always the person they date right before they find the person they marry . . .” Sound familiar? It can be shocking to find out that someone who always held out on commitment suddenly decides they want marriage and children . . . but only after you break up. At that point, you might be thinking: “Oh, so they were able to change . . . they just didn’t want to change with me.” So how can you recover from this feeling of not being chosen? In today’s episode, I share 3 things you MUST know when you find yourself in this situation...
2024-08-26
17 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): 3 Text Messages to Make Them Try Harder in Early Dating
Are you tired of people not putting in any effort? I get it, this can be extremely frustrating, especially if you consistently come across people like this. If you’re wondering what you could do to make someone try harder in early dating, I have a powerful concept to share with you that relates to maintaining attraction. Plus, you'll learn how to apply this concept with three powerful messages you can send to communicate your standards in a playful yet effective way that will encourage them to actually pursue you. ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 M...
2024-08-23
07 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
258: “He Was My First Real Love, And Broke My Heart…"
The first time you experience heartbreak is a shattering experience. It's a new pain, it feels like your entire world falls apart, and you don't know if you'll ever feel better. In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to shift your perspective on your heartbreak, the mindset that helps your recover, and how to stop seeing this person as your only path to happiness. ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.Lov...
2024-08-21
28 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): Did You Lose "The One"? Here's What To Do Now.
Do you have the heartbreaking feeling that you lost “The One”? Maybe you’re haunted by a mistake you made, or something you said, or just a feeling that you could have done something differently to save the relationship. Here’s the good news: There is a path out of this pain. In today’s episode, I’ll show you 5 ways you can recover after (what you feel was) a love life mistake. Whether you’re mentally beating yourself up or just can’t seem to move on, I’ll show you how to feel better instantly, and what you can d...
2024-08-19
29 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): Scared You’ll Never Get Over Them? Listen To This...
Matt, Stephen, and Audrey talk about how to handle a sudden break-up that knocks you sideways and shakes your confidence. How do you get over someone when you felt like you were fully invested in a future with them? And should you cut all contact when they try to reach out and stay friends? ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey Follow Audrey: @theaudreyhussey
2024-02-02
11 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
225: I Asked You to Be HONEST About Your Dating Behaviors. Here’s What I Learned…
We asked you about what behaviours and patterns have caused the most pain in your love life. And you answered! In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey talk on the topic of jealousy in a relationship, insecurity about our looks, and getting over people who don't choose you. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey Follow Audrey: @theaudreyhussey
2024-01-31
35 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): Getting Less Attention Than You Used to? Listen To THIS
Do you feel like everything has changed in the dating scene? Is it making you feel like you have to settle because so many people no longer want commitment? In this clip, Matthew talks about what it's like when we go through difficult experiences and come back onto the dating scene, what happens as we get older and are looking for a relationship, and how you can approach finding love with a new perspective. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew...
2024-01-26
13 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): Getting Less Attention Than You Used to? Listen To THIS
Do you feel like everything has changed in the dating scene? Is it making you feel like you have to settle because so many people no longer want commitment? In this clip, Matthew talks about what it's like when we go through difficult experiences and come back onto the dating scene, what happens as we get older and are looking for a relationship, and how you can approach finding love with a new perspective. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew...
2024-01-26
13 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
224: Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater? Here's What You Should Know...
We all have made mistakes in our past. And some of those we've made in relationships can not only be the most painful, but being honest about the, can effect how future partners see us. So how do you know if someone has grown and changed after a past mistake? And when should you share those with someone you're dating (especially if it's something egregious like cheating). Matt and Audrey sit down in this episode to talk about moving past mistakes and whether you can trust someone who has cheated in the past. ---
2024-01-24
33 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): 5 Brutally Honest Reasons Someone Comes Back After A Break Up
You can set your watch to it. They flake or break up with you . . . you spend weeks — in fact, months — hurting and getting over them, and just as you realize you no longer think about them all the time and begin to feel happy again, you get the text. “Hey, how you doing?” Does this sound familiar? I suspect it does . . . So what is this phenomenon? Why do they always come back? What does it mean? And more importantly, what do you SAY when they do? In today’s episode, I talk about 5 p...
2024-01-05
13 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): How to Make 2024 the Year You FIND LOVE
Want to find love in 2024? Now is the time when everyone is making New Year’s resolutions. It’s fun and I love that feeling of optimism before January begins. But we also know how hard it is to break old habits and patterns—and end up feeling a sense of failure and frustration if we don’t reach our goals . . . In today’s new video, I share with you the #1 resolution you should focus on this year to move toward a successful love life. ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More Abo...
2024-01-01
17 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind) What It Takes To Have Romance In Your Relationship
It's time to talk romance. What it is, and how to get it. Is it something you're born with? Or something you can learn? Join us as we talk about the kind of romance that matters in relationships and holds them together long-term. --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com
2023-10-06
09 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
220: Finding Love Whatever Your Age, Trusting Your Heart, And Handling Rejection (with Marie Forleo)
Do you still feel under pressure to find love? Are people making you fearful that it's too late and you're not young enough to attract the partner you deserve? In this conversation, Matt talks to the incredible Marie Forleo (@MarieForleo) about her own path to finding love, how we may need to change our blueprint to find the right person for us, and what it takes to be truly fulfilled in a long-term relationship and break our old patterns. --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retre...
2023-10-04
1h 06
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): Don't Be Afraid Of Your Weirdness...
Many of us feel the pressure in life to be "normal". Especially in love where we may want to sand off our edges for dating apps and appear like everyone else. But I'm here to tell you... It's ok to be weird. In fact, it will probably be what makes you stand out and do interesting things in the world. Or maybe it's the secret to your creativity, your productivity, or what makes you charismatic. If you copy everyone else, you end up safe, watered down, generic. So if you struggle with...
2023-09-22
06 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): Doomed to Never Find Love? This Will Change Your Story...
I’ve found that one of the biggest confidence-killers in dating happens when we dwell on the reasons why someone may not be attracted to us. Whether we’re sensitive about our looks, our age, or even the fact that we have kids, the fear of rejection can sometimes stop us before we get started. Angela’s story in this week’s episode is one of the most impactful I’ve heard on this subject. I’m so excited for you to see it. If you want to feel more confident in dating (and in life!) you can’t miss th...
2023-09-18
26 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): If You Want To INSTANTLY Heal Your Heart Break, Listen To This.
I’ll keep this short. If you’re experiencing any kind of pain right now from a “situation” or a relationship ending, this clip is a must-listen for you today. It could be the pain of having been ghosted . . . It could be the pain of someone you were seeing regularly going cold on you . . . Or it could be the terrible heartbreak of a long-term relationship falling apart when you didn’t want it to end. In this clip, my brother Stephen and I are not merely talking about how to get over your pain...
2023-09-01
09 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): How To Get Over Your Ex (When You Still Obsess Over Them)
Betrayal. Anger. Heartbreak. These emotions are normal in the wake of a breakup. But often, especially if we feel we’ve been mistreated by the person we broke up with, anger lingers long after it’s productive. We become captive to this toxic emotion, unable to move on and get over what happened, rendering closure impossible. So how can we truly heal from this type of pain? In today's new episode, we'll discuss how. --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at...
2023-08-28
12 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): Are You Most Productive When Single or In A Relationship?
Have you ever worried that being in a relationship makes it harder to achieve your goals? It's a common worry that people have: "I won't be able to juggle all the things I want to do in life and also devote myself to someone". If you've struggled with this dilemma before (or dated people who have), then this clip is for you. Matthew and Stephen talk about the benefits of being single vs. a relationship and how to reframe your lens to be able to make either work for you. --- ►► Tran...
2023-08-25
12 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): Are You Most Productive When Single or In A Relationship?
Have you ever worried that being in a relationship makes it harder to achieve your goals? It's a common worry that people have: "I won't be able to juggle all the things I want to do in life and also devote myself to someone". If you've struggled with this dilemma before (or dated people who have), then this clip is for you. Matthew and Stephen talk about the benefits of being single vs. a relationship and how to reframe your lens to be able to make either work for you. --- ►► Tran...
2023-08-25
12 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): What You Need to Know BEFORE You Get Into a Relationship
Does your life need to be “figured out” before you find “The One”? This is the sort of advice married people LOVE to give: “Once you get your life together and you’re totally fulfilled and happy, the right person will come along.” It sounds good. But is it true? In today's episode, I’ll give you the truth about what you need to do when looking for love so you can find the right person for you without needing to be perfect! --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days.
2023-08-21
14 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): One of the MOST Important Qualities For Any Relationship To Last
There are many qualities that help keep a long-term relationship. When people typically think of things that matter in a relationship, they often list traits or things they like in an ideal partner: sexual chemistry, a sense of humor, intelligence, and kindness. But there are also essential qualities that pertain to how we actually relate to the person in front of us on a day-to-day level. In this clip, Matthew and Stephen explain one of the most underrated things you need that keeps a relationship working even when things get tough. ---
2023-08-18
07 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): One of the MOST Important Qualities For Any Relationship To Last
There are many qualities that help keep a long-term relationship. When people typically think of things that matter in a relationship, they often list traits or things they like in an ideal partner: sexual chemistry, a sense of humor, intelligence, and kindness. But there are also essential qualities that pertain to how we actually relate to the person in front of us on a day-to-day level. In this clip, Matthew and Stephen explain one of the most underrated things you need that keeps a relationship working even when things get tough. ---
2023-08-18
07 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): 3 Ways to Stop Obsessing Over Someone in Early Dating
When you get excited about someone, it's easy to get caught in the trap of obsessive thinking. You try to move too quickly. You check your phone constantly waiting for their texts. You worry they might lose their attention at any moment. When this happens, you can easily end up self-sabotaging, lowering your value, and pushing someone away. So if you want to keep your confidence and maintain attraction throughout the dating process, use these 3 keys to avoid moving too quickly in early dating. --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in Just...
2023-08-14
12 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): If Your Ex Moved On and Crushed You Completely, THIS Is How You Heal
When someone we hoped we would be with forever breaks up with us, the pain of heartbreak that follows can be akin to torture. Most of us have been there before, and we all know it can take all the strength we possess to adapt to this new reality . . . but what about when, in addition to this pain, we have to watch as our ex moves on with someone else? Today's new episode will give you a new approach that will show you how to rebuild step-by-step so you can feel confident in your ability...
2023-07-31
15 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): The UNEXPECTED Way to Make Him Want MORE With You
We’ve been told from a very young age to “play it cool” . . . But as we grow up, we realize that when we feel we need to “play it cool” to keep someone interested, that often means we’re feeling anything but cool . . . and it usually comes from a place of insecurity or a fear of being rejected. Pretty soon, we find ourselves calibrating our conversations and contorting ourselves to meet the other person’s needs so we don’t come off as needy or a nuisance, and little by little, we start to show them that our ne...
2023-05-22
15 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): LET GO, MOVE ON, and HEAL After a Toxic Relationship
In the aftermath of a toxic or narcissistic relationship, we can lose all sense of self. Whether our partner tried to steal our joy at every opportunity, or they wore down our self-esteem with endless arguments and cold-shoulder treatments . . . the end of a relationship like this will leave us feeling disoriented and lost, and it can be hard to rewire our brains and resume normal life once we’re free. At this point, it can be unbelievably hard to trust other people again. Logically, we may understand that not everyone’s like our ex . . . but emotionally, we see d...
2023-03-27
18 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): Want More From Someone? DO NOT Chase; Do THIS Instead!
In today’s new episode, I share very specific principles that will be useful the next time you feel like you’re getting carried away with someone you like. And remember, no one (including yourself!) should make you feel like you’re “not enough.” No matter who you’re dating, by investing in yourself, you can come into any situation feeling like an equal. ►► Invest in Yourself & Finally Believe in Your Own Worth. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE downloa...
2023-02-20
13 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): 5 Mindsets for a Successful Love Life Starting Today
Happy New Year, Friend! Lately, I've been thinking a lot about the New Year's resolutions people make, and I'm curious how you're feeling about yours today. After indulging during the holidays, we often place our hopes in the hands of our future selves, determined that this will be the year everything changes. Of course, having goals is a good thing, but the biggest challenge with New Year's resolutions is how quickly they can buckle under the weight of our expectations. But it doesn't need to be that complicated. Whether you're stressed...
2023-01-02
23 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): Why He's Not Giving You the Respect You Deserve
Wondering why the guy you’re seeing doesn’t seem to respect you? You might be surprised by the reason . . . If your tendency is toward anxiety, you’ll go to great lengths just to restore the peace and get things “back to normal” as quickly as possible. This often includes the compulsion to say “sorry” even when something’s not your fault. The danger with this is that when we make it clear to someone that we’ll do anything to avoid difficult conversations, it becomes easy for them to take us for granted . . ....
2022-10-10
12 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Why You’re Attracted to People Who Don’t Want You
Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)? Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you? Why does this happen? Why do we conveniently keep getting attracted to the least convenient people? It can be deeply frustrating, especially when there might be someone who does like us but who we just don’t want. In this video, I explain two fundamental reasons why this keeps happening. At the end of this video, I give you a practical “mind trick” you can do on yours...
2022-05-20
05 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
How to Combat Imposter Syndrome in Real Life
Do you get nervous that you’re not good enough? Feel a deep inner worry that you’re a “fraud” waiting to get found out? This is called “Imposter Syndrome”, and it’s a common trap that can make us live with SO much unnecessary anxiety and it holds us back from opportunities. In this clip, Matt explains how to defeat imposter syndrome with a simple mindset reframe. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://w...
2022-05-13
07 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
165: How “Sexual Expectations” Affect Your Relationship’s Potential...
When it comes to sex, some of us have very specific ideas about what it should be like in a relationship. There’s the “sexual destiny” mindset, which says that sex should be amazing from the start and is entirely about natural chemistry. Then there’s the “sexual growth” mindset, which says that sex can improve over time and couples can work out sexual differences. In this episode, Matt and Stephen discuss the difference between these mindsets and what they mean for a potential relationship. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life...
2022-05-11
43 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
The “No Contact Rule” Explained
When a relationship with someone we had strong feelings for (or even loved) ends, we tend to get overwhelmed with emotions. Whether we were with them for a short period of time or in a long, committed relationship, these feelings are universal. They can come in the form of raw heartbreak, the feeling that we’ve lost control over our happiness, a paralyzing fear that they might move on, an overwhelming desperation to get them back, or simply the pain of missing someone who used to be a constant in our life. The tr...
2022-05-09
25 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Say This to Him Then Watch Him Melt
Has this ever happened to you? You’re on a first date... and... He’s charming, handsome, and you feel like you have chemistry… But at the end of the night… he doesn’t ask for a second date (nevermind a third or fourth). If this has happened to you (or keeps happening), you’re likely missing one of the two essential things that make him reach across the table and say: “I’d really like to see you again.” In this clip, I tell you EXACTLY what to say so tha...
2022-05-06
03 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
164: "He STILL Won't Commit to Me! Should I Cut Him Off?!"
What do you do if you feel a special connection, but he keeps you waiting on the big question of commitment? In a spontaneous Instagram live, Matt recently coached a follower who was struggling with this exact dilemma. If you’re sick of sitting in the “waiting room” and hoping for something to change, make sure you listen to this message. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com ---...
2022-05-04
31 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
“Bad Texter” or Just Not That Into You?
Few things can match the heady exhilaration of dating someone and building momentum through regular texting and a sense of closeness. But what about when the texting on their end is . . . kind of slow and intermittent . . . where there are big gaps in your text exchanges that leave you feeling unsure as to where, exactly, you stand with that person? Feeling this way might even lead you to start analyzing their relationship with their phone the next time you’re with them, looking for clues as to whether their sporadic phone usage is consistent in their li...
2022-05-02
15 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Toxic Codependency or Healthy Closeness? How to Tell the Difference
What should you look for BEFORE you even enter into a new relationship, to figure out if your attachment styles are compatible? Having a reliable and steady partner may not get as much attention as other “sexier” attributes, but it really is a beautiful thing. Knowing you can depend on someone romantically, physically, and emotionally can draw you even closer together—strengthening your growing bond. In this episode, Matt explains what it takes to avoid codependency and have the kind of healthy partnership that means you both flourish, instead of creating a scenario where...
2022-04-29
11 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
163: "I'm Always Attracted to the WRONG People!"
How do we find the right person if we're always falling for the wrong one? It's a common problem, one that can make you feel doomed to always be in unsatisfying relationship cycles over and over again. In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Jameson talk about why we feel this way towards certain people with negative traits and how we can heal so we align with the right kind of partner for us. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30...
2022-04-27
57 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
"He Ghosted Me But Still Watches My Social Media... WTF?"
What does it mean when someone you dated—a guy you still like even though things fizzled out—is still engaging with your social media. Maybe you went on a few dates, had a connection, and even got physical, but it didn’t quite go anywhere. Yet, strangely, he still seems to be keeping a watchful eye on what you get up to on social media. Immediately, the gears of your mind start turning as you analyze the timing and the meaning of each emoji he sends in response to the photo of your n...
2022-04-25
09 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Don't Get Into A Relationship With Someone Who Has This Trait
It doesn't matter how many great qualities they have if they have one or more lethal negative traits that make it impossible to get your needs met. In this episode, Matt talks about toxic relationship behaviours to watch out for in every stage of dating. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can ge...
2022-04-22
08 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
162: Why "Single-Shaming" Is Dumb (And How To Resist It)
No matter how far we’ve come, there is still a stigma in society for people who choose to remain single for longer than the average person. And this leads to all kinds of judgment: you must be sad, you must want a partner, you must have a problem… Matt, Stephen, and Audrey discuss why “single-shaming” persists and how to avoid feeling the pressure from society in influencing your decisions about your romantic life. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together Join Me In-Person for the Return of T...
2022-04-20
58 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): Why Did He Stop Chasing You?
In this episode, I share with you 3 mistakes we can fall into that have the potential to hurt desire. These 3 insights could mean the difference between piquing someone’s interest and a situation just fizzling out. Once you’re aware of them, they’re extremely easy to spot . . . so you won’t inadvertently end up “8-Miling” yourself. (Trust me, it’ll make sense when you hear the episode.) --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat → http://www.MHRetreat.com
2022-04-18
14 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): Being Single Does NOT Mean You're A Failure
Sick of being asked "why are you still single?" Tired of society deciding people are more successful just because they are in a relationship? Me too. Here's why you should never judge anyone or yourself by their relationship status, and what really matters when thinking about your current stage of life. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9text...
2022-04-08
04 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
160: Answering *YOUR* Biggest Questions About "Microdosing" In Dating
Have you found yourself unable to resist getting another hit of attention from someone you know is wrong for you? Want to send out one more text even though you *know* you shouldn't? This is called microdosing. And it's easy to fall into this trap when you feel hooked on someone, but it doesn't mean it's good for us in the long-term. In this episode, Matt and Stephen answer your biggest questions about microdosing and give practical ways to prevent getting fixated on the wrong person. --- L...
2022-04-06
50 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): Wasted Your Love on the Wrong Person? Listen To This...
How much time have you spent beating yourself up for things you wish you’d done differently? Whether it’s due to: • A relationship you should’ve left months (or years) earlier • A family member you could’ve created more distance with • A job you stayed in too long . . . it’s easy to mentally pummel yourself as you think about all the time you wasted. But this mindset won’t get you where you need to go. In today’s episode, you’ll learn why you can’t blame the you of the (even rec...
2022-04-04
06 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): "No Matter What I Do I Can't Get Over Them. PLEASE HELP!"
How do you move on when you thought they were "the one" for you? This is where to start... --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join me in-person for the return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Don’t Miss Out! Subscribe to my YouTube channel now. I post new love life advice for you every weekend. ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com
2022-04-01
01 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
159: Everything You Know About Happiness Is Wrong
Let’s be real for a moment . . . We all sometimes wish we could be happier. We blame all sorts of variables for holding us back from achieving this. We tell ourselves that once we finally find a partner, secure a better job, or lose weight, life will be good and we will finally be happy. But even when we achieve some of those goals, the “happiness goalposts” appear to move a little further down the field. We can even forget that we have certain things in our lives now that 10 years ago we...
2022-03-30
17 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
119: If You've Ever Felt “Not Good Enough” for a Relationship...
Last week, we talked about how the right partner will “elevate your best and soothe your worst.” But what if you feel like your best isn’t good enough? Or you’re afraid your worst will be “too much” for someone? In this situation, it can be tempting to overcorrect—to go overboard in your efforts to impress someone until they finally discover what you’re “really like.” In this week’s new episode, I’ll teach you how to shift from looking at yourself through a lens of self-judgment, self-loathing, and self-hatred, and instead view yoursel...
2021-06-25
16 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
93: How to Be Irreplaceable in Love AND Invincible in Life
Create Your Uniquely Extraordinary Life. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat . . . → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com Whether you’ve been following my work for 5 days or 5 years, this is one you can’t miss. It’s one of the most fundamental concepts I’ve ever taught, and it is the key to: - Increasing your confidence - Expanding your life - Being irreplaceable to the person you want - Being able to handle any part of your life going wrong This is where my dating advice...
2021-03-08
16 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
80: How To Stay Motivated If Your "To-Do List" Is Making You Miserable...
Discover How to Love Your Life Every Day. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat... http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com Are you a list maker? I am. It’s how I get things done. But doesn’t life sometimes just feel like an endless “To-Do List”? We wake up, make a list, do what we can on that list, and before we know it, there’s another day, gone. And, if we’re not careful, we get to the end of every day feeling like our confidence has been eroded because we didn’t even get to...
2021-01-25
08 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
70: 3 Ways to Make Sure He Meets Your Needs
Transform Your Life and Claim Your Happiness NOW. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat… http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com --- I get SO many questions about standards in early-stage dating every week... How do you set standards? How do you know if your standards are too high, too low, or are scaring people away? How do you communicate your standards in a kind and honest way? What if all of my standards are fulfilled by someone except one important one? To answer some of th...
2020-11-25
07 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
62: Why You Get Attracted to the Wrong People
Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)? Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you? Why does this happen? Why do we conveniently keep getting attracted to the least convenient people? It can be deeply frustrating, especially when there might be someone who does like us but who we just don’t want. In this episode, I explain two fundamental reasons why this keeps happening. At the end, I give you a practical “mind trick” you can do on yourself to change this... Le...
2020-10-13
09 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
58: Is Their Behavior a Deal-Breaker?
Ever found yourself in a situation where the person you are with is doing something that affects you negatively, only they don’t see it as a big deal? They tell you they don’t think they’re doing anything wrong, and that you should be OK with it. That’s what happened to the woman whose story I tell in this episode. Her boyfriend was regularly texting a female friend he’d made only recently. Every time she got upset about it, he told her she was being unnecessarily controlling and jealous and that h...
2020-09-29
09 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
29: To My Community...
A mere 2 weeks ago it would have been hard to conceive of a world that was about to heat up considerably beyond the tension and emotion already experienced in 2020. Then came the murder of George Floyd. Since then, I, living in Los Angeles, have watched the United States – and beyond – reach a boiling point on race issues. It’s a dark time, and yet it also feels like a time where real change could be possible. I find myself asking of what service I can possibly be. Another weekend rolls around, my wee...
2020-06-07
09 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Why The WRONG Guys Always Approach You
*NEW SERIES* Could it be true? After 3+ years off the air…is our podcast ‘Love Life With Matthew Hussey’ really back?? YES. And what’s really exciting is that this time around I am joined by my brother, and co-writer of the New York Times bestselling Get The Guy book, Stephen Hussey! (@stephenhhussey) In fact, he’s going to be introducing each episode as we go on this new podcast adventure together. Exciting times! So whatever you’re doing right now, you don’t even need to stop it. Just fire up episo...
2020-02-17
14 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Why The WRONG Guys Always Approach You
*NEW SERIES* Could it be true? After 3+ years off the air…is our podcast ‘Love Life With Matthew Hussey’ really back?? YES. And what’s really exciting is that this time around I am joined by my brother, and co-writer of the New York Times bestselling Get The Guy book, Stephen Hussey! (@stephenhhussey) In fact, he’s going to be introducing each episode as we go on this new podcast adventure together. Exciting times! So whatever you’re doing right now, you don’t even need to stop it. Just fire up episo...
2020-02-17
14 min
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
How Your “Baggage” Can Make You MORE Attractive
I’m Matthew Hussey and – by popular demand – I’m so excited to be launching my new podcast, “LOVE Life.” In this first episode, I’m going to tell you a little bit about how I became the world’s leading dating expert for women and what you can expect to get out of the show. (Here’s a hint—even though the show is called “LOVE Life,” you’re going to learn about much more than just dating…you’re going to get some proven, practical advice you can use right away to get the most out of every other area of your life...
2015-12-02
06 min