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Real-Resilience006 Life is Pain - Choose Your FlavorI know, not the most invigorating title, and perhaps even a little disheartening. But I assure you, as we do on here on the Matt Lostaglia Show, we take these things most people see as obstacles and we transform them into launching pads from which we propel ourselves upward and forward beyond anything we could have even considered prior to the obstacle appearing in the first place. We all have difficult paths in front of us. The one consistent aspect for each and everyone of us, is that we will inevitably decide. So, let's figure out what flavor we want!2020-10-2337 min
Real-ResilienceAre You Good Enough? Really?You see it everywhere! "You ARE Good Enough!" While I appreciate the intentions of positivity, however I make a simple demand of those looking to instill motivation. Be Better. We are not good enough. Period. Full Stop. This is why we get up everyday and go to work. this is why we work out, why we run, why we learn, why we grow. If you have grown stagnant and stopped growing, this is not a sign of being good enough, it is a sign that you have given up on yourself. We are forever incomplete stories, stories being written until the day...2020-10-1545 min
Real-ResilienceUnfair Advantages: Use em or Lose em!Today we tackle the concept a bit more in detail of winning versus not failing. We really dive into the idea of what it means to win. And that winning may not be the only way to succeed, prosper, and get that much desired feeling of satisfaction. How do advantages come into play here? What about our good old friend Epictetus? Tune in to find out!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2020-10-091h 00
Real-ResilienceChoose Your Regret WiselyChristopher Hitchens said it best - We all have to choose our own regrets. I love this and how it plays directly into the power of choice that we have. Today I discuss the seemingly irrational emotional responses to changes in the national political landscape in the United States. Between the death of Ruth Bader Ginsberg and the fall out from our political leadership we are seeing some unusually hyper emotional responses. How is it that the response to one death can create so much fear and anxiety within an individual? Thankfully we covered this last week, so if you didn...2020-09-2552 min
Real-ResilienceI Have a Confession to MakeYes, it is the sad truth. There is something I haven't been telling you.My attention has been split and I have actively prioritized other events and passively de-prioritized this show. This is something that has cost me greatly. This is one venue of my passionate pursuit of my dreams and long term goals. I am back and excited to actively re-prioritize you and this show, because together we can make a meaningful and long-lasting impacts on your life and thus the lives of your family, friends, community, and the world!Today I dive into the concepts of...2020-09-171h 02
Real-ResilienceMatt Does The Adam Messer Show Part 1This was another great opportunity to get on the radio and to live broadcast the message of improvement through self-discovery ad a commitment to action that is my life's mission. Adam is a great friend of mine and while we have had many great shows together over the past year or so I feel that this was probably our best showing yet!! #motivational #motivation #motivationalquotes #quotes #inspiration #goals #success #inspirational #mindset #inspirationalquotes #believe #entrepreneur #inspire #positivity #love #quoteoftheday #positivevibes #selflove #bhfyp #life #happiness #lifestyle #yourself #quote #instadaily #photooftheday #loveyourself #thoughts #successquotes #bhfyp--- Su...2020-09-0254 minReal-ResilienceSuccess Leaves Clues with Steve BeachWelcome back! This is the first interview I have done in a HOT MINUTE! Steve is a father, husband, and real estate agent. In this COVID-19 era it was eye opening to talk about what life looks like for a man who is managing to capitalize on opportunities during these tumultuous times versus flail about in the water looking for a life raft to come and save him. He is the type of person who jumps on opportunities and takes care of his family. Was he always this on it? Listen to Steve talk about his evolution as a man and si...2020-08-191h 24
Real-ResilienceMake it PersonalWhat happens when we acknowledge ourselves as the emotional beings that we are? What happens when we take that acknowledgement and back it with action? You can change the entire course of your life when you tie your purpose with your emotions. That is what separates thinker from doers, and the good from the great.--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2020-08-1124 min
Real-ResilienceMy Runstory | Passion, Crucible, Saving GraceThis is my personal story of the ups and downs around running. I wanted to share this because it exemplifies loss of a part of yourself and the steady downhill roll that can take place afterwards. You get to see how I recovered and what recovery can look like, not pretty, not sexy, not an overnight fix. Ongoing steps, taken day by day to see the slightest improvements. That is how we take those steps forward from loss.--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2020-08-0348 min
Real-ResilienceIn a World of Black and White - Embrace the GRAYspaceWe do not like to embrace nuance. We like this or that. We like hard and clear lines. In Theory. In Movies. In our minds. But how often do we actually follow a black and white approach to anything? Is it beneficial to do so? What aspects of our belief systems and thought processes the evoke action are best to be laid out hard and without compromise and where should we write things down with a pencil? Check out this episode and I will give you my take!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2020-07-2336 min
Real-ResilienceThe Broken Glass in Your MindThis is where the Broken Glass Theory meets the power of personal narrative in how you see yourself and the impacts on the compelling future you could have versus the undesirable outcomes we want to avoid. We are not one thing, we are not JUST a product of our up bringing, not JUST a product of our environment, not JUST an hereditary amalgamation of our parents, we are all of these things and more. To not acknowledge the impacts of these things is to deny our existence as human beings. To look at things and to desire that the negative fall...2020-06-3037 min
Real-ResilienceStairway of Your Being - What's the Next Step?This episode is only half an hour, however it is one of the most meaningful episodes jam packed full of true and real value. This is one you MUST listen to. Take it on a hike, a run, while your washing your dishes, mowing the grass, anywhere you consume it prepare for something that could help launch you to the next step.--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2020-06-2434 minReal-ResilienceTo Burn or Not to BurnIt is here! The Burn Your Boats 1 Year anniversary!!! It has not always been easy, it has caused more than a few additional gray hairs, BUT – of all of the things I have ever created from scratch this has got to be the single most satisfying endeavor I have ever embarked upon. I am honored and humbled to have been able to walk upon that journey with you as none of it is possible or worthwhile without a receptive audience. As the message continues to expand its reach, we keep drawing in more and more individuals to the community. And wit...2020-06-2051 minReal-ResilienceYeah, I’m Angry – So What’s the big deal?Well in this episode we will consider the ramifications on not just yourself and your health, but also the impact on your relationships. We will even check in with Aristotle to get his take on Anger, because, why not consider the thoughts of one of the major thought leaders in the course of recorded human history!?--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2020-06-0929 minReal-ResilienceThe Most DANGEROUS Word: S*****Yes, the elusivest of elusive titles! I do indeed want to introduce you to the single most dangerous word in the English Language. But unfortunately I cannot give away the prized information so quickly, for you must come and join us here on Burn Your Boats to get read in on the nuances of life that we have allowed to infect us each and every day that stand between us and where we could be tomorrow. Interestingly enough often times those obstacles that stand between us and an even better life are often simple, small, and seemingly unobtrusive. Some...2020-06-0533 minReal-Resilience"Fear is the Mother of Foresight"This is a quote from Thomas Hardy - 1820-1928 Thomas Hardy, not the modern bad@$$ actor although I am sure he has some amazing quotes as well!Today I dive into this quote and what it means both to me and possibly where it was derived within the mentality of Thomas Hardy given his time in history and his proclivities. We also chat about dreams! Yes new age hippy talk! Not really, this is the most tangible and practical discussion on dreams you may ever hear. And I give you a quick personal insight into myself and my mentality as...2020-05-2933 minReal-ResilienceFairness, Equality, and Joe Rogan?Yes, that's right! We discuss the intersection of fairness, equality and Joe Rogan! Only here on this show can we interweave the complex in a meaningful way that is both enlightening and entertaining!It's good to be back in the saddle, and I love that you are still here with me. I look forward to a bright new future as we all continue to learn, develop and grow together.--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2020-05-2131 minReal-ResilienceResponding Vs. Reacting: Who is in the Driver'Do you ever feel like the world is mostly out of your control? Like things happen and you are just in a perpetual state of reacting to this event or the next event?ORDo you feel like you are in complete control and you respond exactly in the right way at the right time to the right person in the right degree? (Stolen a bit from Aristotle with that question!)Chances are there is some room for improvement. There is some room for further understanding yourself and being able to respond to the world, versus living in...2020-05-1542 minReal-ResilienceCatch Up!Hey Yall! Just a quick catch up episode. It has been a little bit of time and there have been A LOT of changes. Today we get into a bit about sales, and my perspective on participating more directly in the free market.--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2020-05-1025 minReal-ResilienceIs shame like courage? Yes - here's why...Shame - or more accurately - our tolerance for shame is akin to the growth of our courage and resilience. The more we allow into our lives the easier it is to create more room for it to live and grow. We need to foster those things we want more of - courage, resilience, and the like; and then minimize those moments of shame by choosing better actions and at the same time super highlight those shameful moments and feelings when they do occur so that way we're encouraging improvement and not perpetual shameful actions.--- ...2020-04-1031 min
Real-ResilienceWho Decides When You “Made It”? – With Jason UsryJason is an absolutely AMAZING real life current Demonstration of exactly what I strive for with Burn Your Boats.I interview inspiring individuals to spur my audience to commit and take action in their own lives. Jason has been committing and taking action for years and years and the hard work and dedication have really set him apart from other artists who may not be as rigorously committed as he.Jason Usry is a Screen Writer, Author, producer, director, husband, father, friend and simply astounding example of what is possible to all of us in this w...2020-03-311h 41
Real-ResilienceWho Decides When You - Made It - Preview with Jason UsryHey guys! I am unbelievably excited to be able to bring you a new interview. I had a conversation with Jason UsryJason Usry is a Screen Writer, Author, producer, director, husband, father, friend and simply astounding example of what is possible to all of us in this world. If you want access to this NOW! Then come find our group on Facebook – Burn Your Boats Group Pagehttps://www.facebook.com/groups/BurnYourBoats/The full conversation will be available for public consumption on Tuesday March 31st because, Hey, What better way to wrap up this month...2020-03-2901 minReal-ResilienceGear Your Mind to See Opportunities NOW!There is a lot going on right now. Technology is enabling us to stay connected to those people and those activities that mean the most to us. Whether it be your neighborhood, your city, your state or your family across the world. We can use this tool to help us progress and IMPROVE or we can use it to stoke the flames of fear of uncertainty. If anyone tells you they know what is going on full stop without doubt you need to cut and run. Don't argue, don't waste your time with that. There are th...2020-03-2747 minReal-ResilienceWhy I am in Tribe C - Part 2Picking up where I left off….accidentally! I realized that I hadn’t wrapped up some of the ideas that I was discussing as neatly as I had intended...and by neatly I mean I left some things completely untouched! So join me again while I wrap up some of the themes from yesterday’s episode – Why I am in Tribe C in Part 2 now!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2020-03-2118 minReal-ResilienceWhy I am in Tribe CTimes are well…let’s just say it, a little crazy! I know there are a lot of people at home with some extra time on their hands. I wanted to provide some personal insights I have been having since COVID-19 has laid some impact on all of our lives in some way shape or form. Here is some food for thought during these tumultuous times. I am very happy to be able to be here with you. We can and will get through this together! Much love to all of my peoples!!--- Support this podc...2020-03-201h 12
Real-ResilienceThat Thing that Scares You? DO IT - NOW! With Alex DiBaiseThis is LONG overdue! This conversation was so amazing, and Alex is such an inspiring and motivational person that I feel AWFUL for not sharing this with all of you so much sooner. Alex's perspective on priorities, fear and choices is impeccable and is definitely an approach on life that you need to hear in order to continue to broaden your own perspective and approach to life.https://www.facebook.com/groups/BurnYourBoats/--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2020-03-151h 13Real-ResilienceHow To Get The World To Conspire To Help YOUIt is amazing what happens when you start to take action. When you identify what you want, you find what is important to you and you move relentlessly in that direction. It may seem daunting at first, before you move. But move we must! Once you do it will truly feel as if the entire universe is conspiring to help you to achieve your end state. You will inevitably run into obstacles that must be removed, destroyed or avoided. But after having the wind at your back nothing will deter you from your goal. --- Support this po...2020-03-0551 minReal-ResilienceMomentum - Not Just In The MomentThis isn’t just about the importance of momentum, but about the power of it. There are certain techniques and actions you can incorporate into your life that can help you to not only begin getting momentum, to build it up higher, but also how to plan for times when it will wane, because it will, inevitably do so. There are ways to overcome this before it even occurs! Tune in to catch wind of some of these strategies and to continue to build a better brighter and more compelling future for yourself.--- Support this po...2020-02-2648 minReal-ResilienceIs it just Dumb Luck?It must be nice! You're so lucky! Have you ever heard these expressions? Have they ever been directed at you? How about you? Have you ever used them? Maybe it's time to understand luck a little better than you do now. There is not just pure dumb luck of chance and happenstance. You can put yourself in a position to be asked these questions by your friends and family! So why wait?--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2020-02-1818 min
Real-ResilienceTWYG Wednesday - Mental Toughness And Anti FragilityWhat is Mental Toughness? What does it mean to be “Anti-Fragile”? They are two very important phrases that can not just help you to survive through life, but to thrive in the best AND in the WORST of times. How can you benefit from adversity? How can you prepare yourself for tough patches? Follow along and find out.Join Burn Your Boats https://www.facebook.com/groups/BurnYourBoats/--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2020-02-0529 min
Real-Resilience2EZ Tuesday Employee VS ManagerHave you ever heard, or better yet, have you ever said "I could do his job way better" or "I could run this place, no problem." ?I bet you have, and if so I wonder what the real extent of that thought was. How much of leadership, mentoring and managing do you really understand and could you effectively run your organization better than the current regime? If so why haven't you taken steps in doing so? Likely because you're not ready or willing to actually take on that responsibility. --- Support this...2020-02-0519 minReal-ResilienceTWYG Wednesday - Be Deliberate Today So Your Tomorrow Isn't StolenTime is our most valuable resource. It's non refundable, non renewable, and no amount of money, power or influence can get it back once it is spent. Be deliberate in your life and your choices. Make plans, be steadfast, but not rigid. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2020-01-3026 minReal-Resilience2EZ Tuesday - Strength And Growth From ConflictWhen you are around other people, whether it's in the workplace, at home or with your friends disputes, disruptions, conflict, and disagreements are inevitable. This isn't something to worry about! It is actually an opportunity for your team to grow stronger together than you ever imagined possible.arnit--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2020-01-2942 minReal-ResilienceDestroy The Man of Steel And Become SupermanHow do you become superman in the battlefield of ideas and on the debate stage? Identifying what it means to be successful in a debate is step one. Once you identify this you must work your ass off in order to even come close to realizing this type of success. It doesn’t just happen. Our pride and ego will not allow for it naturally. You must combat this with patience, knowledge, and respect. You must respect yourself enough to put in the work, to care enough. You must respect your opponent enough to have their back and support them in...2020-01-2330 minReal-Resilience2EZ Tuesday - Dr. MLK Jr., Aristotle, and IMonday was the day that we commemorate the life of the one and only Doctor Martin Luther King Junior. I was drawn to spend some dedicated time focused on him on this day. I was particularly drawn to two quotes by MLK thrown out there by a couple of friends. They were perfectly timed and placed as I was furthering my studies of courage and bravery in the context of ancient Greek philosophy. So, here is to you Good Doctor, on this amazing day (acknowledged publication is more than a day late and a dollar short, but I did record on y...2020-01-2340 minReal-ResilienceTWYG Wednesday - Which Authorities are we Granting too Much Power?That’s right folks we’re back at it again with another ‘That’s What You Get!’ Wednesday edition here on Burn Your Boats. This week I am breaking down, in layman’s terms, another logical fallacy that has been catching people up since people have been people…so for the entire existence of mankind! These are the logical fallacies “Appeal to Authority” and “Argument from Authority”. There are some good reasons for the enduring nature. Putting trust in brave, successful and..well…people that were still alive was the best way to survive for a very long period of the human experience.2020-01-1730 minReal-Resilience2EZ Tuesday - The Next Right ThingYes this is hijacked directly from Frozen 2! We are still steeped heavily in the wake of the New Year. Most New Year’s Resolutions fall by the wayside by mid-February. SO if you are still rocking those new habits and aggressively pursuing those new goals of 2020 now is absolutely the time to plan for those moments of mental fog, ego depletion, and general funks that will, absolutely without question WILL happen. We frequently plan for the expected hardships that come within our industry, with the ebbs and flows of the marketplace as it pertains to our work, however how often do...2020-01-1546 minReal-ResilienceTWYG Wednesday - Do You Stand Up To The MAN Or The IDEALogical fallacies are these mental traps or pitfalls that we can fall into when fighting for an idea or standing up to what we consider to be a bad idea. Identifying the fallacies, falsehoods, inconsistencies, and inaccuracies in the foundations of our thinking is crucial to the success in enduring lines of effort - any effort. Knowing these fallacies will allow you to facilitate much clearer conversations, present much more sound business plans and increase efficiencies everywhere as you are no longer being held back by less than logical footing.--- Support this podcast: ht...2020-01-0919 minReal-Resilience2EZ Tuesday - Resolve to Define with the Courage to CommitWelcome to 2020 - The year of perfect vision! Many if not most of us kick each new year off with a set of aspirations, goals, RESOLUTIONS! I identify and analyze some of the most common resolutions that are made every year. In this year of 20/20 vision it is important to understand our aim and why we aim at those things. So I break down why it is that these resolutions seem to make their way into our lives each year and how exactly it is that we fail. In so doing I discuss different strategies and approa...2020-01-0756 minReal-ResilienceBurn Your Boats 2019 Close Out SpecialAdam Messer joins me for the close out of 2019! We discuss those huge events that occurred in the past year and how we handled them. We touch on everything from politics to philosophy and how we intend on driving forward to create a new and better world in 2020!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-12-221h 46
Real-Resilience025 Mindful Leadership with Rudy DominguezRudy Dominguez is an exceptional father, husband, professional, leader, soldier, and man, PERIOD. His education in business, tied in with 18 years of experience in the military and experience leading in team RWB, a non profit organization provide him with a unique and amazingly thorough understanding of what it means to lead.--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-12-201h 49Real-ResilienceTWYG Wednesday - Perfection is the Enemy of GoodPerfection is the Enemy of good. Don't let the perfect image you have of an idea stop you from taking action today. It equates to something like paralysis by analysis. Check out the video for further defining, and tools/approaches to combat this ineffectual type of thinking.Bonus material available at Burn Your Boats Fan Page on Facebook!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-12-1925 minReal-Resilience2EZ Tuesday - Which Are You?When adversity hits are you the carrot, the egg, or the coffee bean? It's an old tale at this point, but one worth contemplating the power of. I don't like the self help platitudes that sound great in a soundbite but aren't clear on their application. I bridge that gap. That is the reason Burn Your Boats exists especially as we move into the new year. 2020 will be a year of great change and I will be providing some brand new training, techniques and skills that don't just sound good on a meme but are also able to be pr...2019-12-1813 min
Real-ResilienceBeyond the Sale with Brandon Casey BellBurn Your Boats brings on another guest! Brandon Casey Bell. This young man is a star shining brightly in this world through his work ethic and dedication to the care of both those who work in his shop as well as the customers. His priorities are amazingly well in order for any person, let alone someone who is relatively young! I love to find young people who model this behavior to help the older generations to break their stereotypical thinking of the new generation and more importantly to provide hope that the world is not doomed. Rather it is illuminated with...2019-12-131h 32Real-ResilienceTWYG Wednesday - Earn Your Rest DayMy problem with rest days...you haven't earned it. Or better yet, perhaps you shouldn't earn it. Words matter and the shared understanding of their meaning matters even more. Listen in as I discuss how I define a rest day and why I do not comply. DO stop and smell the roses, do not take a day off from life.--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-12-1114 minReal-Resilience2EZ Tuesday - Asking Better QuestionsHave you ever struggling with restoring lost motivation? Have you ever had someone react in a hyper sensitive or emotional manner that does not match the events that have occurred? This episode is dedicated to providing you with yet another tool to add to your mental kit bag! Manage your own emotional state, your reactions to the world and also discover the way to help guide others to do the same!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-12-1018 min
Real-ResilienceUNFUNK Yourself! with Jenna WeintsteinBurn Your Boats brings Jenna Weinstein on to discuss resiliency in her life and how she implements this into her teachings of those trainers in the military. She doesn't stop there! She continues to find new ways to innovate and create around the principles of resiliency, mental health and physical training through her own business Ripple Effect Performance.Check out the Burn Your Boats Fan Page for the Special Edition with behind the scenes conversations!https://www.facebook.com/groups/BurnYourBoats/--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-12-071h 16Real-ResilienceTWYG Wednesday - Is vs Ought CondundrumDuring this time of year we have to deal with a lot of projections and opinions. We are around a lot of family and friends potentially discussing controversial topics packed full of a lot of energy and emotion. This is one helpful hint to guide you through these conversations and to at least make them potentially useful and more realistic!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-12-0409 minReal-Resilience2 EZ Tuesday 3 December 20192 EZ Tuesday 3 December 2019--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-12-0410 min
Real-ResilienceWhat's your big Why? With Mario F. FoxMario FitzGerald Fox epitomizes the energy, spirit and attitude of Burn Your Boats. His story of struggle and success really gives you a look behind the curtain of "overnight success". It's never overnight and it never comes without hard choices, harder work, and perseverance.--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-11-291h 21Real-ResilienceTWYG Wednesday - What Is Your Recipe For Satisfaction?The current results that you are achieving, in all aspects of your life, are the results of systems that you have in place. The systems are made up decisions and actions, or the ingredients of our life. Are you satisfied with the 'recipes' that make up your life? Do they all taste as absolutely as delicious as possible? If so, then you're set! Have an amazing life and live it up!! If you have relationships that need mending or a boost - whether they be personal, intimate, business or otherwise - then you need to take a step back a...2019-11-2812 minReal-Resilience2EZ Tuesday - Implementing Effectual And Practical PraiseDon't just praise and compliment. Build new pathways. Help people to help you by paving the path to a mutually beneficial relationship!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-11-2612 min
Real-Resilience021: Are You Standing in the Way of YOUR OWN Success? with Travis and Jackie PhillipsTravis, a culinary master chef and Jackie, a visionary of floral design let me into their gorgeous southern plantation, Hames Hall for an incredible interview. The ways in which they are able to operate both independently and then to come together to make magic happen on the most important day of many peoples' lives (their wedding!) is truly marvelous. If nothing else, you HAVE to stick around to hear about their wedding. It literally had EVERYTHING, like marching bands kind of everything! Yes, tune in and find out how incredible a wedding day can be!w Check out the...2019-11-221h 30Real-ResilienceTWYG Wednesday Trust People to be EXACTLY Who They AreOften times people will let you know exactly who they are, what is important to them, and what their intentions are if you listen and pay attention. We are pretty obvious creatures! Look at where we spend money, how we spend our time, and who we choose to spend out time with and that will answer A LOT of questions. These are the things you should take into consideration prior to partnerships or any type of commitment with other people. They will show you who they are. If you don't pay attention or listen, the fall out from that is preci...2019-11-2110 min
Real-Resilience020 Pulling the Toxic Weeds from Your Life with Justin and LoganJustin and Logan, who play in the bands Earthbound and Down as well as Southpaw take the time this afternoon to sit down and discuss their journey to music. Their difference in age provides for a diverse background, but their love for music has brought them together. They are vibrant energetic souls who want to inject their creations into the world. The idea of being passive consumers of content without contributing to the world is not an option for these two. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-11-151h 17Real-ResilienceTWYG Wednesday - Unconfirm Your Confirmation BiasThat's What You Get Wednesday is back for another week! This week I bring up the fact the you, me and everyone has this thing called a "Confirmation Bias" that we must overcome if we actually want to find a real tangible and objective ways in which to be better. It is a difficult thing to do, however if you don't work on identifying the fact that you are constantly operating from a place of your own confirmation biases then you can expect to never change your mind about anything, and if that is the case, what is the point of...2019-11-1513 minReal-Resilience2EZ Tuesday MomentumCliches are cliche for a reason. Because they have meaning and have withstood the test of time of being a statement packed with meaning. The expression that comes to mind today is "The journey of 1,000 miles begins with the first step." This is a very simple truth but it is only the first truth. The power that comes with the first step, if we look at this literally, is that your body is now in motion. Think about it after you are running, you cannot just stop on a dime, at least not without serious impact on your body. You...2019-11-1211 minReal-ResilienceTWYG Wednesday - Why You SHOULD Discriminate!We hear Discriminate and immediately our preformed societal definition comes into our mind. We think "oh! Bad! We can never Discriminate! I would never Discriminate!" I would say that I hate to be the one to tell you, but honestly. I love to be the one to tell you that you discriminate every day! This discrimination is how you decide which tie to wear and which shoes match that outfit. Without discrimination our lives would be a mess! How can you empower this important tool to your advantage? Tune in and find out!--- Support this...2019-11-0709 minReal-Resilience2EZ Tuesday - On Thinking...Deliberately!How long can you spend on a single thought? Ever try meditating? It's not easy! Especially when you don't do it often. What happens when you meditate every day for a month? Do you think you get better or worse at the act of focusing on one thought? What about thinking about a specific thought - like that of your passions, or an objective? Do you think you could get better at thinking if you gave it time everyday? Just a little time!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-11-0611 min
Real-ResilienceDoes Fear Cripple or Enable You? Pt 2 with Adam MesserAdam Messer joins me on Burn Your Boats to finish up our conversation! We discuss what it means to truly value yourself, your time, and the value that you provide through services rendered. Adam is truly inspirational and lives out his passions balancing that with a full time job and a family. He leaves me feeling like a bum when I consider the amount that he is able to accomplish and then his willingness to help others on top of all of this! I love his mentality, and so will you, so enjoy!Search Matthew Lostaglia on YouTube and...2019-11-011h 15Real-ResilienceTWYG THURSDAY - Not Failing Does NOT Equal SuccessWhat's the difference between Not Failing and Success? What's the difference between feeling happy and feeling satisfied? How can these impact you in your daily life if you choose to not fail, avoid difficult situations and rarely get a feeling of accomplishment or satisfaction? I dive into these concepts here in today's TWYG production from Burn Your Boats!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-11-0112 minReal-Resilience2EZ Tuesday - Words Matter!In this day and age where the value of words is seemingly diminishing on one hand it is truly increasing on the other hand. If you think that this sounds contradictory, well that's because it is! But that is the nature of being human. We are nuanced beings and we are not all the same. While we all have the ability to say things we don't mean, we also have the ability to get goosebumps over song lyrics and derive energy and motivation from coaches, family and friends. With so many words swirling around us all of the time which words...2019-10-3008 minReal-ResilienceDoes Fear Cripple or Enable You? Pt 1 with Adam MesserAdam Messer - Husband, Father, Author, Artist, Actor, Podcast Host, Electrician, etc, etc, etc! joins me on the show for a 2 part interview! Today, in Part 1, we hit on a wide variety of topics ranging from conflict resolution to the power of story telling. We tackle the concept of fear and what it can do to you or for you depending on your response to it.--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-10-251h 20Real-Resilience2EZ Tuesday! The Power of GratitudeThis week we talk gratitude! This builds directly off of last week which means you should not be listening to these episodes in a void. The context matters and the lessons I discuss here directly benefit you in the most dramatic fashion when you layer the techniques and actions here on top of one another.Check out and join our group on Facebook!www.facebook.com/groups/BurnYourBoats/--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-10-2311 min
Real-ResilienceSave the Hero Burns Their Boat! with Alex and Matt DiBaiseAlex and Matt DiBaise join me for the 17th episode of Burn Your Boats! This is an amazing conversation where we discuss growth and maturation both professionally and personally. Their journey through the music industry is intriguing and inspiring.--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-10-181h 04Real-ResilienceTWYG Wednesday Are You TOO Comfortable to Grow?In our world today we have found ways to build not only walls around our daily comforts but to build an entire ecosystem and infrastructure around those things that keep us safe from discomfort. Today I dive into why it is important to embrace the discomfort and how your growth is dependent upon struggles.www.burnyourboats.weebly.com anchor.fm/matt-lostagliaopen.spotify.com/show/64rZLwT25C1llgeTawgQK0www.stitcher.com/podcast/matthew-…/burn-your-boatspodcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/burn…ts/id1468821760A Burn Your Boats Production--- Support this podc...2019-10-1714 minReal-ResilienceSHAME YOURSELF into More Successful BehaviorsThat's right, it's that time of the week again, It is 2-EZ Tuesday! This week we bring the conversation back inside of the home and look at simple and potential passive actions you can take that will have long lasting and immensely productive results.--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-10-1614 minReal-ResilienceTWYG Wednesday - Your Attract what you Exhibit!This week on "That's What You Get" we dive into the neural pathways we build through repeated actions. If we view the world through a lens of negativity then thinking of future events through that same lens becomes easier and more likely. This then creates openings to those people who are already traveling on that same road. Change it - NOW! You need to start building the new pathways towards positive action. Also, there's a raffle! Brand new merchandise is coming available to you free! Burn Your Boats will be displayed on multiple glasses and can be shipped direct...2019-10-1011 minReal-Resilience2EZ Tuesday - Go On! Get Out There!What possibilities exist out there if you are willing to put yourself out there? There are so many people that want to connect, and want to feel inspired and want to inspire you, but that is impossible to do if you are not willing to go out and engage with the world around you. This may be overwhelming for some of you. Your job may not require you to engage with people you are not already familiar with, or with people at all. You order most of your home items online and use self check out when you do occasionally find...2019-10-0909 min
Real-ResilienceCreating and Fostering Tribe, Trust and Family in your Business with Chris HoffmanChris Hoffman joins us for another edition of Burn Your Boats where we hope to influence people to commit and take action in their own lives. Chris represents a huge portion of our population's work force today in being a restaurant owner and employing a whole load of employees! There are so many important insights Chris has about creating tribe and a culture of family in business which is so crucial especially when competing for good employees in an arena where they can walk out and grab a job with a competing wage fairly easily.--- 2019-10-041h 34Real-ResilienceTWYG Wednesday! Yes – I am talking about You. Yes – You should take it Personally.This episode is a Burn Your Boats Production brought to you from Skidaway Island! This day was CRAZY! I was given the gift of watching nature, live, in person, and unfiltered. I got to see the unexpected prey aggressively take on his predator. It was phenomenal to see! AND THIS WAS NOT EVEN PART OF THE SHOW! Today’s message – Sitting around at home binge watching Netflix will not create the opportunities in your life that are available, many of those opportunities literally just waiting for your presence engaging with others out in the world. If you are comf...2019-10-0209 minReal-ResilienceToo Easy Tuesday! Small Does NOT Equal InsignificantBurn Your Boats Presents "Too Easy Tuesday!" Small Does NOT Mean InsignificantSmokin' Hot out there on Tybee this past weekend, but after a morning run with the RWB and Howe 2 Run folks followed by Army work and then Burn Your Boats work I decided to hit the beach. I was inspired to record this premiere of Too Easy Tuesday a little early as I just couldn't wait!Just because something is easy, or quick, or costs you little resources (time, energy, money) does not necessarily make it insignificant. What small pattern change can you make in your...2019-10-0211 minReal-ResilienceThat's What You Get Wednesday! Who are you choosing to keep in your life?Welcome to the Burn Your Boats premiere edition of "That's What You Get!" Wednesday! Are you choosing your friends wisely? Are you aware that more abundance and more freedom, and more joy is available in your life? Are the people you choose to keep around you helping you to achieve this end or inhibiting it?--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-09-2711 min
Real-ResilienceIs The Security Of The Present Worth The Happiness Of Your Future? With Tony SimsBurn Your Boats Presents a NEW Production!!! This week I welcome Artist, Entrepreneur and the OG inspiration for me in choosing to create this show, TONY SIMS. Tony Sims and I developed an amazing relationship turning wrenches at a Volkswagen Dealership in Omaha, NE. This was over a decade ago and we use this conversation as a chance to dive into how both of our lives have changed since those days and how the choices we have made in our lives since has shaped our lives into what they are today. I couldn’t be happier to have Tony o...2019-09-201h 38
Real-ResilienceAre you Focusing Your Energy Where it's Most Effective? The Long Game & Burn Your Boats C…You never know what is possible until you step up and take action. The people who are itching to collaborate will rock your world. My Cousin, Will Ford, fits this description for me in this regard perfectly. He truly embodies that entrepreneurial spirit and has years upon years upon decades of creating something of value from nothing, investing in a promising start up, or ending his specific set of skills to those businesses in need of getting the word out there about the type of value they truly provide. Through these years diligently working in the field, honing...2019-09-131h 21
Real-ResilienceAre you Focusing Your Energy Where it's Most Effective? The Long Game & Burn Your Boats CollabA sneak peak of king pin entrepreneur William Ford and Matthew Lostaglia combining their efforts to improve individuals and organizations. Check out a preview of what is to come tomorrow!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-09-1201 min
Real-ResilienceIs Fear of Change and Risk Keeping you from Even More Happiness? With Jaime WhalenNEW EPISODE!!! Jaime Whalen and I discuss what it takes to manage a Historic Theatre constantly hosting live events. We talk about her back story and the struggle dealing with a toxic work environment along with the stressors involved in making big changes and choosing yourself over your job. After her long and amazing journey to get to where she is, Jaime provides some amazing insight for those who may feel stuck in their current work life arrangement.--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-09-0659 min
Real-ResilienceSNEAK PEAK! Is Fear of Change and Risk Keeping you from Even More Happiness? With Jaime WhalenThis week Burn Your Boats presents the one and only amazing Jaime Whalen! She is the Business Manager for the historical and stunning Tybee Post Theatre on Tybee Island here in beautiful Georgia. It was not a straight shot for her to get to this position. The twists and turns on her journey are both fear inducing and inspiring. Check out the full episode this Friday!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-09-0400 min
Real-ResilienceNEW EPISODE!! The Next Generation with Edward B. Fox III Part 2Do you want to be the poor wise man? Edward Fox and I discuss the path to this along with how to avoid it. How to avoid having the knowledge but lacking the capacity to articulate how this knowledge can benefit others. Life is not a zero sum game, and helping others does not impede your path to success.--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-08-3156 min
Real-ResilienceSNEAK PEAK! The Next Generation with Edward B. Fox III Part 2Listen in as Edward Fox and I wrap up our conversation about building your brand, remaining customer focused in your business, the power of mentors and the importance of relevant training!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-08-2800 minReal-ResilienceThe Next Generation with Edward B. Fox IIIWelcome to another episode of Burn Your Boats where I interview business owners and entrepreneurs to teach and motivate others to commit and take action! This episode features Edward B. Fox III Man of God, Author, Real Estate Investor, and Digital Marketing & Advertising Consultant. We talk branding and brand building, motivation, and his personal story thus far along with how he looks to make changes to his community and the world moving forward.Host, Executive Producer, Chief Executive Officer - Matthew LostagliaMusic from Bensound.--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-08-231h 33
Real-ResilienceThe Next Generation with Edward B. Fox III Preview ClipA preview clip of my interview with Edward B. Fox III. He is a Man of God, Author, Real Estate Investor, and Digital Marketing & Advertising Consultant. He is an example of the next Generation, Gen Z. They aren't as soft, weak, or apathetic as you'd like to imagine!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-08-2100 minReal-ResilienceResponding to Adversity with Grace and Grit with Pamela and Phillip HowePhillip & Pamela Murphy Howe discuss how they came to the thought of starting their own brick and mortar athletic store, impacting their community, and inspiring others to better themselves each and every day. And then how they responded when they found out they were collateral damage in an adjacent businesses arson. Executive Producer, Chief Executive Officer, Editor Show Host: Matthew LostagliaMusic from Bensound--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-08-161h 00
Real-ResilienceHow would you respond if everything you worked for LITERALLY burned down in front of your eyes?How would you respond if everything you worked for LITERALLY burned down in front of your eyes? Pamela and Phillip discuss how they came to the thought of starting their own brick and mortar athletic store, impacting their community, and inspiring others to better themselves each and every day. And then how they responded when they found out they were collateral damage in an adjacent businesses arson.--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-08-1501 min
Real-ResilienceHow can your Failures Create Success in Your Life? FULL EPISODE w/Kelly CrowellIf there weren’t the beauty of art what is the point of living?The Importance of Being UncomfortableIn the final video in my miniseries with Kelly Crowell we look at her early life. She addresses both the obstacles she had to overcome and the opportunities that presented themselves to her while growing up in Omaha, NE. We touch on the long term impact of PTSD and the general taboo around mental health as well as the impacts of the lack of resiliency and instant gratification in children on their future and the future of the nation an...2019-08-101h 01
Real-ResiliencePREVIEW: How can your Failures Create Success? Part III with Kelly CrowellIf there weren’t the beauty of art what is the point of living?The Importance of Being UncomfortableIn the final video in my miniseries with Kelly Crowell we look at her early life. She addresses both the obstacles she had to overcome and the opportunities that presented themselves to her while growing up in Omaha, NE. We touch on the long term impact of PTSD and the general taboo around mental health as well as the impacts of the lack of resiliency and instant gratification in children on their future and the future of the nation an...2019-08-0600 minReal-ResilienceFULL SHOW! Kelly Crowell PART II - What Do You Do When There are NO Easy Answers?Burn Your Boats My podcast where I interview entrepreneurs to teach others how to commit and take action.One of the beautiful parts of doing this show is that it allows me to dive into some of the really tough and nuanced gray areas. Kelly discusses the complicated nature of disaster relief when it comes to acute care of injuries because of the lack of long term available care. Something as simple setting a broken bone and putting a cast on. When there is no way to get it off when the doctors are gone, and the person gets...2019-08-031h 03
Real-ResiliencePREVIEW: Kelly Crowell PART II - What Do You Do When There are NO Easy Answers?One of the beautiful parts of doing this show is that it allows me to dive into some of the really tough and nuanced gray areas. Kelly discusses the complicated nature of disaster relief when it comes to acute care of injuries because of the lack of long term available care. Something as simple setting a broken bone and putting a cast on. When there is no way to get it off when the doctors are gone, and the person gets a skin infection that is potentially fatal what is the real impact of emergency relief medical care....2019-08-0101 min
Real-ResilienceWhat Really Happened After the Dust Settled in Haiti? FULL Episode with Kelly Crowell Part I of IIIKelly Crowell, Medical Anthropologist, and Disaster Relief Volunteer shares her experiences helping those recovering from devastation. She and her fellow volunteers bear the austere environment to help those struggling to survive the fallout from the earthquake.--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-07-2559 min
Real-ResilienceWhat Really Happened After the Dust Settled in Haiti's Earthquake? with Kelly CrowellIn Part I of a III part mini series, Kelly Crowell, Medical Anthropologist, and Disaster Relief Volunteer shares her experiences helping those recovering from devastation. She and her fellow volunteers bear the austere environment to help those struggling to survive the fallout from the earthquake.--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-07-2301 min
Real-ResilienceExplore Legacy, Impact and Drive with Steve Sherman!Steve Sherman discusses the importance of the people you keep around you and the motivation to exceed expectations, including your own! He derives so much of his drive from his faith, and his path to God is unbelievably real and relatable. Come and find out how he Burned his own Boats!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-07-191h 57
Real-ResilienceLegacy - How much Impact will yours have?Steve Sherman, an amazing entrepreneur who continually takes aggressive action in his life to promote positive change gives you insight to how he did it. Check out this quick snap shot of our conversation and get ready to satiate yourself with the full experience this Friday!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-07-1700 minReal-ResilienceHow to Become CLUTCH in Business and Life with Robert V. SmithRobert V. Smith joins me on Burn Your Boats for a spontaneous yet insightful conversation. We discuss his philosophy and how faith plays a significant role in that. We also discuss sports and the importance of competition in developing relevant skills to success.--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-07-1221 minReal-ResilienceChristina Bucci-MurrayEver had the dream of owning a restaurant? a bar? both? This is your opportunity to get the inside scoop from a woman who has done it. From personal struggles to insane and unforeseen obstacles along the way you get the full story of what it took Christina Bucci-Murray and Bob Murray to accomplish this goal and provide one of the best food drink and live music experiences on Hilton Head Island, SC.--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-07-051h 00
Real-ResilienceChristina Bucci-Murray PreviewA preview from Christina Bucci-Murray herself! Coming straight from Bucci & Murray's Pub on the Harbor. What do you need to do to be successful in the food industry or more simply, in your life!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-07-0400 minReal-Resilience004 Kerry Pollock - Owner/Comedian/Magician/EngineerI talk with husband/comedian/magician/engineer/all of the things Kerry Pollock about his Comedy and Magic Cabaret in Hilton Head Island, SC. He and his wife Kelly are two of the kindest and most amazing people I have ever met! Kerry discusses his early working career and how he transitioned to his current endeavors. We discuss overcoming obstacles, innovation and removing fear from the equation!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-06-281h 08Real-ResilienceKerry Pollock PreviewThis is a preview to my interview with Kerry Pollock. This man is truly an inspiration. A business owner, entrepreneur, performer, magician, comedian, engineer, and the list could go on and on! Full episode will drop this Friday!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-06-2400 minReal-ResilienceSiris Rivas Part 2Siris and I continue our conversation. Buckle up! Because this segment takes many twists and turns. Tune in for the excitement!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-06-201h 21
Real-ResilienceSiris Rivas Part 1Siris and I discuss her family, where she came from, and her path of Speech Language Pathology! She provides amazing insights about life, business and entrepreneurship.Music by Bensound.--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-06-141h 17Real-ResilienceSiris Rivas TeaserTime for the Launch of "Burn Your Boats"! my peoples!! I sat down for an amazing long form conversation with Siris Rivas Verdejo Cfslp. We discuss the obstacles she overcame to become the amazing entrepreneur that she is today!Here is a teaser of our conversation - full interview will be released Friday June 14th!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matt-lostaglia/support2019-06-1300 min