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Tuning the BowWhen They Walk AwayEvery Christian parent wants to see their children accept Christ at an early age, mature in their faith and their life, and have families that do the same. However, that is not always the case (nor is it a majority, either). In this episode, Matt and Tim walk through two passages that talk about people walking away from the Christian faith and discuss how parents should respond. Include Jesus in your everyday conversations, continue to pray for your children, and see how God uses your faithfulness for the good of your families.Passages – Matthew 28:18-20; Hebrews 6:1-8; 1 Jo...2025-04-0934 minTuning the BowFruit of the Spirit – Internalizing Truth (Peace and Patience)Tim and Matt weathered some storms recently (both literally and figuratively) and had a testing of peace and patience, which is great because that is the topic for this episode. Since believers are supposed to strive for all of the fruit of the Spirit, there needs to be a recognition that this must first take place in the heart. There will not be peace with others if there is no peace with God, and there will be no patience with others if there is no patience with God. Set in your heart to follow and obey Christ for your...2025-03-1134 minTuning the BowPreparing for DisruptionJesus makes it plain to His disciples that following Him will cause disruption. The world is against God wholeheartedly, and this affects every household to the smallest point of contention. Why would Jesus say He does not bring peace? In this episode, Tim and Matt talk about why this idea is important to keep in mind as parents search the Scriptures for what God says they should do. Along with this, Tim gives two resources that will add to parents' understanding of how to prepare for any disruption that may come their way.Passage – Matthew 10:32-39...2025-02-1835 minTuning the BowPreeminenceThere are a lot of people talk about how they order what is important in their lives, but do their actions line up with their words? In this episode, Tim and Matt talk about the importance of having God direct believers' priorities and some practical things to keep in mind. In everything, make sure to set aside time in God's Word in your schedule so that you may love Him with all you are and your families as yourself.Passage – Luke 12:13-21,34THANK YOU for listen to our show for 100 episodes! Your listenership is valued, an...2024-12-0435 minTuning the BowSermon on the Mount – Applying the MessageHere we are. At the end of the Sermon on the Mount. Jesus has talk a lot about how believers are supposed to live, and Matt and Tim have added some commentary about one of Jesus's most memorable speeches. When families build upon the rock of God's Word, they create an environment for children to develop into adults who can face the many challenges of the world with confidence. Now that you have heard the words of Jesus, what do you need to deal with to build a firm foundation?Passage – Matthew 7:24-8:4Message us th...2024-10-1536 minTuning the BowSermon on the Mount – Roads, Trees, and SalvationThe Bible is clear: there is one way to God. There is no work we can do to earn our way to Heaven, so God made that way possible through Jesus. In this episode, Matt and Tim talk about how there are many things that will try and take believers' eyes away from God, but those evil works are evident. Taking the narrow path of life is difficult, it goes against what most people do, and it does not always seem like the best way. However, when we follow Jesus with all of our hearts, He gives peace and...2024-10-0833 minTuning the BowSermon on the Mount – Asking for BlessingWhat does it mean to ask God for things? A lot of people think it is focused on improving yourself or gaining certain things, but Matt and Tim want to bring a different perspective. God blesses believers so that they may be a blessing to others. In fact, when we treat others the way we want to be treated, Jesus said that this is the main focus of the Law and the Prophets! Listen to how God's blessings are not meant for us to hold on to but pass along for His glory and the good of others.2024-10-0131 minTuning the BowSermon on the Mount – Judge NotPreconceived notions and bias are difficult to avoid, but Jesus does not beat around the bush. In this episode, Matt and Tim talk about judging and how the application is right in the first verse. Confrontation about sin is different because of the desire for repentance and reconciliation. Judgment negatively assumes guilt with no chance of making the situation better, so don't do it.Passage – Matthew 7:1-6Message us through Buzzsprout here!2024-09-2434 minTuning the BowSermon on the Mount – Worry vs. Trust"Do not worry about anything" is a difficult command to follow. There are so many uncertain parts of life that cause many parents to constantly be afraid about the future, but Jesus is pretty clear. In this episode, Tim and Matt encourage parents to consider how great and good God is in light of anxiety. God is in control of all things, meaning that nothing happens without Him knowing about it. If this is true, then trust that He is doing what is best for you, your family, and all who believe.Passage – Matthew 6:25-34Me...2024-09-1738 minTuning the BowSermon on the Mount – A Theology of ThingsThis world is very materialistic. People want things and live their lives trying to get the most things, but ultimately, there is no joy or satisfaction in the things of this world. In this episode, Matt and Tim talk about what believers should treasure (after an eight minute breakdown of a depressing weekend of football). If your whole heart is set on Christ, then your parenting and other actions will reflect that. Depend on God because He made us to desire Him.Passage – Matthew 6:19-24Message us through Buzzsprout here!2024-09-1033 minTuning the BowSermon on the Mount – Do-GoodersThere's a lot that is going on for Matt and Tim this time of the year. Football season is upon them, but that will not detract the whole episode (up until around the nine minute mark) because they will talk about the difference between doing good and being a do-gooder. Our actions reflect our hearts, and if our hearts are not right with the Lord, then our actions will fall short of God's standard set in the Bible. Let goodness flow from a heart changed by the Holy Spirit for the benefit of your children and so many others.2024-09-0433 minTuning the BowSermon on the Mount – What Is Love?There are a lot of challenging things that Jesus talks about on the Sermon on the Mount, and His talks on love really show how far believers need to go in order to love like God does. In this episode, Matt and Tim want to press parents to love better and show that love to their kids. We have not been given ordinary love from God because His love is extraordinary, so take that extraordinary love and give to everyone (even though it's really hard to do).Passage – Matthew 5:38-48Message us through Buzzsprout here!2024-08-2735 minTuning the BowSermon on the Mount – Yeses and Nos"Let your 'yes' be 'yes' and your 'no' be 'no.'" This phrase is spoken frequently when parents talk to their kids, but what are the implications? In this episode, Tim and Matt break down this phrase and other similar phrases to show that God takes delight when we do what we say we will do or do not do what we say we will not do. Simply put, parents must teach and model the fact that our words carry meaning. Listen to how this plays out practically and what parents should do when they break their promises.2024-08-2031 minTuning the BowSermon on the Mount – Adultery and DivorceHonestly, this is a topic few people like to talk about. Not only is divorce a rampant problem in the world today, but adultery can be committed in a lot of different ways. It is easier to just avoid the issue and move on, but if Jesus felt the need to teach on it, then we should not hide this issue from our kids. In this episode, Matt and Tim talk about how adultery plays itself out in our lives and how parents should respond to protect themselves and their kids.Passages – Proverbs 5:15-22; Matthew 5:27-322024-08-1340 minTuning the BowSermon on the Mount – AngerWe're back at it in Matthew 5 talking about anger. Now, Matt and Tim have talked about anger before, but they surprisingly did not use this passage. So in this episode, they break down the implications of anger and parenting. There is a lot of baggage when someone mentions anger, but Jesus is very cut and dry about how sinful anger should be dealt with. Live a life of repentance in front of your family and see how your example can change the lives of your kids.Passage – Matthew 5:21-26Message us through Buzzsprout here!2024-08-0635 minTuning the BowSermon on the Mount – Light and LawTim is back from Missouri, and his students are fired up for some evangelism! In today's episode, he and Matt talk about how believers are useful to God through our obedience to the commands in the Bible and the importance of taking responsibility to live differently than the world. In all that parents do, God should be glorified and magnified because this might be what someone needs to see and hear in order for them to turn to God.Passages – Matthew 5:13-20John 5:6-8Ephesians 2:10Message us through Buzzsprout here!2024-07-2334 minTuning the BowSermon on the Mount – The BeatitudesA lot of people read the Bible as a good book, but it has been Tim and Matt's challenge to live out what the Bible teaches. In this episode, they begin to walk through the Sermon on the Mount and how it speaks to parenting. Starting with the Beatitudes, the Bible calls believers to live differently, and by extension, parent differently.Passage – Matthew 5:1-12Message us through Buzzsprout here!2024-07-1633 minTuning the BowSowing SuccessThe parable of the sower is a wonderful passage that talks about the different types of reception to hearing the Gospel. The question Tim asks (as Matt gets distracted by a phone call MID RECORDING) is if parents consider their actions towards their kids as sowing seeds of the Gospel? The habits and thoughts we pass down to our kids take root and form them into the adults they will become, so take special care to apply biblical principles into your life and continue to share the Gospel to your families!Passage – Matthew 13:1-9,18-23Me...2024-06-2528 minTuning the BowExpectations and RewardsThere are simple things in life that can be celebrated, but the question parents must answer is what acts should be rewarded and what acts are expected. In this episode, Matt and Tim discuss these categories and want encouragement to be a part of everyday language without being over-the-top on every little achievement. Keep in mind that God shows unending love every moment, so our encouragement should build others up as often as you can.Passages – Ecclesiastes 2:18-25; Colossians 3:23; Hebrews 3:13; James 1:2-4Also, Matthew really does love his mother. He's just not always on top of...2024-05-1539 min
Soul Care NomadOn Suffering (with Britni Julian)In this episode, Dr. O and Matt welcome their first guest! Britni has experienced the highs and lows of life, but God has greatly used her to help many men and women work through the suffering they go through. Her ministry, Hearts Like Hannah's, focuses on those who struggle with infertility and infant loss, giving biblical hope to those who feel alone. Listen to how she went through her own hardships and how Jesus brought her to where she is today!
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Email – hearts...2024-04-2252 minTuning the BowExperiencing ChristWe often want our children to experience amazing things, but how often to we put God in that category? In this episode, Matt and Tim want to show why parents should live in a way that shows Christ to their children because that is what pleases God. With a look at the Shemodel and the rich young ruler, we can see what good parenting looks like and what bad parenting creates. Lead your family to Christ and show Him to your kids every day!Passages – Genesis 6:4-9; Luke 18:18-27; Hebrews 12:4-7Message us through Buzzsprout he...2024-04-1638 minSoul Care NomadRight PrioritiesThere are a lot of things trying to capture our attention, and there are many Christians who allow their priorities to get out of order. Matt and Dr. O shows how Scriptures says believers should order their lives and argue that this gives freedom and peace to those who are obedient to God's Word. Stand on your faith in Jesus, your love for your family, and let everything else follow those two aspects.
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Facebook – Soul Care Nomad2024-04-1532 minTuning the BowTHE END IS NEAR!!!!!…sort of. Though we are getting closer to the end of time, parents still have a responsibility to disciple their children. Tim and Matt encourage parents to not just read the book of Revelation but know what it says. Even though these prophetic books are difficult to understand, parents should not be afraid to live with the end in view. Jesus will return, establish His reign, and make all things new, so get your families ready for that time!Passages – a lot (Matt didn't take notes while editing)Message us through Buzzsprout here!2024-04-1037 minSoul Care NomadLiving RepentanceA life of repentance is not living in fear of sinning and constantly pleading with God for forgiveness but a recognition of our need for it. Matt and Dr. O discuss how this frees believers to approach God's throne with confidence knowing that God willingly forgives those who place their faith in Christ. They also goof around during the episode, but that's just who they are.
Alternate name for this episode: "Left Behind Nomad"
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Facebook – Soul Care Nomad2024-04-0830 minTuning the BowMen and WomenThe difficulty of raising children is matching your words with your actions, and many parents fail in this way. The culture around us pushes children to adopt unbiblical ideas of gender, and the failure of teaching at home adds to the confusion. In this episode, Tim and Matt encourage parents to deeply consider what they are teaching through their words AND actions. The Bible not only teaches people about salvation, but it teaches believers about godly living and understanding.Passages – Genesis 1:26-27, 3:16-19Message us through Buzzsprout here!2024-04-0242 minSoul Care NomadShould I Compromise?There are plenty of times when it is easy to compromise when we should stand for our Christian values, but is there ever a good time to compromise? Dr. O and Matt discuss this and more in this episode. The main thing to remember is that if you stand for nothing, then you will fall for anything.
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Facebook – Soul Care Nomad2024-04-0130 minTuning the BowWhy Does Easter Matter?It is easy to treat holidays as just a break from the norm, but should they hold any other purpose? In this episode, Tim and Matt want to show why Easter matters much more than people (or churches) make it out to be. Because Jesus loved humanity so much, He willingly endured the pain and humiliation of death on a cross, rose again on the third day, and is now seated at the right hand of God for us. Make Easter have a greater impact in your life and the life of your family!Passage – Philippians 2:4-11...2024-03-2637 minSoul Care NomadObedience to GodIn a culture of doing whatever makes you happy, obedience to God's Word is seen as outdated and boring. However, there are reasons Christians should follow the statutes of Scripture, so Dr. O and Matt discuss these reasons and why they matter. If God created everything, then it might be best to follow Him.
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Facebook – Soul Care Nomad2024-03-2533 minSoul Care NomadCaring Through Discipleship*WARNING*
The audio quality is crunchy due to a user-caused microphone malfunction.
There are a lot of resources that talk about why the church should care for people, but what does this look like? Dr. O and Matt talk about the how-to of discipleship and the importance of setting the standard from the pulpit. Be encouraged to consider how you can best care for and bring up the next generation of leaders in your church through pouring into their lives.
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Email – soulcarenomad@g...2024-03-1833 minTuning the BowFollowing the Holy SpiritEach year is an opportunity to do something different, and this can also apply to how we parent. For Tim and his wife, they have decided to focus on doing some things that are important but have not been a priority in the past. In this episode, Tim discusses why they have made this decision, and Matt warns about listening to the wrong voices when it comes to making our decisions. Stay in God's Word and obey what He commands.Passage – 1 John 4:1-6Message us through Buzzsprout here!2024-03-1229 minSoul Care NomadThe Snares We Lay"The fear of man lays a snare, but whoever trusts in the LORD is safe" (Proverbs 29:25, ESV). In this episode, Dr. O and Matt talk about how the fear of man is like setting a trap and then walking into it. Instead of thinking about how other people perceive you, think about how God sees you. This frees people to no longer be bound by the opinions and thoughts of others but to live a life that pleases God.
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Facebook – Soul2024-03-1135 minTuning the BowVacation ModeWhen families vacation, there seems to be a lack of Christian living away from home. In this episode, Matt and Tim want parents to consider that discipleship does not stop while away from the normal activities back home. They also talk about sports for the first seven-ish minutes, so you can skip that part if you are not interested.Passages – 1 Corinthians 10:31; 2 Corinthians 5:9Message us through Buzzsprout here!2024-03-0629 minSoul Care Nomad*Insert Title Here*There are a lot of titles people wear with honor, but are they worthy of that honor? In this episode, Dr. O and Matt push back against that notion and want to encourage people to think carefully about what defines them. Through Christ, the baggage of our diagnoses, the hardships of our past, and the difficulties of our lives no longer hold a tight grip on us. The life, death, and resurrection of Jesus frees us to hold only one title, "child of the most high God."
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Website – soulcare.io...2024-03-0433 minTuning the BowCleaning the Lent FilterLent is the time of preparation for Easter, but much like deconstructing, people do not replace things they lay aside with Scripture. In this episode, Matt and Tim challenge the current view of fasting and want to give parents a biblical understanding of what it looks like. Though fasting is not always best way for some people to prepare their hearts, removing distractions from our lives so that we may better focus on God will not be something that harms us. Consider the everlasting way and make preparations to lead your family down it well.Passages – Matthew 6:14-1...2024-02-2835 minSoul Care NomadRethinking FailureMany people struggle with a fear of failure, but it is important to remember that failure does not always mean final. Mistakes can be opportunities to grow in our love for God, and Dr. O and Matt want to discuss what success and failure looks like in God's eyes. Be encouraged to get back up and continue looking to God for your strength and courage to do the right thing!
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Facebook – Soul Care Nomad2024-02-2632 minTuning the BowHELP! My Kid Is Deconstructing!is what most parents think when their child asks some difficult questions, but this is not always the case. In this episode, Matt and Tim pick on each other for a bit before discussing what deconstruction is and is not. Be discerning to see if your child is asking questions to stump you or to see if you can give them the right answer, so never throw away their seemingly senseless questions. Do not be afraid to face the hard questions because you are surrounded by people who have asked similar questions and have become stronger in their faith. 2024-02-2133 minSoul Care NomadInto DepressionA lot of baggage comes with the word "depression" that can lead to many thoughts. In this episode, Dr. O and Matt want to walk through how depression can take over our thoughts and what it takes to overcome the feelings of despair. Listen to them walk through some recommendations and Bible passages, and prayerfully ask God to give you the people and resources for help.
List of international suicide hotlines here
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Facebook – Soul Care Nomad2024-02-1939 minTuning the BowA Friend to Walk WithParenting is difficult to do alone, so it is good to have friends you can trust to help. This trust is not open to anyone, so Tim and Matt try to give you some parameters in looking at who you want to be friends with (with a bit of a longer intro talking about some Super Bowl drama). Matt recounts a friend of his parents' impact on his life and why it matters to find the right friends to speak into the life of your children.Passage – 1 Samuel 17:55-18:4Resource – The Deconstruction of Christianity: What It I...2024-02-1340 minSoul Care NomadWhen Anxiety SpiralsAnxiety can make our minds feel torn between so many things, but how can we get our thoughts back in line? Dr. O struggled with anxiety in the past (and struggled while recording this episode), and God has carried him through the mess plenty of times before. Listen to which people struggled with anxiety in the Bible, some practical advice when we go through episodes, and how God gives us the info we need in Scripture.
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Facebook – Soul Care Nom2024-02-1242 minTuning the BowWhen it Boils OverWhen parents encounter conflict, it can either end up being a good teaching moment for the kids or a terrible fight that can hurt their child in the future. In this episode, Tim and Matt want to encourage good communication, a humble heart, and a life filled with the fruit of the Spirit. Through the power of the Holy Spirit, believers have the ability to overcome their sinful desires and can live a life of victory and peace. Cling to the Lord, and He will give you rest.Passages – 1 Corinthians 13:4-7James 1:19-20If yo...2024-02-0644 min
Soul Care NomadMeet the BoysWelcome to the first episode of Soul Care Nomad! In this episode, our hosts introduce themselves and lay some groundwork about where they are coming from. This podcast isn't just for people in biblical counseling but anyone who is searching, broken, or randomly found it. Give it a listen!
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2024-02-0536 minTuning the BowListening in PrayerLife gets busy, and time becomes a precious resource. In this busyness, many Christians neglect their prayer life because of a lack of biblical understanding of what prayer is. In this episode, Tim and Matt recycle old sermon material to help parents understand that listening to God's still, small voice is just as important as us laying our burdens upon Him. Make time to hear His voice, and you will see that He speaks frequently.Passage – 1 Samuel 3:8-10Resources – Praying the Bible by Donald S. WhitneyPraying with Paul: A Call to Spiritual Reformation by D...2024-01-2433 minTuning the BowLiving with LetdownThere are many things (big and small) that can cause people to be disappointed and feel letdown. In these times, people often react unbiblically and hurt the people around either intentionally or unintentionally. In this episode, Matt and Tim work through the biblical response to disappointment and give some practical tips in helping parents lead their families to do the same. Remember that God is fully in control of every situation, and your experiences are similar to many who have struggled and found peace.Passages – Psalm 13Ecclesiastes 1:9Habakkuk 1:2-5Message us through Buzzsprout her...2024-01-1735 minTuning the BowBiblical IdentityMany people find their identity in things outside of or within themselves, but they neglect what God has already said should define them. In this episode, Matt and Tim work through some biblical passages to show that God has already told us what we should think about identity and the importance of listening to Him through Scripture. Learn how to listen to God and take that knowledge into your parenting for the betterment of yourself and your parenting.Passages – Genesis 1:26-31Micah 6:6-8Resources – Slave: The Hidden Truth About Your Identity in Christ by John...2024-01-0936 minTuning the BowThe Matt ReturnsI (Matt) spent almost two weeks in Japan, and I have some reflections that I think will help parents better minister their children. Schedules were thrown out, divine appointments were made, and around fifty people were taught about biblical counseling through my team's efforts. Tim provides some application points that push parents to reconsider their day-to-day activities and promote Gospel conversations over other things. Give it a listen and be encouraged to always live on mission!Passage – Ephesians 5:15-17Message us through Buzzsprout here!2023-12-1936 minTuning the BowGuiding Your Family – GriefGrief is a difficult process for many people, so when families lose a loved one, they might not know what they need to do. In this episode, Tim and Matt will not give you the steps in dealing with grief, but they will give some starting points to prepare for it. Preparation is key, and the work that parents do before a loss happens will help them and their kids to grieve well.Passage – 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18Resources – "Hope and Joy in a Season of Grief" by ACBC"Consumed by God’s Love in Our Grief"...2023-11-2939 minTuning the BowThankful in DifficultyLife can throw many struggles at us when we least expect it, but this does not mean that God is against us. Matt and Tim (taking a brief moment away from their families) want to encourage parents to always be thankful even when it seems like there is nothing to be thankful for. In the community of believers, God gives us many opportunities to help and be helped, so look for His guidance and teach your kids to do the same.Passage – Philippians 4:4-7*Audio note*Tim uses his phone in this episode because hi...2023-11-2225 minTuning the BowThe Healing Word of GodThere is a reason so many people have found life when they study the Bible. God has placed His power in the words of Scripture, and this power is accessible to all who read and hear it proclaimed. In this episode, Matt and Tim talk about the underlying principle of why the Bible plays such an important role in the life of all believers. Take time to really study God's Word and see the transforming power in your own life.Passages – Proverbs 3:5-81 Thessalonians 4:13-182 Peter 1:3-8Message us through Buzzsprout here!2023-11-1433 minTuning the BowGetting Involved in School – Part 3There is a reason Matt and Tim want to emphasize this. It is very important for believing parents to have a strong presence in schools since many students do not have a positive parental figure in their life. Sacrifices will need to be made, but the impact it will have can not be understated. Prayerfully consider this as your kids go through school.Passage – Ephesians 4:29-32Message us through Buzzsprout here!2023-11-0733 minTuning the BowSetting the StandardThe pastor's role at a church is an important one. He not only is the mouthpiece for the church, but what he preaches on sets the standard for other ministry staff and parents to fall under. Tim and Matt want to argue that a good pastor preaches the Bible without pulling any punches in the difficult passages, leading those under him to freely experience Scripture without wondering if they are going too far. Let Scripture speak as it intends to, and God will reveal Himself to you in a mighty way (with a few toes stepped on in the...2023-10-3131 minTuning the BowDivinely InspiredNo, this episode is not divinely inspired. Matt and Tim are just two bros who talk about the divinely inspired Bible, but why do they think that? In this episode, they will talk about how the Bible's message is one that speaks to different people from different cultures in different times. Listen to hear why they think this and how it has impacted them in the ministries God has given them.Passages – Revelation 1-2 (assorted verses)Isaiah 40:6-8Also, thank you for listening to this podcast for an entire year! It is Tim and Ma...2023-10-2431 minTuning the BowGuiding Your Family – Evil** CONTENT WARNING **There has been a lot in the news lately: the conflicts in Israel and Ukraine, the Texas Rangers actually being good at baseball, and many other things. Matt and Tim want to take this opportunity to tell parents that they should stay updated with current events and to teach their children about what is happening in the world. Evil happens in big and small ways, and we must be willing to talk about them to our kids before they hear about it from other sources and people. Teaching with a biblical lens not only benefits the...2023-10-1739 minTuning the BowChoosing ChurchesSound, biblical teaching is important. Without it, many churches would be wandering aimlessly away from God and what He says is good and necessary. In today's episode, Matt and Tim want to push parents to consider who they are listening to and why they are listening to them. Understanding biblical truth is important for families to fight against a culture of consumerism and relativism, so be sure you are grounded in Scripture at all times.Passage – 2 Timothy 4:1-5Resource – The Great Dechurching: Who’s Leaving, Why Are They Going, and What Will It Take to Bring T...2023-10-1036 minTuning the BowRaising CompetitorsParents are not always going to raise prodigies or the next big star. Instead, parents are called to raise their kids in the instruction of Scripture, caring for their hearts before they sharpen their talents. Matt and Tim want to encourage parents to care deeply about their kids' proximity to the throne of King Jesus more than their ability to complete in athletics, arts, and other competitions. Training children to turn to God is the most important thing you can do for them.Passages – 1 Corinthians 9:19-27; Philippians 2:1-4; 2 Timothy 2:5Message us through Buzzsprout here!2023-09-2637 minTuning the BowChristian CompetivenessCan you be a Christian and still compete well? Tim and Matt believe that the answer is yes, but it might not be the way most people think. If a Christian competes in the same way a non-believer competes, is the Christian really set apart from the world? There is no separation between Friday nights and Sunday mornings, so we must follow Christ at all times.Passages – Genesis 4:3-8; Colossians 3:22-24Message us through Buzzsprout here!2023-09-1938 minTuning the BowToday's Tomorrow – End TimesOh boy. This is a big one.In this episode, Matt and Tim want to redefine not the word "eschatology" but what people think about it. The end times can cause a lot of worry, but that is not the purpose of eschatology in the Bible. If our lives are to be centered and submitted to Christ, so should our thoughts on the future. Be encouraged to share the Gospel as often as you can! Leave the things out of your control to the one who is in control.Also, Tim makes the worst dad...2023-09-1237 minTuning the BowToday's Tomorrow – IdolatryIdolatry can be a difficult thing to talk to someone about. Believe it or not, many people in the church carry idols with them. These idols demand attention to be taken away from God and placed on them, so Tim and Matt want to encourage parents to reorient their eyes and place them on the Savior of the world, Jesus Christ. They also talk about temptation and if God gives people more than they can handle.Passage – 1 Corinthians 10:1-22Resource – Counterfeit Gods: The Empty Promises of Money, Sex, and Power, and the Only Hope that Matt...2023-09-0532 minTuning the BowToday's Tomorrow – SuccessAccording to the world's standard of success, two youth ministers probably should not be talking about this. But the Bible talks about success in a much different way. Matt and Tim discuss what the Bible defines success as and how it impacts parenting today. The modern culture can be difficult to overcome, but as through the guidance of the Holy Spirit, parents can know what God's standard is for their parenting.Passages – Hosea 6:4-6; Hebrews 13:10-16Message us through Buzzsprout here!2023-08-2924 minTuning the BowToday's Tomorrow – PriesthoodWelcome to a new series called Today's Tomorrow! In this series, Matt and Tim will be working through different terms and definitions and giving the biblical response. This episode covers the priesthood of the believer, a term commonly thought to mean that each believer is basically their own church. Spoiler, this is wrong. The local church is still necessary, and each parent has a bigger responsibility. Through the power of the Holy Spirit, however, each parent can do well and make biblically transformed households.Passages – Deuteronomy 6:7b; Proverbs 3:5-6; 1 Peter 2:9-10Message us through Buzzsprout he...2023-08-2236 minTuning the BowGetting Involved in School – Part 2What is required for kids going to school? They need to be vocal about their faith! Just like last week, Tim and Matt want to encourage parents to teach their kids about being a witness for Christ in their schools. Their uniqueness can lead to many opportunities to let God work through their strengths and weaknesses, so be sure to always build up your children and not tear them down.Passages – Psalm 139:13-16; Acts 1:8Message us through Buzzsprout here!2023-08-1538 minTuning the BowGetting Involved in School – Part 1There are plenty of voices that say you must do this or that, but that legalism can only leave people feeling bogged down with thoughts of failure if they cannot. In this episode, Tim and Matt urge parents to get involved in their kids' school since this is a great way to be a light in a dark world but only if possible. The idea of necessity only applies to going into the world to share the Gospel and not in any specific way. Be encouraged to find ways to minister to your kids and their friends this year!2023-08-0836 minTuning the BowWalking in WorshipThere are many ways we worship, but a common thought among church members is that it is only expressed in singing. Matt and Tim want to push that notion to the side by expressing that worship does not just happen in the big moments, but in the tedious, small moments throughout every day. Listen in and be challenged to rethink how you worship through parenting!Passages – 1 Kings 18-19; Colossians 3:12-17Resources – Ethics as Worship: The Pursuit of Moral Discipleship by Mark D. Liederbach and Evan LenowScripture-Guided Worship: A Call to Pastors and Worship Leader...2023-08-0142 minTuning the BowSystematic ParentologyTheology is often thought to be a pastor's or seminary student's job to understand, but it impacts the daily life of believers. Through a little thought experiment, Tim wants to show how parents can take biblical principles and apply them, and Matt works to show where these principles come from in the Bible. Get ready to think.Passages – Acts 1:16-17; Ephesians 4:29, 5:15-21; 1 Peter 1:16 Resource – The Baptist Faith and Message 2000Message us through Buzzsprout here!2023-07-2537 minTuning the BowCultivating a Heart for MissionsMissions have been discussed multiple times on this podcast, but Tim and Matt want parents to be aware of what goes into getting ready for a mission trip. Preparing for a mission trip is not just about finding a place and contact, but it includes getting hearts ready to be sent and used by God. In this episode, the guys want to show what that looks like and where we find these things in Scripture.Passages – Isaiah 6:1-8; Acts 15:22-27, 16:22-34Resources – https://www.igoglobal.org/resourcesAnd You Will Be My Witnesses : 31 Devotionals to E...2023-07-1934 minTuning the BowThe Case for CampTim and Matt just got back from church camp this past week, and boy are they fired up! There is plenty of follow-up to do with their students, but part of it is this episode where they talk about the importance of parents sending their kids to camp. No matter how tedious life can get, it's the moments when we get away from normal life that God can use for His incredible purposes.Resources (unrelated to the topic, but kind of) – Foreign to Familiar by Sarah A. LanierWho Is the Holy Spirit?: Biblical Insights into Hi...2023-07-1134 minTuning the BowWorking Through Our Past SinIt can be difficult confronting our past sin, but there comes a time when people deal with the consequences. Kids might be tempted to replicate our past mistakes, so parents should be prepared to explain why God's grace allows people to deal with the consequences and be blessed. Matt and Tim work through this process while Matt is TOTALLY in England when they recorded this episode.Passages – Proverbs 22:6; 24:13-16; 26:10-11Resource – Heart of the Problem by Henry Brandt and Kerry L. SkinnerMessage us through Buzzsprout here!2023-06-2725 minTuning the BowHow Do I Pray?In the past, Tim and Matt discussed why we should pray, this episode tackles the question of how people can pray. This is a spiritual discipline that is lacking in many students, so the best time to fix that problem is now. Lead your house in prayer by being the example.Passages – Matthew 6:9-13; 1 Thessalonians 5:16-22; Hebrews 4:14-16; James 5:13-16Resource – Praying the Bible by Donald S. WhitneyMessage us through Buzzsprout here!2023-06-2031 minTuning the BowExplaining the BoycottThere are many stores and restaurants that make political stances on the conservative and liberal sides, and these stances may cause some uproar. In this week's episode, Tim and Matt talk about what to do when these political stances affect families and how parents must be in conversation about what is acceptable and what is not. Instead of sheltering kids without teaching them how to respond biblically to the world, we must use God's Word to show how we can live in this world and not be misled by it.Passages – Romans 1:18-24; 12:1-2We ha...2023-06-1339 minTuning the BowForgiving and Forgiving AgainForgiveness is a difficult thing to work through, but it is something God does all the time. As you forgive the lateness of this episode, Tim and Matt talk about the difficulties of forgiveness and the importance to freely forgive as God does. If this is something you struggle with, give this episode a listen!Passage – Matthew 6:9-15Message us through Buzzsprout here!2023-06-0735 minTuning the BowA Quick EncouragementIn a Tim-less episode, Matt wants to simply encourage parents to be with their kids this summer. It can be a chaotic time trying to balance work and parenting since school is out, but parents should attempt to simply be with their kids without changing their discipleship responsibilities. This is a quicker episode, and this busy time for Matt and Tim will bring some inconsistency, but Tuning the Bow will still be for your encouragement and edification. Enjoy the summer!Message us through Buzzsprout here!2023-05-3016 minTuning the BowPlanning for ChangeLife is full of moving from one age to another, and with this comes many different transitions. Tim and Matt want to give parents a foundation and applications to deal with these transitions in parenting. Based on the foundation, many things can be dealt with through remaining in Scripture, sticking with your convictions, and prayer.Passages – Proverbs 9:9; John 17:17; Daniel 1; James 1:5-8; Philippians 4:6-7Resource – The Pilgrim's Progress by John BunyanAs Matt writes this description, he is currently eating the worst bag of sour cream and onion chips he has ever had. This has...2023-05-2342 minTuning the BowGuiding Your Family – LazinessLaziness is an easy sin to fall into unknowingly and knowingly. There are plenty of things that can take our attention away from the things that matter, so parents should be diligent to check what they spending their time doing and possibly reorient their priorities. Tim and Matt give some helpful application, but it is up to the individual to act on their belief.Passages – Proverbs 6:6-11; 2 Thessalonians 3:11Resource – Counterfeit Gods: The Empty Promises of Money, Sex, and Power, and the Only Hope That Matters by Tim KellerMessage us through Buzzsprout here!2023-05-1635 minTuning the BowMission Minded ParentingMission trips are a part of most churches, but why do many families not want to send their kids to them? In this (sleepy) episode, Matt and Tim want parents to understand why mission trips are important for kids' Christian growth and why parents should prayerfully prepare their kids to go on one before they graduate high school. Though mission trips may be expensive, they are wonderful ways to teach what a life dedicated to Christ looks like.Passage – Matthew 28:16-20Resource – Matthew 28:16-20Message us through Buzzsprout here!2023-05-0938 minTuning the BowGetting Past High SchoolWe often set goals for our kids and not communicate them, and this can give our kids the wrong idea of what we expect or desire for their future. In this episode, Tim and Matt talk about what these goals should look like and why parents should tell their kids about them. Life is more than making it past graduation but is about continually walking closer to God.Passages – 1 Corinthians 15:3; Psalm 119:1-5Resources – Gospel Centered Family by Tim ChesterMy Utmost for His Highest by Oswald Chambers*quality warning* There was a prob...2023-05-0234 minTuning the BowMy Kid Got Saved. Now What?When your child receives Christ into their life, many things will change for them, but the lives of parents do not change that drastically. The big question most parents ask is, "How do I keep this excitement going?" This episode, like most episodes so far, will be a starting point to show what parents need to be teaching their newly saved kids by looking at the ultimate parenting book: Proverbs. Build habits that will bless your kids for the rest of their lives.Passages – Proverbs 1:1-7; 3:5-8; 4:20-27Resources – Thoughts for Young Men by J.C. Ry...2023-04-2536 minTuning the BowSpringing into SummerSummertime approaches, which means schools will be out and kids will be at home. What should you do then? In this episode, Matt and Tim want to get you to start thinking about how you will disciple your kids this summer. Sports camps and church camps are good things, but the focus should be on Jesus when they are not at some camp. Give this episode a listen so you can begin to think about how you will minister to your kids when they are on break.Passage – Matthew 6:21Resource – Raising Disciples: How to Make Fait...2023-04-1837 minTuning the BowScreen Time vs. Family TimeOur digital world is covered in screens, so it is hard to avoid them altogether. Tim and Matt want to help you understand what is at stake in what your kids are watching or reading about on their devices. They will also give some helpful starting points so you can begin to utilize what they are seeing for the glory of God.Passages – Matthew 6:19-23; 1 John 2:15-17Resources – "Communicate with Teens" – CCEF"Flirting with the Law" – CCEF"Taming Technology" – ACBCMessage us through Buzzsprout here!2023-04-1138 minTuning the BowGetting Uncomfortable – Gender Identity and LoveSome things are hard to talk about since they can be foreign issues we are not used to, but the problem of gender identity is becoming more and more prominent in our churches today. In this episode, Matt and Tim want to encourage you that godly and biblical love should be our motivator when dealing with those working through gender identity and other issues. Listen with an open heart and mind to hear what the Bible says about loving those who are confused.Passages – Genesis 1:27; James 2:8-13; Matthew 25:31-40Resource – Gentle and Lowly: The Heart of C...2023-04-0437 minTuning the BowGetting Uncomfortable – Homosexuality"The Bible is clear about marriage." This is an easy thing to say, but what about when people disagree with that statement? Matt and Tim want to help parents talk about this uncomfortable and increasingly needed topic when it comes to sexuality. Much like last episode, they will discuss what Scripture says about homosexuality and how you can begin this conversation with your kids if the situation arises. The truth is more important than people's comfort, so all believers must tackle this conversation with love and grace.Passages – Genesis 1:26-27; Romans 1:26-27; 1 Timothy 1:8-10Resources – What...2023-03-2831 minTuning the BowGuiding Your Family – SexualityOh man. It's that time.In this episode, Tim and Matt talk about sexuality as it is described in Scripture. This will launch into a new series for the next two episodes, but before they get any deeper, they will work through what the Bible says about sex, sexual impulses, and gender identity, all the while giving you some extra resources and helpful tips to when you encounter sexual sin in your family. Passages – Genesis 1:26-28, 2:18; Hebrews 13:4Resources – The Talk: 7 Lessons to Introduce Your Child to Biblical Sexuality by Luke GilkersonWhat Does...2023-03-2137 minTuning the BowGuiding Your Family – DepressionDepression hits in a much different way than most mental disorders. It can feel as if the world is against you, and there is no hope for it to end. In this episode, Matt and Tim talk about biblical writers and their depression, how they responded to it, and what believers can learn from their stories along with some practical works you can do for yourself or your kids. It's a longer episode, but their prayer is that you would benefit from this deeper dive into the biblical response to depression.Passages – Jeremiah 1:4-8; 2:9-12, 19; 20:8-9Ps...2023-03-1541 minTuning the BowWhy Use the Bible?Tim and Matt use the Bible a lot in their lives, but why? There are lots of books out there that talk about life issues, and some are a little easier to understand at times. In this episode, they will talk about how the Bible is inspired by God, inerrant, and authoritative in believers' lives. They will also talk about which English translations are good for kids and students.Passages – 2 Timothy 3:16-17; 2 Peter 1:20-21; Psalm 119:1-2, 9-11Resources – Baptist Faith and Message 2000Seven Arrows Bible - CSBRead This First: A Simple Guide to G...2023-03-0733 minTuning the BowGuiding Your Family – AngerThe blood starts pumping, the senses start to diminish, and the feelings begin to erupt through your words and actions. They are the symptoms of anger as common as a cold. This episode is directed to this for those who write in ALL CAPS, those who cannot seem to stop listening to that rock music, and the homes that are akin to a warzone. Sinful, selfish anger is a common sin that everyone deals with, but how do we teach our kids to quell the anger in their hearts? Listen and find out!Passages – James 1:19-21; Proverbs 15:1, 182023-02-2836 minTuning the BowGuiding Your Family – AnxietyAnxiety is a killer that has become a common struggle in schools, workplaces, and the church. The problem is that a lot of people think they are not qualified to deal with issues like this, so Matt and Tim are starting a new series focused on helping you guide your kids (or yourself) through these difficult issues. You will learn about how to deal with sin through alliteration (speak, soak, serve) and plenty of Bible verses that talk about anxiety. Anxiety is not fun, but God is still in control no matter how you feel.Passages – Proverbs 3:5-8...2023-02-2136 minTuning the BowProverbs 31 and the Family – Part 2In this episode, Matt and Tim talk about the response husbands and children should have towards a Proverbs 31 woman. Whether you have a biblical family, a blended family, or a broken family, trust is a big part of the marriage relationship, so be encouraged to trust your spouse and be deserving of that trust! Live out Scripture in every possible way.Passage – Proverbs 31Resources – Marriage on the Rock by Jimmy EvansThe Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley WillisMessage us through Buzzsprout here!2023-02-1428 minTuning the BowProverbs 31 and the Family – Part 1Plenty of people read Proverbs 31 thinking it is only applicable for women, but Tim and Matt want to show you how this chapter teaches both men and women. They go into detail about some qualities that are important, but ultimately these qualities become secondary to having a foundation built upon Christ. Join them as they seek to encourage wives to apply these qualities and push husbands to do the same.Passage – Proverbs 31:10-31Resources – The Love Dare Day by Day: A Year of Devotions for Couples by Stephen and Alex KendrickChasing Love: Sex, Love...2023-02-0738 minTuning the BowGetting Marriage RightMarriage is held to a high standard in Scripture, so Tim (married with two kids) and Matt (marriage expert and currently single) will explore what the book of Ephesians says about it. Through the lens of Scripture paired with their experiences and understanding, they want to encourage you to look to Christ first when dealing with your spouse because a biblical marriage will lead to biblical parenting.Passage – Ephesians 5:22-6:4Resources – Sacred Marriage: What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy? by Gary ThomasMarriage Resurrection by Chri...2023-01-3138 minTuning the BowJesus, King of the FamilyOur lives are defined by who Jesus is, but we do not always act like it. In this episode, Tim and Matt discuss the place of Jesus being king over our families and the battles that will come when trying to reorient them into this perspective. This episode was heavily influenced by the youth ministry GOAT Dr. Richard Ross.Passages – Hebrews 1:8-12, 4:14-16; 1 Timothy 6:13-16; 2 Peter 1:3Resources – Reactivity: How the Gospel Transforms Our Actions and Reactions by Paul David TrippThe Knowledge of the Holy by A.W. TozerMessage us through Buzzs...2023-01-2437 minTuning the BowThe Reason for DevotionMatt and Tim have talked about how having a devotional time is good, but this episode will talk about why it is good. Using examples from the Bible and experience, they build a case on the necessity of parents having a personal and family devotional time. What better way is there than to start a new year than in Scripture with your family?Passages – Matthew 6:6; Luke 5:15-16; 2 Peter 1:12-15Resources – Truth For Life: 365 Daily Devotions, Volume Two by Alistair BeggDad Tired and Loving It: Stumbling Your Way to Spiritual Leadership by Jerrad Lopes2023-01-1740 minTuning the BowIn the MundaneNot every part of life is filled with excitement or stress (thankfully), so in this episode, Matt and Tim want to encourage you to continue to parent through the mundane parts of life. Your kids are probably at home for the next week, so use these opportunities to continue to disciple them in the boring and slow parts. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!Passages – Exodus 2:10-11; Deuteronomy 6:4-9; Joshua 6; 1 Corinthians 10:31Resources – Kingdom Family Devotional: 52 Weeks of Growing Together by Tony EvansThe Power of a Praying Parent by Stormie OmartianMessage us t...2022-12-2034 minTuning the BowSuch Spirit Through the YearThe Christmas season is full of lights, presents, and things that try to take our attention off Christ. Instead of just going along with the culture, Matt and Tim talk about being holy through the holly (youth pastor joke). They want to challenge you to shepherd your kids to continue to live different from the culture through this month and the rest of the year. Continue to share Jesus now and whenever the time arises.Passages – John 13:34-35; 1 Peter 1:14-16Resources – A Parent's Guide to Understanding Teenage Brains: Why They Act the Way They Do by M...2022-12-1334 minTuning the BowSpecial Episode - Stocking StuffersHere at Tuning the Bow, we want to do the heavy lifting for you, so this Christmas season, Tim and Matt (mostly Tim) are giving you an extended resource list of Bibles, Bible studies, and reference materials to give your kids this Christmas. They will explain the books and give you the reasons why they have choses them. However, these gift ideas are good for any day and not just Christmas, so come back to this episode whenever you want to a resource to give your children.Bibles:CSB Explorer Bible for KidsCSB Apologetics...2022-12-0820 minTuning the BowAdvent and ParentingChristmas time is here! This is a favorite season for Matt and Tim, so they want to help you understand what Advent is and how it can help you prepare your hearts and your children's hearts to get ready for Christmas day. There is not much talk about the Bible in this episode, but their goal is to equip you to talk about why Christmas is important and not about the presents and the trees (though they are cool things). Be encouraged to continue to disciple your kids through the most wonderful time of the year!Passages – Is...2022-12-0635 minTuning the BowFaith, Works, and ParentingIn this episode, Tim and Matt discuss how faith is not a result of works, but our works are the result of our faith. In working through a few questions about how we should view parenting, they hope to encourage you to live out your faith in your works as you think about your goal, motivation, and model of parenting.Passages – James 2:14-26; John 13:34-35, 20:30-31; 1 Corinthians 10:1-6; Genesis 22; Deuteronomy 6:1-3Resources – Dare 2 ShareIn a Pit With a Lion on a Snowy Day by Mark BattersonMessage us through Buzzsprout here!2022-11-2934 minTuning the BowHoliday ParentingTTB a day early! The holiday season is upon us! With Thanksgiving coming up and Christmas not too far behind, Matt and Tim want to equip you to parent well during the holidays. Whether it is talking to lost family members or taming your tongue to watch what you say, your kids are watching everything you do. Parenting well through these moments will help grow your family closer to God, and you will be blessed through it all.Passages – Galatians 5:13; James 1:27; Philippians 2:3; Proverbs 10:11, 18:2; 1 Corinthians 15:54-58; Romans 12:9-18Resource – The Heart of the Matter by Christian Coun...2022-11-2135 minTuning the BowParenting with the Armor of God – Part 2This week, Tim and Matt finish their discussion about the armor of God and its role in parenting. Building off of some points from last week, they want to encourage parents to continue to endure through the hardship of parenting with even the smallest attacks that the enemy throws at you. Continue to stand firm for the sake of your children, and God will bless your efforts greatly!Passage – Ephesians 6:16-20Resources – A Life of Endurance by Dr. David Jeremiah (Part 1 and Part 2)Once-A-Day At the Table Family Devotional by Christopher D. HudsonGrea...2022-11-1537 minTuning the BowParenting with the Armor of God – Part 1There are plenty of biblical passages that call us to be responsible for ourselves, but these concepts also help us to lead and disciple others as examples. In this episode, Matt and Tim look at how to apply the armor of God to parenting with some other passages to help show this idea. Since this is part one, part of the armor will be discussed, so stay tuned to see how you can best arm yourself for better biblical parenting!Passage – Ephesians 6:10-15Resources – Shepherding a Child's Heart by Tedd Tripp Parenting God's Way by Al...2022-11-0833 minTuning the BowThe Value of Family ScriptureIn this episode, Matt and Tim discuss the importance of having a family Bible verse. No matter where you are in your parenting, choosing today to start discipling your family will begin a journey that God will bless. On this journey, having a verse or biblical mission statement will give you direction and purpose as you walk through the goodness of God as a family. Tim walks through his family verse and discusses ways to pick one for your family so you can get started. Passages – Deuteronomy 6:6-9; Ephesians 6:4Resource – Family Discipleship: Leading Your Home Throu...2022-11-0136 minTuning the BowReading the Bible TogetherWelcome to Tuning the Bow! The first step in discipling your family is to get in the source. In this debut episode, Matthew discusses why parents should read the Bible by themselves and with their families. By walking through three Scripture passages, he argues the importance of reading with your kids. There are some resources provided that will help you better minister to your family, so check them out!Passages – Deuteronomy 6:4-7; 2 Timothy 3:14-17; 2 Peter 1:3-4Resources – Robert Murray M’Cheyne Reading PlanBible in One YearRead This First: A Simple...2022-10-2029 minTuning the BowTuning the Bow – TrailerPsalm 127:4 says, "Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the sons born in one's youth." A skilled warrior knows how to use his arrow, but children can be difficult to teach at times. The focus of this podcast is to equip parents to tune their bow and become skilled warriors as they train their children to go into the world. Join Matthew Wilbanks, Youth Ministry Coordinator at Longbranch Community Baptist Church in Midlothian, TX, and Tim Rose, youth pastor at First Odessa in Odessa, TX, as they discuss family discipleship as the Bible teaches. Guests, jokes, and...2022-10-2000 min