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Heretic Happy Hour#240: Deconstruction Reexamined with Mattie Jo Cowsert and Jaxon PhoenixIn this week's main episode, Keith and Matthew talk to Quoir authors Mattie Jo Cowsert and Jaxon Phoenix to talk about how deconstruction differs based on your gender, race, and ethnicity.If you want to call in to the Bonus Show, leave a voicemail at (530) 332-8020. We'll get to your calls on next Friday's Bonus Show. Or, you can email Matthew at matthew@quoir.com.Join The Quollective today! Use code "heretic" to save 10% off a yearly subscription.Pick up Keith and Matt's book, Reading Romans Right, today, as well as The UnChristian...2025-07-221h 23
Faith AdjacentChanging Your Mind, President Carter, and The Faith Adjacency of New Year’s ResolutionsIt’s time for another favored or forsaken! Join Jamie, Erin, and Evan as we talk about what it looks like to change your mind on very public issues, whether New Year’s resolutions need to be faith related, and controversy surrounding President Carter’s death. You’ll also hear what is favored for each of us right now! MENTIONS
Richard B. Hays: Learn more here | The Widening of God’s Mercy
New Year’s Resolutions: Are they in or out?
President Carter: Jimmy Carter at the Judgement Seat
Evan’s Favored of the Month: Culture Care by Makoto Fu...2025-01-2347 minFaith AdjacentChanging Your Mind, President Carter, and The Faith Adjacency of New Year’s ResolutionsIt’s time for another favored or forsaken! Join Jamie, Erin, and Evan as we talk about what it looks like to change your mind on very public issues, whether New Year’s resolutions need to be faith related, and controversy surrounding President Carter’s death. You’ll also hear what is favored for each of us right now! MENTIONS
Richard B. Hays: Learn more here | The Widening of God’s Mercy
New Year’s Resolutions: Are they in or out?
President Carter: Jimmy Carter at the Judgement Seat
Evan’s Favored of the Month: Culture Care by Makoto Fu...2025-01-2352 min
This Is Not Church PodcastAmerican Christian Nationalism: A Conversation With Michael AustinThis Quoircast podcast episode is brought to you by God, Sex, And Rich People by Mattie Jo Cowsert. Published by Quoir and available now.In this episode we chat with Michael AustinMichael W. Austin is Foundation Professor of Philosophy at Eastern Kentucky University and Bonhoeffer Senior Fellow of the Miller Center for Interreligious Learning and Leadership of Hebrew College. He has published twelve books, most recently Humility: Rediscovering the Way of Love and Life in Christ and QAnon, Chaos, and the Cross: Christianity and Conspiracy Theories.You can follow Michael Austin on:Facebook Instagram YouTubeYou can find all thing Michael Austin...2024-12-161h 02This Is Not Church PodcastGod, Sex, And Rich People: A Conversation With Mattie Jo CowsertThis Quoircast podcast is brought to you by Theological Musings Vol. 2 by Dillon Naber Cruz. Published by Quoir and available now In this episode we chat with Mattie Jo CowsertMattie Jo grew up the youngest daughter of four kids in a Midwest, wholesome, Christian household. She lived in Branson, Missouri. which was a lot like being on a kitschy, yet charming movie set all the time, but a movie set nonetheless. Now a professional actor and author, she's ready to book that Hallmark Christmas movie so people back home know she's really made it.You can follow Mattie Jo Cowsert o...2024-12-091h 09
Sex After with Amy MarcsSex After Purity Culture Part 2 with Mattie Jo Cowsert and Erica SmithThis week on Sex After, we continue our conversation on purity culture with Mattie Jo Cowsert and are joined by sex educator, Erica Smith. We talk more about the complexities of healing from religious repression and reclaiming sexual autonomy. Mattie Jo and Erica also discuss the importance of community support and finding healing spaces for those recovering from conversion therapy or faith-based trauma.They touch on the ongoing process of deconstructing faith, navigating queer identities, and finding spiritual fulfillment outside of traditional religious frameworks. With humor, empathy, and deep wisdom, Amy, Mattie Jo, and Erica provide hope and guidance...2024-11-271h 01
Sex After with Amy MarcsSex After Purity Culture Part 1 with Mattie Jo CowsertIn this episode of Sex After, author and post-purity culture dating expert, Mattie Jo Cowsert shares her journey from growing up in a strict evangelical household in rural Missouri to navigating life in New York City. Mattie opens up about the challenges of purity culture, its impact on her mental health and relationships, and the transformative experiences that shaped her life.The conversation explores the emotional aftermath of early sexual experiences, the importance of self-love, and the need for accurate sexual education. Mattie also discusses how spirituality and faith have evolved for her beyond traditional religious frameworks...2024-11-2032 min
Liminal Living93: Mattie Jo Cowsert: Unraveling Evangelical IdentitytakeawaysMattie moved to New York City driven by a strong instinct.Growing up in Branson felt like living on a movie set.Her upbringing was wholesome but came with pressures.She recognizes the good and bad in her evangelical background.Stability in community provided comfort during her teenage years.Questioning beliefs began at a theater camp in New York.Evangelicalism often conflates knowing and believing.Love should not have an agenda in evangelism.The historical context of women in Christianity is often overlooked.Diversity in theater challenged her previous beliefs. The concept of divine love is often...2024-11-2059 min
The Ellen Fisher PodcastTHE SEX DEBATE: abstinence vs sexual exploration | is it worth it to wait until marriage? Ellen Fisher vs Mattie Jo CowsertMattie Jo Cowsert joins me today discussing purity culture, abstinence, hookup culture, and sexual freedom. Maddie Jo is an actor, shameless oversharer, and author of her new book, God, Sex, and Rich People, A Recovering Evangelical Testimony. Is purity culture toxic? Are there benefits to waiting until marriage for sex?
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They Talk SexThe God, Sex, and Rich People EpisodeAre you a current or former Christian still learning how to have guilt-free sex? Mattie Jo Cowsert is a recovering Evangelical who moved to New York City to find her husband - and then learned the world is bigger and more diverse than she had been raised to believe. Meet a shameless oversharer who wrote about her experiences with God, Sex, and Rich people.3:00 evangelical and moved to NYC7:00 sex and shame10:00 rich people were unexpected13:00 white, blue eyed woman privilege 18:00 where my Evangelicals at?20:00 abuse dismissed a...2024-10-281h 07Heretic Happy HourBOOKWORM: "God, Sex, and Rich People," by Mattie Jo CowsertIn this edition of "bookworm," Keith sits down with actor and author Mattie Jo Cowsert to discuss her brand-new book, God, Sex, and Rich People, as well as the pilot of the same name.If you want to call in to the Bonus Show, leave a voicemail at (530) 332-8020. We would love to get to your calls!LINKSQuoirCast on PatreonQuoirCast on Patheos
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jonathan_fosterGod, Sex, and Rich People with Mattie Jo CowsertMattie Jo Cowsert is an actor and author. I think the courage she displays unpacking her story around, you guessed it, God, sex, and rich people is something that a lot of people are going to benefit from. I love her spirit and her energy for finding healthy ways forward for young people (all people). We had a lot of fun on this episode. Her book is out today (as of the release of this episode). I hope you'll find it. God, Sex, and Rich People: A Recovering Evangelical Testimony. Also, find Mattie Jo at mattiejocowsert.com a...2024-09-1058 minThis Is Not Church PodcastMinisters Of Propaganda: A Conversation With Scott ColeyThis Quoircast podcast episode is brought to you by God, Sex, and Rich People by Mattie Jo Cowsert. The book is published by Quoir and is available now In. this episiode we chat with Scott ColeyScott M. Coley is a lecturer in philosophy at Mount St. Mary’s University. His research interests include philosophy of religion, moral epistemology, and political philosophy.You can purchase Ministers Of Propaganda on Amazon.comou can connect with This Is Not Church on:Facebook Instagram TikTok YouTubeAlso check out our Biolink for all things This Is Not Church relatedPlease like and follow our Quoircast Partners:Heretic Happy...2024-09-0949 min
Sex Talk CafeEscaping Purity Culture with Mattie Jo CowsertToday's episode of Sex Talk Cafe features Mattie Jo Cowsert, raised by a pastor and once a proud purity ring wearer before moving to New York City where she experienced an unexpected worldview and identity implosion thanks to Tinder and her Jewish roommate. Author of the book and blog by the same name, God Sex and Rich People, Mattie Jo is a living example of a woman who overcame the negative impact of religious programming and is now a beacon of hope for others. In this episode we explore the myth of "too soon", identifying what Mattie Jo calls "...2024-09-0358 minSex Talk CafeEscaping Purity Culture with Mattie Jo CowsertToday's episode of Sex Talk Cafe features Mattie Jo Cowsert, raised by a pastor and once a proud purity ring wearer before moving to New York City where she experienced an unexpected worldview and identity implosion thanks to Tinder and her Jewish roommate. Author of the book and blog by the same name, God Sex and Rich People, Mattie Jo is a living example of a woman who overcame the negative impact of religious programming and is now a beacon of hope for others. In this episode we explore the myth of "too soon", identifying what Mattie Jo calls "...2024-09-0358 min
Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesFrom Sexual “Purity” to Freedom and Self-Love: Mattie Jo and AmberMattie Jo Cowsert and Amber Cantorna-Wylde grew up entrenched in purity culture, which impacted their relationship to sex, pleasure, and themselves profoundly. Their rocky paths to freedom shed light on the powerful role sexual self-discovery can play in our lives and relationships. This episode touches on: Childhood trauma Masturbation and self-pleasure Ways purity culture harms women, men and LGBTQIA+ folks A common female sexuality stereotype Spicy exploration Benefits of trauma therapy and affirming faith communities in dark times L...2024-08-2845 min
Deconstruct To Curiocity147: God, Sex, and Rich People: Mattie Jo Cowsert — Purity Rings to Life in NYC#147: Mattie Jo Cowsert—actor, author, and self-proclaimed shameless oversharer. From her roots as a pastor’s kid and purity ring wearer to navigating the wild and diverse landscape of New York City, Mattie Jo shares her explosive journey of deconstruction and self-discovery. We delve into her blog-turned-book, "God, Sex, and Rich People," explore her spiritual evolution, and laugh (and maybe cringe) at her unforgettable NYC dating stories. With her book launch on the horizon and a TV series in development, Mattie Jo gives us an unfiltered look at what it means to live authentically and unapologetically. Keep listening for a cand...2024-07-1558 min
UncertainS5:E14 - A Recovering Evangelical Testimony featuring Mattie Jo CowsertMattie Jo Cowsert was a pastor’s kid and proud purity ring wearer before she moved to New York City and experienced an unexpected worldview and identity implosion thanks to Tinder and her Jewish roommate. When marriage equality passed in 2015, Mattie Jo decided to share how the queer community was one of the catalysts for questioning everything she’d been taught about this Jesus guy in her first publicly released blog post entitled: God and the Gays. This was the start of her popular blog, God, Sex, and Rich People. Before terms like “deconstruction”, “purity culture” or “Exvangelical'' became hashtags viewe...2024-07-091h 02
Cheers To Leaving!Ep 80 God, Sex & Rich People: A Pastor's Kid's Journey in the Big AppleSend us a textTW: Mentions of rape and sexual assaultThis is the last of our purity culture series. For this last episode we had an amazing conversation with Mattie Jo Cowsert. Before terms like “deconstruction” “purity culture” or “Exvangelical'' became hashtags all over the internet, Mattie Jo’ popular blog God, Sex & Rich People exposed the sometimes painful, sometimes hilarious realities of a young female Exvangelical navigating the diversity of Big Apple, working for the 1%, and dating in a city that never sleeps (and never stops sleeping around). This is her story.Mattie Jo's...2024-04-251h 22
The New Evangelicals Podcast211. Shameless Oversharing After Purity Culture // Mattie Jo CowsertSummaryIn this podcast, Mattie Jo Cowsert discusses her book God, Sex & Rich People: A Recovering Evangelical Testimony, with Tim. Mattie Jo explains her background in evangelicalism and the influence of purity culture on her beliefs and sexuality. She and Tim explore the need to challenge systemic issues and prioritize social justice over religious dogma. Chapters00:00 Introduction and Background08:16 Questioning Faith and Reclaiming Sexuality16:04 Deconstructing Christianity and Forming a New Moral Foundation30:13 Reevaluating Priorities and Challenging Systemic Issues32:23 The Control and Fear of Purity Culture2024-01-221h 33The New Evangelicals Podcast211. Shameless Oversharing After Purity Culture // Mattie Jo CowsertSummaryIn this podcast, Mattie Jo Cowsert discusses her book God, Sex & Rich People: A Recovering Evangelical Testimony, with Tim. Mattie Jo explains her background in evangelicalism and the influence of purity culture on her beliefs and sexuality. She and Tim explore the need to challenge systemic issues and prioritize social justice over religious dogma. Chapters00:00 Introduction and Background08:16 Questioning Faith and Reclaiming Sexuality16:04 Deconstructing Christianity and Forming a New Moral Foundation30:13 Reevaluating Priorities and Challenging Systemic Issues32:23 The Control and Fear of Purity Culture2024-01-221h 33
IndoctriNationGod, Sex, and Rich People w/ Mattie Jo CowsertMattie Jo Cowsert was a pastor’s kid and proud purity ring-wearer before she moved to New York City and experienced an unexpected worldview and identity implosion. When the marriage equality act passed in 2015, Mattie Jo decided to share how the queer community was one of the catalysts for questioning everything she’d been taught, in her first publicly released blog post entitled: God and the Gays. This was the start of her popular blog, God, Sex & Rich People. Before terms like “deconstruction”, “purity culture” or “Ex-vangelical” became hashtags all over the internet, God, Sex & Rich People exposed the sometimes painful, sometim...2024-01-101h 06
Talkin‘ Politics & Religion Without Killin‘ Each OtherMattie Jo Cowsert, an #Exvangelical on God, Sex and Rich PeopleWhat does it mean to be an EXvangelical? For Mattie Jo Cowsert, how did that deconstruction of her faith, the tradition that she grew up in, all come about? How have family and friends back home reacted to Mattie Jo's journey, specifically with her being an outspoken exvangelical? What's it been like to go back and examine the truth of certain pillars of today's American Evangelicalism such as the Kanakuk Kamps, now known to have employed and protected serial sexual predators? We get into so much more, too - including plenty of politics!
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Going There: Taboo Topics Are Back on the TableGod, Sex, and Rich People Blogger Mattie Jo Cowsert talks about the role of religion in our understanding of sexual identity, & how her journey from purity culture to spiritual reconstruction led to her documenting her tale. As a Missourian, middle class girl, moving to NYC to live amongst the filthy rich, non-Christian, homosexual & anything but ‘midwest-normal’ opened her eyes & heart to new people & truths. Mo’ Sweets offers up some tasty snacks for those with a nut allergy, & Donovan Dorrance provides a soothing soundtrack.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.2021-04-211h 10
The CubbyThe Cubby_S3-Bonus_Alone & Afraid? Get Paid! [Quarantine Moves] EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEWSend us a textWelcome back to The Cubby!!!EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW!!You all are in for a treat! Coming to our couch, coming to our table, coming to our studio is an amazing group of people! The Little David Show (@littledavidshow), exclusively streamed on UrbanFlixTV.Join the host, TLouDoWhatitDo (@CaliLouTee) as he has a real authentic discussion in relation to what are the steps necessary to accomplish a goal during this age of pandemic and quarantine. This episode is entitled - "Alone & Afraid? Get Paid [Quarantine Moves] is the launch of...2021-01-211h 22
Take Me To CoffeeGod, Sex & Rich People: Mattie Jo CowsertAndrew and Jess finally picked their jaws up off the ground after this crazy episode with actress and writer Mattie Jo Cowsert, who leads them through her childhood of evangelical upbringing, sexual purity and what it was like to have a complete identity shift when she moved to NYC. This coffee date is a horrifying, hilarious, complicated look at the expectations put on women in evangelical cultures and what's it like to turn that experience into content.
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