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Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher"Perfect Love, Broken People: How God Uses Your Mess to Heal a Battlefield" Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher Podcast | Hosted by Maurice HarkerWhat if the very things Satan uses to whisper, “you’re too broken, too messy, too late” are the exact things God wants to use to bless His children?In this episode of the Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher Podcast, Maurice Harker (founder of Life Changing Services and creator of the Spiritual Psychology Masterclass) dives into the psychology behind fear, perfectionism, and “I’ll just mess it up” thinking. From mission stories in Detroit to the story of Martin Harris and the 116 pages, Maurice explains how perfect love casteth out fear and why God invites us i...
2025-11-2028 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher"God’s Work Cannot Be Frustrated: Finding Miracles in Your Mess" Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher Podcast | Hosted by Maurice HarkerCan God really do His work through you when your life feels like a total mess? In this powerful episode of the Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher Podcast, Maurice Harker (founder of Life Changing Services and creator of the Spiritual Psychology Masterclass) explores what it really means that “God’s work cannot be frustrated”—even by our weaknesses, sins, or failures.Drawing on the story of Martin Harris and the 116 lost pages, early Church history, and real-life examples from modern disciples, Maurice dives deep into spiritual psychology—the mental and emotional patterns behind fear, shame, per...
2025-11-1727 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherAre AI Tools a Spiritual Distraction? Insights from Maurice Harker on Staying Centered in Christ
In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, Maurice Harker explores the role of artificial intelligence in spiritual learning and the importance of keeping Christ as the focal point. Despite the growing capabilities of AI tools, Maurice emphasizes how personal revelation and insight surpass any technological aid. He shares experiences from his family gathering, discussing themes of legacy, faith, and overcoming satanic sabotage. Join us as we dissect insights from two conference talks, ponder the story of the prodigal son, and explore how modern distractions, even seemingly helpful ones, can sometimes pull us away from our true...
2024-09-2211 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherInsights from an LDS Servant Teacher: Navigating Fear and Confidence with Maurice Harker
Welcome to "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher" hosted by Maurice Harker. In this episode, Maurice shares profound insights derived from his experiences working with individuals striving for self-mastery and seeking to understand the dynamics of fear and confidence. Delving into the psychological core elements for men and women, Maurice explores the delicate balance between safety and security, fear and confidence. Drawing from personal anecdotes and scripture references, he challenges listeners to confront their fears and find a centered path amidst life's challenges. Join us as we uncover the transformative power of faith and self-awareness in overcoming fear and...
2024-05-0310 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherRevelations from an LDS Servant Teacher: Navigating Faith and Relationships with Maurice Harker
Welcome to "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher" hosted by Maurice Harker. In this episode, Maurice shares profound insights derived from his experiences working with individuals striving for self-mastery and couples seeking to strengthen their relationships. Delving into delicate topics such as the relationship between worry and love, Maurice challenges traditional perspectives to encourage listeners to embrace hope and faith. Through thoughtful analysis of scriptures, quotes, and personal anecdotes, Maurice explores the transformative power of positive thinking and the importance of unconditional love in familial relationships. Join us as we embark on a journey of spiritual growth and relational...
2024-05-0211 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherInsights from an LDS Servant Teacher: Navigating Life's Challenges with Maurice Harker
Welcome to "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher" hosted by Maurice Harker. In this episode, Maurice shares invaluable insights derived from his experiences working with individuals striving for self-mastery and couples seeking to fortify their marriages. With a focus on practical principles rooted in his expertise, Maurice delves into delicate topics, exploring how to convey transformative concepts without causing offense. Through thoughtful analysis of conference talks and personal anecdotes, Maurice illustrates the importance of embracing faith, resilience, and personal growth. Join us as we embark on a journey of spiritual discovery and empowerment in navigating life's complexities.
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2024-05-0111 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherInsights from an LDS Servant Teacher: Navigating Life's Challenges with Maurice Harker
Welcome to "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher" hosted by Maurice Harker. In this episode, Maurice shares profound insights drawn from his experiences working with individuals striving for self-mastery and couples seeking to strengthen their marriages. He candidly discusses the importance of humility and learning from others, highlighting the transformative power of embracing wisdom from unexpected sources. Maurice also provides practical advice on leveraging modern technology to disseminate valuable knowledge in various forms, emphasizing the importance of accessibility and adaptation. Join us as we explore the intersection of spiritual guidance, personal growth, and technological innovation in navigating life's complexities.
2024-04-3010 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherScientific Strategies for Relationship Success: Insights with Maurice Harker
Welcome to "Scientific Strategies for Relationship Success" with Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services. In this podcast, Maurice shares groundbreaking principles derived from his extensive experience as a therapist specializing in marriage and self-mastery. Drawing from President Nielsen's emphasis on the science of predictable outcomes, Maurice explores how understanding behavioral patterns in relationships can lead to profound transformation. Using analogies from fields like aerodynamics and piloting, Maurice emphasizes the importance of humility and confidence in building secure relationships. From predicting challenging behaviors to crafting actionable plans, Maurice provides listeners with practical tools for navigating the complexities of marriage...
2024-04-2010 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherNavigating the Psychological Landscape of Marriage: Insights from Maurice Harker
Join Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, as he shares invaluable insights derived from his extensive experience working with married individuals and those striving for self-mastery. In this podcast, Maurice delves into the complexities of the psychological journey within marriages, offering practical principles for navigating challenges and fostering growth. From understanding the cyclical nature of emotional healing to balancing confidence and humility, Maurice provides listeners with actionable strategies for strengthening their relationships. With candid discussions and relatable anecdotes, he sheds light on common pitfalls and empowers listeners to build secure and stable foundations for their marriages. Whether you're...
2024-04-1910 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherEmpowering Women in Marriage: Insights with Maurice Harker
Welcome to Maurice Harker's podcast, where excerpts from live training sessions provide invaluable guidance for individuals and groups striving to mend their marriages. Maurice, Director of Life Changing Services, introduces listeners to the Marriage Repair Workshops, offering a cost-effective solution to marriage therapy. In this episode, Maurice focuses on empowering women with the tools to navigate challenging marital dynamics. Drawing analogies from everyday scenarios, Maurice encourages women to tap into their innate intelligence and devise effective protocols for managing conflicts. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing when to engage and when to retreat, dispelling the myth that women are...
2024-04-1714 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherNavigating Marriage Challenges: Insights with Maurice Harker
Welcome to Maurice Harker's podcast, where snippets from live training sessions offer guidance to individuals and groups striving to mend their marriages. Maurice, Director of Life Changing Services, introduces listeners to the Marriage Repair Workshops as an accessible resource aimed at aiding more people at lower costs. In this episode, Maurice delves into the concepts of triggers and alarms, drawing parallels from military PTSD science. He emphasizes the importance of discerning between true alarms and triggers in marital conflicts, advocating for proactive safety measures. With practical examples and compassionate guidance, Maurice empowers listeners to develop protocols for responding to...
2024-04-1613 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherEmpowering Marriages: Insights from Maurice Harker's Live Training Sessions
Welcome to Maurice Harker's podcast, where listeners gain invaluable insights from live training sessions dedicated to the recovery and strengthening of marriages. Maurice, the Director of Life Changing Services, introduces the Marriage Repair Workshops as an accessible solution for those seeking guidance at a lower cost. Through the Lazarus Lectures platform, participants gain access to transformative principles and tools aimed at reviving struggling relationships. Maurice addresses the possibility of men becoming proactive in protecting their families and guides women on nurturing themselves in challenging circumstances. Drawing from years of experience and therapeutic expertise, Maurice provides practical advice on fostering...
2024-04-1513 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherNavigating Marriage Challenges: Insights from Maurice Harker's Live Training Sessions
Welcome to Maurice Harker's podcast, where listeners get a glimpse into live training sessions aimed at helping individuals and couples recover and strengthen their marriages. Maurice, the Director of Life Changing Services, introduces the Marriage Repair Workshops as an accessible solution for those seeking guidance at a lower cost. Through the Lazarus Lectures platform, participants gain access to valuable resources to aid them on their journey. Maurice emphasizes the importance of maintaining high standards while striving for improvement, likening the journey to finding a constant pull, much like a North Star guiding the way. With insights drawn from years...
2024-04-1413 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherNavigating the Path to Emotional Wellness with Maurice Harker
Join Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, in a profound exploration of emotional wellness and personal transformation. In this podcast, Maurice draws from his extensive experience as a therapist to provide practical insights and strategies for navigating life's challenges. From overcoming anxiety and depression to fostering healthy relationships, Maurice offers valuable guidance to help listeners achieve emotional resilience and fulfillment. Through engaging discussions and expert advice, discover the tools and techniques needed to cultivate a life of purpose, joy, and inner peace. Whether you're seeking support for yourself or looking to empower others on their journey, this podcast...
2024-04-0911 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherCreating Sacred Spaces: Nurturing Growth in Relationships
Welcome to another enlightening episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher" with Maurice Harker. In this segment from the Eternal Warriors 3.0 workshop, Maurice delves into the intricacies of fostering growth-oriented environments within relationships. From the Reflect phase to the Discover process, Maurice guides listeners through the journey of self-improvement and invites them to extend the same courtesy to others. Drawing parallels to overhearing conversations between loved ones and God, Maurice emphasizes the privilege of witnessing someone's spiritual dialogue. He shares personal anecdotes and insights, encouraging listeners to approach relationships with reverence and empathy. Maurice highlights the importance of...
2024-03-3113 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherCourageous Conversations: Sharing Personal Growth Journeys Together
Welcome to "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher" with Maurice Harker. In this insightful episode excerpted from the Eternal Warriors 3.0 workshop, Maurice explores the transformative power of sharing personal growth experiences with loved ones. Through role-playing exercises and practical guidance, Maurice navigates the complexities of vulnerability and connection in these courageous conversations. From choosing areas of focus to sharing reflections on personal development, Maurice provides invaluable insights for fostering supportive environments where growth flourishes. Join Maurice as he delves into the nuances of inviting others into our developmental journey, highlighting the importance of empathy, patience, and understanding. Tune in...
2024-03-3010 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherNavigating Vulnerability: Sharing Personal Growth Journeys with Maurice Harker
Welcome to "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher" with Maurice Harker. In this profound episode excerpted from the Eternal Warriors 3.0 workshop, Maurice delves into the intricacies of sharing personal growth experiences with others. With candor and insight, Maurice guides listeners through the process of reflecting on personal strengths and weaknesses, and the challenges of inviting others into that intimate space. Drawing from real-life scenarios and role-playing exercises, Maurice highlights the importance of creating a supportive environment for personal growth discussions. From identifying areas of focus to navigating feedback from loved ones, Maurice offers invaluable wisdom for cultivating vulnerability and...
2024-03-2910 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherUnlocking the Power of Self-Mastery: Navigating Personal Growth with Maurice Harker
Welcome to "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher" with Maurice Harker. In this insightful episode, Maurice delves into the concept of self-mastery and its profound impact on personal growth. Drawing from his extensive experience as a teacher and mentor, Maurice explores practical strategies for unlocking the power of self-mastery in our lives. From identifying core values to aligning actions with intentions, Maurice offers invaluable guidance for navigating the journey of personal development. With wisdom and compassion, he empowers listeners to embrace self-discovery, overcome obstacles, and cultivate a life of purpose and fulfillment. Join us as we embark on a...
2024-03-2811 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherDivine Communication: Insights from Maurice Harker
Welcome to a special episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," where Maurice Harker shares profound insights on divine communication within marriages. Drawing parallels between the game of Tetris and the interaction between speakers and listeners, Maurice unveils the intricate process through which the Holy Ghost refines and personalizes teachings for individual understanding. He challenges traditional notions of accountability in communication, advocating for a more receptive approach that honors the unique revelations received by each listener. With vivid imagery and relatable anecdotes, Maurice invites listeners to envision a marriage dynamic where partners approach conversations with humility, preparation, and...
2024-03-2412 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherFoundations of Love: Insights from Maurice Harker
Welcome to a podcast where Maurice Harker, an experienced teacher, shares profound wisdom on nurturing healthy relationships. In each episode, Maurice delves into live training sessions aimed at supporting individuals and groups in rebuilding their marriages. With a focus on understanding the dynamics of interdependent relationships versus codependency, Maurice guides listeners through the journey of establishing strong foundations for enduring love. Drawing parallels between construction principles and relationship building, he emphasizes the importance of setting standards and boundaries to ensure the stability and longevity of marriages. Through anecdotes, teachings, and practical advice, Maurice empowers listeners to seek celestial orientations...
2024-03-2312 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherRenewing Marriages: Wisdom from Maurice Harker
Welcome to a podcast dedicated to helping couples navigate the challenges of marriage and find paths to renewal. Hosted by Maurice Harker, a seasoned teacher, this podcast offers glimpses into live training sessions where individuals and groups earnestly work towards rebuilding their relationships. Maurice introduces listeners to the concept of marital "rebirth," drawing parallels between individual growth and the renewal of marriages. Through a blend of scientific insights and spiritual principles, Maurice guides couples through the process of creating a blueprint for their relationship's future. Each episode presents valuable lessons from the Marriage Repair Workshops and Lazarus Lectures, providing...
2024-03-2213 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherMiracles of Marriage: Lazarus Lectures with Maurice Harker
Welcome to "Miracles of Marriage," where Maurice Harker, a seasoned LDS Servant Teacher, shares insights from his live training sessions aimed at restoring marriages. In this podcast, Maurice delves into principles rooted in both timeless scriptures and scientific understanding, offering hope and guidance to those grappling with relationship challenges.
Maurice's Marriage Repair Workshops provide an opportunity for individuals or couples to engage in comprehensive learning, all from the comfort of their own homes via webinar. With a blend of eternal principles and practical strategies, Maurice aims to facilitate miraculous transformations in struggling relationships.
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2024-03-2113 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherRebuilding Intimacy
Welcome to the world of emotional intimacy with Maurice Harker. In this captivating excerpt from a live training session, Maurice delves into the intricate dynamics of understanding and connecting with your partner. Drawing analogies between human behavior and nature, Maurice guides listeners through the process of decoding their spouse's communication patterns and emotional needs. From recognizing the ideal timing for deep conversations to navigating past traumas with empathy and grace, Maurice offers invaluable advice for couples on the journey to rebuilding intimacy. Learn how to communicate effectively, set boundaries, and cultivate a deeper understanding of each other's perspectives. Join...
2024-03-1213 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherNavigating Emotional Intimacy
Embark on a transformative journey toward emotional intimacy with Maurice Harker in this excerpt from a live training session dedicated to rebuilding marriages. Maurice introduces listeners to the intricacies of emotional connection within relationships, emphasizing the importance of individual growth and communication skills as foundational elements. Through candid insights and practical advice, Maurice guides participants through the complexities of navigating emotional conversations, setting boundaries, and fostering mutual understanding. From acknowledging past traumas to embracing vulnerability, Maurice empowers listeners to engage in open dialogue and cultivate deeper connections with their partners. With a focus on building trust, resilience, and empathy...
2024-03-1013 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherRebuilding Love and Connection
Join Maurice Harker in this enlightening excerpt from a live training session focused on rebuilding marriages. Maurice introduces listeners to the Marriage Repair Workshops, a groundbreaking initiative aimed at providing accessible support to couples navigating challenging times in their relationships. Through candid discussions and practical insights, Maurice emphasizes the importance of fostering open communication and vulnerability in the journey toward marital restoration. From crafting marital mission statements to navigating the stages of relationship repair, Maurice offers valuable guidance and encouragement to listeners seeking to heal and strengthen their bonds. With a focus on empowerment and growth, Maurice invites participants...
2024-03-0913 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherEmbracing Imperfection
Join Maurice Harker in another insightful episode of the Eternal Warriors 3.0 workshop, where he navigates the complexities of personal growth and overcoming imperfections. In this session, Maurice reflects on the inevitability of causing both positive and negative influences on others, highlighting the importance of recognizing growth opportunities even in moments of failure. Drawing from personal experiences and timeless wisdom, Maurice shares profound insights on the role of the Atonement in covering human flaws and facilitating growth. Through relatable analogies and candid discussions with participants like Jessica, Maurice addresses the tendency to focus solely on eliminating negativity, urging listeners to...
2024-03-0808 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherNavigating Psychological Battles
Welcome to another insightful episode of the Eternal Warriors 3.0 workshop with Maurice Harker. In this session, Maurice delves into the complexities of personal development, particularly in the context of relationships. Drawing from the analogy of the Intimacy Pyramid, Maurice discusses the challenges and rewards of building psychological and spiritual intimacy with a partner. Through candid conversations with participants like Darla, Maurice offers guidance on navigating emotional triggers and setbacks in the journey towards intimacy. He emphasizes the importance of resilience and patience, reassuring listeners that setbacks are part of the learning process. Using relatable examples and references to scripture...
2024-03-0712 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherUnderstanding the Complexities of Female Psychology with Maurice HarkerIn this podcast episode titled "Understanding the Complexities of Female Psychology with Maurice Harker," Maurice Harker, a seasoned therapist, shares valuable insights into deciphering the often misunderstood world of female psychology. He emphasizes the importance of approaching women's reactions with curiosity and validation rather than frustration and confusion. Using analogies from various fields, Maurice helps listeners recognize predictable patterns in female behavior, ultimately promoting better understanding and connection in relationships.
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2024-03-0710 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherEternal Warriors 3.0: Mastering Life's Challenges with Maurice Harker
Join Maurice Harker in the Eternal Warriors 3.0 masterclass, where he guides listeners through a transformative journey of self-mastery. In each episode, Maurice shares excerpts from the workshop, offering insights and practical tools to align behavior with personal values. Discover how to find harmony in your life, gain control over your actions, and experience fulfillment. With a focus on spiritual growth and empowerment, Eternal Warriors 3.0 provides a roadmap for achieving success and hearing the voice of God say, "Well done, my good and faithful servant." Explore the platform further to access valuable resources and join the weekly training sessions for...
2024-03-0411 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherMarriage Repair Workshops: Rebuilding Love and Trust with Maurice Harker
Join us as we delve into live training sessions where individuals and groups are fervently engaged in revitalizing their marriages. Maurice, a seasoned therapist, offers practical insights and tools drawn from years of study and therapeutic experience. Learn how to create an environment of trust, emotional connection, and mutual respect with your partner. Maurice encourages active engagement with workshop materials, empowering participants to tailor their journey towards healing. Discover how to navigate challenges, foster empathy, and rebuild your relationship from the ground up. Don't miss out on this opportunity to transform your marriage and find lasting happiness.
2024-03-0213 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherMarriage Repair Workshops: Rebuilding Relationships with Maurice Harker
Join Maurice Harker in his transformative Marriage Repair Workshops, where he shares invaluable insights and practical tools to help individuals and couples rebuild their relationships. Through years of experience and study, Maurice offers guidance on understanding the concept of "presiding" in marriage, fostering empathy, and nurturing trust. Explore how to adapt workshop materials to align with your values and personalize your journey towards a stronger, happier marriage. Don't let financial constraints hold you back – access this essential resource to revive your relationship and embark on a journey towards lasting happiness.
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2024-03-0112 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherEmpowering Marital Transformation: Insights from Maurice Harker
Welcome to "Empowering Marital Transformation" with Maurice Harker, where couples engaged in rescuing their marriages gather for insightful live training sessions. In this episode, Maurice shares his dream of equipping men with the tools to navigate their roles as presiders in relationships. Through a meticulously crafted document, Maurice simplifies the complexities of leadership into actionable steps, empowering men to proactively engage in self-improvement. He envisions men embarking on a journey of self-discovery and introspection, seeking divine guidance to fulfill their stewardship as presiders. Maurice's approach liberates women from the burden of creating lists of improvement for their partners, fostering...
2024-02-2113 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherNavigating Marital Challenges: Insights from the Lazarus Lectures
Welcome to "Navigating Marital Challenges" with Maurice Harker, where we dive deep into transformative principles for rebuilding and strengthening marriages. In this episode, you'll hear a clip from a live training session with individuals and groups committed to revitalizing their relationships. Maurice introduces Lesson 35 of the Lazarus Lectures, focusing on the concept of presiding within the framework of the family proclamation. Drawing from his extensive experience and study of eternal principles, Maurice provides invaluable insights into presiding as a GPS destination for men in their psychological journey. He emphasizes the importance of understanding presiding within the context of proactive...
2024-02-2012 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherUnlocking Intimacy: The Power of Written Communication in Marriage
Welcome to "Unlocking Intimacy" with Maurice Harker, a podcast dedicated to sharing transformative insights for couples seeking deeper connection and understanding in their relationships. As a seasoned therapist specializing in marriage counseling and self-mastery, Maurice offers a unique perspective on navigating the complexities of marital communication. In this episode, Maurice delves into the profound impact of written communication on marital dynamics. Drawing from his wealth of experience, Maurice highlights the importance of radical honesty, openness, empathy, stability, and continual progress in fostering a healthy marriage. He introduces the concept of psychological empathy, emphasizing the significance of understanding your partner's...
2024-02-1913 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherMarriage Mastery: Transforming Relationships
Welcome to the "Marriage Mastery" podcast with Maurice Harker. Join Maurice as he guides individuals and groups through live training sessions aimed at revitalizing marriages. Through insightful discussions and practical exercises, Maurice addresses crucial topics such as emotional intimacy, effective communication, and the importance of reflecting on past experiences. Discover the power of initiating conversations about the past and learn how reflection and planning can strengthen marital bonds. Maurice's expertise, drawn from years of therapeutic experience, provides listeners with the tools and insights needed to navigate challenging situations and rebuild relationships. Dive into the transformative journey of marriage repair...
2024-02-1413 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherNavigating Marriage Challenges with Maurice HarkerWelcome to "Navigating Marriage Challenges with Maurice Harker," where Maurice Harker shares valuable insights and guidance on revitalizing and strengthening troubled marriages. In this episode, Maurice discusses the complex dynamics of becoming true helpmates in a relationship. He emphasizes the importance of understanding and valuing each partner's unique resources and strengths. Through personal stories and practical advice, he encourages individuals to continue their personal development even within the context of marriage. Maurice also introduces the concept of "man in the mountain" time and its role in maintaining a healthy relationship.
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2024-02-0513 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherBecoming Helpmates: Transforming Marriages with Maurice HarkerIn this insightful podcast episode, titled "Becoming Helpmates: Transforming Marriages with Maurice Harker," listeners are introduced to the concept of rebuilding and rejuvenating struggling marriages through a transformative program. Maurice Harker emphasizes the importance of understanding each partner's unique strengths and resources within a relationship. He encourages positive assumptions, open communication, and self-awareness as essential elements for nurturing a successful partnership. Listeners are invited to explore the Marriage Repair Workshops and the Lazarus Lectures as valuable resources for rebuilding their relationships and increasing happiness.
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2024-02-0412 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherUnderstanding Patterns of Torment: Insights from Maurice HarkerIn this thought-provoking podcast episode titled "Understanding Patterns of Torment: Insights from Maurice Harker," therapist Maurice Harker shares valuable principles gleaned from his extensive experience working with couples and individuals on their journey to self-mastery. Harker delves into the complexities of intimate relationships and explores the dynamics of fear, communication, and patterns of torment within marriages. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing predictable patterns in emotional responses and suggests a more proactive and compassionate approach to fostering understanding and connection.
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2024-02-0208 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherNavigating Boundaries and Understanding Your Partner's Needs with Maurice HarkerIn this insightful podcast episode, titled "Navigating Boundaries and Understanding Your Partner's Needs with Maurice Harker," Maurice Harker, an experienced therapist, shares essential principles derived from his work with married couples and individuals striving for personal growth. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing and understanding boundaries within relationships, particularly when it comes to women's psychology. Using relatable analogies, Harker sheds light on the complexities of human behavior and the role of thoughtful communication in fostering healthy connections.
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2024-02-0110 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherMastering Emotional Intimacy: Maurice Harker's GuidanceIn this podcast episode titled "Mastering Emotional Intimacy: Maurice Harker's Guidance," Maurice Harker, a seasoned marriage therapist, provides valuable insights into nurturing emotional intimacy in relationships. He emphasizes the importance of initiating and refining the dance of intimacy between partners, sharing practical advice on how couples can control the pace of emotional film review and overcome challenges in their marital interactions. Maurice invites listeners to explore his Marriage Repair Workshops and Lazarus Lectures for comprehensive guidance on rebuilding and strengthening relationships.
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2024-01-3012 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherNavigating Intimacy in Marriage: Maurice Harker's InsightsIn this episode titled "Navigating Intimacy in Marriage: Maurice Harker's Insights," Maurice Harker, a seasoned marriage therapist, provides valuable guidance on understanding and improving intimacy within marital relationships. He delves into the complexities of initiating physical and psychological intimacy, highlighting the challenges couples often face in finding the right balance. Maurice emphasizes the importance of adhering to true principles rather than reacting solely to a partner's response, ultimately offering hope and practical advice for couples seeking to enhance their connection.
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2024-01-2912 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherMaurice Harker: Navigating Marriage Challenges and PsychologyIn this podcast episode titled "Maurice Harker: Navigating Marriage Challenges and Psychology," Maurice Harker, a marriage therapist, provides valuable insights into the psychology of maintaining a healthy relationship. He draws parallels between sports psychology and marital interactions, emphasizing the importance of staying focused and resilient when faced with relationship challenges. Maurice also discusses how Satan can influence our perceptions within relationships and offers strategies for navigating difficult moments with empathy and understanding.
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2024-01-2813 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherNavigating the Challenges of Marriage: Insights from Maurice HarkerIn this podcast episode titled "Navigating the Challenges of Marriage: Insights from Maurice Harker," Maurice Harker shares snippets from live training sessions aimed at helping individuals and groups work on recovering their marriages. He discusses the importance of addressing negative thought patterns and satanic disruptions that often hinder positive interactions within relationships. Maurice encourages listeners to explore his Marriage Repair Workshops and Lazarus Lectures to gain valuable tools for revitalizing their relationships.
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2024-01-2712 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherDiscovering the Divine: Unveiling God's Presence Through Letters and GapsIn this captivating episode of 'Memoirs of an LDS Therapist,' Maurice Harker embarks on a profound exploration of recognizing the divine presence in our lives, centered around discovering the faces of God and Christ. Reflecting on personal experiences and insights from Paul's life, Maurice delves into the essence of recognizing God's love and cultivating charity.
He draws parallels between Paul's early ministry struggles and the crucial lessons in charity, emphasizing the transformative power of understanding God's love as the cornerstone of spiritual growth. Maurice highlights the practice of writing letters to God as a gateway to...
2023-11-2911 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherRecognizing the Divine: Learning to Tune into God's VoiceIn this thought-provoking episode of 'Memoirs of an LDS Therapist,' Maurice Harker navigates the nuanced journey of recognizing the divine presence and understanding the voice of God. Drawing from personal missionary experiences and scriptural insights, Maurice embarks on a discussion centered on the process of recognizing and connecting with God.
Reflecting on the pivotal moment triggered by a spiritual prompting during a mission, Maurice emphasizes the significance of discerning the voice of God, urging listeners to contemplate what aligns with divine communication. He delves into the common misconceptions about God's expectations and dispels myths surrounding disappointment...
2023-11-2811 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherDeep Dive into Spiritual Psychology: The Power of Reading and PonderingIn this comprehensive session of the Spiritual Psychology Masterclass, Maurice Harker delves into the transformative potential of leveraging the D PAR method to amplify reading and pondering experiences, drawing insight from his ongoing work with the Spiritual Psychology book from First Nephi.
Maurice navigates through the meticulous process of compiling insights from scriptures, underlining key sections, and integrating comments from various contributors. He emphasizes the significance of collaborative editing and invites participants to review and edit content before publication, fostering a sense of ownership and refinement.
The podcast captures Maurice's strategic approach in crafting condensed...
2023-11-2711 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherCyclical Mastery: Redefining Goals and Satanic Attack ManagementIn this episode, Maurice Harker unravels the essence of reflection in achieving long-term, mid-range, and short-term goals, along with weekly and daily aspirations. Using his own health journey as a poignant example, Maurice narrates his pursuit of preparing for an Ironman triathlon, only to realize the monumental time commitment required for such a feat.
Through his candid experience, Maurice emphasizes the adaptability of goals and the importance of cyclical iterations, drawing attention to the wisdom shared by prophets that was absent in conventional self-help literature. He advocates for embracing change and fluidity in goals, steering away from...
2023-11-2606 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherUnveiling the Psychology of Self-Discovery and Goal AttainmentJoin Maurice Harker in this profound discussion on self-discovery and psychological tactics for goal achievement within the Eternal Warriors community. Maurice delves into the discovery phase, highlighting the intricacies of identifying glitches in one's personal development journey. He emphasizes the health sector's wealth of research and resources, aiding in uncovering obstacles hindering progress.
Exploring the psychological realm, Maurice challenges the notion of effortless transformation, advocating for a deeper dive into satanic attacks obstructing personal growth. He underscores the significance of personal revelation, steering away from self-critique and Freudian analyses. Instead, he advocates for a proactive approach to...
2023-11-2510 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherElevating Personal Growth: A Deep Dive into Self-Reflection and EvolutionJoin Maurice Harker in an engaging session focusing on men's personal development within the Eternal Warriors context. Maurice addresses a common tendency among husbands: waiting for their wives to point out personal weaknesses instead of proactively reflecting on personal growth. Encouraging introspection, Maurice prompts attendees to identify aspects for self-improvement, challenging them to consider areas of development not highlighted by their partners.
Discussing the overarching theme of fostering a dynamic relationship with God, Maurice introduces the 'Season of Life, Next Game, Next Series, Next Play' framework, leveraging football metaphors to illustrate layers of personal development. He aligns...
2023-11-2410 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherEternal Warriors 3.0: Navigating Self-Transformation and Identity SymphonyIn the second week of Eternal Warriors 3.0, Maurice Harker from Life Changing Services shares insights into the program's resources and curriculum. With an emphasis on cyclical availability, Maurice walks participants through the online platform's features, including mentor introductions, recommended books, and the Eternal Warriors Planner. The platform offers a comprehensive array of resources, including video segments, written elements, and multiple lesson rounds, empowering participants to study at their pace.
The discussion centers on 'Composing Your Life: A Symphony of Self-Transformation into Your Identity.' Maurice invites contemplation on personal vision, guiding individuals towards envisioning their life's emotions...
2023-11-2311 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherMastering Emotional Navigation: Crafting Responses Amidst Relationship ChallengesIn this revealing discussion led by Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, the focus centers on crafting predefined responses to navigate emotionally charged situations in relationships. Maurice introduces key phrases and strategies to empower individuals in handling challenging conversations with grace.
Participants explore phrases such as 'I hear what you're saying' and 'You've given me a lot to think about' as tools to acknowledge without necessarily agreeing, fostering a compassionate dialogue. Maurice encourages practicing responses akin to a scripted series of heartfelt verbal movements, much like a soldier’s carefully formulated steps in crisis.
Dr...
2023-11-2209 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherDiscovering Your True Identity: A Journey of Self-Reflection and TransformationJoin Maurice Harker, the Director of Life Changing Services, in an engaging episode that explores the profound concept of discovering and embracing one's true identity. In this workshop-style podcast, Maurice encourages listeners to participate actively and take notes while reflecting on the themes discussed.
Maurice kicks off the episode by emphasizing the importance of teaching and learning based on eternal principles. He acknowledges that while he strives for accuracy, he is still mortal and may have teaching flaws. He reminds listeners that the most crucial lessons are often learned through personal prayer and pondering after the meeting.
2023-11-1114 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherNoble and Great: Unraveling the Satanic Attacks on Your IdentityIn this thought-provoking episode hosted by Maurice Harker, the Director of Life Changing Services, listeners embark on an exploration of self-identity and the impact of external influences, particularly satanic attacks on one's self-worth. The episode delves into the concept of becoming the "noble and great ones" of the final generation and encourages listeners to challenge their preconceived notions about pride and self-worth.
Maurice introduces the episode's context as a workshop, urging participants to take notes and engage actively in the discussion. He shares insights from a morning session with a men's Moroni group that meets early on...
2023-11-1010 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherUnlocking the Power of Aha Moments and Personal RevelationIn this enlightening episode of the podcast hosted by Maurice Harker, the Director of Life Changing Services, listeners embark on a journey of personal growth and self-mastery. The episode highlights the importance of "aha moments" and the value of practice in the quest for self-improvement.
Maurice starts by reminiscing about the invigorating phase of life when individuals experience those "aha moments," those times when everything suddenly clicks. He encourages listeners to recall their own moments of epiphany and inspiration.
The episode features McCade, one of the Eternal Warriors mentors, who specializes in engaging with bishops...
2023-11-0910 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherThe Journey of Self-Mastery and RepentanceWelcome to "Eternal Warriors 3.0" with Maurice Harker, the Director of Life Changing Services. In this profound episode, Maurice takes us on a journey through his transformative experiences, unveiling the origins and the philosophy behind this powerful workshop.
Maurice's initial motivation to serve people was rooted in his desire to understand and improve marital dynamics due to his own relationship limitations. However, he quickly recognized a significant gap in addressing self-mastery issues, particularly with pre-missionaries struggling with sexual self-mastery challenges.
He shares his astonishment at the scarcity of resources and the reluctance to engage with such...
2023-11-0811 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherMastering the Art of Relationship CommunicationIn this illuminating episode, Maurice Harker, the Director of Life Changing Services, guides gentlemen through the intricacies of effective communication within intimate relationships. He emphasizes the need to create a communication culture that fosters emotional, psychological, and spiritual intimacy, where both partners rejoice and are edified together.
Maurice encourages men to practice the art of validating their partners, especially when discussing past experiences or future aspirations. He shares practical advice on creating an atmosphere where women feel supported and encouraged, even when their ideas may seem unrealistic.
The podcast delves into the concept of edification...
2023-11-0715 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherThe Art of Connecting Through Creative ConversationsIn this captivating episode, hosted by Maurice Harker, the Director of Life Changing Services, Maurice explores the nuances of effective communication between husbands and wives. He candidly discusses common pitfalls in conversations and offers valuable insights on improving the quality of interaction.
Maurice begins by addressing the challenge of husbands unintentionally sabotaging conversations when discussing past experiences or future aspirations with their wives. He encourages men to reflect on moments when they may have inadvertently shut down these conversations and how such actions can impact relationships.
The episode delves into the dynamics of cognitive intimacy...
2023-11-0613 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherMastering the Art of Meaningful Communication in RelationshipsIn this episode, hosted by Maurice Harker, the Director of Life Changing Services, Maurice delves into the crucial role of effective communication in relationships. He provides valuable insights and practical advice on enhancing the quality of communication between couples.
Maurice begins by highlighting the importance of taking notes during conversations, especially when discussing important matters with your partner. He emphasizes that memory is unreliable, and using notes as a supplement can help improve communication and understanding.
Listeners will discover the concept of "zippering" or the "two piston effect," where a healthy exchange of thoughts and...
2023-11-0514 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherEmpowering Relationships Through Communication and GrowthIn this episode, hosted by Maurice Harker, the Director of Life Changing Services, we explore the intricacies of effective communication and personal growth within relationships. Harker provides valuable insights into understanding and empathizing with our partners, particularly when they express their thoughts under duress.
Harker introduces the concept of listening with the spirit, likening it to the challenge of deciphering a foreign language. He emphasizes the importance of seeking clarifying revelation and striving to understand the message behind the words, rather than nitpicking and attempting to prove one's partner wrong.
Listeners will gain practical advice...
2023-11-0411 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherUnraveling the Complexities of Intimacy and Boundaries in RelationshipsIn this episode, hosted by Maurice Harker, the Director of Life Changing Services, we delve deep into the intricate world of intimacy and boundaries in relationships. Harker takes us on a journey through the intricacies of understanding women's aversion to boundaries and the celestial orientation mechanism in the female brain. He discusses the concept of "Think Celestial" and how it relates to the desire for unbridled intimacy.
Harker introduces the idea of the "Six Intimacies," emphasizing the importance of a genuine and open connection with one's partner, free from boundaries. He shares practical insights on how to...
2023-11-0312 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherUnlocking Intimacy and Personal Growth: Maurice Harker's InsightsIn this intriguing podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, delves into the intricacies of personal development and fostering emotional intimacy in relationships. The episode begins with a discussion about sharing DPARs (Discover, Plan, Act, Reflect) with one's spouse, shedding light on the challenges some face when trying to open up to their partners.
Harker shares his observations from a marital session with a client who struggled to share his thoughts and feelings with his wife, emphasizing that the process can be perplexing. He humorously explores the differences between men and women in communication, highlighting...
2023-10-2011 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherStrategies for Prioritizing Your Life: A Journey with Maurice HarkerIn this captivating podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, provides valuable insights on effective life planning and prioritization. As the episode unfolds, Harker invites listeners to explore the concept of a "battle plan" and encourages them to interrupt with questions to ensure a clear understanding.
Harker shares exciting news about Claire, who is fine-tuning a Customized Battle Planner resource. Claire's dedication is aimed at making this tool accessible for listeners to order their own personalized battle planners. She plans to continue creating new pages that are specifically designed to be most useful to individual...
2023-10-2011 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherMastering Self-Improvement with Maurice Harker: Timeless Wisdom for Personal GrowthIn this engaging podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, serves as our guide through the world of personal growth and self-improvement. Harker underscores the importance of lifelong learning and self-development and highlights the incredible efficiency of his staff in curating valuable content for the listeners.
The episode encourages the audience to take less than eight to unlock a treasure trove of knowledge, from the 1st edition of lesson eight to a plethora of bonus materials, ensuring that they continue their self-improvement journey even after leaving the class.
Listeners are also urged to...
2023-10-1911 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherMaurice Harker on Review, Growth, and Seeking Divine ApprovalIn this segment, Maurice Harker discusses the importance of continuous growth and learning as part of the Eternal Warriors program. He encourages participants to engage in self-reflection, adjust their approaches, and apply the principles learned in the program to their lives. Maurice emphasizes that it takes time to rewire one's thought patterns and that the Atonement allows for compensation during this growth process. He also emphasizes that God celebrates every small success and does not operate on disappointment, encouraging a more positive and self-compassionate mindset. Maurice invites participants to seek guidance and ask questions about applying the principles. This...
2023-10-1511 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherMaurice Harker on Cognitive Intimacy, Boundaries, and Building a Strong FoundationIn this segment, Maurice Harker delves into the concept of cognitive intimacy, focusing on the importance of listening and talking without seeking integration or connection. He highlights the significance of setting correctly communicated boundaries, which are descriptions of one's chosen lifestyle and personal journey. Maurice uses metaphors like zippering two minds together and discusses the levels of intimacy, emphasizing the need to progress slowly in building a strong foundation for a successful relationship. He shares a personal story from his high school days and offers encouragement and guidance to women seeking a born-again approach to relationships. Maurice's teaching style...
2023-10-1416 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherMaurice Harker's Insights on Dating, Boundaries, and Self-IdentityMaurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, provides insights on dating, boundaries, and maintaining self-identity. He discusses the importance of setting boundaries in dating and not compromising one's standards to please another person. Maurice encourages women to be confident in their self-identity and to prioritize their own well-being. He also emphasizes the need to maintain one's own life and not rush into changing everything for a relationship. Maurice's humorous and engaging style highlights the importance of healthy boundaries and self-respect in dating and relationships.
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2023-10-1313 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherMaurice Harker's Insights on Relationship Dynamics and Personal RevelationMaurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, discusses the importance of personal revelation and individual introspection in the context of dating and relationships. He highlights the need for women to rely on their own connection with the Holy Ghost and not seek external feedback when making decisions. Maurice also emphasizes the significance of self-improvement and discernment during the early stages of dating. He contrasts the idea of trying to manipulate someone's psychology with the concept of healthy relationship dynamics based on mutual respect and discernment. Maurice's humorous and engaging approach encourages women to trust their intuition and their personal...
2023-10-1213 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherMaurice Harker's Insights on Applying Eternal Principles to Real-Life IssuesIn the Women's Marriage Repair Webinar Workshop, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, addresses the challenges and relief that come with applying eternal principles to real-life issues. He emphasizes the importance of finding relevance and application for these principles, sharing his own journey in understanding their connection to topics like anxiety, depression, and temptation. Maurice encourages participants to be meticulous in their pursuit of true principles and clarifies that he is not the originator of these principles but rather a steward of them. He also delves into the topic of cognitive intimacy and the significance of identity and...
2023-10-1114 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherMaurice Harker's Wisdom on Transparency, Self-Discovery, and Personal RevelationIn this enlightening podcast, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, explores the challenges of achieving full transparency in relationships and the importance of DPAR (Discovery, Plan, Act, Reflect) in self-improvement. He stresses the significance of being sincere in the process of surfacing and addressing issues, even when memories may be incomplete. Maurice encourages men to engage in a cyclical journey of self-discovery, guided by personal revelation. He also shares his own experiences and the valuable insights he has gained over the years. Maurice's message is one of hope, empowerment, and the recognition that personal growth is a continuous...
2023-10-1011 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherMaurice Harker on Navigating Relationship Challenges and Self-DiscoveryJoin Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, as he provides invaluable insights on navigating challenging relationships. In this podcast, Maurice discusses the complexities of dealing with traumatized individuals and the importance of building a safe environment, much like a farmer constructing a greenhouse. He emphasizes the need for principled behavior over reaction-based behavior and guides listeners through a four-step cycle for growth. With an unwavering focus on self-discovery and rejuvenation, Maurice encourages men to draw strength from their true identity, purpose, and plan, empowering them to weather the storm of difficult relationships with grace and resilience.
2023-10-0914 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherRelationship Accountability and Effective Communication with Maurice HarkerJoin Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, as he delves into the world of proactive accountability in relationships. In this podcast, Maurice emphasizes the need for individuals to take responsibility for their actions, reflect on past mistakes, and create a plan for personal growth. Additionally, he provides valuable insights into understanding women's communication, helping listeners bridge the communication gap and decipher the underlying concepts behind their words. Learn how to build a stronger, more open, and accountable relationship through Maurice's expertise.
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2023-10-0810 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherNavigating Relationship Stages: Emotional Investment, Wise Planning, and Healthy BoundariesThe discussion continues as Maurice Harker explores the various stages of relationships and how to differentiate them. He describes his observations regarding his daughter's relationship progression, from friend to monogamous boyfriend and beyond. He emphasizes the importance of understanding and defining each stage in the relationship.
The podcast addresses listener questions, which highlight experiences of struggling to invest emotionally and mentally in relationships or overinvesting to the point of vulnerability and stress. Maurice introduces the idea of living intentionally, emphasizing the need to make plans based on wisdom, follow through with actions, and periodically reevaluate.
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2023-10-0309 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherHandbook for My Daughter: Reflecting, Discovering, and Planning for Healthy RelationshipsIn this podcast episode, Maurice Harker continues the discussion on the "Handbook for My Daughter" concept. He encourages participants to express their concerns and experiences in the chat, emphasizing the importance of visualizing and documenting their thoughts.
Maurice introduces the "Pattern for Growth," a concept inspired by President Nielsen's leadership, consisting of four stages: Discover, Plan, Act, and Reflect. He begins by focusing on the "Reflect" stage, encouraging participants to reflect on what went wrong in their past relationships.
Participants share various concerns and experiences, including emotional and verbal abuse, trusting too much, over-pleasing, staying...
2023-10-0111 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherNavigating Divorce, Healing, and New Beginnings: A Worth Q&A SessionIn this podcast episode, Maurice Harker, the director of Life Changing Services, introduces the Worth Q&A session. He discusses the history of the Worth group, which has been providing support and resources for women going through challenging life transitions, including divorce. The group aims to address the questions and concerns of women who are navigating divorce, contemplating it, or working on re-entering the dating world.
Maurice emphasizes the importance of maintaining confidentiality during these sessions and encourages participants to ask their questions. He also discusses the approach of Life Changing Services, which advocates a "born again"...
2023-09-3011 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherUnderstanding Situational Empathy - Men's Workshop LessonIn this segment of the men's marriage repair workshop, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, discusses the concept of situational empathy and its importance within marriage. He uses a scale to represent levels of empathy and delves into participants' experiences and perspectives.
Maurice begins by explaining the chemical scale, where a higher number indicates a greater distance from empathy. He emphasizes that level 10 represents behaving contrary to one's values, regardless of what those values are. Participants are encouraged to assess their own standards and values in their relationships.
The focus then shifts to level 2...
2023-09-2314 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherCustomizing Your Life Plan: A Live Power Session with MauriceIn this interactive live session, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, invites a participant to undergo a personalized power session where they work together to tailor a life plan to the individual's specific needs and challenges. Maurice emphasizes the importance of flexibility in planning and the need to customize strategies for individual circumstances.
The participant discusses their challenges, including juggling responsibilities like parenting a toddler, handling personal struggles, and managing multiple jobs. Maurice guides the participant through a process of reorganizing their daily routine to better accommodate their goals and responsibilities.
Throughout the session...
2023-09-2010 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherPersonal Growth and Agile Planning: Mastering the D.P.A.R. MethodIn this section of the recording, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, continues to explain the process of using the Agile planning tool and personal growth through D.A.R. (Discover, Act, Reflect) sessions. Here's a summary:
Skipping Menu Items: Maurice advises listeners to skip sections of the menu that are not applicable to their current needs. This allows for a more personalized and efficient approach to personal growth planning.
Create a List of Potential Growth Areas: Maurice acknowledges that some people may find it challenging to identify additional growth areas in their lives...
2023-09-1513 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherReverse Planning for Success: Maurice's Coaching Session HighlightsIn this coaching session led by Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, participants learn the concept of reverse planning to overcome obstacles and achieve their goals. The session focuses on identifying upcoming events that individuals want to execute successfully and then working backward to uncover potential challenges and solutions.
Maurice encourages participants to think about specific events in their lives that they hope to complete but have struggled with in the past due to various obstacles. One participant shares her goal of completing a task by a certain deadline.
Maurice then guides the participant...
2023-09-1212 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherI've Done My Job WellIn this concluding portion, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, summarizes key points and provides further guidance on the process of navigating a relationship with a husband who is not fulfilling his role as a spouse:
Notebook and Preparation: Maurice suggests that a notebook should be prepared listing everything that could be of concern for discussion. This notebook is meant to facilitate open communication during the process of rebuilding trust.
Airplane Engineers and Pilots: The analogy of airplane engineers and pilots is used to explain the need for individuals to take on the role...
2023-09-1012 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherA Healthy OriginIn this section, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, discusses the process of rebuilding trust and repairing a marriage after betrayal trauma. Here are the key points covered:
Understanding the Origin of Avoiding the Past: Maurice explains that some men are under the impression that it's best to avoid discussing the past. This thinking stems from certain situations, like battles or sports, where it's beneficial to move on quickly from mistakes. However, this mindset doesn't translate well to repairing a marriage.
Airplane Metaphor: Maurice introduces the concept of using an airplane metaphor for rebuilding...
2023-09-0912 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherTalking to a TornadoIn this section, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, addresses the challenges faced by individuals who are in relationships with spouses who are not receptive to their pain or trauma. He provides further insights and guidance:
Recognizing Unfairness and Choosing Survival: Maurice acknowledges the unfairness of the situation but stresses the importance of focusing on survival. The analogy of expecting sunny weather but encountering a tornado illustrates the contrast between expectations and reality. Rather than dwelling on what is fair, the emphasis is on finding ways to navigate an unfair situation.
Understanding the Role...
2023-09-0812 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherMy Current PositionIn this portion of the conversation, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, addresses a question about sharing pain and trauma with a spouse who might not be receptive. Maurice acknowledges the difficulty of this situation and offers guidance on how to approach it.
Maurice emphasizes the importance of safety and advises individuals to ensure their own safety before sharing their feelings with a spouse who might be psychologically conditioned to respond in a hurtful manner. He suggests that if the spouse's reactions have the potential to be psychologically abusive, it might be wise to create physical...
2023-09-0712 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherDoes the Car Have Gas in it?In this part of the conversation, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, discusses the feeling of not being able to trust others and believing that one is worthy of being loved. Maurice mentions the tendency for many women to initially have a high level of trust in their partners when entering a relationship, but over time, this trust can diminish due to various factors and societal influences.
He highlights societal contradictions and expectations that make it challenging for individuals to navigate relationships. There's an emphasis on the idea that surprises are a natural part of any...
2023-09-0611 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherRunning and ScreamingIn this portion of the conversation, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, delves into the meaning of when a woman says, "I don't feel safe," and how men can respond effectively to address this concern. He starts by using the analogy of airplane safety and how passengers may not always feel safe even if the airplane is indeed safe. Maurice emphasizes that it's not the man's responsibility to make the woman feel safe, but rather to create an environment of emotional safety.
Maurice suggests that when a woman expresses that she doesn't feel safe, she may...
2023-09-0515 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherOverwhelm Overwhelm OverwhelmIn this insightful podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, dives deep into the concept of understanding and managing negative emotions within the context of relationships. The episode unfolds as a transformative workshop, encouraging listeners to embark on a journey of self-discovery and emotional mastery.
Maurice begins by emphasizing the value of the workshop-style discussions, where no topic is off-limits. The focus is on delving into difficult questions and providing valuable insights for personal growth and relationship enhancement.
The episode introduces a powerful analogy of a balloon being inflated, representing the buildup of...
2023-09-0310 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherI Just Want Him To Think Before He TalksIn this podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, delves into the aftermath of encouraging a couple to engage in a unique exercise of recording their conversations and analyzing their interactions. The episode sheds light on the unexpected results of this experiment and dives deep into the intricacies of personal growth and relationship dynamics.
Maurice recounts an experience with a couple who took up the challenge of recording their conversations and subsequently came back frustrated. He found that every time they had the recording devices out and actively focused on their communication, their conversations went...
2023-09-0214 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherMarital Prep WorkIn this podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, addresses the lack of training in healthy relationships that many men have faced over the past 30 years. Maurice reflects on a recent encounter with a 22-year-old man who lacked relationship skills and was struggling with manipulative tendencies as he prepared for marriage. He emphasizes the need for men to undergo proper training and preparation for healthy relationships.
Maurice acknowledges the challenges women have been dealing with for years and expresses their commitment to addressing this issue by producing resources at an accelerated pace. He encourages listeners...
2023-08-3114 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherSacred Personal DevelopmentIn this enlightening podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, dives into the intricate world of inner voices, shedding light on their varied roles and influences within the mind. Listeners are provided with strategies to harness these voices, manage intrusive thoughts, and align them for positive personal growth.
Key Takeaways:
Differentiating Voices: The episode kicks off by clarifying that not all inner voices are negative or influenced by external forces. Organic voices, like random thoughts and sexual responses, may arise naturally and are not necessarily sinister or disruptive.
The Role of...
2023-08-3012 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherManaging Intrusive ThoughtsIn this insightful podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, delves into the fascinating world of the mind's inner voices and their impact on decision-making and well-being. The episode highlights techniques and strategies for effectively managing and leveraging these voices to achieve personal growth and empowerment.
Key Highlights:
Channeling Ambitious Ideas: The episode begins by acknowledging the influx of ambitious ideas that often flood our minds. Maurice humorously illustrates the barrage of creative thoughts and introduce the concept of containing and organizing them for productive outcomes.
The Presidential Cabinet of the...
2023-08-2910 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherThe Three Main VoicesIn this engaging podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, embarks on a journey of self-discovery, exploring the intricacies of managing the voices that reside within our minds. With fresh insights gained since the last teaching, they guide listeners through a revolutionary approach to understanding and harnessing the diverse voices that influence our thoughts and actions.
Key Takeaways:
Continuous Learning and Growth: Maurice expresses his commitment to ongoing improvement and share how every teaching cycle allows them to expand their understanding. He emphasizes the dynamic nature of their classes, always striving to offer...
2023-08-2811 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherWarrior Chemistry- Becoming the HeroIn this enlightening podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, dives into the ongoing struggle between remembering and forgetting, a recurring issue faced by many warriors on their personal journeys. He provides insights and strategies for setting up effective systems to remember what truly matters and defeat the allure of addiction.
Key Highlights:
Choosing the Now: The episode begins by exploring the significance of winning the war in the present moment. Maurice discusses the concept of "scheduling out on the Plinko thing," where warriors strategically choose battles and focus on defeating challenges in the now.
Catching Satan's Lies...
2023-08-2711 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherCrashing an AirplaneIn this insightful podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, and Seth team up to guide listeners through the intricate landscape of betrayal trauma and its effects on relationships. The hosts provide practical insights and strategies to help men understand, empathize, and communicate effectively with their partners in the aftermath of betrayal.
Key Highlights:
Understanding Gaslighting: The episode introduces the concept of gaslighting, a term that is becoming more prevalent. Maurice clarifies that both partners can inadvertently engage in behaviors that lead to feeling "crazy." They encourage listeners to communicate openly and use...
2023-08-2512 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherLoving SlapsIn this enlightening podcast episode, we delve deep into the complexities of betrayal trauma and its profound impact on relationships. Hosted by Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services and an expert in spiritual psychology, and joined by Seth, a specialist in science and emotional intelligence, the discussion aims to provide men with insights and tools to navigate betrayal trauma within their partnerships.
The episode kicks off with a warm yet candid approach, as aurice affectionately introduces the concept of "loving slaps." Addressing common misconceptions, they delve into why husbands might perceive their wives as overreacting or...
2023-08-2411 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherThink About Your Safety As WellIn this insightful podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, present a comprehensive checklist essential for embarking on a successful journey into a new phase of a relationship, referred to as "season one." He emphasizes the importance of these preparatory steps to ensure a healthy and fulfilling transition.
Maurice begins by discussing the significance of reviewing, revising, and recommitted to one's marital mission statement and personal identity statement. He underscores the need for establishing a system to consistently follow through on these critical aspects. The episode encourages listeners to allocate dedicated time for this purpose...
2023-08-2212 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherOn The Verge of StarvingIn this podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, explore a checklist for starting a new phase of their marital relationships, referred to as "season one," where they discuss essential elements that need to be in place for successful progress. The episode begins with Maurice sharing his process of curating a list of about a hundred key factors that are vital before entering "season one." He emphasizes the significance of discerning between essential must-haves and non-essential components to ensure a smooth journey.
The conversation pivots to the discussion of addictions, particularly their residuals and leftovers...
2023-08-2115 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherBack in the Dating DaysIn this podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, delves into the concept of psychological empathy and how it can transform relationships, specifically within the context of dating and marriage. The discussion begins by highlighting scenarios where individuals, particularly men, struggle to initiate conversations due to various reasons, such as timing or fear of rejection.
Drawing from real-life dating scenarios, Maurice emphasizes the significance of offering a secondary time when turning down an invitation, as it communicates genuine interest. Encouraging men to adopt the same approach, wherein they not only address a woman's concerns but...
2023-08-2014 minMemoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherRecycle YourselfHave you ever wondered if your marriage, if you, need to be "born again?"
In this episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, discusses the concept of seasons in a relationship and how it relates to the ups and downs experienced by couples. They explain that when they meet people, it's usually during the "fall" of their relationship, symbolizing a time when things are falling apart. Season three represents this phase of falling apart.
Maurice describes season four as a winter phase, where the couple allows the marriage to go into...
2023-08-0316 minMemoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherCalculated RisksDoes it ever feel like you have to walk on egg shells no matter what around your spouse?
In this episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, discusses the importance of taking calculated risks in relationships and emphasizes that the purpose of life isn't to avoid pain or getting hurt. Drawing parallels with ice skating and sports coaching, Maurice encourages individuals to approach relationships with a risk-taking mindset, prepared for potential challenges.
Maurice introduces the concept of a calculated risk assessment, where individuals assess the potential risks and benefits before taking...
2023-08-0214 minMemoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherPretty Good on Your SkatesHave you ever wondered why it feels like you have to crash and burn over and over?
In this episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, uses metaphors of learning to skateboard and ice skating to discuss the challenges that arise in relationships. He emphasizes that entering a relationship requires emotional and psychological preparation for potential crashes, similar to learning new skills.
Maurice explains that the process of building a healthy relationship involves different stages of intimacy, such as verbal, emotional, cognitive, psychological, spiritual, and physical intimacy. He stresses that it's...
2023-08-0212 min
Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherThe Perfection Process and Bowling-Maurice HarkerAre you wondering if you are underachieving or doing enough? Maurice Harker explains the perfection process using the metaphor of bowling. We hope you enjoy this short clip. To learn more about this or other topics please click on the link below:
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2022-09-2702 min