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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women372: Are you scared of women? (ft. Jason Lange)If you've ever been scared of approaching a woman because you might make her uncomfortable; frightened about what a woman might ask of you; or worried about "getting in trouble" with your women partner, I have news for you: You're a normal man.That said, there are also some underlying patterns that may need addressing, particularly if this is a recurring pattern that's preventing you from even getting started dating, or holding you back from what you really want: A loving, healthy, life-expanding romantic partnership.Here we delve into the most common ways we've seen...2025-08-0149 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam FraserQuicky #76 Slow Down for Better Sex (with Melanie Curtin)From episode #76 with Melanie Curtin.
More from that episode:
- Melanie shares about her work and research
- Healing from religious trauma
- Creating safety for men to explore sexuality
- 70% of men are not good in bed
- “Too much, too fast”
- Expectations of male sexuality
- Teasing and touching a woman
- Creating safety for women to explore sexuality
- Communication skills2024-09-0403 min
Real Life Real CrimeRLRC Daily 8/28/24 | Melanie Curtin Case Re-Trial, Hired Hit Results in Acid Attack in New YorkIn this episode of Real Life Real Crime Daily we cover a range of crime related headlines, including an arrest in Baton Rouge for threatening a school bus driver, an acid attack in Florida orchestrated by hired criminals, astronauts stranded on the International Space Station due to technical issues, an attempted kidnapping in California, and a tragic explosion at Atlanta's airport resulting in two fatalities. Additionally, we explore a murder-suicide in New York over an inheritance dispute and the retrial of Melanie Curtin.Timestamps00:50 Louisiana man arrested for threats made on school bus filled with...2024-08-2827 min
Louisiana UnfilteredThe Melanie Curtin Decision With Special Guest Woody OvertonIn this episode of Louisiana Unfiltered, Real Life Real Crime host and Bloody Angola co-host Woody Overton joins Kiran as they discuss the case of Melanie Curtin, whose life took a drastic turn after being involved in a scandal with a high-ranking police officer, Dennis Perkins, and his wife, Cynthia Perkins.Melanie faced a life sentence following her participation in a controversial threesome with the couple, amid a backdrop of social rumors that tainted her reputation. The Supreme Court has ruled in favor of a new trial for Melanie Curtin, Kiran Chawla and Woody Overton di...2024-04-2558 min
Sex Party with Dustin RybkaEP 94: "The Integrated Man" with Melanie CurtinHave men become totally afraid of approaching women? If so what's causing it? Why are men not taking charge as much anymore? Are they really having that much trouble planning the date? Do women really even care? Are they over being approached by strangers? Podcast Host and Sex and Relationship Coach, Melanie Curtin joins Dustin this week to talk about why an overwhelming number of men have seemingly become afraid of not only approaching women, but taking the lead with women, having confidence in their abilities, leading with passion, and planning the date. How do these guys f...2023-11-081h 06
The Loving ChallengerAmory 82 | The Heart/C0ck Matrix with Melanie CurtinOMG, I LOVED this conversation with Melanie Curtin...and for men who have sex with women, this will be paradigm shifting for you! Ladies - you're also going to be soooooo validated listening to Melanie's sex research findings!
In this podcast you'll hear Melanie share about:
- The important information that women are NOT telling men about sex...and why!
- What women are craving from men (inside and outside the bedroom)
- And...the Heart/C0ck Matrix - what it is and how men can cultivate...2023-10-121h 06
Owning Your Sexual Self186. Unlocking Men's Success in Relationships with Melanie CurtinHey, everyone! I'm so excited to have Melanie Curtin on the episode today! Melanie has been coaching men for over six years and specializes in bringing a woman's perspective to help men connect and succeed in their sex lives & relationships. In this episode:How Melanie got started in this workDifferences between men's and women's struggles with dating & relationshipsThe different energies men can give off when in or looking for a relationshipHow Melanie helps men feel into the right energy for what women wantWhy m...2023-10-0944 min
Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan WillowFor Men Who Want to Get Women Off & the Women Who Want To Understand Them Better with Melanie CurtinSend us a textEp 336: For Men Who Want to Get Women Off & the Women Who Want To Understand Them Better with Melanie Curtin. Melanie is a sex & relationship coach for men, sex researcher, and podcast host of the show Dear Men Podcast. We chatted about how her research has shown that men love to get women off, but that only 10% of women (or less!) reported that men are good in bed. We chatted about this disconnect, why it commonly happens, and how it can be fixed. She offered smart advice for men on how to succeed...2023-10-031h 03
Hookup Horror Stories with Demi Wylde"Pity Handjob" with Melanie CurtinThis week I sat down with men's dating coach Melanie Curtin! She and I discussed sex abuse in the Jewish community, survivor resilience, why representation matters, "Nice Guys" versus "Bad Guys," plus so much more. Plus she shares the story of a time a time for her when a hookup didn't go quite as well as planned, and why women feel that men are "owed" sexual gratification.
Find Melanie:
https://www.instagram.com/melaniebcurtin/?hl=en
https://www.linkedin.com/in/melaniecurtin/
For video version o...2023-09-2151 min
Leah on Love: A Podcast on Dating and RelationshipsUnderstanding Men's Dating Dilemmas with Melanie CurtinJoining us today is Melanie Curtin, a sex researcher and men’s coach with a Master’s in Communication from Stanford University. She has been coaching men for over six years, and specializes in bringing a woman’s perspective to men, so they can connect and succeed with women in fun, inviting, and meaningful ways that lead to fulfilling sex and relationships.As a relationship coach for women, I really feel it’s important to understand men’s perspective and experience in love and dating Whether you are a woman listening to understand men deeper a...2023-09-061h 00
Breakthrough the OrdinaryHow To Effectively Break Communication Barriers In Your Relationship with Melanie CurtinDid you ever feel neglected or dropped? Yet the conversation ends up with your partner on the defense instead of making amends? Was there a time your partner did something that made you feel important and loved? Too bad, it turned out to be a one-time thing? Does it feel like a hit or miss trying to delight your partner? Do you often think that he/she doesn’t get you?Did you ever feel you could've handled it better?It all boils down to how the conversation went, what you said, and what you di...2022-07-1144 min
Holly Randall Unfiltered218: Melanie Curtin: How to be a Better LoverWhat does it mean to be “good” at sex? Melanie Curtin has built her career around helping people have better sex. As a sex researcher and men’s coach, she believes that sex is something that can—and should—be practiced and perfected. We chat about what men really want from sex, how polyamorous couples find freedom outside the marriage, and how to ratchet up the tension to make sex hotter for everyone. I get real about what was lacking in my sex life, and Melanie shares her dealbreakers in the bedroom. Support my show by supporting my sponsors! Start podcasting...2021-11-171h 06
The Evolved Caveman Podcast w/ Dr. John SchinnererWant Better Sex? Then Stop Acting Like You Know It All — w/ Sex Researcher Melanie Curtin**Want Better Sex? Then Stop Acting Like You Know It All — w/ Sex Researcher Melanie Curtin**Gentlemen, listen up: If you think you’ve already got sex figured out, this episode will lovingly (and thoroughly) prove you wrong.In this no-holds-barred conversation, Dr. John sits down with the brilliant and bold Melanie Curtin — sex researcher, men’s coach, and total badass — to reveal what *over 5,000 women and men* have shared about their sex lives. What gets women turned on. How to initiate without being awkward. The surprising power of kink and play. And what actually separates...2021-10-0455 min
Inner Confidence Podcast175: Melanie Curtin – Sex Researcher Reveals What Makes A Man A Better LoverShow Notes: In this episode Robbie interviews Melanie Curtin, a sex researcher and host of the Dear Men Podcast. Melanie shares some shocking statistics and insights into what women really want in bed and how men can be better lovers. This episode is packed with easily implementable and actionable advice that every man MUST know. [...]2021-09-271h 08Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women122: The 3 different kinds of female orgasm! (ft. Melanie Scott) [replay]Yes, sexuality is mysterious, but I'll bet you didn't know there were 3 different kinds of female orgasm! A lot of women don't even know about all 3. Whether you're a man or woman, and single, dating, or in a relationship (including married), knowing about these orgasms is both fun and informative. Your sex knowledge is about to expand. ;) 2020-10-0946 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women117: What does it look like for *women* to "do the work"? (ft. Violet Lange)Men aren't the only ones who struggle with dating, relationships, and sex. Women of all ages, including those just out of a divorce, have insecurities around sex, dating, and relationships, including around trust, dating etiquette, and more. We discuss what it means for women to do the work in terms of personal growth as well as growth in a relationship, and how when women bring sexy back (to themselves), they grow in their own personal power, which deeply serves the masculine, as well.2020-09-041h 01Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women116: Dating during COVID-19: how does it work? (ft. Violet Lange)Sex, dating, and relationships (including marriages) have all been affected by the coronavirus pandemic of COVID-19. There are unique challenges as well as opportunities to grow here, and people are definitely still meeting, dating, falling in love, and deepening their relationships right now. We discuss dating during COVID (How do you meet people? When you go on a date, do you Zoom first or just do in-person with a mask?), as well as how it has impacted people who were in relationships when the pandemic first hit.2020-08-291h 01Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women115: Is it easier for men or women to get into a relationship? (ft. Jason Lange)Is it easier for men or women to get into committed relationships? What about to get a first or second date, have casual sex, or find The One? In the world of man/woman heterosexual dynamics, there's a lot going on, both culturally as well as personally (including your attachment style). Here, we explore both our own views as well as yours, as I work in your survey responses to this question.2020-08-211h 01Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women114: GirlTalk: The 1 relationship skill to rule them allA lot of dating relationships start out in the honeymoon phase -- lots of sex; fun, engaging dates; fantastic natural polarity. Then comes the first disagreement, maybe even an argument or fight. How do you deal with conflict well? How do you have a quality repair conversation, where both people feel heard and loved? How you deal with conflict, tension, and repair is basically what separates a healthy & safe relationship from a toxic one. This is one relationship skill you want to master, whether you're single, in a relationship, or looking to improve your marriage.2020-08-141h 09Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women113: The sexiest vacation you can take (ft. Mario Cruz)It's not always easy to find fun, sex-positive environments where women feel safe to be fully expressed and men also feel totally welcome. Whether you're polyamorous, curious about more open relationship-style connections, or just want a sexy, flirty vibe on a trip, there's something for you here. Temptation and Desire are the name of the game -- and can lead to growth and joy in sex, dating, and relationships.2020-08-0742 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women112: How quitting porn supercharged this man's sex life (ft. Jason Lange)A multi-billion dollar industry, porn and porn addiction have a massive impact on our sex, dating, and relationship lives. Both men and women are affected, but porn has an outsized impact on men in terms of contributing to erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and delayed ejaculation in some cases. How do you quit porn, and why should you quit porn? Here's how one man overcame porn addiction and the ways he grew both as an individual and in terms of sexual mastery in his relationship with his woman.2020-07-3156 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women111: GuyTalk: 3 black men talk sex, dating & relationships (ft. Jules, Graze, and Ahmad)What's it like to be a black man in the world of dating and relationships? What role does emotional safety play in a healthy sex and relationship life, and what is that like for men vs. women? We experience sex, dating, and relating in different ways depending on our race, sex/gender, and sexual orientation (among other things). The sometimes overlapping and sometimes distinct experiences of these 3 different men touches on themes around love, connection, racism, allyship, and the ways we experience our humanity through romantic relationship.2020-07-241h 12Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women110: GirlTalk: 3 black girls talk dating (ft. Ivy, Nina, and Amber)What's it like to be a black woman on dating apps? What does allyship look like in dating and relationships? What kinds of gifts do you get when you date inside your race vs. outside of it? Sex, dating, and relationships are intimate parts of our lives, and we experience them differently depending on our sex/gender, sexual orientation, and race (among other things). This fascinating, lively, and poignant discussion is deeply personal, illuminating, and a beautiful portrait of the intersection of 3 women's experience of being black and the world of dating.2020-07-171h 01Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women109: The secret to attracting the right women (and not the wrong ones) ft. Jason Lange [replay]When it comes to sex, dating, and relationships, we tend to repeat patterns until we break them. Many men report attracting women who are emotionally volatile (hot or cold); seemingly selfish (always take but don't tend to give); or sort of narcissistic. But there's a secret when it comes to attracting the right women. Hint: It's not about the woman herself as much as the man attracting her. Here's how to be a skillful picker and attract what you want -- a healthy, loving relationship.2020-07-121h 00Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women108: The key to dating with ease & overcoming anxiety in sex & relationships [replay]It's easy to feel alone and lonely, even when there's not a global pandemic on. These three men inspire with their stories of going from stress and anxiety around sex, dating, and relationships to genuine ease. The path to deep, fulfilling, and healthy relationships with women is a meaningful one -- and doable, even if you've never gotten there before.2020-07-061h 21Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women107: Race, Privilege, and Healthy Masculine Leadership (ft. John Wineland, Preston Smiles, Dr. Siri Sat Nam, and Connor Beaton)How can men help? This thoughtful panel discusses race, racism, privilege (including white privilege), and healthy masculine leadership. Sex, dating, and relationships all unfold against the cultural background we are raised in, and we can only be good partners when we fully grasp our part in the culture. In other words, racial justice matters on both a personal and systemic level. #blacklivesmatter [Please note that this is a replay of John Wineland's June 5, 2020 Community Support Call, and can be found here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jwjSCvVmT74]2020-07-011h 25Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women106: Getting sex back in a sexless relationship (ft. Ken Blackman) [replay]Polarity is complex and involves a number of dynamics, including men leading and women surrendering (both in sex and outside of it). But it also involves relationship "landmines" -- topics you both avoid because you're afraid it'll blow up your relationship. Here we delve into that, and the surprising sexual energy released when you both finally tell the truth.2020-05-3159 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women105: GirlTalk: When men do this, we get wet! (Yes, really) [replay]Polarity is HOT when men do this in relationship! Whether you're dating or in a long-term relationship like a marriage, the dance between the masculine and feminine is smoother, easier, and sexier when men have developed this fundamental sex and relationship skill.2020-05-2455 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women104: What does it mean to "do the work"? (ft. Jason Lange)We repeatedly see that men and women who "do the work" are the ones who get into (and sustain) healthy relationships. Doing the work almost always improves your sex, dating, and relationship life. So what exactly does it mean to do the work? (Hint: it's not always easy, but it's always worth it.)2020-05-1630 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women103: Reverse polarity can kill your sex life as a couple -- unless you do this (ft. Violet & Jason Lange)What happens in a romantic relationship when a man is more in his feminine energy and a woman is more in her masculine energy? Hint: not a lot of hot sex. Here, we go into David Deida's concepts of stage 1, stage 2, and stage 3 relationships and how each side of a couple can grow into even deeper, hotter, and more satisfying sex than ever.2020-05-101h 05Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women102: BONUS GirlTalk - on men being in their powerWhether in sex, dating, or relationships, both men and women grapple with how to be in their power. If being powerful doesn't mean being controlling, what does it mean? A woman in a relationship with a man is profoundly impacted by how much he's owning his own sense of self, boundaries, and attraction. We cover all this as well as the importance of the phrase, "Maybe it's a bath night."2020-05-041h 05Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women101: First-ever listener panel! on owning power as a man (ft. Ben, David & Mark)What's a memorable time you owned your power? How about a time you didn't? Three loyal Dear Men listeners drop wisdom on sexual confidence, freezing up with a girl, how to cultivate a quality marriage, and more in this first-ever listener panel on our topic for the month: owning your power as a man in the modern world.2020-04-241h 09Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women100: Being masculine & having emotions: how to "do" it well (ft. John Schinnerer)Men are often shamed for having emotions, which is holding back men, women, and culture as a whole. As a man, how do you deal with your anger, sadness, and also your joy? How do your emotions impact your sex? It turns out a man being emotionally skillful is part of what has him feel SAFE to the feminine. Healthy women *want* a man knows how he feels and can process those feelings. Here's how one man navigated getting there while being present to his masculinity.2020-04-1741 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women99: A power couple talks about power in their relationship (ft. Jason & Violet Lange)How does a man being in his power affect his woman? Whether in sex, dating, or relationships, the way WE show up affects how the OTHER person shows up -- whether it's a man impacting his woman, or vice versa. This is a cool exploration of how Jason and Violet's relationship unfolded, the obstacles they navigated together, and a description of the resilience of their love.2020-04-121h 13Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women98: How to boost your sex appeal by owning your power (ft. Kevin O'Malley)Women love a man who's in his power. Power isn't dominance (a point that a lot of men and women get confused). Sex, dating, relationships, and love are all served when the masculine owns his power -- and here's one man's story of going from a man who held back and waited and was passive, to one who owns his power as a leader and a lover.2020-04-031h 11Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women97: Using a matchmaker: what to know (ft. Matchmaker May)Both men and women have used matchmaking for centuries in cultures all over the world. Here we talk about the world of modern matchmaking, its relationship to sex, what men and women look for, and more.2020-03-2738 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women96: How do you date if you have a mental illness? (ft. Jim of NoLongerLonely.com)How do you date if you've got a diagnosis like schizophrenia, an anxiety disorder, clinical depression, or bipolar? You can always use NoLongerLonely.com, a dating site specifically designed for you! Founder Jim goes through his impetus for creating the site and his experience with sex, dating, and relationships with a clinical diagnosis.2020-03-2129 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women95: How NLP can dramatically help your sex & love life (ft. Mark Sing)Unconscious & subconscious beliefs about sexuality, dating, relationships, and women can block men from what they want. Beliefs that were installed in childhood (like, "Don't bother anyone" or, "I'm not enough") can prevent you from going for what you want in sex and relationships as an adult. In this episode we discuss how your beliefs may be affecting your dating and relationship life, and how to un-install beliefs that aren't helpful anymore. Gamechanger! Featuring NLP dating coach Mark Sing.2020-03-0637 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women94: Real-life sexual healing (ft. Melissa Davison, Certified Sexological Bodyworker)A lot of men and women need sexual healing. Dating and relationships can bring up old issues, and sexual healing can happen with a sexual partner, but it can also happen with a compassionate professional. Sex issues like erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and more do NOT have to be your permanent reality. Sexual healing can take place in just a few sessions with a clinical sexological bodyworker, which is both inspiring and exciting.2020-02-2834 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women93: An unexpected way to improve your dating life quickly (ft.This simple practice can also improve your sleep, help you focus, calm your nervous system, and keep you grounded in a world where you may frequently feel overwhelmed. It can also be an important element of an ongoing healthy relationship with your partner.2020-02-2142 min
The SHAIR Recovery PodcastSP 262: How to Be a Badass in Bed with Melanie CurtinToday’s show is about sex. Though it’s not directly about addiction and recovery, sex and relationship issues are often what drive people to use drugs and alcohol. Melanie Curtin is a sex researcher and men’s coach. She talks about the huge role sex plays in our relationships and how it can affect our recovery. She explains how to confront past trauma and unravel innate sexual shame. She also tells us about fascinating somatic therapies that free emotional blocks from deep within the body, allowing us to open up to our partners and connect in deeper...2020-02-1800 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women92.5: Dr. Robert Glover: 5 essential dating tips for men [REPLAY]Dating women, as a man in the modern world, can be a challenge. Here, we cover 5 practical tips on how to ask her out, handle sex, and relationship dynamics you need to know about.2020-02-141h 03Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women92: How to do dirty talk! (ft. Ashley Manta)Ever wanted to get freaky in bed but worried what your partner would think? Here, we get down and dirty about sex, dating, safe words, trust, relationships, and how to bring things to the next level in bed with words. Men and women alike will benefit from this sexy education in how to do dirty talk well.2020-02-0743 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women91: Need more touch in your life? Try this (ft. Soleiman)Modern men and women are both touch-deprived, but especially men. Sex, dating, and relationships are easier and smoother when you have ways to get your touch needs met along the way. This is an important and worthy discussion about one solution to get more touch into your life (and learn boundaries along the way).2020-01-3136 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women90: 2 simple hacks to improve presence in sex (ft. Ashley Manta)Want to be an extraordinary lover? Sex, dating and relationships with women all vast improved when you, as a man, cultivate these skills. Men who know how to make her feel safe, sexy, and wanted win in all kinds of ways.2020-01-2444 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women89: Tantric dating: What is it & how can it help you? (ft. Catherine Auman)Dating and relationships between men and women are complicated -- you're looking for The One, but what do you do about those you meet along the way? Do you ghost them or discard them? Tantric dating suggests there a way to value dating relationships and keep an open mind (and heart).2020-01-1728 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women88: The Truth About Marriage (ft. Roger Nygard)Why is the divorce rate so high? What can couples do to increase their odds? One concrete thing is premarital counseling. Filmmaker Roger Nygard interviewed dozens of sex, dating, and relationship experts (including psychologists and social biologists) to come up with some other interesting answers.2020-01-1051 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women87: A fun way to help your woman feel super sexy (ft. Vixen DeVille)If you want a fun date idea (whether you're dating or in a relationship), listen to this! We talk about healthy sex, sexual expression, and how you as a man can help women open up even more. (Spoiler alert: burlesque, striptease, and sexy dance may be involved!)2020-01-0346 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women86: How do you to tell someone you have an STD? (ft. Adrial Dale)Sex, dating, and relationships are challenging -- especially when you add an STI (aka STD) into the mix. Here, Adrial shows how having an STI like herpes can actually be an opportunity for greater intimacy between men, women, and any other sexual and relationship partners.2019-12-2758 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women85: GirlTalk: Men & Money -- an honest dialogueAs a man, do you need a lot of money to be successful with women? Who should pay on a date, or the hotel on a weekend getaway when you're in a relationship? Here, we get honest about how we feel about men and money when it comes to sex, dating, and relationships.2019-12-201h 06Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women84: How alcohol affects your relationships with women (ft. Omar Pinto)When it comes to men, women, dating, relationships and sex, alcohol is frequently part of the equation. But what do you do when your drinking starts affecting (or compromising) your relationship? One man's exploration of his own alcoholism is illuminating.2019-12-131h 13Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women83: What's it like to host a sex party? (ft. Emma Sayle)Killing Kittens is a woman-run sex party company that also hosts sex-positive mixers and events for both men and women. Founder Emma Sayle takes us through what it was like to create the organization and how it can improve your sex, dating, and relationship life all at the same time.2019-12-0637 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women82: If you cultivate this 1 quality, you'll magnetize women (ft. Jason Lange)Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, if you're a man who has sex with women, you're going to want to listen to this. This skill is make-or-break in terms of attracting women and setting the feminine on fire, both sexually and romantically.2019-11-2931 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women81: Overcoming erectile dysfunction & premature ejaculation (ft. Ruwan Meepagala)The penis: it's miraculous and can also prove frustrating for some men when it comes to sex, dating, and relationships. What do you do when you can't get it up or you come too soon? Ruwan shares his personal journey overcoming erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation.2019-11-2257 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women80: Ethical porn: what is it? Why should you watch it? (ft. Liz Lovely of GoodPorn)If you're talking about men & women, sex & dating, relationships & turn-on, eventually you're going to talk about porn. A multi-billion dollar industry, it's both polarizing and perpetual. Respect for performers (porn stars) is just one part of the equation. Ethical porn is sexy ... and important.2019-11-1539 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women79: GirlTalk: How to "cold approach" well (hitting on women you don't know)If you see an attractive woman at Whole Foods, a cafe, or just on the street, how do you talk to her without being creepy? Four of us girls share our favorite stories on times men have done this well. Dating, sex, and relationships are easier when you get the inside scoop. :)2019-11-081h 03Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women78: GuyTalk: Going down on women!Oral sex, cunnilingus -- it's a part of sexuality, dating, and relationships that can help two people be very connected ... or disconnected, depending on the circumstance. Here, three man get real about going down on women and its impact on their relationships, including married life.2019-11-0156 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women77: A brilliant invention to help your woman feel FREE during sex! (ft. Emily Sauer)When a woman feels pain during sex, a man can often feel helpless. Alone. Whether in a dating, relationship, or marriage context, painful sex can be very damaging - but doesn't have to be! Sextech CEO Emily Sauer talks about her personal experience with this issue and her brilliant invention to help with it.2019-10-2550 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women76.5: Pain in Pleasure, Pleasure in Pain (ft. Z Zoccolante) [REPLAY]What do you do when sex hurts? What if it hurts for your partner, but not you? A woman describes her life as a newlywed and then a young married woman for whom sex was painful ... and how she and her husband negotiated that.2019-10-1855 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women76: Sex: what do you do when your woman stops wanting to have it?Sex is critical to both men and women in marriages and relationships of all kinds (including dating). What do you do when one partner -- husband or wife -- stops wanting to have sex? This episode covers one man's personal journey of sexual difference in relationship.2019-10-1153 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women75: GirlTalk: How to NOT be creepy as a dude (and help women feel safe)Men and women have different experiences in the world, including around sex and safety. We talk through times men have done things that felt creepy vs. things that have had us feel safe, whether in dating, relationships, or otherwise.2019-10-0453 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women74: How to generate sexual attraction skillfully: polarity in practice (ft. Jason Lange)Men and women often want to turn each other on, especially in the context of sex, dating and relationships. But how do you keep sexual attraction hot in longer-term relationships, like marriages? The evolution of modern relationships suggests that polarity plays a key role.2019-09-2049 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women73: GirlTalk: Going down on women -- how to make it exquisiteWhen it comes to sex for women, going down on her is one of the most pleasurable acts. Oral sex can bring immense pleasure ... or it can be meh. Whether in dating or committed relationships, men who are skilled in this sexual act stand out.2019-09-131h 08Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women72: PeopleTalk: When are you 'ready' to be in a relationship?We get real and personal in discussing whether we feel "ready" to be in a relationship. Whether you're a man or a woman, and whether it's just sex, dating, or a marriage you're wanting, there's an art to understanding whether you're prepared physically, emotionally, and spiritually for relationship.2019-08-3047 min
Journey Forward with Joree RoseLet’s Talk About Sex with Melanie CurtinIn this titillating conversation with writer and sex researcher Melanie Curtin, we talk about all things sex. Her research has uncovered some trends that you'll want to know about - whether you’re a man or a woman - and how you can learn some ways of communicating with your partner to have a pleasurable and connecting sex life. Definitely don’t miss this episode!! Melanie’s Bio: Melanie Curtin is a sex researcher with a Master’s from Stanford. She uses data to help men and couples communicate about sex with one a...2019-08-2654 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women71: A real couple reveals what it's like to go to counseling [REPLAY]What is it really like to go to couples counseling? A real couple shares their personal journey of navigating sex and partnership, and how a couples therapist has been an invaluable addition to their relationship. Both men and women will get a lot out of this one.2019-08-2357 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women70: GirlTalk: This skill makes us *fall in love* with a manIn both dating and long-term relationships, there's a skill that some men have honed that makes us women fall in love. If it's not present, it's also frequently a deal-breaker. A woman who gets this from her man swoons.2019-08-091h 10Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women69: Why talk therapy doesn't always work for men, and what does (ft. Brooke Bergman)Both men and women need relationship support, but the default couples counseling session and talk therapy overall can have limited success for men -- and there's nothing wrong with men who've been through that. Whether we're talking about sex, dating, marriage, or other things, we need to support and understand men in order to support lasting transformation.2019-08-0343 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women68: Overcoming porn addiction: one couple's story (ft. The Couple Cure)Porn addiction has become a major issue in modern dating and relationships. Both men and women are affected, and it can destroy a marriage or relationship if it's not handled properly. Here, one couple shares openly about their journey through porn addiction and out into the other side.2019-07-261h 04Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women67: 'GuyTalk' response to the skill that makes us wet (ft. Jason Lange)Men, women, sex, dating, and relationships -- it's complicated. One thing that simplifies it is this relationship skill that, when guys do it well, makes girls swoon.2019-07-1948 minDear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women66: GirlTalk: When men do this, we get wet.Men and women want to connect, and this relationship skill rises above the rest as critical when it comes to feminine turn-on. When it comes to sex, dating, and relationships, we women LOVE when men *drive.*2019-07-1255 min
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women65: The secret to attracting the right women (and not the wrong ones) ft. Jason Lange [REPLAY]There's a secret to attracting the right women, whether for sex, dating, or relationships. Hint: It's not actually so much about the women as about the man attracting them. Here's how to be a skillful attractor and picker.2019-07-061h 00
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women64: How to inspire your woman to want more sex with you! (ft. Becky Wells)Sex in a relationship is critical, but often really hard to talk about. One in ten women say it's "impossible" to tell a man what's not working sexually. Whether you're dating or in a marriage, learning to discuss sex and improve in the bedroom makes everything better.2019-06-2857 min
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women63: 5 science-backed ways to boost your testosterone (ft. Jason Lange)Testosterone in men helps with sex drive, motivation, focus, hair growth, and more. Low testosterone is linked to depression, low libido, and more. These are 5 easy, natural ways to boost your testosterone, which will help with dating, relationships, and women, as well as in life.2019-06-2240 min
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women62: What do you do if you're not sure she's "The One"? (ft. Dr. Laura Kasper)Whether you're a man or woman, it's hard when you're dating or in a relationship but aren't sure that person is the one you want to commit to. Attachment theory (anxious/avoidant attachment) reveals interesting concepts around how to be ready to commit to the man or woman of your dreams.2019-06-1549 min
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women61: Dr. Robert Glover -- 5 essential dating tips for menDating women, as a man in the modern world, can be a challenge. Here, we cover 5 practical tips on how to ask her out, handle sex, and relationship dynamics you need to know about.2019-06-071h 03
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women60: Masculine/Feminine Polarity (ft. Violet Lange) [replay]Men and women, or male- and female-bodied people, experience attraction based on difference, or polarity. Here's how to use polarity to your advantage in sex, dating, relationships, and more.2019-05-3053 min
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women59: Do you want more touch in your life? (ft. Adam Lippin)Cuddling, physical affection, and touch: both men and women need it, and not just in the context of sex, dating or relationships. As human beings, we need touch to feel connected. Cuddle party and connection expert Adam Lippin and I discuss how you can get your touch needs met outside a relationship.2019-05-2442 min
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women58: The future of online dating (ft. Eve Peters)Men and women meet, date, have sex, and get married from online dating. Eve Peters created her own dating app to help make the dating process feel easier and smoother, and has some brilliant insights about the future of both online and dating "in real life."2019-05-1748 min
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women57: How to get hot sex back into a sexless relationship (ft. Ken Blackman)Approximately 15-20% of couples are in sexless relationships (including marriages). Both men and women want satisfying sex and fulfilling dating and relationship lives -- so how do we get there? Ken Blackman, relationship expert, breaks down how to get the sex & orgasms back.2019-05-1058 min
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women56: Helping your woman have more sexual pleasure! (ft. Violet Lange & Keri Nola)Whether dating or in a relationship, if a man and woman are having sex, both are affected if she can't get wet (natural lubrication). If you've ever been with someone struggling with vaginal dryness or other ladyparts issues, listen to this! We delve into the jade egg, vaginal steaming,2019-05-031h 05
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women55: A Sex Journal for Couples (ft. Levina Li & Caleb Spaulding)Both men and women want even better, more connected sex (who doesn't?) Whether you're dating or in a long-term relationship (or married), all couples can use help around communication in sex. This is a great episode for those who want an easy way to deepen their sex life.2019-04-2657 min
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women54: Behind the scenes with a couples therapist (ft. Ryan Ginn)What do most couples argue about? When "should" you go to couples counseling? Men and women can use support when it comes to dating and relationships, and couples therapists can help. Here, we go over encouraging research around attachment, and how it can provide more safety and nourishment in romantic relationships.2019-04-1936 min
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women53: How to get over your freaking ex (ft. Jason Lange)Going through a breakup is difficult. Jason Lange and I talk through how men with women who are ex-girlfriends or ex-wives can reenter the sex and dating even more resilient than before the breakup.2019-04-121h 05
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women52: GuyTalk: Have you ever led a woman on?Men, women, sex, dating, and relationships: things can get complex. Dating advice is often to be clear and direct, but the reality of leading a woman on is complicated. 2019-03-291h 09
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women51: GirlTalk: We'd love for men to do this differentlyWhat does it mean to lead someone on? Where's the line between dating and sex and rejection? When women and men connect, it can be beautiful. It can also lead to suffering. We'd love for men to approach this one thing differently when it comes to dating.2019-03-221h 25
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women50: One man's experience of polyamory (ft. Pierce Delahunt)Sex, dating, relationships, and man/woman dynamics are complex. Polyamory can make it even more so--or simplify things. One man's journey into love beyond monogamy reveals unexpected dating dynamics. 2019-03-1554 min
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women49: The key to dating with ease (for men)Three men share their journeys from stress and anxiety around dating, sex, and relationships to ease in both dating and in life. Their truth is refreshing on having deep, healthy, and fulfilling healthy relationships with women (and dating advice). 2019-03-081h 21
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women48: Who Should Pay On A Date? (ft. Jason Lange)Who should pay on the first date - men or women? What about after you're dating, or in a relationship? How does paying affect the sex? Money, dating, and relationships: let's talk about it.2019-02-2233 min
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women47 - A love poem for youOn this, the week of Valentine's Day, whether you're a man or a woman, single, in a relationship, dating, or any of the rest of it -- here is a love poem just for you. Xoxo.2019-02-1504 min
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women46: GuyTalk: Men's sexual fantasiesThree men get real about their sexual fantasies and how they fit in with real women, sex, dating, relationships, and more. We also go over the top ten most popular male fantasies.2019-02-081h 11
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women45: GirlTalk: Real women share their sexual fantasies!What's *your* sexual fantasy? We talk about whether we fantasize about the men we're dating or in relationships with, and what our ideal sex is in our fantasies (including the taboo ones).2019-02-011h 10
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women44: How a "Nice Guy" Found His Power ... and Got Into the Best Relationship of His Life (ft. Jim Cruzen)Most men aren't raised to be able to access both their heart and their power, and their dating lives suffer. This is one man's riveting journey of transformation around power, that led to healthier relationships not only with women, but relationships of all kinds. 2019-01-2559 min
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women43: How One Man Found His Purpose (ft. Neil Gordon)Finding your purpose: both men and women want it. Here's how one guy did it. We also touch on how does doing what you love (and getting paid for it) affects your sex, dating, and relationship life.2019-01-1157 min
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women42: How to Intentionally Attract Your Ideal Partner (ft. Jason Lange)When it comes to sex, dating, and relationships, can you intentionally attract a healthy, giving, loving partner? The short answer is yes. The long answer is this episode, which outlines a 2-step process to magnetize the man or woman (or men/women ;)) you really want.2019-01-041h 00
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women41.5: Pain in Pleasure, Pleasure in Pain (ft. Z Zoccolante) [REPLAY]What do you do when sex hurts? What if it hurts for your partner, but not you? A woman describes her life as a newlywed and then a young married woman for whom sex was painful ... and how she and her husband negotiated that.2018-12-2155 min
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women41: GirlTalk! When should you text her vs. call her?In the age of modern dating, it can be hard to know when to text vs. call vs. FB message vs. Instagram DM her... women and men, guys and girls, everyone differs when it comes to HOW they like to be communicated with. Sex, dating, and relationships are better when communication is clear and easy.2018-12-1443 min
Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women40: Men and purpose: what's the deal? (ft. Jason Lange)The personal development world is obsessed with men being "on purpose," and there's a lot out there about how that impacts the guy's sex, dating, and relationship life. But what purpose really mean, and is it really realistic for the masculine to "find" it? 2018-12-0746 min