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Rethinking DadsReframing the Conversation around Sex: Jerry's Journey with 4 DaughtersIn this super interesting conversation, Jerry shares how raising 4 daughters and being the lone male in his house has helped him rethink (and reframe as he puts it) the conversation and thoughts surrounding sex.He shares his experience of growing up in a highly religious household where sex was shamed and how he wanted to break that cycle with his own children. Jerry emphasizes the need for open communication and empowerment when discussing sex with children, starting from a young age. Michael and Kevin reflect on their own experiences and the generational challenges they face i...
2024-07-2257 minRethinking DadsBONUS - Kevin & Michael Driving To Airport Talking ManifestationIn this special bonus episode of Rethinking Dads, Kevin and Michael recorded their conversation while Michael was taking Kevin to the airport.This conversation actually started a couple of days prior when family and friends all gathered at Kevin's house for a discussion on life, manifestation, gratitude and raising our vibration and frequency.We all get stuck dealing with the hamster wheel of life. There's no doubt our days get crazy and we fall into ruts and lose sight of what's important. What we tried to do with this episode, and our personal conversations lately...
2024-07-0425 minRethinking DadsFiguring Out What You Want. And Asking For It.In this episode, Michael and Kevin talk about the importance, as Dads to balance our giving to family and also doing the things that we enjoy and that nurture us.Kevin shares a heartwarming story about his dad's experience at a pool tournament and how it taught him the value of claiming moments of joy. We delve into the sacrifices Dads often make and the challenges of balancing personal wants with family needs. It also touches on the role of Moms in delaying gratification and the importance of applying grace to different perspectives....
2024-06-271h 02Rethinking DadsNavigating Neurodivergent Parenting: Insights and Coping Mechanisms Navigating Neurodiversity in ParentingWelcome to another thoughtful conversation with a couple of Dads on the Rethinking Dads podcast!In this episode, Michael and Kevin bring back Bhagavan and Steven Sweeney to discuss a topic they both (independently) asked to share their thoughts on...Neurodivergency - both as a Dad and with kids.The conversation delves into the experiences of neurodivergent parenting, specifically ADHD, and the challenges and strengths associated with it. Bhagavan and Steven share personal stories, insights, and coping mechanisms, highlighting the importance of understanding oneself and others in the context of neurodiversity...
2024-06-191h 04Rethinking DadsRethinking Dads Update!!!! We are moving!Hey Dads! Writing this update to you on Fathers Day...so Happy Dad's Day!!!!Kevin and I are excited to share a quick update with you on our podcast. We are moving!Starting July 1st, you will be able to hear new episodes on the Let's Get Real Radio Show feed. Let's Get Real is a weekly radio show I host for men. Giving men a space to figure out their shit. On Let's Get Real, we discuss everything from time management, work issues to struggles with addiction and more. As a Dad...
2024-06-1603 minRethinking DadsS02/E03 - Delicious Parenting: Navigating Solo Fatherhood with 3 Kids with Steven Sweeney"Welcome to another authentic and unfiltered episode of "Rethinking Dads"! In this episode, we delve into the world of fatherhood with the insightful Steven Sweeney. Join us as we explore Steven's concept of "Delicious parenting" — a flavorful approach to nurturing our children with care and love, rather than control.As a Dad navigating separation, Steven shares candidly about the challenges and frustrations he's faced, all while striving to be the best version of himself for his kids. Over the course of 3+ years as a solo parent, Steven's journey is one of growth, resilience, and unwavering com...
2024-05-151h 07Rethinking DadsS02/E02 - Embracing Change and Truly Feeling: A Father's Journey with Bhagavan BauerWelcome back to "Rethinking Dads," where we delve into authentic conversations with fathers and men navigating the complexities of life. In this episode, we sit down with Bhagavan Bauer, a devoted father of three teenagers who recently embarked on a new chapter in his personal life with an engagement to his partner.In this candid and emotion-laden dialogue, Bhagavan shares insights and experiences that resonate deeply with all fathers and men:NOTE: All time marks are approximateAt the 3-minute mark (3:45), Bhagavan recounts his remarkably amicable separation from the mother of hi...
2024-05-081h 03Rethinking DadsS02/E01 - Giving Dads A Place To Process Their Sh*tWelcome to Season Two of Rethinking Dads!In this first episode, Michael and Kevin start by reflecting on Season One. We covered a lot of topics in Season One, from Unschooling, to our Partners to receiving the best advice possible from our 17-year olds.Now, as we move into Season Two of Rethinking Dads, we have two main goals.Goal One: Bring on a variety of Dads to share their storiesGoal Two: Hold a space for these Dads to process their own shitWhile we want to...
2024-05-0146 minRethinking Dads#12: Season One Finale. Three Big Definitions.Welcome to the final episode of Season One of Rethinking Dad!First of all, we want to thank you for joining us on this journey through our first season! Throughout this first season, we have unpacked many topics in our lives as Rethinking Dads. How we chose to raise our children (Partnering instead of controlling) to how we chose to school our kids (unschooling). Now, as we wrap season one, we would like to focus on three big definitions:Control UnschoolingS.O.A.P.We invite yo...
2024-01-241h 02Rethinking Dads#11: Partners.Welcome to Episode 11 of "Rethinking Dad"!In this episode, Kevin and Michael explore the indispensable role that our partners play in shaping OUR roles as Dads.Michael thoughtfully portrays Tanya as "the lighthouse," casting her illuminating light to navigate significant family decisions.Similarly, Kevin articulates a parallel experience, likening Kelly to a trailblazer who ventures over the hill first, charting new directions for their family.From our family's decisions to unschool to making (sometimes outlandish) choices to curate our kids' experience, our partners lead the way.We hope you...
2024-01-171h 05Rethinking Dads#10: UnschoolingWelcome to Episode #10 of Rethinking Dad! 🎙️"Curating the shit out of their experience" With this one phrase, Kevin simplifies unschooling in a nutshell, setting the stage for an eye-opening exploration of this unconventional approach to education.In this episode, join us as we delve into the world of unschooling, addressing the questions you've been itching to ask:✅ What exactly is unschooling, and how does it differ from conventional homeschooling?✅ Walk through our personal journeys as two unschool Dads, navigating the uncharted waters of unconventional learning.✅...
2024-01-101h 12Rethinking Dads#9: Work Life BalanceWelcome to Episode 9 of Rethinking Dad! In this episode, we dive deep into the intricate dance of work-life balance. In this open and candid conversation, we explore the delicate art of truly balancing our professional endeavors and the life beyond the office walls.Like all the episodes of season one, we are simply wanting to start the conversation and see where it leads us. As we say...we want to "pull at the thread", and in this conversation the "thread' is work-life balance.We challenge the simplistic notion of dividing our existence into t...
2024-01-0355 minRethinking Dads#8: Rethinking OUR DadsThere’s no question that Dads over the last few generations have changed dramatically.Join us as we embark on a journey through the evolution of fatherhood over the past 70+ years. In this insightful episode, we explore the profound transformations in the role of Dads across generations. From our WWII granddads to how we are evolving, watching our kids grow up and acknowledging the diverse factors that have contributed to this shift.From the influence of television and movies to the lasting impact of our friends' Dads during our formative years, we delve int...
2023-12-271h 02Rethinking Dads#7: Being a Dad: Partner vs. ControlIn this thought-provoking, new episode of Rethinking Dad, we engage in a compelling discussion about what we refer to as "the parenting continuum." This "continuum" explores the cavern between partner parenting and the the more control-focused style of parenting.With partner parenting, parents provide children the freedom to shape their own lives. This style is designed to allow children to develop their own intuition and guide their path from an early age."Living a life of self-design can only be designed by the self," - KevinWhile we are not here to judge...
2023-12-201h 01Rethinking Dads#6: The Struggles We FaceAll Dad’s struggle. And those struggles vary wildly. Yet some struggles float to the surface more often.In this latest episode of Rethinking Dad, Michael and Kevin dive into the intricate tapestry of parenting and being a father by sharing a few personal struggles from over two decades of being a Dad.While every Dad faces a unique set of trials in raising their kids, certain struggles tend to surface more frequently. Join us as we candidly explore the highs and lows of the parenting landscape focusing on a few universal struggles.On...
2023-12-1359 minRethinking Dads#5: The Best Advice For Dads. Period.Welcome to another episode of Rethinking Dad! In this insightful and thoughtful discussion, hosts Michael and Kevin delve into the minds of 17-year-olds, unlocking a treasure trove of wisdom that transcends generational gaps.Recently, Kevin embarked on a journey of curiosity by posing a profound question to his son and his friends. The question that sparked this enlightening conversation was:"If you were given the stage and could speak to all Dads, what advice would you give them?"Prepare to be captivated as the young voices share their eye-opening perspectives, revealing...
2023-12-061h 03Rethinking Dads#4: Being A Better Dad"...show up in every moment, and create an environment where you can show up in the moment. And if substances of any sort, or story are keeping you from the moment, then get that shit outta here!"Welcome to episode #4 of Rethinking Dad. This episode, Michael shares how he is driven by a quest for clarity and fixing his shit. This quest is all about walking away from substances, like alcohol for the next 90 days.As Rethinking Dads, Kevin and Michael reflect on the profound impact this choice will have as Michael aims for heightened...
2023-11-2946 minRethinking Dads#3: Was I There Enough?In Episode #3 of "Rethinking Dad," Kevin dives into a heartwarming and relatable moment in every dad's life: the day you have to let your child go out into the world on their own. He starts with a touching quote: "I don't leave my babies... My babies leave me." It's a sentiment that hits home for any parent.In this episode, Kevin shares his own recent experience of saying goodbye to his 20-year-old son in Portugal. He recounts his emotional "empty closet" moment from Michael's story (Episode #1) when he watched his son ride away in an U...
2023-11-2256 minRethinking Dads#2 - Fix Your Sh*t“I want Dads to know…That if you apply personal responsibility and care to what you’re doing, you can change the world. And the changing of the world means fixing your shit! Fix your own shit, and don’t try and do anything else until you do that. Period.” - Kevin SabourinIn this second episode of the Rethinking Dad podcast, we continue the stories that brought us to launching this community and podcast. Dovetailing off of Michael’s more epiphany-story, Kevin’s shares, what he refers to, as more of a “slow burn”. Join us as Kevi...
2023-11-1234 minRethinking Dads#1 - The Pain All Dads Should FeelWelcome to the first-ever episode of "ReThinking Dad." We're Kevin Sabourin and Michael Sharkey, two Dads doing things a bit differently with our kids. In this podcast, we're all about sharing our stories – the ups, the downs, and everything in between.In ReThinking Dad, we're ditching the usual parenting rulebook and telling you about our wild adventures in unschooling and some pretty epic travels that took us far from home. Our goal is to keep things interesting and fun, giving you a peek into what being a Dad means in today's ever-changing world.With every ep...
2023-11-1229 minRethinking DadsINTRO EPISODE - Meet Your Hosts, Two Dads, Kevin & Michael.Welcome to Rethinking Dad.This is a community of Dads looking to get 1% better every day. What does that look like? It looks like fixing our shit. Seeing our own vulnerabilities. Sharing our joys. Sharing our struggles. And coming together, without judgement to create and hold a space for other Dads to explore ideas and gain support along the way.Being a Dad can be very isolating...and while it's hard to do most things alone...being a Dad is nearly impossible to do by yourself.This first three-minute episode is a simple...
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