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Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolWhat No One Tells You About Sex and MarriageWhen it comes to sex and marriage, most couples discover there's far more beneath the surface than they ever expected. In this episode, Dr. Carol welcomes Dr. Michael Sytsma—ordained Christian minister, licensed professional counselor, certified sex therapist, professor, and national speaker. With over 30 years of clinical experience, Dr. Sytsma has walked with countless couples through struggles, surprises, and the deep joys of intimacy. Together they unpack the common myths couples believe about sex, why intimacy can feel so complicated, and the surprising ways love and faith intersect in the bedroom. You'll hear practical wisdom, biblical perspective, and real-life in...
2025-09-2335 min
Meet an African Pastor PodcastJohn Njuguna on Building Altars Before ChurchesThis conversation is with John Njuguna Njoroge vicar of ACK St. Michael and All Angel's Ruiru church in Thika Diocese of the Anglican church of Kenya. He talks about building altars metaphorically in the sense of prioritizing personal intimacy with Christ and a rich prayer life as more important than other concerns of church programs and church buildings. He also touches on the intentional approaches his church has made to prioritize prayer and discipleship their lives. Interviewed September 18th, 2025. (37 minutes)
2025-09-1837 min
The Savvy SauceQuestions for More Connection and Laughter in Marriage with Casey and Meygan Caston (Episode 269)269. Questions for More Connection and Laughter in Marriage with Casey and Meygan Caston
*Disclaimer* This episode contains some mature themes and listener discretion is advised.
2 Corinthians 1:4 NIRV "He comforts us in all our troubles. Now we can comfort others when they are in trouble. We ourselves receive comfort from God."
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Questions and Topics We Cover:
Will you share three of the questions from your most recent book, specifically the ones people have told you unlocked the best conversations in their own...
2025-09-1557 min
I Wish You Could Hear ThisEpisode 16: Common Questions Couples Have About Sex, with Dr. Michael SytsmaIn this engaging conversation, Dr. Michael Sytsma, a seasoned therapist specializing in marriage and intimacy, shares his extensive experience and insights into the complexities of sexual relationships. The discussion covers common questions couples have about their sexual health, the importance of understanding desire discrepancies, and the normalization of various sexual experiences. Dr. Sytsma emphasizes the significance of communication and understanding in fostering healthy relationships, while also addressing the myths surrounding sexual intimacy. Note: This conversation is PG-13 and may not be suitable for younger listeners. https://intimatemarriage.org/ https://www.amazon.com/Secrets-Sex-Marriage-Surprises-Difference...
2025-08-1247 min
Biblical Leadership @ WorkMichael Sytsma - Mid-Month Deep DiveSend us a textIn this mid-month deep dive, our guest hosts revisit a popular interview with Michael Sytsma, President of Key Bank in Grand Rapids, Michigan. Michael shares his unconventional journey to leadership and his dedication to serving his community. The episode highlights his inspiring story about helping create a sustainable orphanage in the Democratic Republic of Congo with his friend Christophe and delves into his philosophy of servant leadership. Michael emphasizes the importance of creating a positive work environment, lifelong learning, and the powerful role of faith in his leadership style. Listeners are encouraged to...
2025-02-1514 min
The Pastor’s Studio with Paul BasdenS1E18: Let's Talk About Sex: Understanding God’s Design for Intimacy Pt. 2 featuring Marriage Experts Warren and Sonya JacobsIn this episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, host Paul Basden welcomes marriage experts Warren and Sonya Jacobs to explore sex and intimacy from a biblical perspective. Drawing from their own marriage journey, they discuss the impact of purity culture, the importance of vulnerability, and the role of sexual intimacy in a thriving marriage.
Key Takeaways:
How purity culture shaped Christian views on sex and intimacy
The four pillars of intimacy in marriage—spiritual, emotional, mental, and physical
Why inviting God into your sex life can transform your marriage
Breaking unh...
2025-02-1321 min
More than RoommatesAddressing Common Myths About Sex - MTR Quickie Episode 8 In this mini episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss some common myths and stereotypes about sex drive, desire, and frequency and some potential differences between men and women. Questions to Discuss:What’s the biggest challenge you face in your marriage related to sex drive, desire, and frequency?Have a conversation with your spouse about the topics raised in this episode. Make sure you listen well and seek to understand. Resources:Book – Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Diff...
2025-02-1012 minThe Savvy SauceMaximizing Sexual Connection as Newlyweds to Long Term Marriages and Recovering from a Sexless Marriage with Dr. Clifford & Joyce Penner (Episode 252)*DISCLAIMER* This episode is intended for adults
252. Maximizing Sexual Connection as Newlyweds to Long Term Marriages and Recovering from a Sexless Marriage with Dr. Clifford & Joyce Penner
**Transcription Below**
Ephesians 5:21 (NIV) Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
Questions and Topics We Cover:
What are a couple of your most important tips for newlyweds?
What are your favorite recommendations to share with couples who want to be proactive and enhance their sexual intimacy, even if things are currently going pretty well...
2025-01-2758 min
The Art of Relationships PodcastSexpectations in Marriage with Guests Shaunti Feldhahn & Brian GoinsIn this episode, Chris and Alisa Grace explore the complex and often misunderstood topic of expectations in marital intimacy. They welcome special guests Shaunti Feldhahn, an award-winning author and social researcher, and Brian Goins, Senior Director of Strategic Projects at FamilyLife. Together, they delve into the dynamics of initiating and receptive desire, the impact of communication, and practical ways couples can foster understanding and intimacy.Key Discussion Points:The common question of "how often?" and why there's no universal answer.The importance of understanding different desire types: initiating, receptive, and resistant.How...
2025-01-151h 04Meet an African Pastor PodcastMichael Byonanebye on Systematic Expository PreachingThis interview is with Michael Byonanebye, Assistant Pastor of Soroti Calvary Chapel in Soroti, Uganda. Michael shares his passion about preaching in an expository way - book by book, verse by verse. He talks about how different this is from the way preaching is done in most churches and why it can bring challenges. But he shares about why this method is more fruitful and why it is so important. Interviewed January 7th, 2025. (40 minutes)
2025-01-0839 min
Marriage Talk PodcastSecrets of Sex Part TWO with Shaunti Feldhahn & Dr. Michael SytsmaWelcome to the Marriage Talk Podcast - Ep 191 - Secrets of Sex Part TWO with Shaunti Feldhahn & Dr. Michael Sytsma with a special focus on their breakthrough book, Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference Most people are curious about sex and would love a few answers. "Are we normal?" "Why isn't my spouse as interested in sex as I am?" "I don't want to feel pressured, but don't want to disappoint my spouse either--what do I do?" "How do we handle the impact of medication, menopause, porn, ED, pain . . . ?" Most...
2025-01-0735 min
Marriage Talk PodcastSecrets of Sex Part ONE with Shaunti Feldhahn & Dr. Michael SytsmaWelcome to the Marriage Talk Podcast - Ep 190 - Secrets of Sex Part ONE with Shaunti Feldhahn & Dr. Michael Sytsma with a special focus on their breakthrough book, Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference Most people are curious about sex and would love a few answers. "Are we normal?" "Why isn't my spouse as interested in sex as I am?" "I don't want to feel pressured, but don't want to disappoint my spouse either--what do I do?" "How do we handle the impact of medication, menopause, porn, ED, pain . . . ?" Most...
2024-12-1730 min
Christian Family LifeAn Interview with Certified Sex Therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma Part 2We are taking the month of December to highlight the top podcasts since the beginning of our podcast journey.
Today our CFL team sits down with ordained minister, licensed professional counselor rectified sex therapist, professor, and national speaker Dr. Michael Sytsma. Dr. Sytsma has over 30 years of clinical experience in sex therapy and he founded Building Intimate Marriages, Inc. He is also co-founder of Sexual Wholeness, Inc. and co-author of the book we are discussing today, “Secrets of Sex & Marriage: 8 Surprises that make all the difference. Part 2
2024-12-1334 minChristian Family LifeAn Interview with Certified Sex Therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma Part 1We are taking the month of December to highlight the top podcasts since the beginning of our podcast journey.
Today our CFL team sits down with ordained minister, licensed professional counselor rectified sex therapist, professor, and national speaker Dr. Michael Sytsma. Dr. Sytsma has over 30 years of clinical experience in sex therapy and he founded Building Intimate Marriages, Inc. He is also co-founder of Sexual Wholeness, Inc. and co-author of the book we are discussing today, “Secrets of Sex & Marriage: 8 Surprises that make all the difference.
2024-12-0627 minThe Savvy SauceRemaining Sexually Engaged Through The Years: Special Patreon Release with Dr. Michael Sytsma*DISCLAIMER* This message contains adult themes and is not intended for little ears.
Special Patreon Release: Remaining Sexually Engaged Through the Years with Dr. Michael Sytsma
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Colossians 3:14 (NIV) “And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.”
Dr. Michael Sytsma is a certified sex therapist, ordained minister, and co-founder of sexual wholeness. Dr. Mike has been working with couples in a variety of capacities since 1987. He currently works with Building Intimate Marriages in Atlanta, GA as he meets with clients, teaches, and speak...
2024-10-2136 min
Famous at HomeSex Makes Everything Better: An Interview with Laura Dugger [Emotionally Healthy Marriage 4 of 5]Welcome to episode 4 of 5 in our Summer Series called, Cultivating an Emotionally Healthy Marriage. Joining us for a conversation about sex is our dear friend, a licensed marriage and family therapist whose specialization in graduate school was sex therapy, Laura Dugger.In this episode, Laura talks about how sex makes everything better. Wait until you hear the research! With honesty, vulnerability, and a solid dose of fun, Josh and Christi's interview with Laura includes:The hidden benefits of sexHow to talk to your spouse about sexReasons for, and how to, schedule sexIndividual differences when it c...
2024-07-3053 minThe Savvy SauceSecrets of Sex and Marriage: An Interview with Dr. Michael Sytsma: Top Ten from 2023 #6*DISCLAIMER* This episode is intended for adults
Top Ten from 2023: #6 Secrets of Sex and Marriage: An Interview with Dr. Michael Sytsma
Micah 6:8 (NIV) "He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God."
Questions and Topics We Cover:
Will you share a few practical sexual education tips with us?
What are the best ways spouses can practice communicating well about sex and wha...
2024-07-0149 min
Focus on the Family Strengthening Marriage PodcastResisting the Temptation of PornographyHow does a couple fight for purity when our culture is saturated with pornography? Jim Daly speaks with Dr. Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn about encouraging people to resist the temptation to look at pornography. Also, John and the Smalley's explain why porn can have a devastating impact on marriages. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive the book Secrets of Sex & Marriage for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Listen Anytime Con...
2024-05-2110 minFocus on the Family Strengthening Marriage PodcastIf Your Spouse Has Experienced Sexual AbusePast sexual abuse can be one of the most difficult things to discuss with your spouse. John, Erin and Greg provide hope to people who've been sexually abused. Plus, Jim Daly speaks to Dr. Michael Sytsma about how you can be a source of healing, if your spouse has experienced past sexual trauma. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive the book Secrets of Sex & Marriage for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored Listen Anytime
2024-04-2509 minFocus on the Family Strengthening Marriage PodcastGetting Rid of Unrealistic Sexual ExpectationsUnrealistic expectations going into marriage will lead to disappointment. That principle also applies to sex. John, Erin and Greg discuss how unhealthy expectations is something many couples struggle with. You'll also hear Jim Daly talk with Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Michael Sytsma about loving your spouse, even when sex isn't going perfectly. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive the book Secrets of Sex & Marriage for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Listen Anytime
2024-04-2311 min
HomeWord with Jim BurnsEpisode 3-Secrets of Sex and Marriage: Some Surprises That Make All the Difference with guest Shaunti FeldhahnWhy is the topic of sex historically so uncomfortable to discuss? Recent studies have shown that talking about sex regularly with your spouse means great things for your relationship - and not just in the bedroom. In today's episode, Jim has a candid conversation with Shaunti Feldhahn; social researcher, best-selling author, and public speaker about the surprising secrets to a healthy and intimate marriage. HomeWord Website: https://homeword.com/HomeWord Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@homewordShaunti Feldhahn Website:
2024-04-1843 minFocus on the Family Strengthening Marriage PodcastPornography Hurts True IntimacySadly, many marriages today have at least one spouse who's struggling with pornography. Jim Daly speaks with Dr. Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn about the great damage porn can do to a marriage. Then, John and Greg discuss some practical steps a person can take towards wholeness if he or she is struggling with pornography. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive the book the Secrets of Sex & Marriage for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Li...
2024-03-2812 minFocus on the Family Strengthening Marriage PodcastWhen Spouses Have Differing Sexual DesiresSex is a wonderful gift for marriage, and yet, it can also be complicated. John and Greg address how physical intimacy is a top issue many couples fight over. You'll also hear Jim Daly talk with Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Michael Sytsma about how couples can work through scenarios where one spouse wants sex more than the other. Finally, Erin Smalley will offer a helpful perspective on how to ask your spouse for sex. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive the book the Secrets of Se...
2024-03-2610 min
M46 Dads Drive TimeMarriage, Parenting, & Sexuality with Dr. Michael SytsmaText us about future topics and guests you'd like covered!On this episode, the guys talk with Dr. Michael Sytsma about marriage, parenting, and sexuality. In the discussion, Dr. Sytsma will equip you with invaluable advice on navigating conversations about sex with your children, you don't want to miss it!Dr. Michael Sytsma has been working with couples in a variety of capacities since 1987. He is a licensed professional counselor in the state of Georgia, a Certified Sex Therapist, and a Certified Professional Counseling Supervisor. He is also an ordained minister with The Wesleyan Church...
2024-03-1854 min
FamilyLife Today®How to Keep the Romance Alive: Dr. Juli Slattery, and Dr. Michael SytsmaWhat's it look like to keep the romance alive when it things are flaming out? Well, Ron and Nan Deal, Juli Slattery, and Michael R. Sytsma, PhD are here to help. They're talking about bringing back that love, having meaningful chats and noticing when things feel off. Show Notes and Resources Want to hear more episodes by Ron Deal? Listen here! Catch more of his thoughts at rondeal.org, and on X @RonLDeal Want to hear more episodes by Dr. Juli Slattery? Listen here! Catch more of her thoughts at authenticintimacy.com, and on...
2024-03-1326 minFocus on the Family Strengthening Marriage PodcastHow Often Should We be Intimate?It's common for married couples to ask, "how often should we be physically intimate?" While there's no rule, Jim Daly speaks to Dr. Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn on why many couples struggle to agree on frequency. You'll also hear John and the Smalley's offer encouragement to couples who are struggling to enjoy sex. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive the book Secrets of Sex & Marriage for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Listen Anyt...
2024-02-2912 minFocus on the Family Strengthening Marriage PodcastThree Types of Sexual DesireHow do you deal with a situation where you and your spouse have differing desires regarding sex? Jim Daly talks with Dr. Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn about three kinds of sexual desire that most couples deal with. Also, John and the Smalley's discuss what couples can do if one or both spouses are resistant to sexual intimacy. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive the book Secrets of Sex & Marriage for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment ...
2024-02-2709 min
THRIVE with Dr. Lee HildebrandSecrets of Sex and Marriage with researcher and bestselling author, Shaunti FeldhahnDr. Hildebrand hosts best selling co-author of Secrets of Sex & Marriage, Shaunti Feldhahn, to explore a greater understanding of sex, including frequency differences, assumptions, and differences in initiation style between spouses.For more information on Shaunti's work, go to shaunti.com.Her co-author in producing the book is Dr. Michael Sytsma, a certified sex therapist, professor, and national speaker.For more information on Dr. Hildebrand, go to lakeshorepsychologyservices.comTo explore his YouTube channel for helpful and informative videos on life and mental health, go to Dr Lee Hildebrand in YouTube.
2024-02-2138 minThe Savvy SauceSurprising Discoveries of Sex in Marriage: An Interview with Shaunti Feldhahn (Episode 224)*DISCLAIMER* This episode is intended for adults
224. Surprising Discoveries of Sex in Marriage: An Interview with Shaunti Feldhahn
Deuteronomy 29:29a (NKJV) "The secret things belong to the LORD our God, but those things which are revealed belong to us"
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Questions and Topics We Cover:
Are there any specific questions you recommend we ask our spouse periodically?
Will you elaborate on your finding that "men and women tend to have different insecurities that the process of sex can help...
2024-02-1255 minFocus on the Family Strengthening Marriage PodcastIf Your Spouse Doesn’t Receive Positive AffirmationsHave you tried to be encouraging to your spouse, but he or she wasn't receptive to it? Jim Daly talks to Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Michael Sytsma about some healthy perspectives on if your spouse isn't receiving your kind words. Plus, John and the Smalley's discuss how positive affirmations can help a couple build trust and have more enjoyable intimacy. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive the book Secrets of Sex & Marriage for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Ass...
2024-02-0107 minFocus on the Family Strengthening Marriage PodcastOwning Your Responsibility to Feel GoodBeing affirmed by your spouse is great, but do you need it to survive? John, Erin and Greg explain why affirming your spouse is healthy, and discuss the difference between a need and a strong desire. You'll also hear from Jim Daly and Dr. Michael Sytsma on why feeling good about yourself is your decision, and should not be dependent on what your spouse says. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive the book Secrets of Sex & Marriage for your donation of any amount! ...
2024-01-3011 min
The Functional LifeQ&A: Let's Talk About Sex with Dr. Mike Sytsma (Pt. 2/2)Dr. Michael Sytsma is a licensed professional counselor, certified sex therapist, ordained minister, professor, and national speaker. With over 30 years of clinical experience and an expert leader in sex therapy, he founded Building Intimate Marriages, Inc. and co-founded Sexual Wholeness, Inc. Learn more at: intimatemarriage.org.
Dr. Mike's latest book Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference was co-written with Shaunti Feldhahn and is available on Amazon and everywhere books are sold. Find out more at: https://secretsofsexandmarriage.com/
You can follow Dr. Mike on s...
2024-01-251h 09The Functional LifeLet's Talk About Sex with Dr. Mike Sytsma (Pt. 1/2)Dr. Michael Sytsma is a licensed professional counselor, certified sex therapist, ordained minister, professor, and national speaker. With over 30 years of clinical experience and an expert leader in sex therapy, he founded Building Intimate Marriages, Inc. and co-founded Sexual Wholeness, Inc. Learn more at: intimatemarriage.org.
Dr. Mike's latest book Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference was co-written with Shaunti Feldhahn and is available on Amazon and everywhere books are sold. Find out more at: https://secretsofsexandmarriage.com/
You can follow Dr. Mike on s...
2024-01-171h 14Focus on the Family Strengthening Marriage PodcastFocusing on the Best for a Better Sex LifeYou long to feel emotionally safe in marriage. When you feel that safety, it can positively impact your sexual relationship. Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Michael Sytsma talk with Jim Daly about the need to focus on good things in your marriage, even outside of the bedroom. Plus, John and the Smalley's talk about how you can help your mate overcome his or her insecurities. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive the book Secrets of Sex & Marriage for your donation of any amount! F...
2024-01-0412 minFocus on the Family Strengthening Marriage PodcastAre We the Only Ones Struggling with Sex?The truth is, many couples face challenges regarding physical intimacy. John, Greg, and Erin share why a satisfying sex life takes time and doesn't happen overnight. You'll also hear from Jim Daly, who talks to Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Michael Sytsma about common misconceptions many couples have about sex. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive the book Secrets of Sex & Marriage for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Listen Anytime Conta...
2024-01-0213 min
PSR PodcastBest of 2023: Helping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual BetrayalOriginally Aired on February 28, 2023View this episode on Youtube----------HELP REACH THE YEAR-END GOAL TO IMPACT MORE LIVES!We have a goal of $103,000 to reach even more individuals and families in 2024 through this podcast and all our other ministries.To partner with us, give at Bebroken.org/donate or call 210-822-8201.----------Sexual betrayal in marriage is more common than most of us would like to admit. But this terrible fracture is not incurable for couples who choose to go on a journey of...
2023-12-2737 minFocus on the Family Strengthening Marriage PodcastIs Sex Really That Important?Sometimes, one spouse desires sex more than the other. When that happens, how can you and your spouse talk about it? John and the Smalley's address why it's good to put your spouse's needs above your own. Also, Jim Daly talks to Dr. Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn about why it matters that you and your spouse have a good sex life. Receive the book Secrets of Sex & Marriage for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Listen Anytime Find Questions You...
2023-12-1309 minThe Savvy Sauce218 Secrets of Sex and Marriage: An Interview with Dr. Michael Sytsma*DISCLAIMER* This episode is intended for adults
218. Secrets of Sex and Marriage: An Interview with Dr. Michael Sytsma
Micah 6:8 (NIV) "He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God."
**Transcription Below**
Questions and Topics We Cover:
Will you share a few practical sexual education tips with us?
What are the best ways spouses can practice communicating well abou...
2023-12-1150 minFocus on the Family Strengthening Marriage PodcastHow to Have Good Conversations About SexWhen was the last time you and your spouse talked about sex? The truth is, many couples struggle to discus it at all. Jim Daly speaks to Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Michael Sytsma about why many couples face challenges regarding physical intimacy. Plus, John and the Smalley's address why you need to talk about physical intimacy. Receive the book Secrets of Sex & Marriage for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Listen Anytime Find Questions You Can Ask Your Spouse About Sex
2023-12-0508 minBiblical Leadership @ WorkMichael Sytsma - President at KeyBankSend us a textMichael Sytsma has nearly 20 years of leadership experience in the banking industry, as well as many leadership roles in non-profits. Join me today as we discuss servant leadership, what Michael has learned through the years, and about a ministry he is involved in and very passionate about. Michael's LinkedIn Christophe's Children website KeyBank Support the showBe sure to rate and follow our podcast!
2023-11-0159 min
Crystal Paine Show229. Secrets of Sex and Marriage (with Shaunti Feldhahn)Prepare to dive into a topic that might make some of you a bit uncomfortable but is incredibly important for the health of your marriage - secrets of sex and marriage. My friend Shaunti Feldhahn is the author of the book Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference, and she and I are excited to discuss this because it's a topic that many couples struggle with but often don't openly address. We explore the surprises teased in her book title, from understanding what's normal to the different types of desire, and most importantly, effective communication.
2023-09-2631 min
Happily Even After: A Redemption Story PodcastEpisode #10: The Sex Therapy SessionToday Bob and Dannah Gresh bring you more advice from their sex therapist, Joyce Penner. You’ll get practical encouragement for how to rebuild your intimacy along with a book recommendation that’ll help you feel like you’re not alone if you’re experiencing barriers in the bedroom.Buy the Happily Even After book by Dannah GreshUse the coupon code “HEA” to get a free month of Covenant Eyes screen accountability.LISTEN:Shaunti Feldhahn talks with Erin Davis about “Why we still need...
2023-09-1831 min
Get Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellHow Seductive Are You? featuring Dr. Michael SytsmaThis episode is for anyone interested in investing in their sexual relationship from an early stage to set the foundation for a fulfilling and intimate connection in the future. My wife and I are beginning our fifth decade in life. We had a discussion the other night about what kind of sex life we want to have in our 50s, 60s, 70s, and 80s and beyond! Having a long term vision for your sex life will bring up things that are important to address. For example, you might find it difficult to find sex pleasurable, have some...
2023-07-1433 min
Husband MaterialSecrets Of Sex And Marriage (with Dr. Michael Sytsma)"He said at 74, I am having the best sex of my life. At 74, my penis only occasionally shows up for the party. But I am still having the best sex of my life. I wish I had known in my thirties how to have this kind of sex."What is sex ultimately about? How can married couples enjoy sex more? How do you deal with differences in sexual desire? In this episode, Dr. Michael Sytsma offers a robust theology of sexuality AND clinical wisdom on how to unlock arousal, increase intimacy, and have fun in the bedroom.
2023-07-0343 min
Sexy Marriage RadioA Higher View | Dr Michael Sytsma #627Dr Michael Sytsma joins me again as we dive into the idea of how there is something much deeper going on during sex. There is a higher view to take.
Learn more about Dr Sytsma here - https://intimatemarriage.org/bim-team/mike-sytsma/
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I continue the conversation with Michael about Dr Schnarch's idea of eyes-open-sex.
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2023-06-0736 min
The Corie Weathers PodcastSecrets of Sex with Dr. Michael SytsmaDr. Mike is back to talk about his new book Secrets of Sex & Marriage that he co-wrote with marriage research expert Shaunti Feldhan.
Dr. Michael Sytsma is a licensed professional counselor, certified sex therapist, ordained minister, professor, and national speaker. With a pastoral heart, a gift in teaching, and a passion for helping couples grow in marriage, Dr. Systma uses his skills to teach couples important truths about marriage in a fun and interesting way, helping them to grow into healthier, transformative relationships with their spouses.
He has over 30 years of clinical experience in sex th...
2023-05-1559 min
Female by DesignUncovering Secrets of Great Sex with Shaunti FeldhahnPrepare to be encouraged by a mentoring session with Shaunti Feldhahn. We are diving into sex and sexuality with Shaunti, as she shares her insight and clinical understanding and perspective. Some of the topics we covered in this conversation include: Surprises that make all the difference. Why sexuality matters. A vision for intimacy. Affirming insecure places. Desire - types of desire and levels of desire. God's beautiful gift of sexuality for women. About Shaunti Feldhahn: Shaunti received her graduate degree from Harvard University a...
2023-05-0851 min
Living Wholehearted Podcast With Jeff and TerraEpisode 179: Sexual Wholeness - Raising Healthy Kids: Sex, Porn, and Shame with Jay StringerWe are finishing up our Sexual Wholeness series and if you haven’t been listening, make sure you go back and tune it to some of the fantastic interviews with Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Michael Sytsma. We are bringing Jay Stinger back on the podcast to help us talk about how to develop healthy sexuality in our children. We have a lot of kindred connections with Jay and we so appreciate his work. Jay Stringer is a licensed mental health counselor, ordained minister, researcher and speaker on the subject of sexual desire. Jay is the author...
2023-05-0244 min
Theology in the RawS2 Ep1069: Do Evangelicals Know How to Engage Controversial Topics? Dr. Shaunti FeldhahnShaunti received her graduate degree from Harvard University and was an analyst on Wall Street before unexpectedly becoming a social researcher, best-selling author and popular speaker. Today, she applies her analytical skills to investigating eye-opening, life-changing truths about relationships, both at home and in the workplace. Shaunti has written several books (including several with husband, Jeff), including For Women Only, The Kindness Challenge, Thriving in Love & Money, and the recently released Secrets of Sex & Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference, which she coauthored with dr. Michael Sytsma. In our conversation, we talk about sexual abuse in the church and...
2023-04-201h 05Christian Family LifePart 2 Interview with Co-Author of "Secrets of Sex and Marriage" Dr. Michael SytsmaSex is one of the most common marriage issues (for example, nearly 80% of couples are mismatched in how often they want it), but it doesn't have to be that way. Listen in as we continue our talk with Dr. Michael Sytsma!
2023-04-1334 minLiving Wholehearted Podcast With Jeff and TerraEpisode 176: Sexual Wholeness - Secrets to Sex & Marriage (Part 2) with Dr. Michael SytsmaWe’ve started a series on sexual wholeness and today we are going to continue our conversation about Secrets of Sex & Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All The Difference. If you missed last week, make sure you check out our initial interview with Shaunti Feldhahn. Today, in our conversation with Dr. Michael Sytsma we dive deeper into the practical reality of the data and how it can inform, and maybe transform, our thinking and our attitudes about sex and our spouses. Warning, when you talk with a sex therapist, nothing is off the table! Our guest unpacks the myths and th...
2023-04-1134 minChristian Family LifeAn Interview with Certified Sex Therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma, Part 1Today our CFL team sits down with ordained minister, licensed professional counselor, certified sex therapist, professor, and national speaker Dr. Michael Sytsma. Dr. Sytsma has over 30 years of clinical experience in sex therapy and he founded Building Intimate Marriages, Inc. He is also co-founder of Sexual Wholeness, Inc. and co-author of the book we are discussing today, "Secrets of Sex & Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference.
2023-04-0627 min
Art of SpousingSecrets of Sex and Marriage with Shaunti FeldhahnIn this episode James and Lisa have a conversation with Shaunti Feldhahn, co-author of the book "Secrets of Sex and Marriage." The episode tackles one of the most taboo topics in most relationships - Sex in marriage. Shaunti and her co-author, renowned sex therapist Michael Sytsma, spent three years and $120,000 on a research project involving interviewing over 5,300 people, leading to major surprises and aha moments. They identified the little things that make a big difference in making marriage sex work. The episode reveals how communication is crucial and how making people understand the differences in desire and addressing underlying...
2023-04-0332 min
Psychology of You with Dr. CrawfordEP98: There’s MORE to sex than the physical with Sex Therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma & Dr. Shannan CrawfordLast week we discovered the overall heart-cry of many couples today. We've learned that we are not alone in our struggle, and that there is more opportunity to engage in intimacy than we give credit to! This week, we have the co-author of "Secrets of Sex and Marriage" Dr. Michael Sytsma detailing the many ways we can engage with our spouse that produces a deeper knowing of each other's soul - which results in a better sex life!
Take the next 30 minutes and invest in your relationship and marriage!
Book - https://secretsofsexandmarriage.com/
2023-03-2830 min
Married With Benefits™8. Is Your Sex Life Missing the Point?Could your sex life be missing the point? Dr. Michael Sytsma talks about why we have sex…and the key to wow-level sex that changes everything. Show Notes and Resources Download our app to listen to Brian Goins, Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn as they cover more questions. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. Grab Shaunti and Dr. Sytsma's book in our shop: Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy
2023-03-2836 min
The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley WillisThe Secret to Great SexOn this episode, we are joined by Shaunti Feldhahn, Dr. Michael Sytsma to talk about their new book, Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference. They share some incredible research in this episode to help you and your wife have your most fulfilling sex life.Grab the book here: https://www.amazon.com/Secrets-Sex-Marriage-Surprises-Difference/dp/0764239554/?tag=shaunticom-20----For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/a...
2023-03-2734 minSexy Marriage RadioSecrets of Sex and Marriage | Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Michael Sytsma #616Today I'm joined by Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr Michael Sytsma as we talk through their new book, Secrets of Sex and Marriage.
Based on their latest research with couples, what surprised them most?
What do married couples need to know about how things actually play out in marriage?
And what should married couples do about our differences and similarities?
Learn more about them and their work here - https://secretsofsexandmarriage.com/
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2023-03-2254 min
Married With Benefits™7. When Sex is BoringHas your married sex coasted into the blahs? Sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma's got solutions to keep you both captivated in the bedroom. Show Notes and Resources Download our app to listen to Brian Goins, Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn as they cover more questions. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. Grab Shaunti and Dr. Sytsma's book in our shop: Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy
2023-03-2137 min
Focus on the Family MinuteWhat My Spouse Has Been Responsible ForDr. Michael Sytsma reminds us that it isn’t your spouse’s job to always make you happy. Listen to the full program: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/broadcast/answering-questions-about-sex-in-marriage-part-1-of-2/Receive the book "Secrets of Sex & Marriage" for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-daily-broadcast-product-2023-03-16?refcd=1622603If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/p...
2023-03-1601 min
Married With Benefits™6. When Sex is Painful: Dr. Michael SytsmaSex can be painful in more ways than one: from trauma, to physical pain, to porn. But these don't need to doom your relationship. Sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma offers ideas to transform hurt to eventual healing and wholeness. Show Notes and Resources Download our app to listen to Brian Goins, Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn as they cover more questions. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. Grab Shaunti and Dr. Sytsma's book in our shop: Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference. See cru.org/u...
2023-03-1447 min
Power of Purity | Helping Men to Honor God with their Sexual GiftPOP 351 - Secrets of Sex & Marriage with Dr. Michael Sytsma - Part 2Dr. Michael Sytsma is a licensed professional counselor and certified sex therapist. He earned a Ph.D. from the University of Georgia in Marriage and Family Therapy, and his dissertation topic was "Sexual Desire Discrepancy in Married Couples". Dr. Sytsma has over 30 years of clinical experience in sex therapy and founded Building Intimate Marriages, Inc. and co-founded Sexual Wholeness, Inc. Dr. Sytsma is the co-author of a new book, along with Shaunti Feldhahn, entitled "Secrets of Sex & Marriage - 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference". In the research for this book Dr. Sytsma and Shaunti Fe...
2023-03-1438 minPsychology of You with Dr. CrawfordEP97: Discovering Desire with your Spouse with Author Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Shannan CrawfordIn a world that has jaded and obscure expectations and ideas about romance, intimacy, sex, and relationships, we wanted to break down what studies and research say about desire between married couples. Joining us again is Shaunti Feldhahn who has recently released her book, co-authored with Dr. Michael Sytsma, titled "Secrets of Sex & Marriage". Shaunti takes us through the deep heart cries of many couples from "how much sex should we be having?" to "why won't my partner initiate sex and intimacy?" to the overwhelmingly honest "am I alone in this?"
Tune in next week to hear...
2023-03-1332 min
Married With Benefits™5. Not Tonight? Why Good Signals Make Sexual Sparks Fly: Dr. Michael SytsmaInitiating or declining sex: It's tricky. Are your signals clear to your spouse? Sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma helps you with “not tonight” and “yes, please.” Show Notes and Resources Download our app to listen to Brian Goins, Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn as they cover more questions. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. Grab Shaunti and Dr. Sytsma's book in our shop: Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy
2023-03-0733 min
Power of Purity | Helping Men to Honor God with their Sexual GiftPOP 350 - Secrets of Sex & Marriage with Dr. Michael Sytsma - Part 1Dr. Michael Sytsma is a licensed professional counselor and certified sex therapist. He earned a Ph.D. from the University of Georgia in Marriage and Family Therapy, and his dissertation topic was "Sexual Desire Discrepancy in Married Couples". Dr. Sytsma has over 30 years of clinical experience in sex therapy and founded Building Intimate Marriages, Inc. and co-founded Sexual Wholeness, Inc. Dr. Sytsma is the co-author of a new book, along with Shaunti Feldhahn, entitled "Secrets of Sex & Marriage - 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference". In the research for this book Dr. Sytsma and Shaunti Fe...
2023-03-0730 min
PSR PodcastHelping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual BetrayalSexual betrayal in marriage is more common than most of us would like to admit. But this terrible fracture is not incurable for couples who choose to go on a journey of healing and restoration.Our guest today is Dr. Michael Sytsma, a licensed professional counselor, ordained minister, professor, and founder of Building Intimate Marriages. In our conversation, Michael answers questions about the “why” of affairs, the impact of past trauma, the myth of affairs only occurring in “bad” marriages, how to know if restoration is possible, what is required for restoration, and more. To learn...
2023-02-2837 min
Married With Benefits™4. When Your Married Sex Life Hits a SnagWondering how to keep your married sex life sizzling—or just move around conflict or hurt? Sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma helps you troubleshoot. Show Notes and Resources Download our app to listen to Brian Goins, Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn as they cover more questions. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. Grab Shaunti and Dr. Sytsma's book in our shop: Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy
2023-02-2853 min
Ignite: This Breakthrough Full Audiobook For Busy Professionals.Secrets of Sex and Marriage by Shaunti Feldhahn, Dr. Michael SytsmaPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/2/audible/20707to listen full audiobooks.
Title: Secrets of Sex and Marriage
Author: Shaunti Feldhahn, Dr. Michael Sytsma
Narrator: Shaunti Feldhahn, Michael Sytsma
Format: mp3
Length: 5 hrs and 8 mins
Release date: 02-28-23
Ratings: 4.5 out of 5 stars, 25 ratings
Genres: Sex Instruction
Publisher's Summary:
Sex is one of the most common marriage issues (for example, almost 80% of couples are mismatched in how often they want it), but it doesn't have to be that way. Relationship researcher Shaunti Feldhahn and renowned sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma have identified eight simple, transformational factors to help you move from disconnection...
2023-02-285h 08Meet A Audiobooks Tapestry That Fits During Quiet Lunch Hours.Discover Secrets of Sex and Marriage by Shaunti Feldhahn, Dr. Michael SytsmaPlease visit https://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/2/audible/20707 to listen full audiobooks.
Title: Secrets of Sex and Marriage
Author: Shaunti Feldhahn, Dr. Michael Sytsma
Narrator: Shaunti Feldhahn, Michael Sytsma
Format: mp3
Length: 5 hrs and 8 mins
Release date: 02-28-23
Ratings: 4.5 out of 5 stars, 25 ratings
Genres: Sex Instruction
Publisher's Summary:
Sex is one of the most common marriage issues (for example, almost 80% of couples are mismatched in how often they want it), but it doesn't have to be that way. Relationship researcher Shaunti Feldhahn and renowned sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma have identified...
2023-02-285h 08
Sexual Confidence on Tap58. The REAL Secrets of Sex & Marriage!Lots of people claim to know about what makes sex and marriage the BEST it can be, but Dr. Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn have done one the LARGEST research studies to determine the REAL secrets of relational success! Join Shannon & Dr. Sytsma as they discuss their monumental research project and their NEW BOOK that promises to be a game-changer!
2023-02-2339 min
The Covenant Eyes PodcastThe Secrets of Sex and Marriage, With Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Michael SytsmaIn this episode, we'll visit with Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Michael Sytsma, authors of the new book Secrets of Sex & Marriage about:The surprising statistics that were found in conducting research for the book.How pornography impacts the satisfaction people have with their marriage and sex.How couples work through the impact of porn to find the intimacy they desire.Advice for church leaders in using the findings of this book in their ministry.More Information/Resources:Book website: https://secretsofsexandmarriage.comShaunti’s website: http://shaunti.com/Dr. Mike’s webs...
2023-02-2236 min
Married With Benefits™3. Sexual Desire: What to Do When You’re Not on the Same PageDoes one of you want more sex than the other? Sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma offers ideas and insight to work through differences in sexual desire. Show Notes and Resources Download our app to listen to Brian Goins, Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn as they cover more questions. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. Grab Shaunti and Dr. Sytsma’s book in our shop: Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy
2023-02-2148 min
No More Perfect Podcast with Jill SavageUncovering the Secrets of Sex and Marriage with Shaunti Feldhahn & Dr. Michael Sytsma | Episode 131When we were early in our marriage, I often said to Mark, “Sex! I could go the rest of my life without it!” And he totally believed me. True story! Needless to say, we had all kinds of challenges in that area of our marriage, and eventually, we sought out sex therapy. And it was a game-changer for us!It’s no secret that sex is an important part of any marriage, but we are often hard-pressed to talk about it honestly with one another. It can be hard to find Christian resources to dig into this somewh...
2023-02-2139 min
Married With Benefits™2. What if My Spouse Doesn’t Want Me? Sex Drive in Your MarriageDoes one of you want more sex than the other? Sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma offers ideas and insight to work through differences in sexual desire. Show Notes and Resources Download our app to listen to Brian Goins, Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn as they cover more questions. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. Grab Shaunti and Dr. Sytsma’s book in our shop: Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy
2023-02-1440 min
Smart Family PodcastSFP 079 Secrets of Sex and Marriage with Dr. Michael Sytsma; How to Overcome Mismatches in Desire; Great Sex and Communicating Well are Linked If you're in a relationship and you value a sex life that is exciting and enduring, hear what our expert Dr. Michael Sytsma, experienced sex therapist and marriage researcher, has to say. His high-quality research findings are so encouraging for couples who look forward to a vibrant sex life for decades! Openness and honesty about physical intimacy plays a vital role. Did you know that there are different and equally legitimate types of sexual desire? The issues in your sex life that are frustrating you may be more resolvable than you think. Discover how and why with Dr. Mike...
2023-02-0849 min
Married With Benefits™1. When It Comes to Sex Drive–What’s Normal?When it comes to sex…what’s normal? Sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn discuss research about drive, initiative, and other questions. Show Notes and Resources Grab Shaunti and Dr. Sytsma’s book in our shop: Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy
2023-02-0746 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolWhy You're Not Having Great Married Sex and What You Can Do About It The most frequent question that brings people to our website is, "How can I make my spouse want more sex?" Research from The Intimacy Project gives some very encouraging and practical answers that will help you do just that. Dr. Carol talks with Dr. Michael Sytsma, ordained minister, licensed professional counselor, certified sex therapist, and professor about his 30 years as a sex therapist and the fascinating results of his research on married sex. You're certain to discover some ways to make your married sex life much better and more satisfying. Connect with Dr. Sytsma...
2023-02-0733 min
Relationship AdviceSecrets Of Sex And MarriageWe all want to have better sex lives, but it's not always easy to make that happen. Understanding the research around desire, arousal and our biology can go a long way in helping us improve our sex lives. Listen to today's show to learn some key tools and insights that will help you improve your sex life today!In this episode with Michael Sytsma, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
The different types of desires that men and women exhibit and how understanding them will improve your sex life
The difference between desire and arousal an...
2023-01-1340 min
Professional Christian Coaching TodayOpening the Mailbox #21 #375Whether your questions are intensely practical or deeply philosophical and theological, this Opening the Mailbox episode has answers for you. On the practical side, be sure to catch our best low-cost tips and tricks for getting your Zoom lighting just right. On the philosophical and theological side, you don't want to miss this helpful explanation of the different roles that coaching, counseling, and therapy play around issues of sexual health, sexual addiction recovery, and more. Interested in digging deeper? Here are some recommended books on Sexual Health for Christians:
2022-12-0631 min
The Welsh WireBuilding for Good - Local Leader Michael Sytsma Helps Make a Non-profit Vision a RealityThe Welsh Wire features moderator Mike Rogers and professional recruiting expert Sheri Welsh in this podcast. Listen in as leaders from a wide array of small to mid-size west Michigan companies weigh in and share their experiences and insights on a variety of business topics, including employee retention challenges and recruitment success stories. On this month’s show, Sheri talks with Michael Sytsma, President for West Michigan for KeyBank, about his involvement with a nonprofit called Christophe’s Children. A capital campaign by the organization is underway to raise $130,000 to construct a permanent home for orphans in the Democratic Republic of t...
2022-08-1627 minThe Savvy SauceBONUS REPLAY: Science and Art of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage: An Interview with Francie Winslow, Part 2Bonus: Science and Art of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage: An Interview with Francie Winslow, Part 2
"Therefore my people have gone into captivity, Because they have no knowledge;" Isaiah 5:13 NKJV
Questions and Topics We Discuss:
Will you elaborate on the science of sex?
When two become one, what has God designed to occur at a hormonal level?
What is your best list of benefits that come from a husband and wife connecting sexually on a regular basis?
Jesus captured Francie’s heart at a you...
2022-07-1943 minThe Savvy SauceTop Ten from 2021: #10 Discovering God’s Design for Romance with Sharon Jaynes*Disclaimer* This episode includes mature content and is not intended for children.
Top Ten from 2021: #10 Discovering God's Design for Romance with Sharon Jaynes
Song of Solomon 5:16 (AMP) “His mouth is full of sweetness; Yes, he is altogether lovely and desirable. This is my beloved and this is my friend, O daughters of Jerusalem."
Questions and Topics We Discuss:
What did you discover through your research in Song of Solomon?
From Song of Solomon, what did you learn about female desire that is potentially diffe...
2022-05-2340 minThe Savvy Sauce172 Intentional Marriage and Parenting with Drew and Sara Anthony172. Intentional Marriage and Parenting with Drew and Sara Anthony
Psalm 16:11 (NIV) "You make known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence, with eternal pleasures at your right hand."
Drew and Sara Anthony will celebrate 28 years of marriage this year. They have 4 children ranging in age from 16-24. In addition, they run a house flipping business together. Drew and Sara recently discovered a passion for sailing. They combined their love for sailing and heart for helping strengthen marriages by leading marriage sailing adventures. They’ve see...
2022-02-141h 02
FamilyLife Blended® Podcast75. Dancing in the BedroomThe subject of sexuality and sexual desire in marriage brings up lots of questions. In this episode, Ron Deal interviews Dr. Michael Sytsma, a pastor and sex therapist, who talks about how to pursue the heart of intimacy with one another. You'll hear teaching on how to manage differences in sexual desire in marriage, how we can reflect who Christ is in our sexual lives, and how to form deep intimate connections in the process. Show Notes and Resources The (Nearly) Complete Guide to Better Married Sex online course Listing of Certified Christian Sex Therapists
2022-02-1443 min
Famous at HomeSex Makes Everything Better: An Interview with Laura DuggerLast week we talked about how to have hard conversations with your spouse. This week, we're highlighting one of the topics that is so often difficult to talk about--sex. Joining us is our dear friend, a licensed marriage and family therapist whose specialization in graduate school was sex therapy, Laura Dugger.In this episode, Laura talks about how sex literally makes everything better. Wait until you hear the research! With honesty, vulnerability, and a solid dose of fun, Josh and Christi's interview with Laura includes: * The hidden benefits of sex* How to...
2022-02-0252 minThe Savvy Sauce156 Science and Art of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage, Part 2156. Science and Art of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage, Part 2
"Therefore my people have gone into captivity, Because they have no knowledge;" Isaiah 5:13 NKJV
Questions and Topics We Discuss:
Will you elaborate on the science of sex?
When two become one, what has God designed to occur at a hormonal level?
What is your best list of benefits that come from a husband and wife connecting sexually on a regular basis?
Jesus captured Francie’s heart at a young age, and she has been...
2021-10-0442 minSmart Family PodcastSFP 047 | Separating Truth From Myth on Sex in Marriage; Practical Advice From Dr. Mike Sytsma Sex Therapist on Keeping Your Physical Intimacy Alive for Decades; Unpacking the New Findings of his Recent StudyWhen a spouse complains about their partner's level of desire for sex, there are common misunderstandings. Did you know there are different but equally valid types of sexual desire? We loved the opportunity to sit down again with Dr. Michael Sytsma (second-time guest; see also Episode 3) for a science-based and super-practical conversation largely focused on original research he conducted along with fellow researcher, Shaunti Feldhahn (we were honoured to host Shaunti on Episode 9). For example, a couple may easily misjudge that they are further apart in what they want out of their sex life than they actually are. Find...
2021-09-221h 11The Savvy Sauce151 Discovering God's Design for Romance with Sharon Jaynes*Disclaimer* This episode includes mature content and is not intended for children.
151. Discovering God's Design for Romance with Sharon Jaynes
Song of Solomon 5:16 (AMP) “His mouth is full of sweetness; Yes, he is altogether lovely and desirable. This is my beloved and this is my friend, O daughters of Jerusalem."
Questions and Topics We Discuss:
What did you discover through your research in Song of Solomon?
From Song of Solomon, what did you learn about female desire that is potentially different from our typic...
2021-08-3039 minThe Savvy Sauce144 Brain’s Role in Sexual Intimacy with Angie Landry*DISCLAIMER* This episode discusses adult themes and is not intended for little ears
144. Brain’s Role in Sexual Intimacy with Angie Landry
Isaiah 55:8+9 (NIV) “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the LORD. As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.”
Angela Landry, an LMFT, Nationally Certified Counselor, and Certified Sex Therapist of Restoration Counseling TN, is a passionate individual seeking to help others. She takes satisfaction in...
2021-05-0343 min
Sexual Confidence on TapEpisode 21 - Relationship Enemy #1 - Desire DiscrepancyMismatched Sex Drives – are they wreaking havoc in YOUR relationship? If you’ve been with your mate very long, you’ve probably realized that one of you wants sex more often (or more intensely) than the other. Does sexual frequency and intensity have THAT big of an impact on the quality of a relationship? Listen in as Shannon discusses this vital topic with fellow intimacy expert Dr. Michael Sytsma.
2020-09-0938 minThe Savvy SauceTop 10 From 2019: #8 Enjoying a God-Honoring Healthy Sex Life with Your Spouse with Dr. Michael Sytsma*DISCLAIMER* This episode is intended for adults
Top 10 From 2019: #8 Enjoying a God-Honoring, Healthy Sex Life with Your Spouse with Dr. Michael Sytsma
Proverbs 5:18 NIV “May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.”
Dr. Michael Sytsma is a certified sex therapist, ordained minister, and co-founder of sexual wholeness. Dr. Mike has been working with couples in a variety of capacities since 1987. He currently works with Building Intimate Marriages in Atlanta, GA as he meets with clients, teaches, and speaks at various conferences...
2020-06-1544 min
Married With Benefits™7. How can I restore trust after pornography or an affair?How can a couple restore trust in the area of sexual brokenness (pornography, affairs, etc.)? Licensed sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma joins host Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn to instruct husbands and wives on the necessary steps to take to bring the darkness into the light and tenaciously hold on to the God of hope. Show Notes and Resources From season 1: "Questions Every Wife is Asking: How Can A Good Man Be Tempted By Porn?" https://www.familylife.com/podcast/married-with-benefits/3-how-can-a-good-man-be-tempted-by-porn/ Meet our guest today, Dr. Mike Sytsma. https://intimatemarriage.org/project/dr-mike/...
2020-06-0140 minThe Savvy Sauce104 Sexual Desire Discrepancy in Marriage with Dr. Michael Sytsma*DISCLAIMER* This message contains adult themes and is not intended for little ears.
104. Sexual Desire Discrepancy in Marriage with Dr. Michael Sytsma
**Transcription Below**
Ephesians 4:2 (NIV) “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.”
Dr. Michael Sytsma is a certified sex therapist, ordained minister, and co-founder of sexual wholeness. Dr. Mike has been working with couples in a variety of capacities since 1987. He currently works with Building Intimate Marriages in Atlanta, GA as he meets with clients, teaches, and speaks...
2020-05-1841 minThe Savvy SauceTop Ten from 2018: #9 Ten Common Questions About Sex with Dr. Michael Sytsma*DISCLAIMER* This episode is intended for adults
Top Ten from 2018: #9 10 Common Questions About Sex, Shared Through a Biblical Worldview with Certified Sex Therapist and Pastor, Dr. Michael Sytsma
Hebrews 13:4(a) NIV “Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure,”
Dr. Michael Sytsma is a certified sex therapist, ordained minister, and co-founder of sexual wholeness. Dr. Mike has been working with couples in a variety of capacities since 1987. He currently works with Building Intimate Marriages in Atlanta, GA as he meets with clients, teaches, and speaks...
2019-12-0334 minThe Savvy Sauce75 Responding to God’s Stirring with Elizabeth Pehrson, Founder of The Exchange*DISCLAIMER* There is a brief part of this message that is not intended for little ears.
75. Responding to God’s Stirring with Elizabeth Pehrson, Founder of The Exchange
**Transcription Below**
Ephesians 5:15-16 (AMP) “Therefore see that you walk carefully [living life with honor, purpose, and courage; shunning those who tolerate and enable evil], not as the unwise, but as wise [sensible, intelligent, discerning people], making the very most of your time [on earth, recognizing and taking advantage of each opportunity and using it with wisdom and diligence], because the days are [fi...
2019-09-2428 min