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Writers With WrinklesBreaking Barriers in Publishing: Michele McAvoy on Small Press Success & Writing RealitiesSend us a textPLEASE NOTE: this episode was orignally meant to drop on March 31st but we moved it up so listeners can take advantage of The Little Press's upcoming pitch party. Listen to the full episode for details.Episode SummaryIn this episode, Beth and Lisa chat with Michele McAvoy, award-winning children’s book author, publisher, and founder of The Little Press. Michele shares her journey from self-published author to small press publisher, offering insight into the publishing industry, small press advantages, and advice for aspiring authors navigating the co...2025-03-1734 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseThe Four Most Dangerous Personalities Types to Avoid: An Interview with Joe Navarro, Former FBI Special AgentSend us a textWhat signs warn that we’ve met not just a toxic person, but someone dangerous?This week Joe Navarro, author and former FBI special agent joins us to discuss the four most dangerous personalities. Navarro is most well-known for his work as a body language expert. He’s authored several books, including What Every Body is Saying, Dangerous Personalities, Louder Than Words, and The Dictionary of Body Language.To Watch the Podcast Extra Interview▶︎ Get practical help on how to recognize and escape a dangerous situatio...2025-02-1728 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseWhen the Narcissist Says They Love You: Are They Lying?Send us a textNarcissists often claim to love us. That they want the save the relationship; but do they?In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Lisa Sonni discuss the confusing dynamic of narcissistic partners claiming to be changing and addressing the relationship issues, only aren’t. Learn how survivors can tell the difference between genuine effort from sophisticated manipulation.Is it tricky to distinguish real from fake love? Be sure to check out this week’s podcast extra on how to spot someone lying about their intentions. Get immediate access to this exclu...2025-02-1028 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseWhy Toxic Relationships Always Leave Us Traumatized and Confused: An Interview with Dr. Peter SalernoSend us a textNarcissists know they are being abusive--that they're being manipulative and exploitative. This week, Dr. Peter Salerno is back to discuss his latest book, Traumatizing Cognitive Dissonance. He discusses with Lisa Sonni why abusive relationships with narcissists leave survivors feeling psychologically battered and confused. Are you looking for help battling the mental confusion caused by a narcissist? Dr. Salerno gives practical steps to reduce this mental confusion so that mental clarity and peace are possible again in this week's Substack Breaking Free Podcast Extra. Get immediate access to this and ot...2025-02-0326 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseI desperately love and fear them: The Terrifying Power of a Trauma BondSend us a textCould you be trauma-bonded to a narcissist? Are you battling a strange mix of love and fear? Lisa Sonni joins me this week to discuss trauma bonds--an intense connection to another person that is very difficult to break. We think we feel love when it's based on fear. Learn more about how to recognize if you're trauma-bonded and why it's so difficult to leave. Become a subscriber and get the Podcast Extra exclusive conversation about WHY identifying and breaking a trauma bond is so difficult. substack.com...2024-06-1730 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseReady for the holidays? My three top tips for dealing with difficult relatives and in-lawsSend us a textNarcissist and other difficult people love to ruin the holidays. They will find some way to make it harder on you.In this episode I’m going to offer three of my favorite tips on how to manage this year’s holiday season so that it’s more manageable and meaningful.I'll be back next year for season 2!Register now to 6 Steps to Reclaiming Inner Peace and Confidence. Group coaching with Trey de la Torre and Dr. McAvoy. Next six sessions start January 7th.Follow me on...2022-12-2226 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseWhy does every issue turn into an argument? My partner says I'm the problemSend us a textHave you noticed how narcissists can take a seemingly straightforward decision and turn it into an exhausting, nonsensical circular argument? The constant conflict can mess with us and make us think we’re the problem.In this episode, we will explore this common dynamic, including how to determine who’s creating the problems.Register now to 6 Steps to Reclaiming Inner Peace and Confidence. Group coaching with Trey de la Torre and Dr. McAvoy. Next six sessions start January 7th.Join our community for support after narcissistic abuse? Beco...2022-12-1524 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseIs it healthy to obsess over my past narcissistic partner and what happened to me?Send us a textIt’s become popular to spend time thinking about psychopathic and narcissistic abuses—for us to obsess over what’s happened to us.In this episode, we’ll explore whether this way of thinking is good for us and how to tell if we’re falling into unhealthiness as we try to make sense of the past.Sandra L. Brown Webinar Video Replay. How Could I've Fallen for a Dangerous Man? Watch it here.You don't have to stay locked in the emotional prison from narcissistic abuse. Join this...2022-12-0129 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseHow do I rebuild trust in myself after surviving narcissistic abuse?Send us a textIt’s tough when you first leave a narcissistically abusive relationship. Your partner has made most of the decision, and over time, you’ve given up more and more of yourself, betraying yourself and your sense of safety. How is trust rebuilt?In this episode, we will examine why reclaiming our self-integrity and relying on our intuition is challenging, along with a few practical steps to begin your healing. The interview with Sandra L. Brown, mentioned several times, went fantastic. If you missed it, the replay video is now available for purc...2022-11-2130 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseHow could I've fallen for the narcissist's love-bombing tactics?Send us a textAfter an abusive relationship is over, most victims want to know how they couldn’t have fallen for the narcissist’s love-bombing. They often are blamed for missing the red flags, as if they were naive or, worse yet, stupid.In this episode, we’ll analyze the five elements of love-bombing and what makes each of these strategies so effective."Isn’t Having Sex My Right: Why Sexual Coercion is Abuse"Come listen to a panel of experts, including two psychologists, a pastor, and a reformed husband, discuss...2022-09-2625 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseWhat's wrong with me? Why isn't my partner interested in sex?Send us a textSexual intimacy is a common problem in narcissistically abusive relationships. It's often a sign that the narcissist is becoming disillusioned.In this episode, we address why some couples experience a loss of sexual interest in the bedroom. We'll also explore the defense mechanisms narcissists prefer to use, why hoovering is so prevalent, and what causes so many victims to fear romantic relationships after abuse.Meet the Narcavengers and book an interaction with me at the Austin Meet-up, TXFollow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd2022-09-2226 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseWhat emotional voodoo has the narcissist used to keep me trapped?Send us a textDuring the last months of narcissistic abuse, I knew I was in trouble, yet I couldn’t leave. The paralysis was palpable. A physical pain. In this episode, we’ll explore the psychological reinforcement style used and why this is so paralyzing.Meet the Narcavengers and book a interaction with me at the Austin Meet-up, TXFollow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphdAre you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true...2022-09-1924 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseIf narcissists are born this way, are they responsible for the abuse?Send us a textResearch confirms that narcissism is primarily a biosocial problem, meaning narcissists are born with personality deficits. Is it fair to hold them accountable for the damage they cause? We’ll explore this topic in depth in this podcast episode.If you missed the live webinar with Dr. Milstead, copies of the replay are now available. Meet the Narcavengers and book a interaction with me at the Austin Meet-up, TXFollow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphdAre you looking for community support after na...2022-09-1524 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseShould I let my narcissistic ex come back and be a part of the family?Send us a textNarcissistic exes often return, claiming they’ve changed. They ask to be in a relationship or to rejoin the family. In narcissistic abuse circles, this is called “hoovering.”In this podcast episode, we’ll explore if agreeing to this request is wise, define “breadcrumbing,” and take a closer look at the connection between gaslighting and cognitive dissonance.Get your ticket now! Isn't Having Sex My Right? Webinar with Lisa Sonni.Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphdAre you looking for community support after narcis...2022-09-1236 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseWhy do we keep picking dangerous people as romantic partners?Send us a textThe bad boy stereotype is well-known and, unfortunately, too often true. So why do some of us repeatedly get into a relationship with someone dangerous?In this podcast, we’ll take a closer look at how we confuse intensity for attraction, the ten different personality disorders, and the common problem of the non-apology apology.The Narc and Me’s account on Instagram, and TiktokMeet the Narcavengers and book a interaction with me at the Austin Meet-up, TX--Follow me on Tiktok, Inst...2022-09-0826 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseWhat's wrong with me? Why I can't I leave this toxic relationship?Send us a textA trauma bond is a fear-based connection between abusers and victims. Combine that with the mental confusion of cognitive dissonance, and the victim is stuck.In this podcast episode, we’ll examine why this powerful dynamic makes it so difficult to leave. We’ll also cover the five types of narcissists and the difference between overt and covert narcissism.If you missed the live webinar with Dr. Milstead, copies of the replay are now available. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphdAre you...2022-09-0139 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseMy partner tells me I'm the problem. How do I know I'm not being gaslit?Send us a textGaslighting has become a pretty popular term. Sometimes it’s used properly, but not always. Gaslighting, however, is a common experience of narcissistic abuse victims.In this episode, we’ll discuss the history of gaslighting as well as how it shows up in toxic relationships. We’ll also touch on when does the first symptoms of narcissism make its appearance and how to address our children’s confusion about an uninvolved or missing parent.Toxic-Free Relationship ClubGet $3 off the first three months with the coupon code HEALNOW2...2022-08-2929 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseIs the term narcissism being overused? Aren't all of us a bit narcissistic?Send us a textWith the popularity of social media's focus on narcissism, are we overusing the term? Isn’t everyone a little bit narcissistic? In this episode, we will explore what defines pathological narcissism as well as how to deal with narcissistic loved ones and family members.If you missed the live webinar with Dr. Milstead, copies of the replay are now available. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphdAre you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Wa...2022-08-2526 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseThe trauma bonding has me trapped, and I don't know how to leave!Send us a textThere’s nothing worse than knowing you’re in a bad relationship but can’t leave. What is a trauma bond, and why does it make acting on our behalf so difficult?In this podcast episode, we’ll explore the role mental confusion and fear play in creating an intense bond with the one harming us.If you missed the live webinar with Dr. Milstead, copies of the replay are now available. Other books referenced:Women Who Love Psychopaths by Sandra L. Brown, LCSWWhy Ca...2022-08-2230 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseCan't a narcissist be changed by love or God?Send us a textMost of the time, our everyday problem-solving skills work, but not for those stranded in toxic relationships. In this podcast episode, we will delve into why our love or spiritual intervention often doesn’t help.Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphdAre you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double CrossAvailable here at...2022-08-1830 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseHow I became confused and trapped because of cognitive dissonanceSend us a textI drove to my therapy appointment four years ago, praying and pleading for answers. Something was terribly wrong in my marriage. Should I stay? Or was I being naive for believing our relationship could be fixed?In this podcast episode, I share more of my story and what I know now and wish I’d known then.Get your ticket to the Cognitive Dissonance Live Webinar with Dr. Kristen Milstead!Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphdAre you looking for community support af...2022-08-1537 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseI know I should leave this toxic relationship but why can't I?Send us a textWhat makes it so difficult to leave a toxic relationship? This question is the one I most frequently get asked. So why don’t those trapped in a narcissistically abusive relationship walk out? In this episode, we will discuss the underlying dynamics that make it challenging to end a toxic relationship.Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphdGet your ticket to the Cognitive Dissonance Live Webinar with Dr. Kristen Milstead!Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Re...2022-08-1141 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseIs all this talk about narcissism good? Isn't it demonizing hurting people?Send us a textIs all of this focus on narcissism and narcissists productive? Isn’t it attacking a broken group of people? Could we be demonizing them?In this episode, I tackle this tough topic, the difference between a mental condition and a personality disorder, how to recognize a toxic person on the first meeting, and what to do about a smear campaign.Women Who Love Psychopaths by Sandra L. BrownFollow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphdGet your ticket to the Cognitive Dissonance Live We...2022-08-0827 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseHow do I know I've healed enough from abuse to start dating again?Send us a textSurviving narcissistic abuse is tough enough. How do we know when we are ready to start date again? What are the red flags we should watch out for so we don’t end up in another toxic relationship? In this episode, we will tackle this topic as well as the importance of learning to listen to your gut and why narcissists give such mixed signals.Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphdGet your ticket to the Cognitive Dissonance Live Webinar with Dr. Kristen Milstead!Ar...2022-08-0427 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseSomething is really wrong with this relationship, could I be the narcissist?Send us a textWhen relationships start to go wrong, it’s common for us to wonder if we’re the problem. Especially if there’s been a string of failed relationships. In this replay of a TikTok live, we will take a closer look at this issue as well as discuss how to resolve a trauma bond and start our healing after narcissistic abuse.Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphdAre you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship? Then this is the event for you! Come hear Dr. Mi...2022-08-0129 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseHelp, I'm married to a narcissist and don't know how to get outSend us a textMost of us slowly realize something is wrong in a relationship. We often think the problems are a normal part of a new relationship—we don’t consider that maybe the problem isn’t us but our partner. What should we do when we realize we are in a relationship with a narcissist? How do we get out? In this replay of a TikTok live, we will explore what to do when we feel stuck in a destructive relationship, why we gaslight victims instead of hold predators responsible for their behaviors, dealing with a gasl...2022-07-2834 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseIs there something wrong with me for falling in love with a narcissist?Send us a textNearly every abuse survivor wants to know why they got into a relationship with a narcissist. Are we co-dependent, people-pleasers or could there be another dynamic in play?In this episode we’ll talk about the latest research into this area as well as discuss the definition of marital coercion and how to grow empathy in our children.For more on marital coercion, see Nat’s (@mendingme) account.Are you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship? Then this is the event for you! Come hear Dr...2022-07-2525 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseWondering if you met your soulmate? Here's how narcissists make us fall in loveSend us a textIf narcissists are such awful people, why have so many fallen in love with one? It’s because of the mask. They create an illusion that you’ve met someone just like you. In this episode, we will explore how this happens along with other common narcissistic tactics in this replay of a TikTok live.NarcAvengers' Durham Meet-UpAre you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship? Then this is the event for you! Come hear Dr. Milstead define cognitive dissonance and why it renders us helpless in this...2022-07-2132 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseI think this relationship is killing me. Why does it feel heartless to set boundaries?Send us a textWe often know something is terribly wrong with our relationship. Yet, many abuse survivors struggle to set boundaries. In this episode, we’ll take a closer look at why it’s challenging to do so for victims along with other topics, including how to help a friend who’s being abused and my post-trial thoughts on Amber Heard and Johnny Depp.NarcAvengers' Durham Meet-UpAre you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship? Then this is the event for you! Come hear Dr. Milstead define cognitive dissonance and why it...2022-07-1833 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseWhy can't I tell if I'm in a relationship with someone good or bad?Send us a textNarcissistic abuse victims’ biggest complaint is the confusion. They can’t tell if they have partnered with someone who’s good or bad. In this episode, we’re going to explore what creates the narcissist’s dual sense of self.Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships by Dr. David SchnarchNarcAvengers' Durham Meet-UpAre you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship? Then this is the event for you! Come hear Dr. Milstead define cognitive dissonance and why it renders us helpless in this up...2022-07-1430 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseWhy is it so hard to please someone narcissistic? Am I the problem?Send us a textHave you noticed how difficult it is to manage relationships with a narcissist? Why do things seem to go wrong? Could we be the problem hoping that they would change? What is the cognitive dissonance, the Marsha Mitchell effect, the mask of sanity? We will tackle this issue in a replay of a TikTok live.Are you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship? Then this IS the event for you! Come hear Dr. Milstead define cognitive dissonance and why it renders us helpless in this upcoming live event, "Why...2022-07-0727 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseDo narcissists know they're hurting those who love them? Do they even care?Send us a textAre narcissists aware they are hurting me? Why are they so ruthless? In this episode, we will take a closer look at the predatory nature of many narcissists and sociopaths. Kolhberg's Theory of Moral DevelopmentAre you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship? Then this IS the event for you! Come hear Dr. Milstead define cognitive dissonance and why it renders us helpless in this upcoming live event, "Why Can't I Just Leave?" August 18, 6:30 p.m. ESTBe sure to get your ticket today!2022-06-3030 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseWhat should I do when a narcissistic family member starts to make trouble?Send us a textDo you have a narcissistic family member? Someone who frequently stirs up trouble? Or maybe they insist on doing things their way. What's the best way to navigate these tricky dysfunctional family relationships? We will be addressing this issue on this replay of a TikTok live.Passive-Aggressive Compliment Video Get your ticket to the Cognitive Dissonance Live Webinar with Dr. Kristen Milstead!Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of...2022-06-2725 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseTo avoid being lovebombed by a narcissist, how much is too much to share?Send us a textWhen we meet someone new how much should we share? Predatory people use basic details to create their mask during initial meetings. Should we be more careful in what we reveal to prevent lovebombing? In this episode we will discuss this and other topics on this replay of a TikTok live. Ego Strength videoGet your ticket to the Cognitive Dissonance Live Webinar with Dr. Kristen Milstead!Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to...2022-06-2427 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseHow could I be so stupid to have missed the red flags?Send us a textWhy did we miss the early warning signs that we've met a toxic person? It's common to blame ourselves for this mistake. Most of us, however, don't think to analyze a person's ego strength, but maybe we should. Let's take a closer look at issue in this episode of TikTok live replay.Want to know what the 12 areas of ego strengths are? Check out this video!Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true...2022-06-1724 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseIs it my fault that I'm trapped in a narcissistic abusive relationship?Send us a textAre victims to blame for getting trapped in a narcissistic abusive relationship. And why do we struggle to hold healthy boundaries? These are a couple of the issues addressed in this podcast episode.Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double CrossAvailable here at the following online stores.And be sure to...2022-06-1327 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseAm I a narcissist if I want to be special? To have others understand me?Send us a textHow do we find support when we come from a narcissistic home? Is it wrong to want to be seen as special? These are the types of questions addressed in this podcast episode.Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double CrossAvailable here at the following online stores.And be sure to sign up...2022-06-0325 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseCould this friendship be narcissistic or does abuse only happen in love relationships?Send us a textDoes narcissistic abuse only happen in love relationships or can it happen in other kinds of relationships or communities? Dr. McAvoy tackles this question in this episode.Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double CrossAvailable here at the following online stores.And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism...2022-05-3127 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseWhat’s wrong with me that I can’t leave this toxic relationship?Send us a textWhy is it so hard to leave a toxic relationship? What does a trauma bond have to do with it? Dr. McAvoy addresses this issue in this episode. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double CrossAvailable here at the following online stores.And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving...2022-05-2727 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseCould I be the one with the problem? Maybe I'm overreacting.Send us a textDo you wonder if you're being too sensitive? Maybe you're overreacting to your partner's behavior. Perhaps you're the one with the problem. In this episode, Dr. McAvoy answers these and TikTok listeners' other questions about narcissism and narcissistic abuse.YOU MIGHT ALSO BE INTERESTED INAre you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double CrossAvailable...2022-05-231h 03
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseMy narcissistic partner says they're working hard to change. Am I silly to believe them?Send us a textDo narcissists change? What realizable expectations should we have? In this episode, we will address this question along with other listener-related concerns.Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double CrossAvailable here at the following online storesAnd be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises!...2022-05-201h 01
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseHelp! My ex is using the legal system to abuse me!Send us a textNarcissistic abuse doesn't end when the relationship is over. Many narcissistic exes find new ways to abuse their former partners, including using the legal system. In this episode of a TikTok live replay, we will explore how to protect yourself better, along with addressing other listeners' questions. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double CrossAvailable h...2022-05-1654 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseI’m stressed and overwhelmed--is this cognitive dissonance?Send us a textWhat is cognitive dissonance? Victims of narcissistic abuse complain that they are in agonizing pain due to this psychological state. In this episode, we'll take a closer look at this psychological concept along with answering other TikTok audiences' questions. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double CrossAvailable here at the following online stores.2022-05-1359 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseAm I co-dependent if I've fallen for a narcissist?Send us a textHave you wondered what's wrong with you for falling for a narcissist? Listen as we discuss this along with other topics related to narcissistic abuse.Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double CrossAvailable here at the following online stores.And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips...2022-05-091h 08
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseWho's more narcissistic: men or women?Send us a textIn this episode, we will explore the gender differences among NPD, define what is a narcissistic discard, and identify the early signs of grooming. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double CrossAvailable here at the following online stores.And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises!2022-05-061h 10
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseIs this “thing” I feel what's called a trauma bond?Send us a textIn this episode, we take a closer look at trauma bonds as well as explore several excellent resources on understanding the ins & outs of toxic relationships. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double CrossAvailable here at the following online stores.And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & e...2022-05-021h 08
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseIs this relationship asking too much of me?Send us a textWhat's reasonable to expect from a relationship? How do you know when you're giving too much of yourself or doing too much for another person? Listen in as we explore these and other questions in today's episode. A replay of the April 6th webinar How to Recognize and Overcome Narcissistic Abuse is now available here!Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?LOVE YOU MORE: The H...2022-04-2957 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseWhy can't I relax after surviving narcissistic abuse?Send us a textAre you struggling to slow down, unwind, and relax? Are you easily startled? These are signs of an overexcited nervous system and common after narcissistic abuse. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double CrossAvailable here at the following online stores.And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & e...2022-04-2555 min
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseWhat? I have basic emotional rights?Send us a textDid you know you have basic emotional rights? Today, we explore an emotional Bill of Rights created by Dr. Lindsay Gibson. You can find a copy of those rights in her book called Self Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double CrossAvailable here at the following online s...2022-04-221h 08
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseAre you being groomed by a narcissist?Send us a textIn this episode Dr. McAvoy addresses many issues, including the process of how narcissists groom their next victim.Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double CrossAvailable here at the following online stores.And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Hosted on Acast. See...2022-04-181h 20
Breaking Free from Narcissistic AbuseManaging Healthy Boundaries: What are They?Send us a textIn this episode, we discuss boundaries in narcissistic abuse. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double CrossAvailable here at the following online stores.And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.B...2022-04-1556 min
My Messy MuseEpisode 53- Poetry for Young ReadersIn this Episode we discuss poetry for young readers, from picture books to middle-grade, with traditionally published authors, Chris Baron, Michelle Schaub, and Angela Shanté. Be sure to join the My Messy Muse community on Facebook at www.facebook.com/groups/mymessymuse If you are interested in a picture a school visit or other speaking opportunity with host Michele McAvoy, please visit her website at www.michelemcavoy.com/workwithme Follow host Michele McAvoyTwitter: @michele_mcavoyInstagram: @michelemcavoy2021-07-2738 minMy Messy MuseEpisode 52- Kidlit BITS #4- Teachers Pay TeachersKidlit BITs- Bite Sized Informational Takeaways! On this Episode learn about how to get your FREE book resources into the hands of teachers. If you are not already a member, be sure to join the My Messy Muse community on Facebook to continue the conversation and meet like minded individuals who also love #kidlit. www.facebook.com/groups/mymessymuse Follow the creator and host, Michele McAvoy, and her journey as an author, educator, and children's book publisher. Michele's titles include BUCKINGHAM GETS A NEW SHELL (2021); COOKIE & MILK (2019); THE GORILLA PICKED ME! (2018), and MY S...2021-04-2252 minMy Messy MuseEpisode 51- 2020 Year in Review, Picture Books!Celebrate Picture Books! 2020 was a difficult year for everyone yet beautiful books published. In this Episode, we celebrate new picture books that released in 2020. We celebrate their authors, illustrators, stories, and journeys. If you are not already a member, be sure to join the My Messy Muse community on Facebook to continue the conversation and meet like minded individuals who also love #kidlit. www.facebook.com/groups/mymessymuse Follow the creator and host, Michele McAvoy, and her journey as an author, educator, and children's book publisher. Michele's titles include BUCKINGHAM GETS A NEW SH...2021-04-2252 minMy Messy MuseEpisode 50- Self Publishing: Should I or Shouldn't I?You desperately want to be published. You have your story, you think it's perfect, do you try the traditional route or do you self-publish? In this My Messy Muse kidlit podcast Episode 50, Michele McAvoy interviews April Cox, a successful self-published kidlit author who works with other kidlit writers to help them see their dream of publication, with her company Self Publishing Made Simple. Be sure to join the My Messy Muse community on Facebook at www.facebook.com/groups/mymessymuse to connect with others who love children's literature. Host and creator, Michele McAvoy, i...2020-12-2732 minMy Messy MuseEpisode 49- Writing Holiday BooksHave a winter holiday idea but think that market is too crowded? Have a holiday story manuscript but don't know when the best time to shop it is? Have a new holiday books, but don't know how to get started marketing during such a crazy time. In this Episode 49 of the My Messy Muse #kidlit podcast Michele McAvoy will help answer many of your holiday book questions. She sits down for a Coffee & Craft Roundtable Chat with kidlit authors Patricia Toht, Karen Rostoker-Gruber, and Nancy Churnin to discuss all things holiday books. Advice from the e...2020-12-2634 minMy Messy Muse#TeacherFeature: Flip Grid Part II: Connecting Authors + StudentsIn this #TeacherFeature Part II of Flipgrid for authors with Educator Collaborator & Flipgrid ambassador, Nicole Mancini (aka "Miss Nikki") we dive a little bit deeper into how to use the platform to connect with students. Flipgrid is a great way to market your book and get in front of the kids that love them! If you enjoy this Episode be sure to listen to Episode 47 (part 1) of FlipGrid. Also, please leave a comment below. We continue these kidlit conversations online in the My Messy Muse Facebook groups. More resources there as well. Be sure to jo...2020-12-0744 min
Food Bullying PodcastWhy isn't food raised the way it used to be?Social media memes and marketing messages often ring nostalgic for how things used to be on the farm. But were the “good old days” really better? In this episode we chat with fruit and vegetable expert Gene McAvoy about how farming used to work (and how it still works in some parts of the world) and how research has made farming better. Gene McAvoy is currently the Associate Director for Stakeholder Relations at the University of Florida Southwest Florida Research and Education Center and previously served with UF IFAS Extension as regional specialized vegetable extension agent in SW Flo...2020-08-3125 minMy Messy MuseEpisode 47- #TeacherFeature- FlipGrid 101 For Authors & EducatorsFlipgrid 101 for Authors & Educators. Have you heard of Flipgrid? Authors, ever wonder how you could use Flipgrid to connect with your young audience? Educators, ever wonder how to use Flipgrid to connect your students with authors and other creatives? This is your Episode! FlipGrid 101 will give you the basics of Flipgrid. You will learn how to sign up, create grids and create topics. You will learn why Flipgrid is so powerful for connecting students with authors and why it's amazing for virtual learning. Sign up for Flipgrid: info.flipgrid.com Follow & Co...2020-08-2947 minMy Messy MuseEpisode 46- NerdCamp for Kidlit ExplainedEver heard of Nerdcamp? What is a Nerdcamp? What's all the rave? How can you present at a Nerdcamp? In this My Messy Muse Episode, I tell you what NerdCamps are, how to register, how to get yourself on a panel, and what to expect the day of. This Episode will take the mystery out of NerdCamps and allow you to explore without anxiety. Don't miss out on other kidlit nuggets to help you on your journey! Be sure to join the My Messy Muse community on Facebook at www.facebook.com/groups/mym...2020-07-2040 minMy Messy Muse#TeacherFeature- Distance Learning During the Pandemic RoundtableA roundtable discussion about "crisis" learning during Covid-19 with special guests Cornelius Minor (literacy equity expert, educator, & author), Kelly Gallagher (science teacher), and Elaine Mendez (vice-principal) with Nicole Mancini (5th grade ELA teacher and My Messy Muse educator collaborator) at the helm. This is a "do not miss" episode for everyone to understand the perspective of educators and administrators during this trying time. Cornelius Minor - @MisterMinor Author of "We Got This"- with Heinemann Publisher Kelly Gallagher - @GallagherLHS Elaine Mendez - @ElemCoach Follow Educator Collaborator Nicole Mancini on Twitter @MissNikkiIn5th Be sure to join the My Messy...2020-04-3049 minMy Messy MuseEpisode 44- Pinterest 101 for Creatives with Debbie GonzalesPinterest 101 for Creatives. Did you know that Pinterest is a fantastic tool to grow your author platform and sell books! Learn how to use Pinterest to your advantage as an author. It's not just for finding cool recipes! Part of a series on Building your Author Platform. In this Episode Pinterest expert and children's book author Debbie Gonzales walks us through how to develop our Pinterest accounts for business use and author promotion. Debbie Gonzales is a career educator, curriculum consultant, former school administrator and adjunct professor, a podcaster (The Debcast), and past SCBWI RA fo...2020-04-0852 minMy Messy MuseEpisode 43- Kidlit BITS #3- Keeping Momentum During QuarantineFriends, what a messy time we are living in right now. The Corona outbreak may have disrupted your author/illustrator momentum, but we can take some of that momentum back. What should you be doing right now during quarantine for your author/illustrator business? This Episode will give you some quick things to consider to keep things moving for your career. Also, please join us in the My Messy Muse FB group to have contact and connection during this difficult time. www.facebook.com/groups/mymessymuse Follow host Michele McAvoy on Twitter @michele_mca...2020-03-2213 minMy Messy MuseEpisode 42- #TeacherFeature Navigating Distance Learning with Miss Nikki & Special GuestsWhat a crazy and scary time it is! Right now schools are closed across the country and we try to flatten the curve of the spread of Covid-19. Educators are thrown a curveball and forced to teach their students virtually. Listen here for insights and support on how to navigate distance learning through this difficult time with My Messy Muse Educator Collaborator Nicole Mancini and special guests Ken Kunz and Shalonda Archibald. Ken Kunz Twitter @DrKennethKunz https://www.fortheloveofliteracy.net/ https://www.njliteracy.org/ Shalonda Archibald @born_to_educate https://www.njliteracy.org/ You can...2020-03-2032 minMy Messy MuseEpisode 40- Kidlit BITS #2 (Swag)Kidlit BITS- bite sized informational takeaways. Little things Michele learns long away. Paying it forward to her Kidlit community. Learn more about host Michele McAvoy at www.michelemcavoy.com Follow Michele on Twitter @michele_mcavoy and Instagram @michelemcavoy 2020-02-2012 minMy Messy MuseEpisode 39- President's Day Interview with Author Eileen MeyerEileen Meyer writes picture books and poetry. Her works include The Superlative A. Lincoln: Poems About Our 16th President (Charlesbridge) – a 2020 ILLINOIS READS selection for grades 3-5; Sweet Dreams, Wild Animals, and other titles. Eileen loves visiting schools and working with K-8 students. She enjoys sharing programs with educators, recently presenting at the 2019 IRC, AISLE, and NCTE conferences. Eileen is a long-time member of SCBWI. For information about school programs, please visit www.EileenMeyerBooks.com and contact Eileen. Be sure to join the My Messy Muse community on Facebook at www.facebook.com/groups/mymessymuse If you ar...2020-02-1735 minMy Messy MuseEpisode 38- #Classroom Speed-dating with Author Alastair HeimOur most popular segment #Classroom Speeddating is back with Author Alastair Heim. Listen in as we put Alastair in the hot seat to answer lots and lots of questions from elementary school students. You will learn everything there is to know about good ol' Alastair. lol! Alastair Heim is the author of the picture books LOVE YOU TOO, NO TOOTING AT TEA, THE GREAT PUPPY INVASION which won the 2019 Oklahoma Redbud Read-Aloud Award, HELLO, DOOR which was chosen as one of The New York Public Library’s Best Books of 2018 and listed on The 2019 Best Books for Fam...2020-02-0448 minMy Messy MuseEpisode 37- It's a #BookClub Wrap!- Interview with Skylark & Wallcreeper Author, Anne O'Brien CarelliWe wrap up our very first My Messy Muse #Bookclub read of- SKYLARK & WALLCREEPER! Listen to this interview with MG author Anne O'Brien Carelli as she answers all of our burning questions. Anne O'Brien Carelli is the author of adult nonfiction, the Middle- Grade book Skylark and Wallcreeper, and the picture book Amina's New Friends. She has always been fascinated by the French Resistance, and studied history at Case Western Reserve University. For her PhD, Anne researched psychology of the gifted. Originally from Ann Arbor, Michigan, Anne lives in the Hudson River Valley in upstate New York and...2020-01-2141 minMy Messy MuseEpisode 36- Interview with Gretchen Brandenburg McLellan (picture book)Gretchen Brandenburg McLellan is a former elementary reading specialist who now devotes herself to writing for children and visiting schools. She is the author of Mrs. McBee Leaves Room 3, Grace Zong ill. (Peachtree), I’m Done! Catherine Lazar Odell ill. (Holiday House) and Button and Bundle, Gillian Flint ill. (Knopf). When Your Daddy’s a Soldier, E.B. Lewis ill. (Beach Lane) and No Party Poopers!, Lucy Semple ill. (Little Bee) will appear in 2020. She writes chapter books and middle-grade fiction as well. Gretchen grew up as a global nomad, daughter of a career Army officer, and lived...2020-01-0632 minMy Messy MuseEpisode 35- Kidlit BITS #1 ("Bite Sized Informational Takeaways")My Messy Muse Kidlit BITS, Bite-sized Information Takeaways, tells you the small things we learn along the way. Why not share with friends? Small things can have a big impact. Learn more about host, Michele McAvoy, at www.michelemcavoy.com If you are interested in a school visit with host Michele McAvoy, please visit her website at www.michelemcavoy.com/workwithme Follow host Michele McAvoyTwitter: @michele_mcavoyInstagram: @michelemcavoy "Bringing Color to a Messy World" 2019-12-2305 minMy Messy Muse#TeacherFeature with Miss Nikki (host)- NCTE Discussion with Sarah Cannon (author) and Julie GuthrieListen in to our first Teacher Feature with My Messy Muse Educator Collaborator, Nicole Mancini - aka Miss Nikki as she leads a discussion with middle-grade author Sarah Cannon and 2018 NJ Teacher of the Year Julie Guthrie. What happens at NCTE. How can educators and authors collaborate? Be sure to join the My Messy Muse community on Facebook at www.facebook.com/groups/mymessymuse If you are interested in a school visit with host Michele McAvoy, please visit her website at www.michelemcavoy.com/workwithme Follow host Michele McAvoyTwitter: @m...2019-12-2144 minMy Messy MuseInterview with Jess Redman Middle Grade AuthorInterview with Middle-Grade author Jess Redman. Her debut, The Miraculous, published with FSG/Macmillan on July 30, 2019 and received a starred review from Kirkus. Her second middle-grade novel, QUINTESSENCE, will be out in May, 2020. Jess is from Florida. Aside from being an author, she is also therapist, adjunct professor of psychology and mom of young children, and an old cat named Soul Pie. Find out more about Jess at www.jessredman.com and follow her on Twitter @Jess_Red or Instagram @Jess_Red Be sure to join the My Messy Muse community on Facebook a...2019-11-1829 minMy Messy MuseEpisode 32- Interview with Patricia Toht (picture book author)Patricia Toht is a children's book author from Chicago, Illinois. She is the author of four picture books – ALL ABOARD THE LONDON BUS (illustrated by Sam Usher), DRESS LIKE A GIRL (illustrated by Lorian Tu), and PICK A PINE TREE and PICK A PUMPKIN (illustrated by Jarvis) which both received starred reviews. She has two additional forthcoming titles. You can find out more about Patricia, her titles and her school visits at www.patriciatoht.com You can follow her on Twitter @PatriciaToht To join the My Messy Muse community and chat and learn with other...2019-10-3133 minMy Messy MuseMy Messy Muse- Episode 31- #TeacherFeature with Educator Nicole ManciniThis #TeacherFeature with Nicole Mancini (a.k.a.- Miss Nikki), My Messy Muse's official Educator Collaborator, discusses book clubs in the classroom! What is a book club? How to organize a book club? How to get the kids excited to do book clubs? Lots of great tips in this #TeacherFeature! Book clubs are another great way to build relationships between authors and educators. Miss Nikki teaches fifth grade English Language Arts at Bedminster Township School District. She graduated from Washington College in 2002 as a triple major in English, education, and gender studies. She earned a Masters o...2019-10-1130 min
Language During MealtimeInterview with Michele McAvoy, author of Cookie & MilkToday I will be interviewing Michele McAvoy. Michele McAvoy is an inspirational speaker & award-winning children’s book author from New Jersey. She loves bringing joy to children through her own stories. Michele’s books are uplifting and colorful and are meant to help children navigate through the natural bumps and curves of life. She has written three children’s books which include My Superhero Grandpa and The Gorilla Picked me.
Her next picture book, Cookie & Milk with Cardinal Rule Press, releases October 1. Cookie & Milk was selected as a Top Shelf Title with IPG.
Check...2019-09-2430 min
My Messy MuseEpisode 30- Interview with AnnieBird Music- KidLit Music Artist Annie Lynn is a songwriter from Pennsylvania. She is the President and Chief Composer at AnnieBirdd Music, LLC. She began writing songs when she was 14 while acting in Shakespeare’s “A Midsummer’s Night Dream.” At 14 she wrote a nature song entitled “Listen,” that was shown on CBS. Today, Annie writes songs for children including her multi-award-winning song- "No Time for Hate," “That’s All There Is,” "Listen - a nature song;" "STOP THAT! - A Bullying Prevention Song;" and "New School." She also writes songs for children's books including a fabulous song for author Patrick Adams called "Ama...2019-09-2231 min
My Messy MuseMy Messy Muse Episode 29- Writing for Children From TragedyOn the Anniversary of 9/11 we recognize that tragedy can and does strike, and that bad things happen to good people- good people in our kidlit community. This episode reflects on my own personal tragedy which propelled me to write, to eventually write through the sadness and to eventually write colorful, joyful books for children. On My Messy Muse we talk about writing through the messiness of life. Some folks have daily messy, like juggling kids, work and activities. And, some folks have heavier messy. Whatever your messiness may be, know that you are not alone. Know...2019-09-1117 min
My Messy MuseEpisode 28- Interview with Jodi McKayJodi McKay lives in Grosse Pointe Farms, Michigan with her husband, son, and a couple of furry friends. She has two books published by Albert Whitman & Co., WHERE ARE THE WORDS? (2016) and, PENCIL’S PERFECT PICTURE (2019). Jodi is the PAL coordinator and soon to be co-regional advisor for SCBWI-MI. She is represented by Linda Epstein of Emerald City Literary Agency. Find out more about Jodi at www.jodimckaybooks.com Follow her on Twitter @jlmckay1 or Instagram @jodimckay1 Be sure to join the My Messy Muse community on Facebook at www.facebook.com/groups/mym...2019-07-2328 min
My Messy MuseEpisode 27- Interview with Julie Gonzalez Picture Book AuthorJulie Gonzalez is a children's book author living in the Pocono Mountains, Pennsylvania. In a past life, she was a 3rd-grade teacher in New Jersey. Her debut How Could a Bear Sleep Here? with Holiday House released 2018. You can find out more about Julie at www.juliegonzalez.com You can follow Julie on Twitter at @JulieGz123 Be sure to join the My Messy Muse community on Facebook at www.facebook.com/groups/mymessymuse If you are interested in a school visit with host Michele McAvoy, pleasevisit her website at www.michelemcavoy.com...2019-07-1638 min
My Messy MuseInterview with Graphic Novelist & Cartoonist Jarod Rosello (Middle Grade)JAROD ROSELLÓ is a Cuban American cartoonist, writer, and teacher originally from Miami, Florida. He holds an MFA in creative writing and a Ph.D. in curriculum and instruction from Penn State University. He is the author and artist of The Well-Dressed Bear Will (Never) be Found, the middle-grade graphic novel Red Panda & Moon Bear, with Top Shelf Comix and the forthcoming, Those Bears also with Top Shelf Comix. He teaches in the creative writing program at the University of South Florida in Tampa. You can follow Jarod on Twitter @jarodrosello Be sure to join the...2019-06-1827 min
My Messy MuseMy Messy Muse-Episode 25- Interview with Holly Niner (picture book author)Holly Niner is children's picture book author with four published titles. Her books include No More Noisy Nights and The Day I Ran Away both with Flashlight Press and both received a Gold Mom’s Choice award and were nominated for Mississippi Magnolia Children’s Choice award 2019. No More Noisy Nights was a Scholastic Book Club selection and featured on Storyline Online. Mr. Worry: A Story about OCD (Albert Whitman) received the 2005 IBBY Outstanding Books for Young People with Disabilities Award, and I Can’t Stop: A Story about Tourette Syndrome (Albert Whitman) received a 2006 Oppenhe...2019-06-0430 min
My Messy MuseMy Messy Muse-Episode 24-Interview with Wendy Swore (Middle Grade Author)Wendy Swore is a middle-grade author with her debut novel released March 2019, A MONSTER LIKE ME, published with Shadow Mountain. A MONSTER LIKE ME is a story about self-acceptance and bullying and we celebrate this story and Wendy's personal story on My Messy Muse in honor of Children's Mental Health Awareness Month. Wendy S Swore lives on a farm with a corn maze and pumpkin patch that is home to her five kids, two dogs, two geese, seven peacocks, eleven ducks, nineteen cats, and two hundred thirty-seven chickens. She farms in the summers, writes in the winters, a...2019-05-2125 min
My Messy MusePersonal Branding with Kidlit Specialist Oanh JordanWhat are the biggest mistakes we make in kidlit marketing? Oanh Jordan, a brand strategist and the founder of Tiny Triumph Co., a literary marketing consulting firm in Portland, Oregon, provides her insight into kidlit marketing & personal branding. Oanh spent over 10 years as a Marketing & Sales Director for a prestigious engineering firm before deciding to spend time at home with her littles. Itching to get back to her profession, Oanh turned her sights to the kidlit world. Oanh now focuses her marketing & branding expertise on kidlit, teaching children's lit authors and illustrators how to stand ou...2019-05-1424 min
My Messy MuseMy Messy Muse- Episode 22- Interview with Andria Rosenbaum (Picture Book Author)In honor of Holocaust Remembrance Day, an interview with Picture Book Author Andria Warmflash Rosenbaum. Andria has 6 published picture books, her most recent book HAND IN HAND, is an early introduction for children to the Holocaust. Andria has been a member of SCBWI for more years than she can remember. When Andria's not writing, she's walking her dog, baking ideas, photographing flowers, or having a dance party with her grandchildren. She hunts for picture book ideas from her home in New Jersey. You can follow her on Twitter @andriawrose You can learn more ab...2019-05-0626 min
My Messy MuseEpisode 21- KINDI Interview with Dan Saks Creator of Noodle Loaf Children's Top-Rated PodcastInterview with Dan Saks creator and host of the top-rated interactive music podcast for kids, Noodle Loaf! Dan is a father, a musician and a music educator trained in the Orff-Shulwerk approach to music education. He records his podcast from his home in Switzerland. Noodle Loaf invites the family to join together for some creative fun. The show is geared for kids 3-9 years old but kids of all ages get into it (including grown-up kids! lol!) Listen to hear how Dan finds inspiration to create his weekly podcast. How he went from in-classroom educator in...2019-04-2923 min
My Messy MuseMy Messy Muse- Episode 20- #LibrarianLessons with Ilana Bachrach-In celebration of Autism Awareness Month, Ilana Bachrach the media specialist with Spectrum360, a school for children and adolescents across the full spectrum of autism and with behavioral and related disabilities, opens our minds to offering author school visits for children with special needs. In this Episode, you will hear pointers on structuring your visits including questions to ask your school contact about your presentation. You can find out more about Spectrum360 at www.spectrum360.org If you are a media specialist you may also enjoy other #LibrarianLessons Episodes, including Episode 7 with Media...2019-04-1525 min
My Messy MuseEpisode 19- Interview with Sally J. Pla (author)Sally J. Pla is the award-winning author of the acclaimed middle-grade novels THE SOMEDAY BIRDS and STANLEY WILL PROBABLY BE FINE, and the picture book, BENJI, THE BAD DAY, & ME. Her books are Junior Library Guild Selections with starred reviews, and they have appeared on many awards lists and “best books” roundups. The Someday Birds received the 2018 Dolly Gray Award, which recognizes the portrayal of disability in children's literature. Sally has appeared on television and radio as an author and autism advocate. She believes in kindness, respect, and the beauty of different brains—We are all stars shining with...2019-04-0827 min
Dream Gardens: Talking Up the Children's Books We LoveAre You There God? It’s Me, Margaret by Judy Blume: an interview with author Michele McAvoy
Podcast #050
For my fiftieth Dream Gardens kid lit podcast, I interviewed author Michele McAvoy about her favorite children’s book, the classic novel Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret, written by Judy Blume.
Originally published in 1970, Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret tells the story of eleven year old Margaret Simon, whose family has just moved from New York City to the suburbs of New Jersey. Margret must now navigate through the treacherous waters of finding new friends and dealing with puberty, all the while trying to figure out whether she sh...2019-04-0128 min
My Messy MuseEpisode 18- Interview with Diana Murray, Children's Book AuthorDiana Murray is a children's book author of 10+ titles including, One Snowy Day (SourceBooks); City Shapes (Little Brown); Grimelda the Witch series (Harper Collins); Summer Color (Little Brown); Pizza Pig (Random House); Ned the Knitting Pirate (Roaring Brook/Macmillan); Groggle's Monster Valentine (Sky Pony) and her upcoming Unicorn Day with Sourcebooks. She also has 5 more books coming in 2020- Double the Dinosaurs (Step-into-Reading/Random House, 2020); Goodnight, Veggies Illustrated by Zach OHora (HMH, Spring 2020); Five Fuzzy Chicks (Imprint/Macmillan, 2020); Wild About Dads (Imprint/Macmillan, 2020); Sleep, Little Dozer (Random House, 2020) Diana tells us about how she when from a li...2019-04-0125 min
My Messy MuseEpisode 17- Interview with Middle-Grade Author Jarrett LernerJarrett Lerner is the middle-grade author of EngiNerds and its sequel, Revenge of the EngiNerds, as well as the forthcoming Geeger the Robot series (all published by Simon & Schuster/Aladdin). He cofounded and helps run the MG Book Village, an online hub for all things Middle Grade, and is the co-organizer of the #KidsNeedBooks and #KidsNeedMentors programs. Jarrett can be found at jarrettlerner.com, on Twitter at @Jarrett_Lerner, and on Instragram at @jarrettlerner. He lives in Medford, Massachusetts, with his wife, his daughter, and a cat. Be sure to join the My...2019-03-2537 min
My Messy MuseEpisode 16- #LibrarianLessons with Media Specialist Bibiana PradaBibiana Prada, teacher, and media specialist for 20+ years and co-founder of EdCamp Urban and Ed Camp After Hours, gives advice on how to find grant money to stack your stacks! No longer be intimidated about asking for money. Ask away and fill your library with beautiful books! Follow Bibiana Prada on Twitter @bookgirl614 Bibiana Prada, teacher, and media specialist for 20+ years and co-founder of EdCamp Urban and Ed Camp After Hours, gives advice on how to find grant money to stack your stacks! No longer be intimidated about asking for money. Ask...2019-03-1821 min
My Messy MuseEpisode 15- Interview with Laurie Wallmark Nonfiction Picture Book AuthorLaurie Wallmark is children's picture book author with three published non-fiction titles: Ada Byron Lovelace and the Thinking Machine (Creston Books, 2015)- Starred Reviews from Kirkus, Publisher's Weekly, Booklist, School Library Journal; Grace Hopper Queen of Computer Code (Sterling, 2017)- Kirkus Starred Review Parents' Choice Gold Medal Bank Street Best Ch. Books; and Hedy Lamarr’s Double Life (Sterling, 2019) (released February 5th!) Laurie has an MFA in Writing for Children and Young Adults from Vermont College of Fine Arts as well as degrees in biochemistry and information systems. When she is not writing she teaches courses on wri...2019-03-0829 min
My Messy MuseEpisode 13- To Conference or Not to Conference? That is the Question.To Conference or Not to Conference? That is the Question. In this Episode, Michele McAvoy will discuss the conferences she plans to attend. She will provide suggestions and advice on #kidlit conferences, both traditional, online and free! Material discussed in this Episode. Traditional Conferences: www.scbwi.org https://www.scbwi.org/regional-chapters-new/ https://kidlitconprovidence2019.com http://www.kidlit411.com/2013/12/kidlit411-conferences-workshops.html https://www.highlightsfoundation.org https://www.bookpassage.com/childrens-book-writers-illustrators-conference https://www.stonybrook.edu/southampton/mfa/clc/index.h...2019-02-2527 min
My Messy MuseMy Messy Muse- Episode 12- Interview with Lakita Wilson SCBWI On the Verge Emerging Voices AwardLakita Wilson is the recipient of a 2017 SCBWI "On the Verge Emerging Voices Award" for her middle-grade contemporary fiction manuscript, BOOKS LIKE ME. Lakita is an MFA student at Vermont College of Fine Arts- Writing for Children and Young Adults. She writes picture books, middle grade and hopes to dabble in Young adult fiction someday. She is a full-time faculty member, teaching in the Teacher Education Department at Prince George's Community College in Maryland. Lakita currently runs a social media account entitled The SweetPea Girls where she promotes diverse children's books and marginalized writers and...2019-02-1637 min
My Messy MuseMy Messy Muse- Episode 11- #TeacherFeature with 5th Grade Educator Erin VarleyMy Messy Muse- Episode 11- #TeacherFeature with 5th Grade Educator Erin Varley 5th Grade Educator (for 12 years!) Erin Varley shares her and her students favorite book activities. Erin is active in the kidlit community and expands upon her book knowledge and authors resources to provide her students with a fun range of activities. A Printable Take-Away Pamphlet highlighting the activities from this Episode and pictures for guidance can be found in our private My Messy Muse Facebook Community www.facebook.com/groups/mymessymuse TEACHERS & LIBRARIANS DON’T MISS OUT! TOP 5 ACTIVITIES 1. To...2019-02-0927 min
My Messy MuseMy Messy Muse- Episode 10- Interview with Leslie C. YoungbloodLeslie C. Youngblood is an award-winning middle-grade author with Disney Hyperion. Her debut novel Love Like Sky released November 6, 2018. In this My Messy Muse interview Leslie tells us about her favorite character to write and the character with whom she most identifies. She talks about her journey to publication and how her Love Like Sky characters tugged at her to be taken out of her adult fiction work and onto the pages of their own book. Thank goodness Leslie listened! Her debut middle-grade novel Love Like Sky has received numerous accolades and for good reason! ...2019-02-0133 min
My Messy MuseEpisode 9- Interview with Hannah Carmona Dias- Picture Book AuthorPlease join us in the My Messy Muse private community on Facebook at facebook.com/groups/mymessymuse Are you a picture book writer interested in a critique? Michele is currently open for picture book critiques. Please visit her at www.michelemcavoy.com/workwithme. Are you a teacher, librarian or principal interested in a school visit? For information on school visits, please visit Michele at www.michelemcavoy.com/workwithme Hannah Carmona Dias is a children's book author. Her debut children's book "Beautiful Wonderful Strong Little Me" released in September 2018 with Eifrig Publishing. Her second...2019-01-2524 min
My Messy MuseEpisode 8- Twitter for Kidlit TalentIn this Episode Michele discusses how to use Twitter to grow your kidlit network and socialize with other kidlit talent and fans. Whether you're just starting out or a veteran in the kidlit industry, you will learn something from this Episode. Twitter is a proverbial playground for kidlit talent, take a listen to learn how to get in the game and play. Remember to also join the My Messy Muse private Facebook community to interact and mingle with other kidlit fans like you as well as be eligible for exclusive giveaways like autographed books every month! www...2019-01-1856 min
My Messy MuseEpisode 7- Interview with Kathie Maclsaac Children's Librarian and MG Book Village Co-FounderKathie Maclsaac Children's Librarian and co-founder of MG Book Village provides ideas for engaging children for Multicultural Children's Book Day, January 25th. Kathie shares with listeners one of her most successful activities she uses to engage her young patrons at the library. The activity is great for teacher and librarians looking for something fun on Multicultural Children's Book Day, a day to bring attention to all of the amazing children’s books available that celebrate diversity. https://multiculturalchildrensbookday.com https://mgbookvillage.org Activity- Book Passport: Create a small notebook for each student. Students ear...2019-01-1115 min
My Messy MuseMy Messy Muse Episode 5Don’t miss this interview with Stephanie Hansen, senior agent and owner of Metamorphosis Literary Agency as she answers all of your agent/publishing questions. Stephanie will open up for queries from December 17, 2018 through December 21, 2019 for My Messy Muse members ONLY. It’s free to join the My Messy Muse community. Please visit us on Facebook at www.facebook.com/groups/mymessymuse/ 1. You must be a My Messy Muse member to submit (she will have a members list.) 2. You must put “My Messy Muse Member” in the subject line of your query. 3. sub...2018-12-1533 min