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The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingProfessor Ben Hine - Part 3 - Extended Family Support, Legal System and The Future of Parental AlienationIn this podcast episode, we delve into the second half of the book "Parental Alienation: A Contemporary Guide for Parents, Practitioners, and Policymakers." We explore common mistakes made by parents during divorce that exacerbate parental alienation. The discussion highlights how societal norms and expectations influence these behaviors, often unintentionally leading to harmful outcomes.One of the key points emphasized is the need to challenge stereotypes and re-evaluate the rules of engagement surrounding separation and divorce. While some behaviors may seem harmless or natural in the midst of emotional turmoil, they can contribute to a...2024-05-1355 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingGetting Real on Custody Issues with Kindra RiberKindra Riber, your co-host of this podcast, was interviewed by the ladies on Obsessed. This podcast focuses on the real struggle of parents who are alienated from their children during divorce. This has been a Mediacasters Production. 2024-04-2134 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingFrom Law Enforcement to Family Court: A Journey of Resilience and Advocacy with Tom FlynnTom, a law enforcement officer for 27 years, shares his harrowing journey through a brutal divorce filled with false accusations of domestic violence. He unveils a shocking statistic: nearly 1 in 3 law enforcement officers facing divorce encounter such accusations, highlighting the depth of manipulation during family disputes.His narrative delves into the hidden vulnerabilities within law enforcement, revealing the adverse impact of domestic violence allegations on officers' careers and finances. Tom reflects on his transition from enforcer to falsely accused, shedding light on the immediate repercussions officers face in such situations....2024-04-061h 03
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingBe Your Own Lawyer During Your Custody Case with Leslie AlexiIn this episode of the podcast, we delve into the complex world of family law with Leslie Alexi, a seasoned family law attorney. With over 250 family law trials under her belt, Leslie has extensive experience in navigating the intricacies of post-dissolution custody battles and parental alienation cases.Leslie sheds light on the challenges faced by individuals in family court, where exorbitant attorney fees often lead many to represent themselves, known as going pro se. She emphasizes how legal battles can extend throughout a child's upbringing, draining financial resources and leaving parents financially vulnerable.2024-03-1116 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingIt's Not About Us: Co-Parenting with Darlene TaylorIn this insightful podcast, Darlene Taylor shares her journey of co-parenting and the lessons she learned along the way, which she also discusses in her book titled "It's Not About Us: A Co-Parenting Survival Guide to Taking the High Road." Darlene emphasizes that successful co-parenting requires a shift in perspective, where decisions are no longer about the individual but about what's best for the children. She highlights the importance of communication, trust, and collaboration between co-parents, even in the face of past hurt and grief from divorce.She stresses t...2024-02-1552 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing5 Factor Model on Parent Alienation with Child Psychiatrist, Bill BernetDr. Bill Burnett and the five-factor model of parental alienation.Dr. Bill Burnett, a seasoned child psychiatrist, shares his extensive experience in dealing with parental alienation, a phenomenon where a child rejects one parent without valid reasons. The five-factor model, comprising contact resistance, previous positive relationship, absence of abuse or neglect, alienating behaviors by the favored parent, and lack of psychopathology in the child, serves as a diagnostic tool for identifying parental alienation.In an engaging conversation, Dr. Burnett discusses the 17 primary alienation strategies and emphasizes the importance of...2024-02-0325 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingGaslighting and Emotional Abuse of Children with Professor Ben HineIn this insightful podcast with Professor Ben Hine, an expert in parental alienation and affected personally by parental alienation, shares his personal and professional journey that led to specialization in this challenging field. The discussion covers severe cases initiated by false abuse allegations, leading to legal actions and prolonged child separation, influencing a negative narrative about the alienated parent. Legal implications of using physical discipline are explored, emphasizing the potential chain of events in court. The podcast delves into various theories behind parental alienation and their prevalence. It addresses the impact on children, advocating against blaming them, and discusses...2024-01-2238 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingFalse Allegations of Abuse and Parental Alienation: Navigating the Complexities of Family Dynamics with Professor Ben HineProfessor Ben Hine, an expert in parental alienation and affected personally by parental alienation, shares his personal and professional journey that led to specialization in this challenging field. The discussion covers severe cases initiated by false abuse allegations, leading to legal actions and prolonged child separation, influencing a negative narrative about the alienated parent. Legal implications of using physical discipline are explored, emphasizing the potential chain of events in court. The podcast delves into various theories behind parental alienation and their prevalence. It addresses the impact on children, advocating against blaming them, and discusses strategies for approaching reunification. Extreme...2024-01-1350 min
The Stepmom Side Podcast#26: What Is Parental Alienation and How to Navigate It with Kindra Riber and Mick SmithThis episode is jam packed with so much information and a heartbreaking story that had me tear up. Mick and Kindra discuss the following:-What is parental alienation?-How hard is it to prove?-Why the court system is a "money making" machine-What is an "offense report"?-Why stepping away can actually help the childKindra has been subject to parental alienation for the past 4 years. Mick experienced this for a brief time before his ex spouse passed away. They provide both the female and male perspective.on...2024-01-091h 01
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingMilitary Veteran, Alienated Mom, Domestic Violence Survivor and Marketing Expert, Rocki, Shares How She has Overcome AllIn this compelling podcast episode, the host interviews a marketing expert with over a decade of experience who shares a remarkable journey of overcoming adversity. The guest, a military veteran, retired in 2018 and transitioned into entrepreneurship to pursue her passion for marketing. She expresses a deep commitment to helping teen girls build a supportive community, inspired by her own traumatic experience at 17.Rocki discusses the challenges of being a single mom and a full-time entrepreneur, highlighting the demanding nature of military service. When asked about balancing these roles, she initially admits not knowing how...2024-01-0735 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingSurviving the Holidays with Mick and KindraHolidays without our children after divorce is hard. But not impossible. Mick and Kindra share some insights on how you can take care of yourself, create new traditions and be the best parent you can be. Divorce is hard. And the aftermath of healing is a space of strength. Hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, want to make sure you are not alone during divorce, parental alienation, and custody battles. They bring real people and real stories to you so you can be equipped to heal yourself, your children...2023-12-2126 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingProtecting Yourself and Your Assets during a Divorce with Lisa ZeidermanDivorce is hard. And the aftermath of healing is a space of strength. Hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, want to make sure you are not alone during divorce, parental alienation, and custody battles. They bring real people and real stories to you so you can be equipped to heal yourself, your children and recover from the aftermath of family trauma and drama.Did you know that divorce lawyers have a similar nature of work as that of family lawyers? During divorce proceedings, close communication and clear communication is...2023-12-1239 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingHelping Children Cope through Divorce with Dr. Michele Finneran, Professional TherapistIn this episode we discuss: Understanding Parental Alienation Across Age Groups:Impact on children at different age levels during divorce.Challenges with 15-year-old boys: Hormonal and bodily changes.Toddlers and school-age children navigating different household dynamics.Grace period for school-age children, blaming themselves for the divorce.Reassuring children of love regardless of parental relationship status.Addressing Concerns and Providing Support:Importance of clear communication with children about expectations in each household.The role of collaboration between divorced parents in creating a consistent environment for the child.Dealing with narcissistic parents and involving the law...2023-12-0421 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingA Man's Resilience - Dave Collier - Suicide and Parental AlienationDave Collier is a best-selling author, international speaker, and youth advocate.I have been fortunate to speak in North America and internationally. My topics have included Intimate Partner Violence, Narcissistic Abuse and Parental Alienation. Having worked with vulnerable youth for many years, ending generational abuse is also a passionate topic of mine.I am an international best-selling author with an account of Intimate Partner Violence. There is currently another piece waiting for publishing and a full length story in the works.After m...2023-11-2337 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingHe Said She Said: What's upcoming and announcementsDivorce is hard. And the aftermath of healing is a space of strength. Hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, want to make sure you are not alone during divorce, parental alienation, and custody battles. They bring real people and real stories to you so you can be equipped to heal yourself, your children and recover from the aftermath of family trauma and drama.If you find yourself entangled in a high-conflict divorce or experiencing the heart-wrenching alienation from your children, we encourage you to share your story with us...2023-11-1406 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingMegan Hunter from High Conflict Institute Gives Us Tools to Navigate Communication with a Co-ParentIn this episode, Megan Hunter, CEO & CO-Founder of High Conflict Institute, provides some helpful tools and strategies we can use when communicating with a co-partner. BIFF - Brief, Informative, Friendly and FirmEAR - Empathy, Attention, RespectNo response is a response. We don't have to answer right away if we choose to answer.Provide options and proposals vs. "all or nothing"WEB methodSSN - Shut up, Smile, NodHosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber...2023-10-3159 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingKindra Riber and Mick Smith LIVE!Kindra and Mick have met for the first time since they started hosting this podcast a year ago to discuss the top 4 episodes, what they have in common and plans for the future. Join them in this short episode to hear what the trends have been over the past year with legislative change for custody, trends in court and how parental alienation starts. Allow us to introduce your hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, who are fervently fighting to put an end to the excruciating pain caused by divorce, parental alienation, custody battles, and...2023-10-2114 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingCustodial Interference is a Criminal Offense with Claudia OvallesClaudia Ovalles is a retired veteran, alienated Mom and fighting for change legally. Did you know that custodial interference is a criminal offense and can be prosecuted? You as the targeted parent have every right to call the police when your court order has been denied by the other parent. Claudia defines what this means in this mind-blowing episode. Claudia is active with Heroes for Children's Rights and the National Parents Organization. She is able to discuss legislative efforts and advocacy and is at the forefront of...2023-10-181h 01
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingChildren of Divorce with Therapist, Cathy HimlinParental children of divorce is a real thing. Alienation can happen, whether it's planned or not. It’s not as simple as one parent trying to turn a child against the other. It involves a variety of factors that can exist in any given family, including the children’s reactions to their situation. Sadly, parents who struggle with children rejecting them often do so in private.However, when parents learn to express empathy through validating their children’s feelings, it can start to reconnect them emotionally and create safety to repair the relationship....2023-10-0441 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingGrieving Divorce with Heidi DunstanHeidi Dunstan is a grief expert and talks with Mick and Kindra in this episode on how to handle someone going through grief, what to say to them when they are grieving that can be helpful rather than hurt and how to set your own boundaries while grieving.The episode precedes her bLU Talk at Harvard University. Heidi has also spoken at various summits, podcasts, and networking sessions. You can contact Heidi at: heidi@heididunstan.caWebsitewww.heididunstan.caLinkedInhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/he...2023-09-2129 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingDr. Amy J.L. Baker Speaks about the Lasting Impact on Children from Parental AlienationDr. Baker is a nationally recognized expert in parental alienation, and parent-child relationships, especially children of divorce, and emotional abuse of children. She has a Ph.D. in developmental psychology from Teachers College of Columbia University. She is the author or co-author of 10 books and over 120 academic articles on topics related to children's well-being. Amy offers many services including telephone coaching for targeted parents, telephone clinical case consultations, and in-person and virtual trainings for legal and mental health professionals. Dr. Baker can be reached at: Dr. AmyJLBaker@gmail.com and...2023-09-1427 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingExperiencing Grief after Divorce with Heidi DunstanHeidi Dunstan is a grief expert and talks with Mick and Kindra in this episode about experiencing grief during a divorce, creating a space for grief, and what grief can entail. Plus so much more that we experience everyday, all around us. Heidi shares tips and ways to support yourself and others while grieving with simple, practical ways to grieve with grace. The episode precedes her bLU Talk at Harvard University. Heidi has also spoken at various summits, podcasts, and networking sessions. You can contact Heidi at: heidi...2023-09-0629 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingParent-Child Relationships with Dr. Amy J.L. BakerParent-child relationships are so important and especially after divorce. In this episode, we discuss the 17 primary strategies of parental alienation, 5-factor Baker model, the research behind it, how the court system addresses parental alienation and why its not listed in the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual).Dr. Baker is a nationally recognized expert in parental alienation, and parent-child relationships, especially children of divorce, and emotional abuse of children. She has a Ph.D. in developmental psychology from Teachers College of Columbia University. She is the author or co-author of 10 books and over 120 academic articles...2023-08-3134 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingParental Alienation Unmasked: David Shubert's JourneyEsteemed author and advocate David Shubert delves into the heart-wrenching details of Parental Alienation, getting readers to understand, cope and move forward from this painful issue. After experiencing it personally, David has spent years researching and interviewing other parents and finding solutions for families. In this interview with Mick and Kindra, David explains what parental alienation really is, the motivators, the warning signs, who can alienate, how it's connected to mental illness and more. Shubert sheds light on the intricate dynamics involved in Parental Alienation, where one person attempts to emotionally manipulate and distance...2023-08-2239 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingChanging the Court System with Kortnee Graves AlarconIn today's episode, we have the pleasure of exploring the inspiring journey and insights of Kortnee Graves Alarcon. Kortnee is an accomplished individual with a wealth of knowledge and experience in the legal industry as related to divorce and custody. Kortnee's expertise and passion have led her to make a significant impact in her endeavors. As we delve into her story, we will uncover the key challenges, advice, and triumphs that have shaped her family and legal knowledge.Kortnee Graves Alarcon is a renowned legal advocate and mom who has made a name for herself...2023-08-2130 minThe Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingHow Parental Alienation Effects Children with Susan ShoferSusan Shofer, a certified divorce coach, due to popular demand returns for an unprecedented third episode and engages in a compelling conversation with Mick and Kindra about the profound impact of parental alienation on children and the crucial steps to support them during their adult years after reunification. In this episode she references the 17 ways an alienator can alienate identified by Amy J. Baker and her encounter with Dr. Steven Miller on how to deal with an alienator.Susan Shofer, a distinguished TedEx speaker, expert in parental alienation, divorce coach, and accomplished author, possesses...2023-08-2148 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingOvercoming Stepmom Struggles with Coach, Alicia KraskoAllow us to introduce your hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, who are fervently fighting to put an end to the excruciating pain caused by divorce, parental alienation, custody battles, and the disintegration of families. Their mission is to equip you with the necessary tools to heal and recover from the aftermath of family trauma and drama.In this episode, meet Alicia Krasko, an experienced and empathetic speaker who has emerged as a guiding light for stepmoms facing challenges and seeking to build a fulfilling role within their families.Alicia's journey began...2023-08-1449 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingThe Truth About Divorce and Everything in Between Founder of Cordell and Cordell, Joe Cordell Joe Cordell, a renowned attorney based in Missouri, is the Co-Founder of a prominent company specializing in domestic relations. With a nationwide presence spanning 42 states and a team of 300 highly skilled attorneys, Joe primarily focuses on representing male clients, comprising approximately 96% of his clientele. He has established online platforms like dadsdivorce.com, mensdivorce.com, and mensrights.com, providing invaluable resources to individuals navigating divorce and men's rights issues. These platforms offer diverse content, including a YouTube channel featuring "Tips to Be a Better Co-Parent" and a comprehensive guide on "Back to School Co-Parenting."Insights from Joe Cordell s...2023-07-0540 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingHow To Divorce in Hollywood Alec Baldwin vs. Kim BassingerIn this engaging episode, hosts Kindra Riber and Mick Smith delve into the captivating high conflict custody case of celebrities Alec Baldwin and Kim Basinger. Even within the glitz and glamour of Hollywood, divorce and parental alienation cast their dark shadows.Are celebrities spared from the complexities of divorce, custody battles, and parental alienation? Not even the Hollywood elite can escape the emotional turmoil associated with the custody industry. Ireland Baldwin, the eldest daughter of renowned actor Alec Baldwin and Kim Basinger, gained notoriety when her father left a voicemail at the tender age of 11, referring to...2023-07-0426 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingThe Truth About Parental Alienation with Investigative Reporter, Julie Lokun, from The Mediacasters interviews Mick and KindraWhat is parental alienation? Today we dive deep and the tables are turned when Kindra and Mick are interviewed by investigative reporter, Julie Lokun. Learn their stories of parental alienation and what they are doing to make a difference. This episode, we switch roles and Julie Lokun interviews Mick and Kindra to explore their stories of parental alienation in more depth and their knowledge on the subject. I am absolutely thrilled to tell you about Kindra Riber, an exceptional legislative advocate who tirelessly fights for the rights of children and parental access...2023-07-0439 minThe Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingDiscussing Parental Alienation with Mike Todrzak, a Father Who Struggles Daily to reach his childMike Todrzak is a songwriter and has dealt with the tragedy of losing his daughter to parental alienation. His gripping, emotional story will touch your heart and how he has turned his tragedy over to God's healing grace. Mike wants other people who are going through this tragedy to know they are not alone. This is evil and we can do something about it. We need to stand up and say this is wrong. Let's do better for our children."The focus is how to heal from trauma and ho...2023-06-111h 04The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingFriendships Through Divorce with Elizabeth Duncan-HawkerIntroduction: Elizabeth Duncan-Hawker is an experienced MBA with a passion for helping families navigate the complexities of divorce and friendship. Her work as an author and executive has given her a deep understanding of the emotional challenges that arise in these situations, and she is dedicated to finding solutions that work for all parties involved. She is the best selling author of Collecting True Friends. https://www.amazon.com/stores/Elizabeth-Duncan-Hawker/author/B09GJXHPJV?ref=ap_rdr&store_ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=trueLearn more about your hosts Mick Smith an...2023-05-1451 minThe Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingHealing After Divorce with Krista Hernandez, Wellness CoachIn this episode, Kindra and Mick interview Krista Hernandez and the focus is healing your body after a divorce.Krista is a health and wellness coach who has struggled with chronic illness and autoimmune disease for many years. She discusses her journey to finding a natural and holistic approach to managing her health, which has included changes to her diet, lifestyle, and mindset.Krista's story is one of resilience and perseverance, as she has navigated the challenges of chronic illness while also pursuing her passion for helping others achieve their health goals. Through her coaching...2023-04-2643 minThe Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingA Parent Who Turned His Mess Into His Message - David Shubert from ColoradoIn this podcast, we explore the story of David Shubert, a parental alienation activist who fights for family, mother's, father's, and children's rights. Shubert shares his personal experience of being a left-behind and alienated parent who spent over 14 years fighting to bring his children back home from Australia to the USA. Frustrated with the family court system, he decided to take matters into his own hands by sharing his story and experiences on social media to create awareness about parental alienation. As a result, his writings have been read and shared by people worldwide who have gone through similar...2023-03-2452 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingHe Said/She Said: Highlights from speaking with lawyers, Rick and MarcieKindra and Mick share their thoughts on what Marcie and Rick shared with us about navigating divorce and working with attorneys. Learn more about your hosts Mick Smith and Kindra Riber. They are waging the war on ending the pain of divorce, parental alienation, custody battles and the break-up of families. Their purpose is to give you the tools on how to heal in the aftermath of family trauma and drama. To get a copy of our ebook, Survive Your Divorce, providing tips on working through a divorce, handling...2023-02-2732 minThe Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingNavigating the Legal Process: Part 2Mick and Kindra speak with Marcie Patton-Coffman, a Senior Litigation Partner in Ohio and Rick Julius, a Senior Litigation Partner in Pennsylvania. We ask the tough questions. 1) What is the firm's process of engaging an attorney?2) How are protection orders used in custody situations?3) Can an attorney intervene when the absconding parent takes a child or children?4) How are Court Orders enforced when the uncooperative violates them? In this podcast episode, we'll be discussing custody and parental alienation with two a...2023-02-2138 minThe Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingNavigating the legal process of divorce with Attorney Marcie Patton-Coffman (Ohio) and Attorney Rick Julius (Pennsylvania)Mick and Kindra speak with Marcie Patton-Coffman, a Senior Litigation Partner in Ohio and Rick Julius, a Senior Litigation Partner in Pennsylvania. We ask the tough questions. 1) What is the firm's process of engaging an attorney?2) How are protection orders used in custody situations?3) Can an attorney intervene when the absconding parent takes a child or children?4) How are Court Orders enforced when the uncooperative violates them? In this podcast episode, we'll be discussing custody and parental alienation with two a...2023-02-1724 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingSusan Shofer: How You know it is Parental Alienation- Part 2Susan Shofer, a certified divorce coach, talks with Mick and Kindra on how children view parental alienation and how best to support them in their adult years after reunification. Susan is a TedEx speaker, parental alienation specialist, divorce coach, author and more. You can find Susan on Twitter, Instagram and Clubhouse using her name @susanshoferLearn more about your hosts Mick Smith and Kindra Riber. They are waging the war on ending the pain of divorce, parental alienation, custody battles and the break-up of families. Their...2023-01-2529 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingHe Said/She Said: Reflecting on the highlights from guest, Charlie McCreadyThree main topics are covered after interviewing Charlie in the two episodes:1. Helping children through Parental Alienation (PA);2. Reducing damage done through trauma;3. Restoring personal mental health. The parent manipulates the child to avoid the other parent. The PA syndrome is similar to the Five Stages of Grief by Kubler-Ross: https://www.psycom.net/stages-of-grief.PA is a similar process; but unlike grief, the child is still alive but alienated. We apply our individual situations and how...2023-01-2420 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingSusan Shofer: How You know it is Parental Alienation- Part 1Susan Shofer, a certified divorce coach, talks with Mick and Kindra on how children view parental alienation and how best to support them in their adult years after reunification. Susan is a TedEx speaker, parental alienation specialist, divorce coach, author and more. You can find Susan on Twitter, Instagram and Clubhouse using her name @susanshoferLearn more about your hosts Mick Smith and Kindra Riber. They are waging the war on ending the pain of divorce, parental alienation, custody battles and the break-up...2023-01-2125 minThe Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingBehind the Scenes: Action Steps You Can Take to Change the Law and Future Custody Battles after DivorcesHow to Contact Your Elected Officials:usa.govTeresa Harlow wrote a terrific seven-step co-parenting guide for co-parenting and immediate action as a helpful resource for the National Parents Organization.Communicate with Your Co-parentWork on YourselfMediation Keeps Decision-making in Parents’ HandsCollaborative and Amicable Divorce Processes Family therapistsCo-parent Coaching Courts should be a last resortTwo examples of how significant social change came from the bottom-up and directly from the people. Ways to get involved in your local legislation change:Help write th...2023-01-1715 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingHelping Your Children and Yourself Cope with the Aftermath of Alienation With Charlie McCready - Part 2Charlie McCready, a life coach from London, talks with Mick and Kindra a second time regarding how to help yourself if you are a targeted parent of alienation and how to best serve your children after they have gone through that trauma.The alienated parent is caught in a loop by our unconscious guilt and anxiety. We need to develop conscious thinking to believe positively and lovingly about ourselves. We need permission to get off that negative treadmill. We need to be conscious about the triggers that are negative since the alienator k...2023-01-1327 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingHelping Your Children and Yourself Cope with the Aftermath of Alienation with Charlie McCready - Part 1Charlie experienced PA in 2013; his former wife limited contact with his two children.His 9 step program is holistic addressing three points: children, self, and inside the alienator's head.The child is a tool to attack the other parent.We need skills to understand the alienation.We need to focus on the mindset of the child.The alienating parent is monitoring all contact and communication. The parent manipulates the child to avoid the other parent. The PA syndrome is similar to the Five Stages of Grief by...2023-01-1035 minThe Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingMediation in Court with Theresa AgostinelliTheresa Agostinelli is an Author, Media, Biz Coach, Corporate Trainer, and JMT Author of The GRID System: The GRID System: Creating More of What's Good in Your Lifehttps://www.amazon.com/GRID-System-Creating-More-Whats/dp/1990801005Theresa pointed out the difference as a preferred provider due to her experience and expertise in the Court system during divorce and custody situations. She shared that Parental Alienation Syndrome is more recognized today than in the past. It is not a clinically accepted situation but therapists and counselors are equipped to deal wi...2022-12-2955 minThe Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingIntroducing Our Next Guest Professor Teresa AgostinelliHear what our next guest, Theresa Agostinelli, will be speaking about. Besides a professor at Immaculata University, she is an author, speaker, licensed psychotherapist, and coach. Learn more about your hosts Mick Smith and Kindra Riber. They are waging the war on ending the pain of divorce, parental alienation, custody battles and the break-up of families. Their purpose is to give you the tools on how to heal in the aftermath of family trauma and drama. Learn more about Mick Smith: Get Mick's Book: Burning America: Amazon.com: Burning America...2022-12-2602 minThe Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingHe Said/She Said: JoeJoe Cordell, Co-Founder of his company with his wife, is an attorney in Missouri who represents the largest domestic relations firm in the U.S., with a presence in 42 states, 300 attorneys, and who represents about 96% male clients. Joe maintains dadsdivorce.com, mensdivorce.com, and mensrights.com. There are helpful resources such as a YouTube channel, Tips to Be a Better Co-Parent, and a Back to School Co-Parenting guide.Some ideas that emerged from the episode include the following.In the 19th Century men were favored in awarding custody because they earned money and had the...2022-12-2413 minThe Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingPreview of our next episode with Joe Cordell, Founder of Cordell and Cordell Attorney Firm: Fighting for Men's Rights in a DivorceFighting for fathers’ rights is what motivated Mr. Cordell to become a divorce lawyer for men.“I was galvanized by guys who were my clients and trying to get primary custody of their children. Even though they were the better parent, they still couldn’t get across the finish line in the courts,” Mr. Cordell said. “The more frustrated I became, the more incentivized I was to help them.”Since co-founding the firm with his wife, Yvonne, Mr. Cordell and his team of more than 200 divorce lawyers have helped thousands of men going through divorce....2022-12-1903 minThe Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingHe Said/She Said: Parallel Parenting vs. Co-Parenting, What divorce eliminates for the kidsJoin Mick and Kindra as we discuss our conversation with Hope Firsel, life coach and trauma survivor. Hope is a Life Coach who survived infertility, cancer, and divorce. She hired a surrogate mother and is co-parenting after her 18 year marriage ended. Therapy helps us to understand ourselves and therapy can help others. Co-parenting is a business relationship with finances, coordinated calendar, and tasks. In the midst of chaos, parallel homes work with shared values. Respect each other and let parenting work. Keep hostile discussions away from chil...2022-12-1708 minThe Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingA Perspective from a Life Coach helping Women through Life's Unexpected with Hope FirselHope Firsel is a Life Coach who survived infertility, cancer, and divorce. She hired a surrogate mother and is co-parenting after her 18 year marriage ended. There are various forms of trauma that negatively impact core pieces of our humanity.Therapy helps us to understand ourselves and therapy can help others. Co-parenting is a business relationship with finances, coordinated calendar, and tasks. In the midst of chaos, parallel homes work with shared values. Respect each other and let parenting work. 2022-12-1331 minThe Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingHe Said/She Said: Healing through the Holidays After DivorceJoin Kindra and Mick as they share tips and tools to help you cope through the holidays. Learn more about your hosts Mick Smith and Kindra Riber. They are waging the war on ending the pain of divorce, parental alienation, custody battles and the break-up of families. Their purpose is to give you the tools on how to heal in the aftermath of family trauma and drama. Learn more about Mick Smith: Get Mick's Book: Burning America: Amazon.com: Burning America: In the Best Interest of The Children?: 9781956353259: Smith, G...2022-12-0922 minThe Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingHe Said/She Said: Waking Up to Real Love After DivorceChildren of divorce can learn love, compassion, responsibility, accountability, forgiveness, boundaries, kindness, and consideration for others.Counseling is not an automatic panacea but keep at it and persist. There may be lapses.One person can not fix a marriage; it takes two. If you reach a point of no hope then that is the breaking point.Physical and expressive outlets are positive. During tango for example, partners need to lean on each other. Marriage is analogous to tango dance. Actions speak louder than words.2022-12-0621 minThe Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingLearning to Love Yourself After Divorce with Dawn RishardJoin Kindra and Mick as they talk with Dawn Rishard on how to love yourself after divorce and be worthy of love again. How do you normalize relationship struggles? How do you redefine your life without your partner in it? How do you manage through the grief? Dawn answers all that and more!Dawn has 2 decades as a Licensed Professional Counselor, Marriage and Family Systems. She empowers people to release the past, open their hearts, and receive the love they desire. She helps unlock Self Love, Clarity, and Connection despite the challenges. She is...2022-12-0138 minThe Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingHe Said/She Said : Divorce is a Worldwide Epidemic for both Women and MenShare in a few minutes with Mick and Kindra as they reflect on how Leanne is not only helping women and men in a divorce, but she counsels them worldwide from Dubai, India, Pakistan, Australia and the Americas. In addition, we talk about how you can start to heal yourself after a divorce. Most men but not exclusively so, are harmed by divorce.Divorce and custody is an international and growing problem. There are cultural differences based on a nation's legal system and what part of the world people are from...2022-11-2813 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingHealing, Reflecting and Moving On From Divorce with Leanne KanzlerJoin Kindra and Mick as they dig deep into a conversation with Leanne Kanzler as they talk divorce disasters and how to heal.Psychologist, Coach, TEDx Speaker, #1 Best Selling AuthorLife has not always been as clear as it is now. In fact at the time my marriage of 17 years fell apart I really didn’t know what was in store for me. Today, 10 years since those days of anxiety, depression and fighting, my ex and I are both in a much better place.Now, I regularly work with others who have been in...2022-11-2226 min
The Doctor of Digital™ GMick Smith, PhDThe Aftermath Live He Said She Said Segment for Leanne Kanzler Episode #CCCVII The Doctor of Digital™ G. Mick Smith, PhDWelcome to the safe space of The Aftermath, a podcast that will educate and inspire you. Divorce, family trauma, custody battles, parental alienation and everything that is wrong with families today are the hard topics Dr. G. Mick Smith and Kindra Riber will talk about. Both hosts have been subjected to the harsh reality of broken families and the trauma custody battles elicit. Their stories of losing their children are different yet the same.Mick, The Doctor of Digital, Smith mick.smith@wsiworld.comBurning America: In the Best Interest of the Children?https://burning-america.com2022-11-2013 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingHe Said/She Said : Divorce Questions Answered Kindra Riber and Mick Smith talk divorce, custody and family trauma today on The Aftermath Podcast.Answered audience questions:Although divorced, people can change and improve their behavior.As defined, Parental Alienation Syndrome ( PAS) entails an intentional process directed against the other parent. The medical community has been against defining PAS as a syndrome.Some experts though are advocating PAS in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM).Since the custody process is broken the alienated parent should document, with others, and use tangible evidence for change.The...2022-11-1917 minThe Doctor of Digital™ GMick Smith, PhDThe Aftermath Audio & Edited as the He Said/She Said Segment about Michelle Finneran Pt. 2 Episode #CCCVI The Doctor of Digital™Welcome to the safe space of The Aftermath, a podcast that will educate and inspire you. Divorce, family trauma, custody battles, parental alienation and everything that is wrong with families today are the hard topics Dr. G. Mick Smith and Kindra Riber will talk about. Both hosts have been subjected to the harsh reality of broken families and the trauma custody battles elicit. Their stories of losing their children are different yet the same.Mick, The Doctor of Digital, Smith mick.smith@wsiworld.comBurning America: In the Best Interest of the Children?https://burning-america.com2022-11-1817 minThe Doctor of Digital™ GMick Smith, PhDThe Aftermath Live He Said/She Said Segment for Dr. Finneran Episode #CCCIV The Doctor of Digital™ GMick Smith, PhDWelcome to the safe space of The Aftermath, a podcast that will educate and inspire you. Divorce, family trauma, custody battles, parental alienation and everything that is wrong with families today are the hard topics Dr. G. Mick Smith and Kindra Riber will talk about. Both hosts have been subjected to the harsh reality of broken families and the trauma custody battles elicit. Their stories of losing their children are different yet the same.Mick, The Doctor of Digital, Smith mick.smith@wsiworld.comBurning America: In the Best Interest of the Children?https://burning-america.com2022-11-1818 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingUpacking the Truth and Answering Your Questions about Divorce and Parental Alienation With Dr. FinneranDivorce, parental alienation, and family conflict are something you cannot do alone. Kindra and Mick join expert Dr. Finneran as she answers questions about parental alienation and divorce. Today-make the commitment to stop the journey of family trauma and relationship issues alone. Kindra Riber and Mick Smith welcome Dr. Finneran back to the studio and talk more about the mental toll divorce and trauma take on us.With a Ph.D. in Conflict Resolution/Dispute Analysis from Nova Southeastern University, Dr. Finneran is licensed to practice in Florida. Her re...2022-11-1622 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingHe Said/ She Said : How Our Childhood Is Changed By DivorceChildhood can be marred by divorce as JC's was; so what can be done?1. An interesting quote was revealed: "messed up but now blessed up."2. JC advises an integrated life, even if you have a good career, prioritize your family.3. If needed, seek a mental health professional.4. A professional can assist in discovering a key time, what JC described as a "snap" moment which was the basis of his trauma during his parent's divorce.5. Look for a ladder out of difficulties realizing it is not your fault.6...2022-11-1112 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingThe Divorce Game Changer: Managing Your Mindset with Dr. JC Doornick (aka Dragon)In this episode, we talk about conquering our mindset when facing a divorce or custody battle. Kindra and Mick dive deep into the power of changing our minds and controlling our negative thoughts when the stress of divorce or trauma is looming with Dr. JC Doornick.Dr. JC Doornick “Dragon” comes from a fascinating life and family history full of pioneers in the entertainment industry and professional athletes. Later in life becoming a servant to the people as a Doctor of Chiropractic and Cofounder of a worldwide Humanitarian relief organization serving the third world with...2022-11-0631 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingHe Said/ She Said: How Parents Are Screwing Up Their Children During Divorce with G. Mick Smith and Kindra RiberDivorce is difficult. Custody battles are painful- and parental alienation is a systematic form of abuse. Listen to Kindra and Mick unpack the 10 biggest lessons they learned from their guest Michele Fineran. 10 Takeaways:1. The definition of Parental Alienation Syndrome has changed and is recognized now.2. Many children return to the alienated parent as they get older.3. There are age-appropriate differences in healing children from custody and alienation: youngest children fear a loss of parent's love, grade-age kids blame failure on themselves, and teenagers are often...2022-11-0307 minThe Doctor of Digital™ GMick Smith, PhDWhat Is the He Said/She Said Segment from Dr. Marni? Episode #CCLXXXVIII The Doctor of Digital™ GMick Smith, PhDThe Aftermath Experts have compiled the 5 main takeaways from Dr. Marni Foderaro:1. Take the high road and parent only as you are able.2. Write or creatively express your frustration, anger, or bewilderment.3. The system and process are corrupt.4. You are not alone.5. Disengaging is an effective strategy.Learn more about your hosts Mick Smith and Kindra Riber. They are waging the war on ending the pain of divorce, parental alienation, custody battles and the break-up of families. Their purpose is to give you the tools on how to heal in the aftermath of...2022-10-2537 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingHe Said/She Said: 5 Ways to Deal with Toxic Relationships and The Red Flags You Need to KnowKindra Riber and Mick Smith are talking about everything that they learned with Dr. Marni from Episode #5. What are the red flags you need to look for when you are entering or are in a poisonous relationship?The Aftermath Experts have compiled the 5 main takeaways from Dr. Marni Foderaro:1. Take the high road and parent only as you are able.2. Write or creatively express your frustration, anger, or bewilderment.3. The system and process are corrupt.4. You are not alone.5...2022-10-2305 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingThe Issues with Narcissists, Domestic Violence and True Love with Dr. Marni FoderaroIn today's episode, we are talking with Dr. Marni Foderaro and we talk about narcissists, and our journeys to seek true love. Are you ignoring red flags in your relationship? Dr. Marni is an expert on domestic abuse and parental alienation- and is bringing her powerful story to The Aftermath. Dr. Marni Hill Foderaro is an award-winning educator and celebrated author. She earned her doctorate in education and completed postdoctoral studies at Harvard after a very successful and rewarding 35-year career as a high school special education teacher, with 12 years as a university adjunct pr...2022-10-2127 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingHe Said/She Said: The One About Getting Involved in Parental Alienation LegislationFrom The Aftermath, Kindra and Mick present their He Said/She Said reaction to Elizabeth McNeese from the National Parents Organization. If you missed the whole episode:https://www.podpage.com/the-aftermath-the-epidemic-of-divorce-custody-and-healing-1/uniting-parents-in-turmoil-with-elizabeth-mcneese-of-the-national-parents-organization/During this episode, we learn about current legislation, expertise, and research about custody and parental alienation, and hopeful information for parents caught in the crossfire. Kindra and Mick welcome an expert from the National Parents Association. If you are struggling, know you are not alone.Elizabeth McNeese from the N...2022-10-1406 min
Get Obsessed : With Living Your Best LifeObsessed with Healing After Divorce and Custody Battles with Mick Smith and Kindra RiberIf you are going thru a divorce or custody battle you need to listen to this episode. We celebrate those warriors who understand it is the children that matter. We will listen to a show we are obsessed with called, THE AFTERMATH, with Kindra Riber and Mick Smith.Check out their podcast here: The Aftermath of Divorce, Family Trauma, Custody Battles a… (podpage.com)During this episode, we learn about current legislation, expertise, and research about custody and parental alienation, and hopeful information for parents caught in the crossfire. Kindra and Mick welcome an expert fro...2022-10-1326 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingUniting Parents in Turmoil with Elizabeth McNeese of The National Parents OrganizationDuring this episode, we learn about current legislation, expertise, and research about custody and parental alienation, and hopeful information for parents caught in the crossfire. Kindra and Mick welcome an expert from the National Parents Association. If you are struggling, know you are not alone. Elizabeth McNeese from the National Parents Organization shares her leadership in this stimulating discussion. MISSIONTo improve the lives of children & strengthen society by protecting every child's right to the love & care of both parents after separation or divorce....2022-10-1225 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingThe Destructive Power of Gaslighting with Debbie GriffithsIn today's episode we are going to discuss the destructive power of gaslighting- and how it can tear apart families. Our special guest is Debbie Griffiths who relates her tale of gaslighting, trauma for her and her family, and her healing process, along with details of her forthcoming novel which you will want to buy. It is out soon! What is Gaslighting?Gaslighting is the psychological manipulation of a person usually over an extended period of time that causes the victim to question the validity of their own thoughts, perception of reality, or memories and typi...2022-10-0530 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingThe Destructive Power of Gaslighting With Debbie GriffithsIn today's episode we are going to discuss the destructive power of gaslighting- and how it can tear apart families. Our special guest is Debbie Griffiths who relates her tale of gaslighting, trauma for her and her family, and her healing process, along with details of her forthcoming novel which you will want to buy. It is out soon! What is Gaslighting?Gaslighting is the psychological manipulation of a person usually over an extended period of time that causes the victim to question the validity of their own thoughts, perception of reality, or memories and typi...2022-10-0500 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingThe Aftermath of Divorce, Family Trauma, Custody Battles and HealingWelcome to The Aftermath. A podcast about divorce, custody battles, family trauma, and the healing thereafter. Today you will meet two warriors in the fight against the injustice of broken families. You will meet Dr. G. Mick Smith, the author of BURNING AMERICA- a powerful book about a fight to correct the injustices of child custody. You will meet Kindra Riber, a legislative advocate changing the landscape of parental alienation. Riber is leading legislative reform on equalizing custody laws. Together you will get the tools you need to fight...2022-09-2502 min
The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and HealingThe Problems With Divorce and Custody BattlesIn this episode, we are going to talk about WHY we need to talk about divorce, custody issues, and family trauma. We need to lock arms, especially if you are struggling through a divorce or high-conflict custody battle. The Aftermath hosts, Kindra Riber and Mick Smith talk about their challenging situations. They are making their pain their purpose. Mick Smith, the author of Burning America, was heartbroken and confused when his wife started playing a custody game with him. His story, is one of the challenges, fighting the courts and proving that his child...2022-09-2420 min