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MikeMehlman.netHow to overcome insecurities about appearanceWatch this podcast in video form on YouTube here.
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This short clip briefly addresses how we can make strides to feel better about our appearance, not just in dating, but in general. The idea being greater happiness, naturally.
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MikeMehlman.netWhy the most affectionate girls will ghostMain blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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This short clip briefly addresses why you should never be surprised when a girl who you think is interested in you ghosts. This clip also addresses male whining, which is one of the top things I despise. Whining/complaining is the number-one trait that will finish a male. With all of the content I put out on the topic + time I spend d...2021-03-0804 minMikeMehlman.net"How can I improve my self-esteem?" (DIFFERENT from growing confidence)Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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I've discussed in a lot of my content about how to improve confidence. In this current clip I compare that with how to improve self-esteem. The two routes of personal growth are very different, at least in my experience. If you want a longer-form article on overcoming others' opinions and judgments, as well as how to improve self-esteem, you're going to want t...2021-03-0215 minMikeMehlman.netWhy most guys who seem promising STOP approaching womenMain blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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This is an advanced-level clip discussing why most guys who demonstrate some initial efficacy with approach eventually drop off from approach altogether. In other words, it’s a predictable scenario of a guy who seems eager to be better with meeting women and improve his non-neediness and confidence, and he’ll start approaching for a few months (or even upward of a coupl...2021-02-2808 minMikeMehlman.netTinder: How to maximize dates/hookups (the unfair but effective way)Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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In this clip I address two main points about dating apps: 1) Why girls will swipe right/up for you and then not respond, and 2) How to maximize dates/hookups. I had written about Tinder / dating apps a couple years ago in extensive detail here: https://mikemehlman.net/2019/05/30/tinder-why-she-wont-respond-to-your-message/2021-02-2210 minMikeMehlman.net"How do I make a woman feel desired beyond just sex?"Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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In this clip I address a question I received about how to make a woman feel desired beyond just sex. That is, when it comes to giving some form of reassurance, what's the best route to go about that? Do women even want reassurance that you're interested beyond sex? What are some things I might say to women to help move an inte...2021-02-2110 minMikeMehlman.netHow to be your most attractive with women (not the answer you expect)Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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I've been talking about for at least the past couple years about how the male is his most attractive when he is fully deregulated. Guys will ask what the fuck that means. Deregulation means fully winging your behavior. That is, it's not about the hyper-specifics of what you say or do; what matters most in your interactions with women is that you ar...2021-02-1809 minMikeMehlman.net"How much do looks and age matter for male SMV?"Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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In this short clip I respond to a question about to what extent age matters in relation to the male's ability to attain sexual outcomes. That is, is there generally a certain timeframe (i.e., 40s, 50s, 60s) at which point the male will experience a notable drop-off in sexual outcomes. I've talked about male SMV in prior content. The question as fa...2021-02-1307 minMikeMehlman.net"Are 'rapport dates,' where I can't pull, sometimes worth it?"Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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Scenario 1: Girl who's your type agrees to a 5pm date via text. She says however that she has to meet a friend at 6:30, and she can't adjust the time. Should you meet up with her or re-arrange for a different time? Scenario 2: You're approaching on the street / in a station and come across a girl who's your type. She's receptive. You go for...2021-02-1109 minMikeMehlman.net"Do girls like older guys? Do 'old' guys get rejected more?"Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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This clip is in response to a question I received about rejection in relation to age. I thought the Q was a half-troll because my last video was about how I get rejected all of the time, so count on someone to immediately seize on the opportunity to question whether it's about, e.g., something I'm doing wrong, or about age, etc. I...2021-02-0809 minMikeMehlman.net"Are my REJECTION PERCENTAGES too high? Do YOU get rejected a lot?"Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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In this short clip I talk about the extent to which rejection is normal. I've made lots of content discussing how rejection will compose the overwhelming majority of your interactions regardless, but most guys take on that input/advice only halfway. In other words, guys might hear me talk about the normality of rejection and say, "Ok, well I guess getting rejected a...2021-02-0706 minMikeMehlman.netApproaching in a new country with a language barrierGaijin Guide to Japanese Daygame (My Japanese daygame book): https://www.amazon.com//dp/1718170394
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I had been living in Japan for about 6 months at the time, and I had gone on a day trip to Kyoto. I was with a female and we entered a bar around 4 or 5pm. I ordered a Guinness for myself and a hard cider for...2021-02-0515 minMikeMehlman.net"Are your dates with plates different from your first dates?"Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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I've talked about before how to get a girl back on a date, including driving the point that the ideal date is going to be one that is as short as possible. Greater than 97% of my first dates (and second dates with girls I haven't hooked up with yet) are very boring and streamlined: I meet a girl at a busy station n...2021-02-0411 minMikeMehlman.net"Can you talk about ego and getting rejected by women?"Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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Someone asked a question on my last YouTube video about how ego relates to rejection. I wouldn't ordinarily think anything of this, but there are two notable points: 1) Various guys have asked me this, so apparently this is a concept frequently gestated, and 2) I myself have never once thought about ego in relation to rejection. The second point in particular is very int...2021-02-0309 minMikeMehlman.netThe #1 trait that determines a male's ability to be successful with womenMain blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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In this video I discuss, as the title clearly states, the #1 trait that determines a male's ability to be successful with women. It is an observation I repeatedly make that many guys who start to become active approach practitioners over the course of several months will ultimately fade / drop off altogether. If I happen to have convos with these guys, they'll admit ho...2021-02-0109 minMikeMehlman.net"What do you think about CALLING girls to arrange a date?"Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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I've talked about in prior content the general ideas of soup texting and how to arrange a date. In this current clip I respond to a question about *calling* girls to arrange dates. It's like "oh wow *calling* girls, holy shit." In other words, if you're able to get the girl on the phone and have a short convo with her, wouldn't th...2021-01-2609 minMikeMehlman.netThe most BETA, excuse filled comment I've ever seenMain blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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I've written a longer form article on this video, which you can read here: https://mikemehlman.net/2021/01/26/the-most-beta-excuse-filled-comment-ive-ever-seen2021-01-2613 minMikeMehlman.net"HOW LONG should I wait to text her?"Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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I had written previous content back in 2017 on when/how to text girls. My answer at the time was "whenever/however the fuck you feel like it." In this new, short clip, I elaborate a bit more and incorporate more evolved perspective. As I've discussed repeatedly, the male is his most attractive when he is fully deregulated (i.e., 100% winging his interactions). T...2021-01-2211 minMikeMehlman.netWorst missed opportunity / The number-one way to lose a girlMain blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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I had actually written about this a little in my 2017 in my post, 'Absolute biggest myth in history,' but in this current clip I add a bit more in terms of how fucking up, to an effect, could be viewed as a *good* thing. The same way rejection is a prerequisite for positive outcomes in dating, fucking up with women is a...2021-01-2110 minMikeMehlman.netThe repercussions you'll face if your approach volume DECLINESMain blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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One of the natural phases a male will progress through as he approaches women over time will be that of "enlightened complacency" 2-3 years in. After approaching girls for 2-3 years, he'll start to ask himself *why* he should even approach at all. Why does he *need* to? He's demonstrated/proved to himself that he can sleep with various women if he wa...2021-01-2113 minMikeMehlman.netONE CONCRETE STEP to handle rejection betterMain blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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In this short clip I talk about one tangible and concrete step the male can take to handle rejection better. I've discussed in prior content about how to handle rejection, but here I discuss one concrete (and slightly weird and hallucinogenic) way to do just that.
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This will probably be one of my least popular videos and posts because the answer is not what most guys would want to hear. But I'm not about preaching answers that are designed to pander or make you feel good. I'm about communicating truth. The main question I was asked was: why might it be the case that some guys who approach co...2021-01-1809 minMikeMehlman.net"How do I create many simultaneous plates?"Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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I've talked about in a prior article about how to establish a repertoire of plates. This current post is more a reiteration of the previous discussion + includes a short video to drive my main points home, mostly in response to a recent comment/question on YouTube about how to establish plates (that's right, let me engage my audience). The first main thing t...2021-01-1713 minMikeMehlman.net"How is it possible that a male who's made thousands of approaches can still be needy?"Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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In the last clip I made, I talked about why a male who's made many thousands of approaches in the macro, who considers himself to be very confident, can still feel tension with an occasional approach he makes. I discussed how this is attributed mostly to 1) negative flux in recent micro approach volumes, and 2) mere insufficient diversity of approaches made to date. Ho...2021-01-1505 minMikeMehlman.net"I've made many thousands of approaches. Why do I still feel tension sometimes?"Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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In this clip I talk about why a male who's very confident and who has made many thousands of approaches can still feel occasional tension on an approach. In other words, the male asks, "I've made many thousands of approaches. I consider myself to have an extremely high confidence level. In fact, I know I'm very confident. So why do I still f...2021-01-1506 minMikeMehlman.netHow to maintain her commitment when she knows you're polygamousMain blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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This is a raw, longer-form articulation of my thoughts on a topic that is pretty tough to discuss in a short, consolidated way. In this clip I talk about two main topics: 1) How to maintain a female's *sexual* interest throughout the course of an interaction/relationship with her; and 2) How to maintain a relationship where she's committed to you yet tolerates you sle...2021-01-1323 minMikeMehlman.netWhy PUAs lie about rejectionMain blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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In this video I talk about why PUAs downplay rejection and over-emphasize positive outcomes in dating. One of the biggest reasons is insecurity tied to not recognizing that rejection is an inherent pillar of approach/dating and will never go away no matter what. It doesn't matter who the guy is. Rejection composes the overwhelming majority of cold approach and dating outcomes r...2021-01-1010 minMikeMehlman.netHow to overcome rejection like it's NOTHINGMain blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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The purpose of this short clip is to discuss two easy ways to handle rejection better, which in turn will increase sexual outcomes. You must recognize that rejection will never go away no matter who you are, what you say, or what you do. It will compose the overwhelming majority of your interactions with women no matter what. There's no way to c...2021-01-0708 minMikeMehlman.netOne great way to stay YOUNGMain blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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Some guys might be like, "Wait, what? What does this clip have to do with approach/dating?" If you've followed my content for some time, you may have noticed that although most of the stuff I post is about dating, there's a more minor percentage (maybe around 5%?) that's about stuff like travel, language, happiness, and money. In this short clip I talk ab...2020-12-2904 minMikeMehlman.netHow to get her contact IF SHE'S RUSHINGMain blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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In this video I discuss a short point on how one can calibrate on the cold approach when the girl seems lean-unreceptive and doesn't want to talk right now. That is, you approach her directly and tell her she's cute. She instantly appears to be in a rush, or puts up her hand and says she can't talk now. Or she isn't n...2020-12-2806 minMikeMehlman.netWhen you should NOT delete a girl's contactMain blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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I've talked about before how it is normal and predictable female behavior for a girl to decline your invite to meet up once or twice before eventually acquiescing. A rookie error is to instantaneously delete a girl who declines your invite because you as the male hold yourself to being so non-needy and alpha. Guys will have their vehement disagreements about this. B...2020-12-2714 minMikeMehlman.netTHREE THINGS you should NEVER DO on the cold approachMain blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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In this video I talk about three Don'ts of cold approach - i.e., three things you should never do on the cold approach. I could by all means make a "Ten things you should never do on the cold approach" video, but I think distilling approach down to the fundamentals and starting with three solid points makes this clip concise and e...2020-12-2608 minMikeMehlman.net"Should I use direct or indirect openers?"Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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I've talked about before how the most attractive way you can introduce yourself to a girl is by just walking up and straight-up telling her your name and that you think she's attractive. This is a direct and declarative opener. Guys will get very impassioned about this and have all sorts of disagreements. "Michael, you're wrong. I think x." That's okay. I'm j...2020-12-2410 minMikeMehlman.net"How do I reduce my approach anxiety?"Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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In this video I break down approach anxiety into essentially two different types: that experienced by the novice male with few approaches, and that experienced by the more advanced male despite his many thousands of approaches. In other words, there's value to be garnered here even for more experienced males who otherwise consider themselves as having moved far beyond having approach anxiety. Le...2020-12-2413 minMikeMehlman.netOnly picked up 37 GIRLS' CONTACTS in 5 hoursMain blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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This short post covers two main points: 1) female non-receptiveness is the male non-approach (I've written a longer article on this topic before), and 2) you cannot achieve high contact acquisitions without incurring a greater number of rejections first. To address the first point: The same way most males won't approach females no matter what, most females will reject males no matter what. This isn...2020-12-2311 minMikeMehlman.netWhat most determines the Male Sexual Market Value (SMV)Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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This post is a short update of a longer article on sexual market value (SMV) I wrote a couple years ago. My thoughts have evolved significantly and I've converged more or less on seeing that male SMV is mostly determined by confidence level. Not looks. Not fame. Not wealth. Guys will have their criticisms. Guys will disagree. Guys will view this conceptualization of...2020-12-2113 minMikeMehlman.netHow to pick up 68 GIRLS' CONTACTS in one afternoonMain blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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In this video and article I talk about how to pick up high volume of contact acquisitions through daygame approach. I've discussed this topic at length before, but this piece brings concise and renewed awareness to guys who are looking to increase the number of contacts they pick up. The first point is to approach in a venue that enables high-volume approach. I...2020-12-1616 minMikeMehlman.netWHAT IT MEANS when you get GHOSTED (not the answer you expect)Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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This topic is going to be met with probably a high degree of pushback and criticism by many guys. There will be plenty of guys who disagree with me here. "Michael you're wrong." Or (my favorite) "Mike, I read your last post. I agree with 80-90% of what you said." My response: "Meaning 10-20% of you is a cuck." And that's okay...2020-12-1419 minMikeMehlman.netHow to generate the HOOKUP once she's at your place (BEDROOM GAME)Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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Incessancy is an understatement when referring to the number of times the past year guys have been asking me to write a bedroom game article. I talk about in this video some of the basic things I see as important when I take a girl back to my place. I've made other videos and articles on how to pull from a date, b...2020-12-1333 minMikeMehlman.netOne of the biggest ROOKIE ERRORS on the cold approachMain blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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If you go out to the city to approach and have 2-3 hours to kill, it's a big big rookie error to take a girl's contact instead of trying to insta-date her. When you go on a date with a girl, the amount of time that has transpired since you met her, whether that's 30 minutes or two weeks, is irrelevant in terms o...2020-12-1220 minMikeMehlman.netHow to GET A GIRL BACK with you on the dateMain blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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The ideal date is no more than 30 minutes in length and takes place at a cafe or tapioca place. The shorter the date is, the more likely you are to get her back. If she proposes dinner and drinks, counter by saying a cafe is good. The former is more expensive and time-consuming. The notion that a nighttime-vibe-type date will increase your c...2020-12-0917 minMikeMehlman.netThe RECIPE for becoming more forward and calibrated in datingMain blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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One of the questions guys ask me is about what becoming more confident feels like. What should they expect to see changing for themselves? What's going to be different if they just trust what I've been preaching about high approach volume and put in the work to meet lots of girls and absorb incessant rejection. We all want to look forward to a...2020-12-0915 minMikeMehlman.netIf I want to CONNECT with a girl, how does that relate to how I should behave?Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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I've talked about how the male is his most attractive when he is fully deregulated (i.e., 100% winging his approaches). However an observation I've made after having started to preach deregulation is the propensity for guys to use it as an excuse for being non-forward and not putting in work. In other words, guys will frequently say things like, "Well I spent 90 mi...2020-12-0711 minMikeMehlman.netHow pushy should you be on the cold approach. And is that needy?Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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My views have heavily evolved since I wrote The Direct Approach article back in 2017. In that article, I talked about how if you say hi to a girl and she's moving away, terminate the conversation immediately. I really emphasized the point that the male should be non-needy in his interactions and not fight through with girls who seem unreceptive. After all, isn't t...2020-12-0611 minMikeMehlman.netWhy do other guys have higher conversion rates than I?Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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I took a look at the comments on the last YouTube video and one seemed to get a little attention, which was asking about why some guys might have higher conversion rates compared to other guys. In other words, "Why am I going 1 for 15 on my approaches whereas another guy goes 3 for 15?" This converges back on my talking point in that video a...2020-12-0610 minMikeMehlman.netWhy are my percentages with girls so low? What am I doing "wrong?"Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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One of the questions I hate seeing/hearing the most from guys is, "What am I doing wrong?" "Mike, my percentages are low. I've been approaching a lot, but you can't tell me it's normal to literally be getting 1 contact for every 40 approaches, or to still not have hooked up with a girl after x number of approaches. What am I doing w...2020-12-0413 minMikeMehlman.netWhat's more contributory to NON-NEEDINESS, # of plates, or raw approach volume?Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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Most of the male's ability to walk on the end of a dime comes from his raw approach volume, not his number of plates. Non-neediness manifests as essentially the degree to which the male comes across as cut-throat in his interactions. Being able to walk on the end of a dime cannot be faked and is palpated easily by women. They have a...2020-12-0103 minMikeMehlman.netIs it normal for girls to decline to meetup even if we've already hooked up?Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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This video is essentially a continuation of yesterday's, where I talked about how it's normal and predictable for girls to decline the male's attempt to meetup via text once or twice, without offering an alternative. The question today is from someone who asked if this changes after you've hooked up with a girl - i.e., is it normal for a girl t...2020-11-3009 minMikeMehlman.netIf I'm persistent through texting, is that NEEDY?Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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The question is at what point is it needy to persist with a girl via text. I've talked about before how I will delete girls who outright ignore me. That's essentially my red line. And it's not anything ego-based. It's just literally what my high volume of approach has led me to in terms of my behavior. I view females who outright...2020-11-3012 minMikeMehlman.netDo I need MONEY for a better sex life?Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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Guys chase money and "stuff" because they think they need it to generate greater efficacy in dating. High-volume approach frees you from the mindset of feeling like you need a lot of money.
Yes, we all want to be comfortable enough and have the freedom to live life as we please, but we could make the contention that the greater the focus the male carries with respect to money, the less...2020-11-2902 minMikeMehlman.netHow to maintain your platesMain blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
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Maintaining plates and approach are connected in a cyclical process. The male will approach in order to meet girls and gain plates. After he finds himself dating, e.g., 3-5 new girls, there's a greater tendency for him to become complacent and decide he doesn't need to approach quite as much. He might ask himself why bother approaching in "high volume," since a little here and there is okay. This is...2020-11-2803 min
MikeMehlman.netHow to overcome fear of others' opinions and judgmentsIf you want to be able to care less about the opinions and judgments of those whom you approach and the surrounding audiences, the key is incurring more rejection. It takes work, yes. It's not easy to subject oneself to repeated rejection. But things that are worth a lot take time and work.2020-09-0601 min
TSLMIAMI DATING ADVICE PODCASTHow Mike Mehlman got me LAID the MOST !As you can see , I've had a thread of my most recent videos discussing how each individual coach has helped my dating experiences along. I will make this video about who I believe to be the best innovator of cold approach in this millenia. The one and only mike Mehlman. As I explain in the video, his confidence is contagious and his disconcert for tactics is spot on. I love his method of approach because it basically ties in to being yourself, best self if you want to succeed more and nothing else. Clean and to the point. Doesn't float arou...2020-02-1521 min
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MikeMehlman.net"How high energy are you when you open girls?"How high energy are you when you open girls?2019-09-0501 min
MikeMehlman.net"After you open her, do you keep walking or stop?""After you open her, do you keep walking or stop?"2019-09-0501 min
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MikeMehlman.netMike, what's the most contacts you've gotten in one day?Mike, what's the most contacts you've gotten in one day?2019-06-1502 min
MikeMehlman.netConfidence is the most important male trait(Blog: mikemehlman.net; IG: @mike_mehlman; Snap: @michaelnewyork)
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MikeMehlman.netThe guy she wants on paper is not the one she'll date(Blog: mikemehlman.net; IG: @mike_mehlman; Snap: @michaelnewyork)
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MikeMehlman.netWhy I have tremendous gratitudeI talk about how I'm not special and how several narrow probability windows aligning perfectly is what propelled me into my mindset today.
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MikeMehlman.netHow to be more happyMoney; Embracing adversity
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MikeMehlman.netParenting + Children out of wedlock(Blog: mikemehlman.net; IG: @mike_mehlman; Snap: @michaelnewyork) If you like my channel, please subscribe for updates.2019-02-2203 min
MikeMehlman.netWhat I look for in a womanThe way in which we approach/behave with women determines those with whom we pair.
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MikeMehlman.netHow to become an Approach MachineThe two most important points that I believe are the "potent duo-unlock" for getting you from Zero to Something in terms of starting to introduce yourself to new people.
Two blog posts that go with this video are here:
http://mikemehlman.net/2019/02/19/the-5-stages-of-approach/
http://mikemehlman.net/2018/03/12/howto-become-an-approach-machine/
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MikeMehlman.netHow to be hyper-confidentThe link between confidence and rejection.
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MikeMehlman.netA valuable chat about marriageHere we discuss marriage and male-female sexual dynamics.
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MikeMehlman.netJudgment is a profound weaknessPeople will impose their judgments on others without any context. I don't want this clip to come off like I'm preaching, but I really do want to drive home the point that if people judge you, especially without having context, they're weak, not you. This clip isn't long, and it abruptly cuts off toward the end, but it was either discard it or just post as is, hoping it will give you some value. (Blog: mikemehlman.net; IG: @mike_mehlman; Snap: @michaelnewyork) If you like my channel, please subscribe for updates.2019-02-1903 min
MikeMehlman.netAn important discussion about moneyHappiness in relation to money; choosing life experience over money
Also a blog post on this topic: http://mikemehlman.net/2018/12/03/an-important-point-about-money/
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MikeMehlman.netAn important discussion about entitlementAn important talk about how approach/rejection relates to entitlement. In this video we delve into any potential negative reflex responses we might have to getting rejected. Even if we come from a genuine place of non-neediness, we're not perfect and are always looking to improve. So if there is ever that inclination to take a rejection, followed by a 0.6-second "F off" in one's head, this talk presents a deeper analysis as to why that might occur - i.e., this talk goes into the psychology behind a male's response to rejection. (Blog: mikemehlman.net; IG: @mike_mehlman; S...2019-02-1317 min
MikeMehlman.netLow %s due to audacity/experience VS mere inefficiencyI've talked about in my blog, podcast, and other videos how the more experienced you are, the lower your percentages. Not the other way around. I inculcate/hammer this point to really reinforce for you that if you're being bold and aggressive enough, you SHOULD BE getting rejected a high % of the time. But then a reasonable, secondary question arises: when are low %s simply a result of mere inefficiency.
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MikeMehlman.netTremendous gratitudeIn this episode I talk about why my blog exists and the tremendous gratitude I have for the mindset I hold. I also talk a little about confidence and rejection. Thanks so much again for listening. ~Mike
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