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Black Millennial MarriageBMM EP 178: Proof of Life [Season 7 FINALE]Magic Mind's got a Black Friday offer, it's currently 50% off until the 6th of December, only with my link:https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPDBF Use my code RANDIEPDBF for 50% off #magicmindHey y’all!It’s the end of. . . . the SEASON! So, here’s a longer episode to reflect on this long ass year. Tune in as Mikey and Randie reveal the 3 biggest things that affected them and stood out to them this year, and their favorite episodes and collabs. Later, they have a relationship check-in rating s...2024-12-071h 34
Black Millennial Marriage[FLASHBACK] BMM 012: Things to Do Before You Get MarriedTry Magic Mind for free here: https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPDTRIALWith my code RANDIEPDTRIAL (just cover shipping!).Hey y'all! Your favorite bi-monthly podcasters are here tehehehe. But no seriously, the Chapmans know everybody's going through it in some way and that's why they're back with a Flashback. Tune in to hear the opening convo and see what Mikey and Randie have been up to, and then vibe out to an oldie but good episode. BTW, don't forget to let them know what you think of Magic Mind! ..Everyone has...2024-07-1258 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM EP 171: This Again?Hey y’all!Tune in as Mikey and Randie talk about money . . . again.And the backstory involves Youtube Premium and wondering who gon’ pay the bill LOL.Together, the Chapmans reveal what’s been going on with work and money, and all the POSITIVE things they’re doing instead of—or in conjunction with— the “bad” habits.The “good” habits range from speaking up and refusing to isolate from friends, re-parenting themselves, and not OD’ing on chocolate. There’s more but you gotta pres...2024-05-141h 09
Black Millennial Marriage[FLASHBACK] BMM 082: Game of MoansHey y'all! Mikey and Randie are doing something new and will be dropping flashback/memory lane episodes on Fridays.Tune in to hear Game of Moans. This was another fan favorite back in the day. Happy Listening!... The Chapmans are BACK for Season 2! The theme? Plot twists. For their first episode back Mikey and Randie talk about sex. But wait! There’s no tears, no disgruntlement, or deep conversations, only laughs and a little shade. Together, they ask each other questions ranging from, “What’s your...2024-05-0357 min
Black Millennial Marriage[FLASHBACK] BMM EP 088: 4Ever Ever, It Ain't All BadHey y'all! Mikey and Randie are doing something new and will be dropping flashback/memory lane episodes on Fridays.First up, an episode from 2020 when they were celebrating 4 years of marriage. This was a fan favorite back then and they hope you still enjoy it! Especially because the couple just celebrated EIGHT years married! Wow. So many things have stayed the same. haha. Happy Listening. ...The Chapmans have been married for FOUR years, and in this episode they reflect on only the good parts. Together the couple share what...2024-04-271h 14Black Millennial MarriageBMM EP 166: Holistic Marriage Ft. Dr. Tiffany Smith + Mr. Horace SmithHey y’all! Mikey and Randie are back for Season 7. The Chapmans done batch recorded and everything lmao. In this episode the couple interview Dr. Tiffany Smith and her husband Mr. Horace a.k.a. Mr. Smith.Tune in to hear your hosts chat with the couple about their love story, the challenges of Horace living with chronic pain, functional medicine, and the surprising benefits of aromatherapy. Dr. Tiffany even gifts BMM listeners with a special offering.Later, Randie brings a fight or flight abo...2024-04-241h 12
Black Millennial MarriageBMM EP 164: Plastic Off the Sofa [UNEDITED]Hey y'all!Mikey and Randie are sick right now, but would never leave you hanging.So tune in for a raw and unedited version of "Plastic Off the Sofa". These kinds of episodes don't have any music or any edits, and they are a favorite of those on Patreon because listeners get a BTS look into what crafting an episode is like.This episode in particular was a very popular episode last year, downloaded over 4k times and so they wanted to share the original and uncut version with y'all.They'll...2023-12-171h 01
Black Millennial MarriageBMM EP 162: What You Been Up To?Hey y’all! With just a few more episodes left for this season, Mikey and Randie are back with an update. In this episode, they detail what’s been going on with them. They shed light on weight loss and gain, new projects, layoffs, and more. But what they also really want is for you to tell them what YOU have been up to. It’s getting closer and closer to the end of the year and they need your reviews, feedback, emails, and all that jazz.2023-12-0356 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM EP 160: Why Do Millennials Fall in Love [UNEDITED + REPRISED]Hey y'all, Hey!It's a good day for a throwback.And in this episode the Chapmans highlight BMM EP 059: Why Do Millennials Fall in Love? Do you remember that episode? It was a lot of fun and Mikey and Randie wanted to share the unedited version of that episode with you.In this episode, Randie reads a listener’s love story that started at Sonics, involves a little head, and ends in a lasting marriage. Later, Mikey and Randie answer a listener’s question that reveals why they got married and also why they...2023-10-241h 23
Black Millennial MarriageBMM MINI 159: We Kinda Sorta Turned Out FineHey y’all!Tune in for the Chapman’s first mini episode this season. As a reminder, Minis are all about their experiences as parents and in this episode Mikey and Randie reveal what parenting Drew has made them realize about their childhoods.The list ranges from being hit a lot to, in some cases, wishing they had the parents they wanted.It’s a fun episode in that Randie and Mikey really enjoyed recording it and chatting about this wild ride called parenthood.2023-10-1344 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 158: Holy Smokes Ft. Kristian A. SmithHey y’all! Was a pastor featured on the BMM podcast on your Bingo card for 2023? It certainly wasn’t on Mikey and Randie’s, but seeing as this season’s theme is “Lemonade” the Chapmans are committed to acknowledging the nourishment all around them. Enter Kristian A. Smith, a man who wears many hats, and is also the host of the Holy Smokes Spirituality and Cigars podcast. In this episode, the couple interview Kristian and discuss the first time they all broke an unspoken spoken rule, his ministry, how he and his...2023-09-191h 06
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 156: This is Embarrassing...Hey y’all!In this episode, Mikey and Randie detail their most recent relationship breakthrough.It started with an argument and turned into a moment of vulnerability. And it’s all thanks to that damn word chart.Later, Randie brings a fight or flight questioning Mikey about therapy. But it’s all love, when in the end they show each other some PDA. As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for...2023-08-091h 00
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 154: Everywhere You Go, There You Are Ft. Dr. Jeannelle Perkins-MuhammadHey y’all!In this episode Mikey and Randie interview Dr. Jeannelle Perkins-Muhammad on her latest book Into-Me-See: Mastering Black Intimacy for the Relationship You’ve Always Wanted and there’s so much to say.Before beginning the interview, The Chapmans and Dr. Jeannelle share their first memories of feeling safe. Later, the duo learn that finding out she was married to a narcissist inspired Dr. Jeannelle to write this book and more. Together, they discuss the infamous emotions chart that everybody in the world needs to print and hang up in their house...2023-07-111h 05
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 153: Alright, Let's Do This One Last TimeHey y’all. Mikey and Randie, are back after a hiatus of seven months.And in this episode, they detail what’s changed about them and how having boundaries, self-respect, and faith again has affected them and the podcast for the better. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight that turns into a poem, wondering when Randie will remember who she is. But, just like old times, it’s all love when they show each other PDA.As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn...2023-07-0453 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM Indie 151: Honey & Self-Sabotage [BONUS EP]Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsDidn’t expect a bonus Indie Episode from Randie did you? (Or maybe you did if you caught her latest IG Live)She misses y’all! Mikey and Randie both do. And they want you to consider this episode an apology, an olive branch, and a promise that they will be back sooner than you think with episodes. Get excited.And . . .Tune in as Randie details a homework assignment she received from her sex and intimacy doula. This homework included lots of honey and an epipha...2023-06-0627 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 150: Mo' Money Mo' FearListen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Now whoever thought that making more money and making it out of the valley would scare the hell out of Mikey and Randie?Can you relate? Tune in as the Chapmans detail why abundance has been triggering them and find out how they self-sabotage and re-ground themselves back in the present. Because the truth is, it's been a hard few years and it's also true that trouble don't last always. Right?Later Randie brings a fight or flight confronting Mikey about how he...2022-12-0953 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 148: Before We ArgueListen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.There are plenty of things Mikey and Randie wished they remembered before they argued. And in this episode, they’re gonna discuss. Tune in as the couple talk about being on the same team, being allowed to be angry, and remembering that they don’t have to internalize the others’ triggers and more.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight Randie can’t help but fly away from and it all seems too easy. They wonder:: has being married for 6 years tamed them or is this gro...2022-11-1646 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 147: We Want a MansionListen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Mikey and Randie are finally on the same page. Tune in as the couple detail their current home buying journey, barriers that stopped them in the past, and why, four years since moving into the Bat Cave, they’re finally ready to take action.Later, Randie brings a fight or flight that makes Mikey laughs till he cries and also makes him fly quicker than he ever has in the history of fight or flights. But it’s all love though, when in the end they shower e...2022-10-2454 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 145: Plastic Off the SofaListen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Mikey and Randie haven’t had a relationship check-in in a long long time, until today that is. For the inaugural episode of Season 5, tune in as the couple rate sex, family, communication, self, and money on a scale of 1-5. The convo is all things juicy, funny, and enlightening, and they hope to inspire you to check in with you and yours as well.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight asking Randie to be more considerate than she is. But it’s all love though...2022-09-2157 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM: You're Stuck With UsListen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.
Phew it's been a long long time, and the Chapmans have missed y'all.
In this episode, Mikey and Randie explain their impromptu break, read your emails, play your voicemails, and gift Patreon superlatives.
Later, Randie brings a fight or flight that questions if Mikey knows the true meaning of words. But in the end, it's all love when they show each other some PDA. Finally, if you stick around, you'll hear a message from Drew that the couple is certain will make you smile.
As always the Chapmans thank y'all...2022-09-101h 00
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 144: You're Stuck With Us (SEASON 4 FINALE!)Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Phew it's been a long long time, and the Chapmans have missed y'all.In this episode, Mikey and Randie explain their impromptu break, read your emails, play your voicemails, and gift Patreon superlatives. Later, Randie brings a fight or flight that questions if Mikey knows the true meaning of words. But in the end, it's all love when they show each other some PDA. Finally, if you stick around, you'll hear a message from Drew that the couple is certain will make you s...2022-09-101h 09
Black Millennial MarriageBMM: You Make Me LaughListen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.
Will you laugh until you cry? Mikey and Randie did. Like, real tears while hearing each other read the funniest stories they could find on the internet.
After all, it can't all be doom and gloom--can it? No one can stay down forever, and the Chapmans believe that. There were many many times they never thought they'd see the sun shine after Noble passed away, but then . . . something would make them laugh.
So tune in for this feel good episode, Randie and Mikey are certain you'll enjoy it.
Later, Mikey b...2022-05-1300 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 143: You Make Me LaughListen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Will you laugh until you cry? Mikey and Randie did. Like, real tears while hearing each other read the funniest stories they could find on the internet.After all, it can't all be doom and gloom--can it? No one can stay down forever, and the Chapmans believe that. There were many many times they never thought they'd see the sun shine after Noble passed away, but then . . . something would make them laugh.So tune in for this feel good episode, Randie and Mikey a...2022-05-1348 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM: I'd Still Marry YouListen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.
Mikey and Randie didn't know what they were really getting into when they said "I do," and so there lies the question...would they still marry each other if they knew about all the grief they would endure?
The answer is yes and...lol.
Later, Randie brings a fight questioning how Mikey documents his life. But it's all love when in the end they show each other some PDA.
The Chapmans have 5 episodes left for this season, and as always they thank you for tuning in, downloading, and messaging them...2022-05-0500 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 142: I'd Still Marry YouListen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.April 24th marked six years that Mikey and Randie have been married, and it's safe to say they didn’t know what they were really getting into when they said “I do." So, there lies the question…would they still marry each other if they knew about all the grief they would endure?The answer is "Yes and"…lol. Well, you gotta tune in to hear.Later, Randie brings a fight questioning how Mikey documents his life. But it’s all love when in the end...2022-05-0546 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM: "Grief Sedated by Orgasm"Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.
In Lemonade Beyoncè said, "Grief sedated by orgasm. Orgasm heightened by grief," and the Chapmans believe she was on to something.
In this episode Mikey and Randie discuss how grief has affected their sex life. Together they detail sex before and after Noble, how sex has evolved, and then end the main segment with advice for grieving couples.
Later, the Mr. brings a fight questioning the ways Randie takes care of herself. But it's all love when in the end they show each other some PDA.
As always, Mikey and R...2022-03-1500 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 140: "Grief Sedated by Orgasm"Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.In Lemonade Beyoncè said, “Grief sedated by orgasm. Orgasm heightened by grief,” and the Chapmans believe she was on to something.In this episode Mikey and Randie discuss how grief has affected their sex life. Together they detail sex before and after Noble, how sex has evolved, and then end the main segment with advice for grieving couples.Later, the Mr. brings a fight questioning the ways Randie takes care of herself. But it’s all love when in the end they show each other some PD...2022-03-1557 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM: Bat Shit AngryListen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.
The Chapmans are mad as hell, but they have a complicated relationship with anger. They're certain you can relate.
In this episode, Mikey and Randie discuss how they viewed rage before and now after their son, Noble. They detail how their anger affects their marriage and what they're learning and unlearning about being mad.
Later, Randie brings a fight questioning Mikey's habits around their daughter, Drew, but it's all love in the end when they shower each other with PDA.
As always, the Chapmans thank you for tuning into this...2022-02-2000 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 138: Bat Shit AngryListen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.The Chapmans are mad as hell, but they have a complicated relationship with anger. They’re certain you can relate.In this episode, Mikey and Randie discuss how they viewed rage before and now after their son, Noble. They detail how their anger affects their marriage and what they’re learning and unlearning about being mad.Later, Randie brings a fight questioning Mikey’s habits around their daughter, Drew, but it’s all love in the end when they shower each other with PDA.As alw...2022-02-2051 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM Indie: Bad TripListen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Mikey and Randie are BACK for Season 4 of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast and the theme is . . .grief.
Together the couple will detail the sadness, breakthroughs, triggers, triumphs, and ways life has shifted since the loss of their son, Noble.
And in this Indie episode, Randie details the last time she got high while on vacation in Denver and how that experience convinced her she really needed help.
Tune in. This episode is especially for those who are grieving and (still) running from it. The Mrs. hopes that by listening...2022-02-1000 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM Indie 136: Bad TripListen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsMikey and Randie are BACK for Season 4 of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast and the theme is . . .grief.Together the couple will detail the sadness, breakthroughs, triggers, triumphs, and ways life has shifted since the loss of their son, Noble.And in this Indie episode, Randie details the last time she got high while on vacation in Denver and how that experience convinced her she really needed help.Tune in. This episode is especially for those who are grieving and running from it...2022-02-1025 min
Black Millennial MarriageWe Are Really HighListen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.
Mikey and Randie are BACK for Season 4 of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast and the theme is . . .grief.
Together the couple will detail the sadness, breakthroughs, triggers, triumphs, and ways life has shifted since the loss of their son, Noble.
And in this episode the couple discuss vices and the ways they tried and failed to escape their grief.
Later, Randie brings a fight questioning Mikey's cooking habits and memory. But it's all love in the end when they show each other some PDA.
As always, the Chapmans hopes you...2022-02-0644 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 135: We Are Really HighListen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Mikey and Randie are BACK for Season 4 of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast and the theme is . . .grief.Together the couple will detail the sadness, breakthroughs, triggers, triumphs, and ways life has shifted since the loss of their son, Noble.And in this episode the couple discuss vices and the ways they tried and failed to escape their grief.Later, Randie brings a fight questioning Mikey’s cooking habits and memory. But it’s all love in the end when they show each oth...2022-02-0641 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 133: A Proper Ending (End of Season 3)Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Today marks four months since Mikey and Randie lost their son, Noble, and in dedication they wanted to end the season properly.In this episode, Randie and Mikey detail why they're doing this episode, where they've been the past few months, and where they are now. There's also some exciting news for what's in store for BMM in 2022.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight confronting Randie about an annoying habit. But in the end, it's all love when they...2021-11-2543 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 132: Live From the BedListen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Randie’s water broke and she’s on bed rest.This new development is a pregnancy plot twist for sure and the Chapmans record in bed to tell you all about it. Together they detail the ER and hospital stay and the plan for the baby and pregnancy. Later, Mikey and Randie detail how they’re doing and what’s helping the Mrs. survive. They conclude the episode with some much needed PDA and even laugh a bit.As always, Randie and Mikey appreciate everyo...2021-07-1136 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 131: Did We Get Married Too Young?Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.In this episode, the Chapmans wonder if they got married too young.Together Mikey and Randie reveal if they regret their decision and discuss how self-esteem affected their reasons to say, “I Do.”Later, the Mrs. brings a fight or flight blaming Mikey for failing to read the room. And his response may surprise you. In the end though, it’s all love when they show each other some PDA.As always, Randie and Mikey hope you enjoy this episode and are inspired to...2021-06-2436 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 130: No One is Coming to Save UsListen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsThere comes a point in every marriage where a couple realizes: No one is coming to save them.Mikey and Randie have reached that moment, especially concerning the podcast.In this episode, the Chapmans detail the ways they’ve been playing small, reveal why they’ve been passive participants in this podcast game, and discuss how they intend to confront and stop the bullshit. From utilizing their resources, trusting their first thought, and asking for help, Randie and Mikey let listeners in on thei...2021-06-031h 02
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 128: Another Baby.Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsRandie is pregnant! And the Chapmans want to tell you all about the new baby.In this episode, Mikey and Randie detail why they decided to have another baby, discuss how they found out about the new addition, and reveal what happened when they told family and friends about the pregnancy. Later, the Mrs. brings a fight or flight asking Mikey to explain why he has to hear something from 100 people before he believes her when she says something. But in the end, it’s al...2021-05-0354 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 126: Fly Drew. Fly.Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIn the second episode of season 3, Mikey and Randie discuss putting Drew back in daycare. Together, the parents detail the pros and cons of having Drew home because of Covid-19, why they decided school was best for her, and how their baby girl’s return to daycare is helping them take their shit back.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight confronting Randie about a compliment gone wrong. But, in the end it’s all love when the Chapmans show each other some PDA.Ra...2021-04-1649 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 125: Let’s Play a Game!Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsMikey and Randie are back for Season 3, and true to Chapman fashion and BMM tradition, they’re back with a game!Invented by UK couple, Robert and Diana Indries, Better Topics is a game created by couples for couples. You can enjoy this game whether you are married, engaged, dating, in a long-term relationship, or a new couple.Together, Randie and Mikey play the fun game asking each other questions like: When was a moment you were ashamed? When were you last turned of...2021-04-0557 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 124: End of Season Two! Back in 2021.Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsPHEW!! It’s been a wild, wonderous, and unexpected year. When the ball drops on New Year’s Day don’t forget to shout, “Jumanji!” but before that, listen to the Chapman’s last episode of 2020. For this season finale, Mikey and Randie share the episodes that grew them up and surprised them and later they play and read feedback from . . . you. But not so fast, before the episode ends, Randie and Mikey award Patreon superlatives like, “Most likely to own half of West Atlanta” and “Most likely to be the tallest...2020-12-151h 01
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 121: What We Gained In The FireListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsThe Chapmans will be back Wednesday, December 2nd! But before then . . . election day is upon us, and that’s a big deal. However, Mikey and Randie are here if you want to take a load off–cause lord knows they need to. That’s why in this episode, the couple discuss the gains from 2020. They highlight Lovecraft Country, bonding with their family members, and a year–despite 2020’s best efforts–of heightened intimacy and sensuality.Normally, Randie and Mikey would save this kind of thing for the end of t...2020-11-031h 03
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 120: Competing With Who?Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIcky, exhausted, confused, inferior, grateful, and inspired are just a few ways Mikey and Randie feel when they compete–knowingly and unknowingly.Together, the Chapmans detail what it’s like to be copied, unfollowed, and seen out here in these creative streets. Randie and Mikey also discuss what fuels their drive and keeps them focused on what matters most.Later, the Mr. brings a fight or flight asking the Mrs. to do more with her glasses. But, it’s all love when they show each o...2020-10-2656 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 118: Another Baby?Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts“AHT AHT AHT” That’s what Randie says during this entire episode. Why? Because the Chapmans are discussing what it would be like to have another baby. In this episode the couple give their initial thoughts about having another child (way in the future) and detail what it was like having siblings. Then, Mikey and Randie share pros and cons to adding to their family. The Mr. has feelings he didn’t expect, while the Mrs. may be a little stressed. Later, during the fight or flight, Randie confront...2020-10-151h 06
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 117: Big Mistakes. Big Lessons.Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIn this episode, Mikey and Randie reveal big mistakes they’ve made in their marriage and the lessons they learned from them. From lying about being in the mood for sex to overcompensating and neglecting love languages, the Chapmans share it all. The conversation is insightful and necessary, and they’re pretty sure you’re going to cry laughing–per usual. Later, the Mr. brings a fight or flight that questions Randie’s ability to look for things, but in the end it’s all love and laughter when the cou...2020-10-081h 02
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 115: Creator WoesListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Are you finding it hard to be creative or productive with all that’s been happening this year? Well, Mikey and Randie have and they aren’t too proud to share. In this open and honest episode, the couple detail the pros and cons of being a creator during a pandemic and revolution. For Randie, it’s mentally and emotionally draining in more ways than one and for Mikey, his extroverted side is taking a major hit. Later, for the Mrs.’s fight or flight, Mikey surprises Randie with a h...2020-09-2957 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 113: We Keep Forgetting to Say Thank YouListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Did Last week’s positivity throw you off? Well, get ready because Mikey and Randie are trying something new again. In this gratitude filled episode, the couple detail lessons they learned from people they always forget to thank. For Randie, it’s her dad and extended family members and for Mikey, it’s his mom. In this never-before-had conversation, Randie dives into her epiphany about gray areas, while Mikey bigs up his mother and recognizes how his father has contributed to who he is. Later, for the Mr.’s fight...2020-09-231h 11
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 112: What I Like About YouListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Last week was intense, right? That’s why Mikey and Randie are lightening it up a bit with some major PDA. In this episode the couple detail what they like about the other and end up surprising one another. From Randie’s rant about Mikey’s butt to Mikey’s love about her bravery, the Chapmans invite you in to listen to a heartwarming and feel good conversation. Later, for her fight or flight, the Mrs. questions Mikey about always using her things. But, in the end, it’s always l...2020-09-1641 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 110: Are You Shrinking Yourself for Me?Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Have you been having simple conversations with your partner? Where neither one of you are assuming the worst or avoiding conflict? Mikey and Randie haven’t. That’s why in this episode the couple discuss ways they are shrinking themselves and the potential harm they have caused in their relationship. Randie shares her definition of shrinking herself, Mikey expresses similar feelings, and the couple share a transformative moment when they reveal the ways and reasons they shrink who they are.
Things get eye-opening, apologetic, and true to C...2020-09-081h 18
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 108: Allow Me to Reintroduce MyselfListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
NOTHING is the same, well not really, and that includes Mikey and Randie. That’s why in this episode the couple ask each other rapid fire questions paired with three questions each to reintroduce themselves to the other. Randie wonders why it’s important for Mikey to grow his hair back and if he still has a fear of abandonment, while Mikey wonders what’s Randie’s favorite part of her body and if there’s anything she’s keeping from him. Things get deep, funny, and true to Chapman f...2020-09-011h 20
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 106: Brave Marriage Featuring Jeff and LoganListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
**Republished** Mikey and Randie may not have many married mentors, but they certainly have some of the best peer ones. That’s why in this episode the couple chat with their favorite married friends–Jeff and Logan about being brave and what that looks like while in a relationship. To start, the friends discuss a time they were afraid in their childhood. Then, Logan and Jeff tell their love story (spoiler: it’s hilarious). Later, the couples discuss race and power dynamics in their relationships, reveal what they have h...2020-08-181h 12
Black Millennial MarriageBMM Mini: Let’s Not FightListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Mikey and Randie are losing their F’n minds. Why? Because everybody’s outside while they’re inside watching “Word Party,” it’s bananas and they need to take a load off. That’s why in this episode, the couple bring back minis–episodes about their time as a mom and dad–-and detail what they’re finding difficult and loving about parenting in a pandemic. They laugh more than they expect in this episode, but on a serious note, their hearts are going out to all parents especially those who...2020-08-1125 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 104: Love and Business featuring Domino SoundListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Mikey and Randie never thought they’d start a business with the podcast, and yet here they are! It’s a plot twist, alright, and this got them thinking about other couples who are doing big things on the business front as well. Other couples like, Kenya and Alex–co-founders of the queer, black woman-owned Domino Sound network. Along with their team, the duo are making it work and staying together. How Sway?
The Chapmans interview them and find out how they met and started the busine...2020-08-0459 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 102: We’re RichListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
When you really think about it, you’re rich. At least, that’s what Mikey and Randie discovered while on their mid-season pod break. That’s why in this episode the couple discuss six things about their relationship that makes them feel rich and makes them want to show gratitude. From Randie holding herself accountable, to Mikey proving that he’s willing and ready to act in allyship, the couple welcome you to participate in their sap fest. Later, the Mr. brings a fight or flight that questions how voca...2020-07-2745 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 100: OUR 100TH EPISODE!Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
If you’ve never listened to an episode or are trying to catch up. Stop whatever you are doing and listen to this one! How come? It’s the Black Millennial Marriage podcast’s 100TH EPISODE!! Mikey and Randie did it! They reached a monumental number in their show, and they want to share all the feels with you. That’s why in this episode, the couple play listener voicemails, read listener emails, and play snippets from their personal favorite episodes. Later, they discuss what the podcast has taught t...2020-06-221h 13
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 098: Joy is an Act of Resistance Ft. DrewListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Writer and activist Audre Lorde said it best, caring for oneself is a form of political warfare. That’s why, in this episode Mikey and Randie are taking a break from the heartache and instead reflecting on the joys of Blackness. Why? Because while the revolution is in progress and the pandemic is still real, they needed a reminder that Black people do more than die. Black people are masters of joy and happiness. They are compassionate, strong, and magical, so together the Chapmans reveal their favorite thing ab...2020-06-1055 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 096: Marriage CounselingListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Mikey and Randie are in therapy . . . together! And in this episode, they discuss their experience with counseling and their latest homework assignment. Randie must consider what a fearless life looks like and show proof that Mikey supports her, and Mikey must reflect on their relationship history and reveal what he finds most valuable. The results are interesting and transformative, and they can’t wait for you to hear all about it. Never did they expect to engage in virtual therapy but it’s working and they want to spre...2020-06-031h 08
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 095: Radical AcceptanceListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Oh the irony! This episode was supposed to be the first one of season 2, but Mikey and Randie changed their plans. Now, the couple share this episode because of another plot twist and a surprise that’s not quite ready yet–but it’s all good. Recorded back in February, when they were on break, Randie and Mikey talk about some of the things they have to radically accept. From the come up not being as linear as they hoped, to understanding that they have to live with their...2020-05-2749 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 093: A Second Marriage?Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
After listening to the “Rethinking Infidelity . . . a talk for anyone who has ever loved,” TED Talk, Mikey and Randie decide it may be time to start a second marriage. So, in this episode, the couple discuss what a second marriage means to them and why they think they should start anew. Next, they share pros, cons, and fears about starting this new venture, and lastly they share how they plan to manifest a second marriage. Later, Randie brings a fight or flight and confronts Mikey about a promise he b...2020-05-1847 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 090: The F*ck?Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
In this episode, Mikey and Randie review the first five episodes of, “The Cheat Code,” a podcast about an affair told over ten episodes. Together, the Chapmans detail their initial reactions that ranged from–“Wtf?” to “Huh?”. Next, the couple discuss what had them in their feelings. Randie reveals the show triggered the kid in her and that she was surprised to hear cheaters cry about getting cheated on. Mikey, on the other hand was most surprised by how nonchalant and narcissistic the duo was during the time frame of the a...2020-05-041h 10
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 086: Deeper Than the Highlight ReelListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
**RE-UPLOADED** In this episode the Chapmans share how the season 2 launch of the podcast triggered bigger concerns. Together Mikey and Randie discuss how not seeing one another on the social media feed gave truth to a bigger problem. That problem? They have not prioritized, invested time, or attempted to memorialize their relationship, on or offline, in a while.
In the past year, they only wanted to survive, and the two discuss how that mentality impacted the small things that have snowballed into big things. Now, they...2020-04-2356 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 084: Love and Lessons in the Time of CoronaListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
What a time to be alive, right? In this episode Mikey and Randie discuss the ways the Coronavirus pandemic has already changed their life. From realizing that they’re blessed to having to accept that they should have deleted some people from their social media a long time ago, the Chapmans also share what this time in isolation is teaching them about themselves and each other. The couple lastly reveal how sad social distancing is because this means they have to stay away from key family members–like Mike...2020-04-131h 06
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 082: Game of MoansListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
The Chapmans are BACK for Season 2! The theme? Plot twists. For their first episode back Mikey and Randie talk about sex. But wait! There’s no tears, no disgruntlement, or deep conversations, only laughs and a little shade. Together, they ask each other questions ranging from, “What’s your most embarrassing moment in bed,” “Has my rank changed?”, “What do you wish we did more of?” and that’s just the beginning. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight questioning Randie’s hate of his favorite show, “How I Met Your Mother.” It...2020-04-0557 min
Black Millennial Marriage[Patreon Archives] BMM Mini 010: Shower my BabyListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
When Randie was pregnant, the Chapmans didn’t celebrate too much. Fear and worry took over and they were slow to show real excitement about Drew until…the baby shower. So for this Patreon archive, the couple take it all the way back to the day their family and friends got together to acknowledge new life. The party had everything from books, to games, to drama, and whistles and you gotta tune in to hear all about it. In other news, Season 2 of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast airs...2020-02-2525 min
Black Millennial Marriage[Patreon Archives] BMM Mini 017: 5 HoursListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
In this Patreon archive episode, the Chapmans throw it back to an oldie but a goodie and share what it was like to have 5 hours together, for the first time after having Drew. Mikey and Randie had a little time to do whatever they wanted and they lived it up like back in college…kinda. Later, they talk about meeting Beleaf of Beleaf in Fatherhood for the first time at an Atlanta meet-up. They hope you tune in and enjoy this trip down memory lane. Season 2 of the Bl...2020-02-1728 min
Black Millennial Marriage[Patreon Archives] BMM Mini 013: Labor of Love Pt. 3Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
It’s clear Drew got here safely, but haven’t you ever wondered about the final moments of Randie’s birth story? In this episode, never released to the public, the Chapmans detail the Mrs’s c-section. They also discuss the hospital stay in the midst of Mikey’s program, and more. Later, the Chapmans shower each other with PDA and they hope you enjoy. Season 2 of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast airs April 5th, but until then the couple will share archived mini episodes you haven’t heard before...2020-02-0451 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 081: End of Season 1. Back in April.Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
IT’S THE END OF THE LONGEST SEASON EVER! Whew. Hindsight is 2020, and in this episode, the Chapmans discuss their almost two years of podcasting, how, why, and when they realized they needed an official season break and pod revamp, and finally what their plans for season two entail.
Together, Mikey and Randie reveal their fears about change ranging from a fear of missing out and a fear of losing people, but as a couple they realize the positive impact of change outweighs the possible negative. Th...2019-12-301h 20
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 077: What a YearListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Whew. It’s been a year and in this episode the Chapmans talk about it. Mikey and Randie provide a broad overview of what happened between December 2018 to now and have their first relationship check-in since episode 026. Together the couple rate communication, money, sex, the podcast, vacation, and their 9 months as parents to Drew, and per usual the results are as surprising as they are funny. Randie reveals she wants to talk to Mikey less and Mikey reveals his plan to focus on more unorthodox foreplay, (and that’s ju...2019-12-161h 13
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 075: You’re a FlirtListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
The Chapmans are back from their break with a new episode. In this installment of the BMM podcast, Mikey and Randie discuss if they find other people attractive, and if they think it’s realistic to only have eyes for your spouse. Both of them share an experience with flirting before and now that they’re married, and the conversation is as funny as it is insightful. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight concerning Randie’s shoes, but as always they end the episode with some PDA.
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Black Millennial MarriageBMM 073: Relationship Horror Stories Pt. 2Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
A year later, and Mikey and Randie are back with another round of relationship horror stories submitted by . . . you.
Included are your tales about a crazy ex tricking a locksmith and trashing the place, sex with a Nazi, a group text gone wrong, and more. The Chapmans couldn’t have been more entertained. Your transparency and humor has given the couple something to hold on to while they take a pod break, but don’t worry they’ll be back December 8th.
Before they leave...2019-10-281h 10
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 071: Family DinnerListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Mikey and Randie enjoy talking about their relationship, their truths, fails, and triumphs, but more than anything they enjoy talking about . . . you.
With just one more episode to go before their break, the Chapmans respond to listener feedback, share voicemails, talk about that time Mikey’s foot got ran over, and respond to listener stories concerning their own fathers. This episode was so good even Drew had something to say. Mikey and Randie had fun, and they hope you enjoy as well.
Are you ex...2019-10-211h 28
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 069: How Randie Got Her Groove BackListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
It’s been a long time coming, but Randie’s back to work. In this episode, she reveals how loss, chaos, and fear caused her to lose her way and forget her intentions. However, she later explains how Mikey’s coding bootcamp endeavor encouraged her to bet on herself again. Later, the couple discuss the talk she had with God and how she found the new full-time job. They also detail the extensive interview process, and explain what this new work means for the podcast and Patreon. Before the ep...2019-10-131h 29
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 067: This Sh*t is Hard WorkListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Yes, Mikey and Randie have been together for a long time and yes they like and love one another, but that doesn’t mean being together is easy. Still, for some strange reason, some people assume that the work they do for their relationship is easy and lacks stressors, fears, worries, and concerns. That’s why in this episode, the Chapmans reveal six things that’s still hard for them. The list ranges from being kind when they don’t feel like it, remaining unselfish and sacrificing wants and need...2019-10-081h 36
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 065: That’s Not How Any of This WorksListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Should you put up with any old thing just because you’re married? Mikey and Randie refuse. And in this episode the Chapmans detail all the things marriage is NOT (in their opinion). They take a hard look at key parts of marital vows: “For richer or poorer,” “In sickness and health,” “For better or worse,” and, “Till death do us part,” and reveal what the commitment requires and doesn’t require to them. Later Randie brings a fight or flight asking Mikey to explain why she always has to repeat hersel...2019-09-291h 05
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 061: Oh, You Watch Porn PornListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Lamar Odom’s girlfriend made him give it up, and every now and then someone reveals to IG that they’ve caught their partner watching porn porn. So in this episode, Mikey and Randie decide to talk about the subject themselves. They both reveal an embarrassing story, discuss their pros and cons, share the impact on their relationship, and detail what they think about porn as socially conscious people. They go there. Later, Randie brings a fight or flight that ironically is about their episode topic but in the...2019-09-151h 28
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 059: Why Do Millennials Fall in Love?Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
In this episode, Randie reads a listener’s love story that started at Sonics, involves a little head, and ends in a lasting marriage. Later, Mikey and Randie answer a listener’s question that reveals why they got married and also why they believe millennials are shying away from the commitment. Before the episode’s end, the Chapmans hypothetically renegotiate terms of their relationship and engage in a fight or flight that gets deeper than expected. However, as always Mikey and Randie reel it in with some always apprec...2019-09-081h 10
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 056: Bad Dad/Good Husband. Bad Wife/Good Mom.Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Before their pod break, Mikey and Randie are bringing all the emotions. You’re not crying, they are. In this episode, the couple open up about the disconnect between them. Mikey thinks he’s failing as a dad, Randie thinks she’s failing as a wife, and both of their therapists disagree. But before they get into it, the Chapmans lead with an extra special love story. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight concerning Randie’s resistance to a sexual request, and in the end they show each oth...2019-07-281h 36
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 054: What About Your Fam?Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
It’s all fun and games, until your spouse’s sister calls you evil. At least, that’s the case for a listener who wrote in. In this episode, Mikey and Randie discuss an email they received. They detail what protecting each other from family and friends looks like, and reveal their thoughts about keeping family in and out their business.
In all, family’s complicated, man and while Randie and Mikey have differing opinions, they do arrive at a common ground.
Later, Mikey brings a...2019-07-171h 15
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 051: 21 Day ChallengeListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Remember the Chapman’s 21 day sex challenge? Yea. They failed. Don’t worry though–they will explain.
In this episode Mikey and Randie discuss how and why they failed, who they think the challenge is best for, and what they plan to do moving forward.
Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight that blames Randie for his anxiety, and then they make up with some PDA.
Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?
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Black Millennial MarriageBMM 050: THAT Black Mirror EpisodeListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Anybody catch THAT Black Mirror episode? You know the one. SPOILER ALERT: In this episode the couple discuss why Black Mirror’s Striking Vipers had them up talking all night. Mikey and Randie also reveal why they believe the story is a cautionary tale for married folks and later they discuss what they took from the show. Before the episode ends Randie brings a fight or flight that questions Mikey’s response to her vulnerable moment and later they indulge in some PDA.
Are you excited to a...2019-06-241h 05
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 049: Dear Mikey, Happy Father’s DayListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Randie recorded this episode at 2:00am and Mikey has no idea. Why? Because it’s Father’s Day and he deserves something grand. In this unique episode, Randie details her relationship with Father’s Day in the past, why she struggled to come up with something for Mikey this year, and what she ultimately plans to do for him on this special day. She ends the episode with a message for Mikey and she hopes you enjoy.
Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your l...2019-06-1622 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 047: Vulnerability FailListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
If trust is earned then why doesn’t Mikey have Randie’s? And is it a trust issue or a vulnerability one? Maybe it’s all the same thing?
In this episode the Chapmans do their best to figure it out. They start by defining vulnerability, trust, and faith, and later the Mrs. reads a journal entry. It’s a tough conversation, but the couple agree that it’s a good one.
Later Randie brings a fight or flight asking Mikey to explain his bad trash...2019-06-021h 26
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 043: Behind the PodcastListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
The Black Millennial Marriage Podcast is a year old and for their anniversary the couple take everyone behind the podcast.
They discuss how they got the money for equipment, what they went through to obtain the license for their song, how they got their image, and why their name was a big mistake. Mikey and Randie later answer listener questions and give their favorite and not so favorite 3 episodes, divulge what they hope to accomplish this upcoming year of podcasting, and detail what podcasting has taught...2019-04-221h 39
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 042: ChangesListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Mikey and Randie spent the week apart and came back together a bit more rested and with a few revelations. They later have a surprise for their fight or flight and Mikey gives some PDA Drew probably shouldn’t hear.
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Black Millennial MarriageBMM 034 Memory Lane: What We’re Loving About MarriageListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Mikey and Randie are back with a memory lane episode, but before the flashback they respond to a listener’s feedback and have their first fight or flight of the new year. What’s the fight about you ask? Just something Mikey let slip when they were talking about birth control options.
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Black Millennial MarriageBMM EP 031: No, I Love You (More)Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
This may be the couple’s most freestyled episode yet. For episode 031 Mikey and Randie get into topics they believe can be divisive in relationships like: who does the most work, who has it worse: men or women, and more. The conversation is eye-opening for the both of them and it takes Randie out of her shell while making Mikey feel right at home.
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Black Millennial MarriageBMM 025: Never Gonna Give You UpListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Marriages end, especially (sometimes) after a baby and in this episode the couple talk about the work they intend to do to keep their marriage intact once Baby Chapman gets here.
After all, wouldn’t it be a shame to break up after everything they’ve been through? Randie thinks so. Later in the episode, Mikey and Randie discuss never wanting to consider the other irrelevant–especially after reading the definition–they then talk about their goal to not neglect themselves emotionally, physically, and mentally, and lastly d...2018-10-0258 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 023: It’s a Hard Knock LifeListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
When it rains it pours.
Rather than wait until the storm has passed, the Chapmans discuss their current trials and tribulations ranging from the (happy) shock of a second pregnancy, Mikey’s mental health, Randie’s recent…self employment, money woes, and their relationship with guilt and shame. The fight or flight segment is as entertaining as ever and as always the couple close the episode with some PDA.
Are you excited to add Mikey and Randie to your list of relationship favorites?
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Black Millennial MarriageBMM 022: The InterviewListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Ever wanted to know more about who Mikey and Randie are, individually? If the answer is yes. Tune in.
In this episode the couple ask each other a string of questions ranging from “Are you brave and what’s a brave moment you’re proud of?” to “What are you currently struggling with right now?” With these questions, Randie and Mikey give more insight into themselves and hope the listeners enjoy the conversation.
Fight or Flight is back as Randie raises concerns about a nasty habit Mikey...2018-08-271h 05
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 016: A Crazy Ass NightListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
Drunk and in love, Mikey and Randie share a story about a crazy night.
In this episode the couple reminisce about a time they each got way too drunk. Randie and Mikey discuss the problems that arose when they mixed partying with tequila and share a few lessons they’ve learned. Later, the Chapmans are challenged by a family member who leaves a voicemail for the fight or flight segment and things get interesting.
Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your li...2018-07-0152 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 015: Sometimes You’re Hard to LoveListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
Are you hard to love? Sometimes Mikey and Randie are.
In this episode the couple practice accountability and detail all the things that’s hard to love about themselves. Randie and Mikey discuss where these flaws originate and how they do their best to keep themselves in check.
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Black Millennial MarriageBMM 013: A Friendship ApplicationListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
Have you been traumatized by a friendship? Mikey and Randie have. That’s why, in this episode, the couple have questions.
Together, Randie and Mikey bring 10 questions to the table that they need couples to answer before they enter the Chapman circle. They detail why these questions are important and ask listeners for their feedback.
Do you think they’re crazy? Do you have a set of questions you need answered before you become friends with someone? Let them know!
Are you exci...2018-06-1254 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 010: Worst Lap Dance EverListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
Who chews gum during a lap dance? Randie did. But that’s not the only reason it was a fail.
In their BIG 10 episode, Mikey and Randie talk about keeping it sexy and travel down memory lane to retell the story of the time Randie surprised Mikey with a lap dance.
It was a great gesture, but everything that could go wrong did go wrong. The couple laugh it up as they reminiscence and give listeners all the face-palming details.
Will you go...2018-05-2050 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 009: Dear MamaListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
Mikey and Randie love their mothers.
In this episode the couple talk about their good relationships with their moms, but how getting there wasn’t always easy. Well, it was for Mikey when it concerns Randie’s mom but not so much for Randie with Mikey’s mom—(in the beginning).
The Chapman’s discuss jealousy, epiphanies, and more.
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Black Millennial MarriageBMM 008: Must Love SexListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
What’s your sex deal breaker? Mikey and Randie have the same one. Also, do you think married people make sex look boring? Questions that need answers.
In this episode the couple discuss why it’s important to them to communicate about sex and how a sex game helped them realize what they were getting right and wrong. The couple detail the things they’re cool with, won’t do, and would like the other to do more of, and Randie divulges the truth about a fetish...2018-05-0657 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 007: Just Married? Good Luck.Listen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
Celebrating their second year of marriage, Mikey and Randie reminisce about how shit got real in their first year of marriage just like everyone said it would.
In this episode, Mikey and Randie talk about advice they received when they got married, problems they had that they didn’t expect, and why they were dumb to think nothing would go wrong.
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Black Millennial MarriageBMM 005: Threesome or Nah?Listen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
Don’t we all have threesome-clone fantasies?
Randie does.
In this episode Mikey and Randie discuss their thoughts on sharing your partner and then discuss and negotiate the conditions necessary to participate in a threesome. Mikey’s past is slightly exposed while Randie sheds light on her clone fantasies and questions if there are other definitions for monogamy.
Tune in to hear how Mikey might need a lot of alcohol and why Randie can’t decide if she would need to know this m...2018-03-2457 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 004: Plot Twists & Lemonade: Our Miscarriage StoryListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
Before launching the podcast, Mikey and Randie planned to tell listeners they were pregnant but plot twists and life’s chaos changed everything.
In this episode the couple talks about their pregnancy, pregnancy loss, and how losing the baby felt like death. Mikey and Randie detail how their families reminded them that they were still alive and talk about all they’ve learned lately.
Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?
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Black Millennial MarriageBMM 002: Almost Breaking Up & Non-NegotiablesListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
How far would you drive to fight for someone you love in a car that was death trap? In Mikey’s case, he drove all the way to Wooster, Ohio.
In this episode Mikey and Randie talk about that ex, a motorcycle accident, and how they let a problem fester for years before confronting it as an issue.
They give an in-depth overview of the creation of their guidelines for communication, and a series of events that finally pushed them to question and answer if...2018-03-211h 23
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 001: The Chapman Origin StoryListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
Birth control, pheromones, falling in love, oh my.
In their intro episode Mikey and Randie talk about meeting in middle school, becoming fast friends in high school, and falling in love.
Plus, they re-tell the story of their first time and how Mikey showed up to Randie’s house nearly naked.
They poll the audience to settle an 8-year dispute and ask listeners to decide if Mikey was wrong for telling Randie’s mom they had sex through a text message.
Ar...2018-03-2146 min