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Unattainable Podcast ShowBeyond Toxicity Ft. Monique - Ep.118Special thanks to Monique for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Monique Cavella shares how labeling relationships as "toxic" oversimplifies complex dynamics shaped by childhood experiences and personal growth journeys. She explores how our relationship patterns reflect our inner state and what we attract, emphasizing that most answers we seek already exist within ourselves.• Relationships mirror our internal state rather than simply being "toxic" or "non-toxic"• Growing up without perfect relationship models means everyone carries unique baggage• People who enter our lives serve as mirrors reflecting aspects of ourselves• L...
2025-08-1844 minUnattainable Podcast ShowWhy Do We Keep Dating People Who Are Wrong For Us? Ft. Jelika - Ep.117Special thanks to Jelika for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Jelika joins Zach to explore dating dynamics in Los Angeles versus New York, revealing how narcissistic tendencies manifest differently across these cities.• New York daters tend to be "American Psycho"-style finance bros who are direct but ambitious• Los Angeles dating scene filled with creative industry people searching for the "next best thing"• Narcissistic partners often appear nice initially but gradually reveal toxicity after gaining trust• The "perfection paralysis" of LA dating prevents people from committing to real rela...
2025-08-151h 00Unattainable Podcast ShowCapricorns, Geminis, and the Art of Not Competing for Love Ft. Novul & Monique - Ep.116Special thanks to Novul & Monique for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show We dive deep into the raw realities of modern relationships with guests Novel and Money Doll, exploring everything from sugar baby experiences to manifestation and therapy.• Novel (Capricorn) and Money Doll (Gemini) introduce themselves and their zodiac-based personality traits• Money Doll reveals her past as a sugar baby earning $10K monthly before leaving the arrangement• The group discusses what women really want in men—connection, ambition, and financial stability• Traditional gender roles are examined in the context of...
2025-08-131h 17Unattainable Podcast ShowCaught in the Act: When Your Sugar Daddy Pays All Your Bills Ft. Taylor & Nrvvana - Ep.115Special thanks to Taylor & Nrvvana for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show We dive deep into the complexities of modern dating and authentic connection with two bottle service professionals from Los Angeles who bring fresh perspectives on what women truly want versus what they claim to seek.• Our host shares his transformation from a heartbroken "simp" to a self-proclaimed "recovered fuck boy" after a devastating betrayal• Bottle service workers discuss their star signs and whether Scorpios and Geminis deserve their "toxic" reputations• The surprising truth about what women find attract...
2025-08-111h 31Unattainable Podcast ShowBeyond the Scalpel: Navigating Beauty's True Price Ft. Rachel - Ep.114Special thanks to Rachel for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Having worked at a plastic surgeon's office on Rodeo Drive, I'm developing a consulting business that helps people find the right plastic surgeon for their specific procedures, addressing the common problem that patients often don't know what questions to ask during consultations.• Most patients say they have no questions during consultations because they "don't know what they don't know"• Finding the right specialist is crucial - a surgeon good at breast augmentation might not be skilled at rhinoplasty• Multipl...
2025-08-0858 minUnattainable Podcast ShowThe Currency of Beauty in Modern Relationships Ft. Antje - Ep.113Navigating the complex world of dating in LA brings unique challenges, especially when you're an OnlyFans creator whose financial independence can trigger jealousy in relationships.• Social media platforms have evolved dramatically over the years, from Instagram's early days to OnlyFans monetization opportunities• Pretty privilege exists but comes with downsides including fake friendships and opportunistic relationships• Dating as an OnlyFans creator presents challenges when partners initially accept the career but later become jealous• The transition from "nice guy" to "fuckboy" often stems from heartbreak and the realization that excessive kindness isn't always rewarded• LA dating sce...
2025-08-061h 10Unattainable Podcast ShowFrom Addiction to Recovery: A Raw Journey Ft. Wyatt and Nicole - Ep.112Special thanks to Wyatt and Nicole for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Wyatt and Nicole share their harrowing journeys through addiction and into recovery, revealing how they met in treatment and built a relationship while navigating sobriety together. • Wyatt describes hitting rock bottom with heroin, fentanyl, Xanax, and alcohol addiction before entering treatment at age 40• Nicole opens up about her fentanyl addiction and her ongoing struggle to maintain complete sobriety• The eye-opening reality of government-run methadone clinics that can enable rather than solve addiction• Nicole's experience with OnlyFans a...
2025-08-0449 minUnattainable Podcast ShowWhat Does Success Look Like When You Create It Yourself Ft. Liv - Ep.111Special thanks to Liv for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Liv Mathis shares her journey from international model to cannabis marketing entrepreneur, highlighting how she transformed adversity into opportunity and built a thriving business while navigating health challenges.• Founded Your Marketing Plug (YMP Agency) last year after working in corporate cannabis marketing• Quickly scaled the agency to serve clients across LA, New York, and Miami, focusing primarily on cannabis but also working with streetwear and real estate brands• Began modeling at 15, working with brands like Vogue and Dior, but exp...
2025-08-011h 39Unattainable Podcast ShowModern Dating: When Boss Energy Meets Traditional Values Ft. Haley - Ep.110Special thanks to Haley for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show A spirited exploration of modern dating dynamics featuring guest Haley Reiner delves into relationship expectations, power dynamics, and the evolving nature of attraction.• Haley describes her ideal partner as ambitious and action-oriented, valuing communication and emotional maturity• Discussion of "micro-cheating" and what constitutes relationship boundaries in the digital age• Exploration of the "hot guy phase" and how women's preferences evolve to value intelligence and stability over physical appearance• Debate about women's value in relationships and the problematic question...
2025-07-3056 minUnattainable Podcast ShowLeaning Into Love: Why Women Secretly Prefer Dominance Over Nice Guys Ft. Shaliz - Ep.109We dive deep into the realities of dating in Los Angeles, exploring toxic relationships, authenticity in a city of illusions, and the unspoken rules of attraction.• Dating toxic people creates addictive cycles similar to drugs with highs and withdrawals• LA breeds a culture where almost everyone fakes their lifestyle and presents an unattainable image• Attractive women often get access to celebrity-filled venues while others are excluded• Younger hot guys are initially appealing but eventually become boring due to lack of substance• Fashion models and Instagram/OnlyFans models exist in completely different social hierarchies• Desp...
2025-07-2859 minUnattainable Podcast ShowWhen Life Hands You Chaos, Build an Empire Ft. Emily - Ep.108Special thanks to Emily for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Emily Cox shares her journey from small-town Oregon to OnlyFans success, content trip entrepreneur, and motherhood while reflecting on life's chaotic but rewarding path. With candid honesty and infectious energy, she reveals how her unconventional experiences shaped her business acumen and personal philosophy.• Finding success on OnlyFans after being introduced to the platform by a friend in Costa Rica• Navigating the LA club scene and model house culture as a young woman• Experiencing unexpected pregnancy in Costa Rica during...
2025-07-251h 41Unattainable Podcast ShowDating Red Flags and Modern Romance Ft. Valerie - Ep.106Special thanks to Valerie for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Valerie joins us to discuss her journey from dating fuckboys to finding gentlemen, and how she navigates the complexities of modern relationships. We explore what it means to be intentional with partners and what we're really looking for in romantic connections.• The shift from "fuckboy nation" to seeking gentleman who demonstrate romance and intentionality• How gender roles create confusion in modern dating – the "boss bitch" vs feminine woman dynamic• Why simply showing up isn't enough – the real conversation about what...
2025-07-2358 minUnattainable Podcast ShowFrom Toxic Relationships to Self-Discovery: Finding Your Authentic Path Ft. Cornelia - Ep.106Cornelia joins us to explore how negative experiences can transform into our most valuable character traits and personal growth opportunities. We dive deep into relationships, manifestation, and finding your authentic path.• Dating dynamics and the importance of clear communication from the beginning• How toxic relationships can become catalysts for powerful personal transformation• Primary driver emotions—contentment versus excitement—and how they shape life satisfaction• The science behind manifestation as alignment with your authentic self rather than mere visualization• Dealing with friendship betrayals and maintaining openness while becoming more discerning• The "five fight languages" and h...
2025-07-211h 11Unattainable Podcast ShowThe Toxic Appeal: Why We Desire What We Shouldn't ft. Evie - Ep.105Special thanks to Evie for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Friendships between women provide crucial emotional support during single life, creating a foundation strong enough that dating becomes a choice rather than a necessity. The complex dance between desiring toxic traits and seeking genuine love reveals deeper psychological patterns that impact our relationship choices.• Strong female friendships create a secure emotional foundation that lessens the pressure to find romantic relationships• Many people are drawn to partners who exhibit mild versions of toxic traits while struggling to find the boundary betwe...
2025-07-182h 05Unattainable Podcast ShowDating Disaster Stories: The Three Loves Theory ExplainedSpecial thanks to Kale and Giulia for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Kale and Giulia join us for a candid discussion about mental health, personal growth, and manifestation through life's most challenging moments.• Mental health requires taking personal responsibility even when circumstances aren't your fault• The Three Loves Theory: everyone experiences a first love, a toxic transformative love, and a healthy soulmate connection• Therapy involves confronting painful truths you might not even realize are affecting you• Beautiful women face unique social challenges despite appearing to have "perfect lives"
2025-07-161h 12Unattainable Podcast ShowFrom Country Roots to Pop Star Dreams: Ceranda's Musical Evolution ft. Ceranda - Ep.103Special thanks to Ceranda for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Pop star Ceranda shares her journey from Texas country roots to LA pop music, revealing how geographic and cultural surroundings shaped her artistic expression and personal identity. The conversation explores dating dynamics, relationship authenticity, and finding genuine connections in challenging environments like Los Angeles.• Ceranda explains her transition from country to pop music, leaving behind constraints she felt in Nashville and Texas• Both discuss the phenomenon of unsolicited explicit photos and why this behavior persists despite never achieving its inten...
2025-07-1454 minUnattainable Podcast ShowLooks vs. Personality: What Really Drives Attraction Between Men and Women ft. Chani - Ep.102Special thanks to Chani for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Zach and Shani dive deep into modern relationship dynamics, exploring why we sometimes knowingly pursue toxic partners and the fascinating gender differences in how we experience attraction.• Shani shares her experience dating someone who was clearly "bad news" from the beginning • The difference between attraction and connection in relationships• Why men are typically more visual while women value intelligence and emotional connection• The "nice guy paradox" – why women say they want nice guys but often end up with "bad bo...
2025-07-1155 minUnattainable Podcast ShowWhat We Really Want in Relationships ft. Jensen - Ep.101Special thanks to Jensen for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Dating misconceptions color our relationships, especially the belief that we can fundamentally change people we're attracted to despite evidence to the contrary.• We tend to think we can change others, but people only truly change when they want to, not when someone else wants them to• Using a HelloFresh analogy, we often try to "make a meal" from raw relationship ingredients instead of finding someone who's already prepared• What women dislike isn't "niceness" but rather lack of confidence and fea...
2025-07-091h 00Unattainable Podcast ShowSurviving War, One Woman's Journey of Resilience, Trauma, Trust, Transformation ft. Dajana - Ep.100Special thanks to Dajana for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Dajana shares her extraordinary journey from war-torn Bosnia to becoming a successful producer and actress in Hollywood, revealing how early trauma shaped her resilience and determination. She discusses navigating immigration as a teenager, learning English from scratch, and developing the strength that would later help her resist the darker temptations of the entertainment industry.• Born in Yugoslavia before war broke out when she was just two years old• Lived through six years of active conflict before moving to America at ag...
2025-06-231h 33Unattainable Podcast ShowToxic Belief of How You Can Change Others ft. Nara - Ep.099Fashion designer Nara shares her journey from dating toxic relationships to finding self-worth and understanding what truly matters in a partner. We explore how dating preferences evolve with age and the psychology behind attraction to "fuckboy" types.• The pattern of believing you can change someone who clearly shows red flags• Why beautiful women often transition from dating conventionally attractive men to those with more substance• How manifestation works (and doesn't work) in relationships and life• The contrast between Instagram lifestyle projection and reality• Dating as a Type-A personality when your partner is more laid-back
2025-06-1945 minUnattainable Podcast ShowWhat Really Matters When Looking for Love ft. Amber - Ep.098Special thanks to Amber for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Amber Koval joins host Zach Evans to explore the complexities of modern dating, revealing how priorities shift from physical attraction in your twenties to emotional intelligence and humor in your thirties.• Humor ranks as the top relationship priority for Amber, while host Zach values emotional intelligence over looks as he's matured• Dating apps create an endless, unsatisfying scrolling experience compared to authentic real-life connections • The ideal relationship dynamic strikes a balance between masculine and feminine traits rather than rigid ge...
2025-06-101h 05Unattainable Podcast ShowThe Art of Self-Evolution Beyond Toxic Traits ft. Mackenna - Ep.097Special thanks to Mackenna for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Our conversation with MacKenna explores the journey of personal evolution through toxic traits, dating experiences, and finding authentic connection in Los Angeles.• Every sign has their own toxic trait, and evolution means learning how to react differently rather than eliminating these traits completely• McKenna identifies her attachment to past trauma and tendency to project as her most challenging patterns• The psychology behind "fuckboy" behavior often stems from seeking validation after being hurt in the past• LA club culture c...
2025-06-061h 01Unattainable Podcast ShowThe Art of Reading People & When masculinity meets femininity ft. Tyler - Ep.096Tyler joins us to share her experiences navigating the dating scene after ending a six-year relationship at age 23. Her fresh perspective as someone who's never dated as an adult brings unique insights into the complicated world of modern relationships and self-discovery.• Dating as an adult for the first time is confusing when you've only known one serious relationship• LA dating scene presents challenges with narcissists, fuckboys, and people who are hard to read• Finding balance between masculine and feminine energy can be difficult in relationships• Social media dating advice often complicates relationships rather than helping
2025-06-0454 minUnattainable Podcast ShowFrom Bottle Service to Real Estate, Toxicity, Teslas, and Tinder ft. Isabella - Ep.095Special thanks to Isabella for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show We explore the contradictions in modern dating culture and share stories from the high-stakes world of bottle service, while discussing Isabella's journey from club life to real estate in Los Angeles.• Red flags in dating often include people who immediately start talking about their exes• The "three loves theory" suggests we experience puppy love, toxic love, and finally find our soulmate• Bottle service culture involves absurd displays of wealth, with clients spending hundreds of thousands in a night• L...
2025-06-021h 09Unattainable Podcast ShowThe Paradox of Self-Belief and How Mindset Shapes Reality ft. Julia - Ep.094Special thanks to Julia for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Over centuries, societal pressures have dictated how we should behave, what we should value, and who we should become. We explore the liberating power of staying true to yourself regardless of external expectations.• The toxic stereotypes that affect all humans regardless of background• How actions speak louder than words when it comes to dating preferences• The power of belief and manifestation in creating your reality• The challenges of distinguishing between what you truly want and what others expect
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