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Unattainable Podcast ShowLeaning Into Love: Why Women Secretly Prefer Dominance Over Nice Guys Ft. Shaliz - Ep.109We dive deep into the realities of dating in Los Angeles, exploring toxic relationships, authenticity in a city of illusions, and the unspoken rules of attraction.• Dating toxic people creates addictive cycles similar to drugs with highs and withdrawals• LA breeds a culture where almost everyone fakes their lifestyle and presents an unattainable image• Attractive women often get access to celebrity-filled venues while others are excluded• Younger hot guys are initially appealing but eventually become boring due to lack of substance• Fashion models and Instagram/OnlyFans models exist in completely different social hierarchies• Desp...2025-07-2859 minUnattainable Podcast ShowWhen Life Hands You Chaos, Build an Empire Ft. Emily - Ep.108Special thanks to Emily for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Emily Cox shares her journey from small-town Oregon to OnlyFans success, content trip entrepreneur, and motherhood while reflecting on life's chaotic but rewarding path. With candid honesty and infectious energy, she reveals how her unconventional experiences shaped her business acumen and personal philosophy.• Finding success on OnlyFans after being introduced to the platform by a friend in Costa Rica• Navigating the LA club scene and model house culture as a young woman• Experiencing unexpected pregnancy in Costa Rica during...2025-07-251h 41Unattainable Podcast ShowDating Red Flags and Modern Romance Ft. Valerie - Ep.106Special thanks to Valerie for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Valerie joins us to discuss her journey from dating fuckboys to finding gentlemen, and how she navigates the complexities of modern relationships. We explore what it means to be intentional with partners and what we're really looking for in romantic connections.• The shift from "fuckboy nation" to seeking gentleman who demonstrate romance and intentionality• How gender roles create confusion in modern dating – the "boss bitch" vs feminine woman dynamic• Why simply showing up isn't enough – the real conversation about what...2025-07-2358 minUnattainable Podcast ShowFrom Toxic Relationships to Self-Discovery: Finding Your Authentic Path Ft. Cornelia - Ep.106Cornelia joins us to explore how negative experiences can transform into our most valuable character traits and personal growth opportunities. We dive deep into relationships, manifestation, and finding your authentic path.• Dating dynamics and the importance of clear communication from the beginning• How toxic relationships can become catalysts for powerful personal transformation• Primary driver emotions—contentment versus excitement—and how they shape life satisfaction• The science behind manifestation as alignment with your authentic self rather than mere visualization• Dealing with friendship betrayals and maintaining openness while becoming more discerning• The "five fight languages" and h...2025-07-211h 11Unattainable Podcast ShowThe Toxic Appeal: Why We Desire What We Shouldn't ft. Evie - Ep.105Special thanks to Evie for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Friendships between women provide crucial emotional support during single life, creating a foundation strong enough that dating becomes a choice rather than a necessity. The complex dance between desiring toxic traits and seeking genuine love reveals deeper psychological patterns that impact our relationship choices.• Strong female friendships create a secure emotional foundation that lessens the pressure to find romantic relationships• Many people are drawn to partners who exhibit mild versions of toxic traits while struggling to find the boundary betwe...2025-07-182h 05Unattainable Podcast ShowDating Disaster Stories: The Three Loves Theory ExplainedSpecial thanks to Kale and Giulia for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Kale and Giulia join us for a candid discussion about mental health, personal growth, and manifestation through life's most challenging moments.• Mental health requires taking personal responsibility even when circumstances aren't your fault• The Three Loves Theory: everyone experiences a first love, a toxic transformative love, and a healthy soulmate connection• Therapy involves confronting painful truths you might not even realize are affecting you• Beautiful women face unique social challenges despite appearing to have "perfect lives"2025-07-161h 12Unattainable Podcast ShowFrom Country Roots to Pop Star Dreams: Ceranda's Musical Evolution ft. Ceranda - Ep.103Special thanks to Ceranda for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Pop star Ceranda shares her journey from Texas country roots to LA pop music, revealing how geographic and cultural surroundings shaped her artistic expression and personal identity. The conversation explores dating dynamics, relationship authenticity, and finding genuine connections in challenging environments like Los Angeles.• Ceranda explains her transition from country to pop music, leaving behind constraints she felt in Nashville and Texas• Both discuss the phenomenon of unsolicited explicit photos and why this behavior persists despite never achieving its inten...2025-07-1454 minUnattainable Podcast ShowLooks vs. Personality: What Really Drives Attraction Between Men and Women ft. Chani - Ep.102Special thanks to Chani for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Zach and Shani dive deep into modern relationship dynamics, exploring why we sometimes knowingly pursue toxic partners and the fascinating gender differences in how we experience attraction.• Shani shares her experience dating someone who was clearly "bad news" from the beginning • The difference between attraction and connection in relationships• Why men are typically more visual while women value intelligence and emotional connection• The "nice guy paradox" – why women say they want nice guys but often end up with "bad bo...2025-07-1155 minUnattainable Podcast ShowWhat We Really Want in Relationships ft. Jensen - Ep.101Special thanks to Jensen for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Dating misconceptions color our relationships, especially the belief that we can fundamentally change people we're attracted to despite evidence to the contrary.• We tend to think we can change others, but people only truly change when they want to, not when someone else wants them to• Using a HelloFresh analogy, we often try to "make a meal" from raw relationship ingredients instead of finding someone who's already prepared• What women dislike isn't "niceness" but rather lack of confidence and fea...2025-07-091h 00Unattainable Podcast ShowSurviving War, One Woman's Journey of Resilience, Trauma, Trust, Transformation ft. Dajana - Ep.100Special thanks to Dajana for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Dajana shares her extraordinary journey from war-torn Bosnia to becoming a successful producer and actress in Hollywood, revealing how early trauma shaped her resilience and determination. She discusses navigating immigration as a teenager, learning English from scratch, and developing the strength that would later help her resist the darker temptations of the entertainment industry.• Born in Yugoslavia before war broke out when she was just two years old• Lived through six years of active conflict before moving to America at ag...2025-06-231h 33Unattainable Podcast ShowToxic Belief of How You Can Change Others ft. Nara - Ep.099Fashion designer Nara shares her journey from dating toxic relationships to finding self-worth and understanding what truly matters in a partner. We explore how dating preferences evolve with age and the psychology behind attraction to "fuckboy" types.• The pattern of believing you can change someone who clearly shows red flags• Why beautiful women often transition from dating conventionally attractive men to those with more substance• How manifestation works (and doesn't work) in relationships and life• The contrast between Instagram lifestyle projection and reality• Dating as a Type-A personality when your partner is more laid-back2025-06-1945 minUnattainable Podcast ShowWhat Really Matters When Looking for Love ft. Amber - Ep.098Special thanks to Amber for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Amber Koval joins host Zach Evans to explore the complexities of modern dating, revealing how priorities shift from physical attraction in your twenties to emotional intelligence and humor in your thirties.• Humor ranks as the top relationship priority for Amber, while host Zach values emotional intelligence over looks as he's matured• Dating apps create an endless, unsatisfying scrolling experience compared to authentic real-life connections • The ideal relationship dynamic strikes a balance between masculine and feminine traits rather than rigid ge...2025-06-101h 05Unattainable Podcast ShowThe Art of Self-Evolution Beyond Toxic Traits ft. Mackenna - Ep.097Special thanks to Mackenna for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Our conversation with MacKenna explores the journey of personal evolution through toxic traits, dating experiences, and finding authentic connection in Los Angeles.• Every sign has their own toxic trait, and evolution means learning how to react differently rather than eliminating these traits completely• McKenna identifies her attachment to past trauma and tendency to project as her most challenging patterns• The psychology behind "fuckboy" behavior often stems from seeking validation after being hurt in the past• LA club culture c...2025-06-061h 01Unattainable Podcast ShowThe Art of Reading People & When masculinity meets femininity ft. Tyler - Ep.096Tyler joins us to share her experiences navigating the dating scene after ending a six-year relationship at age 23. Her fresh perspective as someone who's never dated as an adult brings unique insights into the complicated world of modern relationships and self-discovery.• Dating as an adult for the first time is confusing when you've only known one serious relationship• LA dating scene presents challenges with narcissists, fuckboys, and people who are hard to read• Finding balance between masculine and feminine energy can be difficult in relationships• Social media dating advice often complicates relationships rather than helping2025-06-0454 minUnattainable Podcast ShowFrom Bottle Service to Real Estate, Toxicity, Teslas, and Tinder ft. Isabella - Ep.095Special thanks to Isabella for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show We explore the contradictions in modern dating culture and share stories from the high-stakes world of bottle service, while discussing Isabella's journey from club life to real estate in Los Angeles.• Red flags in dating often include people who immediately start talking about their exes• The "three loves theory" suggests we experience puppy love, toxic love, and finally find our soulmate• Bottle service culture involves absurd displays of wealth, with clients spending hundreds of thousands in a night• L...2025-06-021h 09Unattainable Podcast ShowThe Paradox of Self-Belief and How Mindset Shapes Reality ft. Julia - Ep.094Special thanks to Julia for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Over centuries, societal pressures have dictated how we should behave, what we should value, and who we should become. We explore the liberating power of staying true to yourself regardless of external expectations.• The toxic stereotypes that affect all humans regardless of background• How actions speak louder than words when it comes to dating preferences• The power of belief and manifestation in creating your reality• The challenges of distinguishing between what you truly want and what others expect2025-05-301h 12Unattainable Podcast ShowWhat Your Dating Choices Reveal About Your Self-Worth & How dating a Sugar Daddy led to Chlamydia ft. Vikki - Ep.093Special thanks to Vikki for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show We delve into the misconceptions about modern relationships and marriage, challenging traditional views of what makes partnerships healthy.• Marriage isn't necessarily the natural next step - it's more important to build a healthy relationship first• People who date successful partners often face unfair judgment and "gold digger" stereotypes• Feeling an intense "gut pull" attraction might actually be a red flag rather than a sign of true compatibility• A healthy relationship should make you feel calm and safe rather th...2025-05-281h 01Unattainable Podcast ShowWhat Happens After You Let Go? From Survival to Thriving ft. Kendra - Ep.092Special thanks to Kendra for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Kendra Shoemaker shares how surviving a near-death experience at age seven fundamentally shaped her fearless approach to life and adventure. From leaving home at 16 to pursue ballet to building her own van to live in, her remarkable journey demonstrates how embracing challenges leads to personal growth.• Surviving lacrosse encephalitis (brain swelling from a mosquito bite) at age 7 gave Kendra a unique perspective on life and death• Left her small Minnesota hometown at 16 to attend pre-professional ballet academy in Pennsylvania•...2025-05-2450 minUnattainable Podcast ShowSkittles, Sugar Daddies, & the Dating Spectrum ft. Stephani - Ep.091Special thanks to Stephani for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show We dive deep into modern dating standards and relationship expectations with content creator Stephani Nicole. Our conversation explores the challenges of finding partners who balance maturity with excitement, and the shifting priorities as we age.• The struggle to find partners who are both mature and fun• How pheromonal attraction plays a crucial role in relationship sustainability• Shifting gender roles and expectations around financial responsibilities in relationships• Dating preferences across different age groups and how they evolve over time...2025-05-221h 04Unattainable Podcast ShowTaking Blame for DUI crash, & Getting Cheated on, Nice Guys vs. Sugar Daddies ft. Daniella - Ep.090Special thanks to Daniella for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Daniella, a Spanish transplant living in LA, candidly shares her journey through toxic relationships, cultural adjustments, and surprising life choices that led her from Spain to Alabama and finally to Los Angeles.• Describing herself as a "toxic Gemini" who becomes controlling when truly in love• Preference for dating sweet, romantic men despite sometimes finding them boring• Experience dating across cultural backgrounds and age gaps• Insights into LA's "sugar daddy culture" versus genuine relationships• Taking the blame for a boyfr...2025-05-201h 11Unattainable Podcast ShowThe Fine Line Between Giving and Being Taken Advantage Of ft. Hayley - Ep.089Special thanks to Hayley for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Breaking toxic relationship patterns requires self-awareness and establishing clear non-negotiables to find meaningful connections that foster growth and mutual respect. We explore the journey from being a nurturer who overextends to becoming a high-value woman who knows her worth.• Setting boundaries in relationships and recognizing red flags early• Finding balance between helping your partner and taking care of yourself• The difference between being kind and being a pushover• Why privacy is power, especially in image-conscious environments like LA•...2025-05-1755 minUnattainable Podcast ShowTax Man's Wild Life, 4Kids, 3Wives, a Symbian, Orgy Dome, Open Marriages & Confessions of a Serial Marriage Maker ft. Andy & Soula - Ep.087Special thanks to Andy & Soula for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Andy Rodriguez shares his wild journey through three marriages and four children with different women, describing how he maintains positive relationships with all his exes and creates a blended family where everyone gets along.• Born and raised in LA to Mexican parents with a background in taxes spanning 22 years• Conceived in a tax office, setting the tone for his unconventional life story• First marriage at 23 lasted eight years and ended due to his repeated infidelity• Met his secon...2025-05-161h 58Unattainable Podcast ShowThe Masculine-Feminine Energy And why Letting Your Man Lead Just Feels Right ft. Erin - Ep.087Special thanks to Erin for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show We explore the nuances of modern dating and building meaningful connections with brand strategist Erin. Through personal stories and candid insights, she reveals how taking things slow physically helps filter out people with misaligned intentions and why being "kind" matters more than being "nice."• Intentionally taking things slow in the physical department helps weed out those who aren't interested in meaningful connections• The difference between "nice" (people-pleasing) and "kind" (genuinely compassionate) is crucial when evaluating potential partners• Dating apps ca...2025-05-151h 07Unattainable Podcast ShowLove, Boundaries, and Business in The Adult Industry ft. Angela Mazzanti & Jake Shipwreck - Ep.086Special thanks to Angela Mazzanti & Jake Shipwreck for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Angela Mazzanti and Jake Shipwreck share their unconventional love story that began with Angela blocking Jake for six years before matching on Tinder, where they discovered they'd been living parallel lives with matching tattoos and similar career paths.• Angela runs a successful OnlyFans account focusing on fetish content without nudity, while also operating her clothing brand Nowhere Fast• Jake owns four barbershops and creates social media content with Angela• They discuss the importance of supporting each ot...2025-05-0657 minUnattainable Podcast ShowWhy Finding Love in LA Feels Impossible, Trauma Bonds and Broken Hearts ft. Jazz - Ep.085Special thanks to Jazz for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Zach Evans and Jazz dive deep into the challenging landscape of modern dating, focusing on how LA's culture of abundance creates a disposable attitude toward relationships. Their candid conversation explores how past heartbreak shapes current relationship patterns and defensive mechanisms.• Dating in LA is exceptionally difficult due to unlimited options creating a "swipe right" mentality• Promoters are universally considered red flags in the dating scene• Model houses where women live rent-free in exchange for club appearances create unhealthy dynamic...2025-05-031h 22