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A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 134 - Back From a BreakThanks for everyone who has reached out to check on us as we went on a bit of an unplanned hiatus. We appreciate everyone who did. On today's episode we just do some catching up and discuss what has been going on in our worlds and why we missed some time from dropping new episodes. We hope you had a wonder start to the holiday season. If you have any comments on this or any episode, Feel free to reach out to us via the Hot Mess instagram or Tiktok, send Monica a DM(because Ernesto is #NoDMs) or...2024-12-041h 10A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 133 - TIME TO VOTEIf you haven't yet, be sure to make time to vote before tomorrow. On today's episode, we get a health update, talk about the origins of a very common phrase, spend a lot of time(for no apparent reason) talking about Monica's boobs, body pillow talk, reminding guys to change their bed sheets, not your ordinary type of fishing, make sure you get tested, Monica's "balls" cravings, get out and VOTE, being comfortable with who you are and we talk about walking down the witches road. If you have an comment on this episode or any other, please feel...2024-11-041h 14A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 132 - Where is Monica?There is NO WAY we are already crossing into November. This year in almost over. Unreal!!! On today's episode, Noticeably, Monica is not here today, she was under the weather so it was a solo show. The topic of women changing their name was discussed. A comedian making, tasteless jokes at a Trump rally. We talk the World Series and a couple of stories of people missing the BIGGEST homerun in World Series history, a little more sports talk and discuss having some guests on some future episodes. If you any comments on this episode or any previous episodes...2024-10-2957 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 124 - Let's Go CampingAnother week, another hot mess problem with getting an episode out. So what happen was... we scheduled the episode to be released on the wrong day. That's why we got no episode last week. I just hope you didn't forget about us. On this week's episode we talk about camping, the modern way people hang out now, Monica becoming a gamer, Among Us with listeners and celebrity/tv/movie talk. If you have feedback about this episode or any previous episode, please feel free to reach out and let us know via the hotline at 310-494-6811 by either...2024-07-291h 00A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 123 - We Shouldn't Record Late at NightIf there's one thing we have learned is that we should not record late at night. You will see when you listen to this episode. We somehow have a 5 minute discussion about where the bug/ghost was in Ernesto's house. Even this description is representative of how much more of a Hot Mess we are late at night. If you have any comments about this episode or suggestions on what you would like for us to talk about, Please reach out to us via voicemail or text at the hotline at 310-494-68112024-07-151h 04A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 120 - Happy Birthday Ernesto!!So technically, Ernesto's birthday was on the 12th but we are wishing him happy birthday nonetheless. On today's episode, we talk about a few things including Ernesto's birthday, would we help someone we disagree with or do not like, and we go over the top 20 Albums in the Apple Top 100 Albums list. If you would like to comment about this episode, any other episode or would like us to discuss something in particular, please feel free to reach us at the hotline via text or voicemail at 310-494-68112024-06-171h 05A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 115 - We Have Weird TextsHappiest of Mondays. We hope everyone is recovering well from Cinco De Mayo. You may need to listen to this episode at a lower volume. On today's episode, we talk boxing, catching Wrestlemania in Las Vegas next year, we answer a listener question, the great nipple debate, Monica talks the newest addition to the family, we go back more than a decade and hear Ernesto's son as a toddler. If you have any questions or suggestions, you can always reach us via voicemail or text at 310-494-68112024-05-061h 00A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 114 - Papa Bear ActivatedHappiest of Mondays to you all. Let's get this week started as we welcome in a new month. On today's episode. We welcome a new adult into the world, papa bear is actived on Tiktok. People display their audacity, we talk about internet hate, Monica scares herself in her own house, we talk family creator accounts, parenting in high pressure situations and we take the LONGEST time ending the episode. If you have any questions, comments or suggestions. Please send us aboicemail ro text to 310-494-68112024-04-291h 03A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 112 - The MYTH that is the Alpha MaleSo glad you came back for yet another episode. We are always happy to see you. Yes YOU. On todays episode, we make preparations to start a GoFundMe so Monica can get a $15 hot pot. We talk about Monica's visitor for the first part of the week, dive into a little therapy talk, we have a listen to another "Alpha Male" that is clearly not even what he claims to be an alpha male. We discuss the 4B Movement, how useless men become when they get sick, more WWE talk, it is STILL All Men, and end it with...2024-04-151h 02A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 108 - Will the REAL Kate Middleton Please Stand UpWith hope, everyone has recovered from all the green beer and corned beef from St Patrick's Day. If not, sit back, relax and have a listen to a certified hangover cure. On today's episode we talk Kate Middleton and where she has gone, Princess Diana, Monica flying out to visit her dad, the endorsement of adult naps, and(as always) TV and movie talk. If you would like us to discuss a topic or have a comment on this or any episode, reach out to us via text message or voicemail at the hotline 310-494-6811 or send us...2024-03-181h 04A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 106 - Why No New Episode Last WeekMerry Monday. Hope we find you all in a great mood. If the mood needs a bit of a "pick-me-up", this episode may not help with that. We get a litttle serious today. We talk about why Ernesto could not record last week and get into the heavy discussion of death, suicide and mortality as a whole. We do our best to keep it together and still try and give a little humor in this episode but this one had a vabie for sure. If you have any feedback on this or any of our previous episode or have...2024-03-041h 08A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 105 - Coming From SacramentoIf only we could have gotten this out on Monday. Happy WEDNESDAY!!! Apologies for everyone who was expecting a Monday episode. Time was not on our side again this week. This was an incredibly busy week so we just did not have the time to edit the podcast while out and about. This episode we just have random conversations while Ernesto was sitting in his hotel room at Sacramento. Things will get back to normal shortly. If you have any comments or questions about this episode or any of the previous episode, you can reach us via the hotline...2024-02-221h 00A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 103 - Who's Poop Smells Worse?Please send help. There is water falling from the sky and we in Los Angeles have no idea what this means... On today's episode, We get into some weird bathroom etiquette and who would have smellier poops. We also discuss the Justin/Britney battle we didn't know could happen, Monica's Tinder experience and much more. If you would like to add a topic you would like for us to discuss or you have a comment about this or any previous episode. Send us a text or voicemail to the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous link...2024-02-051h 07A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 102 - Mashed Potatoes and Dr Pepper for BreakfastIt's almost time for the longer days warmer weather. January has been the longest 4 months ever. On today's episode, we discuss favorite breakfast foods, the hypocrisy of people on Tiktok, Monica's hacker skills and much more. If you have a question or suggestion, you can reach out via the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com and click on the anonymous link2024-01-291h 02A Hot MessA Hot Mess.- Episode 96 - How Do You Like Your Catfish, Fried or Online?One week away from Christmas and I still haven't gotten myself a present. I am WAY behind on treating me. On today's episode, Monica barely made it. The whole house(even the toad) is like an infectious diseases ward at a hospital. Even the imaginary friends are sick. We also talk about the hypocrisy of parents when it comes to how they acted as children, how bartenders "finesse" drinks to increase their tips, strip club stories, people getting catfished, and much more. If you would like to comment on this episode or suggest a topic for a future episode...2023-12-1851 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 94 - Why? Mattt Rife... Why?The duo returns in all of our glory. If you called being a hot mess glory... Happy Monday and welcome to another episode. Today we discuss why Monica could not record last week, Ernesto's near battle with creep and what we think of what has been going on with comedian(?) Matt Rife. If you have any comments on today's episode or suggestions on what you would like for us to talk about in a future episode, reach out to us by sending us a voicemail or test to the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message...2023-12-041h 03A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 93 - Dating as a Single ParentHappy Cyber Monday. Where you get half off today's episode. Not intentionally because Monica needed some time to get better. So this episode is an episode where Ernesto has a conversation with a previous guest and friend of the podcast Hannah who has her own podcast Can I Have Your Number? which we highly recommend. We get into the nuances of our situations with our divorces and how we have been able to navigate single life and dating post-marriage. If you have any comments on this episode or any other or any suggestions for future episodes, you can send...2023-11-271h 02A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 91 - Monica Phones It InHappy Monday. On today's episode, Monica literally phone's it in. We talk about our technical difficulties, the rarified air we are breathing as having a long running podcast, Ernesto's upcoming project, trolling football fans and much more. If you would like to comment on anything we discussed today or would like us to talk about something on a podcast, you can reach out to us via the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message via the link at www.ahotmesspodcast.com 2023-11-1357 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 81 - Passport BrosHappy Labor Day!!! Get that white outfit in while you can! After today, if you wear white, you will get seven years of bad luck. That's how it works, right? On today's episode. We get into the strange phenomenon that is Passport Bro's. Well. We try to stay on topic. If you have any feedback on today's episode, any previous episode or you would like us to speak on a topic, send us a voicemail or text on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com and click the anonymous link2023-09-0455 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 80 - Childhood MemoriesHappy Monday. As fall comes around. It's time for the Pumpkin Spice EVERYTHING to start showing up so whether you love it or hate it, It's here. On today's episode, we discuss some our most vivid childhood memories. Not all good. Not all bad. Just the vivid ones we could think of. If you have a vivid memory from your childhood you would like to share, send us a voicemail or text to the hotline at 310-494-6811 or head over to www.ahotmesspodcast.com and click on the anonymous link to keep your identity secret.2023-08-2857 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 79 - Random ThoughtsHappy Monday. We hope everyone in Southern California is safe after there was a hurricane warning. Yes, we had a hurricane warning. On today's episode, we just have discussions on topic covering learning to swim, losing swimwear in at the beach, unfortunate losses of life and much more. If you have any comments, suggestions or anything you would like to share, you can reach us on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message by going to www.ahotmesspodcast.com and click on the anonymous box.
**TRIGGER WARNING**(talks of death)2023-08-2153 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 78 - Am I The A**hole?Happiest of Mondays to everyone. We have reached another start of the week and there's nothing we can do about it. May as well make it the best week yet. On today's episode, we pull a few stories from the subreddit /AITA(Am I The A**hole) and give our verdict if they are or are not. If you have an opinion on any of these stories or have your own story, you can reach out to us via the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous question at www.ahotmesspodcast.com and click on the anonymous...2023-08-1455 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 77 - Concert EtiquetteHappy Monday. We are rounding out a time that parents are thankful for. The end of summer break. Kids going back to school and parents are rejoicing. On today's episode, we discuss certain concert etiquette and the crazy things that have been happening at concerts recently. If you have any feedback or comments on this or any other episode. Please feel free to reach us on the hotline at 310-494-6811 with a voicemail or a text or send us an anonymous message by visiting www.ahotmesspodcast.com and clicking on the anonymous message link.2023-08-0759 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess- Episode 76 - Sobriety RevisitedHappiest of Mondays. As summer turns the corner and it heats up. We talk more about sobriety and having a dry August. If you have any comments about this episode or any other, send us a voicemail or text message to the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com and click the anonymous link2023-07-311h 06A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 75 - The Bicentennial Episode - InsecuritiesHappy Monday. Thank you all for everyone who has been with us for SEVENTY-FIVE episodes!!! If this is your first episode. Welcome. On today's episode, we discuss the complexities of insecurities and share a few or our own. If you would like to add to this episode or any other or would like for us to talk about anything in particular, you can reach out at the hotline at 310-494-6811 and leave a voicemail or text. You can also reach us on any of our socials which can be found at www.ahotmesspodcast.com2023-07-2450 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 74 - Let's Go To A Theme ParkWell it looks like summer finally decided to rear it's warm head. Southern California finally got some 90º weather and we are both loving and hating it. On today's episode, we talk about theme parks(Disneyland, Universal Studios, etc) and which ones are our favorites. If you have a favorite story about a visit to a theme park, reach out to us and share via text or voicemail on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or hit us up on our socials at www.ahotmesspodcast.com2023-07-1755 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 73 - Welcome to THREADIt's FINALLY getting hot in Southern California!! That's it.... That's the description. Okay, maybe a few more details. On today's episode, we discuss the shiny new app, THREAD and how this is possibly the Twitter killer and more about social media. If you would like to discuss anything about this episode or any of the previous episodes, feel free to reach out via the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message by heading over to www.ahotmesspodcast.com and clicking the anonymous box2023-07-1046 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 72 - Enneagrams with Special Guest Hannah LynnWelcome to the first Monday of July. If you are listening to this before the 4th and you are in the US. Cover your ears. Those fireworks get loud. Today we have a special guest to discuss Enneagrams. We have an amazing talk with an amazing woman Hannah Lynn(Tiktok: @enneagram.hannah @disney_hannah) and we get into all the numbers of the enneagram. If you have any questions to ask about enneagrams or anything else. Feel free to reach out to us via the hotline at 310-494-6811 or find all our socials along with an anonymous message...2023-07-031h 06A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 71 - Submersives, billionaires and Britney, OH MYHappiest of Mondays. Hope you are enjoying the first week of summer. Today's episode goes into some current events, including the 5 billionaires in the sub, the ongoing Britney Spears saga and much more. If you have any questions or comments about this episode or any previous episode. Feel free to send us a text or voicemail, you can reach out on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous question at www.ahotmesspodcast.com and click on the anonymous link.2023-06-2657 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 70 - Father's Day/ParentingHappy belated Father's Day to all the dads out there. On today's episode, we discuss how much we enjoy the internet, why we enjoy being parents, some parental advice and more. If you have any input on this episode or any other episode, you can always reach us on the hotline via voicemail or text message at 310-494-6811 or head to www.ahotmesspodcast.com and click on the anonymous link to send us a message without revealing who you are.2023-06-1954 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 69 - Yeah.... I said 69(chuckles in immaturity)Happy Monday!!! Week TWO of Pride Month and things are moving along. Sure the sun refuses to come out in California but we still find ways to enjoy the day outdoors. On today's episode we talk about some of our favorite comedians, some sound birthday advice from Ernesto, milestones that remind you of some more challenging times in life and much more. If you want to bless Ernesto with birthday wishes, send a message or voicemail to the hotline at 310-494-6811 or find his socials at www.ahotmesspodcast.com or you can send him a gift at any...2023-06-1256 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 68 - This Week In Our WorldHappy First Monday of Pride Month. Today we have a conversation revolving around how we have been, we discuss public breast feeding, celebrity memorabilia and our interactions with them. If you have any celebrity interactions to share send us a message via text or voicemail at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message by going to www.ahotmesspodcast.com and clicking on the anonymous link.2023-06-051h 03A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 67 - Finding BalanceHappy Memorial Day Monday. For those who have a day off today, enjoy the day however you choose to spend it. On today's episode, we go into a great discussion about finding balance in your life. We may or may not divert to other topics but if we didn't would it be a hot mess? If you have anything to add to the topic or have a question for us, you can always reach out via the hotline by sending a text or voice message at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message by heading to www.ahotmesspodcast...2023-05-2953 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 66 - Men's Mental HealthHappy Monday. We are back at it again doing our best to stay on topic and failing as usual. On today's episode we discuss why it is still such a stigma for men to seek mental help. We also respond to a question asked by a listener about boundaries. If you have a question you would like for us to answer or just want to add a comment, reach out on the hotline via text or voicemail at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com and find the link to the anonymous message page. 2023-05-2259 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 65 - Catching up With Your HostsHappy Monday. We hope all of the mothers had an amazing Mother's Day. On today's episode we catch up with what has been going on and what will be coming up. We talk about Monica's road trip and her connection with a baby rabbit, no spoilers review of Guardians of the Galaxy, and a visitor in the background. We then transition to Monica sharing her 23 & Me results and Ernesto's surprise family members discovery. If you have a fear of getting stuck in an elevator, you may way to skip forward a little at this time and we introduce our...2023-05-1557 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 64 - On a More Personal NoteHappy Monday. Today we take it to a more serious topic and discuss some private matters. TRIGGER WARNING(Abortion). If you would like to add some commentary to the subject or would like to suggest a topic you would like for us to discuss, Send us a text or leave us a voicemail on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com2023-05-081h 01A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 63(Take Two) - Yes...We Are Still HereHappy Monday. Sooo..... What happened was..... We had some technical difficulties last week but We are good now. On today's episode we catch up on the last couple of weeks. We are back and at it again. Thanks for understanding that sometimes things do not go as planned. If you would like to comment on this episode or just drop us a message. Reach out to us on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message in the link at www.ahotmesspodcast.com2023-05-0157 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 62 - Wait a minute...SANTA ISN'T REAL???Happy Monday. Today we do our best to try and stay on topic which is the holidays and the characters or creatures that are associated with them. Admittedly, we do veer off a bit(SHOCKER) but still have a great conversation. If you have any comments on this or any other episode, feel free to send us a text or leave us a message on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us a anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com and click on the anonymous message link.2023-04-1058 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 61 - Let's Get Emotional, MenHappy Monday. Today we discuss the ongoing stigma that is men expressing emotions. If you are a man and either agree or disagree with our outlook on men showing emotions, please leave us a text or voicemail on the hotline at 310-595-6811 or send us an anonymous message by clicking on the anonymous option at www.ahotmesspodcast.com2023-04-0357 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 60 - Song Lyrics That We LoveHappy Monday. Let's all have a great start to a great week with some memorable song lyrics. We talk our favorite song lyrics and what they mean to us. If you have a favorite song lyric you would like to share, send us a text or leave us a voicemail on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message by going to www.ahotmesspodcast.com and clicking the to the anonymous message page. 2023-03-271h 01A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 59 - Death and the Fears That Are Associated With ItHappy Monday. Today we have a more serious subject that we discussed. We discuss death. With what has been happening recently, we wanted to revisit this topic and go further in depth. If you have any comments to add to this subject or would like for us to talk about a subject you are interested in, you can reach us at the hotline. Send us a text or leave us a voicemail at 310-494-6811 or visit www.ahotmesspodcast.com and click on the link to send us an anonymous message2023-03-201h 03A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 58 - There is no Parenting PlaybookAnd off we go into another Monday. Minus an hour for many that had to turn the clock forward. Either way, Let's make it as magical a Monday as we can. Today we discussed some of the differences that we did as far as parents in comparison to how our parents raised us. Along with your typical switch in topics to whatever comes to mind during our conversation. If there was something you wanted to add to this conversation or a topic you want us to speak about, you can send us a text or leave us a voicemail on th...2023-03-1358 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 57 - Movie Quotes That Move UsWelcome back to a new episode. Hope your Mondays feels like our Fridays. On today's episode, we have a chat about five of our favorite movie quotes and what they have meant to us. If you have a favorite movie quote you want to share, Feel free to reach out to us and let us know via the hotline. You can text or leave us a voicemail at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message by visiting www.ahotmesspodcast.net and click on the anonymous message option. 2023-03-061h 03A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 56 - Back to a Semblance of NormalcyHappy Monday. Today, we get back to a more typical episode and just do some catching up. We discuss what has been going on in our world and how we are doing. If you have a comment on anything we discussed today or would like for us to discuss something, you can send us a text or leave us a voicemail on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous question by going to www.ahotmesspodcast.com and scroll down to the bottom.2023-02-271h 02A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 55 - In Loving MemoryThank you for joining us on another Monday. We appreciate everyone understanding and supporting why we did not put out an episode last week. This week, we explain what has been going on and go into more detail as to why we did not release an episode. We will try and get back to our weekly routine. In the meantime, once you listen to the episode, if you can share the attached Go Fund Me, we would greatly appreciate it.
GoFundMe2023-02-2051 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Special Episode - No New Episode This WeekThank you for stopping by. We hope you can understand that even we have things that keep us from being able to put out a new episode although we really wanted to. Please listen to the short clip for some information and know that we will be putting out a new episode soon. For some context, Please follow the link below to donate or share the GoFundMe. Thank you all again for understanding.
GoFundMe2023-02-1304 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 54 - Travel TalkTime to kick off the month of February with a new episode of your favorite duo. Today we discuss where we would like to travel and visit across the globe and also tell some stories of places we have been and things we have done. If you have a "MUST SEE" place you would like to share, you can always send us a voicemail or text message on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com and scroll to the bottom of the page2023-02-0659 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 53 - What are you watching(The TV Episode)?Yeah. It's Monday again. It's odd how days work. As soon as you think it's the weekend, it's not. Thank you for coming to my philosophical talk. On today's episode, we discuss our favorite all-time tv shows, our favorite current tv shows and shows that everyone else has seen that we have no interest in watching. If you have a show you would want to recommend or shows you have never seen that everyone else has, tell us about it on the hotline at 310-494-6811 via voicemail or text or send us an anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com a...2023-01-3056 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 52 - Happy AnniversaryHello everyone. Today is our official one year anniversary!! Thank every one of you that have listened to at least one episode and kept us driven to create episodes every week. On today's episode we discuss our anniversary and where we plan on going this new year. We also do what we normally do and go off the rails. We aren't a Hot Mess for nothing. If you have any comments or questions about this or any other episode. Please feel free to reach out to us via the hotline at 310-484-6811 or send us an anonymous message at www...2023-01-231h 02A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 51 - Animal Farm, Breast Feeding and Foot CareHappy Monday! The weekend after Friday the 13th. Hope everyone has made it through the weekend. In today's episode, we have discussions about owning animals, proper foot care and much much more. If you have any subjects you would like for us to cover, feel free to leav us a text or voicemaill on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or head to www.ahotmesspodcast.com and send us an anonymous message.2023-01-161h 00A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 50 - I Mean... IT'S EPISODE 50!!!Very Happy Monday. It's been two weeks and we're already ready for 2024!!! At least we have each other.... hello? On today's episode we get to know the hosts a little more with a few questions. If you have any other questions for us, you can send us a text or leave us a voicemail at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com and scroll to the bottom.2023-01-0958 min
A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 49 - Happy New Year!!HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! We are extremely grateful for all of your support in 2022. Now comes 2023 and we recap some fun moments of 2022. Hopefully you will join us in this continued journey. If you have any feedback on this past year or plans for this new year, feel free to text or leave us a voicemail on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com and scroll to the bottom.2023-01-0256 min
A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 48 - Merry ChristmasYes. WE KNOW. Christmas was yesterday. It's not our fault Christmas fell on a Sunday. We do hope everyone had a wonderful holiday week and will continue on through the new year. On today's episode, we attempt(and fail) to discuss things Christmas amongst other things about the holidays. If you have any comments or questions about this episode, please feel free to reach out to us via the hotline via text or voicemail at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous questions at www.ahotmesspodcast.com and scroll to the bottom to find the anonymous message box.2022-12-2658 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 47 - On a Serious Note...Happy Monday. We hope you all have had a good week. It was pretty rough and we got into some more heavy topics this episode. Just wanted to give a TRIGGER WARNING for suicide. If you have any input on this very serious subject or would like for us to speak on a different subject, feel free to drop us a text message or a voicemail on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com and scroll at the bottom of the page.
If you feel like you...2022-12-1954 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 46 - True CrimeWho did it??? Who said Monday can come so quick???(That's what she said) On today's episode, we will be touching on some crimes that many people have heard of. We also get into a few other things that have happened recently. If you would like to share your thoughts on this episode or Anything else. Please feel free to send us a text or leave us a voicemail on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com and scroll to the bottom. 2022-12-1259 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 45 - PetsHappy Monday. Time to throw some logs on the fire and bundle up. Or how we describe it, the 5 minutes our attention span allows us to sit before we go HAVE to get up and do something. On today's episode, we discuss the pets we have had throughout our life. From our childhood to now. If you would like to share some pet pictures or stories about your pets, feel free to send us a text or a leave us a voicemail on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com and scr...2022-12-0554 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 44 - Check on Your FriendsHappy Monday. With one more Monday in November, we ask that you make an effort to check on one of your friends. Make sure they are doing well. The holidays can be difficult for many people. In today's episode, we bounce around many topics as this was just us having a conversation just to catch up on what is going on in the world. If you have any questions or comments about this or any other episode, the hotline is always available and you can text or leave a voicemail any time at 310-494-6811 or send us an anony...2022-11-2858 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 43 - The Thankful EpisodeHappy Monday, We are so close to the end of 2022. We are thankful for all of the support you have all given us and this podcast. On today's episode, we discuss what else we are thankful for with Thanksgiving just a few days away. If you would like to tell us what you are thankful for, you can leave us a text or a voicemail on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com and scroll to the bottom2022-11-2153 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 42 - Favorite HolidaysCan you believe it? There are only a hand full of Mondays left in 2022. I'm often curious how the other days feel that we pay so much attention to Mondays. Do you think they are a bit jealous? I guess we will never know. On today's episode, we discuss our favorite holidays of the year along with our least favorite. And you know it can't be a hot mess without completely going off topic to a variety of other things as well. If you want to share with us your favorite holiday, please reach out at the hotline via text o...2022-11-1457 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 41 - LuckHowdy y'all. Remember, this Tuesday is Election Day in the U.S so please remember to vote. On today's episode, We discuss luck and whether we believe in luck, fate or is it all simply coincidence. If you have any opinions on luck, you can leave us a text or voicemail on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com and scroll to the bottom and you will see the anonymous box.2022-11-0750 min
A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 40 - Future GoalsHappy Halloween all you ghouls and ghosts. Hoping you get tons of candy that will last you for at least the rest of the week. Today we have a discussion about our future goals in life(and then some). If you have any future goals you would love to share, you can text or call us on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message but going to www.ahotmesspodcast.com and scroll to the anonymous box at the bottom.2022-10-3150 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 39 - FearsDon't be afraid!!! It's just a Monday. Today we discuss our fears and how they have changed after parenthood. If you would like to share some of your fears you can leave us a message or sent us a text at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com 2022-10-2454 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 38 - Top 3Hello. Only a couple more Mondays before Halloween and I'm already sick of all the candy I will be ingesting. On today's episode, we have another discussion about some of our Top 3's. We actually keep things fairly on topic. If you like to let us know your top 3 on any of those subjects leave us a message or send us a voicemail at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com and scroll to the bottom.2022-10-1755 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 37 - Trolls(and other stuff)There are some weeks when we can't wait for the weekend. That's it. that's the message. HAPPY MONDAY!!! On today's episode. We attempted and failed(yet again) to stay on one topic. We discuss the odd existence of internet trolls and internet beefs. We get into a number of things that, I guarantee, you will not regret you hear. If you would like to leave your input on this episode or any previous episode, you can leave us a message or send us a text at 310-494-6811 or leave us an anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com and scroll t...2022-10-1057 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 36 - Serial KillersFinally!!! October has arrived!!! Pumpkin latte's for EVERYONE!!! Today, we have a discussion about the psychology of a serial killer and a detailed description of a few of the more infamous killers. Including a brief discussion of the new Netflix series, Dahmer. If you have any comments or questions related to this topic or any previous topic we have discussed, send us a text or give us a call on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com2022-10-0353 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 35 - Collectors CornerIt's the first Monday of fall and it still feels like it's the first Monday when the sun roasts us to a crisp. On today's episode, we discuss the things we have collected throughout our lives along with some of the strangest things people have collected. If you have a strange collection or have another topic you would like for us to discuss, give us a call or send us a text on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com2022-09-2656 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 34 - Community QuestionsHappy Monday. Oh, you didn't know? So sorry for breaking the news to you. I do hope you can forgive us and still see us through to the end of this episode. On today's episode, we have a few of questions from the community that we answer. We also discover some quite interesting things about Monica as well. If you have any further questions for us you can leave us a voicemail or send us a text message at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com2022-09-1955 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 33 - Am I the A-holeMonday just happened. Whatyagonnado? On today's episode, We find a few stories on Reddit asking the question "Am I the A-hole" and discuss whether or not we believe they are an A-hole. If you would like to comment on these stories or have any stories of your own, you can call the hotline at 310-494-6811 or head over to www.ahotmesspodcast.com and send us an anonymous message.2022-09-121h 00A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 32 - In MemoriamWishing everyone a happy Labor Day. That's right. We don't take vacation days. We will work through ALL the holidays. Except National Pancake Day. I mean, that just makes total sense. Today, we discuss the passing of a very special contributor to the podcast. We also discuss how we handle loss. If you would like to add to this conversation, you are always welcome to by leaving a message or sending a text on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or sending us an anonymous message by visiting www.ahotmesspodcast.com and scrolling to the bottom. 2022-09-0558 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 31 - TikTok CultureTheres never been a more Monday Monday than THIS Monday. Thanks for visiting again. Today we discuss The TikTok culture and how we have navigated the (sometimes toxic) environment. If you would like to add to the conversation, you can always give us a call on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or leave us an anonymous message at www.ahotmesspodcast.com and scroll to the bottom.2022-08-291h 03A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 30 - SobrietyEveryone good? Did we all make it past the weekend? Great! Welcome to another fabulous Monday. On today's episode, we invite friend, Kayden, on to have a candid discussion about sobriety. If you would like to follow Kayden, you can find him on Instagram and TikTok @kayhaos, You can also find all of our socials at www.ahotmesspodcast.com or leave us a message on the hotline at 310-494-6811. If you want help with your journey to sobriety. SAMHSA is always available. You can call 24/7 at 800-662-HELP(4357) and you always have help at 988 if you need someone to lis...2022-08-221h 02A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 29 - Spirituality (Part Deux)Ok, everyone say it with me. Mondays are our friend. Now that we got that lie out of the way, we hope you had a magnificent weekend and a great start to the new week. On today's episode, we go more in depth about spirituality, religion and faith as requested by the community. Please remember, if you would like to add your own two cents to the conversation, you can leave us a message on the hotline any time at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message via www.ahotmesspodcast.com and scroll toward the bottom of the pa...2022-08-1555 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 28 - Andrew Tate(ugh...)Happiest of Mondays. We are reaching the tail end of summer and the heat is becoming unbearable. It's time for cooler temperatures, cloudy days and warm cocoa. On today's episode, we have a deeper look into one of the most talked about misogynists at the moment, Andrew Tate. We discuss his awful takes, what we think could be the nexus of why he is who he is. If you have any comments or questions about today's episode or any other topic, give us a call on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or message us at www.ahotmesspodcast.com 2022-08-081h 00
A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 27 - The Surprise Birthday EpisodeWait a second.... Did we just skip over the weekend??? How is there already a podcast and it's not even Monday yet??? Well. For those who don't know. Today, July 30th is Monica's birthday and we had a surprise birthday episode with some of Monica's friends joining us and it was great. We talk about her birthday and also discuss DM's Monica has received along with our traditional veering off into completely different topics. If you would still like to wish Monica a happy birthday, you can always send a message to the hotline at 310-494-6811 or head over to w...2022-07-3059 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 26 - Recap of the Year so farWe have now enjoyed 26 Mondays together. I mean, I'm not saying I want to make it official or anything but how much does a podcast need to do before we become serious??? On today's episode, we have a discussion about our year so far sprinkled in with lots of stories because it wouldn't be A Hot Mess if we didn't venture off into a different story or two along the way. Let us know what you think of the episode or any other before it by calling or texting the hotline at 310-494-6811 or sending us an anonymous mes...2022-07-2549 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 25 - JobsHappy Monday. It's time to get the week started and what better way than listening to us talk about our job history before you go to your job. We discuss our first jobs, the unique ways we have and still make money. If you have had an interesting job or way you have made money, let us know. You can give us a call or send us a text at the hotline. That number is 310-494-6811. You can also send us an anonymous message from www.ahotmesspodcast.com if you prefer. 2022-07-1856 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 24 - Five Favorites...and just like that, another Monday. We do hope with Monday comes happy weekend memories and a start to a great week. On today's episode, we ask five of our favorites(movies, musicians, actors, etc.) and find out more about Ernesto being a hype man. No really. If you want to let us know what your favorites are call or text us on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us an anonymous message at ahotmesspodcast.com2022-07-1158 min
A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 23 - Podcasts (what we listen to and our origin story)Who else is happy that there is only one Monday a week? Thank you again for showing us some love. On today's episode, we talk about podcasts. What we listen to, what we DON'T listen to and how we got it all started. If you have any favorite podcasts you would like to share, give us a call or text us on the hotline at 310-494-6811. You can also leave an anonymous message if you click HERE. You can also find all of our socials at www.ahotmesspodcast.com2022-07-0453 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 22 - Answering Random QuestionsWell... at least it's one day closer to Friday, right? On today's episode, we answer random questions that were provided by our friend, Wendy. If you have any random questions that you would like us to answer, leave us a voicemail on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or you can send us a question or comment anonymously HERE. You always visit www.ahotmesspodcast.com to find all of our socials.2022-06-2752 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 21 - [TRIGGER WARNING]Sexual AssaultYes, it's Monday. Yes, that means another work week for most of us. Yes, we already wish it was Friday. At least you get an all new episode today to make this day creep by a little faster. On today's episode, we get a little heavy again and discuss the very serious issues of sexual assault and rape. If this subject triggers you, this may not be the episode you want to listen to. The hotline is always available if you have any comments about this episode or would like for us to discuss any topic. You can reach is at...2022-06-2056 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 20 - AddictionAnother Monday, another opportunity to have an incredible week. Today, we wish Ernesto a belated birthday and remind him of how ancient he is. We also discuss in more detail addiction and how it has affected our lives. If you are suffering from addiction and are seeking help call the SAMHSA National helpline at 800-662-HELP(4357). You can also reach out to us for this or anything else on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or our socials at www.ahotmesspodcast.com2022-06-1352 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 19 - Get To Know Your HostsAnother Monday is upon us. Along with another month. We have now reached the midway point of the year and cannot wait to see what other adventures this crazy year has in store for us. On today's episode, we go into a more in depth look at our childhoods, our families and the calamity that is our formative years. If you have any great stories from your childhood you would like to share, leave a message on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or visit the website at www.ahotmesspodcast.com for our socials. 2022-06-0650 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 18 - Therapy(or so we thought)Happy Memorial Day Monday. Hoping everyone in the states is enjoying the extended weekend. Today's episode was intended to get into a more in depth discussion about therapy until it wasn't. You may learn more about us than you wanted to since we somehow pivot into pregnancy in detail. If you would like to provide some insight on today's episode or any of the previous episodes, leave us a message on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or visit www.ahotmesspodcast.com to hit us up on our socials. 2022-05-3052 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 17 - Twin FlamesWell, we did it. We made it to another Monday. Congratulations. Have another day off on us. If you do choose to we are not responsible for any trouble you may get into if you do choose to take that extra day. Today we get into the topic of relationships, love, twin flames and our experiences with them. If you have any experiences on this topic you would like to share, leave us a voicemail on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or find us on our socials at www.ahotmesspodcast.com2022-05-2348 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 16 - Mental HealthWelcome to another Monday. I promise this will be the only Monday for 6 days. At least. Today we have a more in depth discussion of mental health. We touch on our experiences with mental health and how we have navigated through the world up to now. If you have any input on this or any other topic, please reach out to us on the hotline at 310-494-6811 or reach us on any of our socials at www.ahotmesspodcast.com2022-05-1641 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 15 - Social MediaJust because it's Monday, It doesn't mean you can't party like it's the weekend. You may not have a job afterward but that's neither here nor there. Today we discussed the positives and negatives of social media and what our experiences with social media has been like. We also will be asking the community to participate in a future episode. Just click on the link to the Google Doc below if you would like to participate. Also, if you have your own crazy DM experiences and would like to share them, you can always leave us a message on the...2022-05-0948 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 14 - Depp v HeardThere really is no easy way of saying this. So I'll just say it. Happy Monday. We hope you can spend a few moments just enjoying the dulcet tones of our voices on this day. Today we discuss one of the most public trials in the US. Johnny Depp v. Amber Heard. We go into details as to what has happened so far and what we think about this hot button issue. If you have any thoughts about the trial or anything else, leave us a message on the hotline any time. 310-494-6811. You can also catch us on ins...2022-05-0245 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 13 - Making People SmileDon't move!!!! If Monday doesn't see us it won't happen... If it does find you, at least you will have a new episode to listen to. On today's episode, we answer a question left on the hotline. What is the craziest thing you have done to make someone smile? We also throw in a question for the next episode and need your input. If you have any questions or stories related to dating, please leave it on the hotline at 310-494-6811. Make sure to follow our instagram @ahotmesspodcast_2022-04-2549 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 12 - Paranormal/Extra TerrestrialWelcome to another new Monday. There isn't much we can do about that. We are still working on a way to skip Mondays and go directly into Tuesdays but none of our diabolical schemes have worked as of yet. This week's episode gets a little out of this world and a little paranormal and our experiences related to them. If you have any alien or paranormal encounters, please share with us via the hotline at 310-494-6811 or send us a message on Instagram @ahotmesspodcast_2022-04-1851 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 11 - AstrologyWait... is it Monday again? Feels like it was just Monday about 7 days ago. We hope you enjoy today's episode. We welcome one of Monica's closest friends, Tiffany, to the podcast and discuss Astrology and a few other things that would get us banned from the Academy Awards for 10 years. If you want to leave us a message on the hotline, you can always reach us at 310-494-6811 and follow us on Instagram @ahotmesspodcast_2022-04-1142 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 10 - Past Life RegressionHappy Monday. Today we celebrate 10 whole episodes. Who would have thought we would make it to 10 episodes? US!!! Don't get it twisted. Today we get into a question asked from the hotline about past lives and past life regression. We also discuss who Monica recommends you check out if you want to learn more about how you can work on past life regression. Link to his Youtube channel is below. We sincerely thank you for all of the support and look forward to our next milestone. Episode 11. As always, we appreciate every message sent to us via the hotline at 310-4...2022-04-0448 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 9 - "The Spicy Episode"Welcome to the last Monday of March. On today's episode, we discuss some of the more Intimate subjects that happen in a sexual relationship. this episode may not be the episode you play when in the school drop off line. If you want us to discuss a topic or have a comment in regards to this episode or any other episode, you can leave us a message on the hotline at 310-494-6811. You can also follow us on instagram @ahotmesspodcast_2022-03-2846 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 8 - Co-ParentingWelcome back to another Monday. We can't do much about that but give you at least an hour or an escape from what Mondays bring to you. In today's episode we discuss the ups and downs of co-parenting and the struggles that come with splitting with your significant other. If you have anything to contribute to these topics or would like for us to discuss another topic, leave us a voicemail on the hotline at (310)494-6811. You can also find us on instagram @ahotmesspodcast_2022-03-2140 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 7 - NarcissismWelcome to another Monday. Thank you again for all your support. Today we discuss some old phone message left by one of the world's greatest narcissists. We also talk about our own experiences with narcissists, the difference between a narcissist and someone who is a self loather and quite possibly why this may be the last podcast we record together. If you have any comments or questions for us you can always leave us your own message on the hotline. That number is (310) 494-6811. You can also follow our instagram @ahotmesspodcast_2022-03-1449 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 6 - Spiritual AwakeningWelcome back to another week. We can't change the fact that it's a Monday but maybe we can help you pass the time. On today's episode we answer a question from the Hotline about our biggest losses and gains that occurred during a spiritual awakening. Please share with us any losses and gains you experienced during a spiritual awakening. You can always reach us on the Hotline at (310)494-6811. Please make sure to follow our instagram @ahotmesspodcast_2022-03-0746 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 5 - What Is An Empath?Thank you for coming back to a new episode. Today, we listen to another voicemail. We talk about being people pleasers and how we can put ourselves first. We discuss what our understanding of what an empath is, understanding that we can't always be in control and the ups and downs of finding a therapist. Make sure to follow us on instagram @ahotmesspodcast_ and call us on our hotline 310-494-6811. Have a wonderful week2022-02-2843 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 4 - Faith/Spirituality/ReligionWelcome back. We are so grateful you have returned for another episode. On this week's episode, We answer a question left on the hotline. We discuss what faith we were raised in, our opinions on organized religion, spirituality, and witchcraft. Always remember, you can leave us a message on the hotline (310)494-6811 and be sure to follow us on instagram @ahotmesspodcast_2022-02-2140 minA Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 3 - Valentine EditionHappy Valentine’s Day. On today’s Episode, we turn up the heat. We get a visit from Aunt Flo, discuss what we think of Valentine’s Day, our first sexual experiences and the first time we, ummmm, climax? We will be calling this episode “sorry mom” for many reasons. If you have any questions or feedback. Let us know. The hotline is (310)494-68112022-02-1442 min
A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 2 - DepressionToday we get a little deep. The topics on the table revolve around depression and how it has affected our lives, what we believe causes anxiety, a tragic loss of life that could be due to these subjects and how we continue to move forward with our lives. If you have any comments or questions related to this topic or would love for us to speak more about this, send us a voicemail on the hotline at 310-494-68112022-02-0738 min
A Hot MessA Hot Mess - Episode 1 - Meet the hostsToday we get an introduction to your hosts, Monica and Ernesto. We talk briefly on how we met, what motivated us to start this journey and what this podcast will be about. Make sure to check out our Instagram (@ahotmesspodcast_) or send us a voicemail at our hotline (310) 494-6811. We look forward for you to embarking on this adventure with us.2022-01-3138 min