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Remodeled Love28: Conscious Breakups with ashe danger phoenixBreaking up is hard to do. In this episode of Remodeled Love, Jessica talks with one of her favorite polyam podcasters, ashe danger phoenix of the Dear Jessamyn podcast. They discuss why lesbian breakups take so long, and is there a way to make them shorter; can we discuss breakups with someone before entering into a relationship with them, the difference between low stakes breakups, ghosting, and breakups that rip your heart out--how to see them coming, how to lean into it, and how to stay conscious during the death.
Polyamory inherently forces the need to get g...2023-03-171h 00
Dear JessamynWhy Am I Judging Myself For Being Fat? (Finale)This episode of Dear Jessamyn is the last planned recording of the show. Before this possibly long (or never ending) hiatus, a newly fat Deary asks about how to love her new body. We love you all.This episode mentions: Baby News Network; Adipositivity; Substantia Jones; Samantha Irby; Bitches Gotta Eat Blog; and 2 Whole CakesDear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. This episode was edited by ashe and Produced by Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do o...2022-10-0451 minDear JessamynBreaking It Down (A Replay)This week, we’re taking a look back at a crucial episode for the show from 2021 - episode 204.We’re keeping it real and breaking [it] down. Jessamyn and ashe review an unpublished recording while answering Carrie’s question, “Were we in fact dating the same person over and over again?” and their own questions about selling a product versus authentic art. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify.There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions had find us and our team an...2022-09-2738 minDear JessamynWhy Are We In Relationships?Two things: 1. Love you like you know me. 2. Moving onto an RV is anti-dating. ashe and Jessamyn are back on the mic, giving us a solid What’s New In Paradise. HINT: Relationship update. Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. This episode was edited by ashe and Produced by Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of StaffAmb...2022-09-2055 minDear JessamynPlay, Parties & Psilocybin: What Are Your Wellness Trends?In the last Summer Session of this year, ashe and Jessamyn discuss their current wellness trends. Inspired by Aidy Bryant and Bowen Yang's Weekend Update bit: Trend Forecasters.Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of StaffFruit Snack d...2022-08-3019 minDear JessamynProducer Talks Back: Have You Ever Been Fired?Okay, but who is your celebrity crush?? In the fifth summer session, our Producer Kylee C. Roberts joins ashe and Jessamyn to play a short round of We're Not Really Strangers. Got a question? Head to Dearjessamyn.com/queery and you may hear it answered on the show!Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art ...2022-08-2322 minDear JessamynNeurodivergent & Terrible Flirt: How Do I Start A Summer Romance?In the fourth installment of our Dear Jessamyn: Summer Sessions, ashe and Jessamyn answer a Deary Queery from a 40 y/o, queer, nonbinary married person who started HRT five months ago. Since starting T, they feel happier and more comfortable in their body, wanting to make friends with more queer people, date some folks, have a summer romance. It's a lot! So the question is, how should they go about this?Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Ky...2022-08-1625 minDear JessamynWhat Is Your Dream Metamour-Ship?Record scratch and rewind! ashe and Jessamyn are revisiting a question from season 1, episode 4 of the podcast: What The F**k is A Metamour? They're chatting about their relationship evolution, wants and needs.Got a question? Head to Dearjessamyn.com/queery and you may hear it answered on the show!Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode a...2022-08-0226 minDear JessamynWhat Are Y'all Watching This Summer?Summer Session #2: We all have our comfort watches, but if you need some suggestions, ashe and Jessamyn are coming in hot with their recent and favorite shows and movies across streaming platforms.This episode was recorded on stolen Ohlone Land.Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staf...2022-07-1919 minDear JessamynWere You the Ghost? Or Were You Ghosted?Welcome to the Summer Sessions! In these shorter form episodes, ashe and Jessamyn are stickin' to one topic they've been dying to discuss. This week: Have Y'all Been Ghosted?Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staffhttps...2022-07-0517 minDear Jessamyn320 What Are You Doing This Summer?It’s the last episode of the season and we are saluting Virgo rising. For the last time until the fall, our hosts invite in gratitude, share their favorite things and answer a Deary Queery about summer planning in a polycule. This episode mentions: Undrowned: Black Feminist Lessons from Marine Mammals by Alexis Pauline Gumbs, What I Know For Sure by Oprah Winfrey; the television shows “Veronica Mars” and “Hacks”; The Pattern app. Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is K...2022-06-281h 04
Dear Jessamyn319 In A Hetero Relationship, How Do I Connect To My Queerness?This week, Jessamyn and ashe are calling in joy and levity and spirit presence happy good and bright and meant to be and always was and here. Episode mentions: Out of the Closet, Logic, Kathryn Budi, Asha Patel Designs collab, Tenderfire Media’s newest podcast I Hate It Here, Planet Earth, The Planet Podcast This episode was recorded on stole Ohlone land. Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya...2022-06-2154 min
Dear Jessamyn318 Have You Ever Dated a Narcissist?Have you ever dated someone with an STD? Is it selfish to pursue a relationship with a married person? This week’s Deary is an Aquarius with some impactful queries. Episode mentions: Words of Wisdom by Ram Dass, Dharmacosm, Ekhart Tolle's Power of Now audiobook, Letters to a Young Poet by Rainer Maria Rilke and DSM5’s definition of Narcissistic Personality DisorderThis episode was recorded on stolen Ohlone land.Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kyle...2022-06-141h 02
Dear Jessamyn317 Does Your Roommate Clap Cheeks In Front of You?Wait, there’s a platypus controlling you? What? ANYWAY. This week, Jessamyn and ashe are diving into their favorite things (RE: the first sentence of this description), giving last week’s trivia answer (hint: Durham native), responding to some listener feedback and answering a Deary with a Queery. Episode mentions: Pauli Murray, Barbara Lau and Ep. 312: Does Your Therapist Know Your AstrologyDear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Willia...2022-06-0744 min
Dear Jessamyn316 How Did This Happen? Eczema, Chick-Fil-A and Janie GibbsThere’s something in the air this week as Jessamyn and ashe record after the partial solar eclipse. Our hosts review 315’s trivia answer (hint: Cancerian Black genius immigrant) and talk about recent skincare adventures. Also, fu*k the Supreme Court. This episode mentions Ashe’s white guilt from Ep. 313 and Harriet The Spy.This episode was recorded on stolen lands of the Kiauwee Confederacy.Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell...2022-05-3155 min
Dear Jessamyn315 Can You Enter A New Season Without Your Partner?Jessamyn answers a DM about her relationship with her other partner, and what it’s like to start a new phase of her life with physical distance between them. Also introducing a new segment…CW: Suicide and suicidal ideations at 5:41 and 10:16.This episode mentions: Haus of Phoenix, @HungryHUngryHeejin, Four AgreementsDear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our e...2022-05-2455 min
Dear Jessamyn314 How Do You Tantrum?What does it look like to be luxurious with time? Jessamyn and ashe are here with updates from camper on the East Coast, continuing conversations about conflict. This week we’re also introducing our newest segments: Our Favorite Things and Trivia! Hey quick reminder: No One Should Be In Jail For Weed.This episode mentions the We Go High Shop, Song Exploder, Waxahachee and RadiotopiaDear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Fos...2022-05-1738 min
Dear Jessamyn313 What's Your Conflict Animal?When was the last time you thought about what makes you mad and what that was actually about? This week Jesssamyn and ashe are individually reflecting on the context of their internal and relationship conflicts, and yes, what their conflict animals mean.MentionsConflict is Not Abuse: Overstating Harm, Community Responsibility, and the Duty of Repair by Sarah SchulmanThe Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz with Janet MillsDear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our E...2022-05-1047 min
Dear Jessamyn312 Does Your Therapist Know Your Astrology?Does your therapist know your Big Three, Myers-Briggs and attachment style? Jessamyn and ashe discuss the importance of openness with your therapist. There’s also some conversation about capitalism. Cue the O’Jays.Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff2022-05-0341 min
Dear Jessamyn311 What's Your November?It's April, but we thought we should ask. Jessamyn and Ashe discuss what's new in paradise, all of Jessamyn’s recent travel and answer Tyler The Creator's question; What's Your November? Do you know where you are on your journey?Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of StaffAmbe...2022-04-2642 min
Dear Jessamyn310 Can A Monogamous Person Be Wild?Jessamyn and Ashe ponder a question from a Deary: Can a monogamous person find as much adventure and challenge as a polyamorous person can? Upon reflection during What's New In Paradise, Jessamyn also shares that she may be asking for more vulnerability from Ashe than she typically offers from herself.Got a question? Head to Dearjessamyn.com/queery and you may hear it play on the show!Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts2022-04-1954 min
Dear Jessamyn309 When Fire Meets The OceanWe’re taking some time to spring clean today! It’s time to reflect on the past; think on where you've been and what you're carrying and what you're going to bring forward this season. Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of...2022-04-1250 min
Dear JessamynReplay - 106 Am I Poly Or Am I BoredIn this replay episode from May 2020, Jessamyn and ashe ask; Are you dreaming of the day quarantine is over, and you can finally head over to your friend's house so you can ruin your friendship with sex? We are too. What a different world!I mean, what else are we thinking about these days? Ashe and Jessamyn finish their conversation about compersion, having sex with friends, having good communication with friends later and deciding that you don't need to do that anymore, and ultimately, loving yourself. I know you are shocked at that one.In...2022-04-0539 minDear Jessamyn308 Where's A Queer Supposed To Live?A fabulous question from “Bi and Large” came through our hosts’ inbox inquiring on the coolest weed-friendly, queer-friendly, dog-friendly places to visit and live. After having traveled throughout a lot of the US recently in their RV, Jessamyn and ashe are the perfect people to answer!Got a question? Head to Dearjessamyn.com/queery and you may hear it play on the show!Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Wil...2022-03-2950 min
The Seer And The StarEpisode 8: The Magick of Rebirth and The Promises of SpringIn the Episode of The Seer And The Star, we return from a long hiatus to bring you a new beginning.As the Wheel turns yet again and east winds make their grand arrival, we dissect familiar themes of spring down to their roots to find ancient, but not forgotten, rituals and traditions still practiced today. From the fertile energetics of the season, to the rich spells of our ancestors, we birth a new cycle and hope for a bright future. Song: The Spirit of the PlantsSung by some of our beautiful friends a...2022-03-221h 16
Dear Jessamyn307 How Much Power Should Your Third Have?Jessamyn and ashe recount a frustrating, yet sometimes funny, sexual scenario with a third. Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. This episode also contains music from: Jharee, Shy5 and...2022-03-2247 min
Dear Jessamyn306 What Are Our Responsibilities As Friends?Jessamyn and ashe finished the first season of the HBOMax original And Just Like That, and are here to chat to say that sometimes you're gay, and sometimes you have a husband. Our hosts are reviewing the character growth of the cast, and the real world expectations of their actions.Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art ...2022-03-1552 min
Dear Jessamyn305 Why Is Patriarchy So Boring?Can you be somewhat poly? Jessamyn and Ashe discuss a Deary Queery about opening up to non-monogamy, and the importance of radical honesty in every relationship.This episode mentions Jessica Fern’s Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual NonmonogamyDear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of StaffAmbe...2022-03-0844 min
Dear Jessamyn304 How Do You Transition From Lover to Friend?What are our options in long distance relationships? What are the pros and cons of cohabitation? This week Jessamyn and ashe answer a Deary Queery that unlocks these subsets of dating and relationships. As Venus stations direct and Mercury continues in retrograde, our hosts wonder what the best ways of communicating (and not) with loved ones are. This episode mentions: We Go High NC, Underbelly Yoga, PortlandiaDear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts2022-03-0145 min
Dear Jessamyn303 Can I Be Monogamous With A Poly Person?Follow up question: have y’all tried couples therapy? While Venus is in retrograde, Jessamyn and ashe talk out their relationship frustrations and revelations since moving to California. This week, our hosts also focus on a Deary Queery: Is it foolish to date someone and fall in love even if their base beliefs are different? Can a monogamous person date a poly person?Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do...2022-02-2240 min
Dear Jessamyn302 So, Y'all Like Che Diaz?Are you a Carrie, Miranda, or Che Diaz? In this week’s Sex and the Titty segment, Jessamyn and ashe discuss the themes and character development within the HBOMax series, And Just Like That. We learn why Jessamyn relates to Big, and why ashe is totally a Carrie. The Astrothought of the Week focuses on the moon in Cancer, and all of the luscious emotions that come with it. Dear Jessamyn is hosted by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Rober...2022-02-1546 min
Dear Jessamyn301 Do Folx Choose To Be Boxed In?Jessamyn and ashe are bringing in season 3 from a brand new location - their new home in California! This week, our hosts talk about adjustments to their lives and relationships since moving from the RV to a "permanent" residence.Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of StaffFrui...2022-02-081h 03
Dear JessamynHow Was Season 2?After 32 episodes of profanity, sex talk, weed smoking, and a bunch of other shit that’s just not for everyone, Dear Jessamyn is starting Season 3 soon!Don't forget that we still want to hear from you! Got thoughts on Sex and the City or The L Word? What’s new in paradise? Any relationship questions you need talking out? Head to dearjessamyn.com/queery to submit.Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how t...2022-02-0102 minDear Jessamyn232 Will You Take Me As I Am?Applause if you get the episode title reference! Jessamyn and ashe record from southern California as they continue conversations about the evolution of their relationship within their nomad travels.Adapting to an east coast work schedule from the west coast seems to be working so far; Aaaannd now it's the end of the calendar year, so j+a are calling in presence and patience. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. If you've enjoyed this episode, ev...2022-01-2546 minDear Jessamyn231 How Gay Was Your Yuletide?Jessamyn and Ashe are sharing cheer, Sagittarius season vibes and plans for a road trip to Cali. Content warning: Talk of violence and school shootingsFollow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at...2022-01-1840 minDear Jessamyn230 Wait, Are Y’all Breaking Up?Really ringing in the new year over here! Our hosts are back, answering the question: When you add another metamour to the pile, what happens? And most importantly, are they breaking up?Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for l...2022-01-1159 minDear JessamynReplay - 104 What the F**k is a Metamour?Enjoy this replay episode from April 2020 as we gear up for a new year. If you had your dream metamour situation, what would it be? Sister wives (or sibling spouse, as ashe calls them)? Don't ask, don't tell? Best friends? Brunch at the house? Do you want kids with your triad? Do you want a long-distance boo who has a primary partner? Do you want your metamours to come to your birthday party? Do you want to go to theirs?Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. T...2021-12-2847 minDear Jessamyn229 Should We Do A Shot?It’s Dear Jessamyn After Dark AND the last show of the year! Closing out 2021, our hosts talk about their trip to California, and the implications Ashe’s new beau has on their relationship and journey. Features music By DAJANAFollow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster...2021-12-2147 minDear Jessamyn228 What Do The Holidays Bring Up For You?"This show is about something different."As many can relate around the holidays, Jessamyn and Ashe aim to talk about one topic and end up discussing topics that are 'way too f*ckin' far." But in the spirit of this show, it's always about love. This week, our hosts chat about the complicated emotions around being home for the holidays Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our te...2021-12-1440 minDear Jessamyn227 Where Do Threesomes Fail?Has Jessamyn been converted?? What are the aspects of a threesome that make it work? Our hosts discuss their most recent sexual encounter with a third; what did and didn’t make them feel sexy?Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social med...2021-12-0749 minDear Jessamyn226 Did You Say Greedy or Gritty?Happy Giving Tuesday!! Jessamyn and Ashe giving YOU an update on What’s Happening in Paradise. As they continue adjusting to camper life, our host are also learning more and more about work-love-balance. This week, Ashe is inviting in backbone, and learning who am I? And what do I stand for? While Jessamyn brings in patience for herself and others around her. This Astrothought of the Week pertains to the full moon that occurred on October 20th - bringing out courage while Mercury stations direct. What’s y’all’s excuse now? Follow us on Instag...2021-11-3042 minDear Jessamyn225 Who Says You Can't Go Home Again? Pt. 2Is home really where the heart is? What’s the spectrum of breaking up? And is Jessamyn warming up to threesomes? In this episode, our hosts continue to analyze their return to Durham.Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJ...2021-11-2349 minDear Jessamyn224 Who Says You Can't Go Home Again? Pt. 1As Bon Jovi said, "There's only one place they call me one of their own / Just a hometown boy born a rolling stone." In this part one of two episodes, Jessamyn and Ashe talk about returning to Durham, and their relationship to parental figures in their lives.This episode mentions:The UnderbellyWhen We Are No More: How Digital Memory Is Shaping Our Future by Abby Smith Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, ho...2021-11-1629 minDear JessamynReplay - 102 Polyamory is Not For EverybodyWe’re taking a quick break, so enjoy this fan favorite from season 1! "Can you locate the things in yourself that you are holding back because you are scared your partner won't like it?” We’re talking polyamory. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsMelody Minager, Angell Foster and Nya Will...2021-11-0946 minDear Jessamyn223 Can You Be Lonely When You’re Not Actually Alone?In this What’s New In Paradise? episode, Jessamyn and Ashe talk about boundaries and more things they’ve learned on the road. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsMelody Minager, Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna...2021-11-0241 minDear Jessamyn222 How Does One RV?After two months of living in their RV full time, Jessamyn and Ashe’s lives have changed - will they ever comfortably live in a brick and mortar home again?!? Here’s an initial list of things they wish they knew before starting the camper life. This episode mentions:Kathryn BudigHaus of PhoenixYoga GlowFollow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our te...2021-10-2640 minDear Jessamyn221 What Happens After Hours?They’re taking shots and being honest. Jessamyn and Ashe circle back to discuss how they may have been holding back during the previous episode. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsMelody Minager, Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art ...2021-10-1929 minDear Jessamyn220 Do We Need Drama?All will be well, all is fine, but do we need drama to keep it interesting? This week during Sex and the Titty, our hosts discuss Carrie's dilemma as she navigates a seemingly perfect relationship.Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsMelody Minager, Angell Foster and Nya Williams do o...2021-10-1231 minDear Jessamyn219 Liquor In The FrontJessamyn and Ashe check in from a beautiful motel in Vermont (then on the side of the road) to introduce Liquor in the Front, where they discuss scenes and themes from The (original and new) L Word. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsMelody Minager, Angell Foster and Nya W...2021-10-0550 minDear Jessamyn218 The Virgin QueensHey, they’re new at this! Ashe and Jessamyn are talking about some of their favorite parts of their Virginia visit! As they travel across the U.S., the co-hosts will be acknowledging indigenous land; going over bodies of water, hikes, their trip to the VMFA and run in with TreePD.Episode mentions:We Go HighJessamyn Stanley YouTube Virginia Museum of Fine Arts (VMFA)Exhibit - The Dirty South: Contemporary Art, Material Culture, and the Sonic ImpulseNational Cannabis FestivalFollow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. Th...2021-09-2849 minDear Jessamyn217 Deep Virgo EnergyThe season of organization and communication is upon us! In the Virgo spirit, Ashe and Jessamyn are getting their footing as creators on the road as they record from Virginia.This week during Astro-Thought of the Week (8:39) the co-hosts discuss how the season has already started to affect them and their Virgo rising placements.This episode mentions the National Cannabis Festival and We Go High.Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, t...2021-09-2117 minDear JessamynReplay - 103 Threesome CityAs we take some time to rest, enjoy this very popular episode from season 1. Our Deary Queery is: How can I possibly be okay with my boyfriend wanting a threesome when I'm not interested and I wish he wasn't too?Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsMelody Minager, Angell Fo...2021-09-1451 minDear JessamynReplay - 101 Is Sexual Identity A Choice?While we take a short break, enjoy our very first episode of Dear Jessamyn ever! We still want to know, can you choose between polyamory or monogamy? Is Sexual Identity A Choice?Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsMelody Minager, Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media2021-09-0750 minDear Jessamyn216 Talking CLITsOur guest cherry has been popped by the hosts of Clit Talk! Katie, Lindsey and Sugar join Ashe and Jessamyn on the mic: They talk about masturbation circles, sexual empowerment and play a lovely game of Fuck, Marry, K*ll. Become a member of the Cliterati and follow Clit Talk on Instagram @clittakshow. Make sure to sign up for their upcoming workshop, “Confidence Under the Covers,” while also keeping an eye out for their sex and empowerment master class at the end of September. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spo...2021-08-3141 minDear Jessamyn215 Not So Silent PartnerJessamyn and Ashe are inviting in the ability to stop, and the reality of change. They reflect on their life since fully moving into the trailer, and how their dynamics have shifted. One of the new additions to their life in paradise is an increased time spent at the gym — specifically luxuriating in the showers of Planet Fitness. But also working out with your partner as inspiration vs. competition. The pair gets back into Sex and the Titty with “Ghost Town” (season four, episode five), where Carrie wonders if she should go to Aidan and Steve’s...2021-08-2447 minDear Jessamyn214 We Are Here To ShineJessamyn and ashe are settling into their new life in the camper/RV/trailer, and discuss what it is like to engage with close family friends, close family family, and inviting in being open to all the feelings, without pretending they are not happening. The chaos has gone down so much since they moved, and they are about to set sail on they journey that is going to take them far from home. They are nervous and excited. After leaving Cancer season with a bang, ashe speculates that they were using this to catch up o...2021-08-1744 min
The Seer And The StarEpisode 3 - The Harvest Begins: Cycles and Rhythms of Life, Dying, and Death of GodsIn this very special episode filled with song, story and deeper explorations of the spiritual process, we feature the Harvest Season with themes of a Dying God.We will be touching on the Wheel of The Year and what this means for The God and The Goddess, or The Sun and The Earth, and the people.We also touch on some of the history and traditions of the first harvest of the year known as Lammas in Anglo-Saxon England, and Lughnasdha in Ireland.Then, as the tradition goes, we will tell you a...2021-08-131h 19Dear Jessamyn213 The TripPicking up from last week’s episode, Jessamyn and Ashe continue the tale of Jessamyn’s birthday weekend. And yes, acrobatic sex and LSD are involved. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions had find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsChaz VanHoose and Melody Minager do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna...2021-08-1059 minDear Jessamyn212 An Organized MessThe past two weeks have been a whirlwind! Jessamyn and Ashe are reviewing some *notable* things that happened on Jessamyn’s birthday weekend...that of course, as we know, was during Cancer season. Strap in for part one of this recollection. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions had find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsChaz VanHoose and Melo...2021-08-0346 minDear Jessamyn211 I'm Having a Moment!(Not-so) Live from the camper-trailer, it’s Dear Jessamyn! The very first episode recorded since Jessamyn and Ashe's big move to their little home. Can y’all send suggestions for what they should name their new home?Throughout the episode, we get scattered Astrothoughts like it’s still Gemini season, but they’re emotional realizations in true Cancer season form.Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions had find us and our team and more...2021-07-2743 minDear Jessamyn210 Jealousy is my KinkJessamyn is hella excited to talk about Ashe’s recent dating life as the co-hosts invite in flexibility and intentional reflection on feelings for the week!Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions had find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsChaz VanHoose and Melody Minager do our social media2021-07-2026 minDear Jessamyn209 Chicken Soup For Every SoulThis week our hosts invite in the realities of anxiety, of coping mechanisms and really seeing themselves. What's New In Paradise? Ashe and Jessamyn got financing for their camper! In true form, we had some technical difficulties while Mercury was in Retrograde. Please enjoy!Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions had find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts2021-07-1342 minDear Jessamyn208 Gracefully and GrandlyIn a league of their own, Jessamyn and Ashe bring in gratitude and the concept of eating their fears while Mercury is in Retrograde.This week’s Deary Queery asks for advice in ignoring outside pressure and creating a life that centers their friendships and poly-family. Wondering What’s New in Paradise? Our hosts discuss their big move into a camper-trailer!Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions had find us and our team...2021-06-2950 minDear Jessamyn207 Hitting the RoadThis week Jessamyn, all of her personalities and Ashe are inviting in (1:15) an appreciation for the creative team around them and the openness that allows for many new truths! Amongst those truths has come the revelation that these co-hosts are setting out on a looonggg road trip. In What’s New In Paradise (9:59) they discuss potential routes and guidance needed from you! Got any camper tips? Restaurant go-tos? Weed advice? Head to the contact sheet at dearjessamyn.com to reach out. We’ll end on a note from the lunar eclipse in Sagittarius and bracing for Me...2021-06-2257 minDear Jessamyn206 What's New In Paradise?Jessamyn and Ashe are bringing in a new segment to discuss some new developments in their living situation - What’s New in Paradise?Circling to Sex and the Titty, the co-hosts are asked, “Can We Have it All??” and the Astro-Thought of the week reflects on spiritual awakenings of Jupiter in Pisces.Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions had find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comO...2021-06-1552 minDear Jessamyn205 Emotional PrudenceJessamyn and Ashe continue last week’s conversation, discussing the balance needed for work, love and art. As Charlotte wonders “WHERE IS HE??” Carrie asks our hosts, “Did you ever think that we’re the white knights? And that we have to save ourselves?” They probably don’t answer with what Charlotte wanted to hear, but that’s pretty expected. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions had find us and our team an...2021-06-0835 min