Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater - Podcast Details

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Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater10 Things Men Hate About YouRegan and Chesko break down a controversial list of the "10 Least Attractive Hobbies of Women According to Men." From video games and true crime to shopping and OnlyFans. They explore the psychology behind why these lists exist, unpack the double standards, and discuss how misogyny shapes what's considered "acceptable" female interests. Plus, Chesko's airhorn malfunctions, Reagan fixates on the Titan submersible, and they both question who actually wrote this list. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us...2025-07-281h 14

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterFellas, Is It Gay to Like Women?Regan and Chesko dive into the bizarre world of men who think vaginas are "icky" after watching a cringe-worthy podcast clip of a guy describing women's bodies as gross and smelly. They explore the twisted logic of supposedly straight men who hate the very thing they claim to be attracted to, discuss how this ties into the pleasure gap and male loneliness epidemic, and roast the hypocrisy of men with questionable hygiene standards throwing stones. Plus: why "boy humor" might be a red flag, the art of fake pranks, and Regan's theory that extreme misogyny is just being "so straight...2025-07-1554 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterHow To Love Like A CowboyThis week, Regan and Chesko react to a middle-aged cowboy relationship guru who gives relationship advice that's more horror movie than romance. We dissect why this advice feels genuinely alarming when presented as universal marriage guidance, complete with piercing stares and uncomfortable hand gestures. From "luscious lips" to dinner table...antics, they explore the line between consensual kink and concerning behavior. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater 2025-07-0745 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterHoney, Don't Disbar MeRegan and Chesko dive into a viral courtroom clip where a male lawyer accidentally calls a female judge "honey" in a condescending tone, leading to an awkward exchange that perfectly captures workplace power dynamics and casual sexism. They then share their own cringe-worthy professional moments, including Chesko's traumatic experience as a young professor when three students coordinated elaborate final speeches pretending to be married to him, complete with wedding vows, maid of honor toasts, and a fake pregnancy announcement. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https...2025-07-0155 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterManthropology 101Join Regan and Chesko as they sit down with Holly Solem, creator and host of "Manthropology TV," to discuss her viral street interview series where she asks men the simple yet loaded question: "Why are you like this?" Holly shares the unexpected journey of how a single post on Threads sparked a movement that led to her interviewing men on camera about masculinity. From the now-legendary Timmy "Bounce Back" interview (where he declares women "kill and destroy everything") to encounters that turned genuinely scary, Holly reveals what it's really like to hold up a mirror to male behavior...2025-06-1655 min

Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater18 Holes, Zero EmpathyRegan and Chesko dive into the world of "golf widows" after discussing a viral TikTok where a husband turned his text exchange with his struggling wife into an AI song. They explore how normalizing this behavior hurts marriages, the difference between actual comedy and cruelty disguised as jokes, and why some men get defensive when called out for treating their wives poorly. Plus: tangents on pickleball, competitive dads at birthday parties, and why "cancel culture" isn't actually canceling anyone. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Response clip being...2025-06-0256 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterKid Rock Can Kick RocksThe episode touches on everything from 90s boy bands (with some nostalgic NSYNC vs Backstreet Boys debate) to the importance of taking criticism gracefully when doing social justice work. They also dive into Kid Rock's recent inflammatory comments about declining birth rates in the US, where he blamed "ugly" and "deranged" liberal women before unpacking the deeper issues behind such statements, exploring how they reflect broader problems with toxic masculinity, emotional regulation, and the refusal to examine systemic causes for societal changes. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater ...2025-05-261h 20

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterMen Are Awesome and Women Destroy Everything (No Offense)In this episode, Reagan and Chesko dive into the absurd world of "Timmy Bounce Back" and his viral rant about why men are "awesome" and women are supposedly "destroyers." Between fits of laughter, they unpack the toxic mindset behind these kinds of statements, examining the fragility that leads to such ridiculous claims. They explore how patriarchal systems actually harm everyone, the importance of intersectional feminism, and why some men would rather maintain a broken system than work toward equality. And, as always, there's an extra full episode waiting for Patreon supporters who want to get to know our hosts even...2025-05-1955 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterThe Patriarchy's Guide to Acceptable Gym AttireIn this episode of 'Mr. Pick Me and the Man Hater Show,' Regan and Chesko dive into double standards, bodily autonomy, and the right to exist comfortably in shared spaces as We discuss the viral gym clothing debate currently raging on social media before moving on to discuss broader patterns of misogyny, false accusations, and the weaponization of exceptions to enforce control over women's bodies. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media:2025-05-1356 min

Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater100 Mediocre Men Vs. A Silverback GorillaChesko and Regan weigh in on the viral question sweeping the internet this week regarding 100 men vs. a silverback gorilla and of course connect it to some deeper conversations about red flags and toxic masculinity. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy ...2025-05-0659 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterTiny Hands, Big ExcusesIn this episode, Chesko and Regan analyze viral videos from the man suggesting funeral crashing as a dating strategy to debates about 'dad bods' and why some men refuse to listen to women's actual preferences. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy ...2025-04-291h 08

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterWhy 'Love on the Spectrum' Gets Dating RightChesko and Regan totally go off the rails talking about their love of Netflix's "Love on the Spectrum" while constantly interrupting each other with tangents (as usual). The hosts get deep about why they're obsessed with the show—relating hard to the awkward silences, info-dumping, and that whole desperate need to fill conversational space. Between Chesko's beard-pulling stems and Regan's shaky-cam rants, they dish on their fave couples while calling out the show's infantilizing music choices. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.co...2025-04-211h 30

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterI Based My Personality On A Discredited Wolf StudyRegan and Chesko respond to an "alpha male" content creator who is just a lil guy, and a few more clips where self-proclaimed alphas claim women prefer sharing high-value men over being loyal to "betas." The episode concludes with lighthearted "would you rather" questions. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy...2025-04-1451 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterBe My Mommy and My MartyrIn today's episode, Regan and Chesko dive into the uneven expectations placed on women in relationships. From religious advice about opposite-sex friendships to shocking stories about exes demanding care after betrayal, they explore why women are expected to be martyrs while men face minimal accountability. They discuss the painful double standards in caregiving (with women 624% less likely to leave sick partners than men), why "putting boundaries" around a partner is problematic, and the unfair blame women receive when relationships fail. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store:2025-04-0859 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterAge of the Incels!Chesko and Regan discuss the intersection of politics and dating and dive into an article titled "Are femcels the new incels?" Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech...2025-04-021h 01

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterCelebrating One Year Of Mr Pick Me & The Man Hater!Today marks 1-year of Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater! Regan and Chesko spend today looking back and reflecting on some of your favorite (and most controversial) episodes! Thanks for your support as we look forward to year two of building our wonderful community! Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -2025-03-171h 00

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterYou Are Not Han Solo, Chad.Chesko and Regan discuss some of the worst dating advice we've ever heard before cutting the show a little bit short due to Regan's daughter getting sick at school. Everyone is better now though, so enjoy the show! Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok...2025-03-1151 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterI Hate You, Now Let Me Date You!Chesko and Regan spend this week breaking down yes another man screaming in his car about why he can't find a woman willing to be his mommy...or rather, his wife. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.c...2025-02-241h 07

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterBad Date Turned Hostage SituationChesko and Regan spend some time break down video of a date gone bad where we see the REAL results of what happens when guys listen to the toxic manosphere dating coaches and actually manage to get a date. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www...2025-02-101h 08

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterLeave Him (And His Mom)!Chesko and Regan discuss an AITA about a wife battling for her husband's love...but the other woman is his mom. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech P...2025-02-031h 04

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterDragon Rider Smut and "The Most Valuable Thing A Wife Can Do For Her Man"Chesko and Regan discuss Chesko's love for the Fourth Wing series and then delve into a video about insecurity disguised as boundaries before ending a bit early due to a fire warning near Chesko's house. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy ...2025-01-2739 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterThe Difference Between An Age Gap and A PredatorChesko and Regan do a deep dive on age gaps in relationships and the difference between dating someone who happens to be younger, grooming, and seeking out someone who just turned 18. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean...2025-01-201h 00

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterChesko Is Old Like Men's ExcusesChesko and Regan delve into the weird mind games men will play to abuse their partners and convince them they have value. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The...2025-01-1351 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterGive Me Free Candy!Chesko and Regan dive into entitlement and the danger of asking "Am I the asshole?" When you don't actually want the answer. But Tickets To Our Show! https://m.bpt.me/event/6502961 Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy ...2024-12-2455 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterChesko Enters His Soft Girl Era!Chesko and Regan dive into aggressive toxicity in relationships and the negative ways we treat single mothers who choose to date. But Tickets To Our Show! https://m.bpt.me/event/6502961 Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast...2024-12-161h 01

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterAITA For Cancelling Xmas?Chesko and Regan discuss a holiday themed AITA about financial abuse and narcissism. But Tickets To Our Show! https://m.bpt.me/event/6502961 Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow Mr...2024-12-0958 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterFaking Your Death To Cheat On Your Wife?This week, we discuss the mysterious case of Ryan Borgwardt, who faked his own death to leave his wife and be with a woman in Uzbekistan and ADMITTED HE WAS PLANNING IT in a street interview before he did it. But Tickets To Our Show! https://m.bpt.me/event/6502961 Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater 2024-12-0248 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterReal Men Wear Makeup!On today's episode, Regan and Chesko discuss some of the wild lengths men will go to in order to justify doing the things they determine to not be manly enough and digress into a conversation about misogyny, homophobia, and religion. But Tickets To Our Show! https://m.bpt.me/event/6502961 Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater 2024-11-251h 00

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterMisogynist Memes From The Worst People On The InternetChesko and Regan try to offer a bit of escapism from the toxicity of the internet this week and respond to some of the worst opinions Reddit has to offer about women. But Tickets To Our Show! https://m.bpt.me/event/6502961 Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice...2024-11-1858 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterThe Best Advice I Was Given As A New TeacherBack to normal episodes next week. Love you all. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) - TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof Instagram: https://w...2024-11-1103 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterOur Spooky Post-Halloween / Pre-Election ShowChesko and Regan begin with a Halloween themed AITA and devolve into an anxiety filled discussion about the upcoming election. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof...2024-11-0553 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterI Can't Get You Coffee Because I'm Just a Widdle BabyChesko and Regan break down the viral clip of a man giving one of the clearest examples ever of a misogynistic man viewing his relationship as a transaction when his wife asks him for coffee. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy P...2024-10-2852 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterShould You Treat Your Partner Like A Cat?In the nicest way possible, Chesko and Regan respond to a gentleman who gave out the relationship advice of treating your partner like cat or a dog. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow...2024-10-2247 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterHurricanes, Misinformation, And The Needs for RefundsChesko is out of town, so today Michael Vaughn (AKA Worldshaker) is our fill-in Mr. Pick as he and Regan discuss Chealsea discuss the now infamous TikTok video of a woman complaining about how she was unable to secure her Airbnb refund in North Carolina in the immediate aftermath of Hurricane Helene. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater F...2024-10-1449 min

Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater"Should I Feel Bad About Stealing Food From My Sick Wife?"On this week's episode, Chesko and Regan break down an absolutely absurd AITA that really crosses the line from weaponized incompetence into actual abuse. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow Mr. Pick Me...2024-10-0750 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterAre Skidmarks...Peak Masculinity? (with Caylee Cresta)With Regan on Vacation, Caylee Cresta filled in as our "Manhater" this week as we discuss the worst people to grace our FYP's and revisit a...dirty topic that I hoped didn't need to be revisited. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy 2024-09-3054 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterWork Wives, Cart Girls, And The Older Men Who Love To Harass ThemOn Today's episode, Chesko and Regan discuss the drama that can come along when a work wife starts interfering with your marriage. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The...2024-09-231h 00

Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater"My Husband Doesn't Want Me To Breastfeed In Front Of His Family"Chesko and Regan dive deep on an AITA about the ways that we shame women for simply wanting to feed their children. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The...2024-09-1755 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterIs This The Worst Response To Getting Called Out Ever?This week Regan and Chesko discuss a young woman (monstra0.3) who took to social media to find the man who groped her at a concert without her consent, only for it to somehow get even worse once he was found and decided to respond. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy...2024-09-0957 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterAITA For Asking My Wife To Do Her Responsibilities?Chesko and Regan discuss a fairly short AITA this week and proceed to talk for an hour about parenting, unsupportive spouses, and what to talk about with your partner before having a baby together. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast...2024-09-021h 02

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterLeave Chappell Roan Alone!This week's topic: Chappell Roan. A quick backstory on this episode for anyone who may not have discovered the amazing music of Chappell Roan. Chappell is a new(ish) artist whose debut album has catapulted her into superstar status (and with good reason. She really is THAT good). She posted some videos referencing how weird some of the fan behavior has been and received backlash from people who believe that she knew what she was getting into by becoming a musician. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/m...2024-08-2659 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterThe Paris Olympics Gets The Gold In Epic F*** UpsThis week, Chesko and Regan discuss breakdown as much of the Olympics controversy as we could fit into an hour...there was a lot. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow Mr. Pick Me...2024-08-191h 04

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterGentle Parenting Elon Musk (with Mrs. Frazzled)Mrs. Frazzled joins Chesko and Regan this week to discuss gender politics, intersectional feminism, and the (dangerous) backlash Frazz received from conservative media after making an appearance on the "White Women for Kamala Harris" call that broke Zoom. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow Arielle (Mrs. Frazzled) - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mrs.frazzled ...2024-08-121h 01

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterIs Instagram Responsible For My Wife Wanting To Leave Me?This week, Chesko and Regan discuss a fascinating "man on the street" interview that begins with the question that nobody was asking, "Did you know that 70% of women in downtown Riverside are single moms?" and only goes downhill from there. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http...2024-08-0555 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterKitties, Cliffs, and Creeps On The InternetOn today's show, Chesko and Regan delve into kittys, surprise mountain climbing, and assorted other a**holes on the internet. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof...2024-07-291h 03

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterCheating For The LordIn this week's episode, Chesko and Regan touch on a somewhat sensitive subject of religion and misogyny. As we note in the episode, this topic and our discussion is not meant as an attack on religion, but rather to have discourse on the men (and women) who use religion to try and justify infidelity and the mistreatment of women. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater ht...2024-07-231h 04

Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater"Raw-Dogging" A Flight Is NOT What You Think It IsWe begin by discussing the "Raw-Dogging Flights" trend sweeping across social media and move into an honest discussion about the rituals of violence and tests of manhood that are so prevalent in our society. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Po...2024-07-151h 10

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterI Guess We're Talking About The "Hawk Tuah Girl" This WeekOn this week's episode, Chesko and Regan discuss the varied toxic reactions to the "Hawk Tuah Girl" video and subsequent memes took over the internet this week. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow Mr...2024-07-081h 08

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterHow Do We Impact Young People In A Better Way? (with Jamyle Cannon)Regan is sick this week, but we still have an awesome show for you this week as Jamyle Cannon joins Chesko to talk about his work founding the The Bloc in Chicago and all that they are doing to help enrich the lives of the next generation of youth. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater ...2024-07-0144 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterI Was Your Friend For Three Years And You Still Won't Date Me?!On this week's episode, Chesko and Regan discuss: "AITA for no longer walking my friend home to her dorm after she rejected me?" Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow Mr. Pick Me...2024-06-241h 07

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterAre You Looking To Date...Or Find A New Mommy?On this week's episode, Chesko and Regan discuss a video that claims "these are 5 things a man should never have to do if he is married, in a relationship, OR dating." Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.po...2024-06-171h 01

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterThe Dirty Little Secret of Men's Dirty DrawersChesko and Regan discuss something they never imagined when this podcast started. Apparently grown men, with no underlying health conditions, are shitting themselves...frequently. We apologize for this episode. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/2024-06-101h 17

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterWould You Rather Tell Your Feelings To A Woman Or A TreeChesko, Regan, and special guest Misha Brown (known better as social media superstar "DontCrossAGayMan") discuss the question that has been posed as a response to the "Man or Bear" discourse that has been all over social media in recent weeks: "Men, would you rather tell your feelings to a woman or a tree?" Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater 2024-06-031h 14 $\'Kindness Is\' Podcast by Kind Cotton$ 'Kindness Is' Podcast by Kind CottonKindness is Love in Action: Challenging Societal Norms & Embracing ChangeIn this episode of the "Kind Cotton Podcast," we sit down with Professor Chesko, also known as "The Speech Prof" to his 1.8 million followers on social media. Chesko is a tenured professor, national champion speech coach, former touring slam poet, and co-host of the “Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater” podcast.Join us as Chesko shares his journey through academia, his research in compassionate education, intersectional feminism, and gender and communication, and how he leverages his platforms to combat online toxicity with a unique blend of kindness and comedy. Chesko delves into the challenges and rewards of being a stay...2024-06-0334 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterForget Your Medal, Take Your ChildrenIn this episode, Chesko and Regan discuss weaponized incompetence through the lens of Luciana Grandi Lourencao's half-marathon win, an AITA, and a man making the case for why he thinks the best case scenario for a woman is to be able to mommy her partner into the man she wants him to be. (Note: Chesko might also accidentally be a fourth example) Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: htt...2024-05-271h 08

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterTaylor Swift's Boyfriend's Least Important Teammate Goes To CollegeIn this episode, Chesko and Regan discuss the “diabolical lies” told by Dr. Elizabeth Butker’s son to the 2024 graduating class of Benedictine College. Alternative episode titles: “Small Kick Energy” and, my personal favorite, “The Smallest Kicker That Ever Lived.” Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://w...2024-05-201h 09

Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater1 Phone Call, 1 Rejection, 1 Truly Unhinged VoicemailIn this week's episode, Regan and Chesko breakdown a truly unhinged interaction that Sydney Mulvaney (@Sydneytattoos) shared on TikTok about a voicemail her mother received after a single phone call with a man. If anyone was wondering why so many women chose the bear...show them this episode. Note: Chesko's microphone doesn't normally sound this bad, but we ran into a technical issue this week. Back to normal going forward! Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/2024-05-131h 15

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterWould You Rather Be Stuck In The Forest With A Man Or A Bear? (Part 2)On part two of this discussion, Chesko and Regan continue to discuss the question that has moved off of social media and into mainstream media, “Would you rather be stuck in a forest with a man or a bear?” More specifically, we delve into the story of the demise of Grizzly Man Timothy Treadwell. Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy): TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@fth...2024-05-0538 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterWould You Rather Be Stuck In The Forest With A Man Or A Bear? (Part 1)On this week’s episode, Chesko and Regan discuss the question that has set social media ablaze this week, “Would you rather be stuck in a forest with a man or a bear?” More specifically, we discuss the men who were angered by the fact that so many women answered “bear” and who responded with variations of, “Well I guess that makes me the real victim.” Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy): TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow...2024-04-2943 min

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterDon't Do The Sexism (with Dr. Roxanne Felig)Dr. Roxanne Felig fills in as our temporary manhater this week as we discuss student evaluations, body hair, and the quite literal objectification of women. Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Dr. Felig: Website/Research: https://roxannefelig.wixsite.com/my-site Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/roxanne_naia TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@naia_papaia Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy): TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof): TikTok: htt...2024-04-221h 08

Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterSo...I Almost Died.In this episode, we discuss Mr. Pick Me spending Spring Break in the hospital (which leads into a long discussion on medical gaslighting, fatphobia and racism in medicine. Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy): TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof): TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@th...2024-04-141h 14