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The Real Swing[EP 22] - Unpacking Naughty N'awlins '25 - Our last day at Naughty and some final thoughts.Click here to text us a comment or question!In this episode we recap our last day at Naughty N'awlins 2025. We have unpacked and began to decompress from an amazing, fun filled week. We give our overall final thoughts on our first trip to Naughty, along with some emotional moments we experienced during our trip. Would we do it again? How does it compare to other events we have done? Listen and find out! Want to attend Naughty N'awlins 2026? Click HERE to book with us! You also help support the show at no additional cost to you...2025-07-211h 04The Real Swing[EP 21] - Naughty N'awlins Day 3 and 4Click here to text us a comment or question!Welcome back to "part 2" of our Naughty N'awlins 2025 recap! It's the last official day of Naughty, but before we head out for the festivities we want to update you what we have been up to the past 48 hours! In this episode we update our first time to Naughty with a dive in days 3 and 4. We are having an amazing time so far, but as expected, we cannot possibly do all of the things we had hoped. There is so much going on, with more being added by the minu...2025-07-1429 minThe Real Swing[EP 20] - Naughty N'awlins Day 1 and 2....Click here to text us a comment or question!In this episode we come to you live from Naughty in 'Nawlins to talk about our first official day here! Great food, new friends, topped off with a lot of sexy fun!Want to attend Naughty N'awlins 2026? Click HERE to book with us! You also help support the show at no additional cost to you!Don't forget to take a listen to our favorite podcasters that are with us at Naughty!The Accidental Swingers - with Tristan and Myrina...2025-07-1130 min
Accidental SwingersDiving Into Splash: One Unforgettable Weekend at a Takeover in Ft. LauderdaleIn this episode of the Accidental Swingers podcast, Myrina, Tristan, Crimson and Phoenix, share their experiences attending the Splash Fort Lauderdale hotel takeover in 2024. Full of adventures, misadventures and a hearty dose of sexy, the foursome share stories and highlights from their first Splash takeover event. They provide an in-depth review of the various themed playrooms and play spaces, the dungeon space, pool parties, and overall ambiance and experience. Highlights include sexy costume-themed nights, impromptu dance floor fun, and a surprise late-night story that added an unexpected twist to their adventure! The quad also touch...2025-04-161h 10
Accidental SwingersWeekend Fun, New "Social Spaces" and The Lounge at Caliente in FloridaJoin Myrina and Tristan as they dive into another thrilling episode filled with laughter, candid discussions, and a touch of exhibitionism. Broadcasting from the beautiful Caliente Resort just outside of Tampa, Florida, the foursome share the details of a fun-filled weekend co-hosted with their friends Kimberly and Steve, the founders of the Caliente Facebook Fan Page (Unofficial). Despite a rainy start, the weekend unfolded with Ladies Night and Sexy Speed Dating with exciting themes like corsets, naughty nighties, and kink night. The quad shares their delight in the resort's new "socialization areas" like the Tiki Bar Love...2024-11-1839 min
Three Shades Of GreyEpisode 009: Splash Takeover Recap & "Quickies" (with Accidental Swingers/Swinky Life & Sentinel Bear)Join us for this exciting episode as Anthony and Pinky recap their first time attending a Splash Takeovers event in Florida to celebrate another anniversary of Pinky's "21st birthday". This was no ordinary getaway—Splash Takeovers hosts premier couples only, clothing-optional, lifestyle events where participants from the swinging and kink communities come together for unforgettable experiences. Unfortunately, Ava couldn't join in on the adventures. However, Anthony and Pinky were able to enlist the participation of some fascinating guests who were front and center at the event: • The Accidental Swingers • Swinky Life • Sentinel Bear Each of them shares their unique take on the lifest...2024-10-1459 min
Accidental SwingersHedonism: Our Swinger Resort Vacation Part 2Myrina, Tristan, Crimson, and Phoenix continue their review and share their personal stories about their very first trip to Hedonism II, a clothing-optional, adult-only resort in Jamaica. In episode 54 of the Accidental Swingers podcast, the foursome talk about the good, the bad, and the ugly of their trip and give their impressions and experiences of Kinky Caribbean event and Hedonism II. In this episode they share their adventures for the remainder of the trip, the travel nightmare that continued, and some of their own sexy playtime together. This is the wrap-up of the trip from ep...2024-08-161h 15
Accidental SwingersOur First Real Swinger Resort VacationMyrina and Tristan are back! After a bit of a mental health hiatus (listen to episodes 51 and 53) the Accidental Swingers return with a trip to Jamaica! Myrina, Tristan, Phoenix and Crimson finally made it to Hedonism II, the world-famous "swinger resort" in Jamaica, to teach and vacation during Kinky Caribbean. Their first-ever trip to Hedo began with a bang and ended with a bang (not the kind you're thinking!) and was full of amazing people and wonderful adventures. The foursome talk about the good, the bad, and the ugly of their trip and give their impressions and experiences of...2024-08-071h 28
Accidental SwingersSemaglutide and Women's Health: Essential Insights For Women in the LifestyleDr. Tenesha Wards joins Myrina as they address the delicate balance of physical and mental health that comes along with aging as well as additional issues that women in the lifestyle might face. They tackle an array of topics including the importance of diet and exercise, navigating the costs of weight loss programs, and the benefits, and necessity, of creating a safe space for discussing women's health, anti-aging, sexual health, and obesity without shame. In this continuation of "Myrina's Journey" series, Myrina and Dr. Wards candidly share their personal experiences with weight loss, diets, and the holistic...2024-04-151h 35
Accidental SwingersEp 52 Events, Environments, and Experiences: Behind the Scenes with TampAroticMyrina and Tristan welcome Billy, Brad, and Kelvin, the founders of the lifestyle group, TampArotic, based in Tampa, Florida. As a relatively new and up-and-comer lifestyle event group, the trio share stories, and how a serendipitous "accidental booking" at a lifestyle resort has led to a thriving event organization and how their unique brand of inclusive, pressure-free events is revolutionizing the way swingers socialize in Florida. The guys share valuable thoughts about the importance of organizing diverse and pressure-free swingers events, from beach parties and hotel takeovers to meet and greets. They discuss the importance of building a...2024-04-011h 00
Accidental SwingersHealing Gut Health, Navigating Burnout, and Embracing Functional Medicine: Myrina's JourneyMyrina dives into the world of holistic healing and functional medicine as she welcomes Dr. Tenesha Wards, an expert in gut health, chronic fatigue, women's hormones, and stress management. In Episode 46, Overcoming Open Relationship Obstacles: Finding Balance in the Swinger and Hotwife Lifestyle, Myrina goes into detail about the challenges and struggles she is facing as a middle-aged woman who is struggling with family challenges, losing her libido and facing her own mental health issues. In this episode, Myrina opens up as she begins to chronicle her wellness journey. Myrina and Dr. Tenesha, a lifestyle-friendly practitioner, explore t...2024-03-081h 16
Accidental SwingersThe Big 5-0: Reflections and Revelations from the Accidental SwingersJoin Myrina and Tristan in the landmark 50th episode of The Accidental Swingers podcast. Celebrate with your favorite lifestyle podcast hosts as they share their gratitude for reaching this milestone, and dive deep into the realities of the swinger lifestyle. They reflect on their origin story from their first "accidental" swinger date to their six-year journey into the lifestyle, discussing personal insecurities, relationship dynamics, and the critical role that open communication has played in their marriage. The episode is rich with advice for couples navigating similar paths, emphasizing honesty, mutual respect, and the need for setting a comfortable pace.2024-02-201h 06
Accidental SwingersThe Big 5-0: Reflections and Revelations from the Accidental SwingersJoin Myrina and Tristan in the landmark 50th episode of The Accidental Swingers podcast. Celebrate with your favorite lifestyle podcast hosts as they share their gratitude for reaching this milestone, and dive deep into the realities of the swinger lifestyle. They reflect on their origin story from their first "accidental" swinger date to their six-year journey into the lifestyle, discussing personal insecurities, relationship dynamics, and the critical role that open communication has played in their marriage. The episode is rich with advice for couples navigating similar paths, emphasizing honesty, mutual respect, and the need for setting a comfortable pace.2024-02-2014 min
Why? The PodcastWhy? Episode 276- The Accidental SwingersTristan and Myrina never thought they'd be part of 'the lifestyle,' That is... until a chance evening made them re-think their opinions on things like non-monogamous relationships and, with their kids out of the house, they thought they'd give it a try. (With a lot of communication before, after and during.) To help spread the word about the lifestyle, they've started a podcast, The Accidental Swingers and using recordings they made along the way, the listener is guided through the ups and downs of the everyday life of swingers.For more information, you can li...2023-11-2752 min
Accidental SwingersUnleashing Desires: A Revealing Night with the CaptainMyrina and Tristan share their next erotic encounter lifestyle story. A sexy story about desire, fantasies coming true, and navigating new experiences. Tristan was expecting an MFM date with Myrina and the Captain but was surprised with a completely different evening. Myrina and the Captain instead planned a surprise sexy, and kinky, date night that included one of the Captain's playmates, Eve, as well as the couples' first visit to their local BDSM dungeon. Then back to the Captain's for an even more erotic and tantalizing treat for Tristan! Listen to Myrina and Tristan as...2023-11-211h 10
Accidental SwingersLove, Laughter and Lust: Stories, Relationships and Adventures in the Swinging WorldMyrina and Tristan speak to two couples and one throuple in the lifestyle and hear firsthand accounts of their personal journeys into the swinger lifestyle. Each dynamic exploring non-monogamy in a way and at a pace that is right for them. The guests share valuable lessons and experiences; all of them giving their own, unique insight into the essential component of every successful lifestyle relationship ... communication. Through their stories, each group reminds us that vulnerability, growth, and understanding are integral to building, creating and maintaining thriving connections. In speaking to these amazing people, Myrina and...2023-10-311h 28
Evolve Your Intimacy w/ Dr. StephanieAn Unexpected Journey with the Accidental SwingersSend us a textAre you curious about the world of swinging and how it can enhance relationships? Have you ever wondered how consensual non-monogamy can foster trust, communication, and a deep sense of connection between partners? If so, you're in the right place!In this podcast, we'll dive deep into the stories and experiences of the Accidental Swingers who have embraced the swinging lifestyle. Through the lens of personal anecdotes, we'll explore the many ways in which swinging has transformed relationships for the better. Get ready to challenge old paradigms, ignite your curiosity, and d...2023-09-281h 13
Accidental SwingersHotwifing Vs. Hot Flashes: Myrina Gets Her Groove BackMyrina shares her recent adventures when she traveled without Tristan for a week. Attending a conference where she regularly meets one of her playmates, Myrina knew she would have at least a few beautiful evenings with one of her lovers. She could never have anticipated, or even come close to arranging, how she actually spent her week when she is also able to connect with a previous playmate who lives in the area, and is finally able to make a connection that had eluded her for a few years, which leaves her speechless, breathless and wanting more. ...2023-09-081h 04
Accidental SwingersOvercoming Open Relationship Obstacles: Finding Balance in the Swinger and Hotwife LifestyleIn this completely raw, uncut, and unedited episode, Myrina and Tristan have a candid, open, and honest conversation about their current personal relationship struggles and how they have learned to process and communicate during these difficult times. They discuss the challenges of navigating the hotwife and ethical non-monogamy lifestyles during times when they are out of sync, especially with each other, and the difficulty of meeting each other's lifestyle needs while in the midst of mental and physical challenges. They talk about the importance of self-care and empathy in their relationship, as well as the need for pe...2023-06-261h 02
Accidental SwingersCannabis and Consenting Adults: Does Cannabis Enhance the Swinger Lifestyle?Myrina and Tristan talk about the use of recreational cannabis within the swinger community. After a few years of their own "research and development," the couple shares their thoughts and ideas about their own personal cannabis journeys. They discuss how they feel cannabis can enhance intimacy and the many ways they feel helps heighten their sensuality. And find out why they prefer products with higher CBD levels. 2023-05-121h 12Accidental SwingersSurprise Afternoon Threesome, Sexy MFM Playtime and Myrina Meets A Lady At The BarMyrina and Tristan continue their swinger journey as they recount the story of an afternoon threeway which included a little surprise for Myrina as well! They discuss a steamy encounter with a woman at a resort who only had eyes for Myrina and Tristan talks about a brand new experience for him, a somewhat kinky invitation to be a third in a playdate with The Captain and one of his playmates. 2023-04-251h 08Accidental SwingersLessons Learned: The Unexpected Upside To Having Sex Without Your Spouse and Be On Our Podcast!Myrina and Tristan are back at Caliente Resort and Spa in Tampa as they kick off their first "Third Thursday at Caliente". You will be able to find Tristan and Myrina on the third Thursday of every month, which just happens to be Ladies' Night, recording their podcast episode "live" at Caliente! In this episode, Myrina and Tristan celebrate their five-year swingerversary (five years to the day) of their first playdate! The couple discusses what they've learned about THEMSELVES these past five years, how everything has totally surpassed their expectations, and that current reality far exceeds what t...2023-03-2245 min
Accidental SwingersVegas, a Visiting Single Guy, a Possible Five-Way and a Fantasy Fulfilled for Tristan (Plus, be on our podcast!)Myrina and Tristan review their recent trips to Vegas and the Poconos. (Be sure to visit our website to view our calendar and join us on our next lifestyle event adventure!) Myrina starts messaging with a single from out of state who was coming to Florida for a few days and arranges a play date with him. Myrina and Tristan are invited to play with another couple and single guy. Myrina takes a big risk to make one of Tristan's fantasies come true! Want to hear YOUR story on one of our episodes? At the e...2023-03-081h 30Accidental SwingersEp 41: Swinging Through ATL Where Things Got HOTMyrina and Tristan step further out of their comfort zone by going out of town to spend the weekend with play partners they met at Naughty N'awlins the year before. Listen in as they recount the weekend's hot and sexy shenanigans where they basically had sex, ate for nourishment, napped, and then had more sex! The foursome visited the swinger club, Trapeze, in Atlanta where the ladies decided to start the night off together while the guys, and some interested patrons, watched the fun. The ladies practically flooded the room before the guys even jumped in! 2023-02-101h 25Accidental SwingersWhere Have You Been?Myrina and Tristan are BACK and now also on VIDEO! From now on, Accidental Swingers podcast episodes will be audio and video! Find us, right now, on YouTube @TheAccidentalSwingers and eventually on other video podcast platforms! Myrina and Tristan bring everyone up to date on what has been happening with us both personally and professionally, and why we haven't published an episode in a few months. The couple also gives a sneak peek at the year ahead for the Accidental Swingers and Swinky Life! If you get the chance, pop over to YouTube and watch our podcast a...2022-12-0936 min
Accidental SwingersLouisville Slugger, Vanilla Strikeouts and Bad TimingMyrina and Tristan share sexy stories about playdates they had; both together and separately. Find out how Louis got his "name"! After a final return trip to Virginia, Myrina shares a story about the final night with (one of her) Virginia lovers and something she has never talked about before. On her return from Virginia, Myrina stops at one of her favorite hotel chains and meets a lovely gentleman at the bar! Will they or won't they??? And when Myrina gets overserved, she accidentally spoils a couple's date with Amber and Steve. 2022-09-221h 10
Sexual Health For MenSwingers, Sex, and Orgasms with 'Accidental Swingers' Hosts Myrina and TristanEver wondered what it would be like to engage in swinging? In this episode, we get a firsthand account of the lifestyle from Accidental Swingers Podcasts hosts Myrina and Tristan. While the whole concept may be taboo from some points of view, this couple of 27 years will be removing the stigma and shedding some light on their life and marriage. Even if the lifestyle is for you, Myrina and Tristan will drop some golden nuggets on overcoming performance anxiety, achieving better orgasms, and so many other interesting tips that will spice up your sex life.So jump...2022-09-221h 19Accidental SwingersEp 38: We Outed Ourselves as SwingersMyrina and Tristan decide they want to start a podcast but aren't quite sure how to talk to people about their idea. They attend a podcast conference and tell anyone who asks, what their podcast is about! (Spoiler alert: it's THIS podcast!) Myrina meets a vanilla guy who is "all-in" at trying his luck with a swinger hotwife. Tristan and Myrina finally visit Secrets Hideaway and Resort outside of Orlando, Florida with a plan to meet another couple for a night of play. But things don't always go as planned. 2022-09-071h 37
Only One In The RoomScott Talks to Myrina and TristanScott Slaughter co-host and producer of The Only One In The Room has a short and casual, yet deep conversation with our guests Myrina and Tristan right after the show.Special thanks to our sponsors:FramebridgeIt’s so easy - frame your photos or send someone the perfect gift. Go to Framebridge.com and use promo code ONE to save an additional 15% off your first order. PATREON SHOUT OUTS:Mercedes Cusick LMFT, Website: www.mercedescusick.com, IG: @recoverhealbloomCheck Out How To Do The PotTh...2022-08-2422 minOnly One In The RoomMyrina and Tristan Are The Only Accidental Swingers In The RoomWhat if after twenty-someting years of marriage, when you and your partner were both in your fifties, you would sometimes talk about having sex with other people? Myrina and Tristan, hosts of The Accidental Swingers Podcast, had a flirtatious relationship with their friends who lived down the street, but one night it shifted from flirting to kissing.So what would you do if you and your spouse seemed to be on the same page about wanting to have sex with the couple next door? Would you decide that was crazy at your age and leave th...2022-08-231h 06
Full Swap | A Bonus Podcast From TASTAS After Party #14: 7.17.22 Naughty N'awlins 2022Tristan, Crimson, Phoenix and I sit down to talk, laugh and reminisce about our trip to Naughty N'awlins. Teaching four workshops, hosting multiple meet & greets and trying to do it all proved impossible. It turned into more of a work trip than a play trip but we still found time to have some fun and, as always, lots of laughs. 2022-07-221h 42Accidental SwingersEp 37: Do Swingers Make the Best Adult Film Stars?A few months ago, Myrina and Tristan met and chatted with a couple at Caliente. Fascinated with their journey and story, Myrina and Tristan asked to interview them for the podcast. Rob and Trudy are living their best life, together. They met as swingers, eventually started dating as swingers, and then got married and are still swinging! You can find them often as nightclub hosts at Caliente, or perhaps in one of their new endeavors, adult films. Rob and Trudy share some of their stories, their insights into the swinger lifestyle, how they told their families about t...2022-07-221h 20Accidental SwingersEp 36: Swingers and Kink Come Together In More Than One WayWhen Myrina and Tristan met Phoenix Phyre and Crimson Dragonfly at Naughty N'awlins in 2019, little did they know that their lives would be changed forever. The instant connection the two couples experienced, certainly was too good to be true. But as time went on, and the couples grew closer, they found themselves on yet another unexpected, dare we say "accidental", leg of their journey. Listen as Myrina and Tristan meet Phoenix and Crimson for the first time in New Orleans and then end up being one of the couples in Myrina and Tristan's first group playroom orgy.2022-07-011h 21Accidental SwingersEp 35: Our First Real Kink ExperienceKink was the scary unknown, and was a hard limit for Myrina and Tristan. Then they met "The Captain". He slowly, purposefully and methodically introduced them to the spectrum of kink and BDSM. Starting with the sensual, softer side of kink then moving into sensation play, then impact play. Myrina was skeptical and anxious but all of that faded away when she began to experience pleasure in ways she did not know her body could handle. The Captain also spent time teaching Tristan even more about this style of play and how to use it to create e...2022-06-151h 07
Full Swap | A Bonus Podcast From TASTAS After Party #13: 6.12.22 Summer Swing Fling in SarasotaTristan, Phoenix, Crimson and I went to an event we found on SDC called Summer Swing Fling. It was a huge "meet & greet" party held at a hotel in Sarasota. The event itself was preceded by a pool party during the day (which we missed because it rained and most people cleared out before we got there) and then a big meet & greet private party. This was not a hotel takeover, and we were in the "overflow" hotel across the street, so we weren't sure what to expect. SPOILER ALERT ... we WILL go back!! ;-)2022-06-131h 02
Accidental SwingersEp 34: Facing Our Fears Around Kink and BDSMKink and BDSM were the two things that Myrina and Tristan said were a "hard no" when they entered the lifestyle. Naivete, ignorance, and unfamiliarity with this new world led to a lot of apprehension and fear. So much so, that those were the only things they specifically called attention to in their swinger profiles that they would not explore. Then they met "The Captain". Deciding to open their minds and gently push their boundaries, they agreed to meet a single man who was clearly active in the kink and BDSM realm. Little did they know, meeting The Captain...2022-05-311h 01
Straight from the Source's Mouth: Frank Talk about Sex and Dating#030 Hotwife Myrina and Tristan from Accidental SwingersSend us a textIn this episode, you hear from hotwife Myrina and Tristan from the podcast Accidental Swingers. They share how they got into the swinging lifestyle, what they like about it and their dynamic. You'll hear about resources if you're curious about getting into alternative love and lifestyles. They highly recommend the book Ethical Slut. They cover some pitfalls and myths too. We cover how to talk to your partner or share with your partner that you'd like to learn more or maybe even try it out. They recommend a couple of other podcasts and books a...2022-05-2444 min